WEBVTT - #9 Second Date Update of 2025: Dragon Thumbs & Aroma Chums 

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<v Speaker 1>The countdown continues.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, our top second dates of the year of twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five, all right, and the reception lukewarm? Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you, jose you saw the positive that. Yeah, No, honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>these are the favorites of the year and we're already

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<v Speaker 2>at number nine.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 4>And for your number nine second date update, can we

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<v Speaker 4>just level the playing field here for a second and

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<v Speaker 4>remind everybody we're all human, of course, despite what you

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<v Speaker 4>may hear on the show, and we've all been betrayed

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<v Speaker 4>by our bodies before. Yeah, just like last week when

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<v Speaker 4>I walked into the break room right after Alexis was

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<v Speaker 4>in there and who had to bring in an industrial

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<v Speaker 4>fan just to air that?

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<v Speaker 5>Baby?

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<v Speaker 4>Why condensation on the glass on the fridge?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow?

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<v Speaker 3>Is better without you? Okay, Alexis, don't feel bad. I

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<v Speaker 3>smoke that too, dude, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>But listen, Alexis, our listeners know and understand your pain.

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<v Speaker 4>Because one of them had a date that made her

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<v Speaker 4>laugh so hard something embarrassing slipped down. It's much different

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<v Speaker 4>than the bomb. Alexis our listener. She's worried if could

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<v Speaker 4>be the reason they're not getting a callback.

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<v Speaker 3>You're here, your number nine second date update of the.

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<v Speaker 4>Year, The second date Update, Brook, Your husband is a

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<v Speaker 4>collector of sports cards.

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<v Speaker 1>He loves them. Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 4>Does that make you more attracted to him? Or super

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<v Speaker 4>more attracted?

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<v Speaker 1>When he pulls out that Michael Jordan Rookie card.

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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, if only it wasn't rated a three.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what that is.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I think it's a one because he wrote his

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<v Speaker 2>initials on it when he was seven years old.

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<v Speaker 3>That you just rubbed that card.

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<v Speaker 1>All over because it doesn't matter much as.

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<v Speaker 4>I bring it up because one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 4>that the guy that she went out with mentioned that

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<v Speaker 4>he is a collector of items, and it stopped.

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<v Speaker 3>Her in her track.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll find out more about that in just a second,

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<v Speaker 4>but first let's talk to Carly here. Carly, you said

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<v Speaker 4>in your email that the guy's name is Ethan.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you meet him?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we met on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and whatever he collects part of his profile.

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<v Speaker 1>No, oh, it wasn't listed.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, nope, little surprise for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't say it with a smile on your face.

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<v Speaker 5>It was revealed like midway to the date.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, let's go chronologically then before we get to the

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<v Speaker 4>collecting of stuff, tell us more about Ethan and what

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<v Speaker 4>attracted you to him.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so initially, his one liner joke to me about

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<v Speaker 5>he was the world's okayist cook and he had a

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<v Speaker 5>picture of grilled cheese.

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<v Speaker 4>The fact that he could cook at all, even if

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<v Speaker 4>it is just okay, it's impressive.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean it's a cute line, and it's an

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<v Speaker 2>easy way to then transition to let me cook you

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<v Speaker 2>something mid.

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<v Speaker 6>Setting a standard.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. So did your date involve cooking?

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<v Speaker 5>It did not?

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<v Speaker 3>No, okay, all right, So tell us about what happened.

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<v Speaker 5>So, I mean, you know, we've been dating for like

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<v Speaker 5>ten eleven days, like not super long, I mean talking right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>we were talking texting, you know, ten eleven days, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, in the in the build up to the actual

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<v Speaker 4>first meeting. So what did you guys actually do when

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<v Speaker 4>you went out.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we decided to meet up for dinner and we

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<v Speaker 5>went to steak and Shake.

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<v Speaker 6>I love.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that a fast food?

