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Speaker 1: Because two is officially better than one. Welcome to your

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Speaker 1: second date classes. I see what you did there. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's Brigg and Jeffrey in the morning. We're putting two

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Speaker 1: classics back to back for you so you can get

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Speaker 1: whatever you need to get done done today and just

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Speaker 1: have a little dose of second day on your Saturday

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Speaker 1: or the opposite. Don't do anything and just sit and

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Speaker 1: listen productive you know. Yeah, we don't judge you, all right,

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Speaker 1: just enjoy it starts right now.

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Speaker 2: I know. Whenever I'm traveling to spend time with my

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: How can I get out of spending time with my

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Speaker 1: We're already thinking about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and one of our listeners I think, had a

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Speaker 2: pretty good idea, invite a guy over to your family's

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Speaker 2: No okay, But unfortunately for her, that idea backfired spectacularly.

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Speaker 2: Oh and we're all going to find out what happened

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Speaker 2: when we do your second date update. Next second date

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Speaker 2: up date. You're going back home for the holidays can

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Speaker 2: be really fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm so exciting.

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Speaker 2: It can be great to reconnect with your siblings again,

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Speaker 2: your grandparents, relatives you haven't seen in a while. And

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Speaker 2: if you're really lucky, you might even see someone from

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Speaker 2: your past and have a little holiday Hookupsaily not your

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Speaker 1: When everybody goes out yet, didn't.

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Speaker 2: Your old pe coach reconnect and get the second base

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Speaker 2: or something?

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Speaker 1: No, he married, I think one of my other friends.

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Speaker 2: Oh too bad for you, Brooke, mister Chance. But one

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Speaker 2: of our listeners, Simone, reconnected with someone recently. Not a

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Speaker 2: And I'm curious about how it went down because she's

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Speaker 2: on the phone right now, Simone. So was this a

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was not a faculty member.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Honestly, I hooked up with more guys from my

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Speaker 1: high school. I was too dorky in high school. Nobody

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Speaker 2: Some are late and some skankers.

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Speaker 1: What we call it bloomers.

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Speaker 2: All right, as long as you get it done. So

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Speaker 2: someone who is this guy that you met up with?

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Speaker 3: So his name is Jack, and we reconnected over Facebook

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Speaker 3: because I had posted that I was coming home and

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Speaker 3: I was really excited to spend time with my family

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Speaker 3: and friends like the holidays, and I was trying to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like like a mini informal reunion almost. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And did you know that you wanted to hook

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: So that's the thing is that like it. This is

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Speaker 1: Okay, and got it.

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Speaker 3: He was one of the first people to comment on

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Speaker 3: this post. Oh, I was like, Oh, this would be great,

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Speaker 3: would love to catch up. And I was like catch up, Like,

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Speaker 1: Know some people who stay in the hometown that you're from. Yes,

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Speaker 5: Yes, what she's saying.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I will not miss an opportunity

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Speaker 1: So Okay, I got that good.

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Speaker 2: So what did you and Jack do when you met up?

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Speaker 3: Well, this is the thing. So we were texting for

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Speaker 3: Too, Yeah, I guess so I think maybe I don't

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Speaker 3: But he came to pick me up when I was fit.

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Speaker 1: It's not like he knew your family in high school.

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Speaker 3: Well, so we're all talking and we ended up like

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Speaker 2: I know, I know, let me go to the laundry

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like maybe he thought you guys were

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree. And the way we left it was

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Speaker 5: A complete ghost. It's not like he's stalling.

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Speaker 3: No, no, Like I just he just went radio silent,

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Speaker 1: Are you crushing on him? Still? Like you still like him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean especially too, like seeing how cool. He was

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Speaker 2: I did have a weird thought though, like, while he

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Speaker 3: No, I'm the only girl. I have two brothers.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's an option for him though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean there's a chance that someone could have

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Speaker 1: Probably some messed up family dynamics. If that's the case, it's.

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Speaker 2: Called the holidays broke.

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Speaker 4: Things happen.

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Speaker 2: But let's find out what really happened when we play

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Speaker 2: a song. Come back, call him and try and get

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you?

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Speaker 2: All right, hold on second date update. One of the

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Speaker 2: is if you really like someone, you do not introduce

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Or you could end up like Simone who was so

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Speaker 2: and look what happened. I mean, he ran away. Hasn't

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Speaker 5: They should have heard your advice first show.

