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Speaker 1: Hey, you're here. You found the Second Date podcast and

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Speaker 1: we love that. Thank you so much. Soap you're here.

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Speaker 1: You know what, if you want us to invade more

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Speaker 1: of your life, we're on YouTube, yeah with Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Your address, I can show up Jose. Jose will come

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Speaker 1: to your house and give you hugs.

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Speaker 2: And yeah you give me foods uh huh.

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Speaker 1: And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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Speaker 1: content that apparently you like, which we're really grateful for.

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Speaker 1: You can go for the main feed for the full

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Speaker 1: show Brook and Jeffrey. But right now, let's get into

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Speaker 1: this relationship stuff.

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Speaker 2: Second Data Date. I think a lot of us have

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Speaker 2: gone out on a first date with low expectations and

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Speaker 2: before you know what, things happen and you end up

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Speaker 2: spending the night. Oh yeah, you're lucky, I know, But

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Speaker 2: not very often does it happen the opposite way, where

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Speaker 2: your whole plan is to stay the night, but you decide, actually,

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Speaker 2: you know what, I'm gonna play the long game on

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Speaker 2: this one. That's exactly what's happening with Jose and Alexis.

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Speaker 2: Right now, we're not here to talk about them.

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Speaker 1: Todayag you gross. You know the protest too much, protest

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Speaker 1: too much.

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Speaker 2: You guys can pretend.

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Speaker 3: I am not pretending.

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Speaker 2: We're not here to talk about the situation happening between

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Speaker 2: you two. For one of our listeners, Sydney, who needs

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Speaker 2: our help today. Welcome to the show, Sydney.

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Speaker 4: Thanks guys, oh.

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Speaker 1: Man, thank god you're on the phone. Cut the tension

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Speaker 1: in this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So tell us about the guy that you went

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Speaker 2: out with recently. What's his name?

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Speaker 4: His name is Kurt, and I met him on Tinder.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I mean what struck him about you on Tinder?

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Speaker 4: On Tinder? He was just cute, Like I was originally

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Speaker 4: into it for like the meaningless, which is it.

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Speaker 2: You don't go to Tinder to like read the bios.

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Speaker 1: St but you still want to have like a good

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Speaker 1: like chemistry on your like messages together, you know, some

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Speaker 2: I'll give you that. So how did things play out

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Speaker 2: with you and Kurt?

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, So it turned out he was pretty amazing,

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Speaker 4: Like I met him at this bar and he was

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Speaker 2: Wow. Well hello, Kurt, I mean, yes, that's all it takes,

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Speaker 1: Did you have your expectations so low he doesn't take much.

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Speaker 2: That shoulders catch for you, expectations so low that it

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Speaker 1: Did you feel yourself like growing more nervous during the

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't say nervous, but just shifting like away from

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Speaker 4: the long game.

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Speaker 2: You know, Okay, cool, you suddenly felt like this was

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Speaker 2: You wanted to actually maybe start a relateationship this guy.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's that seems pretty deep, but yeah, kind of.

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, so how do you go about

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Speaker 1: The shift? How did the shift happen?

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Speaker 2: This is interesting to me.

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Speaker 1: Pivot When was your pivot? So?

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Speaker 4: I mean we hung out at the bar for a

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you excuse yourself to the bathroom and you

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Speaker 2: this could be a relationship situation. Get rid of the

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Speaker 1: Melting.

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Speaker 2: I see where you're at Sydney. Keep going.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so Anyway, it was super hot out and he

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Speaker 4: he said that he had a pool at his house. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: what I know. So I was like, you know, this

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So wait, what was your plan then to skinny dip

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Speaker 4: Well I didn't want to skin it, but like I

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Speaker 2: Oh you O. I think it's a strong move. No,

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Speaker 2: that's all you got. I mean, heck right as well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's also like I didn't want to hook

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Speaker 2: That's the long game. Broke Okay is an expert in

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Speaker 4: I mean I think so. Like, first of all, let

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Speaker 4: me just tell you his house. Holy Molly, Oh really?

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Speaker 2: Oh this guy's rich, Oh.

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Speaker 4: My god, like brand new, like all the finishing touches,

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Speaker 1: I didn't think a guy with a bed like not

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Speaker 2: So there's there's hot tub action happening now.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, but not even like action. It was totally

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Speaker 1: Not cheapening it. I mean, you're he's inviting you at

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Speaker 4: No, I won't say we did kiss where.

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Speaker 5: Where where are on the body or where I'm like, well,

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Speaker 5: kind of like after the hot tub, so it didn't

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Speaker 2: Towel and then he pulled you in.

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Speaker 1: Know what happened after after the nice kiss.

