1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephie 2 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: never told you a production of iHeart Radio. And welcome 3 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 1: to our sub series, subsub sub sub series of Happy Hour. 4 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: And we are back with watching Sex in the City 5 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: and giving you some great commentary or not so great 6 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 1: commentary of us watching sex in the City. Yes, um, 7 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: and if you are new to this segment, Samantha has 8 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: seen all of these episodes, watched them and at a 9 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: formative time we'll say and I this is my first 10 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: time and it's been very, very fun. We took a 11 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: bit of a break, but now we are back and 12 00:00:56,280 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: we have had some guests and we are looking for 13 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: more guests, and that guest could be you. So please 14 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,119 Speaker 1: stay tuned at the end for more information about how 15 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: to how to possibly join us on these very fun 16 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: happy hours where we are drinking right now, very lovely 17 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: drink that Samantha made. Yes, I mean, can you describe 18 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: you want to describe it? I was gonna let you, 19 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: but yes, no, I created a new I guess cocktail. 20 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: It's not new. I'm sure people have done it, but 21 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: it's new to me. Where I took fresh lemon juice, 22 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 1: fresh cherries, fresh basil, uh and then take someone gave 23 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: because I have someone here, no judgment please, um and 24 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 1: some vodka and I muddled it all together and then 25 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: I poured it in a glass and added some sparkling water. 26 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, so we wanna call it the Cherry on Top. Oh, 27 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: I like it, and it's the color is beautiful, It's 28 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: very vibrant, it's very refreshing, a light for summer. But 29 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: I think it's perfect for her sex in the city 30 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: because they drink a lot of cosmopolitics. This the color 31 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: wise very reminiscent of a cosm Paul time. But like 32 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: I said, the cherry on top, the cherry on Top, 33 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: And thank you Samantha for making this and sharing it. Um. 34 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: As always, if you do choose to drink during these segments, 35 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: please do so responsibly. But yeah, this is a nice 36 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: cocktail for whatever. On season two episode four. Okay, so 37 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: yes we are on a season two episode four. Let's 38 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: do a quick recap us on the episode three. Okay, 39 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: Episode three was tricky for me, but in terms of 40 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: guessing what it was about. But essentially it was like 41 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: all men are who aren't who aren't taken, who are 42 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: single after thirty are problematic, but then you look in 43 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: the mirror as a woman and you also have your 44 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: own issues. Samantha's laughing at my facial expression and pantomiming 45 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm looking in the mirror at recording bing is amazing. 46 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 1: I mean you're getting a whole actual airs. Yes, yes, 47 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: so that I think. I mean, maybe I'm reading too 48 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 1: deeply into it, but carries still hung up on big 49 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: and that's expressing itself via other relationships. We had Mr Pussy, 50 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: which I guess we should talk about. These are not 51 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: necessarily save for work. Perhaps were like, I like how 52 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: we put that at the end. Yeah, Charlotte was with him, 53 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: but they had like no real foundation of relationship, but 54 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: very good sex. Meanwhile, Samantha got some plastic surgery done. 55 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: But then I sort of had a moment of breakdown 56 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: at what the doctor was suggesting other things she should 57 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: get done. Um. And this was based on a man 58 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: during a sexual interaction telling her she was old, an 59 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: old woman. Um, and she kind of panicked. I mean 60 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: it's sure though she was older. I am an older 61 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: woman in our relationship as well, with that relationship with 62 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: my partner, but it's still kind of shocking. Well, yeah, 63 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: and I mean that was the first date. There was 64 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: a lot of talk about first dates in that episode 65 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,600 Speaker 1: in past episodes, and so that was to come out 66 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: on a first date and say that. But I mean, 67 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: like Sam does not do first dates as she does 68 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 1: state sex after first dates, sex after first dates. Well, 69 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 1: very good, it is good. That's a good weekend, all right. 70 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: So this one I have a feeling you're going to 71 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: have a hard time with as well. The titles have 72 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: been hard. That decided to make it a little harder 73 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: this time around. I think that didn't on purpose. There 74 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: was they knew what was going to happen today, um 75 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: specifically with us obviously. So you're ready for this title? Yes, 76 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: I had to look it up because it's kind of longer. 