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Speaker 1: Are we blaming the drunk dad? Is that where we're blaming?

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Speaker 2: Or no, we don't know who to blame.

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Speaker 5: That's where I'm leaning.

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Speaker 8: I think even though it's a joke, it's still very

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Speaker 1: It's such an old cliche joke.

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Speaker 2: Really, my gun, Yeah, Simon, do you wish that you

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, we know it's absolutely true the answer,

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I mean, or do you wish that your dad was funnier?

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Speaker 3: I mean he thinks he's funny, which is way worse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well we're going to try and get

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Speaker 2: you a second chance.

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Speaker 6: Here.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call Jack and find out which member of

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Speaker 2: your family is the one to blame. Or maybe it

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Speaker 7: I love.

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Speaker 5: We think it has to be the fame.

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's like the holiday edition of Clue.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, is it the mom in the kitchen with

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Speaker 1: the butcher knife or Colonel Father.

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Speaker 2: Let's get to the bottom of this. I'm gonna Dilla's

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Speaker 2: number right now here we go. Hello, I nose brush

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Speaker 2: the microphone. Hey is this Jack?

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Speaker 6: Yes, this is he.

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Speaker 1: You are all taking ready? I like Jack?

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Speaker 2: I know you see Jack. You're you're on the radio

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I seem alert because I answer business calls.

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Speaker 1: Uh this is kind of a business call. It's about

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Speaker 2: Ye, your personal business with an old friend of yours

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Speaker 2: reconnect with an old fling or an old date that

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Speaker 6: Okay, but I'm not old.

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Speaker 4: I'm not an old person.

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Speaker 1: Old people.

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Speaker 2: You answered a phone number that you didn't recognize that

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Speaker 1: So bald. Oh, Jack, I bet you're regretting it right now.

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Speaker 4: I was just, you know, I thought maybe something was

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Speaker 1: It's okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Look, we all make mistakes, and your mistake was

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Speaker 4: Know, I'm sorry to I'm sorry to interrupt you, but

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Speaker 4: I just now I don't think I want to do this, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Is it because it wasn't supposed to be a date

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Speaker 4: Like no, no, no, no, no no no. I'm definitely

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Speaker 6: Well I was.

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Speaker 2: Interested was I mean, look, I know you're hesitant on

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Speaker 2: I mean she had no intention of the night going

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Speaker 1: Yes, I mean she thought you. I mean, maybe she

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Speaker 4: WHOA, you guys know a lot about what happened.

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Speaker 1: Like date detectives.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's kind of weird.

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Speaker 2: We talked to some run She told us about what

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Speaker 4: No, No, it was just well it wasn't.

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Speaker 6: It was just an uncomfortable situation.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, she feels bad for that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well no, but just no, not not going in

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Speaker 6: Her family was great, nice and.

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Speaker 2: So great that maybe you hooked up with one of them.

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Speaker 4: What.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that was a theory that I had. I'm glad

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Speaker 4: No? No, it was not real. I did not I

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Speaker 4: did not see the emergency.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was pretty obvious. What made you run

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Speaker 4: So what made what made me need to leave is

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Speaker 4: as as we're talking, I look over and I see

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, she didn't mention anything about an ex boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: And then they broke up, Like, really do you send

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Speaker 4: Because I just felt like, in order to not just

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Speaker 1: I mean, well you just wanted to jump to conclusions.

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Speaker 8: I know you just took pictures recently.

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Speaker 2: I know you don't want to have that awkward conversation

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Speaker 6: What I'm hi, you've been listen in this whole time.

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Speaker 6: This is like, this is so awkward.

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Speaker 3: I know, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's kind of cool that you went to

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Speaker 4: But I just, you know, I just this is just

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Speaker 4: really bizarre. So who is the guy? Come on, tell me?

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Speaker 6: Are you seeing nobody? Are you in a relationship?

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Speaker 2: Because like, okay, hold on, Jack, you're asking like five

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Speaker 2: different questions. Let's just let's do one question at a time.

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Speaker 1: Who's the guy?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I was gonna start what kind of sweater are

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Speaker 2: you wearing right now? Because that I might ease his

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Speaker 3: First of all, I can't believe you even saw that card.

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Speaker 3: I I'm so mad at my mom right now.

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Speaker 2: Why are you dating that guy?

