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Speaker 3: Come on looking, Jeffrey, and this is the podcast that

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you are too, but hopefully this

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Speaker 2: So here it is back to back Classics, start right now.

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Speaker 4: How do you turn a bona fide nice guy into

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Speaker 4: an irresistible battie that no woman can turn down? Sounds impossible.

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Speaker 4: It's like turning Sheldon from Big Bang into Vin Diesel

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Speaker 4: from Fast and the Furious. I can't it be done well?

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Speaker 4: One of our listeners tells us he is fed up

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Speaker 4: with being friend zoned. He wants to get ahead of

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Speaker 4: things using a bizarre new plan that we have never

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Speaker 4: tried before. What is it? We're gonna find out and

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Speaker 4: it's successful. It could change the game for nice guys everywhere.

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Speaker 4: In your second date update, right after this second Date updated,

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Speaker 4: I'm going to share something with our audience that's happened

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Speaker 4: behind the scenes here it's brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Oh, what is it going to be?

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Speaker 4: I don't remember if Brooke has said this on the

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Speaker 4: air and it's not bad, but off the air. Whenever

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Speaker 4: somebody brings up online dating, Brooks response and Jose alexis

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Speaker 4: think I could ever do online dating. There's just there's

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Speaker 4: way too many options. How could you ever just pick one?

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Speaker 2: I totally do online dating. I would just never do

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, I see what you mean.

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Speaker 2: I thought you meant.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's the crux of dating with all the apps.

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Speaker 2: Now, too many choices for people.

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Speaker 4: I think it was intended in a good way to

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Speaker 4: if they were just left to their normal lives, But

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Speaker 4: more often than not, it just ends up being with

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Speaker 4: you have so many choices, men and women can't make

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Speaker 4: up their mind. They can't commit to just one, and

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Speaker 4: if they're not blown away immediately, there's you know, twenty

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Speaker 4: other options that they could just go explore.

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Speaker 2: I go to the Cereal Aisle and it feels overwhelming. Yea,

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Speaker 4: And the thing is, that's where our listener, Evan is

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Speaker 4: at right now. He claims he is a victim of

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Speaker 4: being just one guy in a sea of a billion dudes.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Jeff's dream.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, negatives to it. But Evan, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, yay, Evn.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry man, he sounds like you're going through it

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Speaker 5: I am. It's been years and there's been ups and downs,

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Speaker 5: but I'm just I want to try something new and

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Speaker 5: I think it's going to work. I just need a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So what is your your stance on dating

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Speaker 5: I think that you should date a lot of different

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Speaker 6: But you're supposed to like date a little bit and

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Speaker 4: you're you're not focusing on just one You're dating a

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Speaker 5: Well, I wouldn't say a lot, but yeah, I'd say

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Speaker 1: That's a lot for some Is there one in particular

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Speaker 5: There is one. Her name is Jenna and she's a

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Speaker 4: So where do you and Jenna stand? We have one date.

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Speaker 5: It was good and nothing bad happened.

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Speaker 5: Well, sometimes I do feel that way. But this was

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Speaker 8: A little bit.

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Speaker 1: What wait, so you're not calling us because someone's not

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Speaker 5: Craig, She is interested, That's what I believe.

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is different. I guess let's hear him out.

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Speaker 1: So this girl trying not to think game, He's playing

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Speaker 5: It's not a game, but it is reverse psychology.

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Speaker 2: Oh that works so good on me.

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Speaker 7: Did it just work on you? He's like, I'm trying

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Speaker 4: I love you already have Brooks interest. Now, so what

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Speaker 5: I want you to call her and tell her that,

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Speaker 5: like I thought that she was cool, but I'm a

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Speaker 3: Huh wait, wait, why why would we be calling her

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Speaker 3: just to tell her that, yeah, that's going to make

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Speaker 4: Why do you want to do it this way with Jenna?

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Speaker 5: The thing is, I've had a lot of dates this

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Speaker 2: You're getting friend zoned, is what it sounds like.

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Speaker 5: It makes me feel like I need to be defensive

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Speaker 4: So okay, all, I see, You're good At.

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Speaker 7: The first couple of days, which.

