WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: 3rd Times a Yawn + Super Kid Shames the Day 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:02.360 All right. If you're like me, you're out there frantically 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:03.800 trying to put Christmas together. 0:00:04.200 --> 0:00:11.480 So you know what, Yes, it's crunch time. Start shopping 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:12.480 on it. 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:17.360 Come on looking, Jeffrey, and this is the podcast that 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:18.360 you've been here. 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:20.840 I'm a little stressed out. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:22.720 I don't know if you are too, but hopefully this 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:26.599 back to back classics will help ease your tension, get 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:28.600 you some good laughs, and help you get in some 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:29.400 tasks done. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:32.160 So here it is back to back Classics, start right now. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:37.320 How do you turn a bona fide nice guy into 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:43.960 an irresistible battie that no woman can turn down? Sounds impossible. 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:47.680 It's like turning Sheldon from Big Bang into Vin Diesel 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:53.120 from Fast and the Furious. I can't it be done well? 0:00:53.280 --> 0:00:55.319 One of our listeners tells us he is fed up 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:58.480 with being friend zoned. He wants to get ahead of 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:02.480 things using a bizarre new plan that we have never 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:06.039 tried before. What is it? We're gonna find out and 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:10.039 it's successful. It could change the game for nice guys everywhere. 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:15.240 In your second date update, right after this second Date updated, 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:18.480 I'm going to share something with our audience that's happened 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:21.720 behind the scenes here it's brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:22.800 Oh, what is it going to be? 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:25.080 I don't remember if Brooke has said this on the 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:28.920 air and it's not bad, but off the air. Whenever 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:34.240 somebody brings up online dating, Brooks response and Jose alexis 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:37.000 you can confirm this, She's always like, Oh, I don't 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:40.160 think I could ever do online dating. There's just there's 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:43.360 way too many options. How could you ever just pick one? 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:47.000 I totally do online dating. I would just never do 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:49.560 marriage after I did it, exact because I would have 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:51.080 never dated anybody long enough. 0:01:51.120 --> 0:01:53.840 Yeah, exactly, I see what you mean. 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:54.640 I thought you meant. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:58.200 Okay, it's the crux of dating with all the apps. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.639 Now, too many choices for people. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:02.520 I think it was intended in a good way to 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:05.480 match people up who would have never found each other 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:07.560 if they were just left to their normal lives, But 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:10.280 more often than not, it just ends up being with 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:14.079 you have so many choices, men and women can't make 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:17.120 up their mind. They can't commit to just one, and 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:20.919 if they're not blown away immediately, there's you know, twenty 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:22.840 other options that they could just go explore. 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:25.960 I go to the Cereal Aisle and it feels overwhelming. Yea, 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:27.400 I should choose. 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:30.000 And the thing is, that's where our listener, Evan is 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:33.119 at right now. He claims he is a victim of 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:37.239 being just one guy in a sea of a billion dudes. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:38.959 Oh yeah, Jeff's dream. 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:43.760 Yeah, negatives to it. But Evan, welcome to the show. 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:46.160 Hey guys, yay, Evn. 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:48.680 I'm sorry man, he sounds like you're going through it 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:50.120 with this online dating stuff. 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:54.040 I am. It's been years and there's been ups and downs, 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:57.120 but I'm just I want to try something new and 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:59.000 I think it's going to work. I just need a 0:02:59.000 --> 0:02:59.480 little help. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:03.320 Yeah, okay, So what is your your stance on dating 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:04.600 right now? Like, where are you at? 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:07.880 I think that you should date a lot of different 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:11.679 people because experts say that if you focus too much 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:14.519 on just one person, you're gonna end up disappointed. 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:17.680 But you're supposed to like date a little bit and 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.000 then when one stands out, then you kind of focus 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:20.320 on them. 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:23.000 It doesn't bode well for Brooks married. She is a 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:26.320 lot on that one guy. Yeah, it's so funny. So Evan, 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:28.679 you're you're not focusing on just one You're dating a 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:29.560 lot of different people. 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:32.680 Well, I wouldn't say a lot, but yeah, I'd say 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:34.960 a small handful at any given time. 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.920 That's a lot for some Is there one in particular 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:40.600 that you really like or we just going to call 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:41.440 ten girls? 