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<v Speaker 6>It is?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, shakes over there and shakes and froncause it's like

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<v Speaker 2>fast food.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that cool with you or was that a disappointment?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I was okay, with it. I mean he burned girl cheese,

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<v Speaker 5>so you know, low standards.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, all right, and how was the chemistry between you

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<v Speaker 3>and Ethan?

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<v Speaker 5>It was really good. He was super funny, super sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>He held a door, he was like pulling out my.

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<v Speaker 6>Chair like that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm old school, like I think people.

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<v Speaker 1>Being polite is probably is pretty well received.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I slam the door in their face. We all

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<v Speaker 4>have different styles of Okay, so he.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that to me to this studio honestly, like learn

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<v Speaker 1>to open the door for someone.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't want to like get in the way

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<v Speaker 3>of your womanhood and do anything like that. So I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just trying to equal. We're equal in the work, that

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<v Speaker 3>is all I'm saying. So okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So but you you thought that he was being a

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<v Speaker 4>real gentleman on this date with you, Carly.

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<v Speaker 5>I did for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So this is all sounding great. Was there something

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<v Speaker 2>like you said the collection thing?

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<v Speaker 1>When did that come into play?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he just randomly was like, I collect rubbert duck.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's the item that.

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<v Speaker 1>He collected owners one of those people.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a great idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Rubber ducks are huge right now. There is every type

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<v Speaker 2>of rubber duck.

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<v Speaker 4>Ever, Okay, how did you feel about it, Carly?

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<v Speaker 5>I was kind of like weirded out. I was like what,

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<v Speaker 5>and then he said he keeps them for emotional support,

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<v Speaker 5>which makes.

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<v Speaker 1>It less weird.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know that you could do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that a joke?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he was like it was a joke. He was

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<v Speaker 5>just kidding everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone's trying not to judge.

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<v Speaker 4>We all just a big sigh of relief, all right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>although just to be clear, there's nothing wrong with having

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<v Speaker 4>emotional support ducks.

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<v Speaker 3>If anybody out there rubber ducks, yes, it is totally support.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but that was a joke, but the rubber ducks

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<v Speaker 2>were real.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, he has rubber ducks, all right, And.

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<v Speaker 1>So why is this a big part of the date?

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<v Speaker 1>Like he mentioned it?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>He had some like super funny one liners like that one,

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<v Speaker 5>and I laughed so hard that I snored in and

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<v Speaker 5>he kind of looked at me like really crazy when

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<v Speaker 5>I did, and I was like, but.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't control it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's just like a what does you think you

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<v Speaker 4>think it's too unattractive that it's a deal breaker.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. Listen. He still walked me to my

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<v Speaker 5>car and like kissed me and everything. The texting is

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<v Speaker 5>just not the same, Like I'm just getting those like

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<v Speaker 5>little texts here and there, and he's just kind of

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<v Speaker 5>putting no effort to little effort into things.

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<v Speaker 2>I am obviously biased, but I think snorting is quite endearing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm also a weird last.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're thinking that at the end of the night

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<v Speaker 4>the kiss was a pity kiss. Oh no, even though

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<v Speaker 4>like he didn't approve of your snort, he was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>final still, just you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I hope notis.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people have weird things.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought, so I have a.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy friend who won't date women depending on their thumb size,

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<v Speaker 2>and like he thinks thumbs are really weird.

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<v Speaker 1>They like creep him out for I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think that's that is very very personal information to share

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<v Speaker 4>about somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>On the radio.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, we're not trying to body shame anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Like some people have weird it.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't call it weird, it's maybe yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and if it's that, then he's not the guy

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it possible that he's not calling you back because

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<v Speaker 4>you've got dragon thumbs? Brooks theory A phone with just

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<v Speaker 4>your thumb look like it kind of looks like a

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<v Speaker 4>big toe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, long claw.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just okay, enough about the dragon body parts.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's call this Ethan guy.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll see if he picks up, and we will ask

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<v Speaker 4>him all the questions to figure out why he's not

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<v Speaker 4>going out with you one more time. Carly, you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to get your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Second date update. You're the one.

