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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Dakota and this is Riley. Your favorite

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Speaker 2: My best friend faked an entire marriage and I finally

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Speaker 2: exposed him.

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Speaker 3: Why would you do that?

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Speaker 2: Don't expose him, clothe them. He deserves the straight jacket,

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Speaker 2: trigger warning mentions of mistreatment and faking medical diagnoses. So

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Speaker 2: I thirty three female, don't know where to start with

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Speaker 2: this honestly, which I feel like, you know, it's one

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Speaker 2: of those stories. Yesterday morning, I was messaged by a

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Speaker 2: mutual friend, Sam thirty four female, expressing concern for our

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Speaker 2: buddy Dylan thirty three male. We all went to school

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Speaker 2: together then moved apart. Sam and I don't talk, but

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Speaker 2: we're friends on social media, and Dylan will mention us

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Speaker 2: to each other now and then in the way anyone

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Speaker 2: would mention their friends in passing. I had also begun

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Speaker 2: to worry about Dylan lately and had planned to reach

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Speaker 2: out to Sam myself. Again, this is a person that

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Speaker 2: they talked to, not very irregularly. Yeah, she just beat

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Speaker 2: me to it. He's always been flaky and bad at

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Speaker 2: keeping plans, and he said stuff in the past that

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Speaker 2: I've known wasn't correct, but it was never a big deal.

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Speaker 2: So maybe we're going to be the beginning of compulsive wires.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just a lot of white lives.

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Speaker 4: He's like, oh, yeah, I just saw the Pope this weekend,

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Speaker 4: and he's like.

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Speaker 3: That doesn't up.

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Speaker 2: What doesn't Yeah, what shoes was he wearing? Huh? And

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Speaker 2: if he was like, oh, he's wearing Pope slippers. The

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Speaker 2: Pope wears dunks. The Pope wears Nike dunks. Gosh, dang it,

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Speaker 2: Pope is stylish as heck. I was about to say

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Speaker 2: stylish as hell, but no, he's stylish as heaven. Baby,

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Speaker 2: he wears Nike. Dug Riley pulled that up. Pope Leo

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Speaker 2: wears Nike dunks, the freshest Go Goo Nike dunks and

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Speaker 2: deep dish. Anyway, But it was never a big deal,

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Speaker 2: like he'd contradict the story he told me previously, But

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Speaker 2: there's always small enough that it didn't bother me, and

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Speaker 2: I just humor him. It takes two to tango. You're

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Speaker 2: emboldening a liar. Yeah, that's your fault, that's your fault, Opie,

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Speaker 2: you wear that burden. By the way, you know who

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Speaker 2: wears this burden? What comes from I hope you don't

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Speaker 2: find this I found it, Opi.

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Speaker 3: It's too late.

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Speaker 4: I've already found it.

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Speaker 2: Fi And if you want to submit your own stories,

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Speaker 2: go to our slash Okay story time. Mind it.

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Speaker 1: I'm Sam, by the way, I'm Sophia, I'm Riley.

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Speaker 2: And we're here to give good advice goofily. But we

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Speaker 2: don't know all the answers. We just know what Pope

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Speaker 2: Leo wears is this choice of shoe. But tell us

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Speaker 2: what you would do in these situations and maybe we

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Speaker 2: can all learn together. So as op says, I mean,

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Speaker 2: people exaggerate for effects. Sometimes it's not the end of

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Speaker 2: the world. But it's been getting more and more the

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Speaker 2: last few weeks, and I've begun to worry that it's

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Speaker 2: a medical concern. This man's lying so much that OPI

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Speaker 2: is like, I think his brain broke. He's been erratic,

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Speaker 2: confused forgetting things and just acting on. Sam had the

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Speaker 2: same feeling. However, as we started to talk about our worries,

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Speaker 2: we realized stuff wasn't lining up. There were things that

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Speaker 2: he'd told me and not her and vice versa, or

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Speaker 2: different versions of the same story. We started digging deeper

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Speaker 2: and realized the lies stretched back at least ten years

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe, God, that's a little too long.

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Speaker 2: That is a long time. I mean tumors can grow slow,

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Speaker 2: that's true, tumors can grow slow. The lies range from

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Speaker 2: the city he lives in, his job and his finances,

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Speaker 2: to marriage mistreatment and terminal illness.

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Speaker 4: He's telling everyone has a tumor. Yeah, you don't know

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Speaker 4: if that's true. That Yeah, that's a medical that's a

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Speaker 4: you know, quite ten years.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, at what point is it like a

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Speaker 2: medical issue and what point is it just you? Well,

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Speaker 2: I think does he have a chic, durable case of

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Speaker 4: I think he has like a neurological thing where he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's being an asshole, Sophia. Not necessarily a logical

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Speaker 3: That's no, it's like a thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think Tiger Woods had that too.

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Speaker 1: Or was it the Pope.

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Speaker 2: No, Pope's infallible. Pope can't lie and he's cool's head

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Speaker 2: and he's cools. Heck, yea, he told me he had

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Speaker 2: Sam nothing of this, despite telling me she and I

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Speaker 2: but knew he was, and turns out they all distanced

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Speaker 2: themselves from him when they realized they were getting different stories,

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Speaker 2: but none of them knew the depths of it. It

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Speaker 2: was odd and frustrating that I'd never met the partner,

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Speaker 2: but not outside the realm's reality because we live in

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Speaker 2: different countries. Well, I thought, now I'm sure.

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Speaker 3: I have no idea where he lives. He could live.

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Speaker 2: Next door, he doesn't even have a partner, could.

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Speaker 4: Be the pope, that's why he doesn't have a wife.

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Speaker 2: Well, I thought, now I'm unsure. I'm now thinking he

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Speaker 2: might not have ever actually left the state, So he

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Speaker 2: really could be your neighbor. And they both travel for work,

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Speaker 2: and I don't have much money or time to go gallivanting.

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Speaker 2: Same with Sam. She lives in South Africa, so similar experience.

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Speaker 2: We'd spoken to the husband on a different phone number

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Speaker 2: and everything seemed legit okay, So they've talked to the

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Speaker 4: Yes, I guess Sam and.

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Speaker 2: Ope talked to the husband of the liar.

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Speaker 4: Who's Dan, Dan Dan Dan.

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Speaker 1: Dean Dean Op has been married to Dean for almost

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Speaker 1: nine years. I have a friend Nate.

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Speaker 4: Nate.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, wrong story. I was like, what, sorry, Dean,

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Speaker 1: the actual friend Sam is concerned for our buddy Dylan.

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Speaker 4: So Dylan, Yeah, Dylan is the liar. And we've talked

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Speaker 2: Digor Dylan's husband quote unquote, yeah, a husband. Yeah, we've

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Speaker 2: now realized that they were deep dive pictures from the internet,

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Speaker 4: Who did you talk to?

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Speaker 2: I actually found the guy on Instagram and spoke to

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Speaker 2: occurred to me. It didn't seem weird, and he'd never

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Speaker 2: even heard of Dylan. What He'd alleged a lot of

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Speaker 2: mistreatment from this person as well, which is deeply upsetting.

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Speaker 2: As he knows, I've been in a harmful relationship previously.

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, So Dylan has been telling Ope that he

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Speaker 4: is in a harmful relationship.

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Speaker 2: With this random guy on Instagram. Yes, who has been

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Speaker 2: heard baked into talking. Maybe we don't know talking well.

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Speaker 2: Someone was talking on the phone and Op and Sam

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Speaker 2: thought it was this random guy on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He also told us about eighteen months ago that he

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Speaker 2: was diagnosed with a terminal illness. He's told us about

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Speaker 2: surgeries and treatment and remission and it's coming back. I've

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Speaker 2: spent many nights bereft thinking my best friend was going

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Speaker 2: to pass away. It's now become clear that this is

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Speaker 2: not true. So stopping here real quick, checking in with chat.

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Speaker 2: What the heck is going on here? What do you do?

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Speaker 2: Put your answers in the chat? Yeah, I'll give you

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Speaker 2: a little bit of time. But Sophia, at what point

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Speaker 2: do you like, just distance yourself from this person? And

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Speaker 2: at what point do you say, like, oh, is this

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Speaker 4: I think you have two options. Do you either choose

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Speaker 4: the easy route distance, you know, follow what everyone else

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Speaker 4: it seems that you and Sam are pretty worried about Dylan.

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Speaker 4: You work together little intervention style, You sit them down,

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Speaker 4: You say, hey, we've realized that you've been lying about

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Speaker 4: a lot of stuff for ten years. We are very

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Speaker 4: concerned about you, you know, we think you need help.

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Speaker 4: And if at that point he's like, don't talk to

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Speaker 4: me for I'm not lying, what are you saying?

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Speaker 2: Then maybe well maybe that's the toom we're talking.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean you can only offer advice. Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: mean I also might be lying about you know, he

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Speaker 4: might say, Okay, I'll get help and then and then.

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Speaker 2: Lie about that. Yeah. I mean I feel like if

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Speaker 2: you think there's something neurologically wrong, I'd say, like, hey,

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Speaker 2: we want to be keep you in our lives because

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Speaker 2: we've been in contact for so long. But I think

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Speaker 2: you need to go to the hospital and get your

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Speaker 2: noggin checked out because something's up.

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Speaker 1: Is that an M or you do.

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Speaker 2: Like that cat scan?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What's a cat scan for?

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Speaker 2: I'd think for the brain the brains?

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Speaker 4: Is cat scan for the brain? There's like a like

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Speaker 4: a like a neurological.

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Speaker 2: Yeah scan, you got tiger woods on there? See T

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I guess so young?

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Speaker 4: Wait now now look, is a cat scan the same

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Speaker 2: But let's see what what what do the people say? Hi? Ali,

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Speaker 2: ALA's here? Tell me what you guys would do immediately

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Speaker 2: remove yourself from the relationship because the deep lies are

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Speaker 2: deep rooted. What is even honest about this person? Uh,

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Speaker 2: Butterfly for You says, I was proven that my daughter

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Speaker 2: was having medical issues. No doctor found was your daughter lying?

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Speaker 2: And then you're like, oh, this has got to be

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Speaker 2: a medical issue, and then you got to figure it out.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 4: I think I think it was just the daughter was saying, hey,

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Speaker 4: I'm experiencing this, and all the doctor's like, no.