0:03:41.640 --> 0:03:42.640 Yeah? 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:44.960 There is one. Her name is Jenna and she's a 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:47.680 top contender. 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:51.600 Is that a compliment, Alexis it? 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:53.080 I mean? 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:55.640 I want to be the top one? 0:03:56.920 --> 0:04:00.800 So where do you and Jenna stand? We have one date. 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:03.480 It was good and nothing bad happened. 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:07.440 Is that your bar says, defensively, nothing bad happened? 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:08.920 I mean, is that your bar like you had a 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:11.080 good enough date that nothing bad happened. So that's why 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:11.760 you want to call her? 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:15.120 Well, sometimes I do feel that way. But this was 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:18.000 a good date. It was genuinely good, and I do 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:21.760 believe that she likes me and would like to go 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:24.200 out on another day with me. I just want to 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:27.720 try this thing to kind of make her work for. 0:04:27.960 --> 0:04:28.480 A little bit. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:34.000 What wait, so you're not calling us because someone's not 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:36.640 calling you back or isn't interested. 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:38.839 Craig, She is interested, That's what I believe. 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.440 Okay, this is different. I guess let's hear him out. 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:45.000 So this girl trying not to think game, He's playing 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:46.120 games in my head right now. 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:49.440 It's not a game, but it is reverse psychology. 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.039 Oh that works so good on me. 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.200 Did it just work on you? He's like, I'm trying 0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:56.880 to figure this out. 0:04:57.160 --> 0:05:01.080 I love you already have Brooks interest. Now, so what 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:03.920 is your idea for reverse psychology with Jenna? 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:07.599 I want you to call her and tell her that, 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:10.040 like I thought that she was cool, but I'm a 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:11.280 little on the fence about it. 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:15.680 Huh wait, wait, why why would we be calling her 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:19.400 just to tell her that, yeah, that's going to make 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:22.680 her morning? 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:25.480 Why do you want to do it this way with Jenna? 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:27.800 The thing is, I've had a lot of dates this 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:31.720 past year where the first meeting is great, but then 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:35.520 it just it fizzles out. Okay, and the girl will 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:37.560 say to me, Hey, you're super cool and everything, but 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:39.919 there's just not a strong enough of a connection for me. 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:42.440 You're getting friend zoned, is what it sounds like. 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:45.120 It makes me feel like I need to be defensive 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:48.120 and prove myself because she's in the power position. 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:50.760 So okay, all, I see, You're good At. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.200 The first couple of days, which. 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:58.040 Is he wants to flip the script on these women, 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:01.760 and he wants to be in the power because being like, hey, like, 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:03.320 I think you're cool and everything, but I don't know. 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:05.400 If it's there, then the girl will have to sell 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:06.679 herself to hims. 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:09.000 So we should leave her front alone. 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:10.360 Wait, here's the thing. 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:13.440 You sound like a genuinely nice guy, and that's probably 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:14.920 why this is happening. 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:19.480 Did you see Alexis gag when you said genuinely nice guys? 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:20.560 That's the problem. 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:24.640 Everything makes sense. I mean, you do know this couldn't backfire, right. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:28.000 I have nothing to lose at this point, trusting. 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:30.719 I mean, it is a bold move. You have to 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:31.479 admit risk. 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:34.200 Can you tell us anything about Jenna that would make 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:35.760 you feel like this is gonna work on her? 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:35.880 Like? 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:37.320 What is she like? Would you do? 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:39.640 I can tell you, But she's literally like every other 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:42.920 girl that I've been dating recently, Like, you know, she's sweet, 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:46.240 she's funny, she's pretty, like they all are. Yeah, but 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:50.520 she's gonna turn on me. She's gonna turn exactly. 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:52.440 Let's not get caught up in the minutia of who 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:54.960 she is as a person. I don't know if this 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:59.400 strategy would actually work. It sounds kind of manipulative, similar 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:01.560 to one of my co hosts, and they're happily married, 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:05.200 so it might actually be a good strategy. 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:05.520 At the end of the day. 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:08.520 Here's my thing, Like, we tell her this statement, and 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:11.520 then what Jeff, Like we tell her, Hey, so and 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:15.400 so is, how do we follow up that conversation? You 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:15.720 know what? 