1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: So handy Man number one, Woodworking number two. Yeah, fuck 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: reading Yeah, Calm Down with Aeron and Carissa is a 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: production of iHeartRadio. Hey now, Hey, Aaron needs to go 4 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: on name that tune. I would love to You are phenomenal, 5 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: like one or two notes, you like know it and 6 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: it's like obscure stuff. It's not even like I don't 7 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 1: know popular music. You just are very quick on the 8 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: draw with the old song scal I wi everybody start 9 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: listening to like current music, because you know, I'll listen 10 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: to our faves and like that's all I'll listen to. 11 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 1: I don't know any music out there right now, current stuff. 12 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: I did a Spotify like now like today's hits? Sure 13 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: I know none of these. I'm like, I'm turning into 14 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: our parents where it's like, what is this music? I 15 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: don't know this music? My music consists of Taylor Swift 16 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 1: country music and mixing a little justin Timberlake for old 17 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,399 Speaker 1: times sake or new stuff Love his new album How 18 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: are we doing? Gal? What podcast? Everybody? Let's jump into 19 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: some questions. Gal First Love an anonymous any advice for 20 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: a single thirty six year old girl who's truly fifty 21 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: to fifty on if I want kids. So she's singles, 22 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: she's thirty six, and she doesn't know if she wants kids. Yep. 23 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: I would say, if you have the money right now, 24 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 1: go freeze your eggs real quick. Yep. So you don't 25 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: have to have that pressure on yourself and you don't 26 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: have to worry about it for right now. YEP. I 27 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: like I'd done that in my twenties. I wish I 28 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: had done it all through my twenties. I didn't even 29 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: know about it. It wasn't a hot topic to do. 30 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: I would have done it, and man, things would be 31 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: really different. It just wasn't something we talked about. It 32 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: wasn't and then it was always like if it was, 33 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 1: it was you only did if you had issues or 34 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: you knew that maybe you were going to have a 35 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: problem having kids. Like now it's like, you're perfectly healthy, 36 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: you should do it. I mean it's not. There's not 37 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: like a caveat for it. And now there's different ways 38 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: to pay for it. Certain companies do provide you insurance, 39 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: you can get a loan for it. There's like all 40 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: these different ways to do it. Now. If you don't 41 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: want to do that, you don't have the means to 42 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: do it. Whatever your situation is. Egg freezing isn't an 43 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: option I would worry about, now, are you planning on 44 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: being with someone, because if you're not, that's a whole 45 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: other ball of woes. But I would worry about having 46 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: a strong relationship before you have kids. It puts a 47 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: strain on your relationship. We were talking about somebody we 48 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: know that is pregnant, that doesn't want to be pregnant. 49 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: The relationship isn't great, this was whatever. So I just 50 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: was saying to my husband, I can't imagine being in 51 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: a place where you knew you were going to break up, 52 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: but then you have a kid and you're like, this 53 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: just adds so much more pressure. It's so hard even 54 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: when you do have a good relationship. Yeah, it is, 55 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: so I would worry about that before you worry about 56 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: a kid. Be honest, if you start dating someone and 57 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: say I'm interested in having babies, but again, if it's possible, 58 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: I would do egg freezing because that takes a lot 59 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: of pressure off you. I think that is all very 60 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: sound and sage advice. Yeah, especially the part where it's 61 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: like make sure that you like the person that you're 62 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: with and not just rushing into having a kid, because 63 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: to your point, that never makes anything better or easier. 64 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,399 Speaker 1: I don't even know if I like myself anymore after 65 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 1: having a kid. WHOA sometimes does this me or you good? 66 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: This is me? Kayleie kimber one. Do you believe in 67 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:42,839 Speaker 1: the seven year itch? Yes? I do? I do? Okay, yeah, 68 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: what you're you one? We're on eight Okay, I do. 69 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: I think things get more serious, like that's when people 70 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: usually have had kids. That's when the kids are old 71 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: enough to be pains in the asses and we're in 72 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: the terrible twos and all the things and like things 73 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: start wearing on you. It's not the honeymoon phase any 74 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: emil more. You've got job shit, you've got house shit, 75 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: you've got appliances that have water saints on them. I 76 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: totally believe in it. I do. Yeah, I was thinking 77 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: about that today. Actually, Steve and I have been together 78 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: for three years. Oh my god, that flu right, it did. 79 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: But then at the same time it's still only three 80 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: years and how important it is, and we talk about 81 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: this where it's like you guys, stn't make sure that 82 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 1: like you have the like the sexy part, you have 83 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 1: the dating part, like you can't just like forfeit all 84 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: that shit, like just because you guys are best friends 85 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 1: and it's easy and it's fun and you can get 86 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: i don't know, lazy if you want to like, oh, 87 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: we're just in a routine. We're in a routine. And 88 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: it's like I've got to remind myself of that too, 89 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: especially now with football starting, where it's like I always like, oh, well, 90 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 1: it's my football season. So even Steven texts me the 91 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: other day and he was like, uh, it's Linda's seasons. 