1 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: What's up. 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 2: It's lip service. I'm angela ye, and it's time for 3 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 2: our part too. Now. Last week Chris giku Perry was 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 2: on the show. He's a relationship poach, relationship expert, and 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 2: we had a lot of questions for him, and he 6 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: had questions for us too, But it was all women. 7 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 3: It was me, it was Gigi, it was Laura Morra 8 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 3: and Stephanie Santiago. Well, this week we have. 9 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 2: All men answering those very same questions. I want to 10 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 2: see how different we all are. Okay, so we have 11 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 2: easy here yo yo, all right, we have Radio Big 12 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 2: Mac and we have part you may have heard mentioned 13 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 2: before in lip Service in case you missed it, got 14 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 2: the Dirty Street Confessions episode. All right, make sure you're healthy, Yes, 15 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 2: taste yourself, no commercial, make sure you're healthy. And I 16 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: know Radio Big Mac tastes like cake, very special cake. 17 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: All right, So here is part two of our interview 18 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: with Chris Perry. 19 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 4: Different. 20 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 3: Do you believe in astrology? 21 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 22 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 5: What's your sign? 23 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 4: I'm a Leo Leo. 24 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 3: I like Leo's I don't know. 25 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 5: I do know much about that. 26 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 3: I don't have the only sign. 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 2: I really don't like women as scorpios but so what 28 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 2: do you think about that? Because I don't think I've 29 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: ever heard you speak on that. But do you think 30 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 2: there's some truth to astrology and like this sign compatible 31 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: with this moon rising and all that stuff? 32 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 4: I do to an extent because I do feel like 33 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 4: I have LEO qualities, but I don't really get into 34 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 4: that too much. 35 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 2: Okay, Now, I was just wondering because people always talk 36 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:45,279 Speaker 2: about signs and this person and yeah, so. 37 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 4: No, like if I see a sign that's like not 38 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 4: compatible with my son, I'm not talking to her. 39 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 3: No, you would not do that. 40 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 4: Oh that's crazy to me. I feel like you connect 41 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 4: with who you connect with. 42 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. 43 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 4: Same you know you're gonna learn all those things through prayer. 44 00:01:58,360 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 4: I'm very close to God, so I feel like, you know, 45 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 4: when you get that close connection and you pray, you're 46 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 4: gonna get the answers that you need. 47 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 2: Listen, I know you have a lung job, but I 48 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: want to ask you a couple more quick questions. 49 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:08,959 Speaker 3: Let's get it all right. 50 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 2: Do you think you need to tell your partner everything? 51 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 2: Because people always say in a relationship there's no secrets, 52 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 2: But is there ever a time when you're like, you 53 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,239 Speaker 2: know what it might be better if I don't even 54 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 2: mention this. 55 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 3: I'll bring it up. 56 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,239 Speaker 4: Now we're saying like small things. 57 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 2: I mean like, for instance, let's just say like I 58 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 2: eat you in the fridge last night to say this, right, 59 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 2: what happens, Let's just say what happened before you Let's 60 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 2: just say you, guys, maybe you don't want to disclose 61 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 2: certain things from your past and you're not ready to 62 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: do that. Do you think that's important to be able 63 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 2: to share you know certain things from your past or 64 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 2: can you still thrive without giving all of that information? 65 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 4: Anything that start will come to the light. So anything 66 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:57,679 Speaker 4: in your past is gonna come, and you want to 67 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 4: make sure your partner's prepare for that, especially if you 68 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 4: can spotlight. You want to make sure your partner knows 69 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 4: everything about you before somebody else says it and then 70 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 4: you look crazy. I think it's communication is important and 71 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 4: somebody knowing every aspect of you. And that's why I'm 72 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 4: referring back to what you said about or what you 73 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 4: talked about about jumping into relationship quick, make sure you 74 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 4: know everything of everything. You want to know everything about 75 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 4: your partner before you jump into that that marriage. How 76 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,119 Speaker 4: do you act when you're mad? What type of person 77 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 4: are you? 78 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 6: Not? 79 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 4: The only people I feel like shouldn't know all of 80 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 4: this stuff. And I think that where people make mistakes 81 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 4: is when they tell their mom or their dad because 82 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 4: your you forgive your partner, but your mom and your 83 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 4: dad might not your friends and your friends too. 84 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 2: But what if, like you had some wild days and 85 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 2: those away behind you. Because I do feel like sometimes 86 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 2: people don't want to know those things. 87 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I was going to say. I don't agree. 88 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 5: I don't think you should say everything. Just pick the 89 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 5: things that are important. You know, sometimes things into you know. 90 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 7: I was about some things that happened in my past 91 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 7: with the previous previous relationship. 92 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 3: He hung it over y'all know what I'm talking about. 93 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,559 Speaker 3: He hung it over my head for years. 94 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 4: Clearly he was No, he should have never did that. 95 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 4: It's not him that he should have never did that. No, 96 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 4: but no, lie, now you're never going to be able 97 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 4: to communicate everything with him because you're going to be 98 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 4: scared that he's going to. 99 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 3: Well, I have a story. I made that relationship. I May. 100 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,799 Speaker 5: I met this guy and we were having a great time. 101 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,679 Speaker 5: We were perfect, We loved each other like the minute 102 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 5: we saw each other, and then we start to talking 103 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 5: about things we weren't supposed to be talking about. 104 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 3: And you want to know what happened. 105 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 5: We were up arguing till seven am. And this is 106 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 5: like a really great person and we were up arguing, 107 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 5: having a whole like lecture debate. It was insane seven 108 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 5: in the morning when we started about nine pm till 109 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:49,799 Speaker 5: seven am. 110 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 3: So it was perfect until it wasn't. I'm just saying 111 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 3: all of us. 112 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 4: In the chicken going around the house fight. 113 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 3: Over shared. 114 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 5: We started talking about our past. What we did was 115 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 5: we went we went. 116 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 3: Named or name, and then you try to wine up 117 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 3: each other. 118 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 5: He got he got a couple, He got a couple. 119 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 5: You know, he got sensitive about a name on a 120 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 5: throughout there. He got sensitive about it. And it's like, 121 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 5: after the whole thing, after the whole thing, I know 122 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 5: we would have never had that argument. I just avoided 123 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 5: that whole time. 124 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, certain things I do feel like guys in particular 125 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 2: don't want to know. 126 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 3: Certain things have been Remember. 127 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 2: This guy, I know, I he started dating one of 128 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 2: my friends and he knew a couple of things about 129 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 2: her and he knew she did it like a big celebrity, 130 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 2: and he told me specifically, please don't tell her. 131 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 3: I know that because he didn't even want her to 132 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 3: know that he. 133 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 4: Was dating you. 134 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 2: No, it wasn't out in the public like that. It 135 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 2: was you know, she wasn't famous, so it wasn't like 136 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 2: the general public would know. But he, you know, he 137 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: knew because he was one of my friends, and so 138 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 2: it was something that was discussed. 