1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: Fred Show, Selena, Good morning, How you doing? 3 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 2: Hey, good morning. 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 3: You know, honestly I'm a little confused. 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: That's how I'm doing. 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I mean that's honest. So it's waiting by 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: the phone, and you reached out to us. You want 8 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: to know what happened with this guy, George, So we 9 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: need to know, you know, kind of everything. 10 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 4: How did you guys meet? 11 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you've been on and 12 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: where things are now and how we can help. 13 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, we met at a bar and he had 14 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 3: asked me to get some drinks. He was really cute, 15 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 3: so he said yes, things were getting pretty flirty between us, 16 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 3: and I was right around the corner, and so, you know, 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 3: I didn't think anything was wrong to ask him to. 18 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 2: Come back to my place. 19 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:52,160 Speaker 4: Okay, everything was great. 20 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: Until we got to my place. Then he got super 21 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 2: weird and he very quickly just told me he had 22 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 2: to go home home. I never heard back. 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 3: From him after that, and I tried reaching out and 24 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 3: he hasn't responded at all. And that's like, everything was great? 25 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 3: Why am I getting ghosted here? 26 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:12,839 Speaker 4: Yeah? 27 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: So something happened at the house, But we just don't 28 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: know what it is because if everything will went well 29 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: up until that point and then he saw something or 30 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: something happened there, can you think of anything? 31 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if I said something, you know. 32 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 5: Wrong, I don't know, if there's something at my place 33 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 5: that like freaked him out. 34 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, if he had to go to the 35 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,559 Speaker 2: bathroom really bad. I can really have no clue. 36 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 4: Huh. 37 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,199 Speaker 1: It's very strange. So we're gonna try and call George 38 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 1: now and get to the bottom of this. Good luck, Selena, 39 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: Thank you. Hello, Hi is George? Is this George? 40 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is George. 41 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from 42 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show. My whole crew 43 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: is here. I do have to tell you that we 44 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: are on the radio right now, and I do need 45 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with call. Can we chat for 46 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: just a second, do you mind? 47 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure? Well, thank you very much. 48 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: I know it's kind of startling to get a call 49 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: like this, but we're calling on behalf of a woman 50 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: named Selena who you met recently, I guess in a 51 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,679 Speaker 1: bar and went back to her place a little while. 52 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 4: Maybe. Do you remember this woman? 53 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 6: Oh? 54 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, oh oh no, that's not a great reaction. 55 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: But she says that you ghosted her after going to 56 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: her house, and it's bothering her because she thought things 57 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: were going really well. So what we're here to do 58 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: is figure out if that's the case and why. 59 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 7: I was having like a really good time. And then 60 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 7: we get to her place and I kind of immediately 61 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,119 Speaker 7: spot the biggest red. 62 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 4: Flag, okay, which is so. 63 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 6: We get to her place and there's a ton. 64 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 7: Of packages right outside of her place, like multiple trips 65 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 7: for the stuff, and I hope her carry it in. 66 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 6: And I noticed on the. 67 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 7: Inside there even more packages that are still on opened 68 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 7: on the inside. 69 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 6: After you know, is there a special occasion, is something 70 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 6: going on? 71 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 7: And she just said, oh no, I just felt like 72 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 7: doing a little bit of online shopping. 73 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: So we're talking like a bunch of boxes Amazon or wherever. 74 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 7: Everything Amazon, Baffnova, you name it, it probably was there. 75 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: I mean, how many packages are we talking about? You 76 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: said you helped her carry them in there with some 77 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: more in there. I mean, I still want to know 78 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: why this is a red flag, But how many are 79 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: we talking about? Five? 80 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 7: No, there's like twenty outside and then another ten inside. 81 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 4: All right, that's a lot of online shopping. 82 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: I mean, so what's that? What does that have to 83 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: do with you though? And what does that have to 84 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: do with you liking her? 85 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 7: Well, it's an addiction, and you know, things actually worked 86 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 7: out because we were having a good time. That's a 87 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 7: bill I'm gonna. 88 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 6: Have to foot and like, you know. 89 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 7: Twenty packages on a random day, just like. 90 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,119 Speaker 4: Right, that's a reach. 91 00:03:58,240 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: First of all, I mean, we don't know that she's 92 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: a We don't know that she just didn't do a 93 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: bunch of shopping at once for summer for maybe she 94 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: just moved. In fact, you know what, let's find out 95 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: Selena's here. I forgot to mention that, George. I'm sorry, 96 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: I'm so forgetful. Selena. What's I mean that there's a 97 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: lot of packages? But I mean it's sort of your business. 