Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Rat, an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 3: Scrub dub and do scrub after your workout.
Speaker 4: I did, in fact scrub after my workout.
Speaker 3: Why did you hesitate?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 6: Because I actually, you know, I do the Lord's work
Speaker 6: and I get the scrubbers, one scrubber at a time,
Speaker 6: and I think I have made I think I converted
Speaker 6: a new scrubber today in my workout class.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 6: So I have a two hour gap between the morning
Speaker 6: show when we do the podcast, so I try and
Speaker 6: do a workout so I can get my dorphins up
Speaker 6: and come back in here so that I'm ready to go.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 6: And I'd showered and I got out at the shower
Speaker 6: and this woman was like, you look so much like
Speaker 6: Tanya Rat And I was like I am Tanya Rat
Speaker 6: and She's like, no way, and I said yeah. And
Speaker 6: she was like, I listened to the morning show listen
Speaker 6: Kiss FM and we were just talking about all this stuff,
Speaker 6: exchanging pleasantries and uh, I was like, oh, if you
Speaker 6: love because FM and she knew so much about me.
Speaker 4: I was like, you should listen to my podcast. She
Speaker 4: shows what's it called. I said, scrubbing it with Thtillian
Speaker 4: Tanya around wherever you get your podcasts. So she said
Speaker 4: that she's definitely gonna check it out.
Speaker 1: And uh, this is going to change her life because
Speaker 1: she knew you were gluten free, like, shed so much
Speaker 1: about you, and yet she's never heard scrubbing out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so promoting us on the morning show often not often.
Speaker 4: Not not like every day, but yeah, it was news
Speaker 4: to me. Like I was like, oh, I can't believe
Speaker 4: she didn't know the name of my podcast.
Speaker 2: So although you do share a lot on the morning show,
Speaker 2: so her knowing that much about you, like you're gluten
Speaker 2: and hull like those things.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I feel like with the morning show it's
Speaker 4: very bite sized.
Speaker 3: With this. This is like the real miss is the
Speaker 3: whole meal.
Speaker 4: You don't get more me than this, right, Yeah, it.
Speaker 6: Turns out she's like totally badass modern woman. She's a
Speaker 6: private chef, Like, oh yeah, yes, I got her number
Speaker 6: and now we're texting.
Speaker 1: You didn't mention that you were nude during this conversation?
Speaker 6: Yes, I oh, well I wasn't nude, but I just
Speaker 6: got out of the shower.
Speaker 4: So I had like a town around me. I was
Speaker 4: about to pull my towel down just because I just
Speaker 4: get naked in there. I don't care. Just put me,
Speaker 4: you know. Yeah, thank goodness I held it on for low.
Speaker 4: That would an awkward I'm naked, I'm like, yes, hello,
Speaker 4: this is me.
Speaker 3: That would have felt very barbiesque though.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like the girls doing the girls, you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: girls doing girl things, et cetera.
Speaker 4: Exactly. So we have a new Scrubs sister, hopefully.
Speaker 3: What was her name, Devora?
Speaker 2: Devora. Shout out to Devora. If you're listening to this episode.
Speaker 1: She starts at the beginning. She'll hear this in like
Speaker 1: twenty twenty seven.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 2: Hayley the other day goes how often do y'all do
Speaker 2: the podcast?
Speaker 3: And I go every week? What do you mean?
Speaker 2: And she's like like, you don't have like you know
Speaker 2: how this show has seasons and it's like you have
Speaker 2: a break And she was like, do you ever have
Speaker 2: the breaks?
Speaker 3: And I was like no, I mean okay, technically no.
Speaker 2: Because we always record an episode for the holiday, so
Speaker 2: like we might not work on the holiday, but we
Speaker 2: have an episode.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I wish we had seasons.
Speaker 2: I think the whole thing podcast, though, is the consistency
Speaker 2: of a weekly episode I do.
Speaker 6: I don't want I'm not saying I want to like
Speaker 6: go away for periods of time, but I wish that
Speaker 6: we had like every year. I wish it was like
Speaker 6: a season, you know what I mean, Like that was
Speaker 6: season one of scrubbing In, Scrubbing In. This is season three,
Speaker 6: because like we can.
Speaker 3: Make this, we can say we can do whatever we want. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so like.
Speaker 2: We could say year one was the season Sex and
Speaker 2: the City.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like we should.
Speaker 6: We should go back and make season single in the City.
Speaker 4: That could have been three four seasons honestly, yeah, true, Yeah,
Speaker 4: speaking of we should label them, actually we should.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean I don't know if it made, but yeah,
Speaker 2: I guess for new listeners, if they go back and
Speaker 2: they see like season one, season two, maybe it'll be like, yeah, crashing,
Speaker 2: even for our scrubbers, it's so cute. We'll have to
Speaker 2: find like a starting an endpoint where it makes sense
Speaker 2: to be the finale.
Speaker 6: Well, no, I think we would just do like gen
Speaker 6: one of whatever year through December.
Speaker 2: We started in September, so does it go September to
Speaker 2: August like a school year type thing.
Speaker 4: Sure, we can do school year.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, well we'll troubleshoot that.
Speaker 4: We'll troubleshoot. It sounds super cute.
Speaker 2: Sounds cute and a little unnecessary. But I think there's
Speaker 2: bigger things we can do with the podcast and such energy,
Speaker 2: such a live shows, cool merge, like lots of different things.
Speaker 2: Probably before we create seasons for old episodes.
Speaker 6: That would take us ten minutes if we sat down
Speaker 6: and actually did it.
Speaker 4: It would take us ten minutes to do that, maybe twenty.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't listened to old episodes, like I'll listen.
Speaker 4: Back, my god, girl, you're missing out.
Speaker 2: No, Like when people will send them listen to this,
Speaker 2: I'll listen, but it's not like I go back and
Speaker 2: listen to the whole start.
Speaker 6: People will send me stuff that we said in the
Speaker 6: beginning of the podcast that's so crazy.
Speaker 3: Like everything I've said.
Speaker 2: There's so many things in the past in my life
Speaker 2: that I've said that are crazy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I've.
Speaker 6: Always I guess I always said that I think I'm
Speaker 6: gonna end up with a guy that has kids because
Speaker 6: I want many kids, but I don't think I'm gonna
Speaker 6: burn them all.
Speaker 4: Oh really, Yeah, I'm like, how who knew that?
Speaker 2: Speaking of I texted you about this, Robbie is such
Speaker 2: a sweet dad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he is the loves those kids so much.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they're like a part of him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really cool.
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe it's unfair to see say this,
Speaker 2: but like sometimes I don't feel like maybe it's a
Speaker 2: man don't get to feel the u freedom to express themselves.
Speaker 2: But like the way he expresses his feelings towards his
Speaker 2: kids is like really really sweet.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I will.
Speaker 6: Say that's something that really like turned me on early
Speaker 6: days with him, is how good? Like again, I do
Speaker 6: think maybe it is dads get a bad rap.
Speaker 3: But like.
Speaker 6: I never felt love like to me, he is the
Speaker 6: epitome of what you want in a dad.
Speaker 4: Ford. That's why I'm like so horning for him.
Speaker 2: You just never know when a conversation is gonna take
Speaker 2: a sharp, sharp turn.
Speaker 6: No, but I think it's really you know, you, when
Speaker 6: you're dating somebody, you always think what are they going
Speaker 6: to be like as a dad? And I was able
Speaker 6: to see that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it I imagine gives you confidence for when
Speaker 2: y'all have kids that you're like, we're chilling, chilling.
Speaker 6: I think it's going to be good that I have
Speaker 6: somebody along with me that like can calm me down.
Speaker 4: You know, yeah, yeah, man, I know talk about spiral sisters.
Speaker 3: Why.
Speaker 4: I just feel like that that's like a whole journey
Speaker 4: that's gonna be.
Speaker 2: You and Ali have children at the same time. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna be booked and busy. I'm gonna be like twenty
Speaker 2: four hour call between the two of you.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be crazy, glorious.
Speaker 4: Yeah, You're very lucky.
Speaker 3: I'm so lucky. Your post yesterday was so nice. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and I'm like it was like not my birthday or anything,
Speaker 3: so I.
Speaker 4: Was like where it was in an International Friendship Day?
Speaker 3: I know, I don't all of those things very well.
