1
00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,000
Speaker 1: Second date, up Date. I saw a video posted by

2
00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,280
Speaker 1: a bridal stylist recently, and she talks to brides all

3
00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:13,040
Speaker 1: the time and always asks how they met their husband.

4
00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,720
Speaker 1: What's the number one way single people are finding their

5
00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:22,000
Speaker 1: spouses right now? The number one answer, she says, by far,

6
00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:27,040
Speaker 1: is on Hinge, not like Bumble or like specifically his

7
00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,400
Speaker 1: She says, Bumble is second. Nobody is on Tinder if

8
00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:35,280
Speaker 1: you're seriously trying to find marriage. Number three was a

9
00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:39,879
Speaker 1: little bit surprising, though, she said College Sweethearts not a

10
00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:52,239
Speaker 1: website like people who actually met in College.

11
00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:53,560
Speaker 2: Sweethearts, people who met looking for sugar Dad.

12
00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,520
Speaker 1: It's like the relationship lasted beyond graduation.

13
00:00:58,040 --> 00:00:59,360
Speaker 3: That's a weird one.

14
00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:03,760
Speaker 1: And then the rarest is meeting somebody naturally out in

15
00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,200
Speaker 1: the wild. And I don't know if I hear animal

16
00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,320
Speaker 1: noises right now, but that's exactly what happened with one

17
00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,520
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Chad. How wild was He was a

18
00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:17,040
Speaker 1: lone tiger loose in the jungle, roman free till a

19
00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,920
Speaker 1: certain frisky feline caught his eye. So let's learn about it.

20
00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:21,240
Speaker 4: Chad.

21
00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:22,120
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

22
00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,040
Speaker 4: Hey, thanks, Hey.

23
00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:24,399
Speaker 3: You're welcome.

24
00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:24,720
Speaker 5: Chad.

25
00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,440
Speaker 3: You sound like a frisky feli.

26
00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know he's the prowling tiger.

27
00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I still a feline.

28
00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,120
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, a big feeling.

29
00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:33,520
Speaker 4: Sure.

30
00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,800
Speaker 1: And tell us about the girl that you met. What's

31
00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:36,240
Speaker 1: her name?

32
00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:37,679
Speaker 4: Her name is Lucy?

33
00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,639
Speaker 1: Okay, and we're out in the wild. Did you meet Lucy?

34
00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,800
Speaker 4: I met Lucy at a furniture store.

35
00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:49,080
Speaker 1: Why does that scream awesome? Because like shopping for furniture,

36
00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:50,840
Speaker 1: I could see girls out and about.

37
00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,240
Speaker 3: Everyone at the furniture store is married. Yeah, I've never

38
00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:55,640
Speaker 3: stepped in.

39
00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:58,000
Speaker 5: Yeah.

40
00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:02,080
Speaker 1: Also they got money, because furniture is not She you

41
00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,440
Speaker 1: spending a couple hundred bucks? Yeah, so you were.

42
00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,240
Speaker 4: You were like a legit store. This wasn't like assembly

43
00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:07,880
Speaker 4: your furniture.

44
00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:13,079
Speaker 1: One of the nice shots fired at IKEA. So how

45
00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,360
Speaker 1: did you and Lucy? Like, how did that interaction happen

46
00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:17,079
Speaker 1: in the store?

47
00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,480
Speaker 4: Well, I was walking around the store. I was just

48
00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:25,240
Speaker 4: there looking to upgrade my place, and I had zeroed

49
00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:29,600
Speaker 4: in on this one sofa. But then Lucy came in

50
00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,400
Speaker 4: and was looking at the exact same couch.

51
00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:38,320
Speaker 3: Yeah style arm wrestle. Who for Whoever's gonna buy it?

52
00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:39,239
Speaker 5: Yeah?

53
00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:40,560
Speaker 4: I mean I wish I could have. I mean, I

54
00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:41,760
Speaker 4: would have loved to have done that.

55
00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:44,840
Speaker 1: Did you do the gentleman and buy the couch for her?

56
00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:48,800
Speaker 4: I don't have that much money.

57
00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,120
Speaker 1: I'm what was your move?

