WEBVTT - Age is Just a Number

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<v Speaker 1>This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Harrison and Lauren z Ma Comedy from the home

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<v Speaker 1>office in Austin, Texas. It has been a minute, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>since Elsie and I have sat down together. Why what's why? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I feel like I see you every day,

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<v Speaker 1>and well.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe we've been spending so much time together that we

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<v Speaker 2>haven't potted to.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a bunch of great guests from Doctor Drew too.

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<v Speaker 1>We did a Father's Day with a couple of great

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<v Speaker 1>actually a few great dads from The Bachelor on the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor World and Ryan Sutter and Bob Guiney and JP Rosenbaum.

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<v Speaker 1>It was great to catch up with those boys. So

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<v Speaker 1>we've just been on a heater of great guests, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a second to jump back into the headlines.

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan and Trista so not splitting up.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing's wrong, everybody's alive, everybody's one hundred healthy, and they

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<v Speaker 1>are one hundred percent together. Okay. It's funny that people

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know why people freaked out if you

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<v Speaker 1>know Ryan and all, and if you're going to freak out,

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<v Speaker 1>clearly you do know Ryan. He is a very poetic guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a real renaissance man because he's the best athlete

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<v Speaker 1>you're ever going to meet. He's a manly man. You

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<v Speaker 1>could leave him on a mountain and he will, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>kill a bear with his bare hands and live and

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<v Speaker 1>he's fine, and then he's going to sit down and

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<v Speaker 1>write poetry about it. That's right.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like an old world kind of guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a very old world guy, but he's he's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he's one of our founding fathers. He is

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor. I'm the declaration of independence of the Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 1>But he is that kind of guy. So he just

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes he he I'll be honest, he notes his emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>When I read those his Instagram, I thought something was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just thought it's Ryan being right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, don't. I've actually never met Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>I told him, I said, look, were you a little heavy?

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<v Speaker 1>You're a little melodramatic with that one. Yeah, he was dripping,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's that's right, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's talk about some other by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Good good that they're everybody's all well, and happy Father's

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<v Speaker 1>Day to those guys. And it was good to have

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<v Speaker 1>him on. Let's get into some headlines.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want to start with talking about a different

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<v Speaker 2>father who's dating someone who not only could be his daughter,

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<v Speaker 2>but could be his granddaughter.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, bro probably his great grandfather good great great granddaughter.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think we're quite there on the not that

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<v Speaker 2>I know my math, but regardless, it's disturbing to me. Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't usually dip my tone to the sports world,

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<v Speaker 2>but this headline caught my eye. The former coach correct

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<v Speaker 2>me if I'm wrong, Babe of the New England Patriots

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<v Speaker 2>rushing it well, thank you, Bill Belichick. The man is

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<v Speaker 2>seventy two years old, and it has come out that

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<v Speaker 2>he is dating a twenty four year old. And not

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<v Speaker 2>only that, but they seem to have started dating a

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<v Speaker 2>bit ago when she was still in college, because they

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<v Speaker 2>met on an airplane and what they got talking about

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<v Speaker 2>was one of her school papers.

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<v Speaker 1>So they were talking about her homework.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, you and I have talked about age gap relationships before,

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<v Speaker 2>we are about sixteen years apart, but oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>seventy two and twenty four. I saw one tweet the

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<v Speaker 2>guy goes, imagine if your dad and your daughter brings

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<v Speaker 2>home her new boyfriend and it's she's a cheerleader. By

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<v Speaker 2>the way, he goes your college cheerleader daughter brings home

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<v Speaker 2>her new boyfriend and it's Bill Belichick. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>this is alarming to me. This would be like if

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<v Speaker 2>our daughter Taylor was dating someone who's your grandfather's age.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what this is. There's no excuses on this one.

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<v Speaker 2>There isn't.

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<v Speaker 1>So the age gap thing is interesting. You and I

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<v Speaker 1>have talked about it, and when you were a grown

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<v Speaker 1>man and a grown woman in your thirties, forties, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is something entirely different to a young girl

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<v Speaker 1>that is in college and they met on an airplane

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<v Speaker 1>and literally started talking about her homework, formed a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and have kept in touch. And forty eight year age

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<v Speaker 1>gap and he's in his seventies.

