Speaker 1: Let's get into business compatibility. For some reason, people think
Speaker 1: about relationship compatibility but don't think about business compatibility. So
Speaker 1: the way that you have to have the right fit
Speaker 1: in relationships energy. So they say, the experts say, you
Speaker 1: have to have like like an attraction, you're attracted to
Speaker 1: each other. Okay, there's some version of an attraction. Okay,
Speaker 1: that could happen that that needs to happen in business too.
Speaker 1: What's the attraction? Do I like the idea? Do I
Speaker 1: think you're interesting? Are you? Am I excited by what
Speaker 1: you're saying? Am I excited about by the products you have?
Speaker 1: Am I excited by the partnership? Okay? That's the that's
Speaker 1: the chemistry. Okay, then we need desire, like commitment. Do
Speaker 1: you want to do this? Are you in the same boat?
Speaker 1: Are you on the same page. Someone could be like
Speaker 1: they say breadcrumbing you where they're giving you little bits,
Speaker 1: where they're asking for booty call, but you want to
Speaker 1: get married. That's not the same page. In business, it
Speaker 1: could be like someone basically wants to take a business
Speaker 1: and they want to turn it in eighteen months. They
Speaker 1: want to cash out. You want to build a legacy
Speaker 1: business that you could pass on to your kids. You
Speaker 1: think your idea is good enough, that's not a compatibility fit.
Speaker 1: There are a thousand examples, but you're picking up what
Speaker 1: I'm putting down. Then energetic are you on the same
Speaker 1: energetic wavelength? Meaning do you vibe well with this person
Speaker 1: or your like patterns aligned? So if you're vibing with
Speaker 1: someone in a relationship. I vibe with certain people more
Speaker 1: than others. And I have been in serious relationships where
Speaker 1: I care about and love the person, and or I
Speaker 1: trust them and I think they're loyal, but I don't
Speaker 1: vibe with them like they want to go to bed early,
Speaker 1: I want to stay out late. They don't burst and
Speaker 1: then relax. They're constantly at like a slow burn all
Speaker 1: the time. They're extremely structured. They like the same thing
Speaker 1: every day. I don't like that. I want to go
Speaker 1: then I want to retreat, Like that's the vibe, that's
Speaker 1: the energy, And that has to happen in business too.
Speaker 1: Do you have a business partner that's gonna be like,
Speaker 1: let's fucking go right now, it's go time. We will
Speaker 1: sleep when we're dead. Pros play hurt, but then when
Speaker 1: it's calm, be like, all right, we all need a
Speaker 1: work retreat. Everyone needs to relax. I'm staying home, I'm
Speaker 1: getting a massage. You know, I need a break. Some
Speaker 1: people energetically want to be working twenty four hours a day.
Speaker 1: Some people energetically want a work life balance. They need
Speaker 1: to be home for their kids. They need to be
Speaker 1: at every single recital. They want to be doing pick
Speaker 1: up and drop off. It's all okay, but you need
Speaker 1: to know before you get into business with someone. Business
Speaker 1: compatibility is equally as important as relationship compatibility, and it
Speaker 1: doesn't mean in either case it has to be the same.
Speaker 1: You don't have to be looking for someone exactly like you.
Speaker 1: But if you are going to go burst, is that
Speaker 1: person gonna then pick up the slack when you're bursting,
Speaker 1: you know, meaning they're gonna balance you out. They're gonna
Speaker 1: be the yin to your yang. And the same thing
Speaker 1: in relationships, like you're gonna be the star, they're gonna
Speaker 1: be the rock. You're gonna be nuts. They can handle
Speaker 1: it nuts, they're gonna balance you out. Same thing in business.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have one person that's operations, logistics, strategy, a
Speaker 1: little more weeds, little less sexy. The other person's the visionary,
Speaker 1: the creator, the connector, the alive one, the person with
Speaker 1: all the ideas, the rainmaker. That would be me, for example. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm very organized and I can deal with the other part,
Speaker 1: but I can't get bogged down in weeds. I have
Speaker 1: the idea. I know what we should do, I know
Speaker 1: where we should go, I know everything about it, and
Speaker 1: I know even how we're gonna get there. I could
Speaker 1: give them the map. Someone else has to sit there
Speaker 1: and look at the map and drive the boat and
Speaker 1: make sure we get there. That's what I'm talking about
Speaker 1: about business compatibility. I believe that this is the true
Speaker 1: timeline of dating cycles. Okay, you're gonna have to listen
Speaker 1: to me, because I go on social media. I listen
Speaker 1: to these girls in their twenties and their thirties. They
Speaker 1: don't know what the fuck they're talking about. They just
Speaker 1: don't have enough institutional knowledge. I don't care if it's
Speaker 1: twenty twenty four or if you're holding a fucking club
Speaker 1: in bedrock wearing a pelt. Okay, these things are true.
