Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions.
Speaker 1: We made it the two Girl, Mandy b a k
Speaker 1: A PEG The Stallion a ka Mandy Baskins a k
Speaker 1: A that bitch a K A. Goddamn, we're here again.
Speaker 1: My name is Wheezy for some of you on Patreon
Speaker 1: that now know my real name because I shared it,
Speaker 1: Weezy the G. I kind of like that till my
Speaker 1: friend close friends call me G. But I don't know
Speaker 1: if I'm ever going to be good with a K
Speaker 1: because I changed too much, took me off, took me pegg.
Speaker 1: The Stallion is what it's gonna be, okay, although although
Speaker 1: and I'm not really gonna bring them up on the pot.
Speaker 1: But whoever I'm talking to right now is not into pegging,
Speaker 1: and I am very okay with it. Um. Anyways, guys,
Speaker 1: you guys hear another boy just got the prayer hands
Speaker 1: from damn um. For those of you who here, we do.
Speaker 1: We are joined with some tesaserone on this episode. We
Speaker 1: have DJ Damage, who is a host in one third
Speaker 1: of Hollywood Unlocked alongside Jason Lee and Melissa Ford, and
Speaker 1: he's done just a whole bunch of revolt if you
Speaker 1: guys are interested in being a media personality. He also
Speaker 1: holds webinars and classes and courses on how you guys
Speaker 1: can kind of be like us. So go ahead and say, Hi, damage, Hey,
Speaker 1: what's up y'all? Look, I really appreciate being on the
Speaker 1: podcast to um let's get into it legendary media group. Well,
Speaker 1: can I ask you? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I've been
Speaker 1: djur swell. What's like your go to song that you
Speaker 1: have to like put all right now? Yeah? When people
Speaker 1: need to get hypers fuck. I mean it's so many
Speaker 1: in the West Coast. You can always do um still
Speaker 1: dre overall. You already know what it is. The anthem
Speaker 1: is back that asst It's never a time. Did you
Speaker 1: give up Kanye? That? That's an easy question. Did I
Speaker 1: give up Kanye when you, like we all started working
Speaker 1: with Niga, But did you give him up as a DJ? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I kind of gave up. Good shout out of you.
Speaker 1: One of my closest home girls and this bitch played
Speaker 1: Kanye the other day on her I G Live and
Speaker 1: I was excuse me. I thought we had a consensual
Speaker 1: I like the go I like the gospel of music too,
Speaker 1: But now I had to give up Kanye. I was
Speaker 1: about to say, how do you really play him now?
Speaker 1: Like his stuff doesn't really hit, doesn't want his music is,
Speaker 1: but we just don't funk with that niggas sus So
Speaker 1: I'm curious. But I thought that we funk with him
Speaker 1: again because he donated to like the George Floyd Fund,
Speaker 1: he got to donate a little bit more. Don what
Speaker 1: two millions? Yeah, put put a few more zeros on there,
Speaker 1: and I got you or something? You know is why
Speaker 1: do they never happy? I don't know. I will say this.
Speaker 1: I don't like that people were like talking shit about
Speaker 1: Kanye that day. I just choose not to acknowledge him.
Speaker 1: I think what Kanye did is detrimental to people view
Speaker 1: black people. And that's why I can't funk with Kanye.
Speaker 1: Like I am the person that I sold the purse
Speaker 1: to go see Kanye when I was twenty, Like that's
Speaker 1: how much I stand Kanye. So that was a good concert,
Speaker 1: wasn't it? It It was worth it? Bro See? Look at
Speaker 1: first of all, I'm a Beyonce stand and I can
Speaker 1: actually genuinely say his concerts have been better than anything
Speaker 1: I've ever seen to Beyonce, and I only say that
Speaker 1: because Beyonce is such a performer that when you watch Beyonce,
Speaker 1: it's so much going on. You're watching dancing, you're watching lights,
Speaker 1: you're watching a bunch of ship. Kanye doesn't need anything,
Speaker 1: and you're like shaking up. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's weird. Okay, dope, it's so weird because, like I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess, did y'all see the conspiracy
Speaker 1: theory going around that he did the whole Maga thing
Speaker 1: on purpose? So did y'all see the conspiracy? But no, No,
Speaker 1: he did it to do what breaking down. He did
Speaker 1: to help people get out of jail, to help free
Speaker 1: black people out of jail. And now he's using his
Speaker 1: platform like he pretty much did it to get a
Speaker 1: black voice in a place where he knew there wouldn't
Speaker 1: be black. That's not true. Stop saying it's a fact.
Speaker 1: He's like, damn, how do I back up to this one?
Speaker 1: So now he try to doctor Omar Hotep his way
Speaker 1: back into our lives and be like what I did
Speaker 1: was act like I was for the white man, when
Speaker 1: really he I was for y'all the whole time. But
Speaker 1: Emira theory, I like this conspiracy. I'm going with that.
Speaker 1: Kanye is back again. I like that because they ain't
Speaker 1: even gonna hold y'all. Some of the most comfortable sneakers
Speaker 1: I have a wall, but I'm still I'm too because
Speaker 1: they comfortable. I just but I wear when I gotta
Speaker 1: do something, I'm wearing them sneakers. But he technically is
Speaker 1: it money that I gave him? If I ain't never
Speaker 1: but I never got the registration from Adidas? Yes, getting
Speaker 1: the resale ship. Yes, it is the black man. You
Speaker 1: supported the black man, the resell black man. Okay, shut up, man,
Speaker 1: let's cabout something else. I'm done with this. Yeah, don't well,
Speaker 1: We're gonna catch up something guys that I want to
Speaker 1: make sure um again. Um. Last week we kind of
Speaker 1: or actually two weeks ago, we did a compilation. This
Speaker 1: has been kind of hard to kind of just get
Speaker 1: back in the rhythm of things. As you guys know,
Speaker 1: we love talking sucking deak um. But it's kind of okay. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, I say, do you not like stand now? Now?
Speaker 1: You see how you flip that around. It's gotta be clear, y'all.
Speaker 1: Gonna work with Jason Lee, right, I gotta make sure
Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. Okay, you're right, You're right,
Speaker 1: You're right. Um, guys, I want to give kind of
Speaker 1: attention to petitions. If if some of you, um, felt
Speaker 1: like you didn't do enough over the last couple of
Speaker 1: weeks because maybe you didn't want to protest, maybe you
Speaker 1: don't have the money to donate to any of the
Speaker 1: organizations that are making a difference. I want to let
Speaker 1: you guys know that you guys can go do change
Speaker 1: dot org. UM. I am actually gonna put this link
Speaker 1: in the description of this episode. This this specific petition
Speaker 1: is for Levenna Johnson. UM. She's she's nineteen years old.
Speaker 1: She was found dead in her tent in Iraq back
Speaker 1: in two thousand five. She had a broken nose, black ey'm,
Speaker 1: loose teeth, and burns from a corrosive chemical on her
Speaker 1: genitals to cover evidence of rape, and a gunshot wound,
Speaker 1: and the United States government ruled her death a suicide. So, guys,
Speaker 1: the petition right now is to find justice for Levenna
Speaker 1: Johnson and hopefully reopen her case. UM. And so again,
Speaker 1: that link will be in the description of this episode.
Speaker 1: So again, if you guys can't donate and you guys
Speaker 1: haven't been able to march. This is a way for
Speaker 1: you guys to make change, and so please go ahead
Speaker 1: and sign the petition. They are seeking about fifty thousand
Speaker 1: signatures and as of right now it's about at thirty
Speaker 1: nine thousand, So go ahead and make a difference, just
Speaker 1: to let you guys know how petitions work. A lot
Speaker 1: of people like don't sign them or don't really understand them.
Speaker 1: But when you get to a hundred thousand assisted petition, um,
Speaker 1: I believe it's like something called we the People is
Speaker 1: like what petitions really mean to the White House. And
Speaker 1: when you get a hundred thousand signatures within a month,
Speaker 1: they review it, they make sure it gets in front
Speaker 1: of appropriate policy experts, and then they issue an official
Speaker 1: response to you. Petitions don't necessarily mean they will reopen something,
Speaker 1: but it is very good for, you know, regenerating awareness
Speaker 1: to something that might have been dead and gone. Um,
Speaker 1: much like writing I am you know you might. I
Speaker 1: might have brought it up on the last episode, but
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm at this point now where I'm like
Speaker 1: tired of the conversation where people don't understand and there
Speaker 1: are just so many white people in our history that
Speaker 1: I've gotten things they've wanted from writing, and I implore
Speaker 1: you to learn about how people sees and take over things.
Speaker 1: And the only thing we want to take over is
Speaker 1: our lives, which show the funk is I've had attitude.
Speaker 1: I've lost friends this week, um, including blacks that are
Speaker 1: like showing off with their peaceful protests. That annoys the
Speaker 1: ship out of me. Stop capitalizing the peaceful this week.
Speaker 1: No one gives a fuck bitch like what, I'm too
Speaker 1: pussy to bang some ship up. That's just the truth.
Speaker 1: I'm too pussy to break a window down, but I
Speaker 1: understand why it needs to be done and why it
Speaker 1: is being done. So it's like stopped showing off that
Speaker 1: you did nothing other than protest, which mind you looters
Speaker 1: of the minority, looters of the minority. I mean, so,
Speaker 1: I guess we as you guys know, we always agree
Speaker 1: to disagree. UM. I've attended some peaceful protests, and I'll
Speaker 1: be honest with you. UM. As far as seeing protests
Speaker 1: last this long, I've of course never seen it in
Speaker 1: my lifetime. There's been protests from the Trayvon Martin case,
Speaker 1: Eric Gardner. They were outside every day for the well
Speaker 1: specifically here in New York. UM, I've seen you know,
Speaker 1: Union Square maybe one or two days, and I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie protest. That thing scared me. I was scared, UM.
