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Speaker 1: Second date of date. An important part of any blossoming

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Speaker 1: relationship is the first time a woman corrects her man

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, this has to happen. It's such a

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Speaker 1: special moment because we need that as guys. If left

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Speaker 1: body spray and think it smells good. We'll wash our

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Speaker 1: cashmere sweaters in hot water. Are we not supposed to?

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Speaker 2: Every man?

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Speaker 1: Thank goodness for women being there to correct us so

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Speaker 1: we can learn and go. Oh, that's how it works.

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Speaker 2: You have to use your own brain.

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Speaker 1: Well, a lot of women will wait a few dates

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Speaker 1: to correct their men, but not our listener, Monica. She

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Speaker 1: told the guy he messed up on night oneikes for

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Speaker 1: his benefit? Broke it is. That's what happened, Monica, Welcome

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Speaker 1: to the show. Was that intro to your liking? Or

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Speaker 1: could I have done better?

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Speaker 3: No? You you hit it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Wow, it's not just made my day, Monica, Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much.

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Speaker 4: I'm always so curious why someone says a guy messes

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Speaker 4: up and then still wants to call him for another day.

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Speaker 1: All that, you know, we'll get into that, but let's

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Speaker 1: start with what's this guy's name? Who did you go

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I met Isaac online and it seemed really cool.

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Speaker 3: I like his personality. I like his looks definitely.

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Speaker 2: So there's a lot of potential there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I really liked him because there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: I don't do the back and forth, back and forth thing,

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Speaker 3: but he came right down with it. He was like,

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Speaker 4: Out all the action, living in this weird world of

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Speaker 4: like what are we doing?

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Speaker 1: Exactly right. That's a good note for men, because the

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Speaker 1: more you talk, the more opportunities you're giving yourself to

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Speaker 2: Yes I'm talking.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good for Isaac. Now I'm not going to say

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Speaker 3: Yes, he says, come pick me up and take me

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Speaker 3: to the nice restaurant. So you know, I got up

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Speaker 3: he came close up, he got out, he opened my door. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he was a very nice lie. He was nice.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so everything's working in his favor right.

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Speaker 1: Now, I'm wondering where things start to turn and you

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Speaker 3: And as soon as we got off the highway, and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh no, because I see Buffalo Wow Wings.

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Speaker 5: I love you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, are you excited about that or not excited?

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Speaker 3: I'm not excited at all. I'm just paying from Buffalo

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Speaker 3: Wowe too much with my whole girls excited for now.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So he's taking you there for a date and

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Speaker 4: you're not feeling that.

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Speaker 3: You expect Okay, a lot better, not a little get.

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Speaker 3: He puts it in park. He gets out of a car,

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Speaker 3: he is. And I said, please close my door.

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Speaker 1: You said close. You said close the door while you're

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Speaker 3: I said, please close my door.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's nice to reply close my door.

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Speaker 3: And I think that he thought I was kidding because

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Speaker 4: Hello, So you're going to force him to take you

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Speaker 3: I don't force anybody to do anything. I'm letting him

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Speaker 5: That's that messy food.

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Speaker 2: It's a terrible first date.

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Speaker 5: It sucks your address and stuff together. Especially uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Women don't want to like sit and drink beers and

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what I don't want to do

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna write that down sexy. When we sucked on

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Speaker 2: So did he finally listen to you and shut the door?

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Speaker 3: Yes? He did. He shut the door. I said, I

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Speaker 1: And he adapted and he would offended by the way, like.

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Speaker 3: He'd seemed more confused than offended.

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Speaker 1: That's a standard, you know, mental headspace for men, just constant.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 4: How was it though, when you got to the cocktail bar?

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Speaker 3: Yes? He asked me questions about what had just happened.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, I'm a lady for real. I want silverware.

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Speaker 3: I never thought of that. Stop teasing him what a

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Speaker 1: I'm sure he actually appreciated the education on how to

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Speaker 4: I don't know he appreciated it because he's not calling

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh that's a good question. Appreciate it, And

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Speaker 3: that's what I'm calling you.

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Speaker 2: See, I would be insulted.

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Speaker 5: See, I'm thinking that's the reason he wasn't getting second

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Speaker 2: She taught him too well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's what a lot of women get upset

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Speaker 1: when they're like, oh great, I cleaned up my guy,

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Speaker 2: He's taking ten girls of that cocktail bar.

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Speaker 3: We gotta get down to the nitty gritty because I

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Speaker 1: I want you deserve a medal and definitely a second

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Speaker 4: But what if he feels like you're too high maintenance,

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Speaker 4: then screw that cat.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't a real woman. Then you'll lay into him,

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Speaker 1: go fullhard against him, right, bro, that's where you come in.

