WEBVTT - Simi & Haze ON: Keeping a Beginner’s Mind & Communicating Effectively in any Relationship

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<v Speaker 1>Even in school, like we would switch classes pretty often,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just remember always taking her like english and

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<v Speaker 1>history tests and exams, and she would take my like

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<v Speaker 1>math and science stuff up to or in science for example,

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<v Speaker 1>like the more like I would do biology and she

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<v Speaker 1>would like do chemistry. And you got away with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, no one ever found out. No found out.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the number one

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<v Speaker 1>health podcast in the world. Thanks to each and every

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<v Speaker 1>single one of you that come back every week to listen,

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<v Speaker 1>learn and grow. Now. I love it when I get

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<v Speaker 1>to sit down with people that have had conversations offline

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<v Speaker 1>before put it on the podcast, record it and share

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<v Speaker 1>it with each and every one of you. Today's guests

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<v Speaker 1>are two people that I am fascinated by. I'm curious

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<v Speaker 1>to learn more about them today. I admire them for

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<v Speaker 1>how they show up in the world, the energy they carry,

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<v Speaker 1>and how they make me and my wife feel whenever

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<v Speaker 1>we're around them. We got introduced to them by our

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<v Speaker 1>dear friend Raquel, who also happens me in the room,

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<v Speaker 1>who be on the podcast very very soon as well.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm so grateful that she's in the room because

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<v Speaker 1>she's the one who connected us Today's guest our Fashion

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<v Speaker 1>Duo DJ Duo Simmy and Hayes. Thank you for being here,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for having us. This is really rare because

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<v Speaker 1>we never really interview people are always like, we've never

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<v Speaker 1>heard your voices, so yeah, we rarely like even talk

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<v Speaker 1>on our Instagram stories or anything. But we trust you

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<v Speaker 1>and we love you, so here we are. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>honored hearing that, and my team said the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>to me. They were like, we want to find interviews

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<v Speaker 1>with them on it and researching and you know what

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<v Speaker 1>they like. And I was like, yeah, but that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I want to sit down with you, because, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>when Raquel introduced us, and we've had a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>dinners here and there, and we've always had like these deep,

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<v Speaker 1>reflective conversations, and you both have such a wonderful warmth

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<v Speaker 1>and positive energy about you. And then I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>they do have voices, they have one opinions, they have

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<v Speaker 1>great ideas, and I love hearing that. Why why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you do interviews? Let's start there is what has stopped

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<v Speaker 1>you over the years from doing interviews. We're just very

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<v Speaker 1>selective about who we talk to, especially if it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>live like this, We've also done like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>like magazine interview stuff where like a lot of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>has been taken out of context. I'd also sometimes rather

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<v Speaker 1>have the people who are closest to me and the

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<v Speaker 1>people who really know us know how we really are

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<v Speaker 1>and not really focus on outside opinions or something we

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<v Speaker 1>said being taken out of context. Yeah, that makes a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of sense. Hey, do you want to tell me

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<v Speaker 1>what you just told me before the podcast? Because then

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<v Speaker 1>everyone can have the disclaimer because I was, I was,

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<v Speaker 1>I was cracking up when you told me this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like everyone needs to know this. I basically

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<v Speaker 1>Simmy is like the spokesperson of the twins. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>that's yeah, so she does more of the talking between us.

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<v Speaker 1>When did that decision get made? It just happened kind

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<v Speaker 1>of naturally. I feel like even in school, like we

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<v Speaker 1>would switch classes pretty often, especially because we had the

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<v Speaker 1>same subject but we didn't have the same classes, so

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<v Speaker 1>and I just remember always taking her like English and

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<v Speaker 1>history tests and exams, and she would take my like

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<v Speaker 1>math and science, the stuff like or in science for example,

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<v Speaker 1>like the more like I would do biology and she

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<v Speaker 1>would like do chemistry. So it's like there's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's like a left brain right brain kind of delegation

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<v Speaker 1>that we have between each other that comes really naturally,

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<v Speaker 1>and you got away with it. Oh yeah, no one

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<v Speaker 1>ever found out found out. We kind of started doing

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<v Speaker 1>it because we just thought like why not we could?

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<v Speaker 1>We couldn't we can do this, so why not try?

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<v Speaker 1>And then it just we just kept getting away with it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I kept going with it. Yeah, that's amazing. I love that. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things that you know, both of you

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<v Speaker 1>are Palestinian and we've spoken about that offline as well

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<v Speaker 1>when we've been connecting. But I wanted to hear about

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I want to hear about your story, your journey,

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<v Speaker 1>your background, the growth, because, like you said, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think many people know, and when we don't know, we

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<v Speaker 1>start putting people in boxes and we make decisions. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think some of the framing that you have,

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<v Speaker 1>but what who are you? I want to know about

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<v Speaker 1>that difference between how you think. Sometimes people may frame you,

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<v Speaker 1>but then how you frame yourself. I would say, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just very curious and interested in learning, Like I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>big on self improvement and self development. I always feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know anything. So with that mindset, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I can, you know, every day learn something

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<v Speaker 1>new because there's so much opportunity in every day to

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<v Speaker 1>learn stuff from anyone and from any experience, any book

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<v Speaker 1>that I pick up. I think investing in yourself is

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<v Speaker 1>such a huge thing, and I think that we that's

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<v Speaker 1>a value that we've been taught since we were kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Like my mom is always like was always like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>learn an instrument, pick up a book, do this. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we were like in so many clubs in um high

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<v Speaker 1>school and middle school. We were like on every sports

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<v Speaker 1>team and we still maintained a four point two GPA.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's so crazy because we actually graduated with the

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<v Speaker 1>exact same gpa, but what just added up to be

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<v Speaker 1>the same. Yeah, very strange. Hey, how do you describe yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty much the same as what Simmy said. People only

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<v Speaker 1>get a small glimpse of us, so they don't really

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<v Speaker 1>get the full picture, which isn't there. I mean, like

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<v Speaker 1>we said, we'd barely do any interviews or anything, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's what they see on the surface. But like, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>there's way more. We're like involved in so many different projects,

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<v Speaker 1>involved and so many different things, Like are very eager

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<v Speaker 1>learners and four point two GPA is like ridiculously good, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so you have to be super smart to get a four. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me a bit about your parents, because you said

