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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hot.

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Speaker 2: Don't mess your head up.

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Speaker 3: Still run with these young bucks, Still running off that

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Speaker 3: What was I thinking? I wasn't what in my drinking,

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Speaker 3: Nobody was bumping. See y'all still got it. Boo boo,

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Speaker 2: I bet your daughter's perfect. He say it like he

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Speaker 3: My daughter isn't living yet at water village, idiot. Their

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Speaker 3: flows dumb, but that royalties are silliest. Now, somebody tell

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Speaker 3: these niggas I ain't fucking round father Maata vegas man.

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Speaker 3: We hold it down, living for the present, nigga, we

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Speaker 3: fuck futures. Sipping on some whiskey. These bitches drinking can

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Speaker 3: BOOCHA recession means no oppression. These niggas will shootcha Rio

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Speaker 3: de ja narro these bitches looking like Zusa talk with anacanas.

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Speaker 2: At least I'm being honest. I'm trying to turn these Kiki.

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Speaker 3: Fama's in the baby Mama's, Baby Mama's I'm your baby mama.

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Speaker 3: ain't save me, mama. Hey, welcome to the black Out

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Speaker 3: to his podcast, still Pillow for that new one. How

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Speaker 3: you doing, No, I'm your house ride, and of course

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Speaker 3: we always have my co host here. That's right, and

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Speaker 3: we are live on a Monday. Ready do some podcasting?

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Speaker 3: Can fight us on iTunes, Stitcher, Potomatic search the Black

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Speaker 3: Guy who Tips leave us five star reviews. You've been

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Speaker 3: doing so good this year with five star reviews, and we.

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Speaker 2: Love reading them.

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Speaker 5: We really do.

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Speaker 2: We really feel appreciated. Okay.

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Speaker 3: It helps us move up the charts. It shows people that, hey,

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Speaker 3: this podcast is highly recommended. Who is this podcast? What

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Speaker 3: is it about? Why they got so many good reviews? iTunes,

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Speaker 3: a Stitcher, man, I'm gonna check them out. And that's

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Speaker 3: what happens, guys. You guys are the reason.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then you can turn around and judge everybody else.

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Speaker 2: That hasn't left a five star reviews co Mom.

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Speaker 3: Of course, the official weabin of the show is the

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Speaker 3: unofficial sport a Bulletball Extreme And we can just get

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Speaker 3: right into the podcast. All right, guys, it's not a

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Speaker 2: Here, all right, It's just news, regular, regular day. Okay.

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Speaker 2: I did have a couple of random thoughts I wanted

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Speaker 3: Okay, First of all, I know they say men shouldn't

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Speaker 3: just think it's important that y'all know that I'm not

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Speaker 3: just a regular feminist. I'm such a good feminist that

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Speaker 3: I'm actually a fan of vocal fry in podcast.

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Speaker 2: So top that I know you aren't. What is vocal fry? Yes,

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Speaker 3: But I love that sound because that's how good of

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Speaker 3: a feminist science So top that cous poor websites should

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Speaker 3: blackout of dot coms. You just you don't have to

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Speaker 3: worry about that, sees, dot coms is how to get you, okay,

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Speaker 3: trying to type in PayPal, next thing, you know, typing

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, I know we get here dot com.

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Speaker 3: I just want to get like rich enough to be

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Speaker 3: you can still walk the street recognize that's a that's

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Speaker 3: that's nice. That's that might be a little too rich

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Speaker 3: I need to like that's more about fame than rich,

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Speaker 2: Okay, a white person would understand. And I mean it.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just a money thing. It's who you

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Speaker 3: White people have helped you out with your wealth at

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Speaker 2: I need to be like don cheato rich.

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Speaker 3: Like come out right what don like write what Don

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Speaker 3: Cheeto is, Well, he's like, man, fuck this shit.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm rich and I'm well taken care of

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Speaker 3: And Donald Trump is some bullshit. Like I want to

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Speaker 3: like Dave Chapelle's give Trump a chance rich. Now, I

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna turn white if I get rich.

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Speaker 5: I hope that is that what happens.

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Speaker 2: Nobody's told me, not signed enough for that me either.

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Speaker 3: I love my blackness at this right, guys, I'm just

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Speaker 3: glad that Kamala Harris wasn't smoking weed in black face

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Speaker 3: You know, I'll be waiting for that picture to come out.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's the only thing that could stop

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Speaker 3: I don't know the answer. I'm just general question. Can

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Speaker 5: I'm assuming yes, you.

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Speaker 2: You assuming they can have period X? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: They choose too.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'm I'm not a crip. I've never been

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Speaker 3: I know they don't mess with anything red, they don't

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Speaker 2: They get down?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, maybe you know more about it than me,

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Speaker 3: you miss and crypt, No, what're talking about?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but I'm just talking about like human nature,

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Speaker 4: people do have period sex.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if cryps do, though, because they are

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Speaker 2: So that's a lot going on down there and that and.

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Speaker 5: That makes sense. Oh, I got a random, random thought.

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Speaker 4: Ladies, let your man know that you love him. Twist

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Speaker 5: I meant nipple thirty.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, nipple thirty, nile thirty. It was not nipple o'clock.

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Speaker 4: That's what I was doing right there. God just on

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Speaker 2: Let's cover the news.

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Speaker 5: They ain't don't want to do the rubbing around.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into the news, guys. Okay, there's a lot

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Speaker 3: of big news going on. You heard about that bomb

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Speaker 6: Man called the Sedgewick County dispatcher started as a bomb threat,

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Speaker 2: a bomb trepp. Okay, what directly did he said?

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Speaker 6: He said, somebody told me there's a bomb in here.

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Speaker 2: You need to leave the building.

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Speaker 6: Well that's the nine one one call that led police

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Speaker 6: to the Home Depot at K ninety six and Woodlawns.

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Speaker 5: Someone there told staff they overheard the threat.

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Speaker 6: In the store's restroom.

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Speaker 5: Police did some investigating.

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Speaker 6: They learned it was not a bomb threat in a

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Speaker 6: because I'm fixing to blow it up.

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Speaker 6: One witness even said he laughed at the remark and

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Speaker 6: it became clear it was a misunderstanding. He said he

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Speaker 6: Officers did clear up the confusion with Home Depot, and

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Speaker 6: everyone here is laughing.

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Speaker 5: Now, somebody.

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Speaker 2: From this what are you saying?

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Speaker 5: Somebody white reported that, Yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Assuming a brother went in there to use the bathroom

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Speaker 3: and say I'm fixing to blow it up, y'all might

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Speaker 3: Some white people thought that was a threat. I mean,

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Speaker 3: it is kind of a threat you might want to leave,

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Speaker 3: but it's not the kind of threat that requires police response.

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Speaker 3: Come on, I mean, it's home depot. Y'all don't have

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Speaker 3: any like air fresheners in there or something.

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Speaker 4: I mean, and if I was about to blow it

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Speaker 4: blow it up, why would I make an announcement?

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Speaker 2: Right? I mean, it's good for him to have told everybody.

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Speaker 2: Never really the whole truth of any of it. No,

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Speaker 3: You know, people said she was locking up people's parents

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Speaker 5: Right. She actually didn't lock up a single solitary person.

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Speaker 4: They yeah, reading them with it kind of a motivation,

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Speaker 3: My thing is, like, why I frame a person that

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Speaker 2: Are we doing this again?

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Speaker 3: Like, if you're going to go take her down, stick

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Speaker 3: It's so dumb, like and then it's like then they go,

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Speaker 2: Because you don't tell the truth.

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Speaker 3: You tell as much of the truth that conveniently fits

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Speaker 2: They're the main people that be trying to.

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Speaker 2: They use shame all the time. They just don't want to.

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Speaker 3: They just don't like when it's wielded against people that

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Speaker 5: And you could see that that's what it's going to

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Speaker 4: That's why we talked about before. But a lot of

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Speaker 3: And the other part of it is she's number one

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Speaker 2: These motherfuckers is clean.

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Speaker 3: But everybody thinks of you like say I will vote

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Speaker 4: Right, And people asking like there's something wrong with you

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Speaker 2: You can complain all you want to whatever. I do

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Speaker 3: To support the lesser of the two evils, the person

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Speaker 3: that does the less harm, because if not, then you're

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Speaker 2: That's just stupid.

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Speaker 3: But like I said, I ain't trying to relitigate the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And a lot of it boils down to some

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Speaker 5: Like I said, this fucking repeat.

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Speaker 4: Sexism plays a major role into this, and this is

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Speaker 5: People will never talk about.

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Speaker 4: A lot of the women candidates that are coming out,

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Speaker 4: scrutinize him? Tell him the fucking pieces, pick apart every

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Speaker 5: Are we gonna do that?

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Speaker 4: Are we gonna every time he turned around constantly say

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Speaker 1: Like?

440
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,159
Speaker 4: Those are the questions that I have also, Are not

441
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,160
Speaker 4: know because he's a man, you're gonna throw your vote

442
00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,440
Speaker 4: in there, keep it fucking pushing. Ain't gonna be no

443
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 4: uh earn my boat and all that other bullshit. You're

444
00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:04,280
Speaker 4: gonna vote and keep it pushing. I don't care what

445
00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:07,160
Speaker 4: nobody says. But Jonna just freaked.

446
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,439
Speaker 5: Everybody the fuck out, and people was like, not a woman.

447
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:13,560
Speaker 3: It's also weird because it's the one time that liberal

448
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 3: people propose that there is no double standing for women

449
00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:19,840
Speaker 3: like this spen all this time being like, you know,

450
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:24,960
Speaker 3: me too, movement, pay women, trust black women, you know,

451
00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,560
Speaker 3: all that black girl magic, all that type of shit.

452
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,760
Speaker 3: You know, the typical like, I'm liberal, I support women,

453
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,639
Speaker 3: I believe in these causes. But it's always when a

454
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 3: woman tries to run for a job. And we've covered

455
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 3: studies before they say this. When a woman is campaigning

456
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,479
Speaker 3: for a job, she's looked at much more harshly. But

457
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 3: whenever a woman has a job, her approval ratings for

458
00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:47,880
Speaker 3: women who hold a job are always Hire the men

459
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,600
Speaker 3: because it's like, oh, they do the job competently, because

460
00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,120
Speaker 3: they were vetted so harshly to even get the job

461
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 3: that they're obviously qualified.

462
00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,920
Speaker 2: Donald Trump, we knew would be a horrible president.

463
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,639
Speaker 3: It didn't matter to people because at the end of

464
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,440
Speaker 3: the day, he has a dick and that is the

465
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 3: end of it, and that is what we're fighting against.

466
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,160
Speaker 3: And it doesn't matter if people don't want to feel

467
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,919
Speaker 3: that way. I really can't care about your feelings. This

468
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 3: is the reality. The reality is your feelings might be

469
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,920
Speaker 3: fragile and all this shit, But the truth is if

470
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 3: your feelings cause you to have a paralysis of analysis

471
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,919
Speaker 3: to say I will do nothing, then it will. The

472
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 3: default will be the baseline, which is Donald Trump.

473
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 2: You know.

474
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 3: And and Donald Trump is literally the worst president we've

475
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,280
Speaker 3: ever had. And I think some people are just happy

476
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 3: being losers. They're happy being like, at least I didn't

477
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:37,120
Speaker 3: pick them, as opposed to being like, let's pick somebody

478
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 3: and they hold their feet to the fire. Now that

479
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 3: being said, I'm not trying to put too much on

480
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 3: this on these motherfuckers. Because Hillary Clinton won by three

481
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:50,439
Speaker 3: million votes. Hillary Clinton is only the second most second

482
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 3: most popular presidential candidate of all time, number one being

483
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,399
Speaker 3: Barack Obama two thousand and eight, twenty twelve, Barack Obama

484
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:01,640
Speaker 3: won a popular vote by more than Hillary Clinton. Hillary

485
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 3: Clinton came in third third. She beat Donald Trump by

486
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 3: three million votes. So we're not talking about, to me

487
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 3: something where you have to go back to the drawing

488
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 3: board and redraw everything and all that stuff. I don't

489
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 3: think it's that serious. But I do find I do

490
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 3: find some of the critique to be so like kind

491
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 3: of misplaced, and the fact that they can't judge it

492
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 3: and critically say, what part of this is a harsher

493
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 3: stance on her because she is a black woman. I

494
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 3: wouldn't be surprised if a lot of the because a

495
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:36,199
Speaker 3: lot of the women in political positions.

496
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Speaker 2: Got that office through.

497
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 3: Either criminal enforcement or prosecution, things like this, criminal justice

498
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,879
Speaker 3: type things, because I think the way we view women,

499
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 3: we make those weeks ago, well no, no, no, a

500
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 3: woman can't be this unless she kind of proves she's tough.

501
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 2: You got to prove you're tough on crime.

502
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,880
Speaker 3: You're not gonna get up there and start crying, got emotions.

503
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 2: So it's like, you.

504
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,159
Speaker 3: Gotta be tough, you gotta be some type of you

505
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 3: know person that that that that's hards showing these people.

506
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 3: And I think that's also unfair in the first place,

507
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,120
Speaker 3: But you would have to take a big step back

508
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 3: and look at the whole picture that had that analysis,

509
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 3: and that's you know, that's that's not as hard. That's

510
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 3: not as easy as saying she didn't listen to Tupac

511
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 3: when she was in college, you know. Anyway, Steve Harvey

512
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:30,880
Speaker 3: speaking of dicks, Steve Harvey got interviewed about his interview

513
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 3: with Monique, his conversation with.