92 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: Tom's time is up, and it's like, but I don't 93 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: want to do I've got to remember that, Like I 94 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: still need to surprise him. And like we were, we 95 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: were very good. We haven't done it a lot lately. 96 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: We're like leaving each other notes when we like go 97 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: out of town or like hiding and home in the 98 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: luggage or doing things like that. And I should initiate 99 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: it because he is the one that always does it. 100 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: But yeah, just making sure that you don't get complacent, 101 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: because really he's like sometimes it's just easy to be 102 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: like okay, eh, you get it. I love you, you love me, 103 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: We're great. But then it's like I don't know. Oh yeah, 104 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: I like caution that. It's like if you're doing if 105 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: I'm already thinking that way. Sometimes at three years, it's like, well, 106 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: where's it at thirty years? And I get it. My 107 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: dad and mom have been together since they were eighteen 108 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 1: years old, and your parents have been together for a 109 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: long time, and it is and my dad goes the 110 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: key to a lasting relationship is make sure that when 111 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: the road starts to go too far from one another, 112 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: that you intersect quickly, like because if you don't and 113 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: you don't catch that, like departure off the exit, win 114 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: get back on that freeway, and now we are going 115 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: a completely different route and it's not so easy to 116 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 1: get back on track. I think. A good thing to remember, 117 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: and if you ever need, like whatever, a good thing 118 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: for us to remember is we have a We have 119 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: a set of friends who are dating and they've been 120 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: dating for two years, and when they're around each other, 121 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: they're always kissing, they're always touching. You saw it on 122 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 1: the podcast and it's like you and I after hanging 123 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: out with them, are like, wait, we're not making out. 124 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: That is a tailor And Travis and Jeff and Lauren 125 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: are two sets of friends I have who are obsessed 126 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: with each other, and every time I leave them, I'm like, 127 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: I look at Steve and I go, you need to 128 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 1: love me more. He's like, you need to love me more. 129 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,039 Speaker 1: I'm a good reminder, like when we find with them, 130 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: it's like I find myself And it's not that I'm 131 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: not grabbing for my husband's hand, but sometimes you just 132 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: get so used to being like, let's go, let's go, 133 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: let's go. We're not as We're not like that. No, 134 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: we're not like that, and it's we love exactly like 135 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: we love our people, but we definitely like they're magnets 136 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: with each other. And it is a good reminder to like, yeah, 137 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 1: it's very cy you did we answer your Haley Kimber, 138 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: anonymous guy I went out with one time doesn't follow 139 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: me but watches all my instant stories. Why oh I 140 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: I love this conversation of the like who's watching your stories? 141 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: Who is it? 142 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: Like? 143 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: Do you look at who watches your stories? So I 144 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: knew how I used to you just you flip you 145 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: like when you're like on your own story, you just 146 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: push up on it and then it shows who watches 147 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: I used to because I had somebody that I wanted 148 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: to ensure wasn't looking at my ship because I hated 149 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: them so much. So I came up with fifty bird 150 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: and then yeah exactly, and then made fake accounts. 151 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 2: And. 152 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: I used to look a lot, but now I don't 153 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: really pay attention to it. I mean every now and 154 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: then it's like if you have to give like insights 155 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: up an ad thing, you'll look and I don't know, 156 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: but now it just doesn't really. I mean, if you look, 157 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: you look, you don't. Who cares why? In this case? Yeah, 158 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: this is one where it's like a guy she went 159 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: out with it doesn't follow me. That's always where you're 160 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: like time out. If you don't follow me, then how 161 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: you are you looking at it? I like it. I 162 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: think it's like a good like you got him girl. 163 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: I feel like, if I'm you, I'm thinking keep in tabs. 164 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:17,679 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 165 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: He wants to know what you're doing, but he doesn't 166 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: want you to know that he knows that you know, 167 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: I know that you I know. Oh yeah. And that's 168 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: where this is, to quote Aaron sub Kid, that's where 169 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,719 Speaker 1: you do. That's that's where if you see him in 170 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 1: the streets next time, he's like, oh my god, how 171 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: have you been? Be like, you know you've watched all 172 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: my Ship, sub Kid, next cue and just moon walk Away. 173 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: He's watching because he cares, That's the why. And girl 174 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: you good. Megan O'Connell favorite workout song, Oh God, I 175 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: got so many. I will go to my playlist that 176 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: me too. Is this one? Anything? P D Pablo Sierra? 