Speaker 1: Frooking jewels. Second date update. The girl on the phone
Speaker 1: to do a second date update. Today spent her first
Speaker 1: date in my own personal hell, oh, chucky cheese. No
Speaker 1: worse than that for me. Really, They spend an afternoon
Speaker 1: together at Target. I love Target, you know you do.
Speaker 1: But as a guy who've had many girlfriends who like
Speaker 1: to wake him up Sunday morning when he's hung over
Speaker 1: and go, let's go to Target and walk around for
Speaker 1: a while, it hurts me to my core to have
Speaker 1: to talk about this. Her name is Lucia. She's on
Speaker 1: the phone right now, and apparently, yeah, for her first date,
Speaker 1: her and this guy went to Target. Lucia, how you doing,
Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you? Oh? My god? Did you
Speaker 1: like go on your date and then come back with
Speaker 1: the best curtains and that candle that you didn't know
Speaker 1: that you needed when you love Target? No, that's not
Speaker 1: what happened. That's why it takes seventeen hours to go there.
Speaker 1: We have such good stuff, Lucia, How does one go
Speaker 1: on a first date to Target? Anyway? Well, in my situation,
Speaker 1: the guy's name is Terrence. I met him at a
Speaker 1: work function and he asked me out, and I said yes.
Speaker 1: So I waited a few days and hit him up
Speaker 1: and said, hey, I'm going to Target. Do you want
Speaker 1: to come? And he said he Yet, that's impressive because
Speaker 1: you decide like, ah, you know, I'm super busy today.
Speaker 1: May we go to dinner or something sometime? Well, I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, dinner, you know, pressure, it comes
Speaker 1: to dinner and it's like then you gotta think what
Speaker 1: you're going to talk about, and he's the whole thing. Well,
Speaker 1: how was the date at Target? I thought the date
Speaker 1: went really really well. We had a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: We looked at quote, and then I suggested that we
Speaker 1: go to the movies, which was next door. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: So then you turned it into like a legit date.
Speaker 1: You didn't just go shopping for a half hour. You
Speaker 1: guys did the movie too. Well, that's what I do.
Speaker 1: I invite a guy to Target. If I like enough,
Speaker 1: then you know we'll continue after a Target, go see
Speaker 1: a movie. You said, this is what I do. Does
Speaker 1: that mean you take all of your dates to Target? Yes, Well,
Speaker 1: I've never heard of anybody taking a date to Target. Ever. Well,
Speaker 1: when you're dating someone, you're trying to find out what
Speaker 1: you have in common. And when you go to a
Speaker 1: restaurant it takes about hour. It takes much longer. So
Speaker 1: if you go to Target, you can figure that out
Speaker 1: like fifteen minutes. I guess. Yeah. You could tell what
Speaker 1: kind of stuff they want to see, where they want
Speaker 1: to shop, what kind of clothes they like. You do
Speaker 1: all that. That's what I'm telling you. I think it's awesome.
