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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. Because it's Christmas time,

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Speaker 1: we're counting down the twelve first day follow ups of

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Speaker 1: Christmas has voted on by you. Yeah, count down all

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Speaker 1: the way to the number one first day follow up

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Speaker 1: that you voted on. Brandon is on the phone today

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Speaker 1: for a first date follow up, and he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 1: by Caitlin. So in a few minutes we're gonna call

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Speaker 1: her in steal tell us why she's ghosting him, and

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Speaker 1: maybe get him another date. But first, Brandon, how long

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Speaker 1: has it been since you heard from Kaitlin?

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Speaker 2: Man, It's been probably about a week or so.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you been trying to hit her up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I been trying to tu call and nothing.

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Speaker 1: Nothing. All right, Well, tell us a little bit about

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Speaker 1: your date.

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Speaker 2: So we were set up by a mutual friend. Man.

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Speaker 3: I heard was right like, Caitlyn was beautiful and so fun,

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Speaker 3: and instantly I.

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Speaker 2: Was I was hooked. So we took her.

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Speaker 3: I took her out to uh, just this chill pizza

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Speaker 3: place and pretty cool that let you build your own

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Speaker 3: pizza and put your own toppings and stuff, and you

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Speaker 3: get to be you know, creative with with your with

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Speaker 3: your pie, and uh, that's that's all cool.

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Speaker 2: But I'm you know, I'm really more of just like

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Speaker 2: a pepperoni guy. So I just did that. But Caitlin,

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Speaker 2: she actually convinced me to try some proto on a pizza,

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Speaker 2: and I gotta hands her it was. It was delicious.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what I've been missing out on.

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Speaker 1: You rolled yours when you ordered that, I did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I got to throw it a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I love Italian so anytime I can say no, it was.

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Speaker 2: It was great, so good. They were like, well, let's

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Speaker 2: just keep this going.

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Speaker 3: We grabbed a nightcap, got some wine at a place

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Speaker 3: next door. Fortunate enough, Kitlin loves a good whiskey too,

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Speaker 3: so I treated her to an excellent Japanese whiskey, and uh,

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Speaker 3: that open the door to talking about travel and our

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Speaker 3: hopes and dreams.

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Speaker 2: And places we've been, places we'd like to go.

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Speaker 3: So then after that I walked her home and actually

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Speaker 3: ended the night with a kiss.

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Speaker 2: It was I guess it was a little awkward, but

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Speaker 2: it was awkward.

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Speaker 3: Well you just like I went in to kiss her,

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Speaker 3: kiss her sheep, and then like she turned and I

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Speaker 3: ended up like kissing her lips, and it was it

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Speaker 3: was kind of an awkward slash funny moment but cool

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Speaker 3: and okay, like.

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Speaker 1: One of those weird first Guss moments where it's like

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Speaker 1: some you're kind of kind of dancing trying to figure

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Speaker 1: out where you're supposed to go with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like it was.

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Speaker 3: It was kind of like funny moment, but I mean

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Speaker 3: it turned into kind of a passionate kiss, and and

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Speaker 3: we planned to see each other afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, but she hasn't gone back to you.

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Speaker 1: What do you think? What do you think the reason

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Speaker 1: is she's goosed to.

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Speaker 2: That's That's the thing.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like, like, we had a great day,

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Speaker 3: you know, Pia was great, the drinks afterwards were great.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: The kiss, although awkward, was kind of funny.

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Speaker 2: And she didn't seem put off by it.

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Speaker 3: You know, she actually leaned into the kiss afterwards, so

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Speaker 3: like it seemed like everything was happening.

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Speaker 2: But then I don't know, I mean, you know how

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Speaker 2: you seem.

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Speaker 3: To go like any anything could have happened here in

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Speaker 3: the night that she might have just sound disgusting or

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Speaker 3: off putting, and then just didn't want to make it awkward.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm kind of I've never been ghosted,

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Speaker 3: so I'm just got I have all these questions with God.

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Speaker 1: We're just joining us for today's first Day follow up,

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Speaker 1: but Brandon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 1: by Caitlin. So we're about to call her and see

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Speaker 1: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and see

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Speaker 1: if we can get him another date. But first, Brandon,

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Speaker 1: before we call her, why don't you refresh our memory

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Speaker 1: on your date with Kaitlin.

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Speaker 3: So Kyl and I went on a date set up

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Speaker 3: by mutual friends. We had pizza and wine and that

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Speaker 3: was great, build her own, and then we went out

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Speaker 3: for drinks afterwards, a great conversation, and I walked her

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Speaker 3: home and we ended up kissing and it was great,

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Speaker 3: and then she was excited to seemingly excited dissing me again.

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Speaker 3: But after that, it's just been not it's been no

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Speaker 3: communication and you have no idea why. Yeah, nothing, I'm

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Speaker 3: it's kind of disappointing.

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Speaker 2: So I really liked her. I thought we had great

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Speaker 2: chemistry and it seemed to be mutual. So yeah, I'd

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Speaker 2: be really bummed if it didn't work out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go, Hio. Hi, man sweet to Caitlin.