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Speaker 4: He asked he I want to hang out a little more,

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Speaker 4: but I thought, maybe you know, it was time to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, keep him wanting more. Oh my gosh. If

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Speaker 1: My god, right, because you have the kiss, you have

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Speaker 2: About you every day after that I don't know. If

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Speaker 1: She just left so she said it was a romantic kid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay on paper, yeah I can see. So what happened?

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Speaker 4: So when I left, he said that he was going

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Speaker 4: Like he got back and it's just been like he

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh no, what happened. I mean, did he like,

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Speaker 2: Or I mean two weeks is a long time to

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Speaker 4: We did text a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, how was it.

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Speaker 4: Was kind of flirty? It was? It was nice. You know,

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Speaker 4: it makes it even weirder when he gets back, Like

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Speaker 4: the text aren't a flirty Okay?

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Speaker 2: From experience, I mean, anybody, the momentum, Yeah, a week

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Speaker 2: it definitely changes the momental.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we can change it again, maybe, babe.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's give this a shot. We're gonna play a song,

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Speaker 2: we'll come back, We're gonna call Kurt for you, and

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Speaker 2: we'll try and get you a second date. Update.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Sidney sounds great. Thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, second update. This is a challenge that we've never

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: That challenge is find the only catch on Tin and

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Speaker 2: then reel him in without any favors. And the reason

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Speaker 2: that he's a catch is because Kurt not only has

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Speaker 2: good hair and a nice smile and he's put together.

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Speaker 2: On top of all that, he owns a great house

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Speaker 2: with a swimming pool, a floaty staircase, an expensive hot tub,

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Speaker 2: and they even shared a passionate kiss during sunset as

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Speaker 2: water dance to a BTS song. Wow. And after all that,

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Speaker 2: Sidney still turned down the invitation to spend the night

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Speaker 2: just to try to play the long game with this guy.

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Speaker 1: I feel like Sidney's having regrets after hearing about the dolphins.

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Speaker 2: It's like he literally was like, hey, I have millions

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Speaker 2: I'm good. The reason why she might have some regrets,

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling right now, Sydney.

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Speaker 4: I'm a nervous as heck. I really am.

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Speaker 2: Perfect guy, pretty much.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's interesting because you wanted to play the

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Speaker 1: long I'm cool game, and now you have a radio

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Speaker 2: Seem very cool.

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Speaker 1: It kind of turned.

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Speaker 2: She's like, now I'm having a panic attack.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: I think we can do it, though. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: we're like rich, powerful people to I just think we'll

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Speaker 1: impress him.

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Speaker 2: No, we better hurry up and just make this call

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Speaker 2: before this gets any worse than it already is. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so Broke, pay the phone, Billy. Let's just check make

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Speaker 2: sure it works. But I think if we've learned anything

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Speaker 2: from Sydney, it's start with low expectations, so then it

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Speaker 2: can only go up from there. That's good, all right, son,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna dial Kurt's phone number right now, and we're

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Speaker 2: gonna try and get your second date up. Do you ready, Sydney?

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Speaker 4: Okay? I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: We'll try not to screw it up.

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Speaker 2: No promises though. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Kurt.

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Speaker 3: It's Kurt.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Kurt, how you doing? My name is Jeff. Awkward?

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Speaker 1: It was awkward though.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry for my awkwardness, Kurt.

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Speaker 3: Hi, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: This is a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeff

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Speaker 2: in the Morning, and this is the morning radio show

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Speaker 2: team that apparently doesn't like the job I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: You're not very good at small talk, including just saying

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Speaker 1: your name is.

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Speaker 2: I'm Jeff.

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Speaker 1: What's currently had a great reason for calling you though?

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Speaker 3: Wait, mindy right now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Is that okay?

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's just weird.

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Speaker 1: Cool, yeah something.

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Speaker 3: What happened?

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Speaker 2: Well, the reason that we're calling you is because one

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Speaker 2: of you and she's been having a hard time lately.

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Speaker 2: Her name is Sydney. Oh yeah, yeah, okay, you remember Sydney?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do remember. So she had you guys call me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She was just so excited about your date.

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Speaker 3: I mean, now you guys want to talk about the date?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, sort of, because we know that a date

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Speaker 2: had a lot of great things to say about you

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Speaker 2: now two weeks later things have cooled off between you.

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Speaker 3: This is really awkward.

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Speaker 2: It is it Brooke again? It is Brook? Yeah? I apologize.

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Speaker 1: Probably. I mean the thing is Kurt, Like, she really

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Speaker 3: I agree, I did think there was potential to be

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 3: I just I feel like I, honestly, I think I

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Speaker 2: Why do you say that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you're like, she really liked the pool. People

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Speaker 3: enjoy it when they come to visit. I get that,

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Speaker 3: but I kind of messed up. I was like, well,

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Speaker 3: you know, you're welcome to use it anytime, Like I

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Speaker 2: What, well, you weren't there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she just kept over and over coming over with

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Speaker 3: her friend. Gab security. You know, my security footage. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought I was gonna say, like security guards.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like the worst security guards.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my security dog, my security dogs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you told her she could use it whenever.

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Speaker 1: No, wait, hold up, she didn't ask you.

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Speaker 3: No, she didn't mention it. And then like the motion

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Speaker 3: sensor triggers, like I know people are in there, so

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Speaker 3: like you know, multiple times I got an alert people

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, there's apps now, yeah, yeah, yeah, we have

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Speaker 1: one that's the same. You can see it from your phone.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, my brother uses my pool all the time, so

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Speaker 3: I kind of figured it was him. And then when

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Speaker 3: I got back, I was curious to see, like who

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Speaker 3: over and over, like it was like the y mc aka.

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Speaker 2: So you come home and you check your security cams

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Speaker 2: and you see that it's actually Sydney and her friends

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Speaker 2: using your pool, and that's why you've kind of cooled

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I just feel like she took advantage.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Did you warn her that you have security cameras outside

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Speaker 2: your We just had this conversation, like not too long

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Speaker 2: you need to warn them that you have.

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Speaker 1: If you invite someone to your home. She was never invited.

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Speaker 1: Like that's the thing, like when you give an open

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Speaker 1: everyone knows that you ask before you do it. You

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Speaker 2: It sounded to me like he told her you can

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Speaker 2: that's true. Maybe we should ask Sydney. Sidney, is that

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Speaker 2: what he said? Hi? It's not like, yeah, sorry, I

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Speaker 2: should have let you know, Kurt that Sydney's been on

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Speaker 3: You after all that. Now you didn't let me know.

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Speaker 2: Yes, well, I guess my calls are right. I'm not

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Speaker 2: very good at this job, so I apologize, but go ahead, Sydney.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I can barely even stand. I'm so

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Speaker 4: horrified right now. I feel so bad. Maybe I was

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Speaker 4: just so excited about like the time we had I

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Speaker 4: just kind of was like showing off your placed my friends.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what, but now I just feel like

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Speaker 4: I messed up so bad and I just that's not

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Speaker 4: respectful in my part, and I'm so sorry. I feel

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I appreciate that. I just I don't know,

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Speaker 3: it's just a little weird.

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Speaker 2: Sidney. How did you even get into his pool?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: Did you have to scale a fence or something? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: No, there's like a door that isn't kept.

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Speaker 2: One of those ones you just reach over. And my

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Speaker 3: I could come in?

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Speaker 1: Sidney? What were you thinking? What do you mean was

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Speaker 1: she thinking broke pool party? Why? Why wouldn't you ask him?

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Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you say, hey, do you mind if my

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Speaker 2: You get away with it?

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Speaker 4: I'm asking her, I mean, if you want me to

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Speaker 4: be completely honest here, You're right. I didn't think he

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Speaker 2: I mean, it sounds to me, Kurt, like Sydney realizes

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Speaker 3: Did, which is everything was just thrown around too. I

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Speaker 3: she didn't even clean up after it was just like

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Speaker 3: it was just a disaster.

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Speaker 2: I really well, she just figured that she would come

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Speaker 4: I don't recall that. Pardon if that's true. I'm super

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Speaker 4: horrified in every way right now. I I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 4: this seems unforgivable. But I really hope that you'll just

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Speaker 4: take my word that I'm not a tool and that like,

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, and I hope we can give it

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Speaker 2: As all, she's impressed by you, bro, she's trying to

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Speaker 2: show off your pad to her friends. Yeah, and with

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Speaker 2: that being said, we want to send you out on

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Speaker 2: another date, and we'll pay for it, Kurt, if you're

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Speaker 2: willing to give Sidney one more chance. I mean, to be.

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Speaker 1: Fair, Kurt, she didn't. I don't think she's like a

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Speaker 1: gold digger. I don't think she's trying to use you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to find a guy with a pool,

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Speaker 1: but she liked it. But she liked you for you

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Speaker 1: before she knew about the pool.

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Speaker 2: That was, she seemed sincere when she told us about it. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, before you answer, just think about Sydney in

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Speaker 2: her shirt and her no pants swimming around in your pool. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you're not.

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Speaker 3: I don't have to think about it. I've seen the

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Speaker 3: video already, all.

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Speaker 2: Just visualize it and then let us know what do

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Speaker 2: you think? One more shot with Sidney on our bill.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I don't think so. I feel like.

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Speaker 1: She blew it, and she blew it, blew it.

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Speaker 2: This is why you hook up the first night. Everybody's

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Speaker 2: swipe right on.

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Speaker 1: Guy.

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Speaker 3: The rest of you, guys, you're a welcome used to

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Speaker 3: pool anytime you want, you lose.

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Speaker 2: We moved on

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.