1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: Chris Harrison and Lauren z Ma Comedy from the home 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: office in Austin, Texas. It has been a minute, everybody 4 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: since Elsie and I have sat down together. Why what's why? Okay, 5 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like I see you every day, 6 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: and well. 7 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 2: Maybe we've been spending so much time together that we 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 2: haven't potted to. 9 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: We had a bunch of great guests from Doctor Drew too. 10 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: We did a Father's Day with a couple of great 11 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: actually a few great dads from The Bachelor on the 12 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: Bachelor World and Ryan Sutter and Bob Guiney and JP Rosenbaum. 13 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: It was great to catch up with those boys. So 14 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 1: we've just been on a heater of great guests, so 15 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: it's been a second to jump back into the headlines. 16 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 2: Ryan and Trista so not splitting up. 17 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: Nothing's wrong, everybody's alive, everybody's one hundred healthy, and they 18 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: are one hundred percent together. Okay. It's funny that people 19 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: like I don't know why people freaked out if you 20 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: know Ryan and all, and if you're going to freak out, 21 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: clearly you do know Ryan. He is a very poetic guy. 22 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: He's a real renaissance man because he's the best athlete 23 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 1: you're ever going to meet. He's a manly man. You 24 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 1: could leave him on a mountain and he will, you know, 25 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: kill a bear with his bare hands and live and 26 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: he's fine, and then he's going to sit down and 27 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: write poetry about it. That's right. 28 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 2: He's like an old world kind of guy. 29 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: He has a very old world guy, but he's he's 30 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: you know, he's one of our founding fathers. He is 31 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: the Bachelor. I'm the declaration of independence of the Bachelor. 32 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: But he is that kind of guy. So he just 33 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,559 Speaker 1: sometimes he he I'll be honest, he notes his emotions. 34 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: When I read those his Instagram, I thought something was wrong. 35 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just thought it's Ryan being right. 36 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: Yes, don't. I've actually never met Ryan. 37 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: I told him, I said, look, were you a little heavy? 38 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: You're a little melodramatic with that one. Yeah, he was dripping, 39 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: but it's that's right, all right. 40 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: Well, let's talk about some other by the way. 41 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: Good good that they're everybody's all well, and happy Father's 42 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: Day to those guys. And it was good to have 43 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: him on. Let's get into some headlines. 44 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 2: So I want to start with talking about a different 45 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 2: father who's dating someone who not only could be his daughter, 46 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 2: but could be his granddaughter. 47 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: Honestly, bro probably his great grandfather good great great granddaughter. 48 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 2: I don't think we're quite there on the not that 49 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 2: I know my math, but regardless, it's disturbing to me. Listen. 50 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: I don't usually dip my tone to the sports world, 51 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 2: but this headline caught my eye. The former coach correct 52 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 2: me if I'm wrong, Babe of the New England Patriots 53 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 2: rushing it well, thank you, Bill Belichick. The man is 54 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 2: seventy two years old, and it has come out that 55 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: he is dating a twenty four year old. And not 56 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 2: only that, but they seem to have started dating a 57 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 2: bit ago when she was still in college, because they 58 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 2: met on an airplane and what they got talking about 59 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: was one of her school papers. 60 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: So they were talking about her homework. 61 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 2: Listen, you and I have talked about age gap relationships before, 62 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 2: we are about sixteen years apart, but oh my god, 63 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: seventy two and twenty four. I saw one tweet the 64 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: guy goes, imagine if your dad and your daughter brings 65 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 2: home her new boyfriend and it's she's a cheerleader. By 66 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: the way, he goes your college cheerleader daughter brings home 67 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 2: her new boyfriend and it's Bill Belichick. Yeah, I mean 68 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 2: this is alarming to me. This would be like if 69 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 2: our daughter Taylor was dating someone who's your grandfather's age. 70 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 2: That's what this is. There's no excuses on this one. 71 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: There isn't. 72 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: So the age gap thing is interesting. You and I 73 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: have talked about it, and when you were a grown 74 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: man and a grown woman in your thirties, forties, whatever, 75 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: and that is something entirely different to a young girl 76 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: that is in college and they met on an airplane 77 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: and literally started talking about her homework, formed a relationship 78 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: and have kept in touch. And forty eight year age 79 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: gap and he's in his seventies. 