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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocuslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Lisia is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.

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Speaker 2: So in a second we're going to call him and

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Speaker 2: see if I'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date. But first, Lesia, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from James.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been about a week.

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Speaker 3: And then how many times have you reached out to

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Speaker 3: him in that time?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like kind of a bunch. I was, uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was texting a bunch. You know, we had a

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Speaker 1: great connection and you know, you know, I was we

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Speaker 1: were trying to get together and you know, I texted

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Speaker 1: a few times, and you know, we had a plan.

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Speaker 1: He canceled. We felt like he needed the weekend to recover.

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Speaker 1: I offered to make him soup, which he declined, and I,

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Speaker 1: you know, and then after that, I texted him a

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Speaker 1: couple of times. You know, he's feeling and like nothing.

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Speaker 3: So, did your date happen or this was after the date?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Well, well we had a first date, okay, okay, but

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Speaker 1: then after that nothing happened.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, tell us about the date.

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Speaker 1: Well, we met Unhinge first of all, and like we

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Speaker 1: talked a little bit, and we wanted to go out

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Speaker 1: because we both like really like food and travel and stuff.

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Speaker 1: And he's in a band and I used to sing

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Speaker 1: in a band, so we had like a lot of

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Speaker 1: great connections. And so we met for cocktails and we

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Speaker 1: like bounced around and got tacos and ended up at

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Speaker 1: this like karaoke place, which was really fun. After karaoke,

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Speaker 1: we went back to his place and we were hanging

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Speaker 1: out and like cuddling and stuff. But we did look up,

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Speaker 1: but there was like a lot of like affection myself.

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Speaker 1: And in the morning we kissed and like we pramned

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Speaker 1: on seeing each other again like the next weekend. So

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Speaker 1: that was the date.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything that happened on the date that could

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Speaker 2: have been awkward or something that would cause him to

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Speaker 2: not want to talk to you again?

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Speaker 1: So I talked this over like a bit, and I

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Speaker 1: think there might have been which I like won't apologize for,

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Speaker 1: and like I've been feeling bad about it. So like

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Speaker 1: when we were like hanging out and cuddling, he like

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Speaker 1: pulls down his phone to play me like a rough

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Speaker 1: edit of his band's new song, and I was excited

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Speaker 1: to hear it. I was glad he wanted to share

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Speaker 1: it with me, And you know, because I was on

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Speaker 1: the music background, I didn't feel like I knew to

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Speaker 1: hold back what I thought, you know, So I mean

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Speaker 1: I told him, I was like, I think this is

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Speaker 1: like a great idea for a song. I said, like

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Speaker 1: some of the lyrics were a little cheesy, and you know,

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Speaker 1: his voice was a little tipsy and certain points, and

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Speaker 1: like one of the lyrics in particular was like about

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Speaker 1: her love being like a sugar rush eating a box

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Speaker 1: of Krispy cream or something. Okay, I like laughed at that,

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Speaker 1: and then I kept like asking him if I made

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Speaker 1: And I thought it was being funny, like I was joking,

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Speaker 1: and like I think I may have crushed him. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, maybe I took it too far. So I

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Speaker 1: feel like he's apologized.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean it sounds like you were being

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Speaker 3: more playful.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, I was just saying, like that's how I felt,

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Speaker 1: like that's what the intention was.

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Speaker 5: Jubill, you are doing music now too, so like think

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Speaker 5: about this scenario. Wouldn't it be just kind of cute, like,

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Speaker 5: you're not are you going to be offended?

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Speaker 4: No, I wouldn't be.

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Speaker 2: I'm also a super harsh critic on myself, so I'd

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Speaker 2: be like, you're right, the whole.

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Speaker 4: Thing is craft. I'll throw it out. You're all over that,

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Speaker 4: I quit it all.

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Speaker 2: So I would just totally be like, yeah, thanks for

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Speaker 2: the honest feedback I saw.

