WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Long Game

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you're here. You found the Second Date podcast and

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<v Speaker 1>we love that. Thank you so much. Soap you're here.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, if you want us to invade more

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<v Speaker 1>of your life, we're on YouTube, yeah with Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Your address, I can show up Jose. Jose will come

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<v Speaker 1>to your house and give you hugs.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah you give me foods uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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<v Speaker 1>content that apparently you like, which we're really grateful for.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go for the main feed for the full

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<v Speaker 1>show Brook and Jeffrey. But right now, let's get into

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Data Date. I think a lot of us have

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<v Speaker 2>gone out on a first date with low expectations and

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<v Speaker 2>before you know what, things happen and you end up

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<v Speaker 2>spending the night. Oh yeah, you're lucky, I know, But

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<v Speaker 2>not very often does it happen the opposite way, where

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<v Speaker 2>your whole plan is to stay the night, but you decide, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I'm gonna play the long game on

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<v Speaker 2>this one. That's exactly what's happening with Jose and Alexis.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, we're not here to talk about them.

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<v Speaker 1>Todayag you gross. You know the protest too much, protest

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<v Speaker 1>too much.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys can pretend.

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<v Speaker 3>I am not pretending.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not here to talk about the situation happening between

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<v Speaker 2>you two. For one of our listeners, Sydney, who needs

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<v Speaker 2>our help today. Welcome to the show, Sydney.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks guys, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, thank god you're on the phone. Cut the tension

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<v Speaker 1>in this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So tell us about the guy that you went

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<v Speaker 2>out with recently. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 4>His name is Kurt, and I met him on Tinder.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, I mean what struck him about you on Tinder?

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<v Speaker 4>On Tinder? He was just cute, Like I was originally

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<v Speaker 4>into it for like the meaningless, which is it.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't go to Tinder to like read the bios.

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<v Speaker 1>St but you still want to have like a good

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<v Speaker 1>like chemistry on your like messages together, you know, some

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<v Speaker 1>some liked shared interest.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll give you that. So how did things play out

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<v Speaker 2>with you and Kurt?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, So it turned out he was pretty amazing,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I met him at this bar and he was

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<v Speaker 4>just so put together and had this beautiful smile.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Well hello, Kurt, I mean, yes, that's all it takes,

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<v Speaker 2>just a little smile, like wow, this guy really knows

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<v Speaker 2>what he's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have your expectations so low he doesn't take much.

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<v Speaker 2>That shoulders catch for you, expectations so low that it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't take much.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel yourself like growing more nervous during the

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<v Speaker 1>date because you're realizing this.

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't say nervous, but just shifting like away from

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<v Speaker 4>wind to hook up to like wanting to play like

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<v Speaker 4>the long game.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Okay, cool, you suddenly felt like this was

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<v Speaker 2>going to be more than just a one night thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You wanted to actually maybe start a relateationship this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's that seems pretty deep, but yeah, kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, so how do you go about

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<v Speaker 2>doing that?

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<v Speaker 1>The shift? How did the shift happen?

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<v Speaker 2>This is interesting to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Pivot When was your pivot? So?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we hung out at the bar for a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit and then it's kind of early and it's

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<v Speaker 4>a really hot day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you excuse yourself to the bathroom and you

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<v Speaker 2>go put on some real underwear. Now you feel like

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<v Speaker 2>this could be a relationship situation. Get rid of the

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<v Speaker 2>edible stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Melting.

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<v Speaker 2>I see where you're at Sydney. Keep going.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so Anyway, it was super hot out and he

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<v Speaker 4>he said that he had a pool at his house. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>what I know. So I was like, you know, this

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<v Speaker 4>could be shady, but the fact is I've been hanging

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<v Speaker 4>out with him for a while and he's just so

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<v Speaker 4>easy and we just get all you know. So I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, why not?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, what was your plan then to skinny dip

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<v Speaker 1>because I assume he didn't come with a swimsuit.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I didn't want to skin it, but like I

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<v Speaker 4>just went my T shirt and my undies.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you O. I think it's a strong move. No,

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<v Speaker 2>that's all you got. I mean, heck right as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's also like I didn't want to hook

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<v Speaker 1>up with him. I'm just gonna go get naked and wet.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the long game. Broke Okay is an expert in

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<v Speaker 2>the art of seduction. So did it work?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I think so. Like, first of all, let

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<v Speaker 4>me just tell you his house. Holy Molly, Oh really?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh this guy's rich, Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>My god, like brand new, like all the finishing touches,

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<v Speaker 4>like a floaty staircase. Not only does he have a pool,

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<v Speaker 4>but he's got a hot tub. So we did go.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think a guy with a bed like not

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<v Speaker 1>on the ground. This is trying to graduate from a futon.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's there's hot tub action happening now.

