Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show,
Speaker 1: Ruth is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and she's been with her partner Jesse for ten years.
Speaker 1: That is that's a long time, long time, but now
Speaker 1: she thinks that he might be cheating. Ruth, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Why do you think Jesse might be cheating on you?
Speaker 2: Okay, So we're both like very busy people. We're both
Speaker 2: in like corporate jobs, and we don't really even have
Speaker 2: time to like talk about having kids because we're so busy.
Speaker 2: So we both have our own offices in the house,
Speaker 2: and Jesse's always been more busy than I am. But
Speaker 2: like lately, in the last six months, I feel like
Speaker 2: he's either at the office or at home in his office,
Speaker 2: and he's recently like staying at the office late nights
Speaker 2: and he's only coming home like right before.
Speaker 1: We go to bed.
Speaker 2: So we haven't had sex month. So right before I
Speaker 2: contacted you guys, I was going through our bills and
Speaker 2: I opened DISEASA bill and that's really nothing new. He
Speaker 2: just like kind of has me deal with finances and stuff.
Speaker 2: And I saw a few purchases of women's clothing that
Speaker 2: were sent somewhere else, not my house, and I haven't
Speaker 2: seen anything that would cost what he bought sent to
Speaker 2: my house at all. And there were also quite a
Speaker 2: few purchases of roses made. Now Jeff hasn't bought me
Speaker 2: roses in years, mostly because we agreed. They're like, we're
Speaker 2: way too busy to take care of flowers or anything,
Speaker 2: so they're kind of frivolous. But I'm really wondering who
Speaker 2: he's buying for. And I really want to confront him
Speaker 2: about all these purchases, but I don't. I'm kind of
Speaker 2: scared about what he's gonna say.
Speaker 1: So do you have like an anniversary or something coming
Speaker 1: up that it could be like surprise.
Speaker 3: I was wondering if you guys knew some of you passed,
Speaker 3: because maybe they sent it to like for condolences. I know,
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but maybe I know.
Speaker 2: It's just it's very odd to have like recurring purchases. Ye, yes,
Speaker 2: so among a bunch of people that are dying, because I.
Speaker 3: Don't know, No, I don't know that it is absolutely odd.
Speaker 3: Are these places that you shop at?
Speaker 2: No, like I even the expensive clothing I'm not very
Speaker 2: into like shopping for myself that much. So even if
Speaker 2: they were for me, it's he knows that I'm not
Speaker 2: like big on clothes, and I've yet to see anything
Speaker 2: cross our mailbox that has anything to do with expensive clothing.
Speaker 2: So it's just it's all odd.
Speaker 1: And you haven't asked him about this at all, or
Speaker 1: have you.
Speaker 2: I have not confronted him about it. I'm just kind
Speaker 2: of scared of what he's going to say.
Speaker 1: Because you think he might be up to something. You
Speaker 1: just you don't want to hear that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't want to say the word cheating,
Speaker 2: but that's what it feels like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I understand why you had jump to those conclusions. Now,
Speaker 3: this is just a story about something that like my
Speaker 3: uncle when he was dating, he was in a long
Speaker 3: term relationship, and he would buy me his niece nice things.
Speaker 3: Because he didn't have any kids, he wouldn't tell her
Speaker 3: about it, so then she would always be like, well, wait,
Speaker 3: what did you just you know, really he didn't feel
Speaker 3: like he needed to check in because I'm his niece. Yeah, right,
Speaker 3: So I don't know if there's somebody in your man's
Speaker 3: life that he could be just you know, spoiling that
Speaker 3: somebody that he loves.
Speaker 1: That's not romantic.
Speaker 2: I feel like we don't have any family members that
Speaker 2: like are even only children are like okay, even for
Speaker 2: kids that we would, it's just very unlike him. Even
Speaker 2: if we did, I don't know how I would justify,
Speaker 2: Like how he would justify explaining that to me.
Speaker 1: Is there anybody that you like suspect that you can
Speaker 1: think of that it might be?
Speaker 2: No, that's the whole thing. So we've always been busy,
Speaker 2: Like if there was ever a chance to cheat, I
Speaker 2: feel like it could have been done probably successfully. None
Speaker 2: of these participates, Yeah, because like we we definitely we
Speaker 2: have our own thing, Like, we're very definitely busy, and
Speaker 2: I don't this is not something I would normally even
Speaker 2: think that I would have to deal with.
Speaker 1: Well, we'll try to figure out for you already told
Speaker 1: us what grocery store he shops at, so we'll call
Speaker 1: from there and do the usual. Say that every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one Rewards card member at random who gets
Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our floral apartment. Is our way
Speaker 1: of saying thank you for shopping with us, And we'll
Speaker 1: see if you sends those to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, well, please don't come back get here to
Speaker 1: catch Teeter? Next, it's time to Catch a Cheater. Only
Speaker 1: on the Tuble show ran in the middle of to
Speaker 1: Catch a Teeter if you're just joining us. Ruth is
Speaker 1: on the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Was that a boyfriend at that point.