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Speaker 5: That would also be a major turnoff and problem. Also, Okay,

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Speaker 5: so maybe maybe he was a little but hurt.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I mean it might be so I feel like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like we need to get

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Speaker 1: him on the phone, Like you need to get a

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Speaker 1: third party and to get him on the phone's phone

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Speaker 1: because he's just ghosting me so like and I just

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Speaker 1: want to apologize.

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Speaker 4: Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song and we'll come back and then

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Speaker 2: we'll call him and see if it tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting you and maybe get to another date with

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Speaker 2: krispy Kreme Boy. Okay, should we not call him chrispy

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Speaker 2: Creme boy? He disappear, all right, Well, p leas'll come

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Speaker 2: back and get your first A follow up next. Right

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Speaker 2: in the middle of our first date follow up if

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Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Alesha is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a guy named James. So we're

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Speaker 2: about to call him and see if you'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Lisha,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so, I when I had a date with this

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Speaker 6: guy James, it like went really well.

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Speaker 1: We had cocktails and tacos, and we had karaoke and

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Speaker 1: all this stuff, and you know, we bonded because he's

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Speaker 1: in a band and I used to sing in a band,

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Speaker 1: and you know, we have a lot of common interests.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like and he hasn't tested me back

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Speaker 1: in a week, so and I feel like something might

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Speaker 1: have gone wrong the night we were on the date.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I might have kind of heard his

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Speaker 1: feelings making one of one of his lyrics which involves

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Speaker 1: Krispy Kreme, which I kept springing up. No, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I might have sent him and I

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Speaker 1: need to apologize. And also he's ghosting me.

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Speaker 4: So that's where we are, all right, Are you ready

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Speaker 4: for us to call him?

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Speaker 7: Sure?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Here we go. Hello him as speaking to James. Please, yeah,

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Speaker 4: speaking James. How are you?

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Speaker 8: Man?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jubell. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jubil Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, James, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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Speaker 3: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 7: How are you? Oh? Cool, wonderful. I'm doing good man,

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Speaker 7: I'm geting any culs on radio? But what's up?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, thank you? Yeah. Have you ever heard a

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Speaker 4: first date follow up before?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah I have? Is this one of these things?

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Speaker 4: First day follow up?

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Speaker 2: You know that's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody,

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Speaker 2: they can email us and then ask goes to call

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Speaker 2: you and ask why you're ghosting them. Somebody emailed us

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Speaker 2: about you, James, Oh boy?

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Speaker 4: Any idea? Who would be?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Maybe someone I met someone online, like a little more

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Speaker 8: than a week ago.

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Speaker 4: Is that someone's name? Lisha?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Yeah, Lisha?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah yeah. Well.

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Speaker 2: Lisia emailed us and told us about your day. She

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Speaker 2: said she really liked you, but she's confused. Can you

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Speaker 2: tell us why you're ghosting her?

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Speaker 8: I really liked her, but man, she's too much. She

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Speaker 8: texted me on Saturday to ask about Well, first of all,

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Speaker 8: I got sick, right, so, like I got sick a

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Speaker 8: little bit afterwards, but not the runa nothing, But like,

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Speaker 8: you know, she texted me on Saturday to ask me

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Speaker 4: Taking because you were sick.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, it was like it was like a

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Speaker 8: And then like not soon after asking if I missed her,

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Speaker 8: this this whole thing about like if I wanted Krispy Kremes, Like,

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Speaker 8: a joke about some stupid lyric I made, and and

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Speaker 8: and I mean just more text on and on and on.

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Speaker 8: I'm not even giving you all.

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Speaker 3: That was one day that happened all on the same day.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and this is someone I had just talked to

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Speaker 8: online that came over, we cuddled, I mean, the sweet

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Speaker 7: But after all this just piling on and just happening

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Speaker 8: Stopped responding because like I needed to rest, and I

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Speaker 8: even more the next day. Eventually, I just I just

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Speaker 8: I felt it gives me a lot of anxiety.

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Speaker 7: It's like, and I'm gonna go with the flow kind

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Speaker 8: And when I just kissed Raw Raw, it's like, first off,

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Speaker 8: it doesn't know me feel better, but then it's like,

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Speaker 8: this is someone I just met.

