WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: High School Holiday Hangout + Trial By Separation 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.800 Because two is officially better than one. Welcome to your 0:00:02.840 --> 0:00:05.480 second date classes. I see what you did there. Yeah, yeah, 0:00:05.559 --> 0:00:07.360 it's Brigg and Jeffrey in the morning. We're putting two 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:09.319 classics back to back for you so you can get 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:12.200 whatever you need to get done done today and just 0:00:12.240 --> 0:00:14.440 have a little dose of second day on your Saturday 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:16.639 or the opposite. Don't do anything and just sit and 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:22.600 listen productive you know. Yeah, we don't judge you, all right, 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:25.120 just enjoy it starts right now. 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:28.600 I know. Whenever I'm traveling to spend time with my 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:31.880 parents over the holidays, I always have one thing on 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:32.360 my mind. 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:32.919 What's up? 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:36.159 How can I get out of spending time with my 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:37.800 parents over the holidays? 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:39.360 We're already thinking about it. 0:00:39.800 --> 0:00:42.800 Yeah, and one of our listeners I think, had a 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:46.040 pretty good idea, invite a guy over to your family's 0:00:46.080 --> 0:00:48.760 house to take you away from them for a whole night. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:54.880 No okay, But unfortunately for her, that idea backfired spectacularly. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:57.760 Oh and we're all going to find out what happened 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:01.720 when we do your second date update. Next second date 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:05.040 up date. You're going back home for the holidays can 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:06.080 be really fun. 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:08.200 Yeah, yeah, I'm so exciting. 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:11.160 It can be great to reconnect with your siblings again, 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:14.880 your grandparents, relatives you haven't seen in a while. And 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:17.480 if you're really lucky, you might even see someone from 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:23.399 your past and have a little holiday Hookupsaily not your 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:24.080 family and. 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:29.440 When everybody goes out yet, didn't. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:32.880 Your old pe coach reconnect and get the second base 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:33.399 or something? 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:39.160 No, he married, I think one of my other friends. 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:42.680 Oh too bad for you, Brooke, mister Chance. But one 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:47.160 of our listeners, Simone, reconnected with someone recently. Not a 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:49.919 next boyfriend. It was just a guy from her high school. 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:52.240 And I'm curious about how it went down because she's 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:54.520 on the phone right now, Simone. So was this a 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:56.280 fellow student or a faculty member? 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:01.600 Oh my god, it was not a faculty member. 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:06.280 Okay, Honestly, I hooked up with more guys from my 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:08.800 high school way post high school than I did in 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:11.840 high school. I was too dorky in high school. Nobody 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:16.360 wanted to all I try. It's not that I didn't try. 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:22.240 Some are late and some skankers. 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:22.280 What we call it bloomers. 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.760 All right, as long as you get it done. So 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:27.799 someone who is this guy that you met up with? 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:34.160 So his name is Jack, and we reconnected over Facebook 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:37.240 because I had posted that I was coming home and 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:39.680 I was really excited to spend time with my family 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:42.760 and friends like the holidays, and I was trying to 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:44.360 kind of give everybody a heads up that I went 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:46.320 to school with so we could try to plan something 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:47.120 and all catch up. 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:51.760 Yeah, it's like like a mini informal reunion almost. Yeah. 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:53.880 Yeah, And did you know that you wanted to hook 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:56.359 up with him immediately or did you want to wait 0:02:56.400 --> 0:02:57.239 and see how it went? 0:02:58.160 --> 0:02:58.359 Well? 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:00.280 So that's the thing is that like it. This is 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:03.120 a guy that we've never dated. We were always kind 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:05.480 of floating around in like neighboring circles, but we were 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:06.400 never super close. 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:08.000 Okay, and got it. 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.400 He was one of the first people to comment on 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:12.519 this post. Oh, I was like, Oh, this would be great, 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:14.560 would love to catch up. And I was like catch up, Like, 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:16.560 what do we have to talk about? Look like we 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:17.960 didn't you know, you. 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:22.120 Know some people who stay in the hometown that you're from. Yes, 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:25.200 maybe need some outside influence everyone to watch. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:27.840 Yes, what she's saying. 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:30.639 Let me tell you, I will not miss an opportunity 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:32.080 to show off my glow up. 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:33.880 So Okay, I got that good. 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:36.560 So what did you and Jack do when you met up? 