Speaker 1: And so I mean going out and being a part
Speaker 1: of peaceful protests I think has not only changed my mind,
Speaker 1: but it's almost kind of chilling to be out with
Speaker 1: people were literally they're just there to be heard, hold
Speaker 1: their signs and let you know everyone around knows that
Speaker 1: they're in solidarity. UM. It's simple, but it makes you
Speaker 1: feel really good. I mean, I've appreciated it. So I mean, no,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Before before this, I was actually
Speaker 1: shitless scared to to be a part of the protest,
Speaker 1: specifically in New York. UM. They they administered a curfew here,
Speaker 1: they were shutting down trains. And ironically, so the very
Speaker 1: first protest I went to UM and I actually want
Speaker 1: to shout out if I can, the UM the group
Speaker 1: in which I protested with UM, it is Justice Center
Speaker 1: and Albadio. UM. Of course I'm here in the Bronx
Speaker 1: UM and so it was a movement UM based by
Speaker 1: that Justice League. But the very next day UM, the
Speaker 1: Bronx protests that happened. They zip tied and arrested everybody. Um,
Speaker 1: So it was very just. It was almost chilling because
Speaker 1: I went to the bronx Um one that was right
Speaker 1: by my house. This one was also right by my
Speaker 1: house that I would have went to had I not
Speaker 1: had other plans for that day, and so to know
Speaker 1: I could have been a part of a peaceful protest
Speaker 1: that could have led to my arrest. It's still just
Speaker 1: kind of protesting risk at all times because people that
Speaker 1: I mean, I may have told this on this show before,
Speaker 1: but when I protested at Trayvon Martin at the time
Speaker 1: I lived in Orlando, UM, I got put in handcuffs
Speaker 1: for jaywalking and everybody was like, happens, because they can't
Speaker 1: arrest you for protesting. A crossed the street. He already
Speaker 1: told me to move and I was like sucking or whatever,
Speaker 1: and ship like that happened. But you know, specifically about
Speaker 1: the peaceful thing, the reason I'm having a lot of
Speaker 1: feelings about it is because a lot of celebrities that
Speaker 1: donate it to the Minnesota Freedom Fund or being put
Speaker 1: under scrutiny because they're using some of that bail money
Speaker 1: to let out people that set our center, cars and
Speaker 1: things like that, and people are mad, but understanding what
Speaker 1: are they mad about? They're like, oh, well, how could
Speaker 1: you donate to people setting ship on fire? Right? And
Speaker 1: I mean that's the point of view. That's all I
Speaker 1: have to say. And I think we really got to
Speaker 1: start putting the larger thing at hand. And that's really
Speaker 1: why I said I lost friends this week, Like you know,
Speaker 1: I want my black friends to understand why people are
Speaker 1: angry and know that this is just a representation of
Speaker 1: a reaction. So we don't have to be like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, but you know, the answer would be heard
Speaker 1: if there wasn't looting, No, it would a bit. I
Speaker 1: have a few damage um between quarantine and now protesting.
Speaker 1: What is it like on the West Coast? I mean, clearly,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm over here in New York, But what is
Speaker 1: it like on the wen? We could take it back
Speaker 1: to COVID. I feel like when we had to start quarantine,
Speaker 1: it was very east fool out here. You know, I've
Speaker 1: seen how it was in New York and the East Coast.
Speaker 1: It looked a little different from how the quarantine was
Speaker 1: out here. Sun bathing, there was a lot of yoga,
Speaker 1: a lot of people hitting their personal pools. You know,
Speaker 1: it was a good vibe. But the protest and it
Speaker 1: took a dark turn. I protested about UM last week
Speaker 1: and I just kind of jumped in line. I didn't
Speaker 1: know what was gonna happen. I seen him coming down
Speaker 1: the street. I joined in, but I already knew. I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna start, you know, I'm gonna kick
Speaker 1: it off early and then get out of there because
Speaker 1: I literally when I was walking away from the protest,
Speaker 1: my my homegirl hit me, was like, yeah, they just
Speaker 1: set a car on fire, so we out, and that
Speaker 1: was my que to be out. I don't have nothing
Speaker 1: against rioters, because you know, we got to get the
Speaker 1: message hurt and all that. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: I cannot see here and say I support people burning
Speaker 1: down black businesses or minority businesses. I just personally don't
Speaker 1: feel like it should be a casualty, a war, none
Speaker 1: of that. That's just for me. I remember during nine eleven,
Speaker 1: I think I was about nine or ten years old.
Speaker 1: I sat there at my school. I went to Mohammed
Speaker 1: Islamic Academy, and I watched the plane hit the towers
Speaker 1: and then we had to evacuate our school, and then
Speaker 1: our school almost wasn't there when we came back because
Speaker 1: it's Mohammed's Islamic Academy, and the people in the neighborhood
Speaker 1: for some reason, thought we were Arab and wanted to
Speaker 1: burn down. The name was a big thing at that time.
Speaker 1: So for me it was like, I don't that just
Speaker 1: brings like a trigger back where I don't want to
Speaker 1: see people burned down black businesses. We were entirely black
Speaker 1: school in the middle of the neighborhood. We gave back
Speaker 1: to the neighborhood, We helped feed the homeless and everything
Speaker 1: that just for some reason, just I don't like the
Speaker 1: thought and the notion of burning down black businesses. But
Speaker 1: if you want to burn down Target, Walmart, Auto Zone,
Speaker 1: people that got insurance anyway, go ahead. Because the message
Speaker 1: has to be heard and we tried to do it peacefully.
Speaker 1: You're going to catch it another way. We got different waves.
Speaker 1: We're gonna give you peaceful again. But if we don't
Speaker 1: get that target conversation, honey, police, for the love of God,
Speaker 1: when these bring and Target down, did you see what
Speaker 1: they did this? Soho are you you fucking kidding me?
Speaker 1: Bro Let me tell you something. I am the person
Speaker 1: that owns a megaphone, my nigga. I wish, I wish
Speaker 1: we could just all go through the street and scream
Speaker 1: through the gentrified neighborhoods without the curfew. That's really how
Speaker 1: can I ask to damage? UM? Has there been conversations
Speaker 1: regarding the rights in l a specifically, because that's where
Speaker 1: the riots happened for Rodney King, I know they didn't
Speaker 1: happen out here on the East Coast to the effect
Speaker 1: that they did in l A. UM Has that been
Speaker 1: a conversation out there at all about from that? Um?
Speaker 1: I think the biggest difference between that riot then and
Speaker 1: the right now is when they did the riots recently,
Speaker 1: it was in Beverly Hills, Rodale Drive, the Grove, Hollywood Boulevard.
Speaker 1: The riots back then happened in people's own community. It
Speaker 1: just went outside and was upset. And that's when you've
Speaker 1: seen it was a rift between you know, the Asian
Speaker 1: Americans and African Americans because they were in the inner
Speaker 1: city neighborhoods. They're not doing it like this this time.
Speaker 1: All the writing and looting I've seen has been on Melrose,
Speaker 1: ro Dale Drive, Hollywood Boulevard, so they're really hit in
Speaker 1: the you know, hitting the corporate pockets. But at the
Speaker 1: same time on Melrose there's still some black owned businesses there.
Speaker 1: You know, there's an other side of Melrose where you
Speaker 1: got all the yours and the top man and you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I'll be like, go over there,
Speaker 1: don't burn down, don't hit the chains. I mean I
Speaker 1: I told you guys that in my last they hit
Speaker 1: the banks. Bitch, seriously, the baby. I don't think the
Speaker 1: base hold as much money as they. If you want
Speaker 1: to destroy and sunk up a neighborhood, hit the banks,
Speaker 1: hit big chains, because these are the people with the
Speaker 1: most money too. Especially banks have the highest insurance. Like
Speaker 1: a bank could be back up within three hours of
Speaker 1: you looting the ship. Hit the bank's dog. That's all
Speaker 1: I'm saying. God in the COVID relief programs went to
Speaker 1: all these businesses anyway, so they have the extra money.
Speaker 1: They didn't go to the small I forget the shakes.
Speaker 1: I was about to Ruth, Chris, do you want to
Speaker 1: keep going? Because I thought we were small businesses. No,
Speaker 1: they was counting motherfucking Wendy's and McDonald's Small businesses. What
Speaker 1: down build another one? Well, I want to go ahead
Speaker 1: and get into our vanilla ship this week. Like I said, guys,
Speaker 1: we're gonna kind of tiptoe back into our goddamn regular
Speaker 1: routine because I think a lot of you guys needed.
Speaker 1: This vanilla ship was sent weeks ago and it is
Speaker 1: still being sent over and over and it's funny. So guys,
Speaker 1: this comes from the New York Post. A foot fetishists
Speaker 1: was arrested after stealing and then having sex with a
Speaker 1: hundred pair of flip flops. Guys, A Thai man with
Speaker 1: an unhealthy obsession with shoes has been arrested for stealing
Speaker 1: more than a hundred pair of flip flops and then
Speaker 1: admitting to having sex with them. Police in central Thailand
Speaker 1: first knew something was awry after receiving dozens of complaints
Speaker 1: from locals over missing shoes. Cc TV footage eventually revealed
Speaker 1: the culprit to a local man. I won't say his
Speaker 1: name because it's hard to pronounce, but he is twenty
Speaker 1: four and he was filmed lurking outside of his latest
Speaker 1: victims home. Authorities apprehended this man on at his rented
Speaker 1: dwelling with a hundred and twenty six pairs of flip
Speaker 1: flops that he admitting He admitted to pilfering over two years. Now,
Speaker 1: do you know what pilfering is? What is pilfering? I
Speaker 1: ain't even gonna hold you. I don't know. Let me
Speaker 1: look at that word, because it's it's a nice word
Speaker 1: for a shoe. So pilfering. Oh, it's just stealing them.
Speaker 1: So I ain't never heard that word for stealing. It
Speaker 1: means it means banded, burglar, pi ci word of the day,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, expeditiously whole. The funny part
Speaker 1: is he didn't go to a shoe store, and still
Speaker 1: he's still in personal shoes like he was stealing. Creepy well,
Speaker 1: because first I was gonna give a pair of shoes,
Speaker 1: but now it's like you still like my sisters shoes
Speaker 1: and you start having sex with your sister. He doesn't
Speaker 1: want to fuck you know, old navy flip flops. Well,
Speaker 1: I do want to say. This is what he did.
