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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Red in Jacksonville. Red said,

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Speaker 1: I used to be an escort. I walked away from

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Speaker 1: that life a few years ago, and I fell in

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Speaker 1: love with my pastor. Luckily for me, no one knows

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Speaker 1: me by my real name. I only went by Red

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Speaker 1: back then. My family doesn't even yeah, Red, My family

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Speaker 1: doesn't even know about my past. And I'm struggling with

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Speaker 1: telling my boyfriend everything. He is a pastor, so I

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Speaker 1: feel like he will be able to accept the new me.

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Speaker 1: He's come clean with me about how he sold drugs

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Speaker 1: as a teenager before he got his calling to preach.

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Speaker 1: Will he be able to see my past whole life

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Speaker 1: he passed my old life as Red and still be

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Speaker 1: able to love me. I'm on double standard?

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Speaker 2: See, well, no he's not. He's not gonna understand it.

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Speaker 2: Don't tell nobody your ass was an escort. Who's the nickname? Red?

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Speaker 2: Your name purple? Don't tell him he told you how

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Speaker 2: he was young he sold drugs. Just selling drugs is

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Speaker 2: one thing mm hmm, selling cookie m it's a whole

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Speaker 2: nother thing.

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Speaker 1: Judgment such a double standard, right there?

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Speaker 2: Call it whatever you want to call it, but shut

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Speaker 2: your damn mouth. I told you all about this honesty policy, but.

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Speaker 1: The pastor, so that's why she's probably feeling guilty.

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Speaker 2: You are familiar with, uh the internet and pastors.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they're a little out there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I pretty much cleared myself. I really got a

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Speaker 2: good shot at heaven.

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Speaker 1: Now, if they're doing that, I got I'm good, real

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Speaker 1: good about heaven. All right, all right, so don't tell it.

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Speaker 1: Take it to the grave. You're saying, we have time

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Speaker 1: for another one, Steve. This is from Gina in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: Gina says, my brother and my roommate are seeing each

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Speaker 1: other and I find it hard to sleep next door

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Speaker 1: to them while they're having sex. He says, it's a

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Speaker 1: normal part of life and to get over it. Am

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Speaker 1: I overreacting to this?

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Speaker 2: Well? I mean you're not overreacting. That's the reaction you have.

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Speaker 2: And it's your brother, yea. Now, whether it is your

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Speaker 2: little brother, your big brother. The problem is you're hearing

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Speaker 2: your roommate and your brother they holler and bruh and

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Speaker 2: the bruh, the letting go, and you don't want to

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Speaker 2: know that side of him. You really didn't want to

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Speaker 2: know that side of her. But now you're in there.

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Speaker 1: She should get another place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're gonna Yeah, you're not gonna get over.

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Speaker 1: That, yeaheah, you can't unhear it. Would it be the

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Speaker 1: same if you if he wasn't her brother, which would.

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Speaker 2: Of course, it would be different, be a little different,

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Speaker 2: A lot of it's still a little you're uncomfortable hearing

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Speaker 2: other people. I'm gonna if it's not me, I don't

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Speaker 2: really want to hear this.

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Speaker 1: I hear you on that one.

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Speaker 2: A mess. He's a mess because when I hear y'all

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Speaker 2: in there yelling out instructions, in my mind, I'll be

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Speaker 2: running the video.

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Speaker 1: So is that what this is? What sister is doing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, use the lamp shade. What I'm here going,

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Speaker 2: I'm about to lose my mind trying to figure out

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Speaker 2: what they're going to do with that. See I don't

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Speaker 2: need that.

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Speaker 1: Don't go over there and knock on that.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to drill a hole in this wall for

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Speaker 2: tomorrow because I have got to find out what they're

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Speaker 2: doing with that damn lamp shade. Yeah, it's just this

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Speaker 2: little stuff you hear, you know, get a new lead,

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Speaker 2: all right, coming to whitew.

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Speaker 1: What they doing with this teeth, white, What does you.

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Speaker 2: Need white teeth?

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up in twenty minutes after we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this

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Speaker 1: going on, And now you're listening to Harby Morning Show.