WEBVTT - Second Date Update: House Hunters

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. We have a woman who emailed the

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<v Speaker 1>show today for a second date update. Her name is Janine,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was personally very impressed when I read her

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<v Speaker 1>email because it says she and her date got into

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<v Speaker 1>role play on day one. Oh wow, Jimine, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show. God. So were you the naughty

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<v Speaker 1>motelmate or the sexy viking bellhop? I would say it

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<v Speaker 1>was more of the sweet, grown next door gardener type. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't played that version yet, but it sounds very fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It definitely involves a spade. So what's the name of

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that you want us to call today? His

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<v Speaker 1>name is Steffan. Oh my gosh. Really is he rich?

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you're Stefan, don't you have to be rich?

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that like the rule? Um? I think he had

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<v Speaker 1>a good job. I don't know the details of his finances,

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<v Speaker 1>but okay, well, how did you meet Stefan? So we

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<v Speaker 1>went on Instagram? Okay, like he slid into your DMS

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<v Speaker 1>or something exactly. Yeah. So I have a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>pictures on Instagram, and I guess he saw one labeled

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<v Speaker 1>hashtag green thumb because I'm a gardener and so I

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<v Speaker 1>guess he is two and he found it in the

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<v Speaker 1>export page or whatever. Okay, that's pretty innocent, guess. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>unless he's a role player in Green Thumby, that was

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<v Speaker 1>something else. Okay. Oh, I wasn't sure exactly what he

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<v Speaker 1>meant by that, but that's cool. He slid into your

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<v Speaker 1>DMS and how'd that go? Well? I looked at photos,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he seemed really cute and we started just

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<v Speaker 1>chatting online. And I guess he was new the area

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<v Speaker 1>and he of this company just transferred him here. So

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<v Speaker 1>he was looking to buy a house and he really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted in the area for a garden. See, Stefan is rich.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you all. I told you he can afford

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<v Speaker 1>a house, so billionaire there. So what did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>do for your date? Then? So we that's for coffee first,

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<v Speaker 1>just to meet each other, and then he wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>to come look at house and gardens with him. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you feeling about that because you just met

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<v Speaker 1>this dude? Yeah, Well, honestly, it sounded fun like it

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<v Speaker 1>was like a diversion from the normal date to going

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<v Speaker 1>to bars and drinking. So it just seemed like a

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<v Speaker 1>fun activity to get to know someone. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so in your email you said that you came up

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<v Speaker 1>with a cool idea to spice the date up a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>What was that? I made a suggestion before we went

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<v Speaker 1>that we should pretend that we're married. Oh god, because

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, my god, because you wanted there to be

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<v Speaker 1>zero romance for the rest of the day. Yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>get into a few arguments in the bedroom. Well, let

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<v Speaker 1>me explain. So, when real letters look at a young couple,

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<v Speaker 1>they're more likely to give them the house than a

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<v Speaker 1>single mail. So I figured that might be good for him.

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<v Speaker 1>And is that true? I think it is. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to like write letters now to get houses when like

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<v Speaker 1>there's multiple offers and stuff. So like it's essentially like

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<v Speaker 1>the sob stories from American Idol, but in a letter

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<v Speaker 1>forms try to get a house. Really Okay, So you

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<v Speaker 1>pretended to be his wife while looking around at these houses.

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<v Speaker 1>How did that work for you? So we had some

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<v Speaker 1>inside jokes, you know, to make it seem like we

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<v Speaker 1>were a couple. Like, we had a co word it

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<v Speaker 1>was babysitter. So if we met a pushy realtor, we

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<v Speaker 1>would just say, hey, we got to get back to

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<v Speaker 1>the babysitter. Yeah, one time though, one of the realtors

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<v Speaker 1>asked how many kids we had, and he said one

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<v Speaker 1>and I said three at the same time. That's an

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<v Speaker 1>awkward one to talk your way out of. Yeah, fur babies, babies. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, was there any weird points between you and

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<v Speaker 1>him though, because I feel like you're playing with fire