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Speaker 4: Is he wants to flip the script on these women,

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Speaker 4: I think you're cool and everything, but I don't know.

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Speaker 7: So we should leave her front alone.

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Speaker 4: Wait, here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: You sound like a genuinely nice guy, and that's probably

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Speaker 4: Did you see Alexis gag when you said genuinely nice guys?

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Speaker 4: That's the problem.

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Speaker 2: Everything makes sense. I mean, you do know this couldn't backfire, right.

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Speaker 5: I have nothing to lose at this point, trusting.

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Speaker 1: Can you tell us anything about Jenna that would make

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 2: What is she like? Would you do?

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Speaker 5: I can tell you, But she's literally like every other

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Speaker 5: she's funny, she's pretty, like they all are. Yeah, but

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Speaker 4: Let's not get caught up in the minutia of who

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Speaker 4: to one of my co hosts, and they're happily married,

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Speaker 4: so it might actually be a good strategy.

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Speaker 9: At the end of the day.

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Speaker 1: Here's my thing, Like, we tell her this statement, and

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Speaker 1: then what Jeff, Like we tell her, Hey, so and

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Speaker 1: so is, how do we follow up that conversation? You

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Speaker 4: He is on the other line right now, So like

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Speaker 4: maybe if you want to try to convince him to

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Speaker 2: Like, we won't do a lot of the talking.

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Speaker 4: No, I think Evan wants to be in control here.

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Speaker 1: So Evan is he's not interested time to call the

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Speaker 1: radio Wait on hold, wind around.

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Speaker 2: Okay, No, he's not gonna say hello, it's gonna say suck.

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Speaker 7: Oh I forgot I was.

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Speaker 4: We're just gonna be super non committal about it and

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Speaker 2: For entertainment purposes. I'm in.

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Speaker 4: It's an interesting experiment at the very least, So we're

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Speaker 4: gonna find out how it goes when we call her

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Speaker 4: in your second date update right after this Hold on man,

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Speaker 4: second data date. If you're just joining us for the

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Speaker 4: second date, our listener, Evan has asked us to do

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Speaker 4: something that we've never really tried on this segment before, because.

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Speaker 2: It's not an idea any of us have ever had, no.

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Speaker 4: Probably too smart for our simple brain.

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Speaker 2: Oh I like that spin.

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Speaker 4: But he wants us to call his date Jenna, and

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Speaker 4: instead of saying he had a lot of fun with you,

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Speaker 4: coming on kind of strong, even me saying that.

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Speaker 2: Are you giving yourself the itch?

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Speaker 4: I kind of even that. It does feel like a lot,

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Speaker 4: That's why. Instead, Evan wants us to say he reached out.

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Speaker 4: But he's kind of on the fence about it, not

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be so disheartened if this works, Like

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Speaker 4: Well, Evan has been rejected so many times. He's tired

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Speaker 7: Is the only problem people are like, He's.

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Speaker 4: Trying to stop the cycle of what's going on in

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Speaker 4: his life, Right, Evan, It's.

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Speaker 5: Time I got to stand up for the pack, you know.

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Speaker 5: And there's a storyline that's just been playing over and

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Speaker 1: I think you could have used the quote about like

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Speaker 1: how someone who does the same thing over and over

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Speaker 1: again but expects a different result is the definition of

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Speaker 4: And he thinks that if he does it this way,

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Speaker 4: a second date, but the third date, the fourth date.

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Speaker 7: So how cool do we play it?

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Speaker 6: Jeff I'm worried, like, do we do we get her

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Speaker 6: name wrong at first?

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Speaker 4: It's a good question, but I think we just have

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Speaker 4: to play kind of non committal and more just ask

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Speaker 4: her about what she thinks about the date. We'll just

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Speaker 4: go right to that. Okay, I like deafening silence from

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Speaker 4: the room. Okay, here we go, let's try it.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hey, is this Jenna.

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Speaker 10: Who's calling?

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Speaker 4: We're a radio show actually called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: the Morning. Hey Jenna, Hi, thanks for picking up. We're

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Speaker 4: doing a segment on our show A you may have

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Speaker 4: heard of it before. It's called a second date update.

