1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: All right, Ben, let's just roll with it then, and 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: just like whatever. This is the Ben and Ashley I 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast with our radio. This is the Benn 4 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast. And today is a 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: unique day. I this has been by the way, I'm 6 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: sitting in an airport getting ready to fly to Los 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 1: Angeles to work with Ashley on a little project. Um, 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: so if my sound isn't good, or if you can 9 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: hear babies crying in the background, uh, just just deal 10 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: with it, please. It's also like the first time that 11 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: our producer Amy is not in the room with us, 12 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 1: so we're gonna run wild. We have no idea what 13 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: we're gonna say. Sorry, if our tangents are too long, 14 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: there's no one near stopping me. Oh my, so hey, 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,959 Speaker 1: let's get into it though, actually do it? All right? Yeah? 16 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: How is your week? How's your Thanksgiving? It was absolutely amazing. 17 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: My parents came out to Denver. Um we did, you know, 18 00:00:58,360 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: we didn't do a ton, and we did a lot 19 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: the housework, but the things that we did do like 20 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: hike and and go to a couple of breweries and 21 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 1: spend times with family and friends, um, were incredible. So 22 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: I had a great Thanksgiving. What about you? I've been great, Ben. 23 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: I want to talk about being an only child because 24 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: I can't even fathom being an only child. But I 25 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: feel like you and your parents must just have like 26 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: an even closer friendship because when I'm looking for like 27 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:25,639 Speaker 1: friendship in my family, I always go to my sister Lauren, 28 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: even though I'm so close to my parents. But I 29 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: feel like you and your parents, like you got a breweries, 30 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: you drink together, you hike together, that stuff that I 31 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: do with Lauren. Yeah, I know you're You're spot on. 32 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 1: I don't know if that is unique to my family 33 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: dynamic or if that's just kind of the dynamic that 34 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: happens in only child relationships. Um. But we became very 35 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: close very early because I didn't have any like people 36 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: to confide in, like a brother and sister, So they 37 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: had to learn a lot about me. They had to 38 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: hear a lot of things about me. And then, you know, 39 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: if I wanted to get entertained on a vacation, I 40 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: don't have anybody to hang out with but my parents parents, 41 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: and so through that we became really good friends, um, 42 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: which has been really nice. I mean, I think, yes, 43 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: my favorite people to drink with are my parents and stuff? 44 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: When they get you know, they've been on the podcast before, 45 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: and then they when they open up, they definitely opened 46 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,239 Speaker 1: up and they don't look back. Remember that, you guys. 47 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: We got a little sexual induendo when his parents came 48 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: on the show. Hey, I have a funny story about that, 49 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: by the way, because I don't know if I've ever 50 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: shared it. So during that podcast, which is one of 51 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: my favorite favorites, because my parents were in studio with us. 52 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: Um I don't know if you remember, we had a 53 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 1: caller call in and she was very emotional and she 54 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: was talking about how her and her boyfriend of two 55 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: years were kind of falling apart and the relationship wasn't 56 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: going in the right direction and how no longer you know, 57 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: very interested in pursuing that relationship. And so my parents 58 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: were both there and so I thought, well, what what 59 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: better people to get advice from than people that have 60 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: been married for a long long time. UM, So I 61 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: get advice to my mom, and then I asked my 62 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: dad for advice, and I don't know if you remember, 63 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: but he gave really really poor advice. Um. It was 64 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: it was kind of odd and it just didn't really like, 65 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 1: relate well with your dad. Yeah, and we kind of 66 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: covered it up pretty well. Um, the reason I had 67 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: to cover it up, what are you talking about that? 68 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: Are you going to give us more contexts? No? No, 69 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: I will, okay, So the reason so he kind of 70 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,839 Speaker 1: so I guess his answer to my question of, hey, 71 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: what should this poor young lady do about this relationship? 72 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: He was like, well, just stick it out, keep going 73 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: without its look that, Hey, I have zero feelings for 74 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: this guy anymore. The reason he was so far off 75 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: on his on what his answer was was because he 76 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: had actually fallen asleep during the tape of our podcast. 77 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: I took on this out after the podcast. He was 78 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: watching the aspen trees outside the studio that we we 79 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: do the podcast fro him and he said it was 80 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: so relaxing and he just kicked back and fell asleep 81 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: and he didn't know he'd have to be called upon 82 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: again for the rest of the podcast. That's hysterical and 83 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: that explained so much. I was like, why are Ben's 84 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: parents so pro this girl staying with him? Yeah, he 85 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: was just he was just sound asleep. So anyways, we're 86 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: making fun of him during Thanksgiving for that because he's 87 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: known now to fall asleep during odd times. I don't 88 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: know if that's interesting or not, but if you want 89 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: to listen to the podcast again, it's one of our 90 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: first podcasts and it happened to be with my parents 91 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: and you can hear my dad's sleeping, which is just 92 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: a ton of fun and very entertaining. So funny that 93 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: makes it way better. Uh huh, hey, actually, real quick, 94 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: I want to jump into this. Uh, last week, you 95 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: mentioned that there had been no Bachelor divorces so far. 96 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: Can you explain yourself because we got a ton of 97 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: emails about Lacey and Marcus. Yeah, we got an email 98 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: from Emily. It says, Hi, Ben and Ashley. I've been 99 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: listening to you talking about the Bachelor franchise for the 100 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: last few months. A question keeps popping up for me, 101 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: and I finally had to write in and ask. A 102 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,799 Speaker 1: while back or last week, you referred to Jaden Tanner 103 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 1: as the first b I P couple to get married, 104 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: and I thought, but what about Marcus and Lacy. The 105 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: topic then came up a few more times, and not 106 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 1: just in your podcast, and eventually I went online to 107 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: check that I wasn't just crazy that Lakes that Lacey 108 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 1: and Marcus did in fact get married on season one 109 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 1: or engaged on season one and married in season two. 110 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: I confirmed my sanity, and I saw that they have 111 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: since split up, so I figured everyone had just turned 112 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: a blind eye. Then on this week's podcast, you highlighted 113 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: that no Bachelor couple has ever gotten divorced. So what's 114 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: the deal? Has everyone forgotten about Marcus and Lazy? Has 115 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: everyone agreed to pretend that B I P Season one 116 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 1: never happened? Well? I do kind of think that b 117 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: I P One never happened to be honest, never really 118 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 1: given a second thought. And that was actually my first 119 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise show that I didn't watch in its entirety 120 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: when it was on for like the past seven years 121 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: or something. Um. But to answer your question, and I 122 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: wish we had Lacey on the phone, reached out to her, 123 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: she didn't get back to me. Um. But yeah, they 124 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: never got married. Actually, that ceremony like it was never signed. 125 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 1: Of course there was a ceremony, but there was never 126 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 1: any legal document, no paperwork saying that they were a 127 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:01,799 Speaker 1: married couple. So it was all just kind of a show. 128 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: If that's how you believe marriages. You know, if you 129 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: think that marriage is a piece of paper, well yeah, 130 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: and I mean that's not uncommon. Actually, I think in 131 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: UH in weddings that people get married out of the 132 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 1: States because you have to have a document signed out 133 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: of the States and UH internationally, and so it's not 134 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 1: uncommon for people to get married, have the ceremony, and 135 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: then signed the legal documents back in the United States. 