1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: Keep It Positive Sweety is available on Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, Spotify, 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts. Just search keep It 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: Positive Sweety. That's Sweety with an Ie to listen. Hello, 4 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: and welcome to this episode of Keep It Positive Sweety. 5 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,479 Speaker 1: I'm Christinete Hazlet and guys, guess what we are in 6 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: Los Angeles. I finally brought kIPS to La Guys, I 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: want to sit down and talk to some of my 8 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: friends here that couldn't get to Atlanta, so we are here. 9 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: I am so excited. I want to thank thirteen Loon. 10 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: We are here at this beautiful black owned establishment owned 11 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: by Nikayo Graco, where ninety percent of her products that 12 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: she sells are Bipop founded. Guys, make sure you stop 13 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: by right here in the larch My area. If you 14 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,919 Speaker 1: don't know where it is, just google it and pull 15 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: up on my girl. For this episode, I am talking 16 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: to someone that I'm very close to that I've known 17 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: four years. I'm so excited to have her is responsible 18 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: for a lot of the hairstyles that you've seen me 19 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: rock on red carpets, and so many other people, just 20 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: to name a few, Tyra Banks, Angela Bassett Shaka Khan, 21 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: Laverne Cox Sierra. It's so many people that if it's flies, 22 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: she probably doesn't need it. I'm telling you, but I 23 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 1: have with me. Kaya right, guys. Kaya is a two 24 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: time Emmy Award winning celebrity hairstyles whose genius has not 25 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: only set the president for image making, but has redefined 26 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: the appearance of sexy, successful and confident women. Kaya is 27 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: a fashion powerhouse with expercise ranging from signature hairstyle designs 28 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: to overall beauty consultation and transformation. As a charismatic visionary, 29 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: this creative trendsetter has established her mark in the industry 30 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: and continues to inspire with cutting edge developments and groundbreaking achievements. 31 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, Kaya. 32 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: Right, Yes, I am so excited to be here. 33 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 3: I'm always liked can tell everything y'all with the shows 34 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 3: you keep podcast. 35 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: I just appreciate your continued support over the years. Today 36 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: we want to talk about continuous invention, and that is 37 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: what I think about you. You have reinvented yourself over 38 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: the years. You've been doing this for thirty years, and 39 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: you have been doing it. You know people wish they could, Oh, 40 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: you've been doing it for thirty years and when I 41 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: think about you, I think about this quote and it 42 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: says there are no shortcuts in evolution. We should be 43 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: consistent in evolution and adapt to the new without ever 44 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: losing our essence or our integrity. And I feel like 45 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: that is something you have done. 46 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 2: Like that little integrity. Oh that's what I love that. Oh, 47 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 2: I love that. 48 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: That's what I think about when I think of you. 49 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: You are constantly evolving with the times. I was telling 50 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: my team, I said, I feel like there are some 51 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: artists and you can tell by their work that they 52 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: literally learned whenever they learned years ago and never kept 53 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: up with the times. With you, like I can be like, 54 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 1: how did you like? 55 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,239 Speaker 2: Oh got it? Like you're on it, Like you keep 56 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: up with the times. 57 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: Whatever's in you know how to do it, And a 58 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: lot of times you're ahead of the times. That's all 59 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: I love about you. You can be like, no, we 60 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: need to do this, and then you see a year 61 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 1: later people are doing what you said. 62 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 2: Do a year ago exactly. That's exactly how you are. 63 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 2: We met. 64 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, I don't want to say that came of 65 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: the year. 66 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 3: It was the Jamie Fox and Gabrielli because I was 67 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 3: doing gab you were doing jail right, oh, t exactly 68 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 3: on the show. And yeah, the year it was, it's 69 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 3: over ten years. Yeah, it's over ten years. And ever 70 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 3: since then we've been. 71 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: Like, yes, love I love it. 72 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: I remember meeting you and we worked I think it 73 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: was three months on that movie. Yes, it was hot 74 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: Atlanta summer. 75 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 3: Yes, and we were backstage. We got to talk every day, 76 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 3: catch up, chit chat a whole bit. 77 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 2: Yes. That. 78 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: So I want to go back to your growing up, 79 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: your background. I want to know more about Kaya and 80 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: where she really started from. Now. Were you the type 81 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: of girl that played with dolls and liked the. 82 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 3: Hair, yes, and don't play with my dogs, like I 83 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 3: would be real territorial too, like had the little barbies, 84 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 3: you know they had the head and then with the 85 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 3: big head, and then you can put all your little accessories, 86 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,559 Speaker 3: like right in the little pie right in the front. 87 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 2: Then I had the barbies. 88 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 3: Grandma would buy me all the barbies, like, please don't 89 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 3: touch my barbies, Like I would be real territorial with 90 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 3: the styling and putting the clothes, like, yes, it really 91 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: did start there. And then I I would sneak friends 92 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: into the basement to get their hair done and charge them. 93 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 2: I was doing hair, nails everything. 94 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 3: I was fourteen, fourteen, My mom had just passed and 95 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 3: she put. 96 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 2: Me in hair school. 97 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: Wow. 98 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 3: So back then hair school was in a was as 99 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 3: you took it as a train, so like back then 100 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 3: it had carping electrician and I could take up cosmetology. 101 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 3: So I took up cosmetology, paid one hundred and fifty 102 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 3: dollars for the kid boom. I started doing hair like 103 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 3: from that moment on and I probably graduated. 104 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 2: My mom passed away. 105 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 3: It was like literally she put me right in hair 106 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 3: school right before that, and she probably passed. 107 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:20,799 Speaker 2: Away like a month later. 108 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 3: So that really was like it really did spearhead. That 109 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 3: gave me a jump start at like making it a career, right, 110 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. I didn't know it was 111 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 3: going to be a career. I just thought, like, I'm 112 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 3: hustling to make money. My mom just passed away, my 113 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 3: grandma and them they not really giving me money. I'm 114 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 3: hanging out with the hot girls or whatever. And I'm like, 115 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 3: I mean, buddy, you know. 116 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: What I mean? 117 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 3: So I started doing hair sneaking people. I didn't have 118 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 3: to sneak. I had the whole basement, and my grandma 119 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 3: would let me do people's hair. 120 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 2: I would do the little hump nails and if the 121 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 2: little I did. Yes, I did everything to just make money, 122 00:05:58,520 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: you know. 123 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 3: So that's really really how I started. 