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<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, but not even like action. It was totally

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<v Speaker 4>just like hanging out. I mean, super good chemistry though,

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<v Speaker 4>but I didn't want to like mess it up by

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<v Speaker 4>just cheapening it. You know, girl, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not cheapening it. I mean, you're he's inviting you at

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<v Speaker 1>his house, you're in his hot tub, Like you're telling

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<v Speaker 1>me nothing happened.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I won't say we did kiss where.

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<v Speaker 5>Where where are on the body or where I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 5>kind of like after the hot tub, so it didn't

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<v Speaker 5>get too steamy, like it was almost more romantic, but

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<v Speaker 5>you maybe get you a.

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<v Speaker 2>Towel and then he pulled you in.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what happened after after the nice kiss.

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<v Speaker 4>He asked he I want to hang out a little more,

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<v Speaker 4>but I thought, maybe you know, it was time to

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<v Speaker 4>call it, just to keep it super high point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, keep him wanting more. Oh my gosh. If

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<v Speaker 2>that was him, I would be like, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, right, because you have the kiss, you have

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, your heart ring thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>About you every day after that I don't know. If

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<v Speaker 2>I was him, I'd feel like I just blew it.

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<v Speaker 1>She just left so she said it was a romantic kid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay on paper, yeah I can see. So what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>So when I left, he said that he was going

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<v Speaker 4>to be out of town for about two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa Okay, But then.

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<v Speaker 4>Like he got back and it's just been like he

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<v Speaker 4>texted me one time that he wanted to hang out,

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<v Speaker 4>but now he keeps saying that he's like busy. So

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, oh no, what happened. I mean, did he like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, meet somebody who was out of town.

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<v Speaker 2>Or I mean two weeks is a long time to

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<v Speaker 2>go between seeing someone in the dating world. Were you

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<v Speaker 2>able to keep a conversation going with him while he

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<v Speaker 2>was away? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>We did text a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how was it.

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<v Speaker 4>Was kind of flirty? It was? It was nice. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>it makes it even weirder when he gets back, Like

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<v Speaker 4>the text aren't a flirty Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>From experience, I mean, anybody, the momentum, Yeah, a week

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<v Speaker 2>without even talking to somebody or a lot, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it definitely changes the momental.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we can change it again, maybe, babe.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's give this a shot. We're gonna play a song,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll come back, We're gonna call Kurt for you, and

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<v Speaker 2>we'll try and get you a second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Sidney sounds great. Thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, second update. This is a challenge that we've never

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<v Speaker 2>had before on this morning show.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>That challenge is find the only catch on Tin and

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<v Speaker 2>then reel him in without any favors. And the reason

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<v Speaker 2>that he's a catch is because Kurt not only has

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<v Speaker 2>good hair and a nice smile and he's put together.

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<v Speaker 2>On top of all that, he owns a great house

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<v Speaker 2>with a swimming pool, a floaty staircase, an expensive hot tub,

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<v Speaker 2>and they even shared a passionate kiss during sunset as

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<v Speaker 2>a pod of dolphins swam by and did a synchronized

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<v Speaker 2>water dance to a BTS song. Wow. And after all that,

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<v Speaker 2>Sidney still turned down the invitation to spend the night

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<v Speaker 2>just to try to play the long game with this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like Sidney's having regrets after hearing about the dolphins.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like he literally was like, hey, I have millions

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<v Speaker 2>of dollars if you like it, and she was like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good. The reason why she might have some regrets,

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<v Speaker 2>is because it's been two weeks and now their conversation

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<v Speaker 2>has cooled off a lot, so she's hoping that we

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<v Speaker 2>can turn the heat back up with this second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you feeling right now, Sydney.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a nervous as heck. I really am.

