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Speaker 2: Yeah, our top second dates of the year of twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty five, all right, and the reception lukewarm? Oh yes,

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Speaker 2: thank you, jose you saw the positive that. Yeah, No, honestly,

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Speaker 2: these are the favorites of the year and we're already

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Speaker 2: at number nine.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 4: And for your number nine second date update, can we

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Speaker 4: just level the playing field here for a second and

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Speaker 4: remind everybody we're all human, of course, despite what you

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Speaker 4: may hear on the show, and we've all been betrayed

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Speaker 4: by our bodies before. Yeah, just like last week when

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Speaker 4: I walked into the break room right after Alexis was

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Speaker 5: Baby?

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Speaker 4: Why condensation on the glass on the fridge?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Is better without you? Okay, Alexis, don't feel bad. I

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Speaker 3: smoke that too, dude, I know.

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Speaker 4: But listen, Alexis, our listeners know and understand your pain.

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Speaker 4: Because one of them had a date that made her

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Speaker 4: laugh so hard something embarrassing slipped down. It's much different

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Speaker 4: than the bomb. Alexis our listener. She's worried if could

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Speaker 3: You're here, your number nine second date update of the.

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Speaker 4: Year, The second date Update, Brook, Your husband is a

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Speaker 4: collector of sports cards.

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Speaker 1: He loves them. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 4: Does that make you more attracted to him? Or super

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Speaker 4: more attracted?

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Speaker 1: When he pulls out that Michael Jordan Rookie card.

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Speaker 2: Gosh, if only it wasn't rated a three.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what that is.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I think it's a one because he wrote his

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Speaker 3: That you just rubbed that card.

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Speaker 1: All over because it doesn't matter much as.

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Speaker 4: We'll find out more about that in just a second,

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Speaker 4: but first let's talk to Carly here. Carly, you said

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Speaker 4: in your email that the guy's name is Ethan.

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Speaker 3: How did you meet him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we met on a dating app.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and whatever he collects part of his profile.

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Speaker 1: No, oh, it wasn't listed.

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Speaker 4: Okay, nope, little surprise for you.

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Speaker 1: You don't say it with a smile on your face.

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Speaker 5: It was revealed like midway to the date.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's go chronologically then before we get to the

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Speaker 4: collecting of stuff, tell us more about Ethan and what

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so initially, his one liner joke to me about

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Speaker 4: The fact that he could cook at all, even if

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's a cute line, and it's an

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Speaker 3: Okay. So did your date involve cooking?

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Speaker 5: It did not?

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Speaker 3: No, okay, all right, So tell us about what happened.

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Speaker 5: So, I mean, you know, we've been dating for like

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Speaker 5: Well, we decided to meet up for dinner and we

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Speaker 3: Is that a fast food?

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Speaker 1: Was that cool with you or was that a disappointment?

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Speaker 5: It was really good. He was super funny, super sweet.

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Speaker 5: He held a door, he was like pulling out my.

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Speaker 6: Chair like that. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm old school, like I think people.

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Speaker 4: Well I slam the door in their face. We all

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Speaker 1: Does that to me to this studio honestly, like learn

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't want to like get in the way

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Speaker 4: So but you you thought that he was being a

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Speaker 2: Okay, So this is all sounding great. Was there something

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Speaker 1: When did that come into play?

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Speaker 5: Well, he just randomly was like, I collect rubbert duck.

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Speaker 2: Rubber ducks are huge right now. There is every type

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Speaker 4: Ever, Okay, how did you feel about it, Carly?

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Speaker 5: I was kind of like weirded out. I was like what,

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Speaker 3: If anybody out there rubber ducks, yes, it is totally support.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but that was a joke, but the rubber ducks

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just like a what does you think you

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Speaker 5: I don't know. Listen. He still walked me to my

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Speaker 2: I am obviously biased, but I think snorting is quite endearing.

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Speaker 1: You know, people have weird things.

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Speaker 4: Think that's that is very very personal information to share

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, we're not trying to body shame anybody.

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Speaker 1: Like some people have weird it.