124 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: Wow, that's how I started at home, right, And I'm 125 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 1: sure just your mom looking down is like super proud 126 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 1: that the sea that she sold a long time ago. Yes, 127 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: the room that it's made for you in your life, yes. 128 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 3: Is incredible. 129 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, it's been a it's been a 130 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: I didn't go for it. 131 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 3: It was just it kind of I've never had another job. 132 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: I didn't go for it. I didn't go for it, 133 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I never had another job 134 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: ever in my life. 135 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, you know, I went from fourteen, 136 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,119 Speaker 3: I was trying to hustle to make money. 137 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,239 Speaker 2: I tried to sow drugs. 138 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 3: You know, said my book, Like I was just like 139 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 3: I need. 140 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 2: I need to make money, you know what I mean? 141 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 3: Because what was I gonna do my grandma My mom 142 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 3: had just passed away. My grandma ned been taken care 143 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 3: of me, and I'm just like not really just kind 144 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 3: of no guidance. And hair was so natural for me, 145 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, just kind of sneaking people 146 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 3: in doing hair. And then it was a salon that 147 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 3: did all the popular girls, these gay boys. They would 148 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 3: walk up and down Georgia Avenue, Silver Spring, Maryland and 149 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 3: just be like fabulous, like fabulous, And I was like, 150 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 3: I want to I want to work with those guys. 151 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 2: And I went in there and. 152 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 3: They trained me like boot camp. They would be making 153 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 3: fun of me for being slow. I mean, by like 154 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 3: a year later, I had it and I was like, boom, 155 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: I'm one of those people. I could watch you and 156 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 3: watch things and I. 157 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: Could just copy it. Yeah, really good at that. And 158 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 2: I just. 159 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 3: Got really good, and in two years I was like 160 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 3: making like two thousand dollars a week. 161 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 2: And from there I knew. I was like, okay, I 162 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 2: want to do all. 163 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 3: My friends, all the drug dealer girlfriends. 164 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna do those. 165 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 3: Were the celebrities at that time, drug dealer girlfriends. 166 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 2: So those were the girls that I sort of started with. 167 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 3: And they helped me like become a trendsetter. 168 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 2: You know. That was the beginning, you know, DC doing 169 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: those girls. 170 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: D I always had trade DC to where I found 171 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: myself because after college, I moved to d C. I'm 172 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: from a s long time. I did not know that 173 00:07:58,360 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: I worked on. 174 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 2: Capitol Hill right out of car Yeah. 175 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, d C where literally fashion found myself, you know, 176 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: and my identity. So I attribute a lot of who 177 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: I am today to d C. 178 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we fly are. 179 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 2: Fly. Yeah from the core. 180 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 3: New York was like cooler, they had the fashion, but 181 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 3: DC women were just like really into you know what 182 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 3: I mean. And that's where I learned how to do 183 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 3: short haircuts because the halle Berry was out Boomerang Salt 184 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 3: and pepper with the little axymmetrics stack curls like ooh. 185 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 2: I take it back out. 186 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 3: And I was really just I just wanted to be 187 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 3: the best, Like I want to be the best. 188 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 2: I want to make money. 189 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 3: And I started with those guys two years and I 190 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 3: just remember saying like that was the beginning of me 191 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 3: becoming an entrepreneur. I said, if I go to them, 192 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 3: and I wanted to ask them. I was like, can 193 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 3: I work on my own? You know, can I not 194 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 3: be on commission anymore? And they were like no. Now 195 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 3: before I went to them, I said, they say, no, 196 00:08:57,920 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 3: I got to have a plan. Beat, yes, you do 197 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 3: so I went down the street and I set it 198 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,320 Speaker 3: up just in case they said no, And sure enough, 199 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 3: I went back and they were like, no, we don't 200 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 3: think you're ready yet. And I was like, okay, cool, 201 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 3: and I left and. 202 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 2: I went down literally down the alley and. 203 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 3: I took my entire clientele and that was the beginning 204 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 3: of me becoming an entrepreneur. 205 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: WO right there, so talking about entrepreneur and a lot 206 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: of people don't know after DC, you did so many things. 207 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: Walk us through the journey to get us to where 208 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: you are now. Because people think that entrepreneurship the way 209 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: we make it look is easy. They see you have 210 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,719 Speaker 1: your ONW salon, you do the celebrities. But walk us 211 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: through what it took to get to that point, starting 212 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: from leaving that one salon. 213 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 2: I think that helped me make the decision. 214 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 3: Like I always say, there's no plan B, but I 215 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,079 Speaker 3: had to have a plan after when they said no, 216 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 3: I was like, what am I going to do with 217 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 3: this huge clientele? I have to I know what I 218 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 3: could be making. And I think you start to realize, like, wow, okay, 219 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 3: I learned earned I worked under the best, because I 220 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 3: think that's key. 221 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 2: I always give that as advice. 222 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 3: Work with the best, be around the best, so you 223 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,719 Speaker 3: don't have to search for it. Come on, you know 224 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, yeah, I was never and don't 225 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 3: be intimidated by it. Like I want to go work 226 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 3: with the best, like where they're at. That's where I 227 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 3: wanted to work, so I could learn and absorb everything 228 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 3: and I wouldn't have to go find it because people 229 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 3: always ask me, how do I build a clientele? 230 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 2: Go find the best, Go find. 231 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 3: A mentor go work for someone who's better than you, 232 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 3: who you want to kind of be like And that 233 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 3: was the decision that I had to make at that moment. 234 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 2: Really did just aspire one to so much more. Then 235 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 2: I met Puff. 236 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:41,319 Speaker 3: Puff was like, you know, going to Howard doing parties 237 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 3: and he had just started bad Boy Records. So now 238 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, going back and forth to New York. 239 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 3: I was like, shoot, I want to live in. 240 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 2: New York City. 241 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: This is it. 242 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 2: You know. 243 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 3: I had kind of, like I would say, kind of 244 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 3: conquered DC. 245 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 2: You know, I'd done four years. 246 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 3: In DC, did all the drug dealer girlfriends, did all 247 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 3: the hot girls in the city. I'm like, I want 248 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 3: to go moved to New York met Puffin. That is 249 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 3: really when it turned over a bit, you know, and 250 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 3: I was like, I mean, just even how I got 251 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 3: to New York, My life has always happened by chance. 