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Speaker 3: There's more like once you let it go, you feel better.

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Speaker 2: Let go, like ass.

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Speaker 3: I got the Frozen remix. Let it go, let your gas.

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Speaker 4: So, yeah, it feels I've never really button my top

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Speaker 2: Of, and this feels not even on your shirt, not

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Speaker 5: But it's good.

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Speaker 2: I guess I feel a little. I don't know what's

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Speaker 4: Know, I know it's a slippery slope.

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Speaker 3: Relaxation, bitch. Hey everybody, I'm Michel Blutel.

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Speaker 4: And I'm Jordan Carlos, and welcome to Adulting from w

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Speaker 4: ny CC Videos, the podcast where we learned how to

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Speaker 6: Oh so you're going to lifegon?

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Speaker 3: Have you been feeling very adult this week?

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Speaker 2: I have.

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Speaker 5: Great, good story, guys.

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Speaker 1: We recorded this episode at unk, really great people.

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Speaker 2: I know we had sisters of Meta. She's so great.

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Speaker 3: She's so fashionable.

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Speaker 4: She's like if the afro punk festival, like We're Sentient

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Speaker 3: Oh and Kate.

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Speaker 3: Kate Walsh is the business. I mean, she's Hollywood royalty.

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Speaker 4: She's like I am what I am, very popeye, very

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Speaker 5: All right, but enough about us.

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Speaker 3: We need to get to them.

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Speaker 5: That done well, make some noise. If you've been to

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Speaker 2: You're a good man, Charlie Brown, thank you for coming.

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Speaker 5: I ordered a Cosmo. This is how long ago it was.

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Speaker 4: Deal breaker for me it was I dated someone that

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Speaker 1: I don't like when people are like overly, like they

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Speaker 4: And why, like you're basically describing my life.

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Speaker 5: Family and they have bullshit. It's like I'll be over

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Speaker 4: Well, I think that that points to a certain insecurity, right,

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Speaker 5: So I'm like, not bad, you know, like it's Tonice

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Speaker 2: Be an argument about that, all right, No, it's okay.

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Speaker 5: Like, ooh, what you're not gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Like, don't make me be this bitch in front of

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Speaker 5: I almost like, you got some shit with me. You

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Speaker 4: But then at the end when you're when you're on

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Speaker 4: know what, we're better than them.

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Speaker 2: Best part next month.

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Speaker 4: Next ye.

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Speaker 1: This moral the story is, if you want to find

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Speaker 2: Proper way to put on socks and shoes?

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Speaker 4: No sock, sock, shoe shoe or sock shoe sock shoe?

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Speaker 1: Are you going to take my skin and make a dress?

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Speaker 5: Fuck?

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Speaker 2: Got a couple of trolls in here.

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Speaker 5: How do you put the lotion in the basket? Lotion basket?

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Speaker 9: Basket?

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Speaker 1: Low sho you wear crapy?

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Speaker 2: Everybody knows is it's shoe, shoes, sock sock. You learn

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Speaker 2: that the first day of kindygun you go around with

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Speaker 4: You be to hashtag adults too early? Is that just

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Speaker 5: Oh? Is that like taking yourself too seriously? Is that

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Speaker 4: My daughter is very I have a very serious daughter,

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Speaker 4: and I love her level of rabbitas because we gave

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Speaker 4: it's just like little leaders of color and.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she goes, I've been meaning to read this.

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Speaker 2: You're six, You're six years old?

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Speaker 4: It's on your Amazon wishless?

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Speaker 5: How much is your four to one k roth IRA contribution?

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Speaker 5: Is my accountant?

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Speaker 2: How much is your IRA contribution? I mean to who

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Speaker 5: What is that?

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Speaker 2: Your question? Maxis Max's out? MAXI is out?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, Lowell, go ahead, I don't know what that? Yeah, Loan,

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Speaker 4: at the very minimum, you got to meet the company match, right,

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Speaker 2: Meet the motherfucking company match. What why the fu you

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Speaker 5: Can I get a rose on ice in a big cup?

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Speaker 2: That's a true ordered it to get the company match?

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Speaker 5: And what is this the fucking Senate sit down? Very

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Speaker 5: excited to bring our next guest to the motherfucker show.