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.160 He is on the other line right now, So like 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:20.880 maybe if you want to try to convince him to 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:21.560 go out. 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:24.840 Like, we won't do a lot of the talking. 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:27.360 No, I think Evan wants to be in control here. 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:32.680 So Evan is he's not interested time to call the 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:34.720 radio Wait on hold, wind around. 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:40.040 Okay, No, he's not gonna say hello, it's gonna say suck. 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:42.080 Oh I forgot I was. 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:45.320 We're just gonna be super non committal about it and 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:46.760 let Evan swoop in. 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:49.280 For entertainment purposes. I'm in. 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:53.480 It's an interesting experiment at the very least, So we're 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:55.640 gonna find out how it goes when we call her 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:58.120 in your second date update right after this Hold on man, 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:02.720 second data date. If you're just joining us for the 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:05.840 second date, our listener, Evan has asked us to do 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:09.680 something that we've never really tried on this segment before, because. 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:12.160 It's not an idea any of us have ever had, no. 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:14.440 Probably too smart for our simple brain. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:17.000 Oh I like that spin. 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:19.760 But he wants us to call his date Jenna, and 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.600 instead of saying he had a lot of fun with you, 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.480 he really likes you, he wants to see you again, 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:28.360 coming on kind of strong, even me saying that. 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:30.400 Are you giving yourself the itch? 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:32.920 I kind of even that. It does feel like a lot, 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:36.280 That's why. Instead, Evan wants us to say he reached out. 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:38.360 But he's kind of on the fence about it, not 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:40.600 really sure how he feels. So I don't know how 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:45.800 are you feeling about him? Basically reverse psychology Jenna into 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:46.439 loving him. 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.280 I'm going to be so disheartened if this works, Like 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:52.200 you can't just be open with your emotions anymore. 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:55.320 Well, Evan has been rejected so many times. He's tired 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:57.720 of being put on that side of the conversation. He 0:08:57.800 --> 0:08:59.320 wants to have the upper hand this time. 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:02.880 Is the only problem people are like, He's. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:04.880 Trying to stop the cycle of what's going on in 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:06.640 his life, Right, Evan, It's. 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:08.680 Time I got to stand up for the pack, you know. 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:11.760 And there's a storyline that's just been playing over and 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:12.240 over again. 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:14.440 I think you could have used the quote about like 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:17.080 how someone who does the same thing over and over 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:19.800 again but expects a different result is the definition of 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:22.760 insanity youth. 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:25.280 And he thinks that if he does it this way, 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:27.680 then she's going to be more open to not just 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:29.719 a second date, but the third date, the fourth date. 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:31.400 So how cool do we play it? 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:33.240 Jeff I'm worried, like, do we do we get her 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:37.240 name wrong at first? 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:39.880 It's a good question, but I think we just have 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:42.480 to play kind of non committal and more just ask 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:44.520 her about what she thinks about the date. We'll just 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:49.160 go right to that. Okay, I like deafening silence from 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:55.400 the room. Okay, here we go, let's try it. 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:02.079 Hello. 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:04.079 Hey, is this Jenna. 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:06.120 Who's calling? 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:09.079 We're a radio show actually called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:14.199 the Morning. Hey Jenna, Hi, thanks for picking up. We're 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:16.400 doing a segment on our show A you may have 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:18.600 heard of it before. It's called a second date update. 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:24.160 Yes, but where you got your calling me? 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:27.000 We're kind of surprised we're calling you too. Yeah, this 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:29.120 segment because it doesn't actually fit. 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:31.880 Yeah, yeah, this is a little bit different than what 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:35.160 we normally do. But we got an email from one 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:40.760 of our listeners that you went out with His name's Evan. Okay, yeah, yeah, 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:42.079 remember going out with Evan? 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:44.880 I do? Okay, yeah I do. 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:48.040 Evan emailed our show. He told us that the two 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:49.880 of you went out and you know yet he had 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:53.160 a decent time. He's considering seeing you again, but he 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:55.000 is kind of on the fence about it. 0:10:55.800 --> 0:11:01.839 Yeah what he said that, he's just he I. 