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<v Speaker 2>He's retired, and she doesn't even have a job yet.

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<v Speaker 1>And I thought, So, I was thinking about this on

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<v Speaker 1>the way back and forth to the gym today and

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<v Speaker 1>because I get fired up about it, because I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's really effed up, I mean really effed up. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Okay, what's my perspective is it? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>do have perspective of being a dad and having kids

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<v Speaker 1>that were teenagers now young adults, so I have that perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>or is it like, are other people out there thinking, hey, man,

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<v Speaker 1>good on you, that's great al Pacino and DeNiro and

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<v Speaker 1>having babies in your nineties and and Bill Belichick having

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<v Speaker 1>a twenty something year old girlfriend, good for you. Are

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<v Speaker 1>there people like that? Is it just because we have

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<v Speaker 1>the perspective of having kids and young adults this age Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that how having kids older conversation is different

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<v Speaker 2>than the age gap conversation because I think Robert DeNiro's

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<v Speaker 2>girlfriend's like well into her forties. To me, it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I was also thinking about this on the way to

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<v Speaker 2>pilates and backs. You and I are both all fired

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<v Speaker 2>up back from our workouts on this, But like, I

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<v Speaker 2>think we immediately kind of go to this because there's

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of an age gap for us, and

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<v Speaker 2>so we probably I think, and yes, we have kids

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<v Speaker 2>who are now like potentially dating people in serious ways

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<v Speaker 2>and we feel protective of them. But I think we've

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<v Speaker 2>just thought about it a lot, because we thought about

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<v Speaker 2>it as we entered into our relationship. And I actually,

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<v Speaker 2>as I was comprehending, realized I have a couple sort

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<v Speaker 2>of guidelines on this that I've come up with and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe people will disagree, but here they are. Okay, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing an age gap thing, one nobody can be

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<v Speaker 2>in their early twenties. Your brain is literally not developed.

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<v Speaker 2>As the wonderful doctor Amen, who did a great episode

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<v Speaker 2>with us said, your brain isn't fully developed till you're

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five twenty six years old. So you shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 2>dating anyone older than you whose brain is good to

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<v Speaker 2>go when your frontal lobe isn't even making decisions yet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so nobody should be in their early twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>Agreed in some of these relationships. By the way, let's

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<v Speaker 1>dip down further. We know people that they're in their

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<v Speaker 1>teens and they're you know, eighteen, nineteen years old, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's the oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was watching ninety Day Fiance the other day and

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<v Speaker 2>a thirty year old is dating a nineteen year old

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<v Speaker 2>and they were getting in a fight and he goes,

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<v Speaker 2>you're acting like a teenager, and I'm like, dude, she

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<v Speaker 2>is a teenager.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what someone? No one should be in the early twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>Little deep dive on some of these other celebrities. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to start naming names, but that it's very

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<v Speaker 1>interesting when they officially start dating when they're eighteen or nineteen,

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<v Speaker 1>but they met earlier. But oh, we didn't start dating.

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<v Speaker 1>As if that's better, as if that makes it okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't it? There was like some rumor that Anthony Keatis

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<v Speaker 2>from the Red Hot Chili Peppers is like dating a

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<v Speaker 2>nineteen year old. He's sixty one. You can't even have

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<v Speaker 2>a glass of wine together. Like, what are they doing?

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<v Speaker 1>What is the related bill? What are you relating me?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? What are you relating to?

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<v Speaker 1>And by the way, well, where is this going to go?