514
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Speaker 2: Monique by I think it was eu R. I don't

515
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Speaker 2: know what that stands for, but I got the interview.

516
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Speaker 7: I want to ask you, how do you balance your

517
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 7: success and, like you mentioned before, just keeping your integrity, integrity, integrity.

518
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 2: Oh this is sassy.

519
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 3: So they they put Sodier Boy on the screen and

520
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 3: then overlapped the audio to saying Drake or whatever said integrity. So,

521
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 3: I don't know, this might be a lot. Okay, I'll

522
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 3: try to finish this. I thought they were just gonna

523
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:09,360
Speaker 3: give us a straight.

524
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 2: Up interview, right like what hap to them. I didn't

525
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 2: know it was gonna be a saasvest. It's like this.

526
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Speaker 8: You know, social media has a tendency up. I mean,

527
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 8: you know, look, they specialize in thirty seconds sound bites,

528
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 8: and so probably what you're trying to get around is

529
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Speaker 8: you mentioned integrity in the statement that got out before.

530
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Speaker 4: The money game is called the integrity game, and we've

531
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 4: lost the integrity rying about the money.

532
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 2: Crumble.

533
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Speaker 1: If my children crumble, my grandchildren crumble I cannot, for

534
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: the sake of my integrity, stand up here and let

535
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Speaker 1: everybody that's counting on me crumble so I can make

536
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Speaker 1: a statement.

537
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Speaker 8: One thing I do regret, you know. I I really

538
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 8: wish when I was talking in uh heated exchange, that

539
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 8: I had chosen my words a little bit more carefully,

540
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 8: because it came out of the way I didn't intend

541
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Speaker 8: for it to be.

542
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 2: I don't want for.

543
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 8: Young people out there or people who consider me a

544
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 8: role model think that I've asked anyone to compromise their integrity,

545
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 8: which I I haven't.

546
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 1: For money.

547
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 8: What I was merely referring to is we kept harping

548
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:31,719
Speaker 8: on the the way that she had chosen to go

549
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 8: about doing the things she was doing, and I kept saying,

550
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Speaker 8: that's that's not the way. And so when I was

551
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 8: referred to integrity, I was talking about the method in

552
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 8: which they chose to go about what they were doing.

553
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 8: I just, uh, I misspoke, you know, and I have

554
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 8: to take responsibility to that. But in lighted that, I

555
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 8: just wanna make sure that young people and fans of

556
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 8: mine who count on me as a role model as

557
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 8: somebody they admire look up to, that they just understand

558
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 8: you know, charge that to my head and not to

559
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 8: my heart. That's not how I think or feel about

560
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 8: things at all. And it just kind of got away

561
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 8: from me a little bit. And so I learned something.

562
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Speaker 3: From it, all right, And I guess the sense of

563
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 3: electronic urban report or something like that.

564
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 5: It was very urban, DJ beat up Nath.

565
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 2: Talking very urban, if you know what I'm saying. As

566
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 2: far as as far as what he was saying, I mean,

567
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 2: I guess you could say, miss folks. I don't know.

568
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 2: I feel like he was in the heat.

569
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 3: Of the moment and maybe he wouldn't have said I

570
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,239
Speaker 3: think he was saying integrity because she said integrity. But

571
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 3: there were other things he said, like the best thing

572
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 3: you can do for poor people is not be one

573
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 3: and ship. And I don't think that was a slip

574
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 3: of the tongue or miss you know, like I think

575
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 3: the same the same way I felt last week. I

576
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 3: think that was a conversation that probably could have stayed

577
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 3: in the green room between friends. They decided to have

578
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 3: it in front of everybody, and the optics of it

579
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 3: looked terrible.

580
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 2: And and the.

581
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 3: End of the day, what was really weird or kind

582
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 3: of messed up is Uh, Monique shared a couple of

583
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 3: memes that essentially called him like a coon.

584
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: Over the weekend, and.

585
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I feel like people gasp Monique's

586
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 3: head up on the internet. But I wonder if these

587
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 3: people really support her or they just think it's like

588
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 3: men versus women gender wars, you know, yeah, cause I

589
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 3: mean to me, it looked like they were friends. They

590
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 3: hugged it out, and maybe I'm tripping and they weren't

591
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 3: friends and they're not really cool and it just was

592
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 3: made to look that way, and they actually really don't

593
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 3: fuck with each other like that.

594
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 2: I don't know.

595
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 3: She seemed to be cool at the end of the interview,

596
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 3: so then to go online and then take a couple

597
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 3: of shots at them, and it was obvious memes that

598
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 3: other people had made and she just shared on her page.

599
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 3: But I mean, they implied they essentially was a coon,

600
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 3: don't I don't know what you do with it. Like

601
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 3: I said, both of them are people that I'm like

602
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 3: never building an argument around again, because both of them

603
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 3: have like they're ups and downs with it, and they

604
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 3: both have these petty moments or selfish moments and stuff.

605
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 3: And with Monique, I've just come to conclusion that a

606
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: lot of her stuff is couched in like racial shit

607
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 3: and women and women shit. But then at the same

608
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 3: time she'll really say some shit that's really just about her,

609
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 3: like Roseanne was nice to me, so you black people

610
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 3: need to be nice to her. And I'm like, that's

611
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 3: not how this works, because that's not what you're telling us.

612
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 3: For this other stuff, we can't be like, you know,

613
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 3: Steve Harvey was nice to another black woman, so we

614
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 3: Oprah's nice to other people's except you, like, a lot

615
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 3: of it just seems to be ego at this point,

616
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 3: not I can't.

617
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't build a house on that sand.

618
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 4: So anyway, pregnant women are smoking and drinking and secret

619
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 4: because they're irritated by people judging them that.

620
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 2: I believe that, mm hmmm hmm.

621
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, I can definitely believe that.

622
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 3: I mean, one, it's hard to stop smoking, right, this

623
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 3: is an addiction. Yeah, I mean, I guess depends on

624
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 3: what you're smoking, but it's hard to stop smoking. And

625
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 3: then when people feel like when a woman is pregnant,

626
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 3: her body is like a temple, and now she's supposed

627
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 3: to have like this amazing discipline and self awareness and things.

628
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 3: She may have been smoking cigarettes her entire fucking life

629
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 3: for those ten months, she's supposed to be able to

630
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 3: quit cold turkey and everything, And I don't know that

631
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 3: that's that probably doesn't happen that much, but you know,

632
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 3: now you gotta hide it.

633
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 5: Yeah.

634
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 4: No, So I've never been pregnant, but the way people

635
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 4: treat pregnant women, people that like, you become pregnant and

636
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 4: all of a sudden your body is public property, like

637
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 4: literally public property.

638
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 5: They come touch on you and rib on you belly

639
00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 5: and pull up shirt and ask you all types.

640
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 4: Of personal intimate questions and just you know, you take

641
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 4: a drink, all of a sudden, everybody feels obligated to

642
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 4: tell you what to do with your body.

643
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 5: You can't do this, you can't do that, even if

644
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 5: even stupid shit like they used to have.

645
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 4: They just to tell Black women they couldn't get their

646
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 4: hair relax like when they was pregnant and shit like that,

647
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 4: you know, all types of fucking ridiculous myths that as

648
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 4: time went on, they was like, well, you know, no,

649
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 4: that's not true. You can actually function the same and

650
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 4: still be pregnant. Y'all do know that divide it don't

651
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 4: stop nothing.

652
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 2: You know, pregnant even for smoking, Well.

653
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 4: It can't affect things, don't get me wrong, but the

654
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 4: body still functions.

655
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 5: You know.

656
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 4: People that like you're just supposed to just shut down

657
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 4: and just stop everything just because you're pregnant.

658
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, apparently like they get a lot of pressure from midwives.

659
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 3: They were saying, So I'm not one hundred percent sure

660
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 3: what this is where people routinely have mid wives, but

661
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,959
Speaker 3: they said that at least that people feeling alienated at

662
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 3: awkward relationships. Victim blaming needs to end, researchers claimed, and

663
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 3: the stigma is more often based on a moral judgment

664
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 3: of the mother instead of a level of risk to

665
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 3: an unborn child. Right Smoking and drinking during pregnancy is

666
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 3: known to raise the risk of miscarriage or premature birth.

667
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: It can lead to disability in children.

668
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 3: There is a growing pressure on the government to take action,

669
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 3: at least at Latest figures show that ten point five

670
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 3: percent of English women are known to be smokers when

671
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 3: they give birth. Interventions to reduce smoking often rely midwives

672
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 3: identifying women who have the habit, but women are often

673
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 3: reluctant to disclose their habits because they're afraid of moral judgment.

674
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's the part that I mean, you know,

675
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 4: it is the fact that we're not really addressing it.

676
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 4: It's almost like you want to quote unquote shame like

677
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 4: say it's a moral thing.

678
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 5: How dare you smoke? How dare you drink?

679
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 4: Like you said your body is a temple when it

680
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 4: don't work like that.

681
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 3: The study at the University of Cardiff and involve ten

682
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 3: pregnant women from low income deprived areas of South Wales,

683
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 3: five of whom are smoked during pregnancy. The participants were

684
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 3: interviewed on their views and their own history was smoking.

685
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 3: Aside from strong advice from the NHS to not smoke

686
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 3: during pregnancy, many expected mothers do not hold back. One

687
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 3: participant who used e cigarette said, now I'm pregnant again,

688
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 3: I've started having a few.

689
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 2: Well over there they call them the.

690
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: F word, but cigarettes again. It's like I was rereading that, like,

691
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 3: what the fuck this? That's right? What kind of article

692
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 3: is this. It's like I've got a craving for smoke

693
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 3: or something. It's really weird.

694
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 2: I'm not a heavy smoker.

695
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 3: But I am in the house and I fancy like

696
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 3: a little sick or something, you know. Some women said

697
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 3: they were also judged negatively by their partners who did

698
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 3: not smoke, finding comments upsetting it a noise.

699
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 2: Well, I guess they were fucking you while you were

700
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 2: smoking and came in you. So I mean, that's kind

701
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 2: of you.

702
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 4: That could be an issue, right, And it's also one

703
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 4: of the things to to where I could say it's

704
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 4: more of a catch twenty two with that, because like

705
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 4: you say, nobody he actually really wants to address the addiction.

706
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 5: Everybody will go just put that cigarette down and put

707
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 5: that down. And you know, it's one of those things where.

708
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 4: It could be very difficult because when you get pregnant,

709
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 4: people think you're supposed to be just perfect, and there's

710
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 4: no such thing as.

711
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 5: A perfect pregnancy, you know, a perfect mom.

712
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and this is a weird one for me because

713
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 3: I would understand the trepidation of somebody that is like,

714
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 3: I'm your partner or I'm the midwife. I'm responsible for

715
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 3: doing all the best things for you to help you

716
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 3: bring this baby to term.

717
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 2: Right.

718
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 3: And one of the things is we know for a

719
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 3: fact that alcohol and smoking can have a negative effect

720
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 3: on the child, sometimes causing miscarriage and birth defects.

721
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 2: It would not.

722
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 4: I feel like it would be almost like, I don't

723
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 4: know how you wouldn't want to say something.

724
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 2: I just don't know.

725
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 3: I just I know you wouldn't want to be saying

726
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 3: in a fussy and nagging way and stuff like that.

727
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 3: I'm gonna, I'm gonna, you know, if you love and

728
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,239
Speaker 3: care somebody, you know, you try to hope that that

729
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 3: you know it's not like said in a mean way.

730
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 3: But I also do understand the impetus that want to

731
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 3: say something correct because it could affect your child.

732
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 4: Yes, And I'm not trying to say you shouldn't say anything,

733
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 4: and I'm not trying to say the.

734
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 5: Issue should not be addressed, because it should be addressed.

735
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 4: But are they talking about the way people are coming

736
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 4: at these women because for the fact that they feel

737
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,320
Speaker 4: like they have to quote unquote going on the ground,

738
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 4: there has been.

739
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 5: Some harshness towards this women that everybody's trying to ignore.

740
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 5: Everybody act like, oh, darling.

741
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 4: Just put the cigarette out, to people going put that

742
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 4: cigarette down, and just treating all types of ways and

743
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 4: people going like.

744
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 5: Other, fuck you. Then I just won't tell you like

745
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,359
Speaker 5: like and it's not every situation is like that.

746
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 4: But I could see situations being like that just from

747
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 4: it being such a negative atmosphere.

748
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure some would be like that.

749
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 3: It's only had ten participants in this study, only five

750
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 3: of them smoke, so it's a very small sample.

751
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:56,720
Speaker 5: Size, very small.

752
00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 4: One participant said, her husband and her partly and it

753
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 4: was like, you do know that's my child in there,

754
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 4: and I went, it's my body.

755
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 2: So it's just tough. So the participates in the study.

756
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 3: Said they were making immediate negative judgment of pregnant women

757
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 3: who smoked in public, but in their own home they

758
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 3: believe that it is acceptable.

759
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 2: A participant said, I just don't think it's good.

760
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 3: Looks good when they got you got a bump on

761
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,439
Speaker 3: show walking around with a cigarette in your hand.

762
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 2: If you want to do it in your own house,

763
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 2: that's fine.

764
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 3: When I was pregnant with my youngest daughter and eldest daughter,

765
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 3: I did smoke with them, but it was in my

766
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 3: own house. I never walked around out and about with one.

767
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 3: It's not the best look. Yeah, So that's really just

768
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,479
Speaker 3: trying to avoid the judgment because like that person thinks

769
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,919
Speaker 3: it's okay to smoke in private, which if you're talking

770
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 3: about the child's well being.