136 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: They just never did. And I don't have any idea why. 137 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 1: You know, if they if they went through the ceremony, 138 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: typically when you do that, you're already prepared to sign 139 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 1: the documents back in the States. Do you know why 140 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: they never signed them? Um, I'm not sure where they 141 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: never signed them. I would go ahead and guess that, Oh, 142 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: I know, I know. I don't know why officially, but 143 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 1: this is my best guess. He actually joined the military, 144 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 1: like the weak that they came back from getting married, 145 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: and he flew out to Hawaii where he was stationed, 146 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: and then they honestly just drifted apart. I think they 147 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: started dating other people. They never kept in touch, and 148 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,119 Speaker 1: he wasn't allowed to keep in touch for a couple 149 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: of months. Like you know how in the military there's 150 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: like that period of time where you have to like 151 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: just kind of be excluded from the world. He was 152 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: in that point, and then they wrote some letters. It 153 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: was honestly like they almost ghosted each other as a 154 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: married couple. And yeah, but Lacy, back when I was 155 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: first hearing this story, which was like almost two years ago, um, 156 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: didn't seem very wrecked by it. Well, I mean, it's 157 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: gotta be tough. That's just a hard situation. And again, 158 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: you know, if you I cannot imagine getting married and 159 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: having your spouse kind of leaves for months on end, 160 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: like it is confusing and you have to have a 161 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: pretty solid found dation to do that. So it makes 162 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: sense on why maybe they drifted apart um. But just 163 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: to make that clear, we have actually still to this day, 164 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: as she was not wrong, we have had zero bachelor divorces. Um, 165 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: We've had a couple of really rough split ups, a 166 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: lot of really rough split ups and break but no 167 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: divorces so far. And let me just reiterate, don't know 168 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: all that for fact. That was Lacey's side of the 169 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: story and I heard it two years ago, So I'm 170 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: sorry if not all the details are correct, and if 171 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: Lacey or Marcus want to come on the podcast really 172 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: explain what went down between the two of them. They 173 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: are more than welcome to do so. We would love 174 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: to have him. Did I do I know this is 175 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: Marcus married or engaged again? He is engaged again. Yeah, 176 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: I thought I saw that. Sometimes I keep up with 177 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: this stuff. You know what's interesting? Did you know that 178 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: Juan Pablo was married? No, I honestly have not heard 179 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 1: Juan Pablo's name in a long long time. Van Pablo 180 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: got married like, oh, a year ago or something. She's 181 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: a former Miss Venezuela And you know those Miss Venezuela's 182 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: If you watched last night's Miss Miss Universe, Holy moly, 183 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:54,959 Speaker 1: they're always in the top tier of the prettiest. Oh wow, 184 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: So he's married today, Like he's he's back at it. 185 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: He's a married man. Hey, you know what, Actually, here's 186 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: something I just thought of this. I was in Los 187 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: Angeles about a month ago, staying at the Santa Monica Marquis, 188 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 1: and um, I walked out of my hotel and I 189 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: was walking out through the lobby and Wan Pablo was 190 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: standing there in the lobby. Yeah, but I didn't say 191 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: hi to him, and he didn't say hi to me. 192 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: So I feel like that's how our relationship is gonna 193 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 1: work from here. Now do you think he saw you? 194 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 1: I have no clue if he saw me. If he did, 195 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I've never met him my life. So there's 196 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: really not a lot we have in common on the 197 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: fact that we were on the same UM television show. 198 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: But anyways, that's that's a little Wan Pablo piece of 199 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: knowledge for it. I've seen them pretty recently. Look good, 200 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: good looking guy, he is um. Hey, moving on. Okay, 201 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: so I have here in my notes we have a 202 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 1: bachelor baby. Actually tell us about it. We have another 203 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: bachelor baby. Last week we talked about how we have 204 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: a couple of pregnancies Carly, uh, who else Sean and Catherine? Okay, Well, 205 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: we also have the dog lover Kelly Travis from Juan 206 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: Pablo season. She is also pregnant. She she got engaged 207 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 1: and met the man that she was going to marry 208 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: very soon after she finished up Pablo season. Good for her. 209 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: That seems to happen um after the Bachelor Bachelor and 210 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:19,959 Speaker 1: people seem to come off the show maybe open to 211 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: love or open to finding love, or found something that 212 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: they you know, maybe on the show that they kind 213 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: of they have a better picture of who they want, 214 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: and a lot of people seem to be dive into 215 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: deep relationships right after the show. Yeah. What was interesting 216 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 1: is when I was in casting, they told me that 217 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: I think I was talking about a relationship in my 218 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: real life that I thought was like going pretty well. 219 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: It was definitely not exclusive by any means, but it 220 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,839 Speaker 1: was like a guy that I liked and things were 221 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: going better than usual. And I was like, I don't 222 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: know how I feel about doing the show right now, 223 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: because like there is this guy at home blah blah, 224 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: And like the producers were like, you know what, a 225 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: lot of the times guys will guys at home will 226 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 1: watch these girls on the TV show and they kind 227 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 1: of come to senses or there's just like something about 228 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: you emotionally that's like really open and things seem to 229 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: work out for people, even like once they're off the 230 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: show and it didn't work out, well, that's awesome. Good 231 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: for Kelly. She uh, hopefully she's still loving dogs and 232 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: now she's gonna be loving on some babies. Funny, Okay, 233 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: you know, Actually we haven't talked a lot about this 234 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: upcoming season of the Bachelor. But it's important that we 235 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 1: kind of start, you know, giving hints at it and 236 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: talking about our opinions on it and what we think 237 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: will happen. But we really don't know a lot about Ari. 238 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know a lot about Ari, 239 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: and so we gonna let everybody know that. On December 240 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: eleven at Central, there's going to be a special accountdown 241 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: to Ari Account down to this season the Bachelor. I'm 242 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: gonna read up with the promous. For the first time ever, 243 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation will get an intimate, behind the scenes look 244 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: at Arilondyke Junior's life, his family, and his love of racing. 245 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: Travel back to Ari's memorable journey to find love with 246 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: one of America's favorite bachelor at Emily Maynard. Five years ago. 247 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 1: Ari fell madly in love with Emily and there's id 248 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: get down on one knee to propose when his heart 249 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 1: was broken. Relive one of the most heart wrenching breakups 250 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: in Bachelor history, and discover how Harris finally got closure. 251 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: The inside info into this The best part of this special, 252 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: in my opinion, is the worst, most awkward kisses in 253 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: Bachelor history be highlighted on this special. Actually will you 254 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 1: be watching this special? Okay, Bend has read a press 255 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: release there for you guys. Secondly, I'm scared that I 256 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: might be in the worst awkward kisses in Bachelor history. 257 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: I think I'm going to be. I'm so so scared now. 258 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 1: My first kiss was actually, every kiss with crystals was 259 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: relatively awkward. The first one except that one in the 260 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: elevator in Vegas. Oh that's all right, that was actually 261 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 1: not awkward, just very surprising. Um. Yeah, the first one. 262 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: I got so many tweets about how awkward it was 263 00:12:57,600 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: and how I looked like I was just being the 264 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: most aggressive first in the entire world, and like my 265 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: whole family cringe and I wanted to die. And then 266 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: there's this one time where I was making out with Chris, 267 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: like in week three and I basically almost pulled him 268 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: over the balcony at the Bachelor Mansion. And I think 269 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: it got a little better after that, but that first 270 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: one is definitely making the cut. Oh lord, um, I 271 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:26,959 Speaker 1: cannot I'm really excited this. I hope I'm not on 272 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: it because this is this would be one of the 273 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: most embarrassing things. I mean, it's so hard when you're 274 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: on these shows to kind of get over that mental 275 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: block where you know that there's twenty people standing around 276 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:41,959 Speaker 1: you with cameras and and friends and watching you do this. 277 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: That's hard to get over. Once you get over it, though, 278 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: the idea that you have to watch it back and 279 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: you get the sound effect you talked about on this show, 280 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: it's so much so this this segment the most awkward 281 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: kisses in Bachelor history being it's gonna be really hard 282 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: to watch. I really don't think you're going to make it. 283 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: The only one I can think of other than myself 284 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 1: is like Charlene and Wan Pablo Man Wan Pablo is 285 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 1: coming up a lot in this podcast. But yeah, Charlene 286 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: Wan Pablo not that cute, not that cute kissing. Um. 287 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: But Charlene also stood up for me when my awkward 288 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: kiss with Chris Aaron and she was like, look, you 289 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: guys don't get it. You don't get how it is 290 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 1: to have a first kiss on TV. You don't. Okay, 291 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: So here, Ashley, what is your You are familiar with this? 292 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: You've you've got on Paradise. We don't know if there's 293 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: gonna be any future Bachelor shows for you or not 294 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: out there? Okay. So any person in this world that 295 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: happens to find themselves in front of cameras, if it's 296 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: at a wedding or if it's on the television show 297 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: and they're gonna have their first kiss or they're gonna 298 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: have a kiss with somebody. What is your advice? How 299 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: do you get over it? How do you get over it? 300 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: Or like, how do you get by with it looking 301 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: the best? No, because you don't want to be thinking 302 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 1: about how am I gonna make this look good? You 303 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: just want to get over the mental block of I'm 304 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: kissing somebody with people watching, Like, how do you just 305 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 1: relax and let whatever happened happen? Have a couple of drinks? 