252 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 2: Moving to New York. 253 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 3: The salon I robbed, They threw everybody, eleven people in 254 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 3: a bathroom. They were scared to death, and nobody wanted 255 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 3: to work there. Boom, here comes Kye Wright. She came 256 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 3: and swept up a clientele. Same thing in La the 257 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 3: people died from their leaplane crash. Kye Wright came and 258 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 3: I swept up the whole clientele. So I've had very 259 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 3: fady moments in my life, unfortunate that were blessings kind 260 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 3: of for me, like not in a good way, but 261 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 3: kind of sort of you know what I mean. And timing, 262 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 3: I think timing really did was also in faith, really 263 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 3: having faith to move to Los Angeles. Yeah, moving here 264 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 3: from New York was a big step, and that was COVID. 265 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 3: I'm sorry when the plane nine eleven. So all these 266 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 3: monumental moments just kept happening in my life and kept 267 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 3: me on point because you got to be able to 268 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 3: hang with the shift, you got to be able to pivot. 269 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 3: So it started very early on pivoting for me moving 270 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 3: from d C, which I had a huge clientele too. 271 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 3: And I know because I used to do Christmas cards 272 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 3: and I used to write them out personally, and I 273 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 3: would be like four hundred later and I would be like, 274 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 3: I'm tired. Whoever is after four hundred woman getting a card? 275 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 3: And so and then from there and I was like, 276 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 3: you know, I moved from DC to New York and then. 277 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: On September eleventh, Tipen. 278 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 3: I killed New York for eight years, nine years. I 279 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 3: did everything from the press, from Vibe to Double Excel, 280 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 3: all the magazines I got really you know, big in 281 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 3: the editorial world, because you want to get into the 282 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 3: editorial world acrossover as a black artist, and I just 283 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 3: the black magazines. I wanted to be crossover. I'm always 284 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 3: wanted to be global in some sense, you know, and 285 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 3: I just try, you know, I became popular and naturally 286 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 3: now the soelebrity's looking for you, you know. I also, 287 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 3: I'm a salon girl, so I wanted to work at 288 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 3: the hottest salon in New York, which is Warren Chacone, 289 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 3: a beautiful white salon. They created the most beautiful salons 290 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 3: in the city. They were right next door to Arista Records, 291 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 3: So they did everybody, and I was like, I want 292 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 3: to work there. They did and I did not. 293 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 2: Oh you did not. They did not. 294 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 3: Oh it was no black people that worked in there 295 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 3: but one black girl. And you have to start from 296 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 3: the fries to the top. And if I had to 297 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 3: let go of a huge clientele that I had on 298 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 3: forty thirty Fifth to now move on forty second Street 299 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 3: and fifty seventh Street and Fifth, I would have to 300 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 3: let everything go to work in there, to start at 301 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 3: the bottom, because you got to start at the shampoobo 302 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 3: and you have to learn to be an assistant to 303 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 3: then become a stylist. So that would have been another 304 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,839 Speaker 3: four years and I just couldn't do it, and I could. 305 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 2: I just couldn't do it. 306 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 3: But what happened later is I ended up moving to 307 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 3: LA eight years later and I ended up working at 308 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 3: Warrant You Collie for thirteen years. Wow, look at upt 309 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 3: me do it so wasn't for you, but you and 310 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 3: just I had to season up, yeah, season up, just 311 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 3: you know, just grow my craft. I was doing so much. 312 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 3: I was touring a lot. I toured fifteen years of 313 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 3: my career. Twelve years of my career with Faith, Mary, 314 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 3: Little Kim One, twelve, Biggie everybody for twelve years. 315 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 2: When I moved here, I was like, no more, no 316 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 2: more touring. 317 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: So what was it like touring with those you just 318 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: ain't a lot of amazing like iconic people. 319 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 2: What was it like? The best? 320 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 3: It taught me how to be fast, because you got 321 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 3: to think, Mary J. Blige has just launched my life album. 322 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 3: You are going from four three am in the morning 323 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 3: to one pp at night and so pop they would 324 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 3: be like, you gotta be ready, you gotta be ready. 325 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 3: I never toured. I don't know what this is like. 326 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 3: What is it like to be on the road with 327 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 3: a girl. I'm going through all the Mary J. Blige 328 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 3: growing pains, I'm going through Kye right and not knowing 329 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 3: how to be on tour. And I was with Faith first, 330 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 3: and then Mary and her stylist had got into it, 331 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 3: so we swaps. Puppy said you go with Mary now, 332 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 3: and then her style is gonna go with Faith. So 333 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 3: that's how I end up with Mary for like a year, 334 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 3: and this is the beginning of her career. I'll never 335 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 3: forget that that show that my life album tour. I 336 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 3: would go out and watch the show every single night, 337 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 3: So I had to learn how to be fast. 338 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 2: I had to learn how to pick up the speed. 339 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 2: You got to know how. 340 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 3: To like, if they don't want to wake up that morning, 341 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 3: you gotta get her ready in twenty minutes. 342 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 2: Nobody cares that you couldn't get it ready. 343 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 3: No one cared that, you know, you know, the time 344 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 3: it didn't work out, no one cares. So it taught 345 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 3: me very early on be ready, be prepared, have options, 346 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 3: like they could change their mind at the drop of 347 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 3: a dime. And just and be good because your work 348 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 3: is gonna be featured on Natural telling me right, and 349 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 3: you're gonna get murdered if it doesn't look right, and 350 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 3: be like, oh yeah, happened to me too, so you know, yeah, 351 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 3: so just you know, I think life really taught me 352 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 3: so much on just you know. And I've had so 353 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 3: many stages of my career, you know, like starting out 354 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 3: as a salon Style. 355 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: Is touring for years, then Boom moved to LA and 356 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 2: now I meet Tyra. 357 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 3: J Manuel introduced me to Tyre's like, I think you 358 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 3: need to, you know, do this work with Tyra. She's 359 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 3: like great she's launching this TV show, and I was like, uh, TV, 360 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 3: it's not. 361 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 2: A lot of money. I don't know if I want 362 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 2: to do that. I'm killing I'm just growing my clientele. 363 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 3: After like a year in LA in the salon and 364 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 3: I'm like in freelancing, so. 365 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know, I'm making good money here. 366 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 2: Should I leave this to do TV? 367 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 3: Finally she kept asking two years and I was like, 368 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 3: for two years. 369 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:49,479 Speaker 2: I didn't get the concept. 370 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 3: I didn't get the concept because I was making money 371 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 3: and I was working with all the celebrities just freelancing. 