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Oh man, 11 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: it almost doesn't even get nervous anymore. I feel like 12 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 1: we're just pros. You've gotten nervous for the past almost 13 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: two years. Yeah. I give really anxious sometimes for this thing. 14 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 1: Sometimes we just have really big guests on. I don't 15 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: feel like we have that today, so um. But yeah, 16 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: sometimes you have such a big guests on that I 17 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: get like my hands a little sweaty. We want to 18 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: reduce our guests a little bit. But before we do that, actually, 19 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: and I got it round down through this episode. The 20 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 1: Bachelor season had started this episode two of Colton season 21 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: to find love, um Ashley. Yeah, let's start with the 22 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: first group date. The first group rate from episode two. 23 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: From episode two, Okay, what do you think? So again? 24 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 1: I thought that the Megan allowed Mallowe and nick Offerman thing, 25 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: it's kinda yucky. I didn't. I didn't love their part. 26 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 1: I loved the part when the girls started getting on 27 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: stage the redhead a lease Hers was bomb. I thought 28 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: Colton's was awesome. Colton's part of that date made all 29 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: the virginity talk tasteful, But Megan, Mallowy, nick Offermand made 30 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: it so cringe e. I was like frowning through the 31 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: entire thing. I just didn't like it. It was so 32 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: not Bachelor, you know, it wasn't wholesome at all. And 33 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: they're funny, like they're witty, they're funny, they work off 34 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,839 Speaker 1: each other well. And I'm sure like if you were there, 35 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: probably uh felt like a little more like less like 36 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: just intrusive and more like flowy and fun. I'm with you. 37 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: I love dates on The Bachelor that first off put 38 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: people out of their comfort zones, but second off, you 39 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: actually get to like, I know them as people. And 40 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: I thought this when I first heard the idea when 41 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,679 Speaker 1: they when they first announced though, this is a date 42 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: to talk about your first I was like, this is ridiculous. Same, 43 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: but then when the women got on stage, it wasn't 44 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 1: just about virginity and it wasn't just about sex, and 45 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: it didn't have to be about that. It was like, 46 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: here's my first time feeling pain, here's my first time 47 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 1: feeling love, here's my first time whatever. And I was like, 48 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: this is what I love. And I bet, uh, if 49 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: we ever get the chance to talk to Colton, I 50 00:02:56,520 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: bet like that was a really good moment for him 51 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: because I know when I was the bachelor, those moments 52 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: broke through like the traditional kind of uh dates and 53 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: allowed you to get to know the women really well. 54 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: You know, Ben, It kind of reminded me of what 55 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: I've always told you was the moment that I thought 56 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: you shine for the first time. It was the sex 57 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 1: talk date with the kids, and it's like it's like 58 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: a it's like a it's a sex topic, right, But 59 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: then you made it so wholesome and that's what the 60 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: girls on stage and Colton on the stage did. But 61 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: I thought Nick and Megan, I thought she looked fantastic. 62 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: But I don't think they're bit went well. She did 63 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: look good. I've never thought she looked good. She looked good. 64 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: She looked hot, like she's like really aging. Yeah. Yeah, 65 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: Nick kind of looked good too. He's a funny guy. 66 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: Was with him at the Cubs game. Watch he's a 67 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: Cubs fan, so I like him. Um, he looked good too. Uh, 68 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: you know, the women shine. We were getting a little 69 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: hit here. Actually, we're starting to see that some of 70 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: the crazies come out before we move on to the 71 00:03:55,040 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: next date here, what's your thoughts? Is Demmi crazy? Is 72 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: she just obsessed with Colton? What is her thing? Because 73 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: we haven't quite like, it's not very clear yet. Demi 74 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: is the classic girl who's like, I'm so mature even 75 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: though I'm young. But she's definitely the most immature of 76 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: the group. Yeah, it's weird, and she keeps wanting to 77 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: bring it up. It makes it feel a little awkward. 78 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,239 Speaker 1: All right, let's move on. We've got then the first 79 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: one on one date. Uh. Really hard to watch, like 80 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: really hard to watch. I hate when the Bachelor makes 81 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: things awkward, Like I mean, and I'm sure it was 82 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: awkward in real life. I'm sure it felt weird in 83 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: real life, but when you watch it on TV and 84 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: it's like played out and there's just moments of silence 85 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: where you're sitting in a room watching a television screen. 86 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: You don't have said it many times and everybody on 87 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: the podcast listening will know this. You know, those moments 88 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: like watching Saved by the Bell as a kid, we 89 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: have to put your hand over your face and you 90 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: kind of look through your fingers because you can't watch anymore. 91 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: That's how I felt. Okay, so I tried to put 92 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: myself in Hannah's shoes, and I remember how awkward those 93 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: particular gular dates are because it's dead silent, like you're 94 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: not even like by the ocean where there's sound of 95 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: waves like there was just it was just desolate silence. 96 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 1: And then I don't think it always makes you feel 97 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 1: more awkward and more self conscious about everything that comes 98 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: out of your mace, your mouth. So I'm giving her 99 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt. There, I get it. I 100 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: do have to give Colton credit here, and I have 101 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: to give her credit. This is something that I that 102 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: I really think was good. I was waiting to see 103 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 1: what how coltoner to respond um to these situations like this. 104 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: Do you kiss right away. So as soon as it 105 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: starts eating quiet, do you lean in and just start 106 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 1: making out? Because he did it. He did it, not 107 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 1: on this date. He did one other time, but on 108 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: this date he held his own and just sat in it. 109 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: He sat in the awkwardness. And I think that was 110 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: a power. I think it's a great move for both 111 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: of them, like, let's just sit here and make this 112 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 1: thing work and if it's not, then we're just done. Yeah. Well, 113 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 1: what got her out of her shell to open up was, 114 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 1: of course, bringing up the virginity topic again. Really, we 115 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: thought we already got the explanation as to why he's 116 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: a virgin in episode one from a girl whose name 117 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: I don't remember. But I thought we got like the 118 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 1: explanation and we were gonna have to explain it anymore 119 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 1: and it was going to be done. And then I 120 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: was even thinking. I was like, I think we've gone 121 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 1: ten fifteen minutes without bringing up the word virgin, and 122 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: there she goes. That was her in on getting herself 123 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: to open up, and I was just like, come on, 124 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 1: be more creative than that. You totally took like the 125 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: easy way out. But Ashley, listen, did she get the explanation. 126 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: So she so she didn't see it. I get why 127 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: she asked. It's the thing but coldness. So many things 128 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: going for him, And ask him about his big muscles, 129 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: ask him about you know, his perfect jawline, Like, ask 130 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: him something else. Don't ask him about being a virgin. 131 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: It's that you just be creative, like she knows everybody 132 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,799 Speaker 1: else is asking it. And if I was a girl 133 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,239 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor right now, I just try to get 134 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: creative for me too, Like how about you come up 135 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: with something like what's your most embarrassing moment? Like that 136 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 1: that opens up a vulnerable story. Yeah, I'm not against it, 137 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:12,239 Speaker 1: all right, Next group date, moving on here, Um, you 138 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: like this group date? I like the first group date, 139 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: but I liked I like these physical activity group dates. 140 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: I like the ones that people can get sweaty, dirty, 141 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: and that you know what, it kind of breaks down 142 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: those walls as well. Yeah, I like the first one 143 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: better because it's more like an emotional opener. But and 144 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: you you can tell more about the personality. I'm not 145 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: you know that I'm not a lover of physical group dates, 146 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: but I loved head. There's a moment on this group date. 147 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: It was so cute. I don't know why she was 148 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,239 Speaker 1: so nervous telling Colton that she's never been kissed before, 149 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: because I'm pretty sure he was going to feel a 150 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: big sense of relief that there was somebody there that 151 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: was more inexperience than him, more pure than the guy himself. 152 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm telling you, I was kissing girls in 153 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: the sixth grade. Like how she's made it this long, 154 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, but good on her any time. Those 155 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: two always come up like pretty proud of them. But 156 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: my first kiss was nineteen, so I was like, girl, 157 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: don't worry, And I'm gonna definitely ask Calton this if 158 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: we ever have him on one his first kissed us. Uh. Well, 159 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:15,679 Speaker 1: lucky enough, um, lady and gentlemen, boys and girls, people 160 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: of all ages. Ashley and I are lucky enough to 161 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: welcome on the guest to this podcast, the man himself, 162 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: the Bachelor of all time. Why do you think that 163 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: his secret the entire time? It's in the description of 164 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 1: the podcast. We're just so corny. I was just sitting 165 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: here listening you compliment me on my Yeah. Well, don't listen, 166 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: all yeah, don't listen all that. Colton, Welcome to the podcast. 167 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: Thanks for coming on. Take a deep breath. I know 168 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: you've got a busy day. You've been doing press and 169 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: and you know all this promotion stuff for weeks now, 170 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: and so just hang out with Ashley. Now you've been 171 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: on before your pro at this. Uh, let's get started. 172 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 1: Are you holding up? You know? I'm actually I'm good. 173 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: I got these last two days, I got some sleep, 174 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: so we're all good. Traveling back and forth obviously is tough, 175 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: but I actually enjoy it. I really like the hustle 176 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: on the grind. Do you really like tell the listeners 177 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: out there. I know actually can relate on this, but 178 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: tell the listeners out there kind of what your schedule 179 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: has looked like post Bachelor. Yeah, Um, there's been obviously 180 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: set press days here in l A. Whether it's conference calls, 181 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: whether it's um remotes where you just have a camera 182 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: and other people like sort of tap into the feed. Um, 183 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: it's long hours. I'm not gonna lie. And then it's 184 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: always you always have to be on right And not 185 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: that I change who I am, but when you're on 186 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: in present, and you know, if I do an interview 187 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: and I like look tired and dragging, like they could 188 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: take my comments and twist them another way. Um, so 189 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 1: that parts, I guess like a little exhausting, going back 190 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: and forth between New York and moraining thing. Yes, it's 191 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 1: just turning yourself on. It's like I love this, but 192 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: it's not like you're changing who you are. But it's 193 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: like happy having to be bubbly and happy all the 194 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: time always. But um no, I'm I got lots of sleep. 195 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm ready to be happy and bubbly for you guys today, 196 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 1: She's turn it off. Man, we want the worst version 197 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: of you. That would be so well for us if 198 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: we could just get you angry and mad and irritated. 