771
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,359
Speaker 2: It wouldn't matter when you when a where you smoked, right,

772
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 2: come on.

773
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 5: Like I said, and I think that that's what the

774
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 5: kids to it.

775
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 4: It too is because it's not really and it should

776
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 4: be about the health of the child. That's what this

777
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 4: should be about. But it comes more of how do

778
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 4: how does this?

779
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 3: It's like how people talk about overweight people where you

780
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 3: listen to the comments and you see what people say

781
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 3: online and then they'll hide it behind I'm talking about

782
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 3: your health. But really, but the harshness and the clowning

783
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 3: and the mists, like the visceral of it is not

784
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 3: how you talk to somebody who you care about. It's

785
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 3: how you talk to somebody you want to mock. So yeah,

786
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 3: I totally understand your point. The tone of the conversation

787
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 3: would matter a lot. Cigarettes can restrict the central oxygen

788
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 3: supply to the baby. As a result, the heart has

789
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,800
Speaker 3: to beat harder every time the mother smokes. Dangers include

790
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 3: increased risk of complications of pregnancy and birth, less likely

791
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 3: to have a healthier pregnancy and a healthier baby, increase

792
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 3: risk of still birth, baby more likely to be born

793
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 3: too early. I have to face additional breathing, feeding, and

794
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 3: health problems that often go with being premature baby more

795
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 3: likely to be born underweight. Babies of women who smoke

796
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 3: are on average about eight ounce is lighter than other babies.

797
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 2: This means they're more likely to struggle keeping warm and

798
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,959
Speaker 2: are more prone to infection increase risk of cot death.

799
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 2: Each year, smoking during pregnancy in the UK causes estimated

800
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 2: twenty two hundred premature versus twenty two hundred premature births,

801
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 2: five thousand miscarriages and three hundred steel verse.

802
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 4: Right and so, and that's it's a bigger problem than

803
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 4: just to pregnant women smoking. So we can sun up

804
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,280
Speaker 4: about them being predateed and smoking. Are we not concerned

805
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 4: about it being not predat and smoke?

806
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 2: Oh?

807
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 5: Pullf aull of cigarettes? You wont then?

808
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 2: I don't know about that necessarily.

809
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 3: I think people would, like I mean, people probably judge

810
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 3: smoking harshly no matter what, but I think when somebody's

811
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,720
Speaker 3: pregnant they probably judge it even more harshly.

812
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 5: Agree, you know what I mean?

813
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 3: And like I said, these are the same people that

814
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 3: had sex with these women in some cases, so it's

815
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 3: like they smoke. Yeah, now you're judging because you expect

816
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,320
Speaker 3: them to just magically change because they're pregnant.

817
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 2: Pregnant, right, and it's an addiction.

818
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 4: It's an addiction, like that's the part people have a

819
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 4: tendency to skip over.

820
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 5: Average person can't drop cold turkey.

821
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, please don't write us a long email about e

822
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 3: cigarettes or vapor and stuff.

823
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 2: Please, whoever's listen, no, thank you.

824
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 3: Researchers came to the conclusion that smoking is a stigmatized activity.

825
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 3: This stigma is not always related to the level of

826
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 3: risk of the fetus, and instead can be seen as

827
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 3: a moral judgment about women. We urgently need to move

828
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 3: to individualized neoliberal discourses about the failure of individual smokers

829
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 3: to a more social ecological view which avoids victim laymen.

830
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 3: Data from NHS Digital shows ten point five percent of

831
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,879
Speaker 3: English women are known to be smokers when they give birth.

832
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 3: This figure shoots up up to a quarter twenty four

833
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 3: point nine percent in the northeast Lincolnshire, at twenty four

834
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 3: point five percent in Blackpool and twenty three point three

835
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 3: percent in Mansfield and Ashfeld. At the time of the

836
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,720
Speaker 3: first pregnancy assessment, twenty one percent of women in Welles smoke. However,

837
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 3: the figures at least in December could be higher, as

838
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 3: women asking the questions might lie to avoid being judged.

839
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 2: Right, So, man, that's a lot of smokers.

840
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like I say, it's an addiction. And just

841
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 4: because you're pregnant does not mean that that's like women

842
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 4: on drugs.

843
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I do it.

844
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you keep reiterating. I'm not judging. I'm

845
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 3: just reading this thing. Uh, but yeah, I recognize it

846
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 3: as an addiction absolutely.

847
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:04,359
Speaker 1: Uh.

848
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 3: Ja Rue wants to create another iconic music festival.

849
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:14,280
Speaker 8: Mm hmm.

850
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 3: In the midst of the too, the second five mm hmm,

851
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 3: in the midst of the chaos as opportunity. I'm working

852
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 3: on a few things, j Rue said.

853
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: Uh.

854
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 3: He also defeated decided to fix his mouth to call

855
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 3: Firefest the most iconic festival that never was.

856
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 2: I had plans to create the iconic music festival.

857
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're conning.

858
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna be in jail NEXTEP keep sucking around

859
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:49,439
Speaker 4: who all gonna be there?

860
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:56,280
Speaker 2: That's why I need to know, because that's ridiculous. People

861
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: still giving him money, I hope not like y'all deserved

862
00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 2: A was your money? Honestly, I mean, how can I

863
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 2: how can I ever take you seriously if you would

864
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:10,800
Speaker 2: give this man money again after everything you just witnessed

865
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 2: this man do and get away with. I'm sorry, that's

866
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 2: ridiculous to me.

867
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 3: All Right, let's see what else is happening, what other

868
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 3: segments you don't.

869
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 2: Want to get into. Let me move this. Let's do

870
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 2: some motherfucking with black people. Okay, I'm wain't telling him going,

871
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 2: no music, me too, I hit play, Okay, therees, no

872
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 2: sound coming out.

873
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 9: Okay, So that's like, okay, we're just fucking with those

874
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 9: black people.

875
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 2: With just fucking with those blacks.

876
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 5: We're just fucking fucking with black people.

877
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 2: That's right, guys. It's time to play the game that

878
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 2: we all hate to play. It's fucking with black people

879
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 2: the game.

880
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 3: And we'll go all around the globe trying different article

881
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 3: four real time point scores Jill, Tiandrick and it was

882
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 3: twenty five.

883
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: Today's attested everybody.

884
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, like somebody said, the soundboard.

885
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 2: Is fucked with.

886
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 3: Apparely it's upset because we didn't have any blackface stuff today.

887
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 2: White people.

888
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 5: Oh, we don't not nomally something every day this.

889
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 4: Month, white people took the day off for President's Day.

890
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 4: We'll see the day ain't over an ex West Virginia

891
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 4: official who made racist Michelle Obama remark defrauded FEMA boy

892
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 4: eight eighteen thousand dollars.

893
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 5: She going to jail.

894
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 2: I don't know if she's going to jail, but it's

895
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 2: kind of interesting.

896
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 3: A former West Virginia official who lost her job in

897
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 3: twenty sixteen after she referred to then first Lady of

898
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 3: Michelle Obama as an ape, has aptured headlines again after

899
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 3: she pleaded guilty to defraud the Federal Emergency Management Agency

900
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 3: out of thousands of dollars intended.

901
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 2: For flood victims welfare Queen h According.

902
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 3: To the local paper, Pamela Taylor, the former director of

903
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 3: Clay County Developmental Court, a development court, pleaded guilty earlier

904
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 3: this week to take him over the eighteen thousand dollars

905
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 3: in relief benefits from the agency intended to help those

906
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 3: whose homes were damaged in twenty sixteen floods that ravished

907
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 3: regions of the state. She's fifty seven. She wrongfully registered

908
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 3: for benefits and fossily claimed that her home had been

909
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 3: damaged by the floods. She was forced to live in

910
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 3: a rental property, but it was later reported leave we

911
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 3: discovered that Taylor's primary residence was undamaged by the flood,

912
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 3: and she was still living there. She also reportedly faces

913
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 3: up to thirty years in prison additional to in addition

914
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 3: to a maximum fine of five hundred.

915
00:42:55,120 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 2: Thousand, go ahead, lock her up.

916
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 5: I was about to say, you thought I was gonna

917
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 5: play the music.

918
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 2: Play what music?

919
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 5: The happy music? We play with somebody get locked up?

920
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 2: Oh well, she ain't going to jail. Yeah, I mean

921
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 2: she could face up to thirty years in jail. I

922
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: guess we can.

923
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,399
Speaker 3: I mean, shit, I'm not celebrating ship till they send

924
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 3: it her because they got they could absolutely.

925
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 5: Be like, no time in jail.

926
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 3: No time in jail, just pay back eighteen thousand. Sorry inconvenience,

927
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 3: you white lady. You know so, I'm gonna wait, she

928
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 3: go to jail, we'll revisit this shit.

929
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 5: No true, true, true, true true.

930
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 4: My bad, because at first I thought you were saying

931
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 4: she was going to jail. But then I was like, no,

932
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 4: you're not saying she's going.

933
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 3: She faces up to me, you know, up to zero

934
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 3: to thirty Takagi sixty nine faced up to and you

935
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:48,720
Speaker 3: knowing no time anyways, z T one hundred oh one hundred.

936
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 3: I would give it one hundred as well.

937
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 5: Trash, yes, trash.

938
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 3: They always coming after Michelle Obama too, and it's all

939
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 3: they It's always the same nass type of lady, somebody.

940
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 2: That don't hold a candle to our queen, and she'd

941
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 2: be up to I hate.

942
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, what do you look like though, you fucking

943
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 3: trash heap of a human being. You're like a face

944
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 3: dumpster and you're fucking talking shit about Michelle Obama as

945
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 3: if anyone get the fuck.

946
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 2: Out of my face.

947
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 3: Ugh, I always look like large Marge from fucking Pee

948
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,399
Speaker 3: Wee Herman and shit. And then they got some nerve

949
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:30,800
Speaker 3: to talk bad about Michelle Obama, who's a fucking fitness.

950
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 5: Goddess, come on, work out every day.

951
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,799
Speaker 3: Fuck out of my god, man, I hate that's that

952
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 3: white supremacy.

953
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 7: Man.

954
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: It be a little shit to get to me. It

955
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 2: don't really be a big shit. It beat a little shit.

956
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, who the fuck are you? You know, like

957
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:46,280
Speaker 2: it's just that little shit anyway.

958
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 3: Like I saw a white dude on Twitter to day

959
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,240
Speaker 3: to talk about he could hang with w NBA players

960
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 3: because he's played pick up basketball with the staff of

961
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 3: the Washington Wizards, not the actual Washington Wizards, y'all staff man.

962
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 5: Women would give you the fucking business.

963
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 2: And of course he was a white dude, and I

964
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 2: was like, just some mediocre white dude.

965
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 3: I was like, the confidence of a mediocre white man

966
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 3: must be so fucking intoxic. They must feel like being

967
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:15,439
Speaker 3: on cocaine all the time, all the time. Dog, how

968
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 3: can you even pick your mouth to say that? Guarantee

969
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 3: you he's never played against no w NBA players I have.

970
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,879
Speaker 3: It's not a picnic dog. They will mop your ass

971
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 3: up off that floor so fast. What especially if you

972
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 3: try to talk some shit on some like cause you

973
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 3: gotta consider these women get tested every time some dude

974
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:34,720
Speaker 3: sees them on a court.

975
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 5: You know they do? You know they do? I got

976
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 5: a dick. She'd be like, we're I do this for

977
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 5: a fucking living. Come on, like.

978
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 3: Every Tyler John and Trayvon well, let's not say tray ViOn.

979
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 2: I know that's siate it with something bad.

980
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 3: But uh, tyrese sees these women and thinks, I'm gonna

981
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 3: fucking lock her down, I'm gonna score over her show,

982
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 3: put her in a place.

983
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 2: And they've been doing that since they picked up a basketball.

984
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:01,439
Speaker 5: They but chilledren a lot of them.

985
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 3: Like I know, it's a big ass tangent. Has nothing

986
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 3: to do with gainst the race. I mean with fuck

987
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 3: with black people.

988
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 2: But one time me and my dad, my dad was

989
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,240
Speaker 2: probably about fifty.

990
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 3: Something at this time, I was like twenty something, twenty

991
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 3: eight or so, and my dad came to the YMCA

992
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 3: to play pick up with us. And my dad's always

993
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 3: been a really good back shooter, and you know, and

994
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:25,919
Speaker 3: when you oh, you know, you can still shoot dog

995
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 3: like they don't. They don't change shit like you live

996
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 3: them open as wet. So he was out there, I'm like, okay,

997
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 3: I'll play with my dad. And then that was back

998
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 3: when the WHI was extremely competitive. I'm talking David Wesley,

999
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 3: Blue Edwards, Steph Curry, Seth Curry, a bunch of college

1000
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 3: in high school motherfuckers will come out there and they

1001
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,479
Speaker 3: and they were they were like ball. People would stack

1002
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,879
Speaker 3: their teams, put like five good players on one team,

1003
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 3: or the five dudes on David Wesley's dick that week

1004
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 3: would be on his team, and shit, and they would

1005
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 3: just stack the fucking teams and you know, try to

1006
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 3: Everybody would give it their best shot and it was

1007
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,479
Speaker 3: hard to win in that while it is the Harris

1008
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 3: YCA and it be like forty fifty people in that

1009
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 3: for two courts at times, so you lose, you gotta

1010
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:14,399
Speaker 3: wait a while and all this stuff. So my dad

1011
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 3: and I signed up, and it was funny because the

1012
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,879
Speaker 3: other guys in there all kept stacking their teams trying

1013
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 3: to avoid playing like they wanted to play together. It's

1014
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 3: one that had us, so they would see like us

1015
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 3: and then uh, they didn't want to play with me

1016
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 3: and my dad at the time, and uh, we were

1017
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 3: the only two people in that cause my dad just

1018
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 3: wants to play, right, So it was no need for

1019
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 3: us to wait on the team. And so we were like,

1020
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,839
Speaker 3: we'll just playing with the next games available. But there

1021
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 3: were also these three women who were in town. They

1022
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 3: were extras on the movie Jouanna Man. I don't know

1023
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 3: if y'all remember Joana Man.

