Speaker 1: Alright, guys, welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions.
Speaker 1: I'm your girl man to I'm wheezy the white guy fucker.
Speaker 1: That's what someone said my a k should be and
Speaker 1: I was very upset about that. You should be because
Speaker 1: you funch you guys to know. I haven't sunch a
Speaker 1: white guy in a minute. And even your hospital dick
Speaker 1: a white if it was he, but he's within the
Speaker 1: last year. Oh he's black. Yes, Jeeves was white and
Speaker 1: that was within the last year. Who was going to
Speaker 1: half Jeeves? Jeeves was white. That was two years ago.
Speaker 1: Your day was black. Hospital dick was black, Old Bays black.
Speaker 1: Who else those are about to say? Everybody else? White?
Speaker 1: Beat dot. You know what people think, I've sucked more
Speaker 1: white guys and I have black guys, and it's not true.
Speaker 1: I just went on a white guy spree. But in
Speaker 1: my time of fucking, I've sucked more. It was just
Speaker 1: a phase. It was just the pink dick was just
Speaker 1: a face. Can we call it a pinknic face? I
Speaker 1: like pink dicks, do you not? Really? We have guest,
Speaker 1: you guys a latina and Latin X. Is that what
Speaker 1: you call it? Is that what the fun. I personally
Speaker 1: don't funk with that terminology, but you can do whatever
Speaker 1: you want, okay, Well anyway, I don't know because it
Speaker 1: passes people. I was like, what do you mean you
Speaker 1: don't want to be part of the revolution. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what the funkina Dominican exactly, I don't know what the y'all.
Speaker 1: So we've had Amelia who has a very like New
Speaker 1: York Latin, but like you're isn't as bad. But God,
Speaker 1: because that accident. This New York accent is crazy because
Speaker 1: even me like watching just like Super New York like TV.
Speaker 1: I love it because it feels like it's not real
Speaker 1: but it is. And she really talks like that month.
Speaker 1: I like, do you like that right? No, like like
Speaker 1: everybody's different, but everybody is different. I'm not gonna lie Dominicans,
Speaker 1: we don't have that relationship to the Spanish accent because
Speaker 1: New York Spanish. It's a New York accent in Puerto
Speaker 1: Ricans who don't speak Spanish, I like to stop, stop
Speaker 1: translate the whole episode for my people out there in
Speaker 1: dry fuck. I ain't got to talk about accident from Dykeman, bitch,
Speaker 1: pussy talk, pussy talk, Venus Excess, one of my favorite people.
Speaker 1: Gila introduced me to. Venus actually was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: there's just like super feminist, like fucking DJ gonna love her.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how to describe Venus. I know
Speaker 1: you had one of the best parties ever ghetto gothic,
Speaker 1: niggas and techno and what just black people doing beautiful
Speaker 1: things that are not just wrap, you know, but also
Speaker 1: just like fashion. Everybody was there. It is like the
Speaker 1: last ten years have been I think categorized New York
Speaker 1: as like you know, the New Wave was the party
Speaker 1: that I created because everybody could go there, which you know,
Speaker 1: we go to the hood, we smoke Cuco, we got
Speaker 1: a strip club, we've throw money, we go to Brooklyn,
Speaker 1: we rave out, but very rarely does that all come together.
Speaker 1: And the reality is that New York culture has always
Speaker 1: been dependent on that fusion, like whether you think of
Speaker 1: the Tunnel or exit, Like these are clubs that we're
Speaker 1: having DMX on one night and we're having a literal
Speaker 1: house DJ like in another room, and you was just
Speaker 1: like like, well that was like man, that like literally
Speaker 1: one night you'll have to chains, the next you have
Speaker 1: Dead Mouse. That's literally, but I love that. Imagine like
Speaker 1: in New York, when you put fashion designers, visual artists,
Speaker 1: you know, rappers, everybody, skaters, dj is all in the
Speaker 1: same room, you end up getting the fashion brands like
Speaker 1: so far, you end up getting the astap rockies. That's like,
Speaker 1: you know the swag that a lot of people ended
Speaker 1: up taking on this ghetto goth thing, Like we've been
Speaker 1: doing that for a long time. But we weren't just like, hey,
Speaker 1: let's dressed up. We were like, let's cultivated. Was the
Speaker 1: out was the whole experience because the reality is that
Speaker 1: we weren't the first, We're not gonna be the last.
Speaker 1: And you know, like there's a lot of other things
Speaker 1: going on. Trends come and go, but you have to
Speaker 1: have space for culture. So people think that it just
Speaker 1: pops up out it the dinner, you just empowers doing
Speaker 1: a fashion show. No, but we was wearing those clothes
Speaker 1: for years. We was giving people room and it's because
Speaker 1: themselves and so we need you to throw a ghetto
Speaker 1: sex party. You know. We had a party call play
Speaker 1: with My Pussy. There were the whole season we made
Speaker 1: T shirts. We had like a like a a prescription
Speaker 1: that was like eating for this long to all the ship.
Speaker 1: It was like a real right now thing and we
Speaker 1: was like, no, it's pussy power time because yeah, has
Speaker 1: been taken up to swarch space. And then the concept
Speaker 1: would have been if it had graduated, we had like
Speaker 1: this beautiful club that you could hang um swings from.
Speaker 1: We wanted to do a sex party that was scared
Speaker 1: towards women. But it's just not the thing in America.
Speaker 1: It's really hard to find normal people who are like
Speaker 1: to go out. It's very Europeans. I've been to a
Speaker 1: few lesbian nights. I ain't never been to a place
Speaker 1: with so many fights in my fucking life. What I
Speaker 1: mean lesbians to be fighting like holy ship about it
Speaker 1: is like we're like they in the city and closed it.
Speaker 1: Maybe I mean it possed up whenever they picked right
Speaker 1: out is closed, bitch. I want to god, damn lobster,
Speaker 1: it's closed. Nothing that pandemic. When I went to Cocoa
Speaker 1: Compana the last time it was, and it may have
Speaker 1: been even during during dry um, not last year, but
Speaker 1: like two years ago. Because I went with me at
Speaker 1: this girl. I love her, but going but bro oh
Speaker 1: it's hard. That's the thing. You have to train people.
Speaker 1: That's why the space that we originally created no cameras.
Speaker 1: There was no social media at that time. We was
Speaker 1: like coming coming straight leave gay, We don't give a funk,
Speaker 1: do whatever you want before next turned down the lights,
Speaker 1: like but we would have everybody in their diplow and
Speaker 1: my day, everybody was just nasty and people was really sucking.
Speaker 1: It takes me. First of all. I also want to say, yes,
Speaker 1: people know Venus for being a dj I. Some people
Speaker 1: know Venus for a quashion. I've seen articles on you.
Speaker 1: I don't know who Venus is, but what I found out, bitch,
Speaker 1: is that Venus is a problem. This bitch takes me
Speaker 1: to a lesbian party where remember that it was like
Speaker 1: three in the morn and she's like this fucking party
Speaker 1: and she's trying to warn me as we get in there,
Speaker 1: like you know, like because Venus well humble herself, but
Speaker 1: also be like mad people know me, right, and we're
Speaker 1: going to know me when we walk in here. Bitch,
Speaker 1: we walk in here. This girl was like, how you
Speaker 1: know her? I was like, excuse me, she's my home girl.
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, because I thought you was together
Speaker 1: and I was like she don't beat my act. So
Speaker 1: then we're dancing. Venus takes her shirt off. This pitch
Speaker 1: is in a bra. I'm like, do I follow suit?
Speaker 1: What the doing? Like I don't have a bra, And
Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, whatever, Like it's a lesbian party, Like
Speaker 1: you don't have to act like this. So we're dancing.
Speaker 1: We're having a good time. Bitch. Someone swoops on in
Speaker 1: it starts dance in with this bitch looks at me.
Speaker 1: Is it a problem? I go to the bathroom. Of course,
Speaker 1: there's horrible delist decisions listeners in there. This girl's like,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be fine. Lesbians are just very territorial. Maybe
Speaker 1: you'll still leave with her, maybe maybe trying to coddle me.
Speaker 1: It was that, Yeah, I mean I dated a girl
Speaker 1: for seven years and it was I'm good on I'm
Speaker 1: good ones, I'm not a fighting can't tell you how
Speaker 1: many iPhones I have at least four or five countries
Speaker 1: that we threw iPhones out the window. You and your
Speaker 1: ex Abisa, Korea, Harlem Brooklyn, the Bronx because I just
Speaker 1: like to fight over pussy. Wait, but why why the phone?
Speaker 1: Because they're toxic? Was it like someone got a picture
Speaker 1: you was like, you ain't on talking because I weren't
Speaker 1: sing a lot of things. I was, I was, I was,
Speaker 1: I was definitely like, I love you, but I like Dick.
Speaker 1: But I asked you to marry me when we first
Speaker 1: started dating, and you said, no, do you think that
Speaker 1: since you like being by do you find I think
Speaker 1: it's an angel thing. Women don't believe in bisexuality that
Speaker 1: well the funk. No, they don't until they realized that
Speaker 1: Megan the Stallion is bisexual. But not only that, so
Speaker 1: let me like this. It's weird ship like that where
Speaker 1: it's like a celebrities like, oh that's my dream girl.
