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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: We made it the two Girl, Mandy b a k

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Speaker 1: A that bitch a K A. Goddamn, we're here again.

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Speaker 1: My name is Wheezy for some of you on Patreon

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Speaker 1: that now know my real name because I shared it,

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Speaker 1: Weezy the G. I kind of like that till my

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Speaker 1: friend close friends call me G. But I don't know

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Speaker 1: if I'm ever going to be good with a K

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Speaker 1: because I changed too much, took me off, took me pegg.

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Speaker 1: The Stallion is what it's gonna be, okay, although although

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Speaker 1: and I'm not really gonna bring them up on the pot.

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Speaker 1: But whoever I'm talking to right now is not into pegging,

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Speaker 1: and I am very okay with it. Um. Anyways, guys,

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Speaker 1: you guys hear another boy just got the prayer hands

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Speaker 1: from damn um. For those of you who here, we do.

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Speaker 1: We are joined with some tesaserone on this episode. We

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Speaker 1: have DJ Damage, who is a host in one third

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Speaker 1: of Hollywood Unlocked alongside Jason Lee and Melissa Ford, and

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Speaker 1: he's done just a whole bunch of revolt if you

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Speaker 1: guys are interested in being a media personality. He also

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Speaker 1: holds webinars and classes and courses on how you guys

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Speaker 1: can kind of be like us. So go ahead and say, Hi, damage, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's up y'all? Look, I really appreciate being on the

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Speaker 1: podcast to um let's get into it legendary media group. Well,

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Speaker 1: can I ask you? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I've been

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Speaker 1: djur swell. What's like your go to song that you

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Speaker 1: have to like put all right now? Yeah? When people

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Speaker 1: need to get hypers fuck. I mean it's so many

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Speaker 1: in the West Coast. You can always do um still

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Speaker 1: dre overall. You already know what it is. The anthem

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Speaker 1: is back that asst It's never a time. Did you

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Speaker 1: give up Kanye? That? That's an easy question. Did I

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Speaker 1: give up Kanye when you, like we all started working

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Speaker 1: with Niga, But did you give him up as a DJ? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I kind of gave up. Good shout out of you.

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Speaker 1: One of my closest home girls and this bitch played

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Speaker 1: Kanye the other day on her I G Live and

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Speaker 1: I was excuse me. I thought we had a consensual

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Speaker 1: I like the go I like the gospel of music too,

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Speaker 1: But now I had to give up Kanye. I was

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Speaker 1: about to say, how do you really play him now?

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Speaker 1: Like his stuff doesn't really hit, doesn't want his music is,

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Speaker 1: but we just don't funk with that niggas sus So

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Speaker 1: I'm curious. But I thought that we funk with him

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Speaker 1: again because he donated to like the George Floyd Fund,

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Speaker 1: he got to donate a little bit more. Don what

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Speaker 1: two millions? Yeah, put put a few more zeros on there,

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Speaker 1: and I got you or something? You know is why

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Speaker 1: do they never happy? I don't know. I will say this.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that people were like talking shit about

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Speaker 1: Kanye that day. I just choose not to acknowledge him.

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Speaker 1: I think what Kanye did is detrimental to people view

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Speaker 1: black people. And that's why I can't funk with Kanye.

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Speaker 1: Like I am the person that I sold the purse

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Speaker 1: to go see Kanye when I was twenty, Like that's

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Speaker 1: how much I stand Kanye. So that was a good concert,

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Speaker 1: wasn't it? It It was worth it? Bro See? Look at

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Speaker 1: first of all, I'm a Beyonce stand and I can

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Speaker 1: actually genuinely say his concerts have been better than anything

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Speaker 1: I've ever seen to Beyonce, and I only say that

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Speaker 1: because Beyonce is such a performer that when you watch Beyonce,

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Speaker 1: it's so much going on. You're watching dancing, you're watching lights,

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Speaker 1: you're watching a bunch of ship. Kanye doesn't need anything,

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Speaker 1: and you're like shaking up. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It's weird. Okay, dope, it's so weird because, like I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess, did y'all see the conspiracy

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Speaker 1: theory going around that he did the whole Maga thing

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Speaker 1: on purpose? So did y'all see the conspiracy? But no, No,

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Speaker 1: he did it to do what breaking down. He did

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Speaker 1: to help people get out of jail, to help free

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Speaker 1: black people out of jail. And now he's using his

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Speaker 1: platform like he pretty much did it to get a

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Speaker 1: black voice in a place where he knew there wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be black. That's not true. Stop saying it's a fact.

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Speaker 1: He's like, damn, how do I back up to this one?

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Speaker 1: So now he try to doctor Omar Hotep his way

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Speaker 1: back into our lives and be like what I did

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Speaker 1: was act like I was for the white man, when

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Speaker 1: really he I was for y'all the whole time. But

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Speaker 1: Emira theory, I like this conspiracy. I'm going with that.

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Speaker 1: Kanye is back again. I like that because they ain't

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Speaker 1: even gonna hold y'all. Some of the most comfortable sneakers

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Speaker 1: I have a wall, but I'm still I'm too because

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Speaker 1: they comfortable. I just but I wear when I gotta

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Speaker 1: do something, I'm wearing them sneakers. But he technically is

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Speaker 1: it money that I gave him? If I ain't never

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Speaker 1: but I never got the registration from Adidas? Yes, getting

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Speaker 1: the resale ship. Yes, it is the black man. You

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Speaker 1: supported the black man, the resell black man. Okay, shut up, man,

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Speaker 1: let's cabout something else. I'm done with this. Yeah, don't well,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna catch up something guys that I want to

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Speaker 1: make sure um again. Um. Last week we kind of

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Speaker 1: or actually two weeks ago, we did a compilation. This

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Speaker 1: has been kind of hard to kind of just get

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Speaker 1: back in the rhythm of things. As you guys know,

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Speaker 1: we love talking sucking deak um. But it's kind of okay. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, I say, do you not like stand now? Now?

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Speaker 1: You see how you flip that around. It's gotta be clear, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Gonna work with Jason Lee, right, I gotta make sure

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Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. Okay, you're right, You're right,

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Speaker 1: You're right. Um, guys, I want to give kind of

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Speaker 1: attention to petitions. If if some of you, um, felt

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Speaker 1: like you didn't do enough over the last couple of

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Speaker 1: weeks because maybe you didn't want to protest, maybe you

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Speaker 1: don't have the money to donate to any of the

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Speaker 1: organizations that are making a difference. I want to let

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Speaker 1: you guys know that you guys can go do change

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Speaker 1: dot org. UM. I am actually gonna put this link

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Speaker 1: in the description of this episode. This this specific petition

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Speaker 1: is for Levenna Johnson. UM. She's she's nineteen years old.

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Speaker 1: She was found dead in her tent in Iraq back

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Speaker 1: in two thousand five. She had a broken nose, black ey'm,

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Speaker 1: loose teeth, and burns from a corrosive chemical on her

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Speaker 1: genitals to cover evidence of rape, and a gunshot wound,

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Speaker 1: and the United States government ruled her death a suicide. So, guys,

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Speaker 1: the petition right now is to find justice for Levenna

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Speaker 1: Johnson and hopefully reopen her case. UM. And so again,

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Speaker 1: that link will be in the description of this episode.

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Speaker 1: So again, if you guys can't donate and you guys

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Speaker 1: haven't been able to march. This is a way for

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Speaker 1: you guys to make change, and so please go ahead

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Speaker 1: and sign the petition. They are seeking about fifty thousand

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Speaker 1: signatures and as of right now it's about at thirty

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Speaker 1: nine thousand, So go ahead and make a difference, just

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Speaker 1: to let you guys know how petitions work. A lot

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Speaker 1: of people like don't sign them or don't really understand them.

