Speaker 1: Hey, you're here. You found the Second Date podcast and
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Speaker 1: show Brook and Jeffrey. But right now, let's get into
Speaker 1: this relationship stuff.
Speaker 2: Second Data Date. I think a lot of us have
Speaker 2: gone out on a first date with low expectations and
Speaker 2: before you know what, things happen and you end up
Speaker 2: spending the night. Oh yeah, you're lucky, I know, But
Speaker 2: not very often does it happen the opposite way, where
Speaker 2: your whole plan is to stay the night, but you decide, actually,
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm gonna play the long game on
Speaker 2: this one. That's exactly what's happening with Jose and Alexis.
Speaker 2: Right now, we're not here to talk about them.
Speaker 1: Todayag you gross. You know the protest too much, protest
Speaker 1: too much.
Speaker 2: You guys can pretend.
Speaker 3: I am not pretending.
Speaker 2: We're not here to talk about the situation happening between
Speaker 2: you two. For one of our listeners, Sydney, who needs
Speaker 2: our help today. Welcome to the show, Sydney.
Speaker 4: Thanks guys, oh.
Speaker 1: Man, thank god you're on the phone. Cut the tension
Speaker 1: in this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So tell us about the guy that you went
Speaker 2: out with recently. What's his name?
Speaker 4: His name is Kurt, and I met him on Tinder.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I mean what struck him about you on Tinder?
Speaker 4: On Tinder? He was just cute, Like I was originally
Speaker 4: into it for like the meaningless, which is it.
Speaker 2: You don't go to Tinder to like read the bios.
Speaker 1: St but you still want to have like a good
Speaker 1: like chemistry on your like messages together, you know, some
Speaker 1: some liked shared interest.
Speaker 2: I'll give you that. So how did things play out
Speaker 2: with you and Kurt?
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, So it turned out he was pretty amazing,
Speaker 4: Like I met him at this bar and he was
Speaker 4: just so put together and had this beautiful smile.
Speaker 2: Wow. Well hello, Kurt, I mean, yes, that's all it takes,
Speaker 2: just a little smile, like wow, this guy really knows
Speaker 2: what he's doing.
Speaker 1: Did you have your expectations so low he doesn't take much.
Speaker 2: That shoulders catch for you, expectations so low that it
Speaker 2: doesn't take much.
Speaker 1: Did you feel yourself like growing more nervous during the
Speaker 1: date because you're realizing this.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say nervous, but just shifting like away from
Speaker 4: wind to hook up to like wanting to play like
Speaker 4: the long game.
Speaker 2: You know, Okay, cool, you suddenly felt like this was
Speaker 2: going to be more than just a one night thing.
Speaker 2: You wanted to actually maybe start a relateationship this guy.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's that seems pretty deep, but yeah, kind of.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, so how do you go about
Speaker 2: doing that?
Speaker 1: The shift? How did the shift happen?
Speaker 2: This is interesting to me.
Speaker 1: Pivot When was your pivot? So?
Speaker 4: I mean we hung out at the bar for a
Speaker 4: little bit and then it's kind of early and it's
Speaker 4: a really hot day.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you excuse yourself to the bathroom and you
Speaker 2: go put on some real underwear. Now you feel like
Speaker 2: this could be a relationship situation. Get rid of the
Speaker 2: edible stuff.
Speaker 1: Melting.
Speaker 2: I see where you're at Sydney. Keep going.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so Anyway, it was super hot out and he
Speaker 4: he said that he had a pool at his house. Yeah,
Speaker 4: what I know. So I was like, you know, this
Speaker 4: could be shady, but the fact is I've been hanging
Speaker 4: out with him for a while and he's just so
Speaker 4: easy and we just get all you know. So I
Speaker 4: was like, why not?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So wait, what was your plan then to skinny dip
Speaker 1: because I assume he didn't come with a swimsuit.
Speaker 4: Well I didn't want to skin it, but like I
Speaker 4: just went my T shirt and my undies.
Speaker 2: Oh you O. I think it's a strong move. No,
Speaker 2: that's all you got. I mean, heck right as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's also like I didn't want to hook
Speaker 1: up with him. I'm just gonna go get naked and wet.
Speaker 2: That's the long game. Broke Okay is an expert in
Speaker 2: the art of seduction. So did it work?
Speaker 4: I mean I think so. Like, first of all, let
Speaker 4: me just tell you his house. Holy Molly, Oh really?
Speaker 2: Oh this guy's rich, Oh.
Speaker 4: My god, like brand new, like all the finishing touches,
Speaker 4: like a floaty staircase. Not only does he have a pool,
Speaker 4: but he's got a hot tub. So we did go.