Speaker 4: You should put them in your calendar. They're important to celebrate.
Speaker 2: I feel like we have been like every three months,
Speaker 2: so I feel like there's some sort of like.
Speaker 4: Well there Frinday best frienday, and there's like International best FRIENDAY,
Speaker 4: and there's like International Women's Day, and.
Speaker 3: It's a lot. There's a lot.
Speaker 2: But it was so thoughtful and kind and that song
Speaker 2: is so.
Speaker 6: I cannot So I heard the song before I saw Barbie,
Speaker 6: and I was like, oh, this song's.
Speaker 4: Kind of whack.
Speaker 6: Now I'm obsessed with that song and I can't get
Speaker 6: enough of that song.
Speaker 3: It's so emotional.
Speaker 2: Barbie was a I've been thinking about it NonStop since
Speaker 2: I saw it too. It'll just pop into my mind
Speaker 2: and I'll think of like something else that an emotion
Speaker 2: evoked me too.
Speaker 3: Should we get into that?
Speaker 4: Sure?
Speaker 3: So Haley and I went.
Speaker 2: Hailey had already seen it while I went to Hawaii
Speaker 2: with my mom, which we can get into later, but
Speaker 2: she had already seen it and she was like, I
Speaker 2: really She called me. She's like, that was one of
Speaker 2: the best movies I've ever seen, Like, I can't wait
Speaker 2: to see it again with you. So we went on Saturday,
Speaker 2: and I had heard, like just from what I've seen
Speaker 2: on social media, I still didn't really understand what the
Speaker 2: plot was or like what it was about either.
Speaker 6: I'd heard so much about it, but it was like
Speaker 6: if somebody asked me what it was about, I'd say,
Speaker 6: I don't I have no idea.
Speaker 2: Which remember when Jojo and Jordan went to the premiere
Speaker 2: and then we had dinner and we were like, how
Speaker 2: was it and they both couldn't like particulate it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, which again oh.
Speaker 4: Really, well now and reverse, I feel like the explanation
Speaker 4: could have been a little better. Jojo.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm saying, like, like the plot of it,
Speaker 5: they're like they're barbies that enter like a portal, but
Speaker 5: you don't really they didn't explain why they enter, like
Speaker 5: why she was going to the real world, which was
Speaker 5: to find the girl who had been playing with her.
Speaker 2: Right anyways, Yeah, so I just heard it was emotional.
Speaker 2: Easton's review really got me hyped for it because I
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, they didn't really Jordan and Jojo were like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, it's amazing.
Speaker 3: They were just like, yeah, it was good, it was entertaining.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, east interview, I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: I trust.
Speaker 6: But you know what's interesting Easton is that I'm seeing
Speaker 6: this whole slew of men that are appalled by the movie.
Speaker 4: Oh have you seen it too?
Speaker 1: Fragile fragile individuals.
Speaker 4: I'm like, it's a satire. It's meant to be like, well.
Speaker 2: They're like they make men look so dumb and like
Speaker 2: this so and I'm like, to be honest, at the end,
Speaker 2: she was so nice to him that I'm like, they
Speaker 2: could have made this so much worse for men.
Speaker 1: Look, they're mocking toxic masculinity. Yeah, Like, if you're offended
Speaker 1: by this, you may want to look internally on that
Speaker 1: because those are not good guys that they're mocking. But
Speaker 1: I don't even point out that the patriarchy serves nobody.
Speaker 1: It doesn't serve men, well, it doesn't serve women. Well,
Speaker 1: it's bad.
Speaker 6: But I thought that they were trying to say, they're like,
Speaker 6: at least make the point that, like, the way men
Speaker 6: are treated in Barbie Land is kind of the way
Speaker 6: women are treated in real life.
Speaker 8: But better though, valid because when the movie starts, all
Speaker 8: the kens they're not objectified, they're not you know, they're
Speaker 8: not like in danger. They're just not in charge, right, so,
Speaker 8: which is like a much better position than women are
Speaker 8: in the real world. I think, Yeah, and that's what
Speaker 8: has them so mad, Like you're just ignored sometimes, come on, bro,
Speaker 8: Like that makes me so mad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it.
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, it's not surprising at all, but it is interesting
Speaker 2: to think that. Like in my mind, I was thinking,
Speaker 2: I hope that if someone goes in and sees that
Speaker 2: movie that they would feel challenged, if anything, Like, why
Speaker 2: do I feel defensive about this? Like maybe, but that's
Speaker 2: an emotion, like you have to be emotionally aware and
Speaker 2: intelligent enough to go there.
Speaker 3: But yeah, the shift when she I guess spoiler alert,
Speaker 3: I don't know, like you even get it really a spoiler.
Speaker 4: I don't think.
Speaker 2: Well, the shift when you go to when she goes
Speaker 2: to the real world and it was like, all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, the men were objectifying her and her like
Speaker 2: like while she was rollerblading. Yeah, it was like this,
Speaker 2: I felt it so heavily from being like, oh, this
Speaker 2: blissful world of Barbie Land to like that was so
Speaker 2: jarring to me. Yeah, it was like they try to
Speaker 2: encompassed that feeling of like just being a woman walking
Speaker 2: outside and the fear and like just like grossness that
Speaker 2: you can encounter.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I thought the brilliance of the movie, and
Speaker 1: again it's a minor spoiler, but the idea that there's
Speaker 1: a sadness. The sadness of Barbie is not for kids
Speaker 1: when they stopped playing with Barbie, and that's kind of
Speaker 1: where you think they're going. The sadness is for the
Speaker 1: parents when the kids stopped playing with Barbie. And that's
Speaker 1: a brilliant take on the whole thing. Because man, I
Speaker 1: struggled when my kids gave up their barbies. That was
Speaker 1: a rough day for me.
Speaker 2: It's really profound because that's like they're growing up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and they're fine, they're fine to get rid
Speaker 1: of their barbies because that they're ready to they're ready
Speaker 1: to grow up. But as parents, you're like, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no not yet.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: That hit me hard and then tight in.
Speaker 2: I don't know if this tied into that is the
Speaker 2: reality of how like losing your innocence. Like even the
Speaker 2: song that Billy wrote, what was I Made for? She's
Speaker 2: like I was floating and now I'm falling, and it's
Speaker 2: like you're a kid and you're floating and there's nothing wrong,
Speaker 2: you have no worries, you're not thinking about anything, and
Speaker 2: then you grow up and it's like, all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: it feels heavy, like life feels heavy.
Speaker 4: Life feels heavy.
Speaker 3: It was amazing.
Speaker 4: It was amazing, and I cried at the end, Oh.
Speaker 2: Me too, take my hand up, And they showed the montage.
Speaker 6: Yeah, when I was gonna say that when the Billy
Speaker 6: song started, Yeah, that's kind of when I was. Because
Speaker 6: it's also very interesting because America Frere is monologue about
Speaker 6: just like being a woman in general. It's such this
Speaker 6: like dichotomy of all these roles we have to play,
Speaker 6: you know, like the business woman, but like you can't
Speaker 6: cut men down otherwise you're this and you want to
Speaker 6: make money, but you can't ask for money because that's crass.
Speaker 6: And like it's just all these crazy that you you
Speaker 6: you want to be thin, but you can't say that
Speaker 6: you want to be thin. And I mean, it was
Speaker 6: all these being a mother and like all it was
Speaker 6: so well done, and I just like lost it because
Speaker 6: it's also like I feel like it made me think
Speaker 6: of that saying of like you can have it all,
Speaker 6: but you can't have it all at the same time.
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
Speaker 6: And I think that that's saying is true for women,
Speaker 6: Like we can't have it all at the same time,
Speaker 6: you know, like when you have a baby, like your
Speaker 6: body actually needs to feed another human being, and like
Speaker 6: you cannot be doing all these things when you're breastfeeding.
Speaker 6: And it's like we as women, we can't, and so
Speaker 6: we have to have seasons of life and compartmentalize and like,
Speaker 6: I don't know, it was just it was all these
Speaker 6: crazy thoughts that were and I just.
Speaker 3: Like lost it. That speech was were Yeah, it was
Speaker 3: so good. My my whole body, I have like full
Speaker 3: body chills.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was so good. I want to do Barbie
Speaker 6: again for Halloween this year.
Speaker 3: I get it.