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<v Speaker 1>there and I love what you said, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just I think today we have lots of conversations about privilege,

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<v Speaker 1>and often it's it's something that you know gets looked

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<v Speaker 1>down upon. But obviously your parents worked really really hard,

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<v Speaker 1>or your grandparents and your great grandparents, Like that's how

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<v Speaker 1>my mom was born in Yemen and moved to London

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<v Speaker 1>when she was sixteen, and they moved there with nothing

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<v Speaker 1>and built a life and then gave me opportunities that

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't have. Tell us a bit about your parents.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to hear a bit about your mother and father.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you post a lot you have family trips,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I want to know about a bit more about

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<v Speaker 1>their journey and maybe about their story that you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable sharing with us, about how they got to where

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<v Speaker 1>they got to. My mom she started her fashion she

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<v Speaker 1>has she has a shop and I think it's I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it started off as a shop in Saudi Arabia

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<v Speaker 1>and she started off as a buyer and we started

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<v Speaker 1>going to fashion week with her at the time to

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<v Speaker 1>buy for her store, and then the shop expanded and

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<v Speaker 1>it became, like, you know, it became much bigger than

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<v Speaker 1>I think she anticipated because bringing a high end designers

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<v Speaker 1>to the Middle East, to that region was really new,

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<v Speaker 1>and Hayes and I were sort of, you know, trained

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<v Speaker 1>in showrooms with designers to create new collections for the

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<v Speaker 1>region based off of the collections that were already shown

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<v Speaker 1>on the runway in Paris. We were really focused on proportions, shapes, textures,

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<v Speaker 1>what is flattering to the body, what's just all those

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<v Speaker 1>things that helped us develop an eye for like functionality

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<v Speaker 1>and how old were you when you go to it?

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<v Speaker 1>We were like, I think we first started going when

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<v Speaker 1>we were fourteen. Yeah, and I think that really helped

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<v Speaker 1>us even where we are today. It's like a study,

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<v Speaker 1>like we've been studying this since we were fourteen, and

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<v Speaker 1>we started doing our own buying appointments and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>doing being in showrooms alone. We were like fifteen sixteen,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was awesome that she trusted us, but I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we did a good job, so she actually trusted

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<v Speaker 1>you to like and to come up with ideas on

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<v Speaker 1>how to make something more flattering to a body type

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<v Speaker 1>that's not like a model body type. Yeah, and my

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<v Speaker 1>parents are amazing. They've been together for thirty years, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think it's it's really amazing to see

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<v Speaker 1>how in a relationship that is lasting, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>keep choosing each other and keep healing and doing the work.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've seen my parents change like since we were

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<v Speaker 1>you know, from when we were kids to now, they're

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<v Speaker 1>just such different people, and that's aspirational. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>really hope that one day I can have that in

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<v Speaker 1>a partner too. Yeah, that's amazing. I love hearing that,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it's amazing to see how you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people don't want to go on and grow

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<v Speaker 1>older and do what their parents do, but both of

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<v Speaker 1>you became so passionate about something that your mother was

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<v Speaker 1>passionate about. And I love what you said that we've

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<v Speaker 1>been studying this for such a long time because I

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<v Speaker 1>think when people think about fashion, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think anyone who ever sees you guys, whether it's online

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<v Speaker 1>or when I've seen you at events or whatever, it

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<v Speaker 1>may be, the way you guys dress and you're fashioned,

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<v Speaker 1>everything is just like wow, that's so unique. Like, I've

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<v Speaker 1>never seen that before, and I think that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, rather you always feel that way when we

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<v Speaker 1>see you, guys are like wow, like yeah that we

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<v Speaker 1>literally going like what, Like it's so unpredictable, it's so unique.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when you say you've studied something I think fashion,

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<v Speaker 1>often people who don't necessarily can't appreciate it, maybe like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just clothes or it's just colors, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like but actually, when you see someone invent something new

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<v Speaker 1>or someone who creates something that's very rare, you then

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<v Speaker 1>start looking at it and saying, oh, there's a real

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<v Speaker 1>art and a skill to that. Tell us about how

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<v Speaker 1>that art and skill developed independently and collectively between you both.

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<v Speaker 1>Because would you describe you both as having a similar

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<v Speaker 1>sense of taste and style it would you say you

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<v Speaker 1>actually have a very different How would you describe it?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel very similar, very similar taste. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>inevitable with you know, just our experiences and developing the

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<v Speaker 1>vocabulary that we have just in terms of like taste

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<v Speaker 1>and how we see things. We've all talked about spirituality

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<v Speaker 1>and conscienness before. Do you guys feel that with your

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<v Speaker 1>connection like is there a conscious twin connection that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys experience and feel and tell me about where you

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<v Speaker 1>experience it the most independently and collectively. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>because we spend so much time to time together and

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<v Speaker 1>because we work together and we have like mostly the

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<v Speaker 1>same friends, we inevitably have like I know what she's thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>she knows what I'm thinking. So in that sense, I

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<v Speaker 1>would say we do have like collective consciousness. There's like

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<v Speaker 1>trippy moments that happen being a twin, Like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like only twins will understand this, where like I'll walk

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<v Speaker 1>into room and Haze will be there and for like

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<v Speaker 1>a split second, I know this sounds crazy. The first second,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, wait, what am I doing there? And

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll just come back into like real life. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a really nuanced thing that happens in very

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<v Speaker 1>small moments, and I think that's I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's a magic power. Yeah, I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>could experience that. And I always tell Rad I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want twins, Like that's that's what I want.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have twins on either side of the families.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like ladies because they always have each other. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's really special because you know, even

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<v Speaker 1>in like our friendships and like in relationships and stuff like,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't look for a companionship. That's not something that's

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<v Speaker 1>like the crucial to us, Like we don't need to

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<v Speaker 1>have just companionship. We look for other values and because

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<v Speaker 1>obviously we have each other. So I think that we're

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<v Speaker 1>really lucky that we have that experience because even moving

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<v Speaker 1>schools and things like that, growing up, we never had

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<v Speaker 1>I was never scary, like I always hear like my

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<v Speaker 1>friends like moving schools, like it was always like a

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<v Speaker 1>big thing for them, But for us, we were like

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<v Speaker 1>excited because like we had each other. So that's so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>How many schools did you guys go to when you

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<v Speaker 1>were young, Like it sounds that you moved around a law. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we lived. We were born in Saudi Arabia,

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<v Speaker 1>so we went to a probably two schools there when

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<v Speaker 1>we were little, and then we moved to London and

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<v Speaker 1>we went to one school there it was an all

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<v Speaker 1>girls school. And then in high school we were in

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<v Speaker 1>Dubai and we went to two schools there. That's a few, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we came to LA and loved to college here.