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Speaker 3: No, she's lying, She's lia.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I feel like jelly Bus says, you

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Speaker 2: got to see a doctor about them? Eyes rude, jelly Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like your relationship is kind of formed on

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Speaker 2: a lot. I do appreciate that you and Sam are

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Speaker 2: trying to figure something out. I think we do some

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Speaker 2: kind of intervention and say, hey, we both recognize this.

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Speaker 2: If you don't like seek help in some way, I

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Speaker 2: feel like we can't have you in our lives anymore.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yep. So they're worried about Dylan. They figured out Dylan

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Speaker 1: has been spreading lies, and Dylan made a fake husband

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Speaker 1: online and is like getting all of the stuff.

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Speaker 4: That's what I was wondering about was the initial thing

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Speaker 4: of op saying, Oh, I haven't seen this person in

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Speaker 4: a while, but they were talking about Sam.

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Speaker 1: Correct, No, they're talking about I guess at the beginning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they were talking about Sam. Yeah, okay, kim Fwayne

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Speaker 2: said told y'all, it's like my friend. She'd come and

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Speaker 2: go from our lives because we've grown her up together,

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Speaker 2: but all other friend groups would get abandoned, come back

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Speaker 2: to the OG's degree group, then rint and repeat over

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Speaker 2: and over. Was your friend lying sounds like you're friend?

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Speaker 2: My wee line? That sucks, but we have more of

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Speaker 2: the story. So, oh boy, everything he said that's not

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Speaker 2: added up has either been so small I didn't care

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Speaker 2: But what do we do if his family doesn't respond?

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Speaker 4: Oh boy, but Sophia chat, Yes, what.

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Speaker 2: Do you think we do in this situation? We gave

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Speaker 4: Oh, just like in Madagascar.

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Speaker 2: it seems like it seems like you don't know this person.

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Speaker 2: Because always I've known like some of my friends a

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I like that idea. I was a little bit like, oh, like,

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Speaker 2: Look at that that nice interventionist there, Look how happy

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Speaker 4: Certain I feel like, like the constant lying that feels

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly, lying aversion to truth. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 2: Is that behavioral double behavioral therapy.

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Speaker 1: Dialectic behavioral therapy.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember when the therapists come there.

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Speaker 2: Sillah says, in my opinion, Sam has trauma that causes

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Speaker 4: Oh and and Sam is not. It's uh uh what's Dylan?

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Speaker 2: Dylan is? Dylan is a liar? Psychosomatics Isnean Nelson. So

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Speaker 2: I've been in dialectic behavioral therapy for a year now.

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Speaker 2: We managed to get in touch with a family member yesterday.

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Speaker 2: You really don't know who this person is. You've been

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Speaker 4: It's pretty crazy that have the parents done anything, Like.

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Speaker 2: You know he's also you've been friends with this person

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Speaker 3: Twenty years.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad that Charlie got back to us because despite

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Speaker 2: Sam and I have discussed it, and, as a few

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Speaker 2: it all worse. We decided to both slow fade our

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Speaker 2: Charlie said that they're going over to see his mom

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Speaker 2: What do you think about slow rolling a way?

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Speaker 1: I've done it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've done it.

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Speaker 2: We've all done a slow roll.

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00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 4: I think for the long term friendships, especially when this

439
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,119
Speaker 4: I you know, no conversation would actually help here because

440
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 4: he could just lie.

441
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

442
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 4: I think that makes sense to just.

443
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 2: Be like he's had many years of practice.

444
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, this is a good friend of you.

445
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: I don't like the slow role. I think you should

446
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 1: confront them, even though you're a non confrontational person. You're

447
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 1: their friend. You should call them on your bs. No

448
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 1: one else is going to do it.

449
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

450
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 2: I feel like I have gone through secles of being

451
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 2: that that guy that tells the truth.

452
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:27,719
Speaker 4: Oh.

453
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 2: Yes, as Sophia knows, I've gone through cycles of being like, oh, like,

454
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 2: what do you think of my new song? I didn't

455
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 2: like it? I like, I feel like people trust you,

456
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 2: but people may not like you. So there is a line,

457
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 2: there is a line. There is a line. There's a line. Now,

458
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: I've played with that line. I've danced on that line,

459
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 2: mostly on the truth side, and then being a little

460
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,919
Speaker 2: bit less, still telling the truth, but being less truth

461
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 2: forward and more packaging in a nice little bows.

462
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 4: Always been a very truthful person.

463
00:22:58,520 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 1: Me.

464
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 2: It's true, it is true. It's true. And you can

465
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 2: believe that trust asked the blind Man he signed to

466
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 2: Liar liar. Great movie. But you know, I feel like

467
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: I kind of agree with Riley that I've definitely gone

468
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 2: through moonds of this. But like I remember, I had

469
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 2: this friend that like I just didn't like feel that

470
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,919
Speaker 2: connected with, and she felt like I was being a

471
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 2: bad friend because like I wasn't spending time with her,

472
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 2: and I was like, I see you more as a

473
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 2: friend group friend.

474
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 4: Oh you did tell me this story?

475
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yeah. Also because she was in love with

476
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: one of my other friends and kept telling him and

477
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: wanting to see him and date him, and it was

478
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 2: like weird. So there was like, you're thinking of Riley,

479
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 2: but like it's not who you're thinking of. There's been

480
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 2: many people in love with this man. Yeah, but yeah,

481
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 2: I feel like honestly saying that and being truthful in

482
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 2: that moment was not maybe that great of an idea.

483
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 4: I think it's I think it depends because I think

484
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 4: sometimes you can just roll back and it's better for everyone.

485
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 4: And sometimes if people keep pushing and you're like I'm

486
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 4: trying to roll back and they keep following me, then

487
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 4: you have to set the boundary.

488
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's true. I think it was because

489
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 2: it was a soft rollback, and I was like, why

490
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 2: you roll them back?

491
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 4: I'm like, h this is what I don't like.

492
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know it's hard, y'all, it's hard.

493
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 2: I think if this is a friend that you care about,

494
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 2: saying the truth once to them might be good. But

495
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 2: I don't know, you've been friends for twenty years. If

496
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,199
Speaker 2: I was friends with twenty someone for twenty years, and

497
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 2: I'm going to start distancing myself, like I'm trying to think,

498
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 2: is there anyone that I've like distanced myself that the

499
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 2: only friend that I've had is Christian that's been twenty years. Yeah,

500
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 2: twenty years actually on the dot. Wow, yeah, well that's

501
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 2: not true of twenty three years.

502
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

503
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 4: I was just gonna say, because it was like I

504
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 4: just had my twenty year, I will have.

505
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 2: My twentieth, so you would, yeah, your twentieth.

506
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 4: My twentieth this August.

507
00:24:56,720 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel I feel like saying, why do you

508
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 2: have to announce your departure? Why? I think you only

509
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 2: have to announce your departure if there's like a reason

510
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 2: that it's coming and you want to try to maintain

511
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 2: your friendship. So it's not saying like I'm not going

512
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 2: to hang out with you anymore. It's like if they're like,

513
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 2: why aren't we hanging out anymore? I think being honest there,

514
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 2: or if it's like I care about you and I

515
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 2: love to keep you my life, but this is why

516
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 2: I am leaving.

517
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you think it will help.

518
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 2: Them, If you think it will help them, because it

519
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: doesn't always. But like also like at the same point,

520
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 2: like do you even have this friend? Yeah, like do

521
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 2: you know anything about them?

522
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 4: Isn't anything about that?

523
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 2: I don't know. I can see it going both ways,

524
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 2: but I'm curious what'll y'all think. But we have another update.

525
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 2: So it's been just over three weeks since I found

526
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 2: out my best friend Dylan has been lying to me

527
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: our entire relationship about everything in his life. Also note

528
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 2: best friend Dylan.

529
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, they've said They've said that a multiple times. Yeah,

530
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 4: they've said best friend multiple time.

531
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 2: It's your best friend.

532
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 4: I feel like, yeah, but they also don't know anything

533
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 4: about their best friend.

534
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 1: It's been twenty years.

535
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 4: It's been twenty years.

536
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: Honestly, it sucked Sam his other best friend, and I

537
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 2: decided to slow fade away. But even in the space

538
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 2: of just a week, he increased the intensity to a

539
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 2: point I couldn't take it anymore. It was initially just

540
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 2: replying once a day to the innocuous messages that weren't

541
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 2: to do with lies. Yeah. Example, Yeah, I watched that

542
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 2: movie you recommended. It was great with Sam and I

543
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,679
Speaker 2: both doing it at the same time. I guess he

544
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 2: felt the shift.

545
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 4: Which goes into what we said of sometimes there's a

546
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 4: point where you need to set the bound.

547
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 1: This is where I send a movie recommendation that is

548
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: very closely related to what's happening in my life.

549
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:43,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, liar, lie.

550
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: Liar, send a liar liar. Think of what are some

551
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 2: other big liar, big liar? Gone girl that personal lives?

552
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, great movie.

553
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 2: Great that is lives.

554
00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 4: I haven't seen that movie. Oh yeah, yeah, no spoilers.

555
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 2: You like it? I think I guess he felt the shift. Also,

556
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 2: his ex husband aka the guy he stocked but never met,

557
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 2: blocked him on Instagram after I gave the IG handle

558
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: for his own safety, so he obviously started to panic.

559
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 2: In about a week after all this happened, I woke

560
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 2: up to twenty deleted messages. Wow, I love twenty deleted.

561
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just deleted, deleted, deleted. Doubly.

562
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 2: There's a guy that the Ali simp that will send

563
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,679
Speaker 2: her a message every single day and then delete it

564
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 2: and send it again, and then delete it and send

565
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: it again on Insteagram, on Instagram, she blocked him. I

566
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: don't think she's the blocking type.

567
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 4: And she should block him.

568
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, some of those dudes, Sorry, I have going around

569
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: on this now. Yeah, some dude did this with a

570
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: bunch of like models and he sent like, hey, thinking

571
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 1: about you beautiful Day one, thinking about you beautiful Day two,

572
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 1: and then he did it every day until Christmas time.

573
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: Then he went dead silent, and some of those girls

574
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 1: did a video about man, this guy that usually talks

575
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: to me every day, he just automatically stopped talking to

576
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 1: me today and I feel really sad. It's to the holidays.