177 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 1: You put that song on, You're gonna tell me that 178 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna drop that s like, yeah, that's a 179 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,079 Speaker 1: good one. I got this one also, get Big Bang. 180 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: It sounds like mom talk, but you know what I mean. 181 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: It's just I've got a whole playlist of just real good. Yeah, yeah, 182 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: h blow the whistle. I'm into anything Drake anything like 183 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: I like. I like the remixes that they have for 184 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: tailor stuff that's good. I like. I like when they 185 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: have eighties remixes like they have like some depeche Mode 186 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: remixes and stuff like that. I love that shit. Yep 187 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: t I has a lot of them. Bring them out. 188 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: You tell me this song comes on, you ain't gonna 189 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 1: start running faster? I do this when so when we 190 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: do a Super Bowl so casual to say that when 191 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: we have to do a Super Bowl. We go to 192 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:58,719 Speaker 1: four years, I know, two players practices and you get 193 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:01,959 Speaker 1: to stand there and you know what, whatever, do your thing. 194 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 1: Watch the guys come back in, talk to them. They 195 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: always play their music. And so the last several years, 196 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: Stray has always been there when I'm there because the 197 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: pregame goes too, and so the the guy they you know, 198 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 1: they go to different drills, they go to different plays, 199 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: and they're playing music to keep the guys hyped and 200 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: crowd noise and blah blah blah. The music's fantastic. I 201 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: sit there and I look at straight and I'm like, 202 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: I'm justzaming. I'm jaxaming. I'm just zaming. So half the 203 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: like explicit shit I have is from being at certain practices, 204 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, said ship is inarental advisory. Yeah, 205 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: but Aaron, you and I also has this thing, have 206 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 1: this thing because you've been at stadiums for the last 207 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: twenty years. I had that little moment where I was 208 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: only in studio and since Amazon's on the road now 209 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: I'm back in stadium. Do you know the like Carolina 210 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 1: on the Low, Oh, incredible Atlanta, great music in Atlanta. 211 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: Does well go has great, like you know the ones 212 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: where you're like, oh, I'm so excited to go work 213 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: this game because the DJ bangers anonymous. I'm a twenty 214 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: seven year old man. Thank you for listening. We appreciate it. 215 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 1: And I recently have met and developed feelings with a 216 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 1: forty seven year old woman. Okay, do I navigate? I 217 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: love this go. I think that you and obviously she 218 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: has confidence to date a younger man and she's not 219 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 1: worried about that. Who is this woman? She's something. He's 220 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: great dating a younger man because you're obviously very mature 221 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 1: and that you don't act like a child. This would 222 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 1: be my guess is that because as forty year olds ourself. 223 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: Waitinne got no time for that shit. I'm not here 224 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: to babysit you. I'm not here to change diaper, you're 225 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: already doing that with Mac. I'm not here to handhold. 226 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: I need a man, and I want a man that 227 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: knows who he is. Like Steve's six years younger than 228 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: I am, and so I I usually date guys what's 229 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: that Jared's four years Yeah, and in my past, like 230 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: I would date guys that were similar ages. I've never 231 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: dated someone that's not that it's that much younger, but 232 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: it is six years is still six years, and especially 233 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: with guys, as they say, like arn A's mature as one. 234 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: So I would say, for you, twenty seven year old man, 235 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: good on you. But also she knows who she is. 236 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 1: Just continued to like give her her space if she 237 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 1: needs that, be confident in who you are. But also 238 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: she wants you to take charge. She wants you to 239 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: like show that you're a man, but not like dictate 240 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: her life because she's very probably set in who she 241 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: is at this point. That's my take on it. 242 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 2: You. 243 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would just and I love all of that. Yes, 244 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 1: I would just enjoy the ride where it takes you. 245 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 1: I know stories like this, and I think once you 246 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 1: start talking about real life stuff and like I think 247 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: that's when I'm not saying it all collapses, but it 248 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 1: starts getting real. Go have fun. Who cares? Okay, So 249 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: you don't think this is gonna last. I have no clue. 250 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: I have zero clue. I watched mom talk. I mean 251 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,719 Speaker 1: that stuff seems to last, but who knows, you know, 252 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: who knows? Who knows? Just go have fun, enjoy yourself, 253 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: be a man. Though. I like that Chris, and that's like, 254 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 1: and especially I don't know, I'll speak for myself. I 255 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: love like one of the things I'm most attracted to 256 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: with Steve is that like he is a dude, like 257 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: he knows who he is, but then he also like 258 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: lets me be me, so I think, and especially if 259 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:50,959 Speaker 1: she's forty seven, like did she already have kids? Did not? Like, 260 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: there's a lot of questions there, and there's a lot 261 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: of in between. So yeah, have fun and have