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Speaker 1: I dated Jennifer Aniston's boyfriend and he was a nice guy.

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Speaker 2: He was a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to get into too much detail out

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Speaker 1: of respect for her and her relationship. I'm happy for her,

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Speaker 1: and I want to say this in the right way.

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Speaker 1: His name is Jim Curtis, and he's getting a lot

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Speaker 1: of attention because he's with her now and he's in

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Speaker 1: like the wellness space. I didn't really understand it when

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Speaker 1: I dated him, Like I didn't have any reason to

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Speaker 1: see it. I think it says like he's a hypnotist.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he was that then, or I didn't

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Speaker 1: know about that. I knew that he walks with a

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Speaker 1: cane because he has some wellness thing that happened to

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Speaker 1: him and it was very scary and life altering and

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Speaker 1: life threatening, and it changed his life and turned him

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Speaker 1: towards wellness. I never participated in it. As a NAT

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Speaker 1: food chef, I know a lot about certain areas of wellness,

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Speaker 1: but I don't love all areas of it, and I

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that about him.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying I literally we talked about it, but.

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Speaker 2: Like I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: We just didn't get that into it, and he was

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Speaker 1: earlier in on his journey. But with that and with

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Speaker 1: the wellness aspect, there was an earthiness to it, and

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Speaker 1: it does vibe with jen Addiston, like there are people

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Speaker 1: that would be better suited with other people than with you,

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Speaker 1: not because they're not great, nice people, but from what

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Speaker 1: I remember, kind nice man. This was maybe ten years ago.

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Speaker 1: But I'm happy for Jennifer Aniston because I do believe

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Speaker 1: she wants to find love. I do believe it's been difficult,

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Speaker 1: as I understand as well as anybody can, and I

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Speaker 1: do believe she's sort of got that earthy, mellow side

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Speaker 1: to her just because she's an actress and successful. I

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Speaker 1: give her a lot of credit for doing red carpets

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Speaker 1: for all these years and always having the same simple hairstyle.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't get tricked out.

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Speaker 1: She always has a simple dress style and it's not forced,

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Speaker 1: it's not put upon, and where she's trying to force

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Speaker 1: minimalism or trying to force muted tones, it just reads

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Speaker 1: very genuine. It just reads very natural California girl. I

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Speaker 1: believe she was raised in California. She's an actual, true

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Speaker 1: California girl, and while he is not a California guy,

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Speaker 1: he vibes with that wellness talk and it's very Hollywood

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Speaker 1: and very actor And that is not a diss it's

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Speaker 1: just a fact. In La there's so much talk about

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Speaker 1: everything before any other place. It's every peptide, every facial,

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Speaker 1: every plastic surgery, every herb, every sie she all these

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Speaker 1: things that other people don't. You know. I'm sure they

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Speaker 1: were matching it and chying before anywhere else in La.

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Speaker 2: So I like it as a match.

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Speaker 1: I once very briefly met her ex justin Throw, and

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Speaker 1: he seems more intense. Brad actually seems like a decent

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Speaker 1: match for Jennifer Anesta because he was like mellow and

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Speaker 1: she's kind of like that mellow California boheme earthy type.

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Speaker 1: And I like this guy for her because I do

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Speaker 1: have institutional knowledge. I'm hesitating to say whether I'm betting

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I might be.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm betting on it because she's at a

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Speaker 1: similar she might be a little old, a little older

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Speaker 1: than I am, but at a similar age, where like

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Speaker 1: you have different priorities and you want peace, you want balance,

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Speaker 1: you want support, you want love, you want nice, you

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Speaker 1: want simple, you want easy, but you want to be challenged,

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Speaker 1: and you want attraction.

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Speaker 2: He's a handsome, nice man and he seems kind.

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Speaker 1: This is my analysis, and I'm pretty decent with people,

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Speaker 1: believe it or not. I know you've seen me make

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Speaker 1: some big mistakes. But what's weird is my first gut

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Speaker 1: instinct on my big relationship mistakes was right. I just

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Speaker 1: masked it with being love bombed and didn't know the difference.

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Speaker 1: the first answer is best. Often, the first wedding dress

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Speaker 1: is best, the first house is best. The first answer

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Speaker 1: on the SATs was best statistically, So I am team

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Speaker 1: Jennifer Aniston and Jim Curtis and I would bet on them.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to bet on them. I think this is good.

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Speaker 2: I said thought was a lovely man.

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Speaker 1: The two women on TMZ that were standing in front

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Speaker 1: stereotypical New England girls like young Karens that one worked

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Speaker 1: It could have been the assistant director, but it was AG,

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Speaker 2: These girls had a kicking.

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Speaker 1: And screaming tantrum, trying to pull rank, trying to say

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Speaker 1: they know the law, trying to say a body cam

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Speaker 1: has to be taken off. They didn't know all the boopholes,

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Speaker 1: fine print. They were in this CoP's face. They just

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Speaker 1: wouldn't leave. They had to flex like two fucking morons.

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Speaker 1: that is in the legal profession. Their spouses or husbands

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Speaker 1: or boyfriends are nearby. They get cuffed. They take it

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Speaker 1: from a zero to a two thousand. They get cuffed.