80 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 2: He's retired, and she doesn't even have a job yet. 81 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: And I thought, So, I was thinking about this on 82 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 1: the way back and forth to the gym today and 83 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: because I get fired up about it, because I think 84 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: it's really effed up, I mean really effed up. And 85 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, what's my perspective is it? Because I 86 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: do have perspective of being a dad and having kids 87 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: that were teenagers now young adults, so I have that perspective, 88 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: or is it like, are other people out there thinking, hey, man, 89 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: good on you, that's great al Pacino and DeNiro and 90 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: having babies in your nineties and and Bill Belichick having 91 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 1: a twenty something year old girlfriend, good for you. Are 92 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: there people like that? Is it just because we have 93 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 1: the perspective of having kids and young adults this age Well. 94 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: I think that how having kids older conversation is different 95 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 2: than the age gap conversation because I think Robert DeNiro's 96 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 2: girlfriend's like well into her forties. To me, it's funny. 97 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: I was also thinking about this on the way to 98 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: pilates and backs. You and I are both all fired 99 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 2: up back from our workouts on this, But like, I 100 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 2: think we immediately kind of go to this because there's 101 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 2: a little bit of an age gap for us, and 102 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 2: so we probably I think, and yes, we have kids 103 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 2: who are now like potentially dating people in serious ways 104 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 2: and we feel protective of them. But I think we've 105 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 2: just thought about it a lot, because we thought about 106 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 2: it as we entered into our relationship. And I actually, 107 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: as I was comprehending, realized I have a couple sort 108 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 2: of guidelines on this that I've come up with and 109 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 2: maybe people will disagree, but here they are. Okay, if 110 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 2: you're doing an age gap thing, one nobody can be 111 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: in their early twenties. Your brain is literally not developed. 112 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 2: As the wonderful doctor Amen, who did a great episode 113 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 2: with us said, your brain isn't fully developed till you're 114 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 2: twenty five twenty six years old. So you shouldn't be 115 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: dating anyone older than you whose brain is good to 116 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: go when your frontal lobe isn't even making decisions yet. Yeah, 117 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 2: so nobody should be in their early twenties. 118 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: Agreed in some of these relationships. By the way, let's 119 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: dip down further. We know people that they're in their 120 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: teens and they're you know, eighteen, nineteen years old, like 121 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: it's the oh yeah. 122 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: I was watching ninety Day Fiance the other day and 123 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 2: a thirty year old is dating a nineteen year old 124 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 2: and they were getting in a fight and he goes, 125 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: you're acting like a teenager, and I'm like, dude, she 126 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 2: is a teenager. 127 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: Like what someone? No one should be in the early twenties. 128 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: Little deep dive on some of these other celebrities. I'm 129 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 1: not going to start naming names, but that it's very 130 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: interesting when they officially start dating when they're eighteen or nineteen, 131 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: but they met earlier. But oh, we didn't start dating. 132 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: As if that's better, as if that makes it okay. 133 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: Wasn't it? There was like some rumor that Anthony Keatis 134 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: from the Red Hot Chili Peppers is like dating a 135 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 2: nineteen year old. He's sixty one. You can't even have 136 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: a glass of wine together. Like, what are they doing? 137 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 1: What is the related bill? What are you relating me? 138 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? 139 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? What are you relating to? 140 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 1: And by the way, well, where is this going to go? 141 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: Where's this going for this young girl who's just starting 142 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: her life, just got out of college, getting her first job. 143 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: If you want to be a mentor, if you want 144 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: to be a father figure, if you want to try 145 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: and help her out, wonderful, But what in the f 146 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: is going on with a relationship? 