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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Becher Happy Hour. I'm Joe

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Speaker 1: and we are here today with a newly bachelor couple,

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Speaker 1: Medina and Aaron. Welcome to Bader Happy Hour. Medina, you

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Speaker 1: have been on this podcast for a little bit, Like

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Speaker 1: you came on for like a I think, like a

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Speaker 1: short segment.

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Speaker 2: Correct to tell a segment, I believe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And Aaron, have you ever been.

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Speaker 2: On We did a full episode with Aaron.

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Speaker 1: Cut that, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, they're all learning together. I've interviewed so many

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Speaker 2: Bachelor people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean I remember you from Charity season, Aaron,

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Speaker 1: because you were a big personality and you were off

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Speaker 1: the show on the show, you came back on Charity season,

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Speaker 1: right yea, yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember that, And so

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Speaker 1: we we won't well well we won't.

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Speaker 3: Talk about that.

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Speaker 1: Actually we could, we could, Okay.

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Speaker 2: We were honestly surprised to find out you guys were

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Speaker 2: dating because I just didn't see that one coming at all.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you guys had no crossover on the show. Usually,

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Speaker 2: I feel like you see like a TikTok here or

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Speaker 2: like a group photo of like a bunch of bachelor

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Speaker 2: people like this one came out of left field for me.

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Speaker 2: So let's take it back to how you guys first met.

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Speaker 2: Whichever one of you wants to.

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Speaker 3: Start a few times we go practice, go ahead and

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Speaker 3: start us off.

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Speaker 4: Well, I actually shamelessly DMed him when he was a season,

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Speaker 4: like when he got announced, and I was like, hope

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Speaker 4: you don't make it far. They're just so cringing and cliche.

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Speaker 4: And then we were just kind of like dming very

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Speaker 4: casually back and forth, like over the years technically, and

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Speaker 4: they did.

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Speaker 2: That would have been before you were even on the show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So when I when I did the interview for

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Speaker 4: Joey season, I mean, I don't know if like we

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Speaker 4: don't really know necessarily who it is sometimes and I

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Speaker 4: actually specifically like I did mention Aaron, but I was

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Speaker 4: open obviously to Joey, and so that was kind of serendipitous,

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Speaker 4: if you will, I'm looking at us now.

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Speaker 1: But so wait to Aaron, did you respond to the

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Speaker 1: initial DM, because at the time, you know, you were

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Speaker 1: popping off show.

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Speaker 3: It was just funny because like there's like a ton

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Speaker 3: of dms obviously from you know, e week by week

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Speaker 3: and then she pops up and I'm like, oh wow,

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Speaker 3: it was this, but you know, obviously I was just like,

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Speaker 3: all right, you know, take it easy, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: Obviously went to Paradise, and then then she got announced

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Speaker 3: and I was like, wait, who is this person? I

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Speaker 3: got to pay close attention, so I tuned into her

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Speaker 3: season and watched her.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, this is such an interesting timeline. So you

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Speaker 2: see him on Charity season, you DM him, Aaron responds,

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Speaker 2: there's like a little back and forth. He goes on

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Speaker 2: Paradise obviously, but he's like.

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Speaker 1: Leave me alone. I'm going on Pairs. I need another

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Speaker 1: shot at this.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, but you know fair He's like, all right,

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Speaker 2: I'm going back looking for love Like this probably isn't

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Speaker 2: going to go anywhere. You met someone on that season

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Speaker 2: of Paradise, So I'm assuming the dms were sealed shut

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Speaker 2: for quite a while. And then you end up being

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Speaker 2: single and all of a sudden, Medina's on your screen.

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Speaker 2: Were you like, this is a girl that was in

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Speaker 2: my dms? What the heck's going on here? And like

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Speaker 2: you're single? Are you waiting to see if she's single?

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Speaker 2: What are you feeling?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's good too, because I kind of wanted

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Speaker 3: to see her character and you know who this person was.

