WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Unfit Run Club Snub

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date up Date, our dating apps officially dead.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've heard people complain about them a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>like Brooke says she can't get hers to swipe right

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<v Speaker 1>fast enough, load speeds are too slow, and Jose he's

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<v Speaker 1>emailing the help desk asking if they can add in

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<v Speaker 1>a bikini barista.

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<v Speaker 2>Search features on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, clearly not everybody is thrilled with them. But apparently

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<v Speaker 1>there's a new movement that's happening right now that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know about. People are banding together to get off

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<v Speaker 1>the apps all together and try something completely different, which

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<v Speaker 1>is how today's caller Troy wound up meeting a young

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<v Speaker 1>woman the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's learn about it. Troy, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, guys, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Whenever you say Jeffrey meeting a young woman, I either

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<v Speaker 4>pictured this guy is going to be a grampa. We

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<v Speaker 4>need to check somebody's ID like it's a weird you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about relative to the p people in this room,

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably a pretty young So tell us more.

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<v Speaker 2>About this wonderful young lady that you met. What's your name?

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<v Speaker 3>So the lady that I met is Melanie.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, I'm curious to see how you met her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's this movement that you were kind of telling

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<v Speaker 1>me about in the email.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so pretty interesting, to be honest, my friends told

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<v Speaker 3>me about this no thing that people are doing. It's

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<v Speaker 3>called unfit run clubs.

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<v Speaker 4>What is it against?

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<v Speaker 2>Say one more time?

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<v Speaker 3>Unfit run clubs?

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<v Speaker 4>Unfit run club I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's funny.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>For people who are like runners, like Alexus.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly, but just get a reason to meet new people,

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<v Speaker 3>that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>They usually meet it like a bar.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I've seen like the

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<v Speaker 4>sofa of five K groups too. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yea good for you. So how did this work?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so basically, you know, instead of trying to

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<v Speaker 3>meet new people on dating apps, which has been stressful,

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<v Speaker 3>they're starting to playing these big guests togethers.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wait, it's not just for running. This is actually

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<v Speaker 4>to meet their singles as well.

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<v Speaker 3>The way it's supposed to be is we stopped, occasionally,

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<v Speaker 3>we take some pictures, mingole, keep going, and then at

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<v Speaker 3>the very end we all go to the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, it's not because it's like a little more

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<v Speaker 1>casual than like a speed dating event where you have

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<v Speaker 1>two minutes to talk to everybody in the room and

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<v Speaker 1>there's all this pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>This is like mingle at your own pace.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's unfit, so it depends on how out of

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<v Speaker 4>breath you are during run anything.

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<v Speaker 1>There's the one person who comes in an hour later

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<v Speaker 1>than everybody else.

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<v Speaker 3>But sure, I mean there's big groups of people walking too.

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<v Speaker 3>We do that if you want to. You know, you're

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<v Speaker 3>not a mandatory if you'd actually jog.

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<v Speaker 1>Bat One's walking was involved, like the slow pace.

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<v Speaker 2>So as all in there, I mean, anybody at any

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<v Speaker 2>level can join.

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<v Speaker 1>This, Okay, So tell us about how your Unfit run

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<v Speaker 1>club event went.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I went with some of my friday.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you had backup on this all right, win

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<v Speaker 4>with oh yeah? And were you all looking to meet

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<v Speaker 4>somebody or were they just totally coming as your wingman?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mean brook? Are you asking are they all

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<v Speaker 1>trying to meet one woman?

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<v Speaker 2>Did they? Because too?

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<v Speaker 3>That the same?

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<v Speaker 4>I just mean, like, is everybody's intentions the same here?

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<v Speaker 4>Are they just coming just for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Well they checked it out before they heard me on

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<v Speaker 3>dating maps still and they said just come check herself.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh is there a recommendation?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and so you said you met someone named Melanie.

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<v Speaker 2>How did that happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So once we got to the bar, I met

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<v Speaker 3>this girl Melanie right, and were and chatting there.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, And were you guys able to connect? Pretty well?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she was a really swoop down to earth. So

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<v Speaker 3>we cracked a couple of jokes about the dating maps.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the connected.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it was like she was not nice, but you

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<v Speaker 2>still went out. She was awful.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that would be weird. But you said you both

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<v Speaker 1>bonded over not being on dating apps anymore?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Correct?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So she and did she explain why she had

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<v Speaker 4>given it up? Was it the same reason?

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<v Speaker 1>I think everyone has the same reason.

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<v Speaker 2>How was the conversation with her?

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<v Speaker 3>The conversation went pretty good, you know, but then kind

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<v Speaker 3>of ended in about ten minutes. I would say, we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have a lot of time. Yeah, ten minutes?

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<v Speaker 4>Why so quick?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, if you think about it, I at the bar

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people. I'm with my friends, she's with

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<v Speaker 3>her friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, So.

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<v Speaker 3>But but one thing I'll tell you I did do.

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<v Speaker 3>I did get her number.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ask her for the number or did you

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<v Speaker 2>just take it?

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<v Speaker 3>Get it? I? As I told her, I want to continue.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, did you guys go out again?

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<v Speaker 3>Then?

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<v Speaker 4>No, actually go out for a first time.

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<v Speaker 3>So this is where you know, I'm stuck now and

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<v Speaker 3>I need your help a little bit. But I texted her,

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<v Speaker 3>I said, hey, you know it's Troy, the guy from

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<v Speaker 3>the bar, and you know the event that we went to.

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<v Speaker 3>And she goes no answer, just.

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<v Speaker 1>Wasn't into the event, like in general, maybe she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to the dating apps after it. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if Alexis, if you went to something like this, do

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<v Speaker 1>you think you would actually be into it?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't really like runner gats.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm kind of traumatized.

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<v Speaker 2>After running this is it?

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<v Speaker 1>So this is non runners?

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<v Speaker 4>That's true, but I mean that's true, but they're slow.

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<v Speaker 5>How sweaty were you when you were talking to Hurt

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<v Speaker 5>the bar?

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<v Speaker 1>You know the question?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, on a scale of one to ten, I was

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<v Speaker 3>probably like a two and a half.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you were you were a walker?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, we can't get through one of these without Brooks

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<v Speaker 1>shaming the male person. So I'm glad we got that

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<v Speaker 1>out of the It happens. So now we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>call on Melanie here in just a minute, we'll reach

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<v Speaker 1>out and see if we can get you a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, and maybe she'll shame you a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more before we.

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<v Speaker 2>Get into it.

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<v Speaker 4>Read out I'm a big sweater.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna come back pre second date update right after

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<v Speaker 1>this second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you've ever been to a charity five k run,

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<v Speaker 1>you may have seen Brook there on the side of

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<v Speaker 1>booing the people who finished the last because they walked

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<v Speaker 1>or didn't walk fast enough or had crutches after their amputation.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we already laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we've all seen that happen before. We've been there

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<v Speaker 1>next to a wall. It goes on.

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<v Speaker 4>And I often host them and encourage.

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<v Speaker 1>People and to run and not walk, and we know,

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<v Speaker 1>do you even want to cure this disease? Pick up

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<v Speaker 1>the pay slow pokes. I've heard it.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have to repeat it here.

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<v Speaker 1>The only reason, the only reason I bring it up

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<v Speaker 1>now is because there was a meet up of the

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<v Speaker 1>Unfit Run club as.

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<v Speaker 4>They call it, words not mine.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the name of the club. The whole point of

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<v Speaker 1>it is to help people get off of the dating

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<v Speaker 1>apps and get back to meeting people in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>They do theirs at the park while they all run

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<v Speaker 1>or sometimes walk around getting to know each other. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's where Troy met a woman named.

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<v Speaker 2>Melanie the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke has already gone on record to say just listening

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<v Speaker 1>to Troy's voice, she knows that he's a walker who

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<v Speaker 1>does not sweat enough.

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<v Speaker 4>Alexis asked if he was really sweaty when he met Melanie,

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<v Speaker 4>and he said he was at a two. Two means

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<v Speaker 4>that you're not running really hard. It's not a bad day, Troy.