1024
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:51,399
Speaker 2: Yes, I do, uh so.

1025
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 3: Juana Man is about a w a man who pretends

1026
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,799
Speaker 3: to be a WNBA player and becomes the best, one

1027
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:00,839
Speaker 3: of the best WNBA players in the league and all

1028
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 3: the shit. Anyway, they were just extras. I know one

1029
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 3: of them played. I think they all played in the

1030
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 3: w n B A.

1031
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,919
Speaker 4: At one point time, wasn't they Yeah, but they didn't

1032
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 4: play for the sting.

1033
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 3: They all played in the w NBA at one point

1034
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 3: in time either, uh I know, one don't play for

1035
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 3: a Seattle's team. One don't play for like a like

1036
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,879
Speaker 3: a Minnesota don't want to say links or something like that.

1037
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 3: So anyway, they all played and they were just extras

1038
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 3: in this movie because they needed basketball playing women to

1039
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 3: do the scenes.

1040
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 2: So after they would get done shooting their scenes, they.

1041
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 3: Come to the wide play ball or lyft weights or whatever.

1042
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,719
Speaker 3: So nobody wanted to play with them because they were women.

1043
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 4: So they played with me and my dad and it

1044
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 4: was us five and you know, you're talking about.

1045
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 2: A fat dude, an old man and three women, and

1046
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:53,799
Speaker 2: we ran the motherfucking court. We ran at court all day,

1047
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 2: like we left when we were just tired of winning.

1048
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 3: Like it wasn't like somebody beat us and ship. It

1049
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 3: was just like, Okay, we won enough, no one's gonna

1050
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 3: beat us.

1051
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 2: We might as well go home.

1052
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 3: And it was every level of fragile male ego out there.

1053
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 3: It was the you know, they sorry, they wait till

1054
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 3: we get out there.

1055
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:12,280
Speaker 2: And then it was also this.

1056
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 3: Thing where as we would win because there were so

1057
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 3: many people in the gym watching, people started rooting for

1058
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 3: our team to beat all the other teams because then

1059
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,479
Speaker 3: they would clown the teams like like, oh you letting

1060
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 3: this girl cross you over? You let her and more

1061
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 3: importantly than like just their individual skill sets, but they

1062
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,839
Speaker 3: I've never played. That's probably a top five basketball day

1063
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 3: for me in my life because I'm playing with people

1064
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 3: that they're naturally unselfish, right, they're smart. There's no ego

1065
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 3: about the basketball, like you, whoever got the whoever has

1066
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 3: the ball in the best position to do something, who's

1067
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 3: getting the ball right. There was no like you know,

1068
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 3: when you play with men, there's like always this ego

1069
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 3: battle of you know, like this James Harden things. So

1070
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 3: one guy's kind of good, so now he wants everyone

1071
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 3: to stand around to watch him shoot off shots and

1072
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 3: shit like that. Men also do this thing where they

1073
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 3: fuck up and they.

1074
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 2: Immediately blame somebody else. Happens every day at.

1075
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,240
Speaker 5: The why right, Women are more apt to be my bag.

1076
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I mean I'm not saying it's necessarily quote

1077
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 3: unquote good in life, but it's good because you end

1078
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 3: up being a more balanced human being. Right when I

1079
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 3: make a mistake, there's accountability. And also these facts that

1080
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 3: these women are professionals. They've been trained into like, hey,

1081
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 3: you would have done this, that would have worked if

1082
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 3: you you know, you knew you didn't box out. A

1083
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 3: coach was going to tell you didn't box out. They're

1084
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:34,439
Speaker 3: not gonna be like you know. So we ended up

1085
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 3: winning and it was all like natural, Like once they

1086
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 3: realized my dad could shoot, they were like giving him

1087
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 3: the ball, setting picks for him, having him come off

1088
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 3: of screens. Shit that never happens with dudes, like it

1089
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 3: so rarely happens, Like you have to play with dudes

1090
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 3: so many years before they start being like, oh, if

1091
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:52,879
Speaker 3: I said this guy's scream, we'll get him off the pick.

1092
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 3: The other guy, I'll trust him to make the past.

1093
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,399
Speaker 3: Like that almost never happens in a pickup game because

1094
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 3: men are just very confident and I'll do it by myself,

1095
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 3: and you know, one on one, and if you fuss

1096
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 3: at them and say like, hey man, you see I'm

1097
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 3: setting this pick, you gotta throw it to them off

1098
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,359
Speaker 3: the screen, They'll be like, man, come on, now, had

1099
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 3: a good shot or whatever, they.

1100
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 5: Didn't have double team, Like what the fuck is this?

1101
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 3: They didn't have any of that, not once, Like if

1102
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 3: there was a mistake, it was just a person being like,

1103
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 3: my bad, and they would like dap you up and

1104
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 3: be like, hey, it's cool, don't worry about it, we'll

1105
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 3: get it next play. And I'm talking about it. No

1106
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:29,280
Speaker 3: matter how tight the game got when we were down,

1107
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 3: when we were up, it was always the same. They

1108
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 3: were so positive and so nice. And I played with

1109
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 3: them a few more times after that. It was now

1110
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 3: obviously we didn't run the gym every time because at

1111
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 3: some point people started realizing like how good they were,

1112
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 3: and you know, and then also just you know, we

1113
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 3: get different people on the team and shit. But it

1114
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 3: was just super interesting because you know, I'm looking at

1115
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 3: it like these, you know. If I also played with

1116
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 3: I can't remember her name, Don Staley Don. I played

1117
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 3: with her at the at the WYLDC Up Town Bust

1118
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:07,359
Speaker 3: the Niggas. As is Leah Metcalf one of the best

1119
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 3: basketball people I've ever played with. She played for un

1120
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 3: C Chapel Hill and she also played in the w

1121
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 3: NBA A overseas, and she busts people's ass every fucking

1122
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 3: time and she's little, Like she's not some you know,

1123
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,240
Speaker 3: six foot eight person or something. She's just like she's

1124
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 3: little if. She's one of the nicest genuine human beings

1125
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 3: I've ever met. She's very polite, smiles, all that shit.

1126
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,319
Speaker 3: She just sit over there and kick it with me

1127
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 3: and justin and laugh at our stupid ass jokes and

1128
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 3: all that stuff.

1129
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:36,479
Speaker 2: Just a genuine human being.

1130
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 3: But she is a killer on that court because she's

1131
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 3: been having to kill motherfuckers her whole life. So you know, anyway,

1132
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 3: it's just that ego that men have. That's that's what

1133
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 3: I was thinking about, was that, And it was, of

1134
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 3: course a white dude. I was like that white privilege man, Like,

1135
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 3: you have no reason to think you can do anything

1136
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 3: to any w NBA player, right, but it must feel

1137
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 3: so good to be a white dude you just like

1138
00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 3: I can do anything.

1139
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, A lot of times talking like these women are

1140
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 4: athletes and an athlete, regardless of male, female, whatever you are,

1141
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,959
Speaker 4: you're an athlete. So people a lot of time people

1142
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 4: to talk that shit they're not fit, they're in shape,

1143
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:14,280
Speaker 4: they have office.

1144
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 2: My thing is this, even if you're in shape, even

1145
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 2: if you're fit. See, that's the big thing. It doesn't

1146
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:23,720
Speaker 2: mean shit because they also are professional athletes.

1147
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 3: They mess with a basketball every day of their lives,

1148
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 3: for hours of the day. They're not just playing pickup

1149
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 3: ball at the Why a couple times a week or

1150
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 3: for you know, where you go to the wine you

1151
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 3: play pick up basketball. You're playing going up down the

1152
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 3: court with your friends and shit. They're doing that in

1153
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 3: professional scrimmages and stuff. But they're also just working on

1154
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 3: that shot every day, working on their handles every day,

1155
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 3: doing drill, lifting weights, running conditioning. There's nothing you're doing

1156
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 3: that they aren't doing. Unless you are some level of

1157
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 3: professional athlete, then you really don't got shit on them.

1158
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 2: That's it.

1159
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 3: That's all it is to it, and low key. They

1160
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 3: play way rougher than men. They like when you like

1161
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 3: like when you when I play against like an NBA player,

1162
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 3: except for maybe like Blue Vers, for the most part,

1163
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 3: they always kind of hold back a little bit because

1164
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 3: it's like, you know, you don't want to hurt some

1165
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 3: joe blow out in the fucking street over basketball. Maybe

1166
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 3: Steve Smith, I've seen him hurt a couple of people,

1167
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 3: but not like like like For the most part, basketball

1168
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 3: NBA players are not out there to get hurt or

1169
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 3: to try to hurt you, right, And they're strong, but

1170
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 3: they ain't trying to like, you know, be set.

1171
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 2: They don't got to be savage with it, you know.

1172
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 3: And plus there's a healthy level of respect for the

1173
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 3: fact that they're men, and so people already are like, well,

1174
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 3: I don't want David Westley to get too good and

1175
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 3: start hitting too many shots. When they see a woman,

1176
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,399
Speaker 3: they're like, I'm going to fucking lock her the fuck down.

1177
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 3: And they might elbow you in your fucking bridge at

1178
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 3: your nose and be like, get the fuck up off

1179
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 3: of me and not feel bad about it. I've seen

1180
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 3: that happen multiple times, and you're not gonna fight them,

1181
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 3: and they always And the other thing is as nice

1182
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,799
Speaker 3: as those women can be, they also will talk shit

1183
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 3: to your ass. And there's nothing more emasculating for a

1184
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 3: fragile ego dude than some woman calling them a little

1185
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 3: bit on the court. And I've seen it multiple times.

1186
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 3: It'll make dudes dick shrink up, man like. It's like

1187
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 3: they don't be the same after some woman like elbows

1188
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 3: them and calls them a bitch or fouls them and

1189
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 3: be like, oh, you're gonna call that shit a little motherfuck.

1190
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 3: You're gonna call that shit like on a woman. You

1191
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 3: know they'll do all that shit and get in your head.

1192
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 3: And now you're fucked with because your whole, your your

1193
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,760
Speaker 3: ego is fucked with. You know you should be calling

1194
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 3: the foulshipn't matter that she's a woman, But now you

1195
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 3: out there playing with a handicap because you're like, well.

1196
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 2: I don't have to not call this foul.

1197
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 3: So if she knocks me upside my head in the

1198
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 3: middle of this jump shot, I'm such a tough man.

1199
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 3: I gotta act like it's okay, like it's crazy, but

1200
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 3: but yeah, anyway, next story, Why I dated a guy

1201
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 3: who feticized me for being a black woman.

1202
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,240
Speaker 2: It's about Alan McPherson for Huffington Post.

1203
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 3: Okay, my relationship with my identity has always been complicated.

1204
00:55:58,160 --> 00:55:59,800
Speaker 3: I grew up in the Upper East Side of Manhattan,

1205
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:01,919
Speaker 3: where more often than not, I was the only black

1206
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 3: face in the room.

1207
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:05,479
Speaker 2: Still, my family is extremely Afro centric, and we.

1208
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 3: Celebrated everything from our black skin to our curves and

1209
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 3: the way we styed our hair. Even in those moments

1210
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 3: when I was the only one like me, My mom

1211
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 3: and my nana.

1212
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 2: Never let me second guess myself.

1213
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 3: Despite growing up with confidence, there were times I looked

1214
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 3: around and wished I had white features.

1215
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:20,959
Speaker 2: I spent a huge chunk of my.

1216
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 3: Life being attracted to men who preferred my white, Hispanic,

1217
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 3: or lighter skinned friends. This made me feel upset and

1218
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 3: a little insecure. After years of this cycle, I overlooked,

1219
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,399
Speaker 3: overlooked as a result of this color of my skin.

1220
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 3: At eighteen, I found myself attracted to a guy who

1221
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 3: was fixated on me, specifically because I was black.

1222
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: Well, eighteen still kind of young.

1223
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:42,439
Speaker 3: M I could see eighteen, you know, just getting out there,

1224
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 3: a fellow Upper East sider. He was a handsome guy

1225
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 3: from a wealthy Albanian family. Uh, I don't know if

1226
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 3: that's white or not.

1227
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 2: Can't remember.

1228
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 4: Is that where Kim Kardashian's people were from? The y'all

1229
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 4: count that is white in the chat?

1230
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1231
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1232
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:57,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

1233
00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 4: He never called me by my name is dad always

1234
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 4: called me beautiful?

1235
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 5: Uh?

1236
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 3: He walked, Uh, he talked for a few We talked

1237
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 3: for a few months via text message and Facebook chains chats.

1238
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:13,759
Speaker 3: Every conversation started with how beautiful, Hey, beautiful turned me

1239
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 3: on today, the wealthy guy who thought I was the

1240
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 3: most attractive woman he'd ever seen. He was always telling

1241
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 3: me how hot I was and how he never thought

1242
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 3: a girl like.

1243
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 2: Me would be interested in a guy like him.