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Speaker 1: She has so much going on. I can't wait to

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Speaker 5: God damn it. And she's a really great busy vacation

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Speaker 5: buddy too. And she's got a bunch of shows in

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Speaker 5: New York. You should check out. Please give it up

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Speaker 5: for our friend.

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Speaker 6: Cheers.

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Speaker 12: Yes, yes, yes, yes, Blan Blane, Blanton, Savanna and Burning.

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Speaker 9: Yes bitches, bad bitch.

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Speaker 13: Well, you've been talking a lot.

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Speaker 5: I talk a lot, right, Jordan's what is going on.

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Speaker 5: I'm back for like a week. We moved to Los Angeles.

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Speaker 13: I was talking like five months ago.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you original you're originally from originally from Indiana.

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Speaker 9: I've lived really we made it out.

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Speaker 5: You go to college in Virginia.

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Speaker 5: Tell me about it.

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Speaker 9: I like it. It's when I'm first me there, I was like,

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Speaker 5: Yes, there's always lights.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there's nothing around. There's nothing around.

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Speaker 13: So yeah, I do miss the comune that is here.

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Speaker 5: Let's go Jack Nicholson. But anyways, I feel.

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Speaker 1: Like every year of your life something happens, like something beautiful,

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Speaker 9: Hmmm, this is something I created, or like it's a

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Speaker 1: Happens a beautiful man. Ooh, I know something that happened

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Speaker 1: between us that was crazy. We go to afro Punk.

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Speaker 13: I looked great doing it.

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Speaker 5: You look good doing it so much so I was like,

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Speaker 9: Yeah, this was this was like this is bad adulting.

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Speaker 9: This was because I showed up to her place, didn't eat.

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Speaker 2: You come early if you want to eat.

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Speaker 13: You were saying I don't know what you were talking about.

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Speaker 5: We were talking as you are as I I was talking.

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Speaker 5: Uh huh. Anyway, I was like, how broke? You need

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Speaker 9: Yeah, then I passed out and I don't remember that part.

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Speaker 1: I just like went black and that was scary. But

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Speaker 13: A black girl who my angel.

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Speaker 1: She was an angel like with braids, and she she

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she was just like what's her pulse? She like

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Speaker 1: And she was like did she just have marijuana? I

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Speaker 1: was like, who didn't?

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Speaker 5: Is Afro punk?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: And then she's like say, She's like you smoke nothing?

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Speaker 2: Say nothing?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, because the security was coming over and they want

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Speaker 5: I was like, we just paid for these tickets. I

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 9: She's like, just tell them that you drank too much

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Speaker 5: And I was like that's the truth. You're so right.

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Speaker 13: But I also did have edibles and that was like,

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Speaker 5: You were hungry and you ate edible?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: I mean it, so I stopped that up. I mean

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Speaker 5: But what's so crazy is that this lady disappeared in

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Speaker 1: She was never there, dropped down, she was just like

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Speaker 5: She was about to give you mouth to mouth and

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Speaker 5: I was like, what the fuck is going on?

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Speaker 4: Eric?

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Speaker 1: And then security comes and she's like, speak this to

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Speaker 5: She was a Brown City angel. I was like, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I feel like she did.

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Speaker 9: I was like, okay, did she I miss that?

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Speaker 5: I heard that part.

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Speaker 1: She was pope, it's handled. I was like, bye, bye's handled.

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Speaker 2: But here's here's the question. What did you learn from

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Speaker 5: I definitely have to eat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a part of adulting. That is a

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Speaker 5: What did you learn from people don't come on?

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Speaker 4: People don't eat their breakfast and then they're at the

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Speaker 1: That's it was a peeve of mine in movies when

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Speaker 1: I don't need to mom and leave them like.

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Speaker 5: They take a grape and they run out. Yeah, it

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Speaker 5: was a full spread scrambled eggs for your ass.

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Speaker 1: If my mom scramble eggs without complaining about that ship,

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Speaker 1: I eat all that ship.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, this has nothing to do with the show.

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Speaker 9: Hey, I also I haven't like taken edibles or smoked

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, because I just I think I can't handle it.