139 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 3: But he was like, I don't even. 140 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: Want Like he did not want to know nothing that 141 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 2: happened before him and they ended up getting married and 142 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 2: everything his own. 143 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 4: But I think, honest, you don't want to get yourself 144 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 4: caught up. Some people don't react like that. Some people 145 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 4: find things out and then they completely I don't trust. 146 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 3: You, nobody I want. 147 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 5: That's why you want to communicate everything that's beautiful. G 148 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 5: I just feel like I don't know what I guess 149 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 5: the right man for me is going to have. 150 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 4: A experience and was fighting in the crib. 151 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 5: That's really growing a good thing, so fucked up a 152 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 5: good thing because. 153 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 3: Some people can't get out their head. 154 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: You got to know like who you could tell stuff to, Okay, 155 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 2: And the last thing I want to ask is sometimes 156 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 2: men feel like if they're not financially in a place 157 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 2: where they want to be, they just shouldn't even bother dating. 158 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 3: What do you think about that? Right if? 159 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 2: Right now, like he's down and he's saying shit went left, 160 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: he's living with his mom, he doesn't have a job 161 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 2: right now, financially not secure, he can't even afford to 162 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 2: take you like certain places. What do you think about 163 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 2: men who feel like, right now, I'm not in a 164 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 2: space where I can even ask this woman on a 165 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 2: date because I just ain't got it like that. 166 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 4: Well, he just communicated with you how he his situation, 167 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 4: in his position, So you got to respect that he's 168 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 4: not ready to date. He can't give you what you need. 169 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 4: You know that now you have to, as a woman, 170 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 4: have to decide I can't get what I need from you. 171 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 4: You just told me that I have to go this 172 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 4: way now. But the thing is women see that and 173 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 4: they just want to They want to try to break 174 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 4: that barrier and try to help that man. People. Women 175 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 4: often want to help men get out of their situation. 176 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 3: I have to agree. 177 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 5: When a guy tells me he's not financially ready to date, 178 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 5: I'm like, thank you for letting me know. 179 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 3: I appreciate it. 180 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 2: Right, thanks honesty by I got to ar until seven 181 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 2: am about shit. 182 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 3: Right. 183 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 4: But if he's communicating with you where he's at in 184 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 4: his life and that he's not ready for a relationship, 185 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 4: you gotta respect that. And especially a man that's not 186 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 4: financially stable, it's very hard for him to give you 187 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 4: what he wants, what you want, because he's not in 188 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 4: the position to even give himself what he wants. 189 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 2: Do you think that men should not date until they're 190 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 2: financially stable because men sometimes think that, Like if a 191 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 2: guy was like, Yo, I want to ask this girl out, 192 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 2: but you know, I don't really. 193 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 4: I mean, if you're sixteen, that's different. But if you're 194 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 4: I think it's very important to be financially stable before 195 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 4: you before you jump into a relationship. I think so too, 196 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 4: because you're never going to be truly satisfied and give 197 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 4: a woman what she needs until you're able to follow 198 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 4: those three things that I always talk about, which is protect, 199 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 4: to provide, and lead as a man. That's important and 200 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 4: we got to hold ourselves accountable for those three things. 201 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 4: And I think financially, as I talk about in all 202 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 4: of my videos, that's very important. You know what I mean, 203 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 4: you can't. 204 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 5: I don't understand how a person could be horny when 205 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 5: they're broke. 206 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 3: It just doesn't mean regardless outside jerking off. 207 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 5: Okay, when I'm fucked up, hobo sexual. 208 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 3: Hobox, you're gonna dig you down. 209 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,479 Speaker 5: For a good morning going. I don't got no money. 210 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 4: Have you ever been with a man it was a 211 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 4: relationship going on. 212 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 5: I got my bank account is looking nice. 213 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 4: Have you ever been with a man and he lost 214 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 4: his job or something? And then you just see the 215 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,559 Speaker 4: transition he stops doing the things that he was doing. 216 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 2: I was, and I always So it's so funny because 217 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 2: I had this conversation yesterday about you know, people will 218 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 2: say that like, oh, women are materialistic, they only want 219 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 2: a man, But I feel like it's more that when 220 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 2: a man is down, he doesn't feel good about himself, right, 221 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 2: And so I remember one time I was dating a 222 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 2: guy he lost his job, and it was super early 223 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 2: on in the relationship. 224 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 3: His whole attitude change. 225 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 2: He was not a nice person after that, like he 226 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 2: was so unhappy with himself, saying he was just really 227 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: negative and pessimistic. And it was too early on for 228 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 2: me to be right or die. And I know the 229 00:09:58,760 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 2: same exact thing. 230 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 5: I was with a guy who lost his job and 231 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 5: he started acting just like that, really pessimistic, really mean. 232 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 5: Even it was like he was like fust you know. 233 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 5: So I tried to want to be like I didn't 234 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 5: want to leave him because he lost his job. You 235 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 5: didn't want to leave him, right, like right right? It 236 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 5: was an early stay. 237 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 3: It was early. 238 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 2: But if I was with you and we've been together 239 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 2: and then unfortunate happened and I got to like, step up, 240 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 2: I'm good, Like. 241 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 5: I didn't want to leave him because he lost his job, 242 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 5: but he became really a person. 243 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's what I think. 244 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 2: It is the more of the dynamic of how a 245 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 2: man feels about himself. And that's for women too, Like 246 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 2: we don't feel good when we'm saying yeah, like when. 247 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,359 Speaker 5: I got when I don't want when I'm eating McDonald's 248 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 5: and I'm calling as to let me some money, I'm 249 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 5: not feeling like I want him get fucked. I don't 250 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,079 Speaker 5: want to have suck, I don't want to date. I 251 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 5: don't want to talk to any of these men. I 252 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 5: want to get my life together, Like no, no, no, no, 253 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 5: I don't understand. So I just like if a man 254 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 5: tells me. If a man tells me, listen, I'm not 255 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 5: my money's on right right now. But stuff, I'm gonna 256 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 5: come after you when I when it is, I respect that, 257 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 5: like thanks, it's a compliment you see you later appreciated 258 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,439 Speaker 5: because don't bring problems to me. I already have enough problems. 259 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 7: I don't. 260 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 5: I don't have to sign for everybody's problems, right, And. 261 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 4: We're in a new era where women are entrepreneurs and 262 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 4: women are making things happen, and men have to adapt 263 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 4: to that. If some women aren't ready to be in 264 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 4: a relationship until they are financially where they want to be, 265 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 4: until they have their goals, so maybe some women are like, 266 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 4: I want to stay single till I'm happy where I 267 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 4: am and I'm open for a relationship and I don't 268 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 4: want to deal with no man that's not going to 269 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 4: respect that or help me grow or be a better person. 270 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 4: It's just it's it's a balance, and it's really just 271 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 4: like it's a daily balance because you're going to go 272 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 4: through struggles every day. Relationships are super hard, and anybody 273 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 4: that makes you think that it's a smooth ride doesn't 274 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 4: understand what it needs to be a question reship. 