Speaker 1: Second Date up Date, our dating apps officially dead.
Speaker 2: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've heard people complain about them a lot,
Speaker 1: like Brooke says she can't get hers to swipe right
Speaker 1: fast enough, load speeds are too slow, and Jose he's
Speaker 1: emailing the help desk asking if they can add in
Speaker 1: a bikini barista.
Speaker 2: Search features on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Yeah, clearly not everybody is thrilled with them. But apparently
Speaker 1: there's a new movement that's happening right now that I
Speaker 1: didn't know about. People are banding together to get off
Speaker 1: the apps all together and try something completely different, which
Speaker 1: is how today's caller Troy wound up meeting a young
Speaker 1: woman the other day.
Speaker 2: Let's learn about it. Troy, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, how you doing.
Speaker 4: Whenever you say Jeffrey meeting a young woman, I either
Speaker 4: pictured this guy is going to be a grampa. We
Speaker 4: need to check somebody's ID like it's a weird you know.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about relative to the p people in this room,
Speaker 1: it's probably a pretty young So tell us more.
Speaker 2: About this wonderful young lady that you met. What's your name?
Speaker 3: So the lady that I met is Melanie.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, I'm curious to see how you met her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's this movement that you were kind of telling
Speaker 1: me about in the email.
Speaker 3: It's so pretty interesting, to be honest, my friends told
Speaker 3: me about this no thing that people are doing. It's
Speaker 3: called unfit run clubs.
Speaker 4: What is it against?
Speaker 2: Say one more time?
Speaker 3: Unfit run clubs?
Speaker 4: Unfit run club I love it.
Speaker 2: That's funny.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: For people who are like runners, like Alexus.
Speaker 3: Exactly, but just get a reason to meet new people,
Speaker 3: that's awesome.
Speaker 2: They usually meet it like a bar.
Speaker 4: I feel like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I've seen like the
Speaker 4: sofa of five K groups too. You know.
Speaker 2: Yea good for you. So how did this work?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so basically, you know, instead of trying to
Speaker 3: meet new people on dating apps, which has been stressful,
Speaker 3: they're starting to playing these big guests togethers.
Speaker 4: Oh wait, it's not just for running. This is actually
Speaker 4: to meet their singles as well.
Speaker 3: The way it's supposed to be is we stopped, occasionally,
Speaker 3: we take some pictures, mingole, keep going, and then at
Speaker 3: the very end we all go to the bar.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, it's not because it's like a little more
Speaker 1: casual than like a speed dating event where you have
Speaker 1: two minutes to talk to everybody in the room and
Speaker 1: there's all this pressure.
Speaker 2: This is like mingle at your own pace.
Speaker 4: But it's unfit, so it depends on how out of
Speaker 4: breath you are during run anything.
Speaker 1: There's the one person who comes in an hour later
Speaker 1: than everybody else.
Speaker 3: But sure, I mean there's big groups of people walking too.
Speaker 3: We do that if you want to. You know, you're
Speaker 3: not a mandatory if you'd actually jog.
Speaker 1: Bat One's walking was involved, like the slow pace.
Speaker 2: So as all in there, I mean, anybody at any
Speaker 2: level can join.
Speaker 1: This, Okay, So tell us about how your Unfit run
Speaker 1: club event went.
Speaker 3: Well, I went with some of my friday.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you had backup on this all right, win
Speaker 4: with oh yeah? And were you all looking to meet
Speaker 4: somebody or were they just totally coming as your wingman?
Speaker 1: Do you mean brook? Are you asking are they all
Speaker 1: trying to meet one woman?
Speaker 2: Did they? Because too?
Speaker 3: That the same?
Speaker 4: I just mean, like, is everybody's intentions the same here?
Speaker 4: Are they just coming just for you?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 3: Well they checked it out before they heard me on
Speaker 3: dating maps still and they said just come check herself.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: Oh is there a recommendation?
Speaker 2: Okay, and so you said you met someone named Melanie.
Speaker 2: How did that happen?
Speaker 3: Yeah, So once we got to the bar, I met
Speaker 3: this girl Melanie right, and were and chatting there.
Speaker 4: Okay, And were you guys able to connect? Pretty well?
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was a really swoop down to earth. So
Speaker 3: we cracked a couple of jokes about the dating maps.
Speaker 3: That's the connected.