Speaker 1: But it's like, but she likes Dick too. But here's
Speaker 1: here's the thing. When I when I so, when I
Speaker 1: went to these spaces, although everyone who I've like had
Speaker 1: sex with as a as a as a woman has
Speaker 1: been really fem when I go into lesbian spaces, give
Speaker 1: me fucking Britney Griner. Okay, I like the studs I
Speaker 1: like because but but literally, as soon as they find
Speaker 1: out I'm bisexual, studs don't want to funk with me
Speaker 1: at all because they're like, oh, no, that's probably what
Speaker 1: it is. It's like they just or they know, like
Speaker 1: they really can't compete with real dick because they do
Speaker 1: got the stress. But I ain't gonna hold you my strap.
Speaker 1: Ain't compete in with a real dicky. It's just not
Speaker 1: But they literally don't want like I can. I can
Speaker 1: date fems and have sex with fems all day long,
Speaker 1: but it stud them. I want to say that, you know,
Speaker 1: I really want to have on a friend of our
Speaker 1: Sydney Dean, Like she just started dating and they may
Speaker 1: have known each other for a while, but she has
Speaker 1: a new girlfriend. I don't know if they used to
Speaker 1: date in the past, but like I would love to
Speaker 1: talk about that dynamic because they have such an out
Speaker 1: there relationship. Her girlfriends stood and super Man dated a lot.
Speaker 1: But I'm curious I have to and it does not
Speaker 1: get easier. Like that's the thing, Like there there is
Speaker 1: a sense of masculinity that comes with patriarchy or misogyny,
Speaker 1: and like even with even the most radical feminist lesbian
Speaker 1: who's like well read and like super progressive, you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you want to fight me because I like sex. Really,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I'm just really comfortable.
Speaker 1: I like sex. I love sex. I'm like let's everybody.
Speaker 1: We know you are bitch, and that's why we're here.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, why demonize me? Just don't pick me?
Speaker 1: Then you picked me, you picked me, and you fell
Speaker 1: in love with me. Why I mean, just suck me.
Speaker 1: You have a lot of home in you. I've been
Speaker 1: out out and like been on the brink of tears
Speaker 1: talking about it. Nigked and she's like, girls, just suck somebody,
Speaker 1: look around the motherfucking room. Listen as long as you
Speaker 1: don't want to sue us in a couple of of weeks.
Speaker 1: What I love. I love to tell people that is okay,
Speaker 1: suck us. No, I'm talking about I told you don't
Speaker 1: look girls a lot somebody sued you try to That's
Speaker 1: why I really I was like, oh, let's see, this
Speaker 1: is what I mean. Don't get in relationships. You can
Speaker 1: handle it, don't on podcast if you can handle it, don't. No,
Speaker 1: it's all the same ship. It's all the same ship.
Speaker 1: Like it's more so like the exposing thing. We had
Speaker 1: someone else on here too. I think it was Candy
Speaker 1: deep throat. We we didn't even ask her anything about
Speaker 1: names or and then she just suddenly hit us up.
Speaker 1: After the episode, Ardin was like, we need you to
Speaker 1: take this out, like I want this out. This has
Speaker 1: to be gone. And it's weird because when people get
Speaker 1: on the mic, they start exposing themselves and getting comfortable
Speaker 1: and are super comfortable until they go home and think
Speaker 1: about it. And I think that's the issue with sometimes
Speaker 1: having a regular person on person on versus a personality.
Speaker 1: But she's not. She's not a regular person a personality,
Speaker 1: but Candy deep throat. What's even crazier about that ship
Speaker 1: and she was known for it and came on and
Speaker 1: did the same thing. It sounds messy, it was bad, mom,
Speaker 1: just telling you, Oh, don't make this miss I'm not messy.
Speaker 1: What I am though it's spicy and a lot of
Speaker 1: people can't take it, you know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: that's why I just do me. I'm like whatever, I
Speaker 1: have a wild, Wild, Wild, Wild, the wild fucking memoir
Speaker 1: in the works when i'm when I'm like, I have
Speaker 1: stories I have like wild, we don't, and I'm not
Speaker 1: worried about nobody Vanilla ship this week. Someone who is
Speaker 1: worried about everybody is Pope Frances. Now, a lot of
Speaker 1: people know Pro Frances because he is the pope that's
Speaker 1: like more of the lenient pope we've ever had. Right,
Speaker 1: He's the one that basically said, you guys won't go
Speaker 1: to hell for being gay, like God loves everybody, and
Speaker 1: he's a pope that we feel like. It's more so
Speaker 1: new school. And something he recently said was that simply
Speaker 1: divine pleasures are eating and sex. In his view, people
Speaker 1: have fallen victim to both food and sexual pleasures, pleasures
Speaker 1: arrived directly from God. It's neither Catholic nor Christian. It
Speaker 1: is simply divine. The Church has condemned in humane vulgar
Speaker 1: um and language, but accepted human and simple moral pleasure. However,
Speaker 1: the most divine pleasures you can have are by eating
Speaker 1: and sexual pleasure. Just like that. There is a way
Speaker 1: to make love more beautiful and guarantee the perpetuation of species,
Speaker 1: basically through food and sex. This is from the pope's mouth.
Speaker 1: He connected food and sex. And I want to know
Speaker 1: what food you guys have eaten that got you the
Speaker 1: closest to orgasm, because I know mine. Dude. Oh, this
Speaker 1: is like on a food network, like the best thing
Speaker 1: I ever ate type of thing. No, but it's just
Speaker 1: it's like a what have you ate, Mandy? Oh? I
Speaker 1: mean what that was just like so so good, you
Speaker 1: go first, I gotta think about it, easy, bitch. I
Speaker 1: had at William May's in New Orleans a lima bean
Speaker 1: and fried chicken plate that was like I remember eating
Speaker 1: it and knowing that I was getting louder and louder
Speaker 1: because other people were looking at me and I was alone.
Speaker 1: And you know, when you eat something and it's so good,
Speaker 1: you order another one to go. Have you ever done that?
Speaker 1: I mean not in the last two years because my
Speaker 1: stomach is but so big, so bitch one meal last
Speaker 1: meek three, bitch I was three back to I was
Speaker 1: excuse me, I need another one? Put it, boxed it up. Bitch.
Speaker 1: I went back to William Mays every fucking day of
Speaker 1: my trip. Actually, I will there is something so much
Speaker 1: so that I don't even live there. And all of
Speaker 1: the servers know my face, all of them were like, hey,
Speaker 1: weren't you just here? Weren't I brought everyone to this place?
Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna say the name of the restaurant
Speaker 1: because you motherfucker no, because you niggas in Atlanta are
Speaker 1: not gonna sunk up my motherfucking place. But there's a
Speaker 1: spot in Atlanta that I go. No, I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: definitely it's Asian and fuse, I doubt Niggas is in
Speaker 1: the back. But it's a motherfucking tuna crisp like pizza,
Speaker 1: but it's not a pizza's like this big. It's tuna
Speaker 1: truffle oil, little like I don't know the little green
Speaker 1: things trule oil. I keep it in my house and
Speaker 1: it's on like a little like a rice paper. Chris,
Speaker 1: I don't fucking Nope, bitch, I go there and order
Speaker 1: for them holes. Literally when I walked through the door,
Speaker 1: like you're the one who ordered all the tune of Chris.
Speaker 1: And then I bring my friends and I'd be like,
Speaker 1: you just gotta try it first, but I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you have have and then you gotta order your own.
Speaker 1: Apply to this episode or in the YouTube comments like
Speaker 1: were you talking about that in Atlanta? And you know what,
Speaker 1: let me give a huge shout out to who introduced
Speaker 1: me to the place. Shout out to Kiki from the
Speaker 1: Cocktails the podcast Oh my fucking got we went there? Um,
Speaker 1: I was just there too with lex Andre. I brought
Speaker 1: Nigel there about Crystal there. I brought Anthony. Shout out Anthony.
Speaker 1: I've literally brought everybody there in Atlanta. I go there
Speaker 1: every day to eat, whether lunch or dinner. We go
Speaker 1: into this motherfucking spot to give my mother. What's my
Speaker 1: spot like that Dudley's in the Lower east Side. I
Speaker 1: show up and they're like, uh crabbling, gueenie e gallergy.
Speaker 1: We got it, bitch. I eat that ship so much
Speaker 1: that sometimes my stomach starts to get a little bloated.
Speaker 1: It's disgusting much my food is um. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I guess you know what it is. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to the front. And this might sound mad annoying, but
Speaker 1: don't tell me not healthy ship. It's not healthy. It's
Speaker 1: actually mad. So I used to tour an Asia a
Speaker 1: lot of Deejay, and you know, you get hosts and
Speaker 1: stuff like that whenever you go to a different country,
Speaker 1: like the promoter will set you up with somebody. And
Speaker 1: so we got lucky because the host parents was had
Speaker 1: a restaurant fisherman. So they cut that tuna and they
Speaker 1: literally put it on ice and then gave it to us.
Speaker 1: And I've never had like sushi that was fresh. Me neither.
Speaker 1: That was That was my first time. I just got
Speaker 1: chills it no, no know what I'm saying. That was
Speaker 1: my first time. It was Bob. I was like, we
Speaker 1: should not freeze deep frost could do all this actra
Speaker 1: ship to fish because this ship is so buttery and
Speaker 1: yeah that it was good. It made you come ya.