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Speaker 11: Yes, but where you got your calling me?

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Speaker 10: I guess I'm just confused. I thought we liked each other.

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Speaker 4: No, Sometimes it's hard to know how people feel. Sometimes

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Speaker 10: No, No, we had a great time.

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Speaker 10: Well, I mean we grabed drinks, I got to really

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Speaker 10: Honestly, this is just extremely disappointing to hear because we

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, maybe the vibe that you're feeling from him

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Speaker 2: Oh makes him feel like he wants it more. Yeah,

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Speaker 10: To you, though, Evan, what is going on? I'm so confused.

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Speaker 4: Well hold on, what are you doing, dude.

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't think we should jump to that.

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Speaker 8: This is weird.

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Speaker 10: This is a very strange way of going about this.

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Speaker 4: Evan, you're saying, you're saying that she's saying that she

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Speaker 5: That, not completely, because I'm a nice guy and I

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Speaker 1: I thought you just said you were attracted to her

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Speaker 5: I'm in the middle here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, your message, I think is getting a little lost.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, Jenna, maybe you have to show him a

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Speaker 11: After all this, why would I do that?

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Speaker 10: I mean, this was it was going so well without

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Speaker 4: You see, one day they're saying they like him, and

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Speaker 2: That's the switch. You can turn that back. You can

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Speaker 10: I would have never been weirded out as I am

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Speaker 10: right this moment if you just didn't do all this.

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Speaker 10: This is very strange of what's turning me off.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, it.

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Speaker 5: Would have happened on the second or her date anyway.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Jenny, one realize this now, but after three dates

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Speaker 2: Now we're going to tell her how she's going to

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Speaker 4: We're wrong, Because we unless we're wrong, Because normally at

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Speaker 2: After he turned her down.

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Speaker 5: I want to partner who will fight for me.

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Speaker 4: Okay after one date, that's respectable. I think it's an

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Speaker 4: Are you willing to fight for him, Jenna right now?

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Speaker 10: To be asked?

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Speaker 1: You know, I mean, you have nothing else to lose

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Speaker 1: at this point, Evan, Why don't you just tell her

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Speaker 10: I mean, what is this truth? You have to tell me?

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Speaker 10: This is the very insane that how this is working

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Speaker 10: I mean, you might as well tell me right now.

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Speaker 5: Look, the truth is I really like you. And I

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Speaker 10: Oh buddy, I mean, thank you for being honest finally

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Speaker 8: It was weird.

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Speaker 10: It was a weird way of going about it, but

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Speaker 2: Trying something new.

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Speaker 1: Dating's hard these days, and he liked you, and he

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Speaker 2: I think he is finally understanding that.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, now that we've really sold him, we'd love

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Speaker 4: finally come clean, He's told you the truth, and no

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Jenna, I promised no games going forward.

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Speaker 1: Come on, Jenna, don't meet the player, hate the game.

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Speaker 2: Let's go one more day, don't. Yeah, we're the games.

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Speaker 4: We're going to date.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Reverse psychology does work.

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Speaker 2: The honest truth works, Your real feelings work.

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Speaker 7: Like we feel accomplished when literally nothing changed.

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Speaker 1: We did it.

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Speaker 5: You guys have the best.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: Buddy, my brain, I don't feel like it.

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Speaker 9: It's freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: I don't think there's any way she would have said

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Speaker 2: There, Yeah, no, I mean we literally just we added

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Speaker 7: We did, and there was no need for it. This

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: That's right, Jose be yourself.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, it's a nice dude, be a nice dude.

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Speaker 4: So a win for nice guys everywhere. And he's lucky

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Speaker 1: But I really don't want to get an update from

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Speaker 4: He's just too nice.

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Speaker 3: More so, we need to talk to all the girls

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Speaker 7: He keeps up the act and he shows up an

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's all right. But you know what, if you're

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Speaker 4: anything in between, we will help you with your dating life.

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Speaker 4: Email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 4: you back. Go check out all of our second dates

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Speaker 4: wherever you get your podcast app Brooke and Jeffrey and on.