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Speaker 2: Do you have what she learned? You can? You can't

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Speaker 9: I think I can handle it. I mean it's because

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Speaker 9: that's not the first time I've had edibles in like

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Speaker 13: So I'm like, maybe I'm bad at this.

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Speaker 5: So I'll just that is very fucking responsible. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: My husband asks me all the time when we have

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Speaker 9: What one adulting thing I need to work on it

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Speaker 5: You want to be late?

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Speaker 9: No, I I want to stat being so like it's

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Speaker 9: I can see how I can't affect people's perception of

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Speaker 9: with this thing, and they're like, oh, they're always late.

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Speaker 5: It's gonna be a.

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Speaker 9: Waste of time, and like, shit, I don't want anyone

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Speaker 9: to say that about me, you know, like, oh, well,

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Speaker 9: she's gonna slow production down for whatever reason because she's

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Speaker 13: Or whatever the thing is.

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Speaker 5: You know, I don't.

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Speaker 13: I'm always like five to ten minutes late everything.

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Speaker 5: Well you were three hours like last time. But oh

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Speaker 5: to your party, for sure.

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Speaker 13: I was hours late, yes, but no party but no,

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Speaker 13: it's like a pre game party.

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Speaker 5: But I get it. I understand.

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Speaker 1: I love that you like your The things on your

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Speaker 1: adult list is like the afternoon we had.

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Speaker 9: It was like yeah, yes, not being so late all

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Speaker 9: the time, not doing edible and not doing edibles and

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Speaker 9: also eat if you're gonna do something intense.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 12: Well you made it to the show, so sure, yes, yes,

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Speaker 12: more yes, Wow, wow wow who.

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Speaker 13: Welcome back to Adult.

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Speaker 1: The last guest of the evening. She's fucking amazing. She's

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Speaker 1: a powerhouse. She's kind, she's smart, she's talented. I love

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Speaker 1: this lady so much that I know you will too,

454
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 1: and I know you already do.

455
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 5: Please give it up for Kay.

456
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 2: Day don't Koodoo dance. Oh my god, it's so good, Sad.

457
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 5: Dances, glad dance, this white girl dance.

458
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:33,919
Speaker 4: Well, I want to give it up for your sassy boots.

459
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 4: I think those are really awesome.

460
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 13: Sassy boots, tay Good at a high sass level, Tay Good.

461
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 5: Okay, we want to know everything about Yeo Shin. I'm

462
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 5: gonna lebra and joy long walks on the beat?

463
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 4: Yeah?

464
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 1: Are there any other kind of walks on the bay

465
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 1: slow motion?

466
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 5: I do feel like no matter what underwear I wear,

467
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 5: if I run in it, it will be a thong,

468
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 5: gonna be a wedgie. Do you say wedgie, You're snuggie.

469
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 5: Do you say wedgie? I say wedgie.

470
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 11: It's regional, you're snuggie. I grew up in California and Arizona, Son.

471
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, so what like crop tops, tank tops, shorts? Did

472
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,119
Speaker 5: you shot I had?

473
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,639
Speaker 11: We had was like part kind of dirty hippie in

474
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 11: part like op like op shorts.

475
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 5: And Hawaii is that ocean Pacific?

476
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

477
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 5: And then and then and then burken Stock so too?

478
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

479
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 11: Yeah, who watched a party? Basically it was Jason confused.

480
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 11: Where I grew up was like my husband was literally that.

481
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 11: It was very pretty innocent.

482
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 2: Part.

483
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 11: Yeah, there was always some dude that was twenty one

484
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 11: buying kegs for everyone.

485
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 4: Wow.

486
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,640
Speaker 5: I did go to a party once.

487
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 11: I did the thing at fourteen where I told my

488
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 11: parents I was spending the night at my friend's house

489
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,160
Speaker 11: at Paulina Navarro's house, and Paulina and Navarro was spending

490
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 11: the night at my house.

491
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 2: Note.

492
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 11: We went to the party that the twenty one year

493
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 11: old guy was having and the theme was Toga Hawaiian

494
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 11: or punk rock.

495
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 5: Because you had options. Yeah, we had options. And then

496
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 5: I was making out with a dude and then my

497
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 5: Pauline came out to me. She's like, your brother, your

498
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 5: stepdad's here. No, did they try and find you? Yes?

499
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 5: I had to like quickly.

