1 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: So I launched my dating community called the Core. And 2 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: let's talk about any backlash, any positivity, Let's talk about 3 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: highs and lows. 4 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 2: Let's talk about all of it. 5 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: Oh, I have Tea, I have dating TA, I have 6 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 1: the Core, my new dating environment T and it's good 7 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: tea and it's happy tea and it's proof of concept T. 8 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: And it's quality tea. 9 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: Yesterday alone, two matchmakers like current Active, working for known 10 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: matchmaking businesses or owning matchmaking businesses have come to apply 11 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: to pay and to join the Core for us to 12 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 1: set them up. A part of me thought, oh, they 13 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: want to take part of our inventory. We're transparent, we 14 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: don't really care. You can't take anybody. Nobody here is 15 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: leaving anyway. And we wouldn't set you up with fifty 16 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 1: people because we're not a chop shop, like a matchmaker 17 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: that just wants to throw spaghetti against the wall to 18 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: check the box and get the credit. We would maybe 19 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: set you up with one person in a matter of months, 20 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: but we literally have set people up with one person 21 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: and they have fallen in love with that person. So 22 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: they're not going to get a lot of clients from 23 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: us because no one's leaving but anyway, matchmakers are coming 24 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:38,839 Speaker 1: to sign up for the Core. Yes and yes, matchmakers 25 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: have been calling us to apply, to pay and to 26 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: join the Core to find their life partners. 27 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: You are so welcome. 28 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: In addition, the head of marketing for one of the 29 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: big dating apps has come to the Core to ask 30 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: us to set them up. Microphone, how do I drop 31 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: this microphone? How do I drop? How do I drop 32 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: the mic? Like? 33 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 2: Drop the mic? 34 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: People at the massive major apps A are coming for 35 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: us to set them up with their life partners, and 36 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: B we've been hiring. We won't hire any matchmakers to 37 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: work for us because we do not match make, we connect. 38 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: We are hiring people who are intuitive, smart, well connected 39 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: and have the same goals as we do and align 40 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: with the culture here which will not be compromised for 41 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: any amount of money. 42 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 2: And ten percent of. 43 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: The people in my community have asked me to invest 44 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: because they're so obsessed and there's not a number you 45 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: could pay me to sacrifice the quality here, and believe me, 46 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: it's been offered. 47 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 2: It's been offered. So that's that. 48 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: But people that work at the big apps are trying 49 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: to work for us or asking us to set them 50 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: up to connect them. I kid you not. I swear 51 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: to God on everything I hope to be. I won't 52 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: swear on furree or family members. But I'm just telling 53 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: you I could because it's true. 54 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: Dead. That is fucking hot piping tea. Okay. 55 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: I launched the Core dating community, which has a membership 56 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: application and there are different tiers starting with fifty dollars 57 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: to be part of the overall community, which will eventually 58 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: not right now. That's why we're not charging right now. 59 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: Have offers and access in the way that my site, 60 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: the List, which is a gift site, basically gives you 61 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: different offers on everything from home to decor, to clothing 62 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: to food, et cetera. So the Core launched and it 63 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: has multiple tiers which are astronomically underpriced compared to what 64 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: the comps are in the dating community. For what you're getting, 65 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: they will increasingly go up. They will definitely go up 66 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: in January and could go up month like They're very, 67 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: very underpriced right now because it's brand new, and because 68 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: we are over delivering, and we are over delivering because 69 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: people have found people they are in love with that 70 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: they've dated multiple times, that they've been dating for weeks. 71 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: I mean, everyone inside the core who got in in 72 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: beta is thrilled, and many of these people are paying. 