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Speaker 2: Selene is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Jesse
Speaker 2: that she met at a bookstore. Hey, Selene, how are you?
Speaker 2: Thank you for your email? Before we get into your
Speaker 2: dat and stuff. How long has it been since you
Speaker 2: talked to Jesse?
Speaker 3: About six days?
Speaker 4: So how did you guys meet at the bookstore?
Speaker 3: So it's not your average the average way to meet
Speaker 3: someone at a bar or something. We actually just ran
Speaker 3: into each other at the bookstore and we were both
Speaker 3: looking in the cinema section.
Speaker 4: Okay, you actually physically run into each other?
Speaker 3: No, So then we started talking about our favorite directors
Speaker 3: and he actually ended up up asking me out to
Speaker 3: see an indie movie. Okay, And so I thought it
Speaker 3: was super attractive that he picked me up in the
Speaker 3: bookstore and then wanted to follow up at a movie.
Speaker 3: And he's a fellow movie snob, so am I. Also,
Speaker 3: he's a total babe vert.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, this is already kind of a good setup.
Speaker 5: So then what did you guys end up doing for
Speaker 5: your date?
Speaker 3: So he did go to see the indie movie and
Speaker 3: how was it? He was such a gentleman. He paid
Speaker 3: for everything and we started talking movies right away. We
Speaker 3: didn't stop until the movie started, since he was paying.
Speaker 3: I did kind of get quite a lot from the
Speaker 3: snack bar.
Speaker 4: That's expensive.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, he did make a joke about it too,
Speaker 3: but it didn't seem to bother him. And I started
Speaker 3: to put some stuff back.
Speaker 6: Then he was like, no, no, it's fine.
Speaker 3: And he said he was just kidding. It was his treat.
Speaker 3: So I was like, this guy's awesome.
Speaker 4: Did you share your snacks?
Speaker 3: No, he got a little sound thing for himself. He wasn't.
Speaker 3: He didn't really seem to be that hungry. He just
Speaker 3: had a speaker.
Speaker 4: Soong, Okay, okay, all right.
Speaker 2: So other than the snacks, though, you know that, you
Speaker 2: think the date was pretty good.
Speaker 3: I think. So. We hung out for a little bit afterwards,
Speaker 3: and he kissed me on the cheeks before he left
Speaker 3: and said that unfortunately he had to go and that
Speaker 3: he would like to see me again. So I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: I love that. Hopefully it'll be soon.
Speaker 4: Why do you have to run offcess in I'm.
Speaker 3: Not really sure. Maybe he was tired, I didn't want
Speaker 3: to ask too many questions.
Speaker 5: So then that was the last you heard from him.
Speaker 5: That was your last interaction. Yes, did you try to
Speaker 5: reach out to him after.
Speaker 3: That, Yes, but he hasn't really responded.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: I did like everything about him. He was very relaxed,
Speaker 3: but and he was very witty, uh huh, kind of
Speaker 3: an asshole in a fun way, and also thirty. So
Speaker 3: I don't know. I thought that our conversation was going
Speaker 3: to carry on to talking further afterwards. But I guess
Speaker 3: maybe I shouldn't have gotten that many snacks.
Speaker 4: So you think the snacks were the deal breaker essentially?
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe maybe I've got a big as photo too.
Speaker 3: I'm someone key pieces. I'm really I'm in the town.
Speaker 4: If a girl dis ordered everything on the menu, no,
Speaker 4: I mean that thing'd be cool. I like that.
Speaker 2: Actually. You know what I can't stand is when you
Speaker 2: go out on a date. You know she wants to eat,
Speaker 2: but she orders a salad, but she does that because
Speaker 2: she doesn't want to eat too much in front of you.
Speaker 2: It's always like just you know, especially if you go
Speaker 2: to a nice restaurant or something, it's like, that's a
Speaker 2: fifty dollars salad get a stake.