372 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 2: And then finally I was. 373 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 3: Just like something said just do it, and it was 374 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 3: life changing. I got to work with an iconic woman 375 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 3: who taught me so much about professionalism. She taught me 376 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: about like how to show up on set, remembering how 377 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 3: to model lighting, Like you know, I'm the one now 378 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 3: that go behind like the celebrity told me, ky goo 379 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 3: check the light. I'll tell the director the light ain't 380 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 3: right and the hair too hot at the top, Like 381 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 3: I just know from working with her for so many years. 382 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 3: They spent three hours on lighting on top model. Wow, 383 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 3: because they lit so many different shades, you got a 384 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 3: chocolate caramel, so you have to light differently due brown skin. 385 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:42,159 Speaker 3: So it taught me so much, just her working with her, 386 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 3: like no matter what she was going through the pressure. 387 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 3: She had two three TV shows and she would come 388 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 3: in I mean she would just lay on. 389 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 2: The bed and like, do my hair and make it. 390 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 2: She would be exhausted, editing. 391 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 3: All night long, like you just see it, and never 392 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 3: had an attitude when she came to work. 393 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 2: Never. I was like, that was just everything, because when 394 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 2: you work with women, you get all type of you know, attitudes, 395 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 2: that's whatever. 396 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: That says a lot about her and her character. 397 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 2: Cool all the time. 398 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 3: I was like this, it just taught me so much, 399 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 3: you know, how to treat people on set. And just 400 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 3: you know, the disaster for me happened on TV too. 401 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 3: They all people wrote in on a show that she did, 402 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 3: and we had it had went from top model that 403 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 3: morning to the talk show. 404 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 2: Those two worlds don't match, right when you're doing hair. 405 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I did this crazy editorial thing and she 406 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 3: was like, I'm tired. I just I just can't today. 407 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 3: I gotta I gotta, I just I can't. I just 408 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 3: gotta go on and do it. 409 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 2: And she had these too, a ball here, the boy here, 410 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 2: ball here. 411 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 3: And a million people wrote in, Oh my god. Two 412 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 3: months later they come to me, they say, kaya, I 413 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 3: just wanted to come and ask you. You know, two 414 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 3: million people, a million people wrote in about this one 415 00:18:55,160 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 3: episode that Tyro's hair was a little crazy, and they said, 416 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,360 Speaker 3: would you mind if we do a show on this? 417 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 2: Oh wow? 418 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 3: I say yeah, but we're going to give you your 419 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 3: own show afterwards. And I have. 420 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 2: And we're going to insert the footage here. 421 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 3: It was even when I looked back and saying that 422 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 3: was kind of crazy, but anyway, and it was like 423 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 3: the first time on TV I realized, like, the two 424 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 3: worlds don't mix, so that editorial and daytime TV hair 425 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 3: are two different. 426 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 2: I learned a big lesson. 427 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you got your show. 428 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 3: Exactly it works exactly, so so many life lessons just 429 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 3: with the journey. You know. 430 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: So you made it to LA and you decided to 431 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 1: open up your own salon. I think it was in 432 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: twenty sixteen. Muse suits and with everybody knows what the 433 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 1: entrepreneurship and with all in the salon, it has its 434 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:53,199 Speaker 1: ups and downs. You were faced with the pandemic, you 435 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: were faced with the strike, and a lot of people 436 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 1: didn't realize how this strike just didn't affect people like 437 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 1: me who were in front of the camera. It affected 438 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: people like you who worked with other actors. It affected 439 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: our grips, are electricians, our PA's, everyone who worked on set, 440 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 1: behind the scenes that people don't even know about that 441 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 1: actually make everything come together and actually work. 442 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 2: It affected you all as well. 443 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,360 Speaker 1: Can you tell us how your faith had to take 444 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,160 Speaker 1: a take a seat, how your faith had to play 445 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 1: a part in getting you through, because I know the 446 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 1: pandemic was everybody. 447 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 2: But a few years later you get here with the strike. 448 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 1: Girl, because we talked during the strike and you were like, girl, yeah, 449 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 1: but let's. 450 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 2: Not forget right now. We're on a strike. 451 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 3: Hair makeup and teamsters could possibly right now today we're 452 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 3: on strike right now. 453 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, right now. 454 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 3: But we I don't know if we're going to actually strike, 455 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 3: but we're in the heavy negotiations. If the teamsters do 456 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 3: not go to work, there will be no one going. 457 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 2: So they're not going to play games with them, no, 458 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And I would and I. 459 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 3: Would say, like even for hair and makeup, how important 460 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 3: we are. 461 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 2: So I'm out of COVID. 462 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 3: You know that was a big time for me because 463 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:05,879 Speaker 3: I'm like, right now I'm about to launch my line. 464 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:11,680 Speaker 3: It's twenty nineteen. I done got my big loan. I'm 465 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 3: ready to like launches kaboom. I will never forget to 466 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 3: day when I and my salon is not a big salon. 467 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 3: I've never been big on owning a salon. I just 468 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 3: never felt that that was where the money was. I am, 469 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 3: you know, I'm about products, education like things like that. 470 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 3: That's really where I see the next part of my 471 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,639 Speaker 3: career path. I've always saw it thin. So I opened 472 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 3: up a suite here in Beverly Hills. The salon business 473 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 3: has really changed. First off, it went from like salons 474 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 3: they're more in the South and things like that. But 475 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 3: now with the salon sweet business that has really taken 476 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 3: everybody forefront in business, you know what I mean, entrepreneurship, 477 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 3: boss women, everybody want to be a boss. So the 478 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 3: sweet business is like the perfect transition. So that's what 479 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 3: I kind of moved into back in twenty sixteen. I 480 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 3: went from a salon the warrn't you call me my 481 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 3: dream salon right into a suite and so I get 482 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 3: my money I'm about to go through, and I just 483 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 3: go through, uh you know, funding my own brand, and 484 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 3: the strike happens. I never forget the day because I 485 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 3: was like always praying for like time off. Damn. He's 486 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 3: like you want, oh God, here you go, time off. 487 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:31,120 Speaker 3: You'd never forget it because it felt like like when 488 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 3: you watch those movies like that Will Smith movie when 489 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,879 Speaker 3: the World, when everything went out in the world and 490 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 3: the world legend, yes, and everything just stopped. When I 491 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 3: tell you when that happened that day, and they said, 492 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 3: when all the noise kept happening about their main shure down, 493 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 3: the businesses d D you kept watching the news, the 494 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 3: DADA and. 495 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 2: It's just getting worse and worse and worse. She's like, 496 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 2: this is not real life. This is just what I 497 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:51,400 Speaker 2: see on TV. 498 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 3: And when they said it that day and they and 499 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 3: the salon closed and they said you will be shut 500 00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 3: down indefinitely. And Beverly Hills didn't play old games, Lane 501 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 3: didn't play no games because. 