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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second Date updates.

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Speaker 2: An important part of any blossoming relationship is the first

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Speaker 2: time a woman corrects her man and tells him he

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Speaker 2: messed up.

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Speaker 3: You need to do better.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, this has to happen.

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Speaker 2: It's such a special moment because we need that as guys.

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Speaker 2: If left to our own devices, we'll wear four gallons

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Speaker 2: of axe body spray and think it smells good. We'll

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Speaker 2: wash our cashmere sweaters in hot water.

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Speaker 1: Oh, jeff is that what you do?

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Speaker 2: Are we not supposed to.

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Speaker 1: Mothers to every man?

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Speaker 2: Thank goodness for women being there to correct us so

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Speaker 2: we can learn and go.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's how it works.

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Speaker 1: You have to use your own brain.

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Speaker 2: Well, a lot of women will wait a few dates

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Speaker 2: to correct their men, but not our listener, Monica. She

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Speaker 2: told a guy he messed up on night oneikes for

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Speaker 2: his benefit broke.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not it is.

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Speaker 2: That's what happened, Monica, Welcome to the show. Was that

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Speaker 2: intro to your liking? Or could I have done better?

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Speaker 3: No? You hit it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, it's not just made my day, Monica, Thank

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Speaker 2: you so much.

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Speaker 4: I'm always so curious why someone says a guy messes

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Speaker 4: up and then still wants to call him for another day.

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Speaker 3: All that.

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Speaker 2: You know, we'll get into that, but let's start with

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Speaker 2: what's this guy's name? Who did you go out with?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I met Isaac online and he seemed really cool.

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Speaker 3: I like this personality. I like his looks definitely.

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Speaker 1: So there's a lot of potential there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I really liked him because there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: guys on this app that there will tax you forever.

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Speaker 3: I don't do the back and forth, back and forth thing.

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Speaker 3: But he came right down with it. He was like,

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Speaker 3: I want to take you out all.

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Speaker 1: The action, living in this weird world of like what

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Speaker 1: are we doing?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Right, that's a good note for men, because the more

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Speaker 2: you talk, the more opportunities you're giving yourself to say

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Speaker 2: something stupid.

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Speaker 3: And we will do that.

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Speaker 2: Well, yes talking, okay, good for Isaac. Now I'm not

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Speaker 2: going to say much more, just keep going.

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Speaker 3: What happened? Yes, he says, come pick me up and

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Speaker 3: take me to the nice restaurant. So you know, I

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Speaker 3: got up in my nice little dress, thinking yeah hey,

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Speaker 3: and then he came pose up, he got out, he

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Speaker 3: opened my door. Okay, Yeah, he was a very nice

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Speaker 3: a lie. He was nice.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so everything's working in his favor right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm wondering where things start to turn and you have

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Speaker 2: to step in.

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Speaker 3: And as soon as we got off the highway and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh no, because I see Buffalo wow wings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Are you excited about that or not excited?

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Speaker 3: I'm not excited at all. I'm just paying from Buffalo

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Speaker 3: wowing too much with my whole girls excited for now.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so he's taking you there for a date and

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Speaker 4: you're not feeling that you expected.

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Speaker 3: Okay, a lot better, not a little look. He puts

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Speaker 3: it in park. He gets out of car, come around

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Speaker 3: and opens my door like a perfect gentleman he is.

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Speaker 3: And I said, please close my door.

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Speaker 5: You said close.

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Speaker 2: You said close the door while you're still.

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Speaker 1: In the car.

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Speaker 3: I said, please close my door.

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Speaker 1: Well it's nice to reply, let's close my door.

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Speaker 3: And I think that he thought I was kidding, because

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Speaker 3: he was like san in there. I'm like, hello, yeah,

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Speaker 3: so you're.

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Speaker 1: Going to force him to take you somewhere else.

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Speaker 3: I don't force anybody to do anything. I'm letting him

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Speaker 3: wild wings.

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Speaker 4: As a date deserves that a messy food.

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Speaker 1: It's a terrible first date. It sucks your address and

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Speaker 1: stuff together. Also, especially uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Women don't want to like sit and drink beers and

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what I don't want to do

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Speaker 1: That's what I I'm gonna.

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Speaker 2: Write that down sexy when we sucked on the bone.

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Speaker 1: So did he finally listen to you and shut the door?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: He did?

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Speaker 3: He such a door. I said, I got three choices

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Speaker 3: I said, okay, cool, I thought, okay, he didn't know, right,

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Speaker 3: he didn't know. I told him let's go.

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Speaker 2: And he adapted and he would offended by the way.

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Speaker 3: Like he seemed more confused than offended.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a standard, you know, mental headspace for mens constantly.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 4: How was it though, when you got to the cocktail bar?