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Speaker 1: Well, and if it's that, then he's not the guy

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Speaker 4: Is it possible that he's not calling you back because

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Speaker 4: you've got dragon thumbs? Brooks theory A phone with just

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Speaker 4: Let's just okay, enough about the dragon body parts.

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Speaker 3: Let's call this Ethan guy.

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Speaker 4: We'll see if he picks up, and we will ask

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Speaker 4: going out with you one more time. Carly, you're going

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Speaker 3: Second date update. You're the one.

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Speaker 4: I'm playing this song because our listener Carly went out

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Speaker 1: Say it like that, she's a door.

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Speaker 3: Do you consider this your rock bottom, Carly?

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Speaker 2: I mean, if you're on this show, I think most

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true. There is more phone call to come

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Speaker 2: All you're supposed to hype our listeners up. Carly, you're

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Speaker 4: We see how much she struggled to get that sent

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Speaker 1: I was going to bring up the snore. Maybe that's

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Speaker 3: It is a good point.

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Speaker 4: She did mention that she laughed so hard during the

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Speaker 3: But we don't know. Which reminds me nobody be too

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Speaker 4: If she starts snorting and then Brook starts snorting, Oh yeah.

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Speaker 5: You guys are funny, but as funny as him.

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Speaker 4: All Right, well, that's really motivated me to try super

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Speaker 5: Here we go, Thank you, guys, I really hope you

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Speaker 3: All right, let's see here we go. Hello, Hey, we're

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Speaker 6: Okay, this is Ethan.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Ethan.

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Speaker 1: There's a bunch of us here.

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Speaker 6: Who's this Hello.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: the Morning, a team, very dysfunctional team, and we're doing Yeah,

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, why are you calling me? What this is?

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Speaker 1: I love when people ask that. Ye's just such a

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Speaker 4: So, okay, we're doing that for one of our listeners

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Speaker 3: She mentioned you were a funny guy. It's coming across dude.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, segment we have based around dating it.

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Speaker 1: You were just going to say, yeah, she still don't

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Speaker 3: The date, kind of like an energy shift. We're not

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Speaker 6: Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that is so cute to hear. So you really

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great

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Speaker 3: So it sounds like you do want to go out

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Speaker 6: Well, we were texting about when we were going to

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Speaker 2: Oh you know how it can be and daty like

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Speaker 3: As far, she doesn't know you well enough yet.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't know if you're going to hit her up

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Speaker 3: Not hearing from you is gonna be a horrible thing.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: But everything that we're hearing right now sounds like you're

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Speaker 3: You want to see her again?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 6: You know, maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't don't

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Speaker 6: of bought her perfume.

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Speaker 5: You bought.

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Speaker 3: That's interesting.

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Speaker 1: That's cute. Like a travel size or full size bottle.

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Speaker 3: You have a price tag that you can attach to it.

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Speaker 3: This needs to know, you know, that's interested?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What made you do that? Is it like a birthday

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Speaker 6: To be honest, my ex used to wear it and

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Speaker 3: You bought it? Because it's the same as your ex'es bro.

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Speaker 5: Like, I'm on the phone on the phone, I heard that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's Carly that's on the other line listening to this. Uh,

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Speaker 4: that's how this works. We usually call her in.

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Speaker 1: That is so weird.

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Speaker 5: He didn't know even the same as your ex? Are

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Speaker 6: I didn't know you were on Carley. I didn't know

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, well I am. And that's disturbing, Like why, like, okay, seriously,

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Speaker 5: Brooke Alexis, can you guys help me out on that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it could be worse. He could have bought

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Speaker 3: Like, Oh, that would have been sweeter.

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Speaker 1: My mind did not even do that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think it's a good question.

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Speaker 4: Why why do you want Carly to be wearing that

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Speaker 3: Yea remind you of your ex?

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Speaker 6: I like the sense. I thought she would smell grade

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, okay, maybe maybe there could be a different

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Speaker 2: My husband is a sent guy. He loves sense like

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Speaker 3: Truck. Stop trying to change men with every sentence I say.

