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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels second d up day. Remember, if you want

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Speaker 1: a second day update, all you have to do is

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Speaker 1: email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five

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Speaker 1: dot com. The second day update today is from a

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Speaker 1: girl named Jenna who emailed us about a guy named Zach. Apparently,

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Speaker 1: he just approached her in the mall and asked if

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Speaker 1: she wanted to go for coffee. He was aggressive. I know,

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Speaker 1: that's the biggest complaint I hear from brooke Lydia every

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Speaker 1: girl I talked to her. I was like, guys out

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Speaker 1: here just they just they're not aggressive enough. They don't

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Speaker 1: just ask. And this guy actually did right. Jenna, Yep,

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Speaker 1: I was doing through shopping and then this guy just

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Speaker 1: approached me and I honestly had never experienced at before.

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Speaker 1: But it was fun that I was gonna ask you,

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Speaker 1: is this like a normal thing for you, Like dude

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Speaker 1: just constantly coming up to you asking you out. Definitely

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Speaker 1: not at the mall, maybe in a bar. But so

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Speaker 1: what was your first impression of him? I mean, why

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Speaker 1: did you say yes to coffee? I guess I said

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Speaker 1: yes because it kind of like caught me off guard,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, I wasn't doing much else so

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Speaker 1: I thought, what up? So you guys didn't like meet

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Speaker 1: up for a later day to coffee. You met at

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Speaker 1: the mall and then just went and got coffee. That's

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Speaker 1: how your emails. Really, we just went like next door.

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Speaker 1: So that's kind of cool. Like I normally don't have

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Speaker 1: a problem asking girls for the number, and I'd be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: let's go to your coffee right now, right now. It's impressive.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to give him your address. There's no like,

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Speaker 1: no creeper stalker status involved on. You can know immediately

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Speaker 1: if you like or dislike them. Yeah, it's smart on

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Speaker 1: his part because if he's like maybe later we'll go

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Speaker 1: out on a date, it's so easy to bail. But

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Speaker 1: if you said go right now, he's kind of got

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Speaker 1: me corner. So did you enjoy having coffee with the dude? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I really did. I really liked him. He was really cool,

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Speaker 1: easy to have a conversation with. And how long did

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Speaker 1: you guys hang out for? I mean as long as

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Speaker 1: a couple of coffees, like thirty minutes maybe yeah, maybe

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Speaker 1: like a half hour. And if you tried to get

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Speaker 1: a hold of him, since I have not tried to

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Speaker 1: get a hold of him, and he has not tried

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Speaker 1: to get a hold of me. This guy went out

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Speaker 1: on a limb, asked you had on coffee right there

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Speaker 1: on the spot. You guys exchange numbers, but then you

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Speaker 1: didn't contact him at all. Don't you think it was

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Speaker 1: your turn to make the move? No, I don't think

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Speaker 1: it was my turn. He's the person that asked for

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Speaker 1: my phone number. Okay. Oh, and I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: my responsibility to call him a traditional woman. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you. What made you want to get us involved?

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Speaker 1: Then if you haven't even tried to get hold of yourself, Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: because I want to see why he hasn't called, and

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm too scared to do it myself. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you need you need a little helpful shove in

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Speaker 1: the right direction. Yes, all right, And I honestly want

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Speaker 1: to I honestly am curious why, because I had a

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Speaker 1: good time and I don't I don't get why you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't call me. You know, this is going to be

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Speaker 1: less like a shove, more like a kick over a clip, right, Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: just make it sure that we're gonna play one song

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Speaker 1: and then we're gonna get him on the phone. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: sounds good in Cuba in the morning. All right, Jenna,

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Speaker 1: you've had a few minutes to think about it. You

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Speaker 1: still want to call Zach? Yeah? I think I do.

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Speaker 1: All right, if you missed it, Jenna's on the phone.

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Speaker 1: She emailed us about a guy named Zach. They didn't

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Speaker 1: exactly go out on a date. He approached her at

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Speaker 1: the mall and said, Hey, I want to take you

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Speaker 1: to coffee. Let's go get coffee right now. They went

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Speaker 1: that second he said he wanted to go out again.

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Speaker 1: She hasn't heard from him, and they only hung out

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Speaker 1: for like a half hour. I don't know how much

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Speaker 1: damage could happen in that time. I mean, Jenna, did

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Speaker 1: you get the sense that he just maybe wasn't attracted

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Speaker 1: to you? Well? I thought that. But then if he

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Speaker 1: wasn't attracted to me, why approached me and asked me

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Speaker 1: to go to coffee? Yeah, that's true. Yeah, maybe it's

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Speaker 1: the thrill of the hunt. Yeah, but he didn't really

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Speaker 1: get a kill, if you know what I mean. Like,

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Speaker 1: they just had coffee. So Zachary the hugging bandit out there.