Speaker 2: Oh it was like she was not nice, but you
Speaker 2: still went out. She was awful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be weird. But you said you both
Speaker 1: bonded over not being on dating apps anymore?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Correct?
Speaker 4: Okay, So she and did she explain why she had
Speaker 4: given it up? Was it the same reason?
Speaker 1: I think everyone has the same reason.
Speaker 2: How was the conversation with her?
Speaker 3: The conversation went pretty good, you know, but then kind
Speaker 3: of ended in about ten minutes. I would say, we
Speaker 3: didn't have a lot of time. Yeah, ten minutes?
Speaker 4: Why so quick?
Speaker 3: Well, if you think about it, I at the bar
Speaker 3: a lot of people. I'm with my friends, she's with
Speaker 3: her friends.
Speaker 2: Friends.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, So.
Speaker 3: But but one thing I'll tell you I did do.
Speaker 3: I did get her number.
Speaker 5: Well that's good.
Speaker 2: Did you ask her for the number or did you
Speaker 2: just take it?
Speaker 3: Get it? I? As I told her, I want to continue.
Speaker 4: Okay, did you guys go out again?
Speaker 3: Then?
Speaker 4: No, actually go out for a first time.
Speaker 3: So this is where you know, I'm stuck now and
Speaker 3: I need your help a little bit. But I texted her,
Speaker 3: I said, hey, you know it's Troy, the guy from
Speaker 3: the bar, and you know the event that we went to.
Speaker 3: And she goes no answer, just.
Speaker 1: Wasn't into the event, like in general, maybe she wanted
Speaker 1: to go back to the dating apps after it. Like
Speaker 1: if Alexis, if you went to something like this, do
Speaker 1: you think you would actually be into it?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: No, I don't really like runner gats.
Speaker 3: I'm kind of traumatized.
Speaker 2: After running this is it?
Speaker 1: So this is non runners?
Speaker 4: That's true, but I mean that's true, but they're slow.
Speaker 5: How sweaty were you when you were talking to Hurt
Speaker 5: the bar?
Speaker 1: You know the question?
Speaker 2: That's a good question.
Speaker 3: Hey, on a scale of one to ten, I was
Speaker 3: probably like a two and a half.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you were you were a walker?
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 1: Wow, we can't get through one of these without Brooks
Speaker 1: shaming the male person. So I'm glad we got that
Speaker 1: out of the It happens. So now we're going to
Speaker 1: call on Melanie here in just a minute, we'll reach
Speaker 1: out and see if we can get you a second
Speaker 1: date update, and maybe she'll shame you a little bit
Speaker 1: more before we.
Speaker 2: Get into it.
Speaker 4: Read out I'm a big sweater.
Speaker 2: We're gonna.
Speaker 1: We're gonna come back pre second date update right after
Speaker 1: this second date update.
Speaker 2: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: And if you've ever been to a charity five k run,
Speaker 1: you may have seen Brook there on the side of
Speaker 1: booing the people who finished the last because they walked
Speaker 1: or didn't walk fast enough or had crutches after their amputation.
Speaker 2: Are we already laughing.
Speaker 1: Because we've all seen that happen before. We've been there
Speaker 1: next to a wall. It goes on.
Speaker 4: And I often host them and encourage.
Speaker 1: People and to run and not walk, and we know,
Speaker 1: do you even want to cure this disease? Pick up
Speaker 1: the pay slow pokes. I've heard it.
Speaker 2: You don't have to repeat it here.
Speaker 1: The only reason, the only reason I bring it up
Speaker 1: now is because there was a meet up of the
Speaker 1: Unfit Run club as.
Speaker 4: They call it, words not mine.
Speaker 1: That's the name of the club. The whole point of
Speaker 1: it is to help people get off of the dating
Speaker 1: apps and get back to meeting people in real life.
Speaker 1: They do theirs at the park while they all run
Speaker 1: or sometimes walk around getting to know each other. And
Speaker 1: that's where Troy met a woman named.
Speaker 2: Melanie the other day.
Speaker 1: Brooke has already gone on record to say just listening
Speaker 1: to Troy's voice, she knows that he's a walker who
Speaker 1: does not sweat enough.
Speaker 4: Alexis asked if he was really sweaty when he met Melanie,
Speaker 4: and he said he was at a two. Two means
Speaker 4: that you're not running really hard. It's not a bad day, Troy.
Speaker 1: She calls you out of shape it Troy, Well, I'm
Speaker 1: not out of.