58
00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,680
Speaker 4: The move was just to kind of like what do

59
00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,680
Speaker 4: you like about the couch? And then it just kind

60
00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,320
Speaker 4: of got to a level where we weren't just talking

61
00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,520
Speaker 4: about a couch.

62
00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,880
Speaker 3: And you're going to have to spoon on it together

63
00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:06,720
Speaker 3: to see if two people fit. That's important.

64
00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,280
Speaker 1: That's a really weird way of flirting. I will say,

65
00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:12,280
Speaker 1: I feel like we shouldn't have heard a let.

66
00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:13,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

67
00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, it didn't get too racy. We just kept like

68
00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:16,959
Speaker 4: trying it out.

69
00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,919
Speaker 1: Okay, shocked it didn't get sexual.

70
00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,640
Speaker 3: That's cute though. That's a really organic way to have conversations.

71
00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,520
Speaker 1: It is good because you're kind of playing like you're

72
00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,720
Speaker 1: a couple already by like shopping together. It kind of

73
00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,040
Speaker 1: like plants that image into your mind in a in

74
00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,160
Speaker 1: a subtle way, so.

75
00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,840
Speaker 3: That it's important for him to know if women like

76
00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:36,440
Speaker 3: this couch.

77
00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, were you able to spin it into a date?

78
00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,080
Speaker 4: Yeah? It come to find out we both wanted to couch.

79
00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,680
Speaker 4: There's salespeople at these high end furniture stores, and so

80
00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:50,960
Speaker 4: it's like, okay, we're both interested in the couch, and

81
00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,880
Speaker 4: the guys like, this is it? There's just the one go.

82
00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you guys started a fight, so what's

83
00:03:59,200 --> 00:03:59,600
Speaker 1: the move?

84
00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,440
Speaker 4: So I was like, okay, well we both want the couch,

85
00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,080
Speaker 4: but if you want me to let you have it,

86
00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,960
Speaker 4: then why don't you give me something in return? You know,

87
00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,240
Speaker 4: like your phone number?

88
00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:17,680
Speaker 1: Okay, because they also sell beds over here, so that's.

89
00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,200
Speaker 3: A good way to get her number. Did she like that?

90
00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:21,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean good enough to give me the number.

91
00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,599
Speaker 4: I mean she got the couch, so yeah.

92
00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:23,840
Speaker 6: The couch.

93
00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,680
Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up, you got the number, and now

94
00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,040
Speaker 2: she's ghosting you.

95
00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:30,080
Speaker 3: I think they went out.

96
00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:35,320
Speaker 4: Did so, Like fast forward to like the next three days,

97
00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,760
Speaker 4: and we're texting a lot. I mean like, and I

98
00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,479
Speaker 4: say that a lot, I mean like fifty times a day,

99
00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,000
Speaker 4: well a day.

100
00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,520
Speaker 1: Wow, you haven't texted anybody fifty times in my whole life,

101
00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:47,400
Speaker 1: like each other day.

102
00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,560
Speaker 4: So we scheduled a date and then she backed out

103
00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:56,479
Speaker 4: and I wanted to reschedule, and then like she backed

104
00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,760
Speaker 4: out again the night before Okay.

105
00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:00,480
Speaker 3: Are you okay?

106
00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:02,359
Speaker 1: Convincing herself not to go on.

107
00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,479
Speaker 3: So it's weird that you guys were talking so much

108
00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:05,440
Speaker 3: though via text.

109
00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,320
Speaker 6: I don't know someone who can't say no. I would

110
00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:08,840
Speaker 6: probably give out my number and talk for a few

111
00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,760
Speaker 6: days to not feel bad, and the couch is delivered

112
00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:12,240
Speaker 6: and not my.

113
00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,240
Speaker 3: Home and then stop text and then you finally would

114
00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:14,480
Speaker 3: be over.

115
00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, chat. Are you feeling like maybe the

116
00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,640
Speaker 1: only reason that she said she would like give the

117
00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:21,640
Speaker 1: number and go out on a date was just to

118
00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,960
Speaker 1: get the couch, Like that was the whole point of it.