577
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 4: He's like, what, that's so funny, right, that's crazy.

578
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 2: That's crazy. Probably something's broken with both of those people. Yeah,

579
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 2: we've spoken about this before. It's one of the only

580
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 2: things I'd ever come close to having a go at

581
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 2: him about. It makes my anxiety go haywire. I can't

582
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 2: handle it. He apologized and told me the leading messages

583
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 2: were because a third party I had told him that

584
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 2: his mom was having a hurt issue and he freaked

585
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 2: out for two hours and discovered it was a lie.

586
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, buddy, that's not true.

587
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 2: Said he wanted to unalive the sea word who told

588
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 2: him that, and he hates those people. That was what

589
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 2: broke me. Okay, are we going to get a little

590
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 2: get a little truth coming, a little truth action?

591
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 1: Do you even have a mom?

592
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 2: Right?

593
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 4: We're those just hired actors I talked to.

594
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 2: First of all, I saw the first ten messages before

595
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: I went to sleep in my notifications bar, but didn't

596
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: open them. It was him talking about some jewelry he liked.

597
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: Second of all, are you effing kidding me? He's been

598
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 2: lying to me about having terminal illness for two years.

599
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 2: I decided I have to get out firmly. I sent

600
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 2: a long message explaining that I know everything and that's

601
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 2: hurt me beyond belief. I said I wouldn't tell him

602
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 2: how I found everything out, but that I knew it

603
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 2: all and I hope he can get help, but I

604
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 2: can't be around while he does it. He read it immediately,

605
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 2: but I blocked him before he could reply. On all platforms. Wow,

606
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: what block before a reply?

607
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 3: Well, I mean I.

608
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 4: Think he's like, well, you just lied to me again.

609
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 2: I know, but I'd be curious at least what the

610
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: lie was.

611
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, block before the reply?

612
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 4: What about us?

613
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, we want to know.

614
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 4: No, I think that is understandable.

615
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. Immediately I felt a weight lifted, and for a

616
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 2: week and a half I was sad, and other aspects

617
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: of my mental health have been affected by it. But

618
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 2: I at least felt relief to be away from it all.

619
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 2: Question prediction conspiracy theory. Do we think that this man

620
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: Dylan is going to come back another account?

621
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 4: I worry.

622
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 2: I worry. I think. I think Dylan is not gone.

623
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: I think Dylan is gonna spring around the corner.

624
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: Is he the type of person to go through facial

625
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 1: reconstruction and all of that to come back into op

626
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 1: in Sam's life.

627
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 2: To a Vanilla Skuy, Vanilla Sky do a Vanilla Skuy.

628
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 4: I was thinking, like in the movie Bolt.

629
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 2: Oh, like the Bolt with the dog.

630
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, they just get a new dog.

631
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 4: No, at the end of the movie. The villain in

632
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 4: the movie franchise that they're shooting, he gets facial reconstruction.

633
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: Mmm, oh yeah, I remember that, or maybe Penny. Is

634
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 1: he the type of person to do that.

635
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 4: Though Penny gets facial reconstruction, I.

636
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 2: Don't think he's the type of person who get facial

637
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 2: reconstructive surgery. But I think he's going to do digital

638
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: reconstruction surgery and create a whole new account to get

639
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 2: into Op's life.

640
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 4: But I can see that happening.

641
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: Sam hadn't heard from me either, so in my head

642
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 2: I was picturing him being like, crap, they know I've

643
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: been found out. After I told her I sent the message,

644
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 2: she realized that she'd actually accidentally archived his messages and

645
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 2: he'd been messaging her all week. She told him to

646
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 2: f off and not speak to her again. I was

647
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: so far off. Little turns out, I blocked him on WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram,

648
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 2: et cetera, but forgot that just regular old texts are

649
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: a thing. I got a message from him the other

650
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 2: day saying he knows it was Sam who poisoned me

651
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 2: against him, that he's done with her and doesn't care

652
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: about her. That I'm scum for dropping him and not

653
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: talking to him about it at all. And the kicker

654
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 2: is he doubled down on everything. Yeah, since he clearly

655
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 2: didn't realize I'd spoken to multiple people often than Sam.

656
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 2: He said she was lying and that everything he'd said

657
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 2: was true and he'd never ever lied. There's another relevant update.

658
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 2: But let's discuss what are we that dang?

659
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, there's nothing you could do about that.

660
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 4: There's nothing you can do. It's not your fault, you know, Yeah,

661
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 4: it's it's Dylan's.

662
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 2: Own thing, Dylan thing. At least, I feel happy that

663
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 2: we didn't just do the slow role.

664
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, like we had, we try to have a discussion.

665
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 4: Nothing changed, and so we you know, hard cut off.

666
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I agree. Oh what do you think Riley?

667
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: This is smart? The thing I'm really worried about is

668
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 1: when does it come to compromising your safety?

669
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: Yeah?

670
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, because if this keeps happening, you might put yourself

671
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: in a situation where you can't come out of.

672
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I feel like putting distance is good. Hopefully

673
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 2: it doesn't get crazier. I guess we'll see, hopefully. But

674
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 2: he said I was incapable of having a conversation about

675
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 2: the real world bowl. I ignored it. But I've been

676
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 2: keeping in touch with his family and Sam through all this,

677
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 2: and we've been all been up in each other, so

678
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 2: they've all seen it. Funnily enough, after all the stuff

679
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 2: he said about Sam, he then tried to call her

680
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 2: multiple times, begging her to talk to him. I got

681
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 2: a message from his sister in law yesterday saying his

682
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 2: brother has now spoken to him and informed him that

683
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 2: we've all been in contact with each other and everyone knows.

684
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 2: Everything apparently didn't go well. I don't know how exactly

685
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 2: how they hope it's the first steps to getting him

686
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: help though. Okay, it's good that his family's taking over. Yeah,

687
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 2: so yeah, it's effed me up a bit, but my

688
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 2: therapy started up again after a schedule break, and there

689
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: we have it. That's what a.

690
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 4: Tale, A tall tale, tall, the tallest.

691
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 2: The tallst Dale.

692
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

693
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's where that story ends.

694
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, it really does. I wish him luck in trying

695
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 4: to get through this.

696
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 2: SOA says Op should have confronted Dylan. I feel like

697
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: there was a little bit of confrontation.

698
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, she did have a little bit of confrontation, and

699
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 4: then he continued to lie. Yeah that's when she was like,

700
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 4: I don't think I can get through to this guy.

701
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:54,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, but man, I feel like compulsive liars man, they

702
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 2: scare me. I mean, there's so many things to remembers,

703
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 2: have good memories. I wonder if compulse of liars are

704
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 2: better at memory games the good ones. I guess.

705
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,719
Speaker 4: I think sometimes that's that's usually how you you know,

706
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 4: notice that they're lying. Yeah, it's like remember things don't

707
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 4: add up.

708
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like method acting as a lifestyle.

709
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. True.

710
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like, this is who I am.

711
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 2: But yeah, that is where that story ends.

712
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 1: Hey, this is Riley, your favorite Southern bale. We're going

713
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: to get back to these stories. But here's three minutes

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715
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Speaker 4: The bride said my deaf husband didn't fit her aesthetic,

716
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 4: so I ended our friendship.

717
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 2: I mean, he's not a good accessory. Then he got

718
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:36,760
Speaker 2: to or rop him.

719
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 4: I thirty nine male, have been married to my husband

720
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 4: Dean forty male, for almost nine years.

721
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 3: Wow.

722
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 4: I have a friend Nate thirty eight male, that I'm

723
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 4: at in grad school and we have been close until

724
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 4: about five years ago. For the last five years we

725
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 4: have remained in touch, but our meetings have been reduced

726
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 4: to every three to four months, despite living in the

727
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 4: same city.

728
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 2: Wow.

729
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 4: I have a child, Lucy's seven female, which contributed to

730
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 4: our distance as kids take priority. By the way, this

731
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 4: comes from I cry after a spicy sleep, am a,

732
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 4: ask me anything, Ask me anything, ask me anything.

733
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 2: That is a crazy user name.

734
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 4: And if you want to smit your own stories, go

735
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 4: to your slash okay, story time suffered it. I'm Sophia,

736
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 4: I'm saying, I'm Riley, and we're here to give good

737
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 4: of my school. Little we don't know everything. That's not possible.

738
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 2: It's not possible.

739
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,800
Speaker 4: But if you know everything, please let us know because

740
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 4: we want to study you for science.

741
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 3: And oh p says.

742
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 4: Nate got married two weeks ago to a woman, Lisa.

743
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 2: Lisa.

744
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 4: I don't know how old, probably our age yep. Female.

745
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 4: I have never met this woman prior to the wedding

746
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 4: and only heard about her with discussions with Nate. Nate

747
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 4: and my husband have met a lot, as Dean usually

748
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 4: comes to our dinners, and they interact well. As far

749
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 4: as I could tell. Nate and Lisa are quite religious,

750
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 4: but Nate has never had an issue that I'm married

751
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,479
Speaker 4: to a man. No my proaggressions, nothing. He also told

752
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 4: me that Lisa has no issue either.

753
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 2: Cool, there's no issues. Story done all over just getting

754
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 2: from done.

755
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 4: Wait. Based off of the title, This is so funny

756
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:18,280
Speaker 4: because I think we're gonna find out they're totally cool

757
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 4: that you guys are. We've been calling it J with

758
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 4: a G, J with a G. Yeah. Oh yeah for

759
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 4: because J with a G. Yeah, because of censorships. Yeah,

760
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 4: it's really funny if they're like, no, no, no, we're

761
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 4: totally cool with you guys being J with G. But

762
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 4: he's deaf. However, when the RSVPs went out about two

763
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 4: months ago, it was addressed only to me, which I

764
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 4: thought was odd. I didn't think it was weird that

765
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 4: my daughter wasn't invited. However, I thought it was weird

766
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 4: the Dean wasn't. I asked Nate, and he stated, oh,

767
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 4: it's just very small ceremony, so they weren't doing plus one.

768
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 2: We sent out invites, but they were verbal.

769
00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're sent to hearing except those in the wedding party.