275 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 5: One last question, right, So what if as a woman 276 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 5: I tend to make men feel intimidated? And you probably 277 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 5: go through this and all of us like, have you 278 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 5: ever felt like a guy dated too and he gets 279 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 5: to know you and he realizes your lifestyle or realizes 280 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 5: your situation, how you move or whatever, and then he 281 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 5: gets intimidated. 282 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 3: I've had that, heaven. 283 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 5: Well, and maybe I'm dating. 284 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 4: Too a lot. 285 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 7: I've definitely been around someone who didn't realize the level 286 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 7: of comfortability that I had in life at the time, 287 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 7: and once they did, they were just like, oh okay. 288 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 6: I feel like. 289 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 7: They felt like they couldn't they weren't where I was at, 290 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 7: and they felt like you got more than I was. 291 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 5: Actually dating a guy a couple of years ago really 292 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 5: liked and I never talk about this guy, but I 293 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 5: really liked him. I respect him as a man and 294 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 5: as a friend. But he then told me straight to 295 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 5: my face, like I can't afford the way you live. 296 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 5: I can't afford your lifestyle, Like you drive a band, 297 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 5: you live in the house by yourself, and you are 298 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 5: always shopping and you're always doing this. I can't afford you. 299 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 5: Like I want to be around that's not what I'm 300 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 5: doing exactly. Like even that the way you travel, I 301 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 5: don't know. 302 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 3: I never had a guy tell me that straight to 303 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 3: my face. And I feel like I'm really good at 304 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 3: not making you feel like me too. 305 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 5: I feel the same way like I'm not trying to 306 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 5: make I never felt like I. 307 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 3: Because I get I feel like me, I get a lot. 308 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 4: He couldn't afford to pay for those things, Is that 309 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 4: what he was saying. 310 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 5: He said he couldn't afford anything that I do, like 311 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 5: the way the way that I dress, the way the 312 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 5: car that I have, the way that I'm living, I 313 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 5: can't afford you, like, Okay, so this is this is 314 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 5: what happened with us. We he and I. We were 315 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 5: getting along. We were seeing each other like literally every day. 316 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 5: The way the situation was up. I'm not going to 317 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 5: say too much about it, but the way the situation 318 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 5: was set up, we were seeing each other a lot, 319 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 5: you know what I mean. And suddenly, you know, the 320 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 5: like we started to stop seeing each like out of nowhere, 321 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,959 Speaker 5: And I was really confused about it. And I'm not 322 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 5: the type of person who holds in my feelings, you know, 323 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 5: And when I'm comfortable with somebody I can't stop talking 324 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 5: to them, like I have a extended vernacular, you know, 325 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 5: with them. And it's like, so I I hit him 326 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 5: up and I let him know, like what's going on, 327 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 5: like because we're not going to do this, like I 328 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 5: want to be clear what's going on right now? And 329 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 5: he was like, come over, let's talk about it. And 330 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 5: he told me straight to my face that night, like 331 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 5: like I love you stuff, but I can't. I can't 332 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 5: afford you to edit. It makes me nervous every time. Okay, 333 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 5: so this is what triggered it. I got to get 334 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 5: from somebody else. He and I were, you know, we 335 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 5: were seeing each other, but we weren't in locked in 336 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 5: in a serious relationship. And I actually called him with 337 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 5: another woman once or twice exactly what I'm talking about me. 338 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 5: So he and we whatever, we had a night together, 339 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 5: and like I said, he and I used to talk 340 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 5: a lot, but we used to have these long conversations. 341 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 5: So I went upstairs and we had the conversation and 342 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 5: he just told me straight up like I can't afford you. 343 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 5: I can't afford to against you gifts like that, like 344 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 5: you're I feel like being with you, I'll never make 345 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 5: you happy, it'll never be enough. 346 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: And he bought me. 347 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 5: And he brought me like stupid gifts for like my 348 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 5: birthday and for Christmas and you like little stupid gifts 349 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 5: for Valentine's Day and those and all those days. 350 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 3: But I liked them. 351 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 5: I was very grateful, Yeah, Like they were thoughtful gifts 352 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 5: and nice flowers, and I was really grateful for them. 353 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 3: But he saw the competition. 354 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, and he always before I got with him, he 355 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 5: used to see my ex. He used to see me 356 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 5: and my ex together, like actually get to see it, 357 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 5: like a lot of people never even got to see it, 358 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 5: and he actually was able to see us together. So 359 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 5: even that was intimidating for him from the beginning. Right 360 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 5: like when I met him, he was like, oh, he 361 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 5: was like. 362 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've seen. 363 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 5: I've seen you had the Mayback and the Bentley and 364 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 5: your driveway. So you know, he knew what I was 365 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 5: dealing with before him, and what I was dealing with 366 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 5: before him was like sending me gifts and shit. 367 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 3: Right, his confidence was in the toilet. 368 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, like he saw he saw one of my gifts. 369 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 5: It was like a fifteen thousand dollars gift. 370 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 3: I've admit him and I didn't think anything of it. 371 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 3: I opened it in his house. 372 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 5: I opened it in his in his garage, like in 373 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 5: his house. I got the mail in front of him 374 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 5: and I was like, oh, let's see what it is. 375 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 5: And it was like a purse and no, lie, he 376 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 5: got weird after that. 377 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 4: Competing with your partner, I think a lot of people, 378 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 4: especially men, from the beginning, if that's a big red flag. 379 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 5: One time he came into my house and said, Stephanie, 380 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 5: you're a big dog, but I'm a big dog too. 381 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 3: Okay, that would have ended it. Right after that. I 382 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 3: couldn't believe it. I couldn't. I couldn't believe. 383 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 7: It's funny to me because I remember when all of 384 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 7: these things happened. 385 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 5: I never talked about this that Turnobody says that to me, 386 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 5: Like you're a big dog, but I'm a big dog. 387 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 3: In your corny. Yeah. 388 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:21,359 Speaker 4: I think it's like him being secure with himself. Whether secure. 389 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 7: He was very intimidated by everything that she had. 390 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:27,360 Speaker 5: Going on and I had nothing going on. 391 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 3: Men like men like competition to a certain point. 392 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:32,199 Speaker 4: I think I have a like. 393 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 3: But look at what he was used to. 394 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 5: I know he was, and he was. 395 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 4: It was a lot of men when successful woman wanted 396 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 4: to control. 397 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 2: Can you judge a person by who they dated before you? 398 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 2: Because sometimes we look at like who that I did. 399 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 4: It, and like, oh no, I'm waite, No because people change, right, No, 400 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 4: I dated some. 401 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 3: What about great people who they cheated with? 402 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 4: Like terrible relationships and she still gave me a chance. 403 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,400 Speaker 4: I think people change, and I also think people change 404 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 4: in a relationship. That's why I say you should always 405 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 4: revisit your relationship every year because people change and people 406 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 4: grow or they don't grow with you. So who are 407 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 4: we not? Who are you now? And where are we now? 408 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:11,199 Speaker 4: In this relationship? 409 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 5: Checking our minds? 