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Speaker 1: Second date up dated.

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Speaker 2: Some people have caveats in order to date them where

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Speaker 2: it's like, I'm attracted to you, our vibe is really good,

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Speaker 2: but if you want to go out with me, yeah,

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Speaker 2: this one little thing needs to happen first before I

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Speaker 2: can say yes. Like for me personally, I can only

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Speaker 2: go out with you if you let my mom dress

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Speaker 2: you for the date. Because even though I don't want

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Speaker 2: her to be a part of my love life, she

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Speaker 2: does insist I don't date people who dress too trampy.

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Speaker 3: So I don't want to.

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Speaker 2: Upset my mother with the people that I date. That's

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Speaker 2: just my one thing and then we're good.

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Speaker 4: That made sentence.

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Speaker 2: Was really One of our listeners has an important caveat

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Speaker 2: that she says as an instant deal breaker if the

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Speaker 2: guy says no. And I'm interested to hear what this is.

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Speaker 2: So Samantha, welcome to the show. We want to know

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Speaker 2: what your caveat is.

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Speaker 4: Who we're starting right at the top? I love it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, my caveat is I drug test the guys before

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Speaker 5: I go out.

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Speaker 2: With the.

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Speaker 4: Drug test sounds fun? What are you looking for?

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Speaker 5: So I have a serious job. I like, you know,

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Speaker 5: I'm kind of a serious person. And I don't want

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Speaker 5: to messter waste my time on somebody who's doing stupid.

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Speaker 1: Oh you want the test to come back negative.

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Speaker 2: If it's not positive, we're not hanging up our drug

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Speaker 2: test work here at the radio.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 6: Interesting, and men actually agree to do this for you.

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Speaker 5: Generally, it's fine. Yeah, they don't tend to have an

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Speaker 5: issue with it.

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Speaker 1: You don't do anything you'd be.

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Speaker 6: Like, okay, is it like's I mean, yeah, that's what

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Speaker 6: I hard drugs or fun drugs?

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Speaker 4: What are you looking for?

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Speaker 5: That's definitely looking for just like no drugs, I guess. Also, yeah,

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Speaker 5: obviously they could like get some dude's tea or whatever.

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Speaker 5: So no, we do it at a at my apartment

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Speaker 5: when they come pick me up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So clearly this must have happened with your date

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Speaker 2: that you're going to be telling us about here.

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Speaker 4: That is correct. Should we just have one more question?

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Speaker 6: Are they giving a heads up before they get to

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Speaker 5: Well, for example, like with the guy that we're talking

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Speaker 5: about right now, we were chatting on bumble for a

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Speaker 3: Go out with you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but this is my one caveat right, And he

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Speaker 5: just kind of like lo oled thought it was a

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Speaker 1: See that being a joke. Like, by the way, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna drug test you when you get here. Okay. So

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Speaker 1: what's this guy's name? By the way, Dave?

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Speaker 6: Dave?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so Dave laughed when you suggested it.

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Speaker 4: Then at the door, what happened?

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Speaker 1: What happened when you actually met him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean gave him hug, invited him in

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Speaker 5: have mentioned drug test, can you give me a sample?

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Speaker 4: Also?

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Speaker 1: So what was his reaction?

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Speaker 6: He was like shocked, like.

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Speaker 5: Didn't think I was serious. I'm like, yes, yes I am.

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Speaker 2: You mean most of your dates don't start this way day.

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Speaker 1: That's weird.

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Speaker 4: So what did he do? Did he do it?

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Speaker 1: I mean he lacks a little weird, but he did.

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Speaker 5: He he went and did it. It's like one of

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Speaker 5: those like from CBS or whatever.

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Speaker 6: You yeah, do you know immediately whether he's on drugs?

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Speaker 5: Pretty much? Yeah, I mean it comes back like ten

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Speaker 5: to like tell you the colors of what in his key?

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Speaker 6: I guess, so it's only within Like if you've done

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Speaker 7: Yeah, what happens if it comes up positive?

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Speaker 1: Do you immediately not do the date?

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Speaker 3: I didn't even think that's the whole point.

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Speaker 5: If it comes up positive, he's out the door.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 6: So are you just sitting in your living room waiting

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Speaker 1: Like what is that?

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Speaker 4: What is that time period?

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Speaker 1: Like, you know, getting to know each other.

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Speaker 5: I try and make a joke about it, like try

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Speaker 2: Would be awkward combo, let's not get to know each

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Speaker 1: But what are your interests?