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<v Speaker 5>If you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, yeah, if you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm playing this song because our listener Carly went out

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<v Speaker 4>with a guy named Ethan who told her that he

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<v Speaker 4>collects rubber ducks, and he made the joke that he

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<v Speaker 4>keeps them as emotional support pets. Again, just a joke,

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<v Speaker 4>but he does collect them, which begs the question, how

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<v Speaker 4>bad do you feel when even the rubber duck guy

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<v Speaker 4>won't call you back?

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<v Speaker 1>Say it like that, she's a door.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you consider this your rock bottom, Carly?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you're on this show, I think most

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<v Speaker 2>people would say that that's the case.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel pretty low, but not as low as you

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<v Speaker 5>think I do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's true. There is more phone call to come

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<v Speaker 3>so we can.

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<v Speaker 2>All you're supposed to hype our listeners up. Carly, you're

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<v Speaker 2>amazing and you deserve a second date.

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<v Speaker 4>We see how much she struggled to get that sent

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<v Speaker 4>That was really inspired.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to bring up the snore. Maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason he's not calling back.

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<v Speaker 3>It is a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>She did mention that she laughed so hard during the

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<v Speaker 4>date that she snorted, and that could have been a

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<v Speaker 4>turn off to Ethan.

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<v Speaker 3>But we don't know. Which reminds me nobody be too

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<v Speaker 3>funny during this.

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<v Speaker 4>If she starts snorting and then Brook starts snorting, Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys are funny, but as funny as him.

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<v Speaker 4>All Right, well, that's really motivated me to try super

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<v Speaker 4>hard for you. It's I can get one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 4>effort into this. I'm dialing his number right now. Let's

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<v Speaker 4>see if he picks up.

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<v Speaker 5>Here we go, Thank you, guys, I really hope you

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<v Speaker 5>can get another date for me.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, let's see here we go. Hello, Hey, we're

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<v Speaker 3>looking to talk with Ethan.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, this is Ethan.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Ethan.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a bunch of us here.

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<v Speaker 6>Who's this Hello.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there's a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the Morning, a team, very dysfunctional team, and we're doing Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we are together, and we're here doing a segment called

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<v Speaker 4>a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh okay, why are you calling me? What this is?

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<v Speaker 1>I love when people ask that. Ye's just such a

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<v Speaker 1>natural transition.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's a segment where we help out listeners who've

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<v Speaker 4>gone out on a date with somebody but the second

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<v Speaker 4>date hasn't materialized yet.

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<v Speaker 3>We try and figure out why if there's a reason.

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<v Speaker 4>So, okay, we're doing that for one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 4>that you went out with, named Carly.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Carly, I know, Carly, what does this mean?

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<v Speaker 3>She mentioned you were a funny guy. It's coming across dude.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, honestly, from your response, it sounds like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>you were planning on calling Carly back and going out

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<v Speaker 2>with her again.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh yeah, I mean are you serious? Am I really

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<v Speaker 6>on the air talking about this?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, segment we have based around dating it.

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<v Speaker 1>You were just going to say, yeah, she still don't

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<v Speaker 1>trust us.

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<v Speaker 3>I know this is a weird situation to be in.

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<v Speaker 4>But Carly is seriously confused because she says she had

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<v Speaker 4>a great time with you, but she's not seeing the

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<v Speaker 4>same amount of effort from you as she was before.

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<v Speaker 3>The date, kind of like an energy shift. We're not

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<v Speaker 3>sure if anything's changed.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off.

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<v Speaker 6>We got a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that is so cute to hear. So you really

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<v Speaker 1>liked her?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great

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<v Speaker 6>laugh and we had a great time out.

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<v Speaker 1>She was actually worried about that.