147 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 2: I actually had I not to get too serious. It 148 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 2: wasn't overly traumatizing. But when I first moved to La 149 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: there was this man who probably was in his seventies 150 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 2: at the time and one of my dad's friends. He 151 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: was a friend of my dad's friend, and obviously my 152 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 2: dad's dead. So this guy was like, listen, I know 153 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 2: you're moving to LA. Like, get in touch with my 154 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 2: friend out there and he'll kind of look out for you. 155 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 2: And you know, just somebody to grab breakfast with and 156 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 2: whatever if you need anything. I like grabbed breakfast with 157 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 2: them a couple of times. And then he was dropping 158 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 2: me off where I was living with my roommates, and 159 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 2: he tried to kiss me in the car and he 160 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,679 Speaker 2: was in his seventies. It was shocking. And it's weird 161 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: because you sort of as a woman, you I don't know, 162 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 2: you you look at someone who's old enough to be 163 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 2: your grandfather, and you don't think that that's anywhere in 164 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 2: their mind. I think one, nobody can be in their 165 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 2: early twenties or late teens, as you pointed out two. 166 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 2: I don't think the age gap can be so big 167 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 2: that the person could have been like, well into adulthood 168 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 2: and been your parent. Do you know what I'm saying? 169 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 2: A hundred percent, Like you can't be like, you can't 170 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 2: be get into thirty something forty something years. It's just 171 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: too big of a life place difference. 172 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: What I wonder, too, is what is in this for 173 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: Bill Belichick or someone like him if you and because 174 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: I look at people even in their forties or fifties 175 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: that start dating someone in their young twenties, what does 176 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: that say about you? What are you deficient in that 177 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: you are looking for a child, a young child, because 178 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: in your young twenties you're still a child. When you're twenty, 179 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 1: you can't even drink yet. 180 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 2: I mean, it could be like midlife or late life crisis, right, 181 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 2: it could be that someone. I think sometimes people who 182 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 2: are incredibly successful in one arena might be narcissistic. Might 183 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 2: be that they never developed emotionally in maturity wise, like 184 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 2: in their personal side. They they really went hard on 185 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 2: their professional side. 186 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: Mommy, your daddy issues, attachment issues. 187 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 2: Like you see a lot of that, you know. They 188 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 2: call it peter Pan syndrome in LA where you have 189 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 2: these men who might be financially successful but never grew 190 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: up and never like worked on themselves on their human side, 191 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 2: and so then like their maturity is a lot younger 192 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 2: than it should be, and that's why they date younger. 193 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 2: And I'm not justifying it. 194 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: It's not a good thing, but this one just really 195 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: stuck to both of us, and it's funny. It's stuck. 196 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: We both have been thinking about this a lot, and 197 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: just this because again I think because this weekend our 198 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: kids were here, and just. 199 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 2: You know what blew my mind? What I put myself 200 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 2: in this girl's shoes. They met on an airplane. Okay, yeah, 201 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: if I and I'm in my mid thirties, I'm over 202 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 2: ten years older than her. But in my mid thirties, 203 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 2: if I sat next to a guy in his early 204 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 2: seventies on a plane and we just chatted, no part 205 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 2: of me would think that was going to a flirtatious place. 206 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 2: I'd be like, Oh, I spoke to this nice elderly 207 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 2: man on the plane. 208 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 1: I helped them off the plane. I got a miss 209 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: prune juice. 210 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 2: Like like you said, it's your dad's age. Like it's like, 211 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 2: it's that's my husband's father's age. Like No, it's so 212 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 2: bizarre that that it got to this place. 213 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: And I wonder what her background is, what her parental 214 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: situation is, Did she have strong, loving parents all of that. 215 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: If you're sitting on a plane, even now me, I'm 216 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: I'm in my fifties, if I'm sitting next to someone 217 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 1: in their mid to late seventies, I noticed that that's 218 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:35,959 Speaker 1: a that's a start difference. 