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:39.600 Well, this is the thing. So we were texting for 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.160 a while until I got back and trying to make plans, 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.560 and I was staying with my family, so I was like, 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:46.760 why don't we just make it easy. You can come 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:48.680 pick me up from my family's place and we'll go 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:49.800 wherever you want to go. 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:51.920 Oh, so this feels more like a date than a 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:53.160 hangout if it's just you. 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:56.760 Too, Yeah, I guess so I think maybe I don't 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:58.680 know if that was the intention, but things kind of 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:03.160 ended up taking slave turn and it wasn't really anybody's fault. 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:05.600 But he came to pick me up when I was fit. 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:08.920 I just finished dinner with my family, and my family 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:10.400 was like, oh, you know, why don't you come in 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:13.320 for a second, which I kind of gave him the 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:15.040 look of like you don't have to do this, But 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:18.640 he was very cool and came in and be all 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:20.880 we're just hanging It was really sweet, like we were 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:23.240 all hanging out for a while, and like because like. 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:25.200 It's not like he knew your family in high school. 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:25.960 You guys weren't even. 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:28.040 Really pressure situation. 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:30.719 Yeah, I know, if that happened to me, I would 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:33.560 absolutely not want to go inside there. I do not 0:04:33.640 --> 0:04:36.480 want to spend my precious free time during the holidays 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:37.839 meeting some other person's family. 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:40.920 Meeting families, yeah. 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:45.840 But not people meeting mine and parents always love me 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:47.360 so much. 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:51.919 Okay, we get it, Brook, You're amazing everybody person in 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.240 the world, and everyone wants to go. Their kids don't 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:58.280 like me, but they like Okay, Well, so what happened 0:04:58.279 --> 0:04:58.719 with Jack? 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.240 Well, so we're all talking and we ended up like 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:03.280 playing some games and everybody was played a. 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:06.240 Good time, so they full on like. 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:10.200 Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't mean for that to happen. 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:12.400 It just kind of did. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:14.880 Playing the piano, singing carols together. 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:18.040 He was into it though, Yeah, he was. 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:20.560 And I will say this, my dad was a little tipsy, 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:24.760 which around the holidays is not a surprise. Yeah, and 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:26.520 he was kind of ribbing them a little bit, like, 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:28.440 what are your intentions with my daughter? 0:05:29.880 --> 0:05:32.480 I know, I know, let me go to the laundry 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:37.480 room and then I'll show you. Is that not how 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:38.719 your guys' family holidays? 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:40.760 Yeah? 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:42.920 I never had to take take my dad into the 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:43.640 laundry room. 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:44.040 Yeah. 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:48.480 Just the teacher I know, how did Jack handle the ribbing? 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.279 He just kind of laughed it off, and finally I 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:53.800 kind of pulled him aside and I was like, hey, listen, 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:55.720 we can get out of here whenever you need to, 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:58.239 like we already were here a lot longer than I thought. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:00.880 And he was like, oh, I just got a text 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:03.880 from where my friends and they really need me, so 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:08.360 I actually I have to get going ye And he's like, well, well, 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.679 we'll catch up in a few days. And of course, 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:13.680 in my head, I'm like, did he really get a 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:17.480 text from his friend or I think that maybe he didn't. 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:19.479 I don't know, like maybe he thought you guys were 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.960 just going out as friends, and then your dad is 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:24.800 assuming that you're a couple. Like it just it feels 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:26.680 like a lot of weirdness. 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:29.159 Yeah, I agree. And the way we left it was 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:32.400 we'll make more plans, we'll text and we'll figure it out, 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:34.440 and then just never heard back from him. 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:37.719 A complete ghost. It's not like he's stalling. 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:40.520 No, no, Like I just he just went radio silent, 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:42.800 and so I don't know what happened. 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:44.920 Are you crushing on him? Still? Like you still like him? 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:45.880 Yeah? 0:06:46.160 --> 0:06:48.640 I mean especially too, like seeing how cool. He was 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:50.360 with paying out with my family for a little bit. 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:51.320 That's impressing. 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:51.640 You know. 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:54.240 I did have a weird thought though, like, while he 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:58.320 was bonding with your family, do you have any single 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:03.880 siblings or or single hot aunt don that maybe like 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:04.960 could have swooped in. 