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Speaker 2: So just the fact that you want us to reach

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Speaker 2: out to Dave must mean that it came back negative.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so then I mean we went to dinner.

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Speaker 8: He seemed a little, I don't know, rigid or something.

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Speaker 4: Maybe he's a little weirded out.

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Speaker 1: But how did he seem rigid?

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Speaker 5: He was just making weird kind of jokes, so like

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 5: At one point I was like, what do you do

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Speaker 4: It's kind of funny but also kind of suspicious.

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Speaker 1: Or you could have been like, I do tons of

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Speaker 6: It sounds like he's having a hard time getting over

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, and I mean he did also call me

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, well, but it's cute to establish nicknames

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Speaker 1: So maybe we could look at that as a good

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, was there any flirting?

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Speaker 6: There was flirting.

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Speaker 5: I feel like we had a good connection otherwise, like

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Speaker 1: But here's the big question. Was there a kiss.

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Speaker 5: There was not a kiss. There was a hub and

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Speaker 5: he said he would call me and we'd go out

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Speaker 5: again and then nothing.

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Speaker 4: It's a different type of test before the kiss happens.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely a different type of test before the bed happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, at least you're thinking of that.

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Speaker 2: So it sounds like he couldn't recover from the test,

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Speaker 6: I think the more you sit with it, probably the

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Speaker 4: Why did I what did I just do? Or you're

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Speaker 1: Not to mention, it was a huge surprise to him.

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Speaker 2: He wasn't expecting to actually have to provide a sample

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Speaker 2: in front of her on the first time that they met.

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Speaker 2: So at what's happened since that date ended? How long

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Speaker 5: It's been about a week, I guess. I waited a

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Speaker 5: I did reach out like two days ago, just text

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Speaker 5: him like, hey, it was great meeting you. I'd love

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Speaker 4: It's important that she gets ahold of them. There's not

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Speaker 4: many men that can pass that test.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, so that's a big deal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's call this guy in a couple of minutes. Here,

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Speaker 2: we'll find out what he has to say. I can't imagine.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you've already tested his pe Like it's I

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Speaker 2: don't know what base that would be in romance terms.

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Speaker 1: Six base.

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Speaker 2: I think it's in the ballpark, Okay, in the alleyway

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Speaker 1: Ballpark maybe, Okay, yeah, but we're.

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Speaker 2: Gonna get whatever his answer is when we call him,

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Speaker 2: come back, get your second date update.

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Speaker 1: Right after this hold on second date update.

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Speaker 2: I can already picture the wedding vows when Dave is

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Speaker 2: the one.

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Speaker 1: Tears everywhere.

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Speaker 4: Nothing says love like urine testing.

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Speaker 1: You know we're not exaggerating either.

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Speaker 2: Samantha actually has a rule that she cannot date anyone

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Speaker 2: who uses drugs because of her job. It's not allowed

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so that's why I want.

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Speaker 1: To get a test. See how it is.

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Speaker 2: But that's the thing her date, Dave did provide a

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Speaker 2: sample past the test and.

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Speaker 1: Was clean, So it should have been smooth sailing from there.

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Speaker 1: That's what I keep saying. I keep going, Man, he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's weird that he was acting so

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Speaker 2: strange on the date, right, Samantha.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's the thing I forgot to ask.

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Speaker 4: Did you explain to him the job aspect of this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean I told him as much as I could

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Speaker 1: He said, you like an important job, or like I

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Speaker 1: have a very important job. Almost.

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Speaker 2: Well, we have an important job right now. To get

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Speaker 1: Yeah, drug test him again?

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Speaker 4: No, no, no drug test required on this show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, So here we go. I'm in a

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Speaker 2: dial Dave's number. Hopefully he picks up. It's not too traumatized,

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Speaker 1: Hello. Hey is this Dave? Yeah, this is hey Dave.

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Speaker 1: How's it going?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 1: You're on a radio show right now called Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Hey, welcome to the show, Dave.

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Speaker 3: The radio show.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you guys to random.

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Speaker 1: What's what's up?

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Speaker 2: This is kind of random, but we're calling on behalf

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Speaker 2: date with recently, a girl named Samantha.

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Speaker 8: Okay, yeah, I remember Samantha, I.

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Speaker 4: Bet yeah, I would think that's a date that's hard

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Speaker 4: to forget.

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Speaker 2: And so we're doing this segment called a second date

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Speaker 2: update because we know there hasn't been a second meetup.

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Speaker 2: She's a little bit confused about why it's not happening yet.