306 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: Is that it? No? But what if you don't drink? 307 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: I want to know what other ways there is? I mean, 308 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 1: there's got to be. I just think this is such 309 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: an important part of Batchel, like watching the Bachelor's understanding 310 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 1: that a lot of these moments are awkward, but you 311 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: don't want them to be forced. You want them to 312 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 1: feel real. You want them to be real, and so 313 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: you have to get over these mental blocks. I don't know, 314 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 1: you're asking me, like you know the real answer. I don't. 315 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 1: I mean my I know how to give my advice. 316 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: My advice would be So I did this dcor Dr 317 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 1: Ben now Um. So on the first night of the Bachelor, 318 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: when all these beautiful women came in and I was 319 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: introduced to him and we sat down for the first time, 320 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: there's a ton of nerves. I think you can relay, 321 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 1: and most people can really on that first night of 322 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: the Bachelor back that there's a ton of nerves going on. 323 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: But I don't remember a time where I was more 324 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: nervous than that exactly. And so what I did because 325 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: I remember Caitlin did this with me, and Caitlin was 326 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: so good at kind of calming the people her suitors down, um, 327 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: and so what she would do and what I tried 328 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: to do with every person that sat down next to 329 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: me will say, Okay, take a break, take a deep breath, 330 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: look around, get familiar to your surroundings. There are people 331 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: around us. These people are not here to judge you, 332 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: they're not here to criticize you. They're not here to 333 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: laugh for you. They're here to do their job. And 334 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: our time is to date. Our time is to be 335 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 1: here right now, in the present moment, and so look around, 336 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 1: get comfortable, and then let's focus on each other. And 337 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: it kind of does help to just kind of look 338 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: around and say, Okay, I'm not going to act like 339 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: these people aren't here. They're here, but I have to 340 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: get over that because I want this to be a 341 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: real scenario, a real situation. Okay, I thought you were 342 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: talking just about exclusively making out. If you're talking about 343 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: like just like connecting with someone on camera, Um, I 344 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: think it just not happened naturally for me over a 345 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 1: couple of days and just becoming friends of the producers 346 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: that you just feel like you're talking in front of 347 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: your friends. Yeah, I agree. So that that would be 348 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 1: my advice to anybody, even in a wedding scenario when 349 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: this cameras around. Just relax. You're around friends, you're around family, 350 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: around people that care about you. On the Bachelor, just 351 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: around a bunch of people you haven't quite met yet, 352 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: but you will and you'll find you know, you'll fall 353 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 1: in love with him quickly. Um, But dist facts a 354 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 1: little bit. And another way to relax, Ashley, and this 355 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: is a really uh important way to relax, especially on 356 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: the holidays, is a little thing that we we know 357 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: very well called saucy. Um. Saucy is this beautiful app. 358 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 1: We're just really big fans of Saucy. This app is 359 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 1: like having a full bar on your phone. Let me 360 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: tell you a little bit about Saucy. The holidays are here, 361 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: and if you're hosting a holiday gathering, you have a 362 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: million errands to run. Well across one off your list, 363 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: you can skip the liquor store because now you have 364 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 1: the alcohol that can come straight to you. Saucy delivers 365 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 1: your favorite wine, be your end liquor, right to your 366 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 1: door on themand it's the uber of alcohol. 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I'm 385 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: telling you, Saucy is great. Get it, especially for the 386 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: holidays and especially for this Ari special in December eleven, 387 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 1: Have your champagne sent right to you and just enjoy 388 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: getting to know Ari. You guys, um if you do 389 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: want to get to know Ri beyond this special On 390 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: the eleventh, the ABC app has Emily's full season up now, 391 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: so you know you can get to know all about 392 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 1: that kissing bandit and I do love. I want to 393 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 1: shout out to Lauren Zima at ET. She's one of 394 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 1: our favorite Bachelor Beat reporters and she is doing a 395 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: weekly segment online where she goes through all of Ari's 396 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: best scenes on Emily season, so you don't have to 397 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:20,679 Speaker 1: go and watch the entire season. But you can just 398 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 1: watch his highlights there and she's having a Bachelor guest 399 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,719 Speaker 1: guest appearance every week. I've done it, Dean's done it, 400 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 1: Karen's done it already, have that many good scenes and 401 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 1: you see that likable. I honestly, I didn't watch that season, 402 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 1: so I have no clue, Like, is he going to 403 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 1: just be a complete stud? I mean he's definitely gonna 404 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: be a kissing stud. I think he's um. Really, he 405 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: seems really warm, Okay, welcoming. Okay, do you think he 406 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: gets engaged? Yeah? You do? You think he's ready for that? Okay? Well, hey, um, 407 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 1: moving on some things that have had but in the past, 408 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:02,679 Speaker 1: and like we said, we're kind of prepping for this 409 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 1: new season the Bachelor. Um. Fox News just came out, 410 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: um with the biggest Bachelor scandals of all arts of 411 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 1: all time. Okay, there's a list here. We're going to 412 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 1: read the top ten to you. I'll start at ten, 413 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 1: and actually, after I'm done reading these, I want you 414 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 1: to discuss especially number four, um, and some of these 415 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: that kind of stayed out to you. So I'll pause 416 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 1: after everyone I read and see if you have a 417 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 1: comment on All right, Juan Pablo again we bring up 418 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 1: his name at number ten, the most hated bachelor of 419 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 1: all time? Do you agree? Yeah? Obviously. I love his 420 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: season though, just because he was the actual worst Bachelor, 421 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: because he was the least romantic and the most misoganistic. 422 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: It was so entertaining because he was such a horrible person. Okay, 423 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: number nine to Mario had a girl. I don't think 424 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: this is a number nine scandal. Come on now, guys. Okay, 425 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 1: so many people go on the show with a significant other. 