119
00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,200
Speaker 4: That thought has crossed my mind. But then there's all

120
00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,320
Speaker 4: these texts in between. So then like I did like

121
00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,200
Speaker 4: a little recon I like googled myself and I was like,

122
00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,840
Speaker 4: all right, nothing weird came up here. That was good.

123
00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,080
Speaker 3: I mean, here's the thing.

124
00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,160
Speaker 2: She gave you her number, but she could have easily

125
00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:41,359
Speaker 2: given you a fake number.

126
00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:42,039
Speaker 6: Yeah that's true.

127
00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,440
Speaker 3: You know, she didn't have to give you her real

128
00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:46,120
Speaker 3: phone number.

129
00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird that she's backing out all of a sudden.

130
00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna call Lucy and try and get to the

131
00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,800
Speaker 1: bottom of this, because if she says no to going

132
00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,560
Speaker 1: out with you, then you deserve that couch. In my opinion, that.

133
00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,839
Speaker 3: Wasn't the deal. It was just a phone number. Jeff.

134
00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:05,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, that was on you, Chad. Improve your

135
00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:06,440
Speaker 1: negotiation still.

136
00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,400
Speaker 4: I know I thought it was a fair deal, but

137
00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,960
Speaker 4: it turns out not so much. Yeah, but anyways, I

138
00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:13,800
Speaker 4: need your help and hope you can help me out.

139
00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:15,400
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we're going to try our best. We'll

140
00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,320
Speaker 1: come back and get you your second date update right

141
00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:22,359
Speaker 1: after this man hold on second date update. I'm not

142
00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:25,839
Speaker 1: a lawyer, but Chad, if we're not successful in getting

143
00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:29,560
Speaker 1: you another date, what about at least getting you visitation

144
00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:34,040
Speaker 1: with the couch? Just like one week couch doesn't need

145
00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:35,920
Speaker 1: to be much, just one weekend a month, maybe split

146
00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,440
Speaker 1: it on holidays. We can negotiate something.

147
00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,000
Speaker 4: Yeah sure, Oh.

148
00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,080
Speaker 3: You know, shared custody is what you're saying.

149
00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. Chad seems to like that idea, because if

150
00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,320
Speaker 1: you miss part one. He met Lucy at a furniture

151
00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:51,000
Speaker 1: store recently when they both liked the same exact couch,

152
00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,160
Speaker 1: but he generously let her have it if in exchange

153
00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:55,520
Speaker 1: she gave him his number.

154
00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:57,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was the deal that they made.

155
00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. It was a smooth move. But she

156
00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,840
Speaker 1: keeps backing out of dates now and now their initial

157
00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,479
Speaker 1: flame has pretty much gone completely ice cold. Yeah, they're

158
00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:09,440
Speaker 1: losing chemistry fast. So we he doesn't know why. We

159
00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:10,760
Speaker 1: need to try and help figure it out.

160
00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,360
Speaker 2: Can I ask Chad the one thing I never you know,

161
00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,560
Speaker 2: we never really got into you said, you guys texted

162
00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:19,320
Speaker 2: back and forth a ton. Was there any like inappropriate

163
00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:21,320
Speaker 2: texting or something that.

164
00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:23,640
Speaker 3: Could have or could have been read wrong?

165
00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,440
Speaker 2: Even you know, sometimes you said something thinking you're joking

166
00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:27,840
Speaker 2: and the other person doesn't.

167
00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:28,040
Speaker 3: Read it right?

168
00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,880
Speaker 1: Can you read some inappropriate text to Brook right now?

169
00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,000
Speaker 1: She really wants to hear something, just lead.

170
00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,640
Speaker 2: Is there something that stands out in all of those conversations.

171
00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:36,560
Speaker 3: That you had?

172
00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:40,040
Speaker 4: No, I mean it was flirty, but without crossing the line.

173
00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,520
Speaker 4: It's the way I think about it. Asked about the couch,

174
00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:57,520
Speaker 4: you know's.

175
00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:52,000
Speaker 1: How's the couch doing?

176
00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:52,720
Speaker 5: Is it?

177
00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:53,520
Speaker 1: Okay?

