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Speaker 1: Second date update. We have a woman who emailed the

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Speaker 1: show today for a second date update. Her name is Janine,

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Speaker 1: and I was personally very impressed when I read her

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Speaker 1: email because it says she and her date got into

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Speaker 1: role play on day one. Oh wow, Jimine, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. God. So were you the naughty

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Speaker 1: motelmate or the sexy viking bellhop? I would say it

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Speaker 1: was more of the sweet, grown next door gardener type. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I haven't played that version yet, but it sounds very fun.

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Speaker 1: It definitely involves a spade. So what's the name of

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Speaker 1: the guy that you want us to call today? His

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Speaker 1: name is Steffan. Oh my gosh. Really is he rich?

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Speaker 1: Because if you're Stefan, don't you have to be rich?

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Speaker 1: Isn't that like the rule? Um? I think he had

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Speaker 1: a good job. I don't know the details of his finances,

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Speaker 1: but okay, well, how did you meet Stefan? So we

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Speaker 1: went on Instagram? Okay, like he slid into your DMS

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Speaker 1: or something exactly. Yeah. So I have a bunch of

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Speaker 1: pictures on Instagram, and I guess he saw one labeled

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Speaker 1: hashtag green thumb because I'm a gardener and so I

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Speaker 1: guess he is two and he found it in the

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Speaker 1: export page or whatever. Okay, that's pretty innocent, guess. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: unless he's a role player in Green Thumby, that was

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Speaker 1: something else. Okay. Oh, I wasn't sure exactly what he

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Speaker 1: meant by that, but that's cool. He slid into your

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Speaker 1: DMS and how'd that go? Well? I looked at photos,

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Speaker 1: you know, he seemed really cute and we started just

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Speaker 1: chatting online. And I guess he was new the area

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Speaker 1: and he of this company just transferred him here. So

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Speaker 1: he was looking to buy a house and he really

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Speaker 1: wanted in the area for a garden. See, Stefan is rich.

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Speaker 1: I told you all. I told you he can afford

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Speaker 1: a house, so billionaire there. So what did you guys

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Speaker 1: do for your date? Then? So we that's for coffee first,

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Speaker 1: just to meet each other, and then he wanted me

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Speaker 1: to come look at house and gardens with him. I mean,

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Speaker 1: how are you feeling about that because you just met

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Speaker 1: so in your email you said that you came up

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Speaker 1: with a cool idea to spice the date up a bit.

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Speaker 1: What was that? I made a suggestion before we went

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Speaker 1: that we should pretend that we're married. Oh god, because

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Speaker 1: I mean, my god, because you wanted there to be

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Speaker 1: zero romance for the rest of the day. Yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: get into a few arguments in the bedroom. Well, let

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Speaker 1: me explain. So, when real letters look at a young couple,

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Speaker 1: they're more likely to give them the house than a

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Speaker 1: single mail. So I figured that might be good for him.

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Speaker 1: And is that true? I think it is. You have

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Speaker 1: to like write letters now to get houses when like

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Speaker 1: there's multiple offers and stuff. So like it's essentially like

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Speaker 1: the sob stories from American Idol, but in a letter

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Speaker 1: forms try to get a house. Really Okay, So you

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Speaker 1: pretended to be his wife while looking around at these houses.

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Speaker 1: How did that work for you? So we had some

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Speaker 1: and I said three at the same time. That's an

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Speaker 1: awkward one to talk your way out of. Yeah, fur babies, babies. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, was there any weird points between you and

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Speaker 1: Like that could go wrong really quick. Sure, I mean

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Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying. But it was actually like

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Speaker 1: It's the age old story. Bro. What happened when you

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Speaker 1: guys got drinks though? Anything? I mean, it was just

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Speaker 1: you know, like a normal date, like cracking jokes. We

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Speaker 1: your a strange husband for you. We'll try and get

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Speaker 1: one of the most tame second date updates we've ever

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Speaker 1: heard on this show. That's very true, I'm serious. One

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Speaker 1: But now her dates Stefan is suddenly Steph gone, you

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Speaker 1: are dying. Yeah, I did not see that coming. That's

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Speaker 1: why they put me in this position. Look classic husband humor,

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Speaker 1: some clever things? Yeah? Okay, sounds like she's talking to

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Speaker 1: let's call Stefan and get your second date update. I'm

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Speaker 1: donaland phone number right now here we go? Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Stefan please? This is him? Hi, Stefan.

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Speaker 1: My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Do you want them to talk with us? Okay,

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Speaker 1: the radio show? Oh? Oh yes, the radio show. Are

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Speaker 1: you familiar with us? I'm not. Oh, but why did

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Speaker 1: you sounded so excited. I did. I perked up for

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Speaker 1: a second. I just don't usually get called some radio shows. Okay, sure, Well,

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Speaker 1: now that my mood is in the garbage. Well, Stefan,

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard of you either, so or even that's

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Speaker 1: What's this about? Sorry, Yes, we're doing something with you

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Speaker 1: called a second Date Update. It's a segment we do

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Speaker 1: think I've heard of this before. Oh okay, well good.

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Speaker 1: So there's a woman that reached out to us about you,

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Speaker 1: and her name is Janine. Oh yeah, okay, you remember Janine. See, yes,

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Speaker 1: I remember Janine. I would hope. So you guys spend

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Speaker 1: a lot of time together. Yeah, you're married her, you're not, well,

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Speaker 1: you pretended to be. She told you that, huh, Yes,

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Speaker 1: It certainly was very interesting ang out with her. I'm

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Speaker 1: So what do you mean, Well, let me just tell

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Speaker 1: We weren't even in the house yet. This is just

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Speaker 1: I just thought, you know, she would have at least

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Speaker 1: oh my god, Wait, why didn't you just tell her like, hey, yo,

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Speaker 1: like what's going on here? You know? She just who

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Speaker 1: that is too far. She's accusing you. She's accusing her

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Speaker 1: that's something that we need to talk to Janine about. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you guys should definitely call her back. Well, actually, we

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Speaker 1: You're joking, right, No, No, I'm not. No, Janine, are

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm just I'm just having fun, Janine.

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Speaker 1: It was fun, it was innocent. I'm married and I've

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Speaker 1: you guys don't have a fun relationship. There's certainly a

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