Speaker 1: I do believe. I've always believed ninety days three months
Speaker 1: is when you know if you're off to the races
Speaker 1: or not. Like this, is when you have swum between
Speaker 1: Cuba and Florida. You are halfway and you're like, are
Speaker 1: we going to continue this thing or are we going back? Okay,
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean you're definitely imprinted. It also depends upon
Speaker 1: the dynamic. Have you seen the person once or twice
Speaker 1: a week? Are you seeing them all the time? A
Speaker 1: lot of things factor in. But if you are connected
Speaker 1: and you are really dating someone and you're both intentional
Speaker 1: about that with the same goals, after three months, you
Speaker 1: will know we got a real fucking shot at this thing,
Speaker 1: or we probably don't, and it can be a time
Speaker 1: to reframe and redefine. Okay, and number two, I believe
Speaker 1: that the first gauntlet is six weeks. In the very beginning,
Speaker 1: both people are literally like dogs in the dog parks,
Speaker 1: sniffing each other. They don't know. You don't know what
Speaker 1: you get, the pheromones, you get the oxytocin. In the beginning,
Speaker 1: you think there's an attraction, but there is a lot
Speaker 1: to work out, depending upon what age you are. But
Speaker 1: it could be religion, it could be location, It could
Speaker 1: be family, It could be blending. It could be kids,
Speaker 1: it could be parents, It can be jobs, lifestyles, a
Speaker 1: person's a player. You're not you know, bier rhythms. It
Speaker 1: could be a thousand things. Okay, it takes you at
Speaker 1: least six weeks to even know if you know how
Speaker 1: to walk together. You're like toddlers, like you can't, you're
Speaker 1: not even like you don't even know what you're doing yet.
Speaker 1: But once you hit like six weeks, you're like, all right,
Speaker 1: we got a live one. We got a live one.
Speaker 1: It's like in television production when you're like, we might
Speaker 1: have a show. You don't definitely have a show, but
Speaker 1: you know at a certain point if you might have
Speaker 1: a show and it's never a day and it's never
Speaker 1: a weekend, it's like a couple, you know, it's like
Speaker 1: six weeks and you're like, I think we might have
Speaker 1: a show. That's what it's like with dating. If you're
Speaker 1: like I said, intentional and you know what's going on.
Speaker 1: It's also a time you don't want to be crazy,
Speaker 1: but where you want to somewhat define. Three months is
Speaker 1: a real definition. Six weeks is a somewhat definition. It's like,
Speaker 1: are we even going to get up to the starting line?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, that's what I think,
Speaker 1: And here's another thing I'm gonna tell you guys that
Speaker 1: you gotta listen to. If you are dating someone and
Speaker 1: you're trying to train them now, they may not need
Speaker 1: training or polish. They may seem like they need training
Speaker 1: or polish because they too are scared and insecure and
Speaker 1: they're sizing you up. Also, you are in the kingdom
Speaker 1: in the jungle, either one and both of you are
Speaker 1: animals sizing each other up. And we're always in our
Speaker 1: own heads thinking we're the only one sizing the other
Speaker 1: person up and we're the only one insecure. I have
Speaker 1: learned it as equal. So both people are in their
Speaker 1: own heads, maybe talking to their friends, different reasons, sizing
Speaker 1: the other person up. Okay, here's a key that you
Speaker 1: must remember. You need to know if this person can
Speaker 1: be trained and can be what you want them to be,
Speaker 1: because the last thing you want to do is be
Speaker 1: on this road for nine months, fall for someone, and
Speaker 1: then you find out. So you have to find the
Speaker 1: delicate balance between letting someone know what you want and
Speaker 1: need without seeming like a psychopath. It's like I want
Speaker 1: to be married like a crazy person. Okay, you have
Speaker 1: to find the delicate balance. And here's what I say
Speaker 1: if something is not making you feel good, now you
Speaker 1: don't just walk. I've said before, like get out of it.