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Speaker 3: Not technically.

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Speaker 1: What your parents are wing wing Manny your side piece.

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Speaker 3: No, so listen, Okay, I'll be honest. That guy's is

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Speaker 3: We are not together. We hook up every once in

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Speaker 1: Not there's a gay, okay, but you promise you're not

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Speaker 1: exclusive with him? Oh, you're not exclusive and you send

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Speaker 1: Christmas cards out together? That seems yeah. Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: More of a joke because we would do it every year,

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Speaker 3: Because we both didn't want our families hassling us at

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Speaker 4: So I just I'm actually, I mean, Simon, I really

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Speaker 4: you know, still, even if it's not like you know,

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Speaker 4: you're not exclusive, you're still seeing him. I just I'm

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Speaker 3: So I just, well, that's the thing, is like I

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Speaker 3: am not invested in this guy. Like I said, it's

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Speaker 3: somebody that I dated, and it was just I didn't

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Speaker 3: you know, I'll call him later today and tell him

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Speaker 2: Really, Jack, is that something that you'd be into, because

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Speaker 2: if you're willing to see her again, then we'll pay

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Speaker 4: I have one question. Did you hook up with him

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Speaker 2: Be honest here, Simon, did it happen? And what sweater

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Speaker 3: It didn't happen over the holidays, but it has happened recently.

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Speaker 2: All Jack, I need an answer from you. What do

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Speaker 2: you think one more date with Simone? We'll pay for it?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so. Here's why.

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Speaker 1: It's a healthier why.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you could have told me that you

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Speaker 4: were getting out of a relationship.

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Speaker 3: And I just I can't we get here.

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Speaker 2: It's the holidays. Everybody's sad, we understand, Thank you freaking Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: In the morning, I was thinking, does that ever work

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Speaker 2: on our show? After the person says no, I'm not interested,

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Speaker 2: and they throw out one last ditch plea like hey

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Speaker 2: what if I break up with the other guy, will

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Speaker 2: you go out with me?

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Speaker 1: Then it's like hail Mary?

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Speaker 2: Or what if I get a butt lift?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Or hey what if I put my dog down because

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Speaker 2: you're allergic? My god, it's always n.

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Speaker 1: You made the boyfriend sound like the best option.

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Speaker 2: I just can't think of the time where that strategy

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Speaker 1: God, I just have this feeling that the guy on

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Speaker 1: the cards sweater boy doesn't know that they're not exclusive.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, because anyone else's always like that the other one

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Speaker 8: is always like, what, wait, I thought you.

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Speaker 5: Were my girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I sent out Christmas cards for.

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Speaker 2: Ye Yeah, how does it get more intimate than that?

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Speaker 2: But clearly we're not going to be doing any update

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Speaker 2: listen to any one of our second dates on YouTube

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Speaker 2: because we've got hundreds of them up right now, so

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Speaker 2: a lot of people are actually choosing to listen to

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Did you know that forty seven percent of adults say

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Speaker 2: dating is much harder today than it was just ten

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, that's a lot now.

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Speaker 2: It explains how Brooke was able to trick somebody into

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Speaker 2: I'm very, very lonely.

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Speaker 1: The odds that I'm going against Brook say that she's

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Speaker 1: more marriage material than what do you say?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just saying I'm shocked at what's happening. One

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Speaker 2: a decade now, and he's trying to wade back into

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Speaker 2: the slime pool of love.

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Speaker 1: Don't get slimy, and.

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Speaker 2: Already the first person that he went out with is

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Speaker 2: not responding. So we're going to hop into that slime

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Speaker 2: we do your second date update, next second date update.

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Speaker 2: When you date online, some people connect over shared interests

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Speaker 2: or hobbies. Other people connect because they're both freaking hot.

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Speaker 2: But one of our listeners, Thomas, says he connected with

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Speaker 2: a woman online over their joint sadness. Oh something like that. Okay,

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Speaker 2: let's suck to Thomas Thomas. Did you meet her on

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Speaker 2: tiarmatch dot com or was it the Kleenex club? Which

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Speaker 1: Oh that's cute. Well, that could go wrong.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not getting paid by any the services I use.

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Speaker 6: I'm not gonna give any free advertising. But we did

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's the sadness you speak of? My friend?

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Speaker 6: Well, you know how you can put like whether you're

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Speaker 6: and so I thought I would be honest since the

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, why wouldn't you normally do that?