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Speaker 1: Dude, that is disturbing. You do not want to remind it?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm trying to read this and help you out here. Ethan,

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Speaker 4: you're saying you didn't buy it because it reminds you

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Speaker 6: That's right, And this is not about my ex at all.

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Speaker 6: She doesn't own the sense, she doesn't own the perfume.

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Speaker 6: Anyone could buy it. I love the scent, and I

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Speaker 6: thought Carley would smell great with an honor. That was

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Speaker 6: a nice gesture, Carly.

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Speaker 3: Are you hearing him?

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Speaker 5: I'm trying. I'm really trying to be open about this.

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Speaker 5: But like I also, I feel like when you smell

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but maybe you're a more powerful woman, and he'll

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Speaker 1: Did the sense on your body have different effects too?

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Speaker 3: Literally, it could have been anybody.

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Speaker 4: If his Maleman had been wearing the perfume, it would

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Speaker 4: have driven him mad. I mean, I say back to

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Speaker 2: Like okay, but but listen, he was never going to

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you, guys.

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Speaker 2: I mean, so technically we set them up for this,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Carly, like you got to

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Speaker 5: Of I feel you're You're not wrong. I agree with you, guys,

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Speaker 5: I do think and when you put a cent on

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Speaker 5: it does change like different body chemistries so fair enough, so.

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Speaker 6: You'll wear it then? Because I really like it?

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Speaker 3: Oh why don't like?

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have.

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Speaker 3: Heard that question.

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Speaker 4: Is that very very important to you if you're going

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Speaker 6: Like I said, guys, I really like it.

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Speaker 5: You had me up until there. I don't know. Now

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Speaker 5: I'm getting like creepy.

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Speaker 3: Again.

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Speaker 1: That's our fault. We're piling not yes, okay.

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Speaker 4: We are the weirdos in this conversation, he is totally normal.

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Speaker 4: I would spray another before he sprays that for a few.

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Speaker 6: That's a great point. I could wear it so you

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Speaker 1: Wait, I don't think men with women is real hot.

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Speaker 3: I'm starting to like this even more.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm very curious, just as an experiment to see

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Speaker 4: how the second interaction would go between Carly and Ethan

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Speaker 4: both wearing the same scent.

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Speaker 1: She's gonna wear a cologne, now.

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Speaker 3: Give some Georgia HARMANI, but really.

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Speaker 5: Were my ex boyfriend's cologne.

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Speaker 6: I'll wear it?

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Speaker 2: Sure, Okay, all fair in love and sense.

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Speaker 4: And the whole reason that we called you is to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to ask a different set.

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Speaker 6: I would love to see her again.

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Speaker 3: You are okay?

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Speaker 4: And Carly, are you still up for this even despite

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Speaker 5: I guess so I'll give it.

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Speaker 3: I'm a little bit surprised.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we did a good job. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 4: On this one way better than if he had said

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Speaker 4: she had dragon thumbs. So that's Yeah, this was actually

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Speaker 4: a big win for everything.

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Speaker 1: You can't come back from that, No, you.

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Speaker 3: Can't, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Man, I'm just really happy that she didn't overreact when

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Speaker 3: At first, I thought like, oh, no, this is it.

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Speaker 3: It's over. We're not going to come back.

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Speaker 7: You don't say that part out loud, man, Like you

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Speaker 7: like hell yeah. And I understand he didn't know that

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Speaker 4: It was, like you said, like it was kind of

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Speaker 2: I will say, I bet he would have told her,

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I like to think that it's more about like how

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Speaker 3: And also he didn't think it was a problem.

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Speaker 4: He's like, oh yeah, I'm just gonna get her the

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Speaker 4: I'll call her.

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Speaker 2: Let's be honest, the only reason any guy ever knows

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Speaker 3: I don't know smell like Michelle.

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Speaker 4: So then let's give credit to Carle who was able

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Speaker 3: I'm worried about.

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Speaker 1: How pungent it's gonna be.

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Speaker 3: Are they both gonna show? Yeah, they're gonna be gas

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