500
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 11: It was.

501
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 5: It was awful. That's terrible.

502
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you like sneak in like hoochi mamma clothes

503
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 1: and your backpack just like walk out?

504
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 11: You know.

505
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 5: I was like in my Hawaiian gear, pissed. I was

506
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 5: like the Hawaiian girl.

507
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 11: It was so ridiculous. It was the one time, yeah

508
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 11: I got, I got slapped hard. My parents were like,

509
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 11: you are in big trouble, damn you old school. You

510
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 11: got I slapped yeah, on the front porch too.

511
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 5: It was.

512
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 2: Did I take this save.

513
00:23:56,080 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 5: Davids come to visit. I'm super duking.

514
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 11: Oh my god, it is so okay, well not not

515
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 11: walk me through it, but so walk me through it

516
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 11: through which part? There's so much there, there's a lot, like,

517
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 11: there's a lot to unpack. It's one of my least

518
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 11: favorite verbs.

519
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 5: Are you triggered? Should we unpackaged yourself? I hate unpackage.

520
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 5: You gotta pack that the suitcase.

521
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 4: I know.

522
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 5: I hate what people are like. It's an onion, so

523
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 5: many layers. I'm like, stop, okay, sorry, what kind of

524
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 5: what kind of teenage were you?

525
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 2: Were you?

526
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 4: Like?

527
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 5: Were you all the way rebellions or you just like no?

528
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 11: I was like I was like a human mullet, you know,

529
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 11: like business in the front, party in the rear, like

530
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 11: I got really good.

531
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 5: I was like I was got good grades. I partied

532
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 5: only on weekends. I had my parents, We had my

533
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 5: oldest sister's ex husband. This is so it's like he

534
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 5: had this.

535
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 11: He was a pop farmer in northern California and I

536
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 11: think until recently until his became legal. Now it's all

537
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 11: but it's like crazy, but he had this crazy wheat,

538
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 11: like the higher line whatever the hydroponic is that?

539
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 5: Kids, I'm your mom?

540
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 11: Is it the.

541
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 2: It's a very limited amount of.

542
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 11: Wrong. Well, he was on his way to Mexico with

543
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 11: his lady, his special lady, and he stopped by our

544
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 11: house and dropped off for our for our hospitality.

545
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 5: He gave my parents a dining bag and they spoke

546
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 5: like once a season. So I was like, leave it

547
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 5: to me.

548
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 11: I got it and I would pinch it. And this

549
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 11: stuff was seriously hallucinogenic. This was like edibles, but in

550
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 11: nineteen seventy nine.

551
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 5: It was crazy. So I was sort of the toast

552
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 5: of Catalia High School in twos on Arizona.

553
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 11: To me, if you had the good stuff, oh my god,

554
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 11: if you're tired of the desert dirt weed, come on.

555
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 5: Over, very sure of yourself. Who were you in college?

556
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 5: In college, I was a dropout?

557
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 2: Nice, get it off.

558
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. Did you always listen to your inner voice?

559
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 2: Well?

560
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 5: I tried not to.

561
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 11: And when I tried not to, I would get physically sick.

562
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,360
Speaker 11: Like if you try to be something for me. If

563
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 11: I tried to go down a road, it just wasn't

564
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 11: working right, and I got sort of depressed and miserable,

565
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 11: and then I I just want to be an actor soul,

566
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 11: and I didn't like the acting program with you guys,

567
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 11: so I split and started doing it.

568
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 5: Waited a lot of tables, a lot of waste yourself.

569
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I love that. Yeah, that's I mean.

570
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: But I feel like just if more people would do

571
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: that with whatever they want to do, wouldn't people just

572
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: be happier?

573
00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I feel so lucky actually to you know.

574
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 11: My dad was you know, he immigrated from Ireland, music

575
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 11: kid who worked really hard. He fought and with two

576
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 11: tours in career, he had a really hard life. Was

577
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 11: an orphanage here and then it was sort of that

578
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 11: thing like I had the opportunity to literally pursue my

579
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 11: dreams and go after it. As cheesy or corny as

580
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 11: that sounds, it's true and I'm like that's a beautiful thing.

581
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm getting chills. My right nipples hard. I love.