410 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 8: Is that I'm the opposite, like I track men who 411 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 8: are very wealthy, like I track men with money, and 412 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 8: I'm intimidated sometimes by that not so much and meaning 413 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 8: because I'm not where I for myself want to be 414 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 8: at financially, Like it's a journey and I'm getting in 415 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 8: and I'm you know, but sometimes I get intimidated because 416 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 8: I feel like I don't ever want a man to 417 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:37,400 Speaker 8: feel like he can control me because of what he has, 418 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 8: or he can control what I do, what I say, 419 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 8: where you know, all these type of things and then 420 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 8: I feel like men with money get pussy. So if 421 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 8: he has me and he don't have like that level 422 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 8: of you know, I'm not at his level financially, he'll 423 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 8: take he'll take advantage of that. 424 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 4: Real good man gonna take care of you can get 425 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 4: you there with him. 426 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 5: Exerien And that's what I'm I feel like the richer 427 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 5: the better for me. Like I don't mind it, but 428 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 5: I was dating listen, I want to be down to 429 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 5: really rich because like I was with somebody who is 430 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 5: a millionaire for a long time, on and off whatever, 431 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 5: and he always had a nice house, and because it 432 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 5: kind of made a sickness in me to want a 433 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 5: nice house to be bat on him. Oh you got 434 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:27,920 Speaker 5: the man back. I got the same. I got to 435 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 5: a s class to you know. So I found myself 436 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 5: in like three financial holes trying to compete with a millionaire. 437 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 5: So I find I'm more comfortable dating somebody rich who's 438 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 5: richer than me. It makes me feel good to know 439 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 5: that somebody got more money than me that's around me. 440 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 4: That makes me feel good. Him financial crisis there for 441 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 4: you exactly, whether he's giving you money, whether you want that, 442 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 4: and a man because you don't want to be scrambling 443 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 4: around and worried all the time because you're taking care 444 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:00,120 Speaker 4: of your. 445 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 3: My dance. 446 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 5: But it's another thing. That's another thing about me that's 447 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 5: intimidating for men, because I can't get I'm not impressed 448 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,399 Speaker 5: with anything anymore. You can't take me anywhere that I'm like, 449 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 5: oh this is nice. Everything is just regular to me 450 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 5: because I already been in this life. 451 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 4: But that's not what it's about anymore. 452 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 5: Right, That's what I'm saying. Guys, I feel like, what's 453 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 5: the big deal? 454 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 4: Tell me three things that you want from a man 455 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 4: that makes. 456 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:29,400 Speaker 5: You happy, things that I want from That's a good 457 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 5: question for a woman, right, Three things that. 458 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 4: I want you to tell me Three things that make 459 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 4: up you happy and a man does for you. And 460 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 4: aside from. 461 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 5: Eree things that I want from a man, I'm the 462 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 5: only the only No. Forget money, we're not going to 463 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 5: we're not talking about money. The only things I require 464 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 5: from a man. And this is probably I should probably 465 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 5: raise my standards a little bit. It's like a six pack, 466 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 5: you know, a good diet, but no, but basically I'm 467 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 5: talking about let's not talk physical important, No no, no, no, no. 468 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 4: Physical is important, but I want to know what you want. 469 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 4: What can a man do for you that makes you happy? 470 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,640 Speaker 4: Aside for money, and aside from physical. 471 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 5: All I need. I like a lot of attention. I 472 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 5: like for my man to pay attention to me. And 473 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 5: you know, I like to have a lot of communication. 474 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 5: I like to talk a lot. 475 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 3: That's all attention. Yeah, that's attention. 476 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. That's one thing. 477 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 3: The other two the other two. 478 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 5: I wish I could find a man with no kids. 479 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 5: That would be, like we're talking about, like a fantasy, right, 480 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,159 Speaker 5: like a dream man, just anything. I would accept that 481 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:38,120 Speaker 5: man is out there. Which one the one that right now? 482 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 483 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 3: No kids? That can pay you plenty of attention and 484 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 3: what else? 485 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 5: And I don't know. I don't want much. I just 486 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 5: need you to to text me and maybe we can 487 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 5: go on to dinner. 488 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 1: You know. I want to have sex. 489 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 5: I want to have a lot of sex. You know 490 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 5: what I mean. I want to I want to. 491 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 3: Fuck all the time. 492 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 7: Okay, all the time, communicate communicating, Yes, don't. 493 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 5: Get a six yeah that's a bonus honorable mention, a 494 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 5: six pacts. So I want to talk a lot, talk 495 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 5: a lot, a lot. 496 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 3: I want to have a lot of stuf communicating. 497 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 5: I want a lot of that moves the other one. 498 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 2: No kids, no kids, well, welcome back, Stephan, And a 499 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 2: whole lot. 500 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 4: Of thank you, thank you for sharing that with me. 501 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 4: I appreciate it. I know, like that was an honest 502 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 4: spot question. 503 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 5: Did I answer good? I don't think I answered that was. 504 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 2: What you want and for all of us. The three 505 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 2: things I would say. I want to get sense of 506 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 2: humor because I like to laugh. I want somebody who's 507 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,199 Speaker 2: really ambitious because I am, and I'm always working in 508 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 2: trying to figure out things to do. I need, Yeah, 509 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 2: you need somebody who's moving, yeah, to mess me in 510 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 2: that area. And I just want somebody that chease people well, 511 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 2: like a good person, a great human being. 512 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,959 Speaker 7: I feel like I need to be friends with my partner. Yeah, 513 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 7: for sure, we need to be friends. And honestly, honesty 514 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 7: is huge, that's like number one, okay, And communication is 515 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 7: like a given. 516 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 3: But like I need a lot of sex too. 517 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:16,399 Speaker 5: Right, It's really important for a man for me to 518 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 5: be a marrying man. Like you don't have to tell 519 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,439 Speaker 5: me you're gonna marry me today or tomorrow, but you 520 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 5: have to tell me in the beginning of our relationship, 521 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 5: that you want to get married. 522 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,360 Speaker 3: Before we get out of here. What's your three things? 523 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 4: What I look for a woman? Yeah, I like a 524 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 4: woman who's supportive, communication, that knows how to communicate, and 525 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 4: that is somebody I could trust. I think trust is 526 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 4: a huge thing. Trust communication is somebody that's that just 527 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 4: love it like a nurturing woman, you know what I mean? 528 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 4: And going back to our question, our talk about a 529 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 4: man is going to lift you up and bring you 530 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 4: with him, And I feel like that's why that's just 531 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 4: nature from man is not where she needs to be. 532 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 4: A real man that's in a good position is not 533 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 4: going to try to compete with you. He's not going 534 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 4: to try to knock you down for not being where 535 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 4: he is. It's going to help lift you up to 536 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 4: where he is. You know, people in position like my Airbnb. 537 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,239 Speaker 4: I get Airbnb. Guess what I want to make sure 538 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 4: a break. I want to I want to make sure 539 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 4: that we you have your I want you to have 540 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 4: your own stuff. I don't I don't want you to 541 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 4: feel like you have to depend on me, but I 542 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 4: want you to know if you need to depend on 543 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:23,920 Speaker 4: me here that. 544 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 5: You can absolutely And I think that's important. But I 545 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 5: feel like if a man sees me doing good and 546 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,680 Speaker 5: he feels like I'm winning, you know, like whatever, I'm 547 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 5: sports betting and I'm getting money and he feels like 548 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 5: I'm really winning, I feel like he should be inspired 549 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 5: if anything is that's what I'm really. 