1244
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 4: The fact that he only praised my looks was a

1245
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 4: red flag, but unfortunately I mistook his words for admiration.

1246
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 3: Mhm, it's kind of a red flag, I feel you.

1247
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 3: Eventually he politely asked me out out on the date

1248
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 3: in person. He kissed me throughout the day, telling me

1249
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 3: how beautiful I was, even paid for my pizza.

1250
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 2: We were falling for each other, so I thought.

1251
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 3: So I thought, Yeah, man, over pizza, he's supposed to

1252
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 3: be rich. I'm gonna need at least a steak, you

1253
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. That's the eighteen year old mistake

1254
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 3: thing though. You know this nigga rich, you gotta get

1255
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 3: them from them pockets.

1256
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 2: Okay, just in case.

1257
00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 5: Now this is one of them gold pizzas.

1258
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1259
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 3: There were several other red flags I had missed along

1260
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 3: the way, like the fact that one day over tex

1261
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 3: he told me he was only interested in black girls.

1262
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 2: Initially, I didn't think much of it.

1263
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 3: I thought back to When I was in elementary school,

1264
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 3: my best friend Donovan asked a white boy in class, Robert,

1265
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 3: whether he liked me or not.

1266
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 2: He said, no, I don't date dark girls. He I

1267
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 2: was always.

1268
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 3: I was able to overlook my new guy's infatuation with

1269
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 3: my blackness because I was hungry for desirability and affection

1270
00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 3: he was offering. It felt good to be sought after

1271
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 3: for very for the very thing that caused me to

1272
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 3: be overlooked in the past. I feel you especially. I mean,

1273
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 3: since he had some money.

1274
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1275
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 5: You're very young, so you're actually trying to learning the game.

1276
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 3: If I were to meet someone of another race who

1277
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 3: only dated black girls today, I would handle.

1278
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 2: Things a lot differently.

1279
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:47,919
Speaker 3: But at eighteen, the more he complimented me, the better

1280
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 3: I felt. Another red flag was that, despite his preference

1281
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 3: for black women, he told me his grandmother forbade him

1282
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 3: the date outside of his race.

1283
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 2: Oh God, yeah, yeah, that's a flag.

1284
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 3: I wonder how that would go down if we became

1285
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 3: a serious couple. The first red flag of ours he

1286
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 3: told me that his family made fun of him for

1287
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 3: his infatuation with black girls. I imagine him sitting at

1288
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 3: the table with his family. Hey high school going, his

1289
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 3: mother saying, hey, did you get an a biology? Oh,

1290
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 3: and please tell me you're done chasing after those black girls.

1291
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 3: I imagine this relatives laughing afterward. It made me cranch

1292
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:18,160
Speaker 3: just thinking about it. To him, I was exotic and sexy,

1293
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 3: but to them I was an Albanian parents' nightmare. I

1294
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 3: was curious why he was so infatuated with me, u

1295
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 3: with what his family despised.

1296
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like that rebellion shit. Like as a black man,

1297
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 2: I know that that that.

1298
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 3: Like, uh, white girls being like I'm rebelling against my

1299
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 3: white parents by dating a black dude. I've had a

1300
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 3: couple when I was younger. I had a couple of

1301
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 3: girls come towards me with that shit. And they weren't

1302
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 3: they weren't that like hidden about it, Like it was

1303
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 3: kind of blatant and I and for me personally, it

1304
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 3: schemed me out too much.

1305
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 2: I couldn't do it.

1306
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:57,600
Speaker 3: I it just felt like, you're not even fucking with me,

1307
00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 3: You're just fucking with my race. It's not it's not

1308
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 3: like you you don't know me as an individual other

1309
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 3: than I'm black. And if that's all you want, there's

1310
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 3: a lot of niggas out here that can give you that.

1311
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm not particularly interested.

1312
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 5: Correct.

1313
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 2: What was this dude's endgame? Did he intend to be

1314
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 2: serious with a black girl?

1315
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 3: Did he get off on having sex with a girl

1316
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 3: his family found repulsive? I doubt that he had had

1317
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 3: the courage to introduce me or anyone who looked like

1318
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 3: me as a serious partner. My suspicions were confirmed when

1319
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 3: I Industry asked him if he told his parents about us,

1320
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 3: like I told my mother about him before our date.

1321
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 3: I was sure he would say yes. Why wouldn't he

1322
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:36,440
Speaker 3: if he liked me so much. No, I don't think

1323
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 3: I'm ready to do that yet, he said. I realized

1324
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 3: that I was this dirty little secret. Funny how he

1325
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 3: had no problem asking me for sex on the first day,

1326
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 3: but when it came to me his family, he was

1327
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 3: unable to give me.

1328
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 2: A straight answer.

1329
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 3: Turn Out, the black skin that he found so appealing

1330
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 3: in the bedroom was not.

1331
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 2: So appealing outside of it. Yeah, that makes sense too, because.

1332
01:00:57,040 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 3: It's I mean, it's weird, but it's telling how people

1333
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 3: feel about sex. Where Like, on the one hand, sex

1334
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 3: is just this thing, and we're all supposed to just

1335
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 3: be like don't trip over it. Everybody does it hold

1336
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 3: his life blah blah blah. And for some people I

1337
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:14,200
Speaker 3: think they can do that.

1338
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 2: I don't think.

1339
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 3: I don't know that that is as applicable to everyone

1340
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 3: as people try to say, because people always talk about

1341
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 3: feelings getting caught up and breaking up, such and such

1342
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 3: rules and shit, and it's like, well, that wouldn't happen

1343
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 3: if everybody was being honest about how they treat sex.

1344
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 5: Right.

1345
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:30,919
Speaker 2: The fact that.

1346
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 3: At eighteen it's too intimate to tell his parents about you,

1347
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 3: but not too intimate to have sex with.

1348
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 2: You on date one that would weird me out too.

1349
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, after our date, he disappeared and completely went out

1350
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 3: the grid.

1351
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 2: I was a rack at first because I thought we

1352
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 2: had hit it off.

1353
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 3: An old friend of mine who was African American told

1354
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 3: me that he also messaged her on Facebook.

1355
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 2: The message read hay Q, I want to get to

1356
01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 2: know you.

1357
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 3: She didn't respond to him and was disgusted by how

1358
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 3: fast he hit on hit on her. After I fleen,

1359
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 3: I was shocked at first with them, I shot turned

1360
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 3: to anger.

1361
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 2: All this time.

1362
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 3: The one thing, the only thing I was to him

1363
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:10,920
Speaker 3: was a sexual conquest. And now he's looking for another

1364
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,440
Speaker 3: black girl to fixate on. Though I was to lead

1365
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 3: my friend didn't fall for his trap. I was even

1366
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 3: more relieved that I chose not to sleep with him

1367
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 3: or give him another chance when he came back into

1368
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 3: my life begging me to forgive him. Yeah, I'll say

1369
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 3: this much too, man. A lot of people would not

1370
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 3: have even been strong enough to do either one of those.

1371
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 3: And there's a lot of people that just don't figure

1372
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:32,920
Speaker 3: it out until you slept with the person, right as

1373
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 3: always transitioning for or even worse, some people figure it

1374
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:37,439
Speaker 3: out and.

1375
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 2: That stay shit too.

1376
01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 3: You know, there's a lot of brothers that like being

1377
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 3: feticized that way, Like, yes, I'm the big black cock.

1378
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 3: I'm this big black man that's fucking his white girl,

1379
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 3: and that's my fantasy, Like that is part of the

1380
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 3: allure of this shit. As iways transitioning from childhood to

1381
01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 3: adulthood and beginning to understand the complexity of racism, already

1382
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 3: knew that it was wrong to judge the person of

1383
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 3: all the color of the skin, but it took this experience

1384
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 3: to understand the fetishists fetistizing a specific demographic is just

1385
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 3: as offensive. Ultimately, a racial fetish is more than a

1386
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 3: matter of preference or having a type. The real problem

1387
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 3: with them is they reduce a whole, complicated person in

1388
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 3: one trait, leaving you never really sure if the fetishizes

1389
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 3: or likes or even sees you for who you are

1390
01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 3: really are. And that's nothing flattering about that. Yeah, I agree,

1391
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 3: after that brief flang, I tend to be extra cover

1392
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 3: with who I bring into my life. In my bedroom,

1393
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 3: I keep my heart guarded if I feel my race

1394
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 3: is an issue or a fixation for anyone.

1395
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 2: My blackness is not a defect, nor is it to

1396
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 2: be fetishized.

1397
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 4: Come on.

1398
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 3: Moving through the dating world is a lot easier now,

1399
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:45,040
Speaker 3: moving due to my confidence and the fact that I

1400
01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 3: know my worth and do not need anyone to validate

1401
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 3: me to feel beautiful. I love who I am and

1402
01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 3: find myself attracted the men who loved me back, not

1403
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 3: my skin color, for who.

1404
01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 2: I am on the inside. So what you think about

1405
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 2: that care?

1406
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 4: Maybe with her experience, Yeah, I don't think there's anything

1407
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:09,240
Speaker 4: through what she said. She's just young, trying to navigate this.

1408
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 4: Why this big ass world that people think just because

1409
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 4: you turn eighteen, you're spposed to have all the fucking answers,

1410
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 4: when in my opinion, you're still growing and developing, and

1411
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 4: in my opinion too, you're actually still trying to find

1412
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 4: out who you are. Most people don't find out who

1413
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 4: they are. I mean when I mean who you are,

1414
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 4: I mean who you really are, as far as your

1415
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 4: your what you will take, what you won't take, standing

1416
01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 4: firm and flat footed, and and your believe. For a

1417
01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 4: lot of people to they get to thirty, you know,

1418
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 4: thirty is about the time you've lived life long enough

1419
01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 4: and you've experienced enough bullshit and people coming in at

1420
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,200
Speaker 4: your life that you gonna know, I'm gonna deal with this.

1421
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna deal with this. I'mna put it up

1422
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 5: with this. I'm not gonna put up with this. For

1423
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 5: some people, that's twenty five, but for a lot of

1424
01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 5: people is.

1425
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 4: Once you get around that thirty range, in my opinion,

1426
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 4: is when a lot of people have quote unquote grown up.

1427
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 4: You know, and I don't follow her, I understand, and

1428
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:08,440
Speaker 4: it's something that a lot of people get swept up

1429
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:10,600
Speaker 4: in and caught up in. And like you said, some

1430
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 4: people like to be fetisized, and that's fine, but if

1431
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 4: you all want off somebody to go no, no, no,

1432
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 4: don't fetisize me, love me for me, But then it's

1433
01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 4: a problem.

1434
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting because.

1435
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 3: I never would know where to fall in the people

1436
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 3: that want to be fetisized, And I like, I don't

1437
01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 3: like to judge people like that, you know, I know

1438
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 3: a lot of people do.

1439
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 2: But if you're.

1440
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 3: Consenting adults, and it could be a wait thing, it

1441
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 3: could be I don't know any whatever even up to race.

1442
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 3: Even if that is how somebody feels and they don't

1443
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 3: feel threatened or impugned by that, who the fuck am

1444
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 3: Ida say? It is really your business? Is not really

1445
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 3: my business to decide what you can put up with.

1446
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 3: I don't think I would want to be dealing with

1447
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 3: something like that. It would it would confuse me, to

1448
01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 3: be honest, and I wouldn't know how to feel with it.

1449
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 2: And to me, it would feel.

1450
01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:05,600
Speaker 3: Racist, no matter how you tried to portray it, it

1451
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 3: would to me. It would feel racist to me, like, yeah,

1452
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 3: you're saying you love me for this thing, or you're

1453
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:13,520
Speaker 3: into me for this thing, but it's this thing that

1454
01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 3: a lot of people have. There's nothing special about me

1455
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 3: being black necessarily, you know. But I also understand, like

1456
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,640
Speaker 3: I said, it doesn't have to necessarily be a negative thing.

1457
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,959
Speaker 3: I know there's black people who say, like, I love

1458
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 3: black women or black men, and that's all I would

1459
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 3: date and da da dah.

1460
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 2: And I don't feel fetishized by that.

1461
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 3: Because they're of my race, right and because I know

1462
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 3: that it's not like you're gonna have sex with some

1463
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:38,959
Speaker 3: black women.

1464
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,480
Speaker 2: She's gonna be like, give me your big black.

1465
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 3: Cock, some weird shit that only white people would say

1466
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 3: to you, you know what I mean, Like only a non

1467
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 3: black person would say some weird shit like that to you.

1468
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 3: But I think anyway, who knows what y'all was saying

1469
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:54,440
Speaker 3: in bed, But anyway, man, I would say zero to

1470
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 3: one hundred. I say fifty because she figured it out,

1471
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It was early, she wasn't

1472
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 3: too injured by this dude, and she's kind of just

1473
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 3: telling her story to give like.

1474
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 2: Advice or you know, a word to other people. So

1475
01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say fifty. What about you?

1476
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 4: I say twenty five because I'm considering her age. I'm

1477
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 4: considering she's grown, you know, she's developed, and I'm like

1478
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 4: you for me, I me personally, I wouldn't want to

1479
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 4: be fetishized because in my in my mind, love me

1480
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 4: for me, you know, And I know race will factor

1481
01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 4: into things that we could talk about race, but don't

1482
01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 4: let race be on the factor because I'm like you,

1483
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 4: it'll be confusion. And in my mind, I would be like, when.

1484
01:07:40,560 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 5: Are we gonna turn and I'm gonna be a nigger?

1485
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:44,960
Speaker 5: Like like like that's how I wur process. This's like

1486
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 5: I'm gonna make you mad.