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<v Speaker 1>So you did you did you always know this is

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<v Speaker 1>what you wanted to be, this is what you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do or has it been more of a natural

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<v Speaker 1>organic evolution? Was there anything else? It definitely happened quite naturally.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I always knew I was gonna end

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<v Speaker 1>up in a creative field, Like even with music, we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know we were going to end up in music

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<v Speaker 1>at all. We were actually studying film and then our

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<v Speaker 1>friend group was so immersed in music that we just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stumbled into it and that's how we became DJs.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I feel like we're kind of lucky that

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of happened quite naturally for us. I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>And where where did music and fashion collide or where

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<v Speaker 1>did those two worlds become so important to you? When

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<v Speaker 1>did you both feel like this is something not only

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<v Speaker 1>are we going to do this, but we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>do this together? And that where was the beginning of

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<v Speaker 1>that journey? Well? Fashion has just always been a part

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<v Speaker 1>of our DNA with our mom and you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>growing up in fashion and go in a fashion week

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<v Speaker 1>since we were kids. I think that it was just

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<v Speaker 1>already in place for us, and then music. Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>studied fine art and film production in college. And then,

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<v Speaker 1>as Hayes was saying, we were just we were in

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<v Speaker 1>the studio a lot with our friends who were musicians,

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<v Speaker 1>and we just sort of started DJing our friends parties

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<v Speaker 1>just on the low, just because we love music and

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<v Speaker 1>we love playing music, and we love doing transitions. We

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<v Speaker 1>were really interested in transitions like from you know, song

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<v Speaker 1>to song, and I think that there's like an artistry

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<v Speaker 1>in that, and also, you know, reading the room. As

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<v Speaker 1>a DJ, it's like you have to be really good

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<v Speaker 1>at energy and like feeling people's energy, especially if it's

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<v Speaker 1>a smaller event, because we did start doing smaller events

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning. We were just like asked to do

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<v Speaker 1>a favor for a friend at like a party at Coachella,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we were approached by a bunch of managers

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<v Speaker 1>to started to yeah, to manage. Yeah. We were always

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<v Speaker 1>kind of skeptical about being DJs. We had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of DJ friends that we respected so much that we weren't.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't want to be like, oh, we're just gonna come,

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<v Speaker 1>and we kind of pushed it away. Yeah, we resisted

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<v Speaker 1>it lot, but then we were like whatever. We just

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<v Speaker 1>like playing music, Let's just do this and then we

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we just started doing so many events around

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<v Speaker 1>the world and it took us, you know, djaying took

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<v Speaker 1>us to places and helped us like meet a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of interesting people. And I think that we never forced it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it just sort of happened for us. And

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<v Speaker 1>because we were doing something that we found was really

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<v Speaker 1>fun and that we loved djaying, fashion, our music, everything,

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<v Speaker 1>it just like informed each other and yeah, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>Simmy and Hayes founded Simmy Hayes Beauty, which is super exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the launch and that's when I like message

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, and I was so excited for you because

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<v Speaker 1>I think creating something with someone you love is such

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<v Speaker 1>a special offering into the world and you getting everyone

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<v Speaker 1>else to have an opportunity to be a part of

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<v Speaker 1>that world. Tell us about why you created Simmy Hayes Beauty.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the intention behind it, what was the essence

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<v Speaker 1>of it, and what are you excited about sharing it

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<v Speaker 1>with people. Sim's Beauty came out of our need to

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<v Speaker 1>create something that didn't exist. So we didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>create a beauty line for the sake of slapping our

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<v Speaker 1>names on a product and selling something that's been out already.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been in the making for three years. Wow, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. Yeah, and it's you know, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>such a long process. Like our first product is this

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<v Speaker 1>product called Velvet Blur, and it's a matte lip bomb,

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<v Speaker 1>which anyone in the beauty industry would be like, that's impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>How can you make a mat lipstick that's also moisturizing

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<v Speaker 1>because the formulations, it's like, really it's really challenging to

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<v Speaker 1>create that sort of texture and still achieve that effect.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's why it took so long, because we had

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<v Speaker 1>we realize that that's what's missing in the market, something

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<v Speaker 1>that you could just do with one swipe and it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like a lip bomb. It's really comfortable, but it

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<v Speaker 1>has the effect of a mate lipstick. Yeah, we all

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted that for our personal use. Like we would

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<v Speaker 1>go into like these beauty stores and pick out like

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<v Speaker 1>the same shade and like all these different brands, and

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<v Speaker 1>there was like one thing we liked in that one,

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<v Speaker 1>and one thing we liked in that one, but like

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<v Speaker 1>there was nothing, there was nothing that was like combined

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<v Speaker 1>and that specific lipstick is like an amalgamation of the

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<v Speaker 1>perfect things and all the beauty products, all the lipsticks

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<v Speaker 1>that we tried. Yeah, and then there's like this amazing

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<v Speaker 1>sun flush um formula that we also created that just

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<v Speaker 1>gives you like a healthy flush. I think it's also

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<v Speaker 1>the brand came out of you know, what we're saying

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<v Speaker 1>is there was stuff that's missing from the market that

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<v Speaker 1>we wanted to create that would make our lives easier.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what we want to do. We want to

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<v Speaker 1>just facilitate an easier lifestyle for people. We don't want

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<v Speaker 1>people to take ten hours doing their makeup. We want

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<v Speaker 1>people to have reliable, well, very high quality, efficient products,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going to do the research to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you have that product in your hand and that it

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<v Speaker 1>looks beautiful and that you're proud of it, and that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to put it on your counter and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and have it be this like full sensory experience from

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<v Speaker 1>like holding the packaging to put it, putting it on.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that the reviews have been so exciting

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<v Speaker 1>to see because that's exactly what people are saying. Yeah, congratulations.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I read them, and I was reading

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<v Speaker 1>I was reading some of the articles where people are saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>just how easy it is and how accessible you've made makeup,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I think that that's fascinating in an