Speaker 2: I wanted a different I was saying that was like
Speaker 2: everyone dressed up as Barbie, Like every woman dressed up
Speaker 2: as Barbie for Halloween.
Speaker 3: There was this thing that was like should we all
Speaker 3: dress up as Barbie's for Halloween.
Speaker 1: I missed that, just like everyone in America.
Speaker 8: Like walking down the street just hearing hi Barbie or whatever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I texted Tanya because before we walked into
Speaker 2: the theater, there were these two groups of girls taking
Speaker 2: photos for each other in the like Barbie box and
Speaker 2: they were all dressed up and like in character.
Speaker 3: And then uh, they were like thank you for taking
Speaker 3: our photo.
Speaker 2: They exchanged you know, thank yous, and then as the
Speaker 2: other group was walking away, the group was like bye Barbie.
Speaker 3: It was so cute. There was just something so unifying.
Speaker 2: That's the word I was gonna say. But then also
Speaker 2: just like sweet, I don't know, it was really cool.
Speaker 4: I'm saying it now my every day.
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, Marmy, yes you have and I do
Speaker 2: have to say I love like Ryan Gosling was brilliant.
Speaker 2: He was so funny and like it balanced out the
Speaker 2: emotions of the movie because the underlying theme was pretty heavy,
Speaker 2: right like.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd say yeah, but then there was.
Speaker 2: Like this comedy aspect that he brought. It was so good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was really good.
Speaker 3: Wow, I was gonna go into something else in Hawaii
Speaker 3: tripe with your mom?
Speaker 2: Should we take a break before we get Okay? Great,
Speaker 2: all right, we are back. So I went to Kawaii
Speaker 2: with my mom. So here, I guess like a year
Speaker 2: or two ago. I was just talking to my mom
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, like where she hasn't I mean,
Speaker 2: she raised five kids and it's you know, traveling. We
Speaker 2: would like go on our beach trip every year, but
Speaker 2: she hasn't traveled a lot. So I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: where would you want to go? And she was like, well,
Speaker 2: I've always wanted to go to New York and.
Speaker 3: Hawaii, it's just so far.
Speaker 2: So last year during the fall, I took her to
Speaker 2: New York and we had like the best time. And
Speaker 2: then for her sixtieth I was like, oh, it would
Speaker 2: be so fun to get to go to take her
Speaker 2: to Hawaii.
Speaker 3: So we went to Kawai and we had the best time.
Speaker 2: It was like so fun getting to have uninterrupted time
Speaker 2: and it was it actually felt like every night there
Speaker 2: would be something where we got like the giggles, and
Speaker 2: it felt like we were just like.
Speaker 3: Two friends, you know.
Speaker 2: And I think it kind of opened this new relationship
Speaker 2: with my mom in a way where it really, yeah,
Speaker 2: we're just felt like we talked, you know, we laughed.
Speaker 2: She hiked to a waterfall, which was a really intense hike,
Speaker 2: and I was just so impressed with her. I was
Speaker 2: just like, this is amazing because she she just turned sixty,
Speaker 2: and I almost forget, like in my mind because she
Speaker 2: is an act so young. I think like, oh, you know,
Speaker 2: she can do what I can do. And she did actually,
Speaker 2: but it was like I had to remember, like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: she's not thirty five or going on thirty five. But
Speaker 2: it was just so fun and I was so happy
Speaker 2: that we got to do it, and I felt so
Speaker 2: grateful that I was able to like take.
Speaker 3: Her on a trip like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like being able to experience and do those things
Speaker 2: together was just like really special.
Speaker 4: It's so nice, and uh.
Speaker 2: I know, it's like some of my friends were. They
Speaker 2: were like, I need to do something like that with
Speaker 2: my mom. Look, I need to like do something.
Speaker 6: And I know it's sat because it's like I always
Speaker 6: feel I always feel like bad, like I only want
Speaker 6: to do stuff with my mom around, only with her
Speaker 6: on like around Mother's Day, and only stuff with my
Speaker 6: dad around like Father's Day, because I feel like we
Speaker 6: don't have all that much time together. So when I
Speaker 6: see them, I want to see them both, you know
Speaker 6: what I mean, Like I would feel bad.
Speaker 4: Picking a parent to go away with, you know what
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 3: But why you could do a trip with both of
Speaker 3: them individually?
Speaker 2: Yeah, individually, that's true, but like a week.
Speaker 4: You know, like there's only so much time in a year,
Speaker 4: and you know what I mean, like.
Speaker 3: The week, but even like a weekend or something.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean obviously this is like a big
Speaker 2: trip because it was for her birthday and stuff, and
Speaker 2: it was a longer trip, but it was really fun.
Speaker 2: And then we got back and we went to the
Speaker 2: Kershaw Ping Pong Challenge ping pong for purpose.
Speaker 4: I was not invited back this.
Speaker 3: Year, and my partner was really good, Like I felt
Speaker 3: like you.
Speaker 4: Always get a dodger didn't you have a Dodger Oh yeah,
Speaker 4: well they had.
Speaker 2: So when we we were going, I had originally had
Speaker 2: my mom as my plus one, and then I asked.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, can can I get other plus one?
Speaker 2: And I was going to invite my sister and Haley
Speaker 2: and they're like oh yeah. So Haley ended up coming
Speaker 2: and so in the email chat, she's like, oh, would
Speaker 2: you want to? Would you and Haley want to be partners?
Speaker 2: I was like, that could call some fights. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I don't even know if.
Speaker 4: Haley, it's for the best that you weren't, let me
Speaker 4: tell you.
Speaker 2: So my partner, Evan was like amazing, and I felt
Speaker 2: like we had a good rhythm.
Speaker 3: We just played.
Speaker 2: We went from like dominating in our first round to
Speaker 2: play in a.
Speaker 3: Really hard team team.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: He was the manager of the Dodgers, Dave Roberts.
Speaker 4: Sure if that's the Is there.
Speaker 3: Only one manager the Dodgers have?
Speaker 1: One manager's name is Dave Roberts.
Speaker 2: I want to say his name was Dave, so that
Speaker 2: checks out. Let me just do it. Confirmation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that guy. I slammed it on him and it
Speaker 3: like hit him in the chest and he was like, Okay,
Speaker 3: let's go.
Speaker 1: That's great.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we almost had a comeback.
Speaker 2: Like it was one of those where like we were
Speaker 2: scoring and they were at game point and then they
Speaker 2: just like slammed it.
Speaker 3: But it was really fun.
Speaker 1: Second, who was your partner?
Speaker 3: Evan Phillips.
Speaker 4: He's a Dodger. He's okay, yeah, he's a Dodger.
Speaker 1: Roberts paired up with.
Speaker 2: So his guy was he worked also for the Dodgers. Okay,
Speaker 2: like a coach maybe, yeah, I don't think a coach.
Speaker 1: Hit it off pretty well. Nice guy, yeah, so nice,
Speaker 1: that's good.
Speaker 2: His so his wife, my mom, and Haley were like
Speaker 2: our cheer squad, and Haley was like, my stomach wasn't
Speaker 2: not watching you, Like, I don't know how people could
Speaker 2: date professional athletes, And I was like, yeah, that's that stuff.
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly that would stress me out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, well, watching someone in a serious game
Speaker 2: like the Super Bowl or like, oh that would yeah,
Speaker 2: but the ping pong for purpose challenge is different, you.
Speaker 3: Know, I get it.
Speaker 4: Pretty stressful situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So it was a really fun week, but I
Speaker 2: definitely felt like when I took my mom to the
Speaker 2: airport the next morning and got home and I did
Speaker 2: not get out.
Speaker 3: Of bed all day.
Speaker 6: I was like Alie and I had a side chat
Speaker 6: because like I'd be texting back and I'm like Hi, Barbie,
Speaker 6: Hey crickets.
Speaker 4: Hey Barbie, Hey Barbie.
Speaker 6: So I got crickets from her for like a day
Speaker 6: and I was like whatever. And then Ali texted me
Speaker 6: the next day and she's like, hey, has Becca got
Speaker 6: dark on you? And I was like, yeah, she's not
Speaker 6: responding to me either, so I think she just like
Speaker 6: tapped out.
Speaker 2: I was just like, I, well, I'm reading there's this
Speaker 2: audio book which you have to listen to it.