550 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 2: Everybody gotta bring something to the table, everybody, and that's 551 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,159 Speaker 2: what it is, right, that's how you have. 552 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 5: Actually like a man should be inspired by his by 553 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 5: his girl, like really making big moves and looking like 554 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 5: she's big you know. 555 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 3: Dog dog. I'm a big dog. I'm a big dog too. Chris, 556 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 3: before you get out of here, where can people find you? 557 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 3: And what is it? 558 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 4: You know? 559 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 3: Because I know we just brought you on here and 560 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 3: got free therapy. Yeah, so now we got pay the 561 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 3: bills come yeah, so where can we find you? Where 562 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 3: can find you? CHRISTYQ Perry. 563 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,920 Speaker 4: You can find me at Chris Q Perry on Instagram. 564 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 4: I would just say follow me on Instagram Christy Q Perry, 565 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 4: and you'll find all my stuff through my link tree. Okay, 566 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 4: but I appreciate you having me and I appreciate talking 567 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 4: with with all you ladies and you guys giving me 568 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 4: the opportunity to learn a little bit about you. Guys. 569 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 3: You have a headache now, no, appreciate your advice. 570 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 5: Maye y'all be a little more patient. And whatever I'm 571 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,440 Speaker 5: doing that I'm not doing what I'm doing. 572 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 4: No, it's it's truly, it's truly a blessing because I 573 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 4: feel like out of this conversation, somebody's gonna listen and 574 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:41,639 Speaker 4: it might help somebody. 575 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely so, because we all got issues and we 576 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 2: always go there. And like Chris said, even he's not perfect, 577 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 2: we may look at him as a relationship coach. He 578 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 2: goes on social media, he talks about things and his 579 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 2: own experiences. 580 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 3: But we're you know, nobody's perfect. We're all a work 581 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 3: in progress. 582 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 4: I want young men to know that it's okay. It's 583 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 4: it's okay to mess up. It's okay to make mistakes. 584 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 4: I made a lot of them, and you can come 585 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,639 Speaker 4: back from that. It's all about what you want in 586 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 4: your relationship with God. I want to put that out 587 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:09,640 Speaker 4: there God. 588 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 3: First, Wony do it? 589 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:12,880 Speaker 5: Amen? 590 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 3: All right? Well, thank you, Christy, you Perry. Let's serve it. 591 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 3: Thank you all right. 592 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,199 Speaker 2: So, first question I have for you guys, if you 593 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 2: are not financially stable or financially in the place where 594 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 2: you want to be. Some people feel like I shouldn't 595 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 2: date right I should just stay home, my my business 596 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 2: until I get to the place where I want to be, 597 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 2: where I can do financially things for women. Take her out, 598 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 2: take it her expensive restaurants, buy her things, or do 599 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 2: you feel like? Look, if I like you, I like you. 600 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 2: I can be honest about my situation. Let's start with you. 601 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 3: I'm easie. What do you think? 602 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 9: I think it depends on the chick, but I like 603 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,400 Speaker 9: growing with the girl. If I'm broke, like, I think 604 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 9: it's cool. Like if I'm broke, you should be able 605 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 9: to be confident enough to tell her like, yeah, I 606 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 9: don't got it. 607 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,120 Speaker 4: Right now, We're gonna have some fun. 608 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 9: But maybe if this is not where you want to be, 609 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:57,920 Speaker 9: you can go get the guys that got the money. 610 00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 9: But right now I don't got it. We can still 611 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 9: have one, but it's not gonna be that. 612 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 3: Have you ever done that? 613 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 6: Got plenty of time? 614 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 3: What do you think, big Mac? 615 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,439 Speaker 1: I think that you got to be in a You 616 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 1: should try to be on the same level as the 617 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 1: people you go. 618 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 6: You know what I mean. 619 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 10: It's like basketball JV. Don't go play with the varsity, 620 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,720 Speaker 10: you know what I mean, Like the freshman ain't playing 621 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 10: with it. And I say that only because if you 622 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,919 Speaker 10: start going after these women that are on a different level, they're. 623 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: Gonna want things that you can't do, you know what 624 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 625 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 10: And they say that women need the lower they stand 626 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,679 Speaker 10: this man, sometimes we got lower our standards too, you 627 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 10: know what I mean. 628 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: There's some broke women out there. They got some good vagina, 629 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 630 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 10: You know there's some very good broke pussy out there 631 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 10: that you can definitely get and it's just as good 632 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 10: as the expensive pussy. 633 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 2: Have you ever had a woman take care of you, 634 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 2: like pay for your dates? Have Like if you tell 635 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,879 Speaker 2: a woman it means you said you've done that before. 636 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 2: I ain't got it like that. Has she been like 637 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 2: I got you, don't worry about it. 638 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:55,440 Speaker 6: I did it older. 639 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 9: Woman one time, and she would before we go out 640 00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 9: and date, she would give me the credit card of 641 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 9: then even like yo, listen when we were paying, don't 642 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 9: do that, don't do that. I would rather be us 643 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 9: have that moment and in privacy than me. Looked like 644 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 9: the COO, don't got it when the when the guy 645 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 9: comes to get the bill and she gives it, and. 646 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 3: I'm saying that, like you feel weird that she would tell. 647 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 9: You that, or I mean I knew what my my 648 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 9: my financial situation was. I wasn't ashamed of it. 649 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 6: You got it and I know you got it. 650 00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,199 Speaker 1: Yes, when she gave you the money, did she says, Sonny, And. 651 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 3: Did you know you have to do some things? 652 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:38,840 Speaker 9: I definitely did some things change we dated, Okay, what's 653 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 9: go one off? 654 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: But escort sounds kind of fine. 655 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 6: She was trick? Was the trick. 656 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 3: Didn't answer the question that asked call you over. 657 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 10: We were dating because technically you had the first uber 658 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 10: meets the part she would call you you come over, 659 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 10: she gives me money, you delive the meats. 660 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 3: Did you ever pay or did she always know? 661 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 9: I mean I paid sometimes when when it was within 662 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 9: my means. You know, when we went to Big Steakhouse? 663 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 9: Did you have to pay or did you volunteer? 664 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 6: I made I mean, I'm a man. At the end 665 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 6: of the day. 666 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 9: I didn't like her paying, but when I had, I 667 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 9: made sure. 668 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,959 Speaker 2: All my days would be apple because yeah, did she 669 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 2: ever throw it back in your face? 670 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 3: Like you know, she didn't. 671 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 6: Other things that paid for it, and I took those 672 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 6: right back. 673 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 1: Hold water, wasn't that old? 674 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 3: All right? All right? What about you? Do you think 675 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 3: you can date? 676 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 2: Because I had a guy tell me, Look, the reason 677 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 2: I didn't ask you out, you know, at first, was 678 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 2: because financially I was strapped and I didn't feel comfortable. 679 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean, I mean, he can attest to it, 680 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 11: but I'm come on, because I mean I told the story. 681 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 11: I'm saying I've told stories before. But I'm like a 682 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 11: romantic kind of person. So if I'm dating a woman, 683 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:05,959 Speaker 11: I like to I'm over you to the spot, I'm 684 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 11: over you back home. So I like to do those 685 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 11: kind of things. So if I'm broke, I'm not going out. 686 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 2: But if it's out of state too, like you got 687 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 2: to pay you And when you call the uber, is 688 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 2: it a black car? 689 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 6: Is it a regularly? I'm not going it's. 690 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 12: A shared ride, regular SUV. 691 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 1: That's it. 692 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 10: I'm not suv, know, like you know what I mean, 693 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 10: Like nothing suburb larry on first, then we could drop you. 694 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 6: Regular regular All right? 