confidence 262 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: in this whole situation. You and I on this podcast, 263 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: Oh you holding up your merit. Well, I was gonna say, 264 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: if you want to get give her a great gift, 265 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: I would have gass getting her either a gift certificate 266 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 1: or a couple glosses glow serum from Merit. We I 267 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: guess we're going to start working with them with the podcast, right, Yeah, 268 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: And how funny is it that Aaron and I didn't 269 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 1: even plan this. We both had our merit lip gloss 270 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: on hand. What color do you have there been? I 271 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: can't read uh blarets? Okay, mind you have j E 272 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: T E something French. I can't pronounce it. They make 273 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 1: it super easy on their website. The colors their packaging 274 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: is beautiful, and when I pulled this out, I was like, oh, 275 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: is this going to be like this orange color? I'm 276 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: not sure if that will look good? No, if not 277 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: anyone like I wish I could put h Yeah, it's 278 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: like kind of a pinky, rainy orange color, but then 279 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: it goes on really smooth. I wish I had other 280 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: products down here, but they're great, and I use their 281 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: mass care. I gotta say, Chris has said it their 282 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: website this is not an AD, but I guess it is. 283 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: They didn't ask as it is, but it isn't on it. 284 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 1: They have this whole thing where you you if you're 285 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 1: trying to pick your shade of your foundation, you just 286 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: tell them the shade of your other stuff that you 287 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: use and they pair it. Genius. Genius because also, you 288 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: know what, So when I used to work at Nordstrom 289 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: back in the day my retail life, I'd go down 290 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 1: to the mac counter or Chanelle. I couldn't Affordunatee, but 291 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: like all these other counters, and I'd go to use 292 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: the makeup, but that overhead lighting and I'd always walk 293 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: over to the natural light to like see, it's so 294 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: hard to pick the color and then you get home 295 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: and it's the wrong shade. So this website, I love 296 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: that they offer that because then at least you know 297 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: that they're the ones that are color maccing. You're not 298 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: trying to figure it out. So yeah, good, twenty seven 299 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 1: year old, you get your old lady some merit, and 300 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 1: not that she's an old lady. But no, I'm saying 301 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: that because I'm proud of being older. I am. There's 302 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: always these conversations about like, oh, if you could go, 303 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: you know, back in time, I don't want to go back. 304 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 1: I'm I would have a frozen my eggs earlier. That's 305 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 1: the way thing I would have done. Okay, that's fair, 306 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: I feel, and like that's why you're so good about 307 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: advocating for you know, women to do it when they're 308 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 1: younger and stuff. And I totally understand that. I just am. 309 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: I'm very happy with getting older and the lessons that 310 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: I've learned and the person that I've become. And I 311 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: could always get better. I'm always trying to learn and 312 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: you know, be a better version of myself. But who 313 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: wants to go back to your twenties. Steve and I 314 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: were talking about that because we were talking about like 315 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: really shitty places that you live in, right, like when 316 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 1: you were like your college roommates, or different things and 317 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 1: places that you've had, And he was talking about living 318 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: with Tom's. Shout out to Tom's and Haley He's cuties. 319 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: Tom's was like living in a closet, and like Steve, 320 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: it's like right when they graduated college and all you 321 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: wanted to do is still feel like an adult. You 322 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: don't want to go back home. You want to maintain 323 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 1: your independence. And my girlfriend Megan and I shared a 324 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: studio apartment. We had mattresses on the floor and it 325 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: was only we each only paid five hundred dollars a month, 326 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 1: but we got to live in la We got to 327 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 1: couch off the side of the road, and it was 328 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: so gross and disgusting, but we made it like cute 329 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: and we were so proud of ourselves. We like having 330 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: an apartment in after graduating college. And then now I 331 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 1: look back on it and I'm like, oh my god, 332 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: But like at the time, who cares, Yeah, totally, you know, 333 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: So why would I on that tangent Because we were saying, 334 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 1: I don't want to go back and I'm proud where 335 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 1: I am. I'll tell you it makes me proud? Is 336 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: science like what they're doing, like again with nad peptides. 337 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: I mean, bad stuff continues. I'm crue getting older. There's 338 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: so many potions and lotions too that really taking care 339 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 1: of our skin. You know, the sunscreen thing and the 340 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 1: water thing I'm still not great about. I'm gonna be honest. 341 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: It's like I still like getting a tan and I 342 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 1: don't do as much water, and like those are things 343 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 1: I can get better at, for sure. Prey Inniston says, 344 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: you got to drink some water, so I'll have what 345 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 1: she's having, No kidding. We've got some fun headlines. Shall 346 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: we go through some of them? Bab let's do it? 347 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 1: Do you want to do the awkward high school thing now? 348 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: Or you're over it? Which one's that? That is right 349 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: after the anonymous question, Oh yeah, let's do it? Okay. 350 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: So we talked about awkward high school moments or breakups. 