582
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 5: I was wondering about the right one because like it's

583
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 5: the right one going to go off at people do.

584
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 5: What was what was auditioning like when you first started?

585
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 5: He's like, I don't know.

586
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 2: What, No, I agree, you concur sometimes.

587
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 5: Wait what what was auditioning like when you first started?

588
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 5: Oh my god, awful, I mean horrible. Yeah.

589
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 2: How often did you want to quit? Though? Did you

590
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 2: ever want? Like all the time?

591
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 5: I was the quintessential bitter waitress like when I just smoke,

592
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 5: I would. I was just in New York the nineties.

593
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 11: When I moved, I lived in Chicago, did theater there,

594
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 11: got my equity car. Then came here and I would

595
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 11: be smoking and my brother would come in to see

596
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:09,439
Speaker 11: me on my ship. I was just at the bar,

597
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 11: smoking and putting it out and going to serve the

598
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 11: people just better.

599
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 5: I'm like, I can't do it anymore.

600
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 2: I can't.

601
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 5: I just can't. And he'd be like, what are you

602
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 5: gonna do? I was like, I'll teach. He's like, you

603
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 5: did dropped out of college.

604
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, so you kind of gave your

605
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: like you had no other option. It was like only

606
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 2: four words.

607
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 11: I didn't have any other Well, I mean, I could

608
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 11: have gone back to school. But I also I really

609
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 11: did love it, but you I did. You have to

610
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 11: be some kind of bit of a masochist to keep

611
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 11: going through it.

612
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 5: I really really love it. And then you have to

613
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 5: have luck, and then you have to be I think

614
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 5: a little bit good.

615
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I think.

616
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 11: You are.

617
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 5: You are famous. How do you trust people like friends

618
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 5: or you know? I don't trust you. I don't trust

619
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 5: any of you.

620
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 2: I don't feel comfort.

621
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 5: I feel safe. I'm triggered.

622
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 1: You should track, you should always trust somebody with big

623
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: titties and freckles.

624
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 11: We are I mean, I don't know who doesn't want

625
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 11: to moti about you? Right? No?

626
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 5: I wait, what was the question? How do you how

627
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 5: do you know?

628
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: How do you trust someone you like? Have any do

629
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: you have any low key stories of just being like ooh,

630
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: I knew that bitch was no good?

631
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 11: Ooh yeah in the beginning, I think when you know,

632
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 11: right around when Grey's anatomy happened and we all got

633
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 11: like very kind of well known publicly for the first

634
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 11: time most of us, you have some people like you

635
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 11: know that want to help you out, and then you're like, oh,

636
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 11: you're actually skimming money.

637
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 5: Off of this or that, and you're like and and

638
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 5: so it's not easy. But I don't know.

639
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 11: Luckily I didn't have too many bad But then he

640
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 11: gets some weird people from childhood be like, Heyross, does

641
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 11: that happen?

642
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 5: I mean, does that happened to?

643
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

644
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 11: Facebook is terrible, Yeah, terrible, because you're like, of course

645
00:29:58,760 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 11: I want.

646
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 2: To always Yeah, that's the answer to that question.

647
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 5: Yeahs in his skirt. Yeah I care. So relationship wise,

648
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 5: we talk about this all the time.

649
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: Talk about deal breakers, Yeah, the booker and eating the

650
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: bookers and all sort of stuff. But like a lot

651
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: of book a lot of booker talk. What is your

652
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: deal Like, what is a huge deal breaker for you?

653
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: It could be gross, it could be whatever.

654
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 5: The food's basic. Lying Lying is a deal breaker, Okay,

655
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 5: I mean I guess I just don't. That's just such

656
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 5: a hard one to repair her. If somebody lies, you

657
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 5: didn't trust right. Lying is hard. Lying as hard recover.

658
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 5: How do you recover from it?

659
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: It's so crazy, And like I had to really like

660
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: believe my husband, like because he's Dutch, and so I

661
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: really try to read his emails with your own Dutch,

662
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: and I try to, Like it's so hard, like translating

663
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: for so long, and I was like, I'm done.

664
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 5: I really feel like there's nothing. You know, I've been

665
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 5: through stuff in life. There's really nothing that's gonna take

666
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 5: me down. Nothing. I love that super challenge. I'll be

667
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 5: looking really that we're almost sad. We're gonna take some

668
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 5: questions from the audience.