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Speaker 1: But when you get to a hundred thousand assisted petition, um,

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Speaker 1: I believe it's like something called we the People is

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Speaker 1: like what petitions really mean to the White House. And

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Speaker 1: when you get a hundred thousand signatures within a month,

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Speaker 1: they review it, they make sure it gets in front

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Speaker 1: of appropriate policy experts, and then they issue an official

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Speaker 1: response to you. Petitions don't necessarily mean they will reopen something,

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Speaker 1: but it is very good for, you know, regenerating awareness

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Speaker 1: to something that might have been dead and gone. Um,

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Speaker 1: much like writing I am you know you might. I

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm at this point now where I'm like

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Speaker 1: tired of the conversation where people don't understand and there

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Speaker 1: are just so many white people in our history that

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Speaker 1: I've gotten things they've wanted from writing, and I implore

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Speaker 1: you to learn about how people sees and take over things.

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Speaker 1: And the only thing we want to take over is

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Speaker 1: our lives, which show the funk is I've had attitude.

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Speaker 1: I've lost friends this week, um, including blacks that are

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Speaker 1: like showing off with their peaceful protests. That annoys the

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Speaker 1: ship out of me. Stop capitalizing the peaceful this week.

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Speaker 1: No one gives a fuck bitch like what, I'm too

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Speaker 1: pussy to bang some ship up. That's just the truth.

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Speaker 1: I'm too pussy to break a window down, but I

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Speaker 1: understand why it needs to be done and why it

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Speaker 1: you did nothing other than protest, which mind you looters

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Speaker 1: of the minority, looters of the minority. I mean, so,

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Speaker 1: I guess we as you guys know, we always agree

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Speaker 1: be honest with you. UM. As far as seeing protests

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Speaker 1: last this long, I've of course never seen it in

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Speaker 1: my lifetime. There's been protests from the Trayvon Martin case,

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Speaker 1: Eric Gardner. They were outside every day for the well

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Speaker 1: specifically here in New York. UM, I've seen you know,

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Speaker 1: And so I mean going out and being a part

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Speaker 1: I mean, I may have told this on this show before,

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Speaker 1: but when I protested at Trayvon Martin at the time

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Speaker 1: I lived in Orlando, UM, I got put in handcuffs

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Speaker 1: for jaywalking and everybody was like, happens, because they can't

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Speaker 1: and ship like that happened. But you know, specifically about

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Speaker 1: the peaceful thing, the reason I'm having a lot of

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Speaker 1: under scrutiny because they're using some of that bail money

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Speaker 1: to let out people that set our center, cars and

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Speaker 1: things like that, and people are mad, but understanding what

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Speaker 1: you donate to people setting ship on fire? Right? And

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Speaker 1: I mean that's the point of view. That's all I

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Speaker 1: I want my black friends to understand why people are

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Speaker 1: this one, bro, what did you what are you talking about? Well,

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Speaker 1: Walt Wheezy was describing what he was doing. Your face

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Speaker 1: damage was. So, what I'm saying is would you rather

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Speaker 1: the flip flop. It's comfy. It's comfy. How do you

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Speaker 1: you should be like Manto. My foot, I'm missing a pink,

424
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 1: your miss pinky? Now, can you pull your foot out?

425
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,919
Speaker 1: I don't know how to do yo. You just you

426
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 1: just lifted up after reviewing. Sometimes you gotta review your foot.

427
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: It's it's corn. Let me make sure y'all can't see

428
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: the pusa. My socks are peasy too. Don't look, don't

429
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: judge my foot. Wait, put your foot up. Wait, you

430
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: really gonna leave it with the sock. We ain't got

431
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 1: no foot fetish. I don't want to see it. I

432
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 1: don't think you'll have a rating for that kind of thing.

433
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,439
Speaker 1: That that's going to be is for a place to stop.

434
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 1: That's what we don't have. There is not one time

435
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: on this show where I well, anal acrobats was pretty bad. No, bitch,

436
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 1: you were not ready for that one. No, I wasn't

437
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 1: an acrobats like shoot balls out of their assholes and

438
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 1: it was an asshole circus. I'm gonna send you. I'm

439
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 1: gonna send you the video. But basically, a woman, a

440
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: woman was pouring a glass of wine and the wine

441
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 1: bottle was in her ass. So she was pouring the

442
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 1: glass of wine from her asshole? How much would like

443
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 1: some of that? Okay? Let me let me ask you this.

444
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 1: It's a low amount of money, but like high enough

445
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: to where you might do it for ten grand If

446
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: a girl poured a bottle of wine in her ass

447
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 1: would you let her shoot it into your mouth for

448
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 1: ten grands? Uh? If it was my woman? Hell yeah?

449
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: Not just some random asshole. That's how you get Corona.

450
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: We still gotta say Corona free, Yo, don't forget that right? Wait? So,

451
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 1: so you're down as long as she's your girl to

452
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: get his kid possible. I'm not drinking my nigga. I

453
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 1: don't want Booty Salvina Blong. I'm goods booty. I don't

454
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: want a Booty Bordeaux. I don't want a ship. So

455
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 1: you don't want booty Noir. No, that sounds yo, that

456
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 1: sounds like a fucking poor name. Nigger Booty, where'd you

457
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: get your name? I just really love a red wine. Honestly,

458
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm gonna say we start doing this ship again.

459
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 1: Mob bay, mobay, anybody. We're gonna get into the whole facts, y'all.

460
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: Whole facts is random sex facts that you may not

461
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: have known. And this one, I'm interested. We have a

462
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: guy on here and I want to know if this

463
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: is actually true. So the whole facts today comes from

464
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: all Bright University. In a study that they did in

465
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: two thousand fourteen, The fact is that you can really

466
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: turn a guy on with your voice. They found that

467
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 1: women were able to consciously manipulate their voices while counting

468
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: from one to ten to sound more attractive. When the

469
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: guys in the study tried to do the same, they

470
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 1: actually came off sounding less attractive. What kind of voice

471
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: change makes a woman sound sexier? A deep, breadthy voice.

472
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: According to researchers, men are attracted to this kind of

473
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: pitch not because they prefer women with lower voices, but

474
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: because women dropped. When a woman drops her voice, she's

475
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: signal she's signaling that she's interested, a hint that men

476
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: certainly aren't blind to. So y'all know, wheezy be with

477
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 1: the motherfucking voices and accents. So weezy, I need you

478
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 1: to go from one to ten, least attractive to most.

479
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: She didn't even know I was gonna do this, y'all,

480
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 1: but I need you to go from the least attractive

481
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: voice that you have to the most sexy voice one

482
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 1: to tend. Yeah, like, I feel like people really don't

483
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: like like if you do, like you know what's called

484
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: the voice right now, it's kind of like cold stuff up.

485
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 1: But you know, I really think they do get very

486
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: attracted when she's doing this A little bit different when

487
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 1: you watch good now get now turn that into a

488
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: super sex voice. Oh my god, stop, I can't, Yes,

489
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: you can't. You have to get breathy, the deep, breathe deep. Okay,

490
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 1: all right, all right, let me try. Let's get out

491
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: of care and I'm getting nervous because we're gonna use

492
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: this as a clip hoop. That's why I'm trying to

493
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: get it right. I even put my wig on for this. Okay,

494
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: just think about booty, their booty, their girl. Okay, do

495
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: some role play with me. Okay, called dammage, call me

496
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: damage damage, call her because you're trying to get the pussy. Okay,

497
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: so go ahead and talk to her. Let her know

498
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: you want you want a booty call. That's a booty call.

499
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: Let's go is this d Yeah? Hi? What are you

500
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: doing waiting for you? When you're gonna pull up? I

501
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: don't know. I thought you were gonna like send me

502
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: an uber, come get it yourself. I don't. I don't

503
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 1: know how bad do you want to see me? The breath?

504
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: I hear it. I'm about to send that over right now.

505
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: I got I got asked me. I can't do the breath.

506
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 1: To god, I barely got it. I got up. No.

507
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 1: But it's so crazy because little do we know, Like

508
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 1: if I'm just having this conversation on the podcast, this

509
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: is clearly different than the voice I give when I'm

510
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: like here, what's the voice you give? Man? Come on?

511
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: Where do you want to come? Did you really just snort? Bit?