Speaker 1: I didn't think a guy with a bed like not
Speaker 1: on the ground. This is trying to graduate from a futon.
Speaker 2: So there's there's hot tub action happening now.
Speaker 4: Well yeah, but not even like action. It was totally
Speaker 4: just like hanging out. I mean, super good chemistry though,
Speaker 4: but I didn't want to like mess it up by
Speaker 4: just cheapening it. You know, girl, it's.
Speaker 1: Not cheapening it. I mean, you're he's inviting you at
Speaker 1: his house, you're in his hot tub, Like you're telling
Speaker 1: me nothing happened.
Speaker 4: No, I won't say we did kiss where.
Speaker 5: Where where are on the body or where I'm like, well,
Speaker 5: kind of like after the hot tub, so it didn't
Speaker 5: get too steamy, like it was almost more romantic, but
Speaker 5: you maybe get you a.
Speaker 2: Towel and then he pulled you in.
Speaker 1: Know what happened after after the nice kiss.
Speaker 4: He asked he I want to hang out a little more,
Speaker 4: but I thought, maybe you know, it was time to
Speaker 4: call it, just to keep it super high point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, keep him wanting more. Oh my gosh. If
Speaker 2: that was him, I would be like, oh.
Speaker 1: My god, right, because you have the kiss, you have
Speaker 1: the moment, your heart ring thinking.
Speaker 2: About you every day after that I don't know. If
Speaker 2: I was him, I'd feel like I just blew it.
Speaker 1: She just left so she said it was a romantic kid.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay on paper, yeah I can see. So what happened?
Speaker 4: So when I left, he said that he was going
Speaker 4: to be out of town for about two weeks.
Speaker 2: Whoa Okay, But then.
Speaker 4: Like he got back and it's just been like he
Speaker 4: texted me one time that he wanted to hang out,
Speaker 4: but now he keeps saying that he's like busy. So
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh no, what happened. I mean, did he like,
Speaker 4: you know, meet somebody who was out of town.
Speaker 2: Or I mean two weeks is a long time to
Speaker 2: go between seeing someone in the dating world. Were you
Speaker 2: able to keep a conversation going with him while he
Speaker 2: was away? Yeah?
Speaker 4: We did text a little bit.
Speaker 1: Okay, how was it.
Speaker 4: Was kind of flirty? It was? It was nice. You know,
Speaker 4: it makes it even weirder when he gets back, Like
Speaker 4: the text aren't a flirty Okay?
Speaker 2: From experience, I mean, anybody, the momentum, Yeah, a week
Speaker 2: without even talking to somebody or a lot, I mean,
Speaker 2: it definitely changes the momental.
Speaker 1: Maybe we can change it again, maybe, babe.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's give this a shot. We're gonna play a song,
Speaker 2: we'll come back, We're gonna call Kurt for you, and
Speaker 2: we'll try and get you a second date. Update.
Speaker 4: Okay, Sidney sounds great. Thank you guys.
Speaker 2: Okay, second update. This is a challenge that we've never
Speaker 2: had before on this morning show.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: That challenge is find the only catch on Tin and
Speaker 2: then reel him in without any favors. And the reason
Speaker 2: that he's a catch is because Kurt not only has
Speaker 2: good hair and a nice smile and he's put together.
Speaker 2: On top of all that, he owns a great house
Speaker 2: with a swimming pool, a floaty staircase, an expensive hot tub,
Speaker 2: and they even shared a passionate kiss during sunset as
Speaker 2: a pod of dolphins swam by and did a synchronized
Speaker 2: water dance to a BTS song. Wow. And after all that,
Speaker 2: Sidney still turned down the invitation to spend the night
Speaker 2: just to try to play the long game with this guy.
Speaker 1: I feel like Sidney's having regrets after hearing about the dolphins.
Speaker 2: It's like he literally was like, hey, I have millions
Speaker 2: of dollars if you like it, and she was like, no,
Speaker 2: I'm good. The reason why she might have some regrets,
Speaker 2: is because it's been two weeks and now their conversation
Speaker 2: has cooled off a lot, so she's hoping that we
Speaker 2: can turn the heat back up with this second date. Update.
Speaker 2: How are you feeling right now, Sydney.
Speaker 4: I'm a nervous as heck. I really am.
Speaker 2: Perfect guy, pretty much.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean it's interesting because you wanted to play the
Speaker 1: long I'm cool game, and now you have a radio
Speaker 1: station calling for you.
Speaker 2: Seem very cool.