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Speaker 4: Were you able to still keep a good energy together? Yes?

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Speaker 3: He asked me questions about what had just happened. I'm like, yo,

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Speaker 3: I'm a lady for real, I want silpleware. I don't

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Speaker 2: I'm sure he actually appreciated the education on how to

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Speaker 1: I do you know he appreciated it because he's not

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh that's a good question. I appreciate it,

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Speaker 3: And that's what I'm calling you.

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Speaker 1: See, I would be insulted.

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Speaker 4: See I'm thinking that's the reason he wasn't getting second

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Speaker 1: She taught him too well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's what a lot of women get upset

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Speaker 2: when they're like, oh great, I cleaned up my guy,

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Speaker 2: just for the next one to come and like swipe

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Speaker 1: He's taking ten girls of that cocktail bar.

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Speaker 3: We gotta get down to the nitty gritty because I

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Speaker 3: want to know because I think I get everything right,

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Speaker 3: and I taught him how to do everything right, and.

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Speaker 2: I want you deserve a medal and definitely a second

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Speaker 2: date here.

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Speaker 1: But what if he feels like you're too high maintenance.

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Speaker 2: Then screw that cat a real woman, then you'll lay

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Speaker 2: into him go fullhard against him, right, Bro, that's where

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Speaker 2: you come in. You do your thing.

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Speaker 4: Well, I just think that if you have some boundaries

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Speaker 3: But look, he's the one to ask me out and

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Speaker 3: I accepted, right, Yeah, so you're gonna learn me on

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Speaker 3: the date, and that's what he did. He didn't like

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Speaker 3: what he learned, responded, you haven't fallen a whole radio

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Speaker 3: show to find out what's ram with you. No, I

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Speaker 3: can't wait to hear this.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear it too, So hopefully he

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Speaker 2: picks up. But we're gonna come back. We'll call Isaac

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Speaker 2: for you and figure out why in the world he

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Speaker 2: would not be calling back a classy woman like yourself, Monica.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a cloth napkin type of lady.

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Speaker 5: That's right.

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Speaker 2: Let's get some answers when we do your second date

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Speaker 2: update right after.

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Speaker 4: This hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, we've been speaking to a

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Speaker 2: true hero. Her name is Monica Okay heroically swooped in

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Speaker 2: and save her date Isaac from pulling a total rookie

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Speaker 2: move when he tried to bring her to Buffalo Wild

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Speaker 2: Wings and that wasn't gonna fly with her, so Monica

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Speaker 2: of substance.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they definitely had a miscommunication of what a dinner

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Speaker 2: But instead they ended up at a nice cocktail bar

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Speaker 2: and they did it the proper way, where she actually

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Speaker 2: discovered Isaac's a pretty good guy as some gentlemanly qualities

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Speaker 2: something to work with. So the question is why is

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Speaker 2: he not reaching out for cocktails? Round two? Monica? Is

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Speaker 2: it possible that maybe he saw your helpful sense a

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Speaker 3: That's a possibility. I just wish he would have expressed

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Speaker 3: that to me personally.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: You seem like a person who can take criticism, constructive criticism.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, if I could did it, I definitely could

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Speaker 3: take it. Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: That's a good attitude to have. It doesn't happen often.

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Speaker 2: On this Yeah, would you like to criticize her constructively

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Speaker 2: before we do this call? Is that where you're going?

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Speaker 4: Great? Okay, she knows who she is she knows what

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Speaker 2: So okay, So Brooke, you're scared of her and you're

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Speaker 1: I think Isaac will be scared and will be afraid

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Speaker 1: to say no. So I think you're getting a date

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Speaker 1: about one. I also like to scare men.

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Speaker 3: Seems like you broke.

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Speaker 2: You're going to intimidate this guy and saying yes to

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Speaker 2: a date. But let's see what he asks the safe

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Speaker 2: he picks up the phone.

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Speaker 5: But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Isaac? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: hey man.

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Speaker 2: We're a radio show. You're on it right now. It's

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Speaker 2: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Isaac, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 5: Why is a radio show calling me?

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Speaker 2: Uh well, it's kind of a good reason. We do

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Speaker 2: a segment on this show. It's called a Second Date Update.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you haven't heard it, but this is

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Speaker 2: a segment where we help out our listeners who've been

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Speaker 2: on a date with someone and afterwards they're not getting

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Speaker 2: a call back to go on a second one.

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Speaker 5: I think I have heard of it. I think I've

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Speaker 5: seen this online somewhere on something.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot of them are viral on TikTok, sir

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Speaker 4: on there.

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Speaker 2: You can follow us at Broke and Jeffrey if you

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Speaker 2: want to. No pressure. But basically the reason that we're

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Speaker 2: calling you is there's a woman named Monica who asked

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Speaker 2: us to get a hold of you.