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<v Speaker 2>Perfect guy, pretty much.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's interesting because you wanted to play the

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<v Speaker 1>long I'm cool game, and now you have a radio

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<v Speaker 1>station calling for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Seem very cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It kind of turned.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, now I'm having a panic attack.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you for that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we can do it, though. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're like rich, powerful people to I just think we'll

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<v Speaker 1>impress him.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we better hurry up and just make this call

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<v Speaker 2>before this gets any worse than it already is. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so Broke, pay the phone, Billy. Let's just check make

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<v Speaker 2>sure it works. But I think if we've learned anything

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<v Speaker 2>from Sydney, it's start with low expectations, so then it

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<v Speaker 2>can only go up from there. That's good, all right, son,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna dial Kurt's phone number right now, and we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna try and get your second date up. Do you ready, Sydney?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll try not to screw it up.

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<v Speaker 2>No promises though. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Kurt.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Kurt.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Kurt, how you doing? My name is Jeff. Awkward?

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<v Speaker 1>It was awkward though.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry for my awkwardness, Kurt.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>This is a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeff

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<v Speaker 2>in the Morning, and this is the morning radio show

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<v Speaker 2>team that apparently doesn't like the job I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not very good at small talk, including just saying

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<v Speaker 1>your name is.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>What's currently had a great reason for calling you though?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, mindy right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Is that okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's just weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool, yeah something.

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<v Speaker 3>What happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the reason that we're calling you is because one

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<v Speaker 2>of our listeners has been trying to get a hold

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<v Speaker 2>of you and she's been having a hard time lately.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name is Sydney. Oh yeah, yeah, okay, you remember Sydney?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I do remember. So she had you guys call me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just so excited about your date.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, now you guys want to talk about the date?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, sort of, because we know that a date

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<v Speaker 2>happened two weeks ago over at your house, and she

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<v Speaker 2>had a lot of great things to say about you

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<v Speaker 2>and your place, and she's a little bit confused. Why

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<v Speaker 2>now two weeks later things have cooled off between you.

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<v Speaker 3>This is really awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It is it Brooke again? It is Brook? Yeah? I apologize.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably. I mean the thing is Kurt, Like, she really

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<v Speaker 1>felt like there was a true connection between you two,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was something that she wasn't expecting at all,

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<v Speaker 1>and it really surprised her.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, I did think there was potential to be

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<v Speaker 3>honest with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I feel like I, honestly, I think I

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<v Speaker 3>kind of screwed up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you say that?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So you're like, she really liked the pool. People

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<v Speaker 3>enjoy it when they come to visit. I get that,

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<v Speaker 3>but I kind of messed up. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you're welcome to use it anytime, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>made this comment, and then I went away for a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of weeks for business. And then I found out

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<v Speaker 3>when I was away that she used the pool multiple

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<v Speaker 3>times with her friends.

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<v Speaker 2>What, well, you weren't there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she just kept over and over coming over with

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<v Speaker 3>her friend. Gab security. You know, my security footage. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I thought I was gonna say, like security guards.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like the worst security guards.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my security dog, my security dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you told her she could use it whenever.

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<v Speaker 1>No, wait, hold up, she didn't ask you.

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<v Speaker 3>No, she didn't mention it. And then like the motion

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<v Speaker 3>sensor triggers, like I know people are in there, so

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<v Speaker 3>like you know, multiple times I got an alert people

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<v Speaker 3>were in the backyard or whatever, and when I checked

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<v Speaker 3>the footage, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, there's apps now, yeah, yeah, yeah, we have

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<v Speaker 1>one that's the same. You can see it from your phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, my brother uses my pool all the time, so

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of figured it was him. And then when

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<v Speaker 3>I got back, I was curious to see, like who

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<v Speaker 3>had been using the pool, and then it was her

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<v Speaker 3>over and over, like it was like the y mc aka.

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<v Speaker 2>So you come home and you check your security cams

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<v Speaker 2>and you see that it's actually Sydney and her friends

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<v Speaker 2>using your pool, and that's why you've kind of cooled

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<v Speaker 2>off towards her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, I just feel like she took advantage.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you warn her that you have security cameras outside

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<v Speaker 2>your We just had this conversation, like not too long

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<v Speaker 2>ago where you said if anybody comes over to your house,

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<v Speaker 2>you need to warn them that you have.