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<v Speaker 1>Where's this going for this young girl who's just starting

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<v Speaker 1>her life, just got out of college, getting her first job.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to be a mentor, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a father figure, if you want to try

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<v Speaker 1>and help her out, wonderful, But what in the f

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<v Speaker 1>is going on with a relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>I actually had I not to get too serious. It

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't overly traumatizing. But when I first moved to La

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<v Speaker 2>there was this man who probably was in his seventies

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<v Speaker 2>at the time and one of my dad's friends. He

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<v Speaker 2>was a friend of my dad's friend, and obviously my

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<v Speaker 2>dad's dead. So this guy was like, listen, I know

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<v Speaker 2>you're moving to LA. Like, get in touch with my

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<v Speaker 2>friend out there and he'll kind of look out for you.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, just somebody to grab breakfast with and

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<v Speaker 2>whatever if you need anything. I like grabbed breakfast with

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<v Speaker 2>them a couple of times. And then he was dropping

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<v Speaker 2>me off where I was living with my roommates, and

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<v Speaker 2>he tried to kiss me in the car and he

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<v Speaker 2>was in his seventies. It was shocking. And it's weird

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<v Speaker 2>because you sort of as a woman, you I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>you you look at someone who's old enough to be

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<v Speaker 2>your grandfather, and you don't think that that's anywhere in

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<v Speaker 2>their mind. I think one, nobody can be in their

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<v Speaker 2>early twenties or late teens, as you pointed out two.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think the age gap can be so big

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<v Speaker 2>that the person could have been like, well into adulthood

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<v Speaker 2>and been your parent. Do you know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 2>A hundred percent, Like you can't be like, you can't

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<v Speaker 2>be get into thirty something forty something years. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>too big of a life place difference.

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<v Speaker 1>What I wonder, too, is what is in this for

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<v Speaker 1>Bill Belichick or someone like him if you and because

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<v Speaker 1>I look at people even in their forties or fifties

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<v Speaker 1>that start dating someone in their young twenties, what does

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<v Speaker 1>that say about you? What are you deficient in that

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<v Speaker 1>you are looking for a child, a young child, because

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<v Speaker 1>in your young twenties you're still a child. When you're twenty,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't even drink yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it could be like midlife or late life crisis, right,

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<v Speaker 2>it could be that someone. I think sometimes people who

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<v Speaker 2>are incredibly successful in one arena might be narcissistic. Might

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<v Speaker 2>be that they never developed emotionally in maturity wise, like

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<v Speaker 2>in their personal side. They they really went hard on

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<v Speaker 2>their professional side.

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<v Speaker 1>Mommy, your daddy issues, attachment issues.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you see a lot of that, you know. They

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<v Speaker 2>call it peter Pan syndrome in LA where you have

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<v Speaker 2>these men who might be financially successful but never grew

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<v Speaker 2>up and never like worked on themselves on their human side,

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<v Speaker 2>and so then like their maturity is a lot younger

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<v Speaker 2>than it should be, and that's why they date younger.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not justifying it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a good thing, but this one just really

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<v Speaker 1>stuck to both of us, and it's funny. It's stuck.

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<v Speaker 1>We both have been thinking about this a lot, and

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<v Speaker 1>just this because again I think because this weekend our

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<v Speaker 1>kids were here, and just.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what blew my mind? What I put myself

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<v Speaker 2>in this girl's shoes. They met on an airplane. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>if I and I'm in my mid thirties, I'm over

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<v Speaker 2>ten years older than her. But in my mid thirties,

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<v Speaker 2>if I sat next to a guy in his early

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<v Speaker 2>seventies on a plane and we just chatted, no part

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<v Speaker 2>of me would think that was going to a flirtatious place.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, Oh, I spoke to this nice elderly

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<v Speaker 2>man on the plane.

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<v Speaker 1>I helped them off the plane. I got a miss

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<v Speaker 1>prune juice.

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<v Speaker 2>Like like you said, it's your dad's age. Like it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's that's my husband's father's age. Like No, it's so

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<v Speaker 2>bizarre that that it got to this place.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wonder what her background is, what her parental

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<v Speaker 1>situation is, Did she have strong, loving parents all of that.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're sitting on a plane, even now me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in my fifties, if I'm sitting next to someone

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<v Speaker 1>in their mid to late seventies, I noticed that that's

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<v Speaker 1>a that's a start difference.

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<v Speaker 2>They buy my rules, that would only be like twenty

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<v Speaker 2>is years for you. That'd be a little pushing of it.