351 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: Chrisa talked about making a mixtape asking her ex boyfriend 352 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:31,400 Speaker 1: to get back together after breaking up with her. So 353 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: we asked for your awkward high school moments or breakups 354 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 1: and here's some of the responses. Hit it my freshman year, 355 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: A girl asked me to go backstage during a She 356 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:44,919 Speaker 1: went in to kiss me and I wasn't ready. My 357 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: mouth was closed the entire time, and she was just 358 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: licking my lips. Tough. That's a tough sounds like a 359 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 1: John Hughes movie. Yeah, that one's step. Do you remember 360 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 1: your first kiss? Who was your first kiss? I'm having 361 00:18:58,280 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: a memory thing right now. I don't know what's going on. 362 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: I need sinky. Mine was Kai Scheidelman, and I remember 363 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: it was a game of telephone. We were sitting on 364 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 1: a bench outside my sixth grade classroom. Was it sixth 365 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: grade or fifth grade? And do you remember telephone? And okay, 366 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: and for those of you kids out there that don't 367 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: know what it is, you say something you whispered in 368 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 1: the ear of the person next to you, and then 369 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 1: they're supposed to repeat it to the next person, and 370 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: you hope that it ends up down the line of 371 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 1: actually being what the intention of the first comment was, 372 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 1: and sometimes it isn't. But anyways, he said I want 373 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 1: to kiss you, and then it came down to me 374 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 1: and then it came out and kissed me and it 375 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 1: was like, I thought, it was like so cool my 376 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: first kiss. I think mine was to a guy named 377 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 1: Wesley Jones, which, by the way, great name. 378 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 2: Wow, Wow, you're middle linebacker for this evening. Wesley Jones, 379 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 2: number fifty in your program, number one in Aaron's Hearty. 380 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 2: And then before leaving for college, my boyfriend gave me 381 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 2: a Hickey then dump me. 382 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, actually good. I'm a firm believer in like, 383 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: we don't bring sand to the beach. If you're going 384 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 1: off to college, we are not doing those relationship break 385 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 1: up Go live a little bit because and again this 386 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 1: ain't coming from no relationship ship expert over here. I 387 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: know who I am in life, but I'm gonna tell 388 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 1: you I don't think it's a recipe for success if 389 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 1: you've only been with the same person for your whole life, 390 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: Because I'm sorry, are you gonna have the same meal 391 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: your whole life? Like, oh, every night I just order pizza. No, 392 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:37,640 Speaker 1: one night you're gonna want Chinese, one night, you're gonna 393 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:39,639 Speaker 1: want Mexican. You're gonna want a variety of food, So 394 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 1: you should try all the items on the menu before 395 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: you settle in on the one entree that you are 396 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 1: your parents one stop shop though. Yeah, but that's like there, 397 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: I mean that that's eighteen. That was forty something years ago. 398 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: Like this is my dad tried to give me advice 399 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 1: one time on dating. This is like when I was 400 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: in my like pit of misery that like I hate 401 00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: all men, and I was like, it's so hard to 402 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,199 Speaker 1: meet people. My dad goes, well, you know, you just 403 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,439 Speaker 1: do this, and I looked at him and I go, 404 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: you can give me advice on anything in life, anything 405 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 1: except for dating, because you've never dated. You married her 406 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: when you were eighteen years old or nineteen, like you 407 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: never had to date. And he looks at me, to 408 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 1: his credit, and he goes, you're right, You're right. I'm 409 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 1: like that you have no idea what it's like to date, 410 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 1: especially in today's today's age. Yeah, it's hat. I have 411 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 1: girlfriends who are you know, single, and like it's fucking hard. 412 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 1: I remember part of the reason, and I've said this before. 413 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 1: I mean, God, I do anything to get a divorce 414 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: because that was priority number one and no matter what, 415 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 1: I was going to get one. But I remember thinking, God, 416 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,400 Speaker 1: this sucks. God, this sucks. I got to go back 417 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: out there and bring it again. Me. I remember you 418 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: were like, how am I going to do this again? 419 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,719 Speaker 1: Of course, And I mean I would do it one 420 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: hundred times over and twice on Sundays, as they say, 421 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 1: because then it's like, look at what I ended up 422 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 1: with the dream that is Steve. So it's like anybody 423 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 1: that feels discovers, I'm like, keep going, you good plus 424 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: one forever. I threw away the left shoe of every 425 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 1: pair of shoes he owned after a breakup. Yes, I 426 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 1: was a psycho. That's good. I kind of like that. Oh, 427 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: that's really saying something when I was saying something, Yeah, 428 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: that's good. Last one is instead of replying, I told 429 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 1: him my phone died and I couldn't find my charger 430 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 1: for over a week. That's funny. Wait, we missed. After 431 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: my first kiss with the hot senior, I opened the 432 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 1: car door into my nose and got a huge nose blean. 