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Speaker 1: He takes women to coffee and then hugs them and

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Speaker 1: leave at your local mall. I got what I wanted,

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Speaker 1: runs away, I thought, I probably she's hugging every man

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Speaker 1: It could be interesting, or it could be very anteclomatic. Hello. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for Zachary. Zach. Hey, what's up? Man?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. How are you? Who

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Speaker 1: is this Jewel from the radio station moving ninety two

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Speaker 1: point five? We have a morning show here. We're calling

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Speaker 1: you about someone that you know who is a mutual

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Speaker 1: friend of ours. Okay, Zach, I'm gonna give you props

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Speaker 1: right now for walking up to a girl in the

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Speaker 1: mall and just like going, hey, let's get coffee and

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Speaker 1: then taking her to coffee. That's a very manly move.

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Speaker 1: The girls in the room are very impressed with you.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what? Do you know? Do you know

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Speaker 1: what instance we're talking about? I'm sorry, I guess Okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean I know what you're talking about. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: you know her or she works there or what? It's

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Speaker 1: a girl named Jenna. She actually emailed us about you

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Speaker 1: because she's confused because you went up to her in

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Speaker 1: the mall, asked her for coffee. You guys had what

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Speaker 1: she said was a good time. She wants to know

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Speaker 1: what she did wrong? What. Yeah, you cannot be that

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Speaker 1: shy of a dude you approach women in the mall.

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Speaker 1: I'm not shy. It's just weird and that's yeah. I'm

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Speaker 1: letting you process it, all, um, So what's the reason

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Speaker 1: that you haven't called her? Well? Yeah, I mean okay,

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Speaker 1: so we were shot upping and she had this bag

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Speaker 1: that had like these like little stuffed animals all right,

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Speaker 1: like Burton Ernie from like Sesame Street and Cookie Monster. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so it's so weird. As we're talking, she like gets

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Speaker 1: like Cookie Monster, and it's like talking with them, you know,

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Speaker 1: like like to them or like using them as like

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Speaker 1: hand puppets like booth. Like I was talking to her

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Speaker 1: kind of good at it, like in like the Cookie Monsters. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you'd say, like what do you do for a living?

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Speaker 1: And she work as a tutor like that? Exactly for

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Speaker 1: how long did this go on? Way too long? Like

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Speaker 1: way too long? Like not like not like it, like

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Speaker 1: it happened for a second. Okay. At first I was

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Speaker 1: like ha ha and then hey, Jenna, Um, yeah I

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Speaker 1: did not do it for that long, Zache. Yeah, Na

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Speaker 1: the phone with us, I should probably tell you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you probably should have lead with that. Jenna. Were you

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Speaker 1: playing with toys at the table? Um, you were blowing

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Speaker 1: it way out of proportion. I was being like goofy

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Speaker 1: playful and joking around the way that Zach describes it. Iss,

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Speaker 1: she was basically putting on a puppet show. I can't

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Speaker 1: believe you're that affective by the fact that I had

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Speaker 1: like puppets. I was just joking around, and it's not

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Speaker 1: like you were much of a conversationalist. Were you buying

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Speaker 1: someone else. I was buying them for my niece and

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Speaker 1: I felt self conscious that I had. Then Zack noticed

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Speaker 1: them and yeah, I was like, I was like goofing

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Speaker 1: Do you think that you were goofing around with them?

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Speaker 1: And then it was like, you know, someone who has

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Speaker 1: a joke that's kind of funny, and then it just

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Speaker 1: goes on a little too long. I don't know. Nay,

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Speaker 1: we weren't even we weren't even there that long. So

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Speaker 1: if I was talking in a character voice for twenty minutes,

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Speaker 1: who cared? Zach? Did it feel like a joke went

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Speaker 1: on too long for you or something? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: The whole thing was just weird. I thought it was weird.

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Speaker 1: It weirded you out. It would be like if I

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Speaker 1: went up to a girl and asked her out, and

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Speaker 1: then I found out that she liked to talk baby talk. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I regret it. Okay, all right, well we will pay

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Speaker 1: for you guys to go on a second date if

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Speaker 1: you'd like to go out again. If Jenna promises to

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Speaker 1: leave her toys at home, will you out on a

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Speaker 1: second day with her? I mean that she wants you.

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Speaker 1: I mean she's kind of still a couple of like

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Speaker 1: kind of rude things. Zach. You called her crazy basically,

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Speaker 1: So I said what she did was weird. Okay, you

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Speaker 1: called her weird. Okay, now one seems weird, right. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I mean to go out again,

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Speaker 1: but this is gonna be weird. No, no, she's not

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Speaker 1: gonna bring any toys with her. It's not gonna bring

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Speaker 1: any stuff to animals with there. Will send you to

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Speaker 1: like an adult place to send you rain Forest Cafe. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sending you over there. I'm just kidding, Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: I would suggest alcohol on your date. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: you guys, We'll get your information and send you guys

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Speaker 1: out on a second date. Okay, okay, cool, all right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're definitely not going you're not. No, no broken jupil

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Speaker 1: in the morning right from the start,