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Speaker 1: Mandy used to go, these are called icebreakers. Don't do

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Speaker 1: Did I used to explain what icebreakers was? Yes, basically

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Speaker 1: icebreakers are. We're just getting to know. I did with

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Speaker 1: the I have the white octane going on? Okay, white

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Speaker 1: octlane levels of it? What is it? I am about

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Speaker 1: to dry it will be octave, but it's really a

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Speaker 1: it was closed oct Can we look up what octane is? Though?

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Speaker 1: For really it's because I want to know what octane

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Speaker 1: actually is. I'm about now. I'm about to do this

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Speaker 1: because I don't know words. Stress in the building. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm for sure client chemical anyway, though, Welcome the horrible

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Speaker 1: decisions because this is not the spelling. Be Can I

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Speaker 1: tell you all the next time he and Manny an

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Speaker 1: argument and be like, First of all, Pitch, you need

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Speaker 1: to lower that octave, take your take your octame levels

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Speaker 1: down to ota. Y'all. Welcome to horrible decisions. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what day you're listening to us, but it's one

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Speaker 1: day of the week. Um, I have a good day. Um,

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Speaker 1: this is your girl, man, this is your girl. Mandy

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Speaker 1: b a k A Peg the Stallion, the one and only,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sitting across from I'm wheezy, not a Stallion taker.

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Speaker 1: I am a casual. Yall don't heard the third um

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Speaker 1: English teacher. I didn't know. I didn't know we had

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Speaker 1: an English teacher on today. You're welcome the first The

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Speaker 1: first one was always free. That's how we feel, that's

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Speaker 1: been a long time, you mean, listened a while. It's yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's pretty Kelly. What's up, guys. I'm so I'm really happy.

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Speaker 1: I'm really happy that I ran. I ran into Mandy

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Speaker 1: the other night. I was like, all right, I need

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Speaker 1: It's a humblex. I just like I didn't know. We

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Speaker 1: I met a long time ago. We had we have

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Speaker 1: know what I was feeling away, you know what, you

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Speaker 1: know what you're coming on. I did have to tell.

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Speaker 1: I was like I was like Joe. Joe recently just

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Speaker 1: Bridget the only the only one who could share the counsel.

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Speaker 1: I was surprised that the fan response was even what

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Speaker 1: Let's figure this out. Who are you calling? My show?

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Speaker 1: Bestie is very onsve is right? Exclusive content footage we're

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Speaker 1: given only blowery up to go out. Like, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: been rooting for you as the Caucasian on the show

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Speaker 1: always and forever, and you know what you chose not

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Speaker 1: not a nigga, but well, we'll go ahead and get

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Speaker 1: into the icebreaker, and I'm not gonna explain what that is.

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Speaker 1: your parents. Walking on my parents having sex? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: They not the way I'm wiping in a masturbating video.

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Speaker 1: So that's not even at all. That's not masturbation vide.

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Speaker 1: So you know I say it. I say, look what

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Speaker 1: I see that's personalized. That that's two personally, and then

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Speaker 1: to watch all of them before? Oh, answer that phone?

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Speaker 1: Here we go, Yeah, the boys phone. I know you

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Speaker 1: I know. Okay, that wasn't the shade. That was all right, Rory. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I'm morning. Excuse that. Well, he has a dog now,

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Speaker 1: I am dead. That's exactly what that is. That's exactly

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Speaker 1: What's the keyword? Tentacles like hardcore tentacles, you know, just

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Speaker 1: in case one of the core though we don't slime it,

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Speaker 1: um don't come from me, barbs. I wasn't here for it. Um,

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Speaker 1: I think we do have time for the Vanilla ship.

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Speaker 1: So let's go ahead and rock with the Vanilla ship.

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Speaker 1: be settled before a while. But I also I had

421
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: to like check myself because I'm like, this is my

422
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,199
Speaker 1: ego because I can't do any types of tricks in

423
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,439
Speaker 1: this dumbass boot. So it really had nothing to do

424
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 1: with tricks. I can't like like I gotta throw my

425
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: foot to the other like I gotta do triple axles

426
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: and shipped to throw my foot to the other side

427
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,199
Speaker 1: of the bed and make sure it doesn't get you

428
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I had to have a relative experience,

429
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 1: but I did one time having an ankle bracelet. Not

430
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 1: proud of that. But when I had the ankle bracelet,

431
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: I will say it was. It's kind of sexy though,

432
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 1: like that's a sexy that's right. So I was really

433
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,919
Speaker 1: like worried about how which is which is usually yeah,

434
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: but we'll say so like right towards the end, I

435
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 1: couldn't take any when I had it for forty five days.

436
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: So I invited him to come over and I let

437
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 1: him know about the ankle bracelet. He was fined, and

438
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 1: you know, while we were sucking, he like moved it

439
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,360
Speaker 1: around and make sure it didn't hit me. And we

440
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: were done. I was like, yo, like was that your

441
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: first time because you didn't act like and he was like, nah,

442
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: what do you think hols on house for us want

443
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: to do? Who? Totally makes sense. See my my experience

444
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: with maybe broken limbs, of course, came from athletes. And

445
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: there was one, Oh my god, his dick was so big.

446
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 1: He was getting foot surgery or something on one a

447
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 1: cl one of them ships, where his whole leg. He

448
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: literally when he opened the door, he had to scoot

449
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,719
Speaker 1: around and so he got in the bed. But because

450
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 1: it was his leg, but he couldn't even me from behind.

451
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: But his dick was so big. I was like, and

452
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 1: this was back before I was writing Dick. I was like,

453
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: we can't even have sex. So all I did was

454
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 1: suck is dick just because I didn't want to get

455
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: in any scene of the positions that maybe you don't

456
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 1: throw it back. Yeah, but his dick was so big.

457
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: I was like I had to like I had. It

458
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 1: was like it scared me may like and there's so

459
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 1: much where maybe no, that's really I don't know. It

460
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 1: was so big like. Also, this also didn't make my

461
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: pussy west, so I normally get aroused when I give head.

462
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 1: Same his dick was so big I wasn't even getting

463
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: past the head. So it made me feel like inadequate

464
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 1: a little bit like everyone everyone is the moment. I'm

465
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 1: normally good at this with medium dicks, so aliens I

466
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 1: do do well with like medium dicks though, way what

467
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: you know what it is too. I feel like guys

468
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: with medium dicks know that they have medium dicks, so

469
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 1: they gotta they work harder than the guys with the

470
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,199
Speaker 1: massive dicks. Guys are massive dicks, don't feel like they

471
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: got to work on the bit. They don't do nothing.

472
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:44,919
Speaker 1: And what you thought it was like, I know, just

473
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: place it on the table, like you gotta deal with it.

474
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: Nothing too much, but you know what, we gotta stop

475
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: doing because it just boost their ego more. We really

476
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: be wide eyed when we see a big dick, like

477
00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 1: that's all you look at that, like that's all you like?

478
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you so okay, because I didn't

479
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,439
Speaker 1: really bring him up yet. So there's Bartender Bay. This

480
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,239
Speaker 1: might be a new nigga, but in his I know

481
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: he's a bartender, but I don't know. He's so fucking fine.

482
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: But his uniform at work is kind of small, and

483
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: it didn't look like he had much in his pants.

484
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,479
Speaker 1: So when he said that video, I said, like, I

485
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: even like, so do you want video video? Just real quick?

486
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: Let me see this is the bad thing. It doesn't

487
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: matter how big the dick is. His number is still

488
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: not yet saved, but I know what his first three

489
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 1: numbers are. I'm the worst. I don't be saving nigga's

490
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 1: numbers until I really feel like they're going to be

491
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: something in my life. And what did he thirteen apps? Bit? Right?

492
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: Let me see the face. Oh, I'll sell you the

493
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 1: face that cut on that app because the face don't

494
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: really need to talk about nothing with a dick like that?

495
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: Is he Latina? No, he's not. Latina calmed down and

496
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tell you his race. We'll talk about

497
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 1: it off because you're giving too much, right Um, But yeah,

498
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 1: um he kind of looks out like it right from

499
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: So we're we're gonna get into our vanilla ship. Um,

500
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 1: this is while you're dating. These are the four ways

501
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: you can tell the difference between love from lust. You

502
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 1: because I feel like I picked this because I know

503
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 1: we just talked about all Bay seasoning and You're like, damn,

504
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 1: I'm really starting to like him because the dick is

505
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 1: so good. But is it that I like him so

506
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 1: much because the dick is so good? And so is

507
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 1: it lust or is it love? It is lust? You

508
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: know it's it's less. So here are four ways to

509
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 1: tell that it's less, according according to Or, But the

510
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,199
Speaker 1: first sign that what your experience is love rather than

511
00:27:54,320 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: lust is connection more as her whole chair Mandy's share

512
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: more specifically, a desire for connection between your partner and

513
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: other important people in your life. While lust may see

514
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: you wanting to forge a deeper connection one on one

515
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: with your partner, if it is love, you will want

516
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: to You will want those important people in your life

517
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: to know your partner as well. So that's when you

518
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: start to know that it's, like I said, don't want

519
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: to share the The next clue is how you speak

520
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 1: of your relationship, as word choice can offer a deeper

521
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: insight into your feelings. If you continue to say I

522
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: rather than we, it is more likely that lust is

523
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: driving the force in the relationship because two people in

524
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: love often think of themselves in terms of a pair.