73 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 1: And now we don't work with anyone who's not paying, 74 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: because we proved the concept and it's extraordinary. So any 75 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: criticism which TikTok criticizes Mother Teresa. So, but any criticism 76 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: on TikTok is videos saying like, why is this different 77 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: than matchmaking? This is not this connecting, This is a line. 78 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: This is integrity, Okay, So this is not that match 79 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: makers just make a match. Here's a match paid US 80 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: two hundred fifty thousand dollars. We promise you eight people. 81 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: Here's a match. He may be abusive to wait staff. 82 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: He may be promised he'll go out with a young 83 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: girl that he wants to have sex with just because 84 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: he will go out with you. So the people that 85 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: I have in my mind are a sample, but it's 86 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 1: not a massive population, meaning there aren't ten thousand matchmakers 87 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: in this country. The people that I'm referring to, several 88 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: other people have had the identical experience to a tea 89 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: with the same men from the apps, with the same 90 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: devaluing women, saying men only want younger women. Men don't 91 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: want someone with the public profile all the things I've 92 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: told you before, don't get bored on board. 93 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 2: We connect now. 94 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: I'm not going to go into detail unless you're a member, 95 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: and I still won't go into full detail about how 96 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: we are doing this. But here's the proof. Ask anyone 97 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: inside the community. It's spreading, people are talking about it. 98 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: Find a member inside the core and ask what they think. 99 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: So the way to find out what people think of 100 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: the Core is to ask someone in the community to 101 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 1: address some of the things said about me personally. She 102 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 1: is single, so why would I listen to her? First 103 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: of all, I am dating. Second of all, I am 104 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: very good at it. I always have been, I likely 105 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:13,679 Speaker 1: always will be. At every stage, at every page turn. 106 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: I have incredible men courting me, suitors treating me very well, 107 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 1: spoiling me, wanting to commit to me, wanting to marry me. 108 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 1: I don't believe I've ever shared how many people have 109 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: asked me to marry them, and I don't believe I 110 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: will share that now. I will share that maybe at 111 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: one point. But I never claimed and will not claim 112 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: to be an expert on relationships. I wrote a book 113 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: called I Suck at Relationships, So you don't have to, 114 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: but I have and will continue to claim, and even 115 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: Andy Cohen used to say to me, girl, no one 116 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: has game like you. No one is game like I do. 117 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: And it's not like I'm playing a game. And I'm 118 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: not manipulative. I am a one man kind of woman. 119 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: I have integrity. I demand and expect the best. I 120 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: will only be with someone if they treat me very well. 121 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 1: I don't tolerate people that breadcrumb or treat me like shit. 122 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: I don't devalue myself. I value myself greatly. I am 123 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: an expert on dating. I have spent money on matchmakers, 124 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:41,239 Speaker 1: on apps. I have always done better on my own 125 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: without even stuttering at all, always and like markedly better 126 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: meaning better intelligence, better success, better net worth, better looks, 127 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: better way they treat you, better human beings, better humor, 128 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: better ingredients, better pizza. 129 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 2: I've only done very well on my own. 130 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: That's why I have further reinforcement that matchmakers and apps 131 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: are for fraud and frustration. Apps are a good tool 132 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: and they should be used. They should not be disqualified 133 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: and discounted. I think they're a good accessory, a good 134 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: accessory tool, but they're not the way that they currently 135 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: are to rely upon. We are building tech to enhance 136 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: a certain aspect and mimic many aspects of what we 137 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: are doing now, which is human and intuition. So right 138 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: now we are building the community which is thriving, and 139 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: at the same time we are working on tech that 140 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: will support and mimic the prototype that I am creating. 141 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: The engagement and the applications for this are staggering, astounding, staggering, 142 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: big words, big truths. Because I have an aged audience. 143 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: So not only are people clicking, they are staying on 144 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: to apply, multi page questionnaire, staying on to apply thousands 145 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: and thousands of people. 