502 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 2: Actors were like whoa, Like they were just like super paranoim. Yeah, 503 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,120 Speaker 2: it was like COVID death. It was like the two 504 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 2: words went together. 505 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:14,200 Speaker 1: And Atlanta was like wow, I like, well, Covid and Florida. 506 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 2: Yes, and Florida was going to Florida. 507 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 1: I definitely went to Floriday on the boat open air. 508 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 2: We're outside outside, no out here. 509 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 3: We were like girl like zombies walking around here like 510 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 3: and I was just. 511 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 2: Like, God, what is gonna happen? And I just. 512 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 3: Remember crying, crying like boohooing on Instagram. 513 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 2: I was like, well, guys, it's real. I'm like, godamn, 514 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: Like Brian, I was like whoa. 515 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 3: And it was real because then you felt like, I'm 516 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 3: never going to get to do hair again. 517 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 2: I'm never going to use my hands again. 518 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 3: So I had to take my home office turn into office, 519 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,239 Speaker 3: gets the wallpaper or build it up. I remember, make 520 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 3: it like and I got a deal, a deal with 521 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 3: another deal with Procter and game six figures. 522 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 2: I gotta do this to do it. God, thank you. 523 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 3: So now I'm like, oh my God, thank you so much. 524 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 2: And I'm like and they made me like. 525 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 3: I just went online and I talked to families about 526 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 3: you know, like hair, home makeovers at home. 527 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 2: I just spent it any way that. 528 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 3: I could and just I had time off to think, wow, 529 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 3: ride my bike, hang out with friends exactly. 530 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,160 Speaker 2: We were going to bars on the bike every day child. 531 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 1: We was no masks my bike since twenty twenty. 532 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 3: Literally it lies on my bike every day of the 533 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 3: year exactly. Like it was a really good year for me. 534 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 3: It went by really fast. I think the next year 535 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 3: was even harder because now it's twenty twenty one. You know, 536 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:49,440 Speaker 3: it's the fear factor is lessening a little bit. We're 537 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 3: getting ready to go back to work in twenty twenty two, 538 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 3: where we're just going back then boom, yeah, you here 539 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 3: to hit us with a strike. So faith is the 540 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 3: only thing that you have for like really, like I 541 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:08,640 Speaker 3: have to when when my mom died, my mother died 542 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,400 Speaker 3: in front of me, So it was like boom, oh shit, 543 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 3: like aneurism. 544 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 1: Should my mom died of aurism? Why did I know that? 545 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 2: So when she died, it was like sudden, you have 546 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 2: to shift immediately, your. 547 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 3: Mind has to shift, like I gotta you gotta take 548 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 3: care of yourself, like what you're gonna do? 549 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:28,880 Speaker 2: You gotta take care of yourself. 550 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 3: Like there was no mom, grandmother, nobody, like everybody died 551 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 3: in five years. 552 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 2: Mother, father, well father wasn't really there. 553 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 3: Grandmother, thank you, I was liked. So it's Okay, you 554 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 3: have to immediately take a shift in your mindset. I'm fourteen, Yeah, 555 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 3: I'm fourteen, so I'm becoming a young woman. I'm seeing 556 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 3: what she's going through an abusive relationship and just having 557 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 3: a pull out a night to stab this dude because 558 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,399 Speaker 3: he's trying to beat my mom up like craziness, and 559 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,159 Speaker 3: she's like, I'm out of here, I'm moving. So we 560 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 3: move in with my whole family and I said combustion. 561 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 3: So it's like six bedroom house and it's just like 562 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,200 Speaker 3: way too much. And my mom fussing at my aunt 563 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 3: about sitting her fat ass on the couch. 564 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 2: I'll never forget it. 565 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 3: And in booms, she falls on the floor because my 566 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 3: mom had to white couch yiad with the plastic on it, yes, 567 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 3: and my aunt. 568 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 2: Used to just sit on it every day and watch TV. 569 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 2: So she was just not having it and she. 570 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,879 Speaker 3: Just falls out of an aneurysm. And that was the 571 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 3: last day. And that's the day where my mom was 572 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 3: the type that was like you. She didn't say I 573 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 3: love you. She never said I love you to me. 574 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,239 Speaker 3: It was always I'm gonna show you I love you 575 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 3: than to say. So that's the energy that you take 576 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 3: on as a young child, you take on that armor. 577 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 3: That's your armor, that's your defense, that's your you know, 578 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 3: that's how you make it through life. Like you know, 579 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 3: I have to show up. I gotta be, I gotta, 580 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:55,239 Speaker 3: I gotta be whatever it is. Like, she raised me 581 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 3: with self esteem. 582 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 2: Hold your head up, hi, you know, she put me 583 00:26:58,680 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 2: a hair school. 584 00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 3: Like all these little things just like fell right into place. 585 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 3: So when she passed away, it was just like you're 586 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 3: on your own. You got to figure this out. And 587 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 3: I think I was already raised. She was like, and 588 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 3: take care of your brother. And my mom literally like 589 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 3: three days, two days after Christmas passed away. 590 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:16,919 Speaker 2: And I remember them saying, go in there and tell 591 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,440 Speaker 2: her you love her. But we never said that. 592 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 3: So it was hard, you know, and I. 593 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 2: Never said it. And she passed away and that was that. 594 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 3: And I didn't get to see her or anything because 595 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 3: she was at the hospital. And I don't think families 596 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 3: understand like mental health therapy, none of that. 597 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:36,400 Speaker 2: So you just functioning in life. 598 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,160 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, my mom died yesterday. I'm back at school, 599 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Like it was just nothing, and. 600 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: That was that. 601 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,399 Speaker 2: That was that. 602 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 3: I remember graduating and throwing the test in the trash. 603 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 2: I through my last test in the trash and I passed. 604 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,880 Speaker 2: I don't even know how, you know what I mean. 605 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,919 Speaker 2: Like life has always. 606 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 3: Sort of covered me in a sense, like she's just 607 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 3: watching over my life, you know what I mean. So 608 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:04,120 Speaker 3: it's gone through many highs and many lows, and one 609 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,880 Speaker 3: thing about the journey for me has just always been 610 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 3: about just staying relevant. 611 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 2: You've done that, staying relevant. 