426 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 1: Oh that sounds weird. Okay. Nick File dished on about 427 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 1: sex and the fantasy suite. I remember this, okay, even 428 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,400 Speaker 1: kind of as I was starting to watch The Bachelor 429 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: and Bachelorette. I remember this scene and how awkward it was. 430 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: This was a really iconic scene in Bachelor history. Truly, 431 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: I agree this was iconic. If you guys don't remember, 432 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 1: this is when Andy was on the I guess it 433 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: was after the final row stage and Nick came out 434 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: to face her for the first time since she broke 435 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 1: up with him, and he was like, well, if you 436 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 1: didn't love me, then why did you make love to me? 437 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like that's so so heavy, but 438 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 1: it didn't beat number seven, which is, hey, yours truly, 439 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: Ben Higgins dropped I love you too much. Um. Actually, 440 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,920 Speaker 1: you can comment, But I don't know why people think 441 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: that this is I don't know, people make such a 442 00:21:58,119 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 1: big deal out of this. You just have a lot 443 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 1: of of in your heart. Thanks, Ashley. I appreciate that. Yeah, 444 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I get it. It It was 445 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 1: such it was such a influential part of my experience, 446 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: and it has affected my life even post Bachelor. You know, 447 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 1: there's there's a ton of questions and there are feelings 448 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: heard about it. Um, but come on, guys, there's still 449 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 1: much more. But I'm glad I made the top ten. 450 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: If I can make a top ten in anything, I'm 451 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: pretty happy about it. Um. The next one, number six 452 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: is Bachelor Brad Womack, who did The Bachelor twice, went 453 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 1: home a bachelor. Yep, that's wait, oh my god, I'm 454 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: looking down this and remind me to say at the 455 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: end what they're missing from this list. I kind of 456 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,640 Speaker 1: love Brad Walmack because he was the first Bachelor ever watched, 457 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,160 Speaker 1: and I just I don't know, he was like classic bachelor, 458 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, I mean he was, 459 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: and he was such a solid guy. From everything I 460 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,239 Speaker 1: hear from my good friend Terry Fetman, who does all 461 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: the wardrobe um for The Bachelor and Bachelor, he carries 462 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: an amazing guy and he has a good read of 463 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: character on the people that come to the show. And 464 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 1: he said that Brad Womack was his favorite bactually he's 465 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: ever dealt with. And that says a lot. And so 466 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 1: I have a lot of respect for bad and maybe 467 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: he just wasn't feeling it. Who knows, I don't. I 468 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: don't watch that season, but from everything I hear, Brad's 469 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 1: a great dude. Yeah. I mean, he's just like Studley 470 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: and he like owns bars. You know, he's a Bachelor. Actually, 471 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to explain number five to me. It 472 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 1: just says Bachelor. She cheated with the producer. What does 473 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,679 Speaker 1: that mean? I believe this is referring to b I 474 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: P Season one, where there was a girl as part 475 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 1: of the cast who was cheated. Who not cheating on anyone, 476 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,640 Speaker 1: but she was hooking up with the producer and I 477 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 1: think the producer or the cameraman. I'm not sure it 478 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 1: was an actual producer, but it was somebody on the 479 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: crew side. He she was hooking up with him, and 480 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: to escape getting caught, the dude like jumped out of 481 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 1: a two story window and broke a leg and then 482 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 1: they were caught. Yeah, he broke a leg. Literally, he 483 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: was hooking up with this cast member gets caught. I 484 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 1: think I hear the story that he was hiding in 485 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: a closet as people were coming looking for him, and 486 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: then as soon as they people that were on staff 487 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: left the room, he jumped out the window broke his leg, 488 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 1: and so he didn't make it very far. That guy 489 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 1: didn't make it on the show very far either. Well, no, 490 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 1: it was the girl. The girl was the cast member, 491 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 1: the guy was the crew. Yeah. Yeah, but the crew 492 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 1: member got fired. Definitely. Okay. Number four Caitlin ruins the 493 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:34,919 Speaker 1: show with her snap was very sensitive to me. But 494 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: I have to get a little protective here of Caitlin 495 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 1: and Sean because I do like them both very much. 496 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: But I want to hear your thoughts first. Actually, oh 497 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,679 Speaker 1: my gosh, I remember when this happened. I think it 498 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: was a couple of days before I left for my 499 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 1: first season of Paradise, and I think there was a 500 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:53,120 Speaker 1: couple of guys in Paradise, who didn't even know who 501 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: the final winner was because Sean and Caitlin had been 502 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 1: that secretive. And then I get there and I'm like, oh, no, 503 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: it's Sean. She accidentally uploaded a snapchat the two of them, 504 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 1: And then what a spoiler, especially with that season. And 505 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,439 Speaker 1: I'm not sure olds because I was just so close 506 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 1: to a lot of the guys on that season, but 507 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 1: I was more compelled with Caitlyn season than ever before. 508 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 1: And I just thought that that one the finale seemed 509 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: like a toss up, like I really felt like she 510 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 1: could have the way it was edited, picked Nick or 511 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,440 Speaker 1: sewn equally. But then all of us knew a couple 512 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 1: of weeks before the finale that it was that was Sean. Yeah. 513 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,679 Speaker 1: I mean, I think this is such a sensitive one 514 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,919 Speaker 1: for me because I do think Kaitlyn Sean. You can 515 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,640 Speaker 1: see it on Night one. They were meant for each other. 516 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:42,879 Speaker 1: I mean, they were great. And this was the reason 517 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 1: this was such a big deal, because I would argue 518 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:51,120 Speaker 1: that Jojo and Caitlyn could be the two most popular 519 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,640 Speaker 1: bachelorrets of time. And I think, and I think everybody 520 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: was so captivated and compelled by Caitlin in the way, 521 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,919 Speaker 1: just the person she was and and her fight for 522 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: all these guys who cared about her, and and you know, 523 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: with the storyline of Nick coming in, everybody's still invested 524 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: in her season that when this snapchat came out, I 525 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: think it was such a kind of a letdown for 526 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: the fans because they're like, oh, there's no more anticipation. 527 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 1: But yet her season still still captivated the audience, even 528 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 1: when they did know it was Sean. They still because 529 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: it was just such a good season of the Bachelor, 530 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: and it was such a true pursuit of love by Kaitlin. 531 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 1: It was probably the only season of The Bachelorette that 532 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: could have gone on as successfully as it did with 533 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 1: having the ending spoiled. And just for you guys to 534 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 1: know a little tidbit, Caitlin only had the snapchat up 535 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 1: for five minutes before somebody alerted her that it was public, 536 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 1: And in those five minutes she got five thousand views 537 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 1: and of course like a bajillion screenshots. Yeah, such a 538 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 1: touting area, but hey, they're doing well today. Everybody still 539 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: watched the season. I actually think the ratings went up 540 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: even after the snapchat. So the Bachelor, Uh franchise is 541 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 1: not hurt by it, and they were lucky to have 542 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:01,360 Speaker 1: Kaitlin and Sean um during the show. Okay, number three, Uh, 543 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 1: we're getting out of the three. And these these three 544 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 1: are kind of heavy. I mean these are kind of yeah, 545 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 1: kind of funny and we can kind of laugh at 546 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 1: but these three are heavy. So the christ Soul situation 547 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 1: that came up last year, Uh, you know, we talked 548 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,879 Speaker 1: about it last week. We don't talk about a lot, 549 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 1: but I know actually today he is having his court appearance. Um, 550 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 1: we don't have any update on that. We'll try to 551 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: inform everybody as that goes on. But really really tough 552 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: situation for a really good guy. And um, but yes, 553 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: it is something that affected Bachelor Nation UM very much. 554 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: And then number two, Yeah, number two, Uh, something that 555 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,359 Speaker 1: happened recently is what we've had. It's really interesting me. 556 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 1: Actually the three last scandals have all happened within the 557 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 1: last year. That says a lot about a franchise that's 558 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 1: been around to twenty year. Number two. The number two 559 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:55,640 Speaker 1: is Becky the producers shoes the show and individual producers. Um, 560 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 1: we've discussed this a lot. We've just discussed this enough. 561 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 1: I don't know where this stands anymore. I think get 562 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 1: probably got settled outside of court. Um. But another huge 563 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 1: scandal and going down to number one one that our 564 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 1: podcast was was kind of I mean, within the first 565 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,719 Speaker 1: couple of months of us starting this podcast has happened. 566 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 1: But Karin into Mario. Um, the situation in Bachelor in 567 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 1: Paradise is number one on this list. And do you 568 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 1: know what they were missing? And holy moly, what a miss? 569 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: What was that Jason and Molly Mesnick? How Jason ended 570 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 1: up dumping his winner during the or during or before 571 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:33,639 Speaker 1: the airing of after the final rows and going ahead 572 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 1: and marrying his runner up. That that is true. I 573 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 1: mean that is maybe the biggest scandal, not even scandaled, 574 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: his biggest story U in Bachelor history. I mean, look 575 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 1: at the they're still together today. But that little scene 576 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 1: on television was one of the most iconic scenes, along 577 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 1: with the Nick situation, that we've ever watched in front 578 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 1: of our eyes. Yeah, like, Ben, you said I love 579 00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 1: you to two people, but this guy but in you 580 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 1: to get on the list. But this guy decided to 581 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 1: marry and has been married to a girl for like 582 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 1: six years who he dumped on TV. Yeah, I mean 583 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 1: what I know the both Jason and Molly. And Molly, 584 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: I mean must have a very forgiving heart to look 585 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: back at Jason's say I'm gonna spend my life with you, 586 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 1: even after you dumped me on national television. Uh, he definitely, 587 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: uh did well for himself in that situation. And to 588 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 1: pick another girl over it wasn't like she just got dumped. 