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<v Speaker 1>industry which, like you're saying, a lot of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>you can spend hours in front of the mirror trying

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<v Speaker 1>to look a certain way, and then you don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>happy with yourself and it hasn't been made easy, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>but you've created something that is accessible, that is easy,

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<v Speaker 1>that's shareable, that people can Like you said, I love

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<v Speaker 1>the year of what you described as a sensory experience

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<v Speaker 1>from the moment they open it, the moment they put

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<v Speaker 1>it on. Was there something about the process that surprised you,

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<v Speaker 1>like in actually creating makeup, like going from actually wearing

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<v Speaker 1>makeup and using other people makeup, but the process of

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<v Speaker 1>creating it, it was there or anything that was interesting

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<v Speaker 1>or challenging or unique about the process for someone who's

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe someone's listening they're like, oh, I'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>create makeup one day, or someone's sitting there going like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I've never understood. Was there something that

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<v Speaker 1>was hard or difficult about it? Like how many times? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that everything affects everything. So let's say there's like a

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<v Speaker 1>powder and the more you compress the powder, the less

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<v Speaker 1>pigmented it's going to be. But then you want pigment,

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<v Speaker 1>so then you so if you put it in a

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<v Speaker 1>packaging and then it all falls out, that's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to work. So there's like it's a rubic ski like

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<v Speaker 1>you can't you can't use the same packaging for like

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<v Speaker 1>all the same formulas. Like there are some moments where

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<v Speaker 1>we wanted to have a concealer in a but they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, oh no, this formula only works in this

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<v Speaker 1>sort of tube. And it's how you know, every all

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<v Speaker 1>these elements work together to deliver like a certain effect,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't you know, do whatever you want. It's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of like a trial and error. There's like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of challenges within creating a specific product. It's definitely

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<v Speaker 1>a chemistry and I think that it's important to work

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<v Speaker 1>with people who really love what they're doing and who

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<v Speaker 1>really believe in your product because Hayes and I are

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<v Speaker 1>always pushing for innovation and Simmy Hayes Beauty is here

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<v Speaker 1>for to be that bridge to what beauty is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be. And yeah, we definitely pushed the lab to

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<v Speaker 1>create products that didn't exist before and that's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and having it become, having it be successful, having a

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<v Speaker 1>product that is that actually works is you know, further

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<v Speaker 1>impetus to create more um innovation. So are you doing

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<v Speaker 1>all the testing and innovation out in Milan or is

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<v Speaker 1>that one of the places or is that the place

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<v Speaker 1>you're sourcing. No, that's where we do like all the testing.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why did you choose Milan? Like apart from the

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<v Speaker 1>obvious reasons, but was this something that drew you there

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<v Speaker 1>when you said you wanted to create with people who

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<v Speaker 1>actually love what they're doing? Is well, Milan has the

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<v Speaker 1>well it's it's not really in Milan, it's sort of

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<v Speaker 1>in the country. Yeah, there's like maybe four labs that

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<v Speaker 1>are like the biggest labs in the world that create

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<v Speaker 1>the best makeup in the world for like all different brands,

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<v Speaker 1>for the highest end brands. And so we visited over

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<v Speaker 1>the three years every single makeup lab that you can

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<v Speaker 1>get in. We even like ended up in Malta. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's amazing. I rathery and I just launched our tea

0:21:50.119 --> 0:21:55.480
<v Speaker 1>company Sama, which is able and hot tea company. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that you mugs for the I know which is

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<v Speaker 1>which is I didn't sell it, Yeah, which is perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I can't wait to open them, like we subconsciously knew. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. I'm not getting you. We just announced it

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<v Speaker 1>like two days ago. That's people appreciate tea like I

0:22:14.400 --> 0:22:19.680
<v Speaker 1>have a special bond and connection. Yeah, well when you

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<v Speaker 1>love to give us real feedback when when we give

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<v Speaker 1>them to you. But we we you know, we've just

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<v Speaker 1>been through that whole process as well of like sourcing

0:22:27.560 --> 0:22:29.760
<v Speaker 1>the tea leaves and the ingredients and obviously a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of our ingredients India. So a lot of our like

0:22:33.160 --> 0:22:36.200
<v Speaker 1>root herbs in each of the teas is from India,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've used these adapted gens and specific herbs with

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<v Speaker 1>distressing qualities and calming amazing, and Rather's obviously the expert

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<v Speaker 1>all of that stuff. So we've been trying to find

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<v Speaker 1>them and you know, we've just been through that process.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know, even though it's not makeup, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>there's a there's a similarity in the idea of again

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<v Speaker 1>what you said, like finding people actually love what they do,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we found people who we consider potion mind masters,

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<v Speaker 1>were like this person like literally is like a food

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<v Speaker 1>scientist and knows how and rather knows which flavors to blend,

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<v Speaker 1>but then having someone who can help us blend them

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<v Speaker 1>effectively has been such a fun process. Yeah who you trust?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah from across the world. Yeah, exactly, exactly right too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't be there every time. My god, I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>excited to try. I can't wait to share it with me. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure rather he's excited to try to make

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<v Speaker 1>up too, So it's going to be a good and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you'll figure out something for me to try to.

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<v Speaker 1>The lip bomb sounds great, Like a lip bomb sounds great.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely. Yeah. Both of you've talked today about like

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<v Speaker 1>how you love learning and you're curious and you're always

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<v Speaker 1>trying your best in whatever it weigh is to be

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<v Speaker 1>to be open to stuff. I want to know what's

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<v Speaker 1>something recently that you've both been trying to learn more

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<v Speaker 1>about this year or in the last twelve months or

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<v Speaker 1>even recently, Like what's been something that you think has

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<v Speaker 1>been sparking your curiosity individually? Like, what's what's been that

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<v Speaker 1>thing it's been like want to learn a bit more

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<v Speaker 1>about that this? Yeah, I'm just gonna go I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>answer this question from like the last book I read

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<v Speaker 1>totally because I read a lot of books and they're

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<v Speaker 1>all on different topics. Like I just reread The Four

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<v Speaker 1>Agreements and then at the same time was reading On Palestine,

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<v Speaker 1>the Noam Chomsky Ellen Pape book. This incredible physicist Carlos Rovelli,

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<v Speaker 1>and he is amazing because he talks about physics from