Speaker 1: If someone doesn't like Target, then you know right away
Speaker 1: it's not going to work. I will say, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of opportunity for good conversation starters, right exactly? Do
Speaker 1: you see things that stark your interest? Hey? Do you
Speaker 1: have this in your house? Hey? Oh funny, Sorry I
Speaker 1: burnt something on using that iron? You know. I mean
Speaker 1: people some people meet at Starbucks to see if the
Speaker 1: conversations over coffee, you just like to do it over
Speaker 1: Massimo or whatever. So did you guys end him going
Speaker 1: to the movie? No, he said that he has to
Speaker 1: go because he didn't have any time. Oh so he
Speaker 1: wasn't feeling it. Then, Well I believed him, But then
Speaker 1: when I hit him up a few days later, he
Speaker 1: never responded. So he hasn't said anything to you since
Speaker 1: your Target experience. No, did he seem bored or did
Speaker 1: he seem fully engaged in having fun? I know when
Speaker 1: we got to the DVD section, we had a bunch
Speaker 1: of laughs there. I don't know, I was talking about
Speaker 1: all the different kinds of movies you've seen. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: thought it was a good date. Do you think he
Speaker 1: thought it was a date or he was just hanging
Speaker 1: out with his new friend at Target? Well, I mean,
Speaker 1: here's the thing. He asked me out, so I feel
Speaker 1: like he knew it was a date. Yeah, But did
Speaker 1: he ask you out to go somewhere and then you
Speaker 1: just texted him and we're like, I'm about to go
Speaker 1: to Target in an hour. You want to join me? Yes? Okay,
Speaker 1: that doesn't because if I were him, I'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: she doesn't really want to date me, she just sort
Speaker 1: of wants to be friends or something. But then he'd
Speaker 1: still say yes to the movie at the end, right,
Speaker 1: I don't know, not necessarily, because I might think, Hey,
Speaker 1: is this my buddy, and now she wants to go
Speaker 1: see a movie and we're gonna sit there and share popcorn,
Speaker 1: maybe not even share popcorn. So you think that he
Speaker 1: thinks that I just want to be friends. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, what possibility is that could be one
Speaker 1: of the reasons why he's not calling you back. Well,
Speaker 1: I made it clear on my text messages that I'd
Speaker 1: like to go out with him again, so I don't
Speaker 1: really know how that would be the case. Okay, And
Speaker 1: he said nothing back to you at all. Nothing. How
Speaker 1: many times have you try to get a hold of him.
Speaker 1: I mean I don't want to, you know, stock him
Speaker 1: and scare him off, but I mean a few times. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, Okay, thank you, looking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. We are actually learning something from
Speaker 1: today's second date update, and that's that dating has changed.
Speaker 1: No longer is it dinner. You should take your first
Speaker 1: date to a department store. That's right. You just walk
Speaker 1: around a place like Target, and you take him over
Speaker 1: to the home furnishing sections and go, oh, look some
Speaker 1: Martha Stewart collection towels. What do you think about those?
Speaker 1: And then you see if they have similar interests. That's
Speaker 1: what Lucia did on her first date, and apparently that's
Speaker 1: what she's been doing for a lot of her first dates.
Speaker 1: When a guy wants to go out with her. She'll
Speaker 1: hit him up and be like, Hey, I'm going to Target.
Speaker 1: They want to come with me? And if they seem
Speaker 1: like they have a lot in common and they like
Speaker 1: the same things at Target, then she'll be like, let's
Speaker 1: go to the movies or something after and continue the date.
Speaker 1: If not, then she just splits and goes like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that guy's a jerk. And her most recent target date
Speaker 1: is a guy named Terence that she met at a
Speaker 1: work function. They went and hung out at Target. She
Speaker 1: really liked him. She invited him to the movies after
Speaker 1: he said, oh, I gotta go, and he hasn't talked
Speaker 1: to her ever since. All right, Lucia, are you ready
Speaker 1: to call him and see why he's not getting back
Speaker 1: to you. I'm ready, Lucia. Could I ask you what's
Speaker 1: your success rate with the target test? Well, that's how
Speaker 1: I met my last boyfriend. Okay, all right, Well I'm
Speaker 1: about to dial Terrence's phone number. See if we get
Speaker 1: him on the phone and find out why he's not
Speaker 1: calling you back. Okay, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Terrence? Please? Is it Terrence? Hey Terrence?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Sorry from what Brooke and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, how you doing.
Speaker 1: I don't understand why are you calling me. I'm calling
Speaker 1: you because you recently went out on a date with
Speaker 1: one of our listeners and they're wondering why you're not
Speaker 1: calling them back. So you're doing a show about it. Yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: it's a segment we do on our show called the
Speaker 1: Second Date Update. You recently went on a date with
Speaker 1: a girl named luc Yeah. Okay, Well, Lucia emailed us
Speaker 1: and told us about your little Target experience, and she
Speaker 1: says that she's asked you out a few times after that,
Speaker 1: and you just aren't responding to herself. She's wondering if
Speaker 1: you didn't want to see her again, or she did
Speaker 1: something wrong on your date. Well, I mean you call
Speaker 1: a date like walking around Target and like shopping, you know,
Speaker 1: just like getting the stuff. By the way, I want
Speaker 1: to point out I told her how weird it sounds
Speaker 1: to take somebody on a date to Target. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: if you don't like a person, why are you going
Speaker 1: to agree to go hang out with him at Target?
Speaker 1: Like you liked her at the beginning of this, Well,
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, and she's like cool and she's really cute,
Speaker 1: you know, which is like, I mean, I'm like a
Speaker 1: really simple dude. I'm you know, I'm down to hang
Speaker 1: out at Target. I just didn't really know what was
Speaker 1: what the deal was. You know, we're like walking around.
Speaker 1: She's like shopping, you know, like She've got like a
Speaker 1: towel set and toothpaste and like toilet paste, you know,
Speaker 1: just like she's like shopping, right, Okay, and I got
Speaker 1: like some Twizzlers because I love Twizzlers and they have
Speaker 1: them there, which is great. They have everything totally. But
Speaker 1: We're like in the checkout line, right and I'm like
Speaker 1: behind her and she's running all her stuff and it
Speaker 1: comes out to like ninety six dollars. The checkout person
Speaker 1: who like tells her the total, and she turns and
Speaker 1: looks at me and she says, are you gonna get this? Nah?
Speaker 1: She had you buy her stuff at Target. I didn't
Speaker 1: know what to do. What did you do? I paid
Speaker 1: for it? You paid for her stuff at Target? I mean, well,
Speaker 1: I don't. I was like what, I didn't know if
Speaker 1: we wrote a date, I didn't like I thought maybe
Speaker 1: maybe she's gonna give me cash, you know, like she
Speaker 1: didn't have any or like pay me, like say I'll
Speaker 1: write you a check or I'll pay like when shes okay.
Speaker 1: So when she turned to you and said are you
Speaker 1: gonna pay for this? What was your first reaction to her?
Speaker 1: Because I would have laughed and been like no, I
Speaker 1: just like we're in line, you know, it's there are
Speaker 1: people behind us. So I kind of just panicked and
Speaker 1: I gave the checkout lady my card and she didn't
Speaker 1: offer to reimburse you at any point, like I forgot
Speaker 1: my credit card, I'll pay you back later type of situation.
Speaker 1: I don't even know if she said thank you really,
Speaker 1: So you feel like she used you to buy her
Speaker 1: groceries or something. I don't feel like she used me.
Speaker 1: She totally used honestly, Like if that's how she is,
Speaker 1: it was a pretty cheap lesson, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I'm glad that I learned it at the start. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she says she really likes you. That's the thing. Would
Speaker 1: you like me if I bought you your grocery? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess you're right. I would. I would really appreciate that.
Speaker 1: Maybe you should you and I should hang out sometimes,
Speaker 1: as you like doing that for people, Jarence. So I
Speaker 1: also need to let you know that Lucia is actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening to this conversation. No way, yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: I am. Hey, I'm so confused. What's going on right now?
Speaker 1: I don't understand anything. What are you confused about? You
Speaker 1: may need to buy your groceries. Well, I thought we
Speaker 1: were on a date and you were a gentleman, and
Speaker 1: everybody knows on a first date the gentleman taste. Are
Speaker 1: they pay, Lucia, They don't normally pay for your groceries
Speaker 1: at Target? Yes they do. That's how I found my
Speaker 1: last boyfriend, and other guys don't seem to have a problem.
Speaker 1: It just sounds like you're using men to just pay
Speaker 1: for your lifestyle. No, it was a first date. He
Speaker 1: should have paid, you know, he would have paid the
Speaker 1: same amount for dinner. We just got toweled and stuff.
Speaker 1: Thing on a on a date, like you both do
Speaker 1: something together, like you and you both have is we
Speaker 1: did and this is different because I'm just buying yourself.
Speaker 1: You know. We spend time together like that was part
Speaker 1: of the date. We have fun together. We spent time
Speaker 1: that's what you do. And I shared stories with you,
Speaker 1: see sharing, I sharing, and the guy pays on a
Speaker 1: first date. Are you joking with this? Right now? Look?
