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Speaker 1: The second date up date. Recently, we got an email

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Speaker 1: from a listener who says, when it comes to dating,

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Speaker 1: she used to be a triple six girl.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 3: What meaning?

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Speaker 1: The only guys that she was going after had to

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Speaker 1: be six feet tall, six pack abs, and six figure income.

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Speaker 2: Wait, triple six, they don't exist. I don't believe it.

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Speaker 1: For some people they exist. But apparently she's throwing that

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Speaker 2: I don't know why is she gonna go for the

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Speaker 2: five five fives?

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Speaker 1: Is that it's a little more realistic. She's changed her ways,

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Speaker 1: So let's welcome to the show, Brandy with an I.

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Speaker 1: Hello Brandy, Brandy. I don't want to brag, but I

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Speaker 1: make at least four figures girl, at least.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like your expectations have really dropped.

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Speaker 1: If you're yeah, brand, maybe explain what made you change

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Speaker 1: your strategy because this could have an effect on Alexis

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Speaker 1: in her future here.

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Speaker 4: True true, Yeah, I started to realize that if you're

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Speaker 4: going after superficial things and a guy, they're only gonna

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Speaker 4: be superficial.

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Speaker 1: Back, look at that, but isn't that the best thing?

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Speaker 1: Superficial things are really great? So you're saying we know

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Speaker 1: what to expect like that consistent. Okay, you decided that

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Speaker 1: wasn't for you.

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Speaker 2: You're looking for something more long term, is what it

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Speaker 2: sounds like.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, gag for a second.

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Speaker 4: Well I want I want some substance, you know, Okay,

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Speaker 4: someone who will love me and care for me.

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Speaker 2: And can have a good conversation. Yeah. God, now she's

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Speaker 2: really looking for you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's what everybody wants to guess.

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Speaker 2: It's so boring.

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Speaker 5: That's so it sounds, but it really it looks.

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Speaker 2: Like found.

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Speaker 1: Your standards. Did you end up meeting a guy?

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Speaker 4: I did meet a guy?

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Speaker 1: I'm lying, okay, Okay, I like that.

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Speaker 2: How you tried not to be superficial, but you start

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Speaker 2: with that instead of his name?

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Speaker 1: What is his name?

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Speaker 4: His name is Evan?

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Speaker 2: Okay, he makes.

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Speaker 1: Ninety nine thousand years. Could you tell if he had

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Speaker 1: a six pack online?

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Speaker 4: Not sure? I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: Well, if there's not a shirtless pike, he doesn't.

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Speaker 5: Well, I was actually, if there's not a shirtless pick

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Speaker 5: there might actually have some substance.

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Speaker 2: Alexis, She's right.

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Speaker 1: No one hides their ass, all right, we know he's

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Speaker 1: five to ten. Question mark about the abs? What does

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Speaker 1: Evan do for a living.

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Speaker 4: Do you know he's a claims adjuster or a car

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Speaker 4: insurance slave?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 4: I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: Just it's more exciting for Jefferies what it does.

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Speaker 1: But it was his job security. It's like a stable job.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure he's great exactly.

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Speaker 5: So what do I mean so far? What did what

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Speaker 5: did attract you to him online?

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Speaker 3: Then?

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Speaker 2: Because like none of these things are what you're looking for?

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, I want someone and I feel safe

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Speaker 4: with that feels stable and secure, and my girlfriends are like,

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Speaker 4: you know that this seems like a stable, secure guy,

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Speaker 4: like someone I could feel at home with.

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Speaker 1: All right, okay, so what did you and mister stability

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Speaker 1: do for your hot date?

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Speaker 4: Well? We met for a happy hour.

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Speaker 2: Lukewarm d well, we're heating up. How did that go?

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Speaker 4: It was good. We had a couple of drinks and

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Speaker 4: had a nice banter and he was asking me some

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Speaker 4: questions and then he asked me a question that kind

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Speaker 4: of stummed me.

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Speaker 1: What's that?

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Speaker 4: Oh? He said, tell me something quirky about you.