589 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 1: It was like another girl got picked over her. Hey, 590 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 1: we all make mistakes. We all learned from our mistakes. Uh, 591 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: you know, hindsight. So I'm sure once they got together. 592 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 1: Now they've had kids and and they're raising a family together, 593 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure they last at that moment. But at the 594 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: time that was a pretty serious scandal in vaccination. Actually, 595 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 1: I think you're right that deserved the top ten. But 596 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 1: something else deserves the top ten on our sponsor list. 597 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: And actually, I want you to tell everybody about one 598 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 1: of our favorite sponsors stakes. It is the best guys Alright. 599 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 1: So a couple of weeks ago, I was delivered this 600 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 1: package to house. It had all the most amazing food 601 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 1: in it. 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Remember 634 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 1: my parents when I was growing up used to get 635 00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: Omaha Steaks in the house and it is like, uh, 636 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 1: it really is like Christmas any day when an adult 637 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 1: can receive Omaha Steaks to their house. Say, now we're 638 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 1: moving again to one of my favorite segments. Um, this 639 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 1: is one of my favorite segments. I get to hear 640 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 1: Ashley's heart. I get to hear our listener's heart. We 641 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 1: appreciate all the emails that come in, so Ashley, you 642 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,239 Speaker 1: always just kind of crushed this segment so please lead us, 643 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:22,240 Speaker 1: and the segment that says, let's listen to our listeners. Alright. 644 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 1: This is from Hannah. Hannah says, about one year ago, 645 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 1: I broke up with my boyfriend of almost five years 646 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 1: because it was time to start thinking about engagement in 647 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: marriage and I was not sure that was the guy 648 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: that I wanted to be with. I was not getting 649 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 1: that spark or that feeling about him anymore. He did 650 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 1: not take the break up very well and was very 651 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: broken for a long time. Yesterday, I just found out 652 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 1: that he recently started seeing someone, and I feel like 653 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: my heart has been ripped out of my chest. I really, 654 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,960 Speaker 1: are these feelings normal? Do I want him back? Do? 655 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to put my feelings out there to 656 00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 1: him if it's just gonna end up hurting him again. 657 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: And what do I do if I get rejected? If 658 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: I do do that, I don't know what to do 659 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 1: about this and I really need a fresh opinion, love Hannah. Well, 660 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: Dr Ben, do you want to take the advice first? No? You? No? 661 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,960 Speaker 1: I Actually I actually want to kind of piggyback on 662 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: you because I think that, I mean, you really do 663 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: for all of those people that don't know actually she has. 664 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 1: She's very emotional. She really rides her emotions, and this 665 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: seems like a very emotional email, right, So actually I 666 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: do want to hear your thoughts first. Okay, Well, I 667 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 1: feel like I feel like you probably don't actually still 668 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 1: harbor feelings for him. I think it's probably a jealousy 669 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: thing and it's just him being with somebody else thing. 670 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,160 Speaker 1: But I do think it's gonna be masked as a 671 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: you still like him thing for the next little bit. Um. 672 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 1: I don't know how personally get here, but I do 673 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 1: think that oh no, I shouldn't get this personal to 674 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: my Actually, well I don't think I could talk about it. Okay, 675 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 1: So Jared just went on a trip and I was 676 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: worried that on his trip that maybe he would like 677 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 1: it was like get a girlfriend, right, And I'm totally 678 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,879 Speaker 1: over Jared, I actually am. I I have like friend 679 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 1: zoned him completely in my own mind, like I can't 680 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 1: even imagine making out with him. But I always wonder 681 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 1: if he were to like come back from this trip 682 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: and had a girlfriend, how I would feel in my 683 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 1: gut And would it be because I'm jealous because I 684 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 1: was never that girl, or would it be because I 685 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 1: actually still had feelings. That's such a good question. I mean, 686 00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,320 Speaker 1: I remember, just a couple of weeks ago, you admitted 687 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 1: to all of us here at the podcast that you're 688 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 1: over Jared. But it sounds like, even with the words 689 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,000 Speaker 1: that you're saying, I was worried that you would come 690 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,160 Speaker 1: back with a girlfriend, you're hinting at the fact that 691 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 1: you might not. Well, well, well, well, I think I 692 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 1: think you No. No, I just I feel like you're 693 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 1: always I've never experienced it before. That's why, Like in 694 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 1: my two and a half year friendship with Jared, as 695 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,400 Speaker 1: much as I could think, that first year was like 696 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: a lot of confusion, but like for the past year 697 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:13,000 Speaker 1: and a half, I just feel like I've never experienced 698 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 1: him having a girlfriend before, and I don't know how 699 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 1: that would feel if I found out that he was 700 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:21,799 Speaker 1: dating somebody, Like seriously, yeah, okay, So actually, what I'm 701 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,840 Speaker 1: hearing you say and what I kind of read in 702 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 1: this situation here is we we've mentioned it before. It 703 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 1: actually you were the one that gave me this advice, 704 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 1: and I had never thought of it this way. But 705 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 1: typically after a break up, you seem to remember all 706 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 1: the good things and you forget the things that we're 707 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:41,759 Speaker 1: not healthy about the relationship. And so when you when 708 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,560 Speaker 1: you when you're no, I mean when you're a year out, 709 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 1: you look back and you say, Okay, this went well, 710 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,920 Speaker 1: this went well. I missed this person. I missed I 711 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 1: missed this about this person. UM, But you forget the 712 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,359 Speaker 1: things that really separated you. And so as I start 713 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,879 Speaker 1: this email out, I'm hearing Hannah say, hey, I wasn't 714 00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,840 Speaker 1: sure about this guy. We were trying to make the 715 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 1: commitment for long lasting, for a lifetime and I just 716 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: couldn't do it. And now that he's dating somebody else, 717 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,680 Speaker 1: I'm questioning if I made the right decision. Of course, 718 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: you're questioning if you made the right decision. That's what 719 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 1: we do as humans. We constantly question ourselves, we questioned others. UM. 720 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 1: Life is not straightforward, it's not always clear. But what 721 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,960 Speaker 1: you did hand, HUM is you made um the decision 722 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,760 Speaker 1: to separate yourself from this deploy and as a result, 723 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 1: you have to respect him moving on. You have to 724 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 1: give him that space to move on. You can't keep 725 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:32,439 Speaker 1: pulling him back in when you're not certain that he's 726 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 1: the one for you. UM. I would say that in 727 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 1: relationships and in breakups. As as I've said before, the 728 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,800 Speaker 1: hardest part about a breakup is not the breakup. It 729 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 1: is ripping the band aid off when you see that 730 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 1: person with somebody else, when their heart is starting to 731 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 1: be shared with somebody else, when they're trying to share 732 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,799 Speaker 1: their heart with somebody else. That is the most difficult thing. 