199 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: I don't think I can ever be mad at you. Ben, Well, 200 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: come on, let's not. Let's not start throwing compliments there, 201 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: even though, man, you look good right now. Hey, um 202 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: we're sitting in this is one thing I do want 203 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 1: to take a second. Cool and this is all about you, 204 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:36,959 Speaker 1: and this whole season is about you. It should be 205 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: about you. This podcast about you. Last night I literally 206 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: make our living because of you. Right now, but thank you, Calton, 207 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: I do want to take a second. And you brought 208 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: up a really good topic that we sit and we 209 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: use Ryan create a Seacrest Studio for this podcast right 210 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 1: and we're sitting in there right now. There's a big 211 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: sign of his name being. You know, you aren't an 212 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: entertainment Like, you're not an entertainer. You are yourself on 213 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,719 Speaker 1: this show and people love you because you're yourself, and 214 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: you're dating these women because you're yourself. But when you 215 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 1: do the press and you do talk to people, you 216 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 1: have to be like, you can't have a bad day. 217 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: And like the Ryan Seacrest of the world, they do 218 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: radio and TV every day, they can't have a bad day. 219 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 1: I need to ask you, Colden, like is it at 220 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: all draining on you? And and I be honest, like 221 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: do you feel like at all? Because I know for 222 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: me when I was in your situation, I felt like 223 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: at some level my soul wasn't getting sucked, but I 224 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: just couldn't be myself and it hurt and it started 225 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: to feel like I was a robot. And I've had 226 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: my days. I've had my my breakdowns, Like I'll self 227 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: admit that whether it's um and you know, I try 228 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: to say like and I've even said before like, oh 229 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: I don't pay attention to that. Yeah I'm lying. Um, 230 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: I mean I've read the comments, I've read the tweets. 231 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: I've yeah, I've read things I probably should have stayed 232 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: away from. So of course it gets to be too 233 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 1: much at times. Um And I think the one thing 234 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 1: that I have to keep reminding myself is like this 235 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: doesn't like this all right now is so much fun 236 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 1: and I'm having a blast with it, but it doesn't 237 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 1: define who I am as a person. Um. And I 238 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: think one one piece of advice Ben, that you gave 239 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: me a long time ago that it really sticks with 240 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: me is letting this enhance my life and letting this 241 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: provide opportunities and meeting crazy people and um, really using 242 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: it to enhance my life and not define my life. Yeah. 243 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: I mean Chris Harrison gave me that advice, smart man. 244 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 1: He is the host of the show. And I've been 245 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: passing it down to any Bachelor or Bachelor I can. 246 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 1: That's what the main thing that stuck stuck with me 247 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: from our conversations before I even started, uh, you know, 248 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 1: going on the Bachelor. It's it's a wild world, actually, 249 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: And I obviously sit here and we talk about you 250 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: every week, and people are celebrating you. Actually as you 251 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 1: sit there and you watch Colton so far this year. 252 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: I think I want to know from you, what are 253 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: some things in the first two episodes that have stood 254 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 1: out to you that you really enjoy about Cold But 255 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: we just played footsie something. I don't know what. I 256 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: was like, I'm sorry, what have I really enjoyed about Colton? Okay, Colton, 257 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: I I hope you take this as a comment. I 258 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 1: appreciate your nerves night one. It was so endearing and 259 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: it made me feel like you're a regular person and 260 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: not like this like male model robot. Yeah. I was 261 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,719 Speaker 1: actually a lot. I was way more nervous than I 262 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: thought I was gonna be. Yeah, I thought like, and 263 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 1: here was like one thing that I realized, and I 264 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: realized that more as like filming went on. I came 265 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: into it having filmed The Bachelor, went to Paradise, and 266 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: then went straight into the Bachelor, So I'm back to 267 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 1: back to back, and I came in like, Okay, I 268 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: got this, Like this is how this goes, this is 269 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: this camera operator, this is this audio guy. Like I 270 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: felt super comfortable, but still the sense of the reality 271 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,959 Speaker 1: of me meeting thirty women like that's obviously nobody could 272 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 1: prepare you for that. Nothing, no experience could prepare you 273 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 1: for that, And I think, like I just realized I 274 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:56,719 Speaker 1: don't have it all figured out, And I think that's 275 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 1: the beauty of what you know, how this this season 276 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 1: is it seems so it was like a real guy 277 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: meeting thirty women, not somebody just like And then my 278 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: other favorite thing about you is that you just you 279 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: just so very easy to talk to. I feel like 280 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: looking at every other bachelor, even you included Ben, you're 281 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: like a little bit more intimidating because like I guess 282 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: it's on the same way, like you're just more boyish 283 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: and more I just find you less intimidating, but in 284 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: a good way. Is that like is that offensive sounding? No? No, 285 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 1: not at all, because like I feel like I could 286 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: actually sit next to you the first night and be 287 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: like just ji vy, but with Ben, I'd probably be like, 288 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: oh my goodness, this man, um he's so smooth and 289 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: he knows exactly all the right things to say. But 290 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: like I don't, Like, I think I realized that too, 291 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 1: is like I don't want people to say just the 292 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: right things. And then question are you just saying that 293 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: because there's a camera in your face? Yeah, you know, approachable. 294 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: That's the word approachable. He approachable. And also I think 295 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: it helps Colton that you've been so vulnerable, like I know, 296 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: we've we've hated you know, over and over again hearing 297 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 1: about you know what your history UM and BED has been, 298 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 1: but it has made you vulnerable, like it's forced you 299 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 1: to be authentic and genuine something that's maybe one of 300 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: the things that most of us hid the most about 301 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: our selves and talk about the least. We've known about 302 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: it for a long time. I should probably mention that 303 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: that's probably why I find Culton the most approachable because 304 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: I went in on The Bachelor being a virgin? Did 305 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: you did you disclose that in casting? Yeah? Did you? 306 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: No way? No, they didn't, And I could, like for 307 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: sure say like there is no way they knew because 308 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: I didn't, Like I hadn't really told that many people, 309 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: and the people I did were like tight lipped about it. 310 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 1: So beck Attilly also didn't talk about it in casting, 311 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: and I didn't. I never thought it was going to 312 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: be that big of a deal. Yeah, I just casually 313 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: talked about it in an interview or I think I 314 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: was talking in one of my demand chats. UM and 315 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: I brought it up, and then it became like everybody, 316 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: you know, everybody had their opinions on it, which is 317 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: what the show is, right. I mean people they like 318 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: when people have opinions about certain things. Um, but I 319 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 1: never I never thought it was going to be like this. 320 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't even want to say powerful because it's not 321 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 1: like that. But its just it's like a label. And 322 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: that's the one thing that's driving me nuts the most 323 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: about it now is just the label. Yeah, and you 324 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: can't get away with it. They're focusing more it seems 325 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: like on you finding your first unless of you finding 326 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: your wife or maybe they're one and the same hopefully. 327 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: I mean that's the reason. Is this for me is 328 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: like now where I'm at in my life, It's like, 329 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: when that moment happens, I wanted to be with somebody 330 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: who I could see myself spending the rest of my 331 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: life with. I think Ashley, you know from the talks 332 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: with with you, actually I bet you would agree. Hey, 333 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: we gotta take a second. We have a huge fan 334 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 1: of massive fan of Colton on the line right now. 335 00:16:57,240 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 1: Who is called in Steph P Are you out there? 336 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 1: I'm here? Hi? Hi, stuff, how are you good? How 337 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:09,719 Speaker 1: are you guys? Great? I'm like, thanks for having me on. 338 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm such a random person. Is that? 339 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: What do you guys are doing today? Talk to random people? 340 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 1: Calling it? We just heard you are a great enthusiastic 341 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: Bachelor fan. That is in fact true. I love you guys, 342 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 1: I love but you're a massive fan of Colton. Correct. 343 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: I'm a massive fan of everyone. But yes, I love cool. 344 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:36,479 Speaker 1: Thank you, hi that you love so much? Um, I 345 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: think he seems like a very nice guy. You feel 346 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 1: like one of the nicer backs, which is nice after Okay, 347 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,120 Speaker 1: I got I lied. I don't like everyone. I gotta 348 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: be honest. It's not like I lied. I didn't like 349 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,399 Speaker 1: or at all. So it's really nice to have a 350 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 1: nice bachelor back on who seems like a good person. Well, 351 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: thank you, I appreciate that. I'll tell are you what 352 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: you said? To go ahead? I can't care like I'll 353 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 1: tell it. No, that's not true. I totally wouldn't do 354 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 1: that to pick. We can't hate on our He just 355 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: got married this weekend. That's a massive deal that I'm 356 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: sure he honestly, obviously, he would not give a crap 357 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: what I think about him. It's like, who's this chick? 358 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:21,119 Speaker 1: But I'm happy for him as long as they're happy. Uh, Step, 359 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: I know there's something on your heart. I know there's 360 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:27,159 Speaker 1: something you're feeling deep inside. You have questions for Colton, 361 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: and so take it away. Okay, So okay, here's my 362 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 1: first late in one. And so I know you're probably 363 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 1: sick of talking about this, Colton. I know you love 364 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: you must be so sick of talking about how you're 365 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 1: a virgin, but or maybe you're not now I don't 366 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: even know. I have no clue, but on a scale 367 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: of one to ten, how sick of you were talking 368 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 1: about that? UM, I would say the hardest part for 369 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 1: it right now I knew they it was obviously going 370 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: to come up with my relationships with the ladies and 371 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: the women on my show. Um, the hardest part now, 372 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: I think post show is like watching every single UM 373 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 1: article have the headline of virgin bachelor. I think that's 374 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: what is sort of tough for me because I've gone 375 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,120 Speaker 1: through it in my life before. With football is like 376 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 1: I've dealt with my family and my relationships with my 377 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: friends being dependent on Oh, how's the next season going 378 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: to go? So I've already been in a comparable situation 379 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 1: where people wanted to find me and stick me in 380 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,120 Speaker 1: the box of you know, well, now it's Virgin Bachelor, 381 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: before it was football Colton and there's nothing and they 382 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:30,679 Speaker 1: just act like there's nothing more to me. Yeah, that sucks. 383 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,639 Speaker 1: I guess yeah, Well do do you think do you 384 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 1: think that they picked you because of that? And you're 385 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: kind of like, there's more to me than this. I mean, 386 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: it's one thing. I'm not in a position to say 387 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 1: why exactly they picked me? Is this part of is 388 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:48,440 Speaker 1: this part of the storyline? Is people going are people 389 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 1: going to be invested in? Absolutely? Um? I hope that 390 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: that's not the only reason that they picked me in. 391 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I just I think there there is a 392 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 1: lot more to me. There is a lot more information 393 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: to be said about the Virgin, and you will find 394 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: it out on this season. Oh good, I can't wait 395 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 1: because I was so I don't know how much you guys. 396 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 1: I don't know how much you guys know about me 397 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: or not that I'm a fitness instructor. But today in class, 398 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: I was telling everyone that was gonna be on the show, 399 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,119 Speaker 1: and that was like, I was like, what do you 400 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: guys want to know? The most, like what because most 401 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 1: of my writers are big fans too, and we're all 402 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 1: in like a fantasy league together that I'm losing already, 403 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: which I'm very embarrassed. But one thing we were all wondering, 404 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 1: We're like, do wish after all this, do you wish 405 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 1: you lost your virginity earlier during someone who you were 406 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,239 Speaker 1: maybe in love within your past that it was just 407 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 1: not the whole thing? Or are you like a no 408 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,719 Speaker 1: regret whatever, you know, a type of person just move on. 409 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 1: I think in regards to my virgin I stand by 410 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 1: the man who I was. I stay by the man 411 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,879 Speaker 1: who I am today. Um. And I feel like, you know, 412 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 1: it's made me not only like while I say it's 413 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: such a small part of who I am, I just 414 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: think it's a set of morals, a set of values 415 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,920 Speaker 1: that I've carried in my personal life