1487
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 4: Something's gonna happen because it's human nature not to always

1488
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 4: get along.

1489
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 5: It's gonna be a conflict.

1490
01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:52,840
Speaker 4: And when we get to that point, how are you

1491
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 4: gonna handle this? Because if I'm just a fetish to

1492
01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:56,800
Speaker 4: this is how I view it. If I'm just a

1493
01:07:56,800 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 4: fetish to you, and there's nothing more more to me

1494
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,840
Speaker 4: than that to you or nothing more to this relationship,

1495
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,920
Speaker 4: when is that moment gonna come when the reality is

1496
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:11,000
Speaker 4: gonna click in and I'm gonna be a nigger and

1497
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 4: then we're gonna have problems? So I know, for me personally,

1498
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,440
Speaker 4: I would never want to be fetisized.

1499
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 3: Also, it just definitely can't be the only thing correct,

1500
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 3: Like you know, I mean, because like I think people

1501
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:24,680
Speaker 3: have fetishis and shit, and I don't think there's ain't

1502
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:26,760
Speaker 3: anything wrong with it necessary Like you might just be

1503
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 3: in a big ass titties than your girl got big

1504
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 3: ass titties and you love her and you love them

1505
01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 3: big ass titties.

1506
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 5: Correct.

1507
01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:34,960
Speaker 4: I don't see that as like the same, you know

1508
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 4: what I mean? But when you certain things he.

1509
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:40,000
Speaker 3: Talking about race and shit, like, you start getting into

1510
01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:42,800
Speaker 3: this murky territory where it's not always a good thing,

1511
01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:47,639
Speaker 3: and especially if at some point it's dehumanizing, yeah, because

1512
01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 3: then it just feels like anyone that was a black

1513
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 3: woman or whatever, a good looking black woman, you would

1514
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 3: be like, oh my gosh, she's black, and then it's

1515
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:56,880
Speaker 3: just weird.

1516
01:08:57,240 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 2: This is weird shit.

1517
01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:02,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's my thing. If that's the bare minimal,

1518
01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 4: that's why I have a problems. If being black.

1519
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:07,559
Speaker 5: Is the only thing, it needs to be more.

1520
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 4: I'm a substance. Person needs to be more of a

1521
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:13,639
Speaker 4: substance to me than just for the fact that I'm black.

1522
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 4: And if that's the only thing I know that me

1523
01:09:16,280 --> 01:09:19,920
Speaker 4: being black can sway, it can change you.

1524
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 2: Know, well, you being black can't change, not me.

1525
01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 5: Being black, but the fetish of me being black.

1526
01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 4: All of a sudden, you just pick me up and

1527
01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:29,600
Speaker 4: replace me with right right right, Like you're like, so

1528
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 4: I'll not specific to me right, So it's no connection

1529
01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:36,719
Speaker 4: in my opinion, no connection there.

1530
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 3: But it does feel weird though, because like big ass

1531
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 3: to this is not necessarily specific to a person, but

1532
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,360
Speaker 3: it's just something about race that feels I don't know,

1533
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 3: it's even worse.

1534
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 2: It's even worse than being like I'm into big.

1535
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:51,520
Speaker 3: Asses, you know what I mean, because like, race constructs

1536
01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 3: my whole fucking life around it and the way people

1537
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 3: deal with me and see me, and then I have

1538
01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 3: to come home to you, whether even if it's a

1539
01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 3: sexual thing, you're still seeing me as this, as this

1540
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 3: this this person that is I don't know, Like my

1541
01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 3: race is there to serve you somehow, and I don't

1542
01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 3: like that.

1543
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:09,760
Speaker 2: Like that shit wouldn't bother me immensely. I know some

1544
01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:11,880
Speaker 2: people it wouldn't, but it would bother me.

1545
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, And truth be told, I'm a people real A

1546
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 4: lot of that is founded in the white supremacy of

1547
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:20,839
Speaker 4: our country. So I will never feel comfortable with somebody

1548
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:23,680
Speaker 4: going I like you just because you're black, you know,

1549
01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 4: Like I said, for me personally, growing up, only black

1550
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:30,120
Speaker 4: men have ever approached me or ever wanted to date me.

1551
01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:32,599
Speaker 5: So I don't I'm a trick. I don't know how

1552
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:34,720
Speaker 5: I would respond to how it reacts.

1553
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 4: If somebody outside of my race was to approach me

1554
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:37,280
Speaker 4: in the first place.

1555
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:41,679
Speaker 5: But for me, if you love me, for me cool.

1556
01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 4: But if the only reason why you're here and see

1557
01:10:44,120 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 4: for black women or for brown women, you it's very

1558
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 4: frustrating because you have to go through that to.

1559
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:51,720
Speaker 5: Find out why are you here?

1560
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 4: Are you here because I'm a fetish and I'm just

1561
01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:57,719
Speaker 4: on your checklist of brown women you want to fuck?

1562
01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 2: Or are you here for me as a person?

1563
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 1: Right?

1564
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:03,760
Speaker 4: And there is the difference if for some women you

1565
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 4: find out before you have sex and women you find

1566
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:07,560
Speaker 4: out after you have second.

1567
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:10,600
Speaker 3: And I would even say for black men's that it

1568
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:13,840
Speaker 3: is very similar, Like it's not it's not that big

1569
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:14,400
Speaker 3: of like.

1570
01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 2: It's different because we're men.

1571
01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 3: So there's obviously, uh, some patriarchy shit there, and there's

1572
01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:22,960
Speaker 3: obviously some privilege there, but it is very similar.

1573
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 2: There are a lot of black men.

1574
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 3: I knew a dude I won't say no names, but

1575
01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 3: he dated a white girl, uh that he was in

1576
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:32,120
Speaker 3: love with, Like he was in straight up love with

1577
01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 3: that girl, and he's a talking to me about her

1578
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 3: and shit, we would play basketball and.

1579
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:39,800
Speaker 2: Why they broke up. A couple of years later.

1580
01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 3: I would see them out public and stuff sometimes, and

1581
01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:44,439
Speaker 3: one day he was talking to me. He was and

1582
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 3: like after they broke up, he was wasn't the same,

1583
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 3: Like he was a bodybuilder, and shit, he just wasn't

1584
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 3: the fucking same.

1585
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 2: And uh So one day we was talking, because we

1586
01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:52,120
Speaker 2: just talked all the time.

1587
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 3: I was like, man, you straight bro, Like you know,

1588
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 3: you moping around, you know, you don't really come talk

1589
01:11:58,520 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 3: anymore and stuff. And he was like, man, me and

1590
01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 3: my girl broke up. And I'm like, well, I'm sorry

1591
01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:06,200
Speaker 3: to hear that obviously. Man, you know, I don't want

1592
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 3: to pride whatever, but I hope everything's okay. And he

1593
01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 3: went on this long story, but long story short, she was.

1594
01:12:12,439 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 2: Cool dating him.

1595
01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 3: They were like dating for a few years off and on,

1596
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 3: but like pretty solid for a couple of years, and

1597
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 3: I think he wanted to propose to her. So he

1598
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 3: was like, let's go to the mountains. Because up until

1599
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 3: this time they had always gone on vacations and family

1600
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 3: trips to see his parents and his family. So he

1601
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 3: was like you know, I want to go see your

1602
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:39,799
Speaker 3: parents and stay with them in the mountains or whatever.

1603
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 3: And she broke up with him rather than say he

1604
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 3: could go to the mountains with her, because yeah, she

1605
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 3: was like, my parents are racist and I don't know

1606
01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 3: if they would be comfortable with that, and like this

1607
01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:56,639
Speaker 3: is after years of dating, so yeah, and she just cold,

1608
01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,640
Speaker 3: like straight up was like that's it. And he was

1609
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 3: fucked up, you know what I mean, Because and he's

1610
01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 3: a and you would think like, uh, you know, so

1611
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:06,600
Speaker 3: I'm sure people would talk shit like black man, the

1612
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 3: ain't a white woman, that's what you're getting ship, But

1613
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 3: like I still had empathy for him because it was

1614
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 3: never that for him, Like he was like he never

1615
01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 3: saw it that way when they were together, and she

1616
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 3: wasn't the type of person to do some shit like

1617
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 3: that in his mind. But boom, just like that one

1618
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:24,720
Speaker 3: day and he was fucked up, you know what I mean,

1619
01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 3: Like he was he never really recovered from that ship

1620
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:28,040
Speaker 3: and that will.

1621
01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:29,599
Speaker 5: Fuck anybody up.

1622
01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 4: And that then, and the thing about it is like, uh,

1623
01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 4: that ship will actually get to you.

1624
01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 5: And people fail to realize that people aren't human beings.

1625
01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 5: So when you get down to the race ship. Race

1626
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:43,719
Speaker 5: is a part of who I am and I can't

1627
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:44,439
Speaker 5: separate it.

1628
01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:46,880
Speaker 3: And as a man, you got the extra level of

1629
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 3: like you supposed to just be like knocking that like oh.

1630
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:54,200
Speaker 2: Whatever, you know what I mean. But he was fucked up,

1631
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 2: like he was in love like a big dog. Men

1632
01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,960
Speaker 2: feelings too. I hope y'all realize that. Yeah, all right,

1633
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:02,719
Speaker 2: let's get into Guest the race.

1634
01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:08,720
Speaker 5: Now, that is time for some guests the race. That's right,

1635
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 5: This guest the race time. Now, that is time for

1636
01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 5: some guests stor race. That's right, this guest the race time.

1637
01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:23,519
Speaker 2: That's right. It's time for Guess the Race, the.

1638
01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 4: Number one game going across all the podcasts land. We're

1639
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:27,880
Speaker 4: review the play duds from all over the globe, and.

1640
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 3: We asked our contestants today, Karen and the chat room

1641
01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 3: to guess the race. And of course everybody playing is racist,

1642
01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:38,360
Speaker 3: including Karen.

1643
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 2: All right, let's get into it.

1644
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 3: A college student found a man living inside of her

1645
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 3: closet wearing her clothes. A student at the University of

1646
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:55,760
Speaker 3: North Carolina at Greensboro found a man inside of her

1647
01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 3: closet wearing her clothes after repeatedly noticing her belongings misplaced

1648
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:01,440
Speaker 3: or missing, The student.

1649
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:03,679
Speaker 5: Told and due, all right, check and find out what's

1650
01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 5: happening to you.

1651
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:07,000
Speaker 3: The student told Fox eight that she thought she had

1652
01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:09,680
Speaker 3: a ghost. She consistently locked her door and there was

1653
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:11,200
Speaker 3: never a sign of anyone had broken in.

1654
01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:13,760
Speaker 5: Oh shit, I know. She thought she was losing it.

1655
01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 3: According to Greensboro Police, on Saturday afternoon, the woman heard

1656
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:18,560
Speaker 3: the noise coming from a closet, open the door to

1657
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 3: find thirty year old Andrew Clyde Swofford.

1658
01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:25,439
Speaker 2: Thirty thirty. I just heard rattling in my closet.

1659
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,679
Speaker 3: It sounded like a raccoon in my closet, The student,

1660
01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 3: identified as Maddie told Fox It it. I'm like, who's there?

1661
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 3: And somebody answered me. He's like, oh, my name is Drew.

1662
01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:36,120
Speaker 3: I opened the door. He's in there wearing all my clothes.

1663
01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:41,080
Speaker 3: Officers arrived at Edge Apartments, a student only building the

1664
01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 3: Jayson de campus, around three thirty pm. Swafford wasn't violent

1665
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:47,639
Speaker 3: or threatening, they took him into custody. Swafford was booked

1666
01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 3: into the county jail in lit a twenty six thousand,

1667
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 3: six hundred dollars bond. He suspected of breaking the entry

1668
01:15:52,960 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 3: as well as identity, theft, larceny's possessing stolen goods and

1669
01:15:57,240 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 3: felling up here in court in connection with previous cases.

1670
01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:01,599
Speaker 2: What the holy thief?

1671
01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:05,000
Speaker 3: According to Fox eight, a building management changed the apartments

1672
01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:08,559
Speaker 3: locked in December after previous unexplained break in. The student

1673
01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:11,160
Speaker 3: and her roommate found two men inside the apartment who

1674
01:16:11,160 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 3: they didn't know and notified property managers.

1675
01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:15,120
Speaker 2: The fuck kind of security is there?

1676
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 3: Berkeley Communities, which manages the building, the other student communities,

1677
01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 3: and of corrad complexes in the area. Toe BuzzFeed News

1678
01:16:22,320 --> 01:16:24,639
Speaker 3: Tuesday that appeared to man entered through an unlocked window.

1679
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 3: The women are now planning to move out.

1680
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:29,680
Speaker 2: It's probably too late for that, all right.

1681
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:33,680
Speaker 3: Karen guessed the race of this man white. Karen's going

1682
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:37,200
Speaker 3: with white. Let's check your chat room guesses. I want

1683
01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:39,599
Speaker 3: to wear your clothes and skin white.

1684
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:43,679
Speaker 2: A nigga would never white. Casper white.

1685
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:46,920
Speaker 3: He dropped into school, into a school instead of out

1686
01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 3: of one.

1687
01:16:47,280 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 2: White. Quite white white. Nothing grown ish about this white? White.

1688
01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:53,200
Speaker 2: Caitlyn Jenner white.

1689
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 3: Wes Craven loves her milky skin, not trapped in the closet,

1690
01:16:58,040 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 3: but chose to stay there. White Why The correct answer

1691
01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:17,640
Speaker 3: is white. Everybody went were white. Everyone got it right.