733 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:55,879 Speaker 1: That is the most difficult time. And there's no good 734 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 1: advice for that. That's just you just have to rip 735 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: the band aid out. You know, there's no easy way 736 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 1: when you get a shot at the doctor to rip 737 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 1: it off your your arm, the band aid off your arm. Here, 738 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,359 Speaker 1: there's no way. You just got to do it, rip 739 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: it off. Understand, understand where you're at, and understand that 740 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,400 Speaker 1: you care a lot, and admit that and tell yourself 741 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 1: that you care a lot. But you have to move on. 742 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,800 Speaker 1: Um So, but here here's the caveat to all of this, 743 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 1: I think. And if you're sitting there and you're saying 744 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 1: this is the man for me, I'm going to marry 745 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 1: this guy. I realized it. I'm looking back on our 746 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 1: relationship and I'm realizing that bad things and the good 747 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,359 Speaker 1: things that I know that I'll never meet a man 748 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,520 Speaker 1: as good as this guy, this is my person, this 749 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 1: is the person I'm gonna spend life with. Then you 750 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,520 Speaker 1: better run after him right now. You better let him 751 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,600 Speaker 1: know that, because you can't let that person go away. 752 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: But you have to be very positive that he is 753 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,440 Speaker 1: the one for you. If you're not, don't do it. 754 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,239 Speaker 1: Don't put him in that situation. Yeah, Ben, you just 755 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,960 Speaker 1: that you're so good. It's so funny because literally right 756 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,640 Speaker 1: before we started our podcast, I gave a friend advice 757 00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,400 Speaker 1: who's like in a sort of it's not a similar 758 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 1: situation by any means, but like a recent cut off 759 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 1: of a relationship, And I was like, I think you're 760 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 1: just kind of like remembering how good it was at 761 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 1: the beginning and you're not and you're not concentrating on 762 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:10,239 Speaker 1: how how bad it's made you feel recently. And I 763 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 1: think that's what you have to keep reminding yourself of 764 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,320 Speaker 1: at times like this is just like, think about the 765 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,440 Speaker 1: bad times, don't think about the good times. But for 766 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 1: some reason, your mind always fills in the gaps with 767 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,839 Speaker 1: the good times. Yeah, it does. I wonder why. I mean, 768 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,799 Speaker 1: we'd have to talk to psychologist, but we should have 769 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 1: a psychiatrist on to talk about that I I would 770 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,480 Speaker 1: I would like to assume it is because we question 771 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,799 Speaker 1: ourselves so much as human that we constantly are if 772 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 1: you're in touch with yourself and you have um, some 773 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 1: introspective Um, if you can get introspective, then I think 774 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:46,320 Speaker 1: we do question our decision making so often that, um, 775 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 1: we we could forget that the negative things and the 776 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: things that didn't work, and we just remember the positive 777 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 1: things because these are the only things that make us 778 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: kind of feel guilty for leaving that person. But I 779 00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 1: have no clue. We'd have to talk to a specialist. UM, 780 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,640 Speaker 1: and are in good memory is always more vivid? Yeah, 781 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 1: they really are the things do you remember? You kind 782 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,360 Speaker 1: of want to block off the bat That's such a 783 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 1: good point, actually, I mean you do want to block 784 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 1: off every bad situation in life, right, every bad decision 785 00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 1: we made, every every hurtful moment. We kind of get 786 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 1: numb to those because we block them off and we 787 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,640 Speaker 1: move forward and we only remember the positive things. Yeah. Actually, 788 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 1: if you go read the liner notes and Taylor Swift's 789 00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:30,440 Speaker 1: album reads this so well, it's beautiful Taylor Swift coming 790 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 1: back to help all of us continue not dating anybody. 791 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:40,800 Speaker 1: She's very, very happy right now. Then let's move on 792 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 1: to Heather. I really like Heather okay from Heather Love 793 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: the podcast and makes me feel less hazy. Yes, waiting 794 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:56,360 Speaker 1: around in these terrible dating waters, waiting, watting, wait, waiting, waiting, 795 00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 1: waiting around in water Okay, I never used that that word. 796 00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 1: I feel like we're in this together. That's great. That's 797 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:06,800 Speaker 1: my goal in life, is like, if I'm going to 798 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,320 Speaker 1: be single, at least make other people feel better about 799 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 1: their singleness. I'm newly dating a guy, still casual and 800 00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,799 Speaker 1: going well, but it's come to my attention that he's 801 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:21,000 Speaker 1: definitely dating someone else as well. I came straight to you, guys, 802 00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 1: of course, this is fine. We're not exclusive. I was 803 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: going out with another guy when we first went on 804 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:30,799 Speaker 1: our first date, but I've been feeling some real potential, 805 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,279 Speaker 1: so this realization has kind of hit me hard. How 806 00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 1: do you handle it when the person that you are 807 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 1: into is dating someone else and you might finish in 808 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 1: second place. I don't want to compete against this invisible 809 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,839 Speaker 1: girl I know nothing about her, but I also want 810 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 1: to fight to stay number one with this dude. I'm 811 00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,879 Speaker 1: starting to feel strung along and I don't know how 812 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:56,520 Speaker 1: to wait this out. Oh um, well, welcome to my 813 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 1: life on the Bachelor always number two. You know, it's 814 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 1: a fun a story that never got aired. Um. One 815 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:06,759 Speaker 1: time during my second season of Paradise, I look up 816 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 1: at Nick as I like, I wasn't asked to go 817 00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: on a date that I really didn't care about going on, 818 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:14,840 Speaker 1: and I just thought it was interesting. I was like, 819 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 1: why wouldn't he ask me? It was with um, that 820 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 1: guy from your season, uh whatever, totally irrelevant. But I 821 00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 1: look up at Nick and I go, Nick, why am 822 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,920 Speaker 1: I always second place? And then he would like look, 823 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:30,319 Speaker 1: gave me a look, and I was like, oh my god, 824 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. Sore subject anyway, UM, I don't know 825 00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:41,359 Speaker 1: what to tell you, but I can feel the ache 826 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:45,080 Speaker 1: in your heart. I can. I totally unfamiliar with the situation. 827 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 1: It sucks, um. But then again, at the same time, 828 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 1: I don't really have advice for you, except like maybe 829 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,279 Speaker 1: brace yourself for heartbreak, but like keep going at it. 830 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, because it's never worked out for me, 831 00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:06,239 Speaker 1: just talking like from my own personal perspective that like 832 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 1: it hasn't see if I'm second, if your second place 833 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: right now, I don't know. I don't know if he 834 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 1: if he's continuing to date someone else, then I would 835 00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,399 Speaker 1: say he's probably not sold on either one of you. 836 00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:22,640 Speaker 1: M hm oh man. I cannot wait if you if 837 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 1: you and Heather stating face to face and you gave 838 00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:30,360 Speaker 1: her the advice of raise yourself for heartbreak or I 839 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,360 Speaker 1: cannot imagine just a sorrow in her eyes. Oh my gosh, 840 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,200 Speaker 1: I need to I need to pretend like she's here 841 00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,799 Speaker 1: next to me, but I would probably tell her in 842 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 1: real life, I'd be like, I don't know, I'd be 843 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 1: weary if he's dating to be but once that means 844 00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:47,319 Speaker 1: he's probably not head over heels for either of you. Yeah, 845 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,799 Speaker 1: I mean that's I mean, hey, that that would be 846 00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:53,399 Speaker 1: My advice is until he can make that commitment, UM, 847 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 1: you have nothing to control other And it seems to 848 00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 1: me like if you're going to enter into relationship with 849 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:01,439 Speaker 1: the guy um that is the eating other people, then 850 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 1: he needs to figure out very quickly if he just 851 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 1: wants to date you. Now, this is okay, So but 852 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,399 Speaker 1: here's the scenari Right. What if Heather and this guy meet, 853 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,520 Speaker 1: they go on one day and he had been dating 854 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 1: somebody off and on for the month before that. Um, 855 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 1: he still wants to figure out if Heather is is 856 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 1: that right person for him, and so it's not unfair 857 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,319 Speaker 1: for him to date multiple people. Want I don't think 858 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,279 Speaker 1: so you're dating, that's what dating is, UM. But you 859 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,759 Speaker 1: have to set your boundaries. You have to start communicating 860 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 1: now what your expectations for this guy are, so he knows. 861 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,400 Speaker 1: So he knows. Hey, if he if he wants to 862 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 1: be with you, Heather, then he has to Then he 863 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 1: needs to know he can only be dating you or 864 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 1: if you're okay with him dating the other person, UM, 865 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 1: then he needs to know that as well. But you 866 00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 1: have to start setting boundaries and communicate to him where 867 00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,360 Speaker 1: your heart at, what your feelings are. UM. If he 868 00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: is the right guy, this is my opinion. Maybe it's 869 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 1: maybe I'm completely off. If he is the right guy, 870 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,400 Speaker 1: if he is a type of guy that his husband 871 00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:00,320 Speaker 1: material okay or long term boyfriend material, let's not I 872 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:05,400 Speaker 1: don't know how old you are, Heather, then telling him, hey, 873 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,120 Speaker 1: I really care about you. I'm worried I'm gonna fall 874 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,200 Speaker 1: in second to this other girl. I don't like the 875 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:11,879 Speaker 1: idea that I'm gonna need to compete. I just want 876 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,040 Speaker 1: to relax and be myself and see where this goes. 877 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,640 Speaker 1: If you if you can't tell him that and him 878 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 1: to respond in the mature way, then he's not husband 879 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,759 Speaker 1: material because the rest of your life you'll need to 880 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,239 Speaker 1: continue to communicate about tough subjects like that openly. So 881 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 1: maybe just try it and if and if it doesn't 882 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,359 Speaker 1: go over well, then you know that you're better off 883 00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,719 Speaker 1: in the long term, longer in anyways. Yeah, and you 884 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,239 