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<v Speaker 1>You could date no, but I just mean that it's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like it's just this why to divide if something

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<v Speaker 1>in there someone in their seventies, it really is well,

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<v Speaker 1>it just.

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<v Speaker 2>Starts to get a little weird. I think when like

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<v Speaker 2>you're getting to someone who could who is your parents' age. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm not saying like some of those really relationships work,

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<v Speaker 2>but like when it's someone who could have who would

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<v Speaker 2>have been because you're you knows unless you had teen parents,

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<v Speaker 2>but if your parents were into adulthood when they had you,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you're stating someone who's your parents' age, there's

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<v Speaker 2>I think it gets a little Okay, let's double check

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<v Speaker 2>ourselves here. Let's move on to another sports headline that

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think I was going to care about.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what the us open you about this all day? Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm you're friendly with Bryson. I've met him once. He's

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<v Speaker 2>such a sweetheart. How did you feel watching You were

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<v Speaker 2>being very emotional watching.

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<v Speaker 1>And and a huge shout out to his entire team,

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<v Speaker 1>including his agent, Brett Falkoff, who is a very good

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<v Speaker 1>friend of ours, very excited. I'm so proud of him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited for the person, the man who he

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<v Speaker 1>is really evolved into. And this kind of goes back

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<v Speaker 1>to what we were just talking about with Bill Belichick

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<v Speaker 1>and this young girl Bryson to Shambeau exploded onto the

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<v Speaker 1>scene as young man, and everybody expected him to be

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<v Speaker 1>something that he wasn't. To be polished, to be perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>to fit this mold, to say the right things and

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<v Speaker 1>do the right things. He had to grow up. He

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<v Speaker 1>had to grow into the man he is now. And

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<v Speaker 1>what he is now is very popular, maybe the most

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<v Speaker 1>popular golfer in the world because of he has honed

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<v Speaker 1>his image and really crafted this message of who he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be. And that's a I'm listening to these people,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, these pundits talk on the sports radio this

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<v Speaker 1>morning and they're ripping on Rory for choking and all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, Man, Rory macelroy, my heart goes out to him.

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<v Speaker 1>If you didn't watch the US Open, he missed a

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<v Speaker 1>couple short puts. There was the one on eighteen. I

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<v Speaker 1>forgive him. That was a diabolical little four footer. That

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<v Speaker 1>was breaking like crazy, so sports talk people, but just

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<v Speaker 1>let's forgive them that. But and the one earlier was

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<v Speaker 1>like inside three feet he had made almost five hundred

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<v Speaker 1>in a row inside that range.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, ladies, if you want, take what he just said,

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<v Speaker 2>memorize it, and go say that to your husband who

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<v Speaker 2>plays golf.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny when people like the average sports guy's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh god, I could have made that putt. Well, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>you could. You could walk out today on a Monday

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<v Speaker 1>or Tuesday, go out here, you little municipal, and hit

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<v Speaker 1>a putt. You don't have a care in the world. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>try to imagine, which you can't. This is why it's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Millions of dollars on the line, millions of people watching cameras, pressure, fans, exhaustion.

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<v Speaker 1>As you've grinded through this, the pressure of that moment,

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<v Speaker 1>it is remarkable. You can even take the putter back.

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<v Speaker 1>I have had just glimpses of this as I've been

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<v Speaker 1>able to play in some of these pro ams and

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<v Speaker 1>on these big stages with some of these guys. It

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<v Speaker 1>is incredible what pressure does to you. As they say,

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<v Speaker 1>pressure burst pipes. And it's so true, and it's funny

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<v Speaker 1>with people like, Oh, I could have done that, I

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<v Speaker 1>could have made that free throw. No, you couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a really good point. It's a really good point

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<v Speaker 2>because I think like in our business, one thing we

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<v Speaker 2>always say is that the greats make it look easy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And it's kind of that same thing of you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, even you like doing those doing the live shows.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's like you're making it look so easy

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<v Speaker 2>and people don't know about the million other factors, Like

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<v Speaker 2>you're on live TV in front of millions, You've got

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<v Speaker 2>someone in your ear, you're trying to get certain emotional

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<v Speaker 2>things out of people, You're talking about tough topics, Like

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many added factors versus just you're having a conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I see what you're saying here.