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<v Speaker 1>a very poetic perspective. And I'm really into allegories, especially

0:24:41.440 --> 0:24:46.400
<v Speaker 1>in topics that are as complex as physics, and he

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<v Speaker 1>makes it so easy to understand, because you know, physics

0:24:50.920 --> 0:24:55.240
<v Speaker 1>is like from like the smallest atom, how things are created,

0:24:55.359 --> 0:25:01.679
<v Speaker 1>and I'm really interested in creation. I think reading books

0:25:01.720 --> 0:25:05.200
<v Speaker 1>on like different subjects help my mind kind of put

0:25:05.240 --> 0:25:08.960
<v Speaker 1>things together. I always remember when Steve Jobs said creativity

0:25:09.080 --> 0:25:11.760
<v Speaker 1>is just connecting things. In the beginning, I was like,

0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:13.760
<v Speaker 1>I need to just focus on one book, you know,

0:25:13.800 --> 0:25:16.000
<v Speaker 1>like I need to just do the one book. But

0:25:16.160 --> 0:25:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I just like started embracing the fact that I'm yeah,

0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:22.239
<v Speaker 1>we like jumping around. I just jump around a lot

0:25:22.280 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 1>from book to book, and I think it informs informs

0:25:25.400 --> 0:25:31.760
<v Speaker 1>my intellect and a more creative way. But yeah, On

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Palestine is like a really important book on the subject,

0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:39.080
<v Speaker 1>and I also read this amazing book called The Way

0:25:39.119 --> 0:25:43.120
<v Speaker 1>of the Spring by Ben Aharon Reich that is about

0:25:43.160 --> 0:25:49.960
<v Speaker 1>the situation in Palestine, but mostly through anecdotes with people

0:25:50.000 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 1>who live there, like Palestinians who live in the West Bank.

0:25:55.119 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 1>I love both those books on the subject, so if

0:25:57.320 --> 0:26:02.200
<v Speaker 1>you're looking to learn more. But I'm a big Noam

0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:06.360
<v Speaker 1>Chomsky fan. Yeah, linguistics hero, and I think something that's

0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:10.000
<v Speaker 1>really important that he brings up in that book is

0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:15.439
<v Speaker 1>how the language used around Palestine and the situation in

0:26:15.480 --> 0:26:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Palestine sort of has perpetuated the cycle of ineffective debate

0:26:21.920 --> 0:26:24.879
<v Speaker 1>that you know, using terms like the peace process or

0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:29.720
<v Speaker 1>negotiations or both sides. Words like that or expressions like that,

0:26:29.760 --> 0:26:33.639
<v Speaker 1>they perpetuate the sloop of what Elin Pape calls a

0:26:33.720 --> 0:26:39.280
<v Speaker 1>conceptual paralysis, and it's it's a really ineffective way of

0:26:40.320 --> 0:26:45.480
<v Speaker 1>talking about the situation. You know, terms like decolonization, regime change, apartheid,

0:26:45.600 --> 0:26:48.960
<v Speaker 1>ethnic lensing, those are the terms that are conducive to

0:26:49.040 --> 0:26:51.920
<v Speaker 1>real change. And I think it's so exciting to see

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 1>that finally the world is waking up and using that

0:26:56.920 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 1>those terminologies to talk about the situation in Palestine. Yeah,

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:06.040
<v Speaker 1>that's such a great answer. I love that. I'm glad.

0:27:06.080 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I love getting book recommendations, and so you've you've given

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.400
<v Speaker 1>us a ton of great ones. There. Don Miguel Ruiz

0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:14.720
<v Speaker 1>has actually come in the podcast into from oh my god,

0:27:15.440 --> 0:27:18.359
<v Speaker 1>I need to be here. I figured that we'll figure

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:21.359
<v Speaker 1>that out. I'll let you guys know. But but also

0:27:21.400 --> 0:27:25.119
<v Speaker 1>like when you know obviously, when why is learning about

0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:28.080
<v Speaker 1>or your heritage been so important to you and also

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:30.479
<v Speaker 1>sharing about it too, And you know, I know that

0:27:30.480 --> 0:27:35.119
<v Speaker 1>when we connected, both of you shared so wonderfully and

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:38.639
<v Speaker 1>also just you're both so what's the right word. I

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>don't want I want to say this. You're both so

0:27:42.400 --> 0:27:44.760
<v Speaker 1>curated and elegant with your words as well when you're

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:47.760
<v Speaker 1>writing about something like you're not you're not being cautious

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:52.200
<v Speaker 1>or you're not being careful, You're just being thoughtful. And

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:54.560
<v Speaker 1>so tell me about why it's been so interesting for

0:27:54.600 --> 0:27:56.840
<v Speaker 1>both of you to learn about your heritage and to

0:27:56.920 --> 0:28:00.439
<v Speaker 1>learn about what's happening and how is that in formed

0:28:00.520 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 1>some of the work you've been dying. Being Middle Eastern

0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:07.440
<v Speaker 1>is inextricable to how we are and how we see

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 1>the world, and in so many you know, anybody who's

0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:15.360
<v Speaker 1>come across Middle Eastern culture. You know, it's a hotbed

0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:21.960
<v Speaker 1>of literature, architecture, mysticism. You know, there's a lot of

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:30.080
<v Speaker 1>incredible values, generosity, understanding, loyalty, like there's that those values

0:28:30.119 --> 0:28:33.480
<v Speaker 1>are just paradigmatic of Arab culture wherever you find it

0:28:33.520 --> 0:28:38.680
<v Speaker 1>in the world. And learning about our culture, and I

0:28:38.720 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 1>think even talking on Palestine on our platform, I feel

0:28:44.400 --> 0:28:47.080
<v Speaker 1>lucky because we are Palestinians, so in some ways we

0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:49.880
<v Speaker 1>have carte blanche to talk about it, and people are

0:28:49.960 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 1>not going to criticize us the way that they would

0:28:52.600 --> 0:28:58.200
<v Speaker 1>criticize somebody who's not Palestinian. But I think we do

0:28:58.280 --> 0:29:02.760
<v Speaker 1>have a responsibility to highlights people that, you know, the

0:29:02.840 --> 0:29:07.520
<v Speaker 1>situation in Palestine isn't it isn't a new situation. It's

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 1>a story of it's not a new story. Like it's

0:29:10.920 --> 0:29:15.000
<v Speaker 1>a story of colonialism and dispossession and it's happened in

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:18.240
<v Speaker 1>history over and over and over again. You know, European

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:22.360
<v Speaker 1>settlers coming to a foreign land, expelling or committing genocide

0:29:22.360 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 1>against the indigenous people. But when you talk about it

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:29.120
<v Speaker 1>in terms of Palestine, they make it seem just like

0:29:29.120 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 1>like this crazy, multifaceted, complex issue and anything that any

0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:38.200
<v Speaker 1>criticism against it is cassiated as anti semitic, and I

0:29:38.240 --> 0:29:42.880
<v Speaker 1>think that's where a lot of the the tension comes in.