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Speaker 1: Please Kaitlin. Hey, how are you? My name is Jewbell.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbill Show. Hi, Caitlin,

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Speaker 1: We're all here. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi,

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Speaker 1: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Hi, what's going on? What's not much?

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Speaker 2: Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that's okay.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to apologize. Maybe you will know that's we're

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Speaker 1: calling you. We do a segment on the show it's

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Speaker 1: called the First Date follow Up. That's where if you

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Speaker 1: go on a date with someone and then you ghost them,

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Speaker 1: that person can email us and ask us to call

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Speaker 1: you and see if we can figure out why you're

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Speaker 1: ghosting them. So we got an email about you from

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Speaker 1: somebody that you went on a date with. Oh are

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Speaker 1: you hosting somebody?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: You are, but do you know who it is? Is it? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Brandon emailed us and told us a little bit about

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Speaker 1: your date, and he said he really likes you and

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Speaker 1: he thought you were into him. So he's confused as

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Speaker 1: to why you're ghosting him? Do you mind telling us?

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Speaker 4: Well, I did really like him. Okay, she's hot and

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Speaker 4: smart and kind of awkward. It's actually kind of charming.

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Speaker 1: So you liked him, but you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 4: Well, he texted me something after our date that I

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Speaker 4: just like haven't been able to get over.

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Speaker 2: I didn't really know what to do with it.

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Speaker 1: Well, was it a picture or something?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, god, no, I mean that happens. I

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Speaker 2: think he's a good guy.

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Speaker 1: What did he text you?

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Speaker 2: Okay, let me let me find it. Uh, Okay.

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Speaker 4: The text says your magic and have awakened parts of

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Speaker 4: my body that I have never felt before. It's like

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Speaker 4: on the line, you know, Like I don't. That's just

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Speaker 4: that's a lot after one date and kiss, and like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if he's like in a Shakespeare play,

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Speaker 4: Like is he taking himself seriously? When he said that,

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Speaker 4: I kind of was expecting another text that was like,

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Speaker 4: you know, harks their maiden. I longed for another evening

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Speaker 4: of your presence.

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Speaker 2: Or something like that.

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Speaker 1: You know, I could have been funny. You know, there's

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Speaker 1: some people out there that believe in love at first sight.

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Speaker 1: So if they're laying. I don't think that could be

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Speaker 1: a good thing.

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Speaker 4: It was so earnest, and it just kind of felt

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Speaker 4: like too much. And I think he hasn't been in

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Speaker 4: a relationship in a while, and so I was afraid

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Speaker 4: he was in like this romantic, dreamy bubble and I

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Speaker 4: got to be with someone who's been the world that

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Speaker 4: I'm living in, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So it just hits you like a little bit too much.

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Speaker 2: It just felt a little I mean, how is that possible?

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Speaker 4: Like I'm just a person, give yourself a little bit magic,

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Speaker 4: but like I've awakened parts of his body.

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Speaker 2: They never felt.

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Speaker 1: It was a little overwhelming to me, Okay.

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Speaker 4: And then I don't know if I'm like on a pedestal.

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Speaker 4: I just it just made me a little nervous.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, thank you for telling us that.

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Speaker 1: Now I got to let you know that Brandon is

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Speaker 1: on the phone and has been listening. Wis his hawks on?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Park, sir Maiden, Yes I can tail. Well, I

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Speaker 2: had dreamt of this pleasure of occasion.

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Speaker 1: To you.

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Speaker 4: Again, Hi, Park, I'm sorry I just put your business

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Speaker 4: out on the radio, but you didn't have them call

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Speaker 4: me so.

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Speaker 2: No, that's that's quite all right.

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Speaker 1: What parts of the body were awakened? Brandon?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'd rather not discuss that. I think people understand.

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Speaker 1: That was pretty bold of you. Brandon. What was going

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Speaker 1: on through your mind when you sent that text?

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Speaker 3: I don't know I was awakened. Well, I'm just I'm

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Speaker 3: a playful guy. But Cayle, I just want to assure

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Speaker 3: you that I do live in a reality and after

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Speaker 3: our date, I was like, legit, I've never felt that way,

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Speaker 3: and after my last.

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Speaker 2: Relationship, I just that was lacking and I.

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Speaker 3: Want another date and I want to be a part

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Speaker 3: of your reality.

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Speaker 2: Oh maybe I'm over the top, but this is how

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Speaker 2: I was feeling, honestly.

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Speaker 1: Well, Caitlin, would you like another date with Brandon? We'll

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Speaker 1: pay for it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh see Shakespeare's got congratulations Brandon, you did it. You

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Speaker 1: got another day?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: I mean I like that he has a good attitude

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Speaker 4: and and could laugh at this, and I appreciate that

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Speaker 4: we're more on the same page than I thought, Kaylen.

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Speaker 2: And I can't say how excited I am. And I promise.

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Speaker 3: If I'm going overboard with anything, you can always talk

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Speaker 3: to me about it.

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Speaker 2: But hard kayln My Heart and the Onions or bloom

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Speaker 2: await next week at the Outback Steakhouse, soon.

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Speaker 1: Enjoyed the bluemin that is a romance. Juble's first day

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Speaker 1: follow up