Speaker 4: I know I used to and I get it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would find it attractive because you're like you're
Speaker 2: you know, you're like just being you. So I think
Speaker 2: that's I think it would be good. But you know,
Speaker 2: maybe not. Maybe maybe he's broke now, maybe he's homeless,
Speaker 2: maybe he's say his home bill, maybe that's why.
Speaker 3: Maybe I'm just allowed sure or something.
Speaker 2: All right, well we'll try to figure it out for
Speaker 2: you to play a song, come back and then call
Speaker 2: him and see why he's ghosting you and maybe.
Speaker 4: Get you another date. Okay, thank you so much. All Right,
Speaker 4: we'll get your first day follow up, next.
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
Speaker 2: Selene is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
Speaker 2: a dude named Jesse that she met at the bookstore.
Speaker 2: And before we give him a call to find out
Speaker 2: why you're gettinghosted, Selene, why don't you refresh everybody's memory
Speaker 2: on your date with Jesse.
Speaker 3: So, like you said, we met at the bookstore, which
Speaker 3: is super awesome, and we connected on what kind of
Speaker 3: movies that we like on a semi session, and then
Speaker 3: afterwards we went on a date. We went to the movies.
Speaker 3: I may have gotten way too many stacks, and the
Speaker 3: movie just seems to go over pretty well. We talked
Speaker 3: a lot before. I haven't seen him since he gave
Speaker 3: me a kiss on the cheek, and this was about
Speaker 3: six days ago, so I haven't seen him since then.
Speaker 3: I don't know why he's not answering any of my messages.
Speaker 4: All right, well we're about to give him a call.
Speaker 4: You ready?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, Well I'm gonna call him right now. Here we go,
Speaker 2: Hello him, I asking to Jesse.
Speaker 4: Please.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's Jesse.
Speaker 4: We's good, Jesse. How are you? My name is Jeubel,
Speaker 4: host a radio show called The Jubile Show. Hi Jesse.
Speaker 4: My name is Nina. I'm on the Jubil Show.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 4: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6: Uh yeah, Hi. What's what's going on?
Speaker 4: What's up?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 2: So yeah, there's three people on the phone with you
Speaker 2: right now. Have you ever heard the show before? Uh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe once or twice. Why am I on the show?
Speaker 2: Well because we got an email about you from somebody
Speaker 2: who listens to the show.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, all right, we.
Speaker 4: Do a segment called the first eight follow up.
Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 2: someone and then you end up ghosting them, that person
Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 2: ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email
Speaker 2: about you from Selene.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, uh huh Selene.
Speaker 5: Yeah you remember Selene. She's your bookstore friend.
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, you meant in a bookstore that still exists,
Speaker 7: but the bookstores are still around.
Speaker 2: We talked to Selene and she told us about your date.
Speaker 2: She said that she really liked you, but she's confused.
Speaker 2: She wants to know why you haven't called her back.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, why didn't I call her back? Okay, Well,
Speaker 6: to get into it, you know, I thought she was cool.
Speaker 7: We the banter was good. You know, we both fonded
Speaker 7: over movies and she's been a nerd. I'm a bit
Speaker 7: of a nerd. And we got some movie, we got
Speaker 7: some snacks. Conversation was still good. I thought it was
Speaker 7: cute that she got.
Speaker 6: A she got a lot of snack her out out
Speaker 6: of it. I thought it was a cute.
Speaker 2: That's what she She told us that she got a
Speaker 2: ton of snacks, So she thought, actually that might be
Speaker 2: the reason that you're ghosting her.
Speaker 6: Oh no, no, no, no, you know you heard the movies.
Speaker 6: You can have as many snacks you want, hard of
Speaker 6: the deal.
Speaker 4: Good answer.
Speaker 6: Uh, but no.
Speaker 8: And then we got in the theater and after the previews,
Speaker 8: she kicks off her shoes, no stock, and puts her
Speaker 8: bare feet up on the seat in front of her,
Speaker 8: and like, I don't have pet peeves until now, I guess.
Speaker 6: I thought there was no class there, you know it was.