512
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: What if they back with? And what options do I have? Bitch?

513
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: Do you want to come on my tits? You want

514
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: to in my mouth? Can you come in my mouth?

515
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: Want to hear? You'll want to hear? Where do you

516
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 1: want to come? Story? If you guys listen to for

517
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: a fact sake, you'll hear this. Um you've already heard

518
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: this story. But let me just tell y'all. So I'm

519
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 1: in New York for a few days for work, but

520
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: I've been living in saloom during this quarantine with my

521
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: and he came and he always comes in my pussy

522
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 1: because we track our ovulationship right, and it's all she

523
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: about to be bullshit me. Just the week fund for Wheezy.

524
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 1: Sorry sorry, sorry, Okay. So the week of that, my

525
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: period was supposed to come. Sad moment, George Floyd, Right,

526
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: So like, I know that you could get so stressed

527
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: out that your period won't come, but it did. Never

528
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: happened to me, So my period didn't come on for

529
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 1: seven days. My period has only ever been late one day.

530
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: So I don't want to say anything to him because

531
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: this nigga working too much. There's already a hurricane that

532
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: comes this week, so I'm like, let me go get

533
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: a pregnancy test. So I come in the house, I

534
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,959
Speaker 1: pee on the stick and these words pop up and

535
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: it says and you're late and embrazada, and I'm like,

536
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: what it's coming through in Spanish? Right? Right? It was

537
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: a digital screen, but hold on, the electricity went out

538
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: because it's hurricane, so I could not connect to the internet. Right,

539
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, my niked and my pregnant. Do I gotta impanada?

540
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: Or do I not gotta impanada? It said embarrazada? So

541
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: I wake up? Non, No internet comes back up, and no,

542
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: it didn't come back up. I walked down the street

543
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: to get signal to figure out I wasn't pregnant. Two

544
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: days later, I go get another pregnancy test. The ship

545
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: says negativo. I know what that is? We straight. Then

546
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: I get an I say negativo, bitch, that does not

547
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: just could have been Spanish. I think I think it's

548
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: the name. I think we just like. I think we

549
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: just like add an oh to anything anything. Because when

550
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: I was sucked up right and electricity went off, I

551
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: went downstairs and damn show said l light too and

552
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: working it is Negativo. Okay, okay, I ain't know. I ain't.

553
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: So then the next test had one line on one side,

554
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: one on the other side, right, And so as a

555
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: woman you have to take like multiple tests because you

556
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: can't just take one dog seven days late. I literally

557
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: took one every other day. I took four tests. So

558
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: at this point I see another test the line is

559
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: a certain way and I have just throw it to him.

560
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I don't know what's going on. Just

561
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: look it up. This niga google is that comes back

562
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: talking about no empanada. We ain't got no empanada. No emfanata,

563
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: we got bitch. All I know is I know all

564
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: about Mexican pregnancies. And to let you know, when I

565
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: went into the ox So, which is the Mexican pregnancies,

566
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: you're not gonna get their version of seven eleven. Right.

567
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: So when I walk in, mind you like the signals

568
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: sucked up out there because the storm, so cellphone towers

569
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: are down. I walk in trying to ask for a

570
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: pregnancy test. I went like this, see, no, do you

571
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: have test? Though? This bitch is like she put everything literally,

572
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: that's what she's doing. But listening, I'm not trying to

573
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: be racist. I just don't know. So this bitch comes

574
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: out with some diapers. I said, no, oh my god.

575
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: I said maybe maybe maybe maybe no baby. People in

576
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: the fucking store was laughing at me, and I was

577
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: like yo. And at this point I noticed bitch was

578
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: sucking with me. She pulled out apple sauce and she

579
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: don't like, you know what the funk I'm saying? Oh?

580
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: Then I said, you have just googled it how to

581
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: say it? You could have just cellphone towers were down.

582
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: I don't think you're hearing me. They can't even process

583
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: credit cards. Okay, that's how it was a hurricane. So wait,

584
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: I walked down the aisle to grab a tampon, right

585
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: the box of tampons, because I said this, how must

586
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: figure out pregnancy tests? Our dad ass held it up.

587
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: I said, no necessito because baby, anyway, she handed it

588
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: to me. But fuck, I'm weak. I'm I'm weak as well.

589
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: I love it. Um, we went through the whole facts.

590
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: Y'all know, y'all know I'm an outline whole goddamn it.

591
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 1: We ain't really been on the outline because you know,

592
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: ship fuck. Anyways, we're gonna get into our hor derve

593
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: before we get into our horror decision and the hord derve.

594
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: I found this on Cosmopolitan Damage. If you have any

595
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 1: sex tip that you would like to share with our audience,

596
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: please let me out this. So this is me trying

597
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: to get my sexy voice on. Didn't work? Maybe not, Okay,

598
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: I'm working on it. My nigga is like my rasp,

599
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: so I'll just be like Anyways, the horrid dirt for

600
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: this week is a sack cruel sacral sacral. How you

601
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: think that that spelled? Pronounce sacral like sacrale? If it's

602
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: sacral oh maybe like a nut sack. Maybe because it's

603
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: for your butt crack. Actually, not the nut sack, but

604
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: the butt crack. So try a sacral massage. If you're

605
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: going to experiment with anal anal four play is a must,

606
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: So try giving or receiving a sacral massage a k a.

607
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: Massaging the area just above the butt crack for fifteen

608
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: to twenty minutes. Now, I don't know if those are

609
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: fifteen to twenty six minutes or actual minutes, but I

610
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,479
Speaker 1: would say just for massage, I hope for thirty seconds.

611
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: I would be willing to bet my life that a

612
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: sacral massage has nothing to do with your butt, your

613
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 1: nut sack, I said, butt crack, but nut sack. You

614
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: take your thumb like this, you actually actually go It's

615
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 1: it's right above your butt crack. And what you're doing

616
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: is you're massaging this area and it will help release

617
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: tension and loosen the whole area up. I actually wanted

618
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: to add to this guy's so this is I do

619
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: because so this is my tip to you guys who

620
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 1: are interested in getting near the Buddha hole. It's just

621
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: a Buda hole, you know what I mean? I know,

622
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 1: but I get it, I get it, But this is

623
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 1: a real tip. Shut the funk up. So yes, massage

624
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,919
Speaker 1: right above the back um, right above the buck crack.

625
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: But I would say you could get to this by

626
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: offering your man a back massage. So if you guys

627
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: know the lower part of the back, definitely focused there.

628
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:42,399
Speaker 1: And wait what wait, let me finish damage because this

629
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 1: is this is this literally works every single time. I'm

630
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,399
Speaker 1: not gonna lie it hasn't not worked for me. So

631
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: you your massage is back. So you act like you

632
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: tie and you do the elbows and ship and you

633
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 1: know the pattern and get the upper upper back. Then

634
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: when you get down to the lower back, then you

635
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: start massaging the butt. She As you're massaging the butt cheeks,

636
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: you're pulling the cheeks apart right, So then you go

637
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: into the cup of the cheeks. So now you're massaging

638
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: the thighs and the butt cheeks, thigh butt cheeks, and

639
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: then you go in with your hands just like so,

640
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: and you fit your mouth right into that boot hole

641
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: and you add heating the groceries. And let me tell

642
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 1: you tell us something. Please, I never had my ass

643
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: eight but if I was to get my ass, I'm

644
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: not laying on my stomach and let you massage my

645
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: ass cheeks open, dipping your tongue into me. It's not

646
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: not I don't like my asked me a massage where.

647
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 1: It's why I didn't like that because I feel like

648
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 1: air is gonna come like a I feel like I

649
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 1: don't want to us about to blow in the boot

650
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: hole it supposed to. That's the opposite. I want things

651
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 1: coming out of it, not in it. You're gonna fart

652
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: in the nigga face while he in your booty. Hall.

653
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: I feel like when niggas spread my ass like air

654
00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: is gonna come out you. You're gonna fat for spreading

655
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 1: the man's sad. It's the gluteous massage. It is. But

656
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: so here's the thing. You know if they like it

657
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: or not, because yeah, yeah, So some guys will moan

658
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: and that's they're like, okay, I like what you're doing.