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<v Speaker 3>So it sounds like you do want to go out

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<v Speaker 3>with her again.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, we were texting about when we were going to

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<v Speaker 6>try to get together again. I mean, I'm really just

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<v Speaker 6>surprised right now that she saw it that way that

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<v Speaker 6>I was blowing her off.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you know how it can be and daty like

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<v Speaker 2>God to like actually be positive and read everything in

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<v Speaker 2>that way.

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<v Speaker 3>As far, she doesn't know you well enough yet.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't know if you're going to hit her up

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<v Speaker 1>immediately or if a full day.

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<v Speaker 3>Not hearing from you is gonna be a horrible thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>But everything that we're hearing right now sounds like you're

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<v Speaker 4>into her.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to see her again?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I think so.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Actually, uh.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't don't

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<v Speaker 6>tell her this, it's maybe too early. Uh. I kind

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<v Speaker 6>of bought her perfume.

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<v Speaker 5>You bought.

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<v Speaker 3>That's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cute. Like a travel size or full size bottle.

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<v Speaker 3>You have a price tag that you can attach to it.

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<v Speaker 3>This needs to know, you know, that's interested?

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<v Speaker 4>Why?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>What made you do that? Is it like a birthday

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<v Speaker 3>coming up for something?

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<v Speaker 6>To be honest, my ex used to wear it and

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<v Speaker 6>it kind of drove me crazy. Wild who.

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<v Speaker 3>You bought it? Because it's the same as your ex'es bro.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, I'm on the phone on the phone, I heard that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's Carly that's on the other line listening to this. Uh,

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<v Speaker 4>that's how this works. We usually call her in.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so weird.

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<v Speaker 5>He didn't know even the same as your ex? Are

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<v Speaker 5>you for real?

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't know you were on Carley. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 6>you were on.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, well I am. And that's disturbing, Like why, like, okay, seriously,

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke Alexis, can you guys help me out on that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it could be worse. He could have bought

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<v Speaker 1>it because it's what his mom smells.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, Oh, that would have been sweeter.

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<v Speaker 1>My mind did not even do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I think it's a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>Why why do you want Carly to be wearing that

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<v Speaker 4>same perfume.

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<v Speaker 3>Yea remind you of your ex?

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<v Speaker 6>I like the sense. I thought she would smell grade

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<v Speaker 6>with it on her.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, okay, maybe maybe there could be a different

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<v Speaker 2>set though for Carly. You know, like, yes, like my guy,

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<v Speaker 2>My husband is a sent guy. He loves sense like

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<v Speaker 2>you just maybe need to explore a different set.

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<v Speaker 3>Truck. Stop trying to change men with every sentence I say.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, that is disturbing. You do not want to remind it?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm trying to read this and help you out here. Ethan,

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<v Speaker 4>you're saying you didn't buy it because it reminds you

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<v Speaker 4>of your ex. You buying it just because you like

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<v Speaker 4>the scent itself.

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<v Speaker 6>That's right, And this is not about my ex at all.

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<v Speaker 6>She doesn't own the sense, she doesn't own the perfume.

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<v Speaker 6>Anyone could buy it. I love the scent, and I

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<v Speaker 6>thought Carley would smell great with an honor. That was

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<v Speaker 6>a nice gesture, Carly.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you hearing him?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm trying. I'm really trying to be open about this.

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<v Speaker 5>But like I also, I feel like when you smell

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<v Speaker 5>a smell, you associate it with whoever was wearing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but maybe you're a more powerful woman, and he'll

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<v Speaker 2>start associating it with you instead of her.

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<v Speaker 1>Did the sense on your body have different effects too?

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<v Speaker 3>Literally, it could have been anybody.

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<v Speaker 4>If his Maleman had been wearing the perfume, it would

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<v Speaker 4>have driven him mad. I mean, I say back to

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<v Speaker 4>here that like the scent is the number one connection

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<v Speaker 4>to memories.