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Speaker 8: Wait, did she make you guys call me?

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Speaker 4: Didn't make Yes, it was a pretty interesting story about

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Speaker 4: your date.

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Speaker 8: So yeah, it was different.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, different is a good way to describe it. According

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Speaker 2: But that's what we heard. It came back all clean,

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Speaker 8: She said, oh, yeah, yeah, FBI da something. I don't

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Speaker 3: But yeah, right, So, I mean, yeah, she told me

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Speaker 4: We didn't you hear about a dog at the apartment?

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure her dog is like a drug sniffing dog.

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Speaker 4: What what?

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Speaker 4: Why would you think that?

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Speaker 3: It is like stiff in my pants the whole time.

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Speaker 3: It's a German Shepherd, Like she's kind of like looking

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Speaker 1: Do the dogs instantly attack?

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Speaker 1: They sit and they're like ready to attack. I think

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Speaker 6: Still, it would make whatever they do Jeff attacked by

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but they scare me, even the beagles.

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Speaker 2: I feel like all German shepherds are drug dogs, you know,

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Speaker 5: The other ones did it go to other people at

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Speaker 6: You know, even though you were totally clean and innocent,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah drug lord.

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Speaker 8: Well I felt like I was like Walter White.

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Speaker 2: The only way to find out for sure the status

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how this works. But Samantha there, oh god, yeah,

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Speaker 5: Uh, yeah, my dog is not a drug sniffing dog.

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Speaker 5: And that sounds really paranoid.

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Speaker 1: Drug users are a little bit paranoid. He wouldn't be

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Speaker 4: At the airport, I'm always scared the same.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I think it's just suspicious that, like,

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Speaker 5: Like you seriously think I also brought a drug sniffing dog.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, what else am I supposed to think?

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Speaker 3: Like this is the first time we've had a drug test?

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Speaker 5: I've been honest about everything. I told you ahead of

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Speaker 5: If you're thinking like you're automatically.

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Speaker 3: The whole thing was just such a bizarre experience. It

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Speaker 3: That wasn't any of that, Like have you ever had

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Speaker 5: Then it should have just been a like a you know,

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Speaker 1: Ever again, she doesn't sketchy.

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Speaker 4: It's not a drug dog like.

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Speaker 5: It honestly did not occur to me. That's why I'm

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Speaker 3: It could not occur to you.

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Speaker 1: What is that about?

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Speaker 5: It sounds like you're hiding something, and so yeah, I

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Speaker 8: This is exactly why I called you the FBI.

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Speaker 5: If there's smoke, there's fire, and so I wouldn't be

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Speaker 4: If there's smoke, you'll find Jose. So it's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, oh god, we're such degenerates.

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Speaker 1: So listen, Dave.

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Speaker 2: At the end of the day, maybe Samantha should ease

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Speaker 6: Okay, so now that you know that it's a non

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Speaker 2: That's both of them making a mistake. We agree that

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Speaker 1: So none of our listeners either. Listeners, Yeah, you can't

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Speaker 2: So let's just try and come together for one more

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Dave? No more drug test though,

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Speaker 4: How could you say?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, like I kind of feel like

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Speaker 4: Well, she hasn't actually looked into that part of your

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Speaker 1: That might be her version of for play. Samantha at

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Speaker 5: I would go out with Dave again. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: Other than it's like Karen Oyan, I mean, honestly, compared

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Speaker 1: That is a plus, Dave. It's up to you.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, as long as you don't bring the doctor,

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Speaker 7: I don't expect that date because she's not going to

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Speaker 1: I heard that second test is common. Get the gloves ready,

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Speaker 1: rookie Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: This is a great example of how not every first

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Speaker 4: Them or any romance. There is no.

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's the only time a man has pulled

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Speaker 1: Why you don't see.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes even good relationships start with hiccups and mistakes where

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Speaker 1: Dog by the dog.

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Speaker 1: Wow, things don't.

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Speaker 2: Always play out like the fairy tales say.

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Speaker 6: I don't know it's with you and the dogs yet,

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Speaker 1: Mind goes places.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let's just remember that even if your first

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and as sterile as you can get. Sterryll is

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Speaker 1: She's so serious everything.

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Speaker 4: I feel like it's not as serious as she makes.

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Speaker 1: She takes it seriously. She checks tickets at Disneylands.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but anyway, if you want some help in your

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Speaker 2: dating life, email the show. We'll call that person who's

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Speaker 2: and Jeffrey