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.800 No, I'm the only girl. I have two brothers. 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:10.360 Maybe that's an option for him though. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.280 Yeah, I mean there's a chance that someone could have 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:15.920 taken him from you, right from under your nose. 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:19.240 Probably some messed up family dynamics. If that's the case, it's. 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:20.239 Called the holidays broke. 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:20.960 Things happen. 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:25.320 But let's find out what really happened when we play 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:27.280 a song. Come back, call him and try and get 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:28.280 your second date update. 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:29.640 All right, thank you? 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:34.760 All right, hold on second date update. One of the 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:38.200 main rules of dating, and I think everybody knows this 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:42.520 is if you really like someone, you do not introduce 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:45.680 them to your family for at least three to four 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:50.080 years until you're one hundred percent sure they won't be 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:50.720 scared off. 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:51.400 Wow. 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:54.080 I would say probably even pop out a few kids 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:56.560 with them before they meet the family, just to be safe. 0:07:57.480 --> 0:07:59.920 Or you could end up like Simone who was so 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:02.480 supposed to go out with an old high school friend 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:07.040 named Jack till her family invited him inside during the holidays, 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:10.240 and look what happened. I mean, he ran away. Hasn't 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:11.720 been heard from since that night. 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:13.360 They should have heard your advice first show. 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:16.120 Are we blaming the drunk dad? Is that where we're blaming? 0:08:16.240 --> 0:08:17.840 Or no, we don't know who to blame. 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:18.800 That's where I'm leaning. 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:21.800 I think even though it's a joke, it's still very 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:24.840 intimidating to know your dad is even thinking that. 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:26.600 It's such an old cliche joke. 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:32.839 Really, my gun, Yeah, Simon, do you wish that you 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:35.280 hadn't let him come inside that house that night? 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:42.600 I mean, yeah, we know it's absolutely true the answer, 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:43.440 Oh my god. 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:45.880 I mean, or do you wish that your dad was funnier? 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:48.559 I mean he thinks he's funny, which is way worse. 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:52.679 Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well we're going to try and get 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:53.600 you a second chance. 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:53.800 Here. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.800 We're gonna call Jack and find out which member of 0:08:56.880 --> 0:08:59.200 your family is the one to blame. Or maybe it 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:01.479 was something that was totally unrelated. 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:01.720 I love. 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:03.079 We think it has to be the fame. 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:06.240 I mean, come on, yeah. 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.560 It's like the holiday edition of Clue. 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.720 Oh yeah, is it the mom in the kitchen with 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.079 the butcher knife or Colonel Father. 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:16.720 Let's get to the bottom of this. I'm gonna Dilla's 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:28.280 number right now here we go. Hello, I nose brush 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:29.840 the microphone. Hey is this Jack? 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:31.880 Uh? 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:32.840 Yes, this is he. 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:35.360 You are all taking ready? I like Jack? 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:37.600 I know you see Jack. You're you're on the radio 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:39.280 right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:40.000 Uh. 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:41.960 Yeah, I seem alert because I answer business calls. 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:46.839 Uh this is kind of a business call. It's about 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:47.760 your business. 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:51.600 Ye, your personal business with an old friend of yours 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:52.440 name Simone. 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:55.160 Wait, what is this about? What's going on? 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:57.640 This is about a segment we do on our show 0:09:57.720 --> 0:10:01.680 called a second Date Update, and our listeners will reach 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:04.959 out to us sometimes and ask us to help them 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:07.760 reconnect with an old fling or an old date that 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:09.360 they went out with that they haven't heard from in 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:09.760 a while. 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:12.360 Okay, but I'm not old. 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:13.959 I'm not an old person. 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:15.600 Old people. 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:18.480 You answered a phone number that you didn't recognize that 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:19.280 is older. 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:27.280 So bald. Oh, Jack, I bet you're regretting it right now. 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:29.719 I was just, you know, I thought maybe something was 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:32.360 wrong with my car's extended warranty. 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:34.680 It's okay. 