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:06.040 Mean, yeah, like he enjoyed the date, no question about it, 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:08.760 but the future he's a little bit uncertain of. 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:11.600 So he doesn't like me. 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:14.959 No, no, no, no, he doesn't not like you, but 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:17.280 he just doesn't he doesn't know. 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:26.040 Yeah, yeah, his heart is congested. What confused? I don't know. 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:29.080 He he doesn't know. That's tell what I meant. He 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.240 doesn't know where his mind is at one hundred percent. 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:32.520 He's trying to figure stuff out. 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:37.200 I guess I'm just confused. I thought we liked each other. 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:38.360 I thought everything was. 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:40.760 Say specifically that he liked you? Or did you just 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:41.520 feel the d. 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:43.160 Does that anymore? 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:43.280 What? 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:45.520 Did he write a note and circle yes or no? 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:46.240 Do you like you? 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:51.440 Would make it a whole lot easier, But glad I 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:51.760 like you? 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:52.160 So far. 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:56.200 No, Sometimes it's hard to know how people feel. Sometimes 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:58.280 you're reading signs, you're reading them wrong. 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:00.880 No, No, we had a great time. 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:01.680 We even kissed. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.600 Okay, well that's good. Tell us more of stuff like that, 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:08.600 like what exactly happened on the day. We'll give us 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:11.920 more indications of why you think he liked you were. 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:13.080 Out of a box right now. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:17.680 Well, I mean we grabed drinks, I got to really 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:21.160 know him. He was super, super nice. I don't really 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:23.880 go out with nice guys, so he was the first 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:25.560 nice guy in a very long time. 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:27.319 Or she thinks. 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:29.079 More. 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:32.600 Yeah, maybe you thought that he liked you, but he 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:34.880 never actually said that to you. Could just be like 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:36.200 a vibe that you were getting. 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:41.760 Honestly, this is just extremely disappointing to hear because we 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:42.360 were vibing. 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:45.800 Okay, Well, maybe the vibe that you're feeling from him 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:50.280 is the literal phone line connection that is happening right 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:52.000 now because he is listening to this call. 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:55.600 Oh makes him feel like he wants it more. Yeah, 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:57.240 you know, I'm just going to say that. 0:12:57.520 --> 0:12:59.000 I will say he does want to talk. 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:05.440 To you, though, Evan, what is going on? I'm so confused. 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:08.760 Yeah, I'm sorry to throw a loop in things. But 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:12.840 you thought I was nice? Yeah, I thought you were 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:17.560 really nice too. But uh, I'm just not totally sure 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:23.040 that there's a romantic connection between us. I'm just not sure. 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:29.240 Huh. Okay, well I guess I guess maybe we're just 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:30.200 better off friends. 0:13:30.679 --> 0:13:34.320 Well hold on, what are you doing, dude. 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:37.360 I don't I don't think we should jump to that. 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:41.040 I just I need to be sure that you really 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:42.920 do feel that way before I. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:43.520 This is weird. 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:47.600 This is a very strange way of going about this. 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:50.240 I don't even understand where he's trying to go here. 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:52.840 Evan, you're saying, you're saying that she's saying that she 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:55.240 likes you, but you're not sure if you believe. 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:59.679 That, not completely, because I'm a nice guy and I 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:03.199 I have a hard time believing that she really likes that. 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:05.679 I thought you just said you were attracted to her 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:08.240 because there was no romantic connection for you. 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:10.880 I'm not saying there isn't. There isn't. I'm not sure. 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:11.920 I'm in the middle here. 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:14.520 Okay, your message, I think is getting a little lost. 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:16.959 Yeah, well, Jenna, maybe you have to show him a 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:19.640 little bit more strongly that the feelings are there that 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:20.360 it's worth it. 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:24.040 After all this, why would I do that? 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:26.200 I mean, this was it was going so well without 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:30.360 even getting anyone else involved. This is like turning me away. 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:32.960 You see, one day they're saying they like him, and 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:36.880 then all of a sudden something switches and switches. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:40.440 Is you telling her there's no romantic connection and that 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:42.320 you weren't sure if you liked her or not. 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:45.480 That's the switch. You can turn that back. You can 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:47.120 be honest about where you stand. 