WEBVTT - Ep172: Sacral Massages and Flip Flop F-cking feat DJ Damage

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>We made it the two Girl, Mandy b a k

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<v Speaker 1>A PEG The Stallion a ka Mandy Baskins a k

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<v Speaker 1>A that bitch a K A. Goddamn, we're here again.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Wheezy for some of you on Patreon

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<v Speaker 1>that now know my real name because I shared it,

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<v Speaker 1>Weezy the G. I kind of like that till my

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<v Speaker 1>friend close friends call me G. But I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm ever going to be good with a K

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<v Speaker 1>because I changed too much, took me off, took me pegg.

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<v Speaker 1>The Stallion is what it's gonna be, okay, although although

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not really gonna bring them up on the pot.

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<v Speaker 1>But whoever I'm talking to right now is not into pegging,

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<v Speaker 1>and I am very okay with it. Um. Anyways, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hear another boy just got the prayer hands

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<v Speaker 1>from damn um. For those of you who here, we do.

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<v Speaker 1>We are joined with some tesaserone on this episode. We

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<v Speaker 1>have DJ Damage, who is a host in one third

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<v Speaker 1>of Hollywood Unlocked alongside Jason Lee and Melissa Ford, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's done just a whole bunch of revolt if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are interested in being a media personality. He also

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<v Speaker 1>holds webinars and classes and courses on how you guys

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<v Speaker 1>can kind of be like us. So go ahead and say, Hi, damage, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up y'all? Look, I really appreciate being on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast to um let's get into it legendary media group. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>can I ask you? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>djur swell. What's like your go to song that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to like put all right now? Yeah? When people

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<v Speaker 1>need to get hypers fuck. I mean it's so many

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<v Speaker 1>in the West Coast. You can always do um still

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<v Speaker 1>dre overall. You already know what it is. The anthem

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<v Speaker 1>is back that asst It's never a time. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>give up Kanye? That? That's an easy question. Did I

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<v Speaker 1>give up Kanye when you, like we all started working

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<v Speaker 1>with Niga, But did you give him up as a DJ? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of gave up. Good shout out of you.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my closest home girls and this bitch played

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<v Speaker 1>Kanye the other day on her I G Live and

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<v Speaker 1>I was excuse me. I thought we had a consensual

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<v Speaker 1>I like the go I like the gospel of music too,

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<v Speaker 1>But now I had to give up Kanye. I was

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<v Speaker 1>about to say, how do you really play him now?

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<v Speaker 1>Like his stuff doesn't really hit, doesn't want his music is,

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<v Speaker 1>but we just don't funk with that niggas sus So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious. But I thought that we funk with him

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<v Speaker 1>again because he donated to like the George Floyd Fund,

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<v Speaker 1>he got to donate a little bit more. Don what

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<v Speaker 1>two millions? Yeah, put put a few more zeros on there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I got you or something? You know is why

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<v Speaker 1>do they never happy? I don't know. I will say this.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that people were like talking shit about

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<v Speaker 1>Kanye that day. I just choose not to acknowledge him.

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<v Speaker 1>I think what Kanye did is detrimental to people view

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<v Speaker 1>black people. And that's why I can't funk with Kanye.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I am the person that I sold the purse

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<v Speaker 1>to go see Kanye when I was twenty, Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>how much I stand Kanye. So that was a good concert,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't it? It It was worth it? Bro See? Look at

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, I'm a Beyonce stand and I can

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<v Speaker 1>actually genuinely say his concerts have been better than anything

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever seen to Beyonce, and I only say that

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<v Speaker 1>because Beyonce is such a performer that when you watch Beyonce,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so much going on. You're watching dancing, you're watching lights,

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<v Speaker 1>you're watching a bunch of ship. Kanye doesn't need anything,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like shaking up. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It's weird. Okay, dope, it's so weird because, like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess, did y'all see the conspiracy

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<v Speaker 1>theory going around that he did the whole Maga thing

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<v Speaker 1>on purpose? So did y'all see the conspiracy? But no, No,

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<v Speaker 1>he did it to do what breaking down. He did

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<v Speaker 1>to help people get out of jail, to help free

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<v Speaker 1>black people out of jail. And now he's using his

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<v Speaker 1>platform like he pretty much did it to get a

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<v Speaker 1>black voice in a place where he knew there wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be black. That's not true. Stop saying it's a fact.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, damn, how do I back up to this one?

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<v Speaker 1>So now he try to doctor Omar Hotep his way

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<v Speaker 1>back into our lives and be like what I did

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<v Speaker 1>was act like I was for the white man, when

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<v Speaker 1>really he I was for y'all the whole time. But

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<v Speaker 1>Emira theory, I like this conspiracy. I'm going with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Kanye is back again. I like that because they ain't

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<v Speaker 1>even gonna hold y'all. Some of the most comfortable sneakers

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<v Speaker 1>I have a wall, but I'm still I'm too because

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<v Speaker 1>they comfortable. I just but I wear when I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>do something, I'm wearing them sneakers. But he technically is

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<v Speaker 1>it money that I gave him? If I ain't never

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<v Speaker 1>but I never got the registration from Adidas? Yes, getting

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<v Speaker 1>the resale ship. Yes, it is the black man. You

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<v Speaker 1>supported the black man, the resell black man. Okay, shut up, man,

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<v Speaker 1>let's cabout something else. I'm done with this. Yeah, don't well,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna catch up something guys that I want to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure um again. Um. Last week we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>or actually two weeks ago, we did a compilation. This

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<v Speaker 1>has been kind of hard to kind of just get

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<v Speaker 1>back in the rhythm of things. As you guys know,

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<v Speaker 1>we love talking sucking deak um. But it's kind of okay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I say, do you not like stand now? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>You see how you flip that around. It's gotta be clear, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna work with Jason Lee, right, I gotta make sure

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<v Speaker 1>I know what you're talking about. Okay, you're right, You're right,

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<v Speaker 1>You're right. Um, guys, I want to give kind of

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<v Speaker 1>attention to petitions. If if some of you, um, felt

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<v Speaker 1>like you didn't do enough over the last couple of

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<v Speaker 1>weeks because maybe you didn't want to protest, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have the money to donate to any of the

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<v Speaker 1>organizations that are making a difference. I want to let

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<v Speaker 1>you guys know that you guys can go do change

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<v Speaker 1>dot org. UM. I am actually gonna put this link

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<v Speaker 1>in the description of this episode. This this specific petition

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<v Speaker 1>is for Levenna Johnson. UM. She's she's nineteen years old.

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<v Speaker 1>She was found dead in her tent in Iraq back

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<v Speaker 1>in two thousand five. She had a broken nose, black ey'm,

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<v Speaker 1>loose teeth, and burns from a corrosive chemical on her

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<v Speaker 1>genitals to cover evidence of rape, and a gunshot wound,

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<v Speaker 1>and the United States government ruled her death a suicide. So, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>the petition right now is to find justice for Levenna

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<v Speaker 1>Johnson and hopefully reopen her case. UM. And so again,

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<v Speaker 1>that link will be in the description of this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>So again, if you guys can't donate and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been able to march. This is a way for

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<v Speaker 1>you guys to make change, and so please go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and sign the petition. They are seeking about fifty thousand

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<v Speaker 1>signatures and as of right now it's about at thirty

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<v Speaker 1>nine thousand, So go ahead and make a difference, just

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<v Speaker 1>to let you guys know how petitions work. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people like don't sign them or don't really understand them.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you get to a hundred thousand assisted petition, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe it's like something called we the People is

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<v Speaker 1>like what petitions really mean to the White House. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you get a hundred thousand signatures within a month,

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<v Speaker 1>they review it, they make sure it gets in front

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<v Speaker 1>of appropriate policy experts, and then they issue an official

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<v Speaker 1>response to you. Petitions don't necessarily mean they will reopen something,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is very good for, you know, regenerating awareness

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<v Speaker 1>to something that might have been dead and gone. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>much like writing I am you know you might. I

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<v Speaker 1>might have brought it up on the last episode, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm at this point now where I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>tired of the conversation where people don't understand and there

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<v Speaker 1>are just so many white people in our history that

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<v Speaker 1>I've gotten things they've wanted from writing, and I implore

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<v Speaker 1>you to learn about how people sees and take over things.

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<v Speaker 1>And the only thing we want to take over is

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<v Speaker 1>our lives, which show the funk is I've had attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>I've lost friends this week, um, including blacks that are

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<v Speaker 1>like showing off with their peaceful protests. That annoys the

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<v Speaker 1>ship out of me. Stop capitalizing the peaceful this week.

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<v Speaker 1>No one gives a fuck bitch like what, I'm too

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<v Speaker 1>pussy to bang some ship up. That's just the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm too pussy to break a window down, but I

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<v Speaker 1>understand why it needs to be done and why it

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<v Speaker 1>is being done. So it's like stopped showing off that

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<v Speaker 1>you did nothing other than protest, which mind you looters

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<v Speaker 1>of the minority, looters of the minority. I mean, so,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we as you guys know, we always agree

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<v Speaker 1>to disagree. UM. I've attended some peaceful protests, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. UM. As far as seeing protests

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<v Speaker 1>last this long, I've of course never seen it in

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<v Speaker 1>my lifetime. There's been protests from the Trayvon Martin case,

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<v Speaker 1>Eric Gardner. They were outside every day for the well

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<v Speaker 1>specifically here in New York. UM, I've seen you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Union Square maybe one or two days, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lie protest. That thing scared me. I was scared, UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I mean going out and being a part

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<v Speaker 1>of peaceful protests I think has not only changed my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's almost kind of chilling to be out with

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<v Speaker 1>people were literally they're just there to be heard, hold

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<v Speaker 1>their signs and let you know everyone around knows that

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<v Speaker 1>they're in solidarity. UM. It's simple, but it makes you

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<v Speaker 1>feel really good. I mean, I've appreciated it. So I mean, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. Before before this, I was actually

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<v Speaker 1>shitless scared to to be a part of the protest,

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<v Speaker 1>specifically in New York. UM. They they administered a curfew here,

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<v Speaker 1>they were shutting down trains. And ironically, so the very

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<v Speaker 1>first protest I went to UM and I actually want

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<v Speaker 1>to shout out if I can, the UM the group

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<v Speaker 1>in which I protested with UM, it is Justice Center

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<v Speaker 1>and Albadio. UM. Of course I'm here in the Bronx

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<v Speaker 1>UM and so it was a movement UM based by

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<v Speaker 1>that Justice League. But the very next day UM, the

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<v Speaker 1>Bronx protests that happened. They zip tied and arrested everybody. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>So it was very just. It was almost chilling because

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<v Speaker 1>I went to the bronx Um one that was right

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<v Speaker 1>by my house. This one was also right by my

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<v Speaker 1>house that I would have went to had I not

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<v Speaker 1>had other plans for that day, and so to know

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<v Speaker 1>I could have been a part of a peaceful protest

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<v Speaker 1>that could have led to my arrest. It's still just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of protesting risk at all times because people that

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I may have told this on this show before,

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<v Speaker 1>but when I protested at Trayvon Martin at the time

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<v Speaker 1>I lived in Orlando, UM, I got put in handcuffs

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<v Speaker 1>for jaywalking and everybody was like, happens, because they can't

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<v Speaker 1>arrest you for protesting. A crossed the street. He already

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<v Speaker 1>told me to move and I was like sucking or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and ship like that happened. But you know, specifically about

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<v Speaker 1>the peaceful thing, the reason I'm having a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>feelings about it is because a lot of celebrities that

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<v Speaker 1>donate it to the Minnesota Freedom Fund or being put

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<v Speaker 1>under scrutiny because they're using some of that bail money

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<v Speaker 1>to let out people that set our center, cars and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, and people are mad, but understanding what

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<v Speaker 1>are they mad about? They're like, oh, well, how could

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<v Speaker 1>you donate to people setting ship on fire? Right? And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's the point of view. That's all I

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<v Speaker 1>have to say. And I think we really got to

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<v Speaker 1>start putting the larger thing at hand. And that's really

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<v Speaker 1>why I said I lost friends this week, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I want my black friends to understand why people are

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<v Speaker 1>angry and know that this is just a representation of

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<v Speaker 1>a reaction. So we don't have to be like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, but you know, the answer would be heard

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<v Speaker 1>if there wasn't looting, No, it would a bit. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a few damage um between quarantine and now protesting.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it like on the West Coast? I mean, clearly,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm over here in New York, But what is

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<v Speaker 1>it like on the wen? We could take it back

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<v Speaker 1>to COVID. I feel like when we had to start quarantine,

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<v Speaker 1>it was very east fool out here. You know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen how it was in New York and the East Coast.

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<v Speaker 1>It looked a little different from how the quarantine was

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<v Speaker 1>out here. Sun bathing, there was a lot of yoga,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people hitting their personal pools. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a good vibe. But the protest and it

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<v Speaker 1>took a dark turn. I protested about UM last week

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<v Speaker 1>and I just kind of jumped in line. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what was gonna happen. I seen him coming down

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<v Speaker 1>the street. I joined in, but I already knew. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm gonna start, you know, I'm gonna kick

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<v Speaker 1>it off early and then get out of there because

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<v Speaker 1>I literally when I was walking away from the protest,

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<v Speaker 1>my my homegirl hit me, was like, yeah, they just

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<v Speaker 1>set a car on fire, so we out, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was my que to be out. I don't have nothing

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<v Speaker 1>against rioters, because you know, we got to get the

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<v Speaker 1>message hurt and all that. But at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot see here and say I support people burning

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<v Speaker 1>down black businesses or minority businesses. I just personally don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it should be a casualty, a war, none

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<v Speaker 1>of that. That's just for me. I remember during nine eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was about nine or ten years old.