Speaker 1: Something may not be making you feel good because someone
Speaker 1: else is also insecure. They have their own reasons or
Speaker 1: patterns that you are not a mind reader. People do
Speaker 1: not come with batteries included. You can't just take the
Speaker 1: remote out and make them a robot. They've lived their
Speaker 1: own grown ass life, been raised by their own grown
Speaker 1: ass parents, had their own grown ass dysfunctional childhood. So
Speaker 1: you can't expect them to be what your brain is
Speaker 1: telling you. They're supposed to pay, they're supposed to open
Speaker 1: the door, they're supposed to do this, they're supposed to
Speaker 1: ask me this. This is a script you wrote that
Speaker 1: they didn't sign. They don't know that, they didn't read.
Speaker 1: They don't know anything about it, just like you don't
Speaker 1: know what they want. I've been told things by people,
Speaker 1: have data to been like, wait, what you cared about that?
Speaker 1: I didn't fucking know. Okay, So if someone's doing something
Speaker 1: that you don't like, not by text, you find a
Speaker 1: way to communicate that without being too aggressive. But here's
Speaker 1: the kicker, here's the most important thing. You have to
Speaker 1: balance letting someone else know how interested in them you
Speaker 1: are without being desperate. It's a confidence. It's like a
Speaker 1: confidence to say, Hi, I got this, Like Hi, I'm
Speaker 1: into you. But there's a butt. But make no mistake,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you're saying this. You may say this
Speaker 1: at some point you're at you are being this. Make
Speaker 1: no mistake. If I'm not getting what I need out
Speaker 1: of this relationship, I will walk. So it is a
Speaker 1: little bit like a business like meaning you're in something
Speaker 1: with someone and you are so into them, and you
Speaker 1: want them to know how into them you are, so
Speaker 1: you can diffuse some of their insecurity. You want them
Speaker 1: to feel safe, but you also want them to feel
Speaker 1: equally unsafe if they're not treating you properly, meaning I
Speaker 1: am so into you that like it hurts, but I
Speaker 1: will also walk if I'm not treated like the prize
Speaker 1: that I am, and like the prize that I'll treat
Speaker 1: you like. So it's a fine line and there's a
Speaker 1: confidence to it, and you know it because you hear
Speaker 1: it in my voice. And that's something I've always been
Speaker 1: good at. That's how I've gotten what I've wanted in
Speaker 1: relationships or saved. So much time by being like, look,
Speaker 1: remember I think I told you a long time ago
Speaker 1: the story about the guy that like just kept saying like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't want to commitment. I'm like, no problem, And
Speaker 1: he wasn't evolving. The relationship wasn't moving forward. I don't
Speaker 1: do two steps forward three steps back, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: do that. I'll do two steps forward to a quarter,
Speaker 1: you know, one in three quarter steps back like maybe
Speaker 1: we make some mistakes kind of, but I need to
Speaker 1: be moving forward and evolving, and I'll tell someone that.
Speaker 1: It's like if I don't do like no, and people
Speaker 1: are attracted to confidence in relationship, like they're attracted to
Speaker 1: knowing what you want without seeming like a psychopath. That's
Speaker 1: a crying that you want to be engaged by spring.
Speaker 1: It's not that it's the right balance so you are
Speaker 1: confident and secure, and it's people will be completely into it.
Speaker 1: Here's another thing. Someone could be a piece of coal
Speaker 1: and become a diamond as long as the intention is there,
Speaker 1: as long as you've said like if someone, if someone's
Speaker 1: communicated to you that they're opened for business, you can
Speaker 1: constructively criticize them, constructively give them notes. I like to
Speaker 1: say notes if you find that they don't make the
Speaker 1: same mistake twice if they take the note. It really
Speaker 1: doesn't matter if there are ten thousand mistakes, because you'll
Speaker 1: work on them. If it's the same type of mistake
Speaker 1: in another form, that's not good. But like, you don't
Speaker 1: need to be bored. You don't need a fucking Rubik's cube.
Speaker 1: It as all the sides lined up when you meet them.