Speaker 3: It's called Your Brain on Love, and it's.
Speaker 2: This psychology couples therapist psychologists, and he's amazing.
Speaker 4: What does he say?
Speaker 2: Well, it kind of talks about like there's two there's
Speaker 2: three types of people, like just in life, there's an island,
Speaker 2: a wave and an anchor. And the island like kind
Speaker 2: of like has their space, needs their space. They were
Speaker 2: raised in a way where they're like self soothing and
Speaker 2: they recharge on their own.
Speaker 3: They don't like need to talk things out.
Speaker 4: It's not me.
Speaker 2: The wave is like needs to talk things out, like
Speaker 2: I want to have a conversation. They can't go to
Speaker 2: bed without like like Haley is a wave. She needs
Speaker 2: to recap the day every night. So like, yeah, we
Speaker 2: got home from Hawaii and I'm dead. It's like midnight
Speaker 2: by the time we get home and stuff, and I'm
Speaker 2: laying in bed like about to doze off, and Haley's like.
Speaker 3: What was your favorite part of the trip?
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, I can't wait to tell you,
Speaker 2: but I think I'm gonna have to wait till tomorrow.
Speaker 4: It is so crazy how similar Haley and I are.
Speaker 4: It is quite jarring. Actually.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So anyways, I needed to like recharge, like I just
Speaker 2: because it was you know, I went to Hawaii with
Speaker 2: Haley and then I went to Louisiana from with my family,
Speaker 2: and then mom and I went to Hawaii. It was
Speaker 2: just like there was like go go go, and it
Speaker 2: was all so much fun and at the same time, I.
Speaker 3: Was just like tapped out. Yeah, So I told Tanya.
Speaker 2: She's like are you good? And I'm like I'm just decompressing.
Speaker 2: She's like, from what are you okay? I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 2: just like overstimulated something.
Speaker 6: So then I, knowing your love language, left you alone.
Speaker 3: And you did and I really appreciated that, Thank you.
Speaker 3: I didn't feel pressure.
Speaker 6: I feel like I'm doing a better job of being
Speaker 6: a better person to other people. That's great, like reading
Speaker 6: their social cues and giving them what they need, you
Speaker 6: know what I mean.
Speaker 3: As opposed to just.
Speaker 9: What you need.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's that takes a lot of awareness to.
Speaker 4: That self aware.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, let's not take it too far.
Speaker 6: I'm so self aware in this new year of life.
Speaker 6: It's crazy. Waitne, what's the anchor?
Speaker 2: So the ancher is kind of just like this steady
Speaker 2: person who like can adapt to different I feel like
Speaker 2: I was an anchor before I.
Speaker 4: Fell in love, and then now you're a wave.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 2: So I feel like I was always an island and
Speaker 2: then I felt like I I was like an anchor.
Speaker 2: I felt like with island tendencies where I like needed
Speaker 2: my own space and whatever was fine alone. And then
Speaker 2: meeting Haley has brought out more wave like tendencies.
Speaker 3: So it's kind of it's not like everyone. There's not
Speaker 3: someone who's like one hundred percent.
Speaker 6: Say, I'm kind of I think a majority wave with
Speaker 6: anchor like tendencies.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's the goal is like you can get
Speaker 3: to an anchor.
Speaker 4: I have anchor like tendencies.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you should.
Speaker 4: I should put that on my profile anchor like tendencies
Speaker 4: anchor adjacent.
Speaker 2: I really think though, like whether you're in a relationship
Speaker 2: or not, it's one of those things that you listen
Speaker 2: to and it almost helps you kind of understand yourself
Speaker 2: but also understand other people, even if it's friendships or
Speaker 2: just people in general. If you're like, take offense to
Speaker 2: someone needing alone time, it's like, not not you, it's
Speaker 2: just what they need.
Speaker 6: That took me probably yours to be okay with with Robbie,
Speaker 6: because he is that guy. He he needs the time,
Speaker 6: he needs the night to think and process and maybe
Speaker 6: a day to process and really come back with. Like
Speaker 6: you know, in my mind, I always was just like, no, no, no,
Speaker 6: we have to do it now. We to do it now, right,
Speaker 6: Let's stay up till two o'clock in the morning and
Speaker 6: just figure it out now.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, because it feels like an abandonment thing, Yes.
Speaker 4: Exactly. Yes.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So anyways, I really appreciated you meeting me on
Speaker 3: my needs.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you. Yeah, it felt very mature.
Speaker 2: About you and Ali were able to have each other
Speaker 2: because she was also like are you good, Like what's
Speaker 2: going on and I'm like, I'm good, I'm just tired. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but yeah, we Haley and I just had like a
Speaker 2: day night on Saturday, and then yesterday had just like
Speaker 2: went and got feed stuff and made uh bracelets to
Speaker 2: trade for the Taylor Slip concert which is happening this week.
Speaker 4: Very much.
Speaker 1: My tickets came in during this podcast just now. I'm
Speaker 1: very excited.
Speaker 3: Congratulate, thank you, Whoop.
Speaker 1: A week from tonight, we'll be there. Everyone's going, the
Speaker 1: whole family is going yes.
Speaker 3: Wow, and Tanya's going yes.
Speaker 4: I haven't told you what we're gonna wear.
Speaker 3: Oh, what are you gonna wear? Barbie clothes?
Speaker 4: No, we're gonna be invisible string.
Speaker 6: So it's either one of two ways.
Speaker 4: It's one of two ways.
Speaker 6: Either Robbie is gonna be the invisible and I'm gonna
Speaker 6: get already ordered just a bunch of string and I'm
Speaker 6: just gonna like wear a normal clothes and tie a
Speaker 6: bunch of string around me, so it's like invisible string, okay.
Speaker 6: Or we're gonna take the string and we're gonna tie
Speaker 6: it around the two of us together, holding us together,
Speaker 6: that missile string holding us together.
Speaker 2: That feels like a rough night for both mostly Robbie,
Speaker 2: mostly Robbie.
Speaker 6: He expressed concern over that, and I gave him a
Speaker 6: solution that we would wrap ourselves and then we would
Speaker 6: have like one little string like tying us together that
Speaker 6: we could untie to like use the restroom.
Speaker 3: Be But what about like walking around? What's that going
Speaker 3: to be? Like so fun?
Speaker 2: It feels a little more so like he'll just have
Speaker 2: a shirt that says invisible.
Speaker 4: No, he just wears whatever he wants. He likes that idea,
Speaker 4: I'm sure.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And then you have strings tied all over.
Speaker 4: All over me. Yeah, I could be what I'm wearing
Speaker 4: now and just like tie a bunch of string around me.
Speaker 3: I have an idea. What what about you get like.
Speaker 6: We could write invisible on a hat and like he
Speaker 6: could be that that.
Speaker 1: Wasn't worth a gasp? I don't think.
Speaker 8: Are people doing this literal of costs of people?
Speaker 2: Are people are like taking a tiny lyric and like
Speaker 2: creating costumes out of it?
Speaker 6: Yeah, so much to choose from, but like so on
Speaker 6: brand for us, it's our song. How do we not
Speaker 6: be invisible?
Speaker 4: String? To the tailor show?
Speaker 3: How do you not be invisible? String?
Speaker 2: Okay, what if you got like safe, tiny little safety
Speaker 2: pins and you got different colored string and put that
Speaker 2: all over you, like just to like a white tank
Speaker 2: like that, and you just had strings all over you.
Speaker 3: And then he had the same thing like camo.
Speaker 1: On because you're invisibly when you're in camo.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not a bad idea.
Speaker 4: Tell me you talk to me about the safety pins again.
Speaker 2: Well, it's just like you like weave the safety pin
Speaker 2: and tight so you're safety. So it kind of looks
Speaker 2: cool because it's like safety pins, Like you could get
Speaker 2: gold safety pins and you just get little strings, tie
Speaker 2: knot and put the the sharp part through the knot
Speaker 2: and put that all over your shirt.
Speaker 4: There's just a bunch of string on my shirt instead
Speaker 4: of wrapping it around myself.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just think it'd give you a little more
Speaker 2: range of motion. Just something to think about consider.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but your ideas are that's right, So don't not
Speaker 4: a bad idea.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I've told my kids will wear whatever you want if
Speaker 1: you want to give because they talk about what era
Speaker 1: should I be, and I told the nineteen eighty nine
Speaker 1: is my favorite. But I'll wear whatever you guys want
Speaker 1: me to wear. If you got with thrift shop or whatever.