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<v Speaker 2>Like okay, but but listen, he was never going to

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<v Speaker 2>tell her that it was the ex's scent.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, so technically we set them up for this,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? Carly, like you got to

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<v Speaker 2>give him a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>Of I feel you're You're not wrong. I agree with you, guys,

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<v Speaker 5>I do think and when you put a cent on

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<v Speaker 5>it does change like different body chemistries so fair enough, so.

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<v Speaker 6>You'll wear it then? Because I really like it?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh why don't like?

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't have.

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<v Speaker 3>Heard that question.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that very very important to you if you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to go out with her again?

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<v Speaker 6>Like I said, guys, I really like it.

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<v Speaker 5>You had me up until there. I don't know. Now

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<v Speaker 5>I'm getting like creepy.

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<v Speaker 3>Again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's our fault. We're piling not yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>We are the weirdos in this conversation, he is totally normal.

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<v Speaker 4>I would spray another before he sprays that for a few.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a great point. I could wear it so you

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<v Speaker 6>could know it on me first.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I don't think men with women is real hot.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm starting to like this even more.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm very curious, just as an experiment to see

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<v Speaker 4>how the second interaction would go between Carly and Ethan

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<v Speaker 4>both wearing the same scent.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna wear a cologne, now.

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<v Speaker 3>Give some Georgia HARMANI, but really.

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<v Speaker 5>Were my ex boyfriend's cologne.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll wear it?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, Okay, all fair in love and sense.

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<v Speaker 4>And the whole reason that we called you is to

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<v Speaker 4>ask if you would see Carly one more time for

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<v Speaker 4>a date, and we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you need to ask a different set.

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<v Speaker 6>I would love to see her again.

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<v Speaker 3>You are okay?

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<v Speaker 4>And Carly, are you still up for this even despite

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<v Speaker 4>what you've heard?

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<v Speaker 5>I guess so I'll give it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a little bit surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think we did a good job. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thrilled for You've been here.

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<v Speaker 4>On this one way better than if he had said

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<v Speaker 4>she had dragon thumbs. So that's Yeah, this was actually

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<v Speaker 4>a big win for everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't come back from that, No, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't, Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, I'm just really happy that she didn't overreact when

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<v Speaker 4>she jumped in kind of loud.

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<v Speaker 3>At first, I thought like, oh, no, this is it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's over. We're not going to come back.

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<v Speaker 7>You don't say that part out loud, man, Like you

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<v Speaker 7>buy the perfume and then you just leave it there,

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<v Speaker 7>like hell yeah. And I understand he didn't know that

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<v Speaker 7>she was on the phone, but even to us, but

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<v Speaker 7>let's just keep it to myself.

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<v Speaker 4>It was, like you said, like it was kind of

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<v Speaker 4>our felt because he confessed that he liked her, and

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<v Speaker 4>he felt comfortable enough with us to confide that the

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<v Speaker 4>perfume thing was supposed to be a gift, and then

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<v Speaker 4>the ex girlfriend also used to wear it.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say, I bet he would have told her,

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<v Speaker 2>just because in the sixty seconds you talked to him,

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<v Speaker 2>he let it out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I like to think that it's more about like how

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<v Speaker 4>comfortable people are around us, that they're willing to open up,

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<v Speaker 4>not that he just has, you know, a blabbermouth.

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<v Speaker 3>And also he didn't think it was a problem.

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<v Speaker 4>He's like, oh yeah, I'm just gonna get her the

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<v Speaker 4>same semix referen always work as I love it, then

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<v Speaker 4>I'll call her.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's be honest, the only reason any guy ever knows

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<v Speaker 2>the smell of a perfume is because of some woman dated.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know smell like Michelle.

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<v Speaker 4>So then let's give credit to Carle who was able

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<v Speaker 4>to hear him out and separate the X from the

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<v Speaker 4>smell and agree to a very very pungent second date.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm worried about.

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<v Speaker 1>How pungent it's gonna be.

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<v Speaker 3>Are they both gonna show? Yeah, they're gonna be gas

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<v Speaker 3>masks when they meet up.

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