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<v Speaker 1>I sat there at my school. I went to Mohammed

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<v Speaker 1>Islamic Academy, and I watched the plane hit the towers

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<v Speaker 1>and then we had to evacuate our school, and then

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<v Speaker 1>our school almost wasn't there when we came back because

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<v Speaker 1>it's Mohammed's Islamic Academy, and the people in the neighborhood

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<v Speaker 1>for some reason, thought we were Arab and wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>burn down. The name was a big thing at that time.

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<v Speaker 1>So for me it was like, I don't that just

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<v Speaker 1>brings like a trigger back where I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see people burned down black businesses. We were entirely black

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<v Speaker 1>school in the middle of the neighborhood. We gave back

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<v Speaker 1>to the neighborhood, We helped feed the homeless and everything

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<v Speaker 1>that just for some reason, just I don't like the

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<v Speaker 1>thought and the notion of burning down black businesses. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to burn down Target, Walmart, Auto Zone,

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<v Speaker 1>people that got insurance anyway, go ahead. Because the message

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<v Speaker 1>has to be heard and we tried to do it peacefully.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to catch it another way. We got different waves.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna give you peaceful again. But if we don't

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<v Speaker 1>get that target conversation, honey, police, for the love of God,

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<v Speaker 1>when these bring and Target down, did you see what

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<v Speaker 1>they did this? Soho are you you fucking kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>Bro Let me tell you something. I am the person

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<v Speaker 1>that owns a megaphone, my nigga. I wish, I wish

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<v Speaker 1>we could just all go through the street and scream

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<v Speaker 1>through the gentrified neighborhoods without the curfew. That's really how

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<v Speaker 1>can I ask to damage? UM? Has there been conversations

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<v Speaker 1>regarding the rights in l a specifically, because that's where

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<v Speaker 1>the riots happened for Rodney King, I know they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>happen out here on the East Coast to the effect

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<v Speaker 1>that they did in l A. UM Has that been

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation out there at all about from that? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I think the biggest difference between that riot then and

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<v Speaker 1>the right now is when they did the riots recently,

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<v Speaker 1>it was in Beverly Hills, Rodale Drive, the Grove, Hollywood Boulevard.

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<v Speaker 1>The riots back then happened in people's own community. It

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<v Speaker 1>just went outside and was upset. And that's when you've

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<v Speaker 1>seen it was a rift between you know, the Asian

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<v Speaker 1>Americans and African Americans because they were in the inner

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<v Speaker 1>city neighborhoods. They're not doing it like this this time.

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<v Speaker 1>All the writing and looting I've seen has been on Melrose,

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<v Speaker 1>ro Dale Drive, Hollywood Boulevard, so they're really hit in

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<v Speaker 1>the you know, hitting the corporate pockets. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time on Melrose there's still some black owned businesses there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's an other side of Melrose where you

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<v Speaker 1>got all the yours and the top man and you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So I'll be like, go over there,

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<v Speaker 1>don't burn down, don't hit the chains. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>I told you guys that in my last they hit

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<v Speaker 1>the banks. Bitch, seriously, the baby. I don't think the

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<v Speaker 1>base hold as much money as they. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>to destroy and sunk up a neighborhood, hit the banks,

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<v Speaker 1>hit big chains, because these are the people with the

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<v Speaker 1>most money too. Especially banks have the highest insurance. Like

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<v Speaker 1>a bank could be back up within three hours of

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<v Speaker 1>you looting the ship. Hit the bank's dog. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. God in the COVID relief programs went to

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<v Speaker 1>all these businesses anyway, so they have the extra money.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't go to the small I forget the shakes.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to Ruth, Chris, do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>keep going? Because I thought we were small businesses. No,

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<v Speaker 1>they was counting motherfucking Wendy's and McDonald's Small businesses. What

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<v Speaker 1>down build another one? Well, I want to go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and get into our vanilla ship this week. Like I said, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna kind of tiptoe back into our goddamn regular

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<v Speaker 1>routine because I think a lot of you guys needed.

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<v Speaker 1>This vanilla ship was sent weeks ago and it is

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<v Speaker 1>still being sent over and over and it's funny. So guys,

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<v Speaker 1>this comes from the New York Post. A foot fetishists

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<v Speaker 1>was arrested after stealing and then having sex with a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred pair of flip flops. Guys, A Thai man with

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<v Speaker 1>an unhealthy obsession with shoes has been arrested for stealing

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<v Speaker 1>more than a hundred pair of flip flops and then

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<v Speaker 1>admitting to having sex with them. Police in central Thailand

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<v Speaker 1>first knew something was awry after receiving dozens of complaints

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<v Speaker 1>from locals over missing shoes. Cc TV footage eventually revealed

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<v Speaker 1>the culprit to a local man. I won't say his

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<v Speaker 1>name because it's hard to pronounce, but he is twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four and he was filmed lurking outside of his latest

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<v Speaker 1>victims home. Authorities apprehended this man on at his rented

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<v Speaker 1>dwelling with a hundred and twenty six pairs of flip

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<v Speaker 1>flops that he admitting He admitted to pilfering over two years. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what pilfering is? What is pilfering? I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't even gonna hold you. I don't know. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>look at that word, because it's it's a nice word

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<v Speaker 1>for a shoe. So pilfering. Oh, it's just stealing them.

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<v Speaker 1>So I ain't never heard that word for stealing. It

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<v Speaker 1>means it means banded, burglar, pi ci word of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, expeditiously whole. The funny part

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<v Speaker 1>is he didn't go to a shoe store, and still

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<v Speaker 1>he's still in personal shoes like he was stealing. Creepy well,

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<v Speaker 1>because first I was gonna give a pair of shoes,

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<v Speaker 1>but now it's like you still like my sisters shoes

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<v Speaker 1>and you start having sex with your sister. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to fuck you know, old navy flip flops. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to say. This is what he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He described how he would wear the sandals, which spanned

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<v Speaker 1>from every making size, around the house to first arouse.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an experience for him. He said that that

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<v Speaker 1>was for play. He would then caress and kiss the

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<v Speaker 1>well worn flip flops, stripped down and rubbed them all

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<v Speaker 1>over his naked body, and then eventually make love to them. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this one, bro, what did you what are you talking about? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to Dallas pen Mandy and I had an

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<v Speaker 1>episode actually funny enough. It's when I came in from

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<v Speaker 1>the woman's march that day and he uh was talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how when he worked at Marshals or something, he

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<v Speaker 1>used to shoes. But he talked about how like he

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<v Speaker 1>would imagine the arch of the woman's foot and it

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<v Speaker 1>would be like a heel and need stick his dick

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<v Speaker 1>in his cloud and clan heel, and that he would

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<v Speaker 1>imagine the woman and how she would wear the shoe

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<v Speaker 1>in the architect on. How rough that is. I just

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<v Speaker 1>need you, Benson, to make sure you get his face.

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<v Speaker 1>Walt Wheezy was describing what he was doing. Your face

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<v Speaker 1>damage was. So, what I'm saying is would you rather

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<v Speaker 1>put your dick in if you had to pick? That's

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<v Speaker 1>the name of the game. I'm bringing a sandal over

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<v Speaker 1>a hill, really really yeah, because the sandal, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you put it in, you put in through those little

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<v Speaker 1>grooves and let me you canta, you can do a

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<v Speaker 1>little extra, you know what I'm saying. You just put

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<v Speaker 1>it in the hill. Wait, but the heel has a

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<v Speaker 1>little arch. You don't want that arches? Want to cut

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<v Speaker 1>your dick in half? Oh, I think, why would you

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<v Speaker 1>want something that arches? Actually, how are you gonna choose

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<v Speaker 1>the Nike slide with grooves because I can see a

0:19:49.359 --> 0:19:55.000
<v Speaker 1>nigger wanting them grooves? Bigot damage. I'm still going with

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<v Speaker 1>the flip flop. It's comfy. It's comfy. How do you

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<v Speaker 1>know that heels are not comfy? Because love Nike slides. Dog,

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<v Speaker 1>it's residuous. Y'all do nothing to stray from the Nike slide.

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<v Speaker 1>What the hell? I ain't gonna hold you. That's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the that's one of the things about men that

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<v Speaker 1>actually turned me on outside of basketball shorts. I love

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<v Speaker 1>a man with Nike slides and socks. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>talk about don't do that. I'm not from New York,

0:20:22.880 --> 0:20:24.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm from Florida. Was say, I thought that was like

0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Southern ship. That's Southern ship. The Nike slides with the

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's East Coast ship. Then that's definitely yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I would much rather a guy with Nike

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<v Speaker 1>slides socks than Chuck Taylor's. And I used to get

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<v Speaker 1>dressed up like that. I used to get my white

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<v Speaker 1>t ready, my ball shorts and fresh socks, put my

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<v Speaker 1>flops on, hit the corner, like you know what's great

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<v Speaker 1>about that outfit? Like you could be broken ship or

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<v Speaker 1>have money and we want it. Would never know. That's

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<v Speaker 1>one of those styles that I appreciate because, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of fads that have happened in our

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<v Speaker 1>lifetime that are like too expensive to keep up with.

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<v Speaker 1>But the Nike slides dot combo, it's any nigga deal.

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<v Speaker 1>You can really look. You can go to Marshall's get

0:21:04.520 --> 0:21:07.879
<v Speaker 1>the Jordan's flip flops, or you get the Nike flip

0:21:07.880 --> 0:21:10.159
<v Speaker 1>flops the Nike shorts, like you go to Marshalls and

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<v Speaker 1>run it up. I ain't gonn hold my favorite. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know that's how Jay Coole go on stage. And I

0:21:15.080 --> 0:21:18.680
<v Speaker 1>love j Cole, But that's J Cole's tour gear right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Basketball shorts, white tea and some sneakers and slides. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a little you think that the fucking outfit. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like when niggas come over to funk, they wear ship

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Okay, v damn valid as going to be

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<v Speaker 1>in the way. So what's the girl equivalent to that?

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<v Speaker 1>Swear leggings, no leggings with legs, leggings, leggings and a

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<v Speaker 1>T shirt. Well, I just live in with But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to say I used to be I

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<v Speaker 1>still am a pretty big cor but when I was

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<v Speaker 1>peaking my whole, I would be in Miami a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would always know the niggas. That was for

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<v Speaker 1>me because I see him one to beat with them

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<v Speaker 1>socks and ship. No matter how hot it was, all

0:21:57.640 --> 0:22:06.960
<v Speaker 1>lot got wet, they weight. Have you ever dated a guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever dated a guy that? Or let me

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<v Speaker 1>ask you, um damage on the West Coast And I

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<v Speaker 1>know you're not from the West Coast, but do guys

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<v Speaker 1>were like Taylor's to the beach the same way? Like

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like New York guys were attempts to the

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<v Speaker 1>beach like in the sand. Yeah, in the sand, in

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<v Speaker 1>the sand. No, they let them them toes out shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to my Mexican homeboards. I told you. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's because because of this show and because of these conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be liking Mantes now I should I'm missing as

0:22:40.920 --> 0:22:44.960
<v Speaker 1>you should be like Manto. My foot, I'm missing a pink,

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<v Speaker 1>your miss pinky? Now, can you pull your foot out?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to do yo. You just you

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<v Speaker 1>just lifted up after reviewing. Sometimes you gotta review your foot.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's corn. Let me make sure y'all can't see

0:23:05.320 --> 0:23:13.040
<v Speaker 1>the pusa. My socks are peasy too. Don't look, don't

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<v Speaker 1>judge my foot. Wait, put your foot up. Wait, you

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<v Speaker 1>really gonna leave it with the sock. We ain't got

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<v Speaker 1>no foot fetish. I don't want to see it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you'll have a rating for that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>That that's going to be is for a place to stop.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we don't have. There is not one time

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<v Speaker 1>on this show where I well, anal acrobats was pretty bad. No, bitch,

0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:35.520
<v Speaker 1>you were not ready for that one. No, I wasn't

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:40.560
<v Speaker 1>an acrobats like shoot balls out of their assholes and

0:23:44.480 --> 0:23:46.880
<v Speaker 1>it was an asshole circus. I'm gonna send you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna send you the video. But basically, a woman, a

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<v Speaker 1>woman was pouring a glass of wine and the wine

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<v Speaker 1>bottle was in her ass. So she was pouring the

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<v Speaker 1>glass of wine from her asshole? How much would like

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<v Speaker 1>some of that? Okay? Let me let me ask you this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a low amount of money, but like high enough

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<v Speaker 1>to where you might do it for ten grand If

0:24:07.560 --> 0:24:09.480
<v Speaker 1>a girl poured a bottle of wine in her ass

0:24:10.200 --> 0:24:12.320
<v Speaker 1>would you let her shoot it into your mouth for

0:24:12.440 --> 0:24:17.359
<v Speaker 1>ten grands? Uh? If it was my woman? Hell yeah?

0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:19.639
<v Speaker 1>Not just some random asshole. That's how you get Corona.