146 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 2: So we have a weight list. It's not a bullshit 147 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: weight list. 148 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: It's not like these apps that like just say that 149 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 1: to say that we are thoroughly vetting. Several multi billionaires 150 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 1: have applied and think that their net worth will get 151 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: them in the door. And I went out with a 152 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: multi billionaire and he was nasty to the weight staff 153 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 1: and I snuck out of the restaurant. Not every multi 154 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: billionaire is nice or a good person. Some of them 155 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: are mean, some of them are unethical. This is very 156 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: strict because you will get what you ordered to the table, 157 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 1: meaning if you say exactly what you want and need. 158 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: If it's not realistic, we won't even admit you. If 159 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: you're insane, or if you say you want someone twenty 160 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 1: years younger or something we don't believe in, you won't 161 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: be accepted. But if you are realistic and also aspirational, 162 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 1: we want you to shoot for the stars. We want 163 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: you to look your best, be your best, and present 164 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: your best because we want the other person to do 165 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 1: the same, because this is the most important decision of 166 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: your life. But if you are that, then we will 167 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 1: only present you with someone who is as described, and 168 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: you will agree that that's what you want. You may 169 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: not be attracted to them once you meet them, not 170 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: because their picture will look different, because their picture will 171 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:26,839 Speaker 1: look exactly the same, because they will look like what 172 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: you saw was described. It will not be an archaic photo. 173 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: You may not have physical chemistry with them. We cannot 174 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: predict them, and not even a FaceTime can necessarily predict that. 175 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 1: But you will say, because everyone is saying after the date, 176 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: I totally understand why you set me up with them, 177 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: and you get a nine out of ten as an 178 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 1: accuracy rating, And that's why people are excited to go 179 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: back because they feel like they're in the game. They're 180 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: in power, they're in control of their own destiny. They're 181 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: moving forward. You sign on a matchmaker and it could 182 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:03,199 Speaker 1: be and it's defeating and the people are not aligned 183 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: with you at all, and you just feel like you 184 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 1: ate junk food and you're nauseated and you don't want 185 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: to eat anything. 186 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 2: This is different. 187 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: You might meet someone they're a wonderful person, and it 188 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: makes you more intentional and nicer when you're on a 189 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:16,199 Speaker 1: date versus like, Oh, this isn't my husband, let me 190 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 1: get out. 191 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:17,199 Speaker 2: Of here instead. 192 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: Okay, this is likely not my husband, but I'm trusting 193 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: this process. And you know what, he's a good person 194 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: with integrity, so I might know someone else for him. 195 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: Like that's what's happening. People are meeting people. They're paying attention, 196 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: they're being more present. They're wanting to connect with this 197 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 1: person because they might have someone for them, or it's 198 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: just a good friend or a human being or a 199 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 1: business contact. The quality and caliber is there, and that 200 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: is what is different. And I don't care if you 201 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: get married. I just want you to fall in love 202 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: or find someone who's aligned with you, or find a 203 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 1: life partner or meet someone you'll want to go out 204 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 1: with multiple times. That's what it is. That's what you 205 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: should expect. Twelve hundred to be in a community where 206 00:11:59,920 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: you could meet someone. How much you spending on your lattes, 207 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:07,479 Speaker 1: on your handbags, on your meals out, on your bougie cocktails, 208 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: on your viral food, on your TikTok shop? 209 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 2: Like what would you What is. 210 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: More important than spending on being aligned with someone you 211 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: would have never met, who could enhance your life, that 212 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: you could fall in love with. 213 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 2: Like what are you talking about? 214 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: Some of the women in here say to us, women 215 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: don't pay because this girl thinks she's cute, she thinks 216 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: she's got something, maybe she's a good body, maybe she's 217 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: thirty eight. 218 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 2: The fuck they don't. Yeah, everybody's equal. 