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<v Speaker 1>And the great ones rise to the occasion when the

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<v Speaker 1>moment presents itself. But guess what, Michael Jordan didn't do that,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't and then he did, and then he was

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<v Speaker 1>the greatest ever. Any great Tiger Woods you name him,

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<v Speaker 1>Serena Williams. All the people we love in a door

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<v Speaker 1>have had moments of failure where they just didn't rise

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<v Speaker 1>to the occasion. But then they learn to conquer that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>It's part of becoming great. Tom Brady go down the line,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter. They will all tell you about failures

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<v Speaker 1>that they sustained growing up and getting better. And Bryson

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<v Speaker 1>had those moments. Everybody has those moments, and it sucks

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<v Speaker 1>when the lights are the brightest when you fall short.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's that's what makes sports so great, It's what

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<v Speaker 1>makes theater great. It was when you are competing, and

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<v Speaker 1>I would say what we do on live TV, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's competition. You are competing to be great in that moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I wish I could tell my younger self failure

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<v Speaker 2>is just as important as success, and obviously try to succeed,

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<v Speaker 2>but those failures that's where you learn how to succeed,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know to shift that mindset. I told the

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<v Speaker 2>kids this recently, like, look at the failures as important,

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<v Speaker 2>be grateful that they happened, even though it feels like

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<v Speaker 2>they suck in the moment. Because also so many failures

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<v Speaker 2>I had along the way, like lead me to the

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<v Speaker 2>success because it set me on this different path that

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<v Speaker 2>ended up being important. But yeah, I mean, look I

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<v Speaker 2>don't I don't always want the golf with you. But

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<v Speaker 2>I like the big ones because I like when sports

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<v Speaker 2>gets emotional, and I like those types of stories, the

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<v Speaker 2>rising above or you know, the personal stories. And one

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<v Speaker 2>thing that stuck out to me so much about Bryson,

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<v Speaker 2>and even having met him, I didn't know this was

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<v Speaker 2>that he lost his dad a few years ago. So

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was really beautiful because it was Father's Day,

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<v Speaker 2>and I posted a little on Instagram about like, I

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<v Speaker 2>just really try to make people feel seen a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's so great to celebrate the great dads, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's also like, let's celebrate, you know, the father figures

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<v Speaker 2>in our lives who don't necessarily have that title of dad,

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<v Speaker 2>or let's celebrate the ones who are gone, or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>let's look out for people who maybe your dad sucks

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<v Speaker 2>so you never had a dad. But so I loved

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<v Speaker 2>that Bryson kind of took that moment when he wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to speak a little bit about his dad who passed,

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<v Speaker 2>because a moment like that always helps with normalizing the

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<v Speaker 2>grief conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>It was kind of sweet. Actually. The last two years,

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<v Speaker 1>Wyndham Clark, who was also a friend, spoke a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about getting over the death of his mom mentally and

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<v Speaker 1>emotionally and working with a professional of how to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with this loss and then how to change that energy

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<v Speaker 1>and change that emotion and make it positive. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he went on to win the US Open and spoke

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<v Speaker 1>very eloquently. He was really I really respect him for

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<v Speaker 1>speaking so openly about his therapy and everything that he

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<v Speaker 1>has been using a professional. And same thing with Bryson.

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<v Speaker 1>He's grown up and talking about his dad, and the

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<v Speaker 1>symmetry too with if you don't know the Payne Stewart story,

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<v Speaker 1>he won there twenty five years ago and then tragically

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<v Speaker 1>died in a plane crash, and if you're young, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>google paint Stewart. He was this kind of legendary figure,

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<v Speaker 1>good looking, went to SMU, you know, dressed differently, and

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<v Speaker 1>died when his plane lost pressure cruising over the United States.