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Speaker 6: Well, I would normally tell the truth, That's what I do.

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Speaker 6: But I think sometimes people don't want to scare somebody off,

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Speaker 6: you know, Yeah, it's I think it'd be a turnoff.

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Speaker 1: Like people are in the middle of something really messy,

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Speaker 1: like you just don't want to even swipe on them, like.

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Speaker 8: On Facebook when they're single, and people sometimes put it's complicated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's a mess.

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Speaker 5: You're obviously involved with somebody.

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Speaker 2: But some people think that's a turn on. There like

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Speaker 1: People you usually want to date.

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Speaker 2: Jeff well, I don't know. He says that he matched

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Speaker 2: with somebody that was separated too.

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Speaker 6: It sounds like, yes, her name is Celia and she

451
00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 6: also had separated on her profile O bab. Yeah, she

452
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 6: had a very nice smile. She had big curly hair.

453
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 6: I'm a sucker perfose, you know, I.

454
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 5: Didn't think that was coming.

455
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,119
Speaker 2: But awesome, Okay, that's good. The hair is also a

456
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:21,919
Speaker 2: very good feature.

457
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 1: I mean, that's it's a good start. Though I'm going

458
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,119
Speaker 1: to change the subjects real quick. It's a good start

459
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 1: that you guys are going through. I mean, I don't

460
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 1: know how similar it is, but a similar life experience.

461
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: So you're coming in with understanding and you probably don't

462
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 1: feel like you have to explain a lot, right, Sure, Well,

463
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:38,359
Speaker 1: I mean.

464
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Speaker 6: That's kind of like prefaces into why I'm calling y'all.

465
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Speaker 6: We went on a date and this was my first

466
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 6: first date since the you know, well, my BBX wife. Yeah,

467
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 6: and she's not a couple of guys like coffee or

468
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 6: something super casual, and so we you know, we went,

469
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 6: I got up by to eat.

470
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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, what were you feeling?

471
00:21:58,200 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 4: Like?

472
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Speaker 1: Slow down, because this is the first date out of

473
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: your marriage.

474
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 5: Let me guess. Hold on, I'm a psychic. You were nervous.

475
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 1: No, he could have been feeling excited.

476
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 8: Hold on, whatsychs is worth the money?

477
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:11,200
Speaker 5: Tell us?

478
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, I went all out. You know, I got dressed

479
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 6: in the nines like Jim Carrey and dumbit dummar a tuxpedo.

480
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 7: You know.

481
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 8: Okay, that doesn't sound nervous, no, of course, of course.

482
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, you never know. You've been out of the dating

483
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 1: game for a minute. Maybe you just didn't read the

484
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:28,959
Speaker 1: room right anymore.

485
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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I thought that was positive that, you know,

486
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 6: I got a first date out of messaging someone over

487
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 6: the Internet. So I mean that was you know, my

488
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,400
Speaker 6: uh start thought that was pretty cool.

489
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well how did it go when you showed up? Like,

490
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 2: how was how was Celia?

491
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 5: The vie?

492
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:49,200
Speaker 6: You know, aside from the usual kind of laughs and jokes,

493
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 6: the crack the thing that we definitely bonded over. I

494
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 6: would say like fifty percent of the date was our

495
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 6: situation that led us to being separated on you know,

496
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 6: both of us kind of talking about our personal life,

497
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 6: you know.

498
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 2: But that's good.

499
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 8: That's good because normally, if you're on a date with

500
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,679
Speaker 8: someone who's just single, they won't relate and you wouldn't

501
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 8: dare bring it up or you know, because you don't

502
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 8: want to hear about it. But if you're both going

503
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 8: through it, it's like, no, please, I need someone.

504
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 5: To talk to you about that.

505
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 2: I guess that is key. You both have it in

506
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 2: common so you can bond over it. Yeah, Is that

507
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:19,880
Speaker 2: is that how it went?

508
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 7: Yeah?

509
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 6: I mean there definitely wasn't a pity party for us.

510
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 6: It was like bonding. Yeah.

511
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 2: How many shots at tequila do you need in order

512
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 2: to get through that conversation?

513
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 6: But it's only like, I don't know, maybe one two.

514
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 6: Margarita's maybe.

515
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 5: Okay, that's good.