Speaker 1: It kind of turned.
Speaker 2: She's like, now I'm having a panic attack.
Speaker 4: Thank you for that.
Speaker 1: I think we can do it, though. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: we're like rich, powerful people to I just think we'll
Speaker 1: impress him.
Speaker 2: No, we better hurry up and just make this call
Speaker 2: before this gets any worse than it already is. Okay,
Speaker 2: so Broke, pay the phone, Billy. Let's just check make
Speaker 2: sure it works. But I think if we've learned anything
Speaker 2: from Sydney, it's start with low expectations, so then it
Speaker 2: can only go up from there. That's good, all right, son,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna dial Kurt's phone number right now, and we're
Speaker 2: gonna try and get your second date up. Do you ready, Sydney?
Speaker 4: Okay? I'm ready.
Speaker 1: We'll try not to screw it up.
Speaker 2: No promises though. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Kurt.
Speaker 3: It's Kurt.
Speaker 2: Hey, Kurt, how you doing? My name is Jeff. Awkward?
Speaker 1: It was awkward though.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry for my awkwardness, Kurt.
Speaker 3: Hi, what's going on?
Speaker 2: This is a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeff
Speaker 2: in the Morning, and this is the morning radio show
Speaker 2: team that apparently doesn't like the job I'm doing.
Speaker 1: You're not very good at small talk, including just saying
Speaker 1: your name is.
Speaker 2: I'm Jeff.
Speaker 1: What's currently had a great reason for calling you though?
Speaker 3: Wait, mindy right now?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Is that okay?
Speaker 3: Okay, it's just weird.
Speaker 1: Cool, yeah something.
Speaker 3: What happened?
Speaker 2: Well, the reason that we're calling you is because one
Speaker 2: of our listeners has been trying to get a hold
Speaker 2: of you and she's been having a hard time lately.
Speaker 2: Her name is Sydney. Oh yeah, yeah, okay, you remember Sydney?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do remember. So she had you guys call me.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: She was just so excited about your date.
Speaker 3: I mean, now you guys want to talk about the date?
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, sort of, because we know that a date
Speaker 2: happened two weeks ago over at your house, and she
Speaker 2: had a lot of great things to say about you
Speaker 2: and your place, and she's a little bit confused. Why
Speaker 2: now two weeks later things have cooled off between you.
Speaker 3: This is really awkward.
Speaker 2: It is it Brooke again? It is Brook? Yeah? I apologize.
Speaker 1: Probably. I mean the thing is Kurt, Like, she really
Speaker 1: felt like there was a true connection between you two,
Speaker 1: and it was something that she wasn't expecting at all,
Speaker 1: and it really surprised her.
Speaker 3: I agree, I did think there was potential to be
Speaker 3: honest with you.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good.
Speaker 3: I just I feel like I, honestly, I think I
Speaker 3: kind of screwed up a little bit.
Speaker 2: Why do you say that?
Speaker 3: Okay, So you're like, she really liked the pool. People
Speaker 3: enjoy it when they come to visit. I get that,
Speaker 3: but I kind of messed up. I was like, well,
Speaker 3: you know, you're welcome to use it anytime, Like I
Speaker 3: made this comment, and then I went away for a
Speaker 3: couple of weeks for business. And then I found out
Speaker 3: when I was away that she used the pool multiple
Speaker 3: times with her friends.
Speaker 2: What, well, you weren't there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she just kept over and over coming over with
Speaker 3: her friend. Gab security. You know, my security footage. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought I was gonna say, like security guards.
Speaker 2: I'd be like the worst security guards.
Speaker 3: Yeah, my security dog, my security dogs.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you told her she could use it whenever.
Speaker 1: No, wait, hold up, she didn't ask you.
Speaker 3: No, she didn't mention it. And then like the motion
Speaker 3: sensor triggers, like I know people are in there, so
Speaker 3: like you know, multiple times I got an alert people
Speaker 3: were in the backyard or whatever, and when I checked
Speaker 3: the footage, it was.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, there's apps now, yeah, yeah, yeah, we have
Speaker 1: one that's the same. You can see it from your phone.
Speaker 3: Honestly, my brother uses my pool all the time, so
Speaker 3: I kind of figured it was him. And then when
Speaker 3: I got back, I was curious to see, like who
Speaker 3: had been using the pool, and then it was her
Speaker 3: over and over, like it was like the y mc aka.
Speaker 2: So you come home and you check your security cams
Speaker 2: and you see that it's actually Sydney and her friends
Speaker 2: using your pool, and that's why you've kind of cooled
Speaker 2: off towards her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I just feel like she took advantage.