433 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 1: Jake Ryan, Jake Ryan. He's a senior. He's so hot 434 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: Ryan Ryan, And even that doesn't know we're talking about 435 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: sixteen candles. In Molly Ringwold's character is in love with 436 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 1: the senior boy named Jake Ryan, and he drives a 437 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 1: red Porsche and he has that gray sweater vest thing 438 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 1: on and the dark hair. Oh Jake Ryan mm hmm, 439 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 1: all right, we've got some headlines. I love some headlines. 440 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 1: All right, I'm going to if you're a boomer, if 441 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: you wear leggings. The rise of big workout pants over 442 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: twenty years. As the reigning workout wear, stretchy fitted bottoms 443 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 1: are losing ground to bag baggy styles favored by gen Z. 444 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: I still love a legging. I mean I wear them. Yeah, 445 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 1: I don't like baggy pants. I think those are like fine, 446 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, like in like a trendy fun way. 447 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: But I still love a little legging situation. So so 448 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 1: oh says you, thank you? Same, okay. Survey most attractive 449 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: hobbies for men according to women. We did this with Jenna. 450 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 1: The number one thing is reading number two, earning a 451 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 1: foreign language number three, playing instruments number four, cooking And 452 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: here's when I couldn't keep a straight face on when 453 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 1: she said it working. That would be my number one. 454 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: Because all these HGTV shows I watch, they always have 455 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: these contractors that are like the husband's right where it's 456 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: like fix her upper and it's Chip and Joanna Gaines 457 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 1: and he's like, she's like I would love this bookshelf, 458 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: and he's like, no problem, honey, and he like makes 459 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 1: her a bookshelf. And I look at Steve and I'm like, 460 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 1: can you make a bookshelf? And He's like, OK, relax, lady. 461 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 1: But I'm like, I think that's so hot. As a designer, 462 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: I could have him whittles some you know, dining room table. 463 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 1: Who reminds me of the line in Wedding Crashers. Where 464 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 1: is it weddings? Yeah? No, it's it's shit. I can't 465 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 1: remember now meet the parents and Owen Wilson's character, He's like, 466 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: I was lucky enough to salvage this from an old 467 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 1: seaman's chaplain Nantucket. I think it works well here. This 468 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: is Kevin's new home. There are so many one liners 469 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 1: in that movie I just die for. But yeah, woodworking 470 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: would be number one for me. I like that. I mean, like, 471 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 1: what's you McCall? Gosh, I have no memory either. A 472 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: guy like he does everything? What kind of guy? Yeah? 473 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: Fix it, mister fix it? Like a handyman. Yeah, I 474 00:24:56,600 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: gotta say handyman. Good. So many redeeming I sometimes when 475 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: it's like there's stuff around the house and I'm like, 476 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: shall we just hire someone? Oh my god, I didn't 477 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: tell you the story our TV went out. Okay, this 478 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: TV right there? Okay, I was gone, and all sudden 479 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 1: Steve goes, the TV just shit out, and I'm like, well, okay, 480 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,640 Speaker 1: this house is like eight years old. That's okay, that's 481 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: a long time for TVs. Yeah, agreed. So he's like, 482 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: I go, well, world, just call someone, and goes, no, no, no, no. 483 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: You got that tcl one out there. We'll just hang 484 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: that up. I go, you're gonna you're gonna just hang 485 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 1: that up while I'm gone, this seventy two inch television. 486 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: You're just gonna prop that bad boy up by yourself. 487 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,880 Speaker 1: I go, no, why don't you wait till I come 488 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: home and we can do it together. As soon as 489 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: I said it, I was like, fuck, I do not 490 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: want to do this task together. It's going to be 491 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 1: a fight. Someone's gonna because ultimately I am a measure 492 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 1: gonna end up crying. I'm a measure twice cut one person. 493 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 1: This is totally what I get from my dad. Where 494 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 1: we open up the box, Okay, take the TV out. 495 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 1: Steve got shit just flying everywhere. The screws are going here. No, dame, 496 00:25:58,600 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 1: you got to take all the screw you got to 497 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 1: him in the same spot. You got to get organized. 498 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: We're not ripping stuff off the wall unless we know 499 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 1: how it goes back. So already I'm like this, and 500 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: it is taking everything I have in me to just 501 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: bite my fucking tongue and not say something. I'm like, Grissa, 502 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 1: just let him be a man, let him put the 503 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:17,199 Speaker 1: new TV up. So I say nothing. He gets up 504 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 1: there and he thinks he's going to just jam this 505 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,120 Speaker 1: thing on the existing hook. Thing, other stuffs, the direct 506 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 1: TV box is falling out the back. There's all this stuff, 507 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: and then he goes, well, we don't need this, and 508 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 1: I go, do you even know what that's for? Turns 509 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 1: out it's for the electric shades, so it's like then 510 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:32,960 Speaker 1: he takes that out, says we don't need it now 511 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,679 Speaker 1: the shades don't work. I go, okay, I go, this 512 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,639 Speaker 1: is such a guy thing. Yep. And I tried. I 513 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,440 Speaker 1: tried to let him be in the man of the situation. 514 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,640 Speaker 1: And then finally, which is I couldn't take it anymore. 