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Speaker 2: Quirky.

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Speaker 1: Ah, that's a hard thing to answer because you don't

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Speaker 1: want you don't want to come across too quirky and

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Speaker 1: come off like a weirdo for me, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like, I suck my thumb. That's what I tell people.

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Speaker 5: I mean, the first thing I thought of is I

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: That's quirky.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of weird.

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Speaker 1: How did you answer that? Brandy?

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Speaker 3: Did you?

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Speaker 1: Did you have an answer for him?

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Speaker 4: Eventually I was like, how do I answer this? But

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Speaker 4: then I was like, oh, I guess well, I wiggle

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Speaker 1: I think I do too.

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Speaker 2: I just realized, oh.

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Speaker 5: My god, my husband has a weird thing where he

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Speaker 5: puts his heel in between his big toe and his

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Speaker 2: It's very y.

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Speaker 6: Let that be the last time we get an insight

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Speaker 6: into Brooke and her husband's face. On top of no,

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Speaker 6: we don't want any more details about the positioning of

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Speaker 6: your body.

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Speaker 1: I am sorry, Brandy. What okay? You you wiggle your

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Speaker 1: toes right before you sleep?

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Speaker 3: Answer?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I have really small toes.

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Speaker 2: That's quirky.

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Speaker 1: But did did he respond positively to that to your

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Speaker 4: He didn't really say much.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well, I mean he's asking a question. That

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Speaker 2: isn't very sexy either, Sorry, but nothing quirky sexy. I

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Speaker 2: guess did change the like vibe of the date.

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Speaker 4: It's hard to tell. I mean I also told them

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Speaker 4: that I collect them teddy bears, but I don't think

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Speaker 4: that's a turn off.

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Speaker 2: Like how many?

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Speaker 1: Well they're collectible, Okay, you don't sleep with them all?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: No, no, is that even important to us?

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Speaker 4: You know, I didn't even think to ask him. We

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Speaker 4: had a nice tug at the end. I mean, good.

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Speaker 2: Have you not heard from him at all?

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Speaker 4: No? I thought it was a good date. I'm not

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Speaker 4: doing my triple six, but I haven't heard from him.

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Speaker 5: Is this shocking that the guy who's supposed to be

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Speaker 2: Were the ones you had to get rid of?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Maybe a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, keep moving down the line if we need to. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll go three. We'll actually get you another date here, Brandy,

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Speaker 1: but first let's call Evan for you. We'll try and

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Speaker 1: hook you up one more time when we do your

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Speaker 1: second date update right after this. Thank you old all

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Speaker 1: right second date update. If you're just joining us, one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners came on and said that she used

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Speaker 1: to live by the triple six rule for years, dating

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Speaker 1: only men who were six feet tall, six pack abs,

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Speaker 1: six figure incomes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's.

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Speaker 1: Not doing that anymore. And Brooke made the comment like, oh,

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Speaker 1: so you're into the triple fives now then, and it

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Speaker 1: got me thinking, what is a triple five? Five feet tall? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: five figures, five felonies, five warts on his face? It

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Speaker 1: could be anywhere, jeff Okay, yeah, let's not limit it

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Speaker 1: to just the face crazy. I support that, But the

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Speaker 1: main night, the main idea is if you go away

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Speaker 1: from chasing superficial things, then you won't attract superficial guys.

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Speaker 2: That's what she hoped anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and that's what brought Brandy to us because

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Speaker 1: she met a nice, stable guy named Evan, went on

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Speaker 1: a date with him, and now he's not calling her back.

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Speaker 1: The ones darned damned if you do, you're damned if

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Speaker 1: you don't. All right, Jeffrey, but whereabouts to call Evan?

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Speaker 3: Here?

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Speaker 1: How you feel in Brandy?

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Speaker 4: I'm you are?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 5: That's good because you sounded a little jaded when we

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Speaker 5: went from the triple six down to you know, Evan.

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Speaker 6: Well, color jaded.

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Speaker 2: I don't know a little bit like it wasn't working

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Speaker 2: out for her. That's okay.