77 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: It is called they shoot single people, don't they? Oh 78 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: my gosh, they shoot single people, don't they? There is 79 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: a famous actor that you're going to love on here 80 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: that it makes an appearance very quick. Oh, it's more excited. 81 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: I don't know who could be Okay, I mean it 82 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: has to be some It has to be something around 83 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: judgment around single people. But who is they in this question? 84 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: Who is they in this context? As you think too? 85 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: I think too deep. We need Christine. I'm never going 86 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,799 Speaker 1: to forget as she nailed it at one time. Oh good, 87 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, judgment around single people, that's all 88 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: I got. A right, that's vague. And yeah, and they 89 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 1: go to a globe A right, let's not completely well, 90 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: I think that should be every time they go to 91 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 1: work globe. All right, Well, here we go. Let's see 92 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 1: if they go to a club. They're at the club. 93 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: One point for you. Friends all found themselves without a 94 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: relationship at the exact same time. So that is a 95 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:36,239 Speaker 1: thing your friend group maybe more so. But my friend group, 96 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: I've not had them. Whereas everyone is single, I'm typically 97 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: always just the single one and everybody else is a relation. 98 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: It's rare. I feel like in my particular friend group, 99 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: we have had a lot of times where we've all 100 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: been single and we very much lean into it. It's nice. Actually, yeah, 101 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: it's fun life without men. Were going dancing with your friends? Yeah, 102 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: su club I have, but that period of my life 103 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: is mostly over, but for a while, yeah, and it 104 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: was really fun. That's why I do. When I was 105 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: Zoomba or I go hang out with my workout friends 106 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 1: and our cardio jam I did go to one that 107 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: was very fun where we were all single and we 108 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: had a code and we had like, oh, if I'm 109 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: dancing with this guy and I give you like this look. 110 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: And I remember talking to a guy and my friend 111 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: gave me the look and I was like, I'm sorry, 112 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: I gotta go rescue her. And I just went and 113 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: did it. And it was nice. So if you saw 114 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 1: someone too close, my move was to literally come in 115 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: between the dude or someone coming to you and you 116 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: grab the girl's hand, spin them out. That dancing partner. 117 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: That good was it was good too. It was good 118 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: at it. They were very confused. Yes, I'm sure, I'm sure. 119 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: I was dragging my tired yet single and fabulous as 120 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: how I'm at dawn. I decided my best bet to 121 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: avoid looking like I'd been up all night was to 122 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: stay up all morning. O carry stayed up all night. 123 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: I try to do this. I can't do it as 124 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: much anymore. It's stamp ate. I'm at the photo shooting. 125 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: Everyone's freaking out. I'm there twenty minutes. Twenty minutes, I said, 126 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: twenty minutes. There's some nights you just shouldn't go out 127 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: and party all night before photo shoot is one, but 128 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 1: those that's the nightmare, right, Yeah, I'm not. I'm not 129 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 1: gonna sleep and stay up all night and then you 130 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: fall asleep and you miss it. I happened to be 131 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: in Canada. I almost missed my flight right when the 132 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: pandemic was arting, and I was like, oh, I'll never 133 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: fall asleep. And then I get a call from the 134 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: hotel people like did she falls? Like no, like throwing things. Oh, 135 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna there's gonna be time time for makeup. Right. 136 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 1: One time I was in a movie. The makeup person 137 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: asked me. She was like, you you should use these 138 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: eye drops. I can tell you don't sleep enough. And 139 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 1: I was like, you're right, but they had brutally honest. 140 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: Being single and fabulous also frees up one's weekends. Saturday's 141 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: usually spent browsing with him in solo are left to 142 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: more practical things like power This is a good episode. 