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Speaker 5: Hey, yeah, I met Monica.

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Speaker 3: Yeah right, we know you.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you guys could have had a great date.

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Speaker 5: What did she What did she tell you? What did

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Speaker 5: she tell you? Question?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, I guess the general recap of what we

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Speaker 2: heard from her is you picked her up, then you

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Speaker 2: took her to Buffalo Wild Wings, which she uh politely

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Speaker 2: redirected over to a cocktail bar.

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Speaker 5: Well, politely redirected. It would be wrong, that's jeff say it.

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Speaker 2: She's our friend, so you know.

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Speaker 3: We're not going to be rude.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean I wasn't rude either. She just simply

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Speaker 5: kind of barked closed my door?

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Speaker 1: But wait, did you explain all of that to her?

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Speaker 5: I didn't explain any of that to her, and also

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Speaker 1: You own it a franchisee. You're gonna take her to

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Speaker 5: Okay, So look, so look, I'm gonna be honest. I'm

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Speaker 2: So what changed your mind to where now you're not

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Speaker 5: Okay, So, while we're kind of enjoying each other's company,

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 5: She says she's a stay at home daughter.

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Speaker 1: What she's got to be joking?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I supposed to stay home girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so you were turned off because she doesn't

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Speaker 3: Oh all right, we got we gotta cut this right here. Okay,

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Speaker 5: Clearly, it's Monica.

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Speaker 1: Clearly, maybe she's on her parents' landline.

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Speaker 3: You better watch yourself. You're supposed to be with me here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Monica, clearly you want to jump in and say something,

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Speaker 3: Hello, Isaac, how are you hi?

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Speaker 5: Monica from your mom's couch? How you doing? Oh?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's the disrespect about. I thought we

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Speaker 1: But we're parents, like elderly. Do you stay home and

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Speaker 3: We're just no, they're perfectly healthy. They just care of me.

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Speaker 3: I'm the baby girl and I always will be.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Monica, guess who else is perfectly healthy? You are?

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Speaker 5: Get a job?

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Speaker 3: You know what. Let me tell you something. I am

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Don't you want a job? Don't

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Speaker 3: Like? Yes, my dream and my ambition is sitting at home,

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Speaker 1: Oh so that's your goal, Brooke.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you're judging her there, and she explicitly

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Speaker 4: So it's really hard not to because you would never

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Speaker 3: You are definitely right, and they shouldn't. A man shouldn't

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Speaker 4: I can imagine imagine being a man going and meeting

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Speaker 4: what's your dowry?

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Speaker 1: Sir?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Isaac, now that she's explained this a little

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Speaker 5: Look, look, I wish Monica the best. It's just not

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Speaker 5: the best with me. Oh you have great like Monica.

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Speaker 5: I hope you find a guy slash simp it will

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Speaker 3: What I don't think? So, Isaac, you're going to take

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Speaker 3: To tell a boss a boss doesn't work. No idea

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be honest with you, Monica. See, there's a difference.

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Speaker 5: There's a difference between a boss and a leader. You're

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Speaker 3: I never said I was a leader. I never said that.

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Speaker 5: I am a leader. I'm a leader.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but you could have been a man and leave my.

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Speaker 5: Act that.

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Speaker 3: You could have told me that why you dog didn't running.

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Speaker 5: No one's dodging or running. What I'm doing is ghosting, okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: And I don't need him. I don't need him anyway.

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Speaker 2: Get a job, you don't. You know what you need

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Speaker 4: I feel like you're going to be on the phone

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Speaker 3: Well, that's okay. Look I got a lot of time.

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Speaker 3: Boo boom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 2: And are your parents hiring for any open roles in

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Speaker 3: I would love to be at No that good.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, hey, we all

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Speaker 2: learned a new job. Today's stay at home daughter a job.

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Speaker 1: I'll flying right now texting my mom.

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Speaker 4: You would last I'd give you two days back home

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: Isaac?

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Speaker 1: Today?

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Speaker 2: Isaac did not like it. Obviously Brooke does not respect

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Speaker 1: If she's not going to school, she should be working.

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Speaker 2: No, that's right, Brooke believes you should start working at it.

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Speaker 2: I'm sick in one of her overseas factories. So parents,

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Speaker 2: if you're lazy, first grader is still mooching off of

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Speaker 2: text in the seven two Brook'll whip them into shit.

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Speaker 4: Let me give you some parenting tips, yes, and if

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Speaker 2: You can email the show. We can call that person

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Speaker 2: who's not calling you back and go check out all

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Speaker 2: of our second day podcasts. Wherever you get yours, they're

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Speaker 2: up Abrook and Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,