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Speaker 1: Don't take that from a woman with a chim deformity.

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Speaker 2: So weird you feel it.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean to touch sure, no, I get it. Fascinating, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry I said it. Let's just call Evan for

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Speaker 1: you and try and get your second date up date.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, das number right now. Hello, Hey, we're

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Speaker 1: looking for Evan.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is Si.

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Speaker 1: Hey Evan. Congratulations. You are on the radio right now with.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We don't normally applaud for.

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Speaker 2: The people's congratulations.

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Speaker 1: You're on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. My man,

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Speaker 1: you picked up a phone call that deserves you.

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Speaker 3: I'm on the radio.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We're doing something called a second Date Update, and we're

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Speaker 1: trying to help out one of our listeners named Brandy,

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Speaker 1: who's a girl that you went on a date with recently.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, man, oh oh oh yeah, okay, sorry, you remember Brandy?

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Speaker 3: I do, I do.

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Speaker 2: That's good. Yeah, it sounds positive.

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Speaker 1: We heard a lot of good things about you from Brandy,

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Speaker 1: about your date and everything, and she's just a little

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Speaker 1: bit confused now that there hasn't been a second one.

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Speaker 3: Oh sorry, this is this is for the radio.

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Speaker 1: Though, yeah, it is for the radio. And I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: that this is like kind of an awkward question and

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Speaker 1: like way to do this.

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Speaker 5: But she couldn't get ahold of you though, you know,

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Speaker 5: and she, like Jeff said, like to you a lot.

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Speaker 1: We're just trying to help her out.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, she's nice, she was cool.

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Speaker 2: Were you planning on were you planning on seeing her again?

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 5: Like okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: If the answer is no, that's fair. It's your dating life.

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Speaker 1: You could do what you want with it. But we're

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Speaker 1: just wondering for Brandy's sake, was there anything that didn't

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Speaker 1: go quite that well that night?

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Speaker 2: Like is there a reason?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Uh man? I mean to be honest, not really. She

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Speaker 3: was pretty cool. I mean, like the day was fine.

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Speaker 1: Then why aren't you dating her again? You dummy? Come on,

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Speaker 1: he went back real quick. You are trying to help

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Speaker 1: our listeners, I do just like you know, that doesn't

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Speaker 1: make sense, like if everything's so good.

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Speaker 5: Right, well it's cool, right, it's one happy hour. How

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Speaker 5: much can you really know a person after just one date?

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Speaker 5: You need to give it another shot.

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Speaker 2: Don't you think what's.

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Speaker 1: Holding you back?

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Speaker 3: So I'm pretty introverted myself, and I had a nice

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Speaker 2: It's interesting.

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Speaker 5: I feel like she I mean, she's a person that

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Speaker 2: That should say a lot about how extroverted she is.

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Speaker 1: Well, she's having other people do the call for her.

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Speaker 1: So sorry, so you don't think that she's troverted enough?

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Speaker 1: Can you elaborate more on that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean, like I'm gonna be honest. The name

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Speaker 1: Okay, wild girl.

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Speaker 2: That's not the same as extroverted.

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Speaker 4: Those are.

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Speaker 2: You were thinking she was a party girl? Is that

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Speaker 3: No? Not really, but like like I answer her this

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Speaker 3: one question, I remember being like, what's your biggest quirk?

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Speaker 3: Like I didn't want to be like, are you crazy? Wait?

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Speaker 2: Did you want crazy? Or did you not want crazy?

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Speaker 3: I want just like more fun.

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Speaker 7: And I have a lot of trouble out there and

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Speaker 2: How did her answer? How did her answer have anything

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Speaker 1: Like where was your head out?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean her, She said her biggest quirk was

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Speaker 1: That's what doesn't scream wild girl that love.

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Speaker 2: That's cool that she sometimes moves her whole ankle.

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Speaker 1: The whole body starts going, wait, come on, it's.

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Speaker 2: Just one answer, like.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean like. She also said that she collected

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Speaker 2: Okay, are you crazy? Girls do that?