659
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,720
Speaker 1: And some guys will actually start to spread their legs

660
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: like to let you know that what you're doing is

661
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 1: okay without telling you. Like there's body languages, body languages,

662
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: body like I don't feel like that's comfortable. So that's

663
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: the part. Well, I mean, technically most people would prefer

664
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 1: massage on their stomach, so I don't think you're thinking

665
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 1: of it that way. You're not thinking that it's on.

666
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: And then that's the thing. Because the balls are there,

667
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: you also just spit down on them and make them wet,

668
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: and then you start massaging the balls while you're massaging

669
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 1: the butt cheeks. It works, I'm telling you it works.

670
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 1: You guys want to know something random that's been coming

671
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: up in my head. It's disgusting. I dream about it

672
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: like two or three times a week now. So our

673
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: place into Loom is like in this little like community, right,

674
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: and there's this Italian dude that lives there with his

675
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: wife and children. Mind you, with my nigga, I'm not

676
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: trying to like you know, but it's just this fantasy

677
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: that keeps coming. He's a boxer and he gives me

678
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: boxing lessons three or four times a week. But when

679
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 1: he's like doing his ship alone, he gets like really

680
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: bad because he does like kickboxing. So I guess something

681
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: happens to his ass and he'd be oiling up his

682
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: legs and stuff like that by the pool, right, and

683
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: I'd be looking like, yo, he got a nut because

684
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: he's euros so he'd be wearing a little Speedo Italian dude,

685
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: I'd be like, he he really about to go up

686
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 1: in the ass. And sometimes if you think about his

687
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 1: cute little fucking ass all day, and I don't know

688
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: if it's because there's nothing else to do but just

689
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: cook and sunk my own nigga. Now I keep thinking

690
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: about this and dreaming of an Italian nigga in a

691
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: speedos just his butt because he'd be oiling it. But

692
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 1: now when we but with no oh my god, dude,

693
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: now we're all becoming friends in this community. I hope

694
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: to god he never looks up horrible decision because he's like,

695
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 1: what do you doing a medic I'm going to figure

696
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 1: it out, come out with the speedo. But he don't

697
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 1: speak that good at talking about him. But sometimes when

698
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: we be working out right because we spar or whatever,

699
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: and he'd be like hound up. But and then like

700
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: he'll like turn me and ship hand ups, hound ups.

701
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: And then when he turns and he'd be having on

702
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: him tight little short and I see that ass folks out,

703
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: I think about going to his booty. And I never

704
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: think like this, like if I fan assigned, someone is

705
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 1: not about their ass. I can't even stop looking thinking

706
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: of going into an Italian man's Buddha hole. I have

707
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,879
Speaker 1: literally almost ran into things on my bike because he'll

708
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: walk by the street he o gee, and I'm like, oh,

709
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: we want to be in some Buddha hale. I don't

710
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: know what I think why I got this fixation on

711
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 1: his nigga's ass. It's the sky? Is it big? Like?

712
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: Does he have cheeks? Like you got a man? A

713
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: full on cheeks? So like I think it's because of

714
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: the workouts he'd be doing. He got a fat ass,

715
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 1: And I've never seen anything like this. You ever actually

716
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: look at a man's ass and get turned on? No damage?

717
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: Do you like booty? Like not man booty? Clearly we're

718
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: going to change the gender here because you are a

719
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: heterosisn and jail you know, you know jail, that's what

720
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 1: they call it, a man's but it's called booty. Is

721
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: that jail booty? It's just booty. I thought it was

722
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: called booty for everybody. I thought it was called for

723
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 1: everybody booty something specific. So what type of I guess

724
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: for the ladies listening, what type of booty do you like?

725
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: But ass? Because I like it natural I'm into athletic athletic,

726
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 1: so it doesn't have to be big. Just I used

727
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: to play sports, and I don't think I would be

728
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: considered an athletic ass, but I used to play athletic.

729
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: Acid aren't like weighty. You have like a heavy but

730
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: let asks are more like titans small, they're super round,

731
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: but they're like you like small booties. You know what

732
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: you know that? Did you know? You know? Did you

733
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: know that Weely was the president of the Small Booty Coalition?

734
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: Why did you say it was? Because I think you're

735
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 1: going to think now, yeah, you can you think now

736
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: with me? Let me tell you all what's funny. So

737
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: uh this I used to suck your nigga. I can't

738
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 1: remember where he was from. Slovenia. Where you talking about

739
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: the nigga that had the bank issue that you told

740
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: him in the Pillow Talk episode where he was like

741
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 1: being investigated. He was Danish, but this guy he was

742
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 1: Danis Danis Salvacia. Dude. Once I've moved to New York,

743
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: and I like, because I wasn't really a white guy

744
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: fucker until I moved to New York. But when I

745
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: realized they had different type of white niggas. I was like, funk,

746
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to suck these nings. Thank god, I'm with

747
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:48,320
Speaker 1: a black man now and he's trying times because I

748
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 1: don't know what I would do. But anyway, so this

749
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 1: white boy used to funk, right. He used to be like,

750
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: you have a nice sports ass, and I think it

751
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 1: was his way of being like, it's small, but it's cool.

752
00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: He just can't stick out farther than the booty as

753
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:11,760
Speaker 1: long as that ratio is fine, You good. I hate

754
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 1: guys with like cheeks because I clearly like to get

755
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 1: in the cheeks, but it'd be now I see what

756
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: men have to deal with. It's a lot to move

757
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 1: about the way to get there, like you be having,

758
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: because many has been searching for the booty hole as

759
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: we know it is. And and like when guys have

760
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,240
Speaker 1: kind of like a little donkey booty, I'd be like, nigga,

761
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: your booty look bigger than mine. It's just a lot

762
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: to move out the way. What tighter men have donkey booties.

763
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 1: So I football players for sure are thicker, but even

764
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 1: the basketball players because I guess they're athletic, like they'd

765
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 1: be having little asses that sit up and you know,

766
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 1: I'd be liking niggas to walk naked, like that's like

767
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 1: part of my foreplay after sex. I want to see

768
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: a man just walk naked and their booties be so big.

769
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: I be like, oh, you'd be posting up, don't you.

770
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: But you know what, I appreciate when men have like

771
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: that tone on their side, not like their ass cheek.

772
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: But what did I get? Yeah? What's that called? Was

773
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: a little the did in the booty. That's a hit, right, Okay?

774
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that. I like that whatever

775
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: they're doing, the little sidekicks, Oh, that donkey kicks. I

776
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 1: like that little whenever I try to get attention from

777
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 1: dudes at the gym, because I like when I squat,

778
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: I feel like my ass doesn't look that big cat

779
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: cow yoga thing like this one where you oh yeah,

780
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 1: so in quarantine. I've started doing that, y'all. I don't

781
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: know if y'all know. I would probably rather run on

782
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 1: a track. Them yoga positions, bitch be hurting because your

783
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: body weight is the hardest thing to I'd be like,

784
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: you know what, let me just run the bleachers because

785
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: this fucking yoga ship. And I'd be in my living

786
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: room like like bit like dog, I realized, like the

787
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: best shape of my life is right now. And it's

788
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: because body weight is like really what gets you in

789
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,439
Speaker 1: shape for real? Like Calliston and all the ship being

790
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 1: in the gym doing all that extra ship that did

791
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: nothing like this body weight ship. I've never been out

792
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 1: able to pull up my own weight and ship like

793
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: it's crazy doing that. But a bitch hiking, I don't

794
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: even know how I like hiking. Where do you hike

795
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: in New York? Girl? I don't want to. I mean,

796
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let y'all know because it's my little place now.

797
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: But it's in Jersey and it's right over there. It's

798
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: you don't hike in New York. No hiking Jersey, bitch. Um.

799
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: But it's Palisades Park and it's like it's it's right

800
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: on the water, so you see the g WB, but

801
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 1: there's like just all these little things. It's on the water.