for so long now. 416 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:03,439 Speaker 1: Um that I don't regret. I don't regret the decision 417 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 1: that I made. I don't regret talking about it on 418 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: National TV. I just never thought it would get to 419 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 1: this point. Wait, I have something to say about this 420 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 1: because after I got off The Bachelor, I was like, 421 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 1: I just wish I hadn't gone in like that I 422 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: wish that. I really I had a moment where I 423 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 1: wish that I had lost it to somebody that I 424 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 1: was seeing before the show, and I was like, that 425 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 1: was a huge mistake, Like he was the one I 426 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 1: wanted to really do that with. And now this is 427 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: all out there, and now there's so much pressure on 428 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: me from other guys. Like every guy I'm gonna date 429 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 1: going forward is going to know this, and it's gonna 430 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: turn a lot of guys off. But it's gonna it's 431 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: going to turn the wrong I know. So for years 432 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 1: I was like people would tell me that and I'd 433 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: be like, oh, I know, I know. But then you know, 434 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: when you get older and you do find the right relationship, 435 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 1: then you like know that that's really what you should 436 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: stick to. You need to keep reminding yourself that as 437 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 1: annoying as it is, no in the the whole topic 438 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: of it as a whole, I'm not annoyed. I'm annoyed 439 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,959 Speaker 1: by the cheapening of it. I'm annoyed when it's just 440 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 1: used as clickbait or um when people want to bring 441 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:19,880 Speaker 1: it up sort of in a in a cheap way, 442 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: or take shots at it or discredit it like I'm 443 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: not like I didn't open up about it to say like, hey, 444 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: I'm better than this person. It's just part. It's just 445 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: like if i'm if you're going to get to know 446 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 1: who I am, Like that's just part of me. Do 447 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:38,639 Speaker 1: people ever think that you're that you are? Like, I 448 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 1: don't know what I'm going to say this. It's like 449 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 1: the opposite of virgin shaming. People say that if you 450 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 1: throw it in their face. Yeah, the word like you 451 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 1: think it's better you are pure? No, Like, And that's 452 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: the thing, Like, I don't really talk about it that much. 453 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 1: I've talked about it when it's appropriate in the relationship. Um, 454 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: obviously I talked about it on the show, but I 455 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 1: don't have final say like what sound bites get used. 456 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 1: And so I mean that's a whole another conversation. But 457 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't I don't walk around and wear 458 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: it like on my chest like that. I'll admit to it, 459 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: I'll own who I am as a person, but I'm 460 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: I'm not leading any type of conversation. That's why, Like 461 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,120 Speaker 1: you didn't hear me talk to Becca about it until 462 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 1: it was appropriate, until it was a week before hometown, 463 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,640 Speaker 1: until she had to make a decision whether she wanted 464 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 1: to move our relationship forward or not. Yeah, it was 465 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 1: totally the appropriate time. Yeah, I'm not going to just 466 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: hit him with at night one, you know. Yeah, Steph, 467 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: I know you're still out there. Anything else you want 468 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 1: to ask Colton before you go? Sure? What about? Okay? 469 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 1: Here's one thing that did set me about your first 470 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 1: night alright, the first episode? Why did you get rid 471 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: of the favorite? I'm a big chemistry and connection guy, 472 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,160 Speaker 1: and it just wasn't there. It's one of those things 473 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,879 Speaker 1: that's hard to really explain it when you have a 474 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: feeling like and also keep in mind there's twenty nine 475 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: other incredible women as well, So it just all for 476 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: me came down to chemistry and connection. I respect the move. 477 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: I was expect how in character she was the whole 478 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 1: entire night. And I know it's not easy staying in 479 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: that outfit because she had to stay in that the 480 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 1: whole night. It's cold, ye warm in the tree, crawling 481 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 1: around whatever she was. But you know what, I'll say 482 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 1: that I personally I mad respect she's stayed in character 483 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,639 Speaker 1: the whole time. Well, you do have a lot of 484 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 1: good girls to choose from this season. Yeah. Absolutely, Well, 485 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 1: I have a special announcement to make this Sloth will 486 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: be on during the last segment of the show today. 487 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yes, like I really I love the 488 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 1: interest so much. I always think if I whoever went 489 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 1: on the show, which I wouldn't because I'm married, but uh, 490 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 1: I wouldn't do something crazy and weird like that. It 491 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 1: was like that girl is my girl. Hey, Steph, thank 492 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 1: you so much for on the podcast. Thanks for having 493 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: me you guys can't wait to watch to night. Calton, 494 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: thank you. I can't wait to watch two. Good Bye. Okay, Colton, 495 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 1: I want to just revisit the the fact that you 496 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 1: didn't bring it up in asting and that you brought 497 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 1: it up when you were just having a casual conversation 498 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 1: in the house. Did you get used to having these 499 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:12,360 Speaker 1: casual conversations, because like last night you talked about, um, 500 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,919 Speaker 1: how you told one of your teammates when you just 501 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 1: asked you the question point blank, and You're like, I 502 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,479 Speaker 1: was searching for a lie, honestly, and then you just 503 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: came out with the truth, which is a scenario that 504 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,199 Speaker 1: I was in a zillion times whenever the topic of 505 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: sex would come up anywhere in school with my friends 506 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 1: straight to lying or did you pivot? I would pivot. 507 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 1: I'd be like if it was a girl talk, does 508 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,679 Speaker 1: anybody need any water? And like I get up to 509 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 1: go the fridge, or like I gotta go to the bathroom, 510 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: and you know, I just walk away from the conversation 511 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 1: or I got super quiet and it was just so awkward. 512 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 1: People must have been like, why doesn't you ever participate 513 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 1: in these conversations? So did you get used to it 514 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: before going to the Bachelorhouse about talking and talking about it? 515 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 1: You know? But this is the interest, like the reason, 516 00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: the whole reason why I wanted to do the Bachelor 517 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: and I went on was it was a point in 518 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 1: my life where I just wanted to start coming into 519 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 1: my own I want to start owning who I was 520 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 1: as a person, and I wanted to start like really 521 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,199 Speaker 1: focusing on my personal life. So that was just one 522 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: of those moments where I'm like, all right, I'm in, Like, 523 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 1: I'm in this, let's do this. I gotta work and 524 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: I gotta like I have to continue to push myself. 525 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:20,879 Speaker 1: And I think you and I have talked about it before. 526 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 1: I don't even know where I would be personally, like 527 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 1: the growth that you have on these shows is unbelievable. 528 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,879 Speaker 1: I'm sure have been You've been through it too. I 529 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:30,159 Speaker 1: don't even know if I would have been able to 530 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 1: start dating changes the way it changes the way that 531 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: you go about every other conversation in your personal life, 532 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: whether you're dating them or not. It's just it's so 533 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: refreshing to be direct, say what's on your mind, and 534 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 1: then also just not be afraid to be vulnerable, like 535 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,399 Speaker 1: if like I don't know now now it's just like 536 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 1: my friendships have even gotten stronger. We went from one 537 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,679 Speaker 1: extreme being totally secret of it to be like, Okay, 538 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 1: you can ask me. I'm an open book. I'll tell 539 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 1: you everything. And I think it's I think it's a 540 00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 1: better healthier way to live everyday to start out with 541 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: now I start out with, I am Ben. Did you 542 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 1: know at one point I was the Bachelor? Hey before 543 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 1: before we continue, actually, uh, something that's on your mind 544 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 1: and something you're really proud of, something you love very 545 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: much you have to tell our fans about. Jared and 546 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 1: I went to Janner Manor Part two this weekend down 547 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:23,480 Speaker 1: in Orange County, California, and everything in their house is 548 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,400 Speaker 1: from Curt and barrel because we found out that they 549 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: had a Crton Barrel registry for their wedding and we're like, 550 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,400 Speaker 1: where'd you get that crand barrel? And we're like, where'd 551 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,640 Speaker 1: you get that grand barrel? Like, Wow, we gotta put 552 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 1: all this stuff on our registry because it's so nice. 553 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,359 Speaker 1: What I love about Crate and Barrel and having a 554 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 1: Crton Barrel registry is that all the pieces are timeless 555 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: and they evolved with your style, just like jan and 556 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 1: Tanner were able to go from one house with the 557 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: same decor and plates and glasses as they were in 558 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: their new house, which is a little bit of a 559 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: different style. And Crate and Barrel also makes entertaining effortless. 560 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 1: You should have seen how Jade was is able to 561 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 1: make breakfast and put everything out and like the most 562 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 1: beautiful layout with all her crate and barrel products that 563 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:14,400 Speaker 1: they got from their registry. Also, they have amazing beds, 564 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: and Jared and I were like, that's something we forgot 565 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 1: to put on our registry. We need new Dubai's sheets, pillows, 566 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 1: bath towels. All that stuff is so nice from Crate 567 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 1: and Barrel. Jared and I love to come home and 568 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,639 Speaker 1: unwind after we're busy day, we look forward to just 569 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: coming home, sitting on the couch or lying in bed, 570 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: and we wanted to look as good as it feels. 571 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 1: And that is the perfect combination that we get with 572 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 1: crate and barrel stuff. So, whether we are lounging at 573 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: home just the two of us, or whether we're entertaining, 574 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel's got everything we need. You can start 575 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: your Crate and Barrel Registry today at Crate and Barrel 576 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 1: dot com. Again, if you are preparing for a wedding, 577 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: you can get your Crate and Barrel Registry started today 578 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 1: at Crate and Barrel dot com. So when you did 579 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: have that conversation and you were like, oh, actually our 580 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: supposide somebody on Beck of Season, did they like pull 581 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: you into an interview right away? Um, as far as 582 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 1: what they were like, oh my god, we just got 583 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 1: amazing during this guy. Uh no, now because they knew 584 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 1: about it because I brought it up in the house 585 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: into it, Oh you did, Yeah, So I didn't drink. 586 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,479 Speaker 1: You were interviewing about it. I was interviewing and I 587 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: think I was having a conversation with Jason. I don't 588 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 1: know which one came first um in the house, and 589 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 1: then they started yeah, and then we just started having 590 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: a conversation. And like I said before, like that's where 591 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 1: the growth comes in is because the more that I realized, 592 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 1: like as you talked through things and they kept asking 593 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: me why, like or what was it? Like how what 594 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 1: did you do in your other relationship? Like how how 595 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: is this dynamic? And like for the first time, I'm 596 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 1: actually putting it into words for myself to hear too, 597 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 1: And I think that was that's what was so cool 598 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 1: about it. That was the question that I hate. Not 599 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: only did I hate the question when when you'd have 600 00:29:56,480 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 1: sex talks around you and you tried to avoid them. 601 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 1: I not only dreaded just saying I'm a virgin, I 602 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: dreaded being having my friend be like why how because 603 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,719 Speaker 1: I didn't really even know how to describe it. Well, 604 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: it's not like for me too, and I don't know 605 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: about like you. But it's not a simple answer, No, 606 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: it's not. I had like a whole bunch of different reasonings. 607 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 1: I think as our society is, especially today, and how um, 608 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 1: I don't I want to say this in a tasteful 609 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: way and not lazy, but we just look for that simple. 