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Speaker 3: I was obviously impressed, but I didn't think like anything

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Speaker 3: was gon a comfort it. Like I knew she lived

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Speaker 3: in Charlotte. I'm the San Diego so it was kind

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Speaker 3: of like a far fetched thing. And I think the

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Speaker 3: most we did was we changed our DM background to

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Speaker 3: like this Boba tee by accident, by accident, by accident.

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Speaker 3: But that's the only like real interaction we had was

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Speaker 3: our background changing on the DMS.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I feel like this is nice too, because in

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Speaker 2: a way, Medina, you kind of learned a lot about

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Speaker 2: Aaron when you're watching him on Charity season and on Paradise.

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Speaker 2: Did you feel like this kind of balanced it out

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Speaker 2: now that he had the chance to learn a little

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Speaker 2: bit about you while you were on the show.

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Speaker 4: Well, let me crack myself. I didn't actually really watch

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Speaker 4: any of his seasons. I don't really watch The Bachelor.

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Speaker 4: I saw his picture announced and I was like, watch, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, so you don't watch the show, but then

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Speaker 1: you're you're you're paying attention to the guys they can

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Speaker 1: get announced.

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Speaker 2: So that's kind of fair.

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Speaker 1: It's really I mean, I mean, I believe you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let's jump forward. Now you're both off the show.

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Speaker 2: How do you reconnect?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So I mean we were just kind of going

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Speaker 3: back and forth on DM, doing fire emojis on our

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Speaker 3: stories and things like that. It wasn't really anything you know,

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Speaker 3: provocative or flirty. We were just like kind of, you know,

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Speaker 3: supporting each other from a distance. Like I said, I

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Speaker 3: thought she was pretty levelheaded and mature on her season,

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Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, like this is a good person,

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Speaker 3: like you know, to talk to everyone once in a while.

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Speaker 3: Still didn't expect anything. But oh it was up until

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Speaker 3: New York Fashion Week. Medina.

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Speaker 2: This this New York Fashion Week like twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I was supposed to go to because he

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Speaker 4: was in San Diego Swim Week. I was supposed to

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Speaker 4: go to San Diego, San Diego Swim Week and I

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Speaker 4: wound up not going last minute. And I remember I

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Speaker 4: was like we were texting a little because I was

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Speaker 4: like I didn't know anyone in San Diego, and I

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Speaker 4: was like flirting with him a little bit. I feel

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Speaker 4: like I was like, oh, like let's do something, and

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Speaker 4: he was like so dry with me. I was like,

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Speaker 4: all right, whatever, so.

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Speaker 1: I was really, really really were you not receptive to

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Speaker 1: the flirtiness?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I was kind of stoneface. I was like,

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Speaker 3: this is nothing's going to come from it. Like you

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Speaker 3: know when you meet different people from batrination, it's just

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Speaker 3: like a hangout type thing. Like I was like, all right,

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Speaker 3: it's going to be like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 4: And I honestly, at this point too, I wasn't really

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Speaker 4: thinking too much about it either. But then at New

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Speaker 4: York Fashion Week, we like met up for lunch with

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Speaker 4: like it was like a group of us, and I

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Speaker 4: really wasn't thinking anything too too much. And like you

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Speaker 4: know when you like meet someone and this is gonna

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Speaker 4: sound so corny, but it's just the truth, and you

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Speaker 4: just like instantly like have like chemistry or connection with them,

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Speaker 4: and like he gave such a good hug when I

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Speaker 4: walked in. And I hate talking like this because I

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Speaker 4: feel like I'm a bad bitch, and then when I'm

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Speaker 4: with him, I'm like like a little girl kind of.

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Speaker 4: But we like hugged. And I remember like sitting at

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Speaker 4: the tea, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Real bad, all you got to do is hug you. No,

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Speaker 1: It's good.