Speaker 1: It's okay to be a work in progress. If the
Speaker 1: intention is there, and your intention is there too, you're
Speaker 1: gonna do the work too. That's kind of a great
Speaker 1: relationship because that's a good business relationship too. It would
Speaker 1: never be perfect. It's not a robot, So I think
Speaker 1: that's great. Like, we want somebody to be perfect in
Speaker 1: the beginning, but that's just too much to ask. And
Speaker 1: haven't you been in a relationship where someone seemed perfect
Speaker 1: in the beginning because you had rose colored glasses, and
Speaker 1: then the wheels start coming off because you idealized who
Speaker 1: they were and you expect them to live up to
Speaker 1: that original perfection. I'd rather you know someone's polished and
Speaker 1: flawed but has intention and is willing and wants to
Speaker 1: do the work in the relationship. That's to me, the
Speaker 1: best combination that I really like because it means someone
Speaker 1: It's like someone working on a business. It means they
Speaker 1: want it. Another thing I talked to my therapist about
Speaker 1: is reframing things. When you're younger, you have these ideals
Speaker 1: about what it has to be. Let's just say you
Speaker 1: meet someone, you're dating them, and like you've decided what
Speaker 1: the relationship has to be. Doesn't have to be with
Speaker 1: who you're dating now, it could be with an X.
Speaker 1: You've hated your ex. You guys aren't speaking. That's what
Speaker 1: That's what you've determined. What if it evolves. What if
Speaker 1: it becomes a situation where you don't hate your ex,
Speaker 1: where like it's only positive, you don't think negative thoughts.
Speaker 1: It's a person that you could call around the holidays,
Speaker 1: and you're reframing it because it just opens things up
Speaker 1: to be different. You could reframe how you think about
Speaker 1: a parent that abused you, like it could be for yourself.
Speaker 1: You could just hate them and have such a toxic
Speaker 1: relationship to it. Or you could reframe it where you're
Speaker 1: going to put it, put it in a different drawer,
Speaker 1: reorganize it, talk to someone about it to let it breathe,
Speaker 1: and it opens yourself up to so much more possibility
Speaker 1: in different situations. I've had people that I've dated that
Speaker 1: people around me want to know what it is because,
Speaker 1: as my therapist said, certainty prevents anxiety, but it's kind
Speaker 1: of a myth meaning it's like fool's gold. We want
Speaker 1: to know what this is. I've spent this time with
Speaker 1: this guy, I've seen met his family. I'm doing this.
Speaker 1: We went a vacation, we did that, We did that.
Speaker 1: Everybody around me is asking when don't we get engaged?
Speaker 1: When is this happening? You want a definition, not only
Speaker 1: for yourself but for other people, and it's trapping and
Speaker 1: that definition will eliminate certain anxiety because it's giving you
Speaker 1: an answer, but it could create other anxiety because you're
Speaker 1: forcing an outcome before an outcome is possible. Like what
Speaker 1: if you meet someone, you love them, you're attracted to them,
Speaker 1: it's going great, but what if something comes up that
Speaker 1: that might not work for you? You don't want to
Speaker 1: just jam it, to jam certainty to try to alleviate anxiety.
Speaker 1: Same thing even with a job, an opportunity, a friendship,
Speaker 1: a sport, whatever it is, like you have to let
Speaker 1: things breathe and reframe them and keep reframing them so
Speaker 1: you open yourself up to possibility. It's really hard. When
Speaker 1: I was younger, I never understood, just like dating, what
Speaker 1: it would mean to like or just being with someone
Speaker 1: in not knowing the outcome, and then we give ourselves
Speaker 1: different things. Oh but I'm thirty seven. I can't be
Speaker 1: dating someone right now unless I know I'm having a kid,
Speaker 1: and then you're trapping yourself. I can't do this unless
Speaker 1: i know that he's gonna convert because I'm Jewish. Like,
Speaker 1: what if you're having an experience, being present, being in
Speaker 1: the moment, being very Buddhist about it, and instead you're
Speaker 1: trying to trap it, and then you eliminate the fun
Speaker 1: you could have with this person for a chapter, maybe
Speaker 1: you meet someone else through this person, you know. Being
Speaker 1: my age, Oh, I'm this age and I can't I've
Speaker 1: said this to myself sixty times, like in my life
Speaker 1: at different stages. Oh well, at this age, I can't
Speaker 1: waste time. It's times it's okay, like it's not to
Speaker 1: be wasted where you're sitting on your couch smoking pot.
Speaker 1: But if you're having an experience and you're happy and
Speaker 1: you're being positive, and you're evolving as a person. Don't
Speaker 1: try to crowd and trap what everything needs to be,
Speaker 1: whether it's work or dating or anything. Don't give yourself
Speaker 1: that kind of pressure. Reframe it. It could be even parenting.