610 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: We just look for the simple answer and to move on. 611 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 1: So if you have to think about it at all, 612 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 1: it's just like, Okay, well he must be lying or 613 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 1: he must be doing this. It's because you just don't 614 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 1: want to put the effort in to like actually understand 615 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,239 Speaker 1: or get the reasoning why. And you just didn't want 616 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 1: to be thought that you were weird. And I don't. 617 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: I mean, if I really were to explain this to 618 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 1: you wouldn't think I was weird. But immediately you're gonna think, 619 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 1: like in the world, right, So well cool. I can 620 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 1: talk about this forever because you have any that really 621 00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 1: we understand each other a lot on I get it. 622 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: I get it, and I'm glad you guys got to talk. Actually, 623 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: you've had a lot of thoughts I've known, uh Colton, 624 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 1: you know you're a lot more than this conversation. So 625 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 1: I promise you one thing from here and out, No, 626 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: nothing we're gonna talk about is going to be about you. 627 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: I don't really want to hear about it. I don't 628 00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,239 Speaker 1: like thinking about I would never have brought it up 629 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: if you didn't. You and I didn't have similar situations 630 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 1: more interesting because we've bulled been identical situations, except for 631 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 1: you're the Bachelor and I was never like the lead, 632 00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: and that I can't even imagine how annoying. All right, 633 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 1: here we go, Colton. Yes, you're two weeks in. Uh, 634 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 1: it's no secret to most that you've been through this. 635 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 1: Now you're sitting here and you're talking about it. Do 636 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 1: you still believe the Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise, Bachelor, I 637 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 1: can find you or anybody else love. I will go 638 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: to bat and I will back the franchise up until 639 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 1: my last breath. I probably I always said to, And 640 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: I don't do the apps I've watched, and I have 641 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,360 Speaker 1: friends who would have dating apps. But I actually think 642 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 1: what I've experienced on The Bachelor and in Paradise and 643 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor has been some of the most real 644 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: connections that I've I've ever had and where I think 645 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 1: people can because when the phones go away and you 646 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,320 Speaker 1: actually have a genuine conversation, you talk about meaningful things 647 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: like it's so powerful, how it can advance a relationship. 648 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: It really is. It's it's just like microcosm is like space. 649 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,440 Speaker 1: I was just telling somebody other day, Um, I've started 650 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 1: dating again. This is big news, right, I am dating 651 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 1: an app No, no, no, I'm actually dating one person 652 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: that we'll talk about in a couple of weeks on 653 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: the pod. Yeah. So so just um, you know what, 654 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: why not? And and so I'm excited about So here's 655 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 1: the thing. We're talking to their night and I was 656 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: saying the Bachelor is a really great thing because it 657 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 1: is it forces you to have conversations. And right now, 658 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 1: the girl that I'm talking to is long distance, and 659 00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: so we face time a lot, and it feels very 660 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 1: similiar because we don't get time together. It's very intentional, 661 00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 1: it's very focused. And if we're gonna we're gonna spend 662 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 1: any time with each other, it's gonna be in conversation. Um. 663 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 1: And she's like the best purest person I know, and 664 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: so like a lot of those conversations are about our lives. 665 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 1: So anyways, Colton, I think you're spot on. I do 666 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 1: believe also the show can find you love. Second question, 667 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,960 Speaker 1: This is a two part question. Uh so let me 668 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,640 Speaker 1: finish you. I'm gonna say first, the first part of 669 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 1: this question is what's one thing that bothers you most 670 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: about watching yourself on TV? You've had enough time now 671 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 1: on television. You've seen this and the second part of 672 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: that is what makes you and I promise this is 673 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 1: going to get better unlikable. Um, I would say what 674 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: bothers me the most on TV? I just I think 675 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:46,479 Speaker 1: right now, like just the constant conversations that even I'm 676 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 1: articulating with the virginity thing and how the sexual undertone 677 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 1: of is of the whole show is Like I had 678 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: an idea of that before I went on, but knowing 679 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: like my Grandma's watching, and my aunts and my family's 680 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:02,920 Speaker 1: and my little brother, like, and that almost answers your 681 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: other question to where it's unwatching, Like that's the part 682 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: I'm just like sort of cringing when I hear myself 683 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 1: even talk back, Like when I hear myself talking about it, 684 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,840 Speaker 1: that that hurts, right, Like those intimate moments, even the kissing. 685 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 1: I remember I was watching episode four at my house 686 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 1: in Warsaw with my parents and their friends, right, and 687 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,719 Speaker 1: so they had a watch party. I was able to 688 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 1: get home for that, and so I was sitting watching 689 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 1: my episode and there's just like really heated makeout scene, right, 690 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 1: and so you can hear it, Like the show loves 691 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: to like do the noise effects where it's like, and 692 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 1: I'm sitting there in this room full of like my 693 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:40,359 Speaker 1: family and my friends and my pastor, which is great. 694 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure he's all for it. I have nothing against 695 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 1: making out, but it feels weird. Ben. I did a 696 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 1: watch party on The Bachelor at the Children's Hospital for 697 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: my hometowns to celebrate, Like I went back with the 698 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 1: kids that back and I visited and I completely like. 699 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,319 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is a great idea. Like 700 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 1: we'll tie it into like the same day like Beck 701 00:34:58,360 --> 00:34:59,520 Speaker 1: and I. And then I was like, oh my gosh, 702 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 1: I forgot I tell her I love her at the 703 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 1: end of this and like we have a full on 704 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,320 Speaker 1: makeout session and I'm sitting there with the kids and 705 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 1: their parents and we're all watching them. I was like, 706 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 1: all right, we could go do something else now, Like 707 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 1: to watch this part, you should definitely go watch it 708 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,520 Speaker 1: at Children's Hospital. For the shower scene that I've been 709 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 1: seeing all the previews that you have coming up showers, 710 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:20,239 Speaker 1: I took the one where the showers coming down and 711 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,319 Speaker 1: some girl jumps to you and you're holding and you're 712 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 1: ready for this. This is like a spoiler alert. We 713 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,799 Speaker 1: had a shower b roll day pickups what, Yes, it 714 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 1: was awesome. That's a lot. I don't mind watching the 715 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 1: shower and strong. Hey, okay, what makes you most likable? 716 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:40,279 Speaker 1: What are you watching yourself? I remember when I was 717 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: doing it. There's a couple of things. I was like, 718 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,919 Speaker 1: you know what you're you're carrying yourself. Well, you're doing 719 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 1: all right, You're looking at them in the eye, You're 720 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 1: you're intentional by your conversation. Has been nice work? What 721 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:53,359 Speaker 1: is that about you? Um? I think like the one 722 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,280 Speaker 1: thing that I tried to do well on my season 723 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: was sort of what you were talking about earlier. I 724 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 1: had been through us before, and I had been on 725 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,759 Speaker 1: the other side, and I know at times it could 726 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 1: be hard. I know at times it could be challenging 727 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 1: to open up, um, And you actually see that in 728 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,360 Speaker 1: the episode. I tried to make everybody feel as comfortable 729 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 1: as they could so that I can get the best 730 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 1: out of them and I can also get the best 731 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 1: out of myself. So I really prided myself on trying 732 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 1: to really relate to them without speaking for them, and 733 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 1: I think there's a fine balance of that. But then 734 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I also wanted to challenge them and push 735 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: them to where it's like I don't want to have 736 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 1: to carry the conversation, but I just feel like making 737 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,239 Speaker 1: sure that they were comfortable in our moments together was 738 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 1: very important. That's so poor. That is a couple of secrets. Actually, 739 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 1: I don't know what was it for you why you 740 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: were doing uh the show, Ashley or even now and 741 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 1: you go on you know, all these access Hollywood, all 742 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 1: these things you do. What is it that makes you 743 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:50,399 Speaker 1: feel comfortable in front of the cameras m H experience. Yeah, 744 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 1: I was gonna say just being used to it at 745 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,439 Speaker 1: this point. Yeah, yeah, I don't really think there's a trick. 746 00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,280 Speaker 1: It all depends on, like whether it's live or not too. 747 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 1: I thought we did last week with the live premiere 748 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 1: was nerve racking, but tape things are like, oh, you know, 749 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 1: I get to cut that out. I thought you killed 750 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,040 Speaker 1: it too, by the way you jured because I sat 751 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 1: in the green room the whole time. I know, I 752 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 1: saw that you liked my Instagram and commented under I 753 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 1: was like, what is this man doing during his live 754 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,840 Speaker 1: premiere that he still I wasn't green. I was in 755 00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: a green room being hit from the Hollywood party until 756 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:27,040 Speaker 1: like my big reveal. So I actually got to sit 757 00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 1: and watch the show, and it was it was really cool. 758 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 1: Then you did really well to your super fan was cute? 759 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 1: Oh she was adorable. Yeah. I got about two minutes 760 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:35,800 Speaker 1: two minutes out there, and I made the most of it. 761 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,840 Speaker 1: I screamed and I picked her up. He did a 762 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,280 Speaker 1: great job. This is a question for both of you. Actually, 763 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: I'd love for you to answer this first. Cold Nancy, 764 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 1: say what makes a good bachelor? Olden goes first or 765 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: I go first? You know I want you to go first. Oh, 766 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 1: I think approachability makes a really good bachelor. I think 767 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 1: somebody who brings out, somebody who just makes all the 768 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:05,520 Speaker 1: girls as comfortable as possible. And uh, yeah, that's what 769 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:12,360 Speaker 1: I was saying. Honesty that works, That's important. Attractiveness works. 770 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 1: You need that, Um Ben whatever, you guys are you too? Well. 771 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 1: It's interesting you bring that up, because before I left 772 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 1: for filming, I didn't like anything that I do. I 773 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 1: try to do some of the best of my abilities, 774 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 1: and I try to do my homework. So I obviously 775 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 1: watched Ben back. And because was there any other season 776 00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 1: that you watched back, I've watched obviously, I watched Aris, 777 00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 1: I watched Ben's and I watched Nicks, and one thing 778 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: that I realized from talking to all three is like, 779 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,960 Speaker 1: you're gonna have your own experience with this and you're 780 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:50,439 Speaker 1: not going to do things perfectly all the time, and 781 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 1: everybody has your unique things. So like, as much as 782 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:54,600 Speaker 1: I wanted to be like, oh, I want to be 783 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 1: like Ben, in this moment, it's like, no, I want 784 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 1: to be Colton. Like I want to be true to 785 00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,080 Speaker 1: who I am and if I make a mistake, and 786 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: if I say something wrong, then I say something wrong, 787 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,839 Speaker 1: I'm gonna own it and move on. But what could 788 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 1: you really stay wrong? I don't know. I mean, if 789 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 1: that's the thing is, it's like you, Ken, I could 790 00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 1: have done things better though, like you could always do 791 00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 1: things better, Like I'm looking back at this, like, oh man, 792 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 1: I could have handled that conversation better. Really, even in 793 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 1: these two episodes. Yeah, I mean, I think there's always 794 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 1: obviously room for improvement, But like, I don't know. I 795 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 1: will say, like I just feel this season I stayed 796 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,560 Speaker 1: true to who I was. That's the only thing. I mean. 797 00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 1: As you sit there and you talk to these women 798 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 1: and you can walk away going, hey, I'm not done 799 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 1: that perfectly. You know you're not going into these going 800 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be perfect. You're going in saying I'm gonna 801 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:40,680 Speaker 1: be cold in there, I'm gonna be better, I'm gonna 802 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,239 Speaker 1: be Ashley, and you hope to walk away feeling that 803 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:44,919 Speaker 1: same way. I think the one thing that you could 804 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: do wrong to answer that for both of you, I 805 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: think arrogance and a lack of humility. Uh. And this 806 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:56,239 Speaker 1: entitlement comes off terribly on the show, and I think 807 00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: you can see that. And I think the bachelor Bachelor 808 00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:01,359 Speaker 1: I oftentimes struggle with that because they get this big head. 809 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,759 Speaker 1: They go into it feeling like they're Prince Charming or 810 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,799 Speaker 1: or you know that the Queen of the world, and 811 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 1: it comes off on the show cold and you haven't 812 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: shown the yet. I'm still waiting. Here's Here's something I 813 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,319 Speaker 1: always bring up on this podcast. I think the best 814 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,360 Speaker 1: Bachelor's and Bachelorettes it's how they react to really hard situations. 