770
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 4: I accept this and spoke with Dean. Dean encouraged me

771
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 4: to go to help preserve my friendship with Nate, and

772
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 4: also because he doesn't like large events. Well, supposedly, it's

773
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 4: a small event. My husband is deaf and large groups

774
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 4: of people make him extra anxious. He doesn't litbreed well

775
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 4: as contrary to popular belief, most deaf people don't, and

776
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 4: to my knowledge, no one else at the wedding knows ASL,

777
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 4: so he would have to rely on me or technology

778
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 4: to communicate. All was well and good until the wedding.

779
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 4: Two weeks ago. I get to the wedding, which was

780
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:36,919
Speaker 4: at a very large church and filled with people. Who

781
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 4: are these people?

782
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: I was small?

783
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 2: I thought it was small. Oh yeah, it was hardly

784
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 2: a party. Yeah yeah, it was a two hundreds.

785
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 4: No big deal deal, not just filled packed and almost

786
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 4: everyone had their spouse is attending, including two classmates of

787
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,760
Speaker 4: ours from grad school who I know and ate probably

788
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,800
Speaker 4: has spoken to more than once or twice since grad school.

789
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Speaker 2: What what? What would have happened if you invited OPI's partner?

790
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 2: Why is it like, I feel like it's more drama

791
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 2: to not invite them.

792
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 4: It's crazy because also the whole I mean, we're going

793
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,720
Speaker 4: to get into it, but that just doesn't make sense.

794
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 4: I asked one of my friends, Marty forty five mail,

795
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 4: who said that his invitation said and guests no, what

796
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 4: did they think was going to happen? When op got

797
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 4: the wedding. Were they just like, oh, it's too late now.

798
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:30,919
Speaker 2: Or I mean like OP was definitely gonna find appen.

799
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

800
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: Just because Dean's death doesn't mean OP can't pick up

801
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: on context clues.

802
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 2: Oh oh oh oh yeah. Oh.

803
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 4: I then noticed something else. Every other couple was hetero.

804
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: Wait, so was it because he's j with the G

805
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,839
Speaker 1: or death we don't know him both.

806
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a combo at a combo. I'm very uh yeah,

807
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 2: I'm fine with Jay with the G. I'm five with

808
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 2: deaf people. But when they mix, no, you chose a lane.

809
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 4: I don't know if you've ever seen Dairy Girls. I'm

810
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 4: doing a lot of references here, but there's one character.

811
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 4: It's set in Ireland, and there's one character who's British

812
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 4: and and in the it's in the nineties, so it's

813
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 4: like very tense. And there's one scene where the two

814
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 4: parents are talking and they're like and there's a running

815
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 4: joke where they think this guy's gay and he's like,

816
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,439
Speaker 4: I'm not gay, and they're like, oh, are you trying

817
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 4: to say that he can't stay with you because like

818
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 4: he's he's gay. Like, I'm very disappointed, and they're like, no,

819
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,839
Speaker 4: the case thing's fine, it's the British thing.

820
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 2: Never let written to the home. Yeah, that's what was

821
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 2: all about.

822
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 1: Actually, which amendment does not allow quarterings?

823
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 2: Oh that's true. Yeah, what was it?

824
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 4: Fifth amendment?

825
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 2: Fifth amendment? Do you actually know that? No way?

826
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 4: Or is it the fourth man?

827
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 2: No? I think they know amendment, third amendment.

828
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 4: Third amendment amendment.

829
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, you can take that one. I'm saying

830
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 2: third amendment. I would say fourth amendment, third amendment. You

831
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Speaker 2: can't let a British person into your quarters something like that.

832
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 3: You know it's a soldier, soldier.

833
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 2: What were the soldiers British exactly? Oh, my gosh, first legal.

834
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Speaker 4: Third, and there you go. He knows his amendments.

835
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 2: Oh do I know my emendments?

836
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:31,720
Speaker 1: And that's kind of crazy. That's the third one, because

837
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: you get well, free free speech, religion and all that,

838
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 1: and then right arms, arms.

839
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 4: To bear arms, and then you can't well, okay.

840
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: You can't have a British guy in your room.

841
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 4: I will say that it was really relevant at the time.

842
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 4: Levant just kept trying to not.

843
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 2: Let a British person into our our house since the amendment.

844
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 3: That's not true.

845
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:57,360
Speaker 2: There's a name on such person. Name one. See she

846
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 2: can't and you.

847
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: Can't mention Harrison. He's my British person.

848
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 2: Ye, name one British which house this house? Name one

849
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 2: British person that's been here?

850
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, Casay Harrison, that's my.

851
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 2: That's my design. No Brits allowed ever since we whooped

852
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,359
Speaker 2: their booties in seventeen seventy two.

853
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think I can. There were no LGBT

854
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 4: couples at all. I was upset, but kept it to

855
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 4: myself until this past weekend when I saw Lisa at

856
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 4: another friend's party.

857
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 2: Also, just to be clear, I don't hate British people.

858
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 2: I feel like I remember there was a joke about

859
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 2: me hating British people, and then all the British people

860
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: got really mad, like why do you hate British people?

861
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 4: I don't. Doesn't it SUPs them into our house?

862
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,800
Speaker 2: I literally did a whole series on cook for Me

863
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 2: about British people, so shout out my Brits.

864
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: Did they bake you beans and toast?

865
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 4: No?

866
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 3: They really nice fish.

867
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 2: No, it was actually pretty good, pretty good beans and toast.

868
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 4: I asked Lisa if there was a reason why my

869
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 4: husband wasn't invited and why I was told there was

870
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 4: no plus ones if every other attendee had and guest

871
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 4: on their RSVP, and numerous couples were invited. In fact,

872
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 4: multiple kids were there as well, much younger than my

873
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 4: daughter Lucy. I asked if theyse had something to do

874
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 4: with the fact we were an LGBT couple. Lisa acted

875
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 4: defended this accusation and stated, that's not why Dean or

876
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 4: Lucy wasn't invited.

877
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 2: All right, let's see you cover your booties on this one.

878
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 2: I'm so excited for this excuse. I'm almost sure that

879
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 2: it is subtle homophobia or not so subtle homophobia, but

880
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 2: I'm so excited to see what they come up with.

881
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 4: I asked why, because at first glance, this appears to

882
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 4: be quite offensive, and asked why my husband and my

883
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:32,399
Speaker 4: daughter were singled out.

884
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: Is the daughter also?

885
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 4: Uh no, but just like the child g okay, so undetermined,

886
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 4: No yet, just a child. We don't know yet.

887
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a it's like atomic or like a

888
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 2: Pokemon They get you like a Pokemon set you don't want,

889
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 2: you're gonna.

890
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:48,840
Speaker 3: Rip yet we don't know what the evolution is.

891
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't know what the evolution is.

892
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 4: Lisa explained that our family wouldn't fit the.

893
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 2: Aesthetic that is even worse. What aesthetic?

894
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 4: Why did you think that would sound better?

895
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: Yes? Oh no, no, no, we're not homophobic. It's just like ill,

896
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 2: just ill.

897
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,280
Speaker 4: My blood boils as I even write this. I asked

898
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 4: why my family wouldn't match an aesthetic on a day

899
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 4: meant to celebrate love, and stated that I felt like

900
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 4: my family was singled out for being LGBT. Lisa explained

901
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 4: to me that we weren't singled out because we were LGBT,

902
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 4: but because Dean and Lucy are death.

903
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 2: Oh Lucy's death too.

904
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, it's because whenever it's genetic.

905
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: Ah, I see all right, really quick? You got you?

906
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: You should have? Am I being lied to right now?

907
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:37,240
Speaker 4: Yes? Because they're they're.

908
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: J with a G it's a gay cobble unless it's.

909
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 2: Too good, you got me?

910
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 4: Unless they use dean sperm.

911
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true. They could have you. They could have

912
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 2: used the swirl method. You know, you could turn sperm

913
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 2: into eggs these days and eggs and the sperm.

914
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 3: Sperm and eggs.

915
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 2: Yep, it's it's true.

916
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: Who would carry it?

917
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 2: Who would carry it?

918
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:56,240
Speaker 3: They would have a surrogate.

919
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 2: Surrogate, So no, thank you, you got you good.

920
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: You could, but you don't have to think.

921
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 2: You don't have to. Yeah, you don't have to. Yeah,

922
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 2: you have the option to. Wait, I had a thought.

923
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, saying you don't fit the aesthetic because

924
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 2: you're deaf is the worst excuse ever. You should say

925
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 2: you don't fit like the OMBI what's the what's the

926
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: word that sound? Yeah, sorry, you don't quite fit our orchestra.

927
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 4: That is crazy because presumable, like we don't know for sure.

928
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 2: The audacity, Yeah, get it, because it's because it's audio.

929
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 4: We don't know for sure. But they haven't mentioned him

930
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 4: wearing like a hearing aid. Oh no, but they haven't

931
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 4: mentioned it, So I like, I'm under the impression that

932
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 4: he does not wear a hearing aid, which.

933
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 2: Kind of metal.

934
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 4: Well, in which case, what about him doesn't fit the aesthetic?

935
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 4: He just looks like a guy.

936
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he's ugly, I think, yeah, sorry, because he's do.

937
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just ableism.

938
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: Wow, I think maybe the words we're looking for is acoustic, ortic, acousticonic.

939
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 2: You don't Yeah, you don't fit our phonic profile.

940
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 1: Hey, it's smiley Ryley here from Okay storytime. We're going

941
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,919
Speaker 1: to get back to these stories, but here's three minutes

942
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: worth of ads from our sponsors.

943
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 4: I asked what that meant, and Lisa explained that they

944
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 4: felt having an ASL interpreter upfront would take away from

945
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 4: the aesthetic of the ceremony and distract the guest. To

946
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 4: do that, they felt that having an ASL interpreter upfront

947
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 4: would take away from the aesthetic of the ceremony and

948
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 4: distract the guests.

949
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 2: Why did they think they did that.

950
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 4: It's like, I didn't need it.

951
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 2: Is that offensive? I don't know if he actually knows

952
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 2: ASL just.

953
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 4: A little bit.

954
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

955
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 4: Will you marry me? I could? I could spell it

956
00:45:55,200 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 4: out M A R R Y or ryell?

957
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 1: Do they have to be upfront if they know there's

958
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 1: only one deaf person? Couldn't they just sit inside of them?