Speaker 1: But I don't know what we'll see because you know,
Speaker 1: the wife has a veto as well, and so she
Speaker 1: gets embarrassed. So yeah, like I wanted to wear all
Speaker 1: pink to Barbie. Yeah, way to compromise. And I just
Speaker 1: wore pink shorts to Barbie. But I was like, I'll
Speaker 1: wear pink shirt, pink shorts, I'll wear it all. Was like, no, no, no.
Speaker 2: No, listen, your your wife is being a little bit.
Speaker 1: She's easily embarrassed.
Speaker 8: Everyone's wearing pink at Barbie.
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, it is hard to be my
Speaker 1: wife and be easily embarrassed. But twenty one years now,
Speaker 1: oh wow, yeah, so we'll see, we'll see what we wear.
Speaker 1: And there's still drama because you know I told you
Speaker 1: that my fourteen year old got offered to go with
Speaker 1: a friend's family. Well, our seats are better because I
Speaker 1: got them through the radio station.
Speaker 3: I was wondering if that was going to happen.
Speaker 1: Yes, we have better seats than now. We're trying to
Speaker 1: work it out because we could do it with the
Speaker 1: three kids. Three kids sit in the good seats and
Speaker 1: then the four of us then but then Brooklyn's friends
Speaker 1: older sister is stuck with the grown ups.
Speaker 4: Well, sorry, so we may put the four.
Speaker 1: Kids up there the way. I don't know. I actually
Speaker 1: don't know where those seats are. I don't know where
Speaker 1: their seats are.
Speaker 4: The kids the better seats.
Speaker 1: Agree, there's four kids in three seats.
Speaker 4: Sorry, sorry, sorry, it's like the Hunger Games. Someone to go.
Speaker 1: They were kind enough to invite my daughter.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 1: I think it'd be mean to exclude.
Speaker 4: But you give that choice to them. That Sophie's choice
Speaker 4: needs to be to their per right.
Speaker 1: Fair.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't make the choice. You don't grab a kid.
Speaker 3: I had a sixth sense that this was going to happen.
Speaker 2: Fortunately, Yeah, because I was thinking, I don't know where
Speaker 2: his front, I don't know where their seats are, but
Speaker 2: I know Mark's going to get them through the radio,
Speaker 2: so it's probably gonna be better seats.
Speaker 4: I think you give it.
Speaker 1: Well, we'll see it out. One thing is not a
Speaker 1: possibility I've been told is switching like during the show
Speaker 1: is not going to happen because you can't get between
Speaker 1: different sections at the stadium.
Speaker 3: It's so big.
Speaker 4: What are you gonna wear, Barbie.
Speaker 2: I haven't figured it out yet, but themed I'm gonna
Speaker 2: My goal is to be themed. I have one top
Speaker 2: that's giving midnight rain, but it's very heavy. It's like metal.
Speaker 4: It's hot, it's gonna be hot. It's kind of chain
Speaker 4: like and it's gonna be hot.
Speaker 2: And it Yeah, it's a movie.
Speaker 4: Not so you're gonna be wrapped in strings mummy walking
Speaker 4: around you guys, Oh my god, Sorry we didn't know
Speaker 4: what the vision is.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's not gonna be like mummy status because it's
Speaker 6: gonna be like I look like I'm string on me.
Speaker 4: Maybe a nice little necklace or something.
Speaker 2: Oh well, okay, well that changes everything. Just a necklace and.
Speaker 4: Like mummy vibes.
Speaker 8: You know that was picturing like a low commitment mummy.
Speaker 1: Not even.
Speaker 4: You because.
Speaker 3: It's yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you need some fishing line that's invisible.
Speaker 1: That's good.
Speaker 4: It's not a bad idea. That's not a bad idea.
Speaker 2: We do need to talk about summer. I turn pretty
Speaker 2: and and just like that. So I think we take
Speaker 2: a break and come back.
Speaker 4: It's such a bummer that nobody watches Love Island.
Speaker 3: Well, you can.
Speaker 2: All we hear about on your story is Love Island.
Speaker 2: So you need to get a clip in on this
Speaker 2: and take your take advantage.
Speaker 4: We can talk to me with it. Now, I can.
Speaker 2: Maybe try to ask questions that can spur the conversation.
Speaker 3: Let's see how good I am.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, we'll be right back.
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Speaker 4: Do you express Phoebe's ants? Really quick?
Speaker 2: Quick side note before we get into yeah.
Speaker 4: No, I know, no, I don't mean you, but do
Speaker 4: you get sometimes she goes to the groomer every time,
Speaker 4: every time they do it. We have this debate earlier
Speaker 4: and some people say it's not necessary, We'll just fill
Speaker 4: back up. So it's like you're constantly expressing.
Speaker 3: Them, phoebe.
Speaker 2: When I know when I'm like, I try to keep
Speaker 2: her on a pretty consistent grooming schedule. It's like once
Speaker 2: every I would say, like four to six weeks, it's
Speaker 2: so bad.
Speaker 3: No, why'd you make that face?
Speaker 4: It just feels far. Oh do you bathe her?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 11: She doesn't even go outside okay, okay, and she was
Speaker 11: going to the park with other dogs and stuff. But
Speaker 11: I do have like wipes where I wipe her feet
Speaker 11: before bed, but that's really the extent of it.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: Anyways, So when she'll start doing the thing where she
Speaker 2: scoots her butt on the and that's when I go, okay,
Speaker 2: it's time. So like literally the day after, I'll try
Speaker 2: and get her into the groomer. Yeah all right, you
Speaker 2: don't get her anal glance expressed every time.
Speaker 6: I did, And then she would scoot her butt a
Speaker 6: lot after she got groomed, and so then I was like,
Speaker 6: she is she not expressing them all the way? So
Speaker 6: now I'm going to take her to the vet to
Speaker 6: do it, because I feel like surgically they know what's up.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 6: I mean, now, I don't know if it's totally necessary, so,
Speaker 6: you know, it's just something that's going on in my
Speaker 6: dog mom brain.
Speaker 2: You could do it yourself if you wanted to put
Speaker 2: some gloves on.
Speaker 3: How do you do it? I don't know.
Speaker 2: But my mom did it to our family dog time.
Speaker 2: She did it outside at the time, they lived on
Speaker 2: a golf course. My sister said the whole entire outside smelled.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 3: After that, I was like, no.
Speaker 4: I asked my bet if I could go in the
Speaker 4: room and watch her do it, and they said, no.
Speaker 3: You're so so rude.
Speaker 4: You know, I just want to be there for my dog. Okay, Wow,
Speaker 4: anyway to t back to TV.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess quick side note, Yeah, how did you?
Speaker 3: How did you enter that?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 4: The just her just texted me. So I just saw
Speaker 4: it and I was like.
Speaker 3: Are you caught up on the summery term? Pretty?
Speaker 4: I'm not caught up?
Speaker 3: Now how far are you?
Speaker 4: I'm four episodes in.
Speaker 2: You saw the arcade up as the boardwalk episode, the competition.
Speaker 4: Then I'm three episodes in.
Speaker 1: Oh boy?
Speaker 2: All right, Well we won't talk about that much much
Speaker 2: for that, but it here's my thing. I know, the
Speaker 2: show in general is corny, Like it's just like it's
Speaker 2: teenagers falling in love, but it's like sweet. Like I
Speaker 2: thoroughly enjoyed the first season. I really enjoy the show
Speaker 2: this second season. That episode it was like a boardwalk
Speaker 2: episode where they were just.
Speaker 3: Competing the whole time. Uh huh was the corny?
Speaker 2: It felt like such a filler episode. I was like,
Speaker 2: what's the point of this?
Speaker 6: So I've had some debates with people on Instagram about
Speaker 6: this show, and a lot of people think the first
Speaker 6: season was much better than the second season.
Speaker 3: Is that the That's the extent of the debate, Just like.
Speaker 6: Well, we were doing the whole team Jeremiah team Tomat
Speaker 6: thing and then it spiraled into like, for some reason,
Speaker 6: I just feel like I don't like this season as
Speaker 6: much as I like the first one, and like that
Speaker 6: seems to be the consensus.