0:24:20.040 --> 0:24:23.879
<v Speaker 1>We still gotta say Corona free, Yo, don't forget that right? Wait? So,

0:24:23.880 --> 0:24:25.840
<v Speaker 1>so you're down as long as she's your girl to

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<v Speaker 1>get his kid possible. I'm not drinking my nigga. I

0:24:30.000 --> 0:24:35.000
<v Speaker 1>don't want Booty Salvina Blong. I'm goods booty. I don't

0:24:35.000 --> 0:24:38.440
<v Speaker 1>want a Booty Bordeaux. I don't want a ship. So

0:24:40.200 --> 0:24:44.320
<v Speaker 1>you don't want booty Noir. No, that sounds yo, that

0:24:44.440 --> 0:24:49.359
<v Speaker 1>sounds like a fucking poor name. Nigger Booty, where'd you

0:24:49.359 --> 0:24:52.200
<v Speaker 1>get your name? I just really love a red wine. Honestly,

0:24:55.080 --> 0:24:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I'm gonna say we start doing this ship again.

0:25:00.080 --> 0:25:02.920
<v Speaker 1>Mob bay, mobay, anybody. We're gonna get into the whole facts, y'all.

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Whole facts is random sex facts that you may not

0:25:06.160 --> 0:25:08.639
<v Speaker 1>have known. And this one, I'm interested. We have a

0:25:08.640 --> 0:25:09.960
<v Speaker 1>guy on here and I want to know if this

0:25:10.040 --> 0:25:12.800
<v Speaker 1>is actually true. So the whole facts today comes from

0:25:12.840 --> 0:25:15.879
<v Speaker 1>all Bright University. In a study that they did in

0:25:15.880 --> 0:25:19.480
<v Speaker 1>two thousand fourteen, The fact is that you can really

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<v Speaker 1>turn a guy on with your voice. They found that

0:25:22.560 --> 0:25:26.440
<v Speaker 1>women were able to consciously manipulate their voices while counting

0:25:26.480 --> 0:25:30.040
<v Speaker 1>from one to ten to sound more attractive. When the

0:25:30.040 --> 0:25:31.840
<v Speaker 1>guys in the study tried to do the same, they

0:25:31.880 --> 0:25:35.480
<v Speaker 1>actually came off sounding less attractive. What kind of voice

0:25:35.920 --> 0:25:39.359
<v Speaker 1>change makes a woman sound sexier? A deep, breadthy voice.

0:25:39.359 --> 0:25:42.040
<v Speaker 1>According to researchers, men are attracted to this kind of

0:25:42.080 --> 0:25:44.639
<v Speaker 1>pitch not because they prefer women with lower voices, but

0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:48.480
<v Speaker 1>because women dropped. When a woman drops her voice, she's

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:52.280
<v Speaker 1>signal she's signaling that she's interested, a hint that men

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:55.520
<v Speaker 1>certainly aren't blind to. So y'all know, wheezy be with

0:25:55.560 --> 0:25:59.159
<v Speaker 1>the motherfucking voices and accents. So weezy, I need you

0:25:59.200 --> 0:26:02.480
<v Speaker 1>to go from one to ten, least attractive to most.

0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:04.119
<v Speaker 1>She didn't even know I was gonna do this, y'all,

0:26:04.200 --> 0:26:06.160
<v Speaker 1>but I need you to go from the least attractive

0:26:06.240 --> 0:26:09.040
<v Speaker 1>voice that you have to the most sexy voice one

0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:11.800
<v Speaker 1>to tend. Yeah, like, I feel like people really don't

0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:14.240
<v Speaker 1>like like if you do, like you know what's called

0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:17.119
<v Speaker 1>the voice right now, it's kind of like cold stuff up.

0:26:18.000 --> 0:26:20.360
<v Speaker 1>But you know, I really think they do get very

0:26:20.400 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 1>attracted when she's doing this A little bit different when

0:26:23.560 --> 0:26:26.960
<v Speaker 1>you watch good now get now turn that into a

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:31.840
<v Speaker 1>super sex voice. Oh my god, stop, I can't, Yes,

0:26:31.960 --> 0:26:37.760
<v Speaker 1>you can't. You have to get breathy, the deep, breathe deep. Okay,

0:26:37.800 --> 0:26:39.199
<v Speaker 1>all right, all right, let me try. Let's get out

0:26:39.200 --> 0:26:43.800
<v Speaker 1>of care and I'm getting nervous because we're gonna use

0:26:43.840 --> 0:26:46.520
<v Speaker 1>this as a clip hoop. That's why I'm trying to

0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:49.760
<v Speaker 1>get it right. I even put my wig on for this. Okay,

0:26:50.040 --> 0:26:54.919
<v Speaker 1>just think about booty, their booty, their girl. Okay, do

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:59.240
<v Speaker 1>some role play with me. Okay, called dammage, call me

0:26:59.320 --> 0:27:06.119
<v Speaker 1>damage damage, call her because you're trying to get the pussy. Okay,

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:08.840
<v Speaker 1>so go ahead and talk to her. Let her know

0:27:08.920 --> 0:27:10.840
<v Speaker 1>you want you want a booty call. That's a booty call.

0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Let's go is this d Yeah? Hi? What are you

0:27:15.800 --> 0:27:19.720
<v Speaker 1>doing waiting for you? When you're gonna pull up? I

0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:21.879
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I thought you were gonna like send me

0:27:21.920 --> 0:27:24.800
<v Speaker 1>an uber, come get it yourself. I don't. I don't

0:27:24.800 --> 0:27:27.399
<v Speaker 1>know how bad do you want to see me? The breath?

0:27:28.000 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I hear it. I'm about to send that over right now.

0:27:32.520 --> 0:27:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I got I got asked me. I can't do the breath.

0:27:34.560 --> 0:27:39.080
<v Speaker 1>To god, I barely got it. I got up. No.

0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:41.880
<v Speaker 1>But it's so crazy because little do we know, Like

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:45.160
<v Speaker 1>if I'm just having this conversation on the podcast, this

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:48.600
<v Speaker 1>is clearly different than the voice I give when I'm

0:27:48.600 --> 0:27:50.399
<v Speaker 1>like here, what's the voice you give? Man? Come on?

0:27:51.280 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 1>Where do you want to come? Did you really just snort? Bit?

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:02.359
<v Speaker 1>What if they back with? And what options do I have? Bitch?

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Do you want to come on my tits? You want

0:28:06.400 --> 0:28:08.800
<v Speaker 1>to in my mouth? Can you come in my mouth?

0:28:10.240 --> 0:28:11.960
<v Speaker 1>Want to hear? You'll want to hear? Where do you

0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:13.679
<v Speaker 1>want to come? Story? If you guys listen to for

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a fact sake, you'll hear this. Um you've already heard

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:18.159
<v Speaker 1>this story. But let me just tell y'all. So I'm

0:28:18.200 --> 0:28:19.679
<v Speaker 1>in New York for a few days for work, but

0:28:19.760 --> 0:28:21.960
<v Speaker 1>I've been living in saloom during this quarantine with my

0:28:22.960 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 1>and he came and he always comes in my pussy

0:28:27.119 --> 0:28:30.240
<v Speaker 1>because we track our ovulationship right, and it's all she

0:28:30.359 --> 0:28:39.400
<v Speaker 1>about to be bullshit me. Just the week fund for Wheezy.

0:28:39.680 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 1>Sorry sorry, sorry, Okay. So the week of that, my

0:28:45.800 --> 0:28:48.440
<v Speaker 1>period was supposed to come. Sad moment, George Floyd, Right,

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:51.600
<v Speaker 1>So like, I know that you could get so stressed

0:28:51.600 --> 0:28:53.640
<v Speaker 1>out that your period won't come, but it did. Never

0:28:53.720 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 1>happened to me, So my period didn't come on for

0:28:57.720 --> 0:29:01.720
<v Speaker 1>seven days. My period has only ever been late one day.

0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:04.520
<v Speaker 1>So I don't want to say anything to him because

0:29:04.520 --> 0:29:07.080
<v Speaker 1>this nigga working too much. There's already a hurricane that

0:29:07.120 --> 0:29:08.520
<v Speaker 1>comes this week, so I'm like, let me go get

0:29:08.520 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 1>a pregnancy test. So I come in the house, I

0:29:10.880 --> 0:29:13.959
<v Speaker 1>pee on the stick and these words pop up and

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 1>it says and you're late and embrazada, and I'm like,

0:29:19.200 --> 0:29:25.320
<v Speaker 1>what it's coming through in Spanish? Right? Right? It was

0:29:25.360 --> 0:29:28.680
<v Speaker 1>a digital screen, but hold on, the electricity went out

0:29:28.720 --> 0:29:32.560
<v Speaker 1>because it's hurricane, so I could not connect to the internet. Right,

0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:37.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, my niked and my pregnant. Do I gotta impanada?

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 1>Or do I not gotta impanada? It said embarrazada? So

0:29:42.160 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I wake up? Non, No internet comes back up, and no,

0:29:45.120 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 1>it didn't come back up. I walked down the street

0:29:47.200 --> 0:29:49.760
<v Speaker 1>to get signal to figure out I wasn't pregnant. Two

0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:52.120
<v Speaker 1>days later, I go get another pregnancy test. The ship

0:29:52.200 --> 0:29:56.240
<v Speaker 1>says negativo. I know what that is? We straight. Then

0:29:56.320 --> 0:29:58.680
<v Speaker 1>I get an I say negativo, bitch, that does not

0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 1>just could have been Spanish. I think I think it's

0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:03.720
<v Speaker 1>the name. I think we just like. I think we

0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:11.920
<v Speaker 1>just like add an oh to anything anything. Because when

0:30:11.920 --> 0:30:14.200
<v Speaker 1>I was sucked up right and electricity went off, I

0:30:14.240 --> 0:30:17.480
<v Speaker 1>went downstairs and damn show said l light too and

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:22.360
<v Speaker 1>working it is Negativo. Okay, okay, I ain't know. I ain't.

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:26.280
<v Speaker 1>So then the next test had one line on one side,

0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:30.720
<v Speaker 1>one on the other side, right, And so as a

0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:33.840
<v Speaker 1>woman you have to take like multiple tests because you

0:30:34.160 --> 0:30:37.200
<v Speaker 1>can't just take one dog seven days late. I literally

0:30:37.240 --> 0:30:40.080
<v Speaker 1>took one every other day. I took four tests. So

0:30:40.120 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 1>at this point I see another test the line is

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:44.400
<v Speaker 1>a certain way and I have just throw it to him.

0:30:44.400 --> 0:30:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, I don't know what's going on. Just

0:30:45.960 --> 0:30:48.440
<v Speaker 1>look it up. This niga google is that comes back

0:30:48.440 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 1>talking about no empanada. We ain't got no empanada. No emfanata,

0:30:54.360 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 1>we got bitch. All I know is I know all

0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:01.000
<v Speaker 1>about Mexican pregnancies. And to let you know, when I

0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:04.000
<v Speaker 1>went into the ox So, which is the Mexican pregnancies,

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:09.440
<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna get their version of seven eleven. Right.

0:31:09.480 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>So when I walk in, mind you like the signals

0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:15.680
<v Speaker 1>sucked up out there because the storm, so cellphone towers

0:31:15.680 --> 0:31:17.440
<v Speaker 1>are down. I walk in trying to ask for a

0:31:17.480 --> 0:31:22.440
<v Speaker 1>pregnancy test. I went like this, see, no, do you

0:31:22.520 --> 0:31:27.720
<v Speaker 1>have test? Though? This bitch is like she put everything literally,

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 1>that's what she's doing. But listening, I'm not trying to

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:32.680
<v Speaker 1>be racist. I just don't know. So this bitch comes

0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:35.720
<v Speaker 1>out with some diapers. I said, no, oh my god.

0:31:36.000 --> 0:31:41.840
<v Speaker 1>I said maybe maybe maybe maybe no baby. People in

0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:45.760
<v Speaker 1>the fucking store was laughing at me, and I was

0:31:45.840 --> 0:31:47.680
<v Speaker 1>like yo. And at this point I noticed bitch was

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 1>sucking with me. She pulled out apple sauce and she

0:31:49.280 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 1>don't like, you know what the funk I'm saying? Oh?

0:31:51.400 --> 0:31:53.800
<v Speaker 1>Then I said, you have just googled it how to

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:56.720
<v Speaker 1>say it? You could have just cellphone towers were down.

0:31:56.720 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you're hearing me. They can't even process

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 1>credit cards. Okay, that's how it was a hurricane. So wait,

0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 1>I walked down the aisle to grab a tampon, right

0:32:06.040 --> 0:32:07.920
<v Speaker 1>the box of tampons, because I said this, how must

0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:10.120
<v Speaker 1>figure out pregnancy tests? Our dad ass held it up.

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I said, no necessito because baby, anyway, she handed it

0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 1>to me. But fuck, I'm weak. I'm I'm weak as well.

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 1>I love it. Um, we went through the whole facts.

0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:30.480
<v Speaker 1>Y'all know, y'all know I'm an outline whole goddamn it.

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:32.320
<v Speaker 1>We ain't really been on the outline because you know,

0:32:32.400 --> 0:32:35.040
<v Speaker 1>ship fuck. Anyways, we're gonna get into our hor derve

0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:37.840
<v Speaker 1>before we get into our horror decision and the hord derve.