Speaker 1: Absolutely.
Speaker 2: Did you warn her that you have security cameras outside
Speaker 2: your We just had this conversation, like not too long
Speaker 2: ago where you said if anybody comes over to your house,
Speaker 2: you need to warn them that you have.
Speaker 1: If you invite someone to your home. She was never invited.
Speaker 1: Like that's the thing, like when you give an open
Speaker 1: invitation to somebody saying, oh use the pool, you know
Speaker 1: everyone knows that you ask before you do it. You
Speaker 1: don't just show up.
Speaker 2: It sounded to me like he told her you can
Speaker 2: come over at any time, and I don't know if
Speaker 2: that's true. Maybe we should ask Sydney. Sidney, is that
Speaker 2: what he said? Hi? It's not like, yeah, sorry, I
Speaker 2: should have let you know, Kurt that Sydney's been on
Speaker 2: the other line listening this entire time. She wants to
Speaker 2: talk to.
Speaker 3: You after all that. Now you didn't let me know.
Speaker 2: Yes, well, I guess my calls are right. I'm not
Speaker 2: very good at this job, so I apologize, but go ahead, Sydney.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I can barely even stand. I'm so
Speaker 4: horrified right now. I feel so bad. Maybe I was
Speaker 4: just so excited about like the time we had I
Speaker 4: just kind of was like showing off your placed my friends.
Speaker 4: I don't know what, but now I just feel like
Speaker 4: I messed up so bad and I just that's not
Speaker 4: respectful in my part, and I'm so sorry. I feel
Speaker 4: really bad.
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I appreciate that. I just I don't know,
Speaker 3: it's just a little weird.
Speaker 2: Sidney. How did you even get into his pool?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: Did you have to scale a fence or something? Yeah?
Speaker 4: No, there's like a door that isn't kept.
Speaker 2: One of those ones you just reach over. And my
Speaker 2: parents have that too. I'm like, why do you have
Speaker 2: a door that.
Speaker 3: I could come in?
Speaker 1: Sidney? What were you thinking? What do you mean was
Speaker 1: she thinking broke pool party? Why? Why wouldn't you ask him?
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you say, hey, do you mind if my
Speaker 1: friends and I come over while you're out?
Speaker 2: You get away with it?
Speaker 4: I'm asking her, I mean, if you want me to
Speaker 4: be completely honest here, You're right. I didn't think he
Speaker 4: would actually know, and I was so excited to show
Speaker 4: my friends where he lived.
Speaker 2: I mean, it sounds to me, Kurt, like Sydney realizes
Speaker 2: that she made a mistake and she's really sorry about
Speaker 2: what she.
Speaker 3: Did, which is everything was just thrown around too. I
Speaker 3: she didn't even clean up after it was just like
Speaker 3: it was just a disaster.
Speaker 2: I really well, she just figured that she would come
Speaker 2: back the next day.
Speaker 4: I don't recall that. Pardon if that's true. I'm super
Speaker 4: horrified in every way right now. I I mean, honestly,
Speaker 4: this seems unforgivable. But I really hope that you'll just
Speaker 4: take my word that I'm not a tool and that like,
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, and I hope we can give it
Speaker 4: a second chance.
Speaker 2: As all, she's impressed by you, bro, she's trying to
Speaker 2: show off your pad to her friends. Yeah, and with
Speaker 2: that being said, we want to send you out on
Speaker 2: another date, and we'll pay for it, Kurt, if you're
Speaker 2: willing to give Sidney one more chance. I mean, to be.
Speaker 1: Fair, Kurt, she didn't. I don't think she's like a
Speaker 1: gold digger. I don't think she's trying to use you.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to find a guy with a pool,
Speaker 1: but she liked it. But she liked you for you
Speaker 1: before she knew about the pool.
Speaker 2: That was, she seemed sincere when she told us about it. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, before you answer, just think about Sydney in
Speaker 2: her shirt and her no pants swimming around in your pool. Okay,
Speaker 2: you're not.
Speaker 3: I don't have to think about it. I've seen the
Speaker 3: video already, all.
Speaker 2: Just visualize it and then let us know what do
Speaker 2: you think? One more shot with Sidney on our bill.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I don't think so. I feel like.
Speaker 1: She blew it, and she blew it, blew it.
Speaker 2: This is why you hook up the first night. Everybody's
Speaker 2: swipe right on.
Speaker 1: Guy.
Speaker 3: The rest of you, guys, you're a welcome used to
Speaker 3: pool anytime you want, you lose.
Speaker 2: We moved on
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.