525
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 1: I like that. Self disclosure is the third indicator, with

526
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: love encouraging people to reveal all parts of themselves, whereas

527
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: people and lust will likely reveal things about themselves at

528
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: surface level, such as hobbies and foods. So this will

529
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: let you know if you care to share maybe your

530
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: family history with the person you're really maybe falling for

531
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: them as opposed to nigga. You like oxtail, so do

532
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: I what's the like, Let's go get some Jamaican extra hard.

533
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: I don't you don't fry tail extra hard. I'm just saying,

534
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: it's just like a big disparity though, between like lust

535
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: and being in love, like what if? What if? Like

536
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: how do you determine if it's on its way to love?

537
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: And But you know what I'm saying, I think in

538
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 1: my experience I've noticed is somebody that's like a serial

539
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 1: person of being in love that when I'm in when

540
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: I'm in love, I'm so anxious to like share moments

541
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: with you, Like if something funny happens in my day,

542
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: I have to tell you if I want to see

543
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: a movie, I want to share experiences with you. What's

544
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: funny is that's literally the last one. The final difference

545
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 1: is the impact or influence, um so explain that. They

546
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: explained that love often means another person can have an

547
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: influence on your own life. So here's an example. Um

548
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: She gives the example of a job offer in another state.

549
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: If it is love, you would be more likely to

550
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: consider your option on how that's going to affect you,

551
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: or if you would consider moving, or if this is

552
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: going to affect you, Whereas if it's lust, you would

553
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: likely not have a substantial impact on whether they take

554
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: that job or not. I mean, but I don't have

555
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: a love and lust for that one, because I feel like,

556
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: even if I was in love with someone, I'm gonna

557
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: I don't know that was about example was a bad example, Yeah,

558
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: because I think I mean, nowadays, at least for us,

559
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: like unless I'm you know, like what kind of work.

560
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: Everyone does here, but we're not the norm. Like if

561
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: people are dating and not everyone can afford flights every

562
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: weekend or just to go see someone long distance. That's

563
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: not the reality for a lot of people. I don't know.

564
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 1: I feel like that's an old school answer, isn't. I

565
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: think the millennial woman is going to prioritize her her

566
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: lifestyle first because there are so many fun niggas in

567
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: abundance and I didn't abundance, and I really do feel

568
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 1: like your job. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm

569
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: not saying that your partner can't make a change that.

570
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's a differential piece for like

571
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: love and lust. Obviously you're in a relationship, you would

572
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: consider something like that. But in the same term, I

573
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: think lust is very obvious. You frequently talked about sex. There.

574
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: There's not much more you care to know about each other.

575
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: You have more of a purely physical relationship. You don't

576
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: meet each other's friends or family. You don't discuss friends

577
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: or family because you're fucking so much. But you know what, though,

578
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: I don't even know if that's true, because I was, like,

579
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: like regularly fucking somebody for a while and met his

580
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: whole family. So I don't and I and it was

581
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 1: and it was never really about the time do you

582
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: spent like how long it went on? It was early

583
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: on and it was, but from I mean, I also

584
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: think I treat things differently as a woman. To me,

585
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: I'm not introducing nobody to my mom lessening together. My

586
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 1: mom did meet fella Bay. She did meet Fella Bay

587
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 1: because she came over and she stayed with me, and

588
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: he was downstairs and I was like, come up, I cooked,

589
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: so he came and ate. Like when my mom had

590
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: said that, I think that's a different thing. That's a circumstance.

591
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: It was a circumstances when you have a planet, would

592
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: I would a plan meet him at his mom and everything,

593
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: and he still wasn't ship and we weren't shipped. He

594
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 1: still plan meet me and something because for example, it

595
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:06,959
Speaker 1: just be like, well I met your mom, I met

596
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: your whole family. Okay, bitch, but they was already out

597
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: and you came over because I lived with her, and

598
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: she made you fool because she just finished my laundry.

599
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: You came over to suck my dick, and it just

600
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: it didn't mean much. Okay, you plan meets are really

601
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: fucking stressful, like they are when Beard Bay came to

602
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: Florida and like my mom and I was just like yo,

603
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: like should be brun, should we have drinks? Like that

604
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: ship is anxiety ridden because you know that that's the

605
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: next step. It is also you want like people because

606
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 1: as soon as that person leaves, you know there's going

607
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: to be a talk about what they look like, what

608
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: they do. My god, my mother is the president of

609
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: the Haters Club. I'm not interesting nobody to her, somebody apart.

610
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: I just my mom. My mom is just the realist.

611
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: I'm Irish. I'm Irish and black, and so my mom is.

612
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: My mom is Irish and my dad's So it's a

613
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: little it's a little career being European back people are firecrackers.

614
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: She's she's literally like it scares me sometimes, like I'm

615
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: afraid to like introduce her to my mama white so

616
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: I know there's Irish in there somewhere. It's wild, like

617
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: I know she is. I'll be asking her mom, you

618
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: Italian too, Like I just be wanting to claim all

619
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: that white because white people just mix with a whole

620
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: bunch of white. She's just the way she talks to people.

621
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's no way, there's no way, there's just

622
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: no way. Something is off, something is wrong, Like she's

623
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: from gangs of New York Times, Like that's how I feel, Okay,

624
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 1: Like she's like she might be an alien. Like I

625
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: feel like, not to say that white people are a

626
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 1: different breed, but those old school white New Yorkers they

627
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: are think think of mon precisely, period, precisely, yeah, percisely.

628
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: You know, I don't introduce the people you need to

629
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: street away from, not black people. Okay, it's the mobster's

630
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: damn it that people are scary. So we're gonna get

631
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: into our horrible decision. We kind of had an episode

632
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: on this on why we think women cheat, but we

633
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 1: actually have a cheater in here now. So um, I

634
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: wanted to have this conversation. Um if you guys, um,

635
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 1: no of Bridget Kelly, not only through her music and

636
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: her beautiful voice. I was Normally when we have artists,

637
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: I'll be like, can you do something? But no rapper

638
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: has rapped, no one has saying on the mic, so

639
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: you probably won't because it's like saying I'm gonna tell

640
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 1: me a joke. Your comedians. Yeah, it's the same thing.

641
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: It's the same thing. I mean, I I do this,

642
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: I do the sing on the man thing at like

643
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: a wedding or like a angle. So ironically, I didn't

644
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 1: um know that you sing. And I had just added

645
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: Scotty Beam's playlist of like all girl artists and in

646
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 1: my rotation, I was like, oh, this is cute, so

647
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: I'll download the ones I like it. It It was yeah,

648
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,720
Speaker 1: do you know what song is on her playlist? Okay,

649
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 1: it just came out. Yeah, super dope. But um, you

650
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: were also a cast member on Love and Hip Hop, um,

651
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: the Hollywood one, and you've made an appearance on the

652
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: New York one as well, right, Like, like you're like

653
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: everyone's friends, so I feel like I've seen all of

654
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: them briefly. I didn't make it on one episode of

655
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 1: New York. Okay, So I did go into reading how

656
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: Love and Hip Hop did ruin a relationship that was

657
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: long standing for you, But you guys opened up about

658
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: the act of cheating and how that affected your relationship.

659
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: But it was also to where you knew he was

660
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: cheating and you stayed. Um. So I kind of wanted

661
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: to dig into that conversation because it's something that we see.

662
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 1: We talk about non monogamy, but non monogamy to us

663
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: is open communication that you're seeing other people cheating. Is

664
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: the betrayal of I thought you were exclusive to me.

665
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: You are not um. And then most recently we've seen

666
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: Cardi TakeBack offset after he cheated on her or allegedly

667
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 1: cheated on her. So what goes through your mind as

668
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 1: a woman to keep someone who's cheated on you? And

669
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: when he said he wouldn't do it again, did you

670
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: believe him? I think every woman's bottom line at the

671
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: end of the day is embarrassment and humiliation. If you

672
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,479
Speaker 1: embarrassed me, I can't. I can't. There's no coming back

673
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: from that, which was really what happened on the show.