1692
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:21,880
Speaker 3: This is him in the closet, literally in her clothes,

1693
01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:25,400
Speaker 3: no shoes on.

1694
01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:27,479
Speaker 2: Now what yep?

1695
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:31,200
Speaker 4: You know? And you know this was white because they'd

1696
01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 4: have been like, uh, a person found in closet stringer

1697
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 4: to death, would weave?

1698
01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hmm. Yeah, weaving shaved the fact that

1699
01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:43,120
Speaker 2: she kept living.

1700
01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:45,600
Speaker 3: She must have been white too, because the fact that

1701
01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:47,200
Speaker 3: she kept living that thing and it might have been

1702
01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:47,759
Speaker 3: a ghost.

1703
01:17:49,479 --> 01:17:51,799
Speaker 4: Niggas would have been like, oh, something up in here.

1704
01:17:51,800 --> 01:17:54,760
Speaker 4: We searched in the room, like I said, came, we

1705
01:17:54,800 --> 01:17:55,559
Speaker 4: would have checked that.

1706
01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:57,880
Speaker 2: Fuck that bullshit only a white whatever.

1707
01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:00,880
Speaker 3: A Georgia team managed to outswam all local banks and

1708
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:03,679
Speaker 3: run a fraud scheme that netted twenty eight million dollars.

1709
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:05,920
Speaker 2: Good god, you took that money.

1710
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:09,560
Speaker 3: I guess until his suspicious transactions tipped off state officials.

1711
01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 5: No shit, twenty eight million. You're gonna raise the flags

1712
01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:12,479
Speaker 5: some well.

1713
01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 3: Charles Turner eighteen set up a fake online electronics business

1714
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:22,599
Speaker 3: called Riverdale X and was selling Amazon products from an

1715
01:18:23,160 --> 01:18:26,960
Speaker 3: for increased charge. However, customers were receiving busted products or

1716
01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:29,599
Speaker 3: nothing at all while he scammed and Pilford money from

1717
01:18:29,640 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 3: their bank accounts as a result of them entering information

1718
01:18:32,200 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 3: on his website. He told us that he was using

1719
01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:37,960
Speaker 3: a website that would collect payment information and that he

1720
01:18:38,080 --> 01:18:40,080
Speaker 3: was able to get the routing and account and bank

1721
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:43,120
Speaker 3: information from that website and then use that information to

1722
01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:46,160
Speaker 3: make payments to us, along with his car payment and

1723
01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:51,240
Speaker 3: other payments as well. Only eighteen huh, Turner had completely

1724
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:55,080
Speaker 3: fraudulent bank charges ranging from fourteen thy to twenty eight million.

1725
01:18:55,400 --> 01:18:58,519
Speaker 3: There's twenty eight million dollars sitting in the US Treasury

1726
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:00,799
Speaker 3: yess as for comparison.

1727
01:19:00,840 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 4: On Thursday, Turner was arrested while sitting at home with

1728
01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 4: his mother and brother.

1729
01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:07,960
Speaker 3: He said they were left in the dark about what

1730
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 3: he was doing. Turner happened to be home waiting for

1731
01:19:10,040 --> 01:19:12,040
Speaker 3: a check he thought he was going to get from

1732
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:14,439
Speaker 3: the Georgia Department of Revenue, but it was a bogus

1733
01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 3: deal that setup that was set up by an undercover agent.

1734
01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:20,200
Speaker 3: A warrant was issued for Turner's arrest, and after he

1735
01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 3: walked out of Henry County sun Trust Bank with eighteen

1736
01:19:23,560 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 3: thousand dollars from a fraudulent check in January, faced the

1737
01:19:27,160 --> 01:19:30,320
Speaker 3: financial fraud arrest out of Fulton County, the state Department

1738
01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 3: of Revenue started to notice suspicious pattern of how much

1739
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 3: money Turner was paying the state.

1740
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 2: About three weeks ago.

1741
01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 3: Not only that, but many of them would be reversed

1742
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,439
Speaker 3: because of fraudulent accounts and insufficient funds. He actually set

1743
01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:45,960
Speaker 3: up a business set up withholding accounts as sales tax

1744
01:19:45,960 --> 01:19:48,519
Speaker 3: accounts and was overpaid by more than twenty five million

1745
01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:52,160
Speaker 3: into those accounts and then requesting refunds for those same

1746
01:19:52,200 --> 01:19:54,720
Speaker 3: account amounts to be returned back to him in his

1747
01:19:54,880 --> 01:20:01,759
Speaker 3: personal checking account wow. When arrested the the station reporter

1748
01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:04,920
Speaker 3: Nicole Carr said, turn asked Turner's family, did you find

1749
01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 3: it unusual the amount of money.

1750
01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:08,760
Speaker 2: That was coming into the house. I mean, didn't no

1751
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 2: money come in here, said Terry o' Williams.

1752
01:20:11,400 --> 01:20:15,639
Speaker 3: Turner's brother replied, I mean I didn't get none when

1753
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:17,479
Speaker 3: you were you all recently able to go on a

1754
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:20,280
Speaker 3: big vacation. Carget to you, I mean I been here,

1755
01:20:20,360 --> 01:20:21,840
Speaker 3: William said, we didn't know nothing.

1756
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,880
Speaker 2: Surprised like y'all. Turner's mother refused to speak.

1757
01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 3: Several cars were hauled off the property, which terror investigator

1758
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:32,320
Speaker 3: said at least one was paid with a fraudulent check

1759
01:20:32,560 --> 01:20:35,439
Speaker 3: that was being returned to CarMax. Unfortunately, in the past,

1760
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:37,719
Speaker 3: we've seen people younger than him from all walks of life,

1761
01:20:37,800 --> 01:20:39,160
Speaker 3: just not to this extent.

1762
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:40,880
Speaker 5: Younger than him. City ain't dead.

1763
01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:44,120
Speaker 3: Well, not to this extent, Waite said, refer to the

1764
01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:46,639
Speaker 3: nature of the investigation. We did not lose any money

1765
01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:48,559
Speaker 3: in this scheme, which is a testament to the hard

1766
01:20:48,600 --> 01:20:49,679
Speaker 3: work of the people in the department.

1767
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:53,320
Speaker 2: Guess the race of Charles Turner.

1768
01:20:53,800 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 5: Oh, Charles Turner was white as.

1769
01:20:56,000 --> 01:20:58,599
Speaker 3: Charles Turner was as white as they come, says Karen.

1770
01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 3: Let's check the chat room. Let's see what they believe

1771
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:04,759
Speaker 3: black history. Catch me if you can white. His brother's

1772
01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:08,719
Speaker 3: name is TERRYO. Black new black history legend.

1773
01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:09,120
Speaker 2: Black.

1774
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 3: Give me, give this schemic kid an information security job.

1775
01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:18,840
Speaker 3: Sap Black, still living at home with his mama and

1776
01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:22,920
Speaker 3: little brother Terrio, smart yet dumb nigga Black, white, dripping

1777
01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:26,160
Speaker 3: with finesse. Black a peanut fixed me some of that

1778
01:21:26,240 --> 01:21:29,080
Speaker 3: dick Gregory black and still living with his mama. That's

1779
01:21:29,120 --> 01:21:31,439
Speaker 3: a colored Catch me if you can two point oh

1780
01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:34,519
Speaker 3: white they left let him in the bank, white, black

1781
01:21:34,560 --> 01:21:39,240
Speaker 3: and black. The correct answer is and Karen obviously got

1782
01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:39,679
Speaker 3: it wrong.

1783
01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 2: He is black.

1784
01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 5: I will take that out, but that was a white

1785
01:21:58,320 --> 01:21:58,800
Speaker 5: ass shit.

1786
01:21:59,280 --> 01:21:59,719
Speaker 2: Whatever.

1787
01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:02,959
Speaker 3: If you want to play the game, play the game. Okay,

1788
01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 3: no more bullshit over here. Okay, we played the win.

1789
01:22:07,360 --> 01:22:09,519
Speaker 3: His brother name was Terrio. There's never been a white

1790
01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:13,160
Speaker 3: person with a brother named Trio that wasn't adopted.

1791
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:13,240
Speaker 2: Or some ship.

1792
01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 3: Come on, Karen, uh anyway, the rest of you guys

1793
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:17,479
Speaker 3: got it right.

1794
01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:30,960
Speaker 2: Mm mm hmmm.

1795
01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:33,400
Speaker 5: But I wouldn't know the one that said white.

1796
01:22:34,200 --> 01:22:36,080
Speaker 4: I don't know what's wrong with the rest of you niggas.

1797
01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:37,880
Speaker 4: Something wrong with both all of y'all.

1798
01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:40,000
Speaker 5: So I wasn't only when it was food.

1799
01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:42,479
Speaker 2: There wasn't no food. You knew he was black when

1800
01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 2: said Tarrio. You just didn't want to.

1801
01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:48,200
Speaker 3: You just didn't want it to be black. I don't

1802
01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:51,599
Speaker 3: know what's wrong with y'all coons. Steve Harvey was right.

1803
01:23:00,160 --> 01:23:06,400
Speaker 10: Double ups and the race, double up pots and the race.

1804
01:23:07,240 --> 01:23:08,920
Speaker 3: That's right, double the points, double the race, and the

1805
01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:10,920
Speaker 3: bonus round the guest the race so far, caring is

1806
01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:14,040
Speaker 3: one in one, and we'll see how she does in

1807
01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:17,559
Speaker 3: the bonus round. And she takes it serious a mm

1808
01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:18,080
Speaker 3: hm hmmm.

1809
01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:27,400
Speaker 2: All right, let's see. Let do this one.

1810
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:36,480
Speaker 4: My ration angry shod I'm disappointed.

1811
01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:38,759
Speaker 5: Oh what happened for you to feel that way?

1812
01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:42,080
Speaker 2: You connect? Guess that's terrible. You didn't even try.

1813
01:23:45,600 --> 01:23:48,479
Speaker 3: Ama wanted a fifteen year old to sell marijuana at school.

1814
01:23:48,680 --> 01:23:52,360
Speaker 3: Wisconsin chargers say a New Richmond mother accused of involving

1815
01:23:52,360 --> 01:23:56,799
Speaker 3: a minor in a plot of uh selling pot pleaded

1816
01:23:56,800 --> 01:24:01,880
Speaker 3: guilty to all charges in Saint Croix County Circuit Tuesday,

1817
01:24:01,960 --> 01:24:05,959
Speaker 3: according to court records, which include an additional felony possession

1818
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:10,160
Speaker 3: of marijuana with intended distribute charge. Anne Marie Ratliffe thirty

1819
01:24:10,160 --> 01:24:13,719
Speaker 3: six of New Richmond was charged along with Nicholas Luke

1820
01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:17,040
Speaker 3: Bard twenty seven, of Ellsworth, with felonie using a child

1821
01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 3: to manufacture, distribute, or deliver drugs.

1822
01:24:19,880 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 2: As a party to a crime.

1823
01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:25,799
Speaker 3: The two allegedly attempted to involve teenagers known to Ratlift

1824
01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:28,599
Speaker 3: in the sale of marijuana after a mother discovered messages

1825
01:24:28,600 --> 01:24:31,400
Speaker 3: between Ratliffe and at fourteen year old son concerning the

1826
01:24:31,400 --> 01:24:32,639
Speaker 3: price of a bag of weed.

1827
01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:36,040
Speaker 2: Bard was charged January.

1828
01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 3: Twenty fourth and Pierce County with felony possession of THHC

1829
01:24:38,560 --> 01:24:41,440
Speaker 3: with intended distribute and a misdemeanor possession.

1830
01:24:41,040 --> 01:24:42,080
Speaker 2: Of drug paraphernalia.

1831
01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:44,840
Speaker 3: Court records show Ratliffe is scheduled to make her next

1832
01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:49,639
Speaker 3: court appearance March eighth. After learning of the conversation between

1833
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:52,479
Speaker 3: Ratliffe and a fourteen year old friend of her son,

1834
01:24:52,720 --> 01:24:56,639
Speaker 3: River Falls police went to Ratlift's home and found about

1835
01:24:56,680 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 3: twenty grams of marijuana and a gold medal pipe. Ratliffe

1836
01:25:01,120 --> 01:25:04,559
Speaker 3: initially told police she didn't know the drugs were there,

1837
01:25:05,040 --> 01:25:07,760
Speaker 3: and said her son might have put them in her suitcase.

1838
01:25:08,439 --> 01:25:12,200
Speaker 3: Conversations found on Ratleff's phone between her and Barr suggests

1839
01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:13,760
Speaker 3: they wanted the minus to sell the.

1840
01:25:13,800 --> 01:25:15,799
Speaker 2: Drugs for them.

1841
01:25:15,840 --> 01:25:21,680
Speaker 3: One conversation said, Nick, what did you son come up

1842
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:25,320
Speaker 3: with for the green? And he hasn't yet. It's still

1843
01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:28,479
Speaker 3: chilling in our room because I didn't want him taking

1844
01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:30,400
Speaker 3: it to school with him. I think he has a

1845
01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:32,639
Speaker 3: couple people that want to pick up, but we got

1846
01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:34,640
Speaker 3: to coordinate getting it too River Falls.

1847
01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:39,960
Speaker 2: Nick. Lol, Okay, well that gonna let me know.

1848
01:25:40,800 --> 01:25:44,439
Speaker 3: I want to see how much he gets that small amount.