Speaker 3: I know, but I can't figure out what it was.
Speaker 3: But man, it was tough Easton.
Speaker 2: We just quickly need to talk about And just like that,
Speaker 2: because boy Aiden came back on this last episode.
Speaker 8: I was putting it off because I knew I was
Speaker 8: enjoying the show. I was like having a rare moment
Speaker 8: where I was enjoying, and just like that, the last
Speaker 8: two episodes.
Speaker 2: I'm concerned about that alone.
Speaker 8: The last two before this, I was enjoying. Spoiler alert
Speaker 8: Jane Rander no more. I was very happy about that.
Speaker 8: But then spoiler alert, Yeah it happens.
Speaker 3: It's just like three people other than us still watching
Speaker 3: this show.
Speaker 8: Yeah, but we watched the newest one last night. I
Speaker 8: knew Aiden was coming back, and the episode sucks. It's terrible.
Speaker 8: But I saw Aidan's outfit beforehand on the Internet where
Speaker 8: he looks like Edward Scissorhands, and I was like, oh great,
Speaker 8: they don't even make my man look good like this.
Speaker 8: This is gonna suck so bad. The moment he did
Speaker 8: you watch it right? Okay, the moment where Carrie sees
Speaker 8: like there's a mix up in what restaurant they're going
Speaker 8: to mean that when Carrie sees him. I did think
Speaker 8: that was a cute moment, and Allison and I were like,
Speaker 8: this is this is very nice and then they started
Speaker 8: talking and I was like, oh my god, I hate
Speaker 8: this deer.
Speaker 6: I saw this meme and it was about Peter Herman
Speaker 6: coming back, and it was like, it just goes to
Speaker 6: show you how many, how many how.
Speaker 4: Little eligible bachelors were.
Speaker 6: Out there in the world, and somebody that was after
Speaker 6: Charlotte in season two or whatever is back now going
Speaker 6: after Carrie.
Speaker 8: Charlotte got set up with him in a synagogue, I think,
Speaker 8: and now Carrie's he's an app creator and Carrie made
Speaker 8: him crash on his bike.
Speaker 3: Damn.
Speaker 2: I was upset about that because I thought he was
Speaker 2: so cute and I was like, oh, this, I like
Speaker 2: him for her, and then it went so downhill.
Speaker 3: But that felt like a Sex and the City episode.
Speaker 8: I enjoyed that.
Speaker 3: That was fine, and then.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm I was team Aiden, like I like Aiden,
Speaker 2: but that outfit.
Speaker 3: Was so so weird and weird. But also did I
Speaker 3: miss something? Is he not married anymore? Because wasn't he married?
Speaker 8: In the last episode, Carrie starts writing an or she's
Speaker 8: writing an email to him like cathartically, and then someone's
Speaker 8: over at her house. I can't remember, and like, Oh,
Speaker 8: what's this and she's like, Oh, it's it's an ex boyfriend.
Speaker 8: He was married, he's now divorced.
Speaker 3: They just did that.
Speaker 8: I think he's living in California. He's not living in
Speaker 8: New York anymore. But uh, yeah, I have low hopes
Speaker 8: for the rest of the season. Samantha is looming, the
Speaker 8: shadow of Samantha is learning. She has not appeared yet.
Speaker 8: I'm really interested to see.
Speaker 4: What's going to be a disappointment.
Speaker 2: I think it's going to be a phone call. I
Speaker 2: think it's just going to be a clip of her
Speaker 2: on the phone.
Speaker 8: I think it's gonna be a clip of her on
Speaker 8: the phone using dialogue from the old show. So nothing
Speaker 8: new has been recorded. I don't think. Oh, I think
Speaker 8: they worked at some kind of deal Kim Catral to
Speaker 8: use old like maybe an unused take or something like that,
Speaker 8: like AI, Yeah, potentially, Yeah, I think that's means.
Speaker 4: But why isn't that what the strike is exactly?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just bad. Did you want to? Oh, so,
Speaker 3: tell me about Love Island, Tommy.
Speaker 4: Say, we're talking about a lot of bad television. Let
Speaker 4: me tell you where the good TV. Tell us about it?
Speaker 4: Is ITV.
Speaker 6: It is called Love Island UK. The UK version is
Speaker 6: where it's at. Let me explain to you how I
Speaker 6: feel as though I am a sports fan and this
Speaker 6: is like my basketball season or like football.
Speaker 3: Seasons, fantasy draft.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like, I'm so into this show and there's a
Speaker 6: whole like zeitgeist of people that are just like me
Speaker 6: with this, and I just discovered this new thing.
Speaker 4: It's called VPN. So what you can do is.
Speaker 6: I don't know exactly how to do it because Robbie
Speaker 6: figured it out, but you can VPN into the UK,
Speaker 6: the United Kingdom. You're seeing I'm seeing it actually live
Speaker 6: and there's a schmortga. They're ahead in the UK. They
Speaker 6: are like three or four or five episodes ahead of
Speaker 6: us in the US because you have to watch it
Speaker 6: through HULO like Plebeians here in the US.
Speaker 4: If you VPN into the UK, I can watch it
Speaker 4: in real time. And I discovered I can vote. I think.
Speaker 3: God would change, change, rise changed if.
Speaker 4: I can vote. So now I am beaming with excitement and.
Speaker 6: Joy that I have discovered this VPN into the United
Speaker 6: Kingdom and now I'm getting everything real time and I
Speaker 6: can vote, even though I don't like any of the
Speaker 6: couples this year, so I don't even know how I
Speaker 6: vote for, but it really like makes me feel like
Speaker 6: I'm a part of it.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 2: The voting aspect of the show feels anti you because
Speaker 2: essentially you're voting someone out of the potential falling in love.
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, but like some people deserve it okay to
Speaker 4: be dump, so not everyone deserves love, correct, Sunshine Mine.
Speaker 6: On the Island. It's just part of the game. It's
Speaker 6: just part of the rules. Like someone has to come
Speaker 6: in and someone has to get dump. It's just like
Speaker 6: a part of it.
Speaker 3: So who So you're not you don't like any of the.
Speaker 4: Couples, So it's interesting because I don't like it's interesting.
Speaker 4: The producers of this show are so phenomenal because I
Speaker 4: don't like, normally I stand a couple and like I
Speaker 4: love them, I love them, I love them. I don't
Speaker 4: like any of.
Speaker 6: These couples, but I'm so invested in this season like
Speaker 6: they do. They've done such a good job of really
Speaker 6: changing it up and like totally like dumping people out
Speaker 6: of the blue and then bringing them back and like
Speaker 6: it's been so outrageous that it's really kept me captivated.
Speaker 3: And you're not someone who likes the structure of a show,
Speaker 3: like you like.
Speaker 2: The idea that anything can happen. The producers can do
Speaker 2: anything they want.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like the rules, Like Katie comes in as a bombshell,
Speaker 6: she picks Zach and then boom they just dump Molly
Speaker 6: like normally they let them be single, and then like
Speaker 6: you know, Molly came and then they bring.
Speaker 4: Her back for cost some more, which was even more shocking.
Speaker 3: So how far are we in the show? Are we halfway?
Speaker 6: We're way past halfway now basically the end.
Speaker 9: No.
Speaker 4: I think it ends like the first week or two
Speaker 4: of August.
Speaker 3: So we're getting to that's sneaking up. That's this week now.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's sneaking up quick. And I don't know what
Speaker 6: I'm gonna do. And it's over, I'm gonna be really sad.
Speaker 2: Well, there will be another seventy five episodes like soon right.
Speaker 4: I might have to watch the US one, but I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel like they should bring you to the set
Speaker 2: and like let you experience it.
Speaker 4: I love it. But they film it.
Speaker 6: No, they don't even film it in the United Kay,
Speaker 6: you're in that far off? No, they film it somewhere
Speaker 6: far away, like I don't know.
Speaker 3: They filmed it in Majorca this year they did. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I was in Majorca. Oh yeah, so you could go.
Speaker 2: It was like in Africa for some of my favorite
Speaker 2: place I've ever got. Well, I think they do it
Speaker 2: different places this year.
Speaker 6: The villa looks the same. They like really replicate it,
Speaker 6: but I guess they just put in a different places.
Speaker 3: So ugly. The villa is ugly.