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Speaker 9: YouTube Freaking Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Look, kids are great.

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Speaker 7: Love I see it, I hear.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I'm just saying sometimes there are certain situations where

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Speaker 4: at the Tantric massage parlor near Brooks House, I.

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Speaker 2: Would not invite kids there the kids are welcoming there.

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Speaker 4: Or at an important job interview. He's a Timothy, he

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Speaker 4: might be my future boss. Please don't say that. Or

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Speaker 2: Saying they shouldn't be allowed in restaurants.

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Speaker 4: Child should in and apologize for what you're about to hear.

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Speaker 4: Second day updated, Next second date update. What's the fastest

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Wow, that's interesting because usually.

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Speaker 4: It takes some your sweet talking and finagling little get

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Speaker 4: to know you. You make a couple jokes, exchange a

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Speaker 4: couple picks. But Gabe says they only sent two messages

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Speaker 2: One the messages. It had to be more than how

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Speaker 2: are you Wow?

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Speaker 4: I don't know what it says. It either screamed super

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Speaker 8: I would say definitely super charming.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's okay if you're both desperate at the

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Speaker 6: Gave a lot of people can relate. I had a

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Speaker 6: pack of butt lights? Can I come over? And I

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Speaker 2: That's a terrible yeah.

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Speaker 7: She obviously was yes and gave.

451
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:08,640
Speaker 4: By the way, that was his mom too. Everyone, you're

452
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 4: already starting off on a higher level than us. Tell

453
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 4: us about the woman that you met online, right, Yeah, So.

454
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 8: I met this girl in Abby off a dating app

455
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:20,440
Speaker 8: and we didn't really mess her around with this small

456
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 8: talk right away, and I'm like that anyway, so it

457
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 8: was kind of perfect. She's like, Hey, I'm not a

458
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,880
Speaker 8: big texture or pen pal person, let's just meet.

459
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 2: Oh wow, doing is that the first message she sent you?

460
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 2: Or had you messaged her first?

461
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:35,119
Speaker 1: No?

462
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 8: No, that was on her dating profile.

463
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, So it wasn't special treatment for you.

464
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 8: Correct. She's very blunt into the point, which I really loved.

465
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 2: So what did you write to her to make her

466
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 2: interested in meeting up with you in person?

467
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 6: Well?

468
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 8: I think it wasn't much. It was like, I agree

469
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,160
Speaker 8: with you, let's not get stuck on this app in text,

470
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 8: let's meet in person. And she had an amazing smile,

471
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,400
Speaker 8: so I knew I was there was attraction. So I'm like, great,

472
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 8: let's meet.

473
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 4: That's awesome because you have the entire rest of your

474
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 4: lives to talk and bore each other and get to

475
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 4: know each other that way. Let's just cut right to

476
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 4: the gym room.

477
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Speaker 1: I don't know that your total strangers, Like you don't mean,

478
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:19,879
Speaker 1: it's one thing when you're like set up on a

479
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 1: blind date by a friend, you just there's some like, well,

480
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 1: somebody's vouching for this person.

481
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 2: True, this is like out of the.

482
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Speaker 7: Blue internet stranger.

483
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 9: Yeah.

484
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Speaker 8: I didn't really feel she was a stranger. Like she

485
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 8: had a nice listings of stuff on her profile. I

486
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:34,879
Speaker 8: kind of had an idea of who she was, you

487
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 8: know what I mean, Like I kind of knew, at

488
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 8: least in writing what kind of person she was, so

489
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Speaker 8: I felt comfortable.

490
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Speaker 5: Was a big deal.

491
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Speaker 4: That's great. So that is good, Yes, yeah, a little

492
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 4: little danger. It is exciting her. So what did you

493
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 4: guys end up doing?

494
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Speaker 7: I mean you obviously met.

495
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:51,920
Speaker 8: Right, Yeah, so we met up at a restaurant.

496
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Speaker 2: Are really jumped right into it. I thought for sure

497
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 2: it'd be.

498
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 8: Coffee, Yeah it was. It was dinner and she getting

499
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Speaker 8: to know her a little bit at dinner. She's a

500
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,640
Speaker 8: very to the point person, but still friendly. She wasn't

501
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,399
Speaker 8: like ameanor and isn't. She's a very beautiful, great smile.