669
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 3: I love it.

670
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 5: I love to answer. I just don't mind if I

671
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 5: started sweating. It's happening already.

672
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 11: Uh, what are the best and worst TV shows for

673
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 11: learning to adult. Oh, I had several people like I

674
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 11: don't know if they were lying or not, but they

675
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 11: were like, I went to medical school where I wanted

676
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 11: to be a doctor.

677
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 5: Maybe they dropped out, who knows, but it seems like

678
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Speaker 5: they learned something from that show.

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Speaker 11: Yeah. Then Sextual Triangles, a lot of dimmas in the

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Speaker 11: room closet.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you know.

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Speaker 5: You know what I made my mom.

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Speaker 1: Watch was Gracie and Frankie on Netflix because she's just

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Speaker 1: a little Jamaican nugget, you know, who is it homophobic?

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Speaker 2: But why did your voice go up?

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Speaker 5: Because it's still a question.

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Speaker 1: Like she's like obviously loves love and loves people, but

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Speaker 1: it's just like very old school and like you don't

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Speaker 1: do that in public. And so it was really nice

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Speaker 1: to watch a show with her where it was like

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Speaker 1: age appropriate and you know, it really was just not

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Speaker 1: about like those young people smoke in the marijuana and

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Speaker 1: kiss it. It was like, no, like two men who

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Speaker 1: finally in their third act want to be together and

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Speaker 1: don't care what society says. And it really promoted a

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Speaker 1: great conversation between my mom and I that I didn't

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Speaker 1: not think would happen.

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Speaker 5: So that was very nice. I like racing and Frankie,

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Speaker 5: it's nice. I like, what about you guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm more of a Daniel Tiger guy. But well, I

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Speaker 2: would say big mouth. Oh yeah, yeah, big mouth is good.

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Speaker 2: As a parent.

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Speaker 10: It helps me think about my child going through puberty

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Speaker 10: and what what going through her mind when she when

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Speaker 10: she goes through puberty. Yeah, and also as a person

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Speaker 10: who went through puberty, I'm like, oh, should I remember that? Yeah,

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Speaker 10: because you forget like how awkward and weird sex and

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Speaker 10: just relationship.

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Speaker 5: You're sorry sex, Yeah, you're a girl, not yet a woman.

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Speaker 4: Any way of getting over anxiety to make your own appointment, Oh,

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Speaker 4: that's real. Like the anxiety of making your own appointments.

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Speaker 4: Anyway to get over that anxiety?

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Speaker 5: Doctor appointments, like any appointments.

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Speaker 2: Any appointments, that's anxiety. That's real. I see you, I

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Speaker 2: feel you, You're you're among friends.

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Speaker 11: And from that, deeply I think I meditate. I I

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Speaker 11: really I give myself permission to cancel stuff. I understand. Yeah,

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Speaker 11: meditation helps a lot for that. For me, it kind

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Speaker 11: of slows me down, gets me and you know, kind

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Speaker 11: of in sync with myself and you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think in New York, like I try to

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Speaker 4: do maybe like cause okay, but guilty don't have an

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Speaker 4: office job, so uh if I have something to do,

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Speaker 4: I'll only try to do like two to three things

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Speaker 4: a day, like shoot for like maybe like one big

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Speaker 4: one for the week.

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Speaker 2: I hope you get to the dentist or wherever.

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Speaker 5: I also think CBD oil helps, Yeah, Like that's real. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's real.

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Speaker 1: Like I'll still have like anxious thoughts, but like like

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Speaker 1: physically it doesn't. I'm not physically affected, like, oh I

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Speaker 1: got to do all these things, I have time to

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Speaker 1: do it, and then I'll have like a heart beat

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Speaker 1: in my right eye and I'm like it's like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, Like my whole body is a heart beat.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: But now I do a little trip drop with CBD oil.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, yes, I will be there, but fifteen

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Speaker 1: minutes late.

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Speaker 5: What's the next question? Down?

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Speaker 10: Will The next question is how do I stay awake

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Speaker 10: past midnight on a weekday?