674
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: It was like, you came out on this show after

675
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: we talked about everything that we would discuss with with

676
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,439
Speaker 1: all of these things in mind, I have a thicker

677
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 1: skin than he does, so I was like, it's cool,

678
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: I'll be the punching bag on this show. I don't

679
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: really care right together as long as we're working it

680
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: out and you don't you don't let you don't try

681
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: to like shame me, you don't try to call me

682
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: out of you don't say anything wild. And he sat

683
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 1: up there while he was cheating on me at the

684
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 1: reunion and was like, oh, yeah, well I dodged a bullet,

685
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I heard you. Yeah, because even during

686
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 1: the show, that was the storyline where you were okay

687
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,399
Speaker 1: as a woman saying yeah, I cheated on you and

688
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: you did love in hip. Hep l a, yeah, Um,

689
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: so you didn't really throw him under the bus, but

690
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 1: he took Did he take your cheating harder than you

691
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: took his cheating? I know? Wen't how did that play out? Um?

692
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: It was it was an ego thing, but I also

693
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: think for him not just ego thing. The guy, the

694
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: guy that I cheated on him with was a high

695
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 1: profile person, so that also made it worse. That was

696
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: also like he works in my industry, so I'm always

697
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: going to see him, and you know what I mean,

698
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: there's gonna be moments he wasn't. He didn't work closely

699
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: with me, so he has nothing to do with my

700
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: industry really and with my peers. This is there was

701
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: no control key. What's crazy is I have a question

702
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: for both of you have with I was with both

703
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: of my friends. Um, a few weeks ago, and we

704
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: had the conversation. Both of them were in long term

705
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: relationships UM. One was four years, the other was in

706
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: a six year relationship, and they found out they had

707
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 1: been cheated on. Both of them saw the girls that

708
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 1: they were being cheated on with and looked at them

709
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: as downgrades to them, are you hurt more when you're

710
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,240
Speaker 1: cheated by someone who's deemed as a downgrade and isn't

711
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: as either successful or beautiful as you? Or does it

712
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 1: hurt more when it is someone who you feel is damn,

713
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: she's an upgrade and she does this, she does that? Like,

714
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: what doesn't hurt to know that there was something? I

715
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: don't know? I would feel better about an upgrade, something

716
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 1: more like. And it's shitty to say because because downgrade

717
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: is by my standards, right, it's by no one else is,

718
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: because it's obviously not his. So it's like, is it attractivity?

719
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 1: Is it the fact that she's I don't know. For example,

720
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: my ex cheated on me um with a girl. At

721
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: the time. He didn't want me to work. I was

722
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 1: in college, paid for my school, all this stuff, right,

723
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: and he was obsessed with the idea of me being

724
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 1: a housewife, and he cheated on me with a girl

725
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: that had just I found a picture of them at

726
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: her college graduation because she was becoming a dentist and

727
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: she was going into this certain field. And I remember thinking, like, okay,

728
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 1: so you do like that, Like you just don't like

729
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: it with me? Why is that? You know what I mean?

730
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: And it showed me that men sometimes want to keep

731
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: you in their place. But it's weird though, because feel comfortable.

732
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 1: And this reminds me of the conversation. But that is attractive,

733
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: whether he was saying it or not. Of course, her

734
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 1: ambitiousness and her goals were attractive to him. He might

735
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: say he likes me in the house, but he don't

736
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 1: the idea of the upgrade and downgrade um and even

737
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: just how we just judge other women in their accolades.

738
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 1: It reminds me of when we did the episode you

739
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,720
Speaker 1: were talking about um letting loverboy go on other dates,

740
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 1: and he mentioned going on a date with like a doctor,

741
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: and as soon as you found out she was a doctor,

742
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: you were like, oh, no, I don't want him with

743
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 1: no doctor because she's this I don't go out with

744
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, a student or a bartender or something.

745
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: I think for me at the time, our non monogamy

746
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: was a little bit different. So the non monogamy I

747
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: have now, the partners I have are in decent relationships.

748
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,879
Speaker 1: I in my mind pictured the doctor as a long

749
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: term thing, so I was like, Okay, well, if you

750
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: go out with a woman who is a doctor, she's

751
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 1: probably not going to be looking for the fucking run

752
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: of the mill fuck like the other girls you've been fucking.

753
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: So if she's expecting more, are you gonna give it

754
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: to her? That's that's get I think that's the comparison

755
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: that gets that gets tricky right more younger, it's like,

756
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 1: oh my god, she's pretty into me. Oh my god,

757
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 1: she's got you know, I mean, she's doing more than

758
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 1: I am. Like, she's active. Whatever the situation. Now it's like, damn,

759
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: are you do you really have feelings for this chick?

760
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 1: Or you really like this is who you want to

761
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: build your life with? What does she have? We did

762
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: a whole EPI SOD and it was titled if you

763
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 1: guys want to go back, why Women Cheat? I want

764
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: to ask you why do you think women cheat? Or

765
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: what was not to be even specific to you, and

766
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 1: why you chose to but why do why do women cheat? Um?

767
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: I think women cheat because there's something missing, But I

768
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 1: don't always think it has I don't always think it's

769
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: that the guy that that she's in a relationship with

770
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: it just doesn't have it. I think there's something missing

771
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: with her because the guy, the guy that I cheated

772
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: on my ex with was was my really was somebody

773
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 1: that was my really close friend. He was the guy

774
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: that he's the He's the guy that was like, don't

775
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: worry Bane, that's my friend. It's not like that. That

776
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: was the guy that I ended up cheating on him

777
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 1: because him and I were really really close and we

778
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 1: had a good rapport and it just naturally progressed into

779
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: I mean really, and that builds the foundation so that

780
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 1: already off the rip was like, Okay, well, this is

781
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: the one person I told him he didn't have to

782
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: worry about, which is crazy because that's why when you're

783
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 1: in relationships, that idea of having strictly platonic friends of

784
00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: another gender strict people suddenly on somebody because of Alex.

785
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 1: So like, we have a close friend actually probably met Alex.

786
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: He does flagrants. Yes, So, um, Alex and I work

787
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: out together all the time, he'll work at my house.

788
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: He helps me with stuff and we are absolutely friends.

789
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: And I was in my bedroom on FaceTime with this

790
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: niggad while Alex was in my living room and he

791
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: was like, are you fucking kidding me? And I was like, no,

792
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 1: I'm not, that's my nigga, Like what the fund do

793
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: you think I about to do? Like just skip around

794
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: talking to you because he's here, Like what makes you

795
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 1: feel more comfortable? Would you rather me not talk to

796
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 1: you because Alex is here my homeboy? Like are you

797
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: fucking dumb? I was so pissed and I was like,

798
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 1: this is exactly why bitches be lying. Like but I

799
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:47,480
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800
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,839
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801
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,600
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802
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:54,799
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804
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Speaker 1: y Z. You now have to introduce them to your

843
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 1: partner because that person is now your friend. Do you

844
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: let that person know that you guys had a sexual encounter. Yes,

845
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:07,280
Speaker 1: absolute you think that that person can still be considered

846
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 1: a friend. And I want to put you guys in

847
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: a different in a different um position. And you got

848
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: one of my best one of my best male friends

849
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: is somebody that we crossed the line literally when while

850
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: I was like nineteen or twenty years old, and it

851
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 1: happened one time and we were like, no, this is terrible.

852
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 1: We never revisited, never never looked at him like that.

853
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: So we have a lot of male listeners and this

854
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: is what we had to do at the table. Put

855
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 1: yourself in the other position. So you are now with

856
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: your boyfriend and he is really good friends with a

857
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: female that he at one point or another had sex with,

858
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: and let's you know, just so you know, babe, we fucked,

859
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 1: but she's still only my friend. This is this is

860
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: this happened to me literally at old bay Season's house.

861
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: So I go to his place. He's like, yo, when

862
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 1: my homegirl come over, right. So I get there and

863
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: the girl is pretty and at first I thought for

864
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: a second like he couldn't have not sucked this girl right,

865
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: like she's so cute. Um. But I walk in, kisses me,

866
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: like holding me on the couch and we're talking casually

867
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: and da dada. So the next day I said something

868
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: like what's up with you and so and so and

869
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 1: he's like, I mean, I know R eight years like,

870
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: obviously I sucked her. And I was like, obviously you

871
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 1: sucked her. He's like, I didn't even think, like that

872
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't have crossed your mind. He was like, that's my

873
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 1: home girl, but was years ago. Who care, But you're

874
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 1: not in a relationship with him. If you were to

875
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: get in a relationship, of course, But I will say

876
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 1: knowing that his his attitude around me, knowing that she

877
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: didn't she had not one point was like oh wow,

878
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: you know, because maybe she want to funk both of y'all. No,

879
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: but I she like comfortable in her. They were both

880
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 1: comfortable in their positions as friends. It was very obvious

881
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: to me. To me, when it gets tricky is if

882
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: the friendship dynamic changes when you're in a relationship. Because

883
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: when I when I was I've dated guys before who

884
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: have best friends that are that are women there were

885
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: Their friendship was was very consistent when I was dating

886
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: him and when I was and when we were not together.

887
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: So nothing changed. So for me, that was an indicator.

888
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: It was because I've been on women that will say

889
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,240
Speaker 1: something like I was around a bitch that a nigga

890
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: had sucked before, and I remember once I got there,

891
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:21,760
Speaker 1: she was like, you remember that time that we read

892
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: And I'm like she's just trying to stunt on me.

893
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 1: But see, I ain't even gonna hold you. I feel

894
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 1: like I feel like those some some women and men

895
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: will sit here and take the back seat and accept

896
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: the front row and literally be right there when you ready,

897
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 1: when you and your man getting in an argument or

898
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: fight in or vice versa, and they try to slide

899
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: right on in there because they've been there as your

900
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 1: friend and now y'all have built this. I mean, it's

901
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: connection like to me honestly even, but I also think

902
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 1: that for example, like if you fucked someone that you know,

903
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: like you're really gonna wait that long. He's a pretty girl,

904
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: he's a lot of work to be the girl, to

905
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 1: be the friend, that's the home girl that's holding it

906
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: down for you. Now you gotta be the fake friends

907
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: to the girlfriend and you wait, you plotting on a

908
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: girlfriend to up like I don't on Instagram is enough

909
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 1: for Like they get bored, these holes be FBI agents,

910
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:15,319
Speaker 1: any guy they do, so this is what they go. Bro.

911
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: They undercover, So you could be undercover looking undercover cops.

912
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 1: They'd be doing it for years. So will bitches, So

913
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,240
Speaker 1: will pitch. And I'm for sure the ops for literally

914
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: they be they do. I will tell you this. The

915
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: only thing I was shocked at was like his response

916
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: to me, like like she wanted it to and I

917
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: know what's good, but I think that just that's my

918
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: concerned and you said it's good, dicks, So you don't

919
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 1: think h'all want it again, bro, whether she does or not,

920
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: that bitch ain't sucking him like me. But okay, but

921
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 1: here's the other part. I just genuinely believe that you

922
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: can feel someone's energy facts And I was so comfortable,

923
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:57,839
Speaker 1: Like I said, I have been around a girl that's

924
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: funiggs I've been with and I was very Why would

925
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,359
Speaker 1: he invite me over if it was gonna be some bullshit? Right?

926
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like you can't know because

927
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 1: that's a hiding plain site that actually was were't gonna

928
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 1: be real. Let's not act like bitches can't be this

929
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 1: type of low key bitch out of ship, hands out

930
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 1: of met kids. Hey, I mean I've done that. When

931
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 1: when I know when I when I know the husband

932
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: and ship and I know that, and I know that

933
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: I know that I like and I'll be telling my

934
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 1: friends like, oh my god, he's such a great guy.

935
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: And my friend be like, but he just brought you

936
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: around the wife, and I'd be like, you know, trash

937
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: that he trash for that he's not a trash person.

938
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 1: Let's not do that here, not on you because you're

939
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 1: not married. But I guess you don't think, but guess

940
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: what if you heard this on the other that's fine.

941
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,800
Speaker 1: But I'm bringing this back to you to say whatever

942
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 1: energy you thought you got from her, she could have

943
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: been under cover like me. But she could have been

944
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 1: I can didn't vibes be there like hey girl, oh

945
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: you're so pretty. Let's all play space together by antoine,

946
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 1: I'll see you later, and bitch, as soon as you leave,

947
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 1: I'm coming right back over the stuff that did. That's wild.

948
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: Just know that's fine information that they exist. They exist,

949
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 1: y'all acting like let's day is me, that this is me.

950
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,479
Speaker 1: I will say this, I think that's a trash because

951
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: I just don't see the purpose in needing it to happen,

952
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:32,880
Speaker 1: Like if you there was a circumstance where you were

953
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: around the wife and it's like, okay, you guys just

954
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: both happened to be at this club. I get it.

955
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 1: I do get that, But to invite me and things

956
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 1: happened to Yeah, this has been multiple That is different

957
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: than inviting me in the space where you know you're

958
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: so trifling, so for one, because the other thing is

959
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: to the other thing is too In my mind, I'm

960
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: thinking to myself, what if what if you what if

961
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: you really fussed with him for real and all of

962
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: a sudden you saw her and all of a sudden

963
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 1: something just well that's what was just the fiancee and

964
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 1: she did question about our So she did question about me,

965
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 1: and he said, that's just my friend. So I came

966
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: to the club with my friends. We was all at

967
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 1: the table and I was just like being just chill, like,

968
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: hey girl, what's the like, great, make gotta worry about me?

969
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: And no, you did not say that. Yes, and he

970
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 1: was paid, But bitch said that to me, you don't

971
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 1: have to worry about me. I'd be like, well, first,

972
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,959
Speaker 1: I'm a friend. Well no, because they had got into

973
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: into an argument about me, I know, and they wanted

974
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: to meet to meet me to check vibes and energy

975
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 1: and bitch, she ain't asked about me again. And we're

976
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: getting paid. Yes, if I had to get into character

977
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: the same way you said you do on this podcast

978
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:47,479
Speaker 1: as a personality, still mad that you see, you didn't

979
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 1: have to go to the club, bitch. I wanted my

980
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 1: bill to continue getting paid, and I was bringing havoc

981
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: to the home. I am not a home hav to

982
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: the home. That happens right right, thank god? And your

983
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 1: octane levels are high, right yo. Set. Anyways, I did

984
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: want to ask you guys, So there is a recent

985
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 1: study that actually looked into um the reasons people cheating relationships,

986
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 1: and it says that people who have had higher numbers

987
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:17,839
Speaker 1: of sexual partners or who have impulsive tendencies are more

988
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: likely to cheat. So we were having this UM conversation

989
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: prior to getting on the mic, and we actually said

990
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: she agreed. She said that when you have multiple sex partners,

991
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: you're sexual. What do you say, appetite. I'm just saying, yeah, apple,

992
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 1: apple tite. Appetite UM increases. So if if your partner

993
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: is not keeping up with your you know, sexual appetite,

994
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:44,720
Speaker 1: you can look for it elsewhere. UM, do you agree

995
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: that people who have maybe went through their whole phase

996
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: or have had multiple sexual partners are more prone to

997
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: cheat when they get into a relationship. I don't think

998
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: because they've had more. I don't think because they have more.

999
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 1: But I also think cheating. There's a lot of forms

1000
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,840
Speaker 1: of cheating. Cheating isn't just like especially for women, like

1001
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: cheating can be emotional, cheating can be you can just

1002
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 1: be flirting with somebody and come off like a single

1003
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: person and some people don't even like that. Before we go,

1004
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 1: that was gonna be my last question. What is cheating

1005
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship, what constitutes cheating? Um, Because you

1006
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: just brought up flirting, I would say, I would say

1007
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: I would say saying or doing something like that you're

1008
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 1: in front of your partner that they would or without

1009
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 1: your partner being that they wouldn't agree with something that's deceitful,

1010
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 1: like I don't necessarily know flirting with a girl like

1011
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 1: is a problem for me because for what you're you're

1012
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,240
Speaker 1: saying doing something that I wouldn't like, would be flirting

1013
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 1: with the bus in front of me, But if I

1014
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: wasn't there and you're flirting with some grondal care but

1015
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: I think something deceitful, like you, you know, sneaking around,

1016
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: going on dates, you getting numbers when we haven't discussed

1017
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 1: being open, you know what I mean? That was the

1018
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: openness to meeting someone new right, because flirting, to me,

1019
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: I really feel like we all need that. Like I agree,

1020
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 1: I agree, but I'm also I'm also I don't. I

1021
00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 1: don't flip out when a guy flirts with a grow

1022
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: in front of me either, So I'm not. That's that's

1023
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: why I say, like, it's it depends on the individual,

1024
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: because to me, you I just want you to be

1025
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 1: a consistent person. It's like you could say whatever you

1026
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,240
Speaker 1: want to say a chick walks by, like Dan, that's

1027
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: fat if another person is entering your life and like

1028
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,720
Speaker 1: because the thing that's that's a problem to me, cheating

1029
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 1: is betrayal. So to me, cheating is if we have

1030
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: this idea of what our relationship is and you do

1031
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 1: things knowing that it's against what we've set as the

1032
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: president of this relationship. Especially so being with you even

1033
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: though you're in an open relationship or or if you're

1034
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 1: in a polly relationship, if someone is doing something that

1035
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:38,760
Speaker 1: you guys specifically have talked about that is not okay,

1036
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: and they're going out of their way to do that

1037
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 1: because not necessarily being or physical or talking to another

1038
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 1: person is cheating to those who are in open relationships.

1039
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 1: But if I know we're in an open relationship and

1040
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: I know of one or two people, but you're really

1041
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: seeing three or four or five, to me, that's cheating

1042
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: because you're keeping that information from me. So it's weird

1043
00:53:56,680 --> 00:54:00,959
Speaker 1: because I think learning the boundaries was a thing. Um

1044
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: Like for example, scissors, who's the girl in the threatle

1045
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: had sex with someone and like we found out like

1046
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 1: two weeks later and he called me like did you

1047
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 1: know that? Um? She was working? I was like, I

1048
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,399
Speaker 1: think you don't know. He was like, I mean, I ain't.

1049
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like I know, did you know? And

1050
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: that was interesting because then it's like, okay, so do

1051
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 1: we want to know if it's just you went on

1052
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: a cruise and a cruise like do I want to know?

1053
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: And that's a whole another conversation in itself, like if

1054
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: it don't ask, don't tell or does it tell it all? Um?

1055
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: I think? I mean again, as a woman, that comes

1056
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: down to don't embarrass me, don't humiliate me. If you

1057
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 1: go on vacations somewhere, listen the field of work that

1058
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: we're in and the type of that we around with

1059
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: all the access and all the ship and all these

1060
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 1: ancient girls out here. At the end of the day,

1061
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: for me, don't ever have a bit comfortable enough to

1062
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,959
Speaker 1: speak on me you sound, don't ever have a girl

1063
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 1: comfortable enough saying coming up to me. Nobody should ever

1064
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:58,839
Speaker 1: feel any type of way. It's just like that line

1065
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: crossed it. I think you should always teck your primary partner.

1066
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 1: But I think another thing I just thought about with

1067
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 1: like exchanging numbers. This is a big reason why like

1068
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 1: dating within your industry can suck, because everything can be

1069
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: considered networking. I had a conversation with Mandy about someone

1070
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: where I was like, I don't know if I'm going

1071
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 1: on a date with this nigger in meeting. Oh. I

1072
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:18,760
Speaker 1: was like, is it? Remember that? I was like, yeah,

1073
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 1: I called her because she knew him, and I was like,

1074
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:24,280
Speaker 1: is this it? And she was like and I didn't

1075
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: even know after. But that's also tricky too, because I've

1076
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 1: run into that problem with even trying to date, because

1077
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I dated, I dated, I dated somebody in

1078
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: the industry, and then all of a sudden it was like, Okay,

1079
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: well he's he knows all of these people that are

1080
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 1: in the industry, but y'all are not really friends you

1081
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: don't know his mother's name, but industry friends. So it's like,

1082
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: so does that mean I can't I can't date? I

1083
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: can't The things that sucked to it's like, okay, I

1084
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: joined um a dating app called Riot because it's for

1085
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: creative and you can't screenshot, and I haven't been screenshot

1086
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: at a lot, Like really yeah, people would tag me

1087
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 1: in it and I was like, this is dumb, So

1088
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 1: like I just got a rid of it. But I

1089
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: really liked using bumble, So once I got on Riya,

1090
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 1: what I found that I like is that we didn't

1091
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: talk about my sex podcast at all, Like that just

1092
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 1: was not interesting at all to someone who's in a

1093
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,439
Speaker 1: creative field, right, Like they're just like, okay, what about you?

1094
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 1: Opposed to a guy that works on Wall Street was like, wow,

1095
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:18,720
Speaker 1: you have a podcast about being a whore. It's actually

1096
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 1: what Muslim Muslim Bay will not like. We don't talk

1097
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,880
Speaker 1: about the podcast, and he's made sure he's He's like,

1098
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:25,719
Speaker 1: I'm going out of my way not to listen because

1099
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I want to ask you and I

1100
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 1: want to learn you before listening to that. And I

1101
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 1: told him I would actually appreciate you not to listen to.

1102
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 1: I think that is somebody though, that is making the

1103
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:35,959
Speaker 1: extra effort. I don't necessarily know if the average person

1104
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: would be like that. He's coming with me to the

1105
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:41,800
Speaker 1: Lave show next Friday. What's the last show so Shameless

1106
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: Live Show. Yeah, yeah, we'll be there. Yeah, and then

1107
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: we gotta we have a we're gonna go grab something

1108
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: to eat after. Like we were talking last night, he

1109
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 1: came over because I talked about his effort of seeing me,

1110
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 1: like wasn't showing. I felt like he was trying to

1111
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 1: fit me into a schedule he already had instead of

1112
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 1: trying to make plans with me, and that's what I

1113
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: don't like. So he's like, well, I'm going to come over,

1114
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: and we talked about it. I brought up every everything

1115
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,359
Speaker 1: we talked about um on the podcast with a scante too,

1116
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 1: just like my lack of communication with dating and how

1117
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 1: maybe I just am fearful because I don't know what

1118
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 1: a relationship looks like to me. I don't. I told

1119
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 1: him that, I said, I don't. I'm not envious of

1120
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 1: any of my friends that I know. They're in relationships,

1121
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 1: whether they're open, monogamous, non monogamous, married. There's no one

1122
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 1: whose relationship you should never be envious, but more so

1123
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 1: just like okay, that would work for me, or like

1124
00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: that's where I'm at, none of them would work for Well,

1125
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 1: do you have a list of ship that you don't want?

1126
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 1: Because that's I mean to me, that's at the end

1127
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 1: of it. You can literally go down a line of

1128
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 1: a bunch of dude find an adult relationship. No, you're

1129
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: not gonna And generally, I will say this the reason

1130
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: that we probably don't want to friends relationships because people

1131
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: very rarely tell you the great good things. They feel

1132
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: like you're boasting. They feel like the good things that

1133
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: happen is boasting and bragging, and so they want advice

1134
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 1: from you, so they'll tell you the terrible ship. I think.

1135
00:57:57,120 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: I think I've refrained from sharing stuff about guys. Same general,

1136
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 1: same refrained Like this year for me taught me a

1137
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 1: lot because I was dealing with somebody that really was

1138
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: not worth my time and dealt with it for a year.

1139
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 1: So it was like, oh my god, oh my god.

1140
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: So really I just had to like, okay, let me

1141
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 1: just retreat share. Yeah, like let me see where it goes,

1142
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: and then I can make like subtle announcements here and

1143
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: there when the ship is great and then leave it

1144
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 1: at that, or if it's not and just be like, damn,

1145
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: it didn't work out, disappointed. But life goes on, you

1146
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: know the question, rather than divulge everything, because it's tricky

1147
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: when you're like, especially when you have close girlfriends, it's

1148
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: like you trust what they're gonna say. So you say

1149
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 1: one thing. I've been swayed in the complete opposite direction

1150
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,959
Speaker 1: of like wanting to date a guy, because my close

1151
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: girlfriends were like so in my improv class, right, basically

1152
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: the PRIP way, the way that we practice is they

1153
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: say one word and you go back and forth and

1154
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: you start bouncing. Right, so the guy, uh, My teacher said,

1155
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 1: here's the scenario. You're excited for her about something. I

1156
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: was talking to the only black girl in the class

1157
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 1: that I was doing a scene with, and the first

1158
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 1: thing that came out of her mouth was I'm so

1159
00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: glad you left his ass. That was what she was

1160
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: excited about. And I said, I know, like I was

1161
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 1: really tired of talking to him about you. She was like,

1162
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 1: because you know, I hated him, and it was like

1163
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: boom boom boom. Right, you have to think in two

1164
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: seconds or less. And it's so funny because you're like,

1165
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is so real. Your friend is

1166
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:23,919
Speaker 1: glad you left somebody because they're tired to hear about

1167
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 1: that nigga they out of here. Well, I'm one of

1168
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 1: those where I've literally told my friends, um, because I've

1169
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: had friends stay with guys who have cheated on them,

1170
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 1: Guys that they found out they had kids because they

1171
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: found sucking medical insurance cards for the kids in the house,

1172
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 1: Um got STDs from niggas that they wast thing. Oh yes,

1173
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: and they stayed so like, and of course they've also

1174
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: stayed through cheating. So like. To me, I've gotten to

1175
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 1: the point where I've told my friends, don't call me

1176
00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: about him, find another friend for that and the because

1177
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 1: there's only because to me, it's one of those where

1178
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: I won't stand for my friend being with an abuser.

1179
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 1: But if you're gonna stay with the nigga thing, guess what.

1180
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:09,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear about it anymore. And I'm

1181
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: sorry I've told you I don't want you to be

1182
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 1: with him. I think you deserve better. But a woman

1183
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 1: is going to do what they want to do. I mean,

1184
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: I think the one piece of advice I would have

1185
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: for that, Like, it's very it's not easy for people

1186
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 1: when they're being emotionally or mentally abused to understand the

1187
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 1: right way to leave. Like I'm a very confident person

1188
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: in relationships now, but when I was dating someone who

1189
01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: was abusive to me, I didn't really get it. Plus

1190
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: you're so hopeful you think it will be over, and

1191
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: then and then enough time passes because I went through

1192
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 1: that last year. And then enough time passes and it

1193
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 1: just becomes that, it just becomes a habit. And now

1194
01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: you're being loyal to the mistake that you made because

1195
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: now it's like, well, so much time has passed, so

1196
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 1: maybe like at this point, this is just gonna be.

1197
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: This is just what it's gonna be, Like we're gonna

1198
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: we'll figure it out, Like we'll figure it out because

1199
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: now it's been a year. Ind so now if I

1200
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 1: walk away from this, look at all the good stuff

1201
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 1: that I'm leaving. Not only that, oh my god, I

1202
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 1: would have wasted a year. So we hate the idea,

1203
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 1: hate the acknowledging wasting time is not a thing. You

1204
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 1: don't waste it. You literally from experience, just know it's

1205
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:11,919
Speaker 1: an experience. It is she doesn't jamaking niggas with guns

1206
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 1: under their pillows no more. And now drug dealers. You know. Actually,

1207
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: one of my own girls said this weekend we were

1208
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: out in Puerto Rico, all hanging. She said something about

1209
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 1: her drug dealing niggas, and somebody said drugs. She said,

1210
01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: I don't do drugs, but I do Nick. Before we

1211
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: get out of here, we're gonna get into our wholemail

1212
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 1: and it fits the topic. It is accidentally cheated is

1213
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 1: the title high Ladies. I love you guys, and I've

1214
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 1: binge listened to your podcast and I've learned so much

1215
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 1: about myself. So thank you. Okay, So I wrote, UM,

1216
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: what happened was, I'm in a relationship with someone I

1217
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: love very much and we've been together three years. It

1218
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:48,040
Speaker 1: hasn't always been easy, and during what I felt was

1219
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: the worst time in our relationship, I had a weak

1220
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: moment and slept with someone else. The problem is, I

1221
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 1: really do regret it because I feel like I should

1222
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 1: have had more self control. But I did what I

1223
01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: did before me and him got into a relation and ship.

1224
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 1: I was in another long term relationship, but only twenty one.

1225
01:02:03,440 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 1: I haven't dated around and I feel like I wanted

1226
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: more experience, but I'm not sure how to go about it.

1227
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 1: I haven't told my boyfriend what I did because I'm

1228
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:12,120
Speaker 1: terrified that he will break that I will break his

1229
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: heart and mess up his view on love if I don't.

1230
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 1: If I don't tell him, I don't think he will

1231
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: ever find out. Should I just break up with him

1232
01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 1: as if it's for personal growth reasons? Or do I

1233
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:25,320
Speaker 1: tell him the truth? Sincerely, I funked up? Tell them truth?

1234
01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:29,840
Speaker 1: Don't tell the truth? Break up with him? Well they actually?

1235
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: I think either or she wasn't answer, she don't want either,

1236
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: or she gave us either or break up with him,

1237
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:38,120
Speaker 1: or tell him the truth if you're gonna stay with him,

1238
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 1: So if she's gonna stay with him, tell him the truth.

1239
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 1: Don't it's not that big of a deal. Then tell

1240
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: him like you just wrote an email. She thinks it is,

1241
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: like if you think that the person, like the experience

1242
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: wasn't a big deal, Like, no, it doesn't matter to men,

1243
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. Whether it don't matter. I think the

1244
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 1: secret will eat at you. Oh it's gonna eat at

1245
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 1: her for sure. But then the idea that she's like

1246
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: he'll never find out. It's going to be even worse

1247
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 1: if he ever does. Here's the thing, right, and as women,

1248
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 1: this is the hardest. This is the hardest part, right,

1249
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:13,680
Speaker 1: the bottom line, Get to your bottom line. That's to me,

1250
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: to me, even in dealing with conflict, with dealing with anybody,

1251
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: at this point, for me is what is our bottom line?

1252
01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: It for sure is like her bottom line. The only

1253
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 1: thing that I that I could deduce from everything in

1254
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 1: that email. She doesn't want to be in a relationship period.

1255
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: She said it. She was in her long sorm relationship

1256
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: prior to she feels like she didn't get to experience

1257
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: certain ship. That's really why she slipped. I'm never mistaken.

1258
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 1: Maybe it's not a mistake. Maybe it's not a mistake.

1259
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:41,560
Speaker 1: But if it's not a mistake, then you need to

1260
01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: not be in a relationship. She did say she like

1261
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: she fell onto some dick. I'm like, how do you

1262
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 1: just trip on some dick? It was definitely the biggest Listen,

1263
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 1: listen the way it's I've definitely falling on some tick before.

1264
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 1: It's definitely been maybe you have, but you look at

1265
01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: me trying to okay, I've definitely I probably shouldn't have

1266
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:20,720
Speaker 1: or whatever, but really, on accident, I have any here

1267
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:22,479
Speaker 1: you can because I have the option to do whatever

1268
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:24,800
Speaker 1: I want with this course. Now, if I'm in a

1269
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: monogamous relationship, real feminist way to say, go ahead and

1270
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:30,840
Speaker 1: cheat with your pussy. Yeah, but I feel like, yeah,

1271
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:34,680
Speaker 1: cheating is cheating is really shitty, and it's also a

1272
01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 1: very it's it is really shitty, but it's also a

1273
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 1: very selfish personal decision. So I was gonna say, this

1274
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 1: seems more as though it's eating at her mental health,

1275
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 1: Like she feels really bad that she did this, and

1276
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 1: she's also concerned about the feelings that he's going to

1277
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 1: have once he finds out that she did. So listen,

1278
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: coming from coming from a cheater, coming from a cheater,

1279
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 1: somebody that cheated and stuck around through more, through abuse

1280
01:04:57,840 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 1: and cheating because I felt guilty, I tolerated a lot

1281
01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: more ship because because I sucked up, So the relationship

1282
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 1: dynamic changed. Well yeah, I mean he knew and I

1283
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 1: ended up going on a reality show and he ended

1284
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 1: up throwing it in my face and he was cheating

1285
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 1: on me the whole time. He felt justified because nobody

1286
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: really knew. And then it was like I mean, if

1287
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: you think you're gonna pass it back and forth obviously,

1288
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 1: and he's not mature enough to handle even if but

1289
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: even if he doesn't pass it back and forth, if

1290
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: you're feeling that guilty about it, and you're gonna and

1291
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 1: it's eating away now, like this isn't somebody that she's

1292
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: date that she is like secretly having an affair with.

1293
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 1: This is somebody she literally one which left one when

1294
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:38,680
Speaker 1: you feel her responsibility to something. For example, she just

1295
01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 1: said she fell on some dick. I said, I fell

1296
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 1: on some date, But we didn't have relationships. Right, When

1297
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 1: you have a responsibility to something, you don't accidentally do ship.

1298
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 1: You don't accidentally leave your children at home when you

1299
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: know they're there. We can leave whenever the funk we

1300
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,360
Speaker 1: want to, because we ain't got no kids in the

1301
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 1: house to be looking at. Don't accidentally do something when

1302
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: you have a responsibility to your fucking person. So here's

1303
01:05:56,920 --> 01:06:00,680
Speaker 1: my question. She she didn't get pregnant and clearly didn't

1304
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 1: bring him back a disease girl. I mean I think

1305
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 1: she should lie. Do you think she should lie? I don't.

1306
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 1: My thing is what you're not you're omitting, won't since

1307
01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 1: you're lying. My thing is you're omitting everything. He's not

1308
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:15,920
Speaker 1: telling the whole truth. My thing is she doesn't want

1309
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship. She just said it. She

1310
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 1: wants to experience other ship. So go experience other ship,

1311
01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: just literally and and say it exactly that, because that's

1312
01:06:22,800 --> 01:06:24,440
Speaker 1: the truth. That's the truth, that's the bottom line. The

1313
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 1: bottom line is you don't want to be in a relationship.

1314
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: That's if you break up with him yet, don't say

1315
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 1: you're working on yourself, because I'm gonna be real with you,

1316
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 1: that to me is worse to do to somebody, Like

1317
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: being broken up with and not knowing a real reason

1318
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 1: is really hurtful. It is, and then that would hurt

1319
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 1: probably more than finding out your cheating. I mean, just

1320
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 1: tell me, dog, no, don't. I don't want to feel

1321
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:50,280
Speaker 1: like I'm working on myself. What but why nigger? Well,

1322
01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 1: my thing is, do you work together on you? It's

1323
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 1: definitely not a I'm working on myself. It's I want

1324
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: to see other people, because that's really what it is.

1325
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:00,439
Speaker 1: That's fine. Just tell them to say that. I don't

1326
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: say you working on yourself, just be like, you know what,

1327
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 1: I really but I've been listening to the horrible decisions

1328
01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: and now I want to try like Polly Amory and

1329
01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 1: open relationships and let's see if we could do that.

1330
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 1: That's what. Just blame us. I just feel my friends.

1331
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 1: Anytime my friends go and they just know they're gonna

1332
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 1: do something, I'd be like, y'all nigga think I'm a

1333
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: whole anyway, Just blame me, girl, Just say that was

1334
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 1: my nigga, even though my friends, Girl, I know we're

1335
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 1: going out with his nigga. Yeah, I put I'll put

1336
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:27,880
Speaker 1: you onto him, but just say he's mine. It just

1337
01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:32,560
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. I'll be helping on my cut anyway. Anyways, Guys,

1338
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 1: before we get out of Bridget, let everyone know where

1339
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 1: they can hear you, where they can maybe watch you,

1340
01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:40,280
Speaker 1: and where they can keep up with you. UM, or

1341
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: you can follow me on Instagram and Twitters. I am

1342
01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 1: Bridget Kelly, I A am B R I D G

1343
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: E T once you know E K E l O

1344
01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: Y and you know yeah once you know eat and

1345
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 1: UM music is coming out. So the greatest, my greatest

1346
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:57,200
Speaker 1: gapp August sixteenth. UM, it's gonna be great. It's gonna

1347
01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 1: get sixteen. That's like you want to press run that's why.

1348
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:05,560
Speaker 1: That's why you want to press you are not No,

1349
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 1: I don't press run. I'm here. I've been here for

1350
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 1: like two and a half weeks. I'm here all the time.

1351
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 1: Was in New York. It felt like a press. Whenever

1352
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 1: I see the same person as doing a podcast on

1353
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 1: that they got so made every Day people with this

1354
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 1: boot up talking on the table. There was to be

1355
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: done there when you didn't sit, did not sit at all.

1356
01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 1: That whole night was actually it was fun as that

1357
01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:27,720
Speaker 1: was the Yeah, I told you. The last time I

1358
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:30,560
Speaker 1: went to Everyday People I made out with dub, I

1359
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 1: got numbers that I didn't remember. That's the negative be

1360
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:36,559
Speaker 1: writing me good morning, Good morning from me too, bitch.

1361
01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:38,000
Speaker 1: And then I had to block the one because I

1362
01:08:38,040 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 1: was like, I gave you my numbers who listened to

1363
01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:45,000
Speaker 1: the show that he's a fan, bro, we just lost

1364
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:47,200
Speaker 1: a fan because of you. Well, are you be coming

1365
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: to me? Because I said, I just want to say,

1366
01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 1: you don't remember what you look like? And maybe that

1367
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 1: means that now y'all get a group chat, y'all get

1368
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 1: a group text message from this that supporter I even

1369
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,560
Speaker 1: subscribe from. Pat you out because a wheezy watch we

1370
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 1: get a goddamn email, then went on with a date

1371
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:06,960
Speaker 1: from the show in d C. Yeah, oh my god,

1372
01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:09,120
Speaker 1: can you tell me about how keep from Cat tells us?

1373
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: That was so weird? Now listening, If I'm on a

1374
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 1: date and any of y'all ask me about Bridget, I'm

1375
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 1: gonna just give them your number now they like close,

1376
01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:21,400
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna hook you up? Um? But no, um, guys,

1377
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:24,320
Speaker 1: I will be giving a percentage of this clip to

1378
01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:26,559
Speaker 1: Bridget and Wheezy for showing their lovely fee because I'm

1379
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:30,599
Speaker 1: about to make some money. Ops. Uh no, I don't are.

1380
01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:34,360
Speaker 1: Toes came out today. Okay, we got some, they came many,

1381
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 1: got some bomass toes. Why why do we do this?

1382
01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. Why would do names? I think everything

1383
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 1: secretly want to become sexual every time. I don't know.

1384
01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 1: I'm convinced there's a lot of money to be made.

1385
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: The prostitution is a very real thing. And there's so

1386
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 1: many on her feet. You think not to hold these

1387
01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 1: feet only fans. You're done. I'm just ain't gonna hold

1388
01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: this puss find more people because the only fans. Yeah,

1389
01:09:57,280 --> 01:09:58,720
Speaker 1: so then you can rubb in my face. Oh bit,

1390
01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 1: you got a only fans page. What you never do

1391
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:02,639
Speaker 1: it with your job to get only fans? Why? Because

1392
01:10:02,720 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 1: that's more profitable about I'm encouraging you. I'm going to

1393
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: do the research. But anyways, I do want to shout honestly,

1394
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:10,479
Speaker 1: I would never and I would shame our listeners for

1395
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 1: shaming you about doing that when all we do every

1396
01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: week is de stigma. Way, I literally be posting my

1397
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: feet on Instagram and wife about to give them money.

1398
01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 1: Like every time I go on Live, I just literally

1399
01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:20,680
Speaker 1: pinned my cash up and by the end of my

1400
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 1: life I get forty sixty dollars sent to my cash

1401
01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 1: ap from my feet from from randoms. No, they just

1402
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 1: be like these are for your tells, not be like

1403
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, um amazing the transaction, the transactions

1404
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 1: amazing me in my lives, Like damn, Mandy, show me

1405
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:46,400
Speaker 1: your white sister, teach me the way. So they feel

1406
01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 1: like Muslim Bay's gonna be I like, does he know

1407
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:54,320
Speaker 1: your user name on Instagram? He doesn't have Instagram or Twitter? Awesome,

1408
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 1: he doesn't have about to be a lawyer. And he

1409
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 1: just told me a little like so even that, Yeah,

1410
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: he did just get a job offer in d c

1411
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 1: so we're like a love not a lust moment because

1412
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 1: she was saying it's he and he says and he's great. Yeah,

1413
01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 1: we're gonna share the funds from my only fans. We

1414
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 1: are not sharing no funds, but you already knowing about that.

1415
01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 1: Like anyways, I want to give a shoutut to all

1416
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 1: of our patrons who support us. Um, we are gonna

1417
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:25,280
Speaker 1: leave you guys off with a clip at the end

1418
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:27,680
Speaker 1: of this episode. If four episodes a month is not

1419
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 1: enough for you, or every Monday you're just like, oh

1420
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:31,519
Speaker 1: my god, I actually want to hear something else. We

1421
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 1: dropped three bonus episodes every month, so y'all you can

1422
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 1: listen to us seven times a month, Jesus Christ, on

1423
01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:39,439
Speaker 1: top of all of the features we do, joining our

1424
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 1: other podcast friends and ship like that. So if you

1425
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:45,760
Speaker 1: guys want to become patrons and support us, we are

1426
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 1: working on getting a store for merch and all this

1427
01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:49,599
Speaker 1: other ship as well. But the only way to get

1428
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 1: merch currently is by becoming a patron at our top tier.

1429
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:55,160
Speaker 1: That's patriarch dot com backslash horrible to san don't have

1430
01:11:55,240 --> 01:11:58,680
Speaker 1: to me. We are getting tour merch. We're working on that.

1431
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 1: So I'm excited and the tour we are working right now,

1432
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:04,320
Speaker 1: it's looking like sixteen cities and for all you hoss

1433
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 1: in the cities that we didn't hit before, we come

1434
01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 1: to y'all bitches too. And by the way, Charlotte, y'all

1435
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:12,840
Speaker 1: can shut up. Now we're coming the Bay. We're coming, Detroit,

1436
01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:16,479
Speaker 1: We're coming. Never so much aggression, no from any other

1437
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 1: city than Charlotte and the Bay. The Bay was like,

1438
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 1: we ain't all want to come to l A, but

1439
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 1: y'all forced us because y'all want to come to the Bay. Okay,

1440
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:27,639
Speaker 1: we come in. We're coming, We're coming, We're coming. Um anyways, guys,

1441
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 1: um again, we're leaving you off with a clip. Thank you,

1442
01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:31,840
Speaker 1: Bridget for joining us. It's been a long time, mother

1443
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:33,760
Speaker 1: fucking coming. You want to come again because this was

1444
01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 1: a nice little mix here, maybe the little barbracial squad,

1445
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:42,240
Speaker 1: I don't know what this was. Now we're black people.

1446
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:48,919
Speaker 1: We are wanted to have black people problematic picture fixture octane.

1447
01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:55,599
Speaker 1: Fuck y'all, this has been Yeah, another episode of horrible

1448
01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:58,479
Speaker 1: decisions by We're gonna let them here, all three of

1449
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 1: y'all hosts, And so I want to get here okay,

1450
01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:04,240
Speaker 1: the kink of the week. Normally we pick one, but

1451
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 1: I don't know you guys are listeners, may not know you.

1452
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:08,120
Speaker 1: I would love for y'all to tell us your kinks.

1453
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 1: Just tell us yours or the most kinkiest thing that

1454
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: you think you've done. So we're not gonna vanilla shame.

1455
01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 1: So if only maybe you had a nigga spit in

1456
01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:18,439
Speaker 1: your mouth one time, that's great. We'll talk about it.

1457
01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:22,040
Speaker 1: So what are the levels of kink that you guys

1458
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:24,840
Speaker 1: have experienced with? There is anything you're like, whoa, I

1459
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 1: went too far? Um? Damn, I don't know if you

1460
01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:31,240
Speaker 1: tell this. No, of course you have to know her,

1461
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:40,200
Speaker 1: not me, not y'all. You keep you can't sell myself.

1462
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 1: It's a weird thing. Y'all definitely always picks. Oh you

1463
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 1: gotta be sucking each other. Okay, what's go ahead, let's

1464
01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 1: find out y'all had a three something. What happened? Well,

1465
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:55,280
Speaker 1: we had like an all girl, three of us. Oh

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01:13:55,360 --> 01:14:03,360
Speaker 1: that's it, okay, so waiting all three girls. So I've

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01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:06,760
Speaker 1: done this before it started. It was on a on

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01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:08,639
Speaker 1: the floor in the strip club and I talked about

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01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:10,880
Speaker 1: it on the show. Yeah, my home girl, I ate

1470
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:12,840
Speaker 1: my I ate her pussy out and she told my

1471
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 1: other home girl, you gotta come try this, and so

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01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 1: I was like a story. It was a care and

1473
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:20,519
Speaker 1: then the nigga we was with was sucking the stripper,

1474
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:23,559
Speaker 1: so oh yeah it was. It took me the Miami.

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01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 1: What year was this? Two thousand thirteen, fourteen fifteen? One

1476
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 1: of them? Um, but yeah, so I've done this trade

1477
01:14:29,920 --> 01:14:32,800
Speaker 1: way three singing girls. So how was it? Wait, that's

1478
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 1: the name of my group chair I know. Well, we

1479
01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:37,080
Speaker 1: was was drawn. It was really really we was drunk

1480
01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:41,400
Speaker 1: as fun that started with this disclaimer out there. Did

1481
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:44,400
Speaker 1: y'all enjoy it though? Yeah? I mean we remembered this

1482
01:14:44,439 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 1: ship and everything that matters. Okay. It started with me

1483
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 1: at her and then like actually was at a friend's

1484
01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 1: house and then she was like, yo, what y'all doing?

1485
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:54,680
Speaker 1: You need to get out of here, and then she

1486
01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 1: just joined in and we was on face time and everything.

1487
01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, y'all were

1488
01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:05,320
Speaker 1: all in face time with who my nigga? And so

1489
01:15:05,520 --> 01:15:08,280
Speaker 1: y'all put on a show for your nigga, the three

1490
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 1: of y'all. Oh here a lucky nigga. Um no, he

1491
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 1: did I don't know. We put the phone down and

1492
01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:18,840
Speaker 1: we did what we did, but he was on the

1493
01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:21,960
Speaker 1: phone the whole time. He wasn't talking. Did you start?

1494
01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:27,920
Speaker 1: Are you good? He did? Stuck up, he didn't s yeah.

1495
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 1: I was flipping the phone and ship for him. He said, well,

1496
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 1: laying skap. Wait, this is great. I don't think we

1497
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:40,200
Speaker 1: we ain't never had this story before. Yeah, that's what

1498
01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:43,720
Speaker 1: guys do it again, dude, No, I think that's not

1499
01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:47,040
Speaker 1: not That was the only all girl on Yeah. How

1500
01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:50,760
Speaker 1: long have you guys been friends? Oh? Yeah, Yeah, So

1501
01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 1: I actually got Julie. I used to work barttime at

1502
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:55,479
Speaker 1: this um this bar, and she used to come in

1503
01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:58,920
Speaker 1: there and then like on your customers. Girl. The night

1504
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:00,679
Speaker 1: I met her, this bitch drawn and when she's drunk,

1505
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 1: she fucking like s girls. So she was kissing on

1506
01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: me and I was like, okay, whatever, we're just going

1507
01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 1: to be together, fake together. We've been together? Felt like, yeah,

1508
01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:14,120
Speaker 1: got you okay, And what's the kinkiest thing you've ever done? Alight,

1509
01:16:14,320 --> 01:16:15,880
Speaker 1: don't be nervous, bitch, you know what show you want.

1510
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 1: There's not not nervous, fake nervous like I'd be. Damn.

1511
01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:26,439
Speaker 1: I was gonna say this ship for our show. But alright, cool,

1512
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:31,920
Speaker 1: so you're listen here. Yeah, right, So I was I

1513
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:34,160
Speaker 1: was sick and ship. I was in the hospital for

1514
01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:38,200
Speaker 1: like five days. Whole five days. My nigga coming, he

1515
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:40,200
Speaker 1: comes to see me. He coming to bring me full

1516
01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:42,200
Speaker 1: every day because you know, I don't eat that hospital ship.

1517
01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 1: So he coming, and I felt kind of bad, like, damn, bit,

1518
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 1: you've been in here for five days, this niga and

1519
01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:51,400
Speaker 1: getting no ask First of all, this bitch has the

1520
01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:53,680
Speaker 1: worst lungs on earth and she can't fucking breathe. What

1521
01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 1: were you there first? That's funny. That's how she got

1522
01:16:57,200 --> 01:17:00,599
Speaker 1: her name. We think we to be in the club

1523
01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:09,680
Speaker 1: and if you need it. Yeah, So I had um,

1524
01:17:10,120 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 1: I had like the Harmon and son ship like plugged

1525
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:15,439
Speaker 1: up to me. Right. So I'm feeling bad, like, damn

1526
01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 1: is five days now, this nigga, he ain't getting nothing.

1527
01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:20,160
Speaker 1: So he comes to my room. I'm like, yo, put

1528
01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:23,880
Speaker 1: your dick out and in the hospital. So he pulls

1529
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:27,040
Speaker 1: his dick out. Bitch, I'm sucking this nigga dick the

1530
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:29,720
Speaker 1: fucking nerve. She like bum rushes in and she's like,

1531
01:17:29,840 --> 01:17:33,599
Speaker 1: oh my god, are you okay? Oh my god, you're okay,

1532
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:42,800
Speaker 1: get used in your heart right, So you got did

1533
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 1: you get caught? No? Like we heard her coming in

1534
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:47,160
Speaker 1: the room and like how my room was. It was

1535
01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 1: like it was like an old lady and then it

1536
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:52,599
Speaker 1: was my bead, like sucking dick with the other part

1537
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:55,320
Speaker 1: I have dad. I thought she was at the whole time,

1538
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:03,040
Speaker 1: you ain't his dick got hard. Would have have that

1539
01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 1: woman next door? The curtain was closed, she was into

1540
01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:13,439
Speaker 1: you're her breathing heavy, I promise you. I thought she

1541
01:18:13,560 --> 01:18:15,519
Speaker 1: was dead the whole time I was there. She I

1542
01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:17,559
Speaker 1: ain't never seen her get up to use the bathsom

1543
01:18:17,680 --> 01:18:19,920
Speaker 1: open her eyes, and TV never came on. I thought

1544
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:21,880
Speaker 1: she was sucking dead. I'm like, well, they didn't take

1545
01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:26,960
Speaker 1: this lady yet, So you sucking dick would have had

1546
01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:30,840
Speaker 1: that woman. I need this. This is good. Yes, And

1547
01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:33,320
Speaker 1: then my heart rate went out. So she come busting

1548
01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:35,559
Speaker 1: and doing I'm like, I gotta white my mouth and ship.

1549
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:38,439
Speaker 1: So I'm like she's like, are you okay. I'm like yeah,

1550
01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:40,120
Speaker 1: She's like yeah, Harry, when I was like, oh, he

1551
01:18:40,240 --> 01:18:42,080
Speaker 1: just tickled me. Yeah, bit wi dick,