959
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 4: They wouldn't have to be upfront, but they would have

960
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 4: to be in a place where, like, they couldn't just

961
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 4: be like doing this. You want them in a place

962
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 4: visible so that you can see both the ceremony. It's

963
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 4: like with subtitles, hear.

964
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 1: Me out, hear me out. But I'm facing this way,

965
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: person's right in front of me. It's like flipped that

966
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 1: way and then I could see them and that at

967
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 1: the boom boom boom.

968
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 4: Well, the crazy thing to me is, yes, it would

969
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 4: have been really nice if they had an ASSL interpreter.

970
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 4: But Op didn't you know, do you didn't ask for one.

971
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 4: No one asked for one. If anything, if you know,

972
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 4: Op's partner wanted to know what was going on, I'm

973
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 4: sure Op knows ASSL. Yeah, you know, well I guess, oh,

974
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 4: he's going to be up there because they're part of

975
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 4: the way.

976
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and Op, he's just like the.

977
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 4: Oh, p's the.

978
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: That's crazy phones those days you can get some subscriptions

979
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 1: US translation.

980
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 4: That feels like such a cop out when neither of

981
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:59,439
Speaker 4: the people that would need the interpreter asked for an interpreter. Yeah,

982
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,240
Speaker 4: to be like, well, that's why we didn't invite them.

983
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 2: Sorry, we were trying to be so inclusive that we

984
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 2: couldn't be include.

985
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: We couldn't be Yeah, you could just pull up Google

986
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: meets or otter meats.

987
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true, dude. Actually so so some of our

988
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 2: editing team speaks Spanish. They speak Spanish to me in

989
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:21,479
Speaker 2: the call and it comes out English. Whoa, it's awesome. Yeah,

990
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 2: And I'll speak Spanish, but I'll speak English back and

991
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 2: I'll go and translate my voice Spanish and it will

992
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 2: be in the tone and so like it'll be like

993
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 2: like Santiago will talk to me in Spanish and like

994
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:34,720
Speaker 2: I feel like when he was trying to talk in English,

995
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 2: like I don't speak great Spanish. He doesn't speak great,

996
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: great English, but he'll be able to be so eloquent

997
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 2: in Spanish and it will translate it like because we're

998
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 2: talking about like edits and stuff, and will translate it perfectly.

999
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,439
Speaker 2: So like you're telling me, there's not like some phone

1000
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 2: app that you could get probably could Wilson Luciato, Okay,

1001
00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 2: sorry Wilson.

1002
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, are you trying to say, like my name is.

1003
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: It's the movie with Tom Hanks.

1004
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 2: Wilson.

1005
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there's a Spanish version and it's like luc Wilson.

1006
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,399
Speaker 2: It's very sorry Wilson, Yeah, I remember that, Okay. Yeah.

1007
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 4: She also said that it would be awkward for everyone

1008
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 4: involved because no one knows asl awkward and she commented,

1009
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,840
Speaker 4: and I quote here, Plus, it would look very weird

1010
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 4: if people saw you and Dean throwing your hand signals

1011
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 4: to each other.

1012
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 2: You know what, I got a little hand signal for you.

1013
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 2: Boom one boom.

1014
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 4: That's called.

1015
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 2: Al.

1016
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:43,800
Speaker 4: Yeah. I would immediately, I would immediately end. No A

1017
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,359
Speaker 4: s O would be this f off.

1018
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 2: That's it off.

1019
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 4: This is thank you, this is a double off. This

1020
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 4: is this means rude, like you're rude, this means cute.

1021
00:48:56,239 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 4: I'm just telling you all the signs.

1022
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: Anyway, Okay, you're just gonna only see one hand.

1023
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 2: Motion boom boom yo.

1024
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:10,439
Speaker 4: I think wow. I thanked Lisa for honesty and said,

1025
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 4: my husband's not an aesthetic choice and that our communication

1026
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 4: is not throwing hand signals. I told Lisa that I

1027
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 4: wish her the best, but that her insensitivity doesn't match

1028
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 4: my aesthetic boom boom, and left the conversation noise, mic drop.

1029
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 4: I called Nate this morning to discuss my conversation after

1030
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 4: I cooled down, and Nate explained that it was Lisa's

1031
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 4: big day, so she was entitled to make those decisions.

1032
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 4: She sure is entitled regardless of agreed with it.

1033
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 2: Bird, Did you hear what Sophia just said. She said

1034
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 2: she was entitled and she was.

1035
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 4: Just to be clear, Nate said, she's entitled to make

1036
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 4: those decisions regardless of whether he agreed with it. She's

1037
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 4: your wife, dude, you're supposed to be partners.

1038
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's also your day exactly.

1039
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 4: You're marrying someone who thinks this. I asked Nate, well,

1040
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:04,879
Speaker 4: do you agree with that decision? And Nate explained that

1041
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 4: it would have been expensive hired interpreter, and then it

1042
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 4: might have been awkward for other guests and for Dean

1043
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 4: if he can't communicate. I stated, Dean can communicate just fine.

1044
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 4: He has an fing PhD in economics.

1045
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 2: Let's go.

1046
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 4: I don't know how that relates.

1047
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 2: He can communicate the market.

1048
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 4: He just starts talking about Yeah, yeah.

1049
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 2: Let me communicate about about some economics right here, the

1050
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 2: economics of our friendship. Everybody irish economics of this wedding bearish,

1051
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 2: the economics of of me and my man's leaving bullish economics.

1052
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 4: Everyone at the wedding party is like, I didn't quite

1053
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 4: you know, have a We didn't know how to communicate,

1054
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:55,440
Speaker 4: but I did learn a lot about the lafty curve,

1055
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 4: About the lofty curve.

1056
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 1: It would have been expensive to heaven just speaking graphs.

1057
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 2: Wait, is the lofty curve the thing where it goes

1058
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:05,879
Speaker 2: laffy curve is a thing where like.

1059
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 3: The it's the idea that's the.

1060
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 2: Thing that is when the yield curve flips or something.

1061
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 4: So it's the idea that was introduced. H Well, Bush,

1062
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 4: actually he tried to do it, but I think it

1063
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 4: was first introduced by Reagan. It was the idea that

1064
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 4: you can lower taxes and raise spending and still balance

1065
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 4: the budget, which doesn't make sense and is not true.

1066
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 4: But Reagan was like, yeah, we're gonna balance the budget,

1067
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 4: lower taxes, raise spending. It's gonna work out great and

1068
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 4: work and then it did not work out great, and

1069
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 4: then Bush was like, run it back. Yeah, anyway. Nate

1070
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 4: only replied, you know what I mean? I said, no,

1071
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 4: I don't. I told Nate I wasn't interested in continuing

1072
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 4: this friendship if he doesn't show me the same respect

1073
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 4: that I show him.

1074
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 2: Mmm.

1075
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 4: I told Dean what happened, and Dean told me I

1076
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 4: shouldn't have said anything, and that it wasn't worth losing

1077
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:03,320
Speaker 4: a friendship over attending a wedding he didn't want to

1078
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 4: go to. Anyway. I think that is absolutely worth losing

1079
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:08,919
Speaker 4: a friendship. Ok, yeah, I stated it was more about

1080
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 4: the disrespect to my family. I spoke to multiple friends

1081
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 4: and they agreed that Nate was wrong and that he

1082
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 4: was deflecting the decision to Lisa so he didn't look bad.

1083
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 4: I guess my question is, would you end a friendship

1084
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 4: over this? One hundred percent?

1085
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, undoubtedly, Yeah, I think you gotta. I feel like

1086
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 2: this is pretty whack.

1087
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm worried that I may have gotten heated and

1088
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 4: picked a fight or ended a friendship with Nate because

1089
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 4: of a decision his wife made that he agreed with

1090
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 4: Dean and siss. He doesn't care and would have tried

1091
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 4: to find a reason to get out of it anyway.

1092
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 4: For background, my husband is passive to a fault. I

1093
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 4: joke that someone could wap them, wap.

1094
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Speaker 2: Them the old one, toh, dourely do buckley buck buckley

1095
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 2: buck buckley buck and and he would.

1096
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 4: Still offer to drive the home after It's like you've

1097
00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 4: had a really big night op in my car. I

1098
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 4: admit part of my post is also just a vent

1099
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 4: because I'm filled with such rage and I know if

1100
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 4: I posted this to my personal social media it would

1101
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 4: cause absolute chaos. There's an update Bridezilla's side.

1102
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: Who oh, wait.

1103
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:17,399
Speaker 2: Wait, oh is it?

1104
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 4: Wait?

1105
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 1: Wait, so you're bride Lisa? Why is why would she?

1106
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 2: Why did why? Oh? She identifying as a Bridezilla or

1107
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 2: something in this post?

1108
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 3: No?

1109
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 4: I think that it just that's just how we're titling

1110
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 4: at WHOA.

1111
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 1: We're not even halfway through.

1112
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 2: You know how much we love a two sided story

1113
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 2: because in every story there's one side and there's another side,

1114
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 2: and sometimes there's even if there's multiple people, there's there's

1115
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 2: three sides or four sides or even five sides. Do

1116
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 2: we think Bridezilla is going to be in the right

1117
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 2: or wrong? Like? I feel like, is there something that

1118
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 2: we're not getting here of why they were uninvited? My

1119
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:02,760
Speaker 2: theory is Bridezilla is going to make a post trying

1120
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 2: to get us over to her side, and it's going

1121
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:09,800
Speaker 2: to dig her deeper into the depths of a grave.

1122
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 2: But I'm curious what you think. Nina nelsonays, I think

1123
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 2: Bridezilla is wrong, but we'll try to twist it and fail,

1124
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 2: and then she'll be a deleted user role. I can

1125
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 2: totally see that. I can totally see that.

1126
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 1: All right, all right, let's read the story, Let's do it.

1127
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 2: Let's do it, all right, let's do it.

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00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: Hit it all right, we got an update.

1129
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 4: Guys, We're gonna GetUp to the update. Bridezilla aside from

1130
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 4: Dizzy Soup forty eight sixty six, longtime lurker, first time poster.

1131
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:43,479
Speaker 2: Whoa, that's something that Bridezilla would say.

1132
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 4: A real names because I have nothing.