515 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 1: I literally bit through my tongue. I go, this is 516 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: why we don't do projects together. This is why I 517 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 1: wanted to hire someone. Fine, if you want to do it, 518 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: your way. You do it your way, and I stepped 519 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 1: off the goddamn step stool and he goes, well, that's 520 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: not a very nice thing to say. And now I go, okay, 521 00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 1: well now I'm the jerk. Now I'm the jerk because 522 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 1: you didn't want to follow the instructions and we didn't 523 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: want to hire someone. It would have cost one hundred 524 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: bucks to hire someone. Now we're in a fight because 525 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 1: it's stupid TV. And anyways, we ended up putting it 526 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 1: up together after I took a break, and I go, 527 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 1: do you want to try this again? We can't put 528 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 1: down the sheades and now I can't watch televison. Yes. 529 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you don't know what all this stuff. 530 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:22,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what all this stuff is back here, 531 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 1: but let's figure it out together. And then he rips 532 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 1: off the sonos like the big huge speaker thing, goes, 533 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 1: we don't need that on there. I'm like, okay, okay, okay, 534 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 1: we don't need this on there. We don't need on there. 535 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: So handy man number one, woodworking number two, yeah, fuck reading, yeah, 536 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,919 Speaker 1: buck playing that piano that that we have behind does 537 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 1: don't care about playing instruments? Oh, Ryan just sent us 538 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: to headline on Oh, this is the headline I was 539 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,919 Speaker 1: actually gonna ak Steve about but we ran out of 540 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: time and patients with televisions. Okay, So David Beckham was 541 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,439 Speaker 1: giving himself a buzz cut when he accidentally gave himself 542 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 1: a bald patch. Victoria Beckham was brutally honest about the outcome, saying, 543 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to always be honest with you. It looks terrible. 544 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,719 Speaker 1: So I thought this headline was interesting because I am weird, 545 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 1: not shy about my opinions on things. So if Steve, 546 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 1: who always wears T shirts and like jeans and it's 547 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 1: pretty standard in the way he dresses, he's not like 548 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:34,880 Speaker 1: he doesn't like go rogue that often, but when he does, 549 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, WHOA, what is that? And I'll say it. 550 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 1: But he never says anything about what I'm wearing. And 551 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: I know he's thinking it, but like, they can't say it. 552 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 1: It's a fight if they do. But I kind of 553 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 1: want him too. I kind of want to test him 554 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: and like, just wear the ugliest shit I can come 555 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 1: up with, and like walk downstairs and be serious and 556 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 1: see if he'll say something like, what like why you 557 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 1: can't like if I this is like a random Sure, 558 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 1: I'm not worried about that. I'm saying. If I'm actually gonna, 559 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: like go out to dinner and I come down in 560 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: some crazy outfit, do you think he'll say something. I'm 561 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 1: in these god awful Jean shorts. I've born him the 562 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 1: last few days and my husband has swallowed it. He 563 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 1: hasn't said one vegging thing. But if he needs to 564 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 1: blow his nose, I'm like, blow your nose. They don't 565 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: say anything. They're so much Oh my god, I know. 566 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 1: But then it's like this is how we end up 567 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 1: in therapy and they're like, I can't say a goddamn 568 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: thing to before she loses her shit. I'm gonna wear 569 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna test my theory out. I'm gonna wear some 570 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 1: tacky shit and see if he says anything. Take a 571 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: picture of that moment. You know I'm going to I'm 572 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 1: going to I'll test it out tonight. Actually, if I 573 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:50,240 Speaker 1: ever get out of this takyo first, all right, it's great. 574 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 1: Next headlines, sister. Okay, So that was it. Goodbye gentle parenting. Hello, 575 00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: f around and find out. I think this is the 576 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: new book that's out and I really should read it. 577 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 1: Parents are ditching the softer approach to child rearing that 578 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 1: has dominated the culture and taking a harder line. That's me. 579 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: We were having a big discussion yesterday with our friends 580 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: who as a baby three weeks older than mac. One parent. 581 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 1: The wife and Jared are very much like, hey, let's 582 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: talk this out, and the dad and me shout out 583 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 1: to Teddy and me are very much like, hey, no, 584 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 1: I'm not doing this. And this is another thing I 585 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 1: feel strongly about. We had our baby late in life. 586 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm fully aware, but we had an opportunity to be 587 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 1: around a lot of kids that really behaved badly, and 588 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 1: I always looked at my husband and said, I don't 589 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 1: want my kid to be like that. I want my 590 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 1: kid to be like this. Shout out to the Olsen 591 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 1: shout out to Ogden and Ashley Fixed Like I appreciate 592 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: their parenting styles, I also feel like, Listen, like we 593 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 1: live in a small town. There's pressure on my kid 594 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: to not be an a hole, and I don't want 595 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 1: him to be an a hole. And like, you know, 596 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 1: I just I am very My parents were hard on me, Listen. 597 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 1: We had an incredible relationship, but my mom didn't tolerate 598 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 1: much and I appreciate that now, and now that is 599 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 1: how I am. I not that I won't let him 600 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: get away with things, but I want to talk through it. 601 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: I want to tell you why this isn't the thing. 