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<v Speaker 1>when you're pretending to be married on the first date,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that could go wrong really quick. Sure, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I understand what you're saying. But it was actually like

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<v Speaker 1>we had a blast, Like we saw probably a dozen

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<v Speaker 1>houses the first day, and then I went with him

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<v Speaker 1>the next day. Oh godaw like, yeah, you know, another

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<v Speaker 1>half dozen. And then at some point he said that

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<v Speaker 1>he was feeling really over Elms and just like needed

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<v Speaker 1>to take a break from seeing the houses. And I

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<v Speaker 1>completely understand, you know, it can be very overwhelming. But

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<v Speaker 1>since then I haven't heard from him, um, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>wondering why he hasn't called me back. Like, we found

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<v Speaker 1>this amazing Cape Cod house. I was darling, Um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I really think it was the best house. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>such a weird to have with like your first date.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not even buying the house. She's like, oh, it

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<v Speaker 1>was gorgeous, like I had this great back porch that

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<v Speaker 1>we could like sun tan on. I mean maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. Maybe you were talking in we and it

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<v Speaker 1>freaked him out. Oh maybe, I don't know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I have a lot of knowledge about this stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just thought it was innocent and helpful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're an you're an h G TV addict. I

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<v Speaker 1>get it, I know, but some jokes go too far.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what do you think, Why do you think

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<v Speaker 1>he's not calling me back? I don't know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, maybe it's that which would seem weird since

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<v Speaker 1>we both agreed on this fun game that we were playing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like we got drinks afterwards, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>fun and it was nice. Like I didn't really see

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<v Speaker 1>any strange signs unless he's just one of those guys

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<v Speaker 1>who meets a girl and then dumps her, meets a girl,

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<v Speaker 1>tends to be married with her, and it never calls

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<v Speaker 1>her again. Totally run into those guys all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the age old story. Bro. What happened when you

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<v Speaker 1>guys got drinks though? Anything? I mean, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like a normal date, like cracking jokes. We

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<v Speaker 1>talked a little bit about the houses. We got to

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<v Speaker 1>know Eachell her a little bit. Okay, all right, pretty normal.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, it sounds fairly normal. Questionable. I meant,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call it normal for this show. Yeah, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song. We'll come back and we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>your a strange husband for you. We'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date update. Okay, I'm good. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just tuning in, we're in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>one of the most tame second date updates we've ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard on this show. That's very true, I'm serious. One

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Janine, spent two full days pretending to

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<v Speaker 1>be some guy's wife as they went around the city

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<v Speaker 1>looking at potential homes to buy. Not together. He's buying

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<v Speaker 1>the house. She was just helping, right. They did that

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<v Speaker 1>because her dates Stefan, recently moved to the area, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's looking for a place to live. They saw over

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<v Speaker 1>a dozen houses before finally deciding to call it quits.

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<v Speaker 1>But now her dates Stefan is suddenly Steph gone, you

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<v Speaker 1>are dying. Yeah, I did not see that coming. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why they put me in this position. Look classic husband humor,

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<v Speaker 1>which I know Janine loves. Don't you Janine? You have

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<v Speaker 1>some clever things? Yeah? Okay, sounds like she's talking to

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<v Speaker 1>a husband there. Yeah, shut up, honey, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, listening to the recap, Janine, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that he just got bored? Like I didn't think about

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<v Speaker 1>it until I heard it all into one sentence, Like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe there wasn't enough sexiness there? Yeah? Maybe, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he was married beforehand and then it triggered. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what secret he has, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like, Okay, I don't think that's it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's call Stefan and get your second date update. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>donaland phone number right now here we go? Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Stefan please? This is him? Hi, Stefan.