516
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 1: So what I mean were you able to flirt too, though,

517
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: because if you're talking a lot about you know, your

518
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: exes and things, I.

519
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 6: Mean we didn't. I mean, no one stayed the night

520
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 6: at anybody's house or anything like that. But like I said,

521
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 6: I cracked some folks. You know, I got some genuine laughs.

522
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 6: So you know I count that out of flirting.

523
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 1: Okay, why do you want to call her back? I mean,

524
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 1: maybe this was just your practice date right before you

525
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 1: you got a lot of I'm guessing time to make

526
00:23:58,680 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: up for right now?

527
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, why aren't you sleeping with everybody around town?

528
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: Why are you sticking to one person? I'm just saying, like,

529
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,640
Speaker 1: why why herd? Like, it's your first day.

530
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 6: Well, the first date I thought went well, so I'm

531
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 6: figuring that, you know, I might as well before I

532
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 6: go uh fishing to sea, as I might as well

533
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 6: make sure.

534
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 5: This one's off the book cut the line that was

535
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 5: differences and it doesn't matter the size of your worm.

536
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 5: By the way women love.

537
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: We didn't go to that. It's not true.

538
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 2: Well yeah, let's get back to the day. How did

539
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 2: the night end?

540
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 6: You know, like I said, no, we stay everybody's house.

541
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:43,360
Speaker 6: There was no making out or anything like that. Uh hug, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

542
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 6: there was a hug. But one thing that I think

543
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 6: is kind of concern that I would say is she

544
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 6: had mentioned that the reason of her separation was there

545
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 6: was cheating involved, and I could see how she did

546
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 6: not want you put out any kind of vulnerability, like,

547
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 6: you know, to get herself for like like I'm trying

548
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 6: to be a player, which I'm not, you know, like

549
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,959
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to be. My intention was to get

550
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 6: over and go on a second date.

551
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: And did you guys make any like future plans. I

552
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: always think that's a good sign on a date.

553
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, well we didn't nail I mean we didn't nail

554
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 6: down like hey, let's go miniature golfing, you know tomorrow.

555
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 6: We didn't do anything like that. It was like a

556
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 6: hug at the end of the night, and it was

557
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 6: I was like, make sure you get home safe and

558
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 6: then I'll see what you want to do. You know,

559
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 6: I'll hit you.

560
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 5: So how was the hug.

561
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Speaker 8: Was it like a quick hug or was it like

562
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 8: a sensual long she smelled your hair.

563
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 2: Kind of like you don't have to answer that if

564
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 2: you don't want to me.

565
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: You just smelled people's hair on the first day ever.

566
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Speaker 6: Just it was just a nice hug, right, it was

567
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 6: just I think it's a the standard end of the night.

568
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:46,719
Speaker 8: You didn't like, rub your hands up and down.

569
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 2: Details needed. I think you're just gonna play a song.

570
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 2: We'll come back, We'll call Celia for you and try

571
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 2: and get your second date update.

572
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 6: All right, thank you?

573
00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 2: All right, hold on man, okay. Indeed, stepping back on

574
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 2: the dating scene, if they're going through a failed marriage,

575
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying things are probably different than the first time around.

576
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: This is not what you tell your friends if they

577
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: ever call you.

578
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 2: I'm trying to paint the scene like the people are older,

579
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 2: the drinks hit you harder, and the hugs are standard,

580
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 2: nothing more, nothing less. No one's smelling anybody's hair. Well,

581
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 2: that's what happened with one of our listeners, Thomas, who's

582
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 2: currently going through a separation himself, and so was his

583
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 2: date Celia. So naturally they talked a lot about their

584
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 2: situations and they were very open and vulnerable with each other,

585
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 2: which Thomas took as a good sign. But now Celia

586
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 2: is not responding to him, which Thomas is taking as

587
00:26:54,640 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 2: a bad sign. Way changed in that sense something never Yeah,

588
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 2: but Thomas, how you feeling?

589
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 6: Man? You guys gave it quite the lead up, no pressure,

590
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 6: second guests of myself not No.

591
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 5: We can keep that music going the whole time. It helps.

592
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 1: Do you know what we never asked you is have

593
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 1: you tried to get a hold of her?

594
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 6: I reached out to her, Yes, but I did not

595
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 6: receive any communication back. And I mean, I'm calling up

596
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 6: you guys because I feel like it went well and

597
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 6: so I'm trying to figure out what I do wrong.