0:32:38.400 --> 0:32:42.720
<v Speaker 1>I found this on Cosmopolitan Damage. If you have any

0:32:43.240 --> 0:32:45.760
<v Speaker 1>sex tip that you would like to share with our audience,

0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 1>please let me out this. So this is me trying

0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:49.880
<v Speaker 1>to get my sexy voice on. Didn't work? Maybe not, Okay,

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm working on it. My nigga is like my rasp,

0:32:52.200 --> 0:32:58.400
<v Speaker 1>so I'll just be like Anyways, the horrid dirt for

0:32:58.440 --> 0:33:02.400
<v Speaker 1>this week is a sack cruel sacral sacral. How you

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:08.200
<v Speaker 1>think that that spelled? Pronounce sacral like sacrale? If it's

0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:10.520
<v Speaker 1>sacral oh maybe like a nut sack. Maybe because it's

0:33:10.560 --> 0:33:12.800
<v Speaker 1>for your butt crack. Actually, not the nut sack, but

0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:17.040
<v Speaker 1>the butt crack. So try a sacral massage. If you're

0:33:17.080 --> 0:33:21.600
<v Speaker 1>going to experiment with anal anal four play is a must,

0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:27.000
<v Speaker 1>So try giving or receiving a sacral massage a k a.

0:33:27.120 --> 0:33:31.800
<v Speaker 1>Massaging the area just above the butt crack for fifteen

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:33.600
<v Speaker 1>to twenty minutes. Now, I don't know if those are

0:33:33.640 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 1>fifteen to twenty six minutes or actual minutes, but I

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:38.479
<v Speaker 1>would say just for massage, I hope for thirty seconds.

0:33:38.520 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 1>I would be willing to bet my life that a

0:33:41.400 --> 0:33:44.440
<v Speaker 1>sacral massage has nothing to do with your butt, your

0:33:44.600 --> 0:33:49.760
<v Speaker 1>nut sack, I said, butt crack, but nut sack. You

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:52.440
<v Speaker 1>take your thumb like this, you actually actually go It's

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:55.640
<v Speaker 1>it's right above your butt crack. And what you're doing

0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 1>is you're massaging this area and it will help release

0:33:58.400 --> 0:34:02.400
<v Speaker 1>tension and loosen the whole area up. I actually wanted

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:06.720
<v Speaker 1>to add to this guy's so this is I do

0:34:07.080 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 1>because so this is my tip to you guys who

0:34:10.680 --> 0:34:15.799
<v Speaker 1>are interested in getting near the Buddha hole. It's just

0:34:15.920 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 1>a Buda hole, you know what I mean? I know,

0:34:19.920 --> 0:34:22.319
<v Speaker 1>but I get it, I get it, But this is

0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:25.279
<v Speaker 1>a real tip. Shut the funk up. So yes, massage

0:34:25.360 --> 0:34:27.919
<v Speaker 1>right above the back um, right above the buck crack.

0:34:28.000 --> 0:34:29.719
<v Speaker 1>But I would say you could get to this by

0:34:29.800 --> 0:34:33.640
<v Speaker 1>offering your man a back massage. So if you guys

0:34:33.680 --> 0:34:36.719
<v Speaker 1>know the lower part of the back, definitely focused there.

0:34:37.080 --> 0:34:42.399
<v Speaker 1>And wait what wait, let me finish damage because this

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:45.239
<v Speaker 1>is this is this literally works every single time. I'm

0:34:45.239 --> 0:34:47.399
<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie it hasn't not worked for me. So

0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:50.239
<v Speaker 1>you your massage is back. So you act like you

0:34:50.360 --> 0:34:53.600
<v Speaker 1>tie and you do the elbows and ship and you

0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:56.239
<v Speaker 1>know the pattern and get the upper upper back. Then

0:34:56.239 --> 0:34:58.440
<v Speaker 1>when you get down to the lower back, then you

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:02.080
<v Speaker 1>start massaging the butt. She As you're massaging the butt cheeks,

0:35:02.280 --> 0:35:05.480
<v Speaker 1>you're pulling the cheeks apart right, So then you go

0:35:05.640 --> 0:35:07.960
<v Speaker 1>into the cup of the cheeks. So now you're massaging

0:35:08.040 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 1>the thighs and the butt cheeks, thigh butt cheeks, and

0:35:11.239 --> 0:35:14.160
<v Speaker 1>then you go in with your hands just like so,

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:17.600
<v Speaker 1>and you fit your mouth right into that boot hole

0:35:18.280 --> 0:35:23.640
<v Speaker 1>and you add heating the groceries. And let me tell

0:35:23.680 --> 0:35:27.800
<v Speaker 1>you tell us something. Please, I never had my ass

0:35:27.840 --> 0:35:30.000
<v Speaker 1>eight but if I was to get my ass, I'm

0:35:30.040 --> 0:35:32.719
<v Speaker 1>not laying on my stomach and let you massage my

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 1>ass cheeks open, dipping your tongue into me. It's not

0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 1>not I don't like my asked me a massage where.

0:35:39.600 --> 0:35:41.239
<v Speaker 1>It's why I didn't like that because I feel like

0:35:41.480 --> 0:35:43.800
<v Speaker 1>air is gonna come like a I feel like I

0:35:43.800 --> 0:35:45.319
<v Speaker 1>don't want to us about to blow in the boot

0:35:45.400 --> 0:35:50.080
<v Speaker 1>hole it supposed to. That's the opposite. I want things

0:35:50.080 --> 0:35:52.399
<v Speaker 1>coming out of it, not in it. You're gonna fart

0:35:52.440 --> 0:35:54.239
<v Speaker 1>in the nigga face while he in your booty. Hall.

0:35:54.320 --> 0:35:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel like when niggas spread my ass like air

0:35:56.719 --> 0:36:01.680
<v Speaker 1>is gonna come out you. You're gonna fat for spreading

0:36:01.680 --> 0:36:10.799
<v Speaker 1>the man's sad. It's the gluteous massage. It is. But

0:36:10.880 --> 0:36:13.120
<v Speaker 1>so here's the thing. You know if they like it

0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:17.360
<v Speaker 1>or not, because yeah, yeah, So some guys will moan

0:36:17.600 --> 0:36:20.480
<v Speaker 1>and that's they're like, okay, I like what you're doing.

0:36:20.840 --> 0:36:23.720
<v Speaker 1>And some guys will actually start to spread their legs

0:36:24.320 --> 0:36:26.440
<v Speaker 1>like to let you know that what you're doing is

0:36:26.480 --> 0:36:30.960
<v Speaker 1>okay without telling you. Like there's body languages, body languages,

0:36:30.960 --> 0:36:36.000
<v Speaker 1>body like I don't feel like that's comfortable. So that's

0:36:36.000 --> 0:36:38.520
<v Speaker 1>the part. Well, I mean, technically most people would prefer

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:40.840
<v Speaker 1>massage on their stomach, so I don't think you're thinking

0:36:40.880 --> 0:36:42.279
<v Speaker 1>of it that way. You're not thinking that it's on.

0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:45.040
<v Speaker 1>And then that's the thing. Because the balls are there,

0:36:45.080 --> 0:36:47.680
<v Speaker 1>you also just spit down on them and make them wet,

0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:50.480
<v Speaker 1>and then you start massaging the balls while you're massaging

0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:53.719
<v Speaker 1>the butt cheeks. It works, I'm telling you it works.

0:36:54.920 --> 0:36:56.799
<v Speaker 1>You guys want to know something random that's been coming

0:36:56.840 --> 0:36:58.680
<v Speaker 1>up in my head. It's disgusting. I dream about it

0:36:58.680 --> 0:37:01.640
<v Speaker 1>like two or three times a week now. So our

0:37:01.960 --> 0:37:04.600
<v Speaker 1>place into Loom is like in this little like community, right,

0:37:04.640 --> 0:37:07.160
<v Speaker 1>and there's this Italian dude that lives there with his

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:09.680
<v Speaker 1>wife and children. Mind you, with my nigga, I'm not

0:37:09.719 --> 0:37:11.880
<v Speaker 1>trying to like you know, but it's just this fantasy

0:37:11.880 --> 0:37:17.520
<v Speaker 1>that keeps coming. He's a boxer and he gives me

0:37:17.600 --> 0:37:20.560
<v Speaker 1>boxing lessons three or four times a week. But when

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:23.480
<v Speaker 1>he's like doing his ship alone, he gets like really

0:37:23.520 --> 0:37:25.600
<v Speaker 1>bad because he does like kickboxing. So I guess something

0:37:25.640 --> 0:37:27.480
<v Speaker 1>happens to his ass and he'd be oiling up his

0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:30.560
<v Speaker 1>legs and stuff like that by the pool, right, and

0:37:30.600 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I'd be looking like, yo, he got a nut because

0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 1>he's euros so he'd be wearing a little Speedo Italian dude,

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:38.279
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, he he really about to go up

0:37:38.280 --> 0:37:40.960
<v Speaker 1>in the ass. And sometimes if you think about his

0:37:41.040 --> 0:37:43.840
<v Speaker 1>cute little fucking ass all day, and I don't know

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 1>if it's because there's nothing else to do but just

0:37:46.360 --> 0:37:49.080
<v Speaker 1>cook and sunk my own nigga. Now I keep thinking

0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 1>about this and dreaming of an Italian nigga in a

0:37:52.280 --> 0:37:57.640
<v Speaker 1>speedos just his butt because he'd be oiling it. But

0:37:57.760 --> 0:38:01.319
<v Speaker 1>now when we but with no oh my god, dude,

0:38:01.480 --> 0:38:04.000
<v Speaker 1>now we're all becoming friends in this community. I hope

0:38:04.000 --> 0:38:05.960
<v Speaker 1>to god he never looks up horrible decision because he's like,

0:38:05.960 --> 0:38:08.759
<v Speaker 1>what do you doing a medic I'm going to figure

0:38:08.800 --> 0:38:11.640
<v Speaker 1>it out, come out with the speedo. But he don't

0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:14.880
<v Speaker 1>speak that good at talking about him. But sometimes when

0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:17.000
<v Speaker 1>we be working out right because we spar or whatever,

0:38:17.640 --> 0:38:19.920
<v Speaker 1>and he'd be like hound up. But and then like

0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:23.520
<v Speaker 1>he'll like turn me and ship hand ups, hound ups.

0:38:23.680 --> 0:38:25.759
<v Speaker 1>And then when he turns and he'd be having on

0:38:25.800 --> 0:38:27.759
<v Speaker 1>him tight little short and I see that ass folks out,

0:38:27.760 --> 0:38:30.239
<v Speaker 1>I think about going to his booty. And I never

0:38:30.360 --> 0:38:32.719
<v Speaker 1>think like this, like if I fan assigned, someone is

0:38:32.719 --> 0:38:35.279
<v Speaker 1>not about their ass. I can't even stop looking thinking

0:38:35.320 --> 0:38:37.880
<v Speaker 1>of going into an Italian man's Buddha hole. I have

0:38:38.040 --> 0:38:40.879
<v Speaker 1>literally almost ran into things on my bike because he'll

0:38:40.920 --> 0:38:44.480
<v Speaker 1>walk by the street he o gee, and I'm like, oh,

0:38:44.600 --> 0:38:47.200
<v Speaker 1>we want to be in some Buddha hale. I don't

0:38:47.200 --> 0:38:49.120
<v Speaker 1>know what I think why I got this fixation on

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:51.880
<v Speaker 1>his nigga's ass. It's the sky? Is it big? Like?

0:38:51.960 --> 0:38:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Does he have cheeks? Like you got a man? A

0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 1>full on cheeks? So like I think it's because of

0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:58.120
<v Speaker 1>the workouts he'd be doing. He got a fat ass,

0:38:58.160 --> 0:39:00.840
<v Speaker 1>And I've never seen anything like this. You ever actually

0:39:00.880 --> 0:39:05.160
<v Speaker 1>look at a man's ass and get turned on? No damage?

0:39:05.160 --> 0:39:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Do you like booty? Like not man booty? Clearly we're

0:39:07.480 --> 0:39:09.960
<v Speaker 1>going to change the gender here because you are a

0:39:09.960 --> 0:39:12.440
<v Speaker 1>heterosisn and jail you know, you know jail, that's what

0:39:12.480 --> 0:39:15.440
<v Speaker 1>they call it, a man's but it's called booty. Is

0:39:15.440 --> 0:39:19.120
<v Speaker 1>that jail booty? It's just booty. I thought it was

0:39:19.160 --> 0:39:22.759
<v Speaker 1>called booty for everybody. I thought it was called for

0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:28.320
<v Speaker 1>everybody booty something specific. So what type of I guess

0:39:28.520 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 1>for the ladies listening, what type of booty do you like?

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:39.480
<v Speaker 1>But ass? Because I like it natural I'm into athletic athletic,

0:39:39.840 --> 0:39:42.879
<v Speaker 1>so it doesn't have to be big. Just I used

0:39:42.880 --> 0:39:45.080
<v Speaker 1>to play sports, and I don't think I would be

0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:48.160
<v Speaker 1>considered an athletic ass, but I used to play athletic.

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 1>Acid aren't like weighty. You have like a heavy but

0:39:52.280 --> 0:39:56.000
<v Speaker 1>let asks are more like titans small, they're super round,

0:39:56.239 --> 0:39:59.560
<v Speaker 1>but they're like you like small booties. You know what

0:40:00.440 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 1>you know that? Did you know? You know? Did you

0:40:04.640 --> 0:40:08.640
<v Speaker 1>know that Weely was the president of the Small Booty Coalition?