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<v Speaker 1>My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Do you want them to talk with us? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show? Oh? Oh yes, the radio show. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you familiar with us? I'm not. Oh, but why did

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<v Speaker 1>you say it like you like he knew us? Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>you sounded so excited. I did. I perked up for

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<v Speaker 1>a second. I just don't usually get called some radio shows. Okay, sure, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>now that my mood is in the garbage. Well, Stefan,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't heard of you either, so or even that's

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<v Speaker 1>actually not true. Yeah, we just talked a lot, got

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone. Anyway, This is a little awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>What's this about? Sorry, Yes, we're doing something with you

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<v Speaker 1>called a second Date Update. It's a segment we do

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<v Speaker 1>on our show where if someone goes out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date and afterwards, if the other person isn't calling them back,

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<v Speaker 1>they can reach out to us and we'll call that

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<v Speaker 1>person to try and figure out the reason why. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I've heard of this before. Oh okay, well good.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a woman that reached out to us about you,

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<v Speaker 1>and her name is Janine. Oh yeah, okay, you remember Janine. See, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember Janine. I would hope. So you guys spend

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time together. Yeah, you're married her, you're not, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you pretended to be. She told you that, huh, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she did. She told us a lot about your first date.

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<v Speaker 1>It certainly was very interesting ang out with her. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie, it got very weird for me. The

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<v Speaker 1>date got weird. Yeah, I mean, I don't know exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what she told you in detail. But I'm new to

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<v Speaker 1>the area, so I've been looking for a house and

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<v Speaker 1>she's into houses and like s gardening. And on day one,

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly thought she was just tagging along and gonna

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<v Speaker 1>help me. But she had this whole plan in her mind.

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<v Speaker 1>She had an idea about us pretending to be husband

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<v Speaker 1>and wife, right, she told us all about that, And

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that was weird when she said it, like

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit much for the first date. But the

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<v Speaker 1>way she described it, you were totally on board, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys came up with inside jokes about babysitters and stuff. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I definitely walked away feeling still intrigued. But

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<v Speaker 1>let's just say she took it very seriously, like very

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<v Speaker 1>believable that I almost felt like maybe she's done this before.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you mean, Well, let me just tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what happened on the second day. So I met

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<v Speaker 1>her at a coffee shop and she was dressed up

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<v Speaker 1>like a nineteen fifties housewife. I mean, she looked like

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<v Speaker 1>she went to a hair salon to get her hair

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<v Speaker 1>styled that way. She had the pearls, the sunglasses, she

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<v Speaker 1>had like a nineteen fifties style dress. But that's just

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, was it like a costume or was it

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<v Speaker 1>like she just dresses like that sometimes. No, it looked

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<v Speaker 1>like a costume, But I don't think she thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was in costume. I mean, as soon as I saw her,

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<v Speaker 1>she ran up to me like honey, honey, and she

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed my arm and oh, weird, asking me about what

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<v Speaker 1>we should make for dinner and talking about the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>We weren't even in the house yet. This is just

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<v Speaker 1>like walking out of the cafe anything. No, no, So

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought, you know, she would have at least

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<v Speaker 1>been like, hey, I dressed this way to well the

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<v Speaker 1>reel chars or I don't know whatever. But she was

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<v Speaker 1>already in character. So she's like a method actor, is

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying. Yeah, I guess you could say that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Wait, why didn't you just tell her like, hey, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>slow down. I mean, she was having fun with it,

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<v Speaker 1>so I didn't really make much of it. Okay. Then

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<v Speaker 1>we get to the next house, and that's when it

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<v Speaker 1>got extremely weird, weirder than it already is. For real.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that that was the reason. Yeah, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>say she took the character to the next level. So,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, what does that mean? We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>open houses. It's not like it's just us in the

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<v Speaker 1>real chair. There's other couples there, others, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>so people are already kind of giving us an eye,

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<v Speaker 1>like what's going on here? You know? She just who

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<v Speaker 1>are these time travelers from the nineteen sixties exactly? Even

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<v Speaker 1>you know the way she styled there and make everything

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<v Speaker 1>she really stood out. So we are in this house

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<v Speaker 1>and she, you know, points out this room is too

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<v Speaker 1>small for when my parents come to visit. And then

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<v Speaker 1>she raised her voice screaming at me, saying, and you

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<v Speaker 1>never like my parents anyway, She's legit having a like

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<v Speaker 1>fight with you. I mean, is it true, Like do

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<v Speaker 1>you not like her parents? Because if she has a

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<v Speaker 1>point there, I barely know her. So I'm okay. We

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<v Speaker 1>go to the next house, and this time she brings

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<v Speaker 1>up the word babysitter again, which is our code word

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<v Speaker 1>if we didn't like a house. You know, I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>one really making decisions, so I should be the one

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<v Speaker 1>bringing it up. But she she's very invested in your home,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's going off about the babysitter that she saw

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<v Speaker 1>me eyeing our babysitter who is only seventeen. My gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>that is too far. She's accusing you. She's accusing her

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<v Speaker 1>fake husband of hitting on your fake underage babysitter. Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was absolutely humiliating, and that was absolutely the last

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<v Speaker 1>house I would see. Well, my god, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that's something that we need to talk to Janine about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys should definitely call her back. Well, actually, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to call her back because she's already on

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<v Speaker 1>the line and she's been listening to this whole conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>You're joking, right, No, No, I'm not. No, Janine, are

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<v Speaker 1>you there cephone? I don't know why you're treating me

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<v Speaker 1>like this. What what do you have accept? Who's that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm just I'm just having fun, Janine.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get in a fight with him at the

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<v Speaker 1>open houses on purpose? Like you? I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of a test to see if he could hang.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fun, it was innocent. I'm married and I've

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<v Speaker 1>never accused my husband of buying an underage baby. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys don't have a fun relationship. There's certainly a

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<v Speaker 1>level of playful fun, but you definitely you took it

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<v Speaker 1>to like ten other levels beyond. I don't understand why

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't say anything in the moment, because I was

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<v Speaker 1>scared and I was embarrassed. I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to start yelling at me about something else,

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to get in and out of there as

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<v Speaker 1>quick as possible, just like the baby center. Whoa. Even

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<v Speaker 1>at one point you got upset with the real chair

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<v Speaker 1>and said, if we're going to buy this place, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to update the count of talks. Aren't you embarrassed

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<v Speaker 1>to sell this hunk of junk? And though I can't

0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:18.600
<v Speaker 1>use that real chairs rough market out there. Okay, they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't believe us on the first day. They didn't believe

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<v Speaker 1>you're Merran, and I just went into up the game

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly helped you out. I was just helping you out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, listen, no, Janine, I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>had good intentions, very misguided though you weren't there. They

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<v Speaker 1>didn't buy it. Okay, I up the game. I helped him.

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<v Speaker 1>It was all fun. It was a fun game we

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<v Speaker 1>were playing. I don't understand why you had such a

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<v Speaker 1>problem with it, Like, obviously you can't hang You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>help me. I still haven't bought a house. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>even work with any of the real chairs that we

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<v Speaker 1>met because they think that you're crazy. Janine. I know

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like everybody's laughing at you, but it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like you can't fight with like even pretend fight with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody on a first date. It's not cool. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>attractive at all. But it is believable. Yeah, that's one

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<v Speaker 1>thing what I'm saying. It was believable, and so in

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<v Speaker 1>the end I was helping him out. I did. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I thought you were fun. Yeah, it was fun

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<v Speaker 1>until you made it crazy. Nobody wants to work with

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy couple like or be married to a fake

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<v Speaker 1>crazy wife. Janine. Okay, well let's make it fun again, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because we want to offer to send you guys out

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date. We'll pay for it. You're joking, right, Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Well what if what if she promises to drop the

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<v Speaker 1>marriage stick, if she could pretend to be a normal person,

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<v Speaker 1>then maybe what do you think, Janine? Can you pretend

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<v Speaker 1>to be normal? Well of course I can, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think he deserves me. Oh my god, oh my god, Janine,

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<v Speaker 1>you were a drama kid. In high school were two. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I was in a few plays and I did very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, so are they going out? Are you guys

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<v Speaker 1>not going out? Yeah? Okay, I'm sorry, Janine, no second date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay. I think it all worked out how it

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to. I just feel bad for your kids.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna be so mad. Mom and dad. We're fighting

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