598
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: Folks, just brace yourself here. Because you're new to dating,

599
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: you may hear some things you don't want to hear.

600
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that you're not good at it.

601
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: Okay, And as Brooke would say, there's a whole city

602
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 2: of people to sleep.

603
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 1: With, and you should exactly actually exactly what I would condone.

604
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: So let's give Celia callin. We'll see if she answers

605
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 2: and what she has to say. Let's do this. Here

606
00:27:49,320 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 2: we go. Hello, is it Celia?

607
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 7: Yeah?

608
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 2: I was really excited there, Celia. I wasn't sure if

609
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: you're going to answer. Hey, we're Brook and Jeffrey in

610
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 2: the morning from the radio.

611
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 6: Hey.

612
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 5: Cool, Now she's not answering.

613
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: Who was second to process. This is probably a lot, right, Yeah.

614
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 6: I don't who is it.

615
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're so we're a morning radio show. We're called

616
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're hoping that

617
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 2: you'll be a part of a segment with us here

618
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 2: called a second date update.

619
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Speaker 7: Oh no, thank you, that's okay, No, no.

620
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: No, no, Celia, it's not a bad thing.

621
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 2: We're actually calling on behalf of one of our listeners

622
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: who you went out on a date with a very

623
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 2: hot date. Sounded like his name's Thomas.

624
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, okay.

625
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,959
Speaker 1: Oh that didn't sound Oh that didn't sound good. Thomas.

626
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: I think is clueless because that was not a good

627
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: response about Thomas.

628
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 7: I mean, like, we had a really nice dinner and

629
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 7: I was hopeful, but we kind of got into a

630
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 7: personal conversation about our situations, our separations, our marriages and

631
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 7: that sort of thing. It was a big red flag

632
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 7: for me that kind of popped up.

633
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 2: So are you saying just you guys discussing the marital

634
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: situations was a red flag or something specifically about the conversation.

635
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:28,959
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was more. It was more specific. It was

636
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 7: like I told him like, basically, my situation ended because

637
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 7: of cheating, and I was the cheater. I was unfaithful.

638
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, So he didn't share a lot of your

639
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,959
Speaker 1: your story at all. He just said that there was

640
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: like that's why your marriage ended. He did, we just

641
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: assumed that it was your ex But okay, that's fine.

642
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: What was a red flag about that?

643
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 7: Well, for me, the red flag was like he acted

644
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 7: really weird, like it was just normal and he was

645
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 7: understanding and like trying to make excuses for me, and

646
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,479
Speaker 7: I'm thinking, and this guy is kind of weak.

647
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 2: What what do you mean he was.

648
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 7: Making excuses for you, Like, oh, well, I guess he

649
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 7: wasn't paying you attention or you know, he wanted.

650
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: Him to be mean to you and said, You're.

651
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 7: Like, it's more like I just laid what I had

652
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 7: out there on the table, and his reaction was just

653
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 7: a little too normal for me, Like I told him

654
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 7: the real like listen, I cheated and he was just like, oh,

655
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 7: that's okay, Okay.

656
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: Well maybe he cheated in his relationship too, I mean,

657
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: or he's just awkward and doesn't know what to say

658
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: there because he doesn't want to insult his date.

659
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 2: He liked you, well, what did you want to hear

660
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 2: from him? What would have been a good response in

661
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 2: your mind?

662
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 7: I wanted him to be disgusted by it because I

663
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 7: think it's really horrible what I did it.

664
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe he was.

665
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 2: Like inside, I sure he felt that way, but he

666
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 2: didn't want to say to you on a first date

667
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 2: in you disgust me.

668
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: Relationships are like really complicated, and you know, sometimes it's

669
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: doesn't I'm just saying, maybe he's just being an understanding

670
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: person and trying to be empathetic to what you were

671
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Speaker 1: going through.

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Speaker 7: Sounds like maybe you should go out with him. You

673
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Speaker 7: guys are both understanding to understand.

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Speaker 2: Well, if you're playing the statistics, chances are she already

675
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 2: has so cheated.

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Speaker 1: All I'm saying is like this guy, like he doesn't

677
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: attack you for being really vulnerable and really honest, because

678
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Speaker 1: that's probably a hard thing to share with people. I

679
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: would imagine you're.

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00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 7: Not listening to me.

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00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 3: I deserved it. Like he didn't even anything.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I see what you're saying, Like he's siding with

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Speaker 2: the person who cheated rather than siding with the person

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Speaker 2: who got cheated off.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, not even questioning it, like got you.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he could yell at you now, yeah, because this

687
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 2: would be a great chance for him to lay into you,

688
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: because he's actually on the other line listening.

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Speaker 7: Absolutely, I think I've had enough.

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Speaker 2: No, no, you understand he's already there listening right now

691
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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: All right, So let me get this straight. You wanted

694
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Speaker 6: me to be like doctor Phil or Steve Harvey or something.

695
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 6: It just lace into you. How does that make sense

696
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Speaker 6: on a first date?

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Speaker 7: First of all, I didn't even know you were on

698
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Speaker 7: the line. Secondly, I goasted you for a reason and

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Speaker 7: I really don't even want to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Oh is this the vibe you got Thomas when you

701
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Speaker 1: guys were out?

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00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 6: Nothing like this. This is like Medusa head. I don't

703
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 6: know who this woman is.

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Speaker 7: I'm just being honest with you. I feel like you

705
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 7: could have at least questioned why I did it? Like

706
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 7: I need someone to hold me accountable for all.

707
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Speaker 6: Right, you want some criticism? Are you go my nails?

708
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 6: My nails look good? Yeah? Your nails don't look goodils.

709
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Speaker 1: Do cost a lot? Don't suck?

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Speaker 7: You didn't go there? Did you like? My nails look amazing?

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Speaker 2: Okay? I think he's just trying to give you what

712
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Speaker 2: you want there, Celia.

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Speaker 1: He's not reading what she wants very well, though, I mean,

714
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Speaker 1: I will give her that.

715
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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if I'm reading exactly what she wants.

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00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: It sounds like you want to be punished next time.

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Speaker 5: Bring an iron fist to the date and put the

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Speaker 5: hammer down.

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Speaker 1: This is why he should have practiced dating more. Hunt

720
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Speaker 1: have called the first person. A lot of people out

721
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Speaker 1: till you find you right now.

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Speaker 2: But he could sleep around with other people and cheat

723
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Speaker 2: on Celia and then we could send them out on

724
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Speaker 2: a second date.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think that's what she wants either.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I could ask Celia, would you be

727
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Speaker 2: interested in that? Would you like to go out one

728
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Speaker 2: more time?

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Speaker 7: I'm good with him. I thought I made that clear.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you did, you did. You're very clear.

731
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Speaker 2: It's just my job to ask.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. I don't know if Thomas is upset about

733
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: that though.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm said about how this went, especially considering she's

735
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Speaker 6: out of her mind.

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Speaker 2: Now you're talking the way that she likes.

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Speaker 6: Well, I really appreciate you guys having me on. But

738
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Speaker 6: if I learned anything from this, it don't date anyone

739
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Speaker 6: who says separated in a profile.

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Speaker 1: I guess broking Jeffrey in the morning.

741
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Speaker 2: Man. People have been saying forever that dating today is hard. Yeah,

742
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Speaker 2: I think it's time after that call to start saying

743
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 2: dating is impossible because even if you're trying to be

744
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 2: understanding and see the other person's perspective, give them the

745
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 2: benefit of the doubt, that scene as a weakness and

746
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 2: they don't like you for it. And that's why this

747
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 2: ended with no date at the end.

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Speaker 8: Anybody out there who's single, including myself, let's just all

749
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Speaker 8: give up.

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Speaker 2: That's a winning at.

751
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 4: Learn.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

753
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: Oh man, that's so sad.

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00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 5: Okay, I just hate to die alone.

755
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Speaker 1: You will find your love. You don't have to base

756
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: it off this lady. This lady was a little out there,

757
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: and I think what it does say is that even

758
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: if you were the cheater, there are people who will

759
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 1: forgive you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That guy was really nice.

762
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Speaker 5: To forgiving and that was the problem.

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Speaker 1: You see, you wouldn't date him either.

764
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Speaker 2: I could see why she hated you, though, Brook got.

765
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Speaker 6: Sappy.

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Speaker 2: My god, but you know.

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Speaker 6: It.

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Speaker 2: But no, Look, we do want to help connect you

769
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Speaker 2: if you still do believe in love out there, and

770
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 2: if you do, you can always email the show. We'll

771
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 2: call the person who wasn't calling you back