502
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 7: That'd be kind of funny.

503
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 6: She sits down, She's like, all right, let's get these

504
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 6: appetisers going.

505
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 7: Don't look at me, don't talk to me. Let's first, Yeah,

506
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 7: let's eat and then we'll go from there.

507
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 1: But it's so different, like you're going into a dinner

508
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 1: where you know nothing about this person.

509
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 2: All the other days, are you know some history?

510
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 9: Right?

511
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 7: Yeah, a little bit.

512
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 4: But if you get to know people, then that gives

513
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 4: you reasons to not like that, saf to not do that.

514
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 4: I get it, just like I've never Yeah, I don't

515
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 4: want that. No one should ever ask me anything. What

516
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 4: did it work out?

517
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 8: Well?

518
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 4: For you, Gab and Abby?

519
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, what was the conversation?

520
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 8: Like, it was a great conversation. We talked about family

521
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 8: and what she's into and what she does outside of work.

522
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 8: So it was a nice flow. I mean, I'm not

523
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 8: gonna lie. And then actually, something really cute happened. Some

524
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 8: little kid came up to our table. He was in

525
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 8: a like a Superman cape, you know. He came kind

526
00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 8: of running up and she was playing along like, hey, Superman,

527
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 8: are you here? Looking for you a villain? Like she

528
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 8: was like playing into this kid.

529
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 2: Said some parents like this is a restaurant.

530
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 8: Basically I have would have been the same way, like kids,

531
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 8: go scram go with your parents. You're interrupting our day.

532
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 8: So like she was like charming actually, and so I

533
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 8: was like, oh and look at I want to have

534
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 8: kids one day. And so I'm like, maybe this would

535
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 8: be a great mom.

536
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 2: It's a future. Milk didn't tell her that. That's usually

537
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 2: a turn off when you hear that on a first

538
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 2: date you're going to be a great mom.

539
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 8: Yeah, no, I held off on that.

540
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a sweet thought.

541
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 4: How did the dinner end?

542
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 8: So it ended, I thought pretty well. And I said

543
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 8: to her, you know, I'm thinking I'd want another day

544
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 8: with you, and she kind of laughs and says, we'll see,

545
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 8: but in a cute the way. But now it's been here,

546
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 8: we are a week and a half later and and nothing.

547
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 8: She hasn't responded to me, So.

548
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 2: Maybe she wasn't being as cutesy as you thought when.

549
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 8: She said that, Yeah, did I do something wrong? Did

550
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 8: I say something? I'd like to know where I stand.

551
00:24:59,200 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 8: I feel like it's.

552
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 2: Gonna be easy if this is a direct person.

553
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 7: I'm just gonna say that easier to pick up and

554
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:06,479
Speaker 7: then it should be a short phone call.

555
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she might be brutally honest, so prepared for that.

556
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 4: But you would think if she was that brutally honest,

557
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 4: she would have just told him directly, we're not going

558
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 4: to hang out again. Hanging Yeah, I don't know. Around

559
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 4: could have been her kid actually in real life, and

560
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 4: she just wanted to, like from Mommy's on the.

561
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 2: Date I told you sit in booth number four, honey.

562
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 4: That could have been her little test and you.

563
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:38,479
Speaker 8: Failed, super boy God, that really was her kid, then

564
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 8: you know, that's pretty impressive. Bravo to her. I didn't

565
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,159
Speaker 8: see that coming, but the kid didn't look like her.

566
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 8: By the way, it didn't look like her, so I

567
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 8: didn't think that you better go check.

568
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 2: Your bill make sure you didn't pay for kids.

569
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 4: We're gonna find out for sure when we come back.

570
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,719
Speaker 4: We call this woman and we interrogate her on if

571
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 4: she's a mom or not, and if she wants to

572
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 4: go out with you again.

573
00:25:58,280 --> 00:25:59,959
Speaker 2: I think we get come in a little looser than

574
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 2: that hard.

575
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,919
Speaker 4: And fast Superman. Can we do your second date update

576
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 4: right after this.