178
00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:54,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

179
00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:59,040
Speaker 3: I think he really did that though. That's what he said, okay,

180
00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:03,560
Speaker 3: laughed like an innuendo, like the couch.

181
00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, No, hes like, how's the couch doing?

182
00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:07,640
Speaker 3: How I heard it?

183
00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:11,400
Speaker 1: Okay? See this is what text messaging is like right now.

184
00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:12,480
Speaker 1: You can't tell tone.

185
00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:15,800
Speaker 3: If someone text me how's the couch? Ha ha, I

186
00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:16,760
Speaker 3: would not stand.

187
00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:19,280
Speaker 4: All right?

188
00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,760
Speaker 1: Chat it's okay, let's call Lucy and uh, hopefully it's

189
00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:24,560
Speaker 1: not what we were talking about earlier too, where it

190
00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,480
Speaker 1: was just all a big scam so that she could

191
00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,880
Speaker 1: get the couch have him back off of it, because

192
00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,640
Speaker 1: it is very smart and percent your phone.

193
00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,040
Speaker 3: If that's the case scam, yeah.

194
00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,800
Speaker 1: I mean she just said, oh, well, thank you and

195
00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,600
Speaker 1: smiled and gave you your number. That's all that you asked.

196
00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,440
Speaker 3: There's no one in the room that wouldn't agree with that. Yeah,

197
00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,040
Speaker 3: let's hope that the.

198
00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:47,120
Speaker 4: Couch the case. Then I don't know why she would

199
00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,120
Speaker 4: even agree to go out with me at the start

200
00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:49,280
Speaker 4: of it.

201
00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:49,880
Speaker 3: It's a good point.

202
00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, solid, that's true. So hopefully there's an explanation. Let

203
00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,559
Speaker 1: me dial her number right now. Let's see if she

204
00:08:55,600 --> 00:09:05,760
Speaker 1: picks up. Here we go, Hello, Hey, we're looking to

205
00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:10,400
Speaker 1: speak with Lucy. Oh yeah, we're a radio show called

206
00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:11,520
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

207
00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,880
Speaker 3: Hey, Lucy, your morning. You're on the show, Lucy.

208
00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,160
Speaker 4: Okay, what's this about.

209
00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:21,240
Speaker 3: It's our couch reviews segment in a way.

210
00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we're doing a segment called second Date Update.

211
00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:26,600
Speaker 5: What is that?

212
00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,480
Speaker 1: Oh, you don't know what that is. It's a segment

213
00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:32,199
Speaker 1: we do where if someone's in like a dating scenario

214
00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,079
Speaker 1: and a person blows you off or you're not getting

215
00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,679
Speaker 1: back to them, we'll reach out on behalf of that

216
00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,240
Speaker 1: person to try and figure out if there's a reason

217
00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,199
Speaker 1: for it, just to like help them understand what's going on.

218
00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:44,800
Speaker 3: And this one's kind of out of the norm because

219
00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:46,599
Speaker 3: you never actually went on a first.

220
00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:49,520
Speaker 1: Date, right, Yeah, because we're talking about a guy named Chad.

221
00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:58,440
Speaker 1: Are you sorry? We don't need to explain more like

222
00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:01,000
Speaker 1: couch guy. You know exactly who we're talking about. Yeah,

223
00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:05,319
Speaker 1: we are not. Chad says that you guys met at

224
00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,439
Speaker 1: a furniture store and you exchange numbers.

225
00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,199
Speaker 3: It seemed like there was like some flirtation there. Did

226
00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:11,880
Speaker 3: he read that right?

227
00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,560
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I.

228
00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:17,760
Speaker 4: Have a good reason for it, but it would just

229
00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:22,000
Speaker 4: be super uncomfortable to tell him, Oh, you.

230
00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:24,480
Speaker 3: Have a good reason for not calling him back or

231
00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:25,439
Speaker 3: going on the date.

232
00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he said that you guys had scheduled dates

233
00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:28,960
Speaker 1: and you kept bailing.

234
00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,040
Speaker 4: Yes, I did bail.

235
00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,160
Speaker 1: Wait can I ask her just blunt like, did you

236
00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:35,120
Speaker 1: scammer boy?