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Speaker 5: Girl? Bye? I want to Why would you want to

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Speaker 5: that when the good things happen? Yeah, I know That's

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Speaker 5: where I'm like trying to not I'm like, how do

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Speaker 5: I go to bed? By eleven. Well, oh, I gotta

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Speaker 5: take the I.

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Speaker 2: Think maybe that's that's probably like a to go out

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Speaker 2: kind of thing, but I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Well, don't.

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Speaker 1: Home.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, don't take a question out of the bowl, all right, Michelle,

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Speaker 5: I will any tips for if your family or your

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Speaker 5: s oh's family what significant other significant other took my second?

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Speaker 11: Any tips for if you your family or your s

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Speaker 11: o's family don't particularly like each other. Very hypothetical, as

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Speaker 11: my parents and my boyfriend's parents haven't actually met, so.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I don't even know about that.

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Speaker 2: So it's like they're worried that when these yeah, how that's.

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Speaker 5: Going to go. I don't because I just ambushed my parents.

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Speaker 5: I'm just like, look, this is how it's going to go.

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Speaker 11: You're meeting them now or I don't even like, I

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Speaker 11: don't even it just doesn't happen that often where our

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Speaker 11: parents are in rooms.

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Speaker 5: I don't even care.

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Speaker 11: I'm just like they're so happy that I'm with somebody

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Speaker 11: that they're like, well, she's barren, she has a significant friend. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 11: we didn't have grandchildren, so what's nice.

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Speaker 5: No, yeah, there are those used to be.

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Speaker 1: So that is a really hard question because what you

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Speaker 1: don't realize is that it's completely out of your control

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Speaker 1: and you can only be a good person. You know,

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Speaker 1: you can only do you and just like set everybody

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Speaker 1: up on even ground so it's not their house or

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Speaker 1: the other person's house.

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Speaker 5: It's like Benny Hannah bowling. Yeah, like doing something.

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Speaker 2: Blow in there, eat it up a little building. Absolutely?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Is this like then and the Capulets. I'm not sure

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Speaker 2: what will happen on this fortnight, but.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, well that was the last question. Thank

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Speaker 5: you so much? Yes, did DJ Don Well?

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Speaker 2: You just heard Kate Walsh and since she is.

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Speaker 1: A mad, fun, marijuana laced show, I mean we got edibles,

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Speaker 1: we got weird uncles.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Honeyed Adulting was produced by Blakeney Schick and Odelia Rubin.

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Speaker 4: The Adulting team includes jo annaslatarof Colin Schuman, Joe Ploord,

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Speaker 4: ed Haber, Irene Trudell, and the live show is produced

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Speaker 4: by Christian Banda.

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Speaker 1: Our theme music is produced by Isaac Jones, with additional

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Speaker 1: music by Don Well.

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Speaker 2: Did you like this episode? Please rate us? Please please slease.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times comedians and actors can't watch themselves

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Speaker 1: on TV right because it's terrified. It's one thing to

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Speaker 1: do it right, but it's another thing to watch it,

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Speaker 1: which is why I've never made a sex tape lo l.

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Speaker 3: I have, but it's hr so it's definitely like there's

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Speaker 3: somewhere burnt. Whatever the point is.

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Speaker 1: I never read comments. I never My husband will go

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Speaker 1: through the comments and be like, Okay, it's safe. And

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Speaker 1: I have to say, this has probably been the best

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Speaker 1: most joyous wild ride in terms of podcasting right.

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Speaker 3: And the comments are amazing. I can't believe people are

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Speaker 3: enjoying this show so much.

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Speaker 4: It's been really nice and very heartfelt and very warm,

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Speaker 4: and we really appreciate that, y'all.

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Speaker 5: It's my favorite is Jeordelle.

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Speaker 2: We are Jordelle now Jeordelle one of the reviewers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they put our names together like bitch. I just

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Speaker 3: even taking care of your kids in Bay Ridge. I

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Speaker 3: have constantly crossing the Arizona.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, I look, I know Martha Stewart hashtag get and

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Speaker 1: Martha Stewart. Not that I started, but I will claim it.

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Speaker 1: If you're gonna go to somebody's house with rose or

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Speaker 1: white wine, bring it chilled. Nobody has time to watch

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Speaker 1: the champagne in the freezer, get cold,