0:29:42.960 --> 0:29:45.520
<v Speaker 1>It's like anything you say is going to be labeled

0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:50.120
<v Speaker 1>anti Semitic. But that's what the mainstream media wants you

0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:55.600
<v Speaker 1>to believe because they, you know, the whole function of

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:59.520
<v Speaker 1>the media is to control your focus. And you know,

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 1>they don't you to be concerned over the lives of

0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:05.600
<v Speaker 1>ordinary people. They want you to be you. They want

0:30:05.600 --> 0:30:07.880
<v Speaker 1>you to focus on whether this person is anti Semitic,

0:30:08.560 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 1>and that's like the crucial value of the media. And

0:30:11.880 --> 0:30:14.320
<v Speaker 1>I think engaging in a a little bit of critical thinking

0:30:14.400 --> 0:30:18.400
<v Speaker 1>takes you out of that cheap kind of like audience

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:23.400
<v Speaker 1>that are sort of passive participants in the media, which

0:30:23.840 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Walter Lippmann calls the bewildered Hurd. I love that term.

0:30:28.320 --> 0:30:30.200
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, all it takes is a little bit of

0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:34.080
<v Speaker 1>critical thinking and looking at the Jewish scholars like look

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 1>like listen to listen. I always tell my Jewish friends,

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:41.280
<v Speaker 1>like I've had so many conversations with them about Palestine,

0:30:41.280 --> 0:30:43.920
<v Speaker 1>and I always say, listen to your scholars. There's some

0:30:43.960 --> 0:30:49.240
<v Speaker 1>of my favorites, you know, Noam Chomsky, Norman Finkelstein, Urie Davis,

0:30:49.320 --> 0:30:53.360
<v Speaker 1>Gabor Mattei, Stephen Silda. There's so many amazing Jewish scholars

0:30:53.720 --> 0:30:58.000
<v Speaker 1>who speak on the situation in Palestine. They will show

0:30:58.040 --> 0:31:00.840
<v Speaker 1>you the indoctrination that a lot of people have been

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:05.680
<v Speaker 1>through growing up, you know, seeing Paltign in a certain way,

0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 1>seeing Palastinians in a certain way, and yeah, teaching them

0:31:09.480 --> 0:31:14.120
<v Speaker 1>to relearn and engage in the critical thinking requires to

0:31:15.240 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 1>see the world as it is. Thank you for sharing that.

0:31:17.880 --> 0:31:22.880
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I just love what I really appreciate

0:31:22.880 --> 0:31:26.880
<v Speaker 1>about both of you. And I see this obviously based

0:31:26.920 --> 0:31:29.400
<v Speaker 1>on some of the conversations we've had, but also from

0:31:29.400 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 1>following you guys, Like, there's just so much thought and

0:31:32.760 --> 0:31:36.720
<v Speaker 1>research and reading and thinking happening behind the scenes that

0:31:36.760 --> 0:31:39.000
<v Speaker 1>people may not be aware of. And I think if

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 1>something that we can all learn is what you just

0:31:40.680 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 1>rightly said, is the skill of critical thinking and the

0:31:44.120 --> 0:31:48.160
<v Speaker 1>skill of questioning without being judgmental, without having to put

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:51.000
<v Speaker 1>things in a box, without division. And I think often

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 1>we think those skills come together. We think, if you're

0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:55.360
<v Speaker 1>a critical thinker, you have to be able to like

0:31:56.000 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 1>divide and segregate, whereas actually, if you're a critical thinker,

0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:02.320
<v Speaker 1>you can actually find places for everything to make sense.

0:32:02.360 --> 0:32:05.520
<v Speaker 1>And so I appreciate what you've just shared with us

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 1>from the perspective of, hey, guys, this is this is

0:32:08.680 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 1>what we need to be thinking about. This is the

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:12.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff we need to be questioning. Yeah does

0:32:12.680 --> 0:32:15.600
<v Speaker 1>that Yeah? Yeah, And I think it does take a

0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:20.800
<v Speaker 1>lot of international pressure to change the situation, and it's

0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:24.320
<v Speaker 1>awesome to see that now. You know, there's like the

0:32:24.440 --> 0:32:28.800
<v Speaker 1>BDS movement, it's really making a difference. There's like Israel

0:32:28.840 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 1>Apartheid Week across campuses that started off in Canada and

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:41.800
<v Speaker 1>now it's like the biggest um sort of activist week, yeah,

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:48.400
<v Speaker 1>campaign on the situation. And then there's a lot of infographics,

0:32:48.440 --> 0:32:51.800
<v Speaker 1>there's reading, there's like just so much information. And when

0:32:51.840 --> 0:32:54.080
<v Speaker 1>my friends come up to me and they, you know,

0:32:54.120 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 1>they asked me about it, especially when it was happening,

0:32:58.400 --> 0:33:03.080
<v Speaker 1>when like a couple of months ago, it was really

0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:07.040
<v Speaker 1>emotional for me to like even talk about because those

0:33:07.120 --> 0:33:08.800
<v Speaker 1>kids that you see in the videos they look like

0:33:08.880 --> 0:33:14.200
<v Speaker 1>my cousins. Like it's just it's heartbreaking. So you know,

0:33:14.320 --> 0:33:16.520
<v Speaker 1>I was always encouraging my friends, like I'll talk to

0:33:16.560 --> 0:33:19.720
<v Speaker 1>you about it, but like go online and do the research.