815 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 1: I was humbled on the show. I got humbled, did 816 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 1: you Yeah? There was there was a moment where, like 817 00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:21,920 Speaker 1: I said, coming into it is like I have this 818 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,040 Speaker 1: all figured out. I've been on two of these things before, 819 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:25,879 Speaker 1: like watch watch me do what I need to do 820 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: and I got Yeah, I was humbled. Huh. I mean 821 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,279 Speaker 1: I think that's exciting. I think for me. Uh and 822 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 1: actually tell me if you disagree. I think for me, 823 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,440 Speaker 1: that's not exciting to watch. That's good for me to 824 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 1: watch because it means it's real. That's a real moment 825 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,440 Speaker 1: humility and being humbled is an authentic, genuine moment that 826 00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: you can't force or fake. Yeah, I mean, it's just 827 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,719 Speaker 1: And that's that's when, like it really got I was 828 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,400 Speaker 1: obviously pushed. The most, too, is when things didn't go 829 00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 1: my way. It looks like adversity, right, And that's when 830 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:02,360 Speaker 1: you grow the most, is when things don't go your way. 831 00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 1: But see, that's that's what everybody thinks, but that's not 832 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:13,360 Speaker 1: always the case. Interesting. Interesting, Alright. My final question for you, Colton, 833 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,680 Speaker 1: until I send it over to ash to plug away 834 00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:19,440 Speaker 1: for a couple of minutes here is what is the 835 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 1: one thing Colton, now that you're sitting here in week 836 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,399 Speaker 1: two and the rest of the season is in front 837 00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 1: of you that you've learned from doing this whole experience. 838 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 1: It's hard to pick one. I've learned so much obviously 839 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,760 Speaker 1: about myself that it's been so good of my needs 840 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: and my wants in my life. But I think just 841 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 1: coming into my own as a person and as a 842 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,399 Speaker 1: human being, and I'm still working on how I can 843 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 1: be better. Um, I think we always are. But I 844 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 1: just what this opportunity has done for me in my 845 00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:59,880 Speaker 1: personal life and how comfortable I am owning who I 846 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 1: am now has been like the the best thing about it, 847 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:09,400 Speaker 1: hands down. I agree. I agree for you. That's awesome, 848 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:13,279 Speaker 1: really great. Hey uh actually before I simmed over to you, 849 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:14,799 Speaker 1: I do have a question for anybody in the room. 850 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,399 Speaker 1: This can be anybody when that we wanted to ask 851 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 1: and nobody knows anything about. Is the Bachelor Mansion going 852 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,920 Speaker 1: to be used ever? Again? Yeah? It's fine, Fine, we 853 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,200 Speaker 1: have people in here that are confirming this for sure. 854 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:27,960 Speaker 1: I am my producers in your shout out to Lady Kay. 855 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:33,440 Speaker 1: She always kills it. Yeah, new haircut right now? It 856 00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 1: looks bomb. Um. I read this sto. It was like 857 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 1: a meme or something that the word virgin was mentioned 858 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 1: so much this season that the devil who created the virus. 859 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 1: This is like, we can't even go there, We can't 860 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:51,120 Speaker 1: even go hit that house. It's sacred ground. Okay. Anyway, 861 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,920 Speaker 1: I have fun questions for you are you ready? Is 862 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:59,839 Speaker 1: this Jurgen's tan that you have on right now? Face 863 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 1: moisturizer this morning. He's a big fan of Jorgens. I 864 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,399 Speaker 1: think he's trying to get a sponsorship. Is unbelievable. Oh 865 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,920 Speaker 1: they messaged me, Oh they did. Yeah, we'd like to 866 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:13,280 Speaker 1: send you all the Jurorgon products. You'd like, what's your favorite? Ye? Awesome, 867 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:18,080 Speaker 1: Well it looks Instagram influencer. Now, guys, it looks awesome. 868 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,160 Speaker 1: As my producer is like cringing over there, She's like, no, 869 00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,359 Speaker 1: I like to break the fourth wall. You know. Yeah, 870 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:27,240 Speaker 1: me too. I wish they did that more everything. Come on, Megan, 871 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 1: I see lady, Kay, you do want to break that 872 00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 1: fourth wall more? It's so good. Alright, fun questions, Ben's stop. Okay, Yeah, 873 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:41,320 Speaker 1: I know Trure Falls, your monthly skincareteen costs five dollars. True. 874 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,359 Speaker 1: I just found that out. I actually just started using 875 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,840 Speaker 1: like what I was what I was using, I didn't 876 00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:50,000 Speaker 1: know how much it costs. So you were okay, so 877 00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:55,400 Speaker 1: another sponsored thing? No, Well, the Bachelor blessed me with um, 878 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 1: you know, obviously hair and makeup. So yeah, so then 879 00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,839 Speaker 1: you got addicted to what they were giving you Gina. Yeah, 880 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:05,400 Speaker 1: she's awesome. Yeah, Gina is the show's hair and makeup. Um, 881 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,359 Speaker 1: and she did an amazing job with all like the 882 00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,480 Speaker 1: products and sitting down with me and like really finding 883 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,959 Speaker 1: out like what I like, what I feel comfortable using. 884 00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 1: She's the best. But then what she was using on me, 885 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:17,839 Speaker 1: like I was like, I want, I need this in 886 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,960 Speaker 1: like my daily life. So you saw a difference, that's awesome. Well, 887 00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:22,239 Speaker 1: you want to give a shout out to what you've 888 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,319 Speaker 1: been using Jurgen's shout out to Jarragans, just Jurgen's we're 889 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:30,920 Speaker 1: just getting sponsored by Jorgens right now. Well, I I 890 00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:34,200 Speaker 1: give you props for having an expensive kin guarantein I 891 00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:38,319 Speaker 1: do too. Um, let's talk about Jason and Caitlin, your 892 00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:42,240 Speaker 1: buddy Jason. Yeah, what are those two together? This week? 893 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 1: They've been very obvious that they're together. He was on 894 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,320 Speaker 1: the show about a month ago now and he got 895 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:50,719 Speaker 1: a lot of giggles out of his system but never 896 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,439 Speaker 1: said why he was giggly. And uh, I think they've 897 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 1: been together for a bit. Do you know exactly how long? 898 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,319 Speaker 1: I think they've been together for a bit too, But 899 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,080 Speaker 1: I don't, Honestly, I don't know, and as somebody who's 900 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 1: speculating on my um relationship right now, I feel like 901 00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 1: when they are comfortable to make their official announcement. Although 902 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,719 Speaker 1: I feel like it's happened because they've been all over 903 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 1: each other on social media, you know, I mean, good 904 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 1: for them. He seems very happy from what I've seen 905 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,600 Speaker 1: on her, she seems very happy. They are both good people. 906 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 1: So I hope have you hung out with them? Yeah? Together? No, 907 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 1: I have not. What is the tattoo on your arm? 908 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 1: I have a tattoo eleven and then I have a 909 00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:37,439 Speaker 1: cross on my wrist. What's Jeremiah? What does it mean? 910 00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,960 Speaker 1: And it's like hope for a future and it's been 911 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,960 Speaker 1: something that I've always stuck with since football is God 912 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:45,759 Speaker 1: has a plan for you, and just trust in his 913 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 1: plans and everything. It's almost like everything will happen for 914 00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,600 Speaker 1: a reason, but just trust in him and you'll be good. Well, 915 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:58,440 Speaker 1: God's on your side right now. Make sure, yeah are 916 00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:04,840 Speaker 1: what when was your first kiss? My first kiss was 917 00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 1: my freshman year of high school. How old are you 918 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,840 Speaker 1: and you're a freshman. I don't know your fourteen? Fourteen? 919 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 1: So fourteen? Okay? Tell us about it? Um. I was 920 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,879 Speaker 1: watching a movie laying down. You had a girl over 921 00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,000 Speaker 1: to watch a movie when you're fourteen. Um, I don't 922 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,960 Speaker 1: remember what movie was playing because obviously on my first kiss, 923 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:26,440 Speaker 1: so that's all I remember from uh and it was 924 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 1: really awkward, really bad, but yeah, it just wasn't It 925 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,200 Speaker 1: wasn't like the best Okay, was it sloppy that she 926 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 1: used tongue or something like too much? You know? It 927 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 1: was just like a quick peck and then like an 928 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 1: awkward like staring at each other's that just happened. Are 929 00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 1: you going to give Heather her first kiss this season? Um? 930 00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,239 Speaker 1: You never know. I mean there's obviously more conversations that 931 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:53,440 Speaker 1: need to be had, and um, if anybody understands where 932 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 1: she's coming from and how hard it was for it, 933 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,279 Speaker 1: open up. It's me, trust me. Yeah, I know right, 934 00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,240 Speaker 1: you get it. You guys want to understanding. My last 935 00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:07,480 Speaker 1: question is the feature of the Hannah and Kaylin duel. 936 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:12,280 Speaker 1: These two are obviously going to go at it. Fantastic 937 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:16,200 Speaker 1: decisions on castings parts for this drama. I do not 938 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:18,880 Speaker 1: read spoilers. I do not know if they go on 939 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,279 Speaker 1: a two on one, but I'm assuming they do because 940 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,960 Speaker 1: there couldn't be a better two on one. They're gonna 941 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 1: beat my two on one for sure. Yeah. Um, I 942 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: think it's gonna be interesting. It's gonna be interesting for 943 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,640 Speaker 1: you guys to like really watch the dynamic of that 944 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:37,520 Speaker 1: all happen, because it was very intriguing for me as well. 945 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,239 Speaker 1: And just keep in mind, like and you know this, 946 00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:43,000 Speaker 1: producers don't tell you what's going on in the house, 947 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:47,319 Speaker 1: so you get to hear and experience things from what 948 00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 1: they tell you. And there's obviously a lot of conversations 949 00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,239 Speaker 1: that that happen. So my point of view on this 950 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:56,120 Speaker 1: right now is that, um, Hannah is made out to 951 00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 1: look like the more dramatic girl, the one that's a 952 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 1: little bit more high strung, a little bit more emotional, 953 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:04,399 Speaker 1: and Caitlin's really chill. I always find that on the show, 954 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 1: the girls who are chill end up winning out. But 955 00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,680 Speaker 1: I'm not really sure you ever heard like like less 956 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,040 Speaker 1: is More. I'm a believer in less is More, but 957 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:14,200 Speaker 1: I don't I can't speak to who is I think 958 00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 1: tuning in because I don't want to say anything that 959 00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,400 Speaker 1: you take out of that people take out of context 960 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,359 Speaker 1: because it hasn't played back yet. But you will get 961 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: answers and clarity to that, and I think you'll It's 962 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,880 Speaker 1: just it was also an interesting dynamic for me to 963 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 1: have to deal with too, and and really like figure 964 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 1: out and ask the right questions. Okay, okay. So and 965 00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 1: then I have a more last question, now that you 966 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: brought this up. How close was Hannah to really getting 967 00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:43,480 Speaker 1: the acts on that one on one very Yeah? If 968 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 1: it was later in the season, would you just let 969 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,440 Speaker 1: her go? No? And I think I think what I 970 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 1: realized too after after our date was I feel like, 971 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 1: you know, sort of what you were saying earlier, is like, 972 00:48:55,360 --> 00:49:00,800 Speaker 1: you know, how awkward and silent time and making toasts 973 00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,719 Speaker 1: and how intimidating that can be. I didn't because I'm 974 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,440 Speaker 1: coming from the two previous so I'm used to it. 975 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 1: I'm ready to go. I'm like, okay, this is easy. 976 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:10,520 Speaker 1: You should you should be like, this is her first 977 00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,920 Speaker 1: time being filmed doing something, and I forgot. I forgot 978 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:17,360 Speaker 1: about that when the toast that I would just like hide, 979 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:18,680 Speaker 1: I'd be like, do not look at me, do not 980 00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: ask me to do the toast. I That's when I blink. Yeah, 981 00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 1: So what I mean, I don't know, Ben? What what 982 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:28,759 Speaker 1: was your Ben obviously was a Master toaster. Yeah, what 983 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,560 Speaker 1: do you mean whinning doubt? Just compliment Like that's my 984 00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,800 Speaker 1: whole thing is like went in to make words, speaking 985 00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:40,400 Speaker 1: of fluff and taking a high quality skincarey teens. 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I don't think I 1037 00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,160 Speaker 1: fluff words. It's it's really easy to give the toast. 1038 00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:32,400 Speaker 1: You look at the woman in the eyes, you call 1039 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:36,200 Speaker 1: them beautiful because they are. You say there's compliment, and 1040 00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:37,799 Speaker 1: you look at them and you say, I know this 1041 00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:41,759 Speaker 1: is hard, I know this is difficult. None of this 1042 00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:43,880 Speaker 1: is easy. This is all weird for each one of 1043 00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,680 Speaker 1: us in this room. I forgot that, Like I really 1044 00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,040 Speaker 1: didn't have that perspective. I don't know. I felt like 1045 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:51,520 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I want this one to go 1046 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,719 Speaker 1: really well, like it's the first one. And I think 1047 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,200 Speaker 1: that was the first time where I was like, oh, 1048 00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,960 Speaker 1: I don't have this all figured out, because that was 1049 00:52:58,040 --> 00:52:59,920 Speaker 1: like the moment where I'm like, isn't one on ones 1050 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,800 Speaker 1: supposed to go great? Like when the ones are supposed 1051 00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,799 Speaker 1: to be like showing for sure, here's your rose, like 1052 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,359 Speaker 1: we have a great connection, and that wasn't the case. 1053 00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:08,359 Speaker 1: And that was like the first time I'm like, oh, boy, 1054 00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,279 Speaker 1: like right off the bat, here we go, like I 1055 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,160 Speaker 1: don't have this thing figured out? Did you try to 1056 00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 1: lead the conversation more than we saw? It was almost 1057 00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:17,920 Speaker 1: like you're waiting for her, But I was because I 1058 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:19,560 Speaker 1: was I want to, like, just as much as I 1059 00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,600 Speaker 1: want to be challenging in a relationship, I wanted to 1060 00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:27,400 Speaker 1: challenge her to and really see what, you know, what 1061 00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:31,319 Speaker 1: she brought to the relationship. All Right, Well, if I 1062 00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,600 Speaker 1: had to say who I think your favorite is at 1063 00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:35,520 Speaker 1: this point, and Ben, I'm going to ask you who 1064 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,120 Speaker 1: you think his favorite is at this point, I would 1065 00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,400 Speaker 1: say it was Hannah g You're like all up in 1066 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:47,239 Speaker 1: Handahgee's girl. Yeah, I mean you're basing that off of 1067 00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:52,319 Speaker 1: the first in the first two episodes. Yeah, I mean yeah, 1068 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,200 Speaker 1: Like I said, it was all it was all chemistry, 1069 00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:58,359 Speaker 1: chemistry and connection from very early on. Alright, Ben, who 1070 00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 1: do you think he's into right now? I mean, Hannah 1071 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,319 Speaker 1: Gee's gotta be it? From from episode two, I mean 1072 00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,640 Speaker 1: episode two, there's no question my mind. When Cold looks 1073 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,160 Speaker 1: in those those big old eyes of Hannah Geees, he 1074 00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:13,440 Speaker 1: sees a future will change. We don't know. But when 1075 00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:17,440 Speaker 1: we do know is Colton survived his season to The 1076 00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:21,000 Speaker 1: Bachelor because he's in studious with us today. So far, 1077 00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:25,520 Speaker 1: here's my critique of view. You're doing great, don't change. 1078 00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:27,560 Speaker 1: You're a good man with a good heart, who who's 1079 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,920 Speaker 1: gonna make an amazing difference in this world, way past 1080 00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,239 Speaker 1: this show that's gonna be way bigger than this show 1081 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:37,520 Speaker 1: ever was. So far on The Bachelor, you've been sensitive, 1082 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,719 Speaker 1: you've been kind, you've been supportive, you've been honest, and 1083 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,719 Speaker 1: I know that you cry, which is important to me. 1084 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,319 Speaker 1: I think there's a Bachelor of a few years ago 1085 00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,520 Speaker 1: that said they've never cried during the show. I said, well, 1086 00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:50,640 Speaker 1: that's just ridiculous. The world I forget. But if you 1087 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:53,040 Speaker 1: don't cry during this show, I don't know if you 1088 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:57,319 Speaker 1: have a heart. I don't know if you didn't, it 1089 00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:01,160 Speaker 1: might have been Colton with that. Actually, I really support 1090 00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:03,520 Speaker 1: you coming in. Thank you for taking time. I know 1091 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 1: you're a busy guy. I know you've got a lot 1092 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,680 Speaker 1: going on, um, but thank you for coming in and 1093 00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: talking with us. If you ever want to stop by again, 1094 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:11,759 Speaker 1: I bet we could find some time for you. Until then, 1095 00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,320 Speaker 1: we'll just be talking about you behind your back. Perfect. 1096 00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:16,800 Speaker 1: I tuned in. I know, I know what what word 1097 00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 1: did you say that I used? Too much? Awesome? Yeah? 1098 00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:23,400 Speaker 1: I know I need to extend my vocabulary. Actually funny, 1099 00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:27,360 Speaker 1: like a little behind the scenes thing. Caitlin um, my 1100 00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,640 Speaker 1: producer on the show, bought me a vocabulary book, like 1101 00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:34,080 Speaker 1: a word book. That's not that, but it is like 1102 00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:36,799 Speaker 1: I continue to grow my vocabulary, like I I was 1103 00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,560 Speaker 1: becoming a better person every day I do this podcast. 1104 00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 1: I think I need that book. Do you want to 1105 00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,840 Speaker 1: borrow it? Maybe it actually gives you, like it shows 1106 00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:46,120 Speaker 1: you how to use it in a sentence too. So 1107 00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 1: it's like, have you really incorporated a lot of those words? 1108 00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,040 Speaker 1: Tried to? We had daily words where it's like I 1109 00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:55,279 Speaker 1: want to squeeze this word into this day or a 1110 00:55:55,400 --> 00:56:02,160 Speaker 1: synonym book. Yeah yeah, all right? Actually your favorite brand 1111 00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:07,640 Speaker 1: out there? Uh? You you wear bras? I think it's 1112 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,080 Speaker 1: really up to him, but you really love this bra 1113 00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:11,959 Speaker 1: that we're gonna talk about right now called Third Love. 1114 00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:14,719 Speaker 1: Actually take it away. Okay, So I'm gonna tell you 1115 00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 1: why Third Love makes the perfect fit. 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So they have cup sizes a through age, 1133 00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:24,160 Speaker 1: and bands up to forty eight of women falling between 1134 00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:27,800 Speaker 1: those standard cup sizes, so Third Love invented the half 1135 00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:30,760 Speaker 1: cup size for that. And I just bought my new 1136 00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:36,720 Speaker 1: cotton collection bra. It's so comfortable, it's like I'm not 1137 00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,800 Speaker 1: even wearing one, so soft and smooth. Third Love knows 1138 00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:45,080 Speaker 1: how to fit a bra to every woman, and our 1139 00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,360 Speaker 1: listeners are going to get off their first order. Just 1140 00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:52,840 Speaker 1: go to third love dot com slash famous right now 1141 00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 1: to get the perfect fitting bra. Get fifteen percent off 1142 00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:59,000 Speaker 1: your first purchase by going to third love dot com 1143 00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:03,520 Speaker 1: slash fame us for off. Today. Ashley's done telling us 1144 00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:07,000 Speaker 1: about her bra and everything great about it. This podcast 1145 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 1: is really kind of like broken through. I feel actually 1146 00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,760 Speaker 1: so close and connected with you that we can talk 1147 00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:14,440 Speaker 1: about bras, and I think we've talked about tampons and 1148 00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,520 Speaker 1: cons before on this thing, and it just doesn't feel 1149 00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:19,360 Speaker 1: weird anymore. I'm really happy that two years into this 1150 00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:21,640 Speaker 1: this is where we're at. But we've gotten our questions 1151 00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:23,640 Speaker 1: out of the way. You're probably sick of you know 1152 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 1: where actionized minds are. But our fans out there there's 1153 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:30,880 Speaker 1: a Facebook group for the Almost Famous podcast that's active 1154 00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:35,200 Speaker 1: and ready to ask Colton all the questions they've been wondering. 1155 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:39,600 Speaker 1: Ashley has the questions in front of her. Ashley after 1156 00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:44,160 Speaker 1: it there, Colton from Katie, what is your biggest turn 1157 00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:47,440 Speaker 1: off when you're getting to know a girl. I'm I'm 1158 00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,920 Speaker 1: a hygiene guy, like brush your teeth, put some deater, 1159 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,320 Speaker 1: and on, shower every once in a while. Does she 1160 00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:56,200 Speaker 1: have to shower every day? Uh? No, it just I 1161 00:58:56,240 --> 00:59:02,360 Speaker 1: mean smell decent, okay, because eyes are so hygiene. Um 1162 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,840 Speaker 1: from Sam, how long? I mean, how does it differ 1163 00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:08,720 Speaker 1: from being one of the guys on back to season 1164 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:14,080 Speaker 1: to being the leading man? Are the emotions similar? Well, 1165 00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,440 Speaker 1: it changes because I hand the roses out instead of 1166 00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:22,760 Speaker 1: being handed a rose, So that's so that's nice. Um. 1167 00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:27,880 Speaker 1: Are the emotions similar, No, but they're they're different in 1168 00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:30,439 Speaker 1: are in it just in a different way. But yes, 1169 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,760 Speaker 1: it's as emotional, just in a different way hold up 1170 00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:35,600 Speaker 1: time out that that did not do it for me. 1171 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:39,000 Speaker 1: Why are they similar? No, they're just different in a 1172 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 1: different way. What do you mean answer the question you 1173 00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:46,200 Speaker 1: just said, No, they're different and different. We read the questions. 1174 00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:52,240 Speaker 1: Are the emotions similar? Like what what are the motions? 1175 00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:56,760 Speaker 1: Like what, let's go into a little bit emotions not motions. Emotions, Yeah, 1176 00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:59,000 Speaker 1: but what are the two different emotions you felt during? 1177 00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:01,240 Speaker 1: The emotions are different because you're on the other side, 1178 01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,920 Speaker 1: like you're you're sitting there and you have to break 1179 01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:07,760 Speaker 1: up with women. Yeah, there's well, not only guilt, but 1180 01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,120 Speaker 1: it's just like the trust factor. Are you trusting your gut? 1181 01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:13,040 Speaker 1: Are you really? Like you have to be confident And 1182 01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 1: you said that to me too, Ben, And one of 1183 01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 1: our chat is like, you just have to be confident 1184 01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:17,880 Speaker 1: in the decisions that you make because it's going to 1185 01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:21,040 Speaker 1: eat you up. Um. So like, then there's always that 1186 01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:26,000 Speaker 1: emotion that's in it. But then it just was an 1187 01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,720 Speaker 1: emotional roller coaster because you leave these dates where it's like, oh, 1188 01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:31,120 Speaker 1: this is amazing, I'm on a high, and then you 1189 01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,800 Speaker 1: find something out about another relationship You're like, oh, this 1190 01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:36,200 Speaker 1: could be pivotal. So it's like the ups and the 1191 01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:41,280 Speaker 1: downs are higher when you're the lead. Did you bet 1192 01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:46,080 Speaker 1: all feel weird golden when? Because there's two two elements here, 1193 01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:47,680 Speaker 1: there's a deleted scene that you and I men. I 1194 01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 1: get why it's deleted. You had a lot going on, 1195 01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,480 Speaker 1: there's a big show in front of us, but I did. 1196 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:53,400 Speaker 1: We sat down. I was like, hey man, you're I 1197 01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:55,240 Speaker 1: know you've got a heart on you, like it's gonna 1198 01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:57,600 Speaker 1: hurt to break up with these girls. And you're like, well, 1199 01:00:57,600 --> 01:00:59,080 Speaker 1: then how do I do it? It's like you just 1200 01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,760 Speaker 1: do it like and it sounds like shallow and it 1201 01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,400 Speaker 1: just sounds simple. But once you feel it, you almost 1202 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,480 Speaker 1: you think it through and make sure it's the right thing. 1203 01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:08,920 Speaker 1: But you just got to do it and be confident, 1204 01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,960 Speaker 1: especially early on. Was there ever a moment this season 1205 01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:17,760 Speaker 1: that you you let somebody go and you go, oh no, wait, 1206 01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:21,200 Speaker 1: that's so weird? That was our next question from Laurie weird. 1207 01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,200 Speaker 1: I like Laurie well, she basically she asked if that 1208 01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:27,320 Speaker 1: happened on night one, but in general or night one, 1209 01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:31,160 Speaker 1: I tried. I actually tried my hardest. I remained confident 1210 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,200 Speaker 1: in all the decisions that I made in going into 1211 01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,520 Speaker 1: every Rose ceremony or any time that I was about 1212 01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:38,640 Speaker 1: to let somebody go. I really sat with it and 1213 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,720 Speaker 1: I really let it process through, Like how does this change? 1214 01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:45,720 Speaker 1: You know? How does this change moving forward? How I feel? 1215 01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:49,640 Speaker 1: And I really owned it, like I made sure that 1216 01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:52,360 Speaker 1: I sat with it long enough before I made any decisions. 1217 01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:54,920 Speaker 1: So did you know a couple of hours going into 1218 01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:58,920 Speaker 1: the rose ceremony for the most part, Yes, yep. This 1219 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:01,680 Speaker 1: is from Matt. He says, I feel like all the 1220 01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:04,360 Speaker 1: virginity talk makes me wonder if these girls are there 1221 01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:06,200 Speaker 1: for the right reasons. Do you feel the same. I 1222 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:08,520 Speaker 1: think I'm going to interpret that by saying, do you 1223 01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:11,080 Speaker 1: think that some of them are objectifying you and making 1224 01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,080 Speaker 1: it seem like they just want to take it? I 1225 01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:19,000 Speaker 1: will say this, Um, if this was the and I 1226 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:20,920 Speaker 1: don't talk about this last I don't. I don't want. 1227 01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to come off like weird when I says, 1228 01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:25,200 Speaker 1: but if this was a bachelorette and could you imagine 1229 01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:27,520 Speaker 1: if a like a guy walked up and I had 1230 01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:28,920 Speaker 1: fun with it? But could you imagine if a guy 1231 01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:31,360 Speaker 1: walked up with like a cherry and popped it? Like? No, 1232 01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:33,640 Speaker 1: I thought that was just if the roles were reversed. 