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<v Speaker 1>She calls you out of shape it Troy, Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not out of.

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<v Speaker 4>Troy. Some people swear deodor in, do sweat much, Brooke, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I am a big sweater all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So again I've done like this on the last forty

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<v Speaker 1>of these calls we've had to do. But once again

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize for my co host Brooke. We are still

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<v Speaker 1>going to try and get you a second date here, Troy.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, sounds good. I mean I'm pretty positive I

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<v Speaker 3>think you guys could pull it off and it went well.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So we're about to call her right now.

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<v Speaker 1>But just in case you're tuning in for the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>Melanie ghosted Troy after they had hung out for ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes at the very end of this.

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<v Speaker 4>Event, so that she may not even remember him. To

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<v Speaker 4>be honest, not it is a bad thing. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>he said, there was tons of people there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm positive enough to believe that she will remember you.

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<v Speaker 1>But they know what Brook has to get that last

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<v Speaker 1>jab in.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>I believe that.

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<v Speaker 1>Can see if she picked.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we're looking to speak with Melanie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you may. This is a radio show called Brooke

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<v Speaker 2>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Even when you say my name, well hi Melanie, We're

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<v Speaker 4>really happy to talk to you. Yeah, thank you for

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<v Speaker 4>answering and being here.

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<v Speaker 3>I sorry, we're await. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I know this is probably weird, but we're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>segment right now called a second Date Update, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help out one of our listeners. That you

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<v Speaker 1>met the other day at something called the Unfit Run.

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<v Speaker 5>Club Okay, yeah, I was there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like a fun time, a real creative way

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<v Speaker 4>to meet other singles.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, someone that you met there had a really good time,

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<v Speaker 1>felt like he had a connection with you.

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<v Speaker 2>His name was Troy.

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<v Speaker 5>That's interesting. I met a lot of guys that night,

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit more specific.

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<v Speaker 2>More specific than his name was Troy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you guys talk for ten minutes. He was at

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<v Speaker 4>a sweat level of around two. He didn't tell us

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of details about what you guys talked about.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't gloat right now in front of the person. Did

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<v Speaker 1>smile on your face. But he's he's kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>a soft spoken, like really nice guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I met a lot of guys that night, like I

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<v Speaker 5>would get him a lot of attention that night.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, girl, okay, wait, well it's great.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember they bonded over quitting dating apps, about how bad

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<v Speaker 4>apps are. That's what that's what you all talked about.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I remember him.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay you see. Yeah, but the way that she said

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't give me a lot of hope. There was

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<v Speaker 1>what do you remember about him?

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<v Speaker 5>But what I remember is that he is a liar.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a liar?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait wait, yeah, okay, Well you you guys talked

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<v Speaker 1>for ten minutes?

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<v Speaker 5>He said, yeah, Ri with's a minute okay, so that's

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<v Speaker 5>and finished talking. I went over to my friend who

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<v Speaker 5>recognized him from the daiting app and he's still on them.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe he just didn't get around to deleting his file, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know what I mean? Like, oh, yeah, that sounds good,

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<v Speaker 5>but no, why no? Yeah, because he tried to holk

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<v Speaker 5>up with one of my friends for the event and

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<v Speaker 5>match with another one of my friends after the event.

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<v Speaker 5>And I promise you, he said to me definitively, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>never using a dating app again. He's a liar. He's

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<v Speaker 5>a liar.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't like add like, after I hit on your friend,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm never using no stipulation.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why I'm no longer on a dating app, and

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<v Speaker 5>that's why I am no longer talking to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, makes sense?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, why liear that?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe? Well, I know you're against talking to him on

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<v Speaker 1>the dating apps, but what about talking to him right

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<v Speaker 1>now over the phone?

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<v Speaker 4>I r L no, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, it wasn't really a question because I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to tell you he is on the phone right

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<v Speaker 1>now listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>What.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sorry, that's how this works.