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Speaker 3: It's all like an answer my grandma would have given me.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's kind of hard.

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Speaker 1: Your grandma sounds a good time to me. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what Okay, what you expected?

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Speaker 2: That's kind of the.

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Speaker 5: Sort It feels like you should have asked her, like,

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Speaker 1: Well, I already know the answer to the wildest thing

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Speaker 1: jump in and talk to you wild. Wow. That's how

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Speaker 1: this works, dude, Are you serious? She's here, I'm serious.

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Speaker 1: Brand are you there?

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm here?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, go on, wild girl, talk to him.

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Speaker 4: Wow, that's really interesting. I get given the context, my

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Speaker 4: more about me. Quirky is like, it's a weird way

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Speaker 4: to put it, Like, I'm a lot of fun.

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Speaker 3: Took so long? Yeah, Randy, all right, I mean, like,

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Speaker 3: are you a lot of fun? Like? Prove it? I

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Speaker 3: guess I kind of you know. I mean, what is

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm here for this.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you're ready for it. Insurance suggests her.

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Speaker 2: Fire with fire.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm waiting. I want to know. We're all waiting. Still.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's just say I may have recently found a

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Speaker 4: contest in the Caribbean, and I may have lost my shirt,

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Speaker 4: and I may have funneled the beer.

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Speaker 1: Drinks, loses her clothes.

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Speaker 2: I mean to me, it just sounds like she went

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Speaker 2: to college.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's pretty fun. Left an article of clothing behind.

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Speaker 2: Does that feel better to you? Evan? Feel crazy?

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Speaker 3: I mean I think it feels more on the way.

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Speaker 3: I just the date ended with like a side hug,

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Speaker 5: Are you just like sick of safety because you're an

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Speaker 5: insurance a just and you need something else? Like you

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Speaker 5: like that chaos guy and that one commissional mayhem.

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Speaker 2: That's it, Just like she's.

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Speaker 1: Looking for someone more stable. I know, you guys are

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Speaker 1: like opposites attract here in a weird way, and maybe

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Speaker 1: just a little bit more communication, a couple more dates

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Speaker 1: will help bridge that gap.

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Speaker 2: I was a couple of shots at tequila wile bridge it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's strong enough. I mean, do

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Speaker 1: you ever clear? But we would pay to set you

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Speaker 1: up one more time. You're willing to see each other?

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Evan?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean, if it's on your guy's still, I'm sure.

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Speaker 5: I an't you a crazy financially stable person.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of what she was going for those but

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Speaker 1: what do you think brand? Are you still into this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You know, just use your words man like or make

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Speaker 5: Yes, sounds like a challenge, and that's what Evan sounds

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Speaker 5: like he wants.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's going to be either this or you go

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Speaker 1: back to the six six to six guys, So it

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Speaker 1: sounds like devil.

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Speaker 4: You want it?

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Speaker 1: Crazy crazy?

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Speaker 3: Wait a second, she was a Satanist.

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Speaker 1: You know what, That's a great conversation to have on

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Speaker 1: your second date.

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Speaker 5: Because faking Jeffrey in the morning man.

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Speaker 1: Her story about the Caribbean really turned things around. In

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Speaker 1: that call, she mentions her shirt comes off and she

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Speaker 1: starts making bad decisions. Jokes on her though, because I'm

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Speaker 1: sending them to a Caribbean restaurant with a gift card,

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Speaker 1: so it's gonna happen all over again.

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Speaker 5: I just think it's like she was going for the

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Speaker 5: superficial dudes and that's what she thought they wanted, and

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Speaker 5: then she finds the one stable guy and turns.

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Speaker 2: Out that's also okay. So none of you guys want

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Speaker 2: just a normal.

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Speaker 1: Boring Everybody does want that normal, boring, stable person, but

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Speaker 1: they have to get through their wild phase first.

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Speaker 2: Looks like this, I don't know will it work out

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Speaker 2: for them or will it not. She's she's through that phase, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's born with experience. Maybe she'll push him through

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Speaker 1: that phase too and they'll land up on the other

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