1133
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 1: To effing ide whoa?

1134
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 4: Okay, I thirty five female, just got married to my

1135
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 4: husband Mark. So this is from Lisa's perspective. I'm going

1136
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 4: to change Mark to Nate. Okay, and then Liam is op?

1137
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:00,959
Speaker 4: Well Liam is Liam.

1138
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 2: We didn't know read the white board. I might need

1139
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 2: a white board at this time.

1140
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 4: I can keep track, but if Sam needs white I

1141
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 4: need a white board.

1142
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 2: My feever by needs a white board.

1143
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 4: So I'm just going to keep the names the same.

1144
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 2: But now we have to be okay, Oh, he's going

1145
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: to be Liam Liam? Wait? I thought Liam was? I

1146
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 2: thought was Bridezilla? Oh no original original? Yeah, so I'm

1147
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 2: going to say g O, p is Liam?

1148
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 4: Yes, all right? Uh, Nate is well, let's go. Lisa

1149
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 4: is Bridezilla.

1150
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 2: All right, Bridezillas Melsa.

1151
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 4: Nate is Lisa's husband now husband.

1152
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 2: Wait, Bridezilla, Lisa, Lisa, I'm gonna say, bhuz is Nate Nate?

1153
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1154
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 3: Uh?

1155
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 4: And then I think Dean was Op's husband, So Dean

1156
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:52,879
Speaker 4: is Liam?

1157
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 2: O p Hause is Dean? What's the kid's name?

1158
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 3: I think it was Lucy?

1159
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 2: Ok kid?

1160
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 4: And I think that's everyone that matters, And if we

1161
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 4: come up to anyone else, we'll figure it out. Roam

1162
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,360
Speaker 4: I thirty five female, just got married to my husband,

1163
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 4: Nate thirty eight male. A couple weeks ago, Nate went

1164
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 4: to grad school with Liam, who is our original Opie?

1165
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 2: Liam is original Ope? Right there, look at it. Bridezilla Lisa,

1166
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 2: Bridezilla husband, Nate Opie husband, Dean, Opie kid, Lucy beautiful

1167
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:28,439
Speaker 2: a right chet.

1168
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 4: During this time, Liam got married to Dean forty male.

1169
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 4: Dean is deaf, but Liam communicates with sign language as

1170
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 4: Dean can't speak.

1171
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:38,440
Speaker 2: Can't speak.

1172
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 3: Oh, this is going to be hard.

1173
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 4: Nate and Liam were close in grad school but grew

1174
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 4: apart after graduating, which Nate attributed to Liam and Dean

1175
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 4: having a child and Liam being flaky.

1176
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 2: Okay, I met.

1177
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 4: Nate the love of my life three years ago, but

1178
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,879
Speaker 4: never once met Liam because Liam made no attempt to

1179
00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 4: meet me. Okay, because Liam and Nate were the phrase. Okay.

1180
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 4: When we were planning on our wedding, Yeah, Nate demanded

1181
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 4: Liam and Dean be invited. This was late into our

1182
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 4: planning process and many invitations had already been sent out,

1183
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 4: so we agreed to only include Liam. Before you accuse

1184
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 4: me of being closet guard, I had attracted the same

1185
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 4: gender friends in college.

1186
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 3: I had j with g friends.

1187
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 2: I gives the girl once and liked it.

1188
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 4: I cannot be closet guard.

1189
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 2: Closet guard.

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00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 4: This has nothing to do with Liam and Dean being

1191
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 4: attracted to the same gender. Okay, However, because Dean can't hear,

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00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 4: we would need extra accommodations. For example, an interpreter during

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00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 4: all points of the wedding and reception.

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00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 2: Is Dean asking for that? No, yeah, do if someone

1195
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 2: if someone who's allergic to milk comes to your wedding,

1196
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 2: you don't, like, make all of your stuff without milk. Yeah,

1197
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 2: you don't make every piece of food without milk. Maybe

1198
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 2: maybe you have a milkless option, but like, I don't

1199
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 2: think a person who can't eat milk has shown up

1200
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 2: to your wedding demanding milkless products.

1201
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Speaker 4: I don't think they really are noles, Like how are

1202
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 4: other guests supposed to talk with them? You have immediately yourself?

1203
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 2: You have immediately yourself. That was so quick, That was

1204
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 2: so like, how could anyone talk to this guy?

1205
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 4: Yeah? No one else knows the signs, so I'm sure

1206
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 4: it would be weird for everyone involved. Oh so hard,

1207
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 4: you suck so hard immediately. I don't know how much

1208
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 4: an interpreter would cost. But we were already having to

1209
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 4: make cuts to decoration and even delayed our honeymoon, So

1210
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 4: my wedding could be perfect.

1211
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 2: Yike, the my wedding is definitely Bridezilla girl.

1212
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 4: Why did you even respond?

1213
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, Nina Nelson says so self centered.

1214
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, because of the we didn't allow Liam to bring

1215
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 4: any guests.

1216
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 2: If you pull up ASL forty five to one hundred dollars,

1217
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 2: but those I feel like those prices gotta go up

1218
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 2: for weddings. Everyone does the ten x wedding prices.

1219
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 4: But presumably that you only need the interpreter for maybe

1220
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 4: thirty minutes.

1221
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. True.

1222
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 4: Because of this, we didn't allow Liam to bring any guests.

1223
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 4: Liam RSVP'd in months go by without him questioning anything

1224
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 4: about this, So I assumed he understood why because your

1225
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 4: your husband lied to him. That's why during the wedding,

1226
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 4: my maid of honor pulled me aside to tell me

1227
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 4: that Liam was asking guests if they were allowed to

1228
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 4: bring guests and question why they thought his invitation didn't

1229
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 4: include a plus one. I saw Liam recently at my

1230
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 4: girlfriend's birthday party, and he confronted me about why Dean

1231
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 4: wasn't invited.

1232
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:49,800
Speaker 3: He accused me of.

1233
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:52,280
Speaker 4: Being closet guard. I explained that it wasn't because they

1234
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 4: were ja with a G but because Max required significant

1235
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 4: accommodations that we would not be able to provide.

1236
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 2: You're just making up the accommodation.

1237
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 4: You're making them up.

1238
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 2: To exclude them because you're uncomfortable with people who either like,

1239
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 2: like the same sex or can't hear.

1240
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you're just tablests.

1241
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 2: You're just able.

1242
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 4: It's so weird.

1243
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 2: You're gableist.

1244
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 4: Gableist. How will he know when to stand? Context clues

1245
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 4: maybe where he's not blind, or where.

1246
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 1: If you stand, it doesn't really make a noise.

1247
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 2: You need vision for that, need vision for that.

1248
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 3: I know.

1249
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, presumably she's talking about when they're like, please

1250
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 4: please rise, rise, but.

1251
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 2: You can get clues, dude, all right, I don't know

1252
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 2: if y'all have been to a Catholic mass, if you

1253
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 2: haven't been in a while, the please like no one

1254
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 2: when to rise or when to sit. It's very confusing.

1255
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 2: I'm just looking at everyone else. Oh is this guy okay? Yeah,

1256
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 2: this guy's standing up. I got I better stand up now.

1257
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,920
Speaker 4: Also, it would be just unfortunate if he couldn't dance

1258
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 4: because he couldn't hear the music.

1259
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 2: I would say, half the people at your wedding, probably

1260
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,480
Speaker 2: we aren't on beating. Oh what, well, he won't be

1261
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:10,919
Speaker 2: on beat?

1262
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, even though people who can hear the music,

1263
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 4: I can assure you won't be dancing on beat. Also

1264
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 4: a lot of people don't dance a wedding.

1265
01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 2: You can feel the music.

1266
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:23,480
Speaker 4: Yes, Deaf people love very like.

1267
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 2: Bass, heavy base heavy music.

1268
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 4: So yeah, I mean that's just like, that's not me

1269
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 4: saying that's a lot of deaf people say.

1270
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 2: It's a lot of Yeah.

1271
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 1: I don't think they're saying that.

1272
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 2: They're saying they're signing it.

1273
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 4: They're signing it.

1274
01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:34,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 4: Also, it would be just unfortunate if he couldn't dance

1276
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 4: because he can't hear the music. Liam got angry and

1277
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 4: accused me of being insensitive, accused, I think I love him.

1278
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 2: People are so bad that their defense makes them.

1279
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 3: Seem Yes, you know, it's so obvious.

1280
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 2: It's so obvious.

1281
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 4: He wouldn't look at me the rest of the night,

1282
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 4: And honestly I didn't care. I don't know him from Adam.

1283
01:01:57,640 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 3: Who's Adam?

1284
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 2: That's just insame. Oh, I don't know from Adam, you know.

1285
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 3: But I won't have someone accuse me of.

1286
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 4: Being in.

1287
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 2: Also, wait, Christina, the Greek says, actually, ever heard of

1288
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 2: Beethoven making bangers with the horn at his ear?

1289
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 4: That's true, that's true.

1290
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 2: Show the horn.

1291
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 4: Also the the movie Sound of Metal drummer, who goes.

1292
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 2: That's not Beethoven, but it is.

1293
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 4: That's a that's aven Beabethoven's horn.

1294
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 2: That one.

1295
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, well no he had to.

1296
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 2: Yeah that Oh is your horn? His ear horn?

1297
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 4: Is that just a horn?

1298
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 2: Yeah? Ear horn?

1299
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, there there you go.

1300
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 2: He had a bunch of different horns for for hearing.

1301
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 4: Honestly, y'all should look up the progression.

1302
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 2: Of Beethoven's horns.

1303
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 3: Let me see what thing, Sophia, what is my one sentence?

1304
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 4: You should look up the progression of like hearing hearing

1305
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:57,919
Speaker 4: aids because it's really cool.

1306
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll pull that up after this story.

1307
01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:02,920
Speaker 4: Um, but I won't have someone accuse me of being

1308
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 4: insensitive or trying to take away my perfect wedding. Nate

1309
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 4: called Liam and confronted him about how inappropriate it was.

1310
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 4: Nate had my back and reinforced that we couldn't make

1311
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 4: special accommodations for everything and everyone, but Liam refused to

1312
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 4: hear it. Oh just like his husband.

1313
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Speaker 2: Oh.