802
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 1: What makes the hike elevation? Yeah, like, bitch, I'll be

803
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 1: to the heights if you go to the heights like

804
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 1: up by dykeman Um. I actually ran the stairs, so

805
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: the Joker stairs, I've been running those so but you

806
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: don't ask me why because I don't even know who

807
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: I am anymore. Honestly, why are you hiking? Girl? Don't

808
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: worry about you? A patriot? I'd have told y'all somebody

809
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: that got me changing my life over here. But that's

810
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 1: only a nigger could make Mandy, because I never ever

811
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: girl like to the point where I'd be like looking

812
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 1: at the weather and I'd be like, we could do

813
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: ten am, does that work for you? Can? Can we

814
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: hike this week? I mean, you shut the funk up?

815
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Mandy, You're just You're you working out with?

816
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,399
Speaker 1: Are you me? Bitch? I don't know who a bit right?

817
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 1: Who am I? I don't know? I don't know because

818
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,359
Speaker 1: I would going fro. I love being a little fit couple.

819
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 1: We're going out there, We're hetting our protein. I'm about

820
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 1: to call my name, Wheezy sts Wheezy. Shut the funk

821
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:54,360
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840
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: kind of just a conversation not only that I've been

841
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: having with my friends, but I think it's important. We

842
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: talk a lot about X. But a lot of sex

843
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: involves partnership, relationships, the people you're working with, and a

844
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: lot of things can turn us off. So I wanted

845
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: to talk about dating with different views. So when I

846
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: wanted as far as dating with different views. Right now,

847
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: we have the election coming up, we have a lot

848
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 1: of the protesting and riots coming up, just a lot

849
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: of things where a lot of people have different point

850
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 1: of views. And I know that we've talked about not

851
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: really wanting to date Trump supporters, or if you're a Democrat,

852
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: can you date a Republican? So I wanted to kind

853
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: of talk to you easy. You're dating somebody, Um damage,

854
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: you look like you got hoes, so can we talk?

855
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 1: That's a compliment. Attractive people have hosts period period. So um,

856
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: before I guess how to start off this conversation, I

857
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:55,240
Speaker 1: want to ask how soon do you ask the person

858
00:46:55,280 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: that you're dating about political, religious, and social views day?

859
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: Who you vote for? Really? You asked that on the

860
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 1: first date. I'm not sorry to interrupt your damage, but

861
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: like I feel like, my nigga, whould you vote for it?

862
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: What about you? What about religion? Because I mean, do

863
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: you ask about that as well? Or now? Yeah, I

864
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: think religions you need to get out the way. You

865
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: gotta get religion out the way because you don't want

866
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:17,839
Speaker 1: to get so far in. It's like, yeah, I really

867
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: want to come to want you to come to church

868
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:20,919
Speaker 1: with me, and then you're not really like a church

869
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 1: going or me or me a nigga, tell me I

870
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,439
Speaker 1: don't drink or eat pork. Okay, this ain't gonna work

871
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: because I put pork in my collegreens and so the

872
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:33,320
Speaker 1: way to this Okay, So this is why we we're friends.

873
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:37,280
Speaker 1: We're friends and that's it. Um um. So I guess.

874
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: So you guys are saying, first day, how do you

875
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,319
Speaker 1: bring it up? Like? What? How do you bring up

876
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:46,280
Speaker 1: without making it awkward? I never talked about politics before Trump. However,

877
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: we all know that people that align their views with

878
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: this man are okay with some form of racism. And

879
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe I alway wasn't always this person person,

880
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: but I've become more awake quote unquote you know the

881
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: older I get, and I'm just not about to like

882
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: have to go to this point where I teach somebody something.

883
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: And that's why. Really, the white boys I date, you

884
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 1: know what, I always mentioned that they were Europeans because

885
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,240
Speaker 1: I feel like American white guys always would be combative

886
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,959
Speaker 1: with me, even if they were liberal, they'd be like yeah,

887
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: but Europeans don't do that. They'd be like, no black people. Yeah,

888
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: So I want to I guess, go ahead, go ahead,

889
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 1: damage because I dated a European white girl. She was

890
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 1: like some sandal pay or whatever. And it was some

891
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 1: stuff going on, and the fact that did just say

892
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: San San Rope wherever the hell it is was French

893
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: south of France. She was friends, Yeah, but she was white.

894
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:38,880
Speaker 1: I know she was white. Did I realize? I was like, no,

895
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: you're still white. But anyway, and it was stuff going on,

896
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 1: and she was just like, I just feel like I

897
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: don't understand everybody's people. It was just so vague, and

898
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: I was like, no, not during these times. I can't

899
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: be talking to the white girls. You gotta have I

900
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:55,839
Speaker 1: hate I don't see color narrative coming out like and

901
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 1: I believe her, but during these times. And this was

902
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: a while ago. It's so sad that even a while ago,

903
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 1: with something going on currently, I was just like, I

904
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: can't really get with that vibe. It's like, you know,

905
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: it's it's interesting because you've got either you've got you've

906
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 1: got too kind right, You've got the American white person

907
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: that has been taught and brought up and either has

908
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 1: to unlearn their bullshit right, and then you've got the

909
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 1: year old person that genuinely may know nothing but it's

910
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:25,800
Speaker 1: sucking an it's so annoying, That's what it was. It

911
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: was annoying to me. I was just like, but you know,

912
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: what stuff going to set She's like, I don't know

913
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 1: why police stop and do that. I don't get I

914
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: was like, all right, so here's here's where I kind

915
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 1: of want to ask to This is clearly something that's

916
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: been going on for centuries, hundreds of years, the last

917
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:43,879
Speaker 1: fucking six seven eight decades, dating back to the Civil

918
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: rights movement. You're dating somebody, and maybe these conversations weren't had,

919
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: but clearly, right now tension is like flared. How do

920
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 1: you keep from being turned off by your partner when

921
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: they say something that you don't agree with or believe?

922
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: Like that possible even I think, especially like situations like

923
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: right now, it talks about your values, and I don't

924
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: think if you don't share the same values, then it

925
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 1: just becomes an instant turn off. Like you know, some

926
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: things you can kind of look to the side, like

927
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: sometimes people can have different religions and they just put

928
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 1: that to the side, But when it comes to values

929
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 1: and being a human, I don't think and if you

930
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 1: are able to just say, oh, well whatever, you know,

931
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: she doesn't really care about what's going on right now,

932
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: you really look at yourself. So it's really about values.

933
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Um. I got in my first dispute

934
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,800
Speaker 1: with Old Bay about the blackout thing. Um obviously he's black,

935
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 1: but he was more like, you know, you do so

936
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: many better things. Why why are you joining in this

937
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: blackout ship when it's like, you know, it's all he

938
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 1: is doing is taking things away from the Internet. I

939
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: get it, you know, if you're you're taking the images

940
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: away silencing black people. Da da da da da da.

941
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: Why join in on something that's just making everybody shut up?

942
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 1: And you know, to me, and I'm glad at the

943
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 1: end he ended up posting a blackout thing at the

944
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: end of this conversation. But when I woke up and

945
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 1: he started saying that to me, I was so angry

946
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, Like, and you're having a

947
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: very defeatist attitude, right. You got a man in his

948
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: forties who's been through a bunch of ship. Instagram is

949
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: a new thing in his mind. He's like, what the

950
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: fund does posting black squares do for black man and women?

951
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: This is bullshit. However, to me, I think that the

952
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: most important thing about this era is solidarity, and I

953
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: think it's a great thing when you see so much ship,

954
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: and this is a stupid thing to compare it to.

955
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 1: But do you remember when Firefest everybody posted orange squares? Yes,

956
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: and he made you start looking it up. That's what

957
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: I really loved about what was going on with the

958
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: black Square ship. I get his point about now you're

959
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 1: silencing people and not seeing the videos on their timeline anymore.

960
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 1: We were pushed, you know, it was all day long.