612 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 3: It's gonna be times where you super popular, you're all 613 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 3: the way at the top. 614 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 2: But my whole goal is always to stay good. 615 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,679 Speaker 3: Just be a good hairstylist and be well known and 616 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 3: be easy, you know what I mean, Easy to be 617 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 3: in the room, easy to get along with, like you 618 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 3: know what I mean, and just be really good about 619 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 3: what you do. And that's really really is what's kept 620 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 3: me working, you know what I mean. 621 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 2: And you're not. 622 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 3: Gonna be popular all the time, that's the thin way. Yeah, 623 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 3: my game was going on in one route for twenty 624 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 3: something years. Now I'm on a new route and it's 625 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 3: very very different from the route that I was taken. 626 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 3: Because when you're on the road to become a celebrity stylist, 627 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 3: I'm yours all day. I can't work on kaya right. 628 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 3: That's why a lot of celebrity stylists don't have anything, 629 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 3: because you're on someone else's journey the whole time. I 630 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 3: can't sit over here and be working on Kaye right 631 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 3: while I'm with you, because I'm an attentive stylist. I'm 632 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 3: making sure every curl everything on your shirt. I'm your clothes, 633 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 3: I'm everything to you. I'm selfless when i'm with you 634 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 3: as a as a real, real select, as a real 635 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 3: celebrity stylist. 636 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 2: To me these new ones on the phone shop, I. 637 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 3: Gotta get up to do the touch up, right, girl, 638 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 3: that's a compilations, right. 639 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 1: I was very because so looking crazy and I'm looking 640 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 1: you see the hell like your. 641 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 3: I'm prass, I'm behind every camera I'm looking see. 642 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 1: But you are like a celebrity's favorite type of styles, 643 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 1: right because you never had to worry. Am I looking crazy? 644 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 1: Or is like my hair sticking out? You know what 645 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 1: I'm saying? Whatever the case, you you tell to make 646 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: a person, hey, do you see this? You attention to 647 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 1: the whole everld we all together? 648 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 3: It's not the Kaye Wright show, right, it's our show 649 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 3: because we're all gonna look good together. Like, even when 650 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 3: you have to share clients, you may not always be 651 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 3: so searian, not gonna call me all the time before 652 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 3: she's gonna call another artist. You can't be feeling a 653 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 3: way about it. You have to just know that you're 654 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 3: good in your art and you got to move on 655 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 3: and on and on. 656 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 2: And move to the new lane and pivot. Like you said, 657 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 2: just keep pivoting. 658 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:29,240 Speaker 3: And that's really been my goal is to stay relevant 659 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 3: and to pivot and not to compete. 660 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 2: That's a that's a nugget. 661 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 3: I compete, pivot, but don't be so competitive. 662 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 2: I'm competitive with. 663 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 3: Kaya saying like even like looking at Instagram, I'm following people. 664 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 2: I don't do that. I want people. It's nuts keep watching. 665 00:30:50,320 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: I don't even knowing the following you. You might be 666 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 2: the sweetest woman. I'm know girl. You know so. 667 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 3: He me petty pause since I okay, okay, exactly. 668 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: So can you tell us anything about your product line, 669 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 1: anything specific that you want us to know about. 670 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 3: Yes, So basically, Muse hair is my line. A muse 671 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 3: for me is someone that inspires you. So I've always 672 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 3: been inspired by my artists, like yourself. Different talent, and 673 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 3: I'm your muse as well. So Muse Hair was inspired 674 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 3: by just you being my muse and and and and 675 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 3: inspiring me to create. 676 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 2: That's number one. 677 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 3: And I decided as a stylist, I wanted to have 678 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 3: styling products. So a styling line is really what I 679 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 3: focused on with my product, Muse Hair Styling products so big. 680 00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 1: I love that, Yes, I love it. You also wrote 681 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 1: a book called From Beauty to Business, The Guaranteed Strategy 682 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 1: to building, running, and growing a successful beauty business. Can 683 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 1: you share some of the nuggets in your book that 684 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 1: really can help people who are trying to jump in 685 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 1: any type of entrepreneurship, but specifically in a salon business well. 686 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 3: As a stylist, I think that first you should work 687 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 3: on your craft. 688 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 2: Perfect your craft, be good at what you do. First. 689 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:26,320 Speaker 2: Let's just start right there. 690 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,720 Speaker 3: Let's start with like really perfecting your craft, spending time 691 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:32,239 Speaker 3: with it. I say three years is really what you 692 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 3: should really really focus on as a stylist. Three to 693 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 3: five to be good, to find your niche find out 694 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 3: what it is that you love about styling hair, because 695 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 3: don't do it to hustle and to just to make money. 696 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 2: You know what, I mean. 697 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 3: And also I think now with Instagram University, I think 698 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 3: that a lot of these stylists now just find one 699 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 3: thing that they're good at, like I only put on 700 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 3: lace front wigs, And what they'll soon find out is 701 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 3: like that's going to play out And now where. 702 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 2: Are you going to lie? 703 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 3: Where are you gonna find yourself in this world beauty? 704 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 3: So finding your niche is a real big deal. And 705 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 3: the big question is always what is your why? Like 706 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 3: why are you doing this? Where is it coming from? 707 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 3: Like what do you what is it that you're you know, 708 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,200 Speaker 3: passionate about in this whole thing? 709 00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 2: What keeps you going every day? 710 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 3: Mine is making women feel and look their best. After 711 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 3: every styling, there's a hug to get a hug. It's 712 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 3: so endearing from a woman like she feels beautiful and 713 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 3: she started dancing. 714 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 2: That means happy and that's. 715 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,959 Speaker 3: What you want when your clients leave you and if 716 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 3: you're not doing your friends, you're probably not that good. 717 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 2: So and just. 718 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:55,040 Speaker 3: For me, also, it's no plan B, Like this was 719 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 3: it for me And I'm not going to stop, you 720 00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 3: know what I mean till I get to where it 721 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 3: is I want to be. 722 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 2: And I think that's what you have to know as well. 723 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 2: That's so yeah, I love it. 724 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,280 Speaker 1: Ke KaiA right, thank you so happy we got to 725 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: do this. Yes, yes, this is so good. 726 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 2: Yes. 727 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,440 Speaker 1: So when I think about your journey, I see a 728 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: very driven woman who has been so focused on her career. 729 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 1: How have you balanced that with love? 730 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,760 Speaker 3: Well, I think there has been some sacrifices. I always 731 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 3: wanted children, so. 732 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 2: I haven't had any kids. 733 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 3: I did freeze my eggs, so there's still possibility making 734 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 3: space for love. Is funny enough that you said that. 735 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 3: When I was younger, I used to be obsessed with 736 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,919 Speaker 3: Tony Robbins and he asks really like for me, at 737 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 3: like eighteen nineteen years old, I'm like obsessed with this guy, 738 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 3: Like grab up, please, can I get the forty eight CDs? 739 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,319 Speaker 2: You know about motivation and da da da da. So 740 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:53,279 Speaker 2: he taught me. 741 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,400 Speaker 3: Really early on, like about manifestation and like really like 742 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 3: putting it out there. 