Speaker 1: He described how he would wear the sandals, which spanned
Speaker 1: from every making size, around the house to first arouse.
Speaker 1: It was an experience for him. He said that that
Speaker 1: was for play. He would then caress and kiss the
Speaker 1: well worn flip flops, stripped down and rubbed them all
Speaker 1: over his naked body, and then eventually make love to them. Okay,
Speaker 1: this one, bro, what did you what are you talking about? Well,
Speaker 1: shout out to Dallas pen Mandy and I had an
Speaker 1: episode actually funny enough. It's when I came in from
Speaker 1: the woman's march that day and he uh was talking
Speaker 1: about how when he worked at Marshals or something, he
Speaker 1: used to shoes. But he talked about how like he
Speaker 1: would imagine the arch of the woman's foot and it
Speaker 1: would be like a heel and need stick his dick
Speaker 1: in his cloud and clan heel, and that he would
Speaker 1: imagine the woman and how she would wear the shoe
Speaker 1: in the architect on. How rough that is. I just
Speaker 1: need you, Benson, to make sure you get his face.
Speaker 1: Walt Wheezy was describing what he was doing. Your face
Speaker 1: damage was. So, what I'm saying is would you rather
Speaker 1: put your dick in if you had to pick? That's
Speaker 1: the name of the game. I'm bringing a sandal over
Speaker 1: a hill, really really yeah, because the sandal, you know,
Speaker 1: you put it in, you put in through those little
Speaker 1: grooves and let me you canta, you can do a
Speaker 1: little extra, you know what I'm saying. You just put
Speaker 1: it in the hill. Wait, but the heel has a
Speaker 1: little arch. You don't want that arches? Want to cut
Speaker 1: your dick in half? Oh, I think, why would you
Speaker 1: want something that arches? Actually, how are you gonna choose
Speaker 1: the Nike slide with grooves because I can see a
Speaker 1: nigger wanting them grooves? Bigot damage. I'm still going with
Speaker 1: the flip flop. It's comfy. It's comfy. How do you
Speaker 1: know that heels are not comfy? Because love Nike slides. Dog,
Speaker 1: it's residuous. Y'all do nothing to stray from the Nike slide.
Speaker 1: What the hell? I ain't gonna hold you. That's one
Speaker 1: of the that's one of the things about men that
Speaker 1: actually turned me on outside of basketball shorts. I love
Speaker 1: a man with Nike slides and socks. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: talk about don't do that. I'm not from New York,
Speaker 1: I'm from Florida. Was say, I thought that was like
Speaker 1: Southern ship. That's Southern ship. The Nike slides with the
Speaker 1: maybe that's East Coast ship. Then that's definitely yeah, because
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I would much rather a guy with Nike
Speaker 1: slides socks than Chuck Taylor's. And I used to get
Speaker 1: dressed up like that. I used to get my white
Speaker 1: t ready, my ball shorts and fresh socks, put my
Speaker 1: flops on, hit the corner, like you know what's great
Speaker 1: about that outfit? Like you could be broken ship or
Speaker 1: have money and we want it. Would never know. That's
Speaker 1: one of those styles that I appreciate because, like you know,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of fads that have happened in our
Speaker 1: lifetime that are like too expensive to keep up with.
Speaker 1: But the Nike slides dot combo, it's any nigga deal.
Speaker 1: You can really look. You can go to Marshall's get
Speaker 1: the Jordan's flip flops, or you get the Nike flip
Speaker 1: flops the Nike shorts, like you go to Marshalls and
Speaker 1: run it up. I ain't gonn hold my favorite. Y'all
Speaker 1: know that's how Jay Coole go on stage. And I
Speaker 1: love j Cole, But that's J Cole's tour gear right there.
Speaker 1: Basketball shorts, white tea and some sneakers and slides. That's
Speaker 1: a little you think that the fucking outfit. I feel
Speaker 1: like when niggas come over to funk, they wear ship
Speaker 1: like that. Okay, v damn valid as going to be
Speaker 1: in the way. So what's the girl equivalent to that?
Speaker 1: Swear leggings, no leggings with legs, leggings, leggings and a
Speaker 1: T shirt. Well, I just live in with But you know,
Speaker 1: I do want to say I used to be I
Speaker 1: still am a pretty big cor but when I was
Speaker 1: peaking my whole, I would be in Miami a lot,
Speaker 1: and I would always know the niggas. That was for
Speaker 1: me because I see him one to beat with them
Speaker 1: socks and ship. No matter how hot it was, all
Speaker 1: lot got wet, they weight. Have you ever dated a guy?
Speaker 1: Have you ever dated a guy that? Or let me
Speaker 1: ask you, um damage on the West Coast And I
Speaker 1: know you're not from the West Coast, but do guys
Speaker 1: were like Taylor's to the beach the same way? Like
Speaker 1: I feel like New York guys were attempts to the
Speaker 1: beach like in the sand. Yeah, in the sand, in
Speaker 1: the sand. No, they let them them toes out shout
Speaker 1: out to my Mexican homeboards. I told you. I think
Speaker 1: it's because because of this show and because of these conversations.
Speaker 1: I'd be liking Mantes now I should I'm missing as
Speaker 1: you should be like Manto. My foot, I'm missing a pink,
Speaker 1: your miss pinky? Now, can you pull your foot out?
Speaker 1: I don't know how to do yo. You just you
Speaker 1: just lifted up after reviewing. Sometimes you gotta review your foot.
Speaker 1: It's it's corn. Let me make sure y'all can't see
Speaker 1: the pusa. My socks are peasy too. Don't look, don't
Speaker 1: judge my foot. Wait, put your foot up. Wait, you
Speaker 1: really gonna leave it with the sock. We ain't got
Speaker 1: no foot fetish. I don't want to see it. I
Speaker 1: don't think you'll have a rating for that kind of thing.
Speaker 1: That that's going to be is for a place to stop.
Speaker 1: That's what we don't have. There is not one time
Speaker 1: on this show where I well, anal acrobats was pretty bad. No, bitch,
Speaker 1: you were not ready for that one. No, I wasn't
Speaker 1: an acrobats like shoot balls out of their assholes and
Speaker 1: it was an asshole circus. I'm gonna send you. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna send you the video. But basically, a woman, a
Speaker 1: woman was pouring a glass of wine and the wine
Speaker 1: bottle was in her ass. So she was pouring the
Speaker 1: glass of wine from her asshole? How much would like
Speaker 1: some of that? Okay? Let me let me ask you this.
Speaker 1: It's a low amount of money, but like high enough
Speaker 1: to where you might do it for ten grand If
Speaker 1: a girl poured a bottle of wine in her ass
Speaker 1: would you let her shoot it into your mouth for
Speaker 1: ten grands? Uh? If it was my woman? Hell yeah?
Speaker 1: Not just some random asshole. That's how you get Corona.
Speaker 1: We still gotta say Corona free, Yo, don't forget that right? Wait? So,
Speaker 1: so you're down as long as she's your girl to
Speaker 1: get his kid possible. I'm not drinking my nigga. I
Speaker 1: don't want Booty Salvina Blong. I'm goods booty. I don't
Speaker 1: want a Booty Bordeaux. I don't want a ship. So
Speaker 1: you don't want booty Noir. No, that sounds yo, that
Speaker 1: sounds like a fucking poor name. Nigger Booty, where'd you
Speaker 1: get your name? I just really love a red wine. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm gonna say we start doing this ship again.
Speaker 1: Mob bay, mobay, anybody. We're gonna get into the whole facts, y'all.
Speaker 1: Whole facts is random sex facts that you may not
Speaker 1: have known. And this one, I'm interested. We have a
Speaker 1: guy on here and I want to know if this
Speaker 1: is actually true. So the whole facts today comes from
Speaker 1: all Bright University. In a study that they did in
Speaker 1: two thousand fourteen, The fact is that you can really
Speaker 1: turn a guy on with your voice. They found that
Speaker 1: women were able to consciously manipulate their voices while counting
Speaker 1: from one to ten to sound more attractive. When the
Speaker 1: guys in the study tried to do the same, they
Speaker 1: actually came off sounding less attractive. What kind of voice
Speaker 1: change makes a woman sound sexier? A deep, breadthy voice.
Speaker 1: According to researchers, men are attracted to this kind of
Speaker 1: pitch not because they prefer women with lower voices, but
Speaker 1: because women dropped. When a woman drops her voice, she's
Speaker 1: signal she's signaling that she's interested, a hint that men
Speaker 1: certainly aren't blind to. So y'all know, wheezy be with
Speaker 1: the motherfucking voices and accents. So weezy, I need you
Speaker 1: to go from one to ten, least attractive to most.
Speaker 1: She didn't even know I was gonna do this, y'all,
Speaker 1: but I need you to go from the least attractive
Speaker 1: voice that you have to the most sexy voice one
Speaker 1: to tend. Yeah, like, I feel like people really don't
Speaker 1: like like if you do, like you know what's called
Speaker 1: the voice right now, it's kind of like cold stuff up.
Speaker 1: But you know, I really think they do get very
Speaker 1: attracted when she's doing this A little bit different when
Speaker 1: you watch good now get now turn that into a
Speaker 1: super sex voice. Oh my god, stop, I can't, Yes,
Speaker 1: you can't. You have to get breathy, the deep, breathe deep. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, all right, let me try. Let's get out
Speaker 1: of care and I'm getting nervous because we're gonna use
Speaker 1: this as a clip hoop. That's why I'm trying to
Speaker 1: get it right. I even put my wig on for this. Okay,
Speaker 1: just think about booty, their booty, their girl. Okay, do
Speaker 1: some role play with me. Okay, called dammage, call me
Speaker 1: damage damage, call her because you're trying to get the pussy. Okay,
Speaker 1: so go ahead and talk to her. Let her know
Speaker 1: you want you want a booty call. That's a booty call.