577
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 9: Date?

578
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 4: Look, it's a kid.

579
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 7: A restaurant and he didn't get kicked out.

580
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 4: Because one of our listeners, Gabe was on a date

581
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 4: with a woman recently when a super child swooped up

582
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 4: to their table. Yeah, and the woman he was with,

583
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 4: named Abby, treated him really nicely, shocking.

584
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: Played along, even got into the game of pretend.

585
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, like who's the villain? Ah Broccoli is my kryptonite? No,

586
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 4: And when he suggested afterwards that they hang out again,

587
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 4: Abby replied, we'll see.

588
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

589
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 2: She thought was flirting until she stopped calling him yeah.

590
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,199
Speaker 4: Yeah, directly to the point. And hopefully it's not going

591
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 4: to take superhero strength to get Gabe another date here,

592
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 4: because looking around the room, I don't know if we

593
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 4: have it in this To be.

594
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,360
Speaker 1: Honest, Alexis said, she lifted one way to that Jim

595
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: yesterday I did.

596
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 2: I'm a little sore, but I might be able to

597
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 2: pull for you.

598
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 10: Wow.

599
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 4: Two and a half pounder. Good for you, any chance?

600
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 4: Never mind, I would have given us more credit, Gabe.

601
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 4: On a scale of one to ten, how confident are

602
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 4: you that we're going to get this done for you?

603
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 8: Probably a six?

604
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 9: I thought you.

605
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 4: Said ten.

606
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 8: Well yeah, then thinking at you, guys, I just feel

607
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 8: like I've done something wrong and I'm a little nervous

608
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 8: about it.

609
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 7: Okay, so you're the reason it's a six. I like

610
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 7: that we blame you, all right.

611
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 4: We're gonna put all the blame on you if this

612
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 4: goes wrong, but if it goes right, one hundred percent

613
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 4: of the credit goes to us. I like that deal.

614
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:43,959
Speaker 4: Let's call this lady for you. See, we can get

615
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 4: another date.

616
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 8: Here we go.

617
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey is this Sabby?

618
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 11: Yeah?

619
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 4: Hey Abby? You may or may not know us, but

620
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 4: we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

621
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 4: and we were hoping we could take a second of

622
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 4: your time to talk uh date life.

623
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 2: What Hi?

624
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 9: Hi?

625
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:10,679
Speaker 7: Abby?

626
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 2: Sorry? I almost called you Gabby because.

627
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 4: I mean, it kind of makes sense you were laughing

628
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 4: at what I said.

629
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 7: Sorry, I probably talked to her a little bit.

630
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 4: I like talking around her. Gabby, what's up? You know what,

631
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 4: I'm mashing the name up with the guy that you

632
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 4: went out.

633
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:34,719
Speaker 6: With recently, boasting either this is all awful.

634
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, Abby, you know what.

635
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 4: At this point, we're just gonna have Alexis takeover run

636
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 4: the combo on the phone.

637
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 7: Where's four of US's a whole room full of us together?

638
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 2: We make more from you.

639
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 7: Well, we're a morning show. It's a radio show.

640
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 11: I'm on the radio.

641
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, we got there when we're doing a segment called

642
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,239
Speaker 4: a second Date Update and we're trying to help out

643
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 4: one of our listeners named Gabe, who you met at

644
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 4: a restaurant recently.

645
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, I know.

646
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 2: Did you have a fun time with Gabe?

647
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 11: Look here, this is the all I like getting to

648
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 11: know him. I found him to be interesting at first,

649
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:12,959
Speaker 11: but then he said a bunch of things that are

650
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 11: pretty out putting to me.

651
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 8: And I'm just gonna leave it at that.

652
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm sorry.

653
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean one of the good things he

654
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: said about you is he loved how honest you were,

655
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: and so I don't I don't know that he would

656
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: be hurt to hear what you.

657
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 2: Have to say.

658
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's just a little clueless. I don't think that

659
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 4: he realizes that he said anything that could have come

660
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 4: across offensive.

661
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 11: One of the things that he sent to me at

662
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 11: first was you look nice in this light.

663
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well, because it's in this light.