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:37.080 Yeah, Look, we all make mistakes, and your mistake was 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:38.800 answering this call. But we do want to get some 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:42.440 answers because Simone told us that you guys hung out 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:44.000 the other night, and you. 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:46.520 Know, I'm sorry to I'm sorry to interrupt you, but 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:49.360 I just now I don't think I want to do this, Okay. 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:51.840 Is it because it wasn't supposed to be a date 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:54.720 with Simone? Is I supposed to just be more like 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:56.000 of a friend hang out. 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:58.960 Like no, no, no, no, no no no. I'm definitely 0:10:58.960 --> 0:10:59.920 interested in Simone. 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:02.679 Well I was. 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:06.800 Interested was I mean, look, I know you're hesitant on 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:10.520 talking about it, and I understand that, but can you 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:14.760 put yourself in Simon's shoes here? Because she was really 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:19.040 looking forward to spending time with you and reconnecting. And 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:22.480 I mean she had no intention of the night going 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:24.280 the way that it did, where you were invited into 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:25.120 her family's house. 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:28.480 Yes, I mean she thought you. I mean, maybe she 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:30.719 read it wrong. The only reason you guys stayed there 0:11:30.800 --> 0:11:32.480 was because she thought you were having a good time 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:34.720 hanging out with her family and playing board games. 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:37.920 WHOA, you guys know a lot about what happened. 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.040 Like date detectives. 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:44.360 Yeah, it's kind of weird. 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:47.120 We talked to some run She told us about what 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:50.400 happened that night, and we were wondering if something happened 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:54.400 while you're in the house with her family that made you. 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:57.920 No, No, it was just well it wasn't. 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:00.000 It was just an uncomfortable situation. 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:02.480 Oh okay, she feels bad for that. 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:05.080 Yeah, well no, but just no, not not going in 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:06.040 and talking to her family. 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:08.560 Her family was great, nice and. 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:10.559 So great that maybe you hooked up with one of them. 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:12.600 What. 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:15.360 Okay, that was a theory that I had. I'm glad 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:17.960 that we can squash it right now, but yeah, so 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:20.520 he can. Definitely, was the text that you got the 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:24.160 emergency text? Was that real or was that fake? 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:29.400 No? No, it was not real. I did not I 0:12:29.440 --> 0:12:31.280 did not see the emergency. 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:34.080 But she knew that. So don't feel bad admitting that. Like, 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:37.080 I mean, it was pretty obvious. What made you run 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:37.800 from the house. 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:42.640 So what made what made me need to leave is 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:46.800 I was having a nice chat with her mom and 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:50.160 as as we're talking, I look over and I see 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:55.640 some Christmas cards and I see one from Simone with 0:12:56.280 --> 0:13:00.880 another guy and they're both like up together and it 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:03.000 was like a it looked like a you know, a 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:06.080 couple had sent a card and it was Simone and 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:06.600 this dude. 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:10.560 Well, I mean, she didn't mention anything about an ex boyfriend, 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.199 but obviously the card could have been sent out long before. 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.480 And then they broke up, Like, really do you send 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:21.160 Christmas card? Who brings a guy over to your house 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:24.160 with your family if you're dating someone else to a 0:13:24.160 --> 0:13:27.319 point where you're sending Christmas cards together? Like, why wouldn't 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:29.839 you just ask Simone? Then? Why wouldn't you ask her? 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:33.120 Because I just felt like, in order to not just 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:35.920 escalate things, I wanted to I just you know. 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:38.160 I mean, well you just wanted to jump to conclusions. 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:43.840 I know you just took pictures recently. 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:46.480 I know you don't want to have that awkward conversation 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:49.440 with her, but I kind of do right now because 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:51.720 she's on the other line listening and wants to be 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:53.680 asked an awkward, escalating question. 0:13:55.240 --> 0:14:00.880 What I'm hi, you've been listen in this whole time. 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:03.040 This is like, this is so awkward. 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:07.280 I know, I'm sorry. 0:14:07.559 --> 0:14:10.320 I mean, it's kind of cool that you went to 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:11.800 these lengths to try to get a hold of me. 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:14.760 But I just, you know, I just this is just 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:18.439 really bizarre. So who is the guy? Come on, tell me? 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:22.560 Are you seeing nobody? Are you in a relationship? 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:26.200 Because like, okay, hold on, Jack, you're asking like five 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:29.160 different questions. Let's just let's do one question at a time. 