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Speaker 1: to do a second date update. Today spent her first

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Speaker 1: date in my own personal hell, oh, chucky cheese. No

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Speaker 1: worse than that for me. Really, They spend an afternoon

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Speaker 1: together at Target. I love Target, you know you do.

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Speaker 1: But as a guy who've had many girlfriends who like

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Speaker 1: and go, let's go to Target and walk around for

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Speaker 1: a while, it hurts me to my core to have

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Speaker 1: to talk about this. Her name is Lucia. She's on

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Speaker 1: her and this guy went to Target. Lucia, how you doing,

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you? Oh? My god? Did you

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Speaker 1: like go on your date and then come back with

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Speaker 1: the best curtains and that candle that you didn't know

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Speaker 1: that you needed when you love Target? No, that's not

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Speaker 1: what happened. That's why it takes seventeen hours to go there.

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Speaker 1: We have such good stuff, Lucia, How does one go

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Speaker 1: on a first date to Target? Anyway? Well, in my situation,

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Speaker 1: the guy's name is Terrence. I met him at a

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Speaker 1: work function and he asked me out, and I said yes.

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Speaker 1: So I waited a few days and hit him up

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Speaker 1: and said, hey, I'm going to Target. Do you want

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Speaker 1: to come? And he said he Yet, that's impressive because

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Speaker 1: May we go to dinner or something sometime? Well, I

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Speaker 1: feel like, you know, dinner, you know, pressure, it comes

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Speaker 1: to dinner and it's like then you gotta think what

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Speaker 1: how was the date at Target? I thought the date

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Speaker 1: went really really well. We had a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: We looked at quote, and then I suggested that we

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Speaker 1: go to the movies, which was next door. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: So then you turned it into like a legit date.

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Speaker 1: You didn't just go shopping for a half hour. You

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Speaker 1: guys did the movie too. Well, that's what I do.

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Speaker 1: I invite a guy to Target. If I like enough,

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Speaker 1: then you know we'll continue after a Target, go see

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Speaker 1: a movie. You said, this is what I do. Does

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Speaker 1: that mean you take all of your dates to Target? Yes, Well,

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Speaker 1: I've never heard of anybody taking a date to Target. Ever. Well,

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Speaker 1: when you're dating someone, you're trying to find out what

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Speaker 1: you have in common. And when you go to a

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Speaker 1: restaurant it takes about hour. It takes much longer. So

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Speaker 1: if you go to Target, you can figure that out

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Speaker 1: like fifteen minutes. I guess. Yeah. You could tell what

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Speaker 1: all that. That's what I'm telling you. I think it's awesome.

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Speaker 1: If someone doesn't like Target, then you know right away

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Speaker 1: it's not going to work. I will say, there's a

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Speaker 1: lot of opportunity for good conversation starters, right exactly? Do

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Speaker 1: you see things that stark your interest? Hey? Do you

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Speaker 1: have this in your house? Hey? Oh funny, Sorry I

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Speaker 1: burnt something on using that iron? You know. I mean

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Speaker 1: Massimo or whatever. So did you guys end him going

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Speaker 1: your Target experience. No, did he seem bored or did

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Speaker 1: here's the thing. He asked me out, so I feel

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Speaker 1: just texted him and we're like, I'm about to go

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. We are actually learning something from

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Speaker 1: today's second date update, and that's that dating has changed.

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Speaker 1: No longer is it dinner. You should take your first

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Speaker 1: And then you see if they have similar interests. That's

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Speaker 1: what Lucia did on her first date, and apparently that's

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Speaker 1: If not, then she just splits and goes like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: to you. I'm ready, Lucia. Could I ask you what's

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Speaker 1: your success rate with the target test? Well, that's how

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Speaker 1: about to dial Terrence's phone number. See if we get

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Sorry from what Brooke and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why are you calling me. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: you because you recently went out on a date with

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners and they're wondering why you're not

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Speaker 1: calling them back. So you're doing a show about it. Yeah, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's a segment we do on our show called the

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. You recently went on a date with

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Speaker 1: a girl named luc Yeah. Okay, Well, Lucia emailed us

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Speaker 1: and told us about your little Target experience, and she

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Speaker 1: says that she's asked you out a few times after that,

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Speaker 1: something wrong on your date. Well, I mean you call

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Speaker 1: to point out I told her how weird it sounds

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Speaker 1: to take somebody on a date to Target. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: She had you buy her stuff at Target. I didn't

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Speaker 1: So you feel like she used you to buy her

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Speaker 1: she says she really likes you. That's the thing. Would

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Speaker 1: I guess you're right. I would. I would really appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you should you and I should hang out sometimes,

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Speaker 1: as you like doing that for people, Jarence. So I

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Speaker 1: also need to let you know that Lucia is actually

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Speaker 1: on the other line listening to this conversation. No way, yeah, yes,

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Speaker 1: I am. Hey, I'm so confused. What's going on right now?

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Speaker 1: I don't understand anything. What are you confused about? You

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Speaker 1: may need to buy your groceries. Well, I thought we

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Speaker 1: were on a date and you were a gentleman, and

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Speaker 1: everybody knows on a first date the gentleman taste. Are

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Speaker 1: they pay, Lucia, They don't normally pay for your groceries

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Speaker 1: at Target? Yes they do. That's how I found my

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Speaker 1: It just sounds like you're using men to just pay

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Speaker 1: for your lifestyle. No, it was a first date. He

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Speaker 1: same amount for dinner. We just got toweled and stuff.

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Speaker 1: that's what you do. And I shared stories with you,

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Speaker 1: see sharing, I sharing, and the guy pays on a

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Speaker 1: first date. Are you joking with this? Right now? Look?

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Speaker 1: I have taken plenty of guys to Target and they

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Speaker 1: don't seem to have an issue. Well, they don't have

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Speaker 1: an issue because you probably never hear from them again. No,

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Speaker 1: they're just different. You're cheap and they're not. I mean,

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Speaker 1: this is what I'm up against. No, No, I don't

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Speaker 1: think I'm what I'm This is what happens. This is

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Speaker 1: what has worked for me in the past. And I

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Speaker 1: thought I genuinely thought he was a nice guy. Okay, Natalie,

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Speaker 1: I was wrong. Yeah. Not only that, but you're the

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Speaker 1: were going to dinner, you should have been the one paid.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's kind of the general rule. Right. Well, No,

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Speaker 1: technically he asked me out on the first date, okay, right,

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Speaker 1: and then happen to be going to Target and you

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Speaker 1: Target exactly. So I'm completely innocent in all this. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it was the first date. He should have paid yea, Lucia. Lucia,

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Speaker 1: you're exactly right, and I'm sorry that he's overreacting about that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, you're welcome, and I'm sorry she's going to

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Speaker 1: take you seriously. She should take me seriously, Lucia. Yes,

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Speaker 1: he is right, Lucia, But would you like to go

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Speaker 1: out with him again? Though? We'll pay for a second

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Speaker 1: would have said yes, but not now. Really, no, I'm

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Speaker 1: completely justified, Lucia. Okay, thank you, you're welcome. Well, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to go out with him, but you guys,

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Speaker 1: I mean for participating. I wouldn't mind to gift cards.

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Speaker 1: You want the dinner even though you're not getting a

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Speaker 1: second day. Well, this has been very stressful, it has been, Lucia. No, Lucia,

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Speaker 1: you're right, this has been stressful for you. And he

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Speaker 1: was kind of a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sorry, Terrice,

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Speaker 1: but you were he was. So you know what, I'm

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Speaker 1: you a bunch of gift cards. Okay, yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Hang on the phone. Okay, okay, love you guys too. Dude,

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Speaker 1: you are not aking thing better that nothing. I just

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Speaker 1: know we're going to get more. Text in at seven, eight,

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Speaker 1: five nine two says thanks a lot. I just punched

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Speaker 1: A smart move. Talking about the second date update in

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Speaker 1: case you missed it, Lucia wanted to call a guy

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Speaker 1: named Terence. They went out on a date to Target,

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Speaker 1: that she wanted from Target. She's smart though. It was

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Speaker 1: a cute date, but I would like someone to take

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Speaker 1: me on a date to Target. Yeah. She basically thought,

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Speaker 1: the guy you're supposed to pay. Just pay for all

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Speaker 1: my stuff at Target. She pretty much just used him

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Speaker 1: to go on a Target trip. Yeah, that's so interesting,

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Speaker 1: and wanted to go out with him again, probably so

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Speaker 1: at seven eight five nine two hates this woman from

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Speaker 1: today second date update. I don't know. I thought it

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Speaker 1: was a beauty, full story. You remember. If you want

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Speaker 1: to do a second day update, all you have to

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Speaker 1: do is email the show and we will call the

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Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back