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<v Speaker 1>If you invite someone to your home. She was never invited.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's the thing, like when you give an open

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<v Speaker 1>invitation to somebody saying, oh use the pool, you know

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<v Speaker 1>everyone knows that you ask before you do it. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't just show up.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounded to me like he told her you can

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<v Speaker 2>come over at any time, and I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>that's true. Maybe we should ask Sydney. Sidney, is that

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<v Speaker 2>what he said? Hi? It's not like, yeah, sorry, I

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<v Speaker 2>should have let you know, Kurt that Sydney's been on

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<v Speaker 2>the other line listening this entire time. She wants to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to.

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<v Speaker 3>You after all that. Now you didn't let me know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, well, I guess my calls are right. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>very good at this job, so I apologize, but go ahead, Sydney.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, I can barely even stand. I'm so

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<v Speaker 4>horrified right now. I feel so bad. Maybe I was

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<v Speaker 4>just so excited about like the time we had I

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of was like showing off your placed my friends.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what, but now I just feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I messed up so bad and I just that's not

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<v Speaker 4>respectful in my part, and I'm so sorry. I feel

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<v Speaker 4>really bad.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, I appreciate that. I just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just a little weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Sidney. How did you even get into his pool?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you have to scale a fence or something? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>No, there's like a door that isn't kept.

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<v Speaker 2>One of those ones you just reach over. And my

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<v Speaker 2>parents have that too. I'm like, why do you have

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<v Speaker 2>a door that.

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<v Speaker 3>I could come in?

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<v Speaker 1>Sidney? What were you thinking? What do you mean was

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<v Speaker 1>she thinking broke pool party? Why? Why wouldn't you ask him?

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't you say, hey, do you mind if my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and I come over while you're out?

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<v Speaker 2>You get away with it?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm asking her, I mean, if you want me to

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<v Speaker 4>be completely honest here, You're right. I didn't think he

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<v Speaker 4>would actually know, and I was so excited to show

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<v Speaker 4>my friends where he lived.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it sounds to me, Kurt, like Sydney realizes

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<v Speaker 2>that she made a mistake and she's really sorry about

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<v Speaker 2>what she.

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<v Speaker 3>Did, which is everything was just thrown around too. I

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<v Speaker 3>she didn't even clean up after it was just like

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<v Speaker 3>it was just a disaster.

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<v Speaker 2>I really well, she just figured that she would come

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<v Speaker 2>back the next day.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't recall that. Pardon if that's true. I'm super

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<v Speaker 4>horrified in every way right now. I I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>this seems unforgivable. But I really hope that you'll just

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<v Speaker 4>take my word that I'm not a tool and that like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so sorry, and I hope we can give it

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<v Speaker 4>a second chance.

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<v Speaker 2>As all, she's impressed by you, bro, she's trying to

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<v Speaker 2>show off your pad to her friends. Yeah, and with

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<v Speaker 2>that being said, we want to send you out on

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<v Speaker 2>another date, and we'll pay for it, Kurt, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>willing to give Sidney one more chance. I mean, to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Fair, Kurt, she didn't. I don't think she's like a

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<v Speaker 1>gold digger. I don't think she's trying to use you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's hard to find a guy with a pool,

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<v Speaker 1>but she liked it. But she liked you for you

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<v Speaker 1>before she knew about the pool.

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<v Speaker 2>That was, she seemed sincere when she told us about it. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, before you answer, just think about Sydney in

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<v Speaker 2>her shirt and her no pants swimming around in your pool. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have to think about it. I've seen the

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<v Speaker 3>video already, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Just visualize it and then let us know what do

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<v Speaker 2>you think? One more shot with Sidney on our bill.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, I don't think so. I feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>She blew it, and she blew it, blew it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why you hook up the first night. Everybody's

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<v Speaker 2>swipe right on.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy.

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<v Speaker 3>The rest of you, guys, you're a welcome used to

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<v Speaker 3>pool anytime you want, you lose.

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<v Speaker 2>We moved on

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.