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01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 4: Nate told me that I am not wrong, but I

1315
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:27,400
Speaker 4: could have worded my concerns better. He's like you sounded

1316
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:29,840
Speaker 4: like a real ale. My maid of honor on the

1317
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 4: other end, said I was correct, and when I did, oh,

1318
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 4: you've got a little a little uh, I was thinking

1319
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 4: a little henchman.

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01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, worm tongue.

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01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, you must do these mess He's trying to steal

1322
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 4: your power. And showed compassion by being honest rather than

1323
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 4: beating around the bush. And that Liam and Dean need

1324
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 4: to stop thinking the world caters to them, but you

1325
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 4: think it caters to you.

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01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 4: Brian'silla comment with the actual a f Liam, did you

1328
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 4: really think making a post read it about this was appropriate?

1329
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 4: This is Lisa and it's oh what did she post?

1330
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 4: Separate to him. I thought she found his post and

1331
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 4: then posted. I think she posted separate and then found

1332
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 4: his post. Oh, so they just both posted on Reddit

1333
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 4: about the situation.

1334
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:24,080
Speaker 2: So it's now is she now responding.

1335
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 4: Yes to oh?

1336
01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:25,560
Speaker 1: I think?

1337
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 4: I think this is Lisa, and it's important that you

1338
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 4: hear all sides of this story. First, f you, Liam,

1339
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 4: Nate wasn't going to invite you, but I encouraged him

1340
01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 4: to because you complained about losing touch with people. But

1341
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 4: that's because you and Dean don't put on any effort

1342
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 4: into staying connected. Secondly, we are very tolerant, and I

1343
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 4: object to the criticism I see here that we excluded

1344
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 4: them because they were J with a G a J.

1345
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 4: I have plenty of attractive the same gender friends, but

1346
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 4: no death friends. Clearly. Third, you don't have the right

1347
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 4: to judge decisions I make about my my day. This

1348
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 4: isn't your decision about fifty day.

1349
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 2: I hate the my The my day just tells me.

1350
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 2: If she just said I don't care we have to

1351
01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:12,440
Speaker 2: say about my day? That tells me everything I need

1352
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 2: to know.

1353
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 4: And Nate's probably behind her being like, yes, Dale, what

1354
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 4: what you want do? This isn't your decision about who

1355
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 4: I do or don't include. Our wedding had over one

1356
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 4: hundred people. I know others didn't bring their spouse or kids,

1357
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 4: but we can't make accommodations for everything and everyone everything.

1358
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 4: I am sorry you're jealous that your wedding only had

1359
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:35,439
Speaker 4: twenty people. Oh oh, she.

1360
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 2: Sucks, She sucks. I would rather have twenty people at

1361
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 2: my wedding but actually liked me. I actually like me

1362
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 2: than a bunch of people that know I'm a raging looney.

1363
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 4: But don't feel you know, can't be brave enough to

1364
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 4: actually tell me that.

1365
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 2: Yes.

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01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 4: Oh, Also, do you remember how you asked multiple people

1367
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 4: at the wedding if they had a guest invited on

1368
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 4: their RSVP. That's not only inappropriate, it's that thing weird.

1369
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 4: It's something weird to not invite someone because they're deaf.

1370
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, and J with the G and J with

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01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 2: the G and uh is it kill A twenty two

1372
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 2: or Silla twenty two? Kila all right, because kill A

1373
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 2: twenty two is cool too, but Stilla twenty two says

1374
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 2: it's not even our day, it's my day. Yeah.

1375
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 4: Over and over, you asked at least five people who

1376
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 4: told me you were trying to start drama, wondering why

1377
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:27,040
Speaker 4: Dean wasn't invited. I'm sorry, Dean's deaf, not a proper

1378
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:28,160
Speaker 4: now by the way.

1379
01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 2: Are you wow?

1380
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 4: By the way, there's a difference between like deaf culturally

1381
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 4: and deaf just now crazy, wow, sit down, capitalize it.

1382
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 4: There is a difference, Lisa.

1383
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 2: Oh right, Christina the Greek says, please read a comment

1384
01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 2: where she gets torn.

1385
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 3: I'm sure she gets torn apart.

1386
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 2: Here, Riley, can you read what can you find? Comments?

1387
01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:52,320
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I imagine it's you don't even have to

1388
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 4: find them. They're all there. But the world doesn't revolve

1389
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,960
Speaker 4: around him or you like it. Just it's so obvious

1390
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 4: to me that this woman knows literally nothing about deaf

1391
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 4: culture or anything. Interpreters are expensive. You said you don't

1392
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:09,400
Speaker 4: know how much they cost. You did not look that up. Yeah,

1393
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 4: and having them next to the priest or us saying

1394
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 4: our vows would absolutely distract from my day. You all

1395
01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 4: are so quick to pass judgment. But it was my

1396
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 4: wedding and it was a beautiful occasion. I'm sorry. We

1397
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 4: can't bend over backwards for a couple that makes an

1398
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 4: effort to reach out. Only when the season changes.

1399
01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 2: That's such a funny way to say. A couple of

1400
01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 2: times a year. Yeah, when the season changes, then finally

1401
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:38,360
Speaker 2: you reach out to us.

1402
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:41,919
Speaker 4: When the first leaf falls, they finally reach out. One

1403
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 4: last thing. You know why you never met me prior

1404
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 4: to the wedding because you never invited me. I'm not

1405
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:51,360
Speaker 4: accusing you of excluding me because I'm a woman. If

1406
01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:54,640
Speaker 4: you liam don't contact us again, I don't think you're

1407
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:55,480
Speaker 4: gonna have to worry.

1408
01:07:55,320 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 2: About Oh man, and Op replies, this is so drama. Oh,

1409
01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 2: this is so drama. I feel like we know this.

1410
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:10,439
Speaker 2: This this woman is a bridezilla, bridezilla through and through.

1411
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 4: Do you think that she's going to read these comments

1412
01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:15,960
Speaker 4: and realize the error of her ways and repent.

1413
01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:19,880
Speaker 2: I feel like this is someone who responds to every

1414
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:24,640
Speaker 2: comment being like you're totally wrong, I like, just absolutely

1415
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:25,839
Speaker 2: going to battle.

1416
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 4: Yes, I agree. I think that she responded. I think

1417
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 4: she took hours out of her time. I think she's

1418
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:32,080
Speaker 4: on her honeymoon.

1419
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:35,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think this is her ideal honeymoon. Yeah, getting

1420
01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 2: absolutely blasted on the internet and then fighting for her life.

1421
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:45,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, but let's read these comments, Op original Ope comments.

1422
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 2: We gotta change the voice.

1423
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:50,679
Speaker 4: Hello, everyone. I woke up and read through so many comments,

1424
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 4: and I'm so thankful to hear everyone's thoughts. I feel

1425
01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 4: so validated, And to be clear, this is Liam. While

1426
01:08:57,200 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 4: I am still angry, I feel much much better. One

1427
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:01,760
Speaker 4: thing I did think about until now is that Nate

1428
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 4: and Dean have known each other for almost as long

1429
01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 4: as I've been together with Dean ten years. Whoa, and

1430
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:09,519
Speaker 4: he didn't invite him to the wedding.

1431
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

1432
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 4: And Nate has never learned a single sign that is

1433
01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:18,519
Speaker 4: honestly really quick pause. That is such a red flag

1434
01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:20,640
Speaker 4: to me to have a friend.

1435
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,719
Speaker 2: I would go straight from a yellow to a red flag.

1436
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, very nice, very nice, Uh, very nice? That is yellow?

1437
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:29,800
Speaker 2: Yeah boom.

1438
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 4: I think there should be an effort if you have

1439
01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 4: a deaf friend or a deaf person in your life,

1440
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:37,120
Speaker 4: you should absolutely be making an effort to at least

1441
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 4: be conversational in the language that this person speaks.

1442
01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:44,439
Speaker 2: I really conversational is hard, but like at least like

1443
01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:45,679
Speaker 2: a couple.

1444
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 4: I think you if you have a deaf person in

1445
01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 4: your life, I think you should be at least conversational.

1446
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:52,920
Speaker 2: Conversational like what do you mean? What does conversational mean?

1447
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:55,360
Speaker 2: Like you can have a conversation, have a conversation.

1448
01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:57,519
Speaker 4: What did you do?

1449
01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't have I'm so bad languages like that. Yeah,

1450
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 2: I mean I could do that.

1451
01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 1: That that I think that, Yeah, at least that I

1452
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:09,600
Speaker 1: will be honest, I'm not conversational.

1453
01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:13,559
Speaker 2: How far does this go? All? Right? Come on? Stas

1454
01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:15,840
Speaker 2: might be en YouTube.

1455
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 1: See I don't I feel like that. That just kind

1456
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:21,840
Speaker 1: of breaks the barrier.

1457
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 4: Then you have a big cat in your pants?

1458
01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 1: Yes, uh, el fuego?

1459
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 4: Okay?

1460
01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 2: Well, I personally think three me, pantalones, s uh, and

1461
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:40,639
Speaker 2: grand casa.

1462
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:45,479
Speaker 4: Anyway, Christiana the Greek says, I had a niece who

1463
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:48,600
Speaker 4: had speech today. We learned signs so and she she

1464
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 4: only needed it.

1465
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 3: Wait what I think?

1466
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 4: Basically saying we learned sign for it was very easy

1467
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:54,919
Speaker 4: to learn the basics.

1468
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:57,200
Speaker 2: Me says, how did you say? I have survived the

1469
01:10:57,280 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 2: pants sam Luckily I didn't have to speak much Spanish

1470
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:01,679
Speaker 2: in Japan.

1471
01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 4: I personally think that you should start learning. If you

1472
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 4: have a deaf friend or a deaf person in your life,

1473
01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 4: you should start learning sign language. You don't have to

1474
01:11:12,040 --> 01:11:14,360
Speaker 4: be fluent in it, but you should start learning it,

1475
01:11:14,400 --> 01:11:17,759
Speaker 4: and you should work to get some level of fluency.