961
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 1: Now it's gone, um, But I find that the conversation

962
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 1: that we keep having together. You know, he was very

963
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: proud of me for helping fundraise for bail bonds, but

964
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: he got annoyed with me with that, and I really

965
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: allies like, Okay, I have a different view on social

966
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,840
Speaker 1: media than someone older than me does. And here's what's happening.

967
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: He can't seem to comprehend why social media trends and

968
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,839
Speaker 1: protests and petition retweets are important. And I was trying

969
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: to have a conversation with him, like this is actually

970
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: how people get and receive their new information. Right, just

971
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: because you're not that person doesn't mean that it's not real.

972
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying like, I mean, it's also

973
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: the reason why podcasting can now be a career, Like

974
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 1: this is something that's new, but you know, how we

975
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: receive information, and that was the main thing about the

976
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 1: politics thing. He's like, like I even told him, you know,

977
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 1: Mandy and I had to show. I think I don't

978
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 1: remember what city it was, but I'm like, we used

979
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: to promote on the podcast on Monday's. People were here,

980
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 1: tickets were out, It's sold out before the episode came out.

981
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 1: Because that's how many people are connected to the Internet.

982
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: And if you can't understand that people are using the

983
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: internet for in for everything they take in, then you're

984
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: just choosing to be blind. And like, I really genuinely

985
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: feel like people don't trust news outlets more than they

986
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: do Twitter. Now, I was gonna say, um, so for

987
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 1: a lot of people who have followed me maybe over

988
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,320
Speaker 1: the last decade. I used to have a sports blog

989
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:10,320
Speaker 1: called full Court Pumps dot com for those of you

990
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: who don't know where the name came from. Um, but

991
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,840
Speaker 1: it was a sports based blog and I literally stopped

992
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 1: doing it when when I got back into college because

993
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: AdSense Um was how I got paid through Google, and

994
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 1: that's based on how many clicks come to your website,

995
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 1: you get paid like fucking micropennies on the on the click,

996
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:33,359
Speaker 1: but it adds up and um, essentially blogging went down,

997
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 1: newspapers and tangible like how all of that like, which

998
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: is why you know, Show magazine and King Magazine and

999
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: even the magazines all went to flush because people were

1000
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: accessing what they wanted to see through Instagram and Twitter

1001
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: at like an instantaneous type of fucking right. And I

1002
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:54,879
Speaker 1: think it definitely changed not only the narrative and how

1003
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 1: we receive information, but journalism. Um, I want to get

1004
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: into a d M that was sent to me. I

1005
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 1: asked some of our followers if anything had caused turmoil

1006
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: in their relationships with what had happened. Um. Someone said, um,

1007
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:10,919
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna put their name out, but they said,

1008
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I are on the same team. But

1009
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:18,439
Speaker 1: with him being a police officer, he finds a way

1010
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: to justify the actions that they do or have done.

1011
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 1: It frustrates me to note that the um that the

1012
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: system has brainwashed him into thinking that certain situations need

1013
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: a story behind it should just be wrong period. Not

1014
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: to say that he doesn't want justice, but the same

1015
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 1: way he speaks when I try to have a healthy

1016
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 1: conversation is a turn off for me. It's dismissive and

1017
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 1: closed minded. He hates to admit that the system and

1018
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 1: cops are fucking corrupt, but only when they are fucking

1019
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: with him. I get that this is his job, but

1020
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 1: as a black man, first, I think he just doesn't

1021
00:54:54,040 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 1: see the bigger picture. But but but really, what you do

1022
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: so that that was gonna be my next question. You

1023
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: don't think that you can help somebody unlearn those ways?

1024
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: This mon Nayga posted a blackout thing after waking up

1025
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 1: and telling me, yeah, that's way different. Because at the

1026
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 1: end of the day, if you can watch a cop

1027
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 1: in any of these instances kill somebody and then go, well,

1028
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,439
Speaker 1: you gotta think about this and this and that, you're

1029
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 1: part of the problem because this is not necessarily just

1030
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: a race thing. It is because systematically it's racism. But

1031
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,399
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter who's the person on the other side.

1032
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,359
Speaker 1: It's just because he's a black man, he's a part

1033
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 1: of that racist system and he's brainwashed by it. So

1034
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: as a human, if you can't see that a cop

1035
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,319
Speaker 1: put his knee on somebody's neck, or a cop shot

1036
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: somebody when he wasn't supposed to. If you can't see

1037
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 1: that as wrong as a human, then we got to disconnect.

1038
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: That's a fair point. Your values are all over the place, bro.

1039
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 1: I think the problem with black cops right now is

1040
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: they're one of two things are happening. They are feeling

1041
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: guilty for something they haven't done and feeling like they're hated.

1042
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: So they're feeling forced to defend ship because they know

1043
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: that they're wearing this uniform and this is how they

1044
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: are in a living So what am I supposed to do?

1045
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 1: Turn away from it now? And or I don't know,

1046
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: Like I've met cops that have that are that were

1047
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 1: the community police, you know what I'm saying, Like I've

1048
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: met cops that like you know, I lived in the

1049
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 1: Lower east Side for a minute and it's where I

1050
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 1: spent most of my time here in New York. And

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00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 1: there's a lot of Latino cops in that neighborhood that

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00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 1: are from the Lower east Side and talk about that's

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00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 1: why they're there, and I appreciate that, But there isn't

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00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: a lot of community police. There isn't a lot of

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00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:34,799
Speaker 1: community police led programs, and I think there's a lot

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00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: of great cops actually, But the thing is, when this

1057
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 1: stuff goes down, I would love to see those cops

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00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,840
Speaker 1: speak up and say what's wrong. That's the problem. So

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00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 1: if you're not saying what's wrong, I don't care if

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00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,239
Speaker 1: you're a good cop, because you're not stepping out for

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00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:47,840
Speaker 1: us to know that there are some good cops that

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00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: know that that's wrong. What they do is they band

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00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: together and even when they see something wrong, they just

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00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:54,399
Speaker 1: stay quiet. So you're a part of the problem here

1065
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:58,799
Speaker 1: at this point. Either you're on this side or this side. Right, yeah, right,

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00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 1: So here's my too before we get into the homel

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00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: and wrap up. Um, do you believe that it's that

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00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: it's possible to have a healthy relationship when you disagree

1069
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: because a lot of them, I mean on these matters,

1070
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: on who you vote for, on religion, or on social matters.

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00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: Is there a way to agree to disagree on these

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00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: things and have a healthy relationship. I don't think so either.

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00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 1: I don't think so. And like I said, it comes

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00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: down to values. And if you think like that, it

1075
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: means your family thinks like that. That means when I

1076
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 1: go over for the cookout or the family reunion. Now,

1077
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 1: they're saying a whole bunch of flieship that I don't

1078
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: agree with. And it's just more than just the interaction

1079
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: with us. Is now, now your friends might have those

1080
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,479
Speaker 1: same values and now or maybe you have one friend

1081
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 1: that don't agree with you, and I agree with that friend.

1082
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: Now you think we're gaining up against you. You know

1083
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It just creates a really weird dynamics.

1084
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: So it's too much of a lingering problem politics and

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00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 1: where we stand on this. I mean, this is why

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00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: your political party is in dating apps, right, because I'd

1087
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: be dead asked with you like I would swipe left

1088
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: and and it isn't I feel like Trump ruined a

1089
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 1: lot of this because I wasn't that scared of Republicans,

1090
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: Like I think the best thing we've ever had was

1091
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: the Mitt Romney Obama ticket. Mitt was a Republican even

1092
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 1: asked somebody went that bad? You know what I'm saying, Like,

1093
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 1: it's like when you have to genuinely question someone's ethics

1094
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 1: about the color of your own skin and you're fadful

1095
00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: of that and you're watching someone demonized children, Mexican kids, Muslims.