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<v Speaker 1>And we all sat there for hours knowing that they

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<v Speaker 1>had passed away until his plane ran out of gas

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<v Speaker 1>and crashed, and they honored him and Bryson went to

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<v Speaker 1>his college. They went to Bryson went to SMU because

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<v Speaker 1>of Payne Stewart and just the symmetry of the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing and then talking about his dad and dedicating the

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<v Speaker 1>victory to his dad. It was beautifuly goosebumps. I was emotional.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for sitting with me. It was Father's Day

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<v Speaker 1>and you sat with me. Elsie not for long, but

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<v Speaker 1>she came in and when it was important, she sat

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<v Speaker 1>there and she enjoyed that moment with me.

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<v Speaker 2>And I ask the question, why is that important to you?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, if you had not done that, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't have thought about it twice because you hadn't been

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<v Speaker 1>with me for most of the day when we were watching.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just thought it was cool that you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you're really into this. I'm going to sit here for

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes and just be with me because you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know what's going on. And you came

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<v Speaker 1>in and you kind of dove in. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool, just another thing, one of the million reasons

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<v Speaker 1>you show me that you care.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, no, that's sweet. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotn't want you sitting down for every football game,

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<v Speaker 1>but don't worry. Don't worry. That's not what I'm asking.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just thought it was sweet because you did.

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<v Speaker 2>I just didn't think it well, but like I wish

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<v Speaker 2>you would have told me like it would matter to

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<v Speaker 2>you that if I did that. I didn't know that

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<v Speaker 2>you cared if I sat to watch golf from it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever have moments as a couple when you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know until you know, Like you don't think about

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<v Speaker 1>something meaningful until later you're like, oh that was that

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<v Speaker 1>meant a lot to me, Like you you wrote something

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<v Speaker 1>in my card. I'm not going to say what it was,

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<v Speaker 1>but you wrote something in my father's day card that's

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<v Speaker 1>like stuck with me us thinking about it as I

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<v Speaker 1>went to sleep last night, and I'm like, it's something

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<v Speaker 1>you probably didn't even think. Oh well, you just said

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<v Speaker 1>about being the patriarch of a family. Oh yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>you would never know this link. But I always thought

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<v Speaker 1>of my grandfather as the patriarch of our family, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's I use that word a lot when I refer

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<v Speaker 1>to him, and so for someone, that's the first time

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<v Speaker 1>in my life that someone has referred to me like that,

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<v Speaker 1>And so it just meant a lot. And so you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't know, and I didn't know it was coming. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's one of those things you don't know what's meaningful

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<v Speaker 1>until it is. So thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that, honey. I'm glad that you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hit home runs yesterday. You crushed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh good.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus the beautiful pair of boots we'll talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, his Father's Day gift was a pair of Takvis.

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<v Speaker 2>We loved to covid.

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<v Speaker 1>They are sexy.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to get away from sports for a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm burnt out now, so let's talk about our friend

0:20:17.680 --> 0:20:22.200
<v Speaker 2>who has gone Instagram official. Jason Tartik has hard launched

0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:28.119
<v Speaker 2>his relationship with TikToker Kat Stickler. There were rumors for

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<v Speaker 2>a minute, and I'll just be honest, You and I

0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:32.760
<v Speaker 2>have known about this for a minute behind the scenes,

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<v Speaker 2>but we don't spill our friend's tea. Super happy yeah

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<v Speaker 2>for Jason as long as he's happy, and I have

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<v Speaker 2>not we haven't met Kat yet, but no.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait. They've been dating for a while. As

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<v Speaker 1>you said, you know, even when he was you know,

0:20:46.680 --> 0:20:49.120
<v Speaker 1>down here on the podcast we were talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just so early days that you have never

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<v Speaker 1>never know how those things are going to go and

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<v Speaker 1>how it's going to turn out. But they've put the

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<v Speaker 1>work in and and then by the way, yesterday Father's Day,

0:20:59.480 --> 0:21:02.760
<v Speaker 1>not only they go insta official, they went family official.