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Speaker 2: I love the concept of like falling into your feminine

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Speaker 2: When you're with someone that you feel safe.

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Speaker 1: With, then you like falling into your feminine.

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Speaker 3: That.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a.

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Speaker 2: Thing like I like, you know, girls sink more into

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Speaker 2: like their feminine energy when they feel like they're.

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Speaker 1: That I heard it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how did your repertoire?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a flex. I feel like, right,

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Speaker 4: I think so yeah, I'm like again, I'm like flirting

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Speaker 4: with him. He's like sitting next to me. I like,

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, like your shoes, I really like

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Speaker 4: your shoes, and he like exapt me. He goes, yeah,

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Speaker 4: you on.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, oh that sounds terrible. Iran.

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Speaker 3: I think I was. I think I was pretty nervous,

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Speaker 3: like I was. I was actually speechless. I about that.

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Speaker 3: I was speechless.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, the lunch come to be and who else

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I met this met this guy. He was

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Speaker 3: a fan of bachfor Nation and he was up in

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Speaker 3: New York and invited me to lunch. I met him

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Speaker 3: dag Tie and I was like, okay, cool, let's do that.

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Speaker 3: We had a whole itinerary for the weekend, and I

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Speaker 3: was like, okay, like, let's see if Pandina wants to join.

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Speaker 3: She had a friend, so they both came and I

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Speaker 3: was talking to Medina all the way up until the

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Speaker 3: point where she walked into the restaurant, and I just

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Speaker 3: remember being nervous, just like, you know what's going to

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Speaker 3: see what's going on about the same time, not really,

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it was up until that point where I

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Speaker 1: Well that's fair.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you guys don't know each other yet. You've

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Speaker 2: been kind of like flirting a little on d MS,

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Speaker 2: but you might meet each other and be like like,

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Speaker 2: there's nothing here.

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Speaker 3: We have a Boba tea background on Instagram, Like there's

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Speaker 3: something there. It's got to be something there, even though

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Speaker 3: it's an accident.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So Medina, how did you feel like the lunch

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Speaker 2: went after you left? What do you say to your girlfriend?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I mean like, well, because we went after lunch,

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Speaker 4: we went to get drinks somewhere and like we went

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Speaker 4: to the bathroom, so like before I even left, I

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Speaker 4: was like, oh my god, like I like, I like

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Speaker 4: him and like just like more even more background which

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Speaker 4: like makes it like weird, is like I just well, actually,

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Speaker 4: never mind, I'm not going to say that.

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Speaker 1: But no, no, no, no, no, Well what you got

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Speaker 1: to say it now?

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Speaker 2: Well, I like, you don't have to.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well it's not anything crazy. I mean we were

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Speaker 4: like flirting back and forth. But I think also too,

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Speaker 4: like there were moments where him and I were maybe

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Speaker 4: like in relationships or like dating other people and stuff,

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Speaker 4: so I had just kind of gotten out of a relationship,

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Speaker 4: so I was like very much like not even like

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Speaker 4: looking for that. So I think like that just like

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Speaker 4: shows like how much like I feel like our energy

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Speaker 4: was necessarily looking for it. Like obviously we were flirting

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Speaker 4: a little bit, but I wasn't necessarily going in with

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Speaker 4: the mindset of like, oh, like I'm going to date

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Speaker 4: this person, but more just like, yeah, let's meet up

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Speaker 4: with someone else from Bachelor Nation.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, totally that makes sense. I feel like that's

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Speaker 2: so common, like, oh, I'm in the city and I

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Speaker 2: know this person that was on the show. And we

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Speaker 3: We all want this. I was like, whoa, this is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like you can't feel the strengths, and

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Speaker 3: Like a second, you have four more plates to go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you guys, how long hit? Okay? So New

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Speaker 3: There was no talking.