743 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,160 Speaker 2: Whatever you believe, see you can have. 744 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 3: And so he asked this one question, he said, what 745 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 3: are the priorities in your life? And this is intense 746 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:09,280 Speaker 3: for like an eighteen nineteen year old, but I'm like okay, 747 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 3: So because I used to journal, so I wrote it 748 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 3: down it was success, money, power, something, and family is 749 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 3: number five. This five is so symbolistic to my I 750 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:29,240 Speaker 3: don't even know if that's a word. 751 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 2: But this word symbolic. 752 00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 3: This is so symbolic to my life because I'm at 753 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,959 Speaker 3: the fifth chapter of my life. 754 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:41,080 Speaker 2: I'm fifty wow. And family was number five. 755 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 1: Wow. 756 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 3: And my current boyfriend now always says I love you, 757 00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,359 Speaker 3: he stops me, and I love you, and I'll be like, 758 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 3: I love you too. I guess I should say that, yeah, ooh, you. 759 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 2: Know what I mean. But I feel it at my heart. 760 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 3: But because my mom always said I can show you better, 761 00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:00,480 Speaker 3: I can tell you that always kind of it's kind 762 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 3: of my love language is showing you my love of 763 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,600 Speaker 3: some sort, you know what I mean. 764 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,320 Speaker 2: I think that now. 765 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 3: That's all I am made up of, is looking for love, 766 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,840 Speaker 3: not even looking for it, just being like, let me 767 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,840 Speaker 3: be more love, let me have more time for people. 768 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 3: I miss weddings, I've missed big dates, like just being so. 769 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 2: Detached from those things. 770 00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 3: Because when you lose someone so significant in your life, 771 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,600 Speaker 3: it's like you deal with a little bit of abandonment, 772 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 3: and the abandonment is masked by this protection that you 773 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 3: keep around yourself. So that you're not hurt and you 774 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:45,440 Speaker 3: don't even sometimes allow yourself to be loved because you 775 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,840 Speaker 3: don't even know how. You don't even know how, you 776 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:50,880 Speaker 3: don't even know how to be loved because you're like 777 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,800 Speaker 3: so busy moving, going, dodging and ducking it because you 778 00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:58,439 Speaker 3: gotta and whatever comes has to fit in my life 779 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 3: has to fit in my life. Yeah, And I had 780 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,319 Speaker 3: to realize, like, you know, I even with dating certain 781 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 3: men if it didn't fit in my life, because if 782 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 3: you take me out my journey, I don't know if 783 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 3: this is gonna work out. 784 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:10,920 Speaker 2: It has to fit in my life. 785 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,719 Speaker 3: So like even when I talk to women about relationships, 786 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 3: I don't like women that help that that encourage me 787 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 3: to bash or talk bad about men, because I have 788 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 3: to be encouraged to love kaya you know, I have 789 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:23,919 Speaker 3: to be like if you'd be like, girl, he ain't shit, 790 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 3: D Like, I know, he ain't shit. But I have 791 00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,839 Speaker 3: to be encouraged more the other way because I could 792 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:30,280 Speaker 3: be tough on that side. 793 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,880 Speaker 2: I like to be like, be more loving and be 794 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 2: more testing. 795 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 3: Yes, I like that conversation better than like the bashing kind, 796 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 3: So I have to keep it in my life. I 797 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 3: put it on my priority board, I write it on 798 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 3: my inspirationuy, my journals. 799 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:46,600 Speaker 2: It's all around me, just like love. 800 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:50,839 Speaker 3: Like so it's been a sacrifice, but now it's kind 801 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 3: of like it's time for it. 802 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,799 Speaker 1: Yes, people ask me, I do feel like a part 803 00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:00,720 Speaker 1: of success is sacrificing love because sometimes what man needs 804 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 1: you can't really give that to them when you're so 805 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,360 Speaker 1: busy trying to make your dreams come true or to 806 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 1: strive after certain things. So I definitely I'm in that 807 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 1: same boat. Still don't have a man, still single, but 808 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,279 Speaker 1: I feel like that's a part of the sacrifice. And 809 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,400 Speaker 1: I know that when it's time, God will make provisions 810 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:19,800 Speaker 1: and everything will be in place. 811 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,320 Speaker 3: Yes he will, and I believe he will make space. 812 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,080 Speaker 3: Like when people it's a saying in that lad they 813 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 3: always say there's no man in that lady, there's no man. 814 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 2: No, I'm like, that's not true. 815 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 3: That might be true for you and your truth, but 816 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,719 Speaker 3: the truth is really what you believe it really is. 817 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:36,799 Speaker 2: I think the same thing. 818 00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 1: For Atlanta. 819 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,840 Speaker 3: I don't think, I don't believe it. I believe because 820 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,120 Speaker 3: if that's the matra in your hair, your man could. 821 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:46,400 Speaker 1: Move to Atlanta. 822 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 2: Come on, now, he could move there. He really could 823 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 2: move there, and he's just for you. 824 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 3: That's just how God is like, even like you know 825 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 3: I'm dating now, the man is said my life, he 826 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 3: was sent here for me even and if it's for 827 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 3: a time, he's here for me. And God will only 828 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,359 Speaker 3: give me what I need. 829 00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 2: Absolutely he really would. 830 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:08,360 Speaker 3: Like that's it's like He's done that for me in 831 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,280 Speaker 3: my life so many times, so many times. So hey, 832 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:13,640 Speaker 3: thank you Guderious. 833 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. 834 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: This has been amazing. 835 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. 836 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,719 Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you. 837 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love you, so I. 838 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 3: Love I love you. 839 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,520 Speaker 2: Now I can say there we go. 840 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 1: There we go. So we're gonna do at the end 841 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 1: of the show, we do what's called positive outcomes. This 842 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,760 Speaker 1: is where our listeners right in and we give them advice. Okay, 843 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,480 Speaker 1: so this one says Crystal. I absolutely loved Eva's episode, 844 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 1: and I love how she makes it a point to 845 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:49,160 Speaker 1: wear her lots no matter what character she plays on screen. 