219 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: You want to know why women pay, because, like I said, 220 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: if you are willing to go out and you're gonna 221 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: buy Jimmy Show shoes and you're gonna buy yourself a 222 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: Shanelle handbag, and I think that you won't spend on this, 223 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: you're not worthy of this community. You won't spend twelve 224 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: hundred dollars to possibly meet your life partner. So when 225 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 1: you're sick, you have some of there to be with 226 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: you and take care of you, to be good to 227 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: your kids or your family, to laugh with, to travel with. 228 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,719 Speaker 1: I mean, we don't want no scrubs when it comes 229 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: to men, and we're not doing gold digging bullshit. 230 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 2: That's not for us. 231 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: Want to hear something else, stupid. You don't like someone 232 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 1: and you might want to set them up with someone else. 233 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: What's wrong with them? Nothing's wrong with them. You're allowed 234 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: to have whatever you want, so you want to set 235 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:28,599 Speaker 1: them up with them. So many girls like, wait, I 236 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: don't want your slappy seconds? 237 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 2: Why not? 238 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,679 Speaker 1: I have an air mez bag here. I don't wear it, 239 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,679 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna use it. I'd like to give it 240 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 1: to you. If you don't want it, I'm gonna give 241 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: it to somebody else. There's no such thing as sloppy seconds. 242 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: If the person's saying the guy is a good guy, 243 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: if the guy is a piece of shit, they're not 244 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: gonna hand him over to you. Then they're a bad person. 245 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 1: Then you should never speak to them again. Like, there 246 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: are ways to find out that someone's not a good person. Okay, 247 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: but just because someone else didn't want them, what does 248 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: that mean, does someone else have every piece of clothing 249 00:13:58,080 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: you have, live in the house you live in, like 250 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: the same food you like to someone like cilantro, someone 251 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: else likes basil? 252 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 2: Are you an infant? Slappy seconds are good, take the 253 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 2: sloppy seconds. 254 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: One woman's trash is another woman's twenty five year old marriage. 255 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: I went out with a guy him. We had the 256 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: best time. We danced, we hung out, I had the 257 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: greatest time. I spent more time with him. He's not 258 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: my husband. With great certainty, with ninety nine percent certainty, 259 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 1: I think he's not my husband. And I liked him 260 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: a lot, and we're texting, we're still friends. I set 261 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 1: him up with someone else. They liked each other a lot. 262 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if their husband and wife either, but 263 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: they are going out again. 264 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 2: I'm not going out with him again. What am I 265 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 2: gonna do? 266 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: Pilimid a dumpster. He's a wonderful man, and now he's 267 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: going out with a wonderful girl. So I was talking 268 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: to a guy who said to me that he was 269 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: at a place in Miami and it seemed like everybody 270 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: was either pro or semi pro. 271 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 2: What does that mean? 272 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: It means the woman who's actually in there hoping to 273 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: get literal currency for sex or a hand job or whatever. 274 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 2: A semi pro is a. 275 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: Woman who's in there running game, working the system, and 276 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: immediately will probably be interviewing the man to get his 277 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: net worth statement out. And that's a semi pro. There 278 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 1: are also pros that don't take money, they're just pros, 279 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: and that they're big game hunters. I know a lot 280 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: of people who are big game hunters that will end 281 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: up finding a man that's rich. That's what's important to them. 282 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 1: And they probably are fucking either the hottest women on 283 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: earth or they know what they're doing. But an amateur 284 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: hour could be hot. And she's going to lead too 285 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: quickly with the question. She's going to let a guy 286 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: know right away that she's looking for a net worth statement. 287 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 2: She's interviewing him. 288 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: She wants to know exactly where he lives, what he drives, 289 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: how he rolls. 290 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 2: And these men are pros too. 291 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: You think these men who are Wall Street titans who 292 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: have tens of millions of hundreds of millions of dollars, 293 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: don't know a fucking pro. You think they don't deal 294 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 1: with Barracuda's on Wall Street every day. They don't know, 295 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: like a fucking checkers player. Gold digger. Okay, you know 296 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: what they have. They have gold digger trigger. They have 297 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 1: such a gold digger trigger that they'll meet someone who's 298 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 1: not a gold digger and they have their alert up. 299 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 2: They will also test women. 