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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 2: In entertainment news, former First Lady Michelle Obama will headline

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Speaker 2: a voter rally in Atlanta. Former President Jimmy Carter cast

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Speaker 2: his ballot for Kamala Harris weeks after his one hundred birthday,

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Speaker 2: and Jay Z extends his deal with the NFL. Also,

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Speaker 2: The Victorious Secret Fashion Show returns with the one and

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Speaker 2: only Tyra Banks. We'll talk about all of these stories

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Speaker 2: at the top of the hour, but right now it

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Speaker 2: is time to ask the CLO with the Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey. This one's from Gia and Norcross. Gea writes,

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Speaker 2: my husband and I are twenty five. He got caught

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Speaker 2: having sex with an older woman at work.

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Speaker 1: He didn't get fired, but she did.

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Speaker 2: I believed him when he said she forced herself on him.

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Speaker 2: My friends say I'm naive and he's a cheater. Should

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Speaker 2: I stand by him or not?

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Speaker 3: Can use that he did? She workest herself on me? Where? Where?

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Speaker 1: How?

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Speaker 3: You know the part that's that that's hard about that?

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Speaker 3: But young lady, look, first of all, let me say this.

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Speaker 3: If you want your marriage to work, go ahead and

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Speaker 3: fight through it. Cheat. He did cheat. That's a fact

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Speaker 3: that that is a fact that he did cheat. I

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Speaker 3: didn't know you could use that one, though, she throws

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Speaker 3: herself on me. I've never even tried that one because

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Speaker 3: I know what I have to feel and do to

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Speaker 3: actually be engaged. So right there as you got to

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Speaker 3: be excited, right how very But it's the consent though,

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Speaker 3: So young lady, if you're trying to make your marriage work,

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Speaker 3: then go and stand line. You know. But and ain't

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Speaker 3: ain't no older woman forced herself on you. He twenty five,

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Speaker 3: Come on there, he twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Force.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Porsche in Huntsville, Portia said, I had

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Speaker 2: a fling with a girl I met. I met at church.

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Speaker 2: It was an experimental time for me, and we're still

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Speaker 2: good friends. I'm about to get married. And she asked me,

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Speaker 2: if my husband knows about our history, is this something

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Speaker 2: he would hold against me if I told him?

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Speaker 3: Why would you tell him? Stupid? No, don't tell him.

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Speaker 3: It's experimental stage. Stop running your mouth, shut up, be quiet.

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Speaker 3: Go d du da da dun dun dad. Go do

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Speaker 3: the bell song, walk down that aisle, Get your little

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Speaker 3: flower kids out there, get your ring brear. O't go

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Speaker 3: in there, don't no, he don't know, and nor will he?

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Speaker 3: And why are you still talking to her? Does he

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Speaker 3: know how history? We ain't got no history. Do you

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Speaker 3: think he'll hold that against me? Yeah? Probably probably? Why risky? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: And if it ever come up? Lie?

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Speaker 1: What starting off?

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Speaker 3: Excuse me? She had a fleeing with a girl she

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Speaker 3: met at church. You don't think it's time to lie.

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Speaker 3: Fleeing girl at church? What? So this is lie? How

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Speaker 3: far the bounce is the lie on me? Don't don't listen,

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Speaker 3: Just do like uncle Steve, to keep it to yourself.

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Speaker 3: Don't run in the start at your house with your man.

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Speaker 3: Don't put no ideas in his head that this is

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Speaker 3: how you are. Oh, this is what we're doing. No, no,

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Speaker 3: don't do that. Don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Cassandra and new Haven. Cassandra says, my

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Speaker 2: husband and I went to his niece's wedding and his.

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Speaker 1: Toast to the newlyweds was so embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: He talked as if marriage was terrible, and I get

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Speaker 2: on his last nerve.

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Speaker 1: Why would he do it?

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Speaker 2: There? Was he joking? Or is that how he really feels?

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Speaker 3: Well a great joke, and all of us will tell

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Speaker 3: you this is ninety percent truth. He was sitting there.

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Speaker 3: You know, you do get on his nerves, though I

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Speaker 3: could tell you that flat out. Most men have jokes

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Speaker 3: about that. Though most men who are married have jokes

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Speaker 3: about that. The only person that don't joke about that

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Speaker 3: is choking because he's not. He said, it was so

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Speaker 3: embarrassing it should have been, and he was trying to

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Speaker 3: be funny, and it was at your expense. You're still man,

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Speaker 3: but you do get on his damn nerves. Don't know

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Speaker 3: that last nerds true? Y'all that at the wedding, and well,

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Speaker 3: I got it. He thought about his way, he said,

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Speaker 3: but he's selfish. Well, don't ask me to toast if

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Speaker 3: you don't want my Yeah, if you don't want this

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Speaker 3: here right here, then ask somebody in ask you. You

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Speaker 3: probably give a nice toes, but you're kind of crazy too.

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Speaker 3: So y'all need my gonna start with what you do

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Speaker 3: it for.

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Speaker 2: The wedding?

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Speaker 3: Don't ask me.

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Speaker 2: So y'all can't say nothing nice.

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Speaker 3: Really, you're gonna say something truthful.

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Speaker 1: Now we telling the truth?

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, one is wonderful, but maybe you maybe you

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Speaker 3: got to bite into the bad a couple of times.

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Speaker 1: To the last one. This is Dernie and Herndon.

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Speaker 2: She writes, my husband is a pushover and I make

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Speaker 2: all of the decisions. I hate when our children talk

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Speaker 2: back to him, and I've told him that they don't

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Speaker 2: respect him. I refuse to be the bad guy all

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Speaker 2: of the time. How do I get him to be

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Speaker 2: more of a disciplinarian.

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Speaker 3: I'm the direct opposite. So I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You're talking a pushover? No, no, no, no kids talking back, No,

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Speaker 3: don no. I was talking my two gressos the other day,

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Speaker 3: three of them, had all three of them lined up.

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Speaker 3: He was BJ, Noah and Ezra had them all lined

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Speaker 3: up and howl are we talking now? BJ? Is you so?

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Speaker 3: BJ and Noah the same age, A eight, and then

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Speaker 3: Ezra was five and DJ just like you out from

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Speaker 3: Jason's kids that they they don't never get cussed at.

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Speaker 3: That's what I found out because her nine nine said,

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Speaker 3: now tell pop party, Mommy and daddy don't use bad

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Speaker 3: language when they're talking to us. Said, well, your damn

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Speaker 3: daddy ain't here, so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to know what BJ said.

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Speaker 3: B J was sitting there, tear it up.

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Speaker 1: BJ back in his eyes where you were bussing at.

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Speaker 3: Them that, Yeah, because they had done something wrong. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so the hor's fitn't happened. It was, you know, it

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Speaker 3: was kind of severe, look a little shocking for August.

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Speaker 3: He started with I'm a each show.

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Speaker 1: Coming up. At the top of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you. Right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to Harvey Morning Show.