846 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 1: Lots get such a bad name and have been reluctantly 847 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,879 Speaker 1: associated with beauty. I have a twenty three year old 848 00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,359 Speaker 1: daughter who works in corporate and it's having a hard 849 00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,960 Speaker 1: time coming up with professional ways to style her lif 850 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,799 Speaker 1: I constantly reinforced that her locks are beautiful and she 851 00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,799 Speaker 1: shouldn't have to wear a wig at work to fit in. 852 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 1: Can you please give her some advice on how she 853 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 1: can feel comfortable going to work rocking her natural hair. 854 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 1: There's a law pass called the Crown Act where now 855 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 1: that we can wear our hair how we we've seen 856 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 1: fit and it's okay, you know. So I would tell 857 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:25,520 Speaker 1: your daughter to one like you, tell her your natural 858 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 1: hair is beautiful, is what God blessed you with. And 859 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: we as African Americans have certain ways that we show 860 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 1: our blackness, and a lot of times it's through our hair, 861 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 1: you know, whether it is walking or yes, braise locks, 862 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,759 Speaker 1: our afro, our curly hair, whatever the case may be. 863 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 1: For so long we thought we had to straighten it 864 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 1: to feel pretty. And I have fallen into that for 865 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,400 Speaker 1: a long time because I worked on Katholin Hill, so 866 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: I felt like I had to wear my hair a 867 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 1: certain way to fit in. So I totally understand where 868 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:57,080 Speaker 1: she's coming from, but I think it starts within knowing 869 00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,480 Speaker 1: that you are beautiful the way God made you, and 870 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 1: understand and that however, no matter I think it was Indira, 871 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,720 Speaker 1: I am not my hair like however, you rocket is good, 872 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 1: you know. So what we're gonna do since we have 873 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,840 Speaker 1: the legendary KaiA right, I don't have locks, but I 874 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,359 Speaker 1: got braids. So Kai is gonna play with my hair 875 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:20,880 Speaker 1: and give you a little you know idea. Here, let 876 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:21,600 Speaker 1: me get behind you. 877 00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 2: We can talk about this. Okay, I'm start here. Okay, 878 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 2: we're given some drama. 879 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,600 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll give a little dramatics here. So, Kai, do 880 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:34,359 Speaker 1: you have women that work in corporate America that have 881 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 1: natural hair that you may have to help style. 882 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 2: Yes. 883 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,800 Speaker 3: One of the things that I'm loving about from braids 884 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,360 Speaker 3: all the way to locks right now is first things First, 885 00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,960 Speaker 3: what I would appreciate is if you keep them groomed, 886 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,279 Speaker 3: because sometimes I think people feel like because they have 887 00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,400 Speaker 3: locks protective styles, they can just grow it out. It 888 00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,240 Speaker 3: looks a little uncapt and I feel like just keeping 889 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 3: it fresh, a little bit of edge control can refreshing them, 890 00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 3: even if you do just the hairline. Eep them fresh, 891 00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,080 Speaker 3: pep them, groom and shape them. 892 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:03,400 Speaker 2: I like shapes. 893 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:07,440 Speaker 3: Shapes really do help you just have a style. 894 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,640 Speaker 2: You can kind of create your own crown. 895 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,640 Speaker 3: I think perception is still perception no matter what you 896 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:15,760 Speaker 3: know what I mean, They're gonna still see you having locks, 897 00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,000 Speaker 3: no matter what the crown X says or. 898 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:18,719 Speaker 2: Anything like that. 899 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 3: Yes, it's okay, but the perception is still the same. 900 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 3: Oh you have locks, people, because it's still new. It's 901 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 3: very new, and I'm loving how the girls are putting 902 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 3: Look at this, they're putting hair in between, so it 903 00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,399 Speaker 3: softens up the braid look and it takes a little 904 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:37,040 Speaker 3: bit of that beach summertime effect off and just kind 905 00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,319 Speaker 3: of create shapes as long as it's not in the face, 906 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 3: they're not hanging down, and you create some sort of 907 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 3: look with them. I think that kind of will help 908 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 3: people see you differently. It's almost like wearing like a ponytail, 909 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 3: but you kind of creating a shape of whatever you 910 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,399 Speaker 3: like with these locks. I mean, that's what I think 911 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,400 Speaker 3: when I think about locks, I just want to see 912 00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 3: like beautiful shapes and I want to say, see the 913 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,880 Speaker 3: edges groomed really nicely, and just shape that hair to 914 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:07,000 Speaker 3: match your face. That's really what my goal is, Like, 915 00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:10,080 Speaker 3: not too many pieces hanging down. I think that also 916 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,720 Speaker 3: makes people feel like, you know, they can see your locks. 917 00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:14,399 Speaker 3: You should be able to see them, But I think 918 00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:17,400 Speaker 3: they should feel shaped of some sort like yours. 919 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 2: They're so nice. 920 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:26,600 Speaker 1: Yes, we love. I should have pulled you in here. Okay, 921 00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 1: while you're doing this, Kyle, we're gonna do what I'm 922 00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 1: going through and what I'm growing through. And this is 923 00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:35,839 Speaker 1: a part of the show that we do. And right 924 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:41,880 Speaker 1: now I am going through balancing everything that is on 925 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 1: my plate. I feel like, even if I'm not working, 926 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:46,719 Speaker 1: people like, what are you in your time off? I'm 927 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,000 Speaker 1: still working. So I feel like right now it is 928 00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,960 Speaker 1: balancing everything that I've prayed for. We said before when 929 00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,160 Speaker 1: we before we sat down, Kyle like, are you so busy? 930 00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 1: I'm like yeah, and You're like, well, this is what 931 00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,920 Speaker 1: you prayed for. And I'm like, it is so going 932 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:05,560 Speaker 1: through adjusting to how busy I am, but also balancing 933 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:05,919 Speaker 1: it all. 934 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,359 Speaker 2: What about you, I would say mine is. 935 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:11,399 Speaker 1: True. 936 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 3: You hit it transitioning. I would call it. I'm going 937 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 3: through the big transition. Wow, And it is extremely uncomfortable. 938 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 3: And I know that God wouldn't give me anything that 939 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:26,840 Speaker 3: I couldn't handle. 940 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:32,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, it won't. And I think transition is good. I 941 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 2: think it's. 942 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 3: Next level too, you know what I mean. Like, if 943 00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,239 Speaker 3: you just stay in the same place, you won't grow. 944 00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:42,480 Speaker 3: So transitioning is obviously a part of the next level. 945 00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, for sure. 946 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,040 Speaker 1: And if we had to leave the people with keep 947 00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 1: feeling the blank, we call it keep it blank, sweetie. 948 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 1: If I want to leave people today, I would say keep. 949 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 2: It Oh that feels good too. 950 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,600 Speaker 3: She don't even have no nothing. 951 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 2: I can't eat a sweet woozle. You know I can't see. 952 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 1: I would say, keep it fly, sweety. So how would 953 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 1: you feel in the blank, Keep it blank, sweetie, keep. 954 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,600 Speaker 3: It reinventing, Sweetie. 955 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:16,239 Speaker 1: I like that. 956 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:17,480 Speaker 2: I like that's what you do. 957 00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,880 Speaker 1: You do it very well, exactly, Kyle, thank you so much. 958 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 1: With little hair down, little half up, half down, Thank 959 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,760 Speaker 1: you guys so much for tuning in to this episode 960 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:30,600 Speaker 1: of Keep It Positive. 961 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:31,719 Speaker 2: Sweetie. If you want to. 962 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,320 Speaker 1: Write into our Positive Outcomes Listening letter, write in to 963 00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 1: Keep It Positive sweety at gmail dot com and that 964 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,000 Speaker 1: is Sweetye with an ie. You can follow me on 965 00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: all platforms that love Chris Sorinee. That's l U V Christorinee. 966 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:42,759 Speaker 2: Kyle. 967 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 1: Tell the people where they can find you kaya. 968 00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,520 Speaker 3: Write one on Instagram or Kia write dot com. 969 00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,440 Speaker 1: All right, guys, in the meantime, in between times, you 970 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 1: know what to do. Keep it positive, sweetie. Listee you 971 00:45:52,920 --> 00:46:08,279 Speaker 1: guys next time. An