Speaker 1: Let's go is this d Yeah? Hi? What are you
Speaker 1: doing waiting for you? When you're gonna pull up? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I thought you were gonna like send me
Speaker 1: an uber, come get it yourself. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: know how bad do you want to see me? The breath?
Speaker 1: I hear it. I'm about to send that over right now.
Speaker 1: I got I got asked me. I can't do the breath.
Speaker 1: To god, I barely got it. I got up. No.
Speaker 1: But it's so crazy because little do we know, Like
Speaker 1: if I'm just having this conversation on the podcast, this
Speaker 1: is clearly different than the voice I give when I'm
Speaker 1: like here, what's the voice you give? Man? Come on?
Speaker 1: Where do you want to come? Did you really just snort? Bit?
Speaker 1: What if they back with? And what options do I have? Bitch?
Speaker 1: Do you want to come on my tits? You want
Speaker 1: to in my mouth? Can you come in my mouth?
Speaker 1: Want to hear? You'll want to hear? Where do you
Speaker 1: want to come? Story? If you guys listen to for
Speaker 1: a fact sake, you'll hear this. Um you've already heard
Speaker 1: this story. But let me just tell y'all. So I'm
Speaker 1: in New York for a few days for work, but
Speaker 1: I've been living in saloom during this quarantine with my
Speaker 1: and he came and he always comes in my pussy
Speaker 1: because we track our ovulationship right, and it's all she
Speaker 1: about to be bullshit me. Just the week fund for Wheezy.
Speaker 1: Sorry sorry, sorry, Okay. So the week of that, my
Speaker 1: period was supposed to come. Sad moment, George Floyd, Right,
Speaker 1: So like, I know that you could get so stressed
Speaker 1: out that your period won't come, but it did. Never
Speaker 1: happened to me, So my period didn't come on for
Speaker 1: seven days. My period has only ever been late one day.
Speaker 1: So I don't want to say anything to him because
Speaker 1: this nigga working too much. There's already a hurricane that
Speaker 1: comes this week, so I'm like, let me go get
Speaker 1: a pregnancy test. So I come in the house, I
Speaker 1: pee on the stick and these words pop up and
Speaker 1: it says and you're late and embrazada, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: what it's coming through in Spanish? Right? Right? It was
Speaker 1: a digital screen, but hold on, the electricity went out
Speaker 1: because it's hurricane, so I could not connect to the internet. Right,
Speaker 1: I'm like, my niked and my pregnant. Do I gotta impanada?
Speaker 1: Or do I not gotta impanada? It said embarrazada? So
Speaker 1: I wake up? Non, No internet comes back up, and no,
Speaker 1: it didn't come back up. I walked down the street
Speaker 1: to get signal to figure out I wasn't pregnant. Two
Speaker 1: days later, I go get another pregnancy test. The ship
Speaker 1: says negativo. I know what that is? We straight. Then
Speaker 1: I get an I say negativo, bitch, that does not
Speaker 1: just could have been Spanish. I think I think it's
Speaker 1: the name. I think we just like. I think we
Speaker 1: just like add an oh to anything anything. Because when
Speaker 1: I was sucked up right and electricity went off, I
Speaker 1: went downstairs and damn show said l light too and
Speaker 1: working it is Negativo. Okay, okay, I ain't know. I ain't.
Speaker 1: So then the next test had one line on one side,
Speaker 1: one on the other side, right, And so as a
Speaker 1: woman you have to take like multiple tests because you
Speaker 1: can't just take one dog seven days late. I literally
Speaker 1: took one every other day. I took four tests. So
Speaker 1: at this point I see another test the line is
Speaker 1: a certain way and I have just throw it to him.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I don't know what's going on. Just
Speaker 1: look it up. This niga google is that comes back
Speaker 1: talking about no empanada. We ain't got no empanada. No emfanata,
Speaker 1: we got bitch. All I know is I know all
Speaker 1: about Mexican pregnancies. And to let you know, when I
Speaker 1: went into the ox So, which is the Mexican pregnancies,
Speaker 1: you're not gonna get their version of seven eleven. Right.
Speaker 1: So when I walk in, mind you like the signals
Speaker 1: sucked up out there because the storm, so cellphone towers
Speaker 1: are down. I walk in trying to ask for a
Speaker 1: pregnancy test. I went like this, see, no, do you
Speaker 1: have test? Though? This bitch is like she put everything literally,
Speaker 1: that's what she's doing. But listening, I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: be racist. I just don't know. So this bitch comes
Speaker 1: out with some diapers. I said, no, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I said maybe maybe maybe maybe no baby. People in
Speaker 1: the fucking store was laughing at me, and I was
Speaker 1: like yo. And at this point I noticed bitch was
Speaker 1: sucking with me. She pulled out apple sauce and she
Speaker 1: don't like, you know what the funk I'm saying? Oh?
Speaker 1: Then I said, you have just googled it how to
Speaker 1: say it? You could have just cellphone towers were down.
Speaker 1: I don't think you're hearing me. They can't even process
Speaker 1: credit cards. Okay, that's how it was a hurricane. So wait,
Speaker 1: I walked down the aisle to grab a tampon, right
Speaker 1: the box of tampons, because I said this, how must
Speaker 1: figure out pregnancy tests? Our dad ass held it up.
Speaker 1: I said, no necessito because baby, anyway, she handed it
Speaker 1: to me. But fuck, I'm weak. I'm I'm weak as well.
Speaker 1: I love it. Um, we went through the whole facts.
Speaker 1: Y'all know, y'all know I'm an outline whole goddamn it.
Speaker 1: We ain't really been on the outline because you know,
Speaker 1: ship fuck. Anyways, we're gonna get into our hor derve
Speaker 1: before we get into our horror decision and the hord derve.
Speaker 1: I found this on Cosmopolitan Damage. If you have any
Speaker 1: sex tip that you would like to share with our audience,
Speaker 1: please let me out this. So this is me trying
Speaker 1: to get my sexy voice on. Didn't work? Maybe not, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm working on it. My nigga is like my rasp,
Speaker 1: so I'll just be like Anyways, the horrid dirt for
Speaker 1: this week is a sack cruel sacral sacral. How you
Speaker 1: think that that spelled? Pronounce sacral like sacrale? If it's
Speaker 1: sacral oh maybe like a nut sack. Maybe because it's
Speaker 1: for your butt crack. Actually, not the nut sack, but
Speaker 1: the butt crack. So try a sacral massage. If you're
Speaker 1: going to experiment with anal anal four play is a must,
Speaker 1: So try giving or receiving a sacral massage a k a.
Speaker 1: Massaging the area just above the butt crack for fifteen
Speaker 1: to twenty minutes. Now, I don't know if those are
Speaker 1: fifteen to twenty six minutes or actual minutes, but I
Speaker 1: would say just for massage, I hope for thirty seconds.
Speaker 1: I would be willing to bet my life that a
Speaker 1: sacral massage has nothing to do with your butt, your
Speaker 1: nut sack, I said, butt crack, but nut sack. You
Speaker 1: take your thumb like this, you actually actually go It's
Speaker 1: it's right above your butt crack. And what you're doing
Speaker 1: is you're massaging this area and it will help release
Speaker 1: tension and loosen the whole area up. I actually wanted
Speaker 1: to add to this guy's so this is I do
Speaker 1: because so this is my tip to you guys who
Speaker 1: are interested in getting near the Buddha hole. It's just
Speaker 1: a Buda hole, you know what I mean? I know,
Speaker 1: but I get it, I get it, But this is
Speaker 1: a real tip. Shut the funk up. So yes, massage
Speaker 1: right above the back um, right above the buck crack.
Speaker 1: But I would say you could get to this by
Speaker 1: offering your man a back massage. So if you guys
Speaker 1: know the lower part of the back, definitely focused there.
Speaker 1: And wait what wait, let me finish damage because this
Speaker 1: is this is this literally works every single time. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie it hasn't not worked for me. So
Speaker 1: you your massage is back. So you act like you
Speaker 1: tie and you do the elbows and ship and you
Speaker 1: know the pattern and get the upper upper back. Then
Speaker 1: when you get down to the lower back, then you
Speaker 1: start massaging the butt. She As you're massaging the butt cheeks,
Speaker 1: you're pulling the cheeks apart right, So then you go
Speaker 1: into the cup of the cheeks. So now you're massaging
Speaker 1: the thighs and the butt cheeks, thigh butt cheeks, and
Speaker 1: then you go in with your hands just like so,
Speaker 1: and you fit your mouth right into that boot hole
Speaker 1: and you add heating the groceries. And let me tell
Speaker 1: you tell us something. Please, I never had my ass
Speaker 1: eight but if I was to get my ass, I'm
Speaker 1: not laying on my stomach and let you massage my
Speaker 1: ass cheeks open, dipping your tongue into me. It's not
Speaker 1: not I don't like my asked me a massage where.
Speaker 1: It's why I didn't like that because I feel like
Speaker 1: air is gonna come like a I feel like I
Speaker 1: don't want to us about to blow in the boot
Speaker 1: hole it supposed to. That's the opposite. I want things
Speaker 1: coming out of it, not in it. You're gonna fart
Speaker 1: in the nigga face while he in your booty. Hall.
Speaker 1: I feel like when niggas spread my ass like air
Speaker 1: is gonna come out you. You're gonna fat for spreading
Speaker 1: the man's sad. It's the gluteous massage. It is. But
Speaker 1: so here's the thing. You know if they like it
Speaker 1: or not, because yeah, yeah, So some guys will moan
Speaker 1: and that's they're like, okay, I like what you're doing.
Speaker 1: And some guys will actually start to spread their legs
Speaker 1: like to let you know that what you're doing is
Speaker 1: okay without telling you. Like there's body languages, body languages,
Speaker 1: body like I don't feel like that's comfortable. So that's
Speaker 1: the part. Well, I mean, technically most people would prefer
Speaker 1: massage on their stomach, so I don't think you're thinking
Speaker 1: of it that way. You're not thinking that it's on.