0:40:08.840 --> 0:40:12.520
<v Speaker 1>Why did you say it was? Because I think you're

0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:14.799
<v Speaker 1>going to think now, yeah, you can you think now

0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:17.080
<v Speaker 1>with me? Let me tell you all what's funny. So

0:40:17.440 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 1>uh this I used to suck your nigga. I can't

0:40:19.680 --> 0:40:24.799
<v Speaker 1>remember where he was from. Slovenia. Where you talking about

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:28.080
<v Speaker 1>the nigga that had the bank issue that you told

0:40:28.160 --> 0:40:30.880
<v Speaker 1>him in the Pillow Talk episode where he was like

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:34.799
<v Speaker 1>being investigated. He was Danish, but this guy he was

0:40:34.880 --> 0:40:38.520
<v Speaker 1>Danis Danis Salvacia. Dude. Once I've moved to New York,

0:40:38.560 --> 0:40:40.319
<v Speaker 1>and I like, because I wasn't really a white guy

0:40:40.320 --> 0:40:42.080
<v Speaker 1>fucker until I moved to New York. But when I

0:40:42.160 --> 0:40:44.640
<v Speaker 1>realized they had different type of white niggas. I was like, funk,

0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to suck these nings. Thank god, I'm with

0:40:46.680 --> 0:40:48.320
<v Speaker 1>a black man now and he's trying times because I

0:40:48.360 --> 0:40:51.040
<v Speaker 1>don't know what I would do. But anyway, so this

0:40:51.200 --> 0:40:53.120
<v Speaker 1>white boy used to funk, right. He used to be like,

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:56.200
<v Speaker 1>you have a nice sports ass, and I think it

0:40:56.280 --> 0:40:58.200
<v Speaker 1>was his way of being like, it's small, but it's cool.

0:40:59.840 --> 0:41:06.040
<v Speaker 1>He just can't stick out farther than the booty as

0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:11.760
<v Speaker 1>long as that ratio is fine, You good. I hate

0:41:11.800 --> 0:41:14.920
<v Speaker 1>guys with like cheeks because I clearly like to get

0:41:14.960 --> 0:41:17.120
<v Speaker 1>in the cheeks, but it'd be now I see what

0:41:17.239 --> 0:41:18.960
<v Speaker 1>men have to deal with. It's a lot to move

0:41:18.960 --> 0:41:22.839
<v Speaker 1>about the way to get there, like you be having,

0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:25.279
<v Speaker 1>because many has been searching for the booty hole as

0:41:25.320 --> 0:41:27.600
<v Speaker 1>we know it is. And and like when guys have

0:41:27.760 --> 0:41:30.240
<v Speaker 1>kind of like a little donkey booty, I'd be like, nigga,

0:41:30.280 --> 0:41:32.799
<v Speaker 1>your booty look bigger than mine. It's just a lot

0:41:32.880 --> 0:41:36.680
<v Speaker 1>to move out the way. What tighter men have donkey booties.

0:41:38.239 --> 0:41:42.040
<v Speaker 1>So I football players for sure are thicker, but even

0:41:42.040 --> 0:41:45.799
<v Speaker 1>the basketball players because I guess they're athletic, like they'd

0:41:45.800 --> 0:41:48.319
<v Speaker 1>be having little asses that sit up and you know,

0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I'd be liking niggas to walk naked, like that's like

0:41:51.680 --> 0:41:54.279
<v Speaker 1>part of my foreplay after sex. I want to see

0:41:54.280 --> 0:41:59.080
<v Speaker 1>a man just walk naked and their booties be so big.

0:41:59.800 --> 0:42:01.840
<v Speaker 1>I be like, oh, you'd be posting up, don't you.

0:42:02.560 --> 0:42:04.799
<v Speaker 1>But you know what, I appreciate when men have like

0:42:04.880 --> 0:42:08.200
<v Speaker 1>that tone on their side, not like their ass cheek.

0:42:08.280 --> 0:42:10.560
<v Speaker 1>But what did I get? Yeah? What's that called? Was

0:42:10.680 --> 0:42:15.640
<v Speaker 1>a little the did in the booty. That's a hit, right, Okay?

0:42:15.680 --> 0:42:19.080
<v Speaker 1>I like that. I like that. I like that whatever

0:42:20.800 --> 0:42:26.600
<v Speaker 1>they're doing, the little sidekicks, Oh, that donkey kicks. I

0:42:26.680 --> 0:42:29.839
<v Speaker 1>like that little whenever I try to get attention from

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:31.960
<v Speaker 1>dudes at the gym, because I like when I squat,

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel like my ass doesn't look that big cat

0:42:36.080 --> 0:42:40.000
<v Speaker 1>cow yoga thing like this one where you oh yeah,

0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:44.319
<v Speaker 1>so in quarantine. I've started doing that, y'all. I don't

0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:47.640
<v Speaker 1>know if y'all know. I would probably rather run on

0:42:47.680 --> 0:42:53.359
<v Speaker 1>a track. Them yoga positions, bitch be hurting because your

0:42:53.400 --> 0:42:56.560
<v Speaker 1>body weight is the hardest thing to I'd be like,

0:42:56.600 --> 0:42:59.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what, let me just run the bleachers because

0:42:59.000 --> 0:43:01.000
<v Speaker 1>this fucking yoga ship. And I'd be in my living

0:43:01.080 --> 0:43:07.120
<v Speaker 1>room like like bit like dog, I realized, like the

0:43:07.160 --> 0:43:09.120
<v Speaker 1>best shape of my life is right now. And it's

0:43:09.120 --> 0:43:12.040
<v Speaker 1>because body weight is like really what gets you in

0:43:12.160 --> 0:43:15.439
<v Speaker 1>shape for real? Like Calliston and all the ship being

0:43:15.480 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 1>in the gym doing all that extra ship that did

0:43:17.760 --> 0:43:20.359
<v Speaker 1>nothing like this body weight ship. I've never been out

0:43:20.440 --> 0:43:22.279
<v Speaker 1>able to pull up my own weight and ship like

0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 1>it's crazy doing that. But a bitch hiking, I don't

0:43:25.080 --> 0:43:27.239
<v Speaker 1>even know how I like hiking. Where do you hike

0:43:27.280 --> 0:43:30.120
<v Speaker 1>in New York? Girl? I don't want to. I mean,

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:32.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna let y'all know because it's my little place now.

0:43:33.200 --> 0:43:35.759
<v Speaker 1>But it's in Jersey and it's right over there. It's

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:40.000
<v Speaker 1>you don't hike in New York. No hiking Jersey, bitch. Um.

0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:43.600
<v Speaker 1>But it's Palisades Park and it's like it's it's right

0:43:43.640 --> 0:43:46.400
<v Speaker 1>on the water, so you see the g WB, but

0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:48.880
<v Speaker 1>there's like just all these little things. It's on the water.

0:43:49.120 --> 0:43:52.239
<v Speaker 1>What makes the hike elevation? Yeah, like, bitch, I'll be

0:43:55.640 --> 0:43:57.239
<v Speaker 1>to the heights if you go to the heights like

0:43:57.360 --> 0:44:00.560
<v Speaker 1>up by dykeman Um. I actually ran the stairs, so

0:44:00.600 --> 0:44:04.200
<v Speaker 1>the Joker stairs, I've been running those so but you

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:06.279
<v Speaker 1>don't ask me why because I don't even know who

0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:09.000
<v Speaker 1>I am anymore. Honestly, why are you hiking? Girl? Don't

0:44:09.000 --> 0:44:13.560
<v Speaker 1>worry about you? A patriot? I'd have told y'all somebody

0:44:13.600 --> 0:44:15.799
<v Speaker 1>that got me changing my life over here. But that's

0:44:17.000 --> 0:44:20.359
<v Speaker 1>only a nigger could make Mandy, because I never ever

0:44:20.560 --> 0:44:22.680
<v Speaker 1>girl like to the point where I'd be like looking

0:44:22.719 --> 0:44:24.840
<v Speaker 1>at the weather and I'd be like, we could do

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:26.759
<v Speaker 1>ten am, does that work for you? Can? Can we

0:44:26.840 --> 0:44:30.719
<v Speaker 1>hike this week? I mean, you shut the funk up?

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Mandy, You're just You're you working out with?

0:44:33.560 --> 0:44:36.399
<v Speaker 1>Are you me? Bitch? I don't know who a bit right?

0:44:36.920 --> 0:44:40.360
<v Speaker 1>Who am I? I don't know? I don't know because

0:44:40.360 --> 0:44:42.359
<v Speaker 1>I would going fro. I love being a little fit couple.

0:44:42.400 --> 0:44:45.320
<v Speaker 1>We're going out there, We're hetting our protein. I'm about

0:44:45.320 --> 0:44:49.560
<v Speaker 1>to call my name, Wheezy sts Wheezy. Shut the funk

0:44:49.640 --> 0:44:54.360
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<v Speaker 1>now and get into our horrible decision. This UM is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just a conversation not only that I've been

0:45:56.719 --> 0:45:58.960
<v Speaker 1>having with my friends, but I think it's important. We

0:45:59.040 --> 0:46:01.520
<v Speaker 1>talk a lot about X. But a lot of sex

0:46:01.600 --> 0:46:04.960
<v Speaker 1>involves partnership, relationships, the people you're working with, and a

0:46:04.960 --> 0:46:07.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of things can turn us off. So I wanted

0:46:07.520 --> 0:46:12.520
<v Speaker 1>to talk about dating with different views. So when I

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:15.279
<v Speaker 1>wanted as far as dating with different views. Right now,

0:46:15.680 --> 0:46:18.480
<v Speaker 1>we have the election coming up, we have a lot

0:46:18.520 --> 0:46:21.319
<v Speaker 1>of the protesting and riots coming up, just a lot

0:46:21.320 --> 0:46:23.560
<v Speaker 1>of things where a lot of people have different point

0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:26.879
<v Speaker 1>of views. And I know that we've talked about not

0:46:26.920 --> 0:46:31.000
<v Speaker 1>really wanting to date Trump supporters, or if you're a Democrat,

0:46:31.080 --> 0:46:33.640
<v Speaker 1>can you date a Republican? So I wanted to kind

0:46:33.640 --> 0:46:36.920
<v Speaker 1>of talk to you easy. You're dating somebody, Um damage,

0:46:37.440 --> 0:46:40.560
<v Speaker 1>you look like you got hoes, so can we talk?

0:46:40.920 --> 0:46:47.920
<v Speaker 1>That's a compliment. Attractive people have hosts period period. So um,

0:46:48.080 --> 0:46:50.600
<v Speaker 1>before I guess how to start off this conversation, I

0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:55.240
<v Speaker 1>want to ask how soon do you ask the person

0:46:55.280 --> 0:47:00.200
<v Speaker 1>that you're dating about political, religious, and social views day?

0:47:00.280 --> 0:47:02.680
<v Speaker 1>Who you vote for? Really? You asked that on the

0:47:02.719 --> 0:47:04.840
<v Speaker 1>first date. I'm not sorry to interrupt your damage, but

0:47:04.920 --> 0:47:07.120
<v Speaker 1>like I feel like, my nigga, whould you vote for it?

0:47:07.160 --> 0:47:09.759
<v Speaker 1>What about you? What about religion? Because I mean, do

0:47:09.800 --> 0:47:12.480
<v Speaker 1>you ask about that as well? Or now? Yeah, I

0:47:12.480 --> 0:47:14.680
<v Speaker 1>think religions you need to get out the way. You

0:47:14.719 --> 0:47:16.319
<v Speaker 1>gotta get religion out the way because you don't want

0:47:16.320 --> 0:47:17.839
<v Speaker 1>to get so far in. It's like, yeah, I really

0:47:17.840 --> 0:47:19.279
<v Speaker 1>want to come to want you to come to church

0:47:19.320 --> 0:47:20.919
<v Speaker 1>with me, and then you're not really like a church

0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:23.840
<v Speaker 1>going or me or me a nigga, tell me I

0:47:23.840 --> 0:47:26.439
<v Speaker 1>don't drink or eat pork. Okay, this ain't gonna work

0:47:26.560 --> 0:47:29.120
<v Speaker 1>because I put pork in my collegreens and so the

0:47:29.120 --> 0:47:33.320
<v Speaker 1>way to this Okay, So this is why we we're friends.

0:47:33.560 --> 0:47:37.280
<v Speaker 1>We're friends and that's it. Um um. So I guess.

0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:39.080
<v Speaker 1>So you guys are saying, first day, how do you

0:47:39.080 --> 0:47:41.319
<v Speaker 1>bring it up? Like? What? How do you bring up

0:47:41.719 --> 0:47:46.280
<v Speaker 1>without making it awkward? I never talked about politics before Trump. However,

0:47:47.040 --> 0:47:51.040
<v Speaker 1>we all know that people that align their views with

0:47:51.080 --> 0:47:53.799
<v Speaker 1>this man are okay with some form of racism. And

0:47:53.840 --> 0:47:57.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel like maybe I alway wasn't always this person person,

0:47:57.560 --> 0:48:00.400
<v Speaker 1>but I've become more awake quote unquote you know the

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:02.239
<v Speaker 1>older I get, and I'm just not about to like

0:48:02.400 --> 0:48:04.880
<v Speaker 1>have to go to this point where I teach somebody something.