695 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 3: Well, okay, so everybody here thinks that. 696 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 2: So you're saying you got to have a little bit 697 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 2: of money before you feel like yes, before I go. 698 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 3: Now, big Mac, I'm not sure. 699 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 10: I feel like women are going to miss out on 700 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 10: their blessings because they you know what I mean, They're 701 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 10: gonna go for the money. Or somebody who's on the 702 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 10: same level as them said, you could dumb it down 703 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 10: a little bit. You know, there's some broke men out 704 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 10: there that could take care. But what I'm saying on 705 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 10: the other side of it, for men, stop shooting so high. 706 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,000 Speaker 10: You may not play on VARs city level. 707 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 6: You may be. 708 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 9: I disagree with that one because homegirl was she was 709 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 9: making a lot more money than me. 710 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 6: You got she was way out of my league. 711 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 1: I did, way out of my life. 712 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 3: You feel like she was out of league. 713 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 6: Don't trust me what I tell you. 714 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 1: I was like this, this is a dream come to 715 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 1: every once in a while. 716 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 10: Yeah, you could throw hell Mary and you know you're 717 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 10: gonna catch your past or two. 718 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 3: I called him somebody. What ended up happening, yem easy, I. 719 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 1: Was too young and died. Shut up. 720 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 9: My radio career was at his blossoming point, and she said, 721 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 9: I don't want you out here cheating on me, so 722 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 9: go out there. 723 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 10: She found smiles at Bingo before Hey, I got that too. 724 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 9: It was an amicable split because I was on my 725 00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 9: journey of radio started. 726 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 2: Do you feel like you owe her still, like you 727 00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 2: want to do something nice for it, just to pay 728 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 2: her back for all those meals. 729 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 3: I wasn't a charity podcast. I was younger. 730 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 12: Just get us some hard candy to put it in 731 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 12: a person dream, get a picture of her. Frederick Douglass Free. 732 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 3: Kind of feels like a split decision here. 733 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 2: You know, Mac is on the fence says nas, yeah, no, 734 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 2: don't do it, and means he saying yes, be an escort. 735 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: Listen, you never know until you try. 736 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 6: Try to shoot your shot. Phil. 737 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 2: Now, the next question is about do you need to 738 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 2: disclose things from your past? 739 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 3: Big Mac is already smiling. I don't know why, you know. 740 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 3: Country Wayne was up here. 741 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 2: His new special is out on Netflix, but he was 742 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 2: saying that he doesn't care about a woman's past, right 743 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 2: because you know, clearly he has ten kids and so 744 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 2: you can't judge a person by what they've done before you. 745 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 2: He doesn't even want to know, or it doesn't really 746 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 2: matter to him. But sometimes people feel like they have 747 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 2: questions when you first started dating somebody, they're like, so, 748 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 2: let's discuss your past. Does it matter to you, guys, 749 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 2: big Max and you're smiling so hard? 750 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: Go ahead, brother, go ahead, talk about your past. 751 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 6: For me, it doesn't it doesn't matter. 752 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 11: I don't want to know about what you have going on, 753 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 11: just because I'm like Sherlock Holmes, like I'm gonna go 754 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 11: investigate and that's gonna fuck me up. 755 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 6: So I don't want to know about what and that 756 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 6: might hurt me. 757 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 1: So I rather not know. 758 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 3: So you're gonna investigate anyway? 759 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 1: No, I'm saying an. 760 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 11: If you tell me something, I'm gonna go out there 761 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 11: and investigate even further. So i'd rather just you saved 762 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 11: me the headache, So just don't even bring it up 763 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 11: to me. 764 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 6: I don't want to know about. 765 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 2: It, Okay, But what if you're gonna find out though, 766 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 2: wouldn't you rather the person tell you? 767 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,200 Speaker 11: We can have that conversation. I'm cool with that. I'm 768 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 11: cool if I find out. I'm cool with having that comment. 769 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 3: But you don't want to know unless you find out already. 770 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 6: I don't want to know. I want to be ignorant. 771 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 6: Ignorant is bliss. I want to be ignorant. Don't tell 772 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 6: me about it. 773 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, no, not this industry. 774 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 4: We go to parties, we go to defense all the time. 775 00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 9: I better not be walking into a spot where three 776 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 9: these niggas can come up to me like, yo, son, 777 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 9: you know your girl was nah. 778 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 6: But that's your problem. You did in the industry with me. 779 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 1: Hey, listen, I've dated girls in the industry. Out of 780 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: the industry. 781 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,760 Speaker 6: I don't give a he was a fucking plumber. 782 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 3: Yeah things. 783 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 6: No, you're not gonna make me feel crazy out here 784 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:16,279 Speaker 6: in the streets. No, I need to know. I'm not 785 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 6: doing it to make me feel crazy just because you 786 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 6: had a past. 787 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 3: But is it gonna matter to you if she tells you. 788 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 9: It doesn't matter? But it gives me, It empowers me, 789 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 9: and now I know. So now I'm not blindly walking 790 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 9: into a situation where it's like, damn, all. 791 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 6: Your niggas hit all right? 792 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 2: What if she's like, you know, in my past, these 793 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 2: guys ran a train on me. 794 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,359 Speaker 1: Wow, wow wow. 795 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 3: But that was a. 796 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,280 Speaker 2: Long time ago, and I went through some issues and 797 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 2: you know where I was going through a phase. 798 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 3: Would that matter you laughing? 799 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,919 Speaker 1: Because this one is touching one. 800 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:57,719 Speaker 10: This happened to you, So okay, the train wasn't ran 801 00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:58,800 Speaker 10: on me. 802 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 1: I was involved, But here's. 803 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,520 Speaker 3: The thing first or last, But. 804 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 10: First, the reason I was trying not to speak on 805 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 10: this one was because I've been on both sides of 806 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 10: it where I thought, in one situation, I'm telling you 807 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 10: everything and it's gonna be great. But I told everything 808 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,480 Speaker 10: where there's some people involved that are around to this day, 809 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 10: so that every time they were around them, first thing 810 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 10: they think it is, this is what happened with my 811 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:33,400 Speaker 10: man and all of them. 812 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: So it was every single time they were around it 813 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 1: was a problem. 814 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 10: So then I was like, all right, now, I'm only 815 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 10: going to disclose things when it needs to be disclosed. 816 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 10: But then when it needed to be disclosed, sometimes the 817 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 10: train stories and the group orgy things come up and 818 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:53,959 Speaker 10: it's like yeah, and it's like, oh, you were involved. 819 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 1: With this, and I'm like, I was kind of involved, 820 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 1: but not involved. I was dragged. 821 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 4: First. 822 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 1: I needed a ride home in one situation, so you 823 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 1: know what I. 824 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 3: Need to know how needing a ride home translates. 825 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:12,320 Speaker 10: I touched a ride because so they were supposed to 826 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 10: take me home. So the girl was like, yo, the 827 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 10: first they'll take you home right after we do this, 828 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 10: and I'm like, I don't really want to do this. 829 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 10: I want to go home, but that was my ride, 830 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 10: so you know what I mean, Like I had to 831 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 10: how was I gonna get home? I wasn't gonna walk taxi? 832 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no. 833 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,279 Speaker 1: At this time that was that wasn't around a long 834 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 1: time ago. Friends were actually friends. And then you had 835 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 1: chipping for gas. 836 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 3: So you had to do something to get a ride home. 837 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 1: I didn't chipping gas, chipped in ass, so. 838 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 3: Your no, So they made you have sex to get 839 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:48,520 Speaker 3: a right. 