219 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 2: They buy my rules, that would only be like twenty 220 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 2: is years for you. That'd be a little pushing of it. 221 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: You could date no, but I just mean that it's 222 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: almost like it's just this why to divide if something 223 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 1: in there someone in their seventies, it really is well, 224 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:53,319 Speaker 1: it just. 225 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 2: Starts to get a little weird. I think when like 226 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 2: you're getting to someone who could who is your parents' age. Like, 227 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 2: and I'm not saying like some of those really relationships work, 228 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 2: but like when it's someone who could have who would 229 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 2: have been because you're you knows unless you had teen parents, 230 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 2: but if your parents were into adulthood when they had you, 231 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 2: and then you're stating someone who's your parents' age, there's 232 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 2: I think it gets a little Okay, let's double check 233 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 2: ourselves here. Let's move on to another sports headline that 234 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 2: I didn't think I was going to care about. 235 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: Oh what the us open you about this all day? Uh? 236 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 2: I'm you're friendly with Bryson. I've met him once. He's 237 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 2: such a sweetheart. How did you feel watching You were 238 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: being very emotional watching. 239 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 1: And and a huge shout out to his entire team, 240 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: including his agent, Brett Falkoff, who is a very good 241 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,559 Speaker 1: friend of ours, very excited. I'm so proud of him. 242 00:11:56,600 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm so excited for the person, the man who he 243 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: is really evolved into. And this kind of goes back 244 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: to what we were just talking about with Bill Belichick 245 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: and this young girl Bryson to Shambeau exploded onto the 246 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: scene as young man, and everybody expected him to be 247 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: something that he wasn't. To be polished, to be perfect, 248 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: to fit this mold, to say the right things and 249 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: do the right things. He had to grow up. He 250 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: had to grow into the man he is now. And 251 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: what he is now is very popular, maybe the most 252 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: popular golfer in the world because of he has honed 253 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: his image and really crafted this message of who he 254 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: wants to be. And that's a I'm listening to these people, 255 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: you know, these pundits talk on the sports radio this 256 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 1: morning and they're ripping on Rory for choking and all. 257 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: It's like, Man, Rory macelroy, my heart goes out to him. 258 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: If you didn't watch the US Open, he missed a 259 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 1: couple short puts. There was the one on eighteen. I 260 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: forgive him. That was a diabolical little four footer. That 261 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: was breaking like crazy, so sports talk people, but just 262 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 1: let's forgive them that. But and the one earlier was 263 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: like inside three feet he had made almost five hundred 264 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: in a row inside that range. 265 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 2: Okay, ladies, if you want, take what he just said, 266 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,199 Speaker 2: memorize it, and go say that to your husband who 267 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 2: plays golf. 268 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: It's funny when people like the average sports guy's like, 269 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: oh god, I could have made that putt. Well, yeah 270 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: you could. You could walk out today on a Monday 271 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: or Tuesday, go out here, you little municipal, and hit 272 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: a putt. You don't have a care in the world. Now, 273 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: try to imagine, which you can't. This is why it's hard. 274 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: Millions of dollars on the line, millions of people watching cameras, pressure, fans, exhaustion. 275 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: As you've grinded through this, the pressure of that moment, 276 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: it is remarkable. You can even take the putter back. 277 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: I have had just glimpses of this as I've been 278 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: able to play in some of these pro ams and 279 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: on these big stages with some of these guys. It 280 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 1: is incredible what pressure does to you. As they say, 281 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: pressure burst pipes. And it's so true, and it's funny 282 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: with people like, Oh, I could have done that, I 283 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,319 Speaker 1: could have made that free throw. No, you couldn't. 284 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 2: That's a really good point. It's a really good point 285 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 2: because I think like in our business, one thing we 286 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 2: always say is that the greats make it look easy. Yeah, 287 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 2: And it's kind of that same thing of you know, 288 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 2: I mean, even you like doing those doing the live shows. 289 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 2: You know, it's like you're making it look so easy 290 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 2: and people don't know about the million other factors, Like 291 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 2: you're on live TV in front of millions, You've got 292 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 2: someone in your ear, you're trying to get certain emotional 293 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 2: things out of people, You're talking about tough topics, Like 294 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 2: there's so many added factors versus just you're having a conversation. 