602 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 1: You shouldn't be doing this, and this is the what 603 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: we're going to do to correct it. I'm not into 604 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: the gentle approach, but Jared's aligned with you on that. 605 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: Oh he's softer on him. Yeah, yeah, okay, So how 606 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 1: do you guys handle that? 607 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 2: Well? 608 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: What kind of convers it is? It just creates tension 609 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 1: because we have to have good communication because right now, 610 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: I'm not a dummy Mac for Mac. Jareded is the 611 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 1: end all be all. He sees NBA on TV, Dad dad, Nope, 612 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 1: your dad doesn't play in the NBA MLB Dad, Dad, Nope, 613 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 1: the Dodgers. Jared is it in his life. And that's fine. 614 00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: I get it. So when we are banging our shit 615 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 1: on the table, I look at Jared and I'm like, 616 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 1: you got to say something because he is not. He 617 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: looks at me and he's like, yeah, and it can't 618 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: always be you who's the disciplinarian. Yeah, so we're getting there. Yeah, yeah, 619 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 1: that's at so Steve and I. One of the conversations 620 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: we had on this podcast when you were gone was 621 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,959 Speaker 1: about when people ask us all the time about having kids, 622 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 1: and we're obviously, you know, we're we've made the decision 623 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: that we're not going to have kids, and so some 624 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 1: of the benefits of that is, Yeah, there's obviously some 625 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: negatives as well, like we won't ever be able to 626 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 1: see what our kid looks like, we won't even have 627 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: these you know, can memories, all these different things. But 628 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 1: the positive that him and I have both talked about 629 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: is that it eliminates a lot of things that you 630 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: would have thought about because all or the stress or 631 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: all of the things that you and Jared or any 632 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 1: parent goes through with their partner. Is like, that is 633 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: a lot of things that you guys have to work 634 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 1: through and so which can strain in your marriage too. Right, 635 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 1: you learn a lot and you become good, you better 636 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 1: teammates or all these things. But let's not fucking sugarcoat it, 637 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 1: like the amount of stress that comes from having a child, 638 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 1: or like all of the worry. I mean, that's a 639 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 1: lot of stuff. So I commend you guys because you 640 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: said it, both of you guys have. You have to 641 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 1: be good communicators, and you might not always like communicat 642 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: My dad growing up, was had one very big rule 643 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 1: and I always I'm sure you've heard me say it 644 00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: a million times. He goes, ain't my job to be 645 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 1: your friend. It's my job to your parent. And when 646 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 1: you turn eighteen, if you want to be friends with me, 647 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 1: then cool. We can be friends at eighteen, but until then, 648 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 1: it's my job to not raise an asshole. And my 649 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 1: mom was a little bit more forgiving, just because you 650 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 1: can't have both of them be so like sure. But 651 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 1: my dad, oh my god, my dad, to this day, 652 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: if he gives me a look, I'm still like ah, 653 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: Like he was like so hard on us, but I 654 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 1: appreciate it. And there was I told you this. Over 655 00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 1: the weekend. There was this wonderful director who I had 656 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: a chance to interview, Joseph Kasinski. He is the top 657 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:07,440 Speaker 1: Gun Maverick director. He's the f one director and he 658 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: was fascinating. But I my biggest takeaway was not what 659 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 1: he has done professionally, but what he has done personally. 660 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: He brought his son, who was twelve years old, named Alex, 661 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 1: and Alex started walking down the stairs and then he 662 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,240 Speaker 1: stopped and he looked at me and he goes after 663 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 1: you and let me walk in front of him. And 664 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 1: I looked back at his father and I said, wow, 665 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 1: you guys have done an amazing job as parents. And 666 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 1: then he was so sweet and gave all the credit 667 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 1: to his wife. But I sat there and I was like, 668 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: the gifts that you are giving your kid to go 669 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 1: out into the world with manners, with kindness, with chivalry, 670 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 1: like all of these things, Like if that young man 671 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 1: at twelve years old has that imagine being I was like, 672 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 1: I'm excited for this guy's first girlfriend because you are amazing. 673 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:51,319 Speaker 1: But yeah, those are a lot of skills that you're 674 00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,319 Speaker 1: not always going to be popular when you're trying to 675 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 1: implement them with your child, but they'll remember it for 676 00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:01,359 Speaker 1: the rest of their life. So with that parenting, Ted 677 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,399 Speaker 1: talks he probably doesn't have kids, But I love you. 678 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:09,080 Speaker 1: You're doing great. Mac is an amazing young man, and 679 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 1: you're an amazing mother. I love you. Now stays where 680 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,760 Speaker 1: he's at the bottom of the stand stairs, going mama, mommy. 681 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: Oh that's cute. Yeah, yeah, it's like stewie mom, mom, mommy, 682 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 1: mom what Hi? He doesn't hi hie hi, You're like okay, 683 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:38,399 Speaker 1: I love you so much. Bye, guys, see you next. 684 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 1: Whye bye. Calm Down with Aeron and Carissa is a 685 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 1: production of iHeartRadio. 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