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00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: I mean everything over and over, um and I don't

1097
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 1: and then selling people to motherfuckering drink bleach. We ain't

1098
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 1: even gonna talk about how he's handled this whole COVID bullshit, right,

1099
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 1: It's be it's very hard to now be on that

1100
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 1: side and not see a Republican as that person, and

1101
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: it's it's a hard place to fucking be not to

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00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: mention with religion. You know, I'm agnostic with for those

1103
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 1: of you who don't mean you know what it means, atheists,

1104
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 1: someone who don't believe in God. Agnostic is just like

1105
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: higher power, spiritual being. Um, I'm not gonna front. I

1106
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 1: had to do that left me for Jesus. We some

1107
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 1: of you remember early on the loves of my life

1108
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: and I never forget walking out saying is he's just

1109
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: gonna suck your dick to cool Like we were dead

1110
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 1: ass breaking up because he was like I'm he was

1111
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: feeling guilty and wanted you to go to Bible study, bitch,

1112
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:16,440
Speaker 1: to step through the church. How I've been fucking bitches

1113
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 1: with you. I like parties, we'd ecstasy, we were doing

1114
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: together at the time, and you thought for a second

1115
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 1: then suddenly you would just wake up and be like no,

1116
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: now it's Jesus. Oh no, dude, we're going to rave.

1117
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 1: That was my energy back there, like and why does

1118
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: God have to stop you? Do you know how many

1119
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: horns I've sucked a loved church come ons? We know

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00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 1: we know how to pass and get down with to

1121
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 1: get down. Uh. Anyways, guys, UM, if you have any stories,

1122
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: I do want to share those as well as the

1123
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:53,960
Speaker 1: coming weeks come. So, if you have any stories regarding UM,

1124
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 1: maybe a change in your relationship due to differences in

1125
00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 1: opinion regarding the upcoming elect or what's been going on

1126
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: with the rights and everything, please shoot us over an email.

1127
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: Tell your story. We have something called hole Confessions, but

1128
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: this will fall right in there. Email us at Horrible

1129
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 1: Decisions at gmail dot com. This last homail that I'm

1130
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,320
Speaker 1: gonna read really quickly. We're gonna give UM some advice

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01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 1: before getting up out of here. It's as Hi, Mandy

1132
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: and Wheezy. First of all, I love this podcast. I

1133
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 1: just got into listening to the podcast and this is

1134
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 1: the best start I have got I could have gotten.

1135
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: I just want to say I am African from Rwanda,

1136
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: not to be confused with Wakanda. UM and sex is

1137
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 1: literally a taboo to even mention in most African homes.

1138
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 1: So you best believe I make sure I put on

1139
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: my headphones when listening to y'all. L O. I've made

1140
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: sure I make all of my friends start listening to

1141
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 1: this podcast, because why the funk not y'all are really ship?

1142
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: So I have a question. I am twenty two and

1143
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm a virgin. I have never done anything sexual with

1144
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: men or been in any relationship. At first, it was

1145
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 1: because I just didn't think about it because I was

1146
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 1: mostly preoccupied with school. Now I'm in college in the US,

1147
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: and long story short, I want to start exploring my

1148
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:09,440
Speaker 1: sexuality with both myself and relationship wise. It feels like

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01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 1: most of my friends are already ahead of me and

1150
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 1: don't know where to even start. I have tried dating apps,

1151
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 1: but to be honest, most of them niggas just want

1152
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 1: to hook up, and that is not what I am

1153
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: looking for. I genuinely look I genuinely want an emotional

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01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 1: and sexual connection with someone. Come on, wheezy, what can

1155
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 1: you advise me on entering the dating world or even

1156
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 1: pleasuring myself? Sometimes I think I have set the bar

1157
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 1: so high when I see my friends hooking up, but

1158
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 1: hookups in one night stands just don't interest me at all. Also,

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01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 1: I am scared of when I do get into a relationship,

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01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 1: being that I'm a virgin and twenty two, not knowing

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01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: a lot. Here's the question. Please tell me how I

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01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 1: can get to explore my sexuality deeper while not compromising

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01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 1: what I want in a relationship to her? Give it

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01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: to her, ladies, So why I'll go ask you too,

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01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: But go ahead, we we're gonna start with you. I

1166
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: can give it to her first. As a woman, you

1167
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: should give it to a person. Point of view, well,

1168
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 1: I would say I'm going to be soft, but with

1169
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 1: the voice change okay, because you want an emotional and

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01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: connection in a sexual relationship. But I think what's going

1171
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: to hinder you from that is thinking that it's going

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01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: to be something deeper. You're allowed to have an emotional

1173
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 1: connection with someone that may not be your boyfriend, and

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01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 1: you won't regret giving your virginity to that person because

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01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 1: you'll have a connection with them. I think that you

1176
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: cannot seek after a man to take your virginity and

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01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: have this perfect idea of what he will look like.

1178
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: If you've met a guy and you've been hanging out

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01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: with him for three days and you feel like you've

1180
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: got a mutual respect and you're interested in enemies turning

1181
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,440
Speaker 1: you on. Let that be the person that's still a

1182
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 1: connection either way. We have a very weird idea of

1183
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 1: what emotional connections look like from how other people are

1184
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: displaying their relationships. We could talk about myself. I've been

1185
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: talking about Old Bay on this podcast for a minute,

1186
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 1: and it sounds like I have something deep with him, right.

1187
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: That doesn't necessarily mean that we have to mimic those

1188
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: relationships that other people are talking about. Everybody's connection to

1189
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: someone is a different one. I've had very deep connections

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01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 1: with people I've known for a few hours. To be

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01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 1: honest with y'all, like I'm like, Wow, I'm really feeling

1192
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 1: this person. It's like when you're out and you make

1193
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 1: that bathroom friend. Is it someone you'll remember for a

1194
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:31,760
Speaker 1: while or someone you want to keep seeing. It's like vibes, baby, vibes.

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01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: It is And do not put the pressure on yourself

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01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: to make sure this person will stay around. I enjoy

1197
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 1: this person for that moment. I understand you don't want

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01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: to one night stand, and I'm not telling you just

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01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: suck somebody because it's going cool. I'm telling you to

1200
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: suck them because you feel like that person is matching

1201
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 1: with you on another level that one night stand would it.

1202
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 1: Just don't have expectations beyond that. Get some experience and

1203
01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: if you need to be in love, fine, but you

1204
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: didn't mention that, So I'm just saying, don't confuse the two.

1205
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: Don't confuse an emotional connection for a progressing relationship more

1206
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: than you have um a mutual respect like damage. I

1207
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:10,440
Speaker 1: don't know if you could speak to this now, but

1208
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: how dating women like can you acknowledge that that you've

1209
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 1: really cared for them? Maybe didn't see it going anywhere.

1210
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 1: But and this is the problem she's going to run into. Right,

1211
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: she's a virgin. Clearly, she doesn't have a lot of

1212
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 1: dating history, so she's looking for Mr. Perfect. That's already

1213
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 1: strike one to whoever she has sex with. First, she's

1214
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 1: gonna fall deeply in fake love with. She's not really

1215
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 1: gonna love the person. It's just so much, you know, passion.

1216
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: This is the first guy she's really been with, and

1217
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 1: what she needs to do is first workout her relationship kinks,

1218
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 1: because she's not going to realize that most likely she's

1219
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 1: going to be the problem. Just gonna be honest. When

1220
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:47,480
Speaker 1: you've never dealt with somebody before in a serious relationship

1221
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: and you first just start having sex, you're gonna be

1222
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 1: super clingy, You're gonna be acting super weird, and you're

1223
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 1: not even gonna notice that until you're in your fourth boyfriend.

1224
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 1: Like I used to act so crazy back then. Why

1225
01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 1: was acting like that? You know, I almost I didn't

1226
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: argue with about this, but you're right, Yeah, I'm serious.

1227
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 1: So she's gonna be dealing with a dude and no

1228
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 1: matter how normal he is, she's like, he's acting weird.

1229
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 1: He doesn't call me every five minutes, he doesn't do this.

1230
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,200
Speaker 1: It's because this is your first boyfriend for real, like

1231
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: you never really had a boyfriend. I suggest for her

1232
01:05:13,520 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 1: to find somebody she vibes with that mutual respect, Like

1233
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 1: you said, get that out the way, get your virginity

1234
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: out the way, unless you're waiting to get married. Okay,

1235
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 1: not get your virginity out the way, get out the way.

1236
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 1: It's gonna hinder her with that person that she feels Yeah,

1237
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: still a good person, not just anybody, but still somebody

1238
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:34,520
Speaker 1: has mutual respect. Because what's what's going to happen. Man,

1239
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, she's gonna be acting weird with this

1240
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:38,919
Speaker 1: dude and he's not gonna be with her. So now

1241
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: after she had her first boyfriend and had her first

1242
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 1: sexual experience, he's probably going to break up with her

1243
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: or do something weird and she's gonna be crushed for

1244
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 1: like a year. So I'm trying to I'm trying to

1245
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 1: prevent her from that for the never given. But be

1246
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: ready for heartbreak. I think that you need to prepare

1247
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 1: yourself for that too, because it just comes with the

1248
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 1: goddamn Let me tell you something. You don't even have

1249
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 1: some fun. Just have some fun, like, don't try to

1250
01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 1: go into your first one so serious, and you will

1251
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 1: find that right person because you want to work out

1252
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:11,400
Speaker 1: your own kinks first. Yea, when when you said be

1253
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 1: ready for heartbreak? This entire podcast over the last three

1254
01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: and a half years has never gone a week without

1255
01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 1: talking about a dick. Dick is the reason for tears.

1256
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: Dick is the reason me and many have argued, and

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Speaker 1: My nigga Dick is the root of all evil. You

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Speaker 1: want to be a part of this, und you and

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Speaker 1: whore high because when you come to them live shows

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Speaker 1: and we start our niggas, ain't ship chip niggas, ain't

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Speaker 1: sh niggas for the men wanting to come to the

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decision live show. We do not chant the niggasation.

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Speaker 1: Although I did get told the other day that I

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Speaker 1: have a niggasation ship attitude towards life, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I like that towards life. That's

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Speaker 1: not bad. I love all my niggas. I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: lie and everyone that's been inside of me. Um. But anyways,

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Speaker 1: we are going to wrap this up. Damage. I want

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Speaker 1: to thank you for joining us. Can you go ahead

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Speaker 1: like that. Well, guys, I want to thank you guys

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Speaker 1: um for tuning into another episode weezy, Do you have

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Speaker 1: and um, if you'all are interested in what's been going

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Speaker 1: you off with a motherfucking five minute clip from one

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Speaker 1: join us on Patreon. This has been yet another episode. UM.

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Speaker 1: Decisions by women listening are like, you know, what marriage

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Speaker 1: really isn't for me? I guess I get them into

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Speaker 1: kind of a a a deep hole of thinking than

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Speaker 1: what is the purpose of dating? What is the end

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Speaker 1: goal of dating? Um? And you and I kind of

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Speaker 1: had this conversation because essentially, a lot of us date

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Speaker 1: to marry, a lot of us dates to find our

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Speaker 1: you know, love, love of our life. We date to

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Speaker 1: to find that one person that we see ourselves with

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Speaker 1: for the rest of our lives. And that's kind of

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Speaker 1: how we're conditioned. That's how we're born, that's how the

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Speaker 1: fairy tales go, that's how all the Disney movies end.

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Speaker 1: And and so as an adult though, as I get

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Speaker 1: older and I see that I'm happy like with my

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Speaker 1: partners and and what I get from them, and how

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Speaker 1: I'm not I don't have to answer to anybody, and

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Speaker 1: how I'm able to have purely open communication, and also

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Speaker 1: just not seeing a marriage that I envy. Girl, that's

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Speaker 1: that hard. That's that's serious though, Like I don't know

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Speaker 1: a married couple when I'm like, damn, I want that.

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Speaker 1: I wish I had exactly that. Like even do I

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Speaker 1: want what will Smith and Jada have? No, ma'am, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want that. I mean ship. We all sit

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Speaker 1: here and say, relationship goes to all these celebrities, and

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Speaker 1: then by the following week we see that one has

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Speaker 1: cheated on the other, there was domestic abuse or you know,

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Speaker 1: and so even our ideas what I don't even want,

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Speaker 1: I don't even envy Barack and Michelle because Michelle had

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Speaker 1: to put up with a lot. I'm not talking about

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Speaker 1: like Barrock cheating or anything. It's just their type of

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Speaker 1: partnership is a lot on her a lot. It's a lot.

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Speaker 1: It's demanding, it's demanding. But I think that I think

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Speaker 1: that we don't realize not only does society add so

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Speaker 1: much pressure to us, but men do and other women.

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Speaker 1: I want to read. I want to read this tweet.

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Speaker 1: It's from Sierra w Um. I literally asked what the

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Speaker 1: end goal was if you don't want to get married,

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Speaker 1: and she said L O L. Society telling women their

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Speaker 1: only value because people see them as wife or mother

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Speaker 1: material is dismal. In my opinion. If you can only

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Speaker 1: see your worth through men, then please continue the cycle

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Speaker 1: like our mothers did. Um and I write, and I

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Speaker 1: think that that is telling because yeah, like I think

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Speaker 1: a lot of us view ourselves and the worth of

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Speaker 1: ourselves by the acceptance of men, or how men view

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Speaker 1: our worthiness without viewing ourselves as worthy, and we do

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Speaker 1: it to each other. We see here and be like, well, girl,

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Speaker 1: you ain't got a ring, So until you get a ring, hey,

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Speaker 1: don't nobody wants you. And I think it's trash. I'm

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Speaker 1: looking for the response from Raquel Savage. Raquel Savage has

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Speaker 1: such a fucking way with words, um, and I want

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Speaker 1: to read it before we kind of get into our own.

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Speaker 1: So so again, the question is what is the end

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Speaker 1: goal if you don't want to get married? Um. Former

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Speaker 1: guests for cal Savage said, to get my needs met,

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Speaker 1: To experience love and kindness, gentleness and stillness, vulnerability and introspection,

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Speaker 1: joy community, to feel seen and held, to practice reciprocal reciprocity,

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Speaker 1: reciprocity my baby, you know, I gotta reciprocity, bitch, fuck you,

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Speaker 1: and feeling safe in my body with others. To learn

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Speaker 1: something about myself and my perception of the world. And

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Speaker 1: I like that because I don't think people realize you

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Speaker 1: can truly enjoy a long partnership with someone without not

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Speaker 1: only marriage, but without a title. And I think that

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Speaker 1: we've we've talked about titles a lot on this podcast,

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Speaker 1: and a lot of people feel like things go downhill

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Speaker 1: when you start pressuring a title. UM. I do think

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Speaker 1: that that just has a lot to do with monogamy,

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Speaker 1: because maybe at that time that person does not want

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Speaker 1: to be exclusive, and so the pressure is a feeling like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I now have to answer to one person. I now

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Speaker 1: am getting into an exclusive agreement where you know, maybe

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Speaker 1: I don't want to lie. I think that that's where

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Speaker 1: a lot of pressure comes with with titles, um. But

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Speaker 1: also what is marriage be? What? What is marriage? What

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Speaker 1: is marriage but sides documents and being able to file

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Speaker 1: joint returns? What what is marriage? Or what do you

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Speaker 1: what do you believe we have viewed marriage as over

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Speaker 1: the years to make it seem so worthy and make

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Speaker 1: it the end goal of of partnership. That's a tough question.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like everyone has a different version of

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Speaker 1: what marriage is. There are some people who want to

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Speaker 1: be taken care of and you know, have children and

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Speaker 1: have the husband to work and they bring it home

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Speaker 1: to the wife, and or some people just want literally

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Speaker 1: a partner, you know, for you know, health insurance or

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Speaker 1: like there's so many reasons people get married. I don't

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Speaker 1: have that answer, and I think, I mean, maybe that's

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Speaker 1: why I don't know if that's something that I want,

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Speaker 1: because I haven't I have I don't have a definition

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Speaker 1: for you