295 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 2: And so I see what you're saying here. 296 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: And the great ones rise to the occasion when the 297 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: moment presents itself. But guess what, Michael Jordan didn't do that, 298 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: he didn't and then he did, and then he was 299 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: the greatest ever. Any great Tiger Woods you name him, 300 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: Serena Williams. All the people we love in a door 301 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: have had moments of failure where they just didn't rise 302 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: to the occasion. But then they learn to conquer that moment. 303 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: It's part of becoming great. Tom Brady go down the line, 304 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. They will all tell you about failures 305 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: that they sustained growing up and getting better. And Bryson 306 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: had those moments. Everybody has those moments, and it sucks 307 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: when the lights are the brightest when you fall short. 308 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: But that's that's what makes sports so great, It's what 309 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: makes theater great. It was when you are competing, and 310 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: I would say what we do on live TV, sometimes 311 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: it's competition. You are competing to be great in that moment. 312 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 2: Sometimes I wish I could tell my younger self failure 313 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 2: is just as important as success, and obviously try to succeed, 314 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 2: but those failures that's where you learn how to succeed, 315 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 2: and you know to shift that mindset. I told the 316 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 2: kids this recently, like, look at the failures as important, 317 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 2: be grateful that they happened, even though it feels like 318 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 2: they suck in the moment. Because also so many failures 319 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 2: I had along the way, like lead me to the 320 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 2: success because it set me on this different path that 321 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 2: ended up being important. But yeah, I mean, look I 322 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 2: don't I don't always want the golf with you. But 323 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 2: I like the big ones because I like when sports 324 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 2: gets emotional, and I like those types of stories, the 325 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 2: rising above or you know, the personal stories. And one 326 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 2: thing that stuck out to me so much about Bryson, 327 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 2: and even having met him, I didn't know this was 328 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 2: that he lost his dad a few years ago. So 329 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 2: I thought it was really beautiful because it was Father's Day, 330 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 2: and I posted a little on Instagram about like, I 331 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 2: just really try to make people feel seen a little bit, 332 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: like it's so great to celebrate the great dads, but 333 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 2: it's also like, let's celebrate, you know, the father figures 334 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 2: in our lives who don't necessarily have that title of dad, 335 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 2: or let's celebrate the ones who are gone, or you know, 336 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 2: let's look out for people who maybe your dad sucks 337 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 2: so you never had a dad. But so I loved 338 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 2: that Bryson kind of took that moment when he wanted 339 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 2: to speak a little bit about his dad who passed, 340 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 2: because a moment like that always helps with normalizing the 341 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 2: grief conversation. 342 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: It was kind of sweet. Actually. The last two years, 343 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: Wyndham Clark, who was also a friend, spoke a lot 344 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: about getting over the death of his mom mentally and 345 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 1: emotionally and working with a professional of how to deal 346 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 1: with this loss and then how to change that energy 347 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 1: and change that emotion and make it positive. And then 348 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: he went on to win the US Open and spoke 349 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:16,879 Speaker 1: very eloquently. He was really I really respect him for 350 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 1: speaking so openly about his therapy and everything that he 351 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 1: has been using a professional. And same thing with Bryson. 352 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 1: He's grown up and talking about his dad, and the 353 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: symmetry too with if you don't know the Payne Stewart story, 354 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: he won there twenty five years ago and then tragically 355 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 1: died in a plane crash, and if you're young, you know, 356 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: google paint Stewart. He was this kind of legendary figure, 357 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 1: good looking, went to SMU, you know, dressed differently, and 358 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,959 Speaker 1: died when his plane lost pressure cruising over the United States. 359 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 1: And we all sat there for hours knowing that they 360 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: had passed away until his plane ran out of gas 361 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 1: and crashed, and they honored him and Bryson went to 362 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: his college. They went to Bryson went to SMU because 363 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 1: of Payne Stewart and just the symmetry of the whole 364 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: thing and then talking about his dad and dedicating the 365 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: victory to his dad. It was beautifuly goosebumps. I was emotional. 