1849
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:47,719
Speaker 3: Ratliff denied buying drugs from bart or that he wanted

1850
01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:50,479
Speaker 3: to help her selling drugs, but later told police Barr

1851
01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:53,360
Speaker 3: suggested the boys sailed through the high school. Once she learned,

1852
01:25:53,400 --> 01:25:58,479
Speaker 3: authorities extensively searched her phone. Police arrested Bart as he

1853
01:25:58,560 --> 01:26:01,600
Speaker 3: left his Ellsworth home December fourteen, twenty eighteen, carrying a

1854
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:04,240
Speaker 3: candis to that contained about one hundred and seventy six

1855
01:26:04,320 --> 01:26:05,480
Speaker 3: grams of marijuana.

1856
01:26:05,560 --> 01:26:06,559
Speaker 5: Good God, that's a lot.

1857
01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:09,320
Speaker 3: I'm assuming Bart was on an active role for a

1858
01:26:09,360 --> 01:26:11,920
Speaker 3: third degree sexual assault active parole.

1859
01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:13,439
Speaker 2: I'm sorry for third degree.

1860
01:26:13,200 --> 01:26:16,280
Speaker 3: Sexual assault, felony, theft from a corpse and was a

1861
01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:18,080
Speaker 3: registered as a sex offender at the time.

1862
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:20,240
Speaker 5: Oh, we're doing a lockdown.

1863
01:26:20,479 --> 01:26:23,880
Speaker 3: He has prior convictions for criminal damage to property, criminal trespass.

1864
01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:26,080
Speaker 2: Dwelling, felony, beall jumping, and disorderly conduct.

1865
01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:29,559
Speaker 3: The felony child distribution charge carries a maximum sentence of

1866
01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:32,080
Speaker 3: twelve year six months in prison and the twenty five

1867
01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:33,719
Speaker 3: thousand dollars fine ratless miss.

1868
01:26:33,520 --> 01:26:37,000
Speaker 5: Demeanor partridge dort these crimes.

1869
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:40,160
Speaker 3: And ratless misdemeanor possession charge punishable about the six months

1870
01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:42,360
Speaker 3: jail time and one thousand dollars five guess the rice

1871
01:26:43,000 --> 01:26:44,439
Speaker 3: of am Marie Ratliff.

1872
01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:47,240
Speaker 5: Oh if this ain't white, i'm'na be shocked.

1873
01:26:47,520 --> 01:26:49,559
Speaker 3: All right, let's check the chat room and see what

1874
01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:54,519
Speaker 3: they believe. Wow, I must gotta scroll up. Everybody's guessing

1875
01:26:54,520 --> 01:26:55,120
Speaker 3: on this one.

1876
01:26:55,200 --> 01:27:02,040
Speaker 2: Jesus, Uh white, what about weed and Wisconsin? White? Black

1877
01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:03,719
Speaker 2: tailing all these people business?

1878
01:27:03,840 --> 01:27:07,000
Speaker 3: Damn next time, get yourself a tarrio white, a white

1879
01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:10,240
Speaker 3: as fucked white white white Beavis and butt head white.

1880
01:27:10,280 --> 01:27:12,679
Speaker 3: I refuse to believe it's black people in Wisconsin white.

1881
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:17,240
Speaker 3: Just a mother teaching her son about profit margins, transit costs,

1882
01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:23,080
Speaker 3: generational wealth promoter, Pinky Peggy white, Uh, black white.

1883
01:27:22,840 --> 01:27:25,439
Speaker 2: Boy, rick white, you know what I'm sayings like you?

1884
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:30,479
Speaker 2: Okay't that? And the white version of the Linda from

1885
01:27:30,479 --> 01:27:32,479
Speaker 2: the wire? Uh for sure?

1886
01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:36,679
Speaker 3: White hoping they're I hope they're white. The correct answer

1887
01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:37,639
Speaker 3: is white.

1888
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:41,400
Speaker 2: They were all white. About said I was all sad.

1889
01:27:42,640 --> 01:27:51,679
Speaker 2: Sorry somebody did say black though.

1890
01:27:56,600 --> 01:27:58,879
Speaker 5: I'm about say Damn, I don't even get the real claps.

1891
01:27:59,479 --> 01:28:02,760
Speaker 3: No, you got at this time, buddy, You tried, so

1892
01:28:03,080 --> 01:28:05,320
Speaker 3: I know I did. This time could have went three

1893
01:28:05,360 --> 01:28:05,719
Speaker 3: for three.

1894
01:28:06,040 --> 01:28:07,000
Speaker 2: You just gave up.

1895
01:28:08,160 --> 01:28:10,960
Speaker 3: All right, let's get to the last thing.

1896
01:28:11,360 --> 01:28:13,000
Speaker 2: Sworder ratching this guys.

1897
01:28:36,600 --> 01:28:40,560
Speaker 3: Making fun of a San Francisco sword attack gets a

1898
01:28:40,680 --> 01:28:46,679
Speaker 3: da spokesman in trouble. UH spokesman for San Francisco's District

1899
01:28:46,680 --> 01:28:50,479
Speaker 3: Attorney George Gaskin, is under fire after tweeting a video

1900
01:28:50,520 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 3: that appears a pope fun of a recent machete attack

1901
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:54,280
Speaker 3: that left three people injured in.

1902
01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:57,599
Speaker 2: The Tenderloind What yeah, he's a white man.

1903
01:28:58,280 --> 01:29:02,719
Speaker 3: District Attorney spokesman Max zas Bo UH sent the tweet

1904
01:29:02,760 --> 01:29:05,719
Speaker 3: December seventh on his personal account.

1905
01:29:06,200 --> 01:29:07,559
Speaker 2: It shows a hooded figure.

1906
01:29:08,200 --> 01:29:13,080
Speaker 3: Okay, presidents, they sail gotcha, Go ahead and get off

1907
01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:13,800
Speaker 3: my screen.

1908
01:29:15,600 --> 01:29:16,280
Speaker 2: The fuck.

1909
01:29:17,880 --> 01:29:21,200
Speaker 3: Shows a hooded figure with a samurai sword slashing his

1910
01:29:21,320 --> 01:29:23,840
Speaker 3: way through a series of thick, white, white stacks.

1911
01:29:24,040 --> 01:29:25,519
Speaker 2: Why do you have more than one to add? What

1912
01:29:25,640 --> 01:29:29,840
Speaker 2: the fuck? Well? Stick thick white stacks of stalks. I'm

1913
01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:33,360
Speaker 2: sorry stalks. Zasbo posted the tweet and response to the

1914
01:29:33,439 --> 01:29:36,439
Speaker 2: Chronicle story on the Tendelon slashings in a letter to

1915
01:29:36,560 --> 01:29:41,080
Speaker 2: God Shown Police Officers Association President Tony Montoya said the

1916
01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:43,960
Speaker 2: tweet mocked and made jest of the attack. We believe

1917
01:29:44,000 --> 01:29:46,080
Speaker 2: in freedom of speech, but this was posted in public

1918
01:29:46,120 --> 01:29:48,280
Speaker 2: format by someone in the office that will be handling

1919
01:29:48,320 --> 01:29:51,200
Speaker 2: the case. If one of our my members had done

1920
01:29:51,200 --> 01:29:53,880
Speaker 2: something like this, they would have been crucified, he said,

1921
01:29:54,479 --> 01:29:57,559
Speaker 2: and indeed officers have lost their jobs in recent years

1922
01:29:57,560 --> 01:30:00,320
Speaker 2: for raceis of homophobic texts that the union says words

1923
01:30:00,360 --> 01:30:02,599
Speaker 2: in his jokes. There's a bit of a backstory here

1924
01:30:02,600 --> 01:30:02,960
Speaker 2: as well.

1925
01:30:03,000 --> 01:30:05,880
Speaker 3: Guy Sean has long been in odds of the police union,

1926
01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:08,040
Speaker 3: in part over his calls for cleaning up the culture

1927
01:30:08,360 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 3: that he said spawned inappropriate behavior. Saswo deleted his tweet,

1928
01:30:11,960 --> 01:30:14,400
Speaker 3: but not before it were seen by police officers. Another

1929
01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:18,120
Speaker 3: spokesman for the district Attorney, Alex Bashian, said the officer

1930
01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:20,599
Speaker 3: the office did not talk about the personnel matter.

1931
01:30:20,680 --> 01:30:24,639
Speaker 2: Saswell declined the comment. Okay, so two things.

1932
01:30:24,720 --> 01:30:29,599
Speaker 3: One, the fucking spokesperson for the DA thinks it's funny.

1933
01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:34,040
Speaker 3: It's a goddamn sword crime. If someone shot three people,

1934
01:30:34,760 --> 01:30:36,960
Speaker 3: it would be called a fucking mass shooting, and we

1935
01:30:37,000 --> 01:30:39,040
Speaker 3: would need to have a conversation, a national day of

1936
01:30:39,080 --> 01:30:41,559
Speaker 3: prayer and a memorial.

1937
01:30:41,479 --> 01:30:43,520
Speaker 2: And a candle aight, visual you motherfucker.

1938
01:30:44,000 --> 01:30:46,120
Speaker 3: That's one of the reasons that these motherfuckers keep doing

1939
01:30:46,120 --> 01:30:48,240
Speaker 3: these crimes because no one takes some serious. We need

1940
01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:52,000
Speaker 3: a Kamala Harris out there to lock these niggas up. Okay,

1941
01:30:52,400 --> 01:30:53,360
Speaker 3: I sink of this shit.

1942
01:30:53,720 --> 01:30:55,719
Speaker 5: Lock them up, lock them up.

1943
01:30:55,840 --> 01:30:58,920
Speaker 2: We need more cop malas okay. And then the second.

1944
01:30:58,560 --> 01:31:01,720
Speaker 3: Part of this is the LAICE Union doesn't actually care

1945
01:31:01,760 --> 01:31:02,760
Speaker 3: about the crime either.

1946
01:31:02,840 --> 01:31:04,360
Speaker 2: They're not really being serious.

1947
01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:07,840
Speaker 3: They just want to use it as leverage to talk

1948
01:31:07,920 --> 01:31:11,639
Speaker 3: shit about the DA because the DA told the police, hey,

1949
01:31:11,840 --> 01:31:15,559
Speaker 3: stop being racist and homophobic on the job. No one

1950
01:31:15,640 --> 01:31:18,480
Speaker 3: cares about the people that were victimims about this motherfucker

1951
01:31:18,479 --> 01:31:21,640
Speaker 3: with the sword at all. Leave the sword jokes to

1952
01:31:21,760 --> 01:31:25,160
Speaker 3: me and Karen. That's what we do on our show.

1953
01:31:25,320 --> 01:31:26,080
Speaker 5: That's what we do.

1954
01:31:26,520 --> 01:31:28,880
Speaker 3: The problem is, we wouldn't be making these Joseph, y'all

1955
01:31:28,880 --> 01:31:30,600
Speaker 3: was taking the shit serious. It wouldn't be nothing to

1956
01:31:30,640 --> 01:31:33,439
Speaker 3: laugh about if y'all take it fucking serious. No, we're

1957
01:31:33,439 --> 01:31:36,080
Speaker 3: in not public officials. We don't do mass shooting jokes.

1958
01:31:36,520 --> 01:31:37,080
Speaker 5: No, we don't.

1959
01:31:37,280 --> 01:31:39,760
Speaker 3: Right, take the fucking shit serious, and then we won't

1960
01:31:39,840 --> 01:31:42,760
Speaker 3: be having these conversations. All right, Hate to end on

1961
01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:45,720
Speaker 3: a down note, but god damn it.

1962
01:31:45,000 --> 01:31:46,879
Speaker 2: That's ridiculous. Be serious.

1963
01:31:47,600 --> 01:31:49,840
Speaker 3: I wish, I wish I would get stabbed by sword

1964
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:51,519
Speaker 3: and then see this nigga tweeting the joke.

1965
01:31:51,360 --> 01:31:57,719
Speaker 2: Out the fuck for me? Do your job. All right, guys,

1966
01:31:57,760 --> 01:31:58,160
Speaker 2: we'll be.

1967
01:31:58,120 --> 01:32:01,679
Speaker 3: Back probably Wednesday, take tomorrow off depending on how we feel.

1968
01:32:02,439 --> 01:32:05,519
Speaker 3: We'll be back Wednesday, Balls Deep is Thursday. Justin will

1969
01:32:05,560 --> 01:32:07,479
Speaker 3: be here, So that means y'all will get.

1970
01:32:07,320 --> 01:32:10,639
Speaker 4: Pregame, y'all, suspension, y'all will get pregame and Ball's Deep

1971
01:32:10,640 --> 01:32:11,720
Speaker 4: assuming he acts right.

1972
01:32:11,840 --> 01:32:14,840
Speaker 3: But if he says something about Marian, I don't know,

1973
01:32:15,479 --> 01:32:18,439
Speaker 3: I don't know, might just be me and suspension. So

1974
01:32:18,600 --> 01:32:20,720
Speaker 3: y'all have a problem with that. And I mean, I

1975
01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:22,320
Speaker 3: mean the doark is to take over.

1976
01:32:22,520 --> 01:32:23,479
Speaker 2: Y'all got a problem with that?

1977
01:32:23,680 --> 01:32:25,560
Speaker 3: You hit at rhyme over reason to tell them to

1978
01:32:25,560 --> 01:32:29,080
Speaker 3: act right, don't tell me? Okay, all right, we'll talk

1979
01:32:29,080 --> 01:32:29,639
Speaker 3: to y'all later.

1980
01:32:29,800 --> 01:32:31,920
Speaker 2: Till did I love you? Why