Speaker 1: know what, also, Heather, make sure that these feelings that 885 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 1: you've been developing recently aren't because he's playing hard to get, 886 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 1: aren't because there's another girl involved. Because sometimes if you 887 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:47,760 Speaker 1: feel like there's a competition, you're gonna like it more. Yeah, 888 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 1: that's true. I mean, look a look from our experience 889 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 1: The Bachelor exactly. That's why I know where I'm coming 890 00:44:56,200 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 1: from with that advice. Hey, uh so, heathery um, talk, communicate, listen, process, 891 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: and actually spot on. Make sure that you know where 892 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 1: these things are coming from because competition, Um is not 893 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,160 Speaker 1: a healthy way to start a relationship, but it isn't 894 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,000 Speaker 1: the worst way either, So here's the deal. One thing though, 895 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 1: as we talked about The Bachelor, one product that is 896 00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:22,280 Speaker 1: popular with so many Bachelor people out there, including Ashley 897 00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 1: and I are Movement Watches. Movement Watches UM when you 898 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,480 Speaker 1: see it uh in ads or on Instagram or whatever, 899 00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,760 Speaker 1: it's gonna be spelled m vy mt, but it's pronounced 900 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:36,200 Speaker 1: Movement was founded on the belief the style shouldn't break 901 00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,359 Speaker 1: the bank. The watchmaker's goal is to change the way 902 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:41,840 Speaker 1: consumers think about fashion by offering high quality, minimalist products 903 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,440 Speaker 1: at revolutionary prices. With over one million watches sold the 904 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 1: customers around the world, Movement Watches is the world's fastest 905 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,200 Speaker 1: growing watch company, and a lot of that is thanks 906 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:53,840 Speaker 1: to that almost in this podcast, I would like to 907 00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:57,320 Speaker 1: believe um. This company was started by two broke college 908 00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 1: kids that wanted to wear stylist watches but could afford them, 909 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 1: so they started their own watch company. Movement Watches just 910 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 1: start at just nine dollars at a department store. You're 911 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 1: looking at a four hundred value person off today with 912 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,320 Speaker 1: free shifting and three returns. By going to m v 913 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 1: mt dot com backslash almost famous. This watch really has 914 00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 1: a clean design. Seriously, Uh, if you if you look 915 00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:24,759 Speaker 1: at Ashley and a lot of her pictures, or if 916 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,200 Speaker 1: you look at a lot of people around they have 917 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,640 Speaker 1: these movement watches on. They look good in all scenarios. 918 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 1: I think Ashley said last week she can wear sweats 919 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,920 Speaker 1: through a movement watch on and she's glamorous. So seriously, 920 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 1: I've been getting compliments ever since I put mine on. 921 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,360 Speaker 1: I'm standing at the airport, like I said, I can 922 00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,280 Speaker 1: just see people looking at me right now. The whispers 923 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,359 Speaker 1: about my movement watch are hot and heavy. So now, 924 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 1: because there's time to step up your watch game, go 925 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: to Movement m VMT dot com back to us almost famous, 926 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:54,920 Speaker 1: Join the movement today m hm um Actuley final email, 927 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 1: and then then we need to close out of here. 928 00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,000 Speaker 1: I'm getting ready get on a flight, and I can't 929 00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,279 Speaker 1: miss it, I know, because we have something so fun 930 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,399 Speaker 1: to do together tomorrow. I think it might be top 931 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 1: secret ight now, so we won't reveal it, but we'll 932 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,600 Speaker 1: talk about the next couple of weeks. It's not podcast related. 933 00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:12,279 Speaker 1: People just love Ben and I together, and it's not 934 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,360 Speaker 1: bachelor related, So let's start the confused here. This is 935 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,399 Speaker 1: something completely different. It is uh, you know, I'm gonna 936 00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,920 Speaker 1: say it because I've already done some fun stuff with 937 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,320 Speaker 1: this with this show, and I've loved it. And I 938 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,400 Speaker 1: hope to do more in the future. Actuley and I 939 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,440 Speaker 1: are going to be co hosting an episode of First Look. 940 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 1: First Look as a show on NBC, and it's super exciting. 941 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 1: Ashley and I are going to get to do something 942 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 1: in front of the cameras together as a team, which 943 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 1: is cool because people are seeing that this podcast is 944 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 1: kind of working for the both of us, UM and 945 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:45,680 Speaker 1: so we will be a team hosting First Look, which 946 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,720 Speaker 1: is a show on NBC. Like I said, the airs 947 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 1: on Saturday night, so please tune in wait for our 948 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,320 Speaker 1: episode to air. But tomorrow we're taping together. I can't wait. Actually, 949 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,319 Speaker 1: it's so cool. I've loved First Look for a long time. 950 00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 1: It airs after snl UM on Saturday nights. It's like 951 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,359 Speaker 1: a lifestyle show. Ben has been doing some crazy things 952 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 1: with it, UM facing a lot of fears. That's what 953 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 1: his game has been so far. So you guys can 954 00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,560 Speaker 1: struck that out probably in January. UM our episode will 955 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,320 Speaker 1: Aaron January and Ben before we move on to this email, 956 00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 1: Tomorrow is Giving Tuesday, and I think that it's time 957 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:20,160 Speaker 1: for you to give a little shout out to jen Us. 958 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,319 Speaker 1: Oh you're the best. Actually, thank you So Ashley has 959 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:26,360 Speaker 1: been such a good friend to me, along with a 960 00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:28,920 Speaker 1: couple other people in vaccination, and they've partnered with me 961 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,440 Speaker 1: on a campaign that we're doing UM called jin Us. 962 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 1: Jin Us is a campaign to say that in the 963 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 1: time of so much device in this where people seem 964 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,719 Speaker 1: uh to feel so much more hate than love, we 965 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:43,040 Speaker 1: wanted to start a campaign to sell T shirts to 966 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,759 Speaker 1: give back to people all over the world. UM. We're 967 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,320 Speaker 1: giving back to children, UM to put them through school, 968 00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:51,239 Speaker 1: to support them in school. UM from places in the 969 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,200 Speaker 1: United States to all the way to Africa to Haiti. 970 00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,839 Speaker 1: Kids will be affected by this campaign. So you can 971 00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:00,480 Speaker 1: go on UM to my Instagram. The link to purchase 972 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:02,840 Speaker 1: a T shirt is in my bio and once you 973 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,440 Speaker 1: purchase a T shirt, you will be joining the Generation 974 00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,880 Speaker 1: US movement. And and that just means a lot to me, 975 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 1: it means a lot to Ashley. We just are trying 976 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 1: to find ways, I guess, UM to support kids out 977 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 1: there to feel love and not hate because I am 978 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,320 Speaker 1: I don't want this generation to grow up in a 979 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:22,520 Speaker 1: world of devicens. So UM and in short, Generous Coffee Company, 980 00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,160 Speaker 1: the coffee company that I started with a few buddies 981 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:29,000 Speaker 1: along with the go X apparel company UM with a 982 00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,759 Speaker 1: similar business model, joined together to do this Generation US 983 00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,880 Speaker 1: campaign and we are giving all profits. All profits. I'm 984 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,480 Speaker 1: meaning that this is not the I'm not making a 985 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:39,839 Speaker 1: dime off of this UM. This is just to give 986 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 1: give something back to people I need. So anyways, go 987 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,720 Speaker 1: out there, check out the instagram UM or the Lincoln 988 00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:52,000 Speaker 1: Instagram by a T shirt shirts are so soft, good quality, Benjamin. Alright, 989 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:58,800 Speaker 1: last email, it's from Jenny. I don't know, Thanks, I 990 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:02,360 Speaker 1: can't really I'm not a very good reader. Hi Bettan Ashley. 991 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have seen the show Unreal, 992 00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,600 Speaker 1: but it is a basket Bachelor esque type show, and 993 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure one of the producers on the show 994 00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:16,040 Speaker 1: used to be a producer for The Bachelor. My friend 995 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,359 Speaker 1: and I were wondering how much of Unreal is an 996 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: accurate description of the kind of pushing that goes on 997 00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:25,879 Speaker 1: during the actual Bachelor. Are there any similarities or none? 998 00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:32,879 Speaker 1: Any thoughts you guys have, well, well, well, um, then 999 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,520 Speaker 1: you go first. I knew that was going to be 1000 00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:42,719 Speaker 1: the gig. Ashley, uh So, anyways, here's the deal I 1001 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 1: have seen. I said, here's the deal again, I that 1002 00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:47,200 Speaker 1: is my go to one. I wonder if I said 1003 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,160 Speaker 1: that real life or just on this podcast. No, I 1004 00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:53,720 Speaker 1: have a crutch on podcast too, and that's something like, UM, alright, 1005 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:57,239 Speaker 1: so get this and you say we both do it, 1006 00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:01,640 Speaker 1: it's fine, but I have and Unreal. Um, there are 1007 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 1: things that are that are obviously true about Unreal that 1008 00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,120 Speaker 1: are true on The Bachelor. I mean there's tons of 1009 00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:09,279 Speaker 1: producers around. The producers do have a room where they 1010 00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,960 Speaker 1: watch all the movements of the cast members. They have to, 1011 00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 1: It's a television show. They have to know what's going 1012 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:17,800 Speaker 1: on at all times. I get that. Um, the Bachelor 