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:25.600
<v Speaker 1>It's right there, and I think it's it's hard to

0:33:25.720 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>go and look at yourself and look at what you've

0:33:28.720 --> 0:33:31.800
<v Speaker 1>learned and say, oh, maybe I wasn't, you know, taught

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:36.320
<v Speaker 1>what the truth is. And I've I've had direct experiences

0:33:36.320 --> 0:33:40.280
<v Speaker 1>with this. Like I went to USC and studied film,

0:33:40.320 --> 0:33:43.240
<v Speaker 1>but one of my elective classes was Middle Eastern studies,

0:33:43.600 --> 0:33:47.480
<v Speaker 1>and I remember my professor was Canadian. She studied her

0:33:47.600 --> 0:33:50.720
<v Speaker 1>She studied Middle Eastern studies her whole life, she was

0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:54.120
<v Speaker 1>a PhD. There was like a quiz happening that day,

0:33:54.120 --> 0:33:58.080
<v Speaker 1>and I remember, like we were talking about Israel Palestine,

0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:02.320
<v Speaker 1>and one of the one of my classmates, was like

0:34:03.040 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 1>razor hand. She was like, oh, well, what if I

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:08.759
<v Speaker 1>don't believe that this is what happened, will I get

0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:12.680
<v Speaker 1>the question wrong? And my teacher was like, that's what happened,

0:34:12.680 --> 0:34:17.160
<v Speaker 1>that's history, you know. Like that interaction was just so

0:34:17.200 --> 0:34:20.840
<v Speaker 1>emblematic of the indoctrination that kids go through. Once you

0:34:20.920 --> 0:34:24.719
<v Speaker 1>look at what's happening over there through colonial perspective, you

0:34:24.719 --> 0:34:27.560
<v Speaker 1>can no longer hide behind the claim of complexity or

0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:31.879
<v Speaker 1>anti semitism or anything else. It is just is what

0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 1>it is. And it's a humanitarian crisis, and we have

0:34:36.239 --> 0:34:40.680
<v Speaker 1>a responsibility to affect change. It's really cool to be

0:34:40.719 --> 0:34:44.440
<v Speaker 1>able to help in any way. And when people, you know,

0:34:44.960 --> 0:34:47.799
<v Speaker 1>say like, oh, like influence, you're an influencer, you're this

0:34:48.080 --> 0:34:50.680
<v Speaker 1>or that, it's like, I don't even get offended by

0:34:50.719 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 1>that term, because you know, there's a deeper function within

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:57.080
<v Speaker 1>the term influencer, and that's that you have a voice

0:34:57.280 --> 0:34:59.399
<v Speaker 1>and that people will listen to you, and I thank

0:34:59.440 --> 0:35:01.319
<v Speaker 1>you for you and your platform in that way. It's

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:04.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's always it's so wonderful to be around

0:35:04.520 --> 0:35:07.880
<v Speaker 1>purposeful individuals and have purposeful friends doing things that are

0:35:07.920 --> 0:35:11.040
<v Speaker 1>meaningful to them and serving and helping, especially when it

0:35:11.040 --> 0:35:13.920
<v Speaker 1>comes to children. I feel like children's one thing that

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 1>I hope that no one in the world can disagree

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:20.760
<v Speaker 1>on that you know, requires nurturing, requires love, requires the basics.

0:35:20.560 --> 0:35:25.000
<v Speaker 1>It's just basic necessity. Because actually, in that Ben Aaron

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Reich book The Way of the Spring, something that really

0:35:27.880 --> 0:35:32.200
<v Speaker 1>like caught me off guard was this, like there was

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:35.000
<v Speaker 1>this character in the book that just kept getting charged

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:38.120
<v Speaker 1>for no reason and being put in jail for no reason.

0:35:39.080 --> 0:35:43.319
<v Speaker 1>And he came out of jail and he was asked like, oh,

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:47.240
<v Speaker 1>so do you miss anything about your experience in prison,

0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:49.960
<v Speaker 1>like as a joke, and he was like, actually, prison

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:53.319
<v Speaker 1>soul virtue was the water pressure, Like I could take

0:35:53.360 --> 0:35:56.720
<v Speaker 1>a good shower. Yeah, And it's just crazy how something

0:35:56.760 --> 0:36:01.200
<v Speaker 1>so basic as taking a shower is possible Yeah in

0:36:02.719 --> 0:36:06.919
<v Speaker 1>the West Bank and Gaza. Yeah, yeah, because they only

0:36:06.960 --> 0:36:10.960
<v Speaker 1>really have twenty percent access of the Mountain aquifer that's

0:36:11.000 --> 0:36:15.399
<v Speaker 1>literally in Gaza. So yeah, basic necessities. I mean, how

0:36:15.400 --> 0:36:19.480
<v Speaker 1>many people don't have? Yeah? Yeah, So anyone who's listening

0:36:19.560 --> 0:36:24.719
<v Speaker 1>right now. Raquel, our dear friend who introduced us, she's

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:26.560
<v Speaker 1>sitting here and she was sharing in a really important

0:36:26.600 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 1>reflection that I can't articulate quite as well as she

0:36:29.320 --> 0:36:33.080
<v Speaker 1>did because it came from her heart. Yes, exactly, that's

0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:34.920
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. But I'm going to repeat what Raquel

0:36:35.040 --> 0:36:37.279
<v Speaker 1>was saying that And this is what I'm hoping that

0:36:37.280 --> 0:36:39.239
<v Speaker 1>people are going to get from this episode. Like I

0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 1>think that's the point, Like I think what Raquel just

0:36:41.520 --> 0:36:45.040
<v Speaker 1>said is what I'm genuinely hoping. Are people going to

0:36:45.120 --> 0:36:47.680
<v Speaker 1>get what people are going to get from this conversation

0:36:48.280 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 1>that they're going to see two people that we get

0:36:51.120 --> 0:36:54.520
<v Speaker 1>a very limited view on all ideas upon. But then

0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:59.359
<v Speaker 1>today we've got to realize just how broad your experiences are,

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:03.640
<v Speaker 1>your life experience in life story are from Raquel was saying,

0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, born in Saudi Arabia, you've studied in London,

0:37:07.800 --> 0:37:11.160
<v Speaker 1>in Dubai, in la You've had the experience of music,

0:37:11.160 --> 0:37:14.480
<v Speaker 1>a fashion of neuroscience, Like who brings those three things together?