366 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: Thank you for sitting with me. It was Father's Day 367 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: and you sat with me. Elsie not for long, but 368 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: she came in and when it was important, she sat 369 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: there and she enjoyed that moment with me. 370 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 2: And I ask the question, why is that important to you? 371 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 1: It was like, if you had not done that, I 372 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't have thought about it twice because you hadn't been 373 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: with me for most of the day when we were watching. 374 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: But I just thought it was cool that you're like, hey, 375 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: you're really into this. I'm going to sit here for 376 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: five minutes and just be with me because you're like, 377 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:39,160 Speaker 1: I want to know what's going on. And you came 378 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: in and you kind of dove in. I'm like, oh, 379 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: that's cool, just another thing, one of the million reasons 380 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 1: you show me that you care. 381 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 2: Oh well, no, that's sweet. I didn't. 382 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: I gotn't want you sitting down for every football game, 383 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 1: but don't worry. Don't worry. That's not what I'm asking. 384 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: But I just thought it was sweet because you did. 385 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 2: I just didn't think it well, but like I wish 386 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 2: you would have told me like it would matter to 387 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 2: you that if I did that. I didn't know that 388 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 2: you cared if I sat to watch golf from it. 389 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 1: Do you ever have moments as a couple when you 390 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 1: don't know until you know, Like you don't think about 391 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: something meaningful until later you're like, oh that was that 392 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 1: meant a lot to me, Like you you wrote something 393 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: in my card. I'm not going to say what it was, 394 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: but you wrote something in my father's day card that's 395 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 1: like stuck with me us thinking about it as I 396 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 1: went to sleep last night, and I'm like, it's something 397 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: you probably didn't even think. Oh well, you just said 398 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 1: about being the patriarch of a family. Oh yes, and 399 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 1: you would never know this link. But I always thought 400 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 1: of my grandfather as the patriarch of our family, and 401 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 1: it's I use that word a lot when I refer 402 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 1: to him, and so for someone, that's the first time 403 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 1: in my life that someone has referred to me like that, 404 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 1: And so it just meant a lot. And so you 405 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 1: wouldn't know, and I didn't know it was coming. So 406 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 1: it's one of those things you don't know what's meaningful 407 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,399 Speaker 1: until it is. So thank you. 408 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 2: I love that, honey. I'm glad that you. 409 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: Hit home runs yesterday. You crushed it. 410 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:52,160 Speaker 2: Oh good. 411 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 1: Plus the beautiful pair of boots we'll talk about. 412 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 2: Well, his Father's Day gift was a pair of Takvis. 413 00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: We loved to covid. 414 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 1: They are sexy. 415 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 2: We got to get away from sports for a minute. 416 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:16,919 Speaker 2: I'm burnt out now, so let's talk about our friend 417 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 2: who has gone Instagram official. Jason Tartik has hard launched 418 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:28,119 Speaker 2: his relationship with TikToker Kat Stickler. There were rumors for 419 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 2: a minute, and I'll just be honest, You and I 420 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 2: have known about this for a minute behind the scenes, 421 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: but we don't spill our friend's tea. Super happy yeah 422 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 2: for Jason as long as he's happy, and I have 423 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 2: not we haven't met Kat yet, but no. 424 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: I can't wait. They've been dating for a while. As 425 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: you said, you know, even when he was you know, 426 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,120 Speaker 1: down here on the podcast we were talking about it. 427 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: It was just so early days that you have never 428 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: never know how those things are going to go and 429 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 1: how it's going to turn out. But they've put the 430 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:58,920 Speaker 1: work in and and then by the way, yesterday Father's Day, 431 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 1: not only they go insta official, they went family official. 432 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 1: She met his family. Oh, so big step. They posted 433 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 1: a picture of her and the family together. So spending 434 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: Father's Day together, that's a big one. So our love 435 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: to Jay and Kat and he is. We were texting 436 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: the other day and he's just happy. And it's great 437 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: to see a smile on his face because when you 438 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: go through a big public breakup like you know he has, 439 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 1: it's an emotional rollercoaster. And so when you come when 440 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 1: you see people come out on the other side and 441 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: they're better, stronger, it's always a wonderful thing. So our 442 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: love to them. That's great. 