143 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: We've talked about this episode. Actually you and I you'll 144 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 1: see wife. But I love this random walking that they do. 145 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: Moves my mom, my mom's friend. She does power walking 146 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: every time I see her, and it just brings a 147 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 1: smile to my face. She has got places to go, 148 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: got it, I don't do it. I wonder if the 149 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 1: you know what power walking? Please let us know that dude, 150 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,559 Speaker 1: who's that? And off the malic? Just I want to 151 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 1: fake orgasms with. So Miranda just had to run into 152 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 1: she hooked up with, but faked orgasm. She faked or 153 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,839 Speaker 1: guest him. Yeah, I've done that. I'm just wanting to 154 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: get it over with. Yeah. I stopped for fresh supplies 155 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 1: when oh, no, single and fabulous question mark hanging right 156 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:36,719 Speaker 1: next to Martha Stewart living Carrie Bradshaw dying of embarrassment 157 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: and it's not a good picture and she's about to 158 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: a cigarette. Tom was an out of work actor friend 159 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: Charlotte had come to depend on to do the occasional 160 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: male things she needed done around her apartment because he wasn't. 161 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: I've had this thought that I could use somebody taller 162 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: in my life. No reason to get a relationship. You 163 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:08,719 Speaker 1: can name it whatever you want to name it. One 164 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 1: time I had to like move a big mattress up 165 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: the stairs alow and I was like, this is why 166 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: people date other people, Yes, but also this is what 167 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: you have friends exactly. You can go sailing old lobsters. 168 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: The old lobsters is that dirty talk, Beach. I think 169 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: they might be. Definitely. I want to grab you, want 170 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:45,439 Speaker 1: to get some of that shrumps butter. Everyone's turned off 171 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 1: the podcast. Now this is awkward. Now did that do 172 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 1: something wrong tonight? Because I mean, you came every other 173 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 1: time she's trying to now have the conversation about sex. Yeah, 174 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: hey tell me, well I didn't exactly come all those 175 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: other times. Is it worse to have the tough later 176 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: or be honest up from I think if it's honestly, 177 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: like the first time is awkward, so I get it. Oh, 178 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: do you have like a physical problem or if it 179 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: becomes her yeah, no offense, I love it. I love 180 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: this like man, yeah, oh, no one's ever fixed with me. 181 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: This is also a sidebuild episode. He calls every woman 182 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 1: in his life. It's like, did you fake it? They're 183 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 1: all like, yes, I'm not leaving. Stay magically in a 184 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: relationship with her. Fixed guy, m M any guy that 185 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,839 Speaker 1: this happened to me where I was like, I've got 186 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 1: to move this couch and it's like, I'll come help 187 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: you in the next thing. I know we're dating. Oh, 188 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: that's funny. I think that's definitely something that I've done 189 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 1: to spend more time with people, like if we're already 190 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: interested in each other that I'm like, oh yeah, you 191 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: wanna help me with this? Can you? Can you put 192 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: this together for me? I don't have that voice yell, 193 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: but you know, make an excuse is good to hang out. 194 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 1: And there it was her magazine pity from the man 195 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: who sells me my Marlborough lights, and I decided I 196 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 1: was staring at her with pity. This happened to me 197 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: with a lift driver once. Oh no, I didn't have 198 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: the magazine cover, but he was like, you weren't married, 199 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: it's too late for you. She had nothing to do 200 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: but sit and wait for him. Oh, now knew that 201 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: we William wasn't ever going to show up. He was 202 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: one of those men. I've never officially been stood up. 203 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 1: Have you never showed up somewhere that I'm waiting on someone? 204 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: I've never been stood up. I was broken up with 205 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: very publicly once at the dining hall in Georgia Tech. 206 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: Oh you let me have it dramatic. It was quite 207 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: drag unnecessarily dramatic, but partly because I stood him up 208 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: because we were supposed to watch the finale of Loss together. 209 00:14:38,320 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: I forgot. So you've got two points for the single 210 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: people that and a point in the half for the 211 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: for the club club. There were two clubs. I knew 212 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 1: this one, um, but yeah, So this was about whether 213 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: or not singleness was allowed or people miserable should be 214 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: fake it to be relationship. I think that's a huge 215 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: one because that's one of the conversations I have had 216 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 1: many times because I did not get into relationships until 217 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: much later, so almost in my thirties that I really 218 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: have relationships, and I'm like, how do you get to 219 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: this point? And I don't know if I want to 220 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: do this because so many people were miserable but they 221 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: didn't want to be alone. Yeah. Yeah, and that's why 222 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: I think it depends on the person is. For me, 223 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: I would rather be alone, even though I have been 224 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 1: a relationship that I was just in and I was 225 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: taking it because I thought I should be in a relationship, 226 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: But personally, I would rather be alone. However, I have 227 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 1: other friends where I think they would prefer to take 228 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: it right then be at So I know a few 229 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: people have asked when they are going through really hard 230 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: times and it just doesn't make sense why you would 231 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: do it. I was like, you know, why do you? 232 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: And the conversation is we've worked too long and I 233 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: don't want to waste this what we've already worked on. Yeah, 234 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: I think that's a different mindset because I've heard that too, 235 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: and it reminds me of the argument about like renting 236 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: versus buying. If you put this much time into a person, 237 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: well we can't just bag out now, right. And I 238 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: know for religious older couples in my life, they've told me, 239 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: like you know, divorce are breaking up is just not 240 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: on the table. It's just not there. So they're gonna 241 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: be together. And like I said, I think it's just 242 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: different mindsets for different people. Um. And if you're on 243 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: the same page and you're coming from a healthy standpoint, 244 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 1: that's okay, right, But if you're just you can't be alone, 245 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: you might want to excite about why. I thought that 246 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: was interesting, But I did like this is one of 247 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: those that they were in their thirties and none of 248 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: them are really married and some of the stage unmarried. 249 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: Like I liked that aspect, like right now I'm older 250 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: than them, I saying, just Samanth, thus I should be 251 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 1: going to see a doctor, apparently getting a clown uh, 252 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: John on my stomach, But like just having knowing seeing 253 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: them really made it a different Like you can have 254 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 1: a life outside of just marriage. As what we see 255 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 1: in sitcoms, that's not the case. So that's one of 256 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 1: the things. Of course they talk about, you know, finding relationships. 257 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: So that was a little difficult, but it's it's interesting 258 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 1: to see because at this end she's happy being alone. 259 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 1: She's okay, did she almost slide into I have to 260 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 1: find someone to validate myself? Yes, but she walked away 261 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: from that, poor proudly. Cooper sir. Yeah, I think again, 262 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 1: like this came out in early two thousand's and still 263 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,959 Speaker 1: is this kind of rare to see. It's becoming more common, 264 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: but especially then, like seeing women who weren't in a 265 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: relationship at that age and we're still going out and 266 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: doing things, and you know, sure they are trying to 267 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 1: fire relationships, but ultimately, I still feel like their friendships 268 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 1: is the that's the thing that stays. Like these men 269 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: come and go, but their friendships stays. And so yeah, 270 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: I think it's pretty it's good to see. Yeah, so 271 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: what do you think about this episode? I enjoyed it. 272 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: I have to admit I was nervous about the whoever 273 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: was going to show off. It was a lot of 274 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 1: anticipation and it was good. Um. I enjoyed it. And 275 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: as someone who is you know, single and has had 276 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 1: a lot of these thoughts, I've talked about all these 277 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: thoughts on the show, it did resonate with me. And 278 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 1: I've also had the very bad picture taken where I'm like, 279 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:59,919 Speaker 1: oh no, I'm a mess. So I related to that 280 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: as well. That's constant. Now. I don't try to get 281 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 1: pictures taken. Nope, me to heaven forbid, the camera accidentally 282 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 1: be facing you when you turn it on. Actually, I 283 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: took one from my Instagram and I I was like, yeah, 284 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: this is who I am. Yeah, embrace it. Embrace it U. 285 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 1: Speaking of embracing things, I hope you are embracing our 286 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:26,160 Speaker 1: subsegment of Sex in the City watch party essentially, uh 287 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 1: not watch party, live watching, reaction watching what is this? 288 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 1: I mean it's watching, but maybe one day it's a 289 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: rewatch slash first watch. Okay, I guess um. 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