Speaker 1: And then that's the thing. Because the balls are there,
Speaker 1: you also just spit down on them and make them wet,
Speaker 1: and then you start massaging the balls while you're massaging
Speaker 1: the butt cheeks. It works, I'm telling you it works.
Speaker 1: You guys want to know something random that's been coming
Speaker 1: up in my head. It's disgusting. I dream about it
Speaker 1: like two or three times a week now. So our
Speaker 1: place into Loom is like in this little like community, right,
Speaker 1: and there's this Italian dude that lives there with his
Speaker 1: wife and children. Mind you, with my nigga, I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to like you know, but it's just this fantasy
Speaker 1: that keeps coming. He's a boxer and he gives me
Speaker 1: boxing lessons three or four times a week. But when
Speaker 1: he's like doing his ship alone, he gets like really
Speaker 1: bad because he does like kickboxing. So I guess something
Speaker 1: happens to his ass and he'd be oiling up his
Speaker 1: legs and stuff like that by the pool, right, and
Speaker 1: I'd be looking like, yo, he got a nut because
Speaker 1: he's euros so he'd be wearing a little Speedo Italian dude,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, he he really about to go up
Speaker 1: in the ass. And sometimes if you think about his
Speaker 1: cute little fucking ass all day, and I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's because there's nothing else to do but just
Speaker 1: cook and sunk my own nigga. Now I keep thinking
Speaker 1: about this and dreaming of an Italian nigga in a
Speaker 1: speedos just his butt because he'd be oiling it. But
Speaker 1: now when we but with no oh my god, dude,
Speaker 1: now we're all becoming friends in this community. I hope
Speaker 1: to god he never looks up horrible decision because he's like,
Speaker 1: what do you doing a medic I'm going to figure
Speaker 1: it out, come out with the speedo. But he don't
Speaker 1: speak that good at talking about him. But sometimes when
Speaker 1: we be working out right because we spar or whatever,
Speaker 1: and he'd be like hound up. But and then like
Speaker 1: he'll like turn me and ship hand ups, hound ups.
Speaker 1: And then when he turns and he'd be having on
Speaker 1: him tight little short and I see that ass folks out,
Speaker 1: I think about going to his booty. And I never
Speaker 1: think like this, like if I fan assigned, someone is
Speaker 1: not about their ass. I can't even stop looking thinking
Speaker 1: of going into an Italian man's Buddha hole. I have
Speaker 1: literally almost ran into things on my bike because he'll
Speaker 1: walk by the street he o gee, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: we want to be in some Buddha hale. I don't
Speaker 1: know what I think why I got this fixation on
Speaker 1: his nigga's ass. It's the sky? Is it big? Like?
Speaker 1: Does he have cheeks? Like you got a man? A
Speaker 1: full on cheeks? So like I think it's because of
Speaker 1: the workouts he'd be doing. He got a fat ass,
Speaker 1: And I've never seen anything like this. You ever actually
Speaker 1: look at a man's ass and get turned on? No damage?
Speaker 1: Do you like booty? Like not man booty? Clearly we're
Speaker 1: going to change the gender here because you are a
Speaker 1: heterosisn and jail you know, you know jail, that's what
Speaker 1: they call it, a man's but it's called booty. Is
Speaker 1: that jail booty? It's just booty. I thought it was
Speaker 1: called booty for everybody. I thought it was called for
Speaker 1: everybody booty something specific. So what type of I guess
Speaker 1: for the ladies listening, what type of booty do you like?
Speaker 1: But ass? Because I like it natural I'm into athletic athletic,
Speaker 1: so it doesn't have to be big. Just I used
Speaker 1: to play sports, and I don't think I would be
Speaker 1: considered an athletic ass, but I used to play athletic.
Speaker 1: Acid aren't like weighty. You have like a heavy but
Speaker 1: let asks are more like titans small, they're super round,
Speaker 1: but they're like you like small booties. You know what
Speaker 1: you know that? Did you know? You know? Did you
Speaker 1: know that Weely was the president of the Small Booty Coalition?
Speaker 1: Why did you say it was? Because I think you're
Speaker 1: going to think now, yeah, you can you think now
Speaker 1: with me? Let me tell you all what's funny. So
Speaker 1: uh this I used to suck your nigga. I can't
Speaker 1: remember where he was from. Slovenia. Where you talking about
Speaker 1: the nigga that had the bank issue that you told
Speaker 1: him in the Pillow Talk episode where he was like
Speaker 1: being investigated. He was Danish, but this guy he was
Speaker 1: Danis Danis Salvacia. Dude. Once I've moved to New York,
Speaker 1: and I like, because I wasn't really a white guy
Speaker 1: fucker until I moved to New York. But when I
Speaker 1: realized they had different type of white niggas. I was like, funk,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to suck these nings. Thank god, I'm with
Speaker 1: a black man now and he's trying times because I
Speaker 1: don't know what I would do. But anyway, so this
Speaker 1: white boy used to funk, right. He used to be like,
Speaker 1: you have a nice sports ass, and I think it
Speaker 1: was his way of being like, it's small, but it's cool.
Speaker 1: He just can't stick out farther than the booty as
Speaker 1: long as that ratio is fine, You good. I hate
Speaker 1: guys with like cheeks because I clearly like to get
Speaker 1: in the cheeks, but it'd be now I see what
Speaker 1: men have to deal with. It's a lot to move
Speaker 1: about the way to get there, like you be having,
Speaker 1: because many has been searching for the booty hole as
Speaker 1: we know it is. And and like when guys have
Speaker 1: kind of like a little donkey booty, I'd be like, nigga,
Speaker 1: your booty look bigger than mine. It's just a lot
Speaker 1: to move out the way. What tighter men have donkey booties.
Speaker 1: So I football players for sure are thicker, but even
Speaker 1: the basketball players because I guess they're athletic, like they'd
Speaker 1: be having little asses that sit up and you know,
Speaker 1: I'd be liking niggas to walk naked, like that's like
Speaker 1: part of my foreplay after sex. I want to see
Speaker 1: a man just walk naked and their booties be so big.
Speaker 1: I be like, oh, you'd be posting up, don't you.
Speaker 1: But you know what, I appreciate when men have like
Speaker 1: that tone on their side, not like their ass cheek.
Speaker 1: But what did I get? Yeah? What's that called? Was
Speaker 1: a little the did in the booty. That's a hit, right, Okay?
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that. I like that whatever
Speaker 1: they're doing, the little sidekicks, Oh, that donkey kicks. I
Speaker 1: like that little whenever I try to get attention from
Speaker 1: dudes at the gym, because I like when I squat,
Speaker 1: I feel like my ass doesn't look that big cat
Speaker 1: cow yoga thing like this one where you oh yeah,
Speaker 1: so in quarantine. I've started doing that, y'all. I don't
Speaker 1: know if y'all know. I would probably rather run on
Speaker 1: a track. Them yoga positions, bitch be hurting because your
Speaker 1: body weight is the hardest thing to I'd be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, let me just run the bleachers because
Speaker 1: this fucking yoga ship. And I'd be in my living
Speaker 1: room like like bit like dog, I realized, like the
Speaker 1: best shape of my life is right now. And it's
Speaker 1: because body weight is like really what gets you in
Speaker 1: shape for real? Like Calliston and all the ship being
Speaker 1: in the gym doing all that extra ship that did
Speaker 1: nothing like this body weight ship. I've never been out
Speaker 1: able to pull up my own weight and ship like
Speaker 1: it's crazy doing that. But a bitch hiking, I don't
Speaker 1: even know how I like hiking. Where do you hike
Speaker 1: in New York? Girl? I don't want to. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let y'all know because it's my little place now.
Speaker 1: But it's in Jersey and it's right over there. It's
Speaker 1: you don't hike in New York. No hiking Jersey, bitch. Um.
Speaker 1: But it's Palisades Park and it's like it's it's right
Speaker 1: on the water, so you see the g WB, but
Speaker 1: there's like just all these little things. It's on the water.
Speaker 1: What makes the hike elevation? Yeah, like, bitch, I'll be
Speaker 1: to the heights if you go to the heights like
Speaker 1: up by dykeman Um. I actually ran the stairs, so
Speaker 1: the Joker stairs, I've been running those so but you
Speaker 1: don't ask me why because I don't even know who
Speaker 1: I am anymore. Honestly, why are you hiking? Girl? Don't
Speaker 1: worry about you? A patriot? I'd have told y'all somebody
Speaker 1: that got me changing my life over here. But that's
Speaker 1: only a nigger could make Mandy, because I never ever
Speaker 1: girl like to the point where I'd be like looking
Speaker 1: at the weather and I'd be like, we could do
Speaker 1: ten am, does that work for you? Can? Can we
Speaker 1: hike this week? I mean, you shut the funk up?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Mandy, You're just You're you working out with?
Speaker 1: Are you me? Bitch? I don't know who a bit right?
Speaker 1: Who am I? I don't know? I don't know because
Speaker 1: I would going fro. I love being a little fit couple.
Speaker 1: We're going out there, We're hetting our protein. I'm about
Speaker 1: to call my name, Wheezy sts Wheezy. Shut the funk
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Speaker 1: now and get into our horrible decision. This UM is
Speaker 1: kind of just a conversation not only that I've been
Speaker 1: having with my friends, but I think it's important. We
Speaker 1: talk a lot about X. But a lot of sex
Speaker 1: involves partnership, relationships, the people you're working with, and a
Speaker 1: lot of things can turn us off. So I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about dating with different views. So when I
Speaker 1: wanted as far as dating with different views. Right now,
Speaker 1: we have the election coming up, we have a lot
Speaker 1: of the protesting and riots coming up, just a lot
Speaker 1: of things where a lot of people have different point
Speaker 1: of views. And I know that we've talked about not
Speaker 1: really wanting to date Trump supporters, or if you're a Democrat,
Speaker 1: can you date a Republican? So I wanted to kind
Speaker 1: of talk to you easy. You're dating somebody, Um damage,
Speaker 1: you look like you got hoes, so can we talk?