Speaker 1: No imagine they kill the animal. It was close to orgasm.
Speaker 1: It was God made food and sex one and the same. Bitch,
Speaker 1: I don't want to know what food. It was tuna,
Speaker 1: cris tuna and agea got it speaking of food literally
Speaker 1: wow yeah, and grabbling greenies. We all like pussy for venus.
Speaker 1: I like legit as. I was like, oh, I need
Speaker 1: you to come up with a sex tips, so like
Speaker 1: figure out something and she mentioned a food and I said, bitch,
Speaker 1: don't even keep going, please don't. What is this sex
Speaker 1: tip that you have. It's a really old school one
Speaker 1: from when I was a teenager. Actually, so what is
Speaker 1: bad girl? I was a very bad girl. Um so
Speaker 1: I used to go two Starbucks and get tea like
Speaker 1: anybody else. And I noticed that has small honey packets
Speaker 1: and I had I think he was honey at that point.
Speaker 1: In sects that some for some reason, you know, like
Speaker 1: you know, I was really wild. I was like a
Speaker 1: nasty girl, and so I used to take the honey
Speaker 1: packers and Starbucks and carry them in my purse. So
Speaker 1: if I wanted to give head, like you know, the
Speaker 1: stairway or in a car where I was literally at working,
Speaker 1: it was bad working that you can't say because was
Speaker 1: it no? I mean, was it a club? Is at
Speaker 1: a restaurant, at a bar? It was a club? Wait?
Speaker 1: So you were just out here walking around with honey
Speaker 1: packs in my bag so that I could put it
Speaker 1: on both So you just opened the Starbucks pack. It's
Speaker 1: like real freaktion. But would that mess up an like
Speaker 1: a pH d? Honey? Go wash it after you wash it?
Speaker 1: And you want to about your All I know is
Speaker 1: that if you put honey on business and they can
Speaker 1: say it is better. So the same thing. But you
Speaker 1: like sucking dickto you talk about how you suck dick.
Speaker 1: I don't sucking dick. It's a form of intimacy, that is,
Speaker 1: you know, sufficient for me. My mother is my vagina too.
Speaker 1: Do you believe that you're better at sucking dick or
Speaker 1: giving head? What's the difference what's the difference of the
Speaker 1: whole you are getting? You mean giving your girlfriend sucking
Speaker 1: dick or giving head gr at both, I'm great. I'm
Speaker 1: great at both because I genuinely um. Don't funk with
Speaker 1: nobody that I don't really really like adore you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, even if I don't want to be
Speaker 1: with them. I'm like, I adore you for now, so
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go in for you on the trap phone.
Speaker 1: I adore you. I'm gonna go in because this could
Speaker 1: be love for the moment. I don't know, I just
Speaker 1: be I'm a Gemini. I I am serious about everything
Speaker 1: I do. I think second dick is way easier than
Speaker 1: what you mustn't like it that much? Why you saying that?
Speaker 1: Because eating pussy is fucking fire. I'm good at eating pussy. Tho'
Speaker 1: saying though? Why not? A right? Okay, this is I
Speaker 1: didn't see it. Tell me we was gonna be talking.
Speaker 1: I just want you. Of course she's good at it.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is that equal opportunity. But I
Speaker 1: still feel like sucking dig is easier. It's not easier.
Speaker 1: There's macum that's out of its moisture, out of a yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's difference. I guess I like bit is more
Speaker 1: than I like dude. Maybe I mean I like things
Speaker 1: in my mouth. Let's just say that, because it's like food.
Speaker 1: Here we go, there we go. Are you bringing it
Speaker 1: back around? Um? I don't know, but you know what
Speaker 1: it is too. I think that sometimes you like the dick,
Speaker 1: but you don't like the man all every time. Right,
Speaker 1: But that's why I'm like, I always like the girl
Speaker 1: and I always like the post like I usually hate
Speaker 1: the dude, but I love that. You know. That is
Speaker 1: a great point because I feel like most of the
Speaker 1: guys that I've had the best sex with have been
Speaker 1: niggas that I really can't fucking stand. They annoy me,
Speaker 1: They get on my fucking you talk about I never
Speaker 1: thought it talk about it because I don't fuck bitches.
Speaker 1: I don't fun with talk like if I don't like
Speaker 1: you like that, or if I'm not into you, but dick,
Speaker 1: I'll take it. Hello, I'll be like, he aint ship whatever.
Speaker 1: But if a bitch ain't ship, no, not talking to
Speaker 1: him for two years called me back like, Hey, what's up? Okay,
Speaker 1: I missed that, dick, Let's go don't call for two years?
Speaker 1: I guess it's different for me, Like I mean, because yeah,
Speaker 1: I sunk a lot of my friends, but I mean
Speaker 1: I've also had like three somes with girls that weren't
Speaker 1: my friends, and it was just like it's all the same,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, if it's a random chick like yeah,
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, if I'm not having vibes like non experience,
Speaker 1: it could genuinely be like how a man looks and
Speaker 1: I could suck him, but with a woman like I
Speaker 1: kind of like a little more into But I feel
Speaker 1: like that's how society is. We make so many exceptions
Speaker 1: for men, like they'd be fat. Don't let me feel bad,
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm just saying like in general, like America,
Speaker 1: have a career and be fat, and a woman can't
Speaker 1: have a career. You would, ye did that? Like the
Speaker 1: number one body? Now, I don't know they did say that.
Speaker 1: It's like been had a dad body ever I had
Speaker 1: to maybe I'm sorry daddy did. But the last guys
Speaker 1: that I wanted to funck No. But I just also
Speaker 1: like men that are active, Like that's a turn on
Speaker 1: for me. I love niggas that are fit, active that
Speaker 1: take care of their body. See I'll go to the
Speaker 1: active niggas, but then I'll go to the like count
Speaker 1: a rib niggas, like the snoops and the like I
Speaker 1: break you, I love you. I don't want to like them,
Speaker 1: but niggas they like me. But the way, but the
Speaker 1: way their kickstands are set up, especially they do Oh
Speaker 1: my god, oh my god, oh my god, long legs.
Speaker 1: How am I going to really like? I keep writing
Speaker 1: my legs around him? I'm a short. Look, I got
Speaker 1: little limbs. I can't even a little. And then I
Speaker 1: told you, here's the thing with a fat nigga, right,
Speaker 1: I got as if they got a belly from the back,
Speaker 1: it's just going They're gonna bounce off of each other
Speaker 1: and the dick ain't even gonna be able to be
Speaker 1: in my Plus, I thought we should watch bat Nigo
Speaker 1: porn tonight. I think that's a great idea. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel like would big no, big beautiful man, big beautiful man.
Speaker 1: Uh And if I n maybe I'll have this. The
Speaker 1: whole fact for this week is postnut clarity. We all
Speaker 1: know what that is, but postcoital tristise is really the
Speaker 1: main term, and it's the feeling of sadness anxiety, agitation,
Speaker 1: or aggression after sexual intercourse and most males, so it
Speaker 1: happens with women. However, it's said by Gallant, who's a
Speaker 1: Greek medical writer. Any animal and every animal is sad
Speaker 1: after coitius, which is basically intercourse, except the human female
Speaker 1: and the rooster. However, this quotation, UH sad after seximes
Speaker 1: like maybe with regret, this quotation had been like they did,
Speaker 1: like you know, they went through it. In two thousand
Speaker 1: and twelve, forty six percent of male participants on a
Speaker 1: study of twelve male participants had experienced it at least
Speaker 1: once in their lifetime, and only of women. UM, let's
Speaker 1: see the symptoms for a percent of those people say
Speaker 1: they occur on a regular basis UM, and it's always
Speaker 1: distress uh, sexual abuse during childhood or sexual dysfunctions for
Speaker 1: those people that get in on the regular. That makes sense. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people who have sex
Speaker 1: and then experienced some sort of UM depression, appression, or
Speaker 1: some sort of sadness. I do feel like maybe they're
Speaker 1: battling something sexually that maybe they haven't um UM kind
Speaker 1: of either talked through or gotten over. UM. Sexual trauma,
Speaker 1: the big one with that for sure, for sure. But
Speaker 1: I think that that's why to a lot of black
Speaker 1: men um they hide behind their pain with sex, which
Speaker 1: is why sex is so important to just I gotta
Speaker 1: I gotta sunk as many women as I can, I
Speaker 1: gotta have sex as much as I can, and they're
Speaker 1: hiding behind whatever issues. Ever had an episode or am
Speaker 1: I something? It could be something I was reading about,
Speaker 1: but a lot about a lot about like healing through
Speaker 1: b D s M. Did we ever talk about that?