0:48:05.040 --> 0:48:07.400
<v Speaker 1>And that's why. Really, the white boys I date, you

0:48:07.440 --> 0:48:09.680
<v Speaker 1>know what, I always mentioned that they were Europeans because

0:48:09.680 --> 0:48:12.240
<v Speaker 1>I feel like American white guys always would be combative

0:48:12.280 --> 0:48:14.959
<v Speaker 1>with me, even if they were liberal, they'd be like yeah,

0:48:15.160 --> 0:48:18.600
<v Speaker 1>but Europeans don't do that. They'd be like, no black people. Yeah,

0:48:18.680 --> 0:48:21.600
<v Speaker 1>So I want to I guess, go ahead, go ahead,

0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:24.080
<v Speaker 1>damage because I dated a European white girl. She was

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:26.520
<v Speaker 1>like some sandal pay or whatever. And it was some

0:48:26.560 --> 0:48:28.680
<v Speaker 1>stuff going on, and the fact that did just say

0:48:28.840 --> 0:48:33.200
<v Speaker 1>San San Rope wherever the hell it is was French

0:48:33.239 --> 0:48:36.480
<v Speaker 1>south of France. She was friends, Yeah, but she was white.

0:48:37.160 --> 0:48:38.880
<v Speaker 1>I know she was white. Did I realize? I was like, no,

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:41.920
<v Speaker 1>you're still white. But anyway, and it was stuff going on,

0:48:41.960 --> 0:48:43.400
<v Speaker 1>and she was just like, I just feel like I

0:48:43.400 --> 0:48:46.640
<v Speaker 1>don't understand everybody's people. It was just so vague, and

0:48:46.640 --> 0:48:48.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, not during these times. I can't

0:48:48.680 --> 0:48:51.680
<v Speaker 1>be talking to the white girls. You gotta have I

0:48:51.800 --> 0:48:55.839
<v Speaker 1>hate I don't see color narrative coming out like and

0:48:55.920 --> 0:48:59.799
<v Speaker 1>I believe her, but during these times. And this was

0:48:59.800 --> 0:49:01.960
<v Speaker 1>a while ago. It's so sad that even a while ago,

0:49:02.040 --> 0:49:04.920
<v Speaker 1>with something going on currently, I was just like, I

0:49:04.960 --> 0:49:07.359
<v Speaker 1>can't really get with that vibe. It's like, you know,

0:49:07.719 --> 0:49:11.520
<v Speaker 1>it's it's interesting because you've got either you've got you've

0:49:11.560 --> 0:49:14.080
<v Speaker 1>got too kind right, You've got the American white person

0:49:14.160 --> 0:49:16.520
<v Speaker 1>that has been taught and brought up and either has

0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:20.239
<v Speaker 1>to unlearn their bullshit right, and then you've got the

0:49:20.320 --> 0:49:23.160
<v Speaker 1>year old person that genuinely may know nothing but it's

0:49:23.160 --> 0:49:25.800
<v Speaker 1>sucking an it's so annoying, That's what it was. It

0:49:25.880 --> 0:49:28.160
<v Speaker 1>was annoying to me. I was just like, but you know,

0:49:28.160 --> 0:49:29.719
<v Speaker 1>what stuff going to set She's like, I don't know

0:49:29.760 --> 0:49:31.960
<v Speaker 1>why police stop and do that. I don't get I

0:49:32.000 --> 0:49:35.279
<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, so here's here's where I kind

0:49:35.280 --> 0:49:37.839
<v Speaker 1>of want to ask to This is clearly something that's

0:49:37.880 --> 0:49:40.960
<v Speaker 1>been going on for centuries, hundreds of years, the last

0:49:41.000 --> 0:49:43.879
<v Speaker 1>fucking six seven eight decades, dating back to the Civil

0:49:44.000 --> 0:49:48.840
<v Speaker 1>rights movement. You're dating somebody, and maybe these conversations weren't had,

0:49:48.880 --> 0:49:53.400
<v Speaker 1>but clearly, right now tension is like flared. How do

0:49:53.480 --> 0:49:56.719
<v Speaker 1>you keep from being turned off by your partner when

0:49:56.719 --> 0:49:59.200
<v Speaker 1>they say something that you don't agree with or believe?

0:49:59.600 --> 0:50:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Like that possible even I think, especially like situations like

0:50:04.040 --> 0:50:06.160
<v Speaker 1>right now, it talks about your values, and I don't

0:50:06.160 --> 0:50:09.040
<v Speaker 1>think if you don't share the same values, then it

0:50:09.160 --> 0:50:11.400
<v Speaker 1>just becomes an instant turn off. Like you know, some

0:50:11.480 --> 0:50:13.120
<v Speaker 1>things you can kind of look to the side, like

0:50:13.200 --> 0:50:16.160
<v Speaker 1>sometimes people can have different religions and they just put

0:50:16.200 --> 0:50:17.920
<v Speaker 1>that to the side, But when it comes to values

0:50:17.960 --> 0:50:20.920
<v Speaker 1>and being a human, I don't think and if you

0:50:20.960 --> 0:50:23.200
<v Speaker 1>are able to just say, oh, well whatever, you know,

0:50:23.320 --> 0:50:24.960
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't really care about what's going on right now,

0:50:25.160 --> 0:50:29.120
<v Speaker 1>you really look at yourself. So it's really about values.

0:50:29.640 --> 0:50:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you. Um. I got in my first dispute

0:50:33.840 --> 0:50:37.800
<v Speaker 1>with Old Bay about the blackout thing. Um obviously he's black,

0:50:38.480 --> 0:50:43.080
<v Speaker 1>but he was more like, you know, you do so

0:50:43.120 --> 0:50:45.400
<v Speaker 1>many better things. Why why are you joining in this

0:50:45.480 --> 0:50:48.520
<v Speaker 1>blackout ship when it's like, you know, it's all he

0:50:48.600 --> 0:50:50.560
<v Speaker 1>is doing is taking things away from the Internet. I

0:50:50.640 --> 0:50:53.160
<v Speaker 1>get it, you know, if you're you're taking the images

0:50:53.200 --> 0:50:57.040
<v Speaker 1>away silencing black people. Da da da da da da.

0:50:57.080 --> 0:50:59.640
<v Speaker 1>Why join in on something that's just making everybody shut up?

0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:03.319
<v Speaker 1>And you know, to me, and I'm glad at the

0:51:03.400 --> 0:51:05.120
<v Speaker 1>end he ended up posting a blackout thing at the

0:51:05.200 --> 0:51:08.080
<v Speaker 1>end of this conversation. But when I woke up and

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:09.880
<v Speaker 1>he started saying that to me, I was so angry

0:51:09.920 --> 0:51:12.520
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, yo, Like, and you're having a

0:51:12.600 --> 0:51:15.160
<v Speaker 1>very defeatist attitude, right. You got a man in his

0:51:15.200 --> 0:51:17.560
<v Speaker 1>forties who's been through a bunch of ship. Instagram is

0:51:17.600 --> 0:51:19.160
<v Speaker 1>a new thing in his mind. He's like, what the

0:51:19.200 --> 0:51:21.600
<v Speaker 1>fund does posting black squares do for black man and women?

0:51:21.640 --> 0:51:24.640
<v Speaker 1>This is bullshit. However, to me, I think that the

0:51:24.680 --> 0:51:28.520
<v Speaker 1>most important thing about this era is solidarity, and I

0:51:28.520 --> 0:51:31.080
<v Speaker 1>think it's a great thing when you see so much ship,

0:51:31.160 --> 0:51:32.640
<v Speaker 1>and this is a stupid thing to compare it to.

0:51:32.719 --> 0:51:35.759
<v Speaker 1>But do you remember when Firefest everybody posted orange squares? Yes,

0:51:35.960 --> 0:51:38.160
<v Speaker 1>and he made you start looking it up. That's what

0:51:38.239 --> 0:51:39.719
<v Speaker 1>I really loved about what was going on with the

0:51:39.719 --> 0:51:43.040
<v Speaker 1>black Square ship. I get his point about now you're

0:51:43.040 --> 0:51:46.400
<v Speaker 1>silencing people and not seeing the videos on their timeline anymore.

0:51:46.480 --> 0:51:48.359
<v Speaker 1>We were pushed, you know, it was all day long.

0:51:48.440 --> 0:51:53.040
<v Speaker 1>Now it's gone, um, But I find that the conversation

0:51:53.080 --> 0:51:55.239
<v Speaker 1>that we keep having together. You know, he was very

0:51:55.239 --> 0:51:58.200
<v Speaker 1>proud of me for helping fundraise for bail bonds, but

0:51:58.239 --> 0:52:00.000
<v Speaker 1>he got annoyed with me with that, and I really

0:52:00.000 --> 0:52:03.400
<v Speaker 1>allies like, Okay, I have a different view on social

0:52:03.440 --> 0:52:06.840
<v Speaker 1>media than someone older than me does. And here's what's happening.

0:52:07.920 --> 0:52:11.600
<v Speaker 1>He can't seem to comprehend why social media trends and

0:52:11.680 --> 0:52:14.839
<v Speaker 1>protests and petition retweets are important. And I was trying

0:52:14.840 --> 0:52:17.120
<v Speaker 1>to have a conversation with him, like this is actually

0:52:17.120 --> 0:52:21.440
<v Speaker 1>how people get and receive their new information. Right, just

0:52:21.480 --> 0:52:24.080
<v Speaker 1>because you're not that person doesn't mean that it's not real.

0:52:24.440 --> 0:52:25.839
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying like, I mean, it's also

0:52:25.920 --> 0:52:28.600
<v Speaker 1>the reason why podcasting can now be a career, Like

0:52:29.280 --> 0:52:31.600
<v Speaker 1>this is something that's new, but you know, how we

0:52:31.640 --> 0:52:34.440
<v Speaker 1>receive information, and that was the main thing about the

0:52:34.480 --> 0:52:37.640
<v Speaker 1>politics thing. He's like, like I even told him, you know,

0:52:37.640 --> 0:52:39.319
<v Speaker 1>Mandy and I had to show. I think I don't

0:52:39.320 --> 0:52:41.799
<v Speaker 1>remember what city it was, but I'm like, we used

0:52:41.840 --> 0:52:44.160
<v Speaker 1>to promote on the podcast on Monday's. People were here,

0:52:44.200 --> 0:52:46.640
<v Speaker 1>tickets were out, It's sold out before the episode came out.

0:52:46.640 --> 0:52:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Because that's how many people are connected to the Internet.

0:52:49.200 --> 0:52:52.880
<v Speaker 1>And if you can't understand that people are using the

0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:56.080
<v Speaker 1>internet for in for everything they take in, then you're

0:52:56.120 --> 0:52:59.160
<v Speaker 1>just choosing to be blind. And like, I really genuinely

0:52:59.160 --> 0:53:01.560
<v Speaker 1>feel like people don't trust news outlets more than they

0:53:01.600 --> 0:53:04.239
<v Speaker 1>do Twitter. Now, I was gonna say, um, so for

0:53:04.280 --> 0:53:05.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people who have followed me maybe over

0:53:05.960 --> 0:53:08.320
<v Speaker 1>the last decade. I used to have a sports blog

0:53:08.400 --> 0:53:10.320
<v Speaker 1>called full Court Pumps dot com for those of you

0:53:10.360 --> 0:53:12.960
<v Speaker 1>who don't know where the name came from. Um, but

0:53:13.040 --> 0:53:15.840
<v Speaker 1>it was a sports based blog and I literally stopped

0:53:15.840 --> 0:53:17.760
<v Speaker 1>doing it when when I got back into college because

0:53:18.080 --> 0:53:21.480
<v Speaker 1>AdSense Um was how I got paid through Google, and

0:53:21.520 --> 0:53:23.960
<v Speaker 1>that's based on how many clicks come to your website,

0:53:24.000 --> 0:53:27.840
<v Speaker 1>you get paid like fucking micropennies on the on the click,

0:53:27.920 --> 0:53:33.359
<v Speaker 1>but it adds up and um, essentially blogging went down,

0:53:33.800 --> 0:53:39.040
<v Speaker 1>newspapers and tangible like how all of that like, which

0:53:39.080 --> 0:53:41.640
<v Speaker 1>is why you know, Show magazine and King Magazine and

0:53:41.680 --> 0:53:44.480
<v Speaker 1>even the magazines all went to flush because people were

0:53:44.520 --> 0:53:47.440
<v Speaker 1>accessing what they wanted to see through Instagram and Twitter

0:53:47.800 --> 0:53:52.480
<v Speaker 1>at like an instantaneous type of fucking right. And I

0:53:52.480 --> 0:53:54.879
<v Speaker 1>think it definitely changed not only the narrative and how

0:53:54.880 --> 0:53:57.680
<v Speaker 1>we receive information, but journalism. Um, I want to get

0:53:57.680 --> 0:54:00.319
<v Speaker 1>into a d M that was sent to me. I

0:54:00.400 --> 0:54:05.400
<v Speaker 1>asked some of our followers if anything had caused turmoil

0:54:05.440 --> 0:54:09.200
<v Speaker 1>in their relationships with what had happened. Um. Someone said, um,

0:54:09.200 --> 0:54:10.919
<v Speaker 1>and I'm not gonna put their name out, but they said,

0:54:11.200 --> 0:54:13.920
<v Speaker 1>my boyfriend and I are on the same team. But

0:54:14.760 --> 0:54:18.439
<v Speaker 1>with him being a police officer, he finds a way

0:54:18.440 --> 0:54:21.680
<v Speaker 1>to justify the actions that they do or have done.

0:54:22.200 --> 0:54:25.719
<v Speaker 1>It frustrates me to note that the um that the

0:54:25.760 --> 0:54:29.719
<v Speaker 1>system has brainwashed him into thinking that certain situations need

0:54:29.800 --> 0:54:33.680
<v Speaker 1>a story behind it should just be wrong period. Not

0:54:33.760 --> 0:54:36.279
<v Speaker 1>to say that he doesn't want justice, but the same

0:54:36.320 --> 0:54:38.560
<v Speaker 1>way he speaks when I try to have a healthy

0:54:38.560 --> 0:54:42.400
<v Speaker 1>conversation is a turn off for me. It's dismissive and

0:54:42.520 --> 0:54:45.279
<v Speaker 1>closed minded. He hates to admit that the system and

0:54:45.320 --> 0:54:48.360
<v Speaker 1>cops are fucking corrupt, but only when they are fucking

0:54:48.360 --> 0:54:51.120
<v Speaker 1>with him. I get that this is his job, but

0:54:51.200 --> 0:54:54.040
<v Speaker 1>as a black man, first, I think he just doesn't

0:54:54.040 --> 0:55:01.520
<v Speaker 1>see the bigger picture. But but but really, what you do

0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:03.759
<v Speaker 1>so that that was gonna be my next question. You

0:55:03.800 --> 0:55:06.640
<v Speaker 1>don't think that you can help somebody unlearn those ways?

0:55:06.760 --> 0:55:09.279
<v Speaker 1>This mon Nayga posted a blackout thing after waking up

0:55:09.280 --> 0:55:14.880
<v Speaker 1>and telling me, yeah, that's way different. Because at the

0:55:15.000 --> 0:55:16.680
<v Speaker 1>end of the day, if you can watch a cop

0:55:17.280 --> 0:55:20.120
<v Speaker 1>in any of these instances kill somebody and then go, well,

0:55:20.440 --> 0:55:22.439
<v Speaker 1>you gotta think about this and this and that, you're

0:55:22.560 --> 0:55:25.400
<v Speaker 1>part of the problem because this is not necessarily just

0:55:25.480 --> 0:55:29.239
<v Speaker 1>a race thing. It is because systematically it's racism. But

0:55:29.440 --> 0:55:31.399
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter who's the person on the other side.

0:55:31.440 --> 0:55:33.359
<v Speaker 1>It's just because he's a black man, he's a part

0:55:33.400 --> 0:55:35.759
<v Speaker 1>of that racist system and he's brainwashed by it. So

0:55:35.800 --> 0:55:37.680
<v Speaker 1>as a human, if you can't see that a cop

0:55:37.920 --> 0:55:40.319
<v Speaker 1>put his knee on somebody's neck, or a cop shot

0:55:40.360 --> 0:55:42.640
<v Speaker 1>somebody when he wasn't supposed to. If you can't see

0:55:42.680 --> 0:55:45.480
<v Speaker 1>that as wrong as a human, then we got to disconnect.

0:55:45.680 --> 0:55:49.120
<v Speaker 1>That's a fair point. Your values are all over the place, bro.

0:55:49.600 --> 0:55:51.880
<v Speaker 1>I think the problem with black cops right now is

0:55:51.880 --> 0:55:55.080
<v Speaker 1>they're one of two things are happening. They are feeling

0:55:55.120 --> 0:55:57.960
<v Speaker 1>guilty for something they haven't done and feeling like they're hated.

0:55:58.000 --> 0:56:00.560
<v Speaker 1>So they're feeling forced to defend ship because they know

0:56:00.600 --> 0:56:02.680
<v Speaker 1>that they're wearing this uniform and this is how they

0:56:02.680 --> 0:56:04.200
<v Speaker 1>are in a living So what am I supposed to do?

0:56:04.520 --> 0:56:10.719
<v Speaker 1>Turn away from it now? And or I don't know,

0:56:10.760 --> 0:56:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I've met cops that have that are that were

0:56:13.160 --> 0:56:15.520
<v Speaker 1>the community police, you know what I'm saying, Like I've

0:56:15.600 --> 0:56:17.480
<v Speaker 1>met cops that like you know, I lived in the

0:56:17.480 --> 0:56:19.560
<v Speaker 1>Lower east Side for a minute and it's where I

0:56:19.560 --> 0:56:21.080
<v Speaker 1>spent most of my time here in New York. And

0:56:21.080 --> 0:56:23.200
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of Latino cops in that neighborhood that

0:56:23.200 --> 0:56:25.120
<v Speaker 1>are from the Lower east Side and talk about that's

0:56:25.160 --> 0:56:29.080
<v Speaker 1>why they're there, and I appreciate that, But there isn't

0:56:29.120 --> 0:56:31.000
<v Speaker 1>a lot of community police. There isn't a lot of

0:56:31.000 --> 0:56:34.799
<v Speaker 1>community police led programs, and I think there's a lot

0:56:34.840 --> 0:56:37.120
<v Speaker 1>of great cops actually, But the thing is, when this

0:56:37.160 --> 0:56:39.239
<v Speaker 1>stuff goes down, I would love to see those cops

0:56:39.280 --> 0:56:41.840
<v Speaker 1>speak up and say what's wrong. That's the problem. So

0:56:41.880 --> 0:56:43.759
<v Speaker 1>if you're not saying what's wrong, I don't care if

0:56:43.760 --> 0:56:46.239
<v Speaker 1>you're a good cop, because you're not stepping out for

0:56:46.320 --> 0:56:47.840
<v Speaker 1>us to know that there are some good cops that

0:56:47.880 --> 0:56:50.120
<v Speaker 1>know that that's wrong. What they do is they band

0:56:50.200 --> 0:56:52.080
<v Speaker 1>together and even when they see something wrong, they just

0:56:52.080 --> 0:56:54.399
<v Speaker 1>stay quiet. So you're a part of the problem here

0:56:54.400 --> 0:56:58.799
<v Speaker 1>at this point. Either you're on this side or this side. Right, yeah, right,

0:56:58.960 --> 0:57:01.480
<v Speaker 1>So here's my too before we get into the homel

0:57:01.560 --> 0:57:05.160
<v Speaker 1>and wrap up. Um, do you believe that it's that

0:57:05.320 --> 0:57:08.640
<v Speaker 1>it's possible to have a healthy relationship when you disagree

0:57:09.000 --> 0:57:12.520
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of them, I mean on these matters,

0:57:12.560 --> 0:57:15.480
<v Speaker 1>on who you vote for, on religion, or on social matters.

0:57:15.840 --> 0:57:18.320
<v Speaker 1>Is there a way to agree to disagree on these

0:57:18.320 --> 0:57:21.120
<v Speaker 1>things and have a healthy relationship. I don't think so either.

0:57:21.240 --> 0:57:23.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. And like I said, it comes

0:57:23.240 --> 0:57:24.800
<v Speaker 1>down to values. And if you think like that, it

0:57:24.880 --> 0:57:26.720
<v Speaker 1>means your family thinks like that. That means when I

0:57:26.720 --> 0:57:29.280
<v Speaker 1>go over for the cookout or the family reunion. Now,

0:57:29.280 --> 0:57:31.040
<v Speaker 1>they're saying a whole bunch of flieship that I don't

0:57:31.040 --> 0:57:33.720
<v Speaker 1>agree with. And it's just more than just the interaction

0:57:33.760 --> 0:57:36.280
<v Speaker 1>with us. Is now, now your friends might have those

0:57:36.320 --> 0:57:38.479
<v Speaker 1>same values and now or maybe you have one friend

0:57:38.560 --> 0:57:40.640
<v Speaker 1>that don't agree with you, and I agree with that friend.

0:57:40.640 --> 0:57:42.680
<v Speaker 1>Now you think we're gaining up against you. You know

0:57:42.720 --> 0:57:45.480
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. It just creates a really weird dynamics.

0:57:45.560 --> 0:57:49.320
<v Speaker 1>So it's too much of a lingering problem politics and

0:57:49.360 --> 0:57:51.800
<v Speaker 1>where we stand on this. I mean, this is why

0:57:52.520 --> 0:57:55.720
<v Speaker 1>your political party is in dating apps, right, because I'd

0:57:55.720 --> 0:57:57.760
<v Speaker 1>be dead asked with you like I would swipe left

0:57:58.320 --> 0:58:01.280
<v Speaker 1>and and it isn't I feel like Trump ruined a

0:58:01.320 --> 0:58:03.560
<v Speaker 1>lot of this because I wasn't that scared of Republicans,

0:58:03.600 --> 0:58:05.760
<v Speaker 1>Like I think the best thing we've ever had was

0:58:05.800 --> 0:58:09.200
<v Speaker 1>the Mitt Romney Obama ticket. Mitt was a Republican even

0:58:09.280 --> 0:58:12.120
<v Speaker 1>asked somebody went that bad? You know what I'm saying, Like,

0:58:12.720 --> 0:58:15.840
<v Speaker 1>it's like when you have to genuinely question someone's ethics

0:58:15.840 --> 0:58:17.760
<v Speaker 1>about the color of your own skin and you're fadful

0:58:17.800 --> 0:58:22.040
<v Speaker 1>of that and you're watching someone demonized children, Mexican kids, Muslims.

0:58:22.080 --> 0:58:24.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean everything over and over, um and I don't

0:58:24.840 --> 0:58:27.120
<v Speaker 1>and then selling people to motherfuckering drink bleach. We ain't

0:58:27.120 --> 0:58:30.600
<v Speaker 1>even gonna talk about how he's handled this whole COVID bullshit, right,

0:58:30.800 --> 0:58:33.680
<v Speaker 1>It's be it's very hard to now be on that

0:58:33.720 --> 0:58:35.920
<v Speaker 1>side and not see a Republican as that person, and

0:58:35.920 --> 0:58:39.360
<v Speaker 1>it's it's a hard place to fucking be not to

0:58:39.440 --> 0:58:43.800
<v Speaker 1>mention with religion. You know, I'm agnostic with for those

0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:45.560
<v Speaker 1>of you who don't mean you know what it means, atheists,

0:58:45.560 --> 0:58:47.800
<v Speaker 1>someone who don't believe in God. Agnostic is just like

0:58:47.880 --> 0:58:52.480
<v Speaker 1>higher power, spiritual being. Um, I'm not gonna front. I

0:58:52.480 --> 0:58:54.560
<v Speaker 1>had to do that left me for Jesus. We some

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<v Speaker 1>of you remember early on the loves of my life

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<v Speaker 1>and I never forget walking out saying is he's just

0:59:00.280 --> 0:59:03.720
<v Speaker 1>gonna suck your dick to cool Like we were dead

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<v Speaker 1>ass breaking up because he was like I'm he was

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<v Speaker 1>feeling guilty and wanted you to go to Bible study, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>to step through the church. How I've been fucking bitches

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<v Speaker 1>with you. I like parties, we'd ecstasy, we were doing

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<v Speaker 1>together at the time, and you thought for a second

0:59:25.760 --> 0:59:28.840
<v Speaker 1>then suddenly you would just wake up and be like no,

0:59:28.840 --> 0:59:31.040
<v Speaker 1>now it's Jesus. Oh no, dude, we're going to rave.

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<v Speaker 1>That was my energy back there, like and why does

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<v Speaker 1>God have to stop you? Do you know how many

0:59:36.240 --> 0:59:40.240
<v Speaker 1>horns I've sucked a loved church come ons? We know

0:59:40.720 --> 0:59:42.560
<v Speaker 1>we know how to pass and get down with to

0:59:42.600 --> 0:59:47.320
<v Speaker 1>get down. Uh. Anyways, guys, UM, if you have any stories,

0:59:47.480 --> 0:59:49.720
<v Speaker 1>I do want to share those as well as the

0:59:49.760 --> 0:59:53.960
<v Speaker 1>coming weeks come. So, if you have any stories regarding UM,

0:59:54.000 --> 0:59:57.720
<v Speaker 1>maybe a change in your relationship due to differences in

0:59:57.760 --> 1:00:01.520
<v Speaker 1>opinion regarding the upcoming elect or what's been going on

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<v Speaker 1>with the rights and everything, please shoot us over an email.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell your story. We have something called hole Confessions, but

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<v Speaker 1>this will fall right in there. Email us at Horrible

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<v Speaker 1>Decisions at gmail dot com. This last homail that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna read really quickly. We're gonna give UM some advice

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<v Speaker 1>before getting up out of here. It's as Hi, Mandy

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<v Speaker 1>and Wheezy. First of all, I love this podcast. I

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<v Speaker 1>just got into listening to the podcast and this is

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<v Speaker 1>the best start I have got I could have gotten.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say I am African from Rwanda,

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<v Speaker 1>not to be confused with Wakanda. UM and sex is

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<v Speaker 1>literally a taboo to even mention in most African homes.

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<v Speaker 1>So you best believe I make sure I put on

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<v Speaker 1>my headphones when listening to y'all. L O. I've made

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<v Speaker 1>sure I make all of my friends start listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, because why the funk not y'all are really ship?