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Speaker 1: you could tell they wanted the cup to have to

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Speaker 1: Like they were everything that's wrong and they thought they

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I said to Brent, you could take

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Speaker 1: it from zero to one hundred and no time. If

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Speaker 1: you don't do anything wrong, you won't get in trouble.

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Speaker 1: I was like, listen, we can get jammed up. You

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Speaker 1: can associate with bad people. Bad things can happen, you

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Speaker 1: can be in the wrong place at the wrong time. Yes,

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Speaker 1: shit can happen. Everything will not always be perfect. But

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Speaker 1: Can't get into a dumb It's not the met Gala,

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Speaker 1: it's not the Academy Awards. It's a restaurant and Rhode Island.

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Speaker 1: Get your life together, do better, aim higher, shoot for

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Speaker 1: the stars.

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Speaker 2: Cheat up.

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Speaker 1: You're begging, stealing and borrowing and kicking and screaming to

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Speaker 1: get into a restaurant in Rhode Island. You'd wacko and

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Speaker 1: now your whole life has changed. You probably lost your job,

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Speaker 1: Like no one behaves that way. You're allowed to fire

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Speaker 1: someone for acting like a complete lunatic in public over nothing.

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Speaker 1: On the other side of the coin, a woman found

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Speaker 1: the young fourteen year old that pickpocketed her, took her

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't care. She fucking whipped this person on the street.

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Speaker 1: She took her by a ponytail. Justified. This girl stole

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Speaker 1: has eight children. Not that the young girl could know that,

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Speaker 1: but like, that's justified getting cancuffed. Trust and believe someone

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Speaker 1: steals my purse with the passport in it. We are

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Speaker 1: throwing down, I might get arrested. Someone comes from my child,

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Speaker 1: I will throw the fuck down. Get the handcuffs, let's

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Speaker 1: go make a fool of me. Put the body cam on.

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Speaker 1: But for to go to a restaurant and Rhode Island?

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Speaker 2: Are we good? Are you unwell? It's unbelievable. It has

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Speaker 2: to be a risk reward.

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Speaker 1: If I'm throwing down with a police officer, it has

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Speaker 1: to be high stakes poker. There has to be a

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Speaker 1: very serious reason. Why What was the reason? Did anyone

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Speaker 1: idea to fight. To fuck with the police, Why would

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Speaker 1: and the law. Police officers make mistakes, people make mistakes.

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Speaker 1: terrible things. Humans have done terrible things. I get it,

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Speaker 1: But you're being denied access to a restaurant scram. I

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Speaker 1: don't got to tell you twice, babe, A doorman, maybe

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Speaker 1: police officer GTFO. In business and in personal, the power

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Speaker 1: of no is very important. I've had some massive deals,

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Speaker 1: come through massive deals, but I know my worth, I

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Speaker 1: know my value, and based on the other deals I'm doing,

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Speaker 1: it's just not at the level and this will be

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Speaker 1: so over our skis and we will say no and

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Speaker 1: be willing to walk. Don't say no if you're not

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Speaker 1: willing to walk. You have to be willing to walk.

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Speaker 1: You have to walk. You're walking. And I've done that

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Speaker 1: many times. So I'll get these deals and then I'll

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Speaker 1: say no, it's just not exactly it. There are many reasons.

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Speaker 1: There are ways that I negotiate, and nine times out

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Speaker 1: willing to lose. I've paid full ask for many homes,

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Speaker 1: not knowing whether or not they could have taken two

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Speaker 2: It wasn't a risk I was willing to take. One

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Speaker 1: Is a waterfront property that I'm on right now in

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Speaker 1: the Hamptons that I I believe I underpaid because I

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Speaker 1: It was on the sand, on the water property I'll

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Speaker 1: never find again for that price. So I was like,

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Speaker 1: don't fuck around with what I'm not willing to lose.

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Speaker 1: I always was by the book in my divorce, and

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Speaker 1: don't play games when it comes to my daughter, and

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Speaker 1: if there's a deal and I want it so bad

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Speaker 1: or back in the day when I wanted something so

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Speaker 1: bad it was a spinoff. It was this, It was

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Speaker 1: take less on this so I can do other things.

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Speaker 1: I don't fuck around. But when you know you have

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Speaker 2: Then you get a lot more.

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Speaker 1: And then you realize, do that take those chances, because

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Speaker 1: those are the times that you start to learn your

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Speaker 1: real worth, how much people really are willing to sacrifice

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Speaker 1: for you, pay for you, And then you can reset

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Speaker 1: all your boundaries because if you find out that you've

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Speaker 1: next time. That's what happens in yoga posts. How far

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Speaker 1: can you take it? That's what happens in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: What is your worth? It's a very powerful thing. You

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Speaker 1: set a precedent for yourself of what's going to happen,

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Speaker 1: of what your value is. Whoever you go out with

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Speaker 1: needs endorsements. Really try your hardest, try your hardest, but

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Speaker 1: also dig down the rabbit hole. Where do they live,

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Speaker 1: what do they do, how do they vibe? How many

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Speaker 1: kids do they have? Where do they vacation if they do,

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Speaker 1: like where do they work before? Like where did they

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Speaker 1: go to college. Get as much information that will tell

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Speaker 2: Please do your research. So there's a guy Alex Hormosy.

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