WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Target Date

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<v Speaker 1>Frooking jewels. Second date update. The girl on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update. Today spent her first

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<v Speaker 1>date in my own personal hell, oh, chucky cheese. No

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<v Speaker 1>worse than that for me. Really, They spend an afternoon

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<v Speaker 1>together at Target. I love Target, you know you do.

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<v Speaker 1>But as a guy who've had many girlfriends who like

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<v Speaker 1>to wake him up Sunday morning when he's hung over

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<v Speaker 1>and go, let's go to Target and walk around for

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<v Speaker 1>a while, it hurts me to my core to have

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about this. Her name is Lucia. She's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now, and apparently, yeah, for her first date,

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<v Speaker 1>her and this guy went to Target. Lucia, how you doing,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you? Oh? My god? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>like go on your date and then come back with

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<v Speaker 1>the best curtains and that candle that you didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that you needed when you love Target? No, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. That's why it takes seventeen hours to go there.

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<v Speaker 1>We have such good stuff, Lucia, How does one go

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date to Target? Anyway? Well, in my situation,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy's name is Terrence. I met him at a

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<v Speaker 1>work function and he asked me out, and I said yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So I waited a few days and hit him up

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<v Speaker 1>and said, hey, I'm going to Target. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to come? And he said he Yet, that's impressive because

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<v Speaker 1>you decide like, ah, you know, I'm super busy today.

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<v Speaker 1>May we go to dinner or something sometime? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, dinner, you know, pressure, it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner and it's like then you gotta think what

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to talk about, and he's the whole thing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>how was the date at Target? I thought the date

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<v Speaker 1>went really really well. We had a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We looked at quote, and then I suggested that we

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<v Speaker 1>go to the movies, which was next door. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So then you turned it into like a legit date.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't just go shopping for a half hour. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys did the movie too. Well, that's what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I invite a guy to Target. If I like enough,

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<v Speaker 1>then you know we'll continue after a Target, go see

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<v Speaker 1>a movie. You said, this is what I do. Does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean you take all of your dates to Target? Yes, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard of anybody taking a date to Target. Ever. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're dating someone, you're trying to find out what

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<v Speaker 1>you have in common. And when you go to a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant it takes about hour. It takes much longer. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you go to Target, you can figure that out

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<v Speaker 1>like fifteen minutes. I guess. Yeah. You could tell what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff they want to see, where they want

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<v Speaker 1>to shop, what kind of clothes they like. You do

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<v Speaker 1>all that. That's what I'm telling you. I think it's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>If someone doesn't like Target, then you know right away

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<v Speaker 1>it's not going to work. I will say, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of opportunity for good conversation starters, right exactly? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you see things that stark your interest? Hey? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have this in your house? Hey? Oh funny, Sorry I

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<v Speaker 1>burnt something on using that iron? You know. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>people some people meet at Starbucks to see if the

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<v Speaker 1>conversations over coffee, you just like to do it over

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<v Speaker 1>Massimo or whatever. So did you guys end him going

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<v Speaker 1>to the movie? No, he said that he has to

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<v Speaker 1>go because he didn't have any time. Oh so he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't feeling it. Then, Well I believed him, But then

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<v Speaker 1>when I hit him up a few days later, he

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<v Speaker 1>never responded. So he hasn't said anything to you since

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<v Speaker 1>your Target experience. No, did he seem bored or did

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<v Speaker 1>he seem fully engaged in having fun? I know when

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<v Speaker 1>we got to the DVD section, we had a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of laughs there. I don't know, I was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>all the different kinds of movies you've seen. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was a good date. Do you think he

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was a date or he was just hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with his new friend at Target? Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. He asked me out, so I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he knew it was a date. Yeah, But did

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<v Speaker 1>he ask you out to go somewhere and then you

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<v Speaker 1>just texted him and we're like, I'm about to go

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<v Speaker 1>to Target in an hour. You want to join me? Yes? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't because if I were him, I'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't really want to date me, she just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of wants to be friends or something. But then he'd

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<v Speaker 1>still say yes to the movie at the end, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, not necessarily, because I might think, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this my buddy, and now she wants to go

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<v Speaker 1>see a movie and we're gonna sit there and share popcorn,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not even share popcorn. So you think that he

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that I just want to be friends. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, what possibility is that could be one

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<v Speaker 1>of the reasons why he's not calling you back. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I made it clear on my text messages that I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with him again, so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know how that would be the case. Okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>he said nothing back to you at all. Nothing. How

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<v Speaker 1>many times have you try to get a hold of him.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't want to, you know, stock him

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<v Speaker 1>and scare him off, but I mean a few times. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. All right, Okay, thank you, looking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. We are actually learning something from

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update, and that's that dating has changed.