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<v Speaker 1>So I have a question. I am twenty two and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a virgin. I have never done anything sexual with

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<v Speaker 1>men or been in any relationship. At first, it was

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<v Speaker 1>because I just didn't think about it because I was

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<v Speaker 1>mostly preoccupied with school. Now I'm in college in the US,

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<v Speaker 1>and long story short, I want to start exploring my

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<v Speaker 1>sexuality with both myself and relationship wise. It feels like

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<v Speaker 1>most of my friends are already ahead of me and

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where to even start. I have tried dating apps,

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<v Speaker 1>but to be honest, most of them niggas just want

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<v Speaker 1>to hook up, and that is not what I am

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<v Speaker 1>looking for. I genuinely look I genuinely want an emotional

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<v Speaker 1>and sexual connection with someone. Come on, wheezy, what can

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<v Speaker 1>you advise me on entering the dating world or even

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<v Speaker 1>pleasuring myself? Sometimes I think I have set the bar

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<v Speaker 1>so high when I see my friends hooking up, but

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<v Speaker 1>hookups in one night stands just don't interest me at all. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>I am scared of when I do get into a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>being that I'm a virgin and twenty two, not knowing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Here's the question. Please tell me how I

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<v Speaker 1>can get to explore my sexuality deeper while not compromising

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<v Speaker 1>what I want in a relationship to her? Give it

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<v Speaker 1>to her, ladies, So why I'll go ask you too,

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<v Speaker 1>But go ahead, we we're gonna start with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>can give it to her first. As a woman, you

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<v Speaker 1>should give it to a person. Point of view, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say I'm going to be soft, but with

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<v Speaker 1>the voice change okay, because you want an emotional and

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<v Speaker 1>connection in a sexual relationship. But I think what's going

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<v Speaker 1>to hinder you from that is thinking that it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be something deeper. You're allowed to have an emotional

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<v Speaker 1>connection with someone that may not be your boyfriend, and

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<v Speaker 1>you won't regret giving your virginity to that person because

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<v Speaker 1>you'll have a connection with them. I think that you

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<v Speaker 1>cannot seek after a man to take your virginity and

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<v Speaker 1>have this perfect idea of what he will look like.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've met a guy and you've been hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>with him for three days and you feel like you've

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<v Speaker 1>got a mutual respect and you're interested in enemies turning

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<v Speaker 1>you on. Let that be the person that's still a

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<v Speaker 1>connection either way. We have a very weird idea of

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<v Speaker 1>what emotional connections look like from how other people are

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<v Speaker 1>displaying their relationships. We could talk about myself. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>talking about Old Bay on this podcast for a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>and it sounds like I have something deep with him, right.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't necessarily mean that we have to mimic those

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<v Speaker 1>relationships that other people are talking about. Everybody's connection to

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<v Speaker 1>someone is a different one. I've had very deep connections

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<v Speaker 1>with people I've known for a few hours. To be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with y'all, like I'm like, Wow, I'm really feeling

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<v Speaker 1>this person. It's like when you're out and you make

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<v Speaker 1>that bathroom friend. Is it someone you'll remember for a

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<v Speaker 1>while or someone you want to keep seeing. It's like vibes, baby, vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>It is And do not put the pressure on yourself

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure this person will stay around. I enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>this person for that moment. I understand you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to one night stand, and I'm not telling you just

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<v Speaker 1>suck somebody because it's going cool. I'm telling you to

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<v Speaker 1>suck them because you feel like that person is matching

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<v Speaker 1>with you on another level that one night stand would it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just don't have expectations beyond that. Get some experience and

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<v Speaker 1>if you need to be in love, fine, but you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mention that, So I'm just saying, don't confuse the two.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't confuse an emotional connection for a progressing relationship more

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<v Speaker 1>than you have um a mutual respect like damage. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you could speak to this now, but

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<v Speaker 1>how dating women like can you acknowledge that that you've

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<v Speaker 1>really cared for them? Maybe didn't see it going anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>But and this is the problem she's going to run into. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a virgin. Clearly, she doesn't have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>dating history, so she's looking for Mr. Perfect. That's already

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<v Speaker 1>strike one to whoever she has sex with. First, she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna fall deeply in fake love with. She's not really

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<v Speaker 1>gonna love the person. It's just so much, you know, passion.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the first guy she's really been with, and

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<v Speaker 1>what she needs to do is first workout her relationship kinks,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's not going to realize that most likely she's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be the problem. Just gonna be honest. When

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<v Speaker 1>you've never dealt with somebody before in a serious relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and you first just start having sex, you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>super clingy, You're gonna be acting super weird, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>not even gonna notice that until you're in your fourth boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I used to act so crazy back then. Why

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<v Speaker 1>was acting like that? You know, I almost I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>argue with about this, but you're right, Yeah, I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's gonna be dealing with a dude and no

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<v Speaker 1>matter how normal he is, she's like, he's acting weird.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't call me every five minutes, he doesn't do this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because this is your first boyfriend for real, like

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<v Speaker 1>you never really had a boyfriend. I suggest for her

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<v Speaker 1>to find somebody she vibes with that mutual respect, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, get that out the way, get your virginity

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<v Speaker 1>out the way, unless you're waiting to get married. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>not get your virginity out the way, get out the way.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna hinder her with that person that she feels Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>still a good person, not just anybody, but still somebody

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<v Speaker 1>has mutual respect. Because what's what's going to happen. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, she's gonna be acting weird with this

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<v Speaker 1>dude and he's not gonna be with her. So now

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<v Speaker 1>after she had her first boyfriend and had her first

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<v Speaker 1>sexual experience, he's probably going to break up with her

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<v Speaker 1>or do something weird and she's gonna be crushed for

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<v Speaker 1>like a year. So I'm trying to I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>prevent her from that for the never given. But be

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<v Speaker 1>ready for heartbreak. I think that you need to prepare

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<v Speaker 1>yourself for that too, because it just comes with the

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn Let me tell you something. You don't even have

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<v Speaker 1>some fun. Just have some fun, like, don't try to

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<v Speaker 1>go into your first one so serious, and you will

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<v Speaker 1>find that right person because you want to work out

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<v Speaker 1>your own kinks first. Yea, when when you said be

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<v Speaker 1>ready for heartbreak? This entire podcast over the last three

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<v Speaker 1>and a half years has never gone a week without

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<v Speaker 1>talking about a dick. Dick is the reason for tears.

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<v Speaker 1>Dick is the reason me and many have argued, and

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<v Speaker 1>we don't have a mutual dick, just dick drive you crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>don't even not getting dick, getting dick, but then just

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<v Speaker 1>not fitting in the time We're going to the student.

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<v Speaker 1>My nigga Dick is the root of all evil. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to be a part of this, und you and

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<v Speaker 1>understand that you are now really a part of the

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<v Speaker 1>whore high because when you come to them live shows

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<v Speaker 1>and we start our niggas, ain't ship chip niggas, ain't

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<v Speaker 1>sh niggas for the men wanting to come to the

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<v Speaker 1>Horrible Decision live show. We do not chant the niggasation.

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<v Speaker 1>Although I did get told the other day that I

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<v Speaker 1>have a niggasation ship attitude towards life, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I like that towards life. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not bad. I love all my niggas. I ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>lie and everyone that's been inside of me. Um. But anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>we are going to wrap this up. Damage. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to thank you for joining us. Can you go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and let audience know where they can find you and

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<v Speaker 1>where they can listen to you. Also what your podcast

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<v Speaker 1>is about real quick? Oh of course? Okay, So of course,

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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood and lock On one third of Hollywood and lockshout

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<v Speaker 1>on all the DSPs, look up Hollywood a lot and sensored.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about gossip, politics, and sex talk just like

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<v Speaker 1>y'all in a differently I hope, so with Melissa like

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, sex icon and y'all can

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<v Speaker 1>Are you single? You know what? You know? What? Put

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<v Speaker 1>a button on that? I don't know? You don't know?

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<v Speaker 1>Something good as brewing? Well, let me tell y'all something

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<v Speaker 1>sliding while you can. Yeah, y'all better hurry up because

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<v Speaker 1>it's something good's brewing over here. I like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Well, guys, I want to thank you guys

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<v Speaker 1>um for tuning into another episode weezy, Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>anything to get off before I dropped our patree? Yahn

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<v Speaker 1>not check out for fact Sake podcast. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>dumb shit on there. Last week was weird laws and

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<v Speaker 1>their face? Me? Neither? Hell nothing like that. Oh my god. Anyways, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>course we talked about hot ship even more in depth,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, if you'all are interested in what's been going

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<v Speaker 1>on with my abstinent life, I talked about the good

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<v Speaker 1>ass absent and dick I've been getting so UM, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys can go listen to that on Patreon against Patreon

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<v Speaker 1>you off with a motherfucking five minute clip from one

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<v Speaker 1>join us on Patreon. This has been yet another episode. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>Decisions by women listening are like, you know, what marriage

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<v Speaker 1>really isn't for me? I guess I get them into

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a a a deep hole of thinking than

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<v Speaker 1>what is the purpose of dating? What is the end

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<v Speaker 1>goal of dating? Um? And you and I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>had this conversation because essentially, a lot of us date

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<v Speaker 1>to marry, a lot of us dates to find our

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<v Speaker 1>you know, love, love of our life. We date to

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<v Speaker 1>to find that one person that we see ourselves with

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<v Speaker 1>for the rest of our lives. And that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>how we're conditioned. That's how we're born, that's how the

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<v Speaker 1>fairy tales go, that's how all the Disney movies end.

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<v Speaker 1>And and so as an adult though, as I get

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<v Speaker 1>older and I see that I'm happy like with my

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<v Speaker 1>partners and and what I get from them, and how

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I don't have to answer to anybody, and

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<v Speaker 1>how I'm able to have purely open communication, and also

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<v Speaker 1>just not seeing a marriage that I envy. Girl, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that hard. That's that's serious though, Like I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>a married couple when I'm like, damn, I want that.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I had exactly that. Like even do I

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<v Speaker 1>want what will Smith and Jada have? No, ma'am, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want that. I mean ship. We all sit

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<v Speaker 1>here and say, relationship goes to all these celebrities, and

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<v Speaker 1>then by the following week we see that one has

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on the other, there was domestic abuse or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and so even our ideas what I don't even want,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even envy Barack and Michelle because Michelle had

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<v Speaker 1>to put up with a lot. I'm not talking about

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<v Speaker 1>like Barrock cheating or anything. It's just their type of

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<v Speaker 1>partnership is a lot on her a lot. It's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>It's demanding, it's demanding. But I think that I think

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't realize not only does society add so

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<v Speaker 1>much pressure to us, but men do and other women.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to read. I want to read this tweet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's from Sierra w Um. I literally asked what the

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<v Speaker 1>end goal was if you don't want to get married,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said L O L. Society telling women their

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<v Speaker 1>only value because people see them as wife or mother

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<v Speaker 1>material is dismal. In my opinion. If you can only

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<v Speaker 1>see your worth through men, then please continue the cycle

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<v Speaker 1>like our mothers did. Um and I write, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think that that is telling because yeah, like I think

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of us view ourselves and the worth of

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves by the acceptance of men, or how men view

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<v Speaker 1>our worthiness without viewing ourselves as worthy, and we do

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<v Speaker 1>it to each other. We see here and be like, well, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't got a ring, So until you get a ring, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>don't nobody wants you. And I think it's trash. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking for the response from Raquel Savage. Raquel Savage has

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<v Speaker 1>such a fucking way with words, um, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to read it before we kind of get into our own.

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<v Speaker 1>So so again, the question is what is the end

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<v Speaker 1>goal if you don't want to get married? Um. Former

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<v Speaker 1>guests for cal Savage said, to get my needs met,

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<v Speaker 1>To experience love and kindness, gentleness and stillness, vulnerability and introspection,

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<v Speaker 1>joy community, to feel seen and held, to practice reciprocal reciprocity,

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<v Speaker 1>reciprocity my baby, you know, I gotta reciprocity, bitch, fuck you,

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<v Speaker 1>and feeling safe in my body with others. To learn

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<v Speaker 1>something about myself and my perception of the world. And

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<v Speaker 1>I like that because I don't think people realize you

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<v Speaker 1>can truly enjoy a long partnership with someone without not

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<v Speaker 1>only marriage, but without a title. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>we've we've talked about titles a lot on this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of people feel like things go downhill

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<v Speaker 1>when you start pressuring a title. UM. I do think

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<v Speaker 1>that that just has a lot to do with monogamy,

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<v Speaker 1>because maybe at that time that person does not want

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<v Speaker 1>to be exclusive, and so the pressure is a feeling like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I now have to answer to one person. I now

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<v Speaker 1>am getting into an exclusive agreement where you know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to lie. I think that that's where

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of pressure comes with with titles, um. But

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<v Speaker 1>also what is marriage be? What? What is marriage? What

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<v Speaker 1>is marriage but sides documents and being able to file

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<v Speaker 1>joint returns? What what is marriage? Or what do you

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<v Speaker 1>what do you believe we have viewed marriage as over

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<v Speaker 1>the years to make it seem so worthy and make

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<v Speaker 1>it the end goal of of partnership. That's a tough question.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like everyone has a different version of

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<v Speaker 1>what marriage is. There are some people who want to

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<v Speaker 1>be taken care of and you know, have children and

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<v Speaker 1>have the husband to work and they bring it home

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<v Speaker 1>to the wife, and or some people just want literally

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<v Speaker 1>a partner, you know, for you know, health insurance or

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<v Speaker 1>like there's so many reasons people get married. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have that answer, and I think, I mean, maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I don't know if that's something that I want,

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<v Speaker 1>because I haven't I have I don't have a definition

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<v Speaker 1>for you