Speaker 2: A man friend?
Speaker 1: Yeah? You guys been together for ten years and Ruth
Speaker 1: thinks that he might be cheating before we give him
Speaker 1: a call to see if we can catch him. Ruth,
Speaker 1: why don't you refresh our Why don't you catch everybody
Speaker 1: up and tell us why you think you might be cheating?
Speaker 2: Okay, so, long story short. We've been together ten years.
Speaker 2: We both in corporate jobs. We're both very busy, we
Speaker 2: both have separate offices, and we've always been kind of workaholics.
Speaker 2: I have opened his bills recently, which I usually do
Speaker 2: because I handle the finances, and I found some suspicious
Speaker 2: purchases for both roses and expensive clothing that we're not
Speaker 2: sent to my house.
Speaker 1: Okay, No, we're going to call him right now and
Speaker 1: pretend to be from the grocery store where he's a
Speaker 1: rewards card member and say that he's this this month's
Speaker 1: big winner of flowers delivered anywhere that he wants, to
Speaker 1: anybody that he wants, and we'll see if he sinzos
Speaker 1: to you or to someone else. Okay, are you ready?
Speaker 2: I'm ready?
Speaker 1: All right, here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, this is Jordan calling from I was looking for
Speaker 1: our rewards card member named Jesse. Yeah, Almer Jesse. Please
Speaker 1: don't hang up. This is not a marketing call. I'm
Speaker 1: actually calling to tell you congratulations deer, this month's big winner.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, great, So what does that mean?
Speaker 1: Every single month we choose one Rewards card member at random,
Speaker 1: we gets free flowers delivered from our floral department as
Speaker 1: our way of saying thank you for shopping with us.
Speaker 1: It's absolutely free. It's thirty six long stin red roses,
Speaker 1: a box of chocolates and the card.
Speaker 4: Oh that's nice, that's awesome. Okay, so I can pick
Speaker 4: it up.
Speaker 1: For what, well, if you know who you want to
Speaker 1: send them to right now, I can take the information
Speaker 1: in just a couple of minutes over the phone. Okay,
Speaker 1: you got to do.
Speaker 4: You'll deliver it though, that's not.
Speaker 1: Yah, delivered anywhere within the fifty United States, absolutely free.
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, i'll have you. I'll have you some of
Speaker 4: my girl roots. And do you do a card too?
Speaker 1: Yes, we can do a card. What would you like
Speaker 1: to put on the card?
Speaker 4: Okay, so yeah to Ruth and have it say. I
Speaker 4: know we're too busy to take care of these, but
Speaker 4: I'm not too busy to tell you that I love you.
Speaker 1: Okay, you may you married?
Speaker 4: No, No, we're just uh, you know, we've been we've
Speaker 4: been together for a while.
Speaker 1: How well, how long?
Speaker 4: I think the next anniversary will be eleven years?
Speaker 1: Whoa, that's a long time. Well then, I guess I'll
Speaker 1: just let you know that this is not actually the
Speaker 1: grocery store. This is actually the Jubil Show. It's a
Speaker 1: radio show. My name's Jewbel Hi.
Speaker 3: I'm all excited because you're not cheating them.
Speaker 1: We think I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. I'm confused.
Speaker 2: Are their flowers? No?
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, we do a second on the show called to
Speaker 1: Catch a Cheater, where if you think your significant other
Speaker 1: is cheating on you, you can see if they send
Speaker 1: flowers to you or to someone else, and your girlfriend
Speaker 1: Ruth is actually on the phone.
Speaker 2: Hi, Jesse.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm gonna go ahead, nasty obvious, Jesse, you did
Speaker 3: buy flowers?
Speaker 1: Who are those four?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Ruth.
Speaker 2: I opened your visa bill and I was just like,
Speaker 2: I don't know I was paying bills that I saw
Speaker 2: all these charges for roses or stuff, and I mean,
Speaker 2: I don't get any And I also I saw these
Speaker 2: charges for like really expensive clothing that were not sent
Speaker 2: to our house. So I don't know where they're going,
Speaker 2: and I'm byers. Okay, I think.
Speaker 4: We can all agree that cheating implies a physical relationship
Speaker 4: of some sort. What you've discovered through my visage is uh, so, well,
Speaker 4: this is exactly the kind of thing you want to
Speaker 4: announce on the radio. I joined a campsite. We haven't
Speaker 4: been intimate together and quite some time, and so I
Speaker 4: got it. I got on the computer and there's a
Speaker 4: website you can go to and there are these girls
Speaker 4: who will you know, don't perform various action deeds.