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<v Speaker 5>No, he's not, I am, and he sounds pretty stalker,

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<v Speaker 5>did you hear it? Yes? Yeah, that was really creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's give Troy a chance to step in and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe defend himself a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Troy, go ahead, you have.

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<v Speaker 3>The floor, all right. First of all, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not a bad guy. I just want to clear that up.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't lie, so let me point out out. I'll

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<v Speaker 3>give it her credit.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, who didn't who didn't lie?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Melanie didn't lie by saying that it was still

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<v Speaker 3>on the dating app and whatnot. But so you didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, but I met her for ten minutes, right,

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<v Speaker 3>we met for ten minutes. She gave me her phone number.

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<v Speaker 3>I text her and she's not responding. It kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like made me realize that this thing might not be

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<v Speaker 3>working out and let me stick to what I'm doing originally.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait wait, wait wait, she said that you you were

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<v Speaker 4>on the dating app by the end of the night

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<v Speaker 4>hitting on her friend.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying I won't want to get off the

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<v Speaker 3>data and apps and theories in general.

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<v Speaker 2>His heart was in the right place when he fast.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the fast moving world. You know, you got to

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<v Speaker 3>play with the game, So you gotta be why.

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<v Speaker 4>You're coming in as a nice guy like the guy

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<v Speaker 4>who was like ready to stop playing the games.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, I am a nice guy. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if I find a girl that's ready, you know, to

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<v Speaker 3>communicate and continue the conversation, then of course I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to give it everything. But that wasn't the case.

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<v Speaker 4>You gave her like fifteen minutes. It sounds like to

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<v Speaker 4>respond to a text.

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<v Speaker 5>He's a creep that you can hear it in his voice.

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<v Speaker 2>Oyeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we need to go that far and

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<v Speaker 1>shame him for the sound of his voice. He's already

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<v Speaker 1>been shamed for them out that he doesn't sweat enough

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<v Speaker 1>on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Why did your friend match with me? Then you know

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a cleve. I'm just trying to find the

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<v Speaker 3>right person today.

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<v Speaker 2>You're bragging that you're going out with her friends. Well

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<v Speaker 2>he's not going out. They matched.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't return my message either, but I'm open.

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<v Speaker 5>Tell us something to my friend?

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<v Speaker 3>Is the creek too?

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<v Speaker 2>So show me she's it didn't make sense. Are they

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<v Speaker 2>perfect for each other?

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<v Speaker 5>Yea, no, No, she's a creepy. He's even worse than him.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe you should hook your friend.

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<v Speaker 5>Why they match?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's why they matched.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe your friend and Troy should go out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>At some point and we do that. Can we ask

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<v Speaker 1>that question because each other? It doesn't sound like Melanie

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<v Speaker 1>is into this at all. But maybe Melanie, we could

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<v Speaker 1>offer to send Troy out with your friend on a

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<v Speaker 1>date that we yeah, your creepy friends on the day

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<v Speaker 1>that we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 5>That might work it?

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<v Speaker 2>Really?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, yeah, I should be anyone?

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<v Speaker 4>My god, how am going to pitch your friend on that?

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<v Speaker 4>So this guy that I don't like and is creepy,

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<v Speaker 4>but they are you matched?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, Troy.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait wait, wait, well now you're telling me she will anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of don't want that.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, now, you don't know a lot of options here, dude.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you know what you're talking to me, So I'll

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<v Speaker 3>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You are something, Troy. We've scraped to the bottom of

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<v Speaker 1>the barrel officially and we are sending you out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with Melanie's creepy friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yay.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm happy to It's gonna go great. I can't wait

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<v Speaker 5>to hear it detail.

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<v Speaker 1>And Troy will be here for you when she goes

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<v Speaker 1>to you and we can do a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>for her as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Melanie, I just want to say one thing hate

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<v Speaker 3>the game I've played.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, glad you saved that, but you know you guys.

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<v Speaker 5>If you guys were on the phone, I would have hung.

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<v Speaker 2>Up your patient. I am going to hang up on everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>That's your second date update

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<v Speaker 4>Goodbye freaking Jeffrey in the morning.