1233 01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,720 Speaker 1: It's just a much different conversation that we'd be having 1234 01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:38,440 Speaker 1: right now. We talked about that last week. Do can 1235 01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:40,920 Speaker 1: I have fun with it and play along with it? Absolutely, 1236 01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:44,800 Speaker 1: because that's just like, that's just who I am. Um. 1237 01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,280 Speaker 1: I think will we get into more of this serious 1238 01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,160 Speaker 1: side of it for me later on and in the 1239 01:02:50,240 --> 01:02:52,520 Speaker 1: later episodes when it's appropriate for me to share that. 1240 01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 1: But um, I don't think the virginity talk correlates with 1241 01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:00,360 Speaker 1: the right reasons per se. I think it just relates 1242 01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:04,000 Speaker 1: with like when it is appropriate in our relationship to 1243 01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,520 Speaker 1: discuss it. Creepy would it be if I was on 1244 01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:09,640 Speaker 1: a season with Ashley? Ashley was the bachelor at and 1245 01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 1: I walked up and I said, I don't know what's 1246 01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:14,800 Speaker 1: going to happen, but I wouldn't mind taking that virginity 1247 01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 1: That is so creepy for it. I agree, And it's 1248 01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:25,200 Speaker 1: just like the double standard that we're in with society 1249 01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,720 Speaker 1: and people can make their jokes and make their and 1250 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,040 Speaker 1: I think, like that's I guess the hardest part two 1251 01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:33,560 Speaker 1: is just a punch line and stuff. So um yeah, 1252 01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:37,320 Speaker 1: all right, this question is for Molly. What advice would 1253 01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:41,160 Speaker 1: you give to other young men who are choosing to 1254 01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:47,560 Speaker 1: remain a virgin in adulthood. Um, I think I really 1255 01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:51,080 Speaker 1: struggled with owning who I was as a person, and 1256 01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:56,200 Speaker 1: I think right now with being the Bachelor and having 1257 01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:59,800 Speaker 1: if there's any silver lining in all of this, it's 1258 01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:02,200 Speaker 1: just that I hope that the young men out there 1259 01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:06,480 Speaker 1: see it as an example of, like, there's nothing wrong 1260 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:09,280 Speaker 1: with waiting, and there's nothing wrong with like losing it 1261 01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:12,440 Speaker 1: whenever you it's your personal choices, your body, your choice. 1262 01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:15,760 Speaker 1: But I just hope that people see that there's nothing 1263 01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,360 Speaker 1: wrong with waiting and it's okay to be different, and 1264 01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:20,960 Speaker 1: in fact, I encourage people to be different. I encourage 1265 01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:23,160 Speaker 1: people to stand up for what they believe in and 1266 01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:28,120 Speaker 1: own who they are exactly. And my last question from 1267 01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:31,120 Speaker 1: Facebook is from Danny and it says, is there any 1268 01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:34,400 Speaker 1: specific part of the show that you're super nervous will 1269 01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:44,959 Speaker 1: or will not air? Mm hmm here's what here. Yeah, 1270 01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,680 Speaker 1: Here's something that's always been on my mind. And I 1271 01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:50,439 Speaker 1: think people forget this too, is like I'm going through 1272 01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,440 Speaker 1: this and my family is super excited that I had 1273 01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:56,160 Speaker 1: this opportunity to find love and like be the Bachelor, 1274 01:04:56,440 --> 01:05:00,560 Speaker 1: but like my Grandma watches this, My little cousins watch this. Um, 1275 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:05,600 Speaker 1: these women in these ladies, fathers and mothers watch this. 1276 01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:08,440 Speaker 1: So I just it's in my hopes that it stays 1277 01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:14,040 Speaker 1: respectful through and through and it is remained of a 1278 01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:18,400 Speaker 1: show finding love instead of chasing a virginity. Yeah. I 1279 01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:20,840 Speaker 1: hope that's that's that would be my My only thing 1280 01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:24,240 Speaker 1: that I would be nervous upon is like the tastefulness 1281 01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:29,600 Speaker 1: towards the end um and dealing like the fantasist week. Yeah, 1282 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:31,600 Speaker 1: could you give us a little taste though, Colden, you 1283 01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:33,479 Speaker 1: probably get a pretty good sense of where this goes 1284 01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:35,600 Speaker 1: and what the dates are structured around, what the conversations 1285 01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:39,320 Speaker 1: were like. Um, do you think it changes at some point? 1286 01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:42,920 Speaker 1: I mean we're two weeks in. Obviously we love the Bachelor. 1287 01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:44,640 Speaker 1: We love the Bachelor. This is a show that we 1288 01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,040 Speaker 1: have a podcast on. I would like to see it 1289 01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:49,160 Speaker 1: if my we've talked about last week, we'll talk about 1290 01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:50,680 Speaker 1: it this week. I would like to see it change 1291 01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:53,560 Speaker 1: gears and go away from just talks about you being 1292 01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:56,080 Speaker 1: a virgin and whoever else is a virgin. Do you 1293 01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:59,000 Speaker 1: feel like it does? Would you get a sense that 1294 01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 1: it does? I will say yes it does. Um. Week 1295 01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:08,680 Speaker 1: four probably is going to be the most pivotal, I 1296 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:10,960 Speaker 1: think in terms of that gives people a better understanding, 1297 01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:13,280 Speaker 1: and it sort of goes away after that, like it's 1298 01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:15,160 Speaker 1: just it's one of the things you were talking about earlier. 1299 01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:17,120 Speaker 1: It's like how many times does you have to address this? 1300 01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:18,480 Speaker 1: How many times you have to talk about it? And 1301 01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:20,080 Speaker 1: I think it finally gets to a point where it's 1302 01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:22,720 Speaker 1: like everybody has their answers, everybody has their clarity that 1303 01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,640 Speaker 1: it's just like not a topic anymore. All right. People 1304 01:06:25,640 --> 01:06:27,640 Speaker 1: are excited about that. I'm sure, yeah, because I mean, 1305 01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 1: you brought up a good point. It's like, well why 1306 01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:31,920 Speaker 1: do you keep asking? It's like, well, just because one 1307 01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:34,160 Speaker 1: person asked doesn't mean they get to see that or 1308 01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:36,760 Speaker 1: here out of my mouth. So yes, I was on 1309 01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:38,800 Speaker 1: repeat a lot of the times throughout this season. I 1310 01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,000 Speaker 1: prepared myself for that. I knew that I was going 1311 01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,920 Speaker 1: to have to talk about it. I just wonder if 1312 01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,400 Speaker 1: it's like why it's making the cut so many times. 1313 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:52,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's I mean, it's not up to me. Hey, 1314 01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:55,960 Speaker 1: that's our Facebook questions. We appreciate our Facebook group supporters 1315 01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:59,400 Speaker 1: and fans out They are always encouraging, loving, talking, laughing 1316 01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:01,600 Speaker 1: and making fun Ashley and I and we couldn't be 1317 01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:03,920 Speaker 1: happy about it. Thank you to everybody out there on 1318 01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:06,960 Speaker 1: the almost famous Facebook group. We will be continuing to 1319 01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:10,200 Speaker 1: pull your questions, talk about your conversations on there. Let's 1320 01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:12,600 Speaker 1: build this group to be a behemoth. Let's make it 1321 01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:16,440 Speaker 1: something great. Hey Colton, for anybody out there listening, they 1322 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:18,080 Speaker 1: love you, they support you. I have a feeling you'renna 1323 01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:21,320 Speaker 1: walk away being one of America's favorite bachelors of all time. 1324 01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:24,880 Speaker 1: But to say goodbye, I think we gotta give you 1325 01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:28,040 Speaker 1: the platform to speak to all of your fans out 1326 01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,960 Speaker 1: there and then Mike, drop this thing and get out 1327 01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:33,720 Speaker 1: of here. You've got a lot of things to do today. 1328 01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:36,800 Speaker 1: We appreciate you, Colton, thanks for coming on. Thank you 1329 01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:39,560 Speaker 1: guys so much for having me on, and you guys, 1330 01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:42,120 Speaker 1: I have a feeling thank you. That means a lot 1331 01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:46,560 Speaker 1: coming from you Ben specifically, but yeah, I think it's 1332 01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:51,080 Speaker 1: thank anybody out there listening give a little message. I 1333 01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:55,120 Speaker 1: just want. I mean, I would say this own who 1334 01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:57,640 Speaker 1: you are. Um. I went through a lot of years 1335 01:07:57,680 --> 01:07:59,920 Speaker 1: of my life like just really trying to come into 1336 01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:01,800 Speaker 1: my own and there's nothing wrong with that. You can 1337 01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:03,680 Speaker 1: always get better, you can always do things better in 1338 01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:06,280 Speaker 1: your life. I think just having that understanding too. But 1339 01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:09,720 Speaker 1: um no, I mean, I just want to thank you 1340 01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:13,080 Speaker 1: for the to thank you for the support, and just 1341 01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:15,680 Speaker 1: let you know that in week four it's all just 1342 01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:18,800 Speaker 1: go away. Yeah, if I have any message stick with us. 1343 01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:22,960 Speaker 1: There's more than just the virginity topic this season. I'm 1344 01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:25,880 Speaker 1: sick of picturing you my head losing your virginity every 1345 01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:27,240 Speaker 1: time I hear it. All I think about is just 1346 01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,439 Speaker 1: Colton and whatever is going to happen in the end 1347 01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:31,400 Speaker 1: of this thing, and it gets weird for me. 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Right he 1410 01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:24,120 Speaker 1: rocks in with an entourage of people and they pointed 1411 01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:25,960 Speaker 1: to the Almost Famous podcast and they thought this would 1412 01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:27,880 Speaker 1: be a good platform for him to get for all 1413 01:12:27,880 --> 01:12:29,639 Speaker 1: the listeners out there to get to know him better. 1414 01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:31,400 Speaker 1: And we just want to thank you to anybody that 1415 01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:35,559 Speaker 1: made that happen. Uh. Colton was genuine as usual, authentic 1416 01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:39,200 Speaker 1: as usual, UM and and he was also honest as usual. 1417 01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:43,960 Speaker 1: Our next guest has seen Colton's honesty up close. And Personal. 1418 01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:48,120 Speaker 1: After being eliminated on night one, she's now on the 1419 01:12:48,160 --> 01:12:51,960 Speaker 1: podcast we know her as Sloth Girl. Are you out there, 1420 01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:56,840 Speaker 1: fie guys? How are you doing? Girl? Good? Hi? What's 1421 01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:00,479 Speaker 1: your name? I know it, but tell everybody my name's 1422 01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:05,559 Speaker 1: al se Alston Alex. How does it feel being known 1423 01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:10,599 Speaker 1: as the sloth Girl this week? It's fine, I'll take it. 1424 01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:13,679 Speaker 1: It's definitely new carry stories for me. But I guess 1425 01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:15,680 Speaker 1: it's kind of cute, sounds kind of sexty, so I 1426 01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:19,240 Speaker 1: can work. Girl. Is it weird that you've got eliminary 1427 01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:20,880 Speaker 1: night one and yet you are still one of the 1428 01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:26,040 Speaker 1: most talked about girls? Um? I mean, as it makes sense, 1429 01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:29,519 Speaker 1: it's because it's such a strong gimmick. Um, So no, 1430 01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:32,240 Speaker 1: it's not weird. It is just a little funny though, 1431 01:13:32,280 --> 01:13:35,720 Speaker 1: because so many people, including cold and I'm sure I 1432 01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:38,640 Speaker 1: do not know my actual names, which is just so 1433 01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:42,320 Speaker 1: funny to me. But yeah, no, it's been nice so far. 1434 01:13:42,320 --> 01:13:44,760 Speaker 1: It's been kind of cute. There's been some love and 1435 01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:46,920 Speaker 1: then there's been some negative comments as well, so it's 1436 01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:48,960 Speaker 1: been all across the board with the whole slow gimmick. 1437 01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:52,680 Speaker 1: You know, we've recently from the Bachelor season, we've had 1438 01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:56,200 Speaker 1: Joe grocery Store. Joe go from being eliminated on Night 1439 01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:58,799 Speaker 1: one to Dancing with the Stars. Do you see yourself 1440 01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:03,400 Speaker 1: from Dancing with the Stars. Um, so, I'm not really 1441 01:14:03,439 --> 01:14:07,439 Speaker 1: the best dancers. Um, not to that's really a factor here. 1442 01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:10,439 Speaker 1: But so when I'm getting the comparison with So, I mean, 1443 01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:12,760 Speaker 1: obviously I love that comparison. It's still flattering. At the 1444 01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:16,920 Speaker 1: same time, I think it's just so vastly different. Um. 1445 01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:20,280 Speaker 1: From my understanding, what Joe did was he was one 1446 01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:23,360 Speaker 1: on the show and was like, I like, you look 1447 01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:25,680 Speaker 1: so beautiful, and that was it, and that America just 1448 01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:28,680 Speaker 1: fell in love with him was just so fascinting to 1449 01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:31,920 Speaker 1: whereas with me, it's a totally different story. I went 1450 01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:33,360 Speaker 1: up there and I was a slot that I was 1451 01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:37,000 Speaker 1: hanging from trees. It's a totally different ends of the spectrum. Um. 1452 01:14:37,360 --> 01:14:39,120 Speaker 1: I do apologist for going up that candon there, but 1453 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:42,360 Speaker 1: of course I definitely opens the Dancer with the Stars 1454 01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:46,120 Speaker 1: not the best dancer. But you know, we'll see. Well, 1455 01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:50,439 Speaker 1: do you think that your gimmick failed you in the 1456 01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:52,320 Speaker 1: end or do you think you would have been eliminated 1457 01:14:52,360 --> 01:14:57,520 Speaker 1: either way? Oh that's a different question. Um. Well, exacinitely 1458 01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,599 Speaker 1: didn't fail me because I did not get a rose. 1459 01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:02,519 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I did talk to Colson 1460 01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:05,040 Speaker 1: and it was just me without the costume. It was 1461 01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:10,439 Speaker 1: as on Colson and I just word bonded all over him. So, 1462 01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:13,920 Speaker 1: knowing me and how excited, I guess that would have 1463 01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:17,400 Speaker 1: happened regardless, and I probably would have been something just 1464 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:20,120 Speaker 1: is weird, but a little more subtle if I did 1465 01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:23,000 Speaker 1: not have the costume on so prost the Coles and 1466 01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:26,479 Speaker 1: even awesome dude. But I think and if I somehow 1467 01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:29,360 Speaker 1: was able to continue on in the show, I don't 1468 01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:32,160 Speaker 1: think it would have worked out in that kind of 1469 01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:34,679 Speaker 1: way that makes maybe even kind of harsh towards myself. 1470 01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,720 Speaker 1: Maybe not, but and there's no way to tell, but 1471 01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:40,120 Speaker 1: knowing me, I'd be kind of freaking no matter what, 1472 01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:44,680 Speaker 1: not work. How does it feel like the feeling of 1473 01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:46,640 Speaker 1: going home at night? One, it's obviously light out. We 1474 01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:48,599 Speaker 1: saw on TV you walk in its dark and then 1475 01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:51,240 Speaker 1: you walk out its light. What was your what was 1476 01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:55,799 Speaker 1: the emotions? I was tired, Oh my god, I was tired. 1477 01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:59,400 Speaker 1: And it was actually my birthday that day, which is needed. 