443 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 2: Can we end on a fun movie recommendation? 444 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do that because there's too many bad ones 445 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: out there. 446 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Okay, we talked about you know what, 447 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 2: I can't figure out why do these movies like I 448 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 2: don't trust Rotten Tomatoes anymore. I used to go glance 449 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 2: the Rotten Tomatoes, get a quick you know, how are 450 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 2: the reviews just overall? That movie with Anne Hathaway, the 451 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 2: idea of you Unwatch and I thought it was just me, 452 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,119 Speaker 2: But no, our kids tried to watch it. Josh and 453 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,360 Speaker 2: his girlfriend tried to watch it, Taylor tried to watch it. 454 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 2: None of them liked it, so I'm like, nope, and 455 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 2: Hathaway's acting good. The like not an slam on the actors, 456 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 2: the script, the characters, the pace, unwatchable. And then we 457 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 2: tried to watch. 458 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: The movie hit Man, number one movie on Netflix. It 459 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: was like great reviews, great reviews. 460 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 2: We were fast forwarding through it. 461 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 1: One hundred percent on Rotten Tomatoes, one hundred percent. What 462 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 1: is not ninety one hundred. 463 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 2: Are the studios paying for this? I don't understand. 464 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: I got to look into who bought Rotten Tomatoes. I 465 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:40,479 Speaker 1: know somebody did. Clearly it's not on the it's not 466 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: on the up and up, it's not on the level, 467 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 1: because there's no way possible that anybody watched that movie 468 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 1: and said, oh my god, this is one hundred percent 469 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 1: the best movie I have watched in years, because or 470 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: this is a great movie at all. 471 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 2: Right, what I wonder is, like I do know on 472 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 2: Rotten Tomatoes, obviously they take all these critic of use 473 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 2: and then they like curate them into a percentage of approval. 474 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 2: But it's like they're the ones reading, allegedly reading the 475 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 2: reviews and being like, here's so this critic really gave 476 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 2: it a positive. I don't know. Like I would say 477 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 2: about the idea of you Anne Hathaway's acting great, the 478 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,480 Speaker 2: entire movie really horrible. So would they take that and 479 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 2: be like it was great even though I don't know? 480 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 1: But hit Man. Here's the best way to sum up Hitman. 481 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 1: When we turned it off, you go, I have a headache, 482 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: and I was mad. I was, I was. I had 483 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 1: a visceral reaction. I was angry at this movie. I 484 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 1: was angry at the people that made this movie and 485 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: I don't know them, and You're like, I have a headache. 486 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: We both had this reaction. 487 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 2: I don't know. From the trailer. I thought it was 488 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 2: about a guy who pretended to be different hit men 489 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 2: to get women to date him, and then like one 490 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 2: thought he was a real hitman. That is in no 491 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,919 Speaker 2: way what it's about. But we both went at the 492 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 2: end what was it? Was it a comedy? Was it romantic? 493 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 2: Was it action? 494 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 1: And I still don't know. 495 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 2: I still don't know. 496 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: I have no idea what the movie was. 497 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 2: We were fast forwarding through. It is over two hours long. 498 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 2: I don't know why all movies are so long. Give 499 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 2: me a tight ninety minutes. 500 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: We literally did. I started fast forwarding through the movie 501 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: just to get through it. 502 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,120 Speaker 2: And again this is not a slam on the actors. 503 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 2: I love Glenn Powell. I can't wait to see that 504 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 2: movie Twister Neighbor. Yeah, he lives here in Austin. I'm 505 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 2: not sure of the lead actress's name, but her acting 506 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:24,919 Speaker 2: was great but so bad, so don't waste your time. 507 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,199 Speaker 2: It didn't know what it was as a movie. I 508 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 2: never laughed. There could have. We could have lost forty minutes. 