237
00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,320
Speaker 2: Did you just get I think the question is did

238
00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:41,000
Speaker 2: you ever have any intention of actually going on a date.

239
00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:42,920
Speaker 1: Okay, then now let me ask, did you ever have

240
00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,520
Speaker 1: any intention of actually going on a date? Edited so

241
00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,960
Speaker 1: I sound smarter, Yeah, thanks, Jeff.

242
00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,520
Speaker 5: I mean I wasn't to go on a date with him.

243
00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:54,000
Speaker 5: I didn't. Oh, okay, I didn't have a problem with him.

244
00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,560
Speaker 5: It was just like I got the whole couch thing.

245
00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,000
Speaker 5: And then a few days after I met Chad, I

246
00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:00,880
Speaker 5: came back to the furnitu your place with some of

247
00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,320
Speaker 5: my friends to pick up the couch because one of

248
00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:04,320
Speaker 5: my friends the pickup truck.

249
00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:04,600
Speaker 2: Whatever.

250
00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:09,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got a friend with the truck didn't delivery. Yeah,

251
00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,240
Speaker 1: you have not. Everyone could afford two thousand probably would

252
00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:12,480
Speaker 1: have got it.

253
00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,679
Speaker 3: Jeff doesn't have truck. Guys in his friends.

254
00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,120
Speaker 1: Say, He's like, I just have one of my assistants

255
00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:19,079
Speaker 1: to make me a new couch.

256
00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:21,080
Speaker 3: Do you want me to come by with my escalade?

257
00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:24,160
Speaker 1: So you guys know how it works. Yeah, okay, okay,

258
00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,240
Speaker 1: you went to the store to pick it up yourself.

259
00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:28,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, was some friends and then what happened?

260
00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:31,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I went inside to pay and who do

261
00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:32,320
Speaker 5: I see?

262
00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:33,200
Speaker 4: Chad?

263
00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,720
Speaker 3: Why is that that? Wait, he needs to couch?

264
00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:38,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you took the couch that he wanted. To buy,

265
00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:40,240
Speaker 1: so he probably had to get a new one.

266
00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:43,000
Speaker 4: Okay, No, he wasn't like shopping.

267
00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:46,040
Speaker 5: He was asleep on one of the couches, like in

268
00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:49,920
Speaker 5: the back room area. I didn't even know what to do.

269
00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,760
Speaker 5: He didn't see me, Like he was asleep, he didn't

270
00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:52,960
Speaker 5: see My eyes were closed.

271
00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,240
Speaker 3: Maybe he was just trying to couch out too hard.

272
00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:56,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, way too hard.

273
00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:59,000
Speaker 4: It was so awkward.

274
00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,319
Speaker 5: So I was just gonna leave. But I just asked

275
00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,720
Speaker 5: the cashier. I was like, Hey, what's the deal with

276
00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:08,760
Speaker 5: that guy on the great couch? And he's like, oh.

277
00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:09,160
Speaker 4: That's the Napper.

278
00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:10,719
Speaker 5: But like he just said it, like.

279
00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:15,920
Speaker 4: It's a nickname, the Nap, the Knapper. What Yeah, they

280
00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:17,240
Speaker 4: called him the Knapper.

281
00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:20,400
Speaker 3: The Knapper Okay, so he got a nickname for him.

282
00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:21,199
Speaker 4: Yeah.

283
00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,960
Speaker 5: So like apparently he comes in during his lunch break

284
00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,920
Speaker 5: and he takes off his shoes and he takes a literal.

285
00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,199
Speaker 1: Nap nomes that often.

286
00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,559
Speaker 5: He said that the boss, like the manager lets him

287
00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:35,480
Speaker 5: do it because like once a month he buys all

288
00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:36,439
Speaker 5: the employees lunch.

289
00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,240
Speaker 4: Oh they just let him do it.

290
00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:43,960
Speaker 3: Oh wow, smart, that's a hack. So he's sleeping during

291
00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:44,760
Speaker 3: his lunch break.

292
00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,000
Speaker 1: What's going through your mind as they're telling you this.