840 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 1: They didn't make me. That sounds worse than being an 841 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 1: a screat like you was just they didn't make me 842 00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 1: do it. But at the same time, like. 843 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 9: Link twice, if you're in health, if you need help, 844 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 9: how was. 845 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 1: That going to get home? Like I finished, So I'm not. 846 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 2: Gonna feel weird about that. I'm sorry this happened to you. 847 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 10: No, because because it was met him and her right, 848 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,000 Speaker 10: and then we switched posicians, and then he went and 849 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 10: played Mario Kart and then I finished, and then I 850 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,759 Speaker 10: played Mario Kart when he finished, so I got to 851 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,320 Speaker 10: play Mario Kart and I got home. 852 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,280 Speaker 1: So it's more wins than losses on my side. 853 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:33,839 Speaker 2: Okay, but I can't even imagine the scenario in my head. Okay, 854 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:35,840 Speaker 2: I'm learning a lot about Big Maggie. 855 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 10: Yes, but the good thing about there was two other 856 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 10: situations and the third one was like an orgy. But 857 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 10: that orgy is why I went to college because shit 858 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:47,319 Speaker 10: started getting weird and I was like, this is too 859 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 10: much for me. 860 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to college. 861 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:52,799 Speaker 10: I got to school, and I left for college and 862 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:53,759 Speaker 10: I haven't been back since. 863 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 1: So it's a positive story. 864 00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 6: College. 865 00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:58,760 Speaker 3: You would have never went to college. 866 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:00,880 Speaker 1: I told them that all the time, Thank you. If 867 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 1: this orgy didn't happen. 868 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,800 Speaker 3: I would never have my education ever. 869 00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,560 Speaker 1: Been who I am today and I never would have 870 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,280 Speaker 1: left in amen. 871 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:13,800 Speaker 3: Or have you ever been in an orgy? 872 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 12: No? 873 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 6: I have not. 874 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 11: That's that's something that's orgies are. 875 00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 1: It's weird when it's your friends. Like if you're going 876 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: to do it. 877 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 11: Do with people you're not close, that's wy I want 878 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,319 Speaker 11: to go to a sex party in New York. 879 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:30,760 Speaker 1: I mean, it's COVID now and it's a little even happened. 880 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 3: I've never had one, so I don't know. 881 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 2: But like and then when there's what if like a guy, 882 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 2: because orgies are guys and girls. So is it weird 883 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:40,839 Speaker 2: to like see your like you said, it's your friend. 884 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 10: That's when it got weird because I'm like, these are 885 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 10: people that I played football with and I'm watching him. 886 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 1: Yes, it's a little awkward. So I was like, I 887 00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,440 Speaker 1: gotta go and applied for colleges that night. 888 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to see these people because with your friends, 889 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,600 Speaker 2: how do you talk to them later? 890 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,799 Speaker 3: Like is it just regular? You just act like it 891 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 3: never happened. 892 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,200 Speaker 10: Next time I talked to him, I said, hey, you guys, 893 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,319 Speaker 10: so I got into college and I leave next week, 894 00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,359 Speaker 10: so thank you. 895 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,440 Speaker 1: And then I left college. 896 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 3: I can't do this and I gotta do this small 897 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 3: town that's a valeri or been a one? 898 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you finish the job? 899 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:24,760 Speaker 6: I pleaded the fifth of this point. 900 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 1: Because my mom does it? Know? 901 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:30,120 Speaker 2: How do you guys make sure that, like when you're 902 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 2: in an orgy, you know, and there's guys there too, 903 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,920 Speaker 2: that you don't accidentally because what if it's dark and 904 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 2: you're like person, you. 905 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,759 Speaker 1: Know what I mean a good thing about me. 906 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 10: I'm the size of an eclipse, so you can't really accident. 907 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,520 Speaker 6: Show does it happen that way? 908 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,840 Speaker 1: The light got dark over here? Max must be walking 909 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:52,480 Speaker 1: this way. 910 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,280 Speaker 6: They show the other way. 911 00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 1: Here everybody is coordinated. 912 00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,760 Speaker 3: It's because I thought it was an orgy. Is everybody 913 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,880 Speaker 3: participates everyone? 914 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,560 Speaker 6: That sounds more like a gang bang. 915 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,320 Speaker 1: No, that's not an orgy. 916 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 10: There was five in mind, okay, and so I think 917 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 10: the orgy is more than more than three. 918 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 6: That's what I think. 919 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:13,719 Speaker 3: Definition. 920 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, like when when I go on x videos dot 921 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:21,920 Speaker 1: Com and you search a few people. I searched reverse 922 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 1: gang bang, okay, which is all women and one guy. 923 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 3: Okay, so a guy got gang banged. 924 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:28,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, so but you. 925 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:30,840 Speaker 1: Gotta put reverse, don't put gang bang because. 926 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 6: We all do the. 927 00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,520 Speaker 3: Girl, all right? 928 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,439 Speaker 2: And last question for you guys, is it a red 929 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:42,240 Speaker 2: flag if you don't post your significant other on social 930 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 2: media or if they don't post to you. According to 931 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 2: Chris g Q Perry, this is a red flag. I 932 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 2: want to see what you guys think about that, So 933 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 2: let's start with you, all right. 934 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 8: Uh. 935 00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 1: For me, I. 936 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 11: Don't believe in posting significant others only because at least 937 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 11: the that I curated for myself that I want to 938 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 11: live it doesn't involve like other people seeing who I'm with. 939 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 11: I'm fine with just living outside of that. 940 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:12,480 Speaker 3: Feels like. 941 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:22,800 Speaker 9: I agree with you, but you yourself. 942 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 6: He wasn't sure. 943 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,480 Speaker 9: The way I'm living in the life you sound like 944 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,200 Speaker 9: those guys, man, I'm just living. 945 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:34,880 Speaker 11: I've never I've never posted. I don't post my family, 946 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,120 Speaker 11: I don't post anybody unless Okay, that's what I'm saying. 947 00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:39,919 Speaker 3: Curious, So you've never done that. 948 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:41,760 Speaker 6: I've never posted a significant. 949 00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 3: Okay, what so just because you don't want people in 950 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:44,399 Speaker 3: your business or. 951 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:46,359 Speaker 6: That exactly that. 952 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 11: But when I was in college, my my college girl 953 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:53,640 Speaker 11: that I was dating one of them, uh, actually ended 954 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,600 Speaker 11: a relationship because I wouldn't want to. 955 00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 6: I didn't want to post her. 956 00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:56,880 Speaker 3: Wow. 957 00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,120 Speaker 11: So that that was interesting what she I mean, we're 958 00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:03,040 Speaker 11: young and she was like, so, like, you're not gonna 959 00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:03,440 Speaker 11: post me? 960 00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 6: Like, what are you talking to other women? 961 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:06,879 Speaker 11: I'm like, no, I just I feel like the life 962 00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 11: that I want to live, I don't want to post. 963 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 6: I don't want other people to see who I'm dating. 964 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,560 Speaker 3: Did she post to you? Did you have a problem 965 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:12,839 Speaker 3: with that? 966 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,799 Speaker 6: Yes, I don't want you to post me or me. 967 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 3: Wow. 968 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,759 Speaker 11: And it's not because I'm seeing other women. It's just 969 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,200 Speaker 11: like a trusting but she should be. 970 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:20,719 Speaker 2: Able to post you we can see if you don't 971 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 2: want to post her, but if you tell me, I 972 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 2: can't post you on my page. 973 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 6: I mean, it's just balan. 