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Speaker 1: You do your thing.

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Speaker 2: No, I just think that if you have some boundaries

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Speaker 4: They should be established before the date, not when you're

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Speaker 3: But look, he's to want to ask me out and

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Speaker 3: I accepted, right, Yeah, so you're gonna learn me on

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Speaker 3: whole radio show to find out what's ram with you. No,

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear this.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to hear it too, So hopefully he

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Speaker 1: picks up. But we're gonna come back. We'll call Isaac

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Speaker 1: for you and figure out why in the world he

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Speaker 1: would not be calling back a classy woman like yourself, Monica.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's a cloth napkin type of lady.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Let's get some answers when we do your

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Speaker 1: second date update right after this hold on second Date update.

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Speaker 1: If you're just joining us, we've been speaking to a

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Speaker 1: true hero. Her name is Monica, who heroically swooped in

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Speaker 1: and save her date Isaac from pulling a total rookie

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Speaker 1: move when he tried to bring her to Buffalo Wild

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Speaker 1: so Monica refused to get out of his car in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they definitely have a miscommunication of what a dinner

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Speaker 1: But instead they ended up at a nice cocktail bar

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Speaker 1: and they did it the proper way, where she actually

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Speaker 1: discovered Isaac's a pretty good guy as some gentlemanly qualities

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Speaker 1: something to work with. So the question is why is

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Speaker 1: he not reaching out for cocktails? Round two? Monica? Is

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Speaker 1: it possible that maybe he saw your helpful sense a

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Speaker 3: That's a possibility. I just wish he would have expressed

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you seem like a person who can take criticism construction.

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Speaker 3: If I could did it, I definitely could take it. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: That's a good attitude to have. It doesn't happen often

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Speaker 1: Yeah, would you like to criticize her constructively before we

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Speaker 2: Okay, she knows who she is, she knows what she wants,

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Speaker 2: and she wants to go out with Isaac.

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Speaker 1: So okay, So Brooke, you're scared of her and you're

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Speaker 4: I think Isaac will be scared and it will be

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Speaker 2: So I think you're getting a date about one. I

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Speaker 1: She seems like you broke. We're going to intimidate this

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Speaker 1: what he asked the safe he picks up the phone.

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Speaker 1: But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Isaac? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hey man, we're a radio show. You're on it right now.

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Speaker 1: It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Isaac.

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Speaker 1: Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 6: Why is a radio show calling me?

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Speaker 1: Uh well, it's kind of a good reason. We do

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Speaker 1: a segment on this show. It's called a second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you haven't heard it, but this is

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Speaker 6: I think I have heard of it. I think I've

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Speaker 6: seen this online somewhere or something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of them are viral on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: Sure on there. You can follow us at Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffery if you want to. No pressure. But basically the

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Speaker 1: reason that we're calling you is there's a woman named

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Speaker 1: Monica who asked us to get a hold of you.

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Speaker 6: Hey, yeah, I met Monica.

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Speaker 4: Yeah right, we know sounds like you guys could have

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Speaker 4: had a great date.

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Speaker 6: What did she What did she tell you? What did

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Speaker 6: you tell you? Question?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, I guess the general recap of what we

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Speaker 1: heard from her is you picked her up, then you

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Speaker 1: took her to Buffalo Wild Wings, which she uh politely

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Speaker 1: redirected over to a cocktail bar.

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Speaker 6: Well politely redirected. It would be.

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Speaker 1: Wrong say it. She's our friend, so you know we're

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I wasn't rude either. She just simply

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Speaker 6: kind of barked closed my door?

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Speaker 2: Did you?

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Speaker 6: At first? I just stood there like, what do you mean?

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Speaker 6: I don't do Buffalo Wild Wings and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: all right. I mean the reason why I chose the

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Speaker 6: Buffalo Wild Wings because in these new dating apps, it's

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Speaker 6: better to start out something very casual. Another date, we

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Speaker 2: But wait, did you explain all of that to her?

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Speaker 6: No, I didn't explain any of that to her, and

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Speaker 2: You own it a franchisee.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna take her to your own job, though.

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Speaker 2: Civil except you get free food.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, guys, he's a business owner who cares.

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Speaker 1: So what changed your mind to where now you're not

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Speaker 6: Okay, So, while we're kind of enjoying each other's company,

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 6: She kind of skated around it for a while till

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 6: She says, she's a stay at home daughter.

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Speaker 1: A stay at home daughter, She's got to be joking.

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Speaker 5: Not a joke.