1013 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 1: is not I've always said it this way. The Bachelor 1014 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 1: is not scripted. I doing the batchlor Bachlor. I never 1015 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,880 Speaker 1: was told to say anything. I was never There's never 1016 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:29,160 Speaker 1: anything written out for me to say. Um. It is 1017 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,160 Speaker 1: all up to the cast member's decisions to say what 1018 00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:34,239 Speaker 1: they want to say. But with that, there are things 1019 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,719 Speaker 1: that go on the cast members don't know about the 1020 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,279 Speaker 1: producers do know about, so they kind of play god. 1021 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,880 Speaker 1: They kind of have this view on the whole environment 1022 00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:45,480 Speaker 1: that's different than the cast. So Unreal doun does to 1023 00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:47,960 Speaker 1: pick that as UM, I don't know if producers are 1024 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 1: hooking up behind the scenes, I mean much sucers are 1025 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,560 Speaker 1: in there, are in their twenties, and you know they 1026 00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:55,279 Speaker 1: travel on the road with each other. I'm sure there's 1027 00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 1: been hookups on the show. That's not shocking. It happens 1028 00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:03,480 Speaker 1: in business everywhere, you know. So sure marriages amongst the crew, yeah, 1029 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,279 Speaker 1: of course. And then the final thing and actually, I 1030 00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:09,040 Speaker 1: don't know, uh if you agree or disagree with this, 1031 00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:11,560 Speaker 1: but I believe this from my heart and I would 1032 00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:15,000 Speaker 1: I would fight for this. Um. The Bachelor's job is 1033 00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,880 Speaker 1: to show drama, right. The show is a story, and 1034 00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:22,680 Speaker 1: so they depict the story that's happening behind are in 1035 00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 1: front of the cameras, and then they need to do 1036 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 1: it the best they can. I have never, in my experience, 1037 00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,919 Speaker 1: been a part of a situation where the Bachelor wants 1038 00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,200 Speaker 1: to um intentionally hurt somebody for the sake of a 1039 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,160 Speaker 1: television show. Now, there are people that have been hurt, 1040 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:39,319 Speaker 1: and they have definitely shown it, and they definitely show 1041 00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,680 Speaker 1: the storyline that's playing out. But I've never seen a 1042 00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:46,160 Speaker 1: producer her a cast member on purpose to get a 1043 00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:48,960 Speaker 1: story out of them. And so that's been shown on 1044 00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:53,480 Speaker 1: unreal so I watched Unreal the entire first season, and 1045 00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:55,680 Speaker 1: I watched half of the second season. Don't know why 1046 00:52:55,719 --> 00:53:00,239 Speaker 1: I didn't finish it. Um, I've always said that kind 1047 00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:02,759 Speaker 1: of like goes along with whatever my experience has been 1048 00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 1: on the show. Sometimes I'm like, oh, yeah, Unreal is 1049 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 1: like so unreal, so unreal. And then there have been 1050 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:14,160 Speaker 1: times I'm like, you know what, I've had that happen 1051 00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:19,840 Speaker 1: to me. But overall, I say, it's just a huge exaggeration, 1052 00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:24,640 Speaker 1: especially when it comes to contestant safety. I mean that 1053 00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:28,920 Speaker 1: whole suicide scene because they took her meds away, Like 1054 00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:32,600 Speaker 1: that's insane. There's so much. There's way more insanity on 1055 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:38,399 Speaker 1: the show than that. It's incomparable. It truly isn't comparable. Um, 1056 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,920 Speaker 1: There's sure there are things that we were like, oh 1057 00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 1: he that's crazy. They must they must have done that 1058 00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 1: to me. But overall, it's an exaggeration. Yeah, definitely. I 1059 00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,239 Speaker 1: mean I've never had a producer want to hurt me 1060 00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,520 Speaker 1: physically or emotionally. That wouldn't be smart for them. They're 1061 00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 1: they're really there, the bachelors there, It's it's an unscripted 1062 00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,759 Speaker 1: show to depict twenty six to thirty people competing for 1063 00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:02,320 Speaker 1: one person's heart. You're going to get good storylines no 1064 00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:06,279 Speaker 1: matter what you do from that Unreal. Just as you said, 1065 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:10,680 Speaker 1: it's an exaggeration. Um so anyway, yeah, people, the producers 1066 00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:14,600 Speaker 1: are also portrayed on Unreal like they're evil, soulless, dark people. 1067 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 1: I've none of our producers are like that. They are 1068 00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:21,879 Speaker 1: happy and they they have wonderful hearts. They have really 1069 00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:25,160 Speaker 1: good souls. I would like to believe that they have souls. 1070 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,200 Speaker 1: I know a couple that I definitely know have souls. 1071 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:31,480 Speaker 1: Um so, great question. If you're interested in sending anything 1072 00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:35,080 Speaker 1: else to ASCID, I please actually give them, any of 1073 00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:37,560 Speaker 1: our listeners the email to ask us a question or 1074 00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,000 Speaker 1: to send an email. We will try to respond as 1075 00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,840 Speaker 1: quickly as possible. It is Ben and Ashley at I 1076 00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:47,440 Speaker 1: heart media dot com. And we love here, Yeah we do. 1077 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:51,880 Speaker 1: We love hearing tweets and reviews. We are. We appreciate 1078 00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,160 Speaker 1: every single one and I read every single one to 1079 00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,879 Speaker 1: the tweets. 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I'm pacing back and forth right now, 1130 00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:51,480 Speaker 1: and uh and Denver at at gate Bo shout out 1131 00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:55,120 Speaker 1: to everyone at Gate forty two. Ben. I want to 1132 00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:57,360 Speaker 1: do a little fast round of questions for you because 1133 00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to leave with one of our sponsors. 1134 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:03,680 Speaker 1: As wonderful as our sponsors are. Um, Ben, what's favorite 1135 00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:14,640 Speaker 1: candy bar? Butter finger? Sodas? Right? What's a fairy Thanksgiving food? Am? 1136 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:22,640 Speaker 1: What is your song of the week? Um? Oh my gosh, 1137 00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,040 Speaker 1: let's go. You know I've been listening to a lot 1138 00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,600 Speaker 1: of Hank Williams Jr. Um, So I just go with 1139 00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:31,920 Speaker 1: anything Hank Williams Jr. Today. Okay, Now you gotta ask 1140 00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:36,000 Speaker 1: me questions back. Okay, I got you. Ask you what's 1141 00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:41,320 Speaker 1: your biggest fear not getting married and having a family. Actually, 1142 00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:46,240 Speaker 1: what's your most awkward moment in life? Um? Well, ha 1143 00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:49,560 Speaker 1: ha ha ha. The one that comes to mind is 1144 00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,120 Speaker 1: my most recent one, and that was two weeks ago 1145 00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:55,280 Speaker 1: at the Justice League premiere. I think we talked about 1146 00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:57,760 Speaker 1: this last week when I told did I say this 1147 00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:01,320 Speaker 1: last week? I told Henry can Level that he I 1148 00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,880 Speaker 1: met him at the after party and I told him 1149 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:09,120 Speaker 1: he was the most supermanny Superman he's ever been. And 1150 00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:10,800 Speaker 1: then it came out of my mouth and I was like, 1151 00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:12,880 Speaker 1: oh God, does that think that? Does that mean that 1152 00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:14,920 Speaker 1: he thinks that? I don't think he's been a good 1153 00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:17,000 Speaker 1: Superman in the past. And then I just kept stumbling 1154 00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:18,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, well, You've always been a good Superman, 1155 00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:20,760 Speaker 1: It's just like this time it was like the most 1156 00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:25,920 Speaker 1: superman superman. Oh my god. I was painful. And people 1157 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,440 Speaker 1: have been telling me all night long. They're like, he's single, 1158 00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,760 Speaker 1: you gotta go meet and he's single, So like, don't 1159 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:33,959 Speaker 1: tell me a man is single and super hot before 1160 00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:40,280 Speaker 1: I go talk to him. Pressure. Okay, so as hot 1161 00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,960 Speaker 1: as he is. My next question is what is your 1162 00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,080 Speaker 1: biggest turn off? What could Henry do to turn you 1163 00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:48,360 Speaker 1: completely off from him? Probably have to say something. Probably 1164 00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:54,960 Speaker 1: be pessimistic, yeah, be a negative person. Okay, okay, fair enough, 1165 00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:57,400 Speaker 1: and then actley, what are your plans for the next 1166 00:59:57,440 --> 01:00:02,680 Speaker 1: two weeks? Oh m, Well, I'm going to jingle Ball 1167 01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:06,720 Speaker 1: on Friday, and then I'm getting a facial, and then 1168 01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,160 Speaker 1: I have to do a couple of these podcasts, and 1169 01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:11,520 Speaker 1: then i have to do a couple more my other podcasts, 1170 01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:15,360 Speaker 1: and then I'm doing First Look with you tomorrow and 1171 01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:19,720 Speaker 1: on Wednesday. It's a busy week. It's a busy week, 1172 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,320 Speaker 1: all right, Hey, keep up the data with everything actually 1173 01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:25,280 Speaker 1: is doing in the next two weeks and everything I'm doing. Uh, 1174 01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:28,720 Speaker 1: but continue listen to the almost famous podcast We appreciate you, 1175 01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:30,440 Speaker 1: and Hey. To close this out, I just want to 1176 01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:32,560 Speaker 1: give one last shout out to the Jenness campaign. Actually, 1177 01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:34,960 Speaker 1: thank you for bringing it up. Every T shirt, every 1178 01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,000 Speaker 1: T shirt that's for sale is made out of recycled 1179 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:39,240 Speaker 1: water bottles. It's a really cool thing that companies are 1180 01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,280 Speaker 1: starting to do is instead of using materials that hurt 1181 01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:46,640 Speaker 1: the environment, they're reusing water bottle or reusing plastic bottles 1182 01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:48,920 Speaker 1: to make these T shirts. So you're helping the environment 1183 01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:52,120 Speaker 1: out as well. So help kids, help the environment, help 1184 01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:54,160 Speaker 1: people if you don't choose the gen Us campaign. 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