Speaker 1: For okay, this is more of.
Speaker 4: A live type of thing with the chat room and stuff,
Speaker 4: and you know, so I didn't. You know, I've found
Speaker 4: a girl that I like on the camp site and
Speaker 4: you know, to be honest, Ruts, she kind of looks
Speaker 4: like you with.
Speaker 2: The charges for roses.
Speaker 4: You saw, that's how you you know, quote unquote tip
Speaker 4: these girls, and then you know, once you get to
Speaker 4: know them a little bit better, they share their Amazon
Speaker 4: wish lists and you know you can buy them stuff
Speaker 4: off of there, and uh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the roses for tips older rose.
Speaker 4: But at the end of the day, it's a charge
Speaker 4: to my visa, you know.
Speaker 1: And I guess.
Speaker 4: I've never met anybody in person. This is all just
Speaker 4: computer nonsense. I don't I'm not cheating on you.
Speaker 2: I first of all, I don't agree with that. I
Speaker 2: don't think that cheating has to be physical. And also
Speaker 2: I'm kind of pissed that you're spending all this money
Speaker 2: on some stranger. You could be spending it on like
Speaker 2: us or me or just that's so crazy. And the
Speaker 2: fact that she looks like me, it's so crazy, Like
Speaker 2: why I'm right here, So why don't you just have
Speaker 2: sex with me for free, I don't know, or buy
Speaker 2: me roses once in a while. That's I feel like
Speaker 2: it's cheating.
Speaker 1: Ruth has a good point. Why not?
Speaker 4: Ruth and I are both so busy. The Venn diagram
Speaker 4: of us both having a little bit of free times
Speaker 4: doesn't even exist, and.
Speaker 3: This is this is easy.
Speaker 4: You know, I just type a website in and it
Speaker 4: pops up and it's on my schedule, and it's just
Speaker 4: you know, I'm not a monk. I'm not cell A
Speaker 4: Bate And so you know, instead of actually cheating or
Speaker 4: you know, going to rus and being told she's got
Speaker 4: a document of finished processing before she could deal with me,
Speaker 4: I just go type in this website and take care
Speaker 4: of business on my own. And then I get that
Speaker 4: you don't like it, But that's that's all it is.
Speaker 2: I believe you in that respect. Like I don't think
Speaker 2: you're doing anything physical or like even have like an
Speaker 2: emotional attachment to this person. But like the only way
Speaker 2: that this relationship is going to work is if we
Speaker 2: still connect on like an emotional and the physical level.
Speaker 2: I know you love me, but like, if you want
Speaker 2: to be better, you need to remember that there was
Speaker 2: a time when we were having set regularly and I
Speaker 2: feel like the physical part of our relationship is just
Speaker 2: as important as the emotional part. And you paying attention
Speaker 2: to some woman online and buying her duck, especially when
Speaker 2: she looks like me, is just it's it's like borderline
Speaker 2: cheating and kind of creepy. I don't think I could
Speaker 2: stay in this relationship with I see any charges like that.
Speaker 1: Again, why aren't you guys intimate? Is it just you're
Speaker 1: not home at the same times? I mean, you're just
Speaker 1: both tired. What is it?
Speaker 2: We're both like extremely busy and we work late hours.
Speaker 2: We have separate offices. We do our own thing in
Speaker 2: those offices. By the time we go to bed, I
Speaker 2: guess like we just want to like unwind and I
Speaker 2: don't know, just yeah, we just watch TV and we
Speaker 2: get tired and we go to sleep. Like it's not
Speaker 2: that I don't want to.
Speaker 3: Well, maybe you guys should have like little neanners kind
Speaker 3: of like today, something to spice it at.
Speaker 2: That sounds good to me.
Speaker 4: I'm I'm totally into that, honestly, Rabe.
Speaker 1: I didn't think you were still into me like that.
Speaker 4: I kind of thought that the fire had died down
Speaker 4: and I didn't know how to make it grow again.
Speaker 2: I'm still interested in you physically. I mean, I I
Speaker 2: don't think we would have been together for this long
Speaker 2: if we were not into each other physically. And like,
Speaker 2: I know you still love me, and obviously you're looking
Speaker 2: for Cam girls that look like me, so I can't
Speaker 2: be like super offended. I guess, I just I just
Speaker 2: look what's in front of you. I'm here, and I
Speaker 2: love you, and I want to have a physical relationship
Speaker 2: with you, and like I mean, and if it gets
Speaker 2: me like roses and lingerie, I'll film some stuff for
Speaker 2: you if.
Speaker 1: You want, like you know, like okay, yeah, sweet, that
Speaker 1: sounds good.
Speaker 4: I'll bring a camera home for
Speaker 2: Tonight the Jewble Shows to catch a Cheater.