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Speaker 6: No, it's not a joke. That's what she told me.

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Speaker 6: Her occupation at thirty one years old is that she's

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm supposed to be a stay home girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: That is a real fancy way to say. You're unemployed

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So you were turned off because she doesn't

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Speaker 6: Or drop of ambition.

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Speaker 3: All right, we got we gotta cut this right here. Okay.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 1: All right. I don't want to make her mad. But Isaac,

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Speaker 6: Clearly, it's Monica.

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Speaker 2: Clearly, maybe she's on her parents' landline.

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Speaker 3: You better watch yourself. You're supposed to be with me here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Monica, clearly you want to jump in and say something,

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Speaker 3: Hello, Isaac, how are you hi, Monica from your mom's couch.

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Speaker 6: How you doing?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, no, no, Let me tell you something, Isaac.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's the disrespect about. I thought we

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Speaker 3: good time. I didn't know you had a problem with

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Speaker 2: But we're parents, like elderly. Do you stay home and

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Speaker 3: We're just no, they're perfectly healthy. They just take care

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Speaker 6: Okay, Monica. Guess who else is perfectly healthy? You are?

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Speaker 3: Get a job? You know what? Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 3: I am perfectly healthy. Yes, I am, as you can see.

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Speaker 3: And if I had to get a job, I would,

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Speaker 3: But guess what, I don't have to.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Don't you want a job? Don't you want your own career?

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Speaker 4: Don't you have your own dreams and ambitions?

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Speaker 3: Like yes, my dream and my ambition is sit it

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Speaker 2: So that's your goal.

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Speaker 1: Brook. It sounds like you're judging her there, and she

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Speaker 4: So it's really hard not to because you would never

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Speaker 3: You are definitely right, and they shouldn't. A man shouldn't

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Speaker 5: It into the old school chivalry and stuff.

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Speaker 4: I cannot imagine imagine being a man going and meeting

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Speaker 2: That sounds like you have.

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Speaker 1: A present for all of them.

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Speaker 2: Ala, what's your dowry?

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Speaker 3: Sir?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, Isaac, now that she's explained this a little

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Speaker 6: Look, look, I wish Monica the best. It's just not

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Speaker 6: the best with me. Oh you have great life, Monica.

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Speaker 6: I hope you find a guy slash simp it will

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Speaker 3: What I don't think so, Isaac, You're going to take

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Speaker 5: I love how you.

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Speaker 2: Want to be the boss, but you don't want to

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Speaker 3: A boss doesn't work. No idea of a boss you

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Speaker 3: don't want to make, and that is the problem. Y'all

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Speaker 3: just don't understand, and clearly I don't understand being a

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna be honest with you, Monica. See, there's a difference.

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Speaker 6: There's a difference between a boss and a leader. You're

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Speaker 3: I never said I was a leader. I never said that.

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Speaker 6: I am a leader. I'm a leader.

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Speaker 3: Okay, But you could have been a man and leave

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Speaker 3: my act. You could have told me that why you

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Speaker 6: No one's dodging or running. What I'm doing is ghosting.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: And I don't need him. I don't need him anyway,

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Speaker 3: a job you don't.

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Speaker 1: You know what you need to do is you need

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm not going in no more. Look, I'm going

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Speaker 4: I feel like you're going to be on the phone

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Speaker 4: a lot with your expectations for dating.

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Speaker 3: Well that's okay, Look I got a lot of time.

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Speaker 3: Boo boom.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 1: And are your parents hiring for any open roles in

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Speaker 1: Oh that good, Jeffrey in the morning, Well, hey, we

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Speaker 1: all learned a new job. Today's stay at home daughter,

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Speaker 1: A job I left.

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Speaker 5: Flying right now texting my mom.

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Speaker 4: You would last I give you two days back home

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Speaker 5: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 4: Isaac?

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Speaker 1: Isaac did not like it. Obviously Brooke does not respect

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Speaker 1: would it have changed how you felt if Monica was

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Speaker 2: If she's not going to school, she should be working.

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Speaker 1: No, that's right. Brook believes you should start working at

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Speaker 1: a six in one of her overseas factories. So, parents,

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Speaker 1: if you're lazy, first grader is still mooching off of

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Speaker 1: text in seven nine two, Brook'll whip them into shit.

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Speaker 4: Let me give you some parenting tips, yes, and if

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Speaker 4: not parenting tips, we can hopefully at least give you

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Speaker 1: You can email the show. We can call that person

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Speaker 1: who's not calling you back and go check out all

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Speaker 1: of our second date podcasts wherever you get yours, they're

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Speaker 1: up a Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning