WEBVTT - A Message from Bobby + #177 - Jay DeMarcus from Rascal Flatts on how the  Flatts REALLY formed, his new book, and his faith.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike and I were talking about really good episodes that

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<v Speaker 1>people may have missed if they've just subscribed to the

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<v Speaker 1>Bobby Cast. I'm gonna go back. I mean it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a while. I mean the episode was one seventies seven,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's been over a hundred episodes. Ago, we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to Jada Marcus from Rascal Flats on how the Flats

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<v Speaker 1>was really formed. They're all these urban legends and his

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<v Speaker 1>faith so it's a really great way. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Jay now has his own record label, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>those guys will eventually go, well, we should just play

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<v Speaker 1>we just get back together, do it again. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>know they're not that they've broken up. They're not together.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what their official status is right now. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know Gary pretty well. Um, And I just

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<v Speaker 1>think eventually, even if it's two or three years from now,

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<v Speaker 1>they go, let's just do it again. You know. And

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<v Speaker 1>Gary and Jay they were in a video together recently,

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<v Speaker 1>their cousins, So I want this is a great His

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<v Speaker 1>book Shotgun Angels had just come out, so he stopped

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<v Speaker 1>by the house when we talked about that too. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is Jada Marcus from Rascal Flats in case you

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<v Speaker 1>missed it. It's a really great episode. Check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to get a nut, trying to I'm the ultimate squirrel,

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<v Speaker 1>always trying to get a nut. Me too, buddy. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's a book you name it. Episode one seventy seven

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<v Speaker 1>with Jada Marcus Rascal Flats. Um. So we're talking, we're

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<v Speaker 1>about to start saving us off the air because, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's tough to sell books, especially when it's not what

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<v Speaker 1>you're known for. Because that that's been my thing, is

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<v Speaker 1>that write a book? Like what what? What was Bobby?

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<v Speaker 1>What does Jay know about books? And so yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to kind of go out and rehustle. You do, Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>musicians can write. I read exactly, Yeah you do. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always up for a new challenge, though I'm I

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<v Speaker 1>think you and I are wired more alike, probably than

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<v Speaker 1>we know. I love to work like idle time does

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<v Speaker 1>not serve me. Well. I can't sit around and you know, spin,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll start spinning out about the silliest things if I do.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, is it I'm sort of deeper? Um maybe

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<v Speaker 1>psychological thing that we like to work, Like are you

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<v Speaker 1>trying to prove? Who are you trying to prove? Something?

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<v Speaker 1>To yourself. I think if you read part of that book,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be my dad. You know, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of me that feels like I never quite lived up

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<v Speaker 1>to what he expected me to be. I guess that

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<v Speaker 1>put a lot of pressure on me, which I used

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<v Speaker 1>as fuel early on in life, but it still fuels me.

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<v Speaker 1>And for me, it's been like I grew up in

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<v Speaker 1>pretty close to poverty, and so it's like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>prove to yeah, to everybody that so I wish my

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<v Speaker 1>Idol time. My my itchiness with Idol time was just

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<v Speaker 1>because I do love working. But I think I've convinced

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<v Speaker 1>myself I love working because I'm trying to prove it

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<v Speaker 1>to everyone that I can make it. Yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that I have a little bit of that in me too.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like when you whenever you have some success and

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<v Speaker 1>you celebrate it, you don't celebrate it and live in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment long enough because I go I gotta do

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta do more, because I haven't done it, I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't done enough yet. I gotta get back after it

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<v Speaker 1>and go back out there and do something good again.

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<v Speaker 1>And a lot of I like to try to prove

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<v Speaker 1>to myself too that I can take on new challenges

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<v Speaker 1>and have some degree of success with it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess I'm just wired that way. I am

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<v Speaker 1>truly a workaholic, There's no doubt about it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it drives my partners crazy sometimes, partners in all capacities

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<v Speaker 1>or you're talking about in the band, and I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about in the band, meaning you're always wanting to do

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<v Speaker 1>what well. I always want to go. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>there's money on the table, dates, let's go get it.

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<v Speaker 1>If there's work to be done, let's go do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And Gary, I wish I had a little more him

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<v Speaker 1>in me, because he loves to go out to the

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<v Speaker 1>farm decompressed. I mean, he could stay out there for

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<v Speaker 1>big chunks of times and there's nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just wired differently. So to exist in the same band.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I'm like, I don't I don't think I can

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<v Speaker 1>sit around for five months. I gotta do something any

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<v Speaker 1>but write a book. How long out of the book?

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<v Speaker 1>Um start to be a seed in you, I think

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<v Speaker 1>years ago because I kept I keep journals, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I like keep notes of things so I can remember them.

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<v Speaker 1>And I started keeping notes when Rascal Flats did our

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<v Speaker 1>first radio tour literally that long ago, because I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to remember certain things in certain aspects of what we

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<v Speaker 1>were doing. And I always thought, someday we may have

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to write a book out into the future,

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<v Speaker 1>sometime when this all comes to whatever close it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna look like. And so I started keeping notes,

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<v Speaker 1>and the more that I did, the more I started

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<v Speaker 1>to reflect on my life, just myself and and really

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<v Speaker 1>reflect on all of the things that transpired to get

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<v Speaker 1>me here to eventually meet Joe do on one day

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<v Speaker 1>and then Gary come to town and us do what

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<v Speaker 1>we have done. And it started to I started look

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<v Speaker 1>at and go, maybe there are some people that can

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<v Speaker 1>like be inspired by some of the crap that I

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<v Speaker 1>went through, and maybe they can find their own hope

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<v Speaker 1>to forge ahead and to get up, dust themselves off,

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<v Speaker 1>keep moving forward. Because you know, a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>we see our favorite entertainers, actors, musicians, whatever they are,

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<v Speaker 1>you see the culmination of a lot of uf and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of hard work that got them to that point.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't just end up on American Idol one day

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<v Speaker 1>by accident. You went through a lot of things to

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<v Speaker 1>get you there. I didn't end up in Rascal Flats.

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<v Speaker 1>I went through a lot of crap and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hard stuff to get me there. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>people deal with the same things you and I have

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<v Speaker 1>done with, and they deal with the same adversity, the

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<v Speaker 1>same tough times, and sometimes you want to quit. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there were many times that I wanted to throw the

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<v Speaker 1>towel in and move back home and just forget the

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<v Speaker 1>silly dream of music career. And I didn't. I found

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<v Speaker 1>some ounce of hope here and there, some friend or

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<v Speaker 1>some text or some something that would happen just in

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<v Speaker 1>time before I would give up, to help keep me going.

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<v Speaker 1>The name of the book. Let me shout the book

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<v Speaker 1>out here. Everybody knows you, but uh Jada Marcus of

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<v Speaker 1>Rascal Flats. It's called Shotgun Angels, My Story of Broken

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<v Speaker 1>Roads and unshakable hope. And it's funny you mentioned all

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<v Speaker 1>the crap that you go through, because and the first

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<v Speaker 1>book I wrote, I had to kind of relive some

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<v Speaker 1>of that stuff which I just kept compressed for so long,

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<v Speaker 1>just pushed it down inside, and it was tough to

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<v Speaker 1>not just acknowledge it, but to kind of kind of

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<v Speaker 1>dredge it all back up and relive it. To be

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<v Speaker 1>in my form of accurate about it, and did you

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<v Speaker 1>go through that at all? I went down. I joked

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<v Speaker 1>the other day that I had a bottle of Vodkas

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<v Speaker 1>sitting right by the laptop because I'd have to shut

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<v Speaker 1>it and take a break sometimes. And when the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>comes spoiling back up to the surface and you do

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<v Speaker 1>relive it, if you're an emotional person at all, you

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<v Speaker 1>feel those emotions all over again and how you felt

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<v Speaker 1>when you were living through that. And that was one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that I didn't expect. That kind of

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<v Speaker 1>caught me off guard a little bit that I would

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<v Speaker 1>actually go back into it so deeply, but I definitely did,

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<v Speaker 1>And there were times and I just id take a

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<v Speaker 1>break from it. I stepped away and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I can't believe that still affects me

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<v Speaker 1>as strongly today as it did, you know, thirty years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>It's wild to me. As I was reading, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get a chance to finish it, and I might be

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<v Speaker 1>read the whole thing, and he pulled out some parts

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<v Speaker 1>for me to read. Um, the the how you guys

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<v Speaker 1>got together. It's very interesting to me. I think we'll

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<v Speaker 1>start there, and then I want to go back to

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<v Speaker 1>the Christian Band in the scholarship. There's a lot again

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that and I felt like we've known each other,

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<v Speaker 1>at least semi socially for a while. I had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea a lot of the stuff which is interesting, just

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<v Speaker 1>on the music side of things. And so we'll go

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<v Speaker 1>to back to the beginning of the flats or Rascal Flats,

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<v Speaker 1>not the Rascal Flats. So I, for everybody's listening right now,

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<v Speaker 1>calling the Rascal Flats, dear God. So um, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna move past college. We're gonna back to that

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<v Speaker 1>in a minute. You're in town and you have a

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<v Speaker 1>cousin that you guys weren't super close we were growing

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<v Speaker 1>up but lost touch, right, and which is Gary? And

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<v Speaker 1>Gary had been winning some karaoke competitions. Yeah, So I

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<v Speaker 1>kept hearing grumblings back home when I would go back

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<v Speaker 1>for the holidays that hey, you know your cousin Gary,

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<v Speaker 1>he's been singing a little bit. And I'd be like, really,

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<v Speaker 1>that's neat um and and and it wasn't that I

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<v Speaker 1>was being mean about it, but I was following my

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<v Speaker 1>own path, and I had the Christian band, and then

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<v Speaker 1>somebody told me that he was talking to a producer

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<v Speaker 1>in l A about doing an R and B thing

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<v Speaker 1>and that he and Jamie Fox had spent some time together.

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<v Speaker 1>My uncle had actually told me that, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he knows Jamie Fox. That's kind of cool. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was lost on me that again, he was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>singing and doing a pop thing. And then my mom

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<v Speaker 1>called me one day and she goes, now, your cousin

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<v Speaker 1>Gary's gonna call you and you need to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>him singing. He's been winning some contests up here. He's

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<v Speaker 1>been singing in Yeah, and you need to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>him sing. I was like, Mom, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>The last thing I want to do is tell some

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<v Speaker 1>family member who I'm not really that close to anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't try this. And she, while I've talked to

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<v Speaker 1>she called Judy Gary's mother, Jude Babe. They were closer

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<v Speaker 1>than sisters. They still are. She said, well, listen, I've

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<v Speaker 1>already told Jude Babe that you're gonna listen to him,

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<v Speaker 1>so you just need to let him come over there

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<v Speaker 1>when he's down there and sing for you. When he

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<v Speaker 1>was on his way to vacation in Florida, and he

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<v Speaker 1>stopped by my apartment in Brentwood and I sat down,

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<v Speaker 1>and I believe, if I'm remembering correctly, the first song

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<v Speaker 1>he sang was One Last Cry by Brian McKnight, and

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it well enough on the piano to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hack through it, and he just stopped me in

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<v Speaker 1>my tracks. I mean, when he opens his voice and

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<v Speaker 1>you hear that come out of him, it's otherworldly. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I describe it in the book, is all of these

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<v Speaker 1>ingredients of gospel and R and B and country rolled

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<v Speaker 1>up into one. I had never heard anything quite like

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<v Speaker 1>it before, and it had an immediate, identifiable personality to

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<v Speaker 1>it that was just shocking to me. And we kept

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<v Speaker 1>talking over the next several weeks, several months, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you gotta move to town. It's never gonna

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<v Speaker 1>find you in Columbus. And he was. He was struggling

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<v Speaker 1>because he had a great job, he had debt, he

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<v Speaker 1>had bills, he'd already forged a life for himself. And

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<v Speaker 1>he called me one day and he said, that's it,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming to town. I can't do this anymore. And

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't do it, I'm afraid I'll regret it.

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<v Speaker 1>For the rest of my life. And he lived on

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<v Speaker 1>my couch. I had a one bedroom apartment and he

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<v Speaker 1>lived on my couch and we played everywhere we could,

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<v Speaker 1>and when people would hear him, the reaction was just undeniable.

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<v Speaker 1>You could see it in their faces. They were like,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, this guy is up there singing Merle Haggard,

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<v Speaker 1>but singing like r and b licks in it. And

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<v Speaker 1>now if you turn on country radio, you hear a

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<v Speaker 1>whole host of singers that were touched by him and

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<v Speaker 1>influenced by him. And that's a testament to what his

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<v Speaker 1>gift was and what he was able to bring to

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<v Speaker 1>this town and build upon. So you guys are playing

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<v Speaker 1>shows at Printer's Alley a couple of nights a week,

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<v Speaker 1>a few nights a week and doesn't even exist anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>The place we played it was a fiddle and steel

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<v Speaker 1>guitar bar, and I I think it's a boutique hotel now.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're going and say, hey, GARYL we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>a gig, just the two of us. And how do

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<v Speaker 1>you get that gig? You go up and say, hey, guy,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the tape. What's that? I'll tell you. So the

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<v Speaker 1>guy playing up on stage. We'd go in and hear

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<v Speaker 1>him sing, and he would let us sit in and

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<v Speaker 1>do a song. The owner was in there one night,

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<v Speaker 1>Allison was her name, and Greg Perkins. They owned it together,

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<v Speaker 1>and she walked over and she said, would you guys

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a night here? And Gary said, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even live here full time. I'm just visiting on

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<v Speaker 1>the weekends. She said, if you guys will do a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of nights here a week, I'll fire him and

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<v Speaker 1>give you his gig. The guy that you were singing,

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<v Speaker 1>and the guy that was letting us, the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>that helped you. That's how cutthroat Nashville is. And and

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<v Speaker 1>we so we left and we talked about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, do you do you want to do this?

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<v Speaker 1>And then that that's I think that's around the time

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<v Speaker 1>he called me and said I'm moving to town. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>take that gig and see see what happens. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was the two of us sitting beside a cigare a machine.

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<v Speaker 1>I had my keyboard and he had a mike, when

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<v Speaker 1>I had two mix and we sometimes there were two

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<v Speaker 1>people in there, sometimes there were twenty, sometimes there were forty.

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<v Speaker 1>But slowly, but surely, we we started to build a

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<v Speaker 1>following that would come in and see us, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the owners came to us and said, we're thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>buying the other side of this building, knocking down the

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<v Speaker 1>wall that separates the two putting a stage together. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you put a band together? And I knew a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of guys from various bands, and I was sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>with and Gary and I were friends with a circle

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<v Speaker 1>of buddies that were great musicians and had been playing

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<v Speaker 1>in different places with them. So we put a band together.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you're playing with Shelley right at this time

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<v Speaker 1>to write like as your main you can play with

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<v Speaker 1>Shelly right. You're playing keys? Yeah, I was. I was

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<v Speaker 1>your band leader. Okay, so you're running the band, you're

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<v Speaker 1>playing keys, and you had hired a guitarist, which was Jodan.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when you're putting the band together, is that

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<v Speaker 1>when you bring jod on in. No, he didn't start

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<v Speaker 1>playing with us right away. Guy named Shane Sutton played

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<v Speaker 1>with us. Fantastic player, fantastic singer. And we were playing

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<v Speaker 1>down there for probably several months, and then I get

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<v Speaker 1>a call one night and Shane says, man, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>get out of bed I've got the flu. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>a fever, and I'm sorry to do this to you,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can't make it tonight. It was on a

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<v Speaker 1>Monday night, and I thought, oh, no, what are we

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do? I know who can play this. I know

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<v Speaker 1>who can do it. I'm gonna call Jodan. I called

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<v Speaker 1>him up and said, hey, what are you doing tonight?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like nothing, I'm just sitting around. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's uh, let's play tonight. You want to? You

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<v Speaker 1>want to sit in with us? I said, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>telling you about my cousin anyway I want you to.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to hear him and meet him in

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<v Speaker 1>real life. And I've been telling you know, Gary about

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<v Speaker 1>Jodan how talented he was. And so we pull up

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<v Speaker 1>at the club and Jodan sitting in his guitar amp

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<v Speaker 1>up and he's up there tuning up. Gary looks at me,

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<v Speaker 1>he goes, who is that? I said, no, out man,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to tell you this, but Shane's sick,

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<v Speaker 1>and he goes, are you kidding me? This guy isn't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna know a thing that we do. We gotta play

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<v Speaker 1>a little three am and if this sucks, I'm out.

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<v Speaker 1>Of here, you can have this by yourself. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Gary, please, like, just give him the shot.

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<v Speaker 1>He would barely even speak to Joe Don. It was

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<v Speaker 1>so funny. He was so frustrated. And I understand. See

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<v Speaker 1>Gary was getting up at four thirty am to throw papers.

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<v Speaker 1>So we finished in the club at two. He slept

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<v Speaker 1>right to work and he go right right to work

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<v Speaker 1>throwing papers. So I understood his frustration. But then we

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<v Speaker 1>got up there together and the first song, I think

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<v Speaker 1>we played it on one of your shows. The first

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<v Speaker 1>song we ever played together was Church on the Cumberland

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<v Speaker 1>Road by Shannondah, and we hit that first course man,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know what happened, but it was just

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<v Speaker 1>we all knew immediately. We looked at each other like

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<v Speaker 1>that is good, and we've got to have more of that.

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<v Speaker 1>So Shane, that Rigel guitar players the name right, He

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<v Speaker 1>basically Wally pipped and Wally played first days for the

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<v Speaker 1>Yankees forever. And while he got hurt, nothing, he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do anything wrong. And he got hurt, and here it

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<v Speaker 1>comes Loue Gary, who's gonna fill in. And then here

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<v Speaker 1>it's now the Lue Gary world. I know what does

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<v Speaker 1>Shane say about that? Shane Shane still a buddy of Arrish.

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<v Speaker 1>We still see him out playing with different artists and

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<v Speaker 1>playing guitar. But he you know, he obviously gives us

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<v Speaker 1>massive amounts of crap for us firing and basically you

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<v Speaker 1>never I had to call him and tell him he

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't come back, and that was really awkward. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're gonna go ahead and stick with Joe

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<v Speaker 1>don But I think anybody that heard us sing together,

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<v Speaker 1>and he would definitely tell you this to God, that

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<v Speaker 1>there was a special uh chemistry in a blend that

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<v Speaker 1>we had that was not common what was happening in

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<v Speaker 1>Nashville at that time? Though you got you three or

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<v Speaker 1>now you go, okay, this might be something, but what

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<v Speaker 1>was like the environment like because you guys cut through

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<v Speaker 1>so hard because you were so different. Now you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of created where everyone else has gone, so it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem like you're that different. You guys have opened these

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<v Speaker 1>roads up for a lot of artists nowadays. At the

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<v Speaker 1>time who was popping around town where you're where, They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, You're not like them. We don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if this canna be a thing quite yet. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Nashville was was pretty safe back then. I mean there

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<v Speaker 1>were glimpses of pop in music. I mean you had

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<v Speaker 1>your South sixty fives and your uh forget Marshall Dillon

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<v Speaker 1>was around, but they were definitely trying to be five

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<v Speaker 1>guys that danced and we're bringing trying to bring the

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<v Speaker 1>boy band vibe over the country music and it really

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't resonating because they didn't play instruments. It was it

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<v Speaker 1>felt no offense to those guys that were trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make a living and do something, but it felt contrived, honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>And we were fans of bands that were really great

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<v Speaker 1>harmony bands like Diamond Rio and Shannondoah at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and the Eagles were a huge influence on us. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's really what we were trying to do, was

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<v Speaker 1>bring elements of what we loved about pop music, but

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<v Speaker 1>still great authentic harmonies and the songs, the meat on

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<v Speaker 1>the bone of the songs with something to say in

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<v Speaker 1>a different way. It's really what we tried to hone

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<v Speaker 1>in on and and may the foundation of of what

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<v Speaker 1>we were. We weren't even really trying to be a band.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't set out to do that. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>produce and write and help Gary get a record deal

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<v Speaker 1>so that I could try to be a record producer

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<v Speaker 1>and be successful in in that way. I had already

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<v Speaker 1>done the artist thing and we know how that turned out.

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<v Speaker 1>But the book, but it sort of had no aspirations

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<v Speaker 1>to do another artist thing. I wanted to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>forge a different career. But the more we had a

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<v Speaker 1>following and the more we sang together, it just felt

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<v Speaker 1>like it was evolving into that, let's rewind. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up Pentecostal for a while. My grandmother was Pentecostal.

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<v Speaker 1>You did, Yeah, scary and you know it's for me

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<v Speaker 1>that when they would speak in tongues, that scared the

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<v Speaker 1>crap out of me too. And so I remember going

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<v Speaker 1>and my grandmother who adopted me for a long time, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>and she would speak in tongues and church and it

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<v Speaker 1>never became something that I was just like, oh this

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<v Speaker 1>is I was always scared by it. Um. This that

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<v Speaker 1>that there was so much passion and love in a

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<v Speaker 1>Pentecostal no doubt the most by the way of all

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, my time of of you know, being

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<v Speaker 1>really in the fabric of church, that was that was

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<v Speaker 1>the closest I'd ever seen church. So as much as

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like that scared me, it was also I've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen a close knit group like the Pedocostal church. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what was your experience, because I know that's that was

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<v Speaker 1>a big part of your life, much the same I

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<v Speaker 1>was scared to death. They always told you to bring

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<v Speaker 1>your friends to church, and I'd say to my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>why would I ever scre want my friends to see

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<v Speaker 1>what lunatics you guys act like when you run around

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<v Speaker 1>and speaking tongues and jump all over the pews and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and and I was never and you know this is

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<v Speaker 1>the truth, though I have to say it, I was

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<v Speaker 1>never very very comfortable in that environment because it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the way that I believed that I needed to express

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<v Speaker 1>myself and my beliefs. And it would and it always

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<v Speaker 1>troubled me a little bit. But I admired the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that people were so dedicated to it. And You're absolutely right,

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<v Speaker 1>there was so much love, so much Um. I've always

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I was surrounded by a family of people

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<v Speaker 1>that would do anything in the world for me, even

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<v Speaker 1>though I may not have agreed with exactly how they

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<v Speaker 1>went about it, you know. So for me, I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>that I went through that because it laid a really

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<v Speaker 1>deep foundation to for the groundwork for my faith later

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<v Speaker 1>on in life. And I had to really figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what I believed and why I believed it because I

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<v Speaker 1>knew I didn't believe a bunch of that stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>I was exposed to. And I'm not saying that it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't real. It was real for them, whatever that was.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had to deconstruct my belief system and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why I believed when I believed and not just

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<v Speaker 1>because I was indoctrinated with it when I was a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you start to play music, but you're playing

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<v Speaker 1>Christian music, Now, why why Christian music? Well, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to listen to quote unquote secular music when I

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<v Speaker 1>was a kid, you know. I couldn't listen to Kiss

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<v Speaker 1>and a C. D C. And until later on in life,

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of the kids were listening to that.

0:19:57.640 --> 0:20:01.000
<v Speaker 1>So I went turned to bands like Petra and Milon

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<v Speaker 1>Lefevre and White Heart and bands that were rock but

0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:11.040
<v Speaker 1>we're using a positive christ centered message. Those were my influences.

0:20:11.440 --> 0:20:14.480
<v Speaker 1>And so going to church and believing in God myself

0:20:14.480 --> 0:20:17.320
<v Speaker 1>and believing in Christ myself. I started to write a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of that kind of music, and the more I wrote,

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<v Speaker 1>the more I really got into that and felt like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that was what I was supposed to do. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I got to college and I was working at

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<v Speaker 1>the studio there on on the campus, I was doing

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<v Speaker 1>all kinds of demos and having my roommate Neil sing

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<v Speaker 1>the demos, and I was mailing them to publishers to

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<v Speaker 1>try to get a songwriting deal. And I got a

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<v Speaker 1>call from Benson Records one day, Don Cook at Benson Records,

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<v Speaker 1>not the Country, Don Cook, the ko c H. And

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<v Speaker 1>he said, I love your band. We'd like to bring

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<v Speaker 1>it to town to talk about doing a record on you.

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<v Speaker 1>And of course had to tell him we're not a band.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to get a pub deal. But

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<v Speaker 1>so as you're deciding where to go to school, the

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<v Speaker 1>the these these folks come to you and say, if

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<v Speaker 1>you'll go to school here, we'll pay We'll actually pay

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<v Speaker 1>you away your debt, we'll pay your carpet. Like they say, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna write you about three thousand dollars, but always yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, we're gonna pay if you come to

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<v Speaker 1>school here and perform with the band that was at school. Yeah. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so this this guy was known for hand picking the

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<v Speaker 1>best musicians at the school and putting together a recruiting ensemble.

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<v Speaker 1>So this this particular group of kids would be four

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<v Speaker 1>singers for musicians, a couple of other road crew and things,

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<v Speaker 1>and they we traveled on a on a tour bus,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, we went around the youth camps, convence youth conventions,

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<v Speaker 1>We went around the churches. We went around the camp

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<v Speaker 1>meetings and going in Pentecostal church. I know, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what a camp meeting is. But we would sing and

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<v Speaker 1>then we would talk about the school, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>try to recruit kids to come to the school. We'd

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<v Speaker 1>go overseas. I had the opportunity to see a whole

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of the world at a very young age playing

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<v Speaker 1>with that group. But as long as you played in

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<v Speaker 1>that group, you could keep your scholarship, you could keep

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<v Speaker 1>going to school. And that's kind of what my job was.

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<v Speaker 1>So a lot of these kids that would go home

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<v Speaker 1>for this summer that wasn't me. I toured my all

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<v Speaker 1>of my summers in school, and Neil and I were

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<v Speaker 1>dear friends we became dear friends, and lo and behold

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<v Speaker 1>we ended up in East West together and here is

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<v Speaker 1>uh the number one song from East to West, Prince

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<v Speaker 1>of Peace. How long has mit you heard this? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My lord? Probably years? Probably now as I was doing

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<v Speaker 1>my research about East to West that I look like

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<v Speaker 1>they were more than one lead singer. We both we

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<v Speaker 1>both shared lead, both were doing the lead. What's that

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<v Speaker 1>sort of dynamic when you have dual lead singers. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it worked well for us because I played bass and

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<v Speaker 1>keys too, and then there's no doubt Neil did the

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<v Speaker 1>lion's share of the lead vocals. And I would take

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<v Speaker 1>a verse here or there, and you know, and and

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<v Speaker 1>that sort of thing, and and maybe sing one song

0:23:09.520 --> 0:23:12.840
<v Speaker 1>on the albums I would sing. So it worked really

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<v Speaker 1>really well because I cared, you know, I was such

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<v Speaker 1>a musician and muso head that I wanted to like

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<v Speaker 1>play everything I could and play a lot of it

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<v Speaker 1>on the record, And so I was content to let

0:23:23.880 --> 0:23:25.680
<v Speaker 1>Neil kind of shine and do his own thing. And

0:23:25.720 --> 0:23:29.359
<v Speaker 1>he was a fantastic singer. But it worked well for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Here is welcome to the next level from East to West.

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<v Speaker 1>When you can hear those Mr Mr and go West influences.

0:23:47.760 --> 0:23:51.480
<v Speaker 1>Can't you definitely cant here that era? Yeah, when you're

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<v Speaker 1>in a Christian man, do you get girls, Yes, but

0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:58.760
<v Speaker 1>they've got to be Christians. I was just kidding, but

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<v Speaker 1>at you know, like do you girls like are they

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<v Speaker 1>just are they like? Hey, band, guys, we'd like to

0:24:05.520 --> 0:24:10.080
<v Speaker 1>have fellowship. I mean, let's go to Bible stuff. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, No, It's definitely not like it is in

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<v Speaker 1>country music or pop for sure, but there are girls

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<v Speaker 1>that are hanging around, you know, there are It's funny

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, you're you're dull lead singing and that's

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<v Speaker 1>such a funny question, and you're still going. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm content with playing because I think that's a big

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<v Speaker 1>part of why again, from the outside looking again, why

0:24:33.440 --> 0:24:36.120
<v Speaker 1>Flats has been able to be so wonderful is that

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<v Speaker 1>you can sing, but you're actually okay not being the lead.

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<v Speaker 1>When I stand next to somebody that sings like Gary

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<v Speaker 1>does every night, it's like, what's the point? I love

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<v Speaker 1>to sing and I but I love singing harmony with

0:24:49.119 --> 0:24:51.080
<v Speaker 1>him because I feel like we have something unique and

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<v Speaker 1>he's you know, it's like anything he sings is better

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<v Speaker 1>ten times better than anything I would come up with

0:24:58.240 --> 0:25:00.480
<v Speaker 1>and that's okay. I think one of our drinks is

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<v Speaker 1>we realized what gifts and strengths we all three individually

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<v Speaker 1>bring to the table and we try to lean on

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<v Speaker 1>those with each other. And Uh, you're right. I am

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<v Speaker 1>okay because I get to sing beside one of the

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<v Speaker 1>greatest vocalists I've ever had the privilege of being around

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<v Speaker 1>every night. And that's a treat, you know, for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I would listen to the Google Dolls and they had

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<v Speaker 1>this bassis and these things like one or two cuts

0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:25.760
<v Speaker 1>every record gets so annoyed, like trying to be Johnny

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<v Speaker 1>Resume be the lead singer. You know, I'll get it's

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<v Speaker 1>rare that there's a band. Um. I'll give you a

0:25:31.240 --> 0:25:33.800
<v Speaker 1>couple examples, but they do different things. Lincoln Park had

0:25:33.800 --> 0:25:38.200
<v Speaker 1>two singers. They had uh, Mike Shinoda and they had

0:25:38.520 --> 0:25:41.760
<v Speaker 1>Um Chester Bennington. Chester would be the vocalist straight and

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:44.399
<v Speaker 1>Shea would be like the rapping bear naked ladies that

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<v Speaker 1>Stephen and Ed and Stephen was the big singer and

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<v Speaker 1>Ed was kind of the rappi guy, which Steven got

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<v Speaker 1>kicked out of the band for the whole thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys ever talk about that in flats were like,

0:25:53.720 --> 0:25:58.040
<v Speaker 1>you would do you songs. I didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>that annoying guy. It's like, oh, okay, we know the

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<v Speaker 1>bass player sings too. But I will tell you when

0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:05.720
<v Speaker 1>we played the clubs, you know, we don't have to

0:26:05.760 --> 0:26:08.240
<v Speaker 1>play five hours a night. So we passed around the

0:26:08.320 --> 0:26:11.600
<v Speaker 1>lead vocals a lot more often back then, because it's

0:26:11.640 --> 0:26:14.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot to ask Gary to sing five hours a

0:26:14.119 --> 0:26:16.800
<v Speaker 1>night in in smokey barbers. Back then, you could still

0:26:16.800 --> 0:26:19.680
<v Speaker 1>smoke in the bar rooms, and so we did sing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more. But I saw the value of having

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<v Speaker 1>that lead vocalists established, and the sound that he had

0:26:27.840 --> 0:26:32.440
<v Speaker 1>was so identifiable and so great that it wouldn't it

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't that important to me to have a song

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<v Speaker 1>on the record where I sang. Now, Joe Don and

0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:40.359
<v Speaker 1>I have sung verses here and there on some songs,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just don't think it's that important to either

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<v Speaker 1>one of us to like, oh, look at me, I

0:26:44.800 --> 0:26:47.879
<v Speaker 1>can sing a lead vocal too. I love bands that

0:26:47.920 --> 0:26:51.160
<v Speaker 1>have multiple lead singers, by the way, I mean the Eagles,

0:26:51.480 --> 0:26:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean Lady Annabellum. I love that they all sing.

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:56.879
<v Speaker 1>I love that, you know, we can go back to Chicago,

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<v Speaker 1>Peter Sitter and Bill Champlin and you know Terry Cat

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<v Speaker 1>You know. For me and I related with the first

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<v Speaker 1>part of your book as it starts, because I've just

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<v Speaker 1>I've been at the right place a few times, but

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<v Speaker 1>I've been at that place when it's the wrong place

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<v Speaker 1>many many, many times. And when you just sit there

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<v Speaker 1>and go, man, just can't wait for my shot one day,

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<v Speaker 1>one day, one day, and you know, and all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, I'll give you an example, um, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think your book starts with with a really great story

0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:33.680
<v Speaker 1>about just life in general. Um, just a recent example.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been working on Idol now as a mentor, and

0:29:36.080 --> 0:29:37.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, I have you know, I'm on every episode,

0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 1>have a bit parts. But that's Luke and Katie and

0:29:40.240 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 1>Lionel Show and Ryan Show and I come on and

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:44.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm on tift minutes two hours, which great a great

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:47.600
<v Speaker 1>look for me. But Ryan got sick and they're like,

0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>it's fifteen minutes before the show starts. We need somebody

0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>to host the show, Bob, we need to host American Idol.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like great, Like for fifteen years, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>just waiting for this shot, right, wait and wait, and

0:29:58.920 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, you read the news next day and it's like, wow,

0:30:00.760 --> 0:30:02.280
<v Speaker 1>this guy lucked out. He got I was like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in the wrong place so many times, like

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<v Speaker 1>ten thousand times, nothing's happened. And I find and then

0:30:07.240 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 1>but because of that that one look I got where

0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Ryan got sick. Now a lot of these doors have

0:30:11.720 --> 0:30:14.640
<v Speaker 1>opened up because I got a stage and I was

0:30:14.680 --> 0:30:17.920
<v Speaker 1>able to do relatively well. And and your book starts

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:20.760
<v Speaker 1>with the dude get It's like a dude get six

0:30:20.760 --> 0:30:24.560
<v Speaker 1>snow storm. He's stuck in a snowstorm. Yeah, and you can't.

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:27.960
<v Speaker 1>He can't get there, so you you sing. Yeah. The

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<v Speaker 1>owner of the the venue said, I've got a house

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<v Speaker 1>full of people and no artist. What are we gonna do?

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 1>Can somebody go out and like do a few praise

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 1>worship songs and explain our situation? And I said, I

0:30:40.440 --> 0:30:42.360
<v Speaker 1>got a keyboard, like I can go out and sing

0:30:42.400 --> 0:30:46.920
<v Speaker 1>some songs. And you know, miraculously enough they stayed and

0:30:47.080 --> 0:30:49.320
<v Speaker 1>we ended up doing about an hour, you know, and

0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:52.920
<v Speaker 1>it was one of the first legitimate times I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 1>there's opportunity meeting preparedness, like I had practiced my whole

0:30:56.800 --> 0:31:00.720
<v Speaker 1>entire life for that one moment, really, and I was

0:31:00.760 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 1>a nervous wreck. But you know how those things go.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel confident in your ability and your skill set

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<v Speaker 1>enough to go. I'm a nervous wreck, but I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>overcome and suppress these nerves so I can go to

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<v Speaker 1>go out there and do what I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>meant to do. And I even say that in the book.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a moment where everything slowed down. I took

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:22.719
<v Speaker 1>a deep breath and I was like, yeah, I'm in

0:31:22.720 --> 0:31:24.920
<v Speaker 1>my element. This is what I'm supposed to be doing.

0:31:25.280 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Isn't that crazy? I felt the same way. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like White, I have to one a fifteen minutes. They're like, yeah,

0:31:29.080 --> 0:31:32.160
<v Speaker 1>no time for rehearsal. But about a third of the

0:31:32.200 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 1>way through the show, I went, oh, like, yeah, this

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:37.960
<v Speaker 1>is a big deal. But this is what I've been

0:31:37.960 --> 0:31:40.080
<v Speaker 1>waiting to do, Like I've worked to get here, and

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<v Speaker 1>my skill set is that too? Good on the prompter,

0:31:43.040 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 1>good to the people I know. I know Luke and

0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Lionel really well know Katie a little bit so I

0:31:46.640 --> 0:31:49.640
<v Speaker 1>can talk with them, and well, forget the prompter. You're

0:31:49.640 --> 0:31:52.200
<v Speaker 1>good on your feet too. More importantly, yes, you know

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:54.080
<v Speaker 1>the prompter could go dead, and I'm quite sure you

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<v Speaker 1>could carry the whole show by yourself. And that people,

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<v Speaker 1>It amazes me too, because I've I've done a little

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:01.680
<v Speaker 1>bit that I've done some acting, and I've done a

0:32:01.680 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>little bit of podcasting and hosting some things here and there,

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 1>and I co host the Tennessee Miss Tennessee pageant with

0:32:09.200 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 1>my wife for the past twelve years. And people don't

0:32:12.280 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 1>appreciate how hard it is to get up in front

0:32:15.160 --> 0:32:18.200
<v Speaker 1>of a crowd, especially live television, and have to stretch

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<v Speaker 1>and fill in blank spaces while people are screaming into

0:32:21.280 --> 0:32:23.560
<v Speaker 1>your ears what's coming next and what you need to

0:32:23.600 --> 0:32:25.960
<v Speaker 1>talk about next? And I have to say, even to

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:27.720
<v Speaker 1>this day, you and I don't spend a lot of

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:29.840
<v Speaker 1>time visiting with one another, but you're one of the

0:32:29.840 --> 0:32:32.480
<v Speaker 1>best set and I've ever seen, and and and and I.

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:36.040
<v Speaker 1>You know the future is only gonna get brighter for you. Man,

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 1>you're scratching the surface getting older. I'm older than you.

0:32:40.640 --> 0:32:43.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, your wife, though I like your wife a

0:32:43.200 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 1>lot he's only been super kind to me. She's awesome.

0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:47.880
<v Speaker 1>So she hasn't come through yet with finding me a girlfriend.

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:49.840
<v Speaker 1>Every time I see he's like, I want to set

0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:54.040
<v Speaker 1>you up. Never not once. Well, you know you need

0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 1>to um start a Christian band. Apparently I don't need

0:32:57.000 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 1>this any more. Bad get a girl pregnant, then you

0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:02.520
<v Speaker 1>get kicked out of that said Christian band. So okay,

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:05.240
<v Speaker 1>that was the first story that I and for me

0:33:05.280 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>when I wrote my first book, I just wonder what

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:09.000
<v Speaker 1>they were gonna run with, because you send it out

0:33:09.000 --> 0:33:12.640
<v Speaker 1>to people, it's clickbait, and you go what clickbait? Well

0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:16.320
<v Speaker 1>they create and yours was said, you gotta go up

0:33:16.320 --> 0:33:20.320
<v Speaker 1>pregnant and so at the gap, you're gonna prebay at

0:33:20.320 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 1>the gap you met the gap, although that had been

0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:26.320
<v Speaker 1>a great Ye, that's the clickbait at the gap inter gap.

0:33:26.400 --> 0:33:29.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah in both Yeah, that would have been true. That

0:33:29.320 --> 0:33:32.760
<v Speaker 1>would have been true. Uh, so many places that could

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:36.960
<v Speaker 1>go uh yeah, that was you know, people people have

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.200
<v Speaker 1>said to me, it's hard to believe that you had

0:33:39.240 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 1>sex one time, and there's no reason to make that

0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:45.680
<v Speaker 1>story up. It coulduced as easily say we had sex

0:33:45.680 --> 0:33:47.760
<v Speaker 1>a hundred times. And I ended up getting pregnant with

0:33:47.760 --> 0:33:50.120
<v Speaker 1>the same result. But it is the truth. It was

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 1>one time condom broke. My life turned around in one instant,

0:33:55.360 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 1>and everybody that had anything to do with me in

0:33:57.880 --> 0:34:02.400
<v Speaker 1>my career at that point in my life, um, most

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:05.000
<v Speaker 1>of the people. There were some great friends that stood

0:34:05.000 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 1>by me and supported me and loved me no matter what.

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:10.320
<v Speaker 1>But most of the people, some of whom had jobs

0:34:10.360 --> 0:34:13.360
<v Speaker 1>because of my career scattered. I got dropped by my

0:34:13.400 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 1>record label, management, booking agency at all, just went away.

0:34:17.920 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>And I say this, I believe all too often people

0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:24.920
<v Speaker 1>that call themselves Christians kill their wounded instead of nursing

0:34:24.920 --> 0:34:27.880
<v Speaker 1>them back to health and making sure that they're okay.

0:34:27.920 --> 0:34:32.000
<v Speaker 1>And that's what pisces me off so much about organized religion.

0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:35.600
<v Speaker 1>It's so judgmental, and it's so easy to cast a

0:34:35.680 --> 0:34:38.920
<v Speaker 1>stone at somebody when they've got a million problems of

0:34:38.960 --> 0:34:42.640
<v Speaker 1>their own and they battle millions of demons themselves. And

0:34:42.680 --> 0:34:44.319
<v Speaker 1>that's what I wanted to write the book for us

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:46.520
<v Speaker 1>to say there's a different side to being a believer,

0:34:46.600 --> 0:34:49.560
<v Speaker 1>and being a believer doesn't mean that you're perfect. It's

0:34:49.600 --> 0:34:52.800
<v Speaker 1>actually quite the opposite. It's admitting that we're all flawed

0:34:52.880 --> 0:34:56.120
<v Speaker 1>human beings that need help. I don't believe any of

0:34:56.239 --> 0:34:58.319
<v Speaker 1>us are meant to live through this life alone and

0:34:58.440 --> 0:35:02.040
<v Speaker 1>handle all of this crow by ourselves. You know. It's

0:35:02.040 --> 0:35:05.120
<v Speaker 1>almost that their strength and vulnerability, you know, the same

0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:06.719
<v Speaker 1>thing that you're saying right there, like we think that

0:35:07.440 --> 0:35:10.680
<v Speaker 1>the right thing is to be the right whatever right means.

0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:16.480
<v Speaker 1>By the way, it was um but yeah, right? So

0:35:16.480 --> 0:35:18.360
<v Speaker 1>so the only sex are one time Connor broke? Did

0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:20.440
<v Speaker 1>you know immediately the Connor broke? I knew it. I

0:35:20.480 --> 0:35:23.320
<v Speaker 1>knew it broken. You know, we're getting down in the

0:35:23.360 --> 0:35:26.080
<v Speaker 1>weeds here, Yeah, we are, we are. Did you have

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:30.120
<v Speaker 1>the pop? Well? I I realized after we had finished,

0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:33.880
<v Speaker 1>and I freaked out so badly. She she left. She

0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:36.319
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to anything to do with me. She was like,

0:35:36.640 --> 0:35:39.920
<v Speaker 1>you're freaking me out. This is so weird. It's not

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:43.040
<v Speaker 1>like that these things don't happen. It's gonna be okay.

0:35:43.320 --> 0:35:45.320
<v Speaker 1>I said, you don't understand. And I was really freaking

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:48.960
<v Speaker 1>out because I'd made a commitment to myself and and

0:35:49.080 --> 0:35:51.560
<v Speaker 1>the that's trying to do it the right way. I

0:35:51.600 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>was gonna wait till I was married, have have sex

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:56.920
<v Speaker 1>on the wedding night, do the whole thing that you're

0:35:56.920 --> 0:36:00.080
<v Speaker 1>taught to do when you're a Bible believing Chris. And

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:02.440
<v Speaker 1>then I wanted that was important to me and I

0:36:02.600 --> 0:36:04.440
<v Speaker 1>failed in that. But this much the first time I

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:07.520
<v Speaker 1>have sex ever. Though well during while I was in

0:36:07.560 --> 0:36:10.680
<v Speaker 1>the Christian band, though I definitely lived when I was

0:36:10.680 --> 0:36:13.520
<v Speaker 1>trying to stand for you know, but when you're in

0:36:13.520 --> 0:36:16.240
<v Speaker 1>the Christian band, like like, would you have sex with girls?

0:36:17.560 --> 0:36:19.480
<v Speaker 1>No good for you? I did before. I mean when

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 1>I was in college, I went through a phase where

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 1>I lost my mind. But when I when I was

0:36:24.200 --> 0:36:26.920
<v Speaker 1>in the Christian band, I was very good about and

0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:28.719
<v Speaker 1>I dated a girl that was in a that was

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:32.160
<v Speaker 1>a Christian artist too, so it was easy for us

0:36:32.200 --> 0:36:34.319
<v Speaker 1>to help keep each other in check and make sure

0:36:34.360 --> 0:36:37.279
<v Speaker 1>we didn't cross those lines that we couldn't, you know,

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:40.640
<v Speaker 1>we wanted to. But that's a good though, because I'm

0:36:40.680 --> 0:36:42.200
<v Speaker 1>a big believer, and if you surround yourself with the

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:44.520
<v Speaker 1>best people, then you do make the best decisions. So

0:36:44.560 --> 0:36:46.600
<v Speaker 1>if you have her with you, and they doesn't have

0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:49.759
<v Speaker 1>to be this one even instance, but if if she's

0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:58.879
<v Speaker 1>a good influence on you, it makes you make good decisions. Ah,

0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:00.839
<v Speaker 1>you go to college, you said you lose your mind

0:37:00.880 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 1>in college a little bit. Yeah, I definitely was one

0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:06.319
<v Speaker 1>of those kids that had been sheltered a little bit.

0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:09.960
<v Speaker 1>And I always and you know, I tell the story

0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 1>about my mom and how she struggled as a single parent.

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:14.879
<v Speaker 1>I always tried to keep my nose clean as a

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 1>as a teenager and as a kid growing up, because

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:21.200
<v Speaker 1>I saw what my mom was doing to make sacrifices

0:37:21.239 --> 0:37:25.279
<v Speaker 1>to make sure our life was good. And so I

0:37:25.320 --> 0:37:27.760
<v Speaker 1>didn't do a whole lot of partying in high school.

0:37:28.000 --> 0:37:30.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't, you know, I kept my nose pretty clean.

0:37:31.239 --> 0:37:34.440
<v Speaker 1>I did have sex when I was seventeen with my girlfriend,

0:37:34.480 --> 0:37:36.359
<v Speaker 1>but I felt really guilty about it and never did

0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:38.480
<v Speaker 1>it again. But then I got to college and I

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:41.800
<v Speaker 1>was around a whole group of like minded people like

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>the party a little bit, started hanging out with some

0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:49.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, pastor's girls, or when they when they get

0:37:49.560 --> 0:37:52.560
<v Speaker 1>out of the nest, they like to get out and um,

0:37:52.600 --> 0:37:56.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, test that newfound freedom. And there were moments

0:37:56.280 --> 0:37:57.919
<v Speaker 1>that I'm not proud of. I went through a lot

0:37:57.960 --> 0:38:03.279
<v Speaker 1>of you know, um, what, what's the word I'm looking for?

0:38:03.520 --> 0:38:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Debauchery in college. I think we should shout out your

0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:09.480
<v Speaker 1>mom real quick. Because you do mentioned that single mom

0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:12.000
<v Speaker 1>work two jobs and to put you in a Christian

0:38:12.000 --> 0:38:14.839
<v Speaker 1>private school, like you're broke and she's working to put

0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you in school, which showed what she valued for you

0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:23.839
<v Speaker 1>are a kid, and I mean that's a not even

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:25.840
<v Speaker 1>just a clothes on you, but also make sure you

0:38:25.840 --> 0:38:29.120
<v Speaker 1>get into a Christian school. I know it was remarkable

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:31.759
<v Speaker 1>now when I look back on it, and you know,

0:38:31.800 --> 0:38:33.600
<v Speaker 1>not until later on in life did she tell me

0:38:33.640 --> 0:38:36.000
<v Speaker 1>how much money she would have left in her wallet

0:38:36.080 --> 0:38:38.360
<v Speaker 1>or how much food we would really have in the

0:38:38.400 --> 0:38:41.359
<v Speaker 1>pantry that she was going and how in the world

0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:43.719
<v Speaker 1>am I gonna make this last through the weekend? Living

0:38:43.760 --> 0:38:48.560
<v Speaker 1>paycheck to paycheck. Somehow, some way it all came together,

0:38:48.600 --> 0:38:52.200
<v Speaker 1>and she would she told me stories that's unbelievable about

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:57.440
<v Speaker 1>boxes of groceries showing up on our front porch and

0:38:57.520 --> 0:39:00.520
<v Speaker 1>she would not know where they had come from. Things

0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:03.160
<v Speaker 1>like that that I had no knowledge of until much

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:05.799
<v Speaker 1>later on in life. You know, it's wild you say

0:39:05.840 --> 0:39:09.080
<v Speaker 1>that because for me growing up, we that we I

0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:11.400
<v Speaker 1>finally figured out who it was, but it was the church.

0:39:11.640 --> 0:39:14.600
<v Speaker 1>They would drop off Christmas presents and food and the

0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:17.719
<v Speaker 1>p t A because you know, my mom or my

0:39:17.800 --> 0:39:21.040
<v Speaker 1>grandmother when she was just raising me and my little sister.

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:24.200
<v Speaker 1>They would know, they would drop it off and we

0:39:24.200 --> 0:39:26.000
<v Speaker 1>would get to eat. Or I remember once for Christmas,

0:39:26.040 --> 0:39:27.799
<v Speaker 1>I got a color by Number paints. It was only gift.

0:39:27.800 --> 0:39:30.120
<v Speaker 1>I got the whole year color by Number paint set

0:39:30.120 --> 0:39:32.600
<v Speaker 1>and I painted it was the stupidest duck, but it

0:39:32.640 --> 0:39:34.360
<v Speaker 1>was the best duck ever painted like it was my

0:39:34.440 --> 0:39:36.719
<v Speaker 1>Christmas gift. And the church brought it and left it

0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:38.080
<v Speaker 1>at the door with a bow on it and didn't

0:39:38.120 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 1>say who. Well, I we found out it was a church.

0:39:41.000 --> 0:39:42.880
<v Speaker 1>But it's funny you say that because a lot of

0:39:42.880 --> 0:39:45.800
<v Speaker 1>those stories zoo Man, and I think those have lasted

0:39:45.840 --> 0:39:48.520
<v Speaker 1>with me to how I tried to treat people too.

0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:50.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it has for you, like if

0:39:50.280 --> 0:39:55.640
<v Speaker 1>that's left in impression with you. Definitely, it definitely makes

0:39:55.640 --> 0:39:57.400
<v Speaker 1>me think about the way that I treat people. But

0:39:57.480 --> 0:40:00.400
<v Speaker 1>it also I think has allowed me to live in

0:40:01.040 --> 0:40:03.279
<v Speaker 1>the moments and the life that I've been able to

0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:06.800
<v Speaker 1>live and appreciate it to a deeper level too, maybe

0:40:06.800 --> 0:40:10.480
<v Speaker 1>than some others would, because I wake up every day

0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:14.320
<v Speaker 1>and this is no joke, thanking God for the chance

0:40:14.440 --> 0:40:16.520
<v Speaker 1>to do what we've been able to do for nearly

0:40:16.560 --> 0:40:20.239
<v Speaker 1>twenty years now, which is almost in heard of too

0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:23.040
<v Speaker 1>in this day and age. But I really don't take

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:26.680
<v Speaker 1>it for granted because I feel so blessed, far beyond

0:40:26.760 --> 0:40:29.640
<v Speaker 1>what I ever imagined I would have been and it

0:40:29.760 --> 0:40:31.520
<v Speaker 1>and it's not lost on me how hard it is

0:40:31.560 --> 0:40:33.719
<v Speaker 1>to make it in the music industry. You see it

0:40:33.800 --> 0:40:35.839
<v Speaker 1>all the time, how many people come to this town

0:40:35.960 --> 0:40:39.360
<v Speaker 1>every single day hoping for a career in the music business.

0:40:39.480 --> 0:40:43.480
<v Speaker 1>And I'm just so grateful to be able to look

0:40:43.520 --> 0:40:46.440
<v Speaker 1>back on all I have been through, but to know

0:40:46.760 --> 0:40:49.920
<v Speaker 1>that all of that was for a very necessary reason,

0:40:50.120 --> 0:40:51.680
<v Speaker 1>and now on the other side of it, I can

0:40:51.719 --> 0:40:54.279
<v Speaker 1>really look at it and go thank you, thank you,

0:40:54.320 --> 0:40:58.960
<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you God so much. Mhmm. You talk

0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:05.200
<v Speaker 1>about being twenty years in twenty years and to to

0:41:05.360 --> 0:41:09.040
<v Speaker 1>maintain a level of success for that long, But I

0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:11.440
<v Speaker 1>look back at like your first let let's play your

0:41:11.440 --> 0:41:14.319
<v Speaker 1>first thing over here, let's let's go back, let's go,

0:41:14.400 --> 0:41:17.040
<v Speaker 1>let's go, let's do I have the whole thing here,

0:41:17.080 --> 0:41:24.440
<v Speaker 1>let's do uh. These days before the video was shot,

0:41:24.480 --> 0:41:28.840
<v Speaker 1>as you right, you that are well? You thought you

0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:32.000
<v Speaker 1>had a heart attack. Yeah, I was dealing with panic

0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:35.040
<v Speaker 1>attacks pretty badly in my mid to late twenties, and

0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I would have them periodically, but this one was a

0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:39.920
<v Speaker 1>really bad one and I thought I was having a

0:41:39.920 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 1>heart attack. So I drove myself to St. Thomas and

0:41:43.120 --> 0:41:45.040
<v Speaker 1>I spent most of the night there. But this is

0:41:45.040 --> 0:41:47.960
<v Speaker 1>also right before the video, Right before the video shore, Yeah.

0:41:47.960 --> 0:41:50.040
<v Speaker 1>I called our manager and said I don't think, I think,

0:41:50.719 --> 0:41:52.759
<v Speaker 1>and he was like, yeah, it's a bigger deal than

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:56.280
<v Speaker 1>what you think to just move a whole entire video shoot.

0:41:56.600 --> 0:41:58.759
<v Speaker 1>And I said, well, I'm exhausted. I've been at the

0:41:58.760 --> 0:42:01.719
<v Speaker 1>hospital all night. They've been in blood tests and I

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:03.719
<v Speaker 1>don't think I can make it, and he goes, come

0:42:03.719 --> 0:42:05.520
<v Speaker 1>in as late as you can, but please do your

0:42:05.520 --> 0:42:07.839
<v Speaker 1>best to be there because we we we can't move

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:12.760
<v Speaker 1>these times. And I showed up and sat down beside

0:42:12.760 --> 0:42:15.759
<v Speaker 1>Allison in the makeup chair. And that, by the way,

0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:19.120
<v Speaker 1>is your wife. Now, as the book says, she wasn't

0:42:19.120 --> 0:42:22.360
<v Speaker 1>getting listen. I'm oppressure a little bit about this because

0:42:22.560 --> 0:42:24.480
<v Speaker 1>you sit down in a makeup chair as you go,

0:42:24.560 --> 0:42:26.600
<v Speaker 1>and you're tired, and you've had a heart attack slash

0:42:26.600 --> 0:42:29.640
<v Speaker 1>panic attack the night before first video. You sit down

0:42:29.800 --> 0:42:33.360
<v Speaker 1>they're gonna make you pretty. And there she is, and

0:42:33.719 --> 0:42:36.239
<v Speaker 1>what do you say? I said, Hey, how are you doing?

0:42:36.320 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 1>She's like fine, nothing back, like playing tennis by herself.

0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:45.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, she doesn't have a ring on the or

0:42:45.600 --> 0:42:47.839
<v Speaker 1>take it off with the video. It's exactly right. So

0:42:47.880 --> 0:42:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'll try again. Where are you from, Jackson, Tennessee? Again?

0:42:55.120 --> 0:42:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Playing tennis by yourself? Nothing? No lab back? Where are

0:42:58.440 --> 0:43:01.359
<v Speaker 1>you from? Oh COLUMBUSO? Oh, I'm glad you asked. You know.

0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm just sitting there, like working so hard, you know,

0:43:04.840 --> 0:43:07.319
<v Speaker 1>Like so if have you heard the song before? And

0:43:07.360 --> 0:43:09.960
<v Speaker 1>she's like, I don't really listen to country music. I

0:43:10.000 --> 0:43:13.040
<v Speaker 1>think I heard one of your songs like called waiting

0:43:13.040 --> 0:43:18.000
<v Speaker 1>for Midnight, Like, well, actually it's Praying for Daylight. A

0:43:18.080 --> 0:43:21.440
<v Speaker 1>really big fan, I can tell. So uh is she was?

0:43:21.600 --> 0:43:25.319
<v Speaker 1>She was not cold? But stand office, you know, And

0:43:25.360 --> 0:43:28.439
<v Speaker 1>now looking back, I understand why. But as the day

0:43:28.480 --> 0:43:30.800
<v Speaker 1>went on and the longer the weights were in between

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:34.719
<v Speaker 1>each setup and each take, we started to talk and

0:43:34.960 --> 0:43:38.360
<v Speaker 1>I really really enjoyed her company. Let me stop you

0:43:38.400 --> 0:43:41.160
<v Speaker 1>for a second, but stand office because she was engaged, right.

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:43.719
<v Speaker 1>I just didn't know that. I did not know that.

0:43:43.960 --> 0:43:46.040
<v Speaker 1>In my defense, I did not know that. And so

0:43:46.080 --> 0:43:47.560
<v Speaker 1>you guys are shooting the video and you're getting to

0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:50.040
<v Speaker 1>know each other and you're you're you're feeling a vibe. Yeah,

0:43:50.760 --> 0:43:52.839
<v Speaker 1>I mean, all I know is I like being around her.

0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:55.520
<v Speaker 1>And she was hot. She was hot. I mean she

0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:59.440
<v Speaker 1>was really hot. She just you know, um, And so

0:43:59.480 --> 0:44:01.480
<v Speaker 1>I would go find her. I would seek her out

0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:03.760
<v Speaker 1>and I'd sit down beside her. And she was mildly

0:44:03.800 --> 0:44:08.160
<v Speaker 1>annoyed by me, I could tell. But you know, I'm

0:44:08.280 --> 0:44:10.960
<v Speaker 1>kind of quick on my feet and funny and make

0:44:11.040 --> 0:44:13.160
<v Speaker 1>people laugh. And I started to make her laugh some

0:44:13.400 --> 0:44:15.640
<v Speaker 1>and well, she's not impressed by the music thing. She

0:44:15.800 --> 0:44:19.480
<v Speaker 1>could have cared less. Absolutely could have was hired to

0:44:19.480 --> 0:44:22.360
<v Speaker 1>be in the video. You guys here they are Nashville

0:44:22.480 --> 0:44:25.839
<v Speaker 1>signed ba bam ba boom. This is nothing. Huh. She

0:44:25.880 --> 0:44:28.120
<v Speaker 1>could have cared less. I'm telling you, it was amazing.

0:44:28.480 --> 0:44:31.440
<v Speaker 1>And I was like anything that a younger me or

0:44:31.480 --> 0:44:35.400
<v Speaker 1>any younger musician would use to, you know, to impress

0:44:35.520 --> 0:44:37.759
<v Speaker 1>a young lady, you know, like, hey, look at me, Well,

0:44:37.800 --> 0:44:42.240
<v Speaker 1>don't I look sexy when I play nothing? I mean nothing, nothing.

0:44:42.640 --> 0:44:45.200
<v Speaker 1>And so at the end of the night, we're talking

0:44:45.840 --> 0:44:47.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm on a truck bed with her. I never on

0:44:47.960 --> 0:44:50.840
<v Speaker 1>a tailgate. When I'm sitting there, like, I hate this

0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:53.239
<v Speaker 1>because like after we wrap, I'm never gonna get to

0:44:53.280 --> 0:44:56.520
<v Speaker 1>see you again. This is sucks. It's been really great

0:44:56.560 --> 0:44:59.680
<v Speaker 1>talking to you. And she said, well, actually I'm I

0:44:59.760 --> 0:45:02.160
<v Speaker 1>mean gauged. And I know that you didn't know that

0:45:02.200 --> 0:45:04.040
<v Speaker 1>because it made me take my ring off. But I'm

0:45:04.040 --> 0:45:06.760
<v Speaker 1>getting married in about a month or so, a couple

0:45:06.760 --> 0:45:10.879
<v Speaker 1>of months whatever it was, four months, believe you say, yeah,

0:45:11.160 --> 0:45:14.400
<v Speaker 1>that sounds about right. Yeah, And so I was just like,

0:45:15.320 --> 0:45:18.880
<v Speaker 1>this is terrible. But she's been really really nice to

0:45:18.920 --> 0:45:22.200
<v Speaker 1>me tonight, and she's talked to me and we've shared

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:25.360
<v Speaker 1>and she finally goes, can I go on your bus

0:45:25.360 --> 0:45:27.520
<v Speaker 1>and use the restroom before I leave so I don't

0:45:27.560 --> 0:45:29.520
<v Speaker 1>have to use the porta potty? And I was like, absolutely,

0:45:29.520 --> 0:45:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I'll take you up. So while she's in using the restroom,

0:45:33.480 --> 0:45:35.360
<v Speaker 1>I pull on a piece of paper and write my

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:37.480
<v Speaker 1>phone number down and I handed it to her and

0:45:37.480 --> 0:45:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I said, listen, I know you're gonna ask for this anyway,

0:45:40.040 --> 0:45:42.200
<v Speaker 1>so I'm gonna go ahead and give this to just

0:45:42.320 --> 0:45:45.760
<v Speaker 1>like that too, you know, really cheesy, And she takes

0:45:45.800 --> 0:45:48.640
<v Speaker 1>it and she goes. My daddy raised me never call boys,

0:45:49.000 --> 0:45:50.279
<v Speaker 1>but if you want to get in touch with me,

0:45:50.360 --> 0:45:54.839
<v Speaker 1>this is my number. And I just thought, man, who's

0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:56.839
<v Speaker 1>going to give their number to somebody if there isn't

0:45:56.880 --> 0:45:59.520
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of chink in the armor and armor there?

0:45:59.560 --> 0:46:02.880
<v Speaker 1>So I kept calling her. She never called me back, honestly,

0:46:03.480 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 1>and I ran into her at the Old Green Hills Grill,

0:46:06.920 --> 0:46:09.400
<v Speaker 1>and I ran into her again at another restaurant. I

0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:11.120
<v Speaker 1>forget where we were at that time. Was she ever

0:46:11.160 --> 0:46:13.319
<v Speaker 1>with her fiance and she was never with him. She

0:46:13.440 --> 0:46:15.319
<v Speaker 1>was with her mom and her grandmother and a and

0:46:15.360 --> 0:46:19.319
<v Speaker 1>a friend another time, and I ran into her and

0:46:19.360 --> 0:46:21.239
<v Speaker 1>I the second time, and I called her and I said,

0:46:21.280 --> 0:46:23.319
<v Speaker 1>this is the last time I'll call. I promise. But

0:46:23.360 --> 0:46:25.359
<v Speaker 1>if that isn't a sign that we shouldn't, at least

0:46:25.440 --> 0:46:27.799
<v Speaker 1>like go to lunch, I don't know what it is.

0:46:27.880 --> 0:46:31.160
<v Speaker 1>So let's just go to lunch. And we went to lunch,

0:46:31.239 --> 0:46:33.560
<v Speaker 1>and honest to god, we sat there for five and

0:46:33.600 --> 0:46:35.839
<v Speaker 1>a half hours. We met at noon when she left

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:40.239
<v Speaker 1>there at five thirty, and it was really like I'd

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:44.040
<v Speaker 1>known her my entire life, Honestly, it was so easy

0:46:44.360 --> 0:46:48.839
<v Speaker 1>and so fun and natural, and you know, now we're

0:46:48.840 --> 0:46:50.760
<v Speaker 1>old and sick of each other. But at the time

0:46:51.000 --> 0:46:53.399
<v Speaker 1>it was I'm kidding. Have you thought that she never

0:46:53.480 --> 0:46:56.880
<v Speaker 1>had a fiance and this whole thing was a no no,

0:46:57.000 --> 0:47:03.239
<v Speaker 1>I know him? So uh the guys did just to

0:47:03.600 --> 0:47:07.040
<v Speaker 1>break it off? Huh, Well it was you know, I

0:47:07.080 --> 0:47:08.759
<v Speaker 1>think that I was more of the straw that broke

0:47:08.800 --> 0:47:11.480
<v Speaker 1>the camel's back. It was headed that way anyway. And

0:47:11.560 --> 0:47:13.360
<v Speaker 1>she she did tell me, she said, I need to

0:47:13.360 --> 0:47:15.480
<v Speaker 1>sort my life out. I've had fun with you, and

0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I definitely loved being around you, but I've got to

0:47:18.040 --> 0:47:20.279
<v Speaker 1>make some big decisions and decide what I'm doing with

0:47:20.320 --> 0:47:23.360
<v Speaker 1>my life here. And so she cut it, shut it

0:47:23.400 --> 0:47:26.200
<v Speaker 1>down with me for a long time. And one day

0:47:26.200 --> 0:47:28.200
<v Speaker 1>I got a call from her saying that she had

0:47:28.239 --> 0:47:32.120
<v Speaker 1>told her dad she couldn't get married. And we went

0:47:32.160 --> 0:47:35.520
<v Speaker 1>to dinner and we're never apart after that. Here we

0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:39.400
<v Speaker 1>are fifteen years tomorrow. Is that right? Congratulations we got

0:47:39.640 --> 0:47:43.960
<v Speaker 1>on your big anniversary. Well, we gotta leaves. I don't know,

0:47:44.160 --> 0:47:47.600
<v Speaker 1>let's find someone ask him stop. You know how much

0:47:47.640 --> 0:47:50.000
<v Speaker 1>kids cost, and you've seen my wife, you know how

0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:53.040
<v Speaker 1>much money she spends. I need a gig on idol

0:47:53.120 --> 0:47:55.920
<v Speaker 1>or something. Can you get me another judge spots off it?

0:47:58.840 --> 0:48:00.880
<v Speaker 1>You know, I remember watching because I was over in

0:48:00.960 --> 0:48:03.960
<v Speaker 1>Pop whenever you guys crossed over, Um so I was.

0:48:04.440 --> 0:48:06.160
<v Speaker 1>I grew up in Arkansas. I was a die hard

0:48:06.160 --> 0:48:07.560
<v Speaker 1>country family. When I went to Pop, I kind of

0:48:07.640 --> 0:48:09.399
<v Speaker 1>checked out a bit because I was just consumed by

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:12.160
<v Speaker 1>what I was doing with my work, and you guys

0:48:12.400 --> 0:48:14.560
<v Speaker 1>what hurts the most. It was a big country and

0:48:14.560 --> 0:48:16.160
<v Speaker 1>then started to creep into my world a bit, right,

0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:21.840
<v Speaker 1>So I remember watching you guys on Yester Dear. I

0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:24.320
<v Speaker 1>suppose it was up for a daytime Emmy wasn't it

0:48:24.560 --> 0:48:26.719
<v Speaker 1>performance on there? Listen? And I remember thinking, oh, I

0:48:26.760 --> 0:48:28.719
<v Speaker 1>like these guys, because I mean I can remember it vividly.

0:48:29.040 --> 0:48:34.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, yesterday was a sitcom and uh, they you

0:48:34.120 --> 0:48:36.560
<v Speaker 1>guys like showed up and they were trying to get

0:48:36.560 --> 0:48:39.879
<v Speaker 1>into your show and then you stole our limo. Yeah,

0:48:39.880 --> 0:48:41.920
<v Speaker 1>and they got and you guys, but then you're all

0:48:41.960 --> 0:48:45.080
<v Speaker 1>right riding together in the back of the car. That

0:48:45.080 --> 0:48:47.960
<v Speaker 1>that's funny. That's I think my first like real moment

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:50.839
<v Speaker 1>of knowing who you guys faces were. I'm still dear

0:48:50.880 --> 0:48:54.040
<v Speaker 1>friends with Liza Snyder from that show. We we forged

0:48:54.040 --> 0:48:57.719
<v Speaker 1>a really great friendship from that show, and that's a

0:48:57.880 --> 0:49:00.080
<v Speaker 1>favorite memory of mine. That was a fun shoot. It

0:49:00.120 --> 0:49:03.799
<v Speaker 1>was about three days. Well, so you're making it over

0:49:03.840 --> 0:49:06.000
<v Speaker 1>in country, but it's gotta be a whole different world

0:49:06.120 --> 0:49:10.839
<v Speaker 1>once all of uh like like, oh yeah, boulders are

0:49:10.880 --> 0:49:15.279
<v Speaker 1>falling instead of it was weird, man, when when What

0:49:15.440 --> 0:49:19.800
<v Speaker 1>Hurts the Most was number one on UM Top forty radio.

0:49:21.000 --> 0:49:23.400
<v Speaker 1>It was a moment that I'll never forget because we

0:49:23.440 --> 0:49:26.680
<v Speaker 1>started getting calls to then go to which was unheard

0:49:26.680 --> 0:49:28.680
<v Speaker 1>of back then. You it was a different time, not

0:49:28.760 --> 0:49:30.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot of Like now you'll see a lot of

0:49:30.880 --> 0:49:33.600
<v Speaker 1>country acts like Dan and Shaye and Florida Georgia Line

0:49:33.640 --> 0:49:36.200
<v Speaker 1>and folks like that and a little big town at

0:49:36.200 --> 0:49:38.120
<v Speaker 1>the A M A S and at the Grammys and things.

0:49:38.160 --> 0:49:41.600
<v Speaker 1>It just wasn't that common back in uh, you know,

0:49:42.080 --> 0:49:45.600
<v Speaker 1>fifteen years ago. And we were getting calls to do

0:49:45.640 --> 0:49:48.960
<v Speaker 1>those shows People's Choice Awards, you know, and it was like, wow,

0:49:49.040 --> 0:49:51.640
<v Speaker 1>this is cool. This is beyond the scope of the

0:49:51.680 --> 0:49:53.400
<v Speaker 1>c M as, the c M T s and the

0:49:53.600 --> 0:49:56.640
<v Speaker 1>A c M s, which we love. But we were

0:49:56.680 --> 0:49:59.640
<v Speaker 1>opened up and exposed to another whole a whole another

0:49:59.680 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 1>war old. And I remember sitting on the floor of

0:50:03.239 --> 0:50:06.600
<v Speaker 1>the American Music Awards with Gary and Gary sitting next

0:50:06.600 --> 0:50:08.719
<v Speaker 1>to me, and he nudged me and he goes, would

0:50:08.760 --> 0:50:10.400
<v Speaker 1>you have ever thought we'd be able to do this?

0:50:10.960 --> 0:50:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Sit in this room with jay Z, Beyonce, Madonna, Lady Gaga,

0:50:15.760 --> 0:50:18.359
<v Speaker 1>all of these people, And he said, I'm gonna lay

0:50:18.360 --> 0:50:21.640
<v Speaker 1>something on you you haven't thought about. I said, what

0:50:22.320 --> 0:50:24.879
<v Speaker 1>this was the year two thousand six? He said, We've

0:50:24.880 --> 0:50:29.879
<v Speaker 1>sold more records this year than anybody in this room.

0:50:29.920 --> 0:50:32.560
<v Speaker 1>And it stopped me in my tracks. And he wasn't

0:50:32.640 --> 0:50:37.000
<v Speaker 1>saying it to be boastful or to like be you know,

0:50:37.400 --> 0:50:40.719
<v Speaker 1>braggadocious about it. He was saying, can you believe what

0:50:40.760 --> 0:50:44.520
<v Speaker 1>we've done outside of just being in country music? And

0:50:44.520 --> 0:50:47.399
<v Speaker 1>it was overwhelming to me. I never will forget that night,

0:50:47.800 --> 0:50:50.680
<v Speaker 1>in that moment that we shared during the commercial break there,

0:50:50.719 --> 0:50:52.600
<v Speaker 1>which is the two of us, it was so cool.

0:50:52.880 --> 0:50:56.120
<v Speaker 1>Did you guys get crap for being a mainstream success

0:50:56.239 --> 0:51:02.800
<v Speaker 1>from any of the Nashville you know, hardcore country folks.

0:51:03.960 --> 0:51:07.160
<v Speaker 1>Not really, No, not to be honest, we didn't. We had,

0:51:07.560 --> 0:51:11.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean people, I felt like we're you know, except

0:51:11.080 --> 0:51:14.400
<v Speaker 1>for the moment there when the song was released Murder

0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:17.480
<v Speaker 1>on music Row and they talked about pop coming over

0:51:17.520 --> 0:51:19.799
<v Speaker 1>an infiltrating country. It was a little bit of a

0:51:19.800 --> 0:51:22.799
<v Speaker 1>movement there, but most people rallied around us and got

0:51:22.840 --> 0:51:25.400
<v Speaker 1>behind us. And you know, there was a there was

0:51:25.440 --> 0:51:28.280
<v Speaker 1>a batch of us doing something different, and Keith Urban

0:51:28.360 --> 0:51:31.560
<v Speaker 1>and in Us and and Shadaisy at the time, and

0:51:31.600 --> 0:51:34.640
<v Speaker 1>a few people that were putting poppy or elements into

0:51:34.680 --> 0:51:37.520
<v Speaker 1>the country music. And I feel like they welcomed it,

0:51:37.640 --> 0:51:40.640
<v Speaker 1>and it was you know, some of the critics, of course,

0:51:40.760 --> 0:51:43.279
<v Speaker 1>derided us early on and we got a bad rap,

0:51:43.360 --> 0:51:45.839
<v Speaker 1>but most of the people in the music industry were

0:51:45.880 --> 0:51:48.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of excited that there was kind of a new

0:51:48.160 --> 0:51:51.640
<v Speaker 1>movement coming along, you know. And Bless the Broken Road

0:51:51.800 --> 0:51:54.240
<v Speaker 1>another song that crept into my life and then slammed

0:51:54.280 --> 0:51:59.360
<v Speaker 1>into my life. I played it all the time on

0:51:59.400 --> 0:52:02.479
<v Speaker 1>pop radio. Yeah. I mean, you guys are a full

0:52:02.520 --> 0:52:06.480
<v Speaker 1>fledged not that you're not country, but you're a pop

0:52:06.520 --> 0:52:09.279
<v Speaker 1>act at this time, Like it was just expected. When's

0:52:09.320 --> 0:52:10.799
<v Speaker 1>that I'm talking about from my side, when's the next

0:52:10.880 --> 0:52:14.839
<v Speaker 1>Rascal Flat song coming out? It's really cool to hear

0:52:14.880 --> 0:52:17.080
<v Speaker 1>you say that, because I don't think a lot of

0:52:17.120 --> 0:52:21.680
<v Speaker 1>people are saying that today, you know. I mean it

0:52:21.760 --> 0:52:25.120
<v Speaker 1>was we We had that sweet spot where you're kind

0:52:25.120 --> 0:52:28.880
<v Speaker 1>of in adell, you know, and you just sit there

0:52:28.920 --> 0:52:31.720
<v Speaker 1>in it and soak it all up, because it seems

0:52:31.760 --> 0:52:33.839
<v Speaker 1>like you have a moment in time where you put

0:52:33.840 --> 0:52:36.560
<v Speaker 1>a song out it resonates with people, and you have

0:52:36.640 --> 0:52:38.360
<v Speaker 1>your fingers crossed, and you put another one out and

0:52:38.400 --> 0:52:40.759
<v Speaker 1>it resonates with people, and then you start to get

0:52:40.800 --> 0:52:44.160
<v Speaker 1>scared that you're that you're gonna be in this spot

0:52:44.239 --> 0:52:45.759
<v Speaker 1>to where you're never gonna be able to put another

0:52:45.800 --> 0:52:49.080
<v Speaker 1>song at that resonates with anybody. And it was such

0:52:49.080 --> 0:52:52.160
<v Speaker 1>a magical time for us. We had about ten years

0:52:52.200 --> 0:52:56.000
<v Speaker 1>there that we're just phenomenal. And it's testament to the

0:52:56.040 --> 0:52:58.759
<v Speaker 1>songwriters in this town too, because the songs we were

0:52:58.800 --> 0:53:01.680
<v Speaker 1>able to get our hands on, the writers that were

0:53:01.719 --> 0:53:04.680
<v Speaker 1>sitting in rooms writing for us, that knew what we

0:53:04.719 --> 0:53:07.360
<v Speaker 1>wanted to say, how we wanted to sing it really

0:53:07.400 --> 0:53:10.040
<v Speaker 1>had their fingers on the pulse of who Rascal Flats was.

0:53:10.520 --> 0:53:14.880
<v Speaker 1>I can't thank them enough. The car song, which people

0:53:14.880 --> 0:53:16.279
<v Speaker 1>know it as the car song, I actually know it

0:53:16.400 --> 0:53:19.759
<v Speaker 1>from uh any money, no no, no, I WoT had

0:53:19.760 --> 0:53:21.680
<v Speaker 1>the money it's it's not any money, it's um the

0:53:21.719 --> 0:53:25.719
<v Speaker 1>original thing highway Tom Cox, Tom Cock, Right, that's right. Um,

0:53:25.760 --> 0:53:28.600
<v Speaker 1>but you guys sing this. But this was never a single, No,

0:53:28.960 --> 0:53:32.880
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't, but again it was played everywhere. Yeah, and

0:53:32.920 --> 0:53:36.160
<v Speaker 1>that movie was huge, huge, huge for us. And I

0:53:36.200 --> 0:53:38.799
<v Speaker 1>remember going to dinner here at the Capitol Grill with

0:53:39.200 --> 0:53:42.480
<v Speaker 1>um John Laster, who took us out and showed a

0:53:42.600 --> 0:53:45.840
<v Speaker 1>storyboards of the movie, going, I've got this movie about

0:53:45.880 --> 0:53:48.080
<v Speaker 1>these cars that talked to each other and saw the

0:53:48.120 --> 0:53:51.920
<v Speaker 1>storyboard of cars storyboards. Yeah, and I really want you

0:53:51.920 --> 0:53:55.560
<v Speaker 1>guys to do this um montage where he's on Route

0:53:55.600 --> 0:53:59.080
<v Speaker 1>sixty six and he's driving and you're doing Life Is

0:53:59.120 --> 0:54:02.120
<v Speaker 1>a Highway and looking at the storyboards and he's wearing

0:54:02.120 --> 0:54:06.600
<v Speaker 1>a toy story shirt with Woody on it, and it's

0:54:06.760 --> 0:54:09.279
<v Speaker 1>weird kind of you know, John is a sweet guy,

0:54:09.360 --> 0:54:13.400
<v Speaker 1>but it's just kind of like, can we write a song? No,

0:54:13.520 --> 0:54:16.040
<v Speaker 1>I really want you guys to remake you know, Life

0:54:16.080 --> 0:54:18.920
<v Speaker 1>is a Highway like Chris Lado did it in the

0:54:19.000 --> 0:54:20.880
<v Speaker 1>nineties and kind of made it a hit again. And

0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:23.759
<v Speaker 1>are you sure we can't write a song? He goes,

0:54:23.800 --> 0:54:25.719
<v Speaker 1>I really got a vision for this guy's if you'll

0:54:25.719 --> 0:54:28.680
<v Speaker 1>see these cars talk to each other, you know, it's

0:54:28.760 --> 0:54:32.960
<v Speaker 1>like wow. So we did it and one of the

0:54:32.960 --> 0:54:36.279
<v Speaker 1>best decisions we ever made. First song we ever cut

0:54:36.320 --> 0:54:38.440
<v Speaker 1>with Dan Huff, by the way, who's been on this

0:54:38.440 --> 0:54:40.200
<v Speaker 1>show and as a dear friend. I don't know. I

0:54:40.320 --> 0:54:44.200
<v Speaker 1>talked to Dan like three days ago, and Dan, if

0:54:44.239 --> 0:54:45.560
<v Speaker 1>you go back and listen to an older show, if

0:54:45.600 --> 0:54:47.080
<v Speaker 1>you're listen to this right now, Dan, we'll talk about

0:54:47.080 --> 0:54:50.719
<v Speaker 1>how he would cut songs for like Paul Abduel or Uh.

0:54:50.960 --> 0:54:52.680
<v Speaker 1>He'd play guitar on them. Yeah, I know, she was

0:54:52.760 --> 0:54:54.160
<v Speaker 1>even in the vocals and he'd be in the airport

0:54:54.200 --> 0:54:56.000
<v Speaker 1>and go, I do they like that guitar? Laud brother

0:54:56.080 --> 0:54:58.279
<v Speaker 1>be like, that's you idiot. I mean, the guy is

0:54:58.320 --> 0:55:01.759
<v Speaker 1>so good and he's so humble, it's disgusting. There's not

0:55:01.800 --> 0:55:04.600
<v Speaker 1>a kinder human being on the planet and he's played

0:55:04.640 --> 0:55:06.719
<v Speaker 1>on I mean, you know a lot of people don't

0:55:06.719 --> 0:55:08.880
<v Speaker 1>know this. I'm gonna tell something on Dan. He started

0:55:08.920 --> 0:55:11.120
<v Speaker 1>White Heart, one of the Christian bands that I was

0:55:11.200 --> 0:55:13.239
<v Speaker 1>obsessed with as a kid. He was one of the

0:55:13.239 --> 0:55:16.640
<v Speaker 1>founding members with his brother David, and so I followed

0:55:16.719 --> 0:55:19.200
<v Speaker 1>him early on before he was even a session player

0:55:19.239 --> 0:55:21.560
<v Speaker 1>in l A and playing on all those hit records.

0:55:22.239 --> 0:55:25.200
<v Speaker 1>There was something special about his playing even in that band,

0:55:25.239 --> 0:55:28.400
<v Speaker 1>that I knew that I loved and gravitated towards. So

0:55:28.920 --> 0:55:30.800
<v Speaker 1>that's another great blessing in my life is to be

0:55:30.880 --> 0:55:34.040
<v Speaker 1>able to come back around and work with somebody like Dan,

0:55:34.520 --> 0:55:37.560
<v Speaker 1>have him produce our band and being his presence and

0:55:37.600 --> 0:55:39.799
<v Speaker 1>watch him work. It's just something I never would have

0:55:39.920 --> 0:55:42.719
<v Speaker 1>ever expected or dreamed either, you know. And now to

0:55:42.719 --> 0:55:45.440
<v Speaker 1>be able to call somebody like him a true friend

0:55:46.360 --> 0:55:49.320
<v Speaker 1>is just phenomenal with me. It blows blows my mind.

0:55:49.360 --> 0:55:56.879
<v Speaker 1>You know. Was there ever a point with you guys

0:55:56.880 --> 0:55:59.680
<v Speaker 1>you're three that you're like, this is probably it. We're done.

0:56:00.200 --> 0:56:05.239
<v Speaker 1>When Lyric Streets shut down in two thousand ten, Um,

0:56:05.239 --> 0:56:11.120
<v Speaker 1>we sat around in my man room and looked at

0:56:11.120 --> 0:56:13.399
<v Speaker 1>each other and we're like, do we have anything left

0:56:13.440 --> 0:56:17.759
<v Speaker 1>to say? Even? I mean, it's been a great tenure run. Um.

0:56:17.800 --> 0:56:21.279
<v Speaker 1>We were getting ready to either quit or make a

0:56:21.320 --> 0:56:23.800
<v Speaker 1>management change, and a lot of things were going to change,

0:56:23.800 --> 0:56:25.560
<v Speaker 1>and we knew it and it was gonna be tough,

0:56:26.719 --> 0:56:29.359
<v Speaker 1>and we sat around and considered whether or not it

0:56:29.400 --> 0:56:32.520
<v Speaker 1>wasn't time to lay Rascal flats down, and I think

0:56:32.560 --> 0:56:34.719
<v Speaker 1>after an hour or so of talking with each other,

0:56:34.760 --> 0:56:37.400
<v Speaker 1>it was just like, it hurts me to think about

0:56:37.440 --> 0:56:39.839
<v Speaker 1>the last time that I'll look over to my right

0:56:40.000 --> 0:56:42.520
<v Speaker 1>and not see Gary beside me. When I think about

0:56:42.560 --> 0:56:45.080
<v Speaker 1>that day, it makes me emotional. I don't know when

0:56:45.120 --> 0:56:47.680
<v Speaker 1>that day will be, but I wasn't ready to face it.

0:56:48.440 --> 0:56:50.560
<v Speaker 1>And to think about never making music with the two

0:56:50.640 --> 0:56:56.640
<v Speaker 1>of them again. Boy, it's something that even though we

0:56:56.640 --> 0:56:58.880
<v Speaker 1>were in twenty years and we love each other like brothers,

0:56:58.920 --> 0:57:02.560
<v Speaker 1>and we've certainly fought like brothers before. I love those

0:57:02.600 --> 0:57:04.480
<v Speaker 1>guys with all my heart, and we've done some things

0:57:04.640 --> 0:57:07.719
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of people will never see or never

0:57:07.760 --> 0:57:10.800
<v Speaker 1>be able to do. And we've been in the trenches together,

0:57:11.320 --> 0:57:13.080
<v Speaker 1>and we know each other in ways that our own

0:57:13.080 --> 0:57:16.400
<v Speaker 1>wives don't even know us. And to think about not

0:57:16.520 --> 0:57:20.880
<v Speaker 1>having that anymore, I think all of us were not ready,

0:57:21.320 --> 0:57:23.760
<v Speaker 1>and we were willing to stay together because we felt

0:57:23.800 --> 0:57:25.280
<v Speaker 1>like we had more to say and more to do,

0:57:25.400 --> 0:57:27.680
<v Speaker 1>and we still do. I don't know that it's going

0:57:27.720 --> 0:57:30.919
<v Speaker 1>to come to a close anytime soon. I think we will.

0:57:30.960 --> 0:57:33.000
<v Speaker 1>We will all three have things we want to do

0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:36.760
<v Speaker 1>individually as we get older and have opportunities to, but

0:57:37.240 --> 0:57:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't see us ever really going away and and

0:57:41.080 --> 0:57:44.400
<v Speaker 1>having an official, quote unquote break up. Do you ever

0:57:44.480 --> 0:57:52.440
<v Speaker 1>think about a sideband. I'm in one already, and it's

0:57:52.480 --> 0:57:54.600
<v Speaker 1>tough to be in that one sometimes in the time

0:57:54.640 --> 0:57:57.520
<v Speaker 1>that it takes in the commitment level, I thought about

0:57:57.520 --> 0:58:00.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe doingside projects and things like that. I band that

0:58:00.600 --> 0:58:02.520
<v Speaker 1>you're in, Why don't I know this? Or do I

0:58:02.520 --> 0:58:04.480
<v Speaker 1>know this is a secret? No? I mean, I mean,

0:58:04.520 --> 0:58:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm in Rascal Plants. In the commitment I was like,

0:58:06.480 --> 0:58:09.520
<v Speaker 1>how do I not know? No, No, I I don't

0:58:09.560 --> 0:58:12.640
<v Speaker 1>have I mean, I certainly love making music on any

0:58:12.760 --> 0:58:16.200
<v Speaker 1>level and music by the way, Yeah, well, I'll opened

0:58:16.280 --> 0:58:18.960
<v Speaker 1>up a Christian label back in October, so I've got

0:58:19.200 --> 0:58:22.080
<v Speaker 1>artists signed there to that label that I'll be releasing

0:58:22.120 --> 0:58:25.520
<v Speaker 1>records on. So that my time commitment there with that

0:58:25.880 --> 0:58:28.840
<v Speaker 1>that new thing in my life is pretty substantial. So

0:58:29.400 --> 0:58:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to try to make sure that's as successful

0:58:31.640 --> 0:58:33.960
<v Speaker 1>as it can possibly be. And I want to continue

0:58:34.000 --> 0:58:38.000
<v Speaker 1>making music and producing for other people. And I've had

0:58:38.360 --> 0:58:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I've had the chance to do a lot of great things,

0:58:41.520 --> 0:58:45.479
<v Speaker 1>and you know, uh, I'm at a really great point

0:58:45.480 --> 0:58:47.920
<v Speaker 1>in my life now. To where I really really enjoy

0:58:48.000 --> 0:58:49.880
<v Speaker 1>everything that I'm doing right now, and I'm not just

0:58:49.920 --> 0:58:52.040
<v Speaker 1>doing it because I have to. You know, has Gary

0:58:52.080 --> 0:58:53.520
<v Speaker 1>ever said how do they go do a solo record?

0:58:54.520 --> 0:58:56.800
<v Speaker 1>I think Gary will do a solo record someday. I

0:58:56.800 --> 0:58:59.160
<v Speaker 1>don't know what it will be. It maybe a Christian record.

0:58:59.680 --> 0:59:02.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure what it will be. And I think

0:59:02.960 --> 0:59:05.280
<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. I think he should do a solo record.

0:59:05.640 --> 0:59:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I think that if it's in him and something he

0:59:07.480 --> 0:59:10.760
<v Speaker 1>wants to do, I would support that and in his

0:59:10.920 --> 0:59:15.800
<v Speaker 1>aspirations and dreams one percent. Would you have seven years

0:59:15.800 --> 0:59:18.439
<v Speaker 1>ago or do you feel now you're at a place

0:59:18.440 --> 0:59:20.480
<v Speaker 1>where you're kind of comfortable with where the band is.

0:59:21.000 --> 0:59:23.040
<v Speaker 1>You hit a big you came back, you hit it

0:59:23.080 --> 0:59:25.080
<v Speaker 1>big again, You've had in the last few years. You

0:59:25.200 --> 0:59:28.080
<v Speaker 1>had number once again. So it's a part of that

0:59:28.120 --> 0:59:30.040
<v Speaker 1>because of all this success and now you feel a

0:59:30.200 --> 0:59:33.200
<v Speaker 1>little more like we're stationed, like we're a thing. What

0:59:33.320 --> 0:59:35.400
<v Speaker 1>id he to come? You know after Blessed the Broken

0:59:35.480 --> 0:59:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Road and said, guys, I want to do it. This

0:59:37.160 --> 0:59:40.920
<v Speaker 1>is quick solo thing, like like you see Boheman rapidly

0:59:40.960 --> 0:59:43.840
<v Speaker 1>were like, Fred, you gotta do a solo record. Yeah,

0:59:44.360 --> 0:59:46.440
<v Speaker 1>that didn't happen at all. With you guys, it didn't happen.

0:59:47.200 --> 0:59:49.440
<v Speaker 1>I think that all of us appreciated where we were

0:59:49.440 --> 0:59:52.360
<v Speaker 1>and appreciated each other and loved each other. And Gary

0:59:52.520 --> 0:59:56.760
<v Speaker 1>was um extraordinarily gracious in the fact that he was

0:59:56.800 --> 0:59:59.440
<v Speaker 1>in a band and and never put us in a

0:59:59.520 --> 1:00:01.640
<v Speaker 1>bad issuing to go. I think I'm gonna go off

1:00:01.680 --> 1:00:04.160
<v Speaker 1>on my own here for a little bit and and

1:00:04.320 --> 1:00:06.640
<v Speaker 1>try it on my own, and and you know, I'm

1:00:06.640 --> 1:00:09.760
<v Speaker 1>grateful to him for that. The flip side is it

1:00:09.800 --> 1:00:11.840
<v Speaker 1>doesn't turn out well for a lot of people that

1:00:11.920 --> 1:00:14.320
<v Speaker 1>try to leave a group situation and and and go

1:00:14.360 --> 1:00:16.880
<v Speaker 1>out on their own. It's really tough to do. And

1:00:16.880 --> 1:00:18.720
<v Speaker 1>when you've done it at a high level like we have,

1:00:19.160 --> 1:00:20.680
<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden you've got to realize you're

1:00:20.680 --> 1:00:23.400
<v Speaker 1>coming out of your own pocket to pay for all

1:00:23.480 --> 1:00:26.160
<v Speaker 1>the luxuries that you won't have anymore because you're virtually

1:00:26.160 --> 1:00:28.840
<v Speaker 1>starting over. I think it's hard for some people. I'll

1:00:28.880 --> 1:00:31.520
<v Speaker 1>look at you. Here you are with a book. Yeah,

1:00:31.880 --> 1:00:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm all grown up, has the book to I've been

1:00:33.480 --> 1:00:36.600
<v Speaker 1>a grind for you, it has been, but it's been fun.

1:00:36.840 --> 1:00:39.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've enjoyed being able to talk about my

1:00:39.400 --> 1:00:42.080
<v Speaker 1>life and being able to celebrate my mother and tell

1:00:42.120 --> 1:00:46.200
<v Speaker 1>my story from a different side. You know, I'm sure, um,

1:00:46.240 --> 1:00:47.960
<v Speaker 1>maybe you deal with some of this too, But I've

1:00:47.960 --> 1:00:51.040
<v Speaker 1>always I've always been you know, like referred to as

1:00:51.120 --> 1:00:53.200
<v Speaker 1>the funny guy or the cut up in the band

1:00:53.360 --> 1:00:55.800
<v Speaker 1>or the whatever, and and I wanted the chance to

1:00:55.920 --> 1:01:01.240
<v Speaker 1>really tell some things from my perspective and and talk

1:01:01.280 --> 1:01:06.040
<v Speaker 1>about my philosophies on life and hopefully people see another

1:01:06.520 --> 1:01:09.240
<v Speaker 1>maybe a little bit deeper sign to me than just

1:01:09.280 --> 1:01:11.600
<v Speaker 1>being the funny guy. Yeah, it probably you know, you

1:01:11.600 --> 1:01:14.840
<v Speaker 1>get to exercise a bit of depth which people don't

1:01:14.880 --> 1:01:18.760
<v Speaker 1>always come to the funny guy for. And so yeah,

1:01:18.760 --> 1:01:20.760
<v Speaker 1>it feels good, right Like, it feels like it's kind

1:01:20.760 --> 1:01:23.640
<v Speaker 1>of like it's kind of like a real it's a lot.

1:01:23.800 --> 1:01:25.440
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot to dig up this stuff, and it's

1:01:25.480 --> 1:01:27.120
<v Speaker 1>a lot. Even for me. It was tough to to

1:01:27.240 --> 1:01:30.760
<v Speaker 1>re talk about this stuff. Um, But then you start

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<v Speaker 1>to realize, which back to your very first point was

1:01:35.200 --> 1:01:36.840
<v Speaker 1>there are people out there that are struggling with some

1:01:36.880 --> 1:01:38.600
<v Speaker 1>of the same things that you struggle with that I

1:01:38.640 --> 1:01:42.280
<v Speaker 1>struggle with, that feel like they're alone. And if you

1:01:42.320 --> 1:01:48.200
<v Speaker 1>can see that, you you know, Mr Rascal Flats can

1:01:48.320 --> 1:01:49.720
<v Speaker 1>do it and it had to happen to him and

1:01:49.720 --> 1:01:52.600
<v Speaker 1>can deal with it. Then, um, then it happens to everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the point is you think about people

1:01:55.360 --> 1:01:57.640
<v Speaker 1>when they're by themselves and the lights are off and

1:01:57.680 --> 1:02:00.560
<v Speaker 1>the doors shut and they're behind closed doors. What kind

1:02:00.560 --> 1:02:03.280
<v Speaker 1>of pain and hurt that people deal with on a

1:02:03.360 --> 1:02:07.160
<v Speaker 1>daily basis? Will never know? And sometimes it's nice to

1:02:07.160 --> 1:02:09.480
<v Speaker 1>know that somebody you know, or somebody you may look

1:02:09.560 --> 1:02:13.240
<v Speaker 1>up to, or somebody you may admire, has gone through

1:02:13.240 --> 1:02:15.240
<v Speaker 1>some of the same things. And look, here's how they

1:02:15.320 --> 1:02:17.360
<v Speaker 1>have dealt with it, and here's how they have overcome it,

1:02:17.680 --> 1:02:20.440
<v Speaker 1>and how how they still still deal with it. You know,

1:02:20.480 --> 1:02:23.720
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't go away. Um, hurt and pain doesn't go away.

1:02:23.720 --> 1:02:26.560
<v Speaker 1>The older you get, you just learned a different skill

1:02:26.640 --> 1:02:28.520
<v Speaker 1>set and you have a different bag of tools to

1:02:28.600 --> 1:02:31.440
<v Speaker 1>deal with it. And that's all I wanted to do

1:02:31.560 --> 1:02:34.120
<v Speaker 1>is just say, look, if you're willing to try therapy,

1:02:34.200 --> 1:02:36.920
<v Speaker 1>and you're willing to try pills to balance out chemical

1:02:37.000 --> 1:02:40.320
<v Speaker 1>imbalances and things like that, maybe there's another option. And

1:02:40.360 --> 1:02:43.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe that option could be finding your own faith in

1:02:43.680 --> 1:02:46.560
<v Speaker 1>God and finding your own relationship with him because you

1:02:46.640 --> 1:02:49.120
<v Speaker 1>might find some hope and strength you you never even

1:02:49.240 --> 1:02:52.960
<v Speaker 1>dreamed before. You say, your greatest blessing isn't the flats,

1:02:53.720 --> 1:02:56.240
<v Speaker 1>It isn't even your family, but it's hope. Yeah. What

1:02:56.280 --> 1:02:58.000
<v Speaker 1>do you mean by that? Well? I meant that hope

1:02:58.120 --> 1:03:00.240
<v Speaker 1>was the only thing I had. Sometimes, before I had

1:03:00.320 --> 1:03:02.520
<v Speaker 1>my family, or before I had the flats or anything,

1:03:02.920 --> 1:03:05.640
<v Speaker 1>all I had was hope. And sometimes it would be

1:03:05.680 --> 1:03:08.400
<v Speaker 1>the smallest little ounce of hope. It would be a

1:03:08.440 --> 1:03:10.400
<v Speaker 1>friend that would call me out of the blue and go,

1:03:10.960 --> 1:03:12.919
<v Speaker 1>I thought about you the other day. I just wanted

1:03:12.920 --> 1:03:16.400
<v Speaker 1>to check in on you. You're doing okay. And it

1:03:16.440 --> 1:03:18.320
<v Speaker 1>would blow me away because it would be when I

1:03:18.360 --> 1:03:21.160
<v Speaker 1>needed it the most and least expected it. Or I

1:03:21.160 --> 1:03:24.720
<v Speaker 1>would see uh sign of a on a billboard in

1:03:24.760 --> 1:03:27.520
<v Speaker 1>front of a church that would be a scripture and

1:03:27.560 --> 1:03:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I would look it up in the Bible and and be,

1:03:29.600 --> 1:03:33.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, something that would give me like, hang in there,

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the right track. I know you can't feel it,

1:03:36.280 --> 1:03:39.080
<v Speaker 1>but you gotta stay the course. Sometimes it was my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of times it was my mom going, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not coming back home. You're where you're supposed to be,

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<v Speaker 1>and you've got to stay there. You gotta stay the course.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta you know, dust yourself off, get back up

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<v Speaker 1>on your feet, and keep moving forward. And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean about hope. My mom gave me that gift,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't even realize she was given it to

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<v Speaker 1>me when she was dragging me off the church three

1:04:01.960 --> 1:04:04.160
<v Speaker 1>or four times a week. But it was in there

1:04:04.920 --> 1:04:07.600
<v Speaker 1>and it took deep root in me, and I relied

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<v Speaker 1>on it later on in life when things get really

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<v Speaker 1>really bad. We're gonna end with this. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>you watch a game with Thrones, I don't you are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? You're your Thrones guy? Yeah, I try not

1:04:19.960 --> 1:04:21.520
<v Speaker 1>to be the Thrones guy that yells about it all

1:04:21.520 --> 1:04:24.120
<v Speaker 1>the time. Well, I know, and I feel so bad.

1:04:24.200 --> 1:04:26.840
<v Speaker 1>I've given it like two shots and I've made it

1:04:26.840 --> 1:04:29.200
<v Speaker 1>through like three or four episodes, and it's just so

1:04:29.280 --> 1:04:31.880
<v Speaker 1>much to keep up with. Ye. I feel like I'm

1:04:31.920 --> 1:04:35.200
<v Speaker 1>watching a high school play sometimes in about medieval times.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure it's great, um, but maybe I need

1:04:39.000 --> 1:04:41.680
<v Speaker 1>to give it another shot. But because a ton of

1:04:41.680 --> 1:04:44.320
<v Speaker 1>people that I love and respect are obsessed with that shrip,

1:04:44.440 --> 1:04:46.160
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a great It's not my favorite of

1:04:46.160 --> 1:04:47.560
<v Speaker 1>my life, but I think it's the best TV show

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<v Speaker 1>in my lifetime, and I think there's a difference. The

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<v Speaker 1>best I think your TV show in my lifetime not

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite, So I don't if I get to pick

1:04:54.880 --> 1:04:57.920
<v Speaker 1>one that's not it. I caught one episode late one

1:04:58.040 --> 1:05:00.880
<v Speaker 1>night called The Red Wedding or something like that, where

1:05:00.920 --> 1:05:03.040
<v Speaker 1>everybody you know, that's the one there, and I'm like,

1:05:03.120 --> 1:05:05.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I could, Like, I don't think I

1:05:05.200 --> 1:05:08.600
<v Speaker 1>can deal with this week. That one was a big one.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's a lot um and you fall in

1:05:11.440 --> 1:05:13.760
<v Speaker 1>love with the characters and they all die, right, like

1:05:13.840 --> 1:05:18.000
<v Speaker 1>every single one of them. Listen, it's like fight club. Yeah,

1:05:18.040 --> 1:05:20.920
<v Speaker 1>you don't talk about it. We don't talk about it's

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<v Speaker 1>a it's a it's a fantastic show. But you don't

1:05:22.720 --> 1:05:26.520
<v Speaker 1>watch Thrones. What do you watch? Well, I'm kind of

1:05:26.680 --> 1:05:30.600
<v Speaker 1>more on the that I'm on the shallow into things

1:05:30.640 --> 1:05:33.320
<v Speaker 1>like I'm really into Ship's Creek right now on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I matched with the girl that's on I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I should say who it is, but

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<v Speaker 1>one of the main actors I'm on these dating apps

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<v Speaker 1>right and one of the main actors on the show

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<v Speaker 1>I matched with on the dating app and a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta decide. Have you talked to her? Yeah? How

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<v Speaker 1>about that? It's awesome. I'll pull up Earth and we've

1:05:52.040 --> 1:05:56.000
<v Speaker 1>been talking about so I love that because the apps

1:05:56.000 --> 1:05:59.520
<v Speaker 1>are crazy. Man, it's like instant out everyone. You can

1:05:59.560 --> 1:06:03.800
<v Speaker 1>just it's like free, like even ten years ago, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>With It's something we talk about all the time too.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you love how brave people are on social media

1:06:10.320 --> 1:06:12.439
<v Speaker 1>when they get behind a keyboard, they can just get

1:06:12.480 --> 1:06:16.640
<v Speaker 1>on there and just torpedo you with no repercussions. I

1:06:16.640 --> 1:06:19.600
<v Speaker 1>think that people just want to be heard, and they

1:06:19.760 --> 1:06:21.600
<v Speaker 1>find that the best way to be heard is to

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<v Speaker 1>be the loudest and most obnoxious. It just bugs a

1:06:24.320 --> 1:06:26.280
<v Speaker 1>crap out of me because it's your Facebook or now

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<v Speaker 1>even though I don't look at the show face page.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't look at it. And I've almost thought

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<v Speaker 1>about muting my Instagram comments because there'll be a hundred

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<v Speaker 1>great comments and my personality is to zone in on

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<v Speaker 1>the one guy that's being an ass, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and it will you send me over the edge,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and be like, dude, this is how I

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<v Speaker 1>matched with. You have to say who it is. But

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<v Speaker 1>we've been talking do you recog for the show. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>I do. Absolutely you watched the show, yeah, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why when I saw I was like click

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<v Speaker 1>the heart and then I was surprised at the came

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<v Speaker 1>back and so yeah, she's that shows shot in Canada.

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<v Speaker 1>Is in Vancouver. Um, I'm not sure where. If you

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<v Speaker 1>were out in l A. You can just go up. Yeah, ups, creaks, funny.

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<v Speaker 1>What else you're watching? Um, I'm a huge Walking Dead fan. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask you a question. Me to die hard

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<v Speaker 1>with my favorite show for years. But I got I

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<v Speaker 1>got kind of lost, and like I think I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>a season behind and I don't know where I got lost,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not super into catching up. The show is

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<v Speaker 1>not the same with that Rick. It's really lost a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. And I gotta tell you, it almost lost

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<v Speaker 1>me for good when they at the beginning of a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of seasons ago when they my my buddy Michael

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<v Speaker 1>Cutlitz was on there and they bashed his brains in

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<v Speaker 1>with the baseball bat and then they with Michael cut

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<v Speaker 1>let's play too, he played Abraham Oh oh yeah, red hand,

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<v Speaker 1>And then they killed Glenn Off too and they like

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<v Speaker 1>popped his eyeball out with the Baseball Man finally or

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<v Speaker 1>the first episode whenever? Yeah, Yeah, Nigannigan a man. I

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<v Speaker 1>love Jeffrey Dean Morgan. He's a fantastic actor. It just

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<v Speaker 1>they took it so far because of the shock factor

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<v Speaker 1>that they always try to do with that show, and

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<v Speaker 1>you never know who's gonna die. And I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm such a huge fans of the fan of

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<v Speaker 1>the show, but it started to lose me a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>to be quite honest. Yeah, I when after Rick was gone,

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of got lost what episode I was

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<v Speaker 1>and I wasn't just terribly horn to get back at it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And I love Darryl, but I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that he's enough to hold the show by himself. I

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<v Speaker 1>turned into a TV critic all of a sudden, haven't

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<v Speaker 1>a um we all are at this point. Everything is

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<v Speaker 1>so good? If it's not so good, and right up,

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<v Speaker 1>our algorithm are human algorithm to what show we want

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<v Speaker 1>that we just move on to the next thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't love Christley knows best. I've been on

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of those episodes of Todd. He's he's a

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<v Speaker 1>buddy of mine. He wrote on the back of your

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<v Speaker 1>book that he wrote the Hey, he's not a douchebag.

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<v Speaker 1>Read the book exactly. He's not the jerk you think

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<v Speaker 1>he is all of the time sometimes im You know

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<v Speaker 1>what show I like is none One. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty good show on Fox. You the first season.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not in the second season, but um, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty decent. And we what we do is Allison. I

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<v Speaker 1>just binge on some stuff every once in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of what we're what else we're

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<v Speaker 1>watching right now? Watch any of the Marvel stuff on Netflix,

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<v Speaker 1>like The Punisher. I don't is it good? It's the

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<v Speaker 1>best show to be Agents of Shield any good. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get into all Right. I was never torn Away

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<v Speaker 1>and he's a big You see the Last Adventures? I haven't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the End Game, so it's amazing. I turn

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<v Speaker 1>off Twitter when Game of Thrones ends because I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>I at the same time and have to go home

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<v Speaker 1>and look at it. But I'm avoiding Everything Adventures until

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<v Speaker 1>I can watch End Game because it's supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>so freaking good. Let me tell you, I was amazed

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<v Speaker 1>at how great it was. I mean, it was three

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<v Speaker 1>hours and is that good? Huh, you don't know it's

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<v Speaker 1>three hours. I mean it goes fine a blank, doesn't it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? I mean it really really does. Exacted about

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<v Speaker 1>John Wick three have yes, me too. I actually love

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<v Speaker 1>those movies. I think he read is my favorite actor.

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've declared he's not my favorite because you can

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<v Speaker 1>make fun of him, you can, but look at his

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<v Speaker 1>body of work. Respect the body of work. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>now America's favorite actor and mine. I love it. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what else, I gotta tell you, Cobra Kai

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<v Speaker 1>is fantastic too. I haven't seen it. I know it's

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<v Speaker 1>a YouTube show. You gotta watch it. Man, It's fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>What these guys have done with the storyline thirty plus

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<v Speaker 1>years later, with these two you never see coming, It

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<v Speaker 1>is really fantastic. Now. Billy Zapka, who plays Johnny, is

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<v Speaker 1>one of my lifelong dearest friends. So I've you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been a Karate Kid fanatics since the first movie

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<v Speaker 1>came out when I was a teenager. But what they've

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<v Speaker 1>done with the story and how they've taken those two characters,

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<v Speaker 1>you would really really appreciate and love interesting. Well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>we've Here's the question I was gonna ask you before

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<v Speaker 1>I veered off the last question. I ask him, if

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<v Speaker 1>you could tell yourself, you give your your sixteen year

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<v Speaker 1>old self one a little bit of advice from you

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Would you tell him condoms do break? There

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<v Speaker 1>and there? There you have it. Listen, check out the book.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a Shotgun Angels, My story of Broken Roads and

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<v Speaker 1>Unshakable Hope. How was how hard that subtitle to have

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<v Speaker 1>and to come up with? It was? It was pretty tough.

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<v Speaker 1>They wanted, Yeah, what was the first title of the book.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I went to like nineteens, it was called something

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<v Speaker 1>like um uh, hope, Hope in the Hope in the

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<v Speaker 1>Forgotten Places or something. I mean, there were so many

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<v Speaker 1>different variations of that. I was like, none of them

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<v Speaker 1>made me happy. My co author, actually Timothy, came up

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<v Speaker 1>with that because the two stories in the book about

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<v Speaker 1>my folks and also the angels that ride shotgun next

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<v Speaker 1>to you that you don't even know about. Look at this,

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<v Speaker 1>You got a book, got a book. You play a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of songs on the keyboards, got it. He's got

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<v Speaker 1>a gift on the piano as occasionally funny things. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm glad he's Nobby. I'll tell you this guy. Ready,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no Bobby and Bones. Thank god, Um, listen that Jay.

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<v Speaker 1>Good to see you, but good to see you too.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your time. One on nine. Look at this?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you every been ever? Be for hours straight? One

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<v Speaker 1>on one? Hey, and it's just like Avengers in game.

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<v Speaker 1>It didn't even feel like we were both die. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what happened in adventures. All right, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, We'll see you the next time. Episode one

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<v Speaker 1>seven seven. Everybody