98 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 1: I'm not sure what that has to do with him 99 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: on the first day that you met. 100 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, I'm hi, George. It's nice to finally. 101 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 2: Hear from you. I'm pretty shocked about this. 102 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 3: I thought it was going to be something. 103 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 5: Actually worth ghosting me over. But what do you care 104 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 5: if I do some online shopping? 105 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: I'm a good woman's. 106 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 5: Definitely not anything worth ghosting anybody for, especially someone like me. 107 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 5: And I worked so hard. I pay for everything myself. 108 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 5: What's wrong if I enjoy the money that I look for? 109 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: I mean, does she have like a is she living 110 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: in squalor or something? And then she's got, like, you know, 111 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: all this stuff? I mean, I mean, who is it? 112 00:04:58,040 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: How do you know if she can't afford all this? 113 00:04:59,720 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 4: Right? 114 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 2: You know? 115 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 6: Which honestly I don't. 116 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 7: But she had a lot of stuff. The place was nice, 117 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 7: But I just feel like she's battle money, and I 118 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 7: think that's. 119 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,679 Speaker 4: Important to somebody. How do you know that though you 120 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 4: just met. 121 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe if you've been dating for a year 122 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 1: and you know how much she makes, and you know, 123 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: you know what her financial situation he is, and if 124 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 1: at that point she didn't have any money and she's 125 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: buying a bunch of stuff, and maybe that's something to 126 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: talk about. 127 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 4: But you're jumping to conclusion. 128 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 7: You don't know that, right, Yeah, but twenty to thirty 129 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 7: packages that adds up quick. 130 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 4: You don't know how much she makes. You don't know. 131 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: Maybe she has a trust fund. Maybe this woman's father 132 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: invented the post it note. 133 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 4: You don't know that you don't know. 134 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: Maybe you could be getting twenty packages a day too 135 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: if you dated her you don't know. 136 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 3: About No, I'm sorry, but that is so petty. 137 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 4: So that's a weird thing. It's very weird. Yeah, you 138 00:05:57,680 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 4: don't even know. 139 00:05:58,160 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: Maybe she was like a promo code or had like 140 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: free one day shipping. I mean it's not that expensive 141 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: in my opinion, yes, right, twenty percent off? Is that 142 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: a normal day of packages? 143 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 4: Like how money packages do you get a day? 144 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 3: Not? Probably like three on average? Maybe three to just 145 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 3: I honestly, I worked. 146 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 5: So hard that I've hardly had time to open the packages. 147 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 3: That's really what it was. But my place is really nice. 148 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 3: I'm super clean, I am super hard working. 149 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 5: I'm really there's honestly, I cannot believe that he is 150 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:31,919 Speaker 5: willing to go see such a good woman over this. 151 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 1: I mean, I could see, George, if you knew that 152 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: she were broke and she just kept spending, I could 153 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: see how you might be concerned about that. That might 154 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: be a conversation to have, you know, how people look. 155 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 1: It's an important thing in a relationship, how people deal 156 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 1: with the finances and their views on that kind of stuff. 157 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 1: But that being said, you don't even know each other, 158 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: so you don't know what you're talking about. 159 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 7: You're right, I mean, I just I just made the 160 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 7: judgment call right there. 161 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 6: I was just like, you can go bad. 162 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 7: I've been in one of those relationships in the past 163 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 7: where I put in a lot of bills and it's 164 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 7: a bit of a trauma response. 165 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 4: But have been giving her your Well. 166 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 6: Ruby, we know why you're on her side. 167 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 2: I mean. 168 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 7: Money. 169 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 4: This guy over the money. She could spend the money 170 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 4: however she wants. 171 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: He's hiding packages and stuff. I mean, that's we're not even. 172 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: We're not even. I don't even know each other's last names, 173 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: and you're talking about I mean, you haven't seen her 174 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: credit score, like you don't know anything but nothing anyway, 175 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. Look, Selena, that's the answer. That's that's 176 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: the problem. You had too many packages in your home, 177 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: which okay, uh, do you do you want to see 178 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: this guy again? I mean, I don't know that he 179 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: wants to see you, but are you interested? 180 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 3: Honestly, it sounds like he has more baggage than I do. 181 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 2: Packages. 182 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: Oh and George, I take it you're not interested. 183 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's the path for me. 184 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, guys, look, this is a new one, but 185 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: I promo code that. Are you an influencer? Are you 186 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 1: about to try and sell me some skincare or something, 187 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: you know, some kind of some kind of Are you 188 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: on the TikTok shop? Yeah, oh jesus, are you making 189 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: commission on this call? Don't say anything. Guys, thank you 190 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: for your time. Best of luck to both of you.