Speaker 2: The villa decor Tanya, Tanya round.
Speaker 4: What I would give to spend a day in that villa.
Speaker 4: But I always asked Robbie.
Speaker 6: I'm like, if we were in the villa together, do
Speaker 6: you think that we would like pick each other?
Speaker 3: Interesting? Has that caused any fights or did?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a smart man. One thing about he's a
Speaker 3: smart man.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that he's into it too, Like it's really fun
Speaker 6: because like we're both really into it.
Speaker 3: I'm so thrilled that he's into it for your sake.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it'd be a real bummer if he wasn't.
Speaker 3: Did that feel good to talk about it? Did that
Speaker 3: to kill you?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Thank you? Everybody, you're weal coming to my Ted talk.
Speaker 2: I'm sure there's a lot more people who enjoy Martin.
Speaker 2: Robby loves it. Oh yeah, she's a big fan. There
Speaker 2: was a total zeitgeist out there. By the way, in
Speaker 2: the Barbie movie, I loved how the like the narration
Speaker 2: of when she's crying and she's like, I feel like
Speaker 2: when she said you didn't feel pretty right before America
Speaker 2: for air speech, and then Helen Mirren's like, uh no
Speaker 2: to the apartment.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I saw last night of someone who went to
Speaker 8: a test screening and comparing what was changed because there
Speaker 8: was like a fart scene that they cut or something.
Speaker 8: But when they show the matel building, there was more.
Speaker 8: Helen Mirren saying, we want to extend our greatest gratitude
Speaker 8: to Mattel for allowing us to portray them like this.
Speaker 8: And I thought that was funny. You should have been
Speaker 8: in the movie.
Speaker 4: That is funny.
Speaker 3: Yeah, creative. Okay, I think we have a little time
Speaker 3: for emales, so we'll get right into that.
Speaker 1: Naomi says, I'm thirty one. I'm happily married nine years.
Speaker 1: I've got four beautiful babies, seven, six, three and two months.
Speaker 1: Oh man, Naomi, you have your hands full. My husband
Speaker 1: and I met and we were both living two hours
Speaker 1: from family outside a large city, but when I was
Speaker 1: pregnant with our second child to move back to where
Speaker 1: I'm from and to be close to the family. We've
Speaker 1: lived here about six years and we're lonely. There's not
Speaker 1: really a better way to put it. This town is
Speaker 1: a population of about four hundred. We love that our
Speaker 1: neighborhood is quaint and safe. Our kids are close to family.
Speaker 1: We have a great relationship with family, and that's how
Speaker 1: we both grew up. But my husband and I miss
Speaker 1: having friends and friends with kids. How do we decide
Speaker 1: if we should be content with where we are or
Speaker 1: make a life changing move. Does the grass only look
Speaker 1: greener on the other side or is it actually greener? Wow? Well, first,
Speaker 1: I just want to say it's refreshing that Naomi's in
Speaker 1: a happy, healthy relationship and has no problems with that.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, true, definitely two anchors in that relationship.
Speaker 2: It's interesting to me because I think being two hours
Speaker 2: away is like the ideal, Like if you could move
Speaker 2: two hours away and still have friendships and things that
Speaker 2: kept you busy, I think you could feel content being
Speaker 2: there and close enough that you could get in the
Speaker 2: car and.
Speaker 3: Get to your family in two hours.
Speaker 2: Like that to me feels like if my family all
Speaker 2: just live like an hour or two away, I'd be
Speaker 2: that would be perfect.
Speaker 3: A drive away even.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's like is it two hours or is
Speaker 4: it two hours without traffic?
Speaker 3: I mean they're in a town of population of four hundred.
Speaker 3: I can't imagine traffic. That's crazy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. That's true. That's true.
Speaker 2: I just think that you're young and your kids are young,
Speaker 2: and it sounds like you're in a healthy relationship and
Speaker 2: being able to be I don't know. This is hard
Speaker 2: to answer, because I love I've lived so far away
Speaker 2: from family since I was nineteen.
Speaker 4: But no, it's not even family. They don't have friends,
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. But she's but she's saying no one.
Speaker 2: But she's saying she wants should we move so where
Speaker 2: where we can make a life and have friends surrounding us.
Speaker 2: And I'm saying I think it would be really healthy
Speaker 2: to experience having friendship. I think friendships are like I
Speaker 2: genuinely I believe friendships are your chosen family.
Speaker 3: Wherever you live.
Speaker 6: And they're like, not to get morbid on this, but
Speaker 6: like if they feel lonely where they are, it's only
Speaker 6: going to get worse, and like God forbid something happens,
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, Like they need to have
Speaker 6: you need to not be somewhere where you feel lonely.
Speaker 4: That's not a good place to be in my honest opinion.
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, Well, I also think It's like, yeah, you
Speaker 3: have this.
Speaker 1: Same what you just said, it seemed like you did both. Besides,
Speaker 1: what do you mean, well, it seemed like you did
Speaker 1: both sides. You don't want to be lonely, but also
Speaker 1: you want to be close to family where that's what
Speaker 1: she's saying is I don't want to be I'm close
Speaker 1: to family and I'm lonely. What should she do?
Speaker 2: She wants to have friends and like have things to
Speaker 2: do and feel like life, you know, and she's in
Speaker 2: a small town which feels safe, and she has family nearby,
Speaker 2: but she doesn't feel sounds like she doesn't feel fulfilled.
Speaker 2: And my thought is you can all what about this?
Speaker 2: You can always move back, like you can always move
Speaker 2: back to this.
Speaker 1: No, I'm just My only thought is sorry I didn't
Speaker 1: ruth that many kids is like, yeah, my facial expressions
Speaker 1: were distracting, and I apologize, But I just feel like
Speaker 1: with four kids, help is an important thing. And having
Speaker 1: mom around, brothers, sisters, aunts around, family around that can
Speaker 1: help you with those four kids, because you're gonna need
Speaker 1: a break every once in a while. And if you guys,
Speaker 1: move to an area where you don't have that kind
Speaker 1: of help, you're gonna miss it a lot, I think
Speaker 1: because that you're not gonna have a lot of date nights,
Speaker 1: because it's gonna be hard to get a sitter for
Speaker 1: four kids, and that's gonna be expensive. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm leaning towards either staying where you are or moving
Speaker 1: a little closer to a town, but staying driving distance
Speaker 1: from mom and dad.
Speaker 2: But like, my mom lives two hours for my brother,
Speaker 2: and she will drive over whenever she has availability, Like
Speaker 2: during the summer while she was off from teaching, she
Speaker 2: would drive over and help them and like watch the baby.
Speaker 2: Obviously it's one versus four, but she was still able
Speaker 2: to go over and help them when they needed a break.
Speaker 2: You know, she's still there. Her my sister in law's
Speaker 2: mom lives locally, so they have her too. But I
Speaker 2: think moving to a bigger town where there's more to
Speaker 2: do and you have chance to meet more people and
Speaker 2: have friendships.
Speaker 3: I think that's she's only thirty one.
Speaker 4: You know, Mark's swaying me with the help thing.
Speaker 6: Now now I'm thinking, like, throw on some VR goggles
Speaker 6: and coka a Taylor Swift show and make some friends are.
Speaker 1: Jealous because we never had any help with the kids. Yeah,
Speaker 1: our families are always really far away and it really
Speaker 1: is hard to get time together.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think that is key. I think that's key.
Speaker 6: Join our Facebook group, make some friends, some virtual friends.
Speaker 1: Have Like, that's an interesting test of the Facebook group's power.
Speaker 1: Are there other scrubbers in that town of four.
Speaker 4: Hundred yeah, or nearby or like, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: That is so you really threw it in the help situation.
Speaker 2: All right, market Tanya are team, stay where you are,
Speaker 2: throw on some VR team.
Speaker 3: You're young, your kids are young.
Speaker 2: Like, go live, go live your life and be close
Speaker 2: enough where your family can get to you when you
Speaker 2: need them.
Speaker 6: But but like, if you have family around, you can
Speaker 6: also like be more proactive about doing weekends.
Speaker 4: Away to the city, go two hours away to that
Speaker 4: two hours or.
Speaker 6: Make friends in the Facebook group and like go to
Speaker 6: meet somewhere with everybody for a weekend, or.
Speaker 4: Go to like Vegas for the weekend, or I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, horrible, it was very conflicting advice. She's like, thanks
Speaker 2: for no help, but we do wish you the best.
Speaker 1: All right, well, Jade real quickly, Jade wants to ask you,
Speaker 1: Becca if she's so freaked out by Chicken. Lately, you
Speaker 1: posted how chicken freaks you out and certain pieces of
Speaker 1: alarming you'll avoid them. How do you eat McDonald's chicken McNuggets?
Speaker 1: That's barely meet According to Jade, I would ever say
Speaker 1: such a thing. Yeah, I'm not even sure it's real chicken.
Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many times I've bitten into
Speaker 1: a McNugget had to spit out a part that was
Speaker 1: too hard to chew. Anyway, all jokes aside, I'm a
Speaker 1: huge fan of you all, and you make my runs
Speaker 1: a million times better. Have the best week. Well that's
Speaker 1: sweet Jade out there running.
Speaker 3: Yeah, here's the thing.
Speaker 2: Have I had some issues where I've bitten into a
Speaker 2: McDonald any nugget and had to maybe spit it out
Speaker 2: and not eat it for a minute. Sure, but ever
Speaker 2: since McDonald's they did this whole switch where they were like,
Speaker 2: now we use real white meat.
Speaker 3: They're delicious.
Speaker 2: But you know, I'm having like an aversion to all
Speaker 2: meat right now. It's really bad. I don't know if
Speaker 2: everyone's like, did you get bit by a tick? It's
Speaker 2: not I didn't. Oh, but all the signs for that,
Speaker 2: it's called like alpha gal or something is like the
Speaker 2: what happens where you can't taste or things taste bad,
Speaker 2: but people are saying it tastes like trash, like it's
Speaker 2: really bad. The only way I can describe it is
Speaker 2: like beef taste too much like beef. Chicken tastes like
Speaker 2: too much like chicken. It is so gross. I can't
Speaker 2: eat anything, so I haven't even tried tom. Maybe McDonald's
Speaker 2: is my key to getting back into doing it. It's
Speaker 2: not fully real, but McDonald's chicken nuggets with regular honey,
Speaker 2: you can't beat it.
Speaker 8: That's I get back to Barbie, the chicken nuggets.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's my uh what's it called the little portal? Yeah,
Speaker 2: So thank you the hardway from.
Speaker 1: Meat and dairy as a society, and I am here
Speaker 1: for it. I think it's fantastic.
Speaker 4: Really, that's all I eat is meat.
Speaker 1: I love the meatless stuff. I love the impossible burgers.
Speaker 1: I love the We had oat milk ice cream last night.
Speaker 1: It was delicious.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I love dairy.
Speaker 2: I haven't had aversion to dairy, but yeah, it's very
Speaker 2: concerning what what I'm experiencing. Because I went to get
Speaker 2: in and out right when we got home, and it
Speaker 2: was like I could taste the meat too much. It's
Speaker 2: all really comical talking about in aversion to meat, being
Speaker 2: in a relationship up with a woman.
Speaker 3: Like every time I say it, I'm just like, oh,
Speaker 3: here come the jokes. They write themselves.
Speaker 4: They do write themselves.
Speaker 2: We do have a Thursday episode this week we are
Speaker 2: bringing in Chef Bay is her biggest fan and has
Speaker 2: stalked her multiple times on different occasions.
Speaker 4: So it's true, it's actually true.
Speaker 3: We're going to talk to her about that.
Speaker 6: I'm curious to see from her perspective, like what it
Speaker 6: was like when I met her for the first time, because.
Speaker 4: For me it was quite.
Speaker 3: Jarringaring for people.
Speaker 4: So yeah, but I love her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're well, see, I'm sure she'll be like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, you were so sweet. She's not going
Speaker 2: to give us a real I would love if she did. Like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I was a little bit scared ask her.
Speaker 6: Tell her we should say it's okay up to her.
Speaker 6: I wouldn't go up to her. I was too like
Speaker 6: nervous to go up to her. And she's totally by herself,
Speaker 6: cooking in the kitchen and I was like, I can't
Speaker 6: do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so funny, what who you're nervous about. Yeah, chef By, Well,
Speaker 2: she's in the studio this week, so get rid for that.
Speaker 3: And we will all going to Taylor Swift.
Speaker 8: No, I will not be a Taylor Swift. I went
Speaker 8: to the Bare Naked Ladies instead. And I'll be watching
Speaker 8: everyone on social media having a blast, and I'm so excited.
Speaker 3: For everybody, Thank you so much.
Speaker 4: But you can watch the live stream on TikTok.
Speaker 8: I heard about that, might be doing that. Yeah, so
Speaker 8: I'll be wandering from.
Speaker 3: Far before we go. What are the surprise songs you're
Speaker 3: hoping for?
Speaker 4: So I have powers and I called Stay Stays Day
Speaker 4: the night she performed it.
Speaker 3: Didn't you want it for you? Didn't you want that
Speaker 3: for your show?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 4: But I didn't state that clearly.
Speaker 3: I think you did. I think they said what surprise songs?
Speaker 3: It's me?
Speaker 4: I said it. I said it. What's the price songs?
Speaker 4: Do you guys want? I really want Stay Stace Day?
Speaker 4: I didn't say for August third.
Speaker 3: Oh, you just meant for someone else you wanted it,
Speaker 3: that's deep down what you meant. You wanted it for
Speaker 3: someone else's show, not your own.
Speaker 4: No, I wanted it for my show, my own show, but.
Speaker 3: Because you specify it correct.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, let's talk so that if you have that
Speaker 2: many powers, I need to make sure that we're getting
Speaker 2: a good song.
Speaker 4: I know, and I didn't put it in writing.
Speaker 6: But my other one was all of the Girls, and
Speaker 6: she did that one with Stace Day and I had
Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm so pissed.
Speaker 4: I didn't put that in writing. I know, and I
Speaker 4: was gonna believe you. But I'm all tapped out now,
Speaker 4: so you don't have a snow. I need to go
Speaker 4: to my spreadsheet though, and see what's left.
Speaker 3: I think there's quite a few.
Speaker 4: Like I'd be surprised there's not so much. I need
Speaker 4: to go to this spreadsheet.
Speaker 2: Can I tell you what I'm hoping for. I'm hoping
Speaker 2: for the I'm definitely out of the Okay, here is
Speaker 2: I two Out.
Speaker 3: Of the Woods piano on the piano.
Speaker 2: She already did it on the guitar, but out of
Speaker 2: the Woods on the piano, and Snow on the beach
Speaker 2: with Lana.
Speaker 1: Oh, that'd be good.
Speaker 2: I feel it's possible that that's gonna happen during her
Speaker 2: AIA some crazy guests, I predict.
Speaker 3: Okay, Mark, what are yours?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 1: The ones I want. I would like to hear I
Speaker 1: know places, and I would like to hear New Year's Day.
Speaker 3: Wow, New Year's Day.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: I'd also like a daylight. I wouldn't mind a daylight.
Speaker 4: According to this, she's she's done a daylight. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 4: so I would really enjoy It's not gonna happen, but
Speaker 4: endgame with Ed Sheeran.
Speaker 3: That's possible. That's possible.
Speaker 6: I love New Romantics, good one. I would really enjoy
Speaker 6: New Romantics. And I would also really enjoy Babe.
Speaker 3: Okay, I need you to take that back. Why if
Speaker 3: I'm a babe, I'm gonna be bummed.
Speaker 4: I love babe.
Speaker 3: It's like one of my favorite ball power so can we.
Speaker 3: I'm Cornelia? Oh I love Cornelia. I would love Cornelia.
Speaker 4: I forgot that you existed as a good one.
Speaker 3: To take it back on your rad no, take it away?
Speaker 4: I am what about your losing me?
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I don't exaustinating, but I would be.
Speaker 3: I would go feral if she.
Speaker 4: Played and she didn't even choose. I'm just surprised Joe
Speaker 4: Co wrote it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, here's still hoping we all get
Speaker 2: great songs.
Speaker 4: New Romantics is a bop.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I'm fine with New Romantics,
Speaker 2: but forgot that you existed in Babe. I need you
Speaker 2: to take the powers away from this two.
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 3: We love you guys. We'll be back Thursday and have
Speaker 3: a wonderful week