509 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 2: Now here's let's end on a positive note. A movie 510 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 2: that I cannot figure out why this isn't getting more buzz. 511 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 2: I cannot figure out why it didn't have as good 512 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 2: of a rating on Rotten Tomatoes. My mom, my sister, 513 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 2: my brother, and I so across genders, across ages, went 514 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:55,439 Speaker 2: to see the movie Babes. We were dying laughing. I 515 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 2: would describe it in a one sentence as Bridesmaids but 516 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 2: about pregnancy. It is so funny. If you want to 517 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 2: go with your friends, your girlfriends, your partner, and just 518 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 2: see a movie where you are going to leave feeling good, 519 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 2: feeling great about people, about relationships, about parenting, about family, 520 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 2: laughing your butt off. I mean I laughed to like 521 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,199 Speaker 2: cry it at one point. It's just a great watch. 522 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 2: It should be the number one movie in America right now. 523 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 1: And that lets you know why like Rotten Tomatoes has 524 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 1: to be off and it has to be bought, because 525 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: that makes no sense why a movie like that wouldn't 526 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 1: resonate now I haven't seen it, would like our daughter 527 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,120 Speaker 1: who's in her twenties, and you know, I know it's 528 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,639 Speaker 1: about having a child and all that you need is that. 529 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 1: Is it one of those things where you've got to 530 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:42,920 Speaker 1: be in that space in life or do you think 531 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,400 Speaker 1: every it'll resonate with everybody? 532 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like I saw Bridesmaids before I 533 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 2: was married, and I thought it was funny, so like 534 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 2: I think you'll laugh about it like and it gives 535 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 2: by the way, Mike, give some young people great insight 536 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 2: on parents. 537 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: I think you hit on something yesterday we were talking 538 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 1: about I forget who we're talking to, but you said 539 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 1: something very poignant. Great movies like that like Babes And 540 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 1: again I haven't seen it, but if you love it, 541 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 1: I know I will. They hit and then later in 542 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,640 Speaker 1: life they hit for a different reason. Like you can 543 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,919 Speaker 1: laugh at Bride'smaids, you can laugh at Babes you can 544 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 1: laugh at like even a coming of age movie like 545 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 1: Saint Emo's Fire, which was big when I was younger, 546 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 1: but I didn't get it because I hadn't gone to 547 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 1: college and I hadn't graduated. You know. Saint Elmo's Fire 548 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,439 Speaker 1: is about that awkward moment when you're you know, like 549 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 1: this young lady that was dating Bill Belichick, when you're 550 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,199 Speaker 1: moving into your new life. It's that transition and so 551 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: but you can still love it and then later you're like, oh, man, 552 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 1: I see why it hits harder. 553 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. I had a friend tell me that they've reread 554 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,959 Speaker 2: books like that. They reread The Great gats That's what 555 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 2: it was later in life. Everybody reads in high school. 556 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 2: But they said, you know, I reread it later and 557 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 2: I like viewed the whole story so differently, and I thought, oh, 558 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 2: that's interesting. So I would say, go see Babes and 559 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 2: then you maybe watch it again. But just wanted to 560 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 2: end on a positive wreck because there is a good 561 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 2: movie out there, as desolate as the film landscape is. 562 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 1: And you know, we fought for fall Guy a while back, 563 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: and I will say that has held on. I think 564 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 1: the critics tried to hate on it. People like the 565 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,400 Speaker 1: Rotten Tomatoes, and it wasn't doing great, but it's held 566 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: on into the theaters and it actually is getting closer 567 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 1: and closer to that one hundred million dollar mark. I 568 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: think it's at eighty five or close to ninety now. 569 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: So that's another good one that we love that we 570 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,679 Speaker 1: didn't understand why it wasn't doing better. So let's end 571 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: on a positive note. Go see Babes, Go see Fall Guy. 572 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,439 Speaker 1: There are movies out there, apparently they're just harder to find. 573 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for being with us. I 574 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: hope you had a great weekend, and I hope you 575 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 1: have a great week LZ. It's good to sit down 576 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:36,879 Speaker 1: with you again. It's about dang time. 577 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's spend some time with each other in front 578 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 2: of the microphones. 579 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: We will do it again next time because we have 580 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 1: a lot more to talk about. Thanks for listening. Follow 581 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 1: us on Instagram at the most Dramatic pod ever and 582 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,239 Speaker 1: make sure to write us a review and leave us 583 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 1: five stars. I'll talk to you next time.