1478 01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:03,280 Speaker 1: Everything was better. And remember as I was leaving one 1479 01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:05,519 Speaker 1: of the girls. She was not being patty whatsoever. She'son 1480 01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:08,800 Speaker 1: sweet like well happy birthday, like a nice slide home. 1481 01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:12,160 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, thank you. That's great. Um, 1482 01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:15,640 Speaker 1: it was so talking that I think it was okay. 1483 01:16:15,760 --> 01:16:18,120 Speaker 1: But you know what movies when you're outside and everything 1484 01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:21,280 Speaker 1: just it's just such disaster and then it starts raining 1485 01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:23,479 Speaker 1: and then it's like they can't constantly get any worse. 1486 01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:25,559 Speaker 1: It was that kind of feeling, which is why I 1487 01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:28,160 Speaker 1: was like, all right, well I'm gonna go home now, 1488 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:31,639 Speaker 1: and so it like that, Um yeah, does that answer 1489 01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:33,720 Speaker 1: your question? And my word vomiting again because I feel 1490 01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:37,800 Speaker 1: like I am No, Alex, You're doing great. Don't be 1491 01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:40,479 Speaker 1: don't be nervous. This is just a podcast. It's Ashley Night. 1492 01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:41,880 Speaker 1: We just hang out and talk to each other. We 1493 01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:44,040 Speaker 1: were a word vomit on each other all day and 1494 01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:47,480 Speaker 1: people still listen. Alex, we really appreciate coming on the podcast. 1495 01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:51,519 Speaker 1: We hope to see the sloth around more. Ashley. I 1496 01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:56,519 Speaker 1: know you're wondering this final question, could we and would 1497 01:16:56,520 --> 01:17:01,240 Speaker 1: we see you in paradise? That's the question. That's a 1498 01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:05,840 Speaker 1: fair question. I'm definitely open to anything. I'm probably just 1499 01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:07,439 Speaker 1: going at it. I don't really know what I'm doing 1500 01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:10,240 Speaker 1: with this kind of stuff, but I'm so open to anything. 1501 01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:13,960 Speaker 1: I'm definitely single, so I don't see why not, but 1502 01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:17,479 Speaker 1: I can't confirm anything before. Oh so that sounds like 1503 01:17:17,479 --> 01:17:19,200 Speaker 1: maybe you're not open to it because maybe you have 1504 01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:22,679 Speaker 1: a bullet friend. No, I'm open to it, of first, 1505 01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:25,120 Speaker 1: I am. It sounds very fun. I heard I don't 1506 01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:28,479 Speaker 1: like him that much. He can go, he can we 1507 01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:33,559 Speaker 1: very quickly. He's not back. Hey, Alex, thank you so 1508 01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:36,000 Speaker 1: much for coming on. Welcome to Almost Famous podcast and 1509 01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:39,120 Speaker 1: we will talk to you soon. Perfect. Thanks to go 1510 01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:44,840 Speaker 1: talk to you, to talk to you, Ashley. To close 1511 01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:49,040 Speaker 1: up the podcast today, we have a couple listener emails. 1512 01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:52,719 Speaker 1: What what an episode? I mean again, we bring Colton 1513 01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:56,160 Speaker 1: the Bachelor on the episode, and we still have reader 1514 01:17:56,240 --> 01:17:59,599 Speaker 1: emails or listener emails. Ashley, I'm gonna read the first 1515 01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:04,000 Speaker 1: one to you. It's from Anonymous. We love Anonymous, it's 1516 01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:07,840 Speaker 1: our favorite. They say, too much virginity talk. Well, we 1517 01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:10,240 Speaker 1: couldn't agree more. I like to tell you all discussed 1518 01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:13,600 Speaker 1: how over we are about talking about Colton's you know what, 1519 01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:16,080 Speaker 1: I don't even like saying it. They said. Also, I 1520 01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:19,640 Speaker 1: liked how Ben, I appreciate that pointed out how disgustity 1521 01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:21,599 Speaker 1: it was with the girls saying that they wanted to 1522 01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:24,200 Speaker 1: take it. However, I just want to point out one thing. 1523 01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:27,160 Speaker 1: Ben brought it up again in the same joking tone 1524 01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:30,000 Speaker 1: that the show does. Colton is not in bed with anybody, 1525 01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:33,120 Speaker 1: and it's really and it really aggravated me. I just 1526 01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:36,680 Speaker 1: want to point out the stark hypocrisy there so that 1527 01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:40,200 Speaker 1: hopefully I don't have to hear it again. Hey, I 1528 01:18:40,240 --> 01:18:45,360 Speaker 1: don't remember exactly what you're talking about. I'm sure I 1529 01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:48,120 Speaker 1: meant it in the best ways. We fill two hours 1530 01:18:48,280 --> 01:18:50,400 Speaker 1: or an hour and a half of talking and sometimes 1531 01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:53,800 Speaker 1: things just don't come out the way you desire. And 1532 01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:56,519 Speaker 1: so with that, I hope you keep listening. I'll probably 1533 01:18:56,520 --> 01:19:01,160 Speaker 1: make him at again, and for that I apologize. Then 1534 01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:05,160 Speaker 1: we have another one from Megan. She says, I wanted 1535 01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:07,679 Speaker 1: to say thank you for bringing attention to the fact 1536 01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:09,760 Speaker 1: that it seems like the show is on the borderline 1537 01:19:09,760 --> 01:19:12,799 Speaker 1: of shaming him for his virginity. I'm still a virgin myself, 1538 01:19:12,840 --> 01:19:15,320 Speaker 1: and it brings out so many insecurity to see someone 1539 01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:21,360 Speaker 1: constantly talked about like he's a freak. M I think 1540 01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:23,760 Speaker 1: a freak is a it's a strong term. I I mean, 1541 01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:27,280 Speaker 1: I think talking about even being a virgin isn't necessarily 1542 01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:30,720 Speaker 1: calling him a freak. But hey, whatever you want. Hey, 1543 01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:32,760 Speaker 1: this one from Cindy. Colton premier says I hated the 1544 01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:35,240 Speaker 1: premier of Colton Season. I felt the live watch parties 1545 01:19:35,240 --> 01:19:37,880 Speaker 1: were too much to keep popping over to. It really 1546 01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:39,760 Speaker 1: took me out of what was happening with Colton and 1547 01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:42,280 Speaker 1: the women. By the time we got to the road ceremony, 1548 01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:44,840 Speaker 1: I could not even remember any of the women and 1549 01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:47,720 Speaker 1: was not invested at all. And who he picked. Hey, 1550 01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:51,080 Speaker 1: we've talked about is Cindy. Episode one is always bad. 1551 01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:52,720 Speaker 1: I don't think there's ever been an episode one I've 1552 01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:55,040 Speaker 1: watched and I've been like, that is incredible. It's nice 1553 01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:57,280 Speaker 1: to meet the people, but you really start meeting him. 1554 01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:59,519 Speaker 1: I feel like this week on one, week two we 1555 01:19:59,600 --> 01:20:01,439 Speaker 1: really got to know the woman a little better. So 1556 01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:03,320 Speaker 1: I'd say week one you just kind of do it. 1557 01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:05,680 Speaker 1: You get it over with, it's the entry, and then 1558 01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:08,360 Speaker 1: you really get into the season. I get what you're saying, Cindy. 1559 01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:10,599 Speaker 1: It's tough. You know that the show might have done 1560 01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:13,200 Speaker 1: itself a little bit of an injustice, but we enjoyed 1561 01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:14,920 Speaker 1: doing it. Ashley and Jerry did a great job. The 1562 01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:17,120 Speaker 1: rest of the team did a good job. But from 1563 01:20:17,160 --> 01:20:19,559 Speaker 1: here on out, I think we can all promise no 1564 01:20:19,760 --> 01:20:25,640 Speaker 1: more live Watch parties. Act we we gotta, I know, 1565 01:20:25,760 --> 01:20:27,559 Speaker 1: and we're still not done yet. We have a touch 1566 01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:30,040 Speaker 1: on Ari and Lauren's wedding. I think we would have 1567 01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:32,519 Speaker 1: brought that up earlier in the show if we really 1568 01:20:32,560 --> 01:20:35,080 Speaker 1: had some scoop, but we don't. UM. I just saw 1569 01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:39,200 Speaker 1: on Instagram a lot of our producer friends um attending 1570 01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:42,479 Speaker 1: the wedding. Everybody seemed so ecstatic about it. Chris Harrison 1571 01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:46,840 Speaker 1: posted some nice posts. Uh, Lauren's dress was beautiful, there 1572 01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:50,559 Speaker 1: is no baby bump in site with a dress, and 1573 01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:54,720 Speaker 1: their venue was just as magical and Twilight esque as 1574 01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:59,320 Speaker 1: Lauren and are painted on the in depth episode with them. 1575 01:20:59,439 --> 01:21:03,639 Speaker 1: They they are a really wonderful couple. Lauren is absolutely gorgeous. 1576 01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:06,160 Speaker 1: Or already hit a home run, already cares about her 1577 01:21:06,200 --> 01:21:08,040 Speaker 1: so much so she hit a home run and return 1578 01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:10,559 Speaker 1: Their lives are just getting started thinking about this. They 1579 01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:12,360 Speaker 1: just got married, and before we know, we're gonna be 1580 01:21:12,360 --> 01:21:14,920 Speaker 1: talking about them having their baby and starting this life together. 1581 01:21:15,040 --> 01:21:17,080 Speaker 1: We don't have a lot of scoop. I'm sure there's 1582 01:21:17,080 --> 01:21:18,840 Speaker 1: a couple of kisses in't here and there from somebody 1583 01:21:18,840 --> 01:21:21,320 Speaker 1: in the crowd and whatever, but we just don't know it. 1584 01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:24,880 Speaker 1: We're gonna keep digging. But either way, let's just celebrate them. 1585 01:21:24,960 --> 01:21:27,360 Speaker 1: All the listeners out there, make sure you tweet them, um, 1586 01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:30,000 Speaker 1: but tag the almost famous podcast in your tweets and 1587 01:21:30,080 --> 01:21:34,320 Speaker 1: let them know that this podcast loves and adores them. Next, 1588 01:21:34,360 --> 01:21:37,200 Speaker 1: we brought up with Colton uh, and we gotta bring 1589 01:21:37,200 --> 01:21:40,679 Speaker 1: it up here. Um. We're still digging into the details here, 1590 01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:43,800 Speaker 1: but the Caitlin Jason scenario, it would be crazy if 1591 01:21:43,840 --> 01:21:46,720 Speaker 1: we didn't talk about it. They're a thing, right, I mean, 1592 01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:48,800 Speaker 1: I'm that's what I'm seeing Like this. This is not 1593 01:21:48,840 --> 01:21:51,759 Speaker 1: just like they went on their date that was highlighted 1594 01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:54,439 Speaker 1: and talked about on Caitlin's podcast, But this is like 1595 01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:59,880 Speaker 1: now a thing. Yeah. So they had a scheduled first 1596 01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:04,800 Speaker 1: date and that was supposedly in Denver on Saturday, But 1597 01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:07,040 Speaker 1: I think we all feel like their first date may 1598 01:22:07,080 --> 01:22:13,080 Speaker 1: have been months ago. I'm not I'm trying to figure 1599 01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:15,760 Speaker 1: this out from what Colton said, what we hear, they 1600 01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:20,559 Speaker 1: probably have talked for a while, but now, for whatever reason, 1601 01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:23,040 Speaker 1: it's time to publicize it. So let's call this their 1602 01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:28,479 Speaker 1: first official publicist publicized date. Yeah, we'll say that this 1603 01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:32,439 Speaker 1: is the beginning of a maybe a relationship. This was 1604 01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:35,559 Speaker 1: this was their weekend. This is the start, you know, 1605 01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:37,600 Speaker 1: the crazy part, Ash and I want to hear what 1606 01:22:37,640 --> 01:22:40,639 Speaker 1: you think about this is, once you publicly talk about 1607 01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:43,639 Speaker 1: a relationship or showed off on social media, unless you're 1608 01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:46,599 Speaker 1: you're not monogamous, which I know that's a thing that 1609 01:22:46,600 --> 01:22:48,639 Speaker 1: people choose not to be as well. But if you're 1610 01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:51,880 Speaker 1: in a monogamous relationship, once you promote it on social media, 1611 01:22:51,960 --> 01:22:54,000 Speaker 1: you're probably you're pretty much saying like, hey, this is 1612 01:22:54,520 --> 01:22:58,120 Speaker 1: the person I'm dating. Like if Jason Caitlin were trying 1613 01:22:58,160 --> 01:23:00,320 Speaker 1: to just get to know each other, it feels they 1614 01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:02,519 Speaker 1: took the step down to say and we ain't eat 1615 01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:06,840 Speaker 1: anybody else. Oh, apps of freaking lutely. Oh yeah, And 1616 01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:10,640 Speaker 1: I'm really happy for both of them. They seem so happy. 1617 01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:14,439 Speaker 1: They're like giddy. Don't you find them giddy over each other? 1618 01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:17,480 Speaker 1: I mean from watching the instagrams. I was watching Instagram's 1619 01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:20,559 Speaker 1: a little bit ago. Yeah, they seem very giddy. It's 1620 01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:25,200 Speaker 1: you know, it does feel like these Bachelor relationships happen 1621 01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:27,479 Speaker 1: a lot post show. It feels like, you know, you 1622 01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:30,200 Speaker 1: do the show, you get off the show, UM, and 1623 01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:33,640 Speaker 1: you end up kind of relating with somebody. You're meeting somebody. 1624 01:23:33,800 --> 01:23:37,400 Speaker 1: This feels like one UM that has some legs, at 1625 01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:40,320 Speaker 1: least from what we've seen. You gotta be happy for him, 1626 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:42,800 Speaker 1: you know. We gotta bring up, though, how do you 1627 01:23:42,840 --> 01:23:46,080 Speaker 1: think Sean's feeling. I don't know. I guess we'll ask 1628 01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:50,360 Speaker 1: him next week when he's in studio. Exactly, great tease there. 1629 01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:53,280 Speaker 1: We're gonna have Sean Booth next week in studio talking 1630 01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:56,240 Speaker 1: about everything. I mean, this is an in depth episode. 1631 01:23:56,920 --> 01:23:59,040 Speaker 1: We did it with Ari and Lauren. Um. It's a 1632 01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:01,519 Speaker 1: spinoff off this podcast. It's one that we just want 1633 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:03,840 Speaker 1: to dive into Sean and Sean alone and hear from 1634 01:24:03,880 --> 01:24:06,960 Speaker 1: his perspective. Uh. You know, we're fans of them all. 1635 01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:09,799 Speaker 1: We like them all. This is obviously not an easy 1636 01:24:09,840 --> 01:24:13,640 Speaker 1: situation because of the public lives that they live. But 1637 01:24:15,439 --> 01:24:18,040 Speaker 1: here's my last question for anybody out there listening. Please 1638 01:24:18,080 --> 01:24:20,360 Speaker 1: write us at been a Ashley. iHeart media dot com. 1639 01:24:20,360 --> 01:24:23,120 Speaker 1: I actually want to hear your opinion, this is gonna 1640 01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:26,960 Speaker 1: be brutal. Does it matter how Sean feels right now? 1641 01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:28,840 Speaker 1: I mean it matters as a person, and it matters 1642 01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:30,559 Speaker 1: to us as friends, and it matters to the people 1643 01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:33,840 Speaker 1: around him, and it matters that we support him. But 1644 01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:38,720 Speaker 1: is there any problem publicizing this relationship? You know what, Ben, 1645 01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:40,960 Speaker 1: That's a fantastic question and one that I don't even 1646 01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:44,360 Speaker 1: have my own opinion formed on right now. Well, we'll 1647 01:24:44,360 --> 01:24:46,800 Speaker 1: look to you then. Anybody out there listening, please write us, 1648 01:24:46,800 --> 01:24:49,599 Speaker 1: Please tell us. I'm just saying I don't know where 1649 01:24:49,600 --> 01:24:52,280 Speaker 1: that boundary is. How long do you weigh? Uh? Do 1650 01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:54,800 Speaker 1: you what is the respect level? When do you enter 1651 01:24:54,800 --> 01:24:56,720 Speaker 1: back into relationship? It's something we've talked about in my 1652 01:24:56,760 --> 01:24:59,840 Speaker 1: own personal life. I've been affected by this. We've all 1653 01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:01,600 Speaker 1: have been affected by this, especially in the day and 1654 01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:03,680 Speaker 1: age we live in. It's a topic we want to 1655 01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:06,120 Speaker 1: talk about and we want to hear from you, So again, 1656 01:25:06,160 --> 01:25:09,519 Speaker 1: email us at been An Ashley i heeart Media dot com. 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But it's episode 1676 01:26:08,720 --> 01:26:11,080 Speaker 1: but Jillian for Ashley and I, We're gonna keep talking 1677 01:26:11,080 --> 01:26:14,280 Speaker 1: to you. We ain't stopping the time soon. I've been been, 1678 01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:19,200 Speaker 1: I've been Ashley. Then we'll talk to you really soon. Hie. Guys, 1679 01:26:21,800 --> 01:26:24,760 Speaker 1: follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 1680 01:26:24,800 --> 01:26:28,040 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts,