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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you listen. Okay, see Jeffrey, somebody recognized you.

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Speaker 1: Where you're text and flurries. It's like, yeah, hey, send,

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Speaker 1: how are you saying? Yeah? Seven? Though you stop, you

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Speaker 1: leave him hanging, like you have other things going on

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you all think that's so weird.

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Speaker 1: messaging was excessive, but there's really no point of blocking

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Speaker 1: The last part. No, no, I have multiple phones. I

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Speaker 1: he's not getting the text. Okay, I don't know how

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Speaker 1: you guys are defending this behavior. Curtis. Please step in

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Speaker 1: heard of us before my legan side. You could be great,

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Speaker 1: but you need to tone it down. Curtis. You got

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Speaker 1: I mean, if people want to talk to me, he

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Speaker 1: Say it again, Curtis, would you pretty pretty please stop

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Speaker 1: You just don't want to talk to me or see me.

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Speaker 1: You just have to come out and say that. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. I don't know if we should

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have to be brutal here, Curtis. I think

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to change my number. Guys, Oh say

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Speaker 1: it likely? Oh wow? See this is why I keep

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Speaker 1: my god, she needs just text our text board anytime

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Speaker 1: you feel like you want to text Curtis, Okay, forward

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Speaker 1: it to him. I mean, you're a great guy, but

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Speaker 1: you're just not really great at communication. I think that's

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Speaker 1: a good lesson guys text back, be better communicators and

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Speaker 1: also be better listeners, like Curtis, did you hear what

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Speaker 1: she said? Okay, she's breaking up with you. She's not

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Speaker 1: interested in seeing you because you don't know how to

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Speaker 1: communicate properly. Damn there go working very in the morning.