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Speaker 4: Stage'll say that it was yeah, which we love. Like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So how are you guys doing? You guys are

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Speaker 1: doing long distance? Madina you're in Charlotte, and Aaron you're

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Speaker 3: Is it is? How's how's it going? Sweet Pete?

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Speaker 1: So how many times?

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Speaker 1: Like, so, how many times a month are you able

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Speaker 3: Well? The game plan is we're waiting on insurance to

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Speaker 1: What do you What do you do for work?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So the irony of all of this is I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's kind of a nice place to be

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Speaker 2: People that live in San Diego freaking love it, like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's cute like when I would go to when

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Speaker 1: Aaron, are you from? Are you from San Diego?

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Speaker 2: I remember our podcast with Aaron so well.

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Speaker 3: For I do not.

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Speaker 2: so that's exciting. We're really happy for you guys. This

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Speaker 3: In person. We facetimed briefly a couple of times, so

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Speaker 2: Off, have you met any of Aaron's family yet?

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Speaker 4: Just fatime?

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Speaker 1: FaceTime is so awkward, isn't it like meeting a family

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Speaker 2: Right, you know, because you people in real life.

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Speaker 1: Well, in real life, you're you're you're you're actually in

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Speaker 1: so bad.

442
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Speaker 2: It's low stakes, it's low steaks.

443
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't have to sit around the house and

444
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Speaker 3: wait for you know, so I'm gonna be all right,

445
00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,920
Speaker 3: well we're gonna go hold down. Yeah yeah, right, Well,

446
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Speaker 3: my dad, we were your facetiming. He was so close

447
00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,760
Speaker 3: to the camera. I was more concerned about his eyesight.

448
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,960
Speaker 3: I was like, just you'll see a person soon, but

449
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Speaker 3: just back away from the camera.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad doesn't my dad facetimes It's like right here,

451
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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, he's just screaming into the phone. Okay,

452
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Speaker 1: what any are you guys? Like, who's your Bachelor crew?

453
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Speaker 1: Anyone you hang out with or is it kind of

454
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Speaker 1: just like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who did you like call from vacherination to tell

456
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:48,359
Speaker 2: them that you guys were dating? What was the response? Also,

457
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:52,400
Speaker 2: you want to go arin?

458
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Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I mean people know that, you know, I

459
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 3: hang with Aaron Clancy. He's one of my best friends.

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Speaker 3: We're all in a group chat with like James Bontnzel

461
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 3: and people like that, so they all knew when I

462
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 3: went to Charlotte post on my close friends. I was

463
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 3: like kissing media's hands and they were like, oh, this

464
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 3: is like legit, and I was like, yeah, like I'm

465
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 3: back in Charlotte obviously, So things are going well. But

466
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Speaker 3: you know, just I would say those are the only

467
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 3: two from Bachelor Nation initially, well obviously everyone started to

468
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 3: learn pretty quickly.

469
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Speaker 2: Of course, my Dina, what about you?

470
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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't I'm gonna be asked. I don't

471
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Speaker 4: like I'm not in touch with a lot of people

472
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Speaker 4: from Bachelor Nation. I mean obviously like Jess and Sandra.

473
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 4: Actually she was I don't know if any Yeah, Sandra,

474
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Speaker 4: I'm like pretty close with her, but other than that,

475
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Speaker 4: like not too much.

476
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Speaker 1: And then any for next year, any any trips anything

477
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 1: played together or is it just kind of like we're

478
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: gonna do our best to get you to San Diego

479
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Speaker 1: type of thing.

480
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Speaker 3: Bit of both. We're going to Colombia the next month.

481
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Speaker 1: That's fun.

482
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, one of my friends wedding, so we'll be out

483
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Speaker 3: there for for a good bit.

484
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Speaker 1: And uh, what part of Columbia where's the wedding Cartaena? Okay, Yeah,

485
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: a friend of mine was just out there.

486
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Speaker 2: I was going to say have you Are you familiar

487
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Speaker 2: with that area? Are you familiar with Columbia? Have you been?

