1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo our chief love Officer, 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This one's from charae Clo in East Point 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: charin East Point Rights. My team beat my husband's team 4 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: in a game of charge, and he's still mad at 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: me a week later, saying we cheated and I laughed 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 1: in his face. If I had won, he would have 7 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: done the same thing. I hate a sore loser. Why 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: is he still whining. 9 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 2: Because he lost? Because he lost? 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 3: It's a card game, exactly in the words of my daddy. 11 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 3: You have two choices here. You can either get over 12 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 3: it or you can die mad. And didn't make him 13 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 3: no difference. 14 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 4: Your dad was a card player. 15 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 2: You could take this to the grave, which you if 16 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: you want to die mad, I don't care. 17 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 3: That's really It's a card game. Yeah, what we're talking 18 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 3: about here. They must have cheated though, well you know 19 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 3: if you play me, I'm telling you right now listen 20 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 3: to don't come over here and expect this to be 21 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 3: done fairly. 22 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 2: That ain't what I do. 23 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 3: We know you car what what you want to play? 24 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 3: Come over and let me ask y'all something. This is 25 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 3: how good I am. Y'all know I cheat? Have you 26 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 3: ever busted me. 27 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:35,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you haven't call it. You ain't by 28 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: in Africa. You didn't bust You didn't bust me. Cheating. Okay, okay, 29 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 2: tell me what I did? You were that day? 30 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: Cards? 31 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 4: You were the cards you were. 32 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 3: I wasn't hiding no cards. I shoffer you no, no, no, 33 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: no no. When I did, I'm gonna win. I didn't 34 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 3: hide no card. I didn't give you what you needed 35 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 3: to win. I didn't hide they was all in day. 36 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: It comes under comes under the cheating umbrella, Steeve, whatever 37 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: you're talking about. 38 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 2: You know the fact that you didn't get no jokers 39 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 2: in no space. That wasn't that ain't over. 40 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 4: Would you doped the cards? 41 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 2: So you know? All right? 42 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: Moving on Cheater to Rayford Rayford in Detroit. Rayford writes, 43 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: I met the perfect woman and we clicked right off. 44 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: I finally went by her house, and I'm in awe 45 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: of how she's living. Her home looks like it was 46 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: taken from a page in a magazine. My home is 47 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: not as nice. Should I warn her before I invite 48 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 1: her over? 49 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 2: Yes? You got going on over there? 50 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 3: Got you gonna say, hey, look, Hill hadn't been to 51 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 3: your house. It's it's immaculate. I love it. 52 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. 53 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 3: I on the other hand, letting you know right now 54 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 3: I need a Roman's touch in my house. 55 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, that's good. 56 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all you got to do. And I'm open 57 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 3: to any suggestions you might have. I'm just I don't 58 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 3: I'm not a good organizer. I'm not a good decorator. 59 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 4: What does that mean? His house looks like. 60 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: He got stuff everywhere? He at his house. 61 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 3: His house looked like when you pull up at people 62 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 3: and they having a garage sell. 63 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: That's the house. 64 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 4: Stuff every year? All right? 65 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: Moving on to Layla and Chattanooga, Leila writes, my boyfriend 66 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: was asleep on my sofa when I got home from 67 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: work Monday. He said he wanted to avoid traffic. I'm 68 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: irritated because my roommate was there alone with my man. 69 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: I trust her, but not him. Why didn't he tell 70 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: me he was coming early. 71 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: Too through he was just tired. He was wanting to 72 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 2: beat the traffic. And why adn't he tell you he 73 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 2: was early? You know, just in case? You know? He 74 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: you got it? 75 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 3: You you you trust your girlfriend. You don't trust him? 76 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:20,679 Speaker 3: It take to the tangle. 77 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're fine though. 78 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 2: Let me tell you that man. 79 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, that's why he got over there early early. 80 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 3: Yes, sir, been trying to get over there, been trying 81 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 3: to find a way to be in that house with 82 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:37,919 Speaker 3: her by herself. 83 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,239 Speaker 2: Been trying went over the here and avoid traffic. 84 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 4: My man, he's just sleeping on the couch where she 85 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 4: walks in. 86 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 2: Fell asleep on the couch. Because what nothing happened? 87 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 3: Oh ohot, he made all that noise, all that rumbling around, 88 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 3: but she didn't come out the room. 89 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 4: Oh okay, the roommate, she didn't take them. 90 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 2: No, he shuffled about twenty minutes. 91 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: Do do. 92 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 2: Stuff to get her come out of the room. He shall. 93 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 4: Shame a saying it though. 94 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's his girlfriend's name. 95 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: Oh oh okay, all right he tried. Okay, last one, Steve. 96 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: This is from Kenny in Plano. Kenny writes, my wife 97 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: and I. My wife said, I'm too playful with the 98 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 1: stylists that work in our salon. I try to be 99 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: a peacemaker because they love to argue with each other, 100 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: even my wife. How do I get her to be 101 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: more pleasant with the stylist and less authoritative? 102 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:00,359 Speaker 4: She's a meaning? 103 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,799 Speaker 2: Wow? Who's a meaning? 104 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 4: His wife can you believe that that ain't your. 105 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 3: Job though, So you're gonna be extra nice to the 106 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 3: stylist because your wife and mind she find yes, Lord, 107 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 3: he tried to keep the peace. He's saying, no smock 108 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 3: when she be doing, when she's cutting or shampooing. 109 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 4: No smock. 110 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 2: Jeans. 111 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 4: What are they in there arguing about. 112 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. I ain't had hand so long I 113 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 2: can help that. 114 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 3: Oh the wife don't work. That she might though, because yeah, 115 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 3: I thought they was the owners. 116 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 4: Yeah, they are the owners. He says. 117 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: He tries to be a peacemaker because they love to 118 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: argue with each. 119 00:06:58,040 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 4: Other, even my wife. 120 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: So how do I get her to be more pleasant 121 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: with the stylist and less authoritative? 122 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 4: She's a meaning squez At. Okay, the stylists do work 123 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 4: in their salon. They do awn the salon. 124 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 2: You married her. 125 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 3: You know how she is, what you what you're seem 126 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 3: to do, she mean to you sometimes. 127 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: I had one of them get out though the salon. 128 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 4: All that gets out, that's their business. You're listening hard 129 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 4: morning show