Speaker 1: Possibly I may have read about it, but basically there's
Speaker 1: a lot to be said with b D s M
Speaker 1: because you can be in control and healing your sexual
Speaker 1: trauma through DA. I feel like we actually talked about
Speaker 1: that with Dash maybe maybe maybe because he does a
Speaker 1: lot of bondage and like, and that's what I was
Speaker 1: talking about, Like it's because it's control when and that's
Speaker 1: something that I've actually been talking about lately, just me
Speaker 1: and my partner. Literally he thinks that we have so
Speaker 1: much more to do and I'm just like, do we really,
Speaker 1: Like we ain't done it all already, And bondage was
Speaker 1: one of the things and I was like, listen, that
Speaker 1: is the one thing for whatever reason, to make. Maybe
Speaker 1: that's something I have to talk through. Bondage and blindfolded,
Speaker 1: not bonded, but it's more like a aware He's like, babe,
Speaker 1: you don't want me to tie you up, and like,
Speaker 1: have you not be able to control like me making
Speaker 1: your orgasm? I was like, no, like I feel anxiety
Speaker 1: talking about being bonded. For whatever reason, I did get
Speaker 1: stealth while being blindfolded, So blindfolding is just not a
Speaker 1: thing for me now. But bondage is, yeah, one thing
Speaker 1: I'm doing when the condom without you, without your without
Speaker 1: your consent. Yeah, there's a whole word to it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because nig out here doing it like bit you ain't No,
Speaker 1: I didn't yet, right, so do you know it's the
Speaker 1: worst part. People were in our comments so I may
Speaker 1: destroy you were just really can't feel it if my
Speaker 1: pussy is soaked. No, I can't tell. Actually, don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong. There are times I've been able to tell,
Speaker 1: but there's sometimes where I can't tell. Men is sometimes
Speaker 1: very evil when it comes to sex. Like I remember
Speaker 1: I was talking to this guy once and he went
Speaker 1: he wanted to rot, and I was like, no, um,
Speaker 1: because I haven't sucked you before, and also, we're not dating,
Speaker 1: so don't know what you're doing here. And he at
Speaker 1: me like he wanted to kill me. And I was like,
Speaker 1: and you didn't enjoy it, Like I enjoyed it, but
Speaker 1: I didn't enjoy him. You get me like the thrashing
Speaker 1: was fab. But then it was like, you need help. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I also just want to I need help. The fact
Speaker 1: that even like that was his response to you so
Speaker 1: angry from what Weezy was even saying, like, you go
Speaker 1: through these comments and again, I don't know if how
Speaker 1: many of you guys followed up. By the way, this
Speaker 1: is the episode, uh that we did called Cinema I
Speaker 1: May Destroy You. What's the date on that post that
Speaker 1: people get to? This post is from It says four
Speaker 1: days ago, it's this week, but it's okay, so it'll
Speaker 1: be September eight or something. Yeah. So basically there's a
Speaker 1: lot of men in these comments. So and we pretty
Speaker 1: much were discussing the violation that we as women feel
Speaker 1: when a guy removes their condom. And some guy responded
Speaker 1: and was like, and it's disrespectful and reckless, but that's
Speaker 1: not rape. Someone else was like, really, though you don't notice. Um.
Speaker 1: Someone else mentioned that they check. They constantly check the
Speaker 1: guy's dick, so they'll act like their massaging guy's balls
Speaker 1: just to feel that the condom is even still done
Speaker 1: that when I'm changing position. Awful. That's awful that. But
Speaker 1: also can we talk about them? Is that an issue
Speaker 1: for us, that we're even having sex with someone they're
Speaker 1: going to even keep on the condom. I think that
Speaker 1: that's just um, that's just us reacting on something that's
Speaker 1: happened to us in the past. I don't think I
Speaker 1: have to do with that person. I think that's just
Speaker 1: the cautionary you know what I'm saying, Yeah, DTSD. But
Speaker 1: also I think that we we are very reckless. I
Speaker 1: mean I have been at least with like sexual partners
Speaker 1: not necessarily being intellectually like ready for a bit like
Speaker 1: me and then me being like that just happened, but
Speaker 1: the dick was good. But also like wow, that nigga. No.
Speaker 1: I mean, and you've surprised. They're very successful men out
Speaker 1: there who are fucking incompetent. They have no emotional intelligence.
Speaker 1: We're not physically, they don't know how they're not they're
Speaker 1: not good at Because we have also a lot of
Speaker 1: male listeners and one of the men actually compared stealthing
Speaker 1: too when women say that they're on the pill and
Speaker 1: they're not fair. However, I will say this, the main
Speaker 1: difference with stealthing and women saying on the pill and
Speaker 1: they're not is that pill, we know for a fucking fact,
Speaker 1: does not mean that you can't get a pitch pregnant.
Speaker 1: Fat That's where my mind went. Fat. Now, I will
Speaker 1: say on the counterpoint on that, I guess condoms don't either,
Speaker 1: but pills protect you against pregnancy and std S, where
Speaker 1: no protect you against pregnancy and STDs, whereas the pill
Speaker 1: is just pregnancy. And I also think that we know
Speaker 1: that it's more human error on that other person's part,
Speaker 1: right propost. So we both make this choice to put
Speaker 1: the condom on together and we can acknowledge it. So
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that's I hear him on that,
Speaker 1: and I'll give him that as well, because I have
Speaker 1: heard cases of at least not friends, but guys that
Speaker 1: I know saying that the person they had a baby
Speaker 1: with said that they run the pill. But also the
Speaker 1: lack of college. Again with what you said at the
Speaker 1: fact that the pill is not a percent regardless, So
Speaker 1: if we're having if we're agreeing to having consensual, unprotected
Speaker 1: sex where you just busting a load to me because
Speaker 1: niggas think, oh, you want a pill, that mean not
Speaker 1: nutting you as a man. You're also ignorant of the
Speaker 1: fact to think that that means I won't ever get pregnant, Like,
Speaker 1: if you're gonna nutting me, you need to bear the
Speaker 1: consequences that I still make. It also very trash because
Speaker 1: they think the pill like I feel like men are
Speaker 1: turning into a niggasine trash episode. But hello, there's one.
Speaker 1: Because even if you're like, well, I love the dick,
Speaker 1: but I don't love him niggas because and I think
Speaker 1: they all know it because they don't love me either.
Speaker 1: I'm too difficult. I'm too difficult men. Every time she
Speaker 1: would tell me she was dating this guy last year,
Speaker 1: and every time she would tell me how she checked
Speaker 1: this hood asnia she was dating, I'm like that she
Speaker 1: can't handle this, understand he's like processing the mergence. She's like,
Speaker 1: I need him to read a book. He's not going
Speaker 1: to read a book. Bit I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: That's what I don't do. Hood niggas, Like last one
Speaker 1: but I'm cool, Like I just feel like a my
Speaker 1: life is in danger and I don't feel like we
Speaker 1: have much to talk. When I get the opposite feeling,
Speaker 1: you feel like you protect my life was in Danga.
Speaker 1: I remember we were driving. We were looking for parking
Speaker 1: and I was like, why is your seatwret client all
Speaker 1: the way back? Can you help me? I'm tired? When
Speaker 1: he was like, my ops outside, they live around here,
Speaker 1: and I was like, get shot. See no, that is
Speaker 1: not okay, bro, we're too blacks from my house. They
Speaker 1: see you going in my house, it's now they're gonna
Speaker 1: think they could kidnap me. Also, every nigga that I've
Speaker 1: been like everybody, I mean, I go up around criminals,
Speaker 1: so I know what they're capable of. Yeah, but besides
Speaker 1: the guns and ship, they all also think that they're
Speaker 1: hiding spot in their car. No one else knows where, Nigga,
Speaker 1: your drugs ain't hidden in no other place that they
Speaker 1: ain't never found because it is not going to stock.
Speaker 1: Niggas think my pussy is just it. I would never
Speaker 1: put drunks out, well, I have, but it was for
Speaker 1: my own accord. I had some really good mushrooms and
Speaker 1: all I could think was, well, if I ain't finished them,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna definitely have to bring them home, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm like, okay, so now I'm already
Speaker 1: right using a private browser trying to figure out how
Speaker 1: to smuggle these tiny bit of drugs. You didn't get
Speaker 1: on a VPN to find out how to smuggle shrons
Speaker 1: back into the stage why, I was in the teck.
Speaker 1: Of course, I have a VPN multiple for when I
Speaker 1: want to watch corn, for when I do my banking,
Speaker 1: for when anything. For horrible decisions too, like because of
Speaker 1: the passwords and stuff like that. I don't want our
Speaker 1: browser to ever not browser. But i'm SoundCloud should ever
Speaker 1: get deleted. Yeah, I always think about using VPNs and ship.
Speaker 1: So anyway, when I tried to figure out how to
Speaker 1: smuggle let's smuggle the shrooms, I kept googling do airport
Speaker 1: dogs smell mushrooms? Which my mushrooms were so soaked from
Speaker 1: the sweat and pussy they weren't even okay. I couldn't
Speaker 1: even use them. So by the time I took them
Speaker 1: out of my vagina on the plane, I was like,
Speaker 1: were they not wrapped? Yeah? But I was so scared.
Speaker 1: I didn't drug jacket, but you know then I'm in
Speaker 1: the airplane. I do not do not hire her airplane
Speaker 1: map room. Like okay, these are kind of like sucked
Speaker 1: up now, but also like if I eat them, what's
Speaker 1: gonna happen? You know what I'm saying, Maybe I'll be cool,
Speaker 1: which I don't go hold you. I came back from
Speaker 1: l A with edibles. I just made sure that the
Speaker 1: things that I really cared about was in my carry
Speaker 1: on because if that ship just ain't come out on
Speaker 1: the on the goddamn rolling thing, I was like, they
Speaker 1: got my bag, they got my bag. I just was
Speaker 1: going I was gonna be good with losing everything carrying
Speaker 1: it on. It is better than where they can search.
Speaker 1: They're not gonna go in my pussy, right, but they'll
Speaker 1: go in my bag. They will go in your pussy.
Speaker 1: And know they will are my Cary got arrested in
Speaker 1: Switzerland and was in jail for too many hurt for
Speaker 1: smuggling drugs for a dude in dr stuck. Hopefully my
Speaker 1: pussy would I have my lie ready? You think that
Speaker 1: dog will open your what is your lot to have
Speaker 1: drugs in your pussy? Because it wasn't like cocaine or
Speaker 1: weed or something like that. In China. Mushrooms is the
Speaker 1: same as anything. And why are you I've done today?
Speaker 1: This is a yon thing and I'm using it to like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's from the earth and I've got it's holistic.
Speaker 1: Here's the problem. Wheezy watches way too much Ninety Day Fiance,
Speaker 1: not enough First forty eight and locked up Abroad Dust.
Speaker 1: We need to expand your horizons. Boundaries is the name
Speaker 1: of this week's episode, Like the boundaries of the countries
Speaker 1: that I can't bring my shrooms through and the boundaries
Speaker 1: that I won't be doing in the bedroom with bounding.
Speaker 1: So I picked three because I felt like these are
Speaker 1: the top three things that we all really need boundaries around.
Speaker 1: I picked three things I felt like would be good
Speaker 1: for each and I want you guys to give me
Speaker 1: your thoughts on him. Friends with benefits? Right, So, friends
Speaker 1: with benefits obviously we've all had one, but also I
Speaker 1: want to know what you guys think is because my
Speaker 1: first one is I don't think friends with benefits are
Speaker 1: good for an actual close friend, and I'm starting to
Speaker 1: think they're friends with benefits is the modern day situationship right,
Speaker 1: just because like he's not your nigked, but chall are
Speaker 1: cool enough to where they could like quote unquote sleep
Speaker 1: over and do whatever. Like do you think friends with
Speaker 1: benefits can really work with someone who's actually your friends?
Speaker 1: So here's the thing, um, because friends with benefits by definition,
Speaker 1: is a person you fuck that you are not with.
Speaker 1: I get it. Um. I actually just had this conversation
Speaker 1: kind of last night. One of my old I would say,
Speaker 1: I don't want to call him a lover because he
Speaker 1: ain't break bread on me. But we've we've been we
Speaker 1: were fucking for probably like the last eight years. The
Speaker 1: nigg I talked about who said I couldn't go to
Speaker 1: the wedding because I sucked his friend to Like long
Speaker 1: story anyways, he was in town and um, he hit
Speaker 1: me up like, Hey, I'm in New York. My I
Speaker 1: heard from this nigga all pandemic. Well you couldn't go
Speaker 1: to his wed You just asking too much. I just
Speaker 1: brought it up. People from the past will will remember
Speaker 1: the context. Anyway, he came into he came into town,
Speaker 1: um and hit me up and was like, you know,
Speaker 1: trying to be on some may where you live again
Speaker 1: and I was like, well, nigga, you would know if
Speaker 1: you would have came up a few times. I invited
Speaker 1: your motherfucking hats up here. So we're talking and he
Speaker 1: was like, dang, you ate my friend no more. And
Speaker 1: literally over the eight years that we fucked though, I
Speaker 1: would consider us to be friends with benefits. But in
Speaker 1: real life, when you're in these situation ships or you're
Speaker 1: just having sex with someone, I'll be honest to you.
Speaker 1: When I look back at the those friends with benefits
Speaker 1: and situationship relationships, the things that they did and how
Speaker 1: I felt like I was treated. Their dependability and how
Speaker 1: much I could really count on them as I would
Speaker 1: do my friends was not existent in those relationships. So
Speaker 1: I really feel like that term kind of sugarcoats, y'all
Speaker 1: are just fucking like because the idea and I hold
Speaker 1: friendship really true to me, And when I look back,
Speaker 1: they did a whole lot of funked up ship that
Speaker 1: to me doesn't hortify them. It's like, I think friends
Speaker 1: with benefits is honestly like a term we can't use anyone.
Speaker 1: I really believe because when I was sucking doing the outline,
Speaker 1: I'm like friends with benefits like but I've never had
Speaker 1: a friend that I was like, I told you, I
Speaker 1: don't like sucking my friends. But now when I look
Speaker 1: back and even those those situations that when you bring
Speaker 1: this up, it like I literally just had this conversation
Speaker 1: last night and my text messages like he was like, Dann,
Speaker 1: we ain't friends no more? And I really was like,
Speaker 1: but were we ever? Like there were so many things
Speaker 1: where when I felt like I either needed you or
Speaker 1: friend Mandy. You know what I mean. I honestly, God,
Speaker 1: this bitch is thinking true, Oh my god, let me
Speaker 1: be happy. But now that I have someone, yoh, don't
Speaker 1: want me to be happy. My nigga right now is
Speaker 1: good and so now I am looking back on like
Speaker 1: the last niggas y'all. Perpendicular Sex hit me up today, right,
Speaker 1: Perpendicular Sex been hitting me up and perpendicular dick that nigga.
Speaker 1: So he hit me up this morning on some can
Speaker 1: you send our videos? The nigga make me like delete
Speaker 1: our videos because he'd be on and off with his bitch,
Speaker 1: so every time they get back on, he deletes all
Speaker 1: of our primes. Yeah, so we can get the calculator.
Speaker 1: Nigga hit me today like yo, can you send our
Speaker 1: videos that we made together? And I was like, listen, listen,
Speaker 1: I really don't like how you goes to me. He
Speaker 1: ain't goes me because he felt like I made his
Speaker 1: booty hole fillip regular, But we ain't gonna get into that.
Speaker 1: They didn't go back to normal nigga, but apparently it
Speaker 1: took a little longer than he liked for it to
Speaker 1: come back to normal. But he hit me on some
Speaker 1: send me the videos of us as and I literally
Speaker 1: was just like, I'm good on you, like I have
Speaker 1: a nigga who makes me happy right now. I want
Speaker 1: to also add I would love for you to acknowledge
Speaker 1: as long as we've had this show, I've been telling
Speaker 1: you old because the truth they are the truth. And
Speaker 1: I just I wasn't. I was staying one and I
Speaker 1: told you a lot about him. He wasn't ship though
Speaker 1: he don't count. He doesn't count. He's amazing. I love him.
Speaker 1: He's one of my good friends. For all the years
Speaker 1: I wasn't sucking him, and the years that I was
Speaker 1: sucking that I was talking to him. He was a
Speaker 1: piece of ship. But was it because your feelings were involved?
Speaker 1: It's because I couldn't call him when I had an emergency.
Speaker 1: But then he would do the same ship where he
Speaker 1: would get back with his wife and then he would
Speaker 1: be like, I deleted all the pictures. I deleted them
Speaker 1: by mistake. Okay, wives Muslim wives, okay. And it's a
Speaker 1: different context because I don't think he can be emotionally
Speaker 1: available to know, we've been friends were almost a decade. Yes,
Speaker 1: he can if you once you start talking sex again
Speaker 1: with dudes, that's when it's like, if they're not your man,
Speaker 1: they don't understand the boundaries and the necessity is to
Speaker 1: be a good whatever you're developing with them. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, yeah, maybe we weren't going to
Speaker 1: end up in some fantasy where I was a new wife,
Speaker 1: but you weren't trying to be a wife. But the
Speaker 1: relationship at the beginning, but now I was thinking about it.
Speaker 1: But either way it didn't matter because I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: your friend, right So if I'm having a bad day
Speaker 1: and I can't call you, but you're gonna ask me
Speaker 1: for videos that your wife definitely deleted, or you want
Speaker 1: to ask me for pussy when you want it. But
Speaker 1: I depend on you when I need you outside of
Speaker 1: sex or yeah, you're your communications exactly. So the other
Speaker 1: two I want, We're gonna go into the next one
Speaker 1: because we basically covered it. But the other two rules
Speaker 1: I put were no playing house and ensuring your emotionally
Speaker 1: on the same page. Definitely no playing house with friends
Speaker 1: with benefits because that's where I think the quote unquote
Speaker 1: situation things happens. And if you're not emotionally on the
Speaker 1: same page, then you can't handle just sucking. So the
Speaker 1: next one I have is breakups. I have a few
Speaker 1: cup rules. We did. Actually, Amelia's episode was about kind
Speaker 1: of about breakups, cutting chords, letting people loose, and I
Speaker 1: feel like we've got to talk about breakup boundaries because
Speaker 1: we get a lot of breakup mail and breakups are
Speaker 1: very hard. Nigga. I was on Alexa bro damn near.
Speaker 1: I don't connect it to a breakup, but like it
Speaker 1: was something that was going on, Like it really takes
Speaker 1: your body down. So I have this one in there
Speaker 1: because I am a person that and I don't know
Speaker 1: about you guys. When I'm in love and I break up,
Speaker 1: I can't necessarily go cold turkey. That's very difficult, even
Speaker 1: though it's the best thing. But what I will say
Speaker 1: is don't try to be friends right away. I think
Speaker 1: a lot of people want to end things amicably, like
Speaker 1: let's just be cool as be friends, But I think
Speaker 1: immediately after it's really difficult because it does because we
Speaker 1: can't separate the difference. So if you are being amicable,
Speaker 1: here are the rules. I think no cuddling or close contact,
Speaker 1: spending the night together, treating each other to this is
Speaker 1: when you up with a partner, but you decide to
Speaker 1: still being in contact with you right if you're going
Speaker 1: to be in contact um providing emotional support consistently or
Speaker 1: financial support, I think that is those rules are how
Speaker 1: you get away from feeling like you're still with them.
Speaker 1: Because if you're quote unquote friends because you need emotional support,
Speaker 1: you know that that was your boyfriend or your girlfriend
Speaker 1: and they were always there for you, you're gonna blur
Speaker 1: the lines you need that codependency fucks you up. Like
Speaker 1: that's actually the hardest thing for me to let niggas
Speaker 1: go When I know they've been someone I've leaned on,
Speaker 1: whether it be a hard day at my office or
Speaker 1: whether it was a hard day with my family or
Speaker 1: my money. I'm going to lean on this, nicked, do
Speaker 1: your best to pivot. And this is why when we
Speaker 1: get in relationships, it's very important to keep your friends
Speaker 1: still close, still making times for them, things like that,
Speaker 1: because if you don't, and when you come back from
Speaker 1: that relationship, they're like, bitch, what were you? I think
Speaker 1: a lot of the problems is too though, a lot
Speaker 1: of women have the tendency to cut off all of
Speaker 1: their friends when they get in a relationship. That's exactly
Speaker 1: it's hard than friends like friends and toxic abusive relationship.
Speaker 1: It's very hard to completely like cut all those things off.
Speaker 1: I will say that, yeah, in theory, I'm sure that
Speaker 1: that would be great, but it took me from when
Speaker 1: me and my ex boke up after two years of
Speaker 1: dating and living together and being like madly in love,
Speaker 1: it took us seven years to break up. Seven from thirty,
Speaker 1: I was walking the same girl, madly in love but
Speaker 1: fucking dudes because I couldn't get seriousness out of her
Speaker 1: because it was complicated. Basically, I was too young and
Speaker 1: I was popping at a time, and certain dudes wanted
Speaker 1: me and that ship was working with her head, so
Speaker 1: she didn't want to get back with me. But you
Speaker 1: want to keep sucking me, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: So she kept sucking me for seven years. We kept
Speaker 1: working each other, but we were going around the world,
Speaker 1: we were working together. We're having this like dynamic relationship.
Speaker 1: In a sense, I think that that is not realistic
Speaker 1: because relationships do not work like a beginning, middle, and textbook. You. Basically,
Speaker 1: I had to accept that what I did was a
Speaker 1: seven year really ship. I was basically married, and I
Speaker 1: was basically like in an open relationship with my wife,
Speaker 1: and essentially we were very um. We both have mad
Speaker 1: trauma's mommy and daddy issues whatever that we were taking
Speaker 1: out on each other. But it's not like I look
Speaker 1: back and like, oh my god, I'm not I should
Speaker 1: have just ave just like cut cut her off and
Speaker 1: stop cuddling. No, that sex's good. She's kicked me downstairs
Speaker 1: and ship, but like not in an evil way. Just
Speaker 1: like she would go through my phone after we fucked
Speaker 1: and be like, get the funk out of my house,
Speaker 1: like you suck someone dick, and I'd be like, you know,
Speaker 1: those are some of the most exciting times in my
Speaker 1: life because I learned, God, you were really sounding good. No.
Speaker 1: My thirties and I'm really a bad bitch that I
Speaker 1: don't I'm not a psycho. I've been through a lot
Speaker 1: of ship it's because I didn't try to manage the
Speaker 1: of course, the lifespan of the relationship with somebody that
Speaker 1: I was fucking madly. Other people it trust me. It
Speaker 1: was a breakup and we and she kicked me out
Speaker 1: the house and I want to move back with my
Speaker 1: mother and I was like so sad, and then we
Speaker 1: just kept working for seven years. We were working together.
Speaker 1: We were doing this all over the world I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: We were basically on tour all over the world sucking.
Speaker 1: It was amazing and magical. But what we couldn't deal
Speaker 1: with was our emotional situation because I was doing but
Speaker 1: it was a girl, you know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: the point but no, But the point is that I'm
Speaker 1: telling you there was no other way it could have
Speaker 1: gone down. I had to go through that and it
Speaker 1: was beautiful. My life was dynamic. It was not easy
Speaker 1: all the time, but it was full of milestones. When
Speaker 1: I say like, bitch, you, I'm sorry, but you you'll
Speaker 1: be a toxic in an apartment, in a one bedroom
Speaker 1: with sucking old windows and Brooklyn versus you're being toxic
Speaker 1: and fucking TOKYOI besa is to the and things. You
Speaker 1: better go live your life. And right we were running
Speaker 1: a company that sold a hundred million dollars in one
Speaker 1: season of clothes. Do you understand what it's like to
Speaker 1: be a part of that? Yeah, of course I wish
Speaker 1: I would have been like dude says, I'm gonna work
Speaker 1: on my mental health. Bitch, I have a history now,
Speaker 1: and that history is complicated. I will never make those
Speaker 1: mistakes again. But haven't nasty sex like handcuffed to a
Speaker 1: bed in Paris, and like learning you know how to
Speaker 1: fucking not drive someone insane with my bisexuality through experience,
Speaker 1: which I would have had either way. It just would
Speaker 1: have come in different forms, you know what I'm saying, Like, well,
Speaker 1: I would have split it up across ten people instead
Speaker 1: of one. Like I was talking power couples and when
Speaker 1: they do work together and things like that, What the
Speaker 1: funk happens when y'all break? You're fucked. You're fucked. You
Speaker 1: build a great business, you do all this great ship,
Speaker 1: and then it's like, how can you even in terms
Speaker 1: like equity? You learned terms like um you know, contract thing, leveraging,
Speaker 1: like what do you bring to the table, learning to
Speaker 1: appraise your value. Those are the things that are important,
Speaker 1: not not working. But you also you also learn how
Speaker 1: to turn everything away from personal so everything is kind
Speaker 1: of decisions made for the betterment of the business. We
Speaker 1: have this money, we make this money together, kind of
Speaker 1: like with what you and I have. Like you know,
Speaker 1: we may not be on the same page all the time.
Speaker 1: And for a couple who was together and then split up,
Speaker 1: they are still working together because it's their livelihood, it's business.
Speaker 1: So I mean, I guess I would never ship on
Speaker 1: the thing that was created. I would say, yes, I
Speaker 1: would do it differently. But would I have preferred to
Speaker 1: be self destructing on a dance floor doing drugs? I
Speaker 1: mean I was djaying the dance floor and I just
Speaker 1: happened to be be d jaying the best after party
Speaker 1: in Paris that fashion week, and if I do remember
Speaker 1: you after where it's in fucking someone It was hot.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, what I'm trying to say
Speaker 1: is like that is a prescription for basically following the rules.
Speaker 1: There's no rules in life. There isn't And I was
Speaker 1: gonna obsessed with until you stop being obsessed with them
Speaker 1: and venus. What you said, though, is that you learned
Speaker 1: from this toxic relationship to not do it again. So
Speaker 1: even though she gave that guideline, I think that for
Speaker 1: anyone listening who has had their experience with a toxic relationship,
Speaker 1: if you're going through maybe a current breakup, to maybe
Speaker 1: follow these guidelines that we not given because you see
Speaker 1: that you've Yeah, you broke up with him. It had
Speaker 1: him come console me during the breakup during the same
Speaker 1: thing like no, okay, my last two, which we know
Speaker 1: are good ones. But it's very hard. So social media
Speaker 1: is talking. All we want to do when we break
Speaker 1: up with someone is know what's going on. We're feeling
Speaker 1: super attached. Maybe they're friends. You want to know, you
Speaker 1: want to look. It is very difficult, Honestly, I block
Speaker 1: them both, Like I don't block them because I don't
Speaker 1: I can't stand them. I blocked them because I don't
Speaker 1: want you to see me. I don't want to see you.
Speaker 1: I know how it's gonna feed into each other, you know, selock.
Speaker 1: I'll block maybe they're friends or something, but I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna like like recently recently though, with the glow up
Speaker 1: I got, which is why I know all these holes,
Speaker 1: all my all holes hit me up because they didn't
Speaker 1: see the Charlemagne announcement. I'm like, you little pussy niggers.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm happy don't come and ruin my hat had
Speaker 1: But I feel like I don't mind people saying things.
Speaker 1: You don't they say something to do something, Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I feel like I may not
Speaker 1: block them because I want them to see my success.
Speaker 1: But it's the self control of me not going to
Speaker 1: go look at their ship. That's why how they're doing.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's equals, not just for me, it's
Speaker 1: for them. It's for both of us, like engaging with
Speaker 1: each other, because if you see me do something and
Speaker 1: you reply to that story, I'm gonna fall back in
Speaker 1: it again. You're looking great. All these rules don't make
Speaker 1: no sense in real life because I block, and then
Speaker 1: I unblocked, and then I blocked, and then and then
Speaker 1: I'm block like black block. I can't say it today,
Speaker 1: and it's the age of media. If you block a
Speaker 1: nigg on Instagram and Twitter, bitch, I've even been hit
Speaker 1: up on Skype, bitch. I don't even be on f
Speaker 1: love like the last one I have and send a
Speaker 1: message through a friend like they will find you, you know,
Speaker 1: wrote me at No, trying to get back at each
Speaker 1: other in it hurtful way like sleeping with friends, and
Speaker 1: I do that. Y'all gotta stop. Why sleeping to get
Speaker 1: back at them, not to get back because we're not
Speaker 1: really wanted it. We don't win, bitch, I'm moving on
Speaker 1: with my life. Okay, You're not gonna block my blessings
Speaker 1: for the rest of Don't sleep with friends after a
Speaker 1: breakup because I think that it just doesn't on both sides.
Speaker 1: It looks like you're trying to hurt their feelings, even
Speaker 1: if you really want that nigga's dick or you really
Speaker 1: want that. I'm not. I've just been through it, Like, Okay,
Speaker 1: my ex girlfriend fucked the girl that I wanted to fuck.
Speaker 1: She sucked the girl that shot me for like a
Speaker 1: Vice article, like within months of her shooting me. Like
Speaker 1: the girl basically was like, I'm going to pray on
Speaker 1: your ex and was like yeah, Like she just did
Speaker 1: a lot of things that were like oh my god,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, okay, so now that's what
Speaker 1: we're doing. I guess that's what we're doing. Because I
Speaker 1: did that two guys too, and it hurt them and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, well, like you annoyed me and
Speaker 1: this was never gonna work. Like I'm thinking out that
Speaker 1: either clarity after and be like, I can't believe I
Speaker 1: suck this niggest frame because now just what if the
Speaker 1: got better date? But isn't your show called horrible decisions
Speaker 1: but responsible? Horr? I'm just saying, if you like, are
Speaker 1: you saying serious? Are you saying serious dating? It's serious,
Speaker 1: but for me a horrible decision. Right. Also, remember this
Speaker 1: is for the sanity of yourself. Sometimes when you're doing
Speaker 1: that vengeful fucking, you only end up hurt. You're like,
Speaker 1: you start feeling like about it right down the line,
Speaker 1: you feel like, yes, you know what, sometimes you just
Speaker 1: end up sucking their friends, And I think that you shouldn't.
Speaker 1: All right, you shouldn't feel bad about it, because from
Speaker 1: what I have experienced, guys are always pursuing I'm not
Speaker 1: pursuing you, and that you gotta homeboy go in your Instagram.
Speaker 1: I'm working. That's the small town on him. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm on a plane. I want to fly. I don't
Speaker 1: have time to date. I'm not interested in getting I
Speaker 1: want to each other tonight. And your boy actually he
Speaker 1: has a better personality and than you, and you're annoying,
Speaker 1: and he was always funny your birthday party. He was
Speaker 1: actually the one three. I'm just saying they took three.
Speaker 1: Some boundaries. We always talk about three sims. I think
Speaker 1: we need to do another. I think every year we
Speaker 1: need to do a threesome episode just to refresh. But
Speaker 1: for this one, a few topics that come up, so
Speaker 1: the first one, and I think it's a great threesome boundary.
Speaker 1: And this is for couples and for the unicorns. I
Speaker 1: think discussing your fears is a very good thing. I
Speaker 1: think that discussing what could go wrong, just being vocal,
Speaker 1: especially with a partner. Like a lot of people for
Speaker 1: the first threesome, they're not sure what to do, and
Speaker 1: I think it's a really good thing to be like, yo,
Speaker 1: I just don't want you know, let's say that maybe
Speaker 1: you don't want the if you're a woman, your boyfriend
Speaker 1: and the unicorn to be talking after If you really
Speaker 1: genuinely don't want that, you have to say it. If
Speaker 1: you don't want them to sleep over, you genuinely have
Speaker 1: to say you have to discuss what your fear is
Speaker 1: because if it happens, it's only going to ruin the experience.
Speaker 1: You have to discuss your fears, your boundaries, what you're
Speaker 1: looking for now. Following that one, is it fair because
Speaker 1: I'm experiencing it now in my first like, you know,
Speaker 1: is it fair to say I don't what if I
Speaker 1: don't know what my boundaries are until we're in the
Speaker 1: situation and then I realized, oh I didn't like this. Well,
Speaker 1: I think that that's okay. But if you have any fears,
Speaker 1: you should discuss them, Like, is there anything if you
Speaker 1: could think you haven't had a threesome with the person
Speaker 1: that you're with yet that comes to your mind or
Speaker 1: something you wouldn't want to happen with him. I just
Speaker 1: feel like so a lot out of our listeners asked about,
Speaker 1: you know, tips on having their first threesome. So, to
Speaker 1: be honest, until you've actually had threesomes or engaged, you
Speaker 1: have no fear going into there's nothing in your right
Speaker 1: now right now, I haven't, but like even when we did,
Speaker 1: like we we just recently had an orgy or whatever,
Speaker 1: and you've had noticed. Yeah, but I've never had a
Speaker 1: threesome with someone that I cared about, like, which I'll
Speaker 1: be sucking niggs I fun with my friends and maybe
Speaker 1: sucking the bitches that they fucked when they don't suck me, Like,
Speaker 1: but this is my first time with someone that you know,
Speaker 1: I actually have feelings for. So even when we had
Speaker 1: the orgy, there was kissing going on, and I realized, Okay,
Speaker 1: I actually don't mind the kissing, like I got them
Speaker 1: the kind of like, but I'm not gonna lie. I'm
Speaker 1: to the space right now where I don't know what
Speaker 1: I fear. I just don't. But also, I think you
Speaker 1: have experiences with threesomes whereas I'm talking like, we gotta
Speaker 1: think about the person I haven't had. Isn't that nuts? Wait? What,
Speaker 1: I've sucked a lot, but no threesoms. Yeah, my blong
Speaker 1: term relationships were always opposed to it. Like, so you're
Speaker 1: always jealous, So let me have you you've never had
Speaker 1: a girl who are always jealous? To do you know
Speaker 1: what you would fear in a threason without having one thing?
Speaker 1: Take him? What to take her if she don't want
Speaker 1: me to more? Oh? Well, I do though, I think
Speaker 1: that's how you should approach life. And maybe I'm just
Speaker 1: superent because I've seen a lot of ship and I've
Speaker 1: been through a lot. I've already gone through the dark.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm real good. If bringing her in is
Speaker 1: going to break us up, then I guess we're broken.
Speaker 1: Go for it. Also, Also, if you're not reading me
Speaker 1: and you don't know me as a partner and I
Speaker 1: care about you, and you're doing things that are going
Speaker 1: to violate me, then I'm gonna I'm gonna figure out
Speaker 1: like that there's a problem in our love, like the
Speaker 1: way that we communicate with each other, because everything is
Speaker 1: not Like I don't have the energy to make everything
Speaker 1: a therapy session anymore. I used to do that with people,
Speaker 1: and then I realized, like there's so much communication that
Speaker 1: you're just doing through body language, through your facial expressions,
Speaker 1: through how you you know, move, I feel like care
Speaker 1: doing Otherwise, I'm gonna keep re Moving'm going to say
Speaker 1: her and explain to you what's wrong about certain things.
Speaker 1: If you're talking about after why are you talking to
Speaker 1: us so much? But see, I'll say I'll say that this,
Speaker 1: but that is unhealthy communication in a relationship. But like
Speaker 1: energy to teach every single you have to explain if
Speaker 1: something bothers you in a relationship talking. You can't just
Speaker 1: sit here and be like, my nigga, you better know
Speaker 1: why I don't want to know. I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1: I'm saying that, like I feel like there's a lot
Speaker 1: of things to talk about, but in my experience, sometimes
Speaker 1: you end up going this extra mile to explain to
Speaker 1: to somebody that's not even going to be there in
Speaker 1: your life in a year or two. And like I'm
Speaker 1: all I'm saying is like for me, I think that
Speaker 1: you have to be mindful who you spend all that
Speaker 1: energy processing and like teaching how to love you. I
Speaker 1: think the great first threeson, by the way, isn't a
Speaker 1: relationship threesome. I think that a relationship threesome for the
Speaker 1: first one is a lot more pressure opposed to just
Speaker 1: kind of getting it out there. My first reason was,
Speaker 1: like I guess started and think that. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's it's weird. I just I just
Speaker 1: think that you have to be mindful who you give
Speaker 1: all that energy too, because I honestly I look at
Speaker 1: a lot of relationships and all that talking for what
Speaker 1: I don't even talk to you any more. The three things,
Speaker 1: Like I mean, at the end of the day, that
Speaker 1: think it's gonna be that person, but well not only that.
Speaker 1: That's the thing is, people, we have to stop thinking
Speaker 1: that whoever we're dealing with forever, because we're not true.
Speaker 1: There is going to be a beginning, a middle, and
Speaker 1: an end. There is going to be an end. But
Speaker 1: what you have to realize is that person that's in
Speaker 1: your space right now, you want it to be the
Speaker 1: most happy, non toxic relationship with a being at that
Speaker 1: point in time in your life that you can so
Speaker 1: not everyone is going to last forever. You're not going
Speaker 1: to know everyone until you're dying. Day on my mind
Speaker 1: to your point, we had a situation where we almost
Speaker 1: had so funny, but I really knew that I had
Speaker 1: a great person and friend in my life because of
Speaker 1: what happened after. So we were all flirting, Venus and
Speaker 1: I and Obey and I got fucking smacked, super smacked.
Speaker 1: If you and your partner are constantly talking about a threesome,
Speaker 1: if you are either too intoxicated or or high to
Speaker 1: have the control to know this isn't going to be
Speaker 1: the right time for us to do this. It was
Speaker 1: good for me and him because I feel like it
Speaker 1: does set us up now for actually yeah right, well,
Speaker 1: and also she woke up and cook this breakfast. It
Speaker 1: was really cute, and I was like, you're not even
Speaker 1: like shed making avocado. It was my life really why
Speaker 1: it happened because he and I were just horny and
Speaker 1: up and you just fell asleep, and I was like,
Speaker 1: this would happen if we weren't drunk, which I'm not
Speaker 1: terrible for. I should have never fell asleep like that.
Speaker 1: But anyway, my last and final room before we get
Speaker 1: out of here is pick a Leader. Say is my
Speaker 1: favorite threesome? And we do not talk about this enough,
Speaker 1: and I think this is the best one. God damnit,
Speaker 1: make it the clip of the week. Do not have
Speaker 1: a threesome where no one knows their role. If y'all
Speaker 1: have pick the leader, there's gotta be either one person
Speaker 1: that is starting the conversation, offering up the threesome, one
Speaker 1: person that's taking charge. And don't have that. You couple,
Speaker 1: you need a director, you do pretty much, but if
Speaker 1: you're not. If you're in a couple and you're seeking
Speaker 1: the unicorn and you both don't know what the funk
Speaker 1: you're doing. That's not attractive for the other person. You
Speaker 1: have to be very clear on who's making the moves,
Speaker 1: who's taking it to the next place, and if you
Speaker 1: don't and it's just up in the air, it's not
Speaker 1: a fun threesome for any Someone has to lead from
Speaker 1: the conversation to oral to fucking and then all kids
Speaker 1: and the kiss and then directing the position changes in between. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: you need someone in charge. You need someone to kind
Speaker 1: of direct you as to Okay, we're all comfortable, let's
Speaker 1: now do something else and move along the threesome. I
Speaker 1: agree to that. I think that's very good. You definitely
Speaker 1: need someone to take charge and someone who's not sure
Speaker 1: to be like, okay, like, let's get it going. We
Speaker 1: have to well today what's fun and all about? Bound good?
Speaker 1: Even though you're the devil on whoever show now the devil?
Speaker 1: Why she was just like, I'm just so happy. I'm
Speaker 1: so happy, That's what I'm glad that I'm happy because
Speaker 1: because you know what, women often we grow up with
Speaker 1: so much shame and guilt, and that's the part that
Speaker 1: I'm like, we'll leave it in the past, please, Because
Speaker 1: you make more money when you're not ashamed of yourself
Speaker 1: and when you're not, your prostitution and I'm just ha.
Speaker 1: I mean where they can find you. Venus X on Instagram,
Speaker 1: venus ex gg on Twitter, even though I don't really
Speaker 1: use it, Um, SoundCloud, just look on Venus and for
Speaker 1: the fellows. If y'all like some good little gothic looking
Speaker 1: thirst traps, she got it, she'd be having a little
Speaker 1: you know, fashions. I ain't gonna like the fashions. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm out here, but there's a lot of fun things coming.
Speaker 1: I'm working on a lot of music. You have your
Speaker 1: Patreon finished, I will, I will. There's a bunch of
Speaker 1: news shows, um that we're working on, music, TV, DJ streams,
Speaker 1: things of that nature, you know, pivoting into the digital world.
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Speaker 1: Welcome to a town Hall Patreon bonus. The fucking meet up,
Speaker 1: meet up with the get up. I really excited in this, y'all,
Speaker 1: Like I'm working tonight, That's why I'm not home and
Speaker 1: you see me in the studio and I literally just
Speaker 1: passed by with Alexandrew and he was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: we gotta do this for our patrons. We have to
Speaker 1: be sitting try and whole bitch this ship. Let us
Speaker 1: fuck no, it really is. I love talking to shut up.
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something. Okay, did Flaker have a
Speaker 1: Patreon before Whole of Decisions? Because they didn't. Y'all might
Speaker 1: have a little bit more money than this, but let's
Speaker 1: be real clear. My nigked cool asshole Army were the
Speaker 1: booty hoole army bitch shout out to the boodoles. Anyways,
Speaker 1: I guess we'll start off like we normally do with
Speaker 1: a quick little catch up hiding. No, I'm really stressed
Speaker 1: out and I cried all day because I'm not a
Speaker 1: fucking writer and I really should never have put myself
Speaker 1: in this position. I'm in way over my head. I
Speaker 1: feel like this is the worst thing I've ever done
Speaker 1: to myself. You know, when you have an idea and
Speaker 1: you're like done, of course I can execute it. Niga.
Speaker 1: I cried for the last two days. Obviously I am
Speaker 1: a crier, so I think anything could have happened, but no,
Speaker 1: I'm super stressed. Also, I just want to let you
Speaker 1: guys know these thing is. I was in l A
Speaker 1: for work, and uh. They were like, yeah, if you're
Speaker 1: so stressed out, we could just move you out here.
Speaker 1: I was like, that's really sweet. Um, yeah, would you
Speaker 1: guys pay for my accommodation and stuff. Yeah, we'll get
Speaker 1: you an apartment right across the street from the studio.
Speaker 1: The studio is in Glendale, California. Man, so I was like, well,
Speaker 1: that's not gonna work, but I don't want to live
Speaker 1: in Glendale. And they were like, okay, well we can
Speaker 1: get you a car. Do you have a license? And boy,
Speaker 1: oh boy, if you guys listen to the show, you know,
Speaker 1: that answers and no, um, they damn sure. I said yeah,
Speaker 1: because I know nigas were gonna check up. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And then when they had me submit
Speaker 1: a picture of my license, I sent my passport so
Speaker 1: I couldn't find it, and he was like this, that
Speaker 1: ain't gonna work. So I'm back. So for all of
Speaker 1: you who do not know, we ain't got a license
Speaker 1: because that ship got suspended for like seven years for
Speaker 1: d u y ship. It's not a d many what
Speaker 1: was what was it? Then? I wanted I was driving
Speaker 1: while suspended, and then I was driving while it was revoked,
Speaker 1: so now it's really revoked. But you know what's crazy,
Speaker 1: The five years is up. I was about to say,
Speaker 1: wasn't that like ten years ago? Bro? Yeah it was.
Speaker 1: It's just like now you have to like totally like
Speaker 1: redo the ship. Yeah I got arrested, bitch, ain't nobody
Speaker 1: had to bring that ship up. But your damn show
Speaker 1: brought it up. You technically brought it up, but I
Speaker 1: wanted left him to my own truth against me. Bitch,
Speaker 1: don't repeat my ship because now you're embarrassing. Your life
Speaker 1: is embarrassing. I don't know what to tell you. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know it is it really is. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she shared the jail story with y'all. I think here
Speaker 1: on Patriots at Scissors at the So. And you know,
Speaker 1: I only shared the jail story because, uh, someone tried
Speaker 1: to expose me and I said, let me hurry and
Speaker 1: get this out. Okay, come on, Eminem eight mile give
Speaker 1: it to him. Who eminem on eight miles said they're
Speaker 1: calling you Eminem. I thought, no, no one is calling
Speaker 1: me Eminem. Bitch. Calm down, Ellen, Bro, you gotta chill
Speaker 1: with the hair jokes, bro Eve, because I let you rock.
Speaker 1: I'll let you rock over there. Bro, all right, all right,
Speaker 1: because we're not gonna go there now, we ain't gonna
Speaker 1: go there. Who else is a blind? I'm just saying, though,
Speaker 1: who else has a blind? Shortcut? Bitch? Andrew Schultz ship
Speaker 1: call me brown. Anyways, I guess it's funny that what
Speaker 1: you brought up. I guess we've been kind of um
Speaker 1: feeling the same way. Um as you guys know, I
Speaker 1: have been uh doing my subscription box, and so I
Speaker 1: didn't know how many steps there were to creating like
Speaker 1: a whole business. So you're patent it because that's a
Speaker 1: good idea. We need to take this trade trademark has
Speaker 1: been submitted. Um. I mean I don't think I can
Speaker 1: patent it because it's a it's a subscription box, um,
Speaker 1: which is one of those Um. But building the website
Speaker 1: has been like insane. Have like I just flew in
Speaker 1: my team members mind you. My boxes got stuck in
Speaker 1: customs uh last week, so I had to cancel my
Speaker 1: my team my team members fights, my my boxes are
Speaker 1: now ready to be shipped out. I'm super excited. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just been a lot. It's it's been a super lot. Um.
Speaker 1: I'm stressed, and tomorrow I'm getting a massage because I
Speaker 1: really need it because my whole body hurts, and my
Speaker 1: nigga did give me a massage, but then it's like
Speaker 1: my backstops hurting, but my legs, like my what's it called?
Speaker 1: What's the thing? What's the part called in between your thighs? Girl?
Speaker 1: Oh