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.760 I would have never been weirded out as I am 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:54.040 right this moment if you just didn't do all this. 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.560 This is very strange of what's turning me off. 0:14:56.760 --> 0:14:58.760 Oh no, it. 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:01.000 Would have happened on the second or her date anyway. 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:06.640 Yeah, Jenny, one realize this now, but after three dates 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:08.880 with him, you would realize that you weren't into him. 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:10.480 Now we're going to tell her how she's going to 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:12.600 feel on a future date unless. 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:15.640 We're wrong, Because we unless we're wrong, Because normally at 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:17.480 this time I would offer to send you guys out 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.520 and we would pay for it. But I kind of 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:21.280 have a vibe that both of you are still on 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:24.400 the fence. At least you might want to plead your 0:15:24.520 --> 0:15:28.240 case to him right now, Jenna and ask Evan out. 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:31.880 After he turned her down. 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:34.680 I want to partner who will fight for me. 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:40.360 Okay after one date, that's respectable. I think it's an 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:43.760 Are you willing to fight for him, Jenna right now? 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:44.960 To be asked? 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:47.600 You know, I mean, you have nothing else to lose 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:49.560 at this point, Evan, Why don't you just tell her 0:15:49.960 --> 0:15:50.480 the truth? 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.400 I mean, what is this truth? You have to tell me? 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:56.080 This is the very insane that how this is working 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:57.880 out right now? If you have to tell me something, 0:15:58.360 --> 0:15:59.800 I mean, you might as well tell me right now. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:05.840 Look, the truth is I really like you. And I 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:09.520 was afraid that if I just carried on being nice 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:12.120 and showing that I really liked you, that you would 0:16:12.640 --> 0:16:16.280 get bored with me. And if I use reverse psychology 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:19.120 on you, then you would think that I was a 0:16:19.240 --> 0:16:21.920 bad boy or like something that you're really attracted to 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:26.680 and want to, like, really work towards winning me. I'm 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:29.200 usually the one that's trying to win somebody over, and 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:31.160 I wanted to flip the script. 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:36.680 Oh buddy, I mean, thank you for being honest finally 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:37.240 about this. 0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:38.920 It was weird. 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:41.080 It was a weird way of going about it, but 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:42.160 he was just. 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:42.960 Trying something new. 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:45.560 Dating's hard these days, and he liked you, and he 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:48.960 didn't know how to keep it going, and it wasn't 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:49.840 the smartest move. 0:16:50.160 --> 0:16:51.880 I think he is finally understanding that. 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:58.840 Yes, yeah, now that we've really sold him, we'd love 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:01.440 to offer to send you guys out on another date, Jenna, 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:03.480 and we would pay for it. I mean, he has 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:07.080 finally come clean, He's told you the truth, and no 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:10.119 more games going forward, at least not from Evans, has 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:10.639 never happened. 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:14.560 Yeah, Jenna, I promised no games going forward. 0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:17.560 Come on, Jenna, don't meet the player, hate the game. 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:22.720 Let's go one more day, don't. Yeah, we're the games. 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:23.480 We're going to date. 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:24.320 Yeah. 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:28.680 Reverse psychology does work. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:32.440 The honest truth works, Your real feelings work. 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:35.280 Like we feel accomplished when literally nothing changed. 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:36.800 We did it. 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:39.840 You guys have the best. 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:41.679 Thank you, You're welcome. 0:17:41.800 --> 0:17:43.800 Buddy, my brain, I don't feel like it. 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:47.439 It's freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:48.880 --> 0:17:50.480 I don't think there's any way she would have said 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:53.800 yes if Evan didn't finally come clean and just be 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:55.879 honest about his true feelings at the end. 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:59.920 There, Yeah, no, I mean we literally just we added 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:01.000 more drama. 0:18:01.240 --> 0:18:03.119 We did, and there was no need for it. This 0:18:03.280 --> 0:18:05.680 is what happens when us non cool guys try and 0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:06.280 play cool. 0:18:06.600 --> 0:18:07.400 Yeah, you know what I mean. 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:08.920 That's right, Jose be yourself. 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:11.720 Yeah yeah, it's a nice dude, be a nice dude. 0:18:11.880 --> 0:18:14.560 So a win for nice guys everywhere. And he's lucky 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:17.159 that for some weird reason she just liked him for 0:18:17.240 --> 0:18:17.760 who he was. 0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:20.560 But I really don't want to get an update from 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:23.119 them that on the third date she decided there was 0:18:23.200 --> 0:18:24.280 no romantic. 0:18:25.560 --> 0:18:27.480 He's just too nice. 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:30.000 More so, we need to talk to all the girls 0:18:30.040 --> 0:18:31.679 to find out what's the real reason. 0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:34.800