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<v Speaker 1>She met his family. Oh, so big step. They posted

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of her and the family together. So spending

0:21:11.280 --> 0:21:14.760
<v Speaker 1>Father's Day together, that's a big one. So our love

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<v Speaker 1>to Jay and Kat and he is. We were texting

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<v Speaker 1>the other day and he's just happy. And it's great

0:21:21.080 --> 0:21:22.840
<v Speaker 1>to see a smile on his face because when you

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<v Speaker 1>go through a big public breakup like you know he has,

0:21:26.920 --> 0:21:29.280
<v Speaker 1>it's an emotional rollercoaster. And so when you come when

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<v Speaker 1>you see people come out on the other side and

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<v Speaker 1>they're better, stronger, it's always a wonderful thing. So our

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<v Speaker 1>love to them. That's great.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we end on a fun movie recommendation?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's do that because there's too many bad ones

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<v Speaker 1>out there.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. Okay, we talked about you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't figure out why do these movies like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't trust Rotten Tomatoes anymore. I used to go glance

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<v Speaker 2>the Rotten Tomatoes, get a quick you know, how are

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<v Speaker 2>the reviews just overall? That movie with Anne Hathaway, the

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<v Speaker 2>idea of you Unwatch and I thought it was just me,

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<v Speaker 2>But no, our kids tried to watch it. Josh and

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<v Speaker 2>his girlfriend tried to watch it, Taylor tried to watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>None of them liked it, so I'm like, nope, and

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<v Speaker 2>Hathaway's acting good. The like not an slam on the actors,

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<v Speaker 2>the script, the characters, the pace, unwatchable. And then we

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<v Speaker 2>tried to watch.

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<v Speaker 1>The movie hit Man, number one movie on Netflix. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like great reviews, great reviews.

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<v Speaker 2>We were fast forwarding through it.

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred percent on Rotten Tomatoes, one hundred percent. What

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<v Speaker 1>is not ninety one hundred.

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<v Speaker 2>Are the studios paying for this? I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to look into who bought Rotten Tomatoes. I

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<v Speaker 1>know somebody did. Clearly it's not on the it's not

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<v Speaker 1>on the up and up, it's not on the level,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's no way possible that anybody watched that movie

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<v Speaker 1>and said, oh my god, this is one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 1>the best movie I have watched in years, because or

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<v Speaker 1>this is a great movie at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, what I wonder is, like I do know on

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<v Speaker 2>Rotten Tomatoes, obviously they take all these critic of use

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<v Speaker 2>and then they like curate them into a percentage of approval.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like they're the ones reading, allegedly reading the

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<v Speaker 2>reviews and being like, here's so this critic really gave

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<v Speaker 2>it a positive. I don't know. Like I would say

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<v Speaker 2>about the idea of you Anne Hathaway's acting great, the

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<v Speaker 2>entire movie really horrible. So would they take that and

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<v Speaker 2>be like it was great even though I don't know?

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<v Speaker 1>But hit Man. Here's the best way to sum up Hitman.

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<v Speaker 1>When we turned it off, you go, I have a headache,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was mad. I was, I was. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a visceral reaction. I was angry at this movie. I

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<v Speaker 1>was angry at the people that made this movie and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know them, and You're like, I have a headache.

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<v Speaker 1>We both had this reaction.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. From the trailer. I thought it was

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<v Speaker 2>about a guy who pretended to be different hit men

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<v Speaker 2>to get women to date him, and then like one

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<v Speaker 2>thought he was a real hitman. That is in no

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<v Speaker 2>way what it's about. But we both went at the

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<v Speaker 2>end what was it? Was it a comedy? Was it romantic?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it action?

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<v Speaker 1>And I still don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I still don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea what the movie was.

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<v Speaker 2>We were fast forwarding through. It is over two hours long.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why all movies are so long. Give

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<v Speaker 2>me a tight ninety minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>We literally did. I started fast forwarding through the movie

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<v Speaker 1>just to get through it.

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<v Speaker 2>And again this is not a slam on the actors.