293
00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,880
Speaker 5: Lucy, I don't want to go out with the napper, like,

294
00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:51,640
Speaker 5: especially that he has a nickname.

295
00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,079
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he liked the catch you were on. He's

296
00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,520
Speaker 3: tried them all out at the store. Yeah, Like you

297
00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,520
Speaker 3: just happened to be talking to the expert.

298
00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,840
Speaker 6: And he has a house, like he just goes during

299
00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:01,520
Speaker 6: he's yeah, makes money.

300
00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,160
Speaker 1: But you're turned off by the idea of a guy

301
00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:07,520
Speaker 1: who spends every lunch break going into a nap store

302
00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,960
Speaker 1: and hanging out a nap store. Well, sorry, soy furniture

303
00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:15,640
Speaker 1: store and earned earned a reputation as a napper honestly though.

304
00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:18,200
Speaker 3: Rebranding a furniture store to the nap store, so.

305
00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,120
Speaker 1: Well, then everybody's going to be doing it.

306
00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:23,040
Speaker 3: I think you should give him a second chance on

307
00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:23,360
Speaker 3: that one.

308
00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,280
Speaker 1: I think you should at least hear him out on

309
00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,679
Speaker 1: what he has to say, Lucy, because he is on

310
00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:32,480
Speaker 1: the other line right now listening, unless he fell asleep

311
00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,360
Speaker 1: in his new face. So chaty there, Yeah.

312
00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:40,440
Speaker 4: I'm here, Hi, Yeah, Hi.

313
00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,400
Speaker 5: Chat is so weird that you have a reputation of

314
00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:44,640
Speaker 5: a guy who naps in public.

315
00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:47,520
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't understand what the big deal is.

316
00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,280
Speaker 5: I mean, it's like going into a subway and making

317
00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:51,040
Speaker 5: your own sandwich.

318
00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,200
Speaker 4: You just don't do that. If I could go into

319
00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,160
Speaker 4: way and make my own sandwich, I do it. But

320
00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:59,920
Speaker 4: I mean it. I mean it's right near my work.

321
00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:03,600
Speaker 4: They have nice employees. Obviously, they have really comfy furniture,

322
00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,679
Speaker 4: so they get new furniture in. I get to test,

323
00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:09,320
Speaker 4: like the couches, and I know which ones are like

324
00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:11,320
Speaker 4: the softest and the best. And that's why I was

325
00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:13,280
Speaker 4: like zeroed in on the one you bought.

326
00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:17,000
Speaker 5: On the couch that I bought.

327
00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:21,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wanted to buy it. I told you it

328
00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:29,520
Speaker 4: was soft the day. I mean, skin cells are gross.

329
00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:31,120
Speaker 4: We're going to go on a date. I mean, you'd

330
00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:32,640
Speaker 4: probably have your tongue in my mouth.

331
00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:42,480
Speaker 3: Who too much? A good nap is? Really?

332
00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:46,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the way I live. Man.

333
00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,400
Speaker 1: We're not talking about if naps are good or not.

334
00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,320
Speaker 1: We're talking about if Lucy is attracted to a man

335
00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:53,000
Speaker 1: who does that.

336
00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:56,160
Speaker 2: I don't understand much that he has a moniker his

337
00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:59,440
Speaker 2: own nickname. I still haven't heard a solid reason, Lucy,

338
00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:00,840
Speaker 2: why this is a turnoff.

339
00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:03,040
Speaker 1: YEA, explain it to Chad.

340
00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,600
Speaker 5: Guys. It's weird and it's embarrassing.

341
00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:09,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's only the tile guy who knows about it.

342
00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,600
Speaker 4: You know. Yeah, we're not going on dates at the

343
00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:12,480
Speaker 4: furniture store.

344
00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

345
00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,600
Speaker 5: If you really aren't that embarrassed by why didn't you

346
00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:18,440
Speaker 5: say that when we met?

347
00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,560
Speaker 4: Why weren't you like, Hey, I really like this couch.

348
00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:22,760
Speaker 4: I've been sleeping on it for the last three weeks.

349
00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:29,080
Speaker 4: Maybe I should have because you know that's weird, Coach.

350
00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:30,560
Speaker 1: That doesn't sound right.

351
00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:33,320
Speaker 3: You guys sound like you actually have some chemistry here.

352
00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:36,120
Speaker 3: I don't think that you should let this like get

353
00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:36,760
Speaker 3: in the way.

354
00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,480
Speaker 1: And if you're willing to not let it get in

355
00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,640
Speaker 1: the way, then I guess we're willing to pay for

356
00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:41,960
Speaker 1: it for your next date.

357
00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:44,840
Speaker 5: No, because if I like him, now I'm dating the

358
00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,320
Speaker 5: napper and I just don't want to do that.

359
00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:52,280
Speaker 3: But he's resourceful, he's friendly, you know.

360
00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:56,680
Speaker 1: He knows where tongues go. And hopefully he has enough

361
00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:59,400
Speaker 1: money to get your couch officially clean too, Lucy, with

362
00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:01,120
Speaker 1: all those debts in cells that he's left on.

363
00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,120
Speaker 3: I would be more worried about the slobbery.

364
00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:06,480
Speaker 4: Bro. Hey, look, I just want to let you know

365
00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,920
Speaker 4: I did not leave any residue on your cat pretty.

366
00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:12,400
Speaker 1: Have to say it. I tell every girl I talked to,

367
00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:13,920
Speaker 1: I did not leave residue.

368
00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:14,280
Speaker 4: On your cap.

369
00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,320
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. You know, it was interesting to

370
00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:21,200
Speaker 1: hear broken Alexis'.

371
00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,000
Speaker 3: Take on that why you were so anti.

372
00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:23,800
Speaker 1: I'm not anti.

373
00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:25,280
Speaker 3: I'm just saying it felt like it though.

374
00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, well it was just if it was me and

375
00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,320
Speaker 1: I walked into a store and I saw the person

376
00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:33,040
Speaker 1: that I was scheduled to date sleeping there, and I

377
00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:36,760
Speaker 1: found out all of the employees know that person as

378
00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:40,160
Speaker 1: the sleeper during treat It would it's still that would

379
00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,680
Speaker 1: be like, this is kind of weird. I would take

380
00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:44,360
Speaker 1: a step back and reassessing it's.

381
00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,680
Speaker 6: Because we've all slept and taken naps in our car before.

382
00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,040
Speaker 6: I feel like he's actually taking a one up from us.

383
00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:50,800
Speaker 3: But you know, he didn't add a car before I

384
00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:51,280
Speaker 3: came over here.

385
00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:52,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, do you.

386
00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:53,960
Speaker 2: Know what we didn't ask those if he was an

387
00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:55,520
Speaker 2: ugly sleeper because.

388
00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:02,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, so didn't really understand Brooks point that she'd saddle

389
00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:03,880
Speaker 1: up next to him and spoon him.

390
00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:07,280
Speaker 3: That was the testing out of the couch. That's what

391
00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:08,240
Speaker 3: my husband and I do.

392
00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,399
Speaker 2: We need to know if we both fit on the

393
00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,320
Speaker 2: couch together when walking TV.

394
00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:14,879
Speaker 1: That's that's really sweet.

395
00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:16,400
Speaker 3: What isn't that important?

396
00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:17,919
Speaker 1: I see it's just when I'm looking at the Textport

397
00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,080
Speaker 1: seventy five nine two, it is split. Some people thought

398
00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,080
Speaker 1: that it was weird. Some people are like, that's awesome.

399
00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:23,000
Speaker 1: Good for that guy.

400
00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, Ednie buys the employees lunch. Yeah, they're taking it,

401
00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:28,120
Speaker 3: taking advantage of them.

402
00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why they let it. Let's normalize napping and

403
00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:38,520
Speaker 1: random Yes on board, they today do not judge. She

404
00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:39,560
Speaker 1: wants you to cuddle up.

405
00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,959
Speaker 3: Right next to put one of those scarves around now.

406
00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:45,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, but Gusha had all of our second date updates

407
00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,000
Speaker 1: where you get your podcasts are available online have broken.

408
00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:51,280
Speaker 2: Jefferson Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning