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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? What's

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Speaker 1: up everyone? This is Robin Dixon once again, Thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you for loving us. Yes, no, we

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Speaker 1: wouldn't make it. This is would have made it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Marvin Sap never would have made it without y'all you

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Speaker 1: listening to reasonably That's not how it goes. But okay,

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Speaker 1: it's never would have made it. Yeah, that's you know,

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Speaker 1: I know my gospel. Yes, I know it's a way. Um, yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. A couple of announcements. First and foremost,

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Speaker 1: Black Effect Festival has been postponed, yes, until next year

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Speaker 1: about April, like you have a date, I think the

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Speaker 1: April some thing. It's April something ish. We will keep

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Speaker 1: you posted exactly, so we just want to let you

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Speaker 1: know that. And while you're out, you know, looking for

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Speaker 1: Giselle and Robin, we will be at Bravo car Okay,

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Speaker 1: so Bravo con is in New York in October. October

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Speaker 1: I think seventeen eighteenth, around that day something like that.

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Speaker 1: It's a weekend So if you you know, love us,

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Speaker 1: want to see us, want to touch and feel some

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Speaker 1: other Bravo Labs, some housewives, some anything, we will be

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Speaker 1: girl these people in New York on a Monday and Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Bravo Khan is like the So I don't know it's yes, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: just google yeah, Google bravocn Um. Obviously, Gisell and Robin

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Speaker 1: will be there, and we'll be selling some reasonably shady merch.

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Speaker 1: We're just gonna be getting out reasonably shady out yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: very exciting. And I feel like around that time there

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Speaker 1: might be another show that we love, like back on air,

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Speaker 1: maybe out of Oh yeah, I forgot all a bunch

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Speaker 1: that there might be a show that might be premiering

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Speaker 1: that we might have something to do with. It might

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Speaker 1: be on, Yes, it might be on. So all of

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Speaker 1: that is super duper good stuff. Okay, so clearly we

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Speaker 1: need to talk about our recentably shady moment of the week.

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Speaker 1: You have one crap Okay, So I do have one, Okay,

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Speaker 1: because and this is probably a repeat of something that

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Speaker 1: I've said before, but I'm just sick of it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So y'all know, I got three girls, I got two

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Speaker 1: to get their hair braided. That beat them twins. And

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Speaker 1: I don't understand the braid oology situation, like, like, what

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Speaker 1: do you mean by that? What I mean by that

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Speaker 1: is why does it take so damn long? Okay? So

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Speaker 1: the twins had some while I was away. You know,

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Speaker 1: I was traveling this summer. While I was away, I

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Speaker 1: had somebody come to the house to break their hair.

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Speaker 1: It took total both of them ten hours, five and five. Cool. Yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's probably that's like the norm you get these k

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Speaker 1: not lists box braid nonsense. I don't know, it's it's

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Speaker 1: a million braids. Okay. So just recently and and mind you,

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Speaker 1: I decided I want no parts of this braiding situation anymore.

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Speaker 1: So I had Grace take them. I had Grace be

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Speaker 1: in charge of getting them home. Okay, So because I

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Speaker 1: just can't do it anymore, just tell me what the

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Speaker 1: final bill is and I'll pay the lady. Okay. So

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Speaker 1: the doors took eight hours. Angels took ten hours on

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Speaker 1: their own. So did they get something different than what

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Speaker 1: they got before? No, but it was different people with

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Speaker 1: different people. It was different people. And I said, so,

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Speaker 1: I said, so Angel, it took ten hours did the

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Speaker 1: lady go like, grab a sandwich? Does she go to

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Speaker 1: chick fil a? Did she, you know, go to take

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Speaker 1: a couple of bathroom breaks? She said nope, she didn't move.

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Speaker 1: She stayed there and braided angels here for ten hours,

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Speaker 1: no food, no bathroom break, just straight bradon. What took

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Speaker 1: so freaking long? But how do I think the real

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Speaker 1: question is how do they do that? First of all,

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Speaker 1: how so we feel inside for the braiders, I'm not okay?

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Speaker 1: First of all, they get paid. Well, yes, okay, there

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Speaker 1: there's that. I heard. I heard that there's like a

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Speaker 1: premium on braids these days. I don't know what the

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Speaker 1: premium is, but they get paid. It cost me. And

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Speaker 1: there's two of them, so they got paid. Well. Number one,

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Speaker 1: Number two a duo fell asleep in her chair. Guess

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Speaker 1: what the lady likes. No, the lady like pulled her

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Speaker 1: like what? Oh my gosh? Okay, So were they like

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Speaker 1: smaller than the braids. They were a little smaller, but

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Speaker 1: not to the point that it's going to create two, three,

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Speaker 1: four extra hours. But it's I mean, it's okay. It

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Speaker 1: depends on how long, how small the braids are, how

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Speaker 1: long they are, all the that. I mean, my I'm

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Speaker 1: just impressed that people have the stamina to sit there

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Speaker 1: for it to do it, like, and then you have

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Speaker 1: to wonder about their hands. Do they have to like

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Speaker 1: do they get carpal tunnel at some point? You know?

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Speaker 1: so where I get my nails? One of the ladies

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Speaker 1: they're like recently had carpal tunnel surgery. No way, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And they said it's a common thing in their industry.

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Speaker 1: Like their hands get really you know, I mean, like

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Speaker 1: clearly they're using their hands. They're like folding them up

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Speaker 1: and stuff. So um, their their hands are painful after

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Speaker 1: a certain point. They imagine surgery. I can imagine, so

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Speaker 1: your girls don't have to worry about their hair now.

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Speaker 1: They don't not for a long time. So you got

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Speaker 1: to look at that. You go through all that for

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Speaker 1: the result, which means they are worry free for the

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Speaker 1: next couple of weeks, but they are very excited. They

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Speaker 1: look super cute. They love when they have their braids. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: braiders do better, that's all. I have to be faster, faster,

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Speaker 1: really move quicker. Yes, brighters move quick. Meanwhile, their hands

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Speaker 1: are going like a mile a second. Like the whole

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Speaker 1: braiding industry needs to do bad. You know, no, you

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Speaker 1: know what. The whole braiding industry needs to flood Gell's instagram.

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Speaker 1: Please don't, please don't with no, because I pay very well.

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Speaker 1: Now you can give you all tips. They need to

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Speaker 1: be like dry braiding like I do that. That is

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Speaker 1: not my my calling. That's not my calling. Yes, they say, basically, anyway,

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Speaker 1: what is your reasons? Okay, so I think I called

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Speaker 1: bitch three times? We just go to podcast to okay.

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Speaker 1: So okay, so I remember have one. So I had

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Speaker 1: a girl trip playing to Cobo and I was like

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Speaker 1: This was a girl's trip. Just I was not invited

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Speaker 1: that Robin had to Cobo. Just that wasn't invited. Just

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Speaker 1: fy was that our friends with you? Okay, never mind,

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Speaker 1: go ahead with your okay, go ahead with your story. Okay. Alright,

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Speaker 1: So Robin is feisty, she eating? Is she eating yet?

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Speaker 1: She's hungry? Okay, alright, go ahead, Robin. Okay. So, so

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Speaker 1: I had a girl's trip, playing my girlfriends like from childhood,

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Speaker 1: growing up and everything. Um. So on the flight, my

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Speaker 1: have rescheduled it to Friday at five am. And I'm

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Speaker 1: just a whole another day, the whole day. Yes, they

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Speaker 1: can find you. Nothing else on Thursday, nothing else. So

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Speaker 1: I'm like, um this, that's that's not cool. That's not

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Speaker 1: there another flight? Blah blah blah blah blah. So like

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Speaker 1: I still had nothing. So who is shady the airline

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Speaker 1: or you get both because so the shady part is, yes,

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Speaker 1: the airline cancel my flight. But then I get shady

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Speaker 1: because my friends, when I tell them what's going down,

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Speaker 1: they get into like super stealth mode and they're good.

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Speaker 1: They're like searching for tickets on other airlines and they're

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Speaker 1: sending me stuff. They're like, oh, there's a flight on American.

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Speaker 1: It's only gonna cost you a hundred and seventy three dollars.

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Speaker 1: Okay when you'll get here and blah blah blah. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, no, it's all good. I'll just

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Speaker 1: come on Friday. Robin is the worst, yo'all. Let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something. Even leaving this house is the worst.

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Speaker 1: And they were like are you SERI is like, are

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Speaker 1: you for real? Like you're really like girl, They're like robbing,

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Speaker 1: up doing? I've just left on my flight on Friday

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Speaker 1: and I spent all day on Thursday packing? Really did you?

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Speaker 1: Because like when I'm so bad when I go on

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Speaker 1: the people that are gonna be here when you're gone. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: which is insane. Yes, Like, like who does now? I

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Speaker 1: I sat down. You have an announcement. I have an announcement.

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Speaker 1: I'm nervous. I am pregnant. What with Nick Cannon's eleven

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Speaker 1: baby Robin, you are stupid. You are Stupidit okay, I

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Speaker 1: the baby n A ten gets here. Yes, okay, because

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Speaker 1: every two months we get another baby. Yes, I'm number

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Speaker 1: eleven is on the way. Okay. First of all, I'm sick.

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Speaker 1: I'm sick of Nick Cannon. Okay, I'm sick of him.

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Speaker 1: He has a sickness. Yes, what is it called? This

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Speaker 1: is very weird. We need a definitely, like there needs

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Speaker 1: to be a new dictionary word for a man that

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Speaker 1: is like hell bent on populating the earth. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but is that what it is? Or is it hell

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Speaker 1: bent on? You don't want to put on a condom?

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Speaker 1: You don't know, you don't want to practice birthdn charls.

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Speaker 1: Didn't he say somewhere though that like he has lupus

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Speaker 1: and he wants to have as many babies as possible,

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Speaker 1: like something like just which doesn't make sense to me.

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Speaker 1: But maybe he loves kids and he just wants to

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Speaker 1: them because he has so many? Right, Yeah, I don't know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sick up. But sick of all of these pregnancy

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Speaker 1: announcement photo shoots. Yes, and then that's weird too if

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Speaker 1: I see another one of these stupid ass photo shoots

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Speaker 1: with him holding the belly of the random girl. Because

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Speaker 1: They're all randalls at this point, they're all randoms, but

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Speaker 1: ourselves sign we all get it. It's horrible, it's wrong,

419
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 1: and y'all need to stop right period. Yeah. And I

420
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 1: do remember having a conversation with a Bravo executive because

421
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: they got when that I was getting, you know, nasty hate,

422
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 1: and you know, I was like, you know, I appreciate

423
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 1: the conversation, but it wasn't like escalated to anything. But

424
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,199
Speaker 1: they didn't do anything about it. But I think that

425
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: needs to be a constant reminder. I don't think it

426
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 1: should just be this one time. I think Bravo should somehow,

427
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: I don't they got it. We have to figure out

428
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: a way to stop making social media like a storyline

429
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 1: in our show. It's almost like social media it is

430
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: the eighth housewife or you know what I'm saying, It's

431
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: like a it's a cast member. We got to figure

432
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: out how to take it out off the off the table,

433
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: out of the equation. That is one of the reasons

434
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: why my kids are not on social media. And I'm

435
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: not criticizing anyone who allows their teenagers or young kids

436
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: on social media, but I don't want my kids to

437
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:26,360
Speaker 1: be no way reachable to that degree where someone can

438
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: just say whatever to my children whatever, because they are

439
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,120
Speaker 1: like my pride and joy. They are precious. I want

440
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 1: to keep them as not innocent as possible, but you know,

441
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: like keep them away from that man. You want to

442
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: protect them. Yeah, my kids don't have social media either,

443
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,159
Speaker 1: and they're getting older. And then I even asking me

444
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: about right mine don't ask you that. They don't care.

445
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: And I was recently out with my son and we

446
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: just had like a basketball workout and one of the

447
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: kids was like, hey, what's your Instagram? And Corey's like, yeah,

448
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: I'm not on Instagram. Like any he had no problem

449
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: with it, you know what I'm saying. It was like,

450
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: here's my phone number. I think it's kind of like

451
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: a cool thing now it right, feel like it's cool.

452
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,639
Speaker 1: I mean, I just and so the question is like,

453
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: I don't I really don't think my kids will want

454
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: you know what, My son Carter, he kind of wanted

455
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: to be on Instagram, more so because it seemed like

456
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: a communication tool between him and his peers, Like that's

457
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: how they communicate. They don't communicate by like texting each other.

458
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: They communicate on Instagram. But but yeah, no that's not happening. No,

459
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 1: that's not happening. And they can and his friends can

460
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: text him, right yeah exactly. So so I don't know,

461
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what age they'll get on it, But

462
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 1: stuff like this it definitely makes you be like, yeah, know,

463
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,360
Speaker 1: we do want to circle back for another update. Okay,

464
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,119
Speaker 1: that's that. Andrew take character who you didn't know anything about.

465
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 1: So I brought him up last week or maybe the

466
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 1: week before. You didn't know anything about him, but now

467
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 1: you're he's all over the place right, well, right, and

468
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,880
Speaker 1: and I see now he's been banned from like everything

469
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 1: so quick. That was quick fast and in a hurry.

470
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 1: So Facebook banned him, Twitter and Instagram, they all banned

471
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: him from everything that he says because he is saying something. Okay,

472
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 1: so if you don't know who he is, because he

473
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 1: got banned so fast. He was saying extremely misogynistic things,

474
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 1: you know, basically, just have sex with women and keep

475
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 1: it moving like just and he was getting a huge

476
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 1: following from it. So I'm happy that these social media

477
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 1: outlets have banned him, and you take goodbye. So now

478
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: guess what he did? I saw now you're talking about

479
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm starting the foundation right to help violence men, violence

480
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 1: against females. Well yes, and men's mental health and men's

481
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 1: mental health. Right, but you know why he's doing the

482
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 1: men who violate women, right because they were saying that

483
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 1: he allegedly was a sex trafficker. So listen, Andrew takee

484
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 1: be gone, yeah, be gone. Honestly, I feel like I

485
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: think with all that, like I think I said this

486
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: the last time. I didn't know anything about him, but

487
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 1: I think whatever he was doing saying was for attention

488
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 1: of course, like he wanted to become viral to the

489
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 1: point of like a you know, it's almost like Trump, like,

490
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: you know, just say the craziest off the wall stuff

491
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: to get attention and and you know, try to build

492
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 1: some sort of crazy following. And I think that's what

493
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,360
Speaker 1: he was doing. Um, so thank god he's been banned,

494
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: you know, hopefully. You know, Court you did ask Corey

495
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: if you knew if you knew who he was, and

496
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: Corey said he knew who he was, but he didn't

497
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: like follow his stuff. Right. Corey was like, I don't

498
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: know what he's saying. I don't always something about Corey,

499
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: you know, last thing about kids and mom protecting their

500
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: kids and their husband's Vanessa Bryant, let me tell you something. Yes,

501
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: you know what she's saying. You're not gonna my family

502
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: right that say, I'm sorry Taylor made me. Can take

503
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 1: that out. I don't know, it doesn't matter, like you're

504
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: not gonna fool with my family. No. I like that.

505
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: I felt so happy for her. Okay, we gotta set

506
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 1: it up. So Vanessa Bryant was suing the like l

507
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: A County, uh not not the least fire department, like

508
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 1: the first responders whatever. Um, for the for the crash,

509
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,719
Speaker 1: for um, the helicopter crash that co Be and her

510
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 1: daughter Gianna, Gianna was in because they put out pictures,

511
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: well they took pictures. They took pictures, Ah, but they're

512
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: supposed to, but they put them out. All these people

513
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 1: aren't supposed supposedly, So the ones that took the pictures

514
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 1: are not the ones that are supposed to take the pictures, right,

515
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: like the ones they're not like the crash the crime

516
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 1: scene investigators, they were like the E M S. You

517
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it was like the fire department,

518
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: the police department, whatever, they're not the ones who have

519
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: to take the pictures. It's the crash site investigators that

520
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: take the pictures. Got so apparently it was like E

521
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: M S. Guys that took pictures and then we're going,

522
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: you know, they would go to a bar and show

523
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: them pictures and say like, y'all are horrible people horrible

524
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: And she said she just dreaded the thought that these

525
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: pictures are out there and one day she and her family,

526
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: her girls might come across those pictures. Of course, and

527
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I just can you imagine it? First of all,

528
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: like I feel like there has to be an oath

529
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: they take to keep to maintain the privacy of the victims.

530
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: I've never ever talked to like a police officer or E. M. S.

531
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: Person and they're like, hey, you want to see some

532
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: photos from a crash. But if it was Kobe, they right, right,

533
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: But I just feel like that's just such a violation,

534
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: like it's their body should see my Like can you

535
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: just imagine how de First of all, how devastating this

536
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 1: whole situation has been for her, and then to hear

537
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: that people are literally showing off your husband's body parts

538
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: they like, and then and to know how gruesome the

539
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: crash site was. Like, so they awarded her sixteen million

540
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: dollars sixteen millions, thank you, and she said, awarded another

541
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:50,239
Speaker 1: one of the victims fifteen million dollars because that is

542
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 1: And I just thought, wow, that is Like she don't

543
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: need it. I'm like, I bet you she's gonna turn

544
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: around and donate that money somewhere, you know what I mean.

545
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: And it's not about the money, It's about don't do

546
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: it against a huge violation of my family, of my

547
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: mental health, Like, well this is what this was it

548
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: for me? When I saw walking in the court house

549
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: with her Monica and Sigarrow, right, was coming in in

550
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: a posse. When you're bringing your girls to with you,

551
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: and you know Monica like Manca's is she kind of

552
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: street a little bit. She she had all her glasses,

553
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: she had a head cock to the side. They was

554
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 1: all dressing black. I said, oh, they're coming. I was like, yes,

555
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: I kind of wanted to join the group. They didn't

556
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: ask me, but anyway, I was like, yes, yes, yes, yes.

557
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 1: They had her back and she needed it. They said

558
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: she broke down sobbing when the verticals. Yeah, I'll be

559
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: crying too. Well, they had to do the all all

560
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 1: the discovery and having to show in the beginning all

561
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: those pictures. She was breaking down. Well, they said she

562
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: would leave, Oh, she would leave, She would leave. She

563
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: needed her girls. Yeah. It's like when people were there

564
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: like describing like what was what the site looked like,

565
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Okay, So, Robin, if you have to

566
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: go to court, I have your back, and we're gonna

567
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: color coordinate. Yes, and we're gonna walk in like Charlie

568
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 1: Angel style. We're gonna be We're gonna full glam. Okay,

569
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: we're gonna be looking amazing. Hopefully this will never happen exactly.

570
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: You sound too excited. Okay, So I want to follow

571
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 1: up on my UM air conditioner situation, the loud air

572
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: conditioner return. Huh okay, so I'm a really big idiot.

573
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: Why so somebody d M me and they were like,

574
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: my husband and I wish under your name thank you

575
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: for d M and me I did thank her. Um

576
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: so she d M men was like, my husband works,

577
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: you know, he does HB A C stuff, and UM

578
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: have some suggestions for you. She's like, you know, the

579
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: first one maybe need to change your filter. And I

580
00:31:55,200 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: was like okay, duh Like that was just like like duh, okay,

581
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: wait minute, the filter is connected to because that was

582
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: just your A C. So your A C? What was

583
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: the A C sound? So the A C sound was

584
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: just like you know, it was just okay, like when

585
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 1: my A C would turn on, it's just like okay,

586
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: like loud, right okay. And imagine that sound is because

587
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: my filter is freaking full of dust and the air

588
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 1: cannot get through the damn filter. That it's loud to

589
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: ship all right. So I changed my filter and guess what,

590
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: it's quiet. I have peaceful nights like no, but you

591
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: also had the fan situation, so the fan. So then

592
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: with the fan situation, now I turned the fan on first,

593
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: and I turned it on level four instead of level six,

594
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: and level four it's much. It's it's still you still

595
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: get a nice air circulation and puts you off, but

596
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: it's not as loud. Okay, good, good, good good and

597
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: wine it's okay, he's good. He said. It wasn't like

598
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: this ain't loud. Let me turn it up like he

599
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: hasn't done that. He hasn't said okay, speaking of wine.

600
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: And I know we're digressing because the basketball there's this

601
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: um okay, you had two things to say and then

602
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 1: I'll come back to the basketball. Go ahead, okay, don't

603
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 1: forget okay. So secondly, I talked about like the photos

604
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: on my pictures on my phone, and I have to

605
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: go through these photos. People have given me suggestions. There's

606
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: apps that help you like clean out your phone and

607
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: it'll like eliminate duplicates. And you know, it's like they said,

608
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: it's like a like a tender. You can swipe right,

609
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: swipe left. You know there's an that there's an app

610
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: for that. So let me tell you the name of

611
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: that app. Okay. It's two of them that I've gotten

612
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: suggestions for, and thank you to people who sent me.

613
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: This is you know, this is why I love this podcast. Yes,

614
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 1: because people help us. Yes, we talk about our issues,

615
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: our issues, and people are like, oh got you, yeah,

616
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: I got you? Okay, where the hell did it go? Okay.

617
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: One of them is called Get Sorted, get to It Okay,

618
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: So you download that app and then it helps you okay,

619
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 1: and then I'll help you like clean out your photos

620
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: and stuff. And then the other one is called clean

621
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: Up clean Up. Okay. I like that apps. Somebody, Oh

622
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 1: my god, somebody messaged me and said they had thirty

623
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: five thousand pictures in there. How do you like? What

624
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 1: are you taking pictures of? Listen. I was in the

625
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: gym and the woman was in the mirror in the

626
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 1: gym taking selfies. I was like, you got about forty

627
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: you got about at least because you're crazy. Um okay.

628
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,800
Speaker 1: So I was watching there's a there's a series on

629
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Speaker 1: Netflix called Untold. It's untold stories, right, and most of

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Speaker 1: them are um sports related. So it was the untold

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Speaker 1: story of a one I mean not a one and

632
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 1: one and one and see how much I'm into sports.

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Speaker 1: It was untold story and one which I didn't know,

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Speaker 1: like I didn't know how it started and all that

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00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: kind of stuff. And I didn't know about the whole

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Speaker 1: um street ball, Like how I know about street ball,

637
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: but I didn't know how it started. So it was

638
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Speaker 1: like amazing. One would love it. So I'm gonna watch it.

639
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: You kids would love it. So anybody who's like into

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00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 1: basketball at all down watch and one and it's part

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00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:03,879
Speaker 1: of the Told series on Netflix. That'll be fun because

642
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 1: I remember being, you know, younger, and that was like

643
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: and one was like it was a big deal, huge, huge,

644
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: and and those boys didn't get no money. But that's

645
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: a home yes, um. And then if you're gonna watch that,

646
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: you might as well watch the thing about man Ti Til.

647
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: He's a football player. He played for Notre Dame. He's

648
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 1: from Hawaii and then he went on to play for

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00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: uh for the Chargers. But he was like one of

650
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: the first people that were catfished. He was catfished. So

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00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: that whole story and how that broke down was beyond insane.

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00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna want I want you to watch it, and

653
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: then we're gonna talk about it next time. It's very compelling.

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00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: So watch that's untold. Yeah that's untold too. So those

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Speaker 1: are the two that you gotta watch. Got it? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So somebody sent us before we get into where we're

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Speaker 1: about to get into, somebody sent us a note saying, hey,

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Speaker 1: Robin and Jizou, I love the Green Eye bandit. Thank you.

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00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: I have a question of a possible show idea. Okay,

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Speaker 1: would you ever do a wife slash parents swap? So

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00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: this is really parents parents Okay, so one has to

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00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: leave that, okay, Um, I think it'd be entertaining to

663
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: see Giselle as a boy mom and Robin as a

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Speaker 1: girl mom. Pitch to Andy Cohen and see what he says. Okay,

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00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: so it is super cupid, could you okay? For I

666
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 1: think you would have an easier time being a girl

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Speaker 1: mom than me being a boy mom. I believe that too,

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00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 1: but well especially, I mean your girls are pretty much

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Speaker 1: self sufficient, like, so they don't even need me at

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Speaker 1: this point. Well, I mean yeah, but they would because

671
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: they're gonna ask you questions about boys and you know that,

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00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: you know, they want to go get their nails done

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00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,240
Speaker 1: and shopping and all that stuff. But now, like they're driving,

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00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: you know what, Grace is driving, and they have Uber

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00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: and they have you know, they can do that. But

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00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 1: you're dealing with the emotions. Okay, okay, that'd be interesting. Yeah,

677
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: and you're not really an emotional person. I'm not, so

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00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: I'll just be like, um, suck it up, and that's

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00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: what right, That's that's what I do. It's a problem.

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Speaker 1: It's problematic in my house because they're like, mom, you

681
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: don't care about anything. I'm like, suck it up, buttercups. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: it won't be any different. I know that's probably a problem. However,

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Speaker 1: me getting over here to these boys, that would be

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Speaker 1: a problem. We I mean they wrestle me and yes,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm like they're I'm like their their buddy,

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Speaker 1: Like I am like one of the guys. No way,

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Speaker 1: oh no, they I can't wrestle with them, or I

688
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 1: would not to wrestle with them. I don't want to

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00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: wrestle with anyone. We were getting down and dirty and

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00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: we're getting yes, no, oh, that would that would totally

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00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: not work for Carter and Corey would be calling you

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00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 1: every five minutes like, ma, come get us because Gell's horrible.

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00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 1: I'd be trying to put them to bed. They couldn't

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Speaker 1: be able to play like their games, their PlayStation games,

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00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: they wouldn't be able to play that. They would they

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00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: would look at you like you're crazy. Like they would

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Speaker 1: have to get up in the morning, and because I know,

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00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 1: I feel like to sleep, like to sleep, they would

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Speaker 1: get up and we would have stuff we would do

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Speaker 1: because you got me and the girls get up, We

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00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: got we do a million things. And yeah, oh they

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00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: would be mad at me. Okay, so that would be

703
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: kind of cute. That would be funny. Okay, so that

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00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: would be funny. We'll run that past and we'll see

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Speaker 1: what the Cohen says. I feel like they should do

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00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: that for like almost like every franchise. Well, this would

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Speaker 1: be a separate show, no I know, Okay, so it

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00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 1: would be a separate show, and they and they should

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00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 1: like one episode would be Robin and Ju switching houses,

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Speaker 1: and another one would be I don't know, Kenya and

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Speaker 1: Candy switching terrible you know what I'm saying. Okay, not

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00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: not terrible, but like Kenya doing the little baby blaze

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Speaker 1: and then well Raleigh's gone, right, maybe Riley can come

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Speaker 1: home for that. Yes, yeah, you know what I'm saying, like,

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00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: so they should and then you know, go to New

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Speaker 1: Jersey and have I don't know who has Teresa and

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00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: Jackie switched houses or Jennifer Aiden you know, yes, yeah,

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00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 1: that would be cute. That's cute. Okay, you're welcome, Andy,

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Speaker 1: we have more shows you. Oh. Yes, this was Ashley

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Speaker 1: Smith and she is from She is ash from Silver Spring. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so thank you, ash And you won't be getting a

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Speaker 1: cut well yes, maybe, Okay, alright, so this is what

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Speaker 1: we love, which is somebody send us in um and

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Speaker 1: they need to know whether something is reasonable or Okay,

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00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna read it. I'm Daniel from St. Louis

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Speaker 1: and I'm a huge fan of the podcast and of

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Speaker 1: r h P. Always look forward to my Monday neighborhood

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Speaker 1: walks listening to Reasonably Shady. Oh that's so nice. Thank

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Speaker 1: you walking around the neighborhood listening to us. I have

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Speaker 1: a question on whether I was being reasonable or shady

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Speaker 1: in this particular situation. Okay, here we go. I just

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Speaker 1: moved to a new apartment a few weeks ago and

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Speaker 1: absolutely love it. The problem is my upstairs neighbor is

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Speaker 1: not too fond of the music. I blast around my place.

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Speaker 1: I totally understand being noisy late at night or early mornings,

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Speaker 1: but I don't see an issue with playing loud music

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Speaker 1: in the middle of the afterno I was getting ready

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Speaker 1: for work at one PM and received an email later

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Speaker 1: on from my leasing office that my neighbor had complained

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Speaker 1: about my music being too loud quote during the day.

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Speaker 1: I decided to leave this letter, and they attached the

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Speaker 1: letter for us. So we're gonna get to the letter

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Speaker 1: in a minute. Um on my neighbor's door the following

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Speaker 1: day was this reasonable, shady or team too much? Okay?

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00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: If you gotta ask, if it's much too much? Okay?

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00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: All right, So this is the letter he left on

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Speaker 1: the neighbor. Neighbor, okay, Hello, the leasing office informed me

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Speaker 1: of a noise complaint for my unit quote during the

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Speaker 1: day yesterday. I was confused about why this was an issue,

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Speaker 1: given that my lease states that the tenant should refrain

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Speaker 1: from excessive noise from ten PM to eight a m.

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00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 1: Okay attached its section four of my lease agreement for

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Speaker 1: your convenience in case you need a refresher, and I'm

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Speaker 1: also reminded the leasing office of this. I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: if you work from home or are unemployed from a home,

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00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: but it's never but it's never my intention to be inconsiderate.

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00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 1: But I'm also not going to be told what I

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00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: can and cannot do where I paid the bills, especially

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00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: when I'm not violating any least provisions. I will continue

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00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: to be mindful of the noise levels during late nights

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00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 1: and early mornings, but it's pretty irrational to expect quietness

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00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 1: in the middle of the afternoon. Hopefully we all are

763
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,720
Speaker 1: on the same page going forward, so this subject should

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Speaker 1: no longer warnt any more. Conversation, have a blessed day,

765
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: not to have a blessed day, blessed day conversation. He said,

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00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: this conversation is over, and okay, he said, so this

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Speaker 1: is shady thing. I think it's reasonable. Why is that?

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00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, okay, which part is reasonable? Which part

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Speaker 1: that heats that he addressed? First of all, it's reasonable

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Speaker 1: that he addressed it directly with that person. I think

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00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: it's okay, gosh, I think it's still definitely reasonable, But

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's shady that he basically said you

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00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: are unemployed to den be and okay. So I think

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00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: it's reasonable because he's He's like, we don't need to

775
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 1: do this back and forth between the leasing office. This

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00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: is what my lease agreement says. I'm pretty sure that's

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00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: what your agreement says. And you know, have at it.

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00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 1: If you work from home during the day, well that's

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00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: your problem, you know what I'm saying, Like a lot

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00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: of people do, right, so, so al right, So to

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00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: involve the leasing office in something that honestly they can't

782
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: do anything about, it's pointless. The only thing that that

783
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: person could have done is probably left him a note

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00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 1: and say, hey, I know that you know quiet hours

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00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: aren't until ten pm, but I do work from home.

786
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: Do you mind just dropping your noise down a little bit?

787
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: I think that I think the person that emailed us

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00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:00,080
Speaker 1: would have been a little more receptive to that. And

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00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,919
Speaker 1: the guy going to the leasing office. Very true, very true.

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00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 1: But because you like, you went to the principal's office

791
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: exactly right, when you could have just come to me

792
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: and been like, hey, what's this blah blah blah. So

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00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,879
Speaker 1: I think it's reasonably that he was like, yeah, um,

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00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: I heard you talking ship and I don't appreciate you

795
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 1: talking ship behind my back. You could have just come

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00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: to me. And by the way, you know that I

797
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: ain't break any rules. So in the story and if

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Speaker 1: you see section eight dash twenty four of the leasing book,

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00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: then you know I ain't break no rules. Bitch, right,

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Speaker 1: have a blessed day. I mean I do love the

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00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 1: Okay he could have the shady part was the whether

802
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: you're employed at home or unemployed at home the other

803
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 1: you could have left that part out. I mean, now

804
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: what if he's like, what if the person is like, um,

805
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: you know if they work a night shift, yes, and

806
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: they need to sleep during the day. So that's what

807
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: I say. I feel like it's hard because you can't

808
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: what can you really do about that? I don't know

809
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 1: in the agreement is talking about. So the agreement, the

810
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: least agreement pretty much says like you can make excessive

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Speaker 1: noise all day until until tempo and they got turned off.

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00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm with that. But my thing is like,

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00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 1: these apartments needs to be built with the caalls, okay,

814
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 1: so we don't have these issues, okay because we're installation

815
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: in them. Yeah, because you're hearing a whole lot from

816
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 1: your neighbor that you don't want to hear all kinds

817
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: of noises. Okay, so the person above them, what do

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00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: you think that they responded? Like, So, if I'm the

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00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: person above and I received that letter, and if I

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00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: received that letter and say I worked the night shift. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Now let's say I work the night shift at a

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Speaker 1: hospital COVID, yes, and I come home and I got

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Speaker 1: this letter from the dude downstairs to tell me have

824
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: a blessed day, and I'm trying to get some sleep

825
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: before I go back to the hospital to deal with

826
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 1: people who have COVID. I'm mad, I'm mad. So do

827
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: you just send a letter back to it's say at

828
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Speaker 1: this point, I think, say, okay, I understand what's in

829
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Speaker 1: the least agreement, but this is my situation, and it

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Speaker 1: would be such a blessing. Yes, since you want me

831
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Speaker 1: to bless my day, such a blessing. It was such

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00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: a blessing from you if you were a little if

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00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: you kept that in mind and just looked out for me. Yeah,

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00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 1: now I can preciate that. How loud is the music?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know at this point. They need

836
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: to get noise canceling headphones upstairs. Well, you either need

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Speaker 1: to do that or like move to a different place, right,

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Speaker 1: that's what you need to check when you move into

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Speaker 1: these apartments. How thick of the walls. But I bet

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Speaker 1: things changed with COVID with people working from home, like

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Speaker 1: that wasn't a concern. Everybody works from home, right, But

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, yeah, now it's a concern. Oh yes, because

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Speaker 1: because now they're working from home when maybe before they were,

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Speaker 1: they weren't home, so they didn't this noise didn't bother them.

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Speaker 1: And then I'm sorry, Mr letter writer, why are you

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Speaker 1: in the day? Are you unemployed from home? Daniel? Are you?

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Speaker 1: Are you employed or unemployed at home? Let us know?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Okay, that is our episode. Don't ever

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Speaker 1: forget to live your life? Reasonable what's your dude about?

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Speaker 1: And have a blessed day. Goodbye bye. Reasonably Shady is

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