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:30.120 Who's the guy? 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:32.000 Oh, I was gonna start what kind of sweater are 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:35.800 you wearing right now? Because that I might ease his 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:38.200 tension a little bit. The guy. 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:40.760 First of all, I can't believe you even saw that card. 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:45.120 I I'm so mad at my mom right now. 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:46.840 Why are you dating that guy? 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.320 Not technically. 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:57.800 What your parents are wing wing Manny your side piece. 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:02.760 No, so listen, Okay, I'll be honest. That guy's is 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.480 a guy that I dated for a while, and we 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:11.640 always did these stupid Christmas cards and we're not exclusive. 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:15.160 We are not together. We hook up every once in 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:16.440 a while, but we're. 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:20.360 Not there's a gay, okay, but you promise you're not 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:25.120 exclusive with him? Oh, you're not exclusive and you send 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:31.080 Christmas cards out together? That seems yeah. Yeah, it was. 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:33.440 More of a joke because we would do it every year, 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:35.200 so we kind of just kept up with the tradition. 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:38.200 Because we both didn't want our families hassling us at 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:40.400 the holidays for being single. So we were like, we 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:44.840 should just do a Christmas card anyway, and that backfired 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:45.800 so funny. 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:50.480 So I just I'm actually, I mean, Simon, I really 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:53.000 want to be with somebody that's emotionally available and not 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:56.080 you know, still, even if it's not like you know, 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:59.640 you're not exclusive, you're still seeing him. I just I'm 0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:02.280 just not comfortable being with somebody who's seeing other people. 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:06.440 So I just, well, that's the thing, is like I 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:08.440 had a great time hanging out with you, and I 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:11.120 really want to get to know you better. And I 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.320 am not invested in this guy. Like I said, it's 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:15.560 somebody that I dated, and it was just I didn't 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:17.640 have anybody else I was interested in, and it was just, 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:20.720 you know, I'll call him later today and tell him 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:22.040 that we can't see each other anymore. 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:27.320 Really, Jack, is that something that you'd be into, because 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:29.880 if you're willing to see her again, then we'll pay 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:30.520 for that date. 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:35.400 I have one question. Did you hook up with him 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:37.160 over the holidays? 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:43.240 Be honest here, Simon, did it happen? And what sweater 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:44.480 were you wearing at the time. 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:51.800 It didn't happen over the holidays, but it has happened recently. 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:59.720 All Jack, I need an answer from you. What do 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:02.880 you think one more date with Simone? We'll pay for it? 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:06.480 I don't think so. Here's why. 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:07.720 It's a healthier why. 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:11.439 I feel like you could have told me that you 0:17:11.520 --> 0:17:14.320 were getting out of a relationship. 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:16.680 And I just I can't we get here. 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:23.760 It's the holidays. Everybody's sad, we understand, Thank you freaking Jeffrey. 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:27.560 In the morning, I was thinking, does that ever work 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:31.520 on our show? After the person says no, I'm not interested, 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:35.000 and they throw out one last ditch plea like hey 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:36.840 what if I break up with the other guy, will 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:37.359 you go out with me? 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:38.800 Then it's like hail Mary? 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:40.720 Or what if I get a butt lift? 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:41.120 Yeah? 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:43.960 Or hey what if I put my dog down because 0:17:43.960 --> 0:17:49.119 you're allergic? My god, it's always n. 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:51.480 You made the boyfriend sound like the best option. 0:17:52.760 --> 0:17:54.560 I just can't think of the time where that strategy 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:56.879 has ever worked, and she definitely gave it a try. 0:17:57.400 --> 0:18:00.240 God, I just have this feeling that the guy on 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:04.119 the cards sweater boy doesn't know that they're not exclusive. 0:18:04.320 --> 0:18:06.840 Yeah, because anyone else's always like that the other one 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:08.120 is always like, what, wait, I thought you. 0:18:08.080 --> 0:18:08.720 Were my girlfriend? 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:10.840 Yeah? I sent out Christmas cards for. 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:13.679 Ye Yeah, how does it get more intimate than that? 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:17.159 But clearly we're not going to be doing any update 0:18:17.200 --> 0:18:20.520 with that couple anytime soon. But remember you can always 0:18:20.560 --> 0:18:23.160 listen to any one of our second dates on YouTube 0:18:23.200 --> 0:18:26.640 because we've got hundreds of them up right now, so 0:18:26.960 --> 0:18:28.760 a lot of people are actually choosing to listen to 0:18:28.800 --> 0:18:30.960 our show that way. And remember you can always reach 0:18:31.000 --> 0:18:32.679 out to us if you have a date that you 0:18:32.720 --> 0:18:33.679 want us to get a hold of. 0:18:34.240 --> 0:18:36.600 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:40.560