300 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: They won't buy women anything because they are testing to 301 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: see if it's gonna make the woman run. They're pros too. 302 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 1: The men are pros too. So women don't play the 303 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 1: short game. Okay, the men are smarter than you. The 304 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 1: men that you're gold digging didn't get to be the 305 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: men with the piles of goal by being stupid. They 306 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: know how stupid you are. Now, if you are hot 307 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: or like play the Jedi mind tricks or can enter 308 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 1: them into the mind control program, they might want it anyway. 309 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: Some men like a gold digger. They know what they're getting. 310 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 1: We're gonna hang out. 311 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 2: You're hot. 312 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy you an arimez bags and jewelry. You know, 313 00:16:58,120 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: all the other women are gonna be jealous of you. 314 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: They're gonna want me to All the other men are 315 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: going to try to compete with my program. It's a 316 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: flex fine, just know what you're dealing with. This is 317 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 1: what goes on. There are pros everywhere. I see them 318 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 1: all over social media, all over the universe. They're women. 319 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: They're pros because you're pros. Because, hey, men, some of 320 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 1: you want to date only thirty five year olds even 321 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 1: though you look like a lawn ornament. Some of you 322 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: men only want to date a really hot woman because 323 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 1: you have money, you look like a lawn ornament. I'm 324 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 1: just letting you guys know how the game is played, 325 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,880 Speaker 1: fought and won. I was talking to a guy today 326 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: who's tall, good looking, great body, has a lot of money. 327 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 1: He said, he's not just looking for looks. I said, 328 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:40,120 Speaker 1: I have a girl for you who's hot and amazing 329 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,120 Speaker 1: and very similar mindset to him. 330 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 2: He said, I'm not shallow. 331 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 1: There are a lot of men who have been through 332 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: all the pros and semi pros, and they don't want 333 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: someone who's unattractive to them. 334 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:52,159 Speaker 2: It's a superficial world. 335 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: But the men who have any money and any success 336 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 1: in any intelligence and walk upright and will call you 337 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: and not text you because they're not fucking caveman gorillas. 338 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 2: They don't want just the dining piece. 339 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 1: They've been through that they don't trust that they don't 340 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: trust that, but they have gold digger trigger. Know that 341 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: right away, and you say one thing, and women have 342 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: their own triggers because they'll try to test the guys 343 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 1: and see if the guy's gonna do something or buy something. 344 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 2: Women don't want to cheat man. 345 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 1: Men be generous, make a phone call, don't just text, 346 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:27,439 Speaker 1: don't bread crumb. 347 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 2: Women don't play checkers. 348 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: Because men want a smart woman who can support themselves 349 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 1: and can pay for themselves. It doesn't mean the man's 350 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 1: not gonna want to do that for them, but they can. 351 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,959 Speaker 1: I'm an example of that. Men love that I have 352 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 1: my own money. That doesn't mean we're going out and 353 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm going Dutch by any stretch of anyone's imagination. I've 354 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: bought houses and cars that the man will share. 355 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 2: I don't mind that. 356 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,199 Speaker 1: But I'm not going out and paying for something in 357 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: front of a man and it's not happening. I don't 358 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 1: care what you think. I don't care if I've set 359 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,640 Speaker 1: women back two hundred years. Women in my eyes, don't 360 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: pay for with that like public facing, shopping, sitting down 361 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 1: at a restaurant. But I'll buy a house, I'll buy 362 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: the furniture, I'll do all those things. You just don't 363 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 1: want to do things that are going to be overly 364 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: masculating and emasculating. You don't want to masculate a woman, 365 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,959 Speaker 1: and you don't want to emasculate a man. But men 366 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 1: are so terrified that they'll expect a woman to pay 367 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 1: in front of them because they have gold digger trigger. 368 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 2: That's your fucking problem, bro. 369 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: I'm not a gold digger because I have more gold 370 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: than you, but I'm not paying. So if you have 371 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 1: a problem with that, turn around and keep it moving. 372 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 1: Be transparent about what we want and what we're doing.