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Speaker 7: Sweet girl.

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Speaker 8: I mean, she came over, it was great, the date

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Speaker 3: I mean, it sounds like she was just concerned because

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Speaker 5: Now, granted, twelve and maybe twenty four text messages might

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Speaker 5: be a lot in two days, but the initial reach

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Speaker 6: Though.

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Speaker 8: No, I mean, I get it, she's very sweet, but

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Speaker 7: Give me a whole lot of anxiety. I don't. I

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, speaking of peace, James, I will let you

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Speaker 2: know that Lisha's actually on the phone listening and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Oh huh, Alicia do a problem getting close to people,

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Speaker 1: Like do you know how to ask when anyone cares

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Speaker 1: about you? Like I was just trying to show you

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Speaker 1: that I cared And I'm like actually a good caretaker

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Speaker 1: in like times like this.

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Speaker 8: I get it, But it's just we just had one

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Speaker 8: date after a little bit of online conversation, and I

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Speaker 8: just feel, Look, you're sweet, wonderful, but I just feel

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Speaker 8: that we're nowhere close to the come over and make

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Speaker 8: me soup stage of this relationship.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, you said on your hind that you

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Speaker 1: wanted to be intentional about the time we spend together

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Speaker 1: and to prioritize the growth, and I feel like I

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Speaker 1: was doing that. So I don't know what there is about.

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Speaker 8: This that you don't you wouldn't like, can we go

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Speaker 8: further than or can we have a relationship first? Can

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Speaker 8: we like have some other there's there's steps to this before.

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Speaker 1: Or okay, wait wait, I'm not ready to be in

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Speaker 1: a relationship with you.

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Speaker 8: Oh look, that's that's that's not what I said. Okay,

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Speaker 8: that's that's not what I said. It's I feel there's

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Speaker 8: a little miscommunication here.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean I'm not well, you just mentioned

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Speaker 1: wanting to have a relationship first, Like you talk about

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Speaker 1: me texting a lot, and you're already talking about a relationship.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know what the problem is with my

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Speaker 1: texting when you're like, I want a relationship right now?

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Speaker 8: What. No, I'm not I'm not saying right now. It's

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Speaker 8: just that I just don't want to jump into things

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Speaker 8: that just lead to anxiety. And just like already we're

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Speaker 8: checking each other's mental health. Like I'm just trying to

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Speaker 8: was that was real good. It just felt like this

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Speaker 8: was this was just in a different place, and I

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Speaker 8: was just like, I don't.

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Speaker 7: Want to grow with this.

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Speaker 1: You are living way too fast, James.

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Speaker 8: Look, I just I just I'm I'm all for like

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Speaker 8: all those texts in the soup, but I just feel

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Speaker 8: that there's there's just a sequence to it that just.

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Speaker 7: You know, rocks my boat a certain way.

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Speaker 8: And and like I'm sorry for for miscommunicating or or like,

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Speaker 8: you know, just going outside the vibe that we had

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Speaker 8: and I just feel I just feel like we want

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Speaker 8: the wrong direction with that.

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Speaker 4: Well, James, would you like another date with Lisa?

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Speaker 6: We'll pay for it, James, I just so you know,

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Speaker 6: I will go on another date with you, but I

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Speaker 6: just want to let you know, like I'm not gonna

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Speaker 7: Now, just so you know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: So, uh, like I said, I'm not interested in rushing

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Speaker 8: in and getting together right now. I I'm sorry about

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Speaker 8: the miscommunication, but I'm willing to give this another go,

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Speaker 8: just as long as you don't mention the Krispy Kremes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but we're not going to be like dating yet,

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Speaker 1: Like this is just a date date, not like a

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Speaker 1: dating date.

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Speaker 7: Look, don't worry, I'm not trying to wipe you up

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Speaker 7: just yet.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you want to wife me up like that?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, why are we jumping to marriage?

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Speaker 2: I don't think James wants to marry you yet. I

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Speaker 2: think you guys should just go out one more day

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Speaker 2: and see how it goes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, yeah, all right, you will first date, follow

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Speaker 1: up