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<v Speaker 2>I love Glenn Powell. I can't wait to see that

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<v Speaker 2>movie Twister Neighbor. Yeah, he lives here in Austin. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not sure of the lead actress's name, but her acting

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<v Speaker 2>was great but so bad, so don't waste your time.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't know what it was as a movie. I

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<v Speaker 2>never laughed. There could have. We could have lost forty minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Now here's let's end on a positive note. A movie

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<v Speaker 2>that I cannot figure out why this isn't getting more buzz.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot figure out why it didn't have as good

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<v Speaker 2>of a rating on Rotten Tomatoes. My mom, my sister,

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<v Speaker 2>my brother, and I so across genders, across ages, went

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<v Speaker 2>to see the movie Babes. We were dying laughing. I

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<v Speaker 2>would describe it in a one sentence as Bridesmaids but

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<v Speaker 2>about pregnancy. It is so funny. If you want to

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<v Speaker 2>go with your friends, your girlfriends, your partner, and just

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<v Speaker 2>see a movie where you are going to leave feeling good,

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<v Speaker 2>feeling great about people, about relationships, about parenting, about family,

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<v Speaker 2>laughing your butt off. I mean I laughed to like

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<v Speaker 2>cry it at one point. It's just a great watch.

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<v Speaker 2>It should be the number one movie in America right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And that lets you know why like Rotten Tomatoes has

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<v Speaker 1>to be off and it has to be bought, because

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<v Speaker 1>that makes no sense why a movie like that wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>resonate now I haven't seen it, would like our daughter

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<v Speaker 1>who's in her twenties, and you know, I know it's

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<v Speaker 1>about having a child and all that you need is that.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it one of those things where you've got to

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<v Speaker 1>be in that space in life or do you think

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<v Speaker 1>every it'll resonate with everybody?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I feel like I saw Bridesmaids before I

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<v Speaker 2>was married, and I thought it was funny, so like

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<v Speaker 2>I think you'll laugh about it like and it gives

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, Mike, give some young people great insight

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<v Speaker 2>on parents.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you hit on something yesterday we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about I forget who we're talking to, but you said

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<v Speaker 1>something very poignant. Great movies like that like Babes And

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<v Speaker 1>again I haven't seen it, but if you love it,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I will. They hit and then later in

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<v Speaker 1>life they hit for a different reason. Like you can

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<v Speaker 1>laugh at Bride'smaids, you can laugh at Babes you can

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<v Speaker 1>laugh at like even a coming of age movie like

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<v Speaker 1>Saint Emo's Fire, which was big when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't get it because I hadn't gone to

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<v Speaker 1>college and I hadn't graduated. You know. Saint Elmo's Fire

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<v Speaker 1>is about that awkward moment when you're you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>this young lady that was dating Bill Belichick, when you're

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<v Speaker 1>moving into your new life. It's that transition and so

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<v Speaker 1>but you can still love it and then later you're like, oh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I see why it hits harder.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I had a friend tell me that they've reread

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<v Speaker 2>books like that. They reread The Great gats That's what

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<v Speaker 2>it was later in life. Everybody reads in high school.

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<v Speaker 2>But they said, you know, I reread it later and

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<v Speaker 2>I like viewed the whole story so differently, and I thought, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's interesting. So I would say, go see Babes and

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<v Speaker 2>then you maybe watch it again. But just wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>end on a positive wreck because there is a good

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<v Speaker 2>movie out there, as desolate as the film landscape is.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, we fought for fall Guy a while back,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will say that has held on. I think

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<v Speaker 1>the critics tried to hate on it. People like the

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<v Speaker 1>Rotten Tomatoes, and it wasn't doing great, but it's held

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<v Speaker 1>on into the theaters and it actually is getting closer

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<v Speaker 1>and closer to that one hundred million dollar mark. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's at eighty five or close to ninety now.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's another good one that we love that we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't understand why it wasn't doing better. So let's end

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<v Speaker 1>on a positive note. Go see Babes, Go see Fall Guy.

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<v Speaker 1>There are movies out there, apparently they're just harder to find.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys so much for being with us. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you had a great weekend, and I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>have a great week LZ. It's good to sit down

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<v Speaker 1>with you again. It's about dang time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's spend some time with each other in front

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<v Speaker 2>of the microphones.

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<v Speaker 1>We will do it again next time because we have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more to talk about. Thanks for listening. Follow

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