1476
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 4: You don't have to be the best person in the

1477
01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:20,680
Speaker 4: world at it. Yeah, but I think if you have

1478
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 4: people in your life that can only communicate a certain way,

1479
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:26,400
Speaker 4: you should make an effort to communicate with them. And

1480
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:28,800
Speaker 4: the fact that there was no level of that after

1481
01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:33,400
Speaker 4: ten years, yeah gross. He doesn't even sign thank you

1482
01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 4: or how are you, both of which are simple signs

1483
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:39,760
Speaker 4: to learn. Thank you not that art. I now think

1484
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,160
Speaker 4: that he put zero effort into our friendship, so I

1485
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 4: don't feel so bad about not reaching out as much

1486
01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:46,600
Speaker 4: as I could of. As far as posting this to

1487
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:49,920
Speaker 4: my social media, I will not because my husband doesn't

1488
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:52,080
Speaker 4: like high visibility and would not want to be involved

1489
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 4: in drama of any kind. You don't need to boast

1490
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 4: this to your social media.

1491
01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 2: That is, I feel it. It's asking for ya drama.

1492
01:11:58,040 --> 01:11:58,680
Speaker 1: We'll do it for you.

1493
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:03,479
Speaker 4: We'll post it all of our social medias. I'm also

1494
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:05,719
Speaker 4: not sure he wants to be played off as a victim.

1495
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 4: I also see that Lisa decided to comment on this post.

1496
01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:10,559
Speaker 4: We have nothing to say to you other than I

1497
01:12:10,600 --> 01:12:13,120
Speaker 4: truly wish you to the best. I hope others show

1498
01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:16,280
Speaker 4: you compassion and love that you denied my family.

1499
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 2: Oh polite burn.

1500
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:22,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, we've got another comment from op. But do you

1501
01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:24,439
Speaker 4: have any final thoughts on this story?

1502
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:27,080
Speaker 2: I feel like we were right. We knew Bridezilla is

1503
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:29,799
Speaker 2: going to be a Bridezilla op is chilling. I would

1504
01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 2: love to hear one comment after we finish up of like,

1505
01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 2: what what was said to Bridezilla? I want to I

1506
01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:40,920
Speaker 2: want to hear the comments that are tearing her apart.

1507
01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:44,439
Speaker 2: Gotta I gotta know what people are saying.

1508
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, this was posted on a competitors subreddit.

1509
01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:52,519
Speaker 3: Oh but we got a little bit left.

1510
01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:55,760
Speaker 1: Okay, so you were You were right, Sophia. They both

1511
01:12:55,800 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 1: posted on two different accounts, not because one respect to

1512
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 1: the other, but just separately, which is crazy.

1513
01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:05,799
Speaker 4: Hello again, I have received so many kind and thoughtful messages,

1514
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 4: both on this post and through DMS, and wanted to

1515
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:12,120
Speaker 4: thank everyone. I no longer feel angry, just pity towards Lisa.

1516
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:14,840
Speaker 4: I want to answer a few questions people have messaged me.

1517
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:17,600
Speaker 4: I am aware that Lisa has posted her side to

1518
01:13:17,640 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 4: the story. I haven't read the post, and I won't

1519
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 4: because while I clearly live rent free in her head,

1520
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:25,720
Speaker 4: she won't live rent free in mind. I mean you

1521
01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 4: don't need to, you already lived it. If my husband

1522
01:13:28,360 --> 01:13:30,799
Speaker 4: were to have attended, while an interpreter would be nice,

1523
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:34,120
Speaker 4: it's not needed as I am fluent in ASL and

1524
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:37,639
Speaker 4: am completely capable of interpreting for him. I will say

1525
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 4: I did ask people at the wedding if other people

1526
01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 4: out a plus one. I don't think I was aggressive,

1527
01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:43,680
Speaker 4: but it may not have been the best timing for me,

1528
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 4: and I realized that no, it was the best timing

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01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:48,759
Speaker 4: because this girl sucks put her on last he does.

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01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 4: That was a mistake on my part, and I will

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01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 4: own up to it. I am also aware that Lisa

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01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 4: has given everyone's real names whoa except her own WHOA.

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01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:01,480
Speaker 2: Well, Lisa's sucks.

1534
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 4: Lisa, you stupid. That's why everyone was able to find

1535
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:10,280
Speaker 4: your posts. Oo. I will not give her a real

1536
01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:13,719
Speaker 4: name and nope, he's the bigger person. Also, one person

1537
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:16,280
Speaker 4: sent me a LinkedIn profile asking if it was my husband.

1538
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:19,559
Speaker 4: It wasn't, thank god, but please please please stop trying

1539
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 4: to find her actual profiles. I've debated deleting this post,

1540
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:27,000
Speaker 4: but unfortunately our real names are on Lisa's. Thank god.

1541
01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:29,600
Speaker 4: My daughter was left out, probably because she doesn't know

1542
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:33,120
Speaker 4: her name. Thanks again for all the kind comments. And

1543
01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:36,160
Speaker 4: that is the end of this story.

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01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:41,679
Speaker 2: Wow, what a crazy, yeah, double sided story. I love

1545
01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 2: a two sider.

1546
01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:45,720
Speaker 4: I mean that could be an episode in and of itself.

1547
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 2: That it could that it could long enough.

1548
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:52,479
Speaker 1: So this is off of Bridezilla's post. Yeah, the reddit,

1549
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 1: you excluded someone because of their disability. You're the ahole.

1550
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:57,760
Speaker 1: I assume you know that.

1551
01:14:58,240 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1552
01:14:58,880 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Plus, like Howard, the other guests supposed to talk

1553
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 1: with him, no one else knows signs, so I'm sure

1554
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:06,000
Speaker 1: it would be weird for everyone involved.

1555
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:09,080
Speaker 2: You're the ah like almost a thousand up votes.

1556
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, pretty fast that.

1557
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 1: You aren't homophobic, but that you're ablest you're the ale.

1558
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:19,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I mean enough enough sad, but I believe

1559
01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:23,560
Speaker 2: that is enough for us to say for this episode.

1560
01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 1: It sure yes sean fun fact. Lisa deleted her post,

1561
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:30,479
Speaker 1: so soccer shocker it can't find it.

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01:15:30,640 --> 01:15:31,959
Speaker 4: Are we reading comments?

1563
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:33,559
Speaker 1: We can, yes, but we got.

1564
01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:36,559
Speaker 4: Some comments from the video. My boyfriend pressured me into

1565
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:40,639
Speaker 4: a threesome. Now he's jealous. And this was posted May first,

1566
01:15:40,640 --> 01:15:44,280
Speaker 4: twenty twenty six. The TLDR comes from story one Op's

1567
01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 4: boyfriend begged her for a treesome for months, so she

1568
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:50,360
Speaker 4: finally said yes and picked a sweet girl from her

1569
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 4: class to join them. The night went great for OP.

1570
01:15:52,960 --> 01:15:55,800
Speaker 4: Maybe a little too great because now our boyfriend is

1571
01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:59,080
Speaker 4: furious and demanding she drops out of school just to

1572
01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 4: avoid the other girl. But here's the twist nobody saw coming.

1573
01:16:02,720 --> 01:16:05,160
Speaker 4: Oh P is starting to realize some big feelings of

1574
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:08,360
Speaker 4: her own, and her boyfriend's reaction might reveal who he

1575
01:16:08,439 --> 01:16:11,040
Speaker 4: really is. Did she stay with the guys she's been

1576
01:16:11,080 --> 01:16:14,000
Speaker 4: with for four years or did she follow her heart

1577
01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:17,160
Speaker 4: somewhere unexpected. If you're curious to know the full story,

1578
01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:19,479
Speaker 4: you can go watch the full video and we've got

1579
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:20,800
Speaker 4: some comments.

1580
01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:21,479
Speaker 2: Hear them.

1581
01:16:21,840 --> 01:16:24,200
Speaker 1: High A five two thirty five says, oh P is

1582
01:16:24,280 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 1: cheating the moment she talks to the girl beyond the

1583
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:30,320
Speaker 1: three way Reezy Lowi says, are they in the same class?

1584
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:34,040
Speaker 1: Ghost Love says, but she's talking to her outside of class,

1585
01:16:34,040 --> 01:16:36,240
Speaker 1: which is the issue.

1586
01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:40,599
Speaker 4: I mean, yes, I can see if you have you know,

1587
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:43,639
Speaker 4: if you have made it clear, Hey, this is boundary.

1588
01:16:43,640 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 4: We don't want to have any emotional attachment. Yeah. I

1589
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:48,599
Speaker 4: guess it just depends on how how clear you are,

1590
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:51,639
Speaker 4: because I think you need to be so straightforward and clear.

1591
01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 4: When yeah, yes, I'm sort of open or you.

1592
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:58,160
Speaker 2: Know, just inviting another person into your relationship, you better

1593
01:16:58,200 --> 01:17:00,040
Speaker 2: make sure those boundaries.

1594
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 4: Are christ agreed.

1595
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:05,519
Speaker 1: A window seventy says, oh he did get emotionally attached

1596
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 1: to the girls. Starting a relationship which started with spicy

1597
01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:09,719
Speaker 1: sleep is risky.

1598
01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:13,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, dude, inviting anyone che relationship is risky, but

1599
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 2: anyone else is risky.

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01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:16,240
Speaker 4: Is there more comments?

1601
01:17:16,439 --> 01:17:17,479
Speaker 2: No? Ending this episode?

1602
01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 1: There are more comments? Oh near mind, Yes, bridget Fritz

1603
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:25,719
Speaker 1: General says, oh, that's not cool. Trash talking someone's yum

1604
01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:29,280
Speaker 1: because you think it's yuck while also turning their interest

1605
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 1: in you to gossipy shame.

1606
01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:33,760
Speaker 2: Tisk tis tisk.

1607
01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 1: One more from Simon roll I just love when a

1608
01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:41,840
Speaker 1: guy forcing a three party of three falls on his

1609
01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 1: sword because he causes on demise with greed. You throw

1610
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:47,840
Speaker 1: the love away the second you force a party of

1611
01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:51,320
Speaker 1: three and expect them to see you the same. Nah,

1612
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:55,759
Speaker 1: it's not sacred any longer. You can get dropped anytime.

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01:17:56,040 --> 01:17:59,160
Speaker 2: It definitely makes it more complicated, it sure does.

1614
01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 4: But we're not going to complicate it any longer. That's

1615
01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 4: the end of the episode. See you so if you

1616
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 4: love us make sure subscribe.

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01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 2: We love you and see you tomorrow.