664
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 11: That's the thing. There was no light. It was super

665
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 11: dark where we were, Like, I looked nice in the dark.

666
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 8: That look.

667
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 4: I've heard you say this before, Like, ooh, the lighting

668
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 4: in here is perfect.

669
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: For me that I can say that about myself.

670
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 11: He said. More than that. We haven't even gotten to

671
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 11: the other things he said.

672
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 4: Okay, oh there's more.

673
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 11: He said, I bet you're so pretty that the guys

674
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 11: online are throwing themselves at you. What the guys in

675
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 11: person don't like?

676
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Speaker 2: Okay, I think that's a little bit of a stretch.

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Speaker 1: I think that maybe you were hurt from the lighting comment,

678
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: and then you're like, so now you're looking for the

679
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: backhanded compliments.

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Speaker 11: No, like, I have nothing else to offer except my look,

681
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 11: Like come on.

682
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: Well, you know what's interesting. He didn't even bring up

683
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 2: your looks when we talked to him about what she

684
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 2: has other things to offer.

685
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: He talked about how lovely and and and how great

686
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: she was with the kid and what a good person

687
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: she said, Kid, you did.

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Speaker 4: Mention a good moment where a kid came up to

689
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 4: the table and you were really playful.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, he was like, I'm so impressed that I shockingly

691
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 11: be good with kids. Like, of course him good with kids.

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00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 2: It seems like.

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Speaker 4: Every time hold on you were offended that he said

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00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 4: that you seem to be good with kids.

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00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, like, why wouldn't I be.

696
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: I don't think he meant it as a surprise. He

697
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: just has never met you before, so everything's new and.

698
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 4: He's blue expectations.

699
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 2: But I just think you give him a chance. Like

700
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: he's nervous, he's trying to be nice to you.

701
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 11: I don't see it that way at all.

702
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 4: Well, you don't have to take it directly from us.

703
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 4: You can actually hear it straight from Gabe's mouth, because

704
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 4: he's on the other line listening right now, wanting to

705
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 4: talk to you and not compliment you in any way. Well,

706
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 4: I don't know that, Gabe.

707
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 8: Are you there, Hey, guys, Hey Abby, hey here we are.

708
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 4: Like this award, He's clearly a little bit scared.

709
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 11: So there's another person on the line too.

710
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 2: It's a good guy, the one you went out with.

711
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 11: Ah, this is like a crazy party it Gabe, talk

712
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 11: to Abby, tell her what you meant.

713
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 9: So.

714
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 8: I didn't mean anything like negative or derogatory. I was

715
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 8: trying to compliment you. I was trying to be flirty.

716
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 8: I was trying to be cutty, cheeky, you know what

717
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 8: I mean. And I don't remember you having an ego.

718
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 10: Like you do.

719
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 8: Now I will say that that's but I mean, I

720
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 8: just I'm shocked to hear all this. And when I

721
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 8: said you look good in this light, you took it

722
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 8: in a way that I meant that had nothing to

723
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 8: do with what you thought. It was like, maybe you

724
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 8: have some insecurity issues.

725
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 4: I don't know.

726
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 11: Oh so that's what I'm talking about.

727
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 4: Okay, let me just jump in really quick. I think

728
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 4: what he meant by that is I'm really really sorry.

729
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 1: All you have to do is bring Jeff on every

730
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: date you ever go on, and he will interpret in

731
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 1: the correct way.

732
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 4: Men have a hard time expressing what they really feel inside,

733
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 4: so I can train he's deeply apologetic.

734
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 11: I am not hearing that at all.

735
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 2: Like, GiB why are you saying.

736
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 1: Things like that, You're being like, you're like accusing her

737
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 1: of having a big ego and being insecure.

738
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 2: Why would you even mention that?

739
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 8: Again, I was being trying to be cute and flirty,

740
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 8: and now I'm hearing the side of her like which

741
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 8: came out of nowhere. She didn't say any of this

742
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 8: during our dinner. I'm just glad I didn't say anything wrong, truly, because.