Speaker 4: Troy. Some people swear deodor in, do sweat much, Brooke, Okay,
Speaker 4: I am a big sweater all right.
Speaker 1: So again I've done like this on the last forty
Speaker 1: of these calls we've had to do. But once again
Speaker 1: I apologize for my co host Brooke. We are still
Speaker 1: going to try and get you a second date here, Troy.
Speaker 3: All right, sounds good. I mean I'm pretty positive I
Speaker 3: think you guys could pull it off and it went well.
Speaker 1: All right, So we're about to call her right now.
Speaker 1: But just in case you're tuning in for the first time,
Speaker 1: Melanie ghosted Troy after they had hung out for ten
Speaker 1: minutes at the very end of this.
Speaker 4: Event, so that she may not even remember him. To
Speaker 4: be honest, not it is a bad thing. I mean,
Speaker 4: he said, there was tons of people there.
Speaker 1: I'm positive enough to believe that she will remember you.
Speaker 1: But they know what Brook has to get that last
Speaker 1: jab in.
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 4: I believe that.
Speaker 1: Can see if she picked.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, we're looking to speak with Melanie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you may. This is a radio show called Brooke
Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Even when you say my name, well hi Melanie, We're
Speaker 4: really happy to talk to you. Yeah, thank you for
Speaker 4: answering and being here.
Speaker 3: I sorry, we're await. Sorry.
Speaker 1: I know this is probably weird, but we're doing a
Speaker 1: segment right now called a second Date Update, and we're
Speaker 1: trying to help out one of our listeners. That you
Speaker 1: met the other day at something called the Unfit Run.
Speaker 5: Club Okay, yeah, I was there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay.
Speaker 4: It sounds like a fun time, a real creative way
Speaker 4: to meet other singles.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, someone that you met there had a really good time,
Speaker 1: felt like he had a connection with you.
Speaker 2: His name was Troy.
Speaker 5: That's interesting. I met a lot of guys that night,
Speaker 5: a little bit more specific.
Speaker 2: More specific than his name was Troy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys talk for ten minutes. He was at
Speaker 4: a sweat level of around two. He didn't tell us
Speaker 4: a lot of details about what you guys talked about.
Speaker 1: Don't gloat right now in front of the person. Did
Speaker 1: smile on your face. But he's he's kind of like
Speaker 1: a soft spoken, like really nice guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I met a lot of guys that night, like I
Speaker 5: would get him a lot of attention that night.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, girl, okay, wait, well it's great.
Speaker 4: Remember they bonded over quitting dating apps, about how bad
Speaker 4: apps are. That's what that's what you all talked about.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I remember him.
Speaker 1: Okay you see. Yeah, but the way that she said
Speaker 1: it didn't give me a lot of hope. There was
Speaker 1: what do you remember about him?
Speaker 5: But what I remember is that he is a liar.
Speaker 4: He's a liar?
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait, yeah, okay, Well you you guys talked
Speaker 1: for ten minutes?
Speaker 5: He said, yeah, Ri with's a minute okay, so that's
Speaker 5: and finished talking. I went over to my friend who
Speaker 5: recognized him from the daiting app and he's still on them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe he just didn't get around to deleting his file, you.
Speaker 5: Know what I mean? Like, oh, yeah, that sounds good,
Speaker 5: but no, why no? Yeah, because he tried to holk
Speaker 5: up with one of my friends for the event and
Speaker 5: match with another one of my friends after the event.
Speaker 5: And I promise you, he said to me definitively, I'm
Speaker 5: never using a dating app again. He's a liar. He's
Speaker 5: a liar.
Speaker 4: He didn't like add like, after I hit on your friend,
Speaker 4: I'm never using no stipulation.
Speaker 5: That's why I'm no longer on a dating app, and
Speaker 5: that's why I am no longer talking to him.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, makes sense?
Speaker 5: Yeah, why liear that?
Speaker 1: Maybe? Well, I know you're against talking to him on
Speaker 1: the dating apps, but what about talking to him right
Speaker 1: now over the phone?
Speaker 4: I r L no, thank you.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it wasn't really a question because I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to tell you he is on the phone right
Speaker 1: now listening to this conversation.
Speaker 4: What.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, that's how this works.
Speaker 5: No, he's not, I am, and he sounds pretty stalker,
Speaker 5: did you hear it? Yes? Yeah, that was really creepy.
Speaker 1: Well, let's give Troy a chance to step in and
Speaker 1: maybe defend himself a little bit.