Speaker 1: That's a compliment. Attractive people have hosts period period. So um,
Speaker 1: before I guess how to start off this conversation, I
Speaker 1: want to ask how soon do you ask the person
Speaker 1: that you're dating about political, religious, and social views day?
Speaker 1: Who you vote for? Really? You asked that on the
Speaker 1: first date. I'm not sorry to interrupt your damage, but
Speaker 1: like I feel like, my nigga, whould you vote for it?
Speaker 1: What about you? What about religion? Because I mean, do
Speaker 1: you ask about that as well? Or now? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think religions you need to get out the way. You
Speaker 1: gotta get religion out the way because you don't want
Speaker 1: to get so far in. It's like, yeah, I really
Speaker 1: want to come to want you to come to church
Speaker 1: with me, and then you're not really like a church
Speaker 1: going or me or me a nigga, tell me I
Speaker 1: don't drink or eat pork. Okay, this ain't gonna work
Speaker 1: because I put pork in my collegreens and so the
Speaker 1: way to this Okay, So this is why we we're friends.
Speaker 1: We're friends and that's it. Um um. So I guess.
Speaker 1: So you guys are saying, first day, how do you
Speaker 1: bring it up? Like? What? How do you bring up
Speaker 1: without making it awkward? I never talked about politics before Trump. However,
Speaker 1: we all know that people that align their views with
Speaker 1: this man are okay with some form of racism. And
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe I alway wasn't always this person person,
Speaker 1: but I've become more awake quote unquote you know the
Speaker 1: older I get, and I'm just not about to like
Speaker 1: have to go to this point where I teach somebody something.
Speaker 1: And that's why. Really, the white boys I date, you
Speaker 1: know what, I always mentioned that they were Europeans because
Speaker 1: I feel like American white guys always would be combative
Speaker 1: with me, even if they were liberal, they'd be like yeah,
Speaker 1: but Europeans don't do that. They'd be like, no black people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I want to I guess, go ahead, go ahead,
Speaker 1: damage because I dated a European white girl. She was
Speaker 1: like some sandal pay or whatever. And it was some
Speaker 1: stuff going on, and the fact that did just say
Speaker 1: San San Rope wherever the hell it is was French
Speaker 1: south of France. She was friends, Yeah, but she was white.
Speaker 1: I know she was white. Did I realize? I was like, no,
Speaker 1: you're still white. But anyway, and it was stuff going on,
Speaker 1: and she was just like, I just feel like I
Speaker 1: don't understand everybody's people. It was just so vague, and
Speaker 1: I was like, no, not during these times. I can't
Speaker 1: be talking to the white girls. You gotta have I
Speaker 1: hate I don't see color narrative coming out like and
Speaker 1: I believe her, but during these times. And this was
Speaker 1: a while ago. It's so sad that even a while ago,
Speaker 1: with something going on currently, I was just like, I
Speaker 1: can't really get with that vibe. It's like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's it's interesting because you've got either you've got you've
Speaker 1: got too kind right, You've got the American white person
Speaker 1: that has been taught and brought up and either has
Speaker 1: to unlearn their bullshit right, and then you've got the
Speaker 1: year old person that genuinely may know nothing but it's
Speaker 1: sucking an it's so annoying, That's what it was. It
Speaker 1: was annoying to me. I was just like, but you know,
Speaker 1: what stuff going to set She's like, I don't know
Speaker 1: why police stop and do that. I don't get I
Speaker 1: was like, all right, so here's here's where I kind
Speaker 1: of want to ask to This is clearly something that's
Speaker 1: been going on for centuries, hundreds of years, the last
Speaker 1: fucking six seven eight decades, dating back to the Civil
Speaker 1: rights movement. You're dating somebody, and maybe these conversations weren't had,
Speaker 1: but clearly, right now tension is like flared. How do
Speaker 1: you keep from being turned off by your partner when
Speaker 1: they say something that you don't agree with or believe?
Speaker 1: Like that possible even I think, especially like situations like
Speaker 1: right now, it talks about your values, and I don't
Speaker 1: think if you don't share the same values, then it
Speaker 1: just becomes an instant turn off. Like you know, some
Speaker 1: things you can kind of look to the side, like
Speaker 1: sometimes people can have different religions and they just put
Speaker 1: that to the side, But when it comes to values
Speaker 1: and being a human, I don't think and if you
Speaker 1: are able to just say, oh, well whatever, you know,
Speaker 1: she doesn't really care about what's going on right now,
Speaker 1: you really look at yourself. So it's really about values.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Um. I got in my first dispute
Speaker 1: with Old Bay about the blackout thing. Um obviously he's black,
Speaker 1: but he was more like, you know, you do so
Speaker 1: many better things. Why why are you joining in this
Speaker 1: blackout ship when it's like, you know, it's all he
Speaker 1: is doing is taking things away from the Internet. I
Speaker 1: get it, you know, if you're you're taking the images
Speaker 1: away silencing black people. Da da da da da da.
Speaker 1: Why join in on something that's just making everybody shut up?
Speaker 1: And you know, to me, and I'm glad at the
Speaker 1: end he ended up posting a blackout thing at the
Speaker 1: end of this conversation. But when I woke up and
Speaker 1: he started saying that to me, I was so angry
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, Like, and you're having a
Speaker 1: very defeatist attitude, right. You got a man in his
Speaker 1: forties who's been through a bunch of ship. Instagram is
Speaker 1: a new thing in his mind. He's like, what the
Speaker 1: fund does posting black squares do for black man and women?
Speaker 1: This is bullshit. However, to me, I think that the
Speaker 1: most important thing about this era is solidarity, and I
Speaker 1: think it's a great thing when you see so much ship,
Speaker 1: and this is a stupid thing to compare it to.
Speaker 1: But do you remember when Firefest everybody posted orange squares? Yes,
Speaker 1: and he made you start looking it up. That's what
Speaker 1: I really loved about what was going on with the
Speaker 1: black Square ship. I get his point about now you're
Speaker 1: silencing people and not seeing the videos on their timeline anymore.
Speaker 1: We were pushed, you know, it was all day long.
Speaker 1: Now it's gone, um, But I find that the conversation
Speaker 1: that we keep having together. You know, he was very
Speaker 1: proud of me for helping fundraise for bail bonds, but
Speaker 1: he got annoyed with me with that, and I really
Speaker 1: allies like, Okay, I have a different view on social
Speaker 1: media than someone older than me does. And here's what's happening.
Speaker 1: He can't seem to comprehend why social media trends and
Speaker 1: protests and petition retweets are important. And I was trying
Speaker 1: to have a conversation with him, like this is actually
Speaker 1: how people get and receive their new information. Right, just
Speaker 1: because you're not that person doesn't mean that it's not real.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying like, I mean, it's also
Speaker 1: the reason why podcasting can now be a career, Like
Speaker 1: this is something that's new, but you know, how we
Speaker 1: receive information, and that was the main thing about the
Speaker 1: politics thing. He's like, like I even told him, you know,
Speaker 1: Mandy and I had to show. I think I don't
Speaker 1: remember what city it was, but I'm like, we used
Speaker 1: to promote on the podcast on Monday's. People were here,
Speaker 1: tickets were out, It's sold out before the episode came out.
Speaker 1: Because that's how many people are connected to the Internet.
Speaker 1: And if you can't understand that people are using the
Speaker 1: internet for in for everything they take in, then you're
Speaker 1: just choosing to be blind. And like, I really genuinely
Speaker 1: feel like people don't trust news outlets more than they
Speaker 1: do Twitter. Now, I was gonna say, um, so for
Speaker 1: a lot of people who have followed me maybe over
Speaker 1: the last decade. I used to have a sports blog
Speaker 1: called full Court Pumps dot com for those of you
Speaker 1: who don't know where the name came from. Um, but
Speaker 1: it was a sports based blog and I literally stopped
Speaker 1: doing it when when I got back into college because
Speaker 1: AdSense Um was how I got paid through Google, and
Speaker 1: that's based on how many clicks come to your website,
Speaker 1: you get paid like fucking micropennies on the on the click,
Speaker 1: but it adds up and um, essentially blogging went down,
Speaker 1: newspapers and tangible like how all of that like, which
Speaker 1: is why you know, Show magazine and King Magazine and
Speaker 1: even the magazines all went to flush because people were
Speaker 1: accessing what they wanted to see through Instagram and Twitter
Speaker 1: at like an instantaneous type of fucking right. And I
Speaker 1: think it definitely changed not only the narrative and how
Speaker 1: we receive information, but journalism. Um, I want to get
Speaker 1: into a d M that was sent to me. I
Speaker 1: asked some of our followers if anything had caused turmoil
Speaker 1: in their relationships with what had happened. Um. Someone said, um,
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna put their name out, but they said,
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I are on the same team. But
Speaker 1: with him being a police officer, he finds a way
Speaker 1: to justify the actions that they do or have done.
Speaker 1: It frustrates me to note that the um that the
Speaker 1: system has brainwashed him into thinking that certain situations need
Speaker 1: a story behind it should just be wrong period. Not
Speaker 1: to say that he doesn't want justice, but the same
Speaker 1: way he speaks when I try to have a healthy
Speaker 1: conversation is a turn off for me. It's dismissive and
Speaker 1: closed minded. He hates to admit that the system and
Speaker 1: cops are fucking corrupt, but only when they are fucking
Speaker 1: with him. I get that this is his job, but
Speaker 1: as a black man, first, I think he just doesn't
Speaker 1: see the bigger picture. But but but really, what you do
Speaker 1: so that that was gonna be my next question. You
Speaker 1: don't think that you can help somebody unlearn those ways?
Speaker 1: This mon Nayga posted a blackout thing after waking up
Speaker 1: and telling me, yeah, that's way different. Because at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, if you can watch a cop
Speaker 1: in any of these instances kill somebody and then go, well,
Speaker 1: you gotta think about this and this and that, you're
Speaker 1: part of the problem because this is not necessarily just
Speaker 1: a race thing. It is because systematically it's racism. But
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter who's the person on the other side.