488
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Speaker 1: I know, I know, I've I've heard of Cartagena and

489
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 1: and then there's Cali and I know a bunch of bucks. Okay, yeah, yeah,

490
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 1: Capital exactly exactly.

491
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Speaker 3: People are people don't sleep there. But I'm just glad

492
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Speaker 3: that she's coming out because you know, they have the

493
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 3: jokes like, oh, a single guy going to Colombia, he

494
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 3: comes back with some kind of relationship things like that.

495
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 3: So this this makes a little bit easier for trust,

496
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Speaker 3: and obviously I want her there with me too, so

497
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Speaker 3: we're gonna enjoy that.

498
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Speaker 2: How has that been with the long distance.

499
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Speaker 3: The trust?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's interesting because I was We talk about this

501
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 4: kind of regularly. Like I think it's crazy that I

502
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 4: trust him more than and you know, the last person

503
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 4: I dated like lived like five minutes away. And I

504
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 4: think he's just like so good at communicating and like

505
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 4: even just like the thing he said right now, like

506
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 4: that wasn't anything that I came up with. He's just

507
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 4: like thinking proactively and being really mindful about all those things.

508
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 4: And he's like really in tune, Like he's so cute.

509
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 4: He'll track like with my cycle to like recognize like

510
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 4: when I might be a little more sensitive or like

511
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 4: if I need more compliments and so yeah, it's just

512
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 4: interesting because he's so far away, but I like trust

513
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 4: him so much. So it's like I'm glad we're not

514
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 4: working through any of that. It's like the biggest issue

515
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 4: we have is distance, and you know that'll eventually be

516
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Speaker 4: done with, So that's good.

517
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Speaker 1: I think like communication is is like ninety percent of it,

518
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 1: Like it's that's like the biggest thing.

519
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: Well, and if you can tackle that while doing long distance,

520
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 2: it's going to be that much easier hopefully when you're

521
00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 2: in person together.

522
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Speaker 1: And it doesn't matter where someone lives, because if they

523
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 1: want to cheat, they're gonna cheat. You know that is true.

524
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Speaker 2: Actually, Oh shoot, I had a question. Oh my question

525
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: was going to be when you eventually moved to saying

526
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 2: San Diego, Medina, are you guys going to find a

527
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 2: new place together? You're going to move into Aaron's place.

528
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think we talked about finding a new place together,

529
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 4: so that'll be fun, like looking at apartments. He was like,

530
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 4: I'll FaceTime you stuff like, uh, so I think that'll

531
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Speaker 4: be fun. And he said that he'll let me decorate,

532
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 4: so let's have this on recording.

533
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Speaker 2: I mean, your background is super cute. If you did that,

534
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Speaker 2: I don't know why he wouldn't let you decorate, Like.

535
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Speaker 1: I mean, is your what your place look like? Arin

536
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: is it? Just like I'm a single guy and this

537
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: is this is which no judgment, Like that's how my

538
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 1: place was. I still I was still taking things out

539
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: of like brown boxes.

540
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Speaker 2: And yeah, Joe had one bedside table what like not

541
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 2: one pillow but like four plates.

542
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Speaker 3: Yeah no, I mean it's definitely a ball throughout for years.

543
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 3: It's not you know where it would be a plentier

544
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 3: decorator here, but it's more like I did, like a

545
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 3: thirty year old, like tech kind of apartment. Nothing too

546
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,239
Speaker 3: special I got. I got a big cat hanging up

547
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Speaker 3: on my wall too. That's why I commented on I

548
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,399
Speaker 3: love big cats. But this is like my downstairs work space.

549
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:17,880
Speaker 3: So I'm down here taking a call.

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Speaker 1: Nice nice, Yeah, all right, Well this was a lot

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Speaker 1: of fun. We're really happy for you guys. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for coming on to a better happy hour.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. I appreciate you guys. Good to see you again.

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