Speaker 2: Troy, go ahead, you have.
Speaker 3: The floor, all right. First of all, you know, I'm
Speaker 3: not a bad guy. I just want to clear that up.
Speaker 3: She didn't lie, so let me point out out. I'll
Speaker 3: give it her credit.
Speaker 4: Okay, who didn't who didn't lie?
Speaker 3: Well, Melanie didn't lie by saying that it was still
Speaker 3: on the dating app and whatnot. But so you didn't know.
Speaker 3: I know, but I met her for ten minutes, right,
Speaker 3: we met for ten minutes. She gave me her phone number.
Speaker 3: I text her and she's not responding. It kind of
Speaker 3: like made me realize that this thing might not be
Speaker 3: working out and let me stick to what I'm doing originally.
Speaker 4: Wait wait, wait wait, she said that you you were
Speaker 4: on the dating app by the end of the night
Speaker 4: hitting on her friend.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I won't want to get off the
Speaker 3: data and apps and theories in general.
Speaker 2: His heart was in the right place when he fast.
Speaker 3: It's the fast moving world. You know, you got to
Speaker 3: play with the game, So you gotta be why.
Speaker 4: You're coming in as a nice guy like the guy
Speaker 4: who was like ready to stop playing the games.
Speaker 3: And yeah, I am a nice guy. But you know,
Speaker 3: if I find a girl that's ready, you know, to
Speaker 3: communicate and continue the conversation, then of course I'm going
Speaker 3: to give it everything. But that wasn't the case.
Speaker 4: You gave her like fifteen minutes. It sounds like to
Speaker 4: respond to a text.
Speaker 5: He's a creep that you can hear it in his voice.
Speaker 2: Oyeah.
Speaker 1: I don't think we need to go that far and
Speaker 1: shame him for the sound of his voice. He's already
Speaker 1: been shamed for them out that he doesn't sweat enough
Speaker 1: on the show.
Speaker 3: Why did your friend match with me? Then you know
Speaker 3: I'm not a cleve. I'm just trying to find the
Speaker 3: right person today.
Speaker 2: You're bragging that you're going out with her friends. Well
Speaker 2: he's not going out. They matched.
Speaker 3: He didn't return my message either, but I'm open.
Speaker 5: Tell us something to my friend?
Speaker 3: Is the creek too?
Speaker 2: So show me she's it didn't make sense. Are they
Speaker 2: perfect for each other?
Speaker 5: Yea, no, No, she's a creepy. He's even worse than him.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe you should hook your friend.
Speaker 5: Why they match?
Speaker 3: Well, that's why they matched.
Speaker 1: Maybe your friend and Troy should go out on a date.
Speaker 1: At some point and we do that. Can we ask
Speaker 1: that question because each other? It doesn't sound like Melanie
Speaker 1: is into this at all. But maybe Melanie, we could
Speaker 1: offer to send Troy out with your friend on a
Speaker 1: date that we yeah, your creepy friends on the day
Speaker 1: that we would pay for.
Speaker 5: That might work it?
Speaker 2: Really?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I should be anyone?
Speaker 4: My god, how am going to pitch your friend on that?
Speaker 4: So this guy that I don't like and is creepy,
Speaker 4: but they are you matched?
Speaker 3: I guess?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Troy.
Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, well now you're telling me she will anyone.
Speaker 3: I kind of don't want that.
Speaker 1: Come on, now, you don't know a lot of options here, dude.
Speaker 3: Okay, you know what you're talking to me, So I'll
Speaker 3: do it.
Speaker 1: You are something, Troy. We've scraped to the bottom of
Speaker 1: the barrel officially and we are sending you out on
Speaker 1: a date with Melanie's creepy friend.
Speaker 3: Yay.
Speaker 5: I'm happy to It's gonna go great. I can't wait
Speaker 5: to hear it detail.
Speaker 1: And Troy will be here for you when she goes
Speaker 1: to you and we can do a second date update
Speaker 1: for her as well.
Speaker 3: Hey, Melanie, I just want to say one thing hate
Speaker 3: the game I've played.
Speaker 4: Okay, glad you saved that, but you know you guys.
Speaker 5: If you guys were on the phone, I would have hung.
Speaker 2: Up your patient. I am going to hang up on everybody.
Speaker 2: That's your second date update
Speaker 4: Goodbye freaking Jeffrey in the morning.