Speaker 1: It's just because he's a black man, he's a part
Speaker 1: of that racist system and he's brainwashed by it. So
Speaker 1: as a human, if you can't see that a cop
Speaker 1: put his knee on somebody's neck, or a cop shot
Speaker 1: somebody when he wasn't supposed to. If you can't see
Speaker 1: that as wrong as a human, then we got to disconnect.
Speaker 1: That's a fair point. Your values are all over the place, bro.
Speaker 1: I think the problem with black cops right now is
Speaker 1: they're one of two things are happening. They are feeling
Speaker 1: guilty for something they haven't done and feeling like they're hated.
Speaker 1: So they're feeling forced to defend ship because they know
Speaker 1: that they're wearing this uniform and this is how they
Speaker 1: are in a living So what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 1: Turn away from it now? And or I don't know,
Speaker 1: Like I've met cops that have that are that were
Speaker 1: the community police, you know what I'm saying, Like I've
Speaker 1: met cops that like you know, I lived in the
Speaker 1: Lower east Side for a minute and it's where I
Speaker 1: spent most of my time here in New York. And
Speaker 1: there's a lot of Latino cops in that neighborhood that
Speaker 1: are from the Lower east Side and talk about that's
Speaker 1: why they're there, and I appreciate that, But there isn't
Speaker 1: a lot of community police. There isn't a lot of
Speaker 1: community police led programs, and I think there's a lot
Speaker 1: of great cops actually, But the thing is, when this
Speaker 1: stuff goes down, I would love to see those cops
Speaker 1: speak up and say what's wrong. That's the problem. So
Speaker 1: if you're not saying what's wrong, I don't care if
Speaker 1: you're a good cop, because you're not stepping out for
Speaker 1: us to know that there are some good cops that
Speaker 1: know that that's wrong. What they do is they band
Speaker 1: together and even when they see something wrong, they just
Speaker 1: stay quiet. So you're a part of the problem here
Speaker 1: at this point. Either you're on this side or this side. Right, yeah, right,
Speaker 1: So here's my too before we get into the homel
Speaker 1: and wrap up. Um, do you believe that it's that
Speaker 1: it's possible to have a healthy relationship when you disagree
Speaker 1: because a lot of them, I mean on these matters,
Speaker 1: on who you vote for, on religion, or on social matters.
Speaker 1: Is there a way to agree to disagree on these
Speaker 1: things and have a healthy relationship. I don't think so either.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. And like I said, it comes
Speaker 1: down to values. And if you think like that, it
Speaker 1: means your family thinks like that. That means when I
Speaker 1: go over for the cookout or the family reunion. Now,
Speaker 1: they're saying a whole bunch of flieship that I don't
Speaker 1: agree with. And it's just more than just the interaction
Speaker 1: with us. Is now, now your friends might have those
Speaker 1: same values and now or maybe you have one friend
Speaker 1: that don't agree with you, and I agree with that friend.
Speaker 1: Now you think we're gaining up against you. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It just creates a really weird dynamics.
Speaker 1: So it's too much of a lingering problem politics and
Speaker 1: where we stand on this. I mean, this is why
Speaker 1: your political party is in dating apps, right, because I'd
Speaker 1: be dead asked with you like I would swipe left
Speaker 1: and and it isn't I feel like Trump ruined a
Speaker 1: lot of this because I wasn't that scared of Republicans,
Speaker 1: Like I think the best thing we've ever had was
Speaker 1: the Mitt Romney Obama ticket. Mitt was a Republican even
Speaker 1: asked somebody went that bad? You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: it's like when you have to genuinely question someone's ethics
Speaker 1: about the color of your own skin and you're fadful
Speaker 1: of that and you're watching someone demonized children, Mexican kids, Muslims.
Speaker 1: I mean everything over and over, um and I don't
Speaker 1: and then selling people to motherfuckering drink bleach. We ain't
Speaker 1: even gonna talk about how he's handled this whole COVID bullshit, right,
Speaker 1: It's be it's very hard to now be on that
Speaker 1: side and not see a Republican as that person, and
Speaker 1: it's it's a hard place to fucking be not to
Speaker 1: mention with religion. You know, I'm agnostic with for those
Speaker 1: of you who don't mean you know what it means, atheists,
Speaker 1: someone who don't believe in God. Agnostic is just like
Speaker 1: higher power, spiritual being. Um, I'm not gonna front. I
Speaker 1: had to do that left me for Jesus. We some
Speaker 1: of you remember early on the loves of my life
Speaker 1: and I never forget walking out saying is he's just
Speaker 1: gonna suck your dick to cool Like we were dead
Speaker 1: ass breaking up because he was like I'm he was
Speaker 1: feeling guilty and wanted you to go to Bible study, bitch,
Speaker 1: to step through the church. How I've been fucking bitches
Speaker 1: with you. I like parties, we'd ecstasy, we were doing
Speaker 1: together at the time, and you thought for a second
Speaker 1: then suddenly you would just wake up and be like no,
Speaker 1: now it's Jesus. Oh no, dude, we're going to rave.
Speaker 1: That was my energy back there, like and why does
Speaker 1: God have to stop you? Do you know how many
Speaker 1: horns I've sucked a loved church come ons? We know
Speaker 1: we know how to pass and get down with to
Speaker 1: get down. Uh. Anyways, guys, UM, if you have any stories,
Speaker 1: I do want to share those as well as the
Speaker 1: coming weeks come. So, if you have any stories regarding UM,
Speaker 1: maybe a change in your relationship due to differences in
Speaker 1: opinion regarding the upcoming elect or what's been going on
Speaker 1: with the rights and everything, please shoot us over an email.
Speaker 1: Tell your story. We have something called hole Confessions, but
Speaker 1: this will fall right in there. Email us at Horrible
Speaker 1: Decisions at gmail dot com. This last homail that I'm
Speaker 1: gonna read really quickly. We're gonna give UM some advice
Speaker 1: before getting up out of here. It's as Hi, Mandy
Speaker 1: and Wheezy. First of all, I love this podcast. I
Speaker 1: just got into listening to the podcast and this is
Speaker 1: the best start I have got I could have gotten.
Speaker 1: I just want to say I am African from Rwanda,
Speaker 1: not to be confused with Wakanda. UM and sex is
Speaker 1: literally a taboo to even mention in most African homes.
Speaker 1: So you best believe I make sure I put on
Speaker 1: my headphones when listening to y'all. L O. I've made
Speaker 1: sure I make all of my friends start listening to
Speaker 1: this podcast, because why the funk not y'all are really ship?
Speaker 1: So I have a question. I am twenty two and
Speaker 1: I'm a virgin. I have never done anything sexual with
Speaker 1: men or been in any relationship. At first, it was
Speaker 1: because I just didn't think about it because I was
Speaker 1: mostly preoccupied with school. Now I'm in college in the US,
Speaker 1: and long story short, I want to start exploring my
Speaker 1: sexuality with both myself and relationship wise. It feels like
Speaker 1: most of my friends are already ahead of me and
Speaker 1: don't know where to even start. I have tried dating apps,
Speaker 1: but to be honest, most of them niggas just want
Speaker 1: to hook up, and that is not what I am
Speaker 1: looking for. I genuinely look I genuinely want an emotional
Speaker 1: and sexual connection with someone. Come on, wheezy, what can
Speaker 1: you advise me on entering the dating world or even
Speaker 1: pleasuring myself? Sometimes I think I have set the bar
Speaker 1: so high when I see my friends hooking up, but
Speaker 1: hookups in one night stands just don't interest me at all. Also,
Speaker 1: I am scared of when I do get into a relationship,
Speaker 1: being that I'm a virgin and twenty two, not knowing
Speaker 1: a lot. Here's the question. Please tell me how I
Speaker 1: can get to explore my sexuality deeper while not compromising
Speaker 1: what I want in a relationship to her? Give it
Speaker 1: to her, ladies, So why I'll go ask you too,
Speaker 1: But go ahead, we we're gonna start with you. I
Speaker 1: can give it to her first. As a woman, you
Speaker 1: should give it to a person. Point of view, well,
Speaker 1: I would say I'm going to be soft, but with
Speaker 1: the voice change okay, because you want an emotional and
Speaker 1: connection in a sexual relationship. But I think what's going
Speaker 1: to hinder you from that is thinking that it's going
Speaker 1: to be something deeper. You're allowed to have an emotional
Speaker 1: connection with someone that may not be your boyfriend, and
Speaker 1: you won't regret giving your virginity to that person because
Speaker 1: you'll have a connection with them. I think that you
Speaker 1: cannot seek after a man to take your virginity and
Speaker 1: have this perfect idea of what he will look like.
Speaker 1: If you've met a guy and you've been hanging out
Speaker 1: with him for three days and you feel like you've
Speaker 1: got a mutual respect and you're interested in enemies turning
Speaker 1: you on. Let that be the person that's still a
Speaker 1: connection either way. We have a very weird idea of
Speaker 1: what emotional connections look like from how other people are
Speaker 1: displaying their relationships. We could talk about myself. I've been
Speaker 1: talking about Old Bay on this podcast for a minute,
Speaker 1: and it sounds like I have something deep with him, right.
Speaker 1: That doesn't necessarily mean that we have to mimic those
Speaker 1: relationships that other people are talking about. Everybody's connection to
Speaker 1: someone is a different one. I've had very deep connections
Speaker 1: with people I've known for a few hours. To be
Speaker 1: honest with y'all, like I'm like, Wow, I'm really feeling
Speaker 1: this person. It's like when you're out and you make
Speaker 1: that bathroom friend. Is it someone you'll remember for a
Speaker 1: while or someone you want to keep seeing. It's like vibes, baby, vibes.
Speaker 1: It is And do not put the pressure on yourself
Speaker 1: to make sure this person will stay around. I enjoy
Speaker 1: this person for that moment. I understand you don't want
Speaker 1: to one night stand, and I'm not telling you just
Speaker 1: suck somebody because it's going cool. I'm telling you to
Speaker 1: suck them because you feel like that person is matching
Speaker 1: with you on another level that one night stand would it.
Speaker 1: Just don't have expectations beyond that. Get some experience and
Speaker 1: if you need to be in love, fine, but you
Speaker 1: didn't mention that, So I'm just saying, don't confuse the two.
Speaker 1: Don't confuse an emotional connection for a progressing relationship more
Speaker 1: than you have um a mutual respect like damage. I
Speaker 1: don't know if you could speak to this now, but
Speaker 1: how dating women like can you acknowledge that that you've
Speaker 1: really cared for them? Maybe didn't see it going anywhere.
Speaker 1: But and this is the problem she's going to run into. Right,
Speaker 1: she's a virgin. Clearly, she doesn't have a lot of
Speaker 1: dating history, so she's looking for Mr. Perfect. That's already
Speaker 1: strike one to whoever she has sex with. First, she's
Speaker 1: gonna fall deeply in fake love with. She's not really
Speaker 1: gonna love the person. It's just so much, you know, passion.
Speaker 1: This is the first guy she's really been with, and
Speaker 1: what she needs to do is first workout her relationship kinks,
Speaker 1: because she's not going to realize that most likely she's
Speaker 1: going to be the problem. Just gonna be honest. When
Speaker 1: you've never dealt with somebody before in a serious relationship
Speaker 1: and you first just start having sex, you're gonna be
Speaker 1: super clingy, You're gonna be acting super weird, and you're
Speaker 1: not even gonna notice that until you're in your fourth boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Like I used to act so crazy back then. Why
Speaker 1: was acting like that? You know, I almost I didn't
Speaker 1: argue with about this, but you're right, Yeah, I'm serious.
Speaker 1: So she's gonna be dealing with a dude and no
Speaker 1: matter how normal he is, she's like, he's acting weird.
Speaker 1: He doesn't call me every five minutes, he doesn't do this.
Speaker 1: It's because this is your first boyfriend for real, like
Speaker 1: you never really had a boyfriend. I suggest for her
Speaker 1: to find somebody she vibes with that mutual respect, Like
Speaker 1: you said, get that out the way, get your virginity
Speaker 1: out the way, unless you're waiting to get married. Okay,
Speaker 1: not get your virginity out the way, get out the way.
Speaker 1: It's gonna hinder her with that person that she feels Yeah,
Speaker 1: still a good person, not just anybody, but still somebody
Speaker 1: has mutual respect. Because what's what's going to happen. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, she's gonna be acting weird with this
Speaker 1: dude and he's not gonna be with her. So now
Speaker 1: after she had her first boyfriend and had her first
Speaker 1: sexual experience, he's probably going to break up with her
Speaker 1: or do something weird and she's gonna be crushed for
Speaker 1: like a year. So I'm trying to I'm trying to
Speaker 1: prevent her from that for the never given. But be
Speaker 1: ready for heartbreak. I think that you need to prepare
Speaker 1: yourself for that too, because it just comes with the
Speaker 1: goddamn Let me tell you something. You don't even have
Speaker 1: some fun. Just have some fun, like, don't try to
Speaker 1: go into your first one so serious, and you will
Speaker 1: find that right person because you want to work out
Speaker 1: your own kinks first. Yea, when when you said be
Speaker 1: ready for heartbreak? This entire podcast over the last three
Speaker 1: and a half years has never gone a week without
Speaker 1: talking about a dick. Dick is the reason for tears.
Speaker 1: Dick is the reason me and many have argued, and
Speaker 1: we don't have a mutual dick, just dick drive you crazy,
Speaker 1: don't even not getting dick, getting dick, but then just
Speaker 1: not fitting in the time We're going to the student.
Speaker 1: My nigga Dick is the root of all evil. You
Speaker 1: want to be a part of this, und you and
Speaker 1: understand that you are now really a part of the
Speaker 1: whore high because when you come to them live shows
Speaker 1: and we start our niggas, ain't ship chip niggas, ain't
Speaker 1: sh niggas for the men wanting to come to the
Speaker 1: Horrible Decision live show. We do not chant the niggasation.
Speaker 1: Although I did get told the other day that I
Speaker 1: have a niggasation ship attitude towards life, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I like that towards life. That's
Speaker 1: not bad. I love all my niggas. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: lie and everyone that's been inside of me. Um. But anyways,
Speaker 1: we are going to wrap this up. Damage. I want
Speaker 1: to thank you for joining us. Can you go ahead
Speaker 1: and let audience know where they can find you and
Speaker 1: where they can listen to you. Also what your podcast
Speaker 1: is about real quick? Oh of course? Okay, So of course,
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Speaker 1: a button on that? I don't know? You don't know?
Speaker 1: Something good as brewing? Well, let me tell y'all something
Speaker 1: sliding while you can. Yeah, y'all better hurry up because
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Speaker 1: like that. Well, guys, I want to thank you guys
Speaker 1: um for tuning into another episode weezy, Do you have
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Speaker 1: Decisions by women listening are like, you know, what marriage
Speaker 1: really isn't for me? I guess I get them into
Speaker 1: kind of a a a deep hole of thinking than
Speaker 1: what is the purpose of dating? What is the end
Speaker 1: goal of dating? Um? And you and I kind of
Speaker 1: had this conversation because essentially, a lot of us date
Speaker 1: to marry, a lot of us dates to find our
Speaker 1: you know, love, love of our life. We date to
Speaker 1: to find that one person that we see ourselves with
Speaker 1: for the rest of our lives. And that's kind of
Speaker 1: how we're conditioned. That's how we're born, that's how the
Speaker 1: fairy tales go, that's how all the Disney movies end.
Speaker 1: And and so as an adult though, as I get
Speaker 1: older and I see that I'm happy like with my
Speaker 1: partners and and what I get from them, and how
Speaker 1: I'm not I don't have to answer to anybody, and
Speaker 1: how I'm able to have purely open communication, and also
Speaker 1: just not seeing a marriage that I envy. Girl, that's
Speaker 1: that hard. That's that's serious though, Like I don't know
Speaker 1: a married couple when I'm like, damn, I want that.
Speaker 1: I wish I had exactly that. Like even do I
Speaker 1: want what will Smith and Jada have? No, ma'am, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't want that. I mean ship. We all sit
Speaker 1: here and say, relationship goes to all these celebrities, and
Speaker 1: then by the following week we see that one has
Speaker 1: cheated on the other, there was domestic abuse or you know,
Speaker 1: and so even our ideas what I don't even want,
Speaker 1: I don't even envy Barack and Michelle because Michelle had
Speaker 1: to put up with a lot. I'm not talking about
Speaker 1: like Barrock cheating or anything. It's just their type of
Speaker 1: partnership is a lot on her a lot. It's a lot.
Speaker 1: It's demanding, it's demanding. But I think that I think
Speaker 1: that we don't realize not only does society add so
Speaker 1: much pressure to us, but men do and other women.
Speaker 1: I want to read. I want to read this tweet.
Speaker 1: It's from Sierra w Um. I literally asked what the
Speaker 1: end goal was if you don't want to get married,
Speaker 1: and she said L O L. Society telling women their
Speaker 1: only value because people see them as wife or mother
Speaker 1: material is dismal. In my opinion. If you can only
Speaker 1: see your worth through men, then please continue the cycle
Speaker 1: like our mothers did. Um and I write, and I
Speaker 1: think that that is telling because yeah, like I think
Speaker 1: a lot of us view ourselves and the worth of
Speaker 1: ourselves by the acceptance of men, or how men view
Speaker 1: our worthiness without viewing ourselves as worthy, and we do
Speaker 1: it to each other. We see here and be like, well, girl,
Speaker 1: you ain't got a ring, So until you get a ring, hey,
Speaker 1: don't nobody wants you. And I think it's trash. I'm
Speaker 1: looking for the response from Raquel Savage. Raquel Savage has
Speaker 1: such a fucking way with words, um, and I want
Speaker 1: to read it before we kind of get into our own.
Speaker 1: So so again, the question is what is the end
Speaker 1: goal if you don't want to get married? Um. Former
Speaker 1: guests for cal Savage said, to get my needs met,
Speaker 1: To experience love and kindness, gentleness and stillness, vulnerability and introspection,
Speaker 1: joy community, to feel seen and held, to practice reciprocal reciprocity,
Speaker 1: reciprocity my baby, you know, I gotta reciprocity, bitch, fuck you,
Speaker 1: and feeling safe in my body with others. To learn
Speaker 1: something about myself and my perception of the world. And
Speaker 1: I like that because I don't think people realize you
Speaker 1: can truly enjoy a long partnership with someone without not
Speaker 1: only marriage, but without a title. And I think that
Speaker 1: we've we've talked about titles a lot on this podcast,
Speaker 1: and a lot of people feel like things go downhill
Speaker 1: when you start pressuring a title. UM. I do think
Speaker 1: that that just has a lot to do with monogamy,
Speaker 1: because maybe at that time that person does not want
Speaker 1: to be exclusive, and so the pressure is a feeling like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I now have to answer to one person. I now
Speaker 1: am getting into an exclusive agreement where you know, maybe
Speaker 1: I don't want to lie. I think that that's where
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure comes with with titles, um. But
Speaker 1: also what is marriage be? What? What is marriage? What
Speaker 1: is marriage but sides documents and being able to file
Speaker 1: joint returns? What what is marriage? Or what do you
Speaker 1: what do you believe we have viewed marriage as over
Speaker 1: the years to make it seem so worthy and make
Speaker 1: it the end goal of of partnership. That's a tough question.
Speaker 1: I just feel like everyone has a different version of
Speaker 1: what marriage is. There are some people who want to
Speaker 1: be taken care of and you know, have children and
Speaker 1: have the husband to work and they bring it home
Speaker 1: to the wife, and or some people just want literally
Speaker 1: a partner, you know, for you know, health insurance or
Speaker 1: like there's so many reasons people get married. I don't
Speaker 1: have that answer, and I think, I mean, maybe that's
Speaker 1: why I don't know if that's something that I want,
Speaker 1: because I haven't I have I don't have a definition
Speaker 1: for you