Speaker 1: I have taken plenty of guys to Target and they
Speaker 1: don't seem to have an issue. Well, they don't have
Speaker 1: an issue because you probably never hear from them again. No,
Speaker 1: they're just different. You're cheap and they're not. I mean,
Speaker 1: this is what I'm up against. No, No, I don't
Speaker 1: think I'm what I'm This is what happens. This is
Speaker 1: what has worked for me in the past. And I
Speaker 1: thought I genuinely thought he was a nice guy. Okay, Natalie,
Speaker 1: I was wrong. Yeah. Not only that, but you're the
Speaker 1: one that asked him out. So even if you guys
Speaker 1: were going to dinner, you should have been the one paid.
Speaker 1: I mean that's kind of the general rule. Right. Well, No,
Speaker 1: technically he asked me out on the first date, okay, right,
Speaker 1: and then happen to be going to Target and you
Speaker 1: made that date Target, and you thought he should have
Speaker 1: been a gentleman and paid for your first date at
Speaker 1: Target exactly. So I'm completely innocent in all this. I mean,
Speaker 1: it was the first date. He should have paid yea, Lucia. Lucia,
Speaker 1: you're exactly right, and I'm sorry that he's overreacting about that.
Speaker 1: Thank you, you're welcome, and I'm sorry she's going to
Speaker 1: take you seriously. She should take me seriously, Lucia. Yes,
Speaker 1: he is right, Lucia, But would you like to go
Speaker 1: out with him again? Though? We'll pay for a second
Speaker 1: date wherever you want to go Walmart. Even before I
Speaker 1: would have said yes, but not now. Really, no, I'm
Speaker 1: not interested in going out with someone who doesn't know
Speaker 1: proper etiquette for our first seat. And I think you're
Speaker 1: completely justified, Lucia. Okay, thank you, you're welcome. Well, I
Speaker 1: don't want to go out with him, but you guys,
Speaker 1: I mean for participating. I wouldn't mind to gift cards.
Speaker 1: You want the dinner even though you're not getting a
Speaker 1: second day. Well, this has been very stressful, it has been, Lucia. No, Lucia,
Speaker 1: you're right, this has been stressful for you. And he
Speaker 1: was kind of a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sorry, Terrice,
Speaker 1: but you were he was. So you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna put you on hold and then I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: you a bunch of gift cards. Okay, yeah, you're welcome.
Speaker 1: Hang on the phone. Okay, okay, love you guys too. Dude,
Speaker 1: you are not aking thing better that nothing. I just
Speaker 1: want to do more second day updates with her. I
Speaker 1: know we're going to get more. Text in at seven, eight,
Speaker 1: five nine two says thanks a lot. I just punched
Speaker 1: my radio. I think I may have broken my hand.
Speaker 1: A smart move. Talking about the second date update in
Speaker 1: case you missed it, Lucia wanted to call a guy
Speaker 1: named Terence. They went out on a date to Target,
Speaker 1: of all places, and she made him pay for everything
Speaker 1: that she wanted from Target. She's smart though. It was
Speaker 1: a cute date, but I would like someone to take
Speaker 1: me on a date to Target. Yeah. She basically thought,
Speaker 1: you know, hey, we were going on a date. You're
Speaker 1: the guy you're supposed to pay. Just pay for all
Speaker 1: my stuff at Target. She pretty much just used him
Speaker 1: to go on a Target trip. Yeah, that's so interesting,
Speaker 1: and wanted to go out with him again, probably so
Speaker 1: he could buy more things at Target or maybe head
Speaker 1: on over to Walmart. Who knows, probably left some stuff
Speaker 1: off her list, and he decided not to go out
Speaker 1: with her again. Surprisingly, everybody on the text message board
Speaker 1: at seven eight five nine two hates this woman from
Speaker 1: today second date update. I don't know. I thought it
Speaker 1: was a beauty, full story. You remember. If you want
Speaker 1: to do a second day update, all you have to
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Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back