Speaker 6: It wasn't even like I'm not sure if they smelled
Speaker 6: or not.
Speaker 7: I was just totally taken aback because, like, I just
Speaker 7: thought it was weird they put me off.
Speaker 6: I don't know if.
Speaker 2: Because you put her bare feet up on the seat
Speaker 2: in front of you, in.
Speaker 6: Front of her.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like it's one thing to even put your
Speaker 7: your you know, your covered sheet up on the seat
Speaker 7: in front of you, which is a little rude. But yeah, yeah,
Speaker 7: it was a little uh class.
Speaker 6: Look.
Speaker 5: So, just to clarify, you said she took off her
Speaker 5: socks and shoes, so not wasn't sandals that she was wearing.
Speaker 5: She had to physically remove her socks to be that comfortable.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't I don't even know. I just looked
Speaker 6: up and I saw bare feet.
Speaker 7: I don't I don't know. I don't even remember what
Speaker 7: tree she was wearing. But yeah, it just totally grossed
Speaker 7: me out. So that's pretty much why.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you for telling us. I don't
Speaker 2: know if that would bother me or not, but I
Speaker 2: wonder if it bothers Selene. Wait what Yeah, I wonder
Speaker 2: if it bother Selene because she's on the phone listening
Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Oh, Jackie, Hi, Okay, I am in complete shock for
Speaker 3: doing that. There. I do think that is classless. I
Speaker 3: don't even remember doing it. In my defense, I remember
Speaker 3: just chowing down curled up in the chairs, which is
Speaker 3: something I only really do at home while I'm watching
Speaker 3: a movie. So I guess it's just I felt really
Speaker 3: at home and be very comfortable. So maybe I just
Speaker 3: started doing what to do at home.
Speaker 7: Okay, Yeah, I mean it's still weird.
Speaker 6: It's still kind of weird. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 6: know else to say it.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry that bothered you about my toes and my feet,
Speaker 3: but I just got a French manicure. My feet are
Speaker 3: looking great. It's I take care of them. They're clean.
Speaker 7: Well, like I said, it was really dark, so I
Speaker 7: couldn't really see how nice your feet were. So maybe
Speaker 7: maybe if it was better lit, I would have been followed.
Speaker 7: Those are amazing feet. I still find it kind of gross.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know what to tell you.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Well, I to be honest, I really
Speaker 3: don't think it's that gross. But I'm I understand where
Speaker 3: you're coming from.
Speaker 4: Do you take your feet out in other places? Selene?
Speaker 4: Is this something you usually do?
Speaker 3: No? Really, just in the movies and my own house. Honestly,
Speaker 3: I can't think of anywhere else. And if I'm doing
Speaker 3: yoga or something, Okay, if I take my shoes off
Speaker 3: when I do.
Speaker 7: Yoga, uh yeah, no worries there because I won't be
Speaker 7: doing yoga with you.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, So Jesse, but did you like your
Speaker 2: other than Selene putting her feet up on the seat
Speaker 2: in front of her?
Speaker 4: You liked her?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 6: Yeah, we had a good time, but it did kind
Speaker 6: of ruin the movie for me. So everything before the
Speaker 6: movie was real good, ruined the wholes. Yeah, I thought
Speaker 6: I could think about, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: You don't want to give her another chance. Hey, Jesse,
Speaker 2: would you go out with Selena on another day?
Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7: Listen if if she wears her hug boots then they
Speaker 7: don't come off. Come up, Yes, Selene, I would go
Speaker 7: out with you again if we followed the no feet
Speaker 7: in public rule.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I promise I'll keep my shoes on unless
Speaker 3: we go somewhere that's a little bit more comfortable, like
Speaker 3: my house or your bed.
Speaker 4: Wow, that escalated very quickly.
Speaker 3: Yeah I did.
Speaker 7: Uh yeah, yeah, that works for me also. You know,
Speaker 7: but wearing bed is not always a bad idea either.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's quite weird to wear his ideals.
Speaker 4: That's what it is.
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