Speaker 1: You could be a perfect parent at a certain times,
Speaker 1: so involved doing everything, sowing every costume go. Then you
Speaker 1: could be a selfish parent. Your kid is fine, they're safe,
Speaker 1: they're thriving at school, they're thriving. You're there for them
Speaker 1: when they need you, But you want to fucking do
Speaker 1: some shit for yourself. It's all okay. It's a reframing
Speaker 1: and a rebalancing, and it will be very liberating. I
Speaker 1: am literally happier than I've ever been in my life.
Speaker 1: I would say I don't know why. I do know why.
Speaker 1: I'm just living truthfully. I'm being present, I'm in the
Speaker 1: moment and it's working. So I always want to pass
Speaker 1: it on to you. Let's talk about how men grieve
Speaker 1: a relationship versus how women grieve. I've seen this time
Speaker 1: and time again. Okay, break up, serious relationship, gutting, devastating
Speaker 1: decision has been made. Off to the races. You'll have relapses.
Speaker 1: Both parties might have relapses. It's very hard to exit.
Speaker 1: It's like exiting, you know. It's the worst possible thing.
Speaker 1: It's like a divorce, it's a death. Great. Here's what happens.
Speaker 1: Men desensitize, compartmentalize. They think they've got it. They've got big,
Speaker 1: swinging dicks. They've been with the same person, presumably they
Speaker 1: haven't been cheating for a while. They've been eating the
Speaker 1: same fricking flavor every night. And they have guys around
Speaker 1: them who are either married and living by carry so
Speaker 1: they fucking dude, go get laid. Or guys who are
Speaker 1: actually getting laid and need to justify it and want
Speaker 1: to party and maybe the old guy at the club
Speaker 1: or just out doing what they want, living the selfish lifestyle, okay,
Speaker 1: Or they're married and they're cheaters and they need a
Speaker 1: person to come be with them. Men go out. They
Speaker 1: take that bait. They want to prove to themselves, to
Speaker 1: their other guy friends and to their ex that they
Speaker 1: can get laid. Any man can get laid anytime, anywhere.
Speaker 1: Any person can get laid, and they want a flex,
Speaker 1: and they often will want to go with someone younger,
Speaker 1: someone younger, someone hot, or someone more stupid, someone that's
Speaker 1: gonna listen to your bullshit, someone that seems so much
Speaker 1: more interesting. And then they eat the same flavor. They
Speaker 1: eat different versions of ice cream. One days it's vanilla sprinkles,
Speaker 1: the next day it's chocolate, the next day it's the
Speaker 1: next one. They go out and they're having fun. They're
Speaker 1: fucking lit up. Maybe they're not used to drinking this much.
Speaker 1: They get Sunday scaries, they get a little depressed, they
Speaker 1: get the wings. They get back to work. They focus
Speaker 1: on work. They're thriving, they're working out. Their abs are cut,
Speaker 1: their biceps are bicepping. They're thrilled. Then they get sick
Speaker 1: of the buffet. The buffet becomes tiring. They've seen it.
Speaker 1: It looked so good when you walked up. You ever
Speaker 1: go up to the buffet, looks so good when you
Speaker 1: walk up. Twenty minutes later, you've got like the dressing
Speaker 1: on top of fruit. They're on enough plates. You don't
Speaker 1: know where to dispose of it. You want to start over.
Speaker 1: You fucked up your whole plate. Doesn't matter whether you're
Speaker 1: at Sizzler or the Mandarin Oriental two hundred dollars caviare
Speaker 1: and sushi infested buffet. It's the same thing. You get
Speaker 1: sick of it. You're like, get me out of here.
Speaker 1: I don't want this fucking buffet. I'm disgusted. I just
Speaker 1: want like simple scrambled eggs and a piece of rye toast. Okay.
Speaker 1: That's when they start looking back at the X or
Speaker 1: they just start feeling defeated. They don't know what to do.
Speaker 1: They start fantasizing about their their past relationship. They've now
Speaker 1: become a little depressed. It's sort of like the way
Speaker 1: the guys got in wedding crashers, where like they did
Speaker 1: it. It was so exciting. They were banging chicks. Then they
Speaker 1: got sick of the weddings. It looked depressing. They were
Speaker 1: moving towards funerals. It was really not a good look.
Speaker 1: That's how men grieve. Then they want to go back.
Speaker 1: They missed the X that they want the normal They
Speaker 1: want the normalcy. That's when the husbands that were married
Speaker 1: to the same boring wife that's doing pick up and
Speaker 1: drop off in soccer and fricking gatorade and class snacks
Speaker 1: and pta. They then want this person back because it's
Speaker 1: a semblance of order. Men don't know how to do
Speaker 1: anything for themselves. It's somebody who cares. It's somebody who's
Speaker 1: there when you're sick, when you're snotting, when you're disgusting.
Speaker 1: Who's giving you sympathy, when you're hungover, who's making you
Speaker 1: the food, Who's taking care of it? Then men hit
Speaker 1: their low. Women are the opposite. Women come out. They
Speaker 1: hit their low right away. They smashed directly into a
Speaker 1: brick wall. It's the ice cream, it's first. It's the
Speaker 1: weight loss. It's the crying. It's the not eating. It's
Speaker 1: the telling anyone who will listen. It's the drinking during
Speaker 1: the day. It's the drama. It's the personality. You're break
Speaker 1: up being your entire personality. It's hard to function. You're crying,
Speaker 1: your eyes are swollen, it's hard to work. Everyone knows
Speaker 1: about it. You have a circle of friends. You just
Speaker 1: go in the round, rob and talk to anyone who
Speaker 1: will listen. Maybe you do some therapy. You are going
Speaker 1: in circles, okay, and then you slowly, like a bird
Speaker 1: pecking out of the shell, just like slowly start pecking
Speaker 1: your beak from the inside, like, Hi, are you there? God?
Speaker 1: It's me Margaret wanting some daylight. You start moving towards
Speaker 1: feeling a little better. You're going out. You're crying, but
Speaker 1: you're out at dinner with other people. You're talking about it.
Speaker 1: You're meeting someone one night, you might meet a handsome guy.
Speaker 1: You might make the mistake of telling the handsome guy
Speaker 1: about your ex because you're still a rookie. But you're
Speaker 1: you're in the game. You start it. You decide it's
Speaker 1: a good idea to start working out for rebellion for yourself. Now,
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you're a person that works out,
Speaker 1: and your ex never saw you work out, just like
Speaker 1: the guy that you were in the relationship but that
Speaker 1: also broke up with you, that's now working out all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, his corvette and his biceps, of his personality.
Speaker 1: But now you start working out. You also decide you
Speaker 1: want a different style. You might want a different hairstyle.
Speaker 1: You're kind of a different person. You're more social, you
Speaker 1: do things you wouldn't. You're the fun girl friend. You're fun,
Speaker 1: and then you fucking become a peacock. You are done.
Speaker 1: You are having the glow up of your whole fucking life.
Speaker 1: So at the same time that this woman who is
Speaker 1: eating the ice cream, begging, And it's actually better to
Speaker 1: be the woman because the woman is like sort of
Speaker 1: still a little desperate. In the beginning, you're still sort
Speaker 1: of maybe even begging. You may want to get back together,
Speaker 1: even though you know it's wrong. You're still fantasizing your relationship.
Speaker 1: You're eating the ice cream. You're just kind of a
Speaker 1: little bit of a loser. You know you're a loser.
Speaker 1: You pray that one day you won't look at your phone,
Speaker 1: you won't look at the text, you won't pray for it,
Speaker 1: you won't wonder you know what's wrong with your phone,
Speaker 1: you won't beg for him to call, you won't want
Speaker 1: the revenge, all of it. And then one day the
Speaker 1: skies open up and you won't and you are the
Speaker 1: fucking full fledged peacock. And it's better because in the beginning,
Speaker 1: when it's all like new and everybody's sort of a
Speaker 1: little miserable, that's when you go into your main misery,
Speaker 1: so you kind of get it out of the way.
Speaker 1: It's not really on a delay, but the man. So
Speaker 1: when that peacock really fucking put it's all its feathers
Speaker 1: out in full bloom, that's when the man hits rock
Speaker 1: bottom and the combination is lethal. That's when the man
Speaker 1: comes in seeing the peacock, wanting the peacock back, and girl,
Speaker 1: you are so fucking far away, you are showing your colors,
Speaker 1: and that guy will take a lot longer. He will
Speaker 1: now go hard. And if you ever want to see
Speaker 1: this in true example, go look at I think it
Speaker 1: was David Mammott play About last Night, the movie with
Speaker 1: Rob Low and de Me Moore. It is the quintessential
Speaker 1: breakup movie, way better than The Breakup. The Breakup did
Speaker 1: that a little with Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston, but
Speaker 1: Rob Low and to Me Moore and About last Night
Speaker 1: crystallizes the whole entire thing. Crystallizes. She finally fucking got
Speaker 1: her power back and it's over. He told me that
Speaker 1: to do the bus