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<v Speaker 1>No longer is it dinner. You should take your first

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<v Speaker 1>date to a department store. That's right. You just walk

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<v Speaker 1>around a place like Target, and you take him over

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<v Speaker 1>to the home furnishing sections and go, oh, look some

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<v Speaker 1>Martha Stewart collection towels. What do you think about those?

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<v Speaker 1>And then you see if they have similar interests. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what Lucia did on her first date, and apparently that's

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<v Speaker 1>what she's been doing for a lot of her first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>When a guy wants to go out with her. She'll

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<v Speaker 1>hit him up and be like, Hey, I'm going to Target.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to come with me? And if they seem

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<v Speaker 1>like they have a lot in common and they like

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<v Speaker 1>the same things at Target, then she'll be like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go to the movies or something after and continue the date.

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<v Speaker 1>If not, then she just splits and goes like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that guy's a jerk. And her most recent target date

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<v Speaker 1>is a guy named Terence that she met at a

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<v Speaker 1>work function. They went and hung out at Target. She

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<v Speaker 1>really liked him. She invited him to the movies after

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<v Speaker 1>he said, oh, I gotta go, and he hasn't talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her ever since. All right, Lucia, are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to call him and see why he's not getting back

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I'm ready, Lucia. Could I ask you what's

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<v Speaker 1>your success rate with the target test? Well, that's how

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<v Speaker 1>I met my last boyfriend. Okay, all right, Well I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to dial Terrence's phone number. See if we get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone and find out why he's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. Okay, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Terrence? Please? Is it Terrence? Hey Terrence?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Sorry from what Brooke and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why are you calling me. I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>you because you recently went out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners and they're wondering why you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling them back. So you're doing a show about it. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a segment we do on our show called the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. You recently went on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named luc Yeah. Okay, Well, Lucia emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>and told us about your little Target experience, and she

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<v Speaker 1>says that she's asked you out a few times after that,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just aren't responding to herself. She's wondering if

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't want to see her again, or she did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong on your date. Well, I mean you call

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<v Speaker 1>a date like walking around Target and like shopping, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like getting the stuff. By the way, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to point out I told her how weird it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>to take somebody on a date to Target. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't like a person, why are you going

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<v Speaker 1>to agree to go hang out with him at Target?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you liked her at the beginning of this, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean yeah, and she's like cool and she's really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, which is like, I mean, I'm like a

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<v Speaker 1>really simple dude. I'm you know, I'm down to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out at Target. I just didn't really know what was

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<v Speaker 1>what the deal was. You know, we're like walking around.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like shopping, you know, like She've got like a

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<v Speaker 1>towel set and toothpaste and like toilet paste, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like she's like shopping, right, Okay, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>like some Twizzlers because I love Twizzlers and they have

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<v Speaker 1>them there, which is great. They have everything totally. But

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<v Speaker 1>We're like in the checkout line, right and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>behind her and she's running all her stuff and it

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<v Speaker 1>comes out to like ninety six dollars. The checkout person

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<v Speaker 1>who like tells her the total, and she turns and

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<v Speaker 1>looks at me and she says, are you gonna get this? Nah?

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<v Speaker 1>She had you buy her stuff at Target. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do. What did you do? I paid

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<v Speaker 1>for it? You paid for her stuff at Target? I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I was like what, I didn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>we wrote a date, I didn't like I thought maybe

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she's gonna give me cash, you know, like she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have any or like pay me, like say I'll

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<v Speaker 1>write you a check or I'll pay like when shes okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So when she turned to you and said are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna pay for this? What was your first reaction to her?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I would have laughed and been like no, I

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<v Speaker 1>just like we're in line, you know, it's there are

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<v Speaker 1>people behind us. So I kind of just panicked and

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<v Speaker 1>I gave the checkout lady my card and she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>offer to reimburse you at any point, like I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>my credit card, I'll pay you back later type of situation.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if she said thank you really,

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<v Speaker 1>So you feel like she used you to buy her

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<v Speaker 1>groceries or something. I don't feel like she used me.

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<v Speaker 1>She totally used honestly, Like if that's how she is,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a pretty cheap lesson, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad that I learned it at the start. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she says she really likes you. That's the thing. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you like me if I bought you your grocery? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you're right. I would. I would really appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you should you and I should hang out sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>as you like doing that for people, Jarence. So I

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<v Speaker 1>also need to let you know that Lucia is actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening to this conversation. No way, yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Hey, I'm so confused. What's going on right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand anything. What are you confused about? You

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<v Speaker 1>may need to buy your groceries. Well, I thought we

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<v Speaker 1>were on a date and you were a gentleman, and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody knows on a first date the gentleman taste. Are

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<v Speaker 1>they pay, Lucia, They don't normally pay for your groceries

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<v Speaker 1>at Target? Yes they do. That's how I found my

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<v Speaker 1>last boyfriend, and other guys don't seem to have a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>It just sounds like you're using men to just pay

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<v Speaker 1>for your lifestyle. No, it was a first date. He

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<v Speaker 1>should have paid, you know, he would have paid the

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<v Speaker 1>same amount for dinner. We just got toweled and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing on a on a date, like you both do

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<v Speaker 1>something together, like you and you both have is we

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<v Speaker 1>did and this is different because I'm just buying yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. We spend time together like that was part

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<v Speaker 1>of the date. We have fun together. We spent time

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you do. And I shared stories with you,

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<v Speaker 1>see sharing, I sharing, and the guy pays on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Are you joking with this? Right now? Look?

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<v Speaker 1>I have taken plenty of guys to Target and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't seem to have an issue. Well, they don't have

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<v Speaker 1>an issue because you probably never hear from them again. No,

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<v Speaker 1>they're just different. You're cheap and they're not. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I'm up against. No, No, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm what I'm This is what happens. This is

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<v Speaker 1>what has worked for me in the past. And I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I genuinely thought he was a nice guy. Okay, Natalie,

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<v Speaker 1>I was wrong. Yeah. Not only that, but you're the

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<v Speaker 1>one that asked him out. So even if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were going to dinner, you should have been the one paid.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's kind of the general rule. Right. Well, No,

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<v Speaker 1>technically he asked me out on the first date, okay, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and then happen to be going to Target and you

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<v Speaker 1>made that date Target, and you thought he should have

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<v Speaker 1>been a gentleman and paid for your first date at

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<v Speaker 1>Target exactly. So I'm completely innocent in all this. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was the first date. He should have paid yea, Lucia. Lucia,

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<v Speaker 1>you're exactly right, and I'm sorry that he's overreacting about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, you're welcome, and I'm sorry she's going to

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<v Speaker 1>take you seriously. She should take me seriously, Lucia. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he is right, Lucia, But would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again? Though? We'll pay for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date wherever you want to go Walmart. Even before I

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<v Speaker 1>would have said yes, but not now. Really, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested in going out with someone who doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>proper etiquette for our first seat. And I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>completely justified, Lucia. Okay, thank you, you're welcome. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out with him, but you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean for participating. I wouldn't mind to gift cards.

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<v Speaker 1>You want the dinner even though you're not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>second day. Well, this has been very stressful, it has been, Lucia. No, Lucia,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, this has been stressful for you. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sorry, Terrice,

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<v Speaker 1>but you were he was. So you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put you on hold and then I'm gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>you a bunch of gift cards. Okay, yeah, you're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang on the phone. Okay, okay, love you guys too. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you are not aking thing better that nothing. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to do more second day updates with her. I

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<v Speaker 1>know we're going to get more. Text in at seven, eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five nine two says thanks a lot. I just punched

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<v Speaker 1>my radio. I think I may have broken my hand.

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<v Speaker 1>A smart move. Talking about the second date update in

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<v Speaker 1>case you missed it, Lucia wanted to call a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Terence. They went out on a date to Target,

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<v Speaker 1>of all places, and she made him pay for everything

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<v Speaker 1>that she wanted from Target. She's smart though. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a cute date, but I would like someone to take

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<v Speaker 1>me on a date to Target. Yeah. She basically thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hey, we were going on a date. You're

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<v Speaker 1>the guy you're supposed to pay. Just pay for all

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<v Speaker 1>my stuff at Target. She pretty much just used him

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a Target trip. Yeah, that's so interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>and wanted to go out with him again, probably so

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<v Speaker 1>he could buy more things at Target or maybe head

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<v Speaker 1>on over to Walmart. Who knows, probably left some stuff

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<v Speaker 1>off her list, and he decided not to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with her again. Surprisingly, everybody on the text message board

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eight five nine two hates this woman from

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<v Speaker 1>today second date update. I don't know. I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was a beauty, full story. You remember. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day update, all you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do is email the show and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back