974 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:34,319 Speaker 2: Boundaries of posting me. It does sound red flagish. What 975 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 2: do you think I'm easy? 976 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:40,879 Speaker 9: I think it needs to be a period, Like there 977 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:42,799 Speaker 9: needs to be like a grace period, Like if we're 978 00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:44,440 Speaker 9: dating for three months, don't expect me to post you 979 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:46,720 Speaker 9: right away. I'm willing to post you once we get serious. 980 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:50,360 Speaker 9: Like I'm married my wife, I can post her, but dating, Like. 981 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,080 Speaker 3: How long did it take till you posted her before 982 00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:53,520 Speaker 3: you got. 983 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 6: Three four months? 984 00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:54,880 Speaker 3: Okay? 985 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:56,879 Speaker 9: Because it was like I wanted to make sure she's 986 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 9: here for the long home because at the time I 987 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,280 Speaker 9: was dating a whole bunch of chicks and I don't 988 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,640 Speaker 9: have to you know, and have comments. 989 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 3: And was it a big deal when you finally did it? 990 00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,600 Speaker 9: Like to her, Yes, when I did it, I mean 991 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:09,120 Speaker 9: I made sure it was special for her. It was 992 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,520 Speaker 9: kind of like the moment it was like you, yeah, 993 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 9: so I used. 994 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:24,800 Speaker 10: To I used to post, and then as my life 995 00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 10: started to curating the way it's set up, you know 996 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:27,839 Speaker 10: what I mean? 997 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 6: I think. 998 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:35,320 Speaker 10: No, it was really after when I got on radio 999 00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:39,120 Speaker 10: and then wild'n out, like the people that started following 1000 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,880 Speaker 10: I don't know these people anymore, and they started getting weird. 1001 00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,920 Speaker 10: I would post my brother or like and stuff like that, 1002 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 10: and then they would reach out to him or follow him, 1003 00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,759 Speaker 10: or when I used to post, they would reach out 1004 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,880 Speaker 10: to my ex and ask them questions about me, and I'm. 1005 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:56,280 Speaker 1: Like, this is starting getting weird. 1006 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 10: So I'm like, I don't now it's getting to I 1007 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 10: don't know these people, so I'm trying to I need 1008 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,879 Speaker 10: to keep that separate because you get people like him 1009 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,960 Speaker 10: where they do research and they can find you know, 1010 00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,160 Speaker 10: he said he would find There's other people that are 1011 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 10: We're way more advanced and finding out that stuff, and 1012 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 10: they have intentions that I. 1013 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:18,120 Speaker 1: Don't know about. 1014 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,319 Speaker 10: So it's like, I'd rather keep that away from like 1015 00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,440 Speaker 10: my personal life, because what I don't want to do 1016 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 10: is have to pull up somewhere because some crazy person 1017 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:29,840 Speaker 10: pulled up somewhere because they figured out where my girl 1018 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:31,920 Speaker 10: or my mom is or whatever, and they see that 1019 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 10: they post where I'm at, and then they pull up 1020 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:35,720 Speaker 10: and you're. 1021 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 2: Saying, it's not a red flag, you're just doing I 1022 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 2: don't think it's. 1023 00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: A red flag. Depending on somewhat like he said, the 1024 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 1: life I live. 1025 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 10: If you work at at shop, right, or you know 1026 00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 10: what I mean, Public's or something, and you just a 1027 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:52,480 Speaker 10: bad boy, then. 1028 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,359 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1029 00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 10: No, no, no, the reason no, the reason I say 1030 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,600 Speaker 10: like a bad person because the bad person is standing 1031 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 10: right there in front of everybody. 1032 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:04,880 Speaker 1: No, but you can't hide from that person. You're surprised. 1033 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,200 Speaker 1: But also I. 1034 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:10,440 Speaker 10: Saw a post recently that kind of I love. If 1035 00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 10: you go on my Instagram, all I do is post jokes. 1036 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 10: It's nothing but funny stuff, jokes and all that shit. 1037 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,439 Speaker 10: Who I'm with is not a joke. 1038 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 2: But what if you were dating a woman who's a comedian, right, 1039 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,680 Speaker 2: and then maybe you guys end up doing some sketches together. 1040 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 1: That's what I mean. So if they're already in the 1041 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 1: life and we're both in the same type. 1042 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,480 Speaker 10: Of life, then you know, okay that because I'm sure 1043 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,080 Speaker 10: that person has their own craziness or whatever, so we 1044 00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 10: can't hide that. 1045 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:36,320 Speaker 1: But if it's. 1046 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,520 Speaker 10: Somebody who if like like if my girl works at 1047 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,759 Speaker 10: the bank or something like that, and she's not the 1048 00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,439 Speaker 10: type of person who likes the attention and stuff, I'm 1049 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 10: not gonna do something that could. 1050 00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 2: Possible she has an online store, and she's like, why 1051 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:50,200 Speaker 2: don't post my store? 1052 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:52,080 Speaker 1: My wife? 1053 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, she does that, she makes little things. 1054 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:56,120 Speaker 1: I gotta get you a copy. 1055 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 9: Okay, But she all the time, she's like, make sure 1056 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,760 Speaker 9: you you reshare myself, Like my crowd is not your crowd. 1057 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,560 Speaker 1: Like that's it. Like I could support you all I want, 1058 00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 1: but these. 1059 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,840 Speaker 9: Rap nigs don't give a about you. 1060 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:09,840 Speaker 1: You don mean that you want to support. 1061 00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,399 Speaker 10: But at the same time, how many times have y'all 1062 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:16,440 Speaker 10: seen somebody post to add something, you know what I mean? 1063 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,560 Speaker 1: Because that's not like you said, that's not the crowd. 1064 00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,000 Speaker 2: You could also be creative and how you post it 1065 00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 2: too to make people be you know, you could do 1066 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,600 Speaker 2: little fun things to make me. 1067 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:32,800 Speaker 9: Feel bad, okay, and me he's gonna have a post. 1068 00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:33,440 Speaker 3: Clever, you know what I mean? All right? 1069 00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 2: Well, I mean for me personally, and you know you've 1070 00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:38,359 Speaker 2: heard me talk about this, but like I really do 1071 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 2: try to make sure because people be coming at me. 1072 00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 2: I don't want them to come at like my man 1073 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:43,120 Speaker 2: or anything like that. 1074 00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 3: My fan. 1075 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:47,480 Speaker 2: I've had people post like my parents' address on social media, 1076 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,640 Speaker 2: and I've had stalker situations. I've had to get the 1077 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,640 Speaker 2: police involved. You know, I've had people show up, I've 1078 00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:55,799 Speaker 2: had all kinds of things happen. So it did make 1079 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,920 Speaker 2: me a little bit more cautious. Even when I go places, 1080 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,000 Speaker 2: I don't post until after I'm gone. 1081 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,799 Speaker 1: You know, you're very secretive. I don't know what your 1082 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,400 Speaker 1: personal like, but. 1083 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 10: I believe that's how you shouldn't even know if your 1084 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,680 Speaker 10: last name, it might just it might. 1085 00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:17,440 Speaker 6: Be Lawrence, the first name Lawrence. 1086 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,160 Speaker 2: I just don't post things. But in real life you'll 1087 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,600 Speaker 2: see me out and that's not a problem. Like if 1088 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 2: you see me, you run into me. I don't hide things. 1089 00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 2: I just don't post it because I've had so many issues. 1090 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 10: When I was an intern for you, people like we'll go, 1091 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,920 Speaker 10: oh you work, but yeah, they was like, I don't know, 1092 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,320 Speaker 10: I've never seen no idea. 1093 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,640 Speaker 6: I don't know if you like men women, dogs can't 1094 00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:40,400 Speaker 6: no idea. 1095 00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 3: My man, she like lot. 1096 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:44,000 Speaker 6: You'll never know. 1097 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 9: Who who know? 1098 00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 2: Well, listen, I appreciate you all for coming up here 1099 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,719 Speaker 2: and just giving the male side of things, and we'll 1100 00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,360 Speaker 2: do this again sides. 1101 00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 10: Yo, all right, you know, yes, you know I'm talking. 1102 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:02,320 Speaker 4: About your. 1103 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:05,680 Speaker 3: We're gonna get out of here. I has to make 1104 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,840 Speaker 3: sure he's healthy. Taste himself. 1105 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,719 Speaker 6: Man, clean yourself. Man, hey, you know it's