0:37:14.560 --> 0:37:17.839
<v Speaker 1>And the reason why you're such tastemakers is because you're

0:37:17.880 --> 0:37:22.160
<v Speaker 1>global citizens and you live with a global heart. And

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:27.120
<v Speaker 1>it's not just the external expression of how artistic you are,

0:37:27.239 --> 0:37:30.279
<v Speaker 1>but even your heart has been impacted by all these

0:37:30.320 --> 0:37:34.279
<v Speaker 1>other stories, philosophies and ideas that you've heard. And I'm

0:37:34.320 --> 0:37:37.640
<v Speaker 1>hoping that that does some justice. Even that is not

0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:39.440
<v Speaker 1>all of who you are, but I'm hoping that that

0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:42.880
<v Speaker 1>there's some justice into people understanding who you are. I

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:46.120
<v Speaker 1>think having all these experiences and being so many places

0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:49.719
<v Speaker 1>and meeting people of all different cultures, it's given us

0:37:50.520 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 1>a heightened sense of empathy and compassion for being a

0:37:54.640 --> 0:37:59.279
<v Speaker 1>human being, and a sense of understanding that somebody who

0:37:59.280 --> 0:38:01.760
<v Speaker 1>grew up in one place wouldn't have. Yeah, and obviously

0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:05.040
<v Speaker 1>that's what Raquel is saying, Like your experiences of being

0:38:05.040 --> 0:38:07.040
<v Speaker 1>able to connect with so many different hearts and so

0:38:07.080 --> 0:38:10.040
<v Speaker 1>many different minds, and you've lived across so many different

0:38:10.040 --> 0:38:12.279
<v Speaker 1>places that you've you've got to experience a lot of

0:38:12.280 --> 0:38:15.239
<v Speaker 1>different cultures. And that's what you were saying earlier that

0:38:15.320 --> 0:38:17.239
<v Speaker 1>you were like, well, some people would call that privileged,

0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 1>but actually you've turned your privilege into purpose and into

0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:24.680
<v Speaker 1>service and connecting with people. Like yes, like you said,

0:38:24.680 --> 0:38:27.640
<v Speaker 1>you could be privileged that you've got to travel, But

0:38:27.880 --> 0:38:31.719
<v Speaker 1>traveling hasn't made you more eager to travel. It's made

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 1>you more eager to love and serve and try and

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<v Speaker 1>help people. If that feels right, Yeah, it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>well put, yeah, your your experiences have just they haven't

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<v Speaker 1>made you more hungry to have more experiences and see

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<v Speaker 1>more places. It's like, actually, it's helped us connect with

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<v Speaker 1>each human that we meet and want them to feel

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<v Speaker 1>a certain way. What have I not asked you? Or

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<v Speaker 1>what have you not spoken about today? That's on your heart,

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<v Speaker 1>that's in your mind, and you both like, Jay, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to share this today. I have to tell your

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<v Speaker 1>community or if there is an you may say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing you've asked us, But I want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that because your friends and people I care about,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to make sure you feel you've had a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to share your heart. I don't know, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we talked about so much good. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>you feel happy and satisfied with everything we've talked about,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes me feel good because I just, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted everyone, and I'm grateful you trusted me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wanted everyone to just see just how intelligent, thoughtful,

0:39:25.800 --> 0:39:29.439
<v Speaker 1>masterful you both are in so many ways. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm honored to call you guys a friend

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<v Speaker 1>honestly because it's likewise. I mean, we're We're so honored

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<v Speaker 1>to be on this podcast. I'm so honored to hear

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<v Speaker 1>that from both of you because I also think the

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<v Speaker 1>same of you that you know, you're known for being

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<v Speaker 1>incredible like masters in music and in fashion and in taste,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're using that platform for purpose for reasons like that.

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<v Speaker 1>To me is it's the same trade, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to take. So I'm trying to take what

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned and from my teachers, and I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>share it globally, and you're doing something that's globally recognized.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're trying to elevate that, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>what is so beautiful to see, but also how thoughtful

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<v Speaker 1>and deep your research is in reading. I think you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think people often think that whatever word you use

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<v Speaker 1>in Raquel, and I felt the same way, whether you

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<v Speaker 1>use the word influence or whatever whatever that word is, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you often just think that people don't they're not reading,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not thinking, they're not learning, And it's like, but

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<v Speaker 1>both of you are. I know the events we all

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<v Speaker 1>go to together, we're always learning from other people, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think there's there's so much there. So

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<v Speaker 1>I thank you both from the bottom of my heart

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<v Speaker 1>for trusting me for being in my life. I thank

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<v Speaker 1>Raquel for bringing us together and surprising us all today

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<v Speaker 1>and also also creating that added piece of depth that

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<v Speaker 1>we all get to uncover. But I hope we get

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<v Speaker 1>to have there we go. I hope you get I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you all get to have many more of these conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you will come back on the part cast

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<v Speaker 1>in the future. I hope that Simmy Hayes Beauty as

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<v Speaker 1>the most incredible and successful first twelve months and beyond.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, and I hope that you keep serving and

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<v Speaker 1>making a difference to everything you do. You both lights

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<v Speaker 1>in this world and you're making such an impact through

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<v Speaker 1>everything you touch. And I'm fully behind the fundraises. However

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<v Speaker 1>I can get involved, please let me know. I'd love

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<v Speaker 1>to be a part of it as well. So thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so so much for having us. Yeah, thank you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>and thank you everyone who's listening. Yes, thank you to

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<v Speaker 1>everyone has been listening down the podcast. They have they

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<v Speaker 1>made it, Simmy and please love you. We do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, tell them, you tell them that you love them.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be in a lot more, but no, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to thank you everyone who's been listening and watching.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you made it this far because you're an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing community. Please anything that Simmy and a shared that

0:41:48.560 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 1>stood out to you, that resonated with you, I'd love

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<v Speaker 1>you to tag them on Instagram and post it. I

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<v Speaker 1>want them to feel the love from this episode. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you love me, if you love on purpose, and

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<v Speaker 1>you loved anything they said today, please share that tagged them.

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<v Speaker 1>I want them to see what resonated with you. Because

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<v Speaker 1>they've been so kind to us today and opening up

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<v Speaker 1>and sharing their story and sharing their journey. I want

0:42:09.520 --> 0:42:11.200
<v Speaker 1>them to know what an impact I had on your life.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you everyone for listening and watching, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be back soon