743
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 4: Yes, I can understand gave you. You're feeling a little

744
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 4: bit attacked because she's she's she thinks that you're being insulting,

745
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 4: and you don't feel that way. Maybe this is a

746
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 4: good chance to hit the reset button and try complimenting

747
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 4: her in a totally non offensive, completely one hundred percent

748
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 4: safe way. Every let's give it a shit.

749
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 2: Do not say you're smart for a woman, don't say.

750
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 4: That, don't don't say what Brooks husband tells to her.

751
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 8: I will compliment you right now again, Abby, like I

752
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 8: did a few times. You are remarkable, you are gorgeous

753
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 8: and an incredible soon to be mother. And how you

754
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 8: kind of played with that young kid who came over.

755
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:02,719
Speaker 11: I want fat now too.

756
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 8: No, No, where are you getting this what's wrong, like,

757
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 8: what's happening here?

758
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 11: No enough, Honestly, this has been enough. I didn't need

759
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 11: to engage in it a second time, quite frankly, So

760
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 11: I'm it word of advice next time you go out

761
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 11: with a woman, A beautiful woman, a lovely woman. I mean,

762
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 11: maybe just try not to shame her all the time. Okay,

763
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 11: I don't think it's not a bad.

764
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,319
Speaker 2: Piece of advice of course.

765
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 4: Gave you can compliment her on that nice piece of

766
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 4: advice that.

767
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 8: She gave you. That was a wonderful piece of advice. Abby.

768
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 8: I'm going to take it to heart, and I'm going

769
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 8: to make a note in my journal about it when

770
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 8: I write tonight. So I appreciate that, and I wish

771
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:52,839
Speaker 8: you the best. You're You're beautiful, You're charming. I don't

772
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:53,359
Speaker 8: have an ego.

773
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 11: We're done wonderful.

774
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 7: You are we even gonna ask?

775
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 4: Well, we still need to. I think technically their.

776
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 7: Chemistry is off, like no one's done anything crazy.

777
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 2: This would happen if they texted before they went on.

778
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 4: It's a good point. But we would love to offer

779
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 4: to send you guys out to meet up one more time. Well,

780
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,959
Speaker 4: it's a no from Abby. It sounds like, but Gabe,

781
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 4: I haven't heard from you. Are you still in a

782
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 4: solo date by yourself?

783
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 9: Oh?

784
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean if you guys are paying, I wouldn't

785
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 8: mind that. That's nice.

786
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 4: Okay, like practice, yes, by yourself, maybe across from a mirror.

787
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 7: Is at a lowlit diner just talking to himself.

788
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 4: Getting super offended by the things that he said.

789
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 9: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

790
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 4: Okay, Well that was one of those second dates that

791
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 4: escalates quickly and we don't know what to do with it.

792
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 2: You know, it's like, how could two opposite people just

793
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 2: find each other?

794
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 8: Yeah?

795
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 2: I know, they just don't go well together.

796
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 4: They did, Brooke, though, I do have to give it

797
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 4: to you here because for what you were very calm

798
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 4: and rational when talking to the callers today and not

799
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 4: emotional and controller like normal. I was impressed, is what

800
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 4: I'm trying to say.

801
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,720
Speaker 2: That is what we call it backhand compliment. Jeffrey.

802
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 4: No, I'm just saying that you were so poised that

803
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 4: I hardly even noticed your mismatched outfit. Okay, you can't

804
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 4: take to that I'm giving you a compliment. I said,

805
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 4: I did not know it the years round.

806
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 2: If it was anyone else, I'd take offense to it.

807
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,280
Speaker 2: And I don't really care about his opinion.

808
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 4: Bro, I think that you're hearing what you want to

809
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 4: hear that. Yeah, and just the fact that you're hearing

810
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 4: it all at your age is so let's get a

811
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 4: lost everybody.

812
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 7: I can't.

813
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 4: Let's get I can't hear that studio loves you. That's

814
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 4: what I'm trying to say. Remember, if you want to

815
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,439
Speaker 4: get a